Social Media Advice - 11.7.25

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:01):
This is from Visha in Oxford. Visha says, five years ago,
I had twins and my husband left me in the hospital.
He got a dui that night, and his excuse was
that he wasn't ready for twins. I wasn't ready for
any more than he was. But I've been raising the
girls by myself for the past five years. He gave

(00:22):
me money the whole time, but he loved us from afar.
He wants to come home all of a sudden, and
I'm struggling with that. Should I go ahead and divorce
him or do we work on this marriage for our children?
Do I owe them that?

Speaker 2 (00:37):
Wow? Wow? Well they don't know who he is, so
this ain't for them. You have to think about yourself
in this one right here. It's been five years. You know,
they can know they have a father, and they should.
But as the woman, the wife, the mother, how do

(01:02):
you feel about this guy disappearing and just showing back up?
So what went wrong in his life? Well he done
came back. Now let me go and do this here.
So I don't know. It's it's really how you feel.
Don't do it for the children. Don't do it for
the children because they never had him and all he

(01:27):
got to do is play an active role in the
children's life. The question is do you want him to
play an active role in your life?

Speaker 1 (01:37):
He left her while she was in the hospital.

Speaker 3 (01:44):
Yes, I had twins. I had twins. I remember the
night and how was it? I wanted to drive off, didn't.

Speaker 1 (02:01):
But yeah, wow this guy, mm, yeah, we do have
time for another one. This is from Ason, Toronto. He says,
I gave my girlfriend some money to get her h
VAC fixed, and she spent it on getting her son's
windows tenant. Every time his car pulls up at the house,

(02:23):
I want to bust his windows. I think her son
should give me the money back because he's grown enough
to get his own windows tenant? Is my problem with
the son or with my girlfriend?

Speaker 2 (02:35):
Problem is with the son. I mean, I'm.

Speaker 3 (02:37):
Excuse me, your problems with your girlfriend?

Speaker 2 (02:39):
Yeah, that's what your problem is because she deceptively asks
for the money.

Speaker 3 (02:47):
Yeah, she knew.

Speaker 2 (02:49):
She was gonna get his money to this boy get
his windows tenant. How is getting your windows tenant more
important than me getting this? He Nadia. Yeah, I'd have
told my daddy to give me some money for some tint.
He just told me to squint when I tried just squint.

Speaker 1 (03:15):
So what should he say to her? What should Ace
say to his girlfriend?

Speaker 2 (03:19):
Hey, look, you you told me what you wanted to
do with the money. That's so unfair. Now you gave
this money to this boy for some window tent. See
now you you the trust factor of helping you is you.
You you messing it up. See what a man can't feel,
just like a woman can't feel, is that you're not
appreciating what he does and you're taking it for granted.

(03:43):
That right There ain't no man going for that because
women ain't.

Speaker 3 (03:47):
Gonna go for it.

Speaker 1 (03:48):
And she still needs her h fact fixed.

Speaker 2 (03:51):
Well you just finished it up in the here and
be hot. Now go out there in that car. Have
him rolled him to the windows down? Y'all?

Speaker 1 (04:00):
Around there? That was the priority. Yeah. And this son,
he says, has grown enough to get his own windows tenants.
So yeah, yeah.

Speaker 2 (04:13):
All all, you can open the refrigerator, pull a chair up,
and watch a TV from the kitchen.

Speaker 1 (04:22):
Stay cool. Yeah, wow, that's a tough one right there. Yeah,
but you're, like you said, Steve, the problem is with
the girlfriend. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show