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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time to ask the CLO Chief Love Officer,
Steve Harvey. All Right, Alana in DC says, I went
to a woman's empowerment brunch and I introduced myself to
the group. One of the ladies at the table said,
that's her to the lady beside her, I had a
messy affair years ago, and my social circle won't let
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it go. I've moved on and I'm married.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Now.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
Should I keep defending myself or stop going out to events?
Speaker 2 (00:30):
No? No, you keep living your life.
Speaker 1 (00:33):
Yes, she's got to live her life.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
All them women in that group is a that's her. Hello,
keep living your life. You ain't got to explain yourself
to nobody. We all make mistakes. Long as God forgives you,
it is your opportunity to get up and move on.
People not going to forgive you. People not going to forget.
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God washes the slates, splint wash it, the slate clean.
I'm gonna go with the God part of mine now.
And then brought up on me and you remind me
of something that I did, then I'm gonna remind you
of who you're talking to, and then we'll go from there.
I bet the next time you see me, you won't go.
That's him, That's just me. But really, for the most part,
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in all honesty, man, I don't address nothing out there
about me.
Speaker 2 (01:25):
I just keep on living my best life. Yeap, and
you do it is life.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
I'm not stutying nobody, haters, trolls, none of that.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Do your thing, do your thing, all right.
Speaker 1 (01:39):
Moving on to Mika and Colombia, Mika says, my husband
and I have a blended family of five children. His
five year old got her tonsils out and it was
our weekend to keep her. His ex wife came to
see her and ended up getting into bed with her
to watch a movie. I didn't want to upset the kid,
but I raised hell with my husband. What does he
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What does he think that was?
Speaker 2 (02:00):
Okay? Who begs? She got in I don't know many.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
Her house, yes, because it was their weekend.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
Y'all. Thank y'all, the Smith family. We're not fitting the
co parent that close. Now. I'm all for co parenting.
Speaker 3 (02:29):
I think it's great for the child, but come on, now,
I think what has to happen is I think that
the the mother should you know, be respectful of the
current wife's house. That is, and it's with her. Now,
it's her baby, that's for the show, and that don't
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nothing supersede that that's her baby. She made that one.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
Yeah, yeah, you know.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
But but yeah, that's your house, right, and so everybody
has to respect each other in this case.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
Yeah, there's certain boundaries.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
So you gotta understand the baby hurting mind, Oh that's
my baby. But were you going to get into bed though?
Now that's where we draw the line.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
Yeah, that's what I think they should have.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
Yeah, let her be with her baby. Yeah, yeah, you're
gonna take the baby this weekend house in beds.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Yeah, I'm not gonna be able to sleep good at all.
I'm not I'm not gonna stay til the bed. Just
twiddling my thumb.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
But she wants to know. Why does he think it
was okay for for his ex to do that?
Speaker 2 (03:54):
He don't know what to do. It's the first for him. Well,
he understands that it's her baby and she loves the baby.
We got on that.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
He might not really think it's okay, But what was
he gonna say? No, don't comfort her.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
She five.
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Been spending more time than with that baby that you
have from birth. Yeah, here we go, all right?
Speaker 2 (04:22):
Stayed at the hospital. They should have just stayed at
the hospital.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
Y'all should have just picked up from tonsil appointment take
her to her mama house, because you ain't gonna lay
up in here.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
All right.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
Moving on to CC and High Point, C. C writes,
My boyfriend stayed overnight at his baby mama's house. So
I threw a dozen eggs at his car. He apologized,
and we called the girl on the three way so
she could so he could tell her that he is
in love with me, not her. I feel bad about
what I did to his car, and I planned to
get detail for him. What else can I do to
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keep him?
Speaker 2 (05:04):
We're done? Well?
Speaker 3 (05:06):
Well, them eggs and the car is just a prelum.
What's really gonna happen to your car? Via via callar
for Real? See we have a we have a car
criminal on our.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
Shirt allegedly, what you're not gonna do?
Speaker 3 (05:23):
I'm talking about car sliding, sugar in the gas tank,
with the busting, seat splitting, you know, staying, wheel locking,
you know all that, You know the problems. Allegedly Calor
for Real has slid up on the car and removed
the all filter.
Speaker 2 (05:44):
You know how low down that is just all filter.
Just watch you.
Speaker 3 (05:51):
You ain't even got to you ain't even need a tool.
You just slide up under there and reached that all
filter and turn it off and walk off.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
Lord have mercy on.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
Him.
Speaker 3 (06:05):
This is just a prelamb as to what's going to
happen to you to this man now who wrote the
letter to lady yes lady, yeah, see you trip it
And so I don't know what to tell you. But
if I was the man, I get out, yeah and
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all improve stuff to you and all that. I'm not
doing none of that. Oh okay, No, I'm not getting
nobody on the three way because I don't know how
that's gonna go. Fellas, don't never put yourself in a
situations where you ain't in control of a soul. You
can't have two women on the phone talking about.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
All right, let's move on to Lakeisha in Indianapolis.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
Your phone in the tub, last one.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
For the past two years, for the past two years,
I've been dealing with the man that is a boy yeer.
He loves attending English parties just to watch others have sex.
Our sex life is normal, one on one sex now,
But is this a sign that he is going to
want us to swing.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
Hell yeah, you're down there watching for Do you know
what's coming?
Speaker 3 (07:16):
Y'all going down there though, And he told you that's
all he want to do.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
Well, what is you down there learning for.
Speaker 1 (07:26):
Class?
Speaker 3 (07:31):
Somebody gonna be down now, I'm telling you, somebody gonna
be down there at the swing a club that you
gonna want to swing with?
Speaker 1 (07:43):
All right, thank you. Clow coming up right up to