Social Media Advice - 12.08.25

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, So this is from Cheris in Kalamazoo. Cheris says,
for two years, I dated a man without knowing he
was married. His wife is in the military and they
live in different states. She came home in September and
I was painting the kitchen, her kitchen. What I tried
to surprise, surprise her husband slash my boyfriend after he

(00:23):
had a small fire in the kitchen. I was the
one that got surprised though. His wife is crushed and
I feel terrible after we confronted her husband. He's divorcing her.
Is there anything I can do to help rebuild after
all of this mess? Help her rebuild after.

Speaker 2 (00:41):
All the help her rebuilding?

Speaker 3 (00:43):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, because she didn't know he was married.

Speaker 4 (00:47):
That's so nice. You don't mess around and get killed
by a military person. She is training, you know, Ah,
listen to.

Speaker 3 (00:56):
Me, thank you for your service. Yeah, out of there.

Speaker 2 (01:01):
Yeah, you need to just get on out of there.

Speaker 4 (01:04):
And he's filing for divorce and all this here, that's
a crazy But she was in here painting this woman's kitchen.

Speaker 1 (01:10):
Though, Yeah, because he had a fire and she wanted
to surprise him.

Speaker 3 (01:14):
But she was the one that got surprised.

Speaker 2 (01:19):
She was crushed. Yeah, and you didn't know, she.

Speaker 3 (01:23):
Says, she did not know.

Speaker 1 (01:25):
She's this woman house and she couldn't.

Speaker 2 (01:29):
You just got a roller. You're just going up the
wall and she walked in.

Speaker 4 (01:32):
You said, hello, how are you where? Whoere is rayfer
Rapel says at work? You know, we had a fire
the other day. I was cooking fries the other day
and the grease fire broke out and we had to
fire in the kitchen. So I'm just in here fixing.
What you mean y'all had a fire? Yes, me, and

(01:53):
you know we're in a relationship.

Speaker 2 (01:54):
And who are you, ma'am?

Speaker 4 (01:56):
I'm his wife. Raby don't have no wife. Yes, Rayford
does have a wife. I'm in the military and I
just came home and you in here painting my kitchen.
Wait a minute, you married to Rayford? Why is his
name Rayford?

Speaker 3 (02:13):
Why you can't call him ray?

Speaker 2 (02:15):
Why you gotta say.

Speaker 4 (02:18):
When when you get busted you got to call him
by his whole government name.

Speaker 3 (02:21):
You can't do that.

Speaker 4 (02:22):
They're talking about who you ray rape baby daddy? You
can't know the nickname.

Speaker 3 (02:31):
Wow, that's a mess right there.

Speaker 4 (02:34):
I feel bad for the lady that came home. But
I feel bad for this lady because she honestly didn't know. Yeah,
she wants to help rebuild. You ain't finna do that?

Speaker 3 (02:45):
Yeah, well she's getting her husband is divorcing her.

Speaker 4 (02:48):
Though your husband is divorcing her, that's the He told
you that too.

Speaker 3 (02:53):
Huh.

Speaker 4 (02:54):
Yeah, you need to talk have one more conversation with
the wife.

Speaker 2 (02:58):
But making a phone call. Don't go over there.

Speaker 3 (03:00):
They're training.

Speaker 1 (03:04):
Yeah, all right, we have time for another one. This
is from Flow and Newcastle. Flow says, I'm a stickler
for clean nails and a nice smile. So I'm struggling
with the man I met online. We met in person
and his nails were clean, but they were all different lengths.

Speaker 3 (03:21):
The front four.

Speaker 1 (03:22):
Teeth of his mouth were white and the other ones
were Yellowy. I know I'm being overly critical. He's tall
and he has a great personality, so those are both great.
Can I suggest she wants to know? Can she suggest
that on their next date they get manicures and pedicures
because she wants to see his feet too, And will

(03:43):
he know if she does that what she's up to?

Speaker 2 (03:47):
Of course?

Speaker 4 (03:48):
But baby, listen to me. If a man having nice
feet is a pre requresit of yours. You're gonna be
looking for a man for a long time. You can
get them nails even out that ain't nothing.

Speaker 3 (04:03):
What about those teeth.

Speaker 4 (04:05):
He's really nice hands, you know what make your nails
all the same link.

Speaker 2 (04:10):
He just need to know.

Speaker 3 (04:11):
Yeah he does the teeth.

Speaker 2 (04:13):
Okay, yeah, let them teeth now, four teeth in the front.
That's white. He just brushed the front.

Speaker 4 (04:21):
And he don't he don't go around that corner, the corner,
but you know he no, they got teeth white and
it now it really really works work.

Speaker 3 (04:32):
Yeah, all right, you.

Speaker 2 (04:33):
Could, don't. You know, he just needs a little help.

Speaker 3 (04:36):
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