Ask The CLO - 11.13.25

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time to ask the CLO, our chief love Officer,
Steve Harvey. You ready, Steve clo O day Okay, this
is from Harlow and Saginaw. Harlow writes, I'm twenty seven
years old and my fiance is thirty four. At our
engagement party, my fiance joked about how he snuck around
to date when I was a freshman in college, how

(00:22):
we snuck around to date. Now my dad thinks he's
a pervert. How do I change my dad's perception of
my fiance?

Speaker 2 (00:32):
Four?

Speaker 3 (00:33):
So that's seven years so he was out in college eighteen,
he was twenty five.

Speaker 2 (00:41):
Yeah, he was out of college.

Speaker 3 (00:43):
Yeah, well you know that's what shouldn't have told the story,
that's all sometimes just shut your mouth.

Speaker 2 (00:49):
Yeah, who's that the engagement party?

Speaker 3 (00:52):
Yeah yeah, I guess you thought it was funny. Yeah, yeah,
I want to do Yeah, that's what it does.

Speaker 1 (01:02):
Hell, all right, So how does she change her dad's perception?

Speaker 2 (01:10):
You ain't. You ain't.

Speaker 1 (01:12):
Dad will never like him.

Speaker 2 (01:14):
I mean, yess, why you tell that story? Dog? I mean,
just come on, it's all good, girl, Then tell the
story her. Yeah that's what he did.

Speaker 3 (01:26):
The girl is right, Yeah, he thought it thought it
was funny, don't.

Speaker 2 (01:31):
That's why you did it? Yeah?

Speaker 4 (01:35):
All right?

Speaker 1 (01:35):
Moving on to joy in Little Rock, Joyce says, my
marriage is very open, but not by choice. I could
either accept that my husband has other women, or I
could leave him and start from scratch. I haven't worked
in eight years, so it may not be wise to
leave him. We do still have sex, but he wears protection.
Should I stay and let him continue to take care

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of me?

Speaker 4 (01:58):
Wow?

Speaker 2 (02:01):
He asked, Wow, you have protection with your wife? Dog?
What you out here? You tripping?

Speaker 4 (02:11):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (02:13):
So you ain't worked in eight years, so you don't
think you ought to leave? But you know he you
in an open marriage and it's not by your choice,
but he got a lot of other women. And when
y'all do have sex, you have protection. That's the life
you want. When you were saying your vows? Is that
what you was thinking when you was growing up as
a little girl wanting to get married? Is this what

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you were thinking? Okay? If I ain't worked in eight years, man, hey,
listen to me. You still ain't got to work.

Speaker 2 (02:42):
Hear what you do? Get you some proof that he cheating,
get you a divorce, and get half refirm I like it.

Speaker 1 (02:51):
I like it.

Speaker 2 (02:53):
That works, that's how it worked.

Speaker 1 (02:56):
Yeah, because she thinks she has no option, who ain't
got no.

Speaker 2 (03:03):
Let me tell you y'all something.

Speaker 3 (03:05):
A woman always has an option. Good, you're breaking it
down because a woman has all. Right, let me see
how I can particip A woman has an item. A
woman has an item.

Speaker 2 (03:24):
That is so valuable, perfect, it's so.

Speaker 3 (03:32):
Need pressure, more precious than gold.

Speaker 2 (03:41):
Silver, cattle on a thousand heels.

Speaker 3 (03:49):
M It gives so many things joy, it has heal
and power, It brings folth life awful. Yeah, lord him mercy.
We'll go to the next one.

Speaker 2 (04:09):
Shirley for I think I should call it big.

Speaker 1 (04:13):
Alan Charleston says, I thought I met my soulmate until
I made her mad and she cursed me out in public.
She's not remorseful at all, and even had the nerve
to say she bets I won't ever make her that
mad again? Is this forgivable? Does she get a one
time passed?

Speaker 2 (04:32):
You really like her?

Speaker 3 (04:34):
B Yeah, bro, cussed you out in public, not remorseful.
I said, bet you won't make her that mad. Akin
y'all not married?

Speaker 4 (04:48):
Uh huh, Yes, I'm out, Yeah, I'm out.

Speaker 2 (04:53):
I'm out.

Speaker 3 (04:54):
Let me get on out of here now, because that
ain't the first time you can get cussed out, because
she gonna she already know if that didn't get it
at level two?

Speaker 1 (05:03):
But what if he did something so bad that she
just couldn't hold it?

Speaker 2 (05:07):
What if that I got that? I got that, I
got that. Yeah. See he made her mad. That's obvious.
But that's your reaction in public though. And they're not married.
Man By, you ain't getting chance number two in me.

Speaker 4 (05:29):
Okay, all right, so By, So unless you want to
marry an evil, sadistic soul mate, I suggest you reconsider.

Speaker 1 (05:44):
Okay, all right, big al all right, big Alan Charleston.
That's right. Moving on last one. This is Roberta and Omaha.
Roberta writes, I'm dating a drunk. He drinks so much
wine that it doesn't phaze him anymore. He can work,
drive and have a logical conversation with me after drinking
a whole bottle of wine. It's normal for him. Her

(06:06):
question is should I stop bothering him about drinking? That's
what she wants to know.

Speaker 3 (06:13):
Well, it's wine, right, so it has a lower alcohol
content than liquor. Yeah, you can drink a whole bottle
of one and it don't do nothing to you. Eventually
you're gonna want it to do something to you.

Speaker 2 (06:33):
So you're gonna drink another.

Speaker 3 (06:35):
Or you're gonna try something else. You could be she
dated or marriage to him.

Speaker 1 (06:44):
She's dating him, she's she's saying, I'm dating or drunk.

Speaker 3 (06:48):
Yeah, now you're dating a drunk. That's what you're gonna
marry an alcoholic. This is where it is going.

Speaker 2 (06:58):
O goodness, dating a drunk.

Speaker 1 (07:01):
Yeah, he drinks so much wine that it doesn't even
base him anymore.

Speaker 3 (07:05):
He said, oh yeah, yeah, he's a functioning alcoholic. Possibly,
but if you're dating or drunk, you will marry an alcoholic.

Speaker 2 (07:15):
Yes, sir, you need to call the you need to
go with the dude in Charleston. It just got crushed out.

Speaker 1 (07:20):
That's probably big al.

Speaker 2 (07:23):
Let them get together.

Speaker 1 (07:26):
All right, ready to love you better match me, c.

Speaker 2 (07:31):
You know that's what he did. Sweet newt know what
they do.

Speaker 1 (07:36):
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