Ask The CLO - 11.12.25

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time to ask the CLO our chief love Officer,
Steve Harvey. All right, Steve Colo, this is from Donald
in Salt Lake City. Donald writes, I'm getting a divorce,
and whenever I try to move on, my ex wife
shows up and embarrasses me by acting a fool. I

(00:20):
don't know how to make her stop. So I'm thinking
about relocating. I would miss my kids, though, So how
do I handle this?

Speaker 2 (00:28):
Send them kids? Some nice giftstof you? Think he should run?
Leave town?

Speaker 3 (00:38):
Been there, don't stop. I don't know how to make
them stop either, so I don't know what to tell you.

Speaker 2 (00:45):
Get out.

Speaker 3 (00:46):
That sound like a plan to meet dog Lee, Relocate,
get out, don't do like I did. I said here, relocate.
I should have been in Jerusalem.

Speaker 1 (00:59):
He is, What about the kids, though?

Speaker 2 (01:02):
Seriously, what about the kids?

Speaker 4 (01:03):
Dog?

Speaker 2 (01:04):
They got FaceTime? Everything? All right? Okay. All they won't
to do is text anyway, though My kids haven't been
in my house.

Speaker 1 (01:12):
And text me yeah yeah, got to be there for
the baby, all right. Moving on to Judith and Tallula,
Julith writes, I charged a person on a credit card
that I was not supposed to be using. My husband
closed the account, and I opened it back up. He
lectured me about spending cash instead of using cards. I

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worked daily, So do I have to abide by his rules?

Speaker 2 (01:40):
Well you didn't, So what are we talking about? That
answers that he closed the car. You ain't.

Speaker 3 (01:47):
Hey, you bought the purse he wasn't posted. He closed
a card, you open it back up. He called you
and he lectured you. You wrote us a letter, So
I don't think it's going the way he wanted to
go anyway.

Speaker 2 (02:04):
You know.

Speaker 3 (02:06):
My message to men when it comes to finances with women,
give her, help them some financial freedom so you can
have some peace of mind. Whoa if you if you
try not? No, she don't share me.

Speaker 1 (02:25):
Yeah, she says she works daily.

Speaker 3 (02:27):
No, that don't give you final free She said she
bought a purse she wasn't supposed to. Who said that him?
He closed the account that she put it on, She
went back there and opened it back up. This is
fing to go on and on and on for years.
So it's in the man's best interest to give a
woman financial freedom.

Speaker 2 (02:48):
Yes, she has a job, but y'all got to.

Speaker 3 (02:50):
Come with laws in y'all's family and rules that allows
her to have the financial freedom because you're married an adult.
She ain't your child, and they're not gonna let you
cheat him like children, not when you and not want
to do grown folks stuff with him.

Speaker 2 (03:07):
All the time. A purse, yeah, what kind of bag?
But see, there you go, there you go. Whatever the was?

Speaker 3 (03:19):
Do you know the problem he got now because shea
wrote in on a national radio show.

Speaker 1 (03:25):
Yeah, yeah, he just wants her to spend cash instead
of using cards too.

Speaker 3 (03:34):
One card or you need an American Express where you
can get a point. See, then spending your card make
a little bit better sense because I get points and
you can turn it back in. But listen, man, if
he wanted you to pay cash, that's a good deal too.

Speaker 1 (03:50):
Yeah, that's that's what the lecture was about, especially if
you don't have a.

Speaker 3 (03:54):
Card, because now, if you're not gonna pay the card
off right away, whatever you pay for that bag, come
with between eighteen to twenty one percent interest on them
credit cards.

Speaker 1 (04:06):
All right, all right? Moving on to Marvin in Chicago.
Marvin writes, I met my side chick at a hotel.
When I left, I took her phone by mistake. She
panicked and showed up at my house to get her phone. Luckily,
luckily my wife wasn't home when she popped up. How

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do I make sure, oh, she won't do this stuff again?

Speaker 3 (04:35):
Well, the first thing you could do is not have
her as the side piece.

Speaker 2 (04:41):
That's let's just start common sense. Yeah, yeah, bro, how
she know where you live?

Speaker 4 (04:48):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (04:50):
What you're doing? Yeah, it's rules society piece. But how
you take her phone? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (04:57):
How you get out of my home and didn't know
you didn't have your phone? Yeah, they don't. Yeah, they
don't need to do this, neither one of.

Speaker 3 (05:06):
Y'all your phone at the hotel? Which that man, I
don't think you understand the rules to none of this.
That's crazy. How do I stop her from doing stuff
like this? She showed up in my house?

Speaker 2 (05:25):
Yeah, she's stupid.

Speaker 4 (05:28):
Right, you drove all the way home with her phone. Right,
you're so stupid. You don't know you stupid?

Speaker 2 (05:42):
Hell, and look, a true expert y Game recognized you
don't even know he's stupid. Yea, better recognize your guilt?
All right?

Speaker 1 (06:01):
Wow, all right, last one, Steve. This is the last one.
This is from Brie and Griffin re writes, my boyfriend
and I live far apart. I go visit him a lot,
and he's never offered to pay for my gas. I
asked him about it, and he said that he doesn't
ask me for gas money when he visits me. So

(06:22):
we're even. The question is should he pay for my gas?
Or are we even? Like?

Speaker 2 (06:30):
No, I think the question is should y'all be together?

Speaker 4 (06:33):
Thank you?

Speaker 3 (06:34):
Your relationship is built on gas travel money. Man, Yeah,
he don't ask you for gas money when he comes.

Speaker 2 (06:46):
See you really you?

Speaker 1 (06:50):
So they're even?

Speaker 2 (06:51):
He said no. See it ain't even.

Speaker 3 (06:53):
Man, you don't understand. So you he won't the cookie?
You got the cookie. You get the cookie and put
it in the car and dry the cookie to him.

Speaker 2 (07:08):
He can't pay.

Speaker 3 (07:09):
You can't live without, so he getting free cookie delivery.
See now you got the cookie. Come on, he want
the cookie. He tried to get the cookie. He paid
to get your cookie. But when you bring the cookie,
you got a free cookie delivery service. All right? Uh?

Speaker 1 (07:34):
On that note, you're listening Hardy Morning Show