Social Media Advice - 11.10.25

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:01):
All right, guys, this is from Angie and Kennebunkport. Angie says,
I'm thirty eight years old and I got married last month.
My husband has not moved in with me yet because
his mom asked him to stay with her until December.

Speaker 2 (00:15):
First.

Speaker 1 (00:15):
I can go visit him at her house, but I
can't stay overnight because he sleeps on the couch. His
mom is still number one in his life. And by
the way, nothing is wrong with mom. She's just a
self centered b Should I continue to patiently wait for
my husband to come home or should I call it

(00:35):
quits and get divorced? Wow, I don't know. I don't
know how you married?

Speaker 2 (00:40):
Yeah, exactly, surely she had known something, right.

Speaker 3 (00:44):
You married a man that sleeps on his mama's couch.
You don't like a future or none? You ain't want
to know. Y'all want to chippy and get apartment y'all
want what? How about a bed together? Y'all don't want
You didn't want that.

Speaker 2 (01:03):
And it's just been a month that they've.

Speaker 3 (01:05):
Been married, and he's staying at his mama's house on
the couch, and you can't spend the night over there
because she asked him to stay with her to December one.
What happens on December second? Yeah, I'm just trying to
figure out what happened.

Speaker 1 (01:23):
Well, he's supposed to come home to his wife, go
home to his wife.

Speaker 3 (01:28):
There's something else that's crazy. Man, But but but but
she said that Mamma ain't sick of nothing, ain't nothing
wrong with him?

Speaker 1 (01:36):
Yeah, she said. She did say she's just a self
centered b. Though no strong.

Speaker 3 (01:42):
Word she's a self centered b. Is that your husband
is a mama's boy boy. You done married this boy
hoping he would be a man. But it's hard to
be your mama's boy and your woman's man. That's hard
to do. Do you need to hear that again? It's

(02:04):
hard to be your mama's boy and to become your
woman's man. Those are two different requirements. Yeah, the two
don't go together. They never will go together. They can't
exist at the same time. You can't be a boy
and a man at the same time. You can't. It's impossible, Yes.

Speaker 2 (02:24):
Sir, So that's her question.

Speaker 1 (02:25):
Should she continually wait patiently for her husband to come
home or should she call it quits and get divorced.

Speaker 3 (02:32):
How long have they been married? Shirley.

Speaker 2 (02:33):
Did she say they just got married last month? They
just got married last month?

Speaker 3 (02:37):
Why y'all get married?

Speaker 1 (02:39):
Yeah, yeah, exactly if you.

Speaker 3 (02:47):
Wait for him to come home. So I'm assuming home
is your house.

Speaker 2 (02:51):
Yeah, m hmm.

Speaker 3 (02:53):
She's not sick, she said.

Speaker 1 (02:57):
Mom, nothing, she says, she just self centered. B woh
strong words.

Speaker 2 (03:03):
Wow.

Speaker 1 (03:04):
All right, moving on, we have time for another one.
This is from Deyonce in Colombia. Deonce writes, I did
you say Beyonce? I said, Dionce?

Speaker 2 (03:15):
Oh Deonce? Yeah.

Speaker 1 (03:18):
Deonce says, I am twenty four years old and I
love playing flag football. My dad has a big problem
with it. He said it's not girly and he wants
me to be in my soft girl era. He said,
I'll never get a husband like this. But why I
keep my nails done, my wigs are always on point,
and I dress like a lady when I'm not playing football.

Speaker 2 (03:41):
Why can't I switch it up and get down and
dirty on the football field? Is this? Here's her question?
Is this a turnoff for men?

Speaker 3 (03:49):
Well? Deonce, now let me explain something. If your name
is gonna be.

Speaker 2 (03:55):
Deonce, Okay, right there, Uh huh.

Speaker 3 (03:58):
Two things. Let me just say this you wasn't fine
enough for them to name you Beyonce.

Speaker 2 (04:05):
You know what, No, So I'm.

Speaker 3 (04:09):
Assuming there's gonna be a serious drop off. She said.

Speaker 1 (04:16):
She keeps her nails done and her wigs are always
on point, and she dresses like a lady.

Speaker 3 (04:21):
Yeah, but she played football though. Now we need to
find out what position, because it's gonna tell.

Speaker 2 (04:29):
Now.

Speaker 3 (04:29):
If she ain't got no flag, then we know what's happening.

Speaker 2 (04:33):
Is this a turnoff for men blocking?

Speaker 3 (04:36):
Well, you know, if you play defensive end on the
flag football team, it's a it's a it's a turnoff
for me. And your name Deonce.

Speaker 2 (04:47):
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