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Thank you. Nephew's subject, my best friend is a proud
home wrecker. Dear Stephen Shirley, My very best friend is
a garden tool and a proud home wrecker. She intentionally
ruined a marriage because she got jealous when her son's
father moved on and fell in love with another woman.
I'm disgusted because she is so proud that she's meddling
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in their marriage. This man had been married for over
fourteen years, and in that fourteen years, she has had
sex with him on numerous occasions, and she even moved
to Dallas from Atlanta to be with him in twenty seventeen.
She thought all along that he was going to leave
his wife for her. She has gotten pregnant twice and
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lost babies to miscarriages. The guy knows what he's doing
is wrong, and he tells my homewrecking friend that he
can't leave his wife because of their children, but he's
neglecting his own son.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
He has with my friend.
Speaker 1 (01:21):
They meet up for sex capades, and his son is
rarely around when he comes over. I was in Dallas
visiting my friend for her birthday and I ran into
her guy and his wife at a restaurant. He seemed
to be very much in love with his wife. He
was surprised to see me, but introduced me to his
wife and send a drink to me. I am mad
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at my friend for being so lowed down, and I'm
also disgusted at him for his part.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
In all of this.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
My husband says I'm too concerned and I should let
it go. But as a wife and mother, I don't
like to see an innocent woman being portrayed like this.
Because my friend is not only having sex with this man,
she has other men that she is involved with, and
she's admitted to having unprotected sex with a few of them.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
I feel like the.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
Wife should know what's going on, and I want to
tell her anonymously, what do you think about all of this.
First of all, you got to listen to your husband.
You've got to stay out of this. This is their mess.
You got to stay out of it. You're way too
into their business. His wife obviously doesn't know about their
affair or that there's a son involved, and it is
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just not your job to tell her that, Yes, your
friend is wrong, Yes her married baby daddy is a cheating,
deadbeat dad. But these are grown people who know full
well what they're doing. The question is, I can't figure
out why you're still friends with her. I mean, you
said in the letter, major character flaws going on here.
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She's morally bankrupt, doing it with him, a lot of
other guys, no protection, trying to ruin this marriage, proud
of it. You, on the other hand, seem to have
a conscience and you don't.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
Approve of any of this, and.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
You and this woman have nothing in common, but yet
she's your best friend. I mean, she clearly doesn't listen
to you or follow your example. I just think the
real loser here, honestly, is the son. Because the son
doesn't have the benefit of having a father, his mom
is so selfish that she'd rather have this married man
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who is the baby's father in her bed instead of,
you know, moving on with her life and making her
son a priority. I just think she's too busy sleeping
around and what about child support? What about taking care
of your baby? That's what she should be focused on, Steve.
Speaker 4 (03:50):
I don't there's so much wrong with this dog gold letter.
I don't even know where to start. It's there's no
good in this letter. And even for the sister, that's
really concerning. I appreciate your heart, you got a good heart,
but I agree with Shirley one hundred percent. This ain't
your business. And I don't know why I then troubled
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you so much?
Speaker 3 (04:12):
Where you done? Rolle the dog on? Let about it?
Speaker 4 (04:16):
Your girlfriend the garden who is jealous because her son's
father moved on and fell in love with another woman.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
But now she's proud that she's meddling.
Speaker 4 (04:29):
Oh, I see what's happening. So okay, So let me
get this right. The guy that is the father of
her son has moved on and remarried, and this is
the man she messing with, right right.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
Oh, she is messing with this dude. Uh huh, I
got it. Now.
Speaker 4 (04:55):
This man has been married for fourteen years and in
that fourteen years. She's had sex with him on numerous
a caven occasion and moved to Dallas from Atlanta be
with him.
Speaker 3 (05:06):
So the dude that left her fell.
Speaker 4 (05:09):
In love with another woman that they have a son
by together. She done wan the Dallas to sleep with
him right right.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
Thinking he was gonna leave his wife for her.
Speaker 4 (05:26):
She's gotten pregnant twice and lost the babies to miscash.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (05:33):
Then the guy knows that what he's doing is wrong,
and he's telling your friend he can't leave his wife
because of their children. But at the same time, he's
neglecting his own son that he got with the girl
the garden tool. Now they meet up half sex. His
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son is very rarely around when he come over. Now,
you was in Dallas visiting your friend for her birthday,
ran into the guy and his wife. He seemed very
much in love with the wife. He was surprised to
see me introduce you to the wife and sent you
a drink. That drink was to keep you down exactly.
You know that that drink was Hey, we cool, That's
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what he sent to drink for. You know, I'm cool?
Speaker 3 (06:21):
You cool?
Speaker 4 (06:22):
Now if you sent the drink back, he'd have got
up and left the restaurant immediately with it emergence. See,
that was the litmus test he sent over you. That
wasn't a drink, that was a test. You failed the test.
I'll tell you the rest of it when we come back.
Speaker 2 (06:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
Part two of Steve's response coming up at twenty three
minutes after the hour. Subject of today's Strawberry Letter, my
best friend is a proud homewrecker.
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Strawberry letter. Subject my best friend is a proud home wrecker.
Speaker 4 (07:37):
Well, you described your free and in the letter as
a garden tool, and we know all know what that means.
She has had a relationship with a man, He moved on,
fell in love with another woman.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
They had a baby.
Speaker 4 (07:52):
Then first the guard tool and the man had a babygather,
he fell in love with another woman, moved on, got married.
They've been married for fourteen years. This woman, who is
your friend, has been messing with this same guy that
she had the baby with, who is now married. Been
messing with him for fourteen years. She didn't had sex
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with him on a bunch of occasions. She'd have moved
to Dallas from Atlanta to be with him. She thought
all along he was gonna leave his wife and come
back to her. She done got pregnant twice and lost
their babies to miscarriages. The guy know what he doing
is wrong, and he tells tell your home record friend,
he can't leave his wife because of their children, but
he's neglecting his own son.
Speaker 3 (08:35):
He got with your friend.
Speaker 4 (08:37):
All right, So now then you don't mess around and
went to Dallas, ran up into him and his wife
at a restaurant. He asked you to introduce you to
his wife and sit a drink over to the table.
That's just to make sure you was cool, and you
was gonna stay at the table hard walk away from drink.
These days they tell you don't leave you drink because
people be slipping stuff in your drink.
Speaker 3 (08:57):
So she did just set it the table the whole time.
All right. Now here's the part.
Speaker 4 (09:02):
You are so disgusted at him for his part in
all of this. You're disgusted with the guy that was
with your garden tool friend, that had a baby with her,
that the moved on, got remarried, got.
Speaker 3 (09:16):
A baby by this new wife.
Speaker 4 (09:18):
But it's back sleeping with his ex who is the
garden too, had two miscarriages, met you at a restaurant,
sent a drink over you. Now you can't stand him.
Now you mad at him for being low down, and
you disgusted at him for his part in all this. Now,
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your husband had told you that you too concerned and
I should let it go. But now here you go
with this illogic that even Shirley knows ain't no good.
But as a wife and a mother, I don't like
to see an innocent woman being betrayed like this. Because
my friend is not only having sex with this man,
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and she has other men that she's involved.
Speaker 3 (10:02):
Okay, see right there, See what do that have to
do with anything.
Speaker 4 (10:07):
You're really mad at the guy for having an affair
on his wife and kids with your garden to friend.
If your friend wasn't a garden to, he couldn't have
sex with her. But you mad at him. You ain't
mad at her no more. But she's still your friend.
Like Shirley said, you know, I was reading somewhere somebody
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said one time, they said, describe your five closest associates
and friends described it. If you describe your five closest friends,
when you get through, they say, you have just described
yourself yourself, right, because when you go up, you pick
people to be your friends who you are similar with,
you have stuff in common with. Friends ain't like family,
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you just get your family. You actually get to pick
your friends. So now you've picked this woman with these
crazy ways, and now you really just trip it. Now
you're mad at her cause she had having sex with
this man and other men she's involved with and she
don't have and she has unprotected sex with a few
of them.
Speaker 3 (11:08):
Well, then we don't know who baby these is.
Speaker 4 (11:11):
You know these miscarriages and the ones we don't know
whose baby's ease is.
Speaker 3 (11:16):
That's the other problem we got.
Speaker 4 (11:18):
And I feel like you feel like the wife should
know what's going on, and I want to tell her anonymously.
What do you think about all this? Shirley told you
exactly right. You need to stay out there this first
of all? Can I say something here?
Speaker 3 (11:31):
You don't know?
Speaker 4 (11:33):
I said, all you got to do is stay out
the way, because I want her to know what's going on.
She will, and she might already have her suspicions. Don't
you think for one minute when he introduced this woman
to her to you at the restaurant, and then he
sent a drink over to you, you don't think he
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done have to answer this question a bunch of times
on the way home.
Speaker 3 (12:01):
Who is she? Where you know her? From? What you're
sending it her drink for?
Speaker 4 (12:08):
It's not your job to come flying into the rescue.
Speaker 3 (12:12):
Really, it's not your job.
Speaker 4 (12:16):
All this stuff happened for a reason, and stuff that
has to come out go everything, don't come out. Some
things go to raise because it had a reason and
a purpose for it.
Speaker 3 (12:29):
But it's not your job to bring it to light.
She grown she grown.
Speaker 2 (12:37):
Why is she still your friend? Though?
Speaker 3 (12:40):
Right?
Speaker 4 (12:41):
And if you think this woman, this man is having
that much unprotected sex with your friend, she got two miscadges.
Speaker 3 (12:50):
I can assure you this woman suspects something.
Speaker 2 (12:53):
And she's just telling all her business.
Speaker 3 (12:56):
Yeah, this whole lot, I ain't got no advice for.
Speaker 2 (12:59):
She moved from it Atlanta to Dell. I mean everything's
out there. Yeah. Stay I'll listen to your husband stay out.
Speaker 3 (13:07):
Pretty much everybody listening to this show know who this is.
Speaker 2 (13:10):
Yeah, he narrowed it down.
Speaker 3 (13:13):
Yeah, girl, Tan, you got her son? And didn't she more?
Did you hit his lead? Just about Tanya? All right?
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