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Letter, thanking of you. Subject. We go to the hotel,
but not to a room.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a forty four year old divorced
woman and I can't stop messing with my ex husband.
He and I just couldn't get along, so we started,
so he started cheating on me. I blame myself for
it because I was always so insecure that I nagged
him daily. He's married to another woman that he calls
his soulmate on Facebook, but he's sleeping with me every
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chance he gets. I'm not sure what exactly a soulmate is,
but we are perfect mates in the bedroom. I believe
that intimacy is a telltale sign of how a man
feels about you, and I know from how my ex
handles me that he's very much still in love with me.
I just need your opinion on what's been gone going
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on with us lately. He's been down on his luck
and we've been meeting up for sex in his car
because his new wife knows where I live and she's
got spies watching us. I saw her sister riding down
my street the other day, so we have to be careful.
We've been meeting up in a hotel parking lot to
have sex in his suv. The first time we met
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up there, he said he had a room for us,
but we got there too late and the hotel gave
it away. The second time, he said he was so
ready to have sex that he didn't have time to
check in and walk up to the room. By the
third time I met him at the hotel, I was
thinking that something is fishy.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
I get there.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
Earlier than our meeting time, and I walked in to
use the restroom. I saw him standing behind the front desk,
and I quickly ran back out. I had no idea
he was working at the hotel, but that really made
me wonder why we have sex in his car if
he has access to free rooms in the hotel. He
told me that it would create a scene and he
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doesn't need that. Why is he telling me that I'm
special to him but he's making love to me in
a car? Well, I mean he's making love to you
in a car. Because you're letting him make love to
you in a car, you know, why not save the money?
Speaker 4 (04:20):
Clearly you're not.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
Cool with doing it in the car, but you know
if you were, you wouldn't be writing Steve and I.
You know though, that your ex can't let the people
at work see what you guys are up to. You
do realize that he could lose his job. And not
only that, but this is the man that you divorced
because he was cheating on you, and now you're cheating
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with him.
Speaker 4 (04:44):
How this is really messed up? How does this work?
Speaker 1 (04:49):
You almost sound like you have a right to cheat
with him because you were married to him first. And
I know you said you blame yourself for nagging him
daily and you were insecure, but that's really no excuse
to cheat with him or.
Speaker 4 (05:01):
To let him do you in his car.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
I don't care how down on his luck he is,
and all of that you gotta stop allowing yourself to
be used in this way.
Speaker 4 (05:10):
You have to. As long as you go.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
Along with this crazy sex in the car stuff, that's
all it's gonna be. You're his side piece that he
does in the car period. That's what you are. He's
not leaving his new wife for you. He doesn't have
to because guess what, he can have you whenever he wants. So,
no matter what he says or how much you think
he still loves you, you're not important or special to
him at all.
Speaker 4 (05:32):
You're just the girl he does in the car.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Steve, Lady, we go to the hotel, but not a room.
I don't even see how you don't see what's happening
in this letter. It's just amazing to me. What's wrong
with you? If you write the letter, read the letter
carefully before you send it in to me and Shirley,
because that's what we're gonna do.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
Fine.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
You're a forty four year old divorce woman. I can't
stop messing with my He and I just couldn't get along,
so he started cheating on me.
Speaker 3 (06:05):
That's all it takes.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
I blame myself for it because I was always so
insecure that I nagged him daily. So now you've taken
on full responsibility for it. Skip that he cheated thing.
He cheated cause of you. So you just dumped all
this on yourself, and you know why, and you know why.
I know you got that from you got that from him.
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He told you you nagged him daily. He told you
he couldn't take it no more.
Speaker 4 (06:35):
Hang out, Mercy, I'll be back.
Speaker 3 (06:38):
I'm gonna go through this letter.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
Quick, and we'll have part two of Steve's response coming
up at twenty three minutes after the our Strawberry letters.
Subject for it today we go to a hotel, but
not through a room. We'll get back into it right
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fifty four hundred or Globelifradio dot com. All right, come on, Steve,
let's recap today's strawberry letter. The subject is we go
to a room. We go to a hotel, but not
to a room.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
Here's a forty four year old divorced woman who came
stop messing with her ex husband and she said, reason
is ex husband because they couldn't get along. They couldn't
get along, so he cheated on me. Then she said,
I blame myself for this because I nagged him daily.
So therefore he's married to another woman that he calls
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his soulmate on Facebook. Lady, the reason that you're saying
your man cheated is because you nagged him and the
red and you know where you got that from him,
because he convinced you of the narrative he was cheating anyway. See,
what you don't want to say is what you was
nagging him about was his lack of attention and never
paying attention to you and not being available and disappeared.
Speaker 3 (08:14):
He told you he did that because you was nagging.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
No, you were nagging because you were nagging about what
he was doing.
Speaker 3 (08:20):
You just didn't know what he was doing. Now he laid.
Speaker 2 (08:22):
All fifty on you and told you the reason he
was doing what he was doing because of what you
was doing, which was nagging that it's a trick and
you fail for it. He's married to another woman he
calls his soul made on Facebook, but he's sleeping with
me every chance he gets. I'm not sure what exactly
a soulmate is. Okay, then cool, okay, but listen to me. See,
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I want you to listen to yourself in this letter.
You don't know a lot of stuff, and what you
come to, conclusions you're coming to are all wrong. I
don't know what a soul maate is, but we are
perfect mates in the bedroom. I believe that intimacy is
a tailtale sign of how a man feels about you,
and I know how my ex handles me that he's
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very much still in.
Speaker 3 (09:06):
Love with me.
Speaker 2 (09:08):
I just need your opinion on what's going up with us,
Lady will Lately. That statement that you just made about
how a man makes.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
Love to use a telltale sign, No, it's not.
Speaker 2 (09:22):
And I ain't got nothing to do with being in
love with somebody because he can.
Speaker 3 (09:27):
Do it real good.
Speaker 2 (09:28):
A lot of dudes out here that can do it
real good, and a lot of women out here can
do it better.
Speaker 3 (09:34):
But that don't mean nobody in love. Where did you
get that from that? If he do me good, he
loved me, No, he don't.
Speaker 2 (09:43):
He do everybody the same way. He pretty good at Helen.
You cheated, He got a lot of practicing. I just
need your opinion on what's been going with us lately.
He's been down on his look and we've been meeting
up for sex in a car.
Speaker 3 (09:59):
Or that's what he told.
Speaker 2 (10:01):
Oh, so he needs you for a release. Oh okay,
you ain't never heard that before. I'm just down on
my luck and I miss you so much. So we've
been meeting up to have sex in the car because
his new wife knows where I live and she sends
spies to watch us.
Speaker 3 (10:22):
Wait a minute, now.
Speaker 2 (10:24):
That could be true, But you really think that's why
y'all having sex in the car. See, you keep inventing
all of these things that justify what's happening to you.
So you think y'all having sex in a car because
his wife got spies.
Speaker 3 (10:41):
And know where you live.
Speaker 2 (10:44):
We been eating him up in the parking lot to
have sex in his suv. First time we met there.
He had a room for us, but we got that
too late and the hotel gave it away. Second time,
he was so ready to have sex he didn't have
time to check you in and walk up to the room.
Speaker 3 (10:57):
By the third time.
Speaker 2 (10:58):
I meet him at the hotel, I was thinking and
some fishy. I got there earlier that our meeting time,
and I walked in to use the restroom. I saw
him standing behind the front desk, and I quickly ran
ran out, back, ran back out.
Speaker 3 (11:14):
I had no idea he was working at the hotel, but.
Speaker 2 (11:17):
That really made me wonder why we have sex in
the car if he has access to free rooms in
the hotel. Okay, are you really stupid? Okay, first of all,
he works at the hotel. The reason y'all can't go
to the room is because it is against company policy
for any hotel employee to enter into a guest room.
That's hotels around the country. I've been on tour since
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I was twenty seven years old. I met maids. Hello,
that can't come in that room, not after you meet him.
They't going there to clean up, but you can't. Me one,
then holler at him, and then she come back later on.
Come up your room.
Speaker 3 (11:57):
She gonna lose her job, right. I don't know how
I know that, but I'm just taking this information.
Speaker 2 (12:07):
You know, that was my first time trying to learn
to spend it anyway, that's the longest time.
Speaker 4 (12:15):
That's myother day anyway.
Speaker 3 (12:17):
I don't want to hear the teacher. It's so crazy.
Speaker 2 (12:22):
So now I'm sitting here going And the reason you
ain't going to lunch, and the reason you're not going
up to the room is cause he do you at
the same hotel on his break. He you're driving to
his job on his break to have sex. And that's
where y'all gonna have it.
Speaker 3 (12:44):
Now.
Speaker 2 (12:44):
He's already been. He cheated on you while you got
doing and he lying to you now and he ain't
down on his luck.
Speaker 3 (12:50):
He's working. He told me that it would create a scene,
and he don't need that.
Speaker 2 (12:56):
If you go up there, why is he telling me
that I'm a special to but he's making love to
me and a cop Because if he can tell you
you special to him and make you think you special,
but do you treat you like you ain't nothing? And
you'll accept that, just like you accepted him cheating on
you because you was nagging, but you was really nagging
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because what you didn't know he was already cheating. See
this whole letters met You've misdiagnosed everything.
Speaker 3 (13:26):
You crazy, all right?
Speaker 1 (13:28):
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