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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 1 (00:25):
LETTA thank you nephew subject. I want to see it
every time. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a thirty five year
old married woman and I think all bodies are beautiful,
but my husband's is exquisite. He's got the curly chest, hair,
a little gut, love handles, and a real heavy hammer
that has had me hooked on him for fourteen years.
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We met fourteen years ago at david Busters, where we
both worked while we were in college. My first day
of work, he told me that I was going to
be his wife, and he showed me what my reward
would be for marrying him. It was the most beautiful
thing I had ever seen, and to this very day,
I still want to see it. Every time I'm in
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his presence, whether we're being intimate or not. He thinks
I've got a problem, but I don't see how loving
him from his head to his toes could be a problem.
Speaker 3 (01:20):
He used to send me.
Speaker 1 (01:21):
Photos while I was at work, but he said that
got old and I should be past that stage of
our marriage.
Speaker 3 (01:28):
But I'm trying to keep the magic going.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
I don't say anything to him if he falls wants
to fall asleep with his hand on my breast, So
why is it a big deal if I want to share,
want to stare at his anatomy. He says, being freaky
has a time and a place, and he's afraid that
our sexting could get him in trouble one day. It
makes me think that he's getting tired of me and
making up excuses.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
I don't understand what the big deal is. What's his
is mine and vice versa.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
My boobs are his to do as he pleases, So
why is he putting restricts on what I do with
his body? Now? He comes home and he showers with
the door locked, so I can't sit in the bathroom
and talk to him. He says he's keeping the marriage
fresh and trying something new, but I think there's a
little more to it than that. Could he be showing
it to someone else? Wow, this letter is strange because
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at thirty five, and I'm assuming your husband is around
that age too, because you didn't say it was older
or anything. But at thirty five, you wouldn't think this
would be that much of a problem for him. You
said you're trying to keep the magic going. But I
think there's something going on with him, and it sounds
like he just wants you to stop asking him every day.
I think he's over it. I think he's tired of
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it and he just wants some peace. He's at work,
you want pictures of it. He's trying to shower, you
want pictures of it. You want to watch him. It's
gotten to be too much, especially when he's at work.
He's right, he could get caught sending you pictures, and
then what what if he gets fired? All of that?
You know, you got to think of all of that.
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Sometimes people just want to shower by themselves. They want
some me times, some alone time. Sometimes they do that,
but it's like every time he turns around there you
are want him let you see it. He shouldn't have
to lock the bathroom door from his wife. But the
constant let me see it, let me see it from
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you has just simply gotten on his nerves. I think,
especially if you're not being intimate at the time, you
just want to see it whenever, wherever.
Speaker 3 (03:35):
The question is, why does he want you to stop?
Speaker 1 (03:38):
I don't think there's enough to go on to say
he's showing it to someone else, So get that out
your mind. I just think he needs a break from
you nagging him to let you, let you see it
every single day. Just let him be, Let it be
organic and natural, Steve.
Speaker 4 (03:55):
This is a thirty five year old married woman that
thinks all bodies are beautiful, but my husbands is exquisite.
Here lies the problem. Here's a thirty five year old
woman who has stated up front she thinks all bodies
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is beautiful.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
Right there?
Speaker 4 (04:22):
Oh really, really, lady, you think all bodies is beautiful,
so you thought you'd open this letter with this statement,
and that Uncle Steve wasn't gonna pick up on this one.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
Right here. Let me make a real fact.
Speaker 4 (04:39):
All bodies ain't beautiful, and everybody ain't got a beautiful body,
knowing ask them plastic surgeons at an all time high.
Cause something wrong, and you think something is wrong, so
you want to go do something about it.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
So let's stop this lie.
Speaker 4 (04:58):
All bodies ain't beauty, and your husbands is exquisite.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
And then you went on to describe him.
Speaker 4 (05:08):
He got curly chess hair, a little gut love handlers.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
Right there, right there now hard We trying to work
on these guts.
Speaker 4 (05:23):
Out of here, you know how we want these love
hemmings going.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
Lady, you just a lie.
Speaker 4 (05:36):
And then he got a hammer that had had me
hooked on him for fourteen years. This ain't a letter
about him being gorgeous or you want to see it.
This is a letter about you being whipped. The stuff
you doing is crazy. In this letter, he showed it
to you. My first day of work. He told me
I was gonna be his wife, and he showed me
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what the reward would be for marrying him. He is
the most beautiful thing I had ever seen. To this
very day, you ain't seen nothing. You was in college.
You ain't got nothing to compare to. He ain't the
most exquisite, He ain't the most beautiful.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
Open your eyes, look around that little pot belly. Love
handle man, you.
Speaker 4 (06:19):
Got and you're thinking he exquisite girl stopped. I want
to see it every time I'm in his presence, whether
we be an intimate or not.
Speaker 2 (06:30):
Who want to do that every time? Hey? Hey, hey,
let me see here? Cool now?
Speaker 3 (06:39):
All right, all right, hang on, Steve.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
We'll have part two of your response coming up at
twenty three minutes after the hour. The subject is I
want to see it every time. We'll get back into
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Speaker 1 (07:46):
All right, come on, Steve, let's recap the Strawberry letter
for today. The subject is I want to see it
every time.
Speaker 4 (07:53):
Well, thirty five year old woman.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
Lot us us.
Speaker 4 (08:00):
She thinks, allbod this is beautiful. We all know that
ain't true. But her husband don't exquiszye.
Speaker 2 (08:11):
Girl.
Speaker 4 (08:11):
You got curly chest hair, he got a little gut,
he got love handles.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
Who are you describing? Hell? Sounded like junior?
Speaker 4 (08:28):
Yeah, Steve Anthony Brown, Tash what ain't what?
Speaker 2 (08:39):
What? What? Anyway? Anyway, that card ain't never game work,
said Tash was exquisite.
Speaker 4 (08:43):
Faug ain't ever called in there, all the articles we'd
have done it said, my husband is exquisite, and yours
ain't either. He told me I was gonna be his wife,
and he showed me what my reward gonna be from
the verse. Any it was the most beautiful thing I've
ever seen. You ain't seen nothing. You was in college.
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You ain't got nothing to compare to but old big
hammer right there now. You want to see it every time?
You in this presence, the hammer, even if we not
being intimate he thinks I got a problem, But I
don't see how love and him from head to toe
can be a problem. It ain't the love that he's
sick of. It ain't the love.
Speaker 2 (09:26):
It's the obsession with it.
Speaker 4 (09:29):
It's the obsession with won'tness see it? If I put
my pants on already? What man sitting up in the hill?
He used to send me photos while I was work,
but he said that got old and I should be
past that stage by math in fourteen years.
Speaker 2 (09:51):
You just saw it last night.
Speaker 4 (09:53):
What if I'm sending a picture of it for I
don't say anything to him? If he want to fall
asleep with his hand on my breast, fall asleep, which
is called cuddling spooning, y'all supposed to like that.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
Now you won't equate that to let me see it? Well, yeah,
what you're doing? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (10:14):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (10:15):
Hey?
Speaker 2 (10:15):
Hey, hey, hey, hey, we in this car, we finish,
go in Walmart? Let me see it? Wa hey, hey,
before we go into service here, Yeah, let me see it.
Speaker 4 (10:35):
He says it's being freaky and all that's gonna get
him in trouble one day.
Speaker 2 (10:40):
All this sexting on the job.
Speaker 4 (10:43):
I don't understand what the big deal is what is mine,
what is his is mine and vice versus.
Speaker 2 (10:49):
My boobs are his to do as he pleases.
Speaker 4 (10:51):
Yeah, but it's got to be some type of prioritization, hire, Yeah, it's.
Speaker 2 (10:56):
Got to be some some type of order.
Speaker 4 (11:00):
Why is he putting restrictions on what I do with
his body because it's his body, just like you can
put restrictions on what he do with your body because
it's your body. He don't want to show it to
you all the time. I don't want to see myself
all the time. Hell, I got to go to work,
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I got stuff to do. He comes home and he
showered with the door lock, so I can't sit in
the bathroom talk to him. But I won't talk to
you while I'm in the bathroom. No, we are there
trying to shower.
Speaker 2 (11:38):
You put the lid down there. You're just running your father.
You know what? He tied to you. You too much? You.
Speaker 4 (11:46):
This is an obsession you have, and the obsession has
gotten to be too obsessive. You are too much. It's
nothing to it no more. It ain't even new no more.
He just tied to you. But I think it's a
little more to it than that. Could he be showing
it to somebody else. See, lady, your problem is you
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think allbodies are beautiful, and you problem you think everybody
think you think you think allbodies are beautiful, and you
think everybody think like you. And that's not the case.
This does not say he's showing it to somebody else.
He just tied his showing it to yo. He's sick
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of you, and you're gonna run your man off with this.
You gotta start prioritizing this. You gotta you gotta make it.
Can't be that exciting every day.
Speaker 2 (12:44):
You too much.
Speaker 4 (12:44):
Now, you need gonna sit you down somewhere before you
mess around and don't see it no more. Wow, you're
gonna mess around. He just gonna go hell tired, going yeah,
out the ball and let up.
Speaker 2 (13:02):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (13:04):
Hey, look, hey, hey, look I like playing in the sandbox,
but not every day.
Speaker 3 (13:08):
Yes, it's all day every day, all right.
Speaker 2 (13:14):
I like being intimate.
Speaker 1 (13:16):
Okay, here we go to what not every day?
Speaker 2 (13:21):
All right? Thank you, Steve.
Speaker 4 (13:22):
I don't live with nobody. Well I'm going to go. Hey, hey, let.
Speaker 2 (13:25):
Me see it.
Speaker 1 (13:26):
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