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Speaker 1 (00:04):
Come on, Uh huh, I sure will. Good morning, everybody.
Are you listening to the voice? Come on, dig me now,
one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Okay,
I got something for you today. I'm gonna have a
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conversation this morning about my understanding of grace now that
I've gotten older and I've come into a better understanding
of a lot of things I didn't know about when
I was younger. This is just my interpretation of grace.
Now once again, y'all listen to me. I ain't nobody's pastor,
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I ain't nobody's minister. So you know, I'm pretty sure
you can go to church and get a far more
extensive definition of one I'm giving you. I'm just talking
to people. You know. Grace is this thing that God
provides for us, and grace is just things that you
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get that's really undeserving, you know. I mean, I look
at my life as it is today and now, look,
I work hard and I have faith in God that
I do so things are going to happen in my life.
But the way my life is now, I don't don't.
I don't deserve all of this. I don't. I don't.
I don't look at it that way. I have been
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the beneficiary of God's grace. I have aligned myself in
a position to accept whatever grace God has for me,
and it will be far abundant and exceedingly in anything
you could think of. His grace supersedes anything you could
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possibly imagine. You know, the goals that I set, and
the aspirations that I shoot for, and the things that
I have on my dream I have the faith that
God will give it to me. But what He does
with grace, he gives you far more than that. He
gives you what He has for you, not what you
can see. You can't see all He has for you.
It's impossible. Who are you? How can you possibly imagine
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what he can imagine? How can you possibly think how
he can think? How can you possibly do what he
can do? How can it be that isn't a single
mind living or a collection of minds that could have
thought of Earth? What in your wildest imagination could have
made you think of Earth? The stars, the heavens, the oceans,
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the galaxy, the constellations? What in your mind? What in
any man's mind? We can point at it and analyze it,
but we show couldn't have thought of it. So come on, now,
I'm talking about lining yourself up with God's grace, which
he will give to you if you want some of
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it now. But now here's the thing about grace. It
can't be bought. If it could be bought, I'm telling you,
I would pull all the money I have and dump
it into grace, because, after discovering what it is, it's
this goodness that God shines on you simply as a
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reward of some type for His love for you and
for you attempting, for you attempting to do right, not
because you get it right. Because if He judged us
purely on how we are the right and wrong of it,
we would all be doomed, all of us, every last
one of us would be doomed because we all fall short,
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we all make mistakes, we all sin, we all get
it wrong from time to time. Nobody's perfect. Man. Now
I understand what my mother was saying about cleaning the house.
All I want is a little more grace. All I
need is a little more grace when the last time
you ask God for some grace. Now I'm not talking
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to you like I know everything. If you just benefit
from His grace, what you already have, But if you're
not aware of it, you don't know what's going on.
Become aware of grace, Get aware of the fact that
God does things for you simply because He loves you.
He does things for you that you don't even deserve. Somehow,
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you just wonder how you just got over when you
didn't even do the things to get over. Sometimes you
don't even know how you got that job you got
when you ain't even really do the things to get
your job. How you end up where you are all
the education you thought you went and got, and hey,
how you end up where you are today in a
much better position than your education could have ever gotten you.
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That's grace. How I get every place I am today.
I didn't plan this, Man. If I could have planned
my life the way it is, don't you know, I'd
have done it when I was living in that car,
if I knew how to do it. No, I've benefited
from his grace. I'm just a beneficiary of his grace,
of his goodness and his mercy. God's goodness is better
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than your goodness. God's goodness is better than your mother's goodness.
It's better than your wife's or your husband or your
Boo's goodness, God's goodness is different. His goodness, man covers
some stuff you can't even imagine. So why are you
trying to put your life together when the last time
you asked him for just a little bit of grace?
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When have you thought of your life in terms of
the grace that it has already benefited from?
Speaker 2 (05:42):
Have you ever done that?
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Man? Just thought about you know you hear songs like
my soul, look back and wonder how I got over?
That was grace. That's all I can call it. Now,
Like I said, you can go to church or somewherever
you want to, and ministers at the window at school
to teach this thing way better than me. I'm just
giving you from a layman standpoint, Man, have you thought
about his grace? Would you not bewall to be a
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beneficiary of his grace? Would it not? Certain?
Speaker 3 (06:08):
Now?
Speaker 1 (06:08):
Check this out. The better you try to do, the
more grace he'll give to you. Now that grace can't
be bought, Like I said, it's free. You can't purchase grace.
But the better you try to become the more the
more grace he gets to put your way. So, man,
just try why don't you just try to do better? Look, man,
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quit talking about it. I'm gonna start next week. I'm
gonna start at the new year, now you not, Yeah,
you do that every year ever at the new Year.
I wanna eat better at the new Year. I'm na.
I'm gonna go and get in here and the new year.
If you're gonna do it, you're gonna do it now. Man,
you're gonna do nothing. Stop trying do something. Do it,
Stop talking about it, do it now. The best way
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to benefit from his grace is starting action now, n
O W now, right now today, what you waiting on,
all you doing is delaying his opportunity to bless you.
You know, man, do you know how many times we
do that? We delay his opportunity to bless us by
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not starting now. If you gonna get healthy, why don't
you start now?
Speaker 3 (07:18):
Now.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
You're gonna trip a little bit because the holiday's coming,
but you ain't got to eat bad all the time.
You could start eating correct today you could. You could,
and then guess what, there could be some grace on
the end of that. I'm just giving you a little
cheap analogy. But do you feel what I'm saying to you?
Start thinking in terms of grace. What He has done
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for you and provided for you that you ain't even
see coming. That you know, you keep calling them blessings,
and I got that. A lot of it OUs all
it is. But man, have you thought about the stuff
that didn't happen to you you can't account for. For me,
that's been grace and I'm beneficiary of it. And that's
available to everybody that won't sung. Next time you talking
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to him, just check in with grace. See what that is.
That's that's better than money.
Speaker 4 (08:05):
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 1 (08:12):
Ladies and gentlemen, today is the day that the Lord
has made.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
Let us rejoice and be glad in it.
Speaker 1 (08:19):
Now listen for all of the critics out there that
have for some reason decided to judge me on my
level of faith, I do not care. I love the Lord,
and the Lord love me. I have proof of that.
I'm doing the best I can the way I can. Now,
you got another way to reach souls and help people
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out with their lives.
Speaker 2 (08:42):
Congratulations, do your thing. This is the way I'm doing it.
Speaker 1 (08:45):
I'm reminding people in the morning that it is not theirs.
It don't belong to us. It belongs to God. He
allowed us to be present in it. That's why they
call it the present, because He gave it to us free.
He woke us up. We ought to be grateful. It's
another opportunity, another chance, another shot to get it right.
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Come on, y'all, get your day started with the positive attitude.
It will affect your if you start with gratitude, affect
your attitude and pertains directly to your altitude. Come on, now,
lift him up, Raise him up, Yeah, and everybody go high.
Steve Harv, Martishaw, Sheldon Strawberry, Colinfreil, Mississippi, Monica Junior to
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come back kid and the legend that is nephew Tommy.
Speaker 2 (09:31):
I'm scared today.
Speaker 1 (09:32):
But junr.
Speaker 2 (09:34):
Okay, what is it? Okay?
Speaker 1 (09:37):
Do you feel team critical?
Speaker 2 (09:42):
You tend to get hurt? Yeah, you do.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
You feel the biggest st Yeah, I'm telling you right now,
your headsphones and listen. You are one of my largest
critics because you bring me more information about me and
you don't defend me.
Speaker 2 (09:56):
You don't help me. Next question.
Speaker 5 (09:58):
Okay, No, look over there at the the other ball
headed person on the show.
Speaker 6 (10:01):
Look at Tommy.
Speaker 7 (10:03):
Critic defend in the barber shop when they were down
there talking about it.
Speaker 6 (10:07):
You don't feel me either time. I know you ain't
feel me.
Speaker 7 (10:11):
I ain't been in the barber shopping folks talking about
you anytime somebody talking about you, I take something you.
But when he when you was down at the barber
shop and they were talking about.
Speaker 4 (10:18):
Truth, Tommy, that's not the truth.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
You know that's not the truth.
Speaker 7 (10:21):
What did you say at the barber shop when they
was in that time about it?
Speaker 2 (10:24):
Man? They been just talking about you, huh.
Speaker 5 (10:26):
I said, No, they don't talk about miss Harper like that.
I said, I didn't even come on. I said, Miss
Harvey is not the type person. But you though were
purpurchating everything that's on me though you already said it.
Speaker 1 (10:37):
No tell you what, Tommy. Tommy went behind the dude
in New York. They was finn to jump on me
outside this event, and Tommy went behind him with a chill.
He was gonna clan the clock. Now he had put
the dude behind me. He had he had swilling dude
behind me, but he know I had help. Tommy got
a chair and got behind him. So when he thought
he was gonna yoke me, he was finna be on
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though float. I was there with Tommy for that.
Speaker 2 (11:02):
Then me and.
Speaker 1 (11:03):
Tommy had the back out of this joint one night.
Speaker 6 (11:06):
We're not gonna have a good day to day then yeah.
Speaker 2 (11:09):
Well you know you ain't gonna have no good day.
I'm finna have a good day.
Speaker 1 (11:12):
I just told you, I know what I'm gonna talk about.
What Tommy did?
Speaker 6 (11:15):
I know?
Speaker 1 (11:16):
See, my life is filled with gratitude, which affects my attitude,
which is in direct correlation with my attitude. I'm gonna
have a great day today.
Speaker 6 (11:27):
I'm gonna tell everybody everything today.
Speaker 1 (11:30):
Oh you snitch it the curtain all day long.
Speaker 2 (11:35):
Okay, be careful now, be careful.
Speaker 4 (11:39):
All right? Wow, okay, what a way to start. But
here we go.
Speaker 8 (11:44):
Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour, we
will hear from the nephew as he runs that prank
back right after this.
Speaker 9 (11:51):
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Speaker 8 (12:46):
It is time now for the nephew to run that
brank back.
Speaker 4 (12:49):
What you got for is nept tdays, Shirley.
Speaker 7 (12:52):
I got Raymond in the closet, Raymond, all the faith
the cloud.
Speaker 1 (12:58):
Let's go get though.
Speaker 11 (13:00):
Hello, Hello, her? Who the can you hear me? You're
a badly What there this?
Speaker 12 (13:05):
Raymond?
Speaker 11 (13:06):
Now speak up? I can't hear you.
Speaker 12 (13:07):
Who this is? Raymond?
Speaker 11 (13:09):
Now speak up? I can't hear you. Who is this?
Speaker 1 (13:11):
Raymond?
Speaker 12 (13:12):
Raymond?
Speaker 11 (13:14):
Raymond for Ronda is my sister for Veranda?
Speaker 3 (13:18):
Brother?
Speaker 11 (13:19):
Yes, what's up? What's up?
Speaker 1 (13:20):
Man? What's up?
Speaker 12 (13:21):
Somebody be broken the house? They in the house right now.
Speaker 11 (13:25):
I'm in the hold on, holdo, holdo man, My bad.
Can't hear what you're saying? Somebody that what?
Speaker 12 (13:30):
Somebody them broken the house?
Speaker 3 (13:33):
And why the hell you whispering?
Speaker 11 (13:34):
Because they in the house right now, I'm wait a minute.
You're saying somebody has broken the house and they still
in there.
Speaker 12 (13:42):
Somebody them broke in the house. I'm in the house.
Speaker 11 (13:45):
Now, hold on, Wait a minute. You saying somebody that
broken to your house and they still in there?
Speaker 3 (13:51):
Yes, what are you doing?
Speaker 11 (13:53):
See nothing in there? Why you ain't called the police.
Speaker 12 (13:55):
I'm in the closet. I'm in the closet and I'm
trying to get somebody to.
Speaker 11 (14:00):
Hold on, hold on, I don't know what to do.
Now you're saying, somebody in the post in your house?
Right now?
Speaker 1 (14:11):
All this stuff?
Speaker 11 (14:12):
Okay? Where you live at? Where you live at?
Speaker 12 (14:15):
I'm on thirty sixth Street.
Speaker 11 (14:16):
Because I'm at thirty two and a half.
Speaker 3 (14:18):
You know what?
Speaker 11 (14:18):
Hold on after call it loss?
Speaker 13 (14:20):
Now?
Speaker 11 (14:20):
Wait wait wait, wait wait man, you know what what?
Speaker 12 (14:24):
Wait a minute. Don't got to please.
Speaker 11 (14:27):
You seen your in the hold somebody to kill you
and you talking about you don't want them arrested.
Speaker 12 (14:32):
We got some illegal stuff in the don't call nobody.
Speaker 11 (14:37):
Don't wait a minute, wait. Wait now you saying hold on,
you saying don't call it laws. You have some in
the house, don't because they got it.
Speaker 12 (14:47):
I that's illiqual in the house doing.
Speaker 11 (14:51):
Man, what do you got?
Speaker 3 (14:52):
No? Man, you know what?
Speaker 11 (14:56):
This is bad?
Speaker 3 (14:57):
Don you know what? You'll see?
Speaker 11 (15:00):
You know something there that's probably while they're in the house.
Now you just set your stuff in the house.
Speaker 1 (15:05):
Watch you in there and.
Speaker 11 (15:06):
There that's what. I guarantee you that what you what
you got in there? And you know what, Man, let
me tell you something. I'm gonna tell you the best
thing to do, even though the people in your house
right now you need to jumper. Let me call it. Man,
you need to let me call the law. I'm gonna
tell you right now you can get my dead.
Speaker 12 (15:28):
I'm gonna do that.
Speaker 11 (15:30):
I'm gonna put you know what, man, I'm gonna tell
you you don'll stay down there. I'm gonna tell you
that I get called a law. I'm gonna call the law.
Hold on, I get my wife to call it right now.
Speaker 1 (15:40):
Don't call it. Please don't call it because there's too
much illgual.
Speaker 14 (15:49):
Done.
Speaker 3 (15:52):
Man.
Speaker 11 (15:52):
But I'm gonna tell you something, Man, I can't do it.
Think don't for to go down there. I'm gonna tell
you something. I could those foods in the pretend. You
don't even call it law.
Speaker 3 (16:01):
You know what?
Speaker 11 (16:01):
Man looking here, Doc, I wanna be honest with you.
I ain't gonna go down now. I'm gonna tell you
right down now.
Speaker 1 (16:06):
You know what.
Speaker 11 (16:07):
The first thing I'm gonna tell you now now, I
ain't gonna take my down there. First of all, they
may be tapping my blind and I ain't got to
do with this. You're gonna get it. I get called
now one one they look and call them, but you
know what, You're finna.
Speaker 1 (16:24):
Get your kid down now, and they don't know who
you are.
Speaker 3 (16:27):
You know what.
Speaker 11 (16:28):
I ain't gonna stay on the phone with you so
they can find out. You know what, norse is dying?
Call law. I ain't getting that. I ain't man. You
must get I ain't forna get in that one. I'm gonna
tell you what you can do. I call a law.
I for they have my wife right now. You know what.
You may not like it now, but you appreciate me later,
because you know what, you forget your money.
Speaker 12 (16:47):
Wait a minute, just west, but I think they outside.
Speaker 11 (16:50):
I think man, you know this is come crazy. God,
you just set your up. I'm the ap for one's
sitting up the time about my calling boom. You gotta
keep you on in that closet. I'm gonna tell you
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right now you're fool. You walk out because i'mna tell
you not. They sure gonna kill your stupid man. You
know what. I ain't gonna lie to you. Man. The
only thing I can tell you, I'm called a law.
You finna go down, and I'm gonna tell you not.
I ain't going down with I don't know why you
really gonna call me unless you want some help, because
I'm gonna tell you right now, I ain't sing to
jempardize myself. No, my family, your I need to the
only thing I could do. I can help you out
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in one way. I'm called a law.
Speaker 3 (17:33):
Now.
Speaker 11 (17:33):
My wife gotta sell up phone. What you want me
to do? Get me much to be a fool?
Speaker 4 (17:38):
I'm not.
Speaker 11 (17:39):
I ain't going down. I ain't going you know what.
Speaker 3 (17:42):
Man?
Speaker 11 (17:42):
Look look, I can't get it in that And my
wife did not really call the police. I'm gonna kill
you right now. They finna come.
Speaker 12 (17:48):
Can you can you hear me?
Speaker 11 (17:51):
I can hear you shut shut up, shut up, you
shut your mouth right now.
Speaker 1 (17:58):
Can you hear me?
Speaker 11 (18:00):
Shut out? I don't know when heights. That's why they
don't shoot. Don't peek out the dope.
Speaker 12 (18:06):
Can I say something?
Speaker 11 (18:08):
Man, you need to shut your most.
Speaker 12 (18:11):
This his nephew Diamond from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
You know what, you just got pranked by?
Speaker 1 (18:16):
Man, y'all win there.
Speaker 11 (18:19):
You go by y'all some dirty.
Speaker 3 (18:29):
I do well?
Speaker 1 (18:30):
Man, No, you just got pranked by your boy.
Speaker 11 (18:33):
Wind down, man, I'm sweating like hey, y'all sit up
in his house with drawns old man, you shut up here,
I want to play with the man. Look at here, boy,
I'm sweating like.
Speaker 1 (18:45):
Here you why are you sweating?
Speaker 11 (18:47):
He was finna die because no one should have come
down to the house, that's for sure.
Speaker 1 (18:51):
I know you weren't coming to the house. I heard
it in your voice. I say, okay, you know what.
He ain't coming to get me.
Speaker 11 (18:59):
Man. I'm here right now. Man, I might need to
take off the word. Boy.
Speaker 7 (19:04):
Hey, let me ask you something, man, what is the
baddest radio show in the landk.
Speaker 11 (19:10):
Be nobody but the Steve Harvey's Morning Show with that
other that nephew Tommy is.
Speaker 1 (19:17):
Crazy Raymond in the closet.
Speaker 4 (19:19):
It never gets old though, it never gets sold because.
Speaker 7 (19:22):
You can see it, sir. You see him, Sittney in
his drawn. You see him trying to help you. See
all these.
Speaker 8 (19:28):
Thank you coming up next and is ask the clo
our chief love Officer. Steve Harvey's in the building to
answer your love questions.
Speaker 4 (19:36):
Right after this, do.
Speaker 1 (19:37):
You think Raymond was in the garage?
Speaker 8 (19:39):
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 10 (19:47):
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Marshall College Fund transforms lives through scholarships and career advancement opportunities.
Over a half a billion dollars has already gone back
to students who needed most. We also connect companies with
exceptional HBCU talent through workforce development initiatives. I am a
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proud HBCU graduate and my education helped me reach my
fullest potential. I'm continuing that tradition with my daughter, who
will be attending in HBCU this fall. Generational excellence continues.
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Join us in being part of the transformation applied, donate
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Speaker 8 (20:38):
In entertainment news, Kevin Hart said that he didn't offend
anyone at his Netflix roast. We'll talk about that, and
comedian Tony Hinchcliffe said he's not a racist and he
was just doing what comedians do at a roast. Also,
living legend, Miss Patty LaBelle said she is indeed just
that a legend. These stories are all coming up at
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the top of the hour, but right now it is
time to ask the c l O, our Chief Love Officer,
Steve Harvey.
Speaker 4 (21:08):
All right, this is from Rose in Chicago.
Speaker 8 (21:11):
Rose wrightes, my husband refused to sign for a package
that I bought.
Speaker 4 (21:17):
Don't you love this?
Speaker 3 (21:18):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (21:18):
My god?
Speaker 8 (21:19):
Yes, yes, all right. My husband refused to sign a
package that I bought. Rose says, little did he know
it was a watch for his birthday and he thought
by refusing to sign for it it would make me
stop shopping. I returned it and didn't get him a
gift at all. Was I wrong for that?
Speaker 1 (21:41):
Well? Can I call you Rose? Yes, Jail Look, Rose,
it was foul of your husband to not sign for
the package and so I think we've learned a lesson here. Now.
It's too bad you had to teach it to it
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on his birthday. But it just depends on how you
broke it to it. It would have been slick if
you just said, what did you do? Babe? You you
didn't sign for the package? Are you serious? Yeah, that'll
teach you not to shop. Maybe that was your watch
I bought you for your birthday guilt? Oh no? And
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then and then just said you can't get your money
back and they can't find the watch. Ah, you should
have played. You should have milked that all the way.
Our boy he'd have been.
Speaker 8 (22:42):
Yeah, and just what, I'm pretty sure you didn't do
that to you and all the husbands. It's not gonna
make her stop shop ever, that's not gonna be.
Speaker 1 (22:50):
You ain't gonna tell me nothing I've been gay.
Speaker 2 (22:54):
Matter of fact, I don't even mention it.
Speaker 4 (22:57):
Right, think of something else, because that's not gonna do it.
Speaker 1 (22:59):
Okay. I just Amazon box coming here and nine there
with her fish and stuff in it.
Speaker 8 (23:04):
You know, yeah, what are you talking about?
Speaker 4 (23:07):
All right?
Speaker 1 (23:08):
Moving on to bast pro shop socks. Just don't y'all
know that?
Speaker 4 (23:15):
Congratulations?
Speaker 1 (23:17):
Hold them and everything coming back and white.
Speaker 8 (23:19):
All right, all right, This is from Elvin and Tulsa.
Elvin writes, I've been with my girlfriend for three years.
She was ill recently, and she said that experience changed
her values in life. Lately, she won't shave, she won't
get her toes done, and she isn't wearing makeup.
Speaker 4 (23:37):
Yeah, she won't shave.
Speaker 8 (23:39):
So how do I tell her that I don't like
the quote unquote knew her.
Speaker 1 (23:44):
Well, maybe this is what you got to do, dog,
You got to research the illness.
Speaker 4 (23:49):
Huh, you gotta research the illness. Oh and what Yeah.
Speaker 1 (23:55):
Because if they don gave her like monts or something
like that, she ain't gonna do nothing.
Speaker 4 (24:00):
Now to live.
Speaker 1 (24:02):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (24:03):
See what I'm saying, she's terminal.
Speaker 1 (24:06):
You don't know. Hey, she dinna stop doing her handway Max,
She don't do her toes no more. Somebody said something
to her down at that doctor's office. She said it
changed her.
Speaker 4 (24:15):
She won't shave.
Speaker 8 (24:16):
Yeah, she said that this experience changed her values in life,
her value and which means she doesn't shave anymore.
Speaker 7 (24:27):
Yeah, I'm shaving her while she's sleep. I'm just telling
you that right now, I'm going to get I'm gonna
get all up on that. I'm gonna shave you while
you sleep. Now you're gonna wake up.
Speaker 1 (24:36):
But NICKD when I get what you don't want to
do is mess around and watch my values change. That's
what thats what you need to be careful. Now, everybody's
house sick.
Speaker 4 (24:45):
Now what will that consist of? If your value all sick?
Speaker 2 (24:49):
Because I like sha even, I like making, I like
doing your nails.
Speaker 1 (24:54):
So what I'm gonna do is I'm gonna go find
somebody that do shave, do their nails and like make up.
Speaker 2 (25:01):
That's what I'm gonna do. My bag is gonna get run.
Speaker 1 (25:05):
Okay, all right, ain't no problem.
Speaker 4 (25:08):
You change, I change.
Speaker 1 (25:10):
Okay, all you need to show me the paper that
say you really see the paper?
Speaker 4 (25:16):
The paper. We're just moving on.
Speaker 2 (25:19):
Report you brought out of here?
Speaker 4 (25:22):
Tim moving on to Drinka and.
Speaker 2 (25:25):
How long I got to stay by your side?
Speaker 4 (25:27):
Drinka and Philly rights.
Speaker 8 (25:28):
My husband and I had lunch with his best friend
and his wife. I wore leggings and a brallet with
the jacket. The best friend told his wife that she
needs an outfit like mine, and that hurt her feelings.
My husband blamed me because I look so good in
my outfit. How is that disrespectful? Disrespectful man's comment my fault.
Speaker 2 (25:50):
What's your husband is stupid?
Speaker 4 (25:54):
It's like a wear it outside?
Speaker 2 (25:58):
Would Your husband stupid?
Speaker 1 (26:01):
And he stupid? He shouldn't have said something. He shouldn't
have said nothing about your outfit. He should have kept
that to himself, and he show shouldn't have said it
to his wife. And then your husband sitting up here
now he kind of stupid because you drawing attention to
yourself and it made this woman feel bad. You got
this other man looking at you.
Speaker 2 (26:22):
See.
Speaker 1 (26:23):
So there's just two two insecure dudes that pleasure.
Speaker 2 (26:30):
I do like leggas and bronette stuff.
Speaker 4 (26:32):
I do like, yeah, just found out.
Speaker 7 (26:35):
Since I know what it is now, I've been liking that.
I've been liking that. I just didn't know what they conted.
I like leggers with a spoil code in her and
found your body suits they wearing.
Speaker 8 (26:49):
Now that just but you're not gonna just look paint
tell somebody else.
Speaker 1 (26:55):
I saw living taste your wife. It was a family
on family few and they all wore animal prints, and
all I remember was George Wallace's joke. George Wallace said, ladies,
if you've gone where an animal print, make sure that
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you are not bigger than the animal you want.
Speaker 4 (27:23):
It's horrible.
Speaker 1 (27:28):
Stars to Joe. George Wallace said, ladies, if you go
away animal print, make sure you are not bigger than
the animal you represent. Wall liar, He said, now you
just over here. Justice all right, we must have to
(27:50):
move on. We have to Okay, this is the last one.
Speaker 8 (27:54):
Latrelle from East Orange says, occasionally I have sex with
my son the preschool teacher. I want to keep it
cool because I don't want drama with my son's mom.
But the chick rubbed on me and winked when I
dropped my son off. I really love the sex, but
is it worth the risk?
Speaker 1 (28:14):
I know my baby going to the third grade. I
know that that's what you think. Or your baby can
your baby can do preschool twice. Ain't nobody gonna know that.
Don't even hurt Thank you, c l O. That ain't
nothing right.
Speaker 4 (28:26):
You can say you held him back so he was
sawing late. Come on, I want to.
Speaker 2 (28:33):
Putting squares in peace and the block. I was acing
all that stuff.
Speaker 9 (28:37):
You're listening, Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 8 (28:44):
In a radio interview yesterday, Kevin Hart addressed the backlash
that he's received after a joke and his roast went
viral for being in poor taste and offensive to the
family of George Floyd, who was publicly, of course we know,
murdered by a policeman in manute soda. Hart asked fans
to quote remove me from it. Kevin said, I didn't
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disrespect the family. He said that the joke was not
tasteful to our culture, but firmly defended himself and the
nature of comedy roasts. Kevin explained that the shock value
comedy is standard for a roast setting, noting that audiences
who watch these specials understand the context. Kevin also said
(29:26):
that he personally called former NBA star Stefan Jackson, who
was a close friend of George Floyd, to explain the
format of a roast and to smooth things over. So
here's the question, comedians on this show. Do you agree
with Kevin? Is he responsible for the joke or not?
Speaker 2 (29:44):
Here's the deal.
Speaker 1 (29:46):
I am a friend of Kevin Hartz, Yeah, love him.
I'm a supporter of his and I am his brother.
Here is the one thing that Kevin has to keep
in mind though, as Black people are the only race
of people who are responsible for the actions of each other.
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No other race is held to that accountability and that mark.
Now for the culture and the community, the joke was
deemed in poor taste and it was all messed up. Now,
I'll give you an example as to why the black
people have the right to feel that way. Do a
(30:30):
Charlie Kirk joke and see what you get from that side.
Just go do one. If you go do a Charlie
Kirk joke, but go say something about that Charlie Kirk's
death and see what happened to you and possibly your career.
Speaker 2 (30:48):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (30:49):
So that's what he has to keep in mind.
Speaker 8 (30:52):
The comedian Tony Hinchcliffe that made the joke the racist
joke at Kevin Hurt's special his roaster, directly responded to
racism accusations because people were calling him a racist and
all that, so he responded by declaring he is not
a racist. Following major backlash, he defended his use of
aggressive dark humor and refused to apologize, stating that he
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was doing what the f a roast is supposed to be.
Those were his words.
Speaker 7 (31:21):
Yeah right, you know, well, go ahead, Tom, let me
ask you this in defense to a certain extent from Kevin,
is Kevin over everybody's joke that gets up there and
and tells the joke.
Speaker 1 (31:35):
Of course not he's the reci but all those all
those jokes was.
Speaker 2 (31:39):
In the teleparte, all of them.
Speaker 8 (31:42):
So you're saying that to say you're saying that to
say he knew what was coming up next.
Speaker 4 (31:48):
He could read the teleprop know that.
Speaker 1 (31:50):
But they had writers for that roast. H yeah, there
were writers for that roast. And see that guy he
talking about, he not gonna apologize. See here's the problem
with that, saying what you're not gonna do. If you
tell a joke that offends a culture and you don't
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know how it offends the culture, but it offends them,
you ought to be smart enough to say, hey, look,
I didn't know it was.
Speaker 2 (32:19):
Going to be taking that way.
Speaker 1 (32:20):
I want to apologize to George Floyd's family and so
on and so forth. That's how you handle that. The
best way but to stand on it. And so I
ain't apologizing nobody because that's what the roast was. So
in other words, to hell with your community and what
your community feel or the family or Stephen Jackson or
anybody else.
Speaker 5 (32:43):
I want to ask you something up because you've been
doing this a long time. What is the protocol between
for a roast when it comes to comedians and the arts.
Speaker 1 (32:51):
Well, first of all, there ain't no rules in a roast.
It's just that our roast is different from their roast.
See in the Tom Brady roast, he issued the statement, y'all,
don't come up. He there talking about nothing about Robert Kraft,
you know, the whole massage calling all of that that
(33:12):
was off limits.
Speaker 6 (33:14):
And they said something. He stepped to him, Yeah.
Speaker 2 (33:16):
And he shut it down.
Speaker 1 (33:18):
And you notice not nobody said nothing about Kevin's personal life,
you know, to a free in his family or nothing
like that, except the joke Rock did about his dad. Yeah,
you know, but they stayed off the other stuff. So
you can, you can fix a roast now. But I've
I've only see I've only done one roast and it
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was the Magic Johnson roast, and it was at the.
Speaker 2 (33:44):
Kodak Theater.
Speaker 1 (33:47):
And it wasn't that bad. Were just talking about Magic,
you know, he couldn't talk on his talk show, you know,
stuff like no no Monique.
Speaker 2 (34:00):
God. It's justly funny roads are not for me.
Speaker 1 (34:04):
I don't enjoy that, but I'm not. Look, man, Kevin,
you know, I wish him through this here, but he's
taken a lot of flak because he forgot the one
thing that we as black people are responsible for the
actions of one another. That's the only thing he forgot.
And once you filter that end too, the equation, we
are held to a different standard than anybody else. It's
(34:27):
our responsibility, all right.
Speaker 8 (34:30):
Yeah, moving on at age eighty two, Patty LaBelle has
no interest in being modest. Okay, she's eighty two. She's
saying what she wants to say. In an interview with
CBS News, Miss Patty made it clear that the word
legend not only fits her, she's fully claiming it. Patty said, quote,
I love it. I should be called legend, legend, legend, legend. Yes,
(34:52):
I love it. I have earned it, all right. She
has eighteen studio albums, three live releases. You know, so, Yeah,
Patty Leabelle is a legend. And happy your birthday, belated,
Patty LaBelle.
Speaker 4 (35:05):
Okaiot coming up in.
Speaker 8 (35:09):
Twenty minutes after President Trump had a medical exam yesterday,
and he said what he always says, everything went perfectly.
Speaker 1 (35:16):
I can promise you we didn't. We saw no ankle.
I seen your ankles.
Speaker 9 (35:24):
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Speaker 8 (36:19):
President Trump had a medical and dental examination yesterday at
Walter Reed Medical Center that lasted about three hours. After
the visit, Trump declared that his exam quote, we can
all say it together, went what perfectly.
Speaker 4 (36:36):
He always said that amazing, no cavity right. He always
said that it was great blood pressure.
Speaker 1 (36:43):
Good.
Speaker 8 (36:43):
Now all that he's good, the healthiest human being on
the planet, and he said he was given a clean
bill of health. The visit comes as Trump approaches his
eightieth birthday on June fourteenth, making him the oldest person
to hold the presidency. Trump has been questioned about his
health a lot recently, and to those inquiries, the White
(37:04):
House previously disclosed that President Trump suffers from an age
related condition that causes mild swelling. We've all seen it
in his lower legs, right around about his ankles.
Speaker 4 (37:14):
We've seen the swollen ankle. I don't have it, all right,
what do you mean.
Speaker 1 (37:20):
What do you say I'm getting old? I don't have it.
Speaker 4 (37:23):
Yeah, okay, gotcha.
Speaker 8 (37:24):
Oh what about those dark bruises on his hands.
Speaker 4 (37:30):
Have you seen those bruises on his hands?
Speaker 3 (37:32):
Yeah?
Speaker 8 (37:33):
Now, the White House is saying that's caused from frequent handshaking.
That's what they're saying. Okay, I'm just telling you, that's
what they're saying, all right. And you know, sometimes when
he looks like he's real drowsy in public, sometimes it
looks like he's falling asleep or whatever. Well, the White
(37:54):
House is insisting that those are merely like Trump takeing
long blinks you know when when he's bored, you know,
during uninteresting presentations and stuff. So the bottom line is
the White House has excuses for everything, okay everything. The
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bruises on his hands, frequent hand shakes, the mild swelling
in his lower legs, that's just an age related condition.
And the long blinks. You know he's bored, you know,
when stuff is uninteresting interesting to him. It looks like
it's just long blinking. He's not asleep, though, so does
(38:38):
he look healthy to you? See what you think, Junior.
Speaker 5 (38:42):
No, I've said I've had the long blinks before. I
know that's a real condition. I've had that. Pastor will
costs for preaching, and we all blink that long.
Speaker 6 (38:50):
See, we all had it.
Speaker 10 (38:53):
Stevie, don't you shake a lot of hands and family
few when you meet the family man.
Speaker 2 (38:58):
I shake way more hands than he did.
Speaker 4 (39:01):
Let's see your hands because I'm bruises.
Speaker 1 (39:04):
Yeah, see the battie hands.
Speaker 2 (39:08):
Don't sit in the screen.
Speaker 4 (39:13):
Perfect health, all right?
Speaker 8 (39:14):
Coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour, we're
going to run down the list of the top.
Speaker 4 (39:19):
Ten hood movies of all time. Right, you're listening Harvey
Morning show. Baller Alert has compiled what they call an
undisputed list of the top ten hood movies of all time.
Speaker 6 (39:34):
Okay.
Speaker 8 (39:35):
The movies are celebrated for cultural impact, gritty realism, and
unforgettable performances.
Speaker 4 (39:42):
So uh, let's see if you agree.
Speaker 8 (39:43):
And Steve, we just want to know how many of
these movies you've even seen?
Speaker 4 (39:47):
Okay? Starting with number one?
Speaker 1 (39:51):
Who come on?
Speaker 4 (39:52):
Boys in the Hood? Ricke, Yes, Top ten hood movies
of all time? Number one, He's in the Hood. Yeah
you saw that one, Steve.
Speaker 1 (40:03):
No, I never saw it. You babies out the street? Yes?
Speaker 12 (40:07):
What you like?
Speaker 1 (40:12):
All right? My brother he lived here.
Speaker 8 (40:14):
Yeah, come on, I know you've seen this when Steve, Yeah,
come on, I know you've seen this, when Steve Menace
to Society. That's number two.
Speaker 1 (40:24):
You're talking about the one with you. You couldn't see
the movie because of the lighting.
Speaker 4 (40:28):
No, that was Belly, which is also in the list.
Speaker 1 (40:31):
Yeah, that was the worst lighting.
Speaker 4 (40:35):
It was. You didn't have a movie night.
Speaker 6 (40:41):
You've never seen you?
Speaker 8 (40:45):
Yeah, okay, This Minister Society was ninety three, nineteen ninety three. Okay,
this is a movie that I thought would be number
one the top ten movies Hood movie Jack.
Speaker 4 (41:05):
Okay, not yet Friday. That's not my sir.
Speaker 8 (41:08):
I thought Friday would be number one, but Friday was
made in nineteen ninety five.
Speaker 5 (41:13):
Hey, miss Parker, Yeah, you've never seen Friday, Steve, You've
never seen Steen.
Speaker 4 (41:19):
You have got to have seen Friday.
Speaker 7 (41:21):
You're gonna say he was working on Friday.
Speaker 4 (41:24):
If you haven't in the movie. You have got to
see Friday.
Speaker 2 (41:29):
Nineteen ninety five. Dogs, I was almost down, you know.
Speaker 5 (41:34):
You know Chris Tucker, how you did excuse.
Speaker 2 (41:40):
They told me they weren't looking for me in ninety five?
Speaker 4 (41:44):
All right, Nomber Cray.
Speaker 8 (41:48):
So good, Steve, you have got to make it a
point to see these movies. Number four starring Tupac Shakur Juice.
I know you saw that.
Speaker 4 (41:57):
You had seen Bishop. Yes, I lost his mind.
Speaker 1 (42:01):
Yes, I can't even tell you what it was about.
Speaker 4 (42:07):
It was so good. Okay. Number five Paid in Full,
Paid in full, Yeah, pay full Now. I think paid
and fools should be three.
Speaker 3 (42:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (42:16):
Yeah, the bank that and that's on the list that's
called set it all.
Speaker 8 (42:26):
Okay, here's one of my all time favorite movies. Number six.
Speaker 4 (42:29):
I love payding Ful New Jack City.
Speaker 8 (42:32):
Yes, New Jack City, okay, nineteen ninety one. Wesley Snipes
made him a star.
Speaker 1 (42:42):
Come on, Tommy. The only reason I saw that was
because I was homeless and I had got into a
c I was sitting there all day. I watched New
Jack City.
Speaker 4 (42:54):
That's my that's so good. All right? These are the
top ten hood time himbles on the booty.
Speaker 8 (43:01):
Number seven, your movie Steve Belly Belly saw Belly DMX No.
Number eight straight out of Compton twenty fifteen.
Speaker 2 (43:14):
Oh yeah that I saw that.
Speaker 8 (43:16):
Okay, all right, Now we're getting somewhere, all right. I
know you saw this number nine, Training Day.
Speaker 1 (43:27):
Come on, I want the greatest movies of all time.
Speaker 4 (43:30):
I don't know how it made it, but it's here.
Speaker 2 (43:35):
I sure saw that.
Speaker 4 (43:36):
I said the same thing, Why is Training Day on here?
Speaker 1 (43:43):
All right?
Speaker 8 (43:43):
But you saw it. That's the most important thing, all right.
Number ten, you saw this one.
Speaker 4 (43:48):
Set it off. Queen Latifa. I saw that, Jada Pink,
I saw.
Speaker 1 (43:53):
I saw the bottle of movies.
Speaker 4 (43:56):
M yeah, that's not so bad.
Speaker 2 (43:58):
But I saw three.
Speaker 4 (44:00):
Yeah you did?
Speaker 1 (44:01):
You suck? Wait, y'all, y'all ain't seen super Fly? What
I don't?
Speaker 8 (44:09):
That's the top ten. That's the top ten, all right,
according to Baller Alerts.
Speaker 4 (44:14):
You wait, do the right thing. Okay, I'm just saying
we can see.
Speaker 8 (44:19):
Coming up next, and is the Nephew and the prank
phone call for today right after this you're listening to
the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 4 (44:30):
Coming up at the top of the hour.
Speaker 8 (44:32):
It is my Strawberry letter for today and the subject
is He's growing on me. We'll get into that find
out what that's all about, okay, but first let's get
into today's prank phone call with nephew toall me.
Speaker 4 (44:45):
What you got for?
Speaker 1 (44:46):
Is neph y'all ready?
Speaker 2 (44:49):
We think?
Speaker 7 (44:49):
So?
Speaker 4 (44:50):
What you got ready for?
Speaker 7 (44:51):
Ignorance? Ready for all types of stupidity? Are you all ready?
Speaker 1 (44:56):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (44:56):
We're gonna get it whether we're ready or not, So
go ahead. Hey, oh we are.
Speaker 1 (45:01):
It's just the truth.
Speaker 7 (45:02):
Hey, okay, there's people like this stupidity in there. Come on,
all right, here it is. We're gonna go down to
the church and we're gonna repoll the pews.
Speaker 1 (45:14):
You know, yes we are. It's a it's an outstanding ballance.
Speaker 7 (45:19):
Hey hey hey, hey, hey, hey hey, they're gonna be
standing up Sunday. Then we finn come in here and
getting pew. All right, let's go get We're finna go
down here and repot these pew. We gotta get all
these at this church now they ain't paid the bill
on them. I'm sorry, let's go.
Speaker 3 (45:36):
I'm trying to reach a pastor, Pastor Wilkins.
Speaker 14 (45:40):
Yeah, this is reverend doctor Wilkins.
Speaker 3 (45:42):
You're the you're the pastor of Baptis Church, Am I right?
Speaker 14 (45:46):
Master's Church? That's correct? How can I help?
Speaker 3 (45:48):
Okay? My name is Daniel, and I'm calling from a
R c S which is a church supply, and we
have an outstanding bill here that we wanted to bring
to you all the tension for like twenty three thousand
dollars for your pews that has not been paid, so
we wanted to see.
Speaker 14 (46:08):
Not to cut you off.
Speaker 3 (46:10):
Yeah yeah, Daniel RCS. Yeah, church supply sir. That's this
is exactly what you guys got your pews.
Speaker 14 (46:18):
Okay, our standing bill for twenty three thousand. Well, first
of all, that's normally all our standing bills are handled
by our finance department. You know, you wouldn't to speak
to our treasurer and they would be able to help
you with.
Speaker 3 (46:31):
That evidently sure that this hasn't been taken care of
in this matter when it comes to these pews, because
like I stayed it before, you guys owed twenty three
thousand dollars on these pews, and I think this was
probably twelve to thirteen years ago, so maybe this was
something before you got there. But nevertheless, there's still an
outstanding billing right now. We're actually going to be repossessing
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these pews as of early seven o'clock Sunday morning, not.
Speaker 14 (46:57):
Far this Sunday morning. Now we have the Women's Day
missionary is here today and also Sunday we have like
our pick.
Speaker 3 (47:08):
You have a lot of things and you actually run
it off your schedule. To me, that's that's really not
my concern. And maybe your Women's Day or whatever is
gonna get y'all gonna do a standing up because right
now we're not going to do it.
Speaker 14 (47:19):
You're not understanding me. See did you say twelve or
thirteen years ago?
Speaker 3 (47:23):
Sure?
Speaker 14 (47:24):
Well, I've been the past here for ten years and
you know, you know, like that.
Speaker 3 (47:29):
Occurred before you got there. But nevertheless, the bill is
still outstanding and these cues need to be taken care of.
Now if y'all don't have the twenty three thousand dollars,
then I got to come pick these cues up Sunday morning. Sir,
we got well.
Speaker 11 (47:43):
I don't go over there.
Speaker 14 (47:44):
You're not hearing me. And first of all, this is
my private number. How did you get this number?
Speaker 3 (47:48):
Your your numbers here in the books as a contact?
Speaker 14 (47:51):
No, this is this is I only get us out
to very few people, and I know none of them
will will give our numbers. So that's that's an issue
right there. And second of all, if you're talking about
coming in our church Sunday morning to take our pews,
that's not something you really want to do, Sir.
Speaker 3 (48:06):
I have to do my job the same way you
get up on Sunday morning and you have to do yours.
I have to do mine. So my job is to
get these fews back, because you guys are twenty three
thousand dollars in the ribs.
Speaker 14 (48:17):
No cayling and tell you I ain't always been being
a preacher. Now you come to my church and you
test them pews, I'm gonna come out that proof fit.
Speaker 3 (48:27):
I'm not here to go to what you used to
be and what you are now. I'm nothing to go
back and forth with you on that the bottom line.
Speaker 14 (48:35):
Consequence, and you don't want to deal with Fige because
you know I, oh, hold on, hold on, hold on,
let me, let me calm down, because you know you
have to make me say some words that I've been
delivered from. Thank God, I'm going.
Speaker 3 (48:47):
To deliver them pews away from you on Sunday. Now.
I got to come and pick them pews up. That's
the bottom line. Do you have twenty three thousand Sunday morning?
Speaker 14 (48:56):
Twenty three thousands? Understand that's not the issue. The issue
is you have no business calling me on my personal phone.
I'm in my METI cration time right now, trying to
get consecrated for you know, my Mexic that after deliver
later this afternoon, so we need all of our funers.
Speaker 3 (49:11):
Okay, well, let me ask you something, sir. Do you
have the twenty three thousand dollars that you can give
me Sunday morning and then you can continue whatever it
is you have going on that day Other than that,
I'm gonna have to take them culles.
Speaker 14 (49:23):
I got to call me, betweenty dollars. If you're not listening,
sign that ain't my bill. I ain't paying it. You
ain't touching my cues.
Speaker 3 (49:32):
I'm not gonna continue to go. Okay, listen, I'm trying
to respect what's fast will trying to respect you.
Speaker 14 (49:38):
First remend, doctor Wilkins. I'd appreciate it if you call
me in my name, Reverend doctor Wilkins.
Speaker 3 (49:44):
Okay, Reverend doctor Wilkins. Now, first of all, I'm combing
up there Sunday. Now, I'm hoping I only have to
lay hands on these cues. Now I gotta lay hands
on something else that I got to do what I
got to feel.
Speaker 14 (49:58):
You can come on up here. You said it on
the property. That's cool, but you touch them pills. I
got some lawyers in here. They can take that Jesus
coade off. They can stay down. They can get with you, partner.
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 11 (50:09):
You know what they they do.
Speaker 14 (50:12):
I walk through the valley shadow of Death. I will
see no evil. I ain't got no problem work.
Speaker 3 (50:17):
Wait wait wait wait, wait, wait wait.
Speaker 14 (50:19):
Wait wait, you talking about coming to me and to
my church because my cluse.
Speaker 3 (50:23):
I'm gonna do what I got to do. Man, Then y'all,
I'm gonna do what.
Speaker 14 (50:27):
I gotta do in the name of Jenius A many
many up, stand up the whole service.
Speaker 11 (50:33):
Now, what which one do you want?
Speaker 14 (50:35):
You want to have it?
Speaker 3 (50:37):
I got I got something else. I want to tell you.
You listen to me, past listening?
Speaker 14 (50:40):
If you ain't saying nothing sign.
Speaker 3 (50:42):
Is you listening what you say to me? I've got
to say this to you. His nephew Tommy from the
Steve Hobby Morning Show. You just got pranked by your
entire deacon.
Speaker 11 (50:53):
Boy who what?
Speaker 3 (50:55):
Who?
Speaker 11 (50:58):
Man Wisher?
Speaker 3 (51:00):
This is nephew Tommy Man from the Steve Barby Morning Show.
Your deacon boyd got me the plank phone called you. Boy.
Speaker 14 (51:07):
I can't believe this, boy, you almost made me a
little my religious sign.
Speaker 13 (51:11):
In there?
Speaker 4 (51:12):
Man?
Speaker 3 (51:12):
You hung in there?
Speaker 11 (51:13):
Pastor, which one of them ones a deacon Glover?
Speaker 3 (51:17):
Okay, okay, okay.
Speaker 14 (51:19):
I've got some things I got to talk to good
level about. You know, I would wonder how you got
on personal cell phone?
Speaker 3 (51:25):
Um anyway, man, so well, I'm glad I was able
to put a lamp on your face today.
Speaker 14 (51:29):
Oh man, I'm hot.
Speaker 3 (51:34):
I gotta ask you, man, pastor, what is the baddest
radio show in the land.
Speaker 14 (51:39):
Steve Harley Morning Show. Hey, listen, let me tell you this.
Keep doing what he's doing the first minute in the show. Man,
I love that, Okay, I really loved that, and really
it really blessed to the people.
Speaker 3 (51:51):
Really appreciate that.
Speaker 1 (51:52):
Man, it really will that goes.
Speaker 7 (51:53):
Out there and all of the wonderful churches out there.
I just want to send that out there to y'all
as we repulled the pew right the fact, listen, if
you want to prank your pastor, go in there on
sad and take all them pews out and let him
come in there Sunday morning and ain't nothing that.
Speaker 1 (52:09):
Ain't nothing there, just a big empty space.
Speaker 7 (52:12):
You know, we'll have we'll leave his podium, but but
just you know, but big empty space and congregation just standing.
Speaker 1 (52:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (52:19):
I like that.
Speaker 1 (52:22):
Standing room only church. What y'all think about that?
Speaker 7 (52:25):
No not, Ain't nobody falling asleep, ain't nobody leaning on nobody,
just you standing, stay standing, as dog Wallers say, stay standing. Yes, well,
there you have it. Haddesburg coming your way. Take the
pews out, what.
Speaker 1 (52:53):
Listen?
Speaker 2 (52:54):
Tell you to open his eyes?
Speaker 6 (52:56):
What are you about?
Speaker 1 (52:59):
Had his listen? Hadedburg. I will be there.
Speaker 7 (53:04):
In July at the Saga theat all right, then Hattenburg, Mississippi,
and tickets off sale right now. All right, This is
the Nephew Tommy All White House Party Comedy show. Thank
You dressing all White You White ready quent to white
Sumble Lily White.
Speaker 8 (53:20):
All right Nessie, thank you. Coming up next my Strawberry letter.
The subject is the subject is.
Speaker 4 (53:27):
He is growing on me. We'll get into that right
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We got it for you here. It is Strawberry.
Speaker 8 (54:51):
Let us all right, nephew, thank you. Subject he's growing
on me. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a fifty eight year
old single woman and never married, and I don't have
any children. I've been engaged twice, but I don't believe
in collecting red flags, so I luckily got out of
the relationships in time. Because right now, one of the
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guys is on his third marriage and the other one
is married and he and his wife are swingers after them.
I am very intentional about who I date, and I
am brutally honest with my partners. This new guy that
I met on a blind date is handsome and we
have great conversation, but he lives in a one bedroom
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apartment with a big, shaggy dog. At my age, they
say that I should lower my standards, but this man
had me worried when I met him. Our mutual friend
hooked us up, and she checks in with me from
time to time to see how things are going.
Speaker 4 (55:50):
About a week ago, we were chatting and I told
her that the man was growing on me.
Speaker 8 (55:55):
Days later, the man's attitude changed and I noticed a
shift in his personality. I eventually confronted him about how
he was acting, and he said he was offended that
I said he's growing on me.
Speaker 4 (56:08):
I don't think what I said was bad at all.
Speaker 8 (56:10):
And I see it to our and I said it
to our mutual and I said it to our mutual
friend to keep her out of our business. Well, he
didn't like it one bit, and he said he was
going to give me time to think about what I said.
I defended what I said, and he hung up on me.
It's been a few days and I miss him so much.
I want him to come to his senses and come
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back to me. But what if he doesn't. Is this
maybe God's way of telling me he's not the one
for me. Girl, Send that man a thank you note
and just keep it moving. I don't think he's the one.
You said you don't collect red flags, and this is
a colossal red flag with this guy.
Speaker 4 (56:50):
You felt it when you first met him.
Speaker 8 (56:51):
You didn't like the fact that he lives in a
one bedroom apartment with a big, shaggy dog, but you
were able to let that go and still date him.
He got me when you told your friend that he
was growing on you, which was an honest response from you,
and the way you said to keep your friend out
of your business.
Speaker 1 (57:09):
He didn't like that.
Speaker 8 (57:10):
He didn't like you said it at all, that she
said it at all, but instead of talking to you
about it, coming to you about it, he got offended.
Speaker 4 (57:18):
Now he's just being rude. He hung up on you.
Speaker 8 (57:21):
He goes to you red flag, red flag, red flag.
Remember you said you don't believe in collecting red flags,
and I say, don't do this. He will act the
same way if you guys get married, because this is
who he is.
Speaker 1 (57:37):
Steve Well, Shirley, I see a couple of things in
this letter to this lady's kind of a bit of contradictory.
She's leaving out some stuff and I found it okay,
I found it very quick agree with that. I'm a
fifty eight year old single woman, never married, and I
don't have any children. I've been engaged twice, but I
don't believe in collecting red flags. You don't believe in
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collecting relationships either, because fifty eight, never been married, no kids.
All right, cool, Then that's what you do, you know,
that's what that's what you you're really good at being single,
and it's probably why you're still single because that's what
you're good at. I got out of the relationships in
time because right now, one of the guys is on
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his third marriage. Well that don't mean it wouldn't have
worked with you. If he was, he could have still
married you if you were the right one, you know.
And the other one is married and he and his
wife is swingers. Well you know, you know what, you
didn't want to sign up for that, But he ain't
asked you to be no swinger. You just whatever, y'all
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broke up. Now he when done something else?
Speaker 2 (58:43):
What they got to do with you though?
Speaker 8 (58:46):
You know?
Speaker 1 (58:48):
After them, I'm very intentional about who I date, and
I'm brutally honest.
Speaker 2 (58:52):
With my partners.
Speaker 1 (58:53):
Here we go brutally honest that's why you ain't got nobody. Now,
I done told y'all about this honesty. You have got
to lie if you want to have a relationship. Here's
a perfect example for it right here. If you don't
learn to lie technically in particular moments, you cannot maintain
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a relationship. You just can't. And here it is proof.
And guess what she says. I'm very intentional about who
I date, and I'm brutally honest with my partner. See
all that right there, And now I guess what. She
ain't got no partner as she fifty eight and ain't
got no kids. You know why because she don't lie.
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She is brutally honest. And that's what you get. Nine
and the nine nags? Are you for real?
Speaker 4 (59:43):
Right now?
Speaker 1 (59:44):
I told you I told her all this truth. Y'all
running your mouthphone. The new guy that I met on
a blind date is handsome and we have great conversation.
But he lives in a one bedroom apartment with a
big shaggy dog. Now I can tell you one thing
for the show. His house stink that big shaggy dog.
Them shaggy dogs, you can't wash them good. They carrying
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dogs are not the best smelling creatures on earth anyway.
Speaker 2 (01:00:13):
So his house stinks.
Speaker 1 (01:00:16):
At my age, they say I should lower my standards,
but this man had me worried when I met him.
Our mutual friend hooked us up, as she checks in
with me from time to time. See time going about
a week ago we was chatting. I told her the
man was growing on me. A few days later, the
man's attitude change. I noticed a shift in his personality,
(01:00:40):
so I confronted him about he was acting, and he
said he was offended that I said he was growing
on me. When we come back, we're gonna dig into
that statement. Why is he growing on me? Offended this man?
Speaker 8 (01:00:57):
Okay, all right, all right, we'll have part two of
your responds coming up. Steve at twenty three minutes after
the hour, Today's Strawberry Letters subject is.
Speaker 4 (01:01:08):
We're going to talk about it when we come back.
He's growing on me.
Speaker 8 (01:01:12):
He's growing one, he's growing little meal.
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We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening
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Speaker 8 (01:02:14):
All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.
The subject is He's growing on me.
Speaker 1 (01:02:20):
See this lady right here who wants to blame everybody
but herself. Is something wrong with her? She's fifty eight
years old, single woman, never been married and don't have
any kids, and I've been engaged twice. But I don't
believe in collecting red flags. I told you all that
earlier to break she don't believe in collecting relationships either,
because this woman is really good at being single and
(01:02:42):
maybe that's just her lot in life. She's gonna be
single because she's good at that. I got so, but
I luckily I got out the relationships because right now
one of them guys on his third marriage, and the
other guy he married in him and his wife and
swing us.
Speaker 2 (01:02:58):
What that got to do with you? Nothing?
Speaker 1 (01:03:02):
And I'm very intentional after that about who I date,
and I am brutally honest.
Speaker 2 (01:03:07):
With my partners.
Speaker 1 (01:03:09):
This is why she ain't got nobody right now, because
she is brutally honest with her partners.
Speaker 2 (01:03:16):
I done told you all about this being honest all
the time.
Speaker 1 (01:03:20):
I tell you, if you.
Speaker 13 (01:03:21):
Don't learn how to specifically lie, wow, it's gotta be
in specific places now, and it's got to have specific purpose.
Speaker 2 (01:03:33):
You've got to know when to lie.
Speaker 1 (01:03:34):
But I'm gonna give you a chance because I'm gonna
show you what happened when you brutally honest. First year,
the new guy I met on a blind, davy handsomer.
We had a great conversation, but he lives in the
one bedroom apartment with a big shaggy doll. Now keep
in mind big shaggy dog. All right. At my age,
they say I should lower my stand up. But this
(01:03:55):
man had me worried when I'm met him. I mut
your friend hooked us up, checked on me, see how
things was going. About a week ago, we was chatting
and I told him, I told her to keep us
out our business, that the man was growing on me. Well,
days later, the man's attitude change. Here were going to
watch this right here. I noticed the shift in his personality.
(01:04:17):
I eventually confronted him. Here we go confronted. She's confrontational
and she's brutally honest. And watched this right here, and
I noticed the shifting. I eventually confronted him about how
he was acting, and he said he was offended that
I said he was growing on me. I don't think
I said that bad was all that bad? Well it
probably was, why because see you didn't just tell me.
(01:04:40):
You didn't just well what you mean by you ain't
growing on me? Well, you know, at first I didn't
like you, you know, because you had this little tiny
one bell he would go with this brutal honesty. I
didn't like you at first because he before I first
met you had this little, tiny little apartment and that
big dog rocking around in your house. Stink. She said that, Yeah,
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I'm brutally honest, and you know, and your house was
stinking at all this here and every now and then
when we go out, some of your clothes. Your dog
must sleep in the closet over the body, claws at
the sumthing cause you smell like a wet dog sometime
when we go out.
Speaker 2 (01:05:16):
And I'm just being brutally honest.
Speaker 1 (01:05:19):
So then I said, well, it's growing on me, because
now you know, I done got used to the dog
and then got the used to you and your house
and hide smell. And you know, you walking out smelling
like your house. That's why we always walk around the
block for we go in the restaurant, so you can
add out a little bit.
Speaker 4 (01:05:39):
She told him that I'm brutally honest.
Speaker 1 (01:05:42):
I'm brutally honest, which is why you fifty eight years
old and it ain't got nobody.
Speaker 4 (01:05:48):
Yeah, they're not gonna make it, yeah, because.
Speaker 2 (01:05:51):
She brutally honest.
Speaker 1 (01:05:53):
And so then our mutual friend then he come to
he got an attitude, and I eventually confronted him, and
then he said he was offended that I said he
was growing on me. I don't think that was that
bad at all. I said to our mutual friend, keep
it well. He didn't like it. One bit, and he
said he was gonna give me some time to think
about what I said. Why I got to think about
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what I said. I was just being brutally honest. Now,
Sureley asked me a question that you think the man
would want to know, and I'll show.
Speaker 4 (01:06:26):
You how she was being honest that the man would
want to know.
Speaker 2 (01:06:29):
Yeah, the man want to know.
Speaker 4 (01:06:31):
Oh okay, So what is it about my one bedroom apartment?
I thought it was nice. You like my furniture.
Speaker 1 (01:06:38):
It's just tiny, baby, it's tiny. I didn't know it
was apartment. That's not a tiny house.
Speaker 4 (01:06:47):
Well what about my car?
Speaker 13 (01:06:48):
My car?
Speaker 9 (01:06:48):
Is?
Speaker 4 (01:06:49):
I have a nice car?
Speaker 1 (01:06:50):
You like my car?
Speaker 4 (01:06:51):
I mean it's a little old, but.
Speaker 2 (01:06:53):
It's very old in it? You could the dog been
in it.
Speaker 4 (01:06:57):
Well, I gotta take the dog out to the park
and stuff.
Speaker 1 (01:07:00):
Yeah, but y'all let that dog walk, because then it's
enough that your house smelled like a dog and your
clothes is smelling like a dog. Now I got in
here with this dress. Now, that's why we go walk
around the block before we go and eat restaurants. So
we can't all be in that smelling like this big
shaggy dog.
Speaker 8 (01:07:16):
Well, how about we spend a romantic evening at my
you know, my apartment.
Speaker 1 (01:07:21):
Waymouth. Wait now, it's we're not gonna be able to
get romantic now, not in here with all this going on,
the dog walking around, ball and this sitting where I
want to sit.
Speaker 2 (01:07:38):
For I tried it one time, then a dog he
all out at the door.
Speaker 8 (01:07:43):
See I don't like all that. Yeah, I was hoping
you would sleepover, you know, and we wake up the
next morning.
Speaker 2 (01:07:49):
That's why I get up because I can't stay in that,
you know, I got.
Speaker 1 (01:07:52):
You're thinking about getting another dog? Yeah, and I was
gonna call the shelter.
Speaker 8 (01:07:57):
Leave your comments on today's Strawberry Your Dog under on Facebook, Steve,
I'm just being honest, and check it out on the
Strawberry Letter podcast on the free iHeartRadio app.
Speaker 4 (01:08:11):
Now coming up next it is Junior with the sports updates.
Speaker 2 (01:08:17):
That doll of what you will.
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You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. An education
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Fund transforms lives through scholarships and career advancement opportunities. Over
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(01:08:42):
HBCU talent through workforce development initiatives. I am a proud
HBCU graduate, and my education helped me reach my fullest potential.
I'm continuing that tradition with my daughter, who will be
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us in being part of the transformation applied, donate or
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Speaker 4 (01:09:14):
It's time now for junior and sports talk. What you got, Junior, Well,
you know.
Speaker 5 (01:09:20):
The Knicks are already in the finals and they're waiting
on their other opponent. And last night Oklahoma City beat
the San Antonio Spurs one twenty seven to one fourteen
as they take a three to two lead.
Speaker 1 (01:09:32):
What's the difference in the way they're playing now, Junior.
Speaker 6 (01:09:35):
There's a lot of threes. It ain't a it's not
a mid game. Ain't no low game no more. Ain't
nobody in the low post, no more posting up.
Speaker 1 (01:09:42):
Dang big guy from San Antonio. He in the paints.
Speaker 5 (01:09:45):
Real victim willman Yaller can shoot from half court. This
is true, he's seventy five.
Speaker 1 (01:09:54):
Because they read all the other rafters. They lose it.
Speaker 5 (01:10:00):
But you know, you remember the game when it was different,
when everybody was down there banging and just you know,
playing hard in the low post.
Speaker 1 (01:10:09):
There's no more low post players, no more well.
Speaker 2 (01:10:11):
Look, it's some it's some great basketball players in the
league today.
Speaker 1 (01:10:14):
It really is some superstar cats man, Uh, some of
them because the game has changed. There's no more hand checking.
The three point line is alive and well, uh, they
files become flagrant so easily. There's no low post players
(01:10:35):
because everybody wants some makeup. Three used to watch the
teams on a fast break. They all run and spread
the court to the three point line. I've seen dudes
take it all the way to the rack, be wide open.
I'm thinking dunk layup. They kick it on back out
to a dude that miss it. That's it's hard to watch.
Speaker 4 (01:10:53):
Who was it.
Speaker 5 (01:10:54):
Who was one of your favorite low post low post
players you like to watch play the game?
Speaker 1 (01:10:58):
Who is Adrian Danley, Moved Malone, Kareem Jabbar, Shack Diesel
are keen to dream olige you on? You know it's
people that you could throw the ball in there and
watch the show. Jack, Kevin McHale, Parish, Rick mahon alone,
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cal Malone. He was rough male man, Charles over boy
okay clean with to John, Hey we call.
Speaker 4 (01:11:35):
You should see my real Housewives of Atlanta.
Speaker 2 (01:11:38):
That's all of them scared of him.
Speaker 1 (01:11:40):
All of them scared really, all.
Speaker 4 (01:11:43):
Of them is scaredy and he cares less.
Speaker 2 (01:11:49):
Hated. Told a couple of shut up and they got
straight quiet.
Speaker 1 (01:11:53):
He will slap you.
Speaker 4 (01:11:59):
An thank you.
Speaker 8 (01:12:02):
Coming up at the top of the hour, a wife
is being tracked by her husband and she wants to
know why. We'll get into it right after this. You're
listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. This is from
Valencia and Fayetteville. Valencia says, I'm in a run club
and we meet up at five thirty a m.
Speaker 4 (01:12:23):
Three days a week.
Speaker 8 (01:12:24):
Yesterday I found out that my husband has a tracker
on my phone and one on my car. He has
never questioned me about the run club or the time
of morning, or asked who's all in my run club
or nothing else. When I told him I know about
the trackers, he said he did it for my protection.
I think he's lying, because why didn't he just tell
me that he's concerned about me. What's up with the
(01:12:47):
lies and mistrust?
Speaker 2 (01:12:49):
Well, it's not a lie.
Speaker 1 (01:12:51):
It ain't no lie. He put a track on your car.
If you ask me why, he said, it's for your protection.
Speaker 8 (01:12:57):
She's mad because he didn't tell her he put the
track her on there, she said, So that's why he's man.
Speaker 1 (01:13:08):
Well, okay, okay, take it off.
Speaker 2 (01:13:14):
Yeah, just take it off. Go where you want to go.
Speaker 4 (01:13:19):
Wait a minute, just tell her.
Speaker 8 (01:13:23):
Yeah, why didn't he just say, hey, baby, I'm concerned,
so I'm gonna put a tracker on your car so
i'll know where you are.
Speaker 4 (01:13:29):
Why didn't you just say that because that's the truth.
Speaker 1 (01:13:34):
Yeah? Why would he tell the truth?
Speaker 4 (01:13:36):
Though, But that's nothing to lie about. What do you
have to lie about when you don't.
Speaker 9 (01:13:46):
Have to.
Speaker 1 (01:13:49):
You'll miss where did he lie? Tell me where he lies?
She found out about it and said, did you put
a track on my car? He said, yeah, to protect you?
Uh huh m hm, saying it was sneaky from the beginning. Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 8 (01:14:05):
And did he do it to protect her or to
because he doesn't trust her to follow her?
Speaker 1 (01:14:10):
Well, listen to me, it's on that for your protection.
Speaker 2 (01:14:13):
That's what he said.
Speaker 1 (01:14:14):
Now if you want to add in to do he
trusts me, go ahead, feel free.
Speaker 4 (01:14:18):
Well that's what what she's asking. What's up with the
lies and the mistrust?
Speaker 1 (01:14:22):
It ain't no lies, don't.
Speaker 4 (01:14:25):
But that's what she thinks. Didn't tell a lie because.
Speaker 2 (01:14:29):
I got to track a detective. But but we're not
going to talk about that.
Speaker 1 (01:14:32):
Go ahead, Oh we can't tell he didn't tell her
he put a tracker on the car, right, Yeah, that's
not a lie. Yeah, that's just you ain't told. And
the reason he didn't tell it because now look at
the conversation they had.
Speaker 10 (01:14:48):
Exactly information that's not that's that's a sentible misonception.
Speaker 4 (01:14:55):
Yeah, isn't that part of it? Y like color?
Speaker 1 (01:15:02):
Don't you have three sixty five?
Speaker 4 (01:15:04):
What is all that for life three sixty.
Speaker 2 (01:15:07):
When you got that on everybody at your house?
Speaker 4 (01:15:10):
No, but they know you told them right.
Speaker 8 (01:15:14):
But you told them right, You told them right, Carla.
That's the point you told him right.
Speaker 2 (01:15:22):
That family got locators on each other's phone.
Speaker 10 (01:15:25):
We have locators on the phone, and we have life
three sixties. So three sixty will say where you're going
at all times in the phone. You will look at
the app.
Speaker 1 (01:15:34):
Yeah, we need to have one eighty.
Speaker 3 (01:15:39):
Like what.
Speaker 4 (01:15:44):
Geometry.
Speaker 2 (01:15:46):
All you gotta do is call me. I'll tell you
where I am.
Speaker 1 (01:15:50):
But that's all about my man.
Speaker 4 (01:15:51):
That tells the truth.
Speaker 2 (01:15:53):
Yeah, but you know my wife and go look for
me at night.
Speaker 4 (01:15:56):
I'm a home yeah exactly.
Speaker 1 (01:15:58):
Yeah, yeah, you know here, I ain't got look man,
I learned and.
Speaker 4 (01:16:02):
There done that. Yeah, boy, is my wife looking for me.
Speaker 1 (01:16:07):
I'm laying up in there with the remote and throw.
Speaker 6 (01:16:11):
My husband on this couch.
Speaker 2 (01:16:14):
Wow, you don't got to worry about me. I'm asleep
in one of these chairs.
Speaker 4 (01:16:17):
Oh yeah, that's fun.
Speaker 2 (01:16:21):
I like my life beautiful.
Speaker 4 (01:16:23):
Uh huh.
Speaker 1 (01:16:25):
Chicken waves and TV.
Speaker 8 (01:16:29):
Say lemon pepper or buffalo, and flats gotta be flats
have to be flat. Uh huh. All right, anything, No,
he just he doesn't no, no because no, because he
doesn't think he lied or anything.
Speaker 1 (01:16:50):
All right, Thanks you calling everybody. Hey, we'll be right
back with more to Steve Hallmore.
Speaker 4 (01:16:57):
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 8 (01:17:01):
Here's a quick question from Reddit guys. A woman wrote, quote,
my fiance and I were spending time with an old,
close female friend of his. He noticed she was cold
and offered his jacket to her. She wore his jacket
for the rest of the evening. The woman wants to
know if she should be upset with her fiance for
being a gentleman.
Speaker 4 (01:17:21):
That's her question. Her fiance was just being a gentleman.
Should she be upset with him? He didn't want the word.
Speaker 2 (01:17:26):
Well, let me ask you a question for the fiance
the lady, was you cold?
Speaker 4 (01:17:32):
Well, she didn't say no, It was the fact problem.
She didn't say she was.
Speaker 1 (01:17:36):
Cold giving you that jacket? What my girl saying? Yeah?
But see, let me say this though, stop bringing your
ex girlfriends around your curry.
Speaker 4 (01:17:50):
What she would have been freezing?
Speaker 1 (01:17:52):
And female friend of his, that's your fault. You didn't
bring a jacket, that's your fault. It was a female friend.
Speaker 4 (01:17:58):
Of his, of his her fiancee, Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:18:03):
See why is she over here?
Speaker 4 (01:18:07):
Why is she didn't bring no shawls on? She ain't
got no man.
Speaker 1 (01:18:12):
Why y'all, why are you mixing women? Bruh, you can't.
You can't shop women. No, no, no, no, Let me
tell you something. Your woman knows if anything was evil,
Oh absolutely, we know facts.
Speaker 2 (01:18:30):
I've been in a room with an ex Lord, all.
Speaker 8 (01:18:34):
Right, all right, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey
Morning Show coming up at thirty three minutes after we
will play around and would you rather right after this?
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It's time now for a round of would you rather?
Would you rather buck teeth or thin lips?
Speaker 4 (01:19:46):
The lips or buck teeth?
Speaker 1 (01:19:50):
Yeah, I'm gonna go look like buckets? No, let mean
how big.
Speaker 14 (01:19:53):
You you.
Speaker 1 (01:19:55):
Gonna be that, You're gonna be that a rabbit on
the your son, I'm gonna take. I'm gonna take the little.
Speaker 4 (01:20:07):
Lips, thin lips. Okay. If you don't want teeth, all right, you.
Speaker 2 (01:20:12):
Ain't gonna make it, then why not.
Speaker 4 (01:20:17):
Lips?
Speaker 1 (01:20:18):
I'm nothing to do that, all right?
Speaker 8 (01:20:22):
Would you rather watch a movie with buttered popcorn or
would you rather watch a movie with loaded not chos?
Speaker 12 (01:20:31):
Boat?
Speaker 4 (01:20:33):
They're both delicious.
Speaker 1 (01:20:36):
Loaded.
Speaker 3 (01:20:36):
Now.
Speaker 1 (01:20:36):
I can't stand that because there'll ever be what I
want on the chip.
Speaker 4 (01:20:40):
Yeah, ste if you have a chef, they can make it.
Speaker 1 (01:20:46):
Ain't no meat on this chip. There ain't no fire
cream on this chip. Cheese fell off this chip. I'm
not constructing each time I want to bite.
Speaker 2 (01:20:57):
I got to build it, all right.
Speaker 1 (01:21:01):
I just like that.
Speaker 4 (01:21:02):
So many chips to be wet, and you're going with
you're going with a butter popcorn?
Speaker 10 (01:21:07):
Then?
Speaker 1 (01:21:07):
All right?
Speaker 3 (01:21:08):
All right?
Speaker 8 (01:21:09):
Would you rather be known for having a great body
or would you rather be known for having for being
a great leader?
Speaker 4 (01:21:16):
Being a leader?
Speaker 2 (01:21:17):
Leader?
Speaker 1 (01:21:18):
Give me.
Speaker 4 (01:21:20):
You want the body?
Speaker 2 (01:21:22):
No, I get that body. A lot of people are
following me.
Speaker 1 (01:21:24):
If I.
Speaker 4 (01:21:31):
I don't want to be off see.
Speaker 2 (01:21:36):
All right, buck bee, but looking little.
Speaker 4 (01:21:46):
Wait what all right? Last one guys, we gotta get
Let's get this one in.
Speaker 8 (01:21:51):
Think about this. Would you rather dinner with Trump and
Millenia be or coffee with your ex?
Speaker 2 (01:22:02):
Yep?
Speaker 7 (01:22:02):
Sitting up there with my ex b and maybe a
kiss with your ex. I'm not sitting up there with
fat ankles and them hands bruised up like that.
Speaker 2 (01:22:10):
And I ain't doing me no more. You ain't seen
me for the last time.
Speaker 1 (01:22:14):
You can believe that.
Speaker 4 (01:22:17):
All right, that's today's roun.
Speaker 1 (01:22:19):
You can't get me, but one time, that's all yes.
Speaker 8 (01:22:24):
Coming up next to our last break of the day,
will close out the show with the one and only
Steve Harvey right after this.
Speaker 1 (01:22:33):
H my name is Carlos Miller, and I'm Chico Bean,
and I'm the food with the tattoo.
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And you are now listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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forward thinking companies with exceptional HBCU talent through workforce development programs.
I'm a proud HBCU graduated. My experience shape me into
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Here we are, guys, our.
Speaker 8 (01:23:37):
Last break of the day on this Wednesday. It's been
a great day. Thank you all for listening. Of course,
Steve take us home with someone.
Speaker 1 (01:23:44):
Well, you know what, man my clothes remarks. This is
going to be really good because it's something I've grown
to learn. Here is one of the things that I
finally learned. It took me a long time, but I
finally got it, and I wish I had learned this younger.
So I'm sharing it to everybody that's younger than me,
which is most people that listen to this show. I
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have learned to not care what they say. I just
learned not to care man, because man I am telling you, man,
it is amazing how people are, especially now with social
media and all this here and blogs and all this here.
Speaker 2 (01:24:28):
It's crazy.
Speaker 3 (01:24:28):
Man.
Speaker 1 (01:24:29):
Man, do you know that I have been cool with
people that I have been loyal with them, set with them, man,
chopped it up with them, smoked cigars with them, all this,
and they heard something about me, and without coming to
me to get the truth. I started noticing little funny
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ways about them. And you know what, I used to
try to pick and dig and figure out what it
was and sit them down and have conversations with people
like that. And every time I did that, somebody said, well,
I ain't.
Speaker 3 (01:25:05):
Know you was like this.
Speaker 2 (01:25:06):
I said, like what, well, you know they say you
did this or that? Who said that?
Speaker 3 (01:25:13):
You know?
Speaker 1 (01:25:13):
You know they say, I said, brother, that ain't even true.
But instead of you coming to me as a friend
or somebody that I'm associated with or cool with, you
just wanted to feel that way about me anyway, which
lets me know that you wasn't genuine in the first place.
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You was around me because it was comfortable and convenient
for you, and you thought if you stay that way,
eventually you'd be able to get something out of the relationship. Well, no,
I got something out of it. I found out how
you was. And I used to chase people down to
straighten this out or or look for I stopped doing that.
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I don't have no rebuttal for you. I have no
rebuttal for anybody about what you think or feel about
me and y'all. The sooner you can get that through
your head, you can get that through your skin, and
you'll breathe better. You know, your skin is your largest
organ on your body. It takes in more things than
your mouth takes in. It takes in pollution, toxes, air,
(01:26:18):
fresh air, takes in breathing, It takes in sunlight, vitamin
deal absorb minerals and toxins around you. It absorbs a
good things around you, floral sense, everything. So as soon
as you can get that out your head, you can
get a lot of that from under your skin. You
can't get under my skin no more. You know why,
(01:26:38):
because I stop caring and trying to chase down and
prove myself to somebody. For those that love you, no
explanation necessary. For those that hate you, no explanation acceptable. Man,
I learned that I wish I had learned it a
long time ago. So if you are younger, put that
in your game book, your playbook, learn how to not
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care what they say. And you know who you should
care about who says something. People who genuinely love you,
care about you, pray for you, pull for you, encourage you,
Then you should care about what they say. Everybody else, Hey, man,
if ain't nobody came to your rescue, if ain't nobody
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stood with you in the storm, if ain't nobody got
back to back to you and swung no blows with you,
if ain't nobody climbed down in the hole you was
in and say, hey man, I don't care what's happening.
I'm with you. If you ain't got that from them,
what do it matter what they think or say? Them
the only people that I care about, and that's only
(01:27:46):
a few people. And I'm gonna tell you right now
on the rail. Look, I know my children love me.
I'm clear on that. I know for a fact that
my brother and my sisters love me. My brother that's
living turk, climb down in the hole with me, My
sister Mona, pray for me. Marjorie Harvey is the one
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person that saw me get myself in a situation and
climb down in the hole with me and stood right there,
right there. It ain't a lot of them people, man,
So everybody else, man can really go on about your
business and put that in your scope of things. If
a person is not pulling for you, cheering for you,
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encouraging you, praying for you, what doesn't matter what they say,
and if you pay close attention to it. The people
that love you, care for you, pull for you, cheer
for you, encourage you, and pray for you. They're not
the ones talking about you. It's them other people, them
fair weather friends, you know, you know the coworkers you got, you,
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the ones you thought you was cool with. You know
that sit around in the circle and talk about it,
everybody with you? You know them people. Everybody knows somebody
like that. Hey man, listen, learn how to get those
people out your head so then you don't allow them
under your skin. Man. I wish I knew this years ago.
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I wish I understood it, man. And you know one
thing I'm gonna work on this year. In my clothes remarks,
I'm gonna work on being more. But you know I'm
not that way, you know, Like I admire people who
are well spoken and have the vocabulary and the dissertation.
I was gonna try to work and be there, but then,
you know what I said, Steve, just do you though,
(01:29:43):
Just be who you are. You ain't got to go
and be all that they are who they are, and
God made you clearly who you are, and I'm fine
with that. Y'all.
Speaker 2 (01:29:52):
Have a great day today. Talk to God today. He
would absolutely love to hear from me.
Speaker 1 (01:29:58):
Don't call me.
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