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Speaker 1 (00:36):
Thank you, nephew. Subject He's patting everything. Dear Stephen Shirley.
I'm a forty two year old woman and I met
a man that lied about his age and other things.
When I met him, he's six ' four and very
nice looking with curly hair, but he's very skinny. He
had a large groin area and I couldn't help but
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see it since he is such a tall man. We
met in a grocery store and he was staring at
me for a long time, and then he finally spoke
and said, my beauty had him mesmerized. We exchange numbers
and a few days later I met him out for
a drink. I would have preferred to go to dinner,
but that's not what he offered on our first date.
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That's when he started laying it on thick with the lies.
He said he's forty eight years old and he played
ball in college, but he didn't get a chance to
go pro because he hurt his foot. He said his
home is getting renovated, so he's staying in one of
his rental properties. He never told me what he does
for a living, but he says he dabbles in the
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stock market. I loved getting to know him, so I
continued to hang out with him. After about two months,
I was ready to be intimate with him. As he
got undressed, I noticed his underwear had a cup like
feature in the front, and that was the bulge I
always saw. I asked him about his underwe and he
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told me that a lot of men wear those to
protect themselves. He also had on an undershirt, a black
T shirt and a button front shirt and explained that
he likes to pad his chest because he is skinny.
We ended up doing the do and he was small
and terrible. Since that night, Since that night, he's admitted
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that he's sixty four. He works as a custodial manager.
He never played basketball, and he's never been to college.
It's clear that he does not have a house either.
Since he has come clean about the lies, should I
give him a chance to prove himself or break it off? Well,
I think he's already proven himself. He doesn't tell the truth,
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and not just little lies. He tells his big, elaborate lies.
He didn't tell you the truth about anything, So how
can you trust him now? He told you he was
forty eight, he's sixty four. Men may lie about a
lot of things, but they usually they usually don't lie
about their age. Everything he told you was a lie.
And the thing about it is is that he didn't
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have to do that. When people lie, it serves only them,
only them, because they don't give you a chance to
make an informed decision, and it leaves you no options.
It's selfish on their part because they're just trying to
get what they want. You said he's terrible in bed
and small. Wow, you said that, But even with all
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of that and all of the lies going against him,
you continue to go out with him, and you want
to give him another chance. That's what you're asking us.
You like him, and you're torn right now. I'm glad
he came clean and finally told you the truth, if
that really is the truth. But I say, when the
red flags show up, you have to pay attention. Pay
attention to what he does, Okay, what he does right now,
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not what he says, because that will determine how you
should move forward. Every lie he told you in the
beginning with the red flag, Hopefully he's changed for the
good now, hopefully Steve impossible.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
Im possible, Ladies, you all have got to start listening
to what a man is saying to you because what
he is saying to you and doing to you must
sink up emmediately. Let me say this to y'all, what
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a man is saying to you and doing to you,
it has to link up e immediately. If it doesn't
link up immediately, you are in for what you always
end up being. For a surprise. Stephen Cheryle, I'm a
forty gen old woman. I met a man that lied
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about his age and other things.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
When I met him. He's six foot four and very
nice looking.
Speaker 3 (04:59):
Okay, ain't no problem currently had, but he was skinny,
see that butt skinny. He had a large growing area
and I couldn't help it. Since he's such a tall man,
so what you're trying? It was just right there.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
Huh. He's six four you five two. He was right there.
He was right there. Okay.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
She said she couldn't help it.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
She couldn't help it. I'm down here in the grocery store.
I'm I'm our level with the handle on the grocery car.
All I saw was Lord her Mercy, six four, and
he had on some pridate platform shoes. So now he
bout probably six six six self. Oh yeah. Oh and Tommy,
by the way, probably got a new shoe out with
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a heavy platform and sold, oh yes, get you a
few pairs, get it in all. I just thought of that,
you know, get him in all the colors. And you
didn't look last than him too. Bus you got big
ass feet, so it'll work out.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
Okay, back to the sty We met at the grocery store.
Speaker 3 (06:03):
He was standing in me for a long time, said
it's beauty, my beauty messagris.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
Y'all exchanged number a few ladies. Now here we go.
Speaker 3 (06:09):
We met him out for a drink. I would have
preferred to go to dinner, but that's not what he offered.
Our first date is when he started laying it on thick.
Speaker 2 (06:17):
With the lies.
Speaker 3 (06:18):
Remember I said, listen to what a man says, and
it has to sink up with what he does. He
said he's twenty eight years old, played ball in college,
but didn't get a chance to go pro. Now, he
also told you he dabbles in the stock market. He
has rental properties. I'm just saying this. I'm getting ahead
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of the letter. He gonna tell you he dabbles in
the store. Ma, he got rental properties. But then all
y'all get was drinks. All right, hang on, you don't
see that.
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today's strawberry letter. The subject is he's padding everything.
Speaker 3 (07:42):
Everything, But you gotta watch what they say, ladies for
watch listen to what a man says and has to
line up with what he does immediately. Immediately, she met
this dude sixfold, nice looking, big package, so she thought
he's six folds, so she couldn't help but notice it.
He tall, he's skinny, he got curly hair. He said,
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your beauty mathemerizing. Y'all exchange numbers. A few days later,
he asked you out. I met him out for a drink.
You wanted to go to dinner, but that's not what
he offered. Our first date is when he started laying
it on thick with the lines. He said, he's forty
eight years old. He played ball in college, but he
didn't get a chance to go pro because it hurt
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his foot. He said, his home is getting renovated, so
he's staying in one of his rental properties. Okay, one
of us, but y'all just having drinks. Though he never
told me what he does for a living, but he
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said he dabbles in the stock mark. I love getting
to know him, so I continue to hang out with him.
After about two months, I was ready to be intimate
with him. As he got undressed, I noticed his underwear
had the cup like feature in the front.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
And that was the bulge. That was the budge I
always saw.
Speaker 1 (09:08):
What is that?
Speaker 3 (09:09):
I asked about his underwearing. He told me A lot
of me and weddows to protect themselves.
Speaker 1 (09:15):
Not.
Speaker 3 (09:15):
The only thing men where to protect themselves is when
they play in sports or boxing and it's called the cup.
You can see it on all football players uniforms. Got
every last one of them wear a cup. Don't knowbody
wear that in their dress paints nobody. And if he
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that tall and skiddy, what is he protecting it from?
Speaker 2 (09:46):
What is he doing?
Speaker 3 (09:47):
But right there it was a clue because you found
out later on what he really did. So now you
find out why he needed the cup. A lot of
men don't wear that. There.
Speaker 2 (10:01):
A lot of men is just blessed.
Speaker 1 (10:03):
Okay, are we going there now? Period?
Speaker 3 (10:06):
I mean it's a lot of men that's blessed. That's
what she's talking about. She has do all men do that?
Speaker 2 (10:11):
And a.
Speaker 3 (10:13):
So when y'all was getting naked, he had on an undershirt,
a black T shirt and a button up shirt.
Speaker 2 (10:22):
He said, that's a lot. He said.
Speaker 3 (10:26):
What he said, he likes to past his chest because
he's skinny. That a lot of shirts. We ended up
doing the do and he was small and terrible. Since
that night, he's admitted, now here we go, he's six folk. See,
you know where he got that. He's sixty four. He
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admitted he's sixty four. You know where he got that
from because you said he was six folk. See, so
he just kept that information.
Speaker 2 (11:00):
True.
Speaker 3 (11:01):
But he told you he was forty eight years old.
He works as a custodio manager. Thus explains the cup.
See when you you might fall on the bucket, helder,
you're gonna need that cup. You slip down them steps
and hit that raially, you need that cup. One of
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them little kids up at the elementary school get tired.
I'm tired you, mister halbawn and blast you put you
dead in your zipper.
Speaker 2 (11:31):
You need that cup. Because he ain't a janitor. He
the custodian.
Speaker 3 (11:38):
See, he ain't tell you where he worked at because
he worked down at the school. He said he's a
one sir, custodio manager.
Speaker 2 (11:45):
He the only one.
Speaker 3 (11:47):
Ain't but one janitor after school, he the only one,
so he managed hisself. He never played basketball and never
been to college. So now he ain't a athletic but
he wear an athletic cup, and he ain't got no education, cation,
no chance for further advancement. It's clear he does not
have a house either. Yeah, that's clear. When y'all just
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had them drinks and he was staying in one of
his rental properties because you can't go over there. Since
he's come clean about the line, should I give him
a chance to prove himself a break? He's already proven himself. Ladies,
stop collecting red flags. Stop this is a red flag.
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Six foot fold, curly hair, forty eight, played ball, hurt
his foot, he got rental properties, dabbling the stock market.
Truth of the matter is he's sixty four. Now, how
you let this man tell you with forty eight that
he's sixty four? When they started pulling them old ass
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clothes off, look at his outfits, Look at his outfit.
You weren't paying no attention. Most sixty four year old dudes,
unless they fly. Now, a lot of fly brothers out there.
I see them all the time, cats that I admire
when I see him dressed though he ain't it. He
can't play ball. He even broke it, little fragile ast foot.
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He ain't got no education, no chance for advancement. He
a janitor down at the school and ain't nothing wrong that.
But you just collect the red flash and d just
started lining. He not fitting to stop line. This is
a red flash. He done lie about everything. You don't
think it's some more lies coming. All have to be
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out your mind. You can ask me more about this
letter if you want to when we come back.
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Speaker 3 (14:35):
About this woman that met who says his pad and
of itthing he toss in it. She's attracted to the
cup that he has in the front of his package.
Speaker 1 (14:45):
She did that.
Speaker 2 (14:47):
She says she was attracted by the bulge.
Speaker 3 (14:50):
She didn't know it was a sculpt a sculpture that
he said he couldn't go pro because it hurt his foot.
Speaker 2 (14:56):
And she don't know what he did for a living.
Speaker 3 (14:58):
He said he dabbling stock market and he not at
his regular house right now because he's staying in one
of his rental problems.
Speaker 1 (15:05):
She said he had a large groin area and I
couldn't help but see it. Since she couldn't help this man.
Speaker 2 (15:12):
Well, he's six folks, she fired to.
Speaker 3 (15:16):
She's with a grocery card in her hand, just nicking
over the handleball on the grocery car.
Speaker 2 (15:23):
What else is right there?
Speaker 3 (15:25):
Well, they go home, they trade numbers, and finally she
started liking the getting nicked. He got on four shirts
because he liked to pat his chest because he's because
he's skinny. He got four shirts on. Then he pulled
his pants down. You know, the drawers had a cup
in the front. He said, a lot of men wear
that to protect theyself. You don't wear a cup unless
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you play sports, football, box and stuff like that.
Speaker 2 (15:48):
You have on the cup. If you don't wear.
Speaker 3 (15:52):
Hell no, but he got but he wears because of
his job is come to find out, he and janitor.
So he.
Speaker 2 (16:00):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (16:00):
And but the only reason he the manage it because
he's the custodian and he the only one work there.
So he managed hisself. So now he said, yeah, made
I know how to do this here. It ain't nothing
to this dude. And now he got to wear that
cup because he just slipped on that mop handle bucket
before and damn here'll send his children in heaven early.
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So now that's why he wear a cup.
Speaker 1 (16:24):
I gotta ask you something, though, Steve, do men lie
about their age. I've just never not, don't.
Speaker 3 (16:31):
I'm too famous for that. You don't know, I really
don't know a lot of men to lie about that.
Speaker 1 (16:36):
No, No, that's I really don't.
Speaker 2 (16:39):
I'm pretty sure they do. But why would you do
that to say? You forty eight? What's the difference?
Speaker 3 (16:44):
Big? Sixteen years different? Yeah, he wanted her to think,
in sixteen more years, I'll be put it together. We
have a good life. What you're like, you had your
good life. It's always more to it. But you got
to be a different person. You gotta stop all this life.
Speaker 1 (16:58):
That's part three of today's Rubber Letter, Chatting Everything. Coming
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