December 1, 2025 • 8 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Well, it is time to ask the clo our Chief
(00:03):
Love Officer, Steve Harvey. This is from Mildred and Wheeling.
Mildred writes, my husband wasn't paying attention and he didn't
hold the door for the lady behind us, and she
called him out. I told her that he is a gentleman.
He is a gentleman, and I apologize for him, but
she kept coming for him. Why did he get upset
because I stepped in?
Speaker 2 (00:24):
Well, I mean, maybe he didn't think it was worth
getting in an argument with this woman.
Speaker 3 (00:29):
Y'all don't know about I mean, but that's a lot
of nerve.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
You can't check a man for not being chivalrous and
if it ain't your man, because the world ain't built
like that. But now you defended your man. He is
a gentleman, but she kept coming for him. That's ignorant.
That's ignorant, and you should not participate in ignorance because
a person that ignorant coming for your husband because he
didn't hold the door. Then you defend him, and then
(00:55):
she kept coming. Y'all got to get away from that situation. Man,
that's I'm wrong with this lady, you know, So that's
probably what he was saying, Hey, you ain't got to
do all that for me.
Speaker 3 (01:07):
That's probably was all of it.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
He ain't want you to get into it on his
behalf with this woman that ain't in y'all's life. Now,
if it was your mama at the dol, then we
got a different situations.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
All right, Celo. Up next is Wyatt in Brooklyn. Wyatt writes,
I'm not working right now, but I can pay most
of the household bills with savings and my unemployment check.
I got a big sum of money from my uncle's
estate and I didn't tell my wife and I don't
want to. Is withholding info just as bad as lying?
Speaker 3 (01:39):
Who it is? Nothing?
Speaker 2 (01:40):
It ain't even the same thing though.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
It's two different things.
Speaker 2 (01:44):
Not no, no, no, no, no, no no. It's withholding
information same as lying.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
How could that be?
Speaker 2 (01:52):
You just didn't tell her lying untruthful fact because she
don't need to know well in that too, No, we
me and him determined. I'm telling you why he didn't
tell her about this money. He got this large some
(02:15):
money he didn't tell his wife. You have got to
keep some stuff to yourself. Let me ask you, lady something.
Since y'all sitting over there trying to act all righteous
and everything. Don't y'all have some money somewhere your man
don't know about. Yes, you do, no comment, Yes.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
You call her. Don't be looking off.
Speaker 4 (02:37):
Huh ha.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
What did your mama say? If you can hum it,
you can hear me. You have some money somewhere that
your husband don't know about. My wife got some money
somewhere I don't know about. Proud I got some money somewhere.
You're right, What if his.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
Wife finds out that he got this large settlement from
the family.
Speaker 3 (03:02):
That happened to?
Speaker 1 (03:04):
What happened?
Speaker 2 (03:05):
What?
Speaker 4 (03:06):
How did you get out of that? I didn't tell no, lie,
Oh you just didn't say anything what happened?
Speaker 2 (03:15):
Oh that's right, God, I ain't tell you. I'll be
just a surprised. Hey, let me tell you something, man,
I got a large amount and did not mention.
Speaker 4 (03:31):
Yeh mm hmm. So you weren't planning on sharing it
or anything anything. She won't.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Start.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
It's all okay, plenty, Let me have Let me sit
on this for a minute and see how I feel.
Speaker 4 (03:50):
M okay, all right.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
Moving on to Monty in Atlanta, Monty writes, my mother
and I my mother in law called me and asked
why I'm not happy about coming to dinner at her house.
My wife shouldn't have told her that, but since she did.
I told my mother in law that I don't like
her dog. She uninvited me, and I'm so happy, but
(04:12):
my wife is trying to make me go anyway, I
was uninvited?
Speaker 4 (04:17):
Do I have to go?
Speaker 3 (04:20):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (04:20):
Now, let me get this right. His mother in law
asked his Okay, who called.
Speaker 4 (04:27):
And asked him why didn't he want to go to dinner.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
At her house?
Speaker 2 (04:31):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (04:31):
And then he said, because I don't like your dog.
Because I don't like his mother in law.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
She uninvited him. Not a wife wants you to go anyway?
Do I have to go? Yeah, you're probably gonna.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
Have to go.
Speaker 4 (04:44):
Do you think he's still gonna.
Speaker 2 (04:46):
Have to go?
Speaker 3 (04:47):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (04:47):
But now, if the mamma done uninvited you, then you
got to call up and make an apology and then
get reinvited. But you not going over to the girl
mama house. You don't even know the hell you're fit
to start. You don't go over there if you don't.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
I mean, it's about a dog, though, it's just not
that he doesn't like the mother.
Speaker 3 (05:07):
He just said he don't like the dog.
Speaker 4 (05:09):
That means the dog is messing with him or something.
I mean, you know, I don't.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
Know if it's a little annoying dog or it's a
big dog and he afraid of him. But I don't
know what it is. But you know all these people
with these dogs. Like when people come over my house
and they say, hey, man, I'm afraid.
Speaker 3 (05:25):
Of your dog.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
Cool, I put the dog up going there, man, because
I don't want nobody don't comfortable. No, he ain't free
to walk around. You ain't human, you ain't brought nothing
up in here. Plus, I don't have people over my house.
I don't like no way. So if you're over there
and you don't like you, probably gonna meet bath. And
if he don't know you, you're you're.
Speaker 3 (05:48):
In a situation. You're in I have a dobe man.
You're in a situation. If he don't know you a Doberman.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
Okay, he know who supposed to be over there, and
he know who, don't he very intelligent dog. Now if
you're over there and he don't know you, yeah, you
got you. You're in a situation.
Speaker 4 (06:07):
What's gonna happen? If he doesn't know you, and you're there.
Speaker 3 (06:11):
We have a family protection dog. He ain't just over.
He ain't no pet.
Speaker 4 (06:15):
What if you have guests?
Speaker 1 (06:17):
I mean, yeah, you have somebody over there, he's put away.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
Or if you're over the house and you around us,
he know, oh they sitting in here talking.
Speaker 3 (06:30):
They cool.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
He gonna go up and smell you and going about
his business and then he remembers you.
Speaker 3 (06:35):
But now if you in.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
That yard and you ain't around me and Marjorie or
one of them cats that worked there all.
Speaker 3 (06:43):
The time, you you you? I don't know what tell you? What?
How you get in here? Though? That's what I hear.
That can't happen. How are you in hire?
Speaker 4 (07:01):
Wow?
Speaker 3 (07:02):
You know all right?
Speaker 1 (07:03):
We have one more. This is our last one. This
is from Taylor and Carrollton. Taylor writes, I got stood
up twice by the same man. He's a doctor and
he was on call both times. I want to excuse
it since he was seeing patients. But if he cared
about seeing me, why did he schedule a date both
times he was on call? Is he even trying?
Speaker 3 (07:22):
Are you crazy? Do you have to be in a
doctor works? He a call?
Speaker 2 (07:27):
He he don't call every day in the life saving business.
Why would scheduled a date when he on call? What
just because you don't call don't mean you go get called.
But if you do get called, you got to go
to work. You don't need to date nobody in.
Speaker 4 (07:45):
The slow Yeah, all right, thank you, clo.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
At the top of the hour, we'll have some entertainment
news where you're right after this, you're listening to the
Stave Harvey Morning Show.
Well, it is time to ask the clo our Chief
(00:03):
Love Officer, Steve Harvey. This is from Mildred and Wheeling.
Mildred writes, my husband wasn't paying attention and he didn't
hold the door for the lady behind us, and she
called him out. I told her that he is a gentleman.
He is a gentleman, and I apologize for him, but
she kept coming for him. Why did he get upset
because I stepped in?
Speaker 2 (00:24):
Well, I mean, maybe he didn't think it was worth
getting in an argument with this woman.
Speaker 3 (00:29):
Y'all don't know about I mean, but that's a lot
of nerve.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
You can't check a man for not being chivalrous and
if it ain't your man, because the world ain't built
like that. But now you defended your man. He is
a gentleman, but she kept coming for him. That's ignorant.
That's ignorant, and you should not participate in ignorance because
a person that ignorant coming for your husband because he
didn't hold the door. Then you defend him, and then
(00:55):
she kept coming. Y'all got to get away from that situation. Man,
that's I'm wrong with this lady, you know, So that's
probably what he was saying, Hey, you ain't got to
do all that for me.
Speaker 3 (01:07):
That's probably was all of it.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
He ain't want you to get into it on his
behalf with this woman that ain't in y'all's life. Now,
if it was your mama at the dol, then we
got a different situations.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
All right, Celo. Up next is Wyatt in Brooklyn. Wyatt writes,
I'm not working right now, but I can pay most
of the household bills with savings and my unemployment check.
I got a big sum of money from my uncle's
estate and I didn't tell my wife and I don't
want to. Is withholding info just as bad as lying?
Speaker 3 (01:39):
Who it is? Nothing?
Speaker 2 (01:40):
It ain't even the same thing though.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
It's two different things.
Speaker 2 (01:44):
Not no, no, no, no, no, no no. It's withholding
information same as lying.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
How could that be?
Speaker 2 (01:52):
You just didn't tell her lying untruthful fact because she
don't need to know well in that too, No, we
me and him determined. I'm telling you why he didn't
tell her about this money. He got this large some
(02:15):
money he didn't tell his wife. You have got to
keep some stuff to yourself. Let me ask you, lady something.
Since y'all sitting over there trying to act all righteous
and everything. Don't y'all have some money somewhere your man
don't know about. Yes, you do, no comment, Yes.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
You call her. Don't be looking off.
Speaker 4 (02:37):
Huh ha.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
What did your mama say? If you can hum it,
you can hear me. You have some money somewhere that
your husband don't know about. My wife got some money
somewhere I don't know about. Proud I got some money somewhere.
You're right, What if his.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
Wife finds out that he got this large settlement from
the family.
Speaker 3 (03:02):
That happened to?
Speaker 1 (03:04):
What happened?
Speaker 2 (03:05):
What?
Speaker 4 (03:06):
How did you get out of that? I didn't tell no, lie,
Oh you just didn't say anything what happened?
Speaker 2 (03:15):
Oh that's right, God, I ain't tell you. I'll be
just a surprised. Hey, let me tell you something, man,
I got a large amount and did not mention.
Speaker 4 (03:31):
Yeh mm hmm. So you weren't planning on sharing it
or anything anything. She won't.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Start.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
It's all okay, plenty, Let me have Let me sit
on this for a minute and see how I feel.
Speaker 4 (03:50):
M okay, all right.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
Moving on to Monty in Atlanta, Monty writes, my mother
and I my mother in law called me and asked
why I'm not happy about coming to dinner at her house.
My wife shouldn't have told her that, but since she did.
I told my mother in law that I don't like
her dog. She uninvited me, and I'm so happy, but
(04:12):
my wife is trying to make me go anyway, I
was uninvited?
Speaker 4 (04:17):
Do I have to go?
Speaker 3 (04:20):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (04:20):
Now, let me get this right. His mother in law
asked his Okay, who called.
Speaker 4 (04:27):
And asked him why didn't he want to go to dinner.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
At her house?
Speaker 2 (04:31):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (04:31):
And then he said, because I don't like your dog.
Because I don't like his mother in law.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
She uninvited him. Not a wife wants you to go anyway?
Do I have to go? Yeah, you're probably gonna.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
Have to go.
Speaker 4 (04:44):
Do you think he's still gonna.
Speaker 2 (04:46):
Have to go?
Speaker 3 (04:47):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (04:47):
But now, if the mamma done uninvited you, then you
got to call up and make an apology and then
get reinvited. But you not going over to the girl
mama house. You don't even know the hell you're fit
to start. You don't go over there if you don't.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
I mean, it's about a dog, though, it's just not
that he doesn't like the mother.
Speaker 3 (05:07):
He just said he don't like the dog.
Speaker 4 (05:09):
That means the dog is messing with him or something.
I mean, you know, I don't.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
Know if it's a little annoying dog or it's a
big dog and he afraid of him. But I don't
know what it is. But you know all these people
with these dogs. Like when people come over my house
and they say, hey, man, I'm afraid.
Speaker 3 (05:25):
Of your dog.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
Cool, I put the dog up going there, man, because
I don't want nobody don't comfortable. No, he ain't free
to walk around. You ain't human, you ain't brought nothing
up in here. Plus, I don't have people over my house.
I don't like no way. So if you're over there
and you don't like you, probably gonna meet bath. And
if he don't know you, you're you're.
Speaker 3 (05:48):
In a situation. You're in I have a dobe man.
You're in a situation. If he don't know you a Doberman.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
Okay, he know who supposed to be over there, and
he know who, don't he very intelligent dog. Now if
you're over there and he don't know you, yeah, you
got you. You're in a situation.
Speaker 4 (06:07):
What's gonna happen? If he doesn't know you, and you're there.
Speaker 3 (06:11):
We have a family protection dog. He ain't just over.
He ain't no pet.
Speaker 4 (06:15):
What if you have guests?
Speaker 1 (06:17):
I mean, yeah, you have somebody over there, he's put away.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
Or if you're over the house and you around us,
he know, oh they sitting in here talking.
Speaker 3 (06:30):
They cool.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
He gonna go up and smell you and going about
his business and then he remembers you.
Speaker 3 (06:35):
But now if you in.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
That yard and you ain't around me and Marjorie or
one of them cats that worked there all.
Speaker 3 (06:43):
The time, you you you? I don't know what tell you? What?
How you get in here? Though? That's what I hear.
That can't happen. How are you in hire?
Speaker 4 (07:01):
Wow?
Speaker 3 (07:02):
You know all right?
Speaker 1 (07:03):
We have one more. This is our last one. This
is from Taylor and Carrollton. Taylor writes, I got stood
up twice by the same man. He's a doctor and
he was on call both times. I want to excuse
it since he was seeing patients. But if he cared
about seeing me, why did he schedule a date both
times he was on call? Is he even trying?
Speaker 3 (07:22):
Are you crazy? Do you have to be in a
doctor works? He a call?
Speaker 2 (07:27):
He he don't call every day in the life saving business.
Why would scheduled a date when he on call? What
just because you don't call don't mean you go get called.
But if you do get called, you got to go
to work. You don't need to date nobody in.
Speaker 4 (07:45):
The slow Yeah, all right, thank you, clo.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
At the top of the hour, we'll have some entertainment
news where you're right after this, you're listening to the
Stave Harvey Morning Show.
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