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Let them all right, nephew, thank you. Subject. He left
me outside to freeze. Dear Stephen Shirley. Since my divorce,
I've been lost, and I've been I've been doing a
lot of stuff I did when I was younger. It
was fun until it wasn't. I've been having an affair
with a married man. His wife is a policewoman and
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everyone is afraid of her. I still took the risk
to have sex with her husband, and we were sneaking
around having sex in his tesla.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
His wondows are blacked out. It was perfect. He picked
me up.
Speaker 1 (00:59):
Tuesday and parked at an office building that's been closed
for years. We had sex and then he lit a
blunt He did not notice. His wife pulled up in
a police car. He got out and he told her
he was smoking because he had a stressful day. She
told him to come home. He followed her home. I
was in the back seat and I was terrified. He
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pulled into the garage and said he'd come right back out,
But then he plugged his car up and his wife
let the garage down. It was twenty one degrees and
he left me outside to freeze. I texted him a
million times, and he kept telling me that he couldn't
come back out, so he called his brother to come
over and get me out. After almost three hours, his
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brother showed up and I heard the garage going up.
I had fallen asleep, shivering and quivering. His brother gave
me a blanket, and I crawled out of the garage
to his brother's truck. I know this sounds unbelievable, especially
since I am forty eight years old. This man keeps
saying that it wasn't his fault. It's both of our fault.
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He was not the one stuck in a cold car
for hours. He wants to keep seeing me, but where
will we link up? Does he deserve a redo? Or
is this too risky with his policewoman wife. Come on,
come on, come on.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
I don't believe. I don't believe you just said that.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
I don't.
Speaker 2 (02:26):
I'm sorry. You can't be this stupid.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
I mean, what you're doing is stupid. You could lose
your life. This man is married to a police woman,
and you said everyone is afraid of her. That means
him too. He left you to freeze in a car,
that's how scared he was for hours in twenty one
degree weather that's below freezing. Are you sure you don't
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have frostbite or something? Have you been checked? And now
you're writing a letter asking Steve and I whether you
should give this man another chance? Have you said that
to your self? Allowed you want to redo? The answer
is absolutely not. Since you asked no do overs here,
it is just gonna be more of the same.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
As you mentioned.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
You are forty eight years old, Okay, you're good and grown.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
You've got to know better than this. And what are
you gonna be going.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
Back to doing it in his car, in an abandoned building,
or next to an abandoned building while his wife sits
in a police car watching you. Guys, you're hiding from
his wife. You're fearing for your life. You gotta let
this go. Please move on. He's not worth this. The
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next time you might not be so fortunate as to
get out of this situation before his wife sees you
in the car. Do you understand that? Or you could freeze,
get frostbite, anything or worse.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
Steve, this is crazy.
Speaker 4 (03:56):
I don't think I've told nobody about this one. I
probably would have just ate this one, just took this one,
that one out. I got some that I'm gonna tell
you right now. I got some that's going to the
grave with me. I got some stories that's going to
the grave with me. I ain't told no friend of mine, nobody.
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It's just some stuff that I've determined after I've ran
it back in my mind.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
Now I've been probably don't need to repeat this.
Speaker 4 (04:28):
This seems like one of them to me, because you
can't get nothing but stupid out of this letter. You know,
since my divorce, I've been lost, and I've been doing
a lot of stuff I did when I was younger.
He was lost and been doing a lot of off
and it was fun until it wasn't. That's what youthful
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fun is. It's fun until it ain't no more. You
know that happens to all of us. Everything is fun
till it don't happen no more. You know it was
fun when your uncle used to throw you on the
floor and tickle you his stomach. Yeah, after about thirty seconds,
Hey man, hey, you're not tickling me anymore. You digging
me and you're digging in my side. It was fun
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until it wasn't no more. I've been having a fan with.
Speaker 3 (05:12):
A married man. His wife is a policewoman, and everybody.
Speaker 4 (05:15):
Scared him, so you thought this would be a good
thing to do. I still took the risk to have
sex with her husband in his tesla.
Speaker 3 (05:27):
His windows are blacked out. It was perfect.
Speaker 4 (05:29):
Picked me up on Tuesday and we parked at an
office building that's been closed for years.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
We had sex, and then he lit a blunt.
Speaker 4 (05:40):
So you don't even understand what well I'm trying to
Maybe I'll say that information, but I want to At
this point, you don't see the devalue of your relationship
with him. You just you just the back seat on
a Tuesday in a tesla with the black when it
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was perfect. Really, it's perfect at forty eight years old
to get picked up in a Tesla truck with blacked
out windows. Take it to an abandon of office building
and get yourself done in the back seat, and then
it's perfect.
Speaker 3 (06:19):
He lit a blunt.
Speaker 4 (06:20):
He didn't notice that his wife had pulled up next
to him in her police car. He got out and
told her he was smoking because he had a stressful date.
She told him to come home. He followed a home.
I was in the back seat and I was terrified.
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subject he left me out to freeze.
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strawberry letter. The subject is he left me out to freeze.
Speaker 4 (07:38):
Woo lady. This is one of the stupidest lohs. First
of all, like I said, I would have never told this.
I have several stories in my life, as does most
people that we would just take to the grade. We
ain't got to share this. I don't need my friends
to counsel me on it. You know, I don't need
no therapy on it. Shouldn't have did it, dealt with it.
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Take it to the grade. You've been divorced, you're lost,
and you're doing a lot of stuff you used to
do when you was younger. So now you started dating
this married man. You having a sexual affair with him.
He's married to a police officer that everybody is afraid of.
Speaker 3 (08:11):
This woman.
Speaker 4 (08:13):
He picks you up every Tuesday in a Tesla truck,
windows blacked out on a Tuesday, takes you in a
parking lot of an abandoned office building. Y'all have sex.
Your next statement was it's perfect. Boy, you don't think
nothing of yourself. It's perfect to be done that way.
At forty eight, he didn't notice his wife pull up
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in her police car. He got out and told her
that he was smoking because he had a stressful day.
I can't tell you the pressure he was under when
he was having that conversation with the lady with the gun.
I'm telling you right now, he was smoking that weed. Man,
just man, if she please don't let her go in
that coming.
Speaker 3 (08:55):
Then she told him to come home. He followed her home.
I was in the beat and I was terrified. Now
let me tell you what i'd have done.
Speaker 4 (09:04):
Okay, but obviously you ain't me, because you're way stupider
than me.
Speaker 3 (09:09):
So he followed her home. At one of them stopped lights.
Speaker 4 (09:14):
I'm rolling out the truck. If that police car ain't
behind me, he finna deal with this hisself. But if
he followed her home now, So he pulls into the
garage and said he'd come right back out. But then
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he plugged his car up and his wife let the
garage down. It was twenty one degrees and he left
me outside to freeze. I text him a million times,
and he kept telling me he couldn't come back out.
So he called his brother to come over and get
me out. After almost three hours, his brother showed up,
and I heard the garage do open up.
Speaker 3 (09:56):
I had fallen to.
Speaker 5 (09:57):
Sleep, sleep, sleep, freezing. I'm in the trunk of a car.
I'll sleeping, girl. That's the that's all. That's that could
be the stupidest line in the letter.
Speaker 4 (10:15):
Yeah, I'm sleep No no, no, no. You don't even
know how much stuff I'm trying in that car. Anyway,
his brother, I will fall asleep, shivering and quivering. His
brother gave me a blanket. Here's the second dumbest line.
I crawled out of the garage to his brother's truck,
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so you had to stay lower in case she looked
out the window. So now you crawling on your knees.
It's still probably didn't dropped under twenty one. You got
a blanket, You crawling with your butt jacked up in
the air to get up in your brother truck. I
know this sounds unbelievable, especially since I'm forty eight. It
sounds unbelievable if you're sixteen. For the hey, unbelievable, unbelievably dumb.
Speaker 3 (11:02):
It's what this is.
Speaker 4 (11:04):
This man keeps saying that It wasn't his fault. It's
both of our fault. He was not the one stuck
in the cold car for hours. He wants to keep
seeing me for where will we link up? How this
wasn't the question before? See, you have no value of yourself.
You are a backseat of a blacked out window truck
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in the parking lot of an abandoned building only on Tuesday.
That's what you are. That's what he knows you are.
He wants to continue seeing you. So what he gonna
do is he gonna take you this time. He gonna
take you to a parking lot on a Tuesday that's
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out of her jurisdiction. But she can't drive that police
car outside her Jewish diiction.
Speaker 3 (11:54):
That's his plan for you.
Speaker 4 (11:56):
That's where y'all gonna link up, outside her Jewish diiction.
Speaker 3 (12:00):
Does he deserve a redo? Or is it too risky
with this police woman? You so dumb?
Speaker 4 (12:05):
You're so dumb, lady, listen, do what you want to do.
Because you do, I'll tell you what that No, No,
I'm telling you one thing. You probably you should have
stayed married. Whatever your husband was doing, you probably should
have went on took it. Unless he if he wasn't
physically abusive. You should have just stayed in that relationship.
I know he had six other women, but at least
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you wasn't getting left out in the car in a
Tesla in twenty one degree weather. I don't know what
to tell you, lady. If you do not walk away,
you what?
Speaker 3 (12:36):
Okay? Let me ask you something. When you asked this
question right here.
Speaker 4 (12:40):
You said, does he deserve a redo or is it
too risky with his policewoman wife. Lady, take the police
woman wife out of it. What is the value in
him getting a redo? He gets a redo to do what?
What did he do to you that was of that
much value?
Speaker 1 (12:58):
Now?
Speaker 3 (12:58):
I know he was bringing it there in the back
of that truck. I know he w was I know
he was back there getting nick in. I got that.
But you want to go back to him for what reason?
It has no value?
Speaker 4 (13:18):
See, I can't help you unless you increase the value
you have for yourself.
Speaker 3 (13:24):
Steven Shirley can't help you. So if you're a.
Speaker 4 (13:27):
Backseat girl at forty eight years old in the back
of a truck with blacked out windows, you don't even
deserve a room.
Speaker 3 (13:33):
Girl.
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