FULL SHOW: Why So Angry?, Strawberry Letter: The Big Reveal - 4.2.26 - The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Today show is pre recorded.

Speaker 2 (00:04):
Y'all know what time. Y'all don't know y'all at.

Speaker 3 (00:09):
All at all, So don't given them all.

Speaker 2 (00:15):
Back.

Speaker 1 (00:15):
A million bus busy.

Speaker 4 (00:24):
Listening to show. I don't joy.

Speaker 5 (00:45):
Yeah, joy you you.

Speaker 3 (01:05):
You gotta turn I can't.

Speaker 4 (01:41):
To turn the mouth turn I probably got to turn
the mouth, the turn out.

Speaker 3 (01:46):
Turn the water the mono.

Speaker 2 (01:55):
Come come out, you think, Uh huh, I sure will.
A good morning everybody.

Speaker 6 (02:05):
You are listening to the voice, come on dig me now,
one and all that Steve Harvey got a radio show. Okay,
today is simple. I want to tell you. I want
to just talk to you about effort today. Just about effort.
You know, it's it's it's it's a word that people

(02:28):
use to describe sometimes trying. But what I found out
about trying is trying is just a noble way of
saying you didn't get it done. I tried when and
then everybody go, well, he tried, that was the best.
Well that's that's not exactly true though, that that's that's

(02:51):
not exactly true. You are and I want to talk
to you about that because I don't want you to
be one of the people who just tried.

Speaker 2 (03:01):
See trying I mean, I gotta tell you to attempt something.

Speaker 6 (03:06):
You're gonna have to first try, but I want you
to change your mindset from trying to getting it done. See,
that's a big difference. I'm really more apt to listen
to the person that says to me, I'm gonna get
it done. I'm gonna try. What try does is it
allows you to fail. It's the person that has the

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mindset that I'm gonna get it done. It's the person
who changes the complexion of things. I'm gonna get it done.
It's very different than I'm gonna try.

Speaker 7 (03:39):
You know.

Speaker 2 (03:39):
Look, man, I know this sounds a little.

Speaker 6 (03:41):
Harsh, but you gotta stop feeding yourself these little old
wise sayings that ain't it was a valiant tribe. Hey man,
you talk to anybody that took second place in the
super Bowl and see how they feel about their valiant try.
The only way to gain God's real blessings is you

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have to try something. Steve Backpeddling, now, listen to me close.
You have to put forth an effort to allow God
to put his finger on something to bless on your behalf.

(04:25):
You must start to attempt now, insaying getting it done
and I'm gonna try.

Speaker 2 (04:32):
That's a different of two different faiths.

Speaker 7 (04:34):
To me.

Speaker 2 (04:37):
I'm just talking about me.

Speaker 6 (04:38):
Now. You may be different, So I can't say this
about you, but I can say this about me. If
I say I'm gonna get it done, I have a
lot of faith in it. I am going to get
it done because I just don't see failure as an option.
A lot of times now, if somebody says to me,

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like the Olympic team invited me out to curl one day,
which is throw these stones on the ice, if you're
not familiar with this very simple thing.

Speaker 2 (05:09):
And so I said, man, I'd like to give that
a try.

Speaker 6 (05:15):
I went in full well knowing I may not come
away from this little curling lesson as a person.

Speaker 2 (05:25):
Who could make the Olympic team.

Speaker 6 (05:26):
I just wanted to try it because I thought it
looked cool, and I always wanted to get it done.
When I failed twice, I threw a stone completely into
the other lane, I lost that little ice shoe. It
shot out under me. But you know what, I kept
trying though. I kept trying until I got four of

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them stones in that circle right where I aim. But
now had I given up after I failed? After I
threw that stone in the other lane after I shot
my shoe down all the way to the bottom side,
the little ice shoe they give you.

Speaker 2 (06:02):
I never did it, but because I was trying.

Speaker 6 (06:07):
Something got me together a little bit because of my effort,
and it caused me not to fall the next time,
not to throw it in the other lane, not to
shoot my shoe to the back of the wall. All
of a sudden, my trying became something. Now had I
stayed out there and it wasn't so cold, and I went.

Speaker 2 (06:26):
Back week after week after week after week. I promise you.

Speaker 6 (06:31):
I could get it done. I could at least know
how to compete in a game of curling.

Speaker 2 (06:38):
Might not be the best.

Speaker 6 (06:39):
I might not win the championship, but I could have
got it done to the point where I could have
competed in a game of curling. So sometimes if you're
scared to say I'm gonna get it done, just go
out there and get started. You know, learn from every
attempt that you make. See, don't quit writing yourself off
as a failure every time something don't go right. And

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when I fail on that ice, I could have said, man,
I can't curl, but hold up, man, I'm watching four
other women out here curl, four of the dudes out here,
curl the little kids out here curling. Hold up, Pardner,
You know, man, So I learned when I threw that
stone on the other ice, when I failed, when when
my shoe shot off, I learned from every attempt a

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little bit more about it.

Speaker 2 (07:24):
And then I said to.

Speaker 6 (07:26):
Myself one point in time, man, I'm gonna get this
stone in that circle. I'm gonna get this stone in
this circle. And guess what I got it done. Now
what you're saying to me, Steve, I'm saying to you
that you gotta get started. That you got to put
forth an effort. Give God something to bless. Oh God,
bless me, Oh God, bless me.

Speaker 2 (07:48):
Bless you?

Speaker 8 (07:49):
What?

Speaker 3 (07:50):
Bless you?

Speaker 2 (07:50):
Where? Bless you?

Speaker 7 (07:51):
How?

Speaker 6 (07:53):
Stop basing your results on what you're thinking. You gotta
think higher. You get God in your life, man, He
allows you to think higher, bigger, better more. I was
sitting up in my debt. I came up with a
plan to get out of debt in five years. I
came up with this plan, right, I was sitting up
and I was tripping on it.

Speaker 2 (08:12):
Now. I said, wait a minute, man, hold up. This
is what I came up with. I said, God.

Speaker 6 (08:19):
Created heaven and earth, all of it, the mountains, the sky,
the valleys, the oceans, trees, the birds, the Indian Ocean,
all of it, made all of it in six days,
and then he rested on the seven. So why am
I taking to God the five year plan? If he

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can create heaven and earth in six days, why am
I walking in there talking about help me in five years?
How is it gonna take God five years to getting
me out of debt?

Speaker 2 (08:57):
And he made heaven and Earth in six days? Do
the math? Hell, man, I ain't that big. You ain't
that big. You ain't in that much trouble. I ain't
in that much trouble.

Speaker 6 (09:08):
See, God got a way of showing you some things, man,
but it's gonna take some faith, and faith gonna take
some effort on your part. Man, get out and do something. Man,
you God will bless you a little bit and he
give you a little bit more courage. And then all
them attempts you making is gonna and all this so
I'll try.

Speaker 2 (09:25):
You know what that turned into. I'm gonna get it done.

Speaker 6 (09:28):
And at the end of the day, that's what you
have to do, because trying to pay your rent and
not paying your rent is two different things. You can
you can try to play your pay your rent, or
you can get it done. Now, how long you think
you gonna stay in that house trying? You got to
go with the mindset of getting it done. And if
you can put some stuff out there and give God
a chance to put his finger on and bless it

(09:50):
for you the most stuff he can do for you,
Quit looking around what everybody else got and gonna get.

Speaker 2 (09:54):
Some of it for yourself.

Speaker 1 (09:55):
Okay, all right, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 6 (10:04):
Ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, everybody within listening range.
This is Steve Harvey Morning Show. We invite you to
join in. Show some gratitude today. Let God know how
much you appreciate it for this new opportunity, this brand
new shot. Man, What a good thing it is to
be alive today. Man, what a blessing. You know what,

(10:26):
I just decided I understand that. You know, life just
has some cards for you.

Speaker 2 (10:32):
Someday.

Speaker 6 (10:33):
Someday you just gonna get dealt one of them cards
out to deck. You don't want three are hards. You're
not finna win with this three heart in your hand.
But you got it today, deal with it, play it.

Speaker 2 (10:47):
Take the L.

Speaker 6 (10:48):
But the L is not a loss, y'all. The L
is a learned lesson the main losses. They are learned lessons.
When you look at it that way, you can take
the hits a little bit better than life, because God
got a plan for you. His plan is to prosper you. Yeah, man,
come on, think about it like that, y'all. Steve Harvt,
Marni Show, Shelton Strawberry call it for real, Mississippi Monica

(11:11):
Junior to come back kid and the legend of Nephew
Tommas Junior.

Speaker 2 (11:16):
Uncle, I really want to ask you this, Uncle.

Speaker 9 (11:17):
I've really got to ask your opinion and your views
on this, because their cause a group of women who
say the days of taking a man's last name is over.

Speaker 2 (11:26):
He's gonna have to take mine. Okay, Well, you just
be over there by yourself.

Speaker 6 (11:31):
Then.

Speaker 2 (11:33):
Explain to me how it's supposed to work, explaining.

Speaker 6 (11:36):
What look look, look, look, look, junior. I'm an old
school so this I really ain't a good person to ask.
They have decided in this new society. What I've discovered
is is that they think that there's a new way
that they can do it and it'll be okay.

Speaker 2 (11:51):
You can do whatever you want to do.

Speaker 6 (11:53):
God gave us all the power of choice. You can
make any decision you want, to be anything you want.
Good luck. Let me see how that worked for you.
I don't know what's wrong with taking a man's name.
If you don't want it, though, you don't have to
take it. And if he cool with you not having it,
keep your name. You know now, just the way I am.

(12:17):
You don't want my name, you don't want to be
miss Harvey, then that's cool. Ain't no problem. But the
benefits you talk about them, benefits of being miss Harvey
will be reduced greatly. I ain't got no problem. Yeah,

(12:39):
ain't no ask me anything you want if within my power,
I'll do it. I'm that's off the table.

Speaker 3 (12:47):
Ain't no more.

Speaker 2 (12:47):
I'm gonna die for you. We're not doing that.

Speaker 6 (12:52):
I fight.

Speaker 2 (12:53):
I'll fight a little while.

Speaker 6 (12:54):
But if it gets tricky, if you don't join in
this fight, they might they might take a us. Yeah,
all of that to death, do you part. That's off
the table. Because I run across somebody fine enough that
won't this last name they gonna get it. What else

(13:17):
should I'll just telling you what's off the table with me.
It's just Steve Hardy, y'all. You you ain't got the
feel this way.

Speaker 2 (13:27):
You don't want my name, you don't hell man, you
don't just house.

Speaker 1 (13:32):
All right, guys, yay, put them keys down, coming up,
Thank you, guys.

Speaker 10 (13:40):
Thirty two minutes after, we'll hear from the nephew as
he runs that prank back right after this.

Speaker 1 (13:46):
You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show.

Speaker 2 (13:53):
Hearst Uh yeah, Brendan, Hey, I'm trying to reach you.
How you doing Britain?

Speaker 11 (14:00):
I want to make sure I got the right person you,
the person that you work at the at the first
of all, I go to uh my name, my name Calvin,
got brother Calvin. But I go to Saint Missionary Baptist Church.

Speaker 12 (14:14):
Where you yeah, so yeah, so everything all right.

Speaker 2 (14:19):
Everything's fine. Well, I got a little issue and I'm
trying to get to the bottom of it. Now.

Speaker 11 (14:24):
You work in the before service start. You work in
the parking lot on and yeah, and you tell people
where the park and stuff right right right?

Speaker 12 (14:37):
What you looking for some employment? You want to you
want to join us?

Speaker 11 (14:42):
No? No, no, what to see the issue I got, Man,
I've been dealing with this probably about the last two months.

Speaker 2 (14:48):
Now, Okay, hold on, I'm trying to tell you.

Speaker 11 (14:52):
So the problem is when I come to the church
last couple of months, man, I've been I've been coming
like my my my, my regular card and broke down
on me. So I had I got an old van
that I've been there to hear about that. Yeah, yeah,
you know, I got an old van that I've been
using to get around in. So now for the last
two months, I've been riding in it when I coming

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to the church. You know you and I find out
who you were, but you keep sending me to the
back of the parking lot and then but you know
I noticed, now, nah, bro not on the real So
you sending me to the back, and I'm noticing when
I see cars that's like two ten, twenty fifteen cars.

Speaker 12 (15:34):
Well brother, well listen, we don't have no set place
where we put model car. You know, I just I
just direct the traffic. Brother.

Speaker 11 (15:43):
Okay, So so you're trying to tell me for the
last two months, you just direct traffic, but you got
but you directed me to the back every time.

Speaker 2 (15:51):
But a car behind me or a car in front
of me. It'll be going to the front.

Speaker 12 (15:57):
Now where you getting this information from me?

Speaker 2 (16:01):
I haven't seen you man send people to the front
to park. I have seen you do.

Speaker 7 (16:05):
No.

Speaker 12 (16:06):
No, I just I just put you know, the bigger
vehicles in the in the back and uh certain you know,
it's really no schedule if if you're coming in, I
just I just direct you to the right of the left.
It's really nothing to it.

Speaker 11 (16:20):
Really, So you're not trying to say so my my
van being ragged. It ain't the reason why I'm be.

Speaker 12 (16:27):
No, no, no, no, no, no, that's not what we're about. Now. Well,
I'm sorry you feel that way. I mean, so I
guess this Sunday.

Speaker 11 (16:39):
Let me let me I'm gonna tell you about this
Sunday to make sure. No, no, let me tell you
right now when my van pull up there Sunday, I'm
gonna tell you right now, if I get sent to
the back, I'm gonna tell you right now, it's gonna no,
it's gonna be a problem if.

Speaker 2 (16:53):
I get said to the back.

Speaker 12 (16:55):
You know now, you don't have to cut from just this.
Calm down, it's not it's not that SI.

Speaker 11 (17:00):
No, it is because see what's already. No, I know
I got a ragged man, I know that. I know that,
but I see that's the reason why I'm getting sent
to the back. And I know it because the car
I have before y'all was sending me up front. So
already know I'm just saying. I'm telling you right now, Brendan,
I'm telling you right now, it's gonna be a problem
if I.

Speaker 2 (17:19):
Get sent to the back.

Speaker 12 (17:21):
Brother, you just singled me out.

Speaker 2 (17:24):
And no, no, you know I didn't single you out.
You you are the person that has been sending me
to the back.

Speaker 12 (17:31):
Dude, No, no, I haven't.

Speaker 2 (17:32):
Hey, man, why you keep Why are you sitting?

Speaker 12 (17:36):
Why you accusing me?

Speaker 2 (17:37):
I'm because I didn't seen it. No you are.

Speaker 12 (17:40):
You're calling me, You calling me out of the blue,
and you accuse me of something that I'm not doing.

Speaker 2 (17:46):
No, no, you just sent my ragged band to the back.
You didn't done it. You didn't done it two months straight, Brendan,
you have done it. Yes, yes you have. You sent
all the pretty cars up front. That's what you're doing.
But I tell you what come Sunday gonna be a problem.

Speaker 7 (18:02):
Now.

Speaker 2 (18:02):
You threatened me.

Speaker 12 (18:03):
I mean now now listen, we we we can meet
up at it. We can meet up there to be
for any cars if they how about that.

Speaker 2 (18:09):
I don't care how you want to do it, Brendon.

Speaker 12 (18:11):
You actually do know how you want to do it,
So bring it then.

Speaker 2 (18:14):
Okay, I'm letting you know my car. Yeah, my van
gonna build.

Speaker 12 (18:18):
Come get Ben your band. It's me and you. How
about that you want you and you want to talk
to Tony stuff?

Speaker 2 (18:24):
Oh okay, so you are you sweating all up? Now?
All right?

Speaker 12 (18:28):
So now like you already did so, I guess I'm matching.

Speaker 2 (18:31):
Okay, Well, no, I'm gonna call.

Speaker 12 (18:33):
Listen, brother, brother, listen, You're not gonna call my phone
and threaten me and tell me what you what you
think I did? When I didn't do it.

Speaker 2 (18:40):
I told you man, you've been sending me to back man.
That's what we passed. What you thought? Okay, that what
it is? No, it's what I know. It's what I know, Brandy,
it's what I know. Okay, you didn't. You didn't where
you are right now? Okay? You know you know ain't
got work?

Speaker 13 (18:55):
You know what.

Speaker 2 (18:56):
I'll tell you what you are right now? Come sunny.
That's yours then.

Speaker 12 (18:59):
Brend No, no, no, no, no, no, no about what
you're doing right now?

Speaker 2 (19:02):
What you mean what I'm doing right now? I'm at
work right now?

Speaker 12 (19:05):
Oh oh oh, so you you at work calling me
about some bull parking spots.

Speaker 2 (19:09):
Oh okay, oh look at the cussing Christian. Now look
at you.

Speaker 12 (19:14):
No, look at the cuss no you no, no, no,
matter of fact you. Okay, if you want to do something,
let's do it now, parking lot. I don't, I don't care.

Speaker 2 (19:24):
We'll be at okay. Okay.

Speaker 12 (19:26):
That's one thing you're not gonna do is disrespect me.
I'm telling you that right now. Brother, Calvin, you bring,
I'm gonna fold you like a wet piece of paper.
You don't know who you're with. Okay. I didn't been
locked up six seven years. I'm just in the church
trying and get my life together. And you said you're
just gonna talk to me. You got another thing coming, brother,
I'm gonna tell you that right now. So if you

(19:47):
want to get it off, meet me in a parking
lot right now. I give you an hour to get
there your piece of tonight.

Speaker 11 (19:52):
Now you're trying to scare me with your no no,
with your background. What it is you're trying to scare
me with your background or something like then you I
ain't know you had been in jail with the wrong one.
I'm just gonna say this. Do you know, Lester that
that also worked? He also had a cars parking.

Speaker 12 (20:09):
Would you try by yourself out of this you're talking about?

Speaker 7 (20:15):
I know Lester?

Speaker 11 (20:16):
Okay, okay, Leicester is the person to tell me to
call you. This is Nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey
Morning Brenda, your boy Lester in the parking lot got
me the car. I brought the lockdown out there, you man?

(20:39):
Did I bring the lockdown out of.

Speaker 12 (20:45):
Strangle? Y'all got me out here talking reckless cast? Go ahead.

Speaker 2 (20:53):
For hanging in there, bro, and do this for me. Man,
tell me this. What is the baddest and I mean
the baddest radio show in the land?

Speaker 12 (21:00):
Man Steve Harvey Radios too.

Speaker 11 (21:02):
Man, Hey man, if you see somebody's sunny pull up
in a van, show them some love.

Speaker 4 (21:08):
But if you show off some love, I might have
to call out this weekit my heart can't teach you,
all right, nephew, thank you?

Speaker 10 (21:18):
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Speaker 1 (22:27):
Right now.

Speaker 10 (22:28):
Yeah, it is time to ask the c l O,
our Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey.

Speaker 1 (22:35):
Okay, we'll get into it all right. This is from
Taylor and East Orange.

Speaker 10 (22:40):
Taylor writes, my husband works from home and refuses to
clean up or have dinner ready when I get home.
The first thing he asked me is what's for dinner?
His schedule is more flexible, so I think it's only
right that he helps out.

Speaker 1 (22:55):
Am I asking for too much?

Speaker 2 (22:57):
Absolutely? Not rich is a participation sport. Show you that's
what it is. Come on now, and now I know.
Traditionally there are old school roles.

Speaker 6 (23:12):
Man work, woman clean, take care of house, take maybe
make maybe well man, yeah that's nice. Wahoo talk you
know we use in the cave all that work. I'm
just telling you right now, man, you have to participate.

Speaker 2 (23:33):
And she works.

Speaker 1 (23:35):
Yeah, he works from home, but he you know, he
could still do some stuff.

Speaker 2 (23:42):
I don't.

Speaker 6 (23:42):
I don't know what working from home means. But you
do have if ain't nobody watching me. Uh, I don't
really have a job I could do from home.

Speaker 1 (23:53):
I got to I got yeah.

Speaker 2 (23:57):
I can't do fairly few from home.

Speaker 10 (24:00):
No, that would be interesting if you did, though, I
have all those different people at your house.

Speaker 2 (24:05):
Pop surveyed on the refrigerator.

Speaker 7 (24:07):
Let's go come on.

Speaker 2 (24:08):
Oh man, that's crazy. I wouldn't even think about it.

Speaker 10 (24:11):
Like that. Oh hell no, all right, So yeah, she's
not asking for too much, all right. Moving on to
Linda and Chattanooga. Linda Wright, I'm dating my best friend's ex.
They dated twenty years ago, and she gave us her blessing.

(24:32):
But when he's around, she flirts and brings up the past.
If she says remember when to him one more time,
I'm going to lose it.

Speaker 1 (24:41):
Is she purposely doing this?

Speaker 11 (24:43):
Hell?

Speaker 1 (24:44):
Yes, yes, yes, how.

Speaker 2 (24:47):
You accidentally say remember when?

Speaker 1 (24:50):
Remember when?

Speaker 3 (24:53):
Remember when?

Speaker 8 (24:54):
We?

Speaker 2 (24:54):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (24:55):
But why are you dating him?

Speaker 6 (24:57):
Though?

Speaker 1 (24:57):
I mean I know all the men in the world.

Speaker 6 (24:59):
Yeah, No, no, no, no, no, like it's okay to date.
If she dated him twenty years ago, y'all didn't have
a relationship, then why are y'all together? Why why are
the three of y'all someway to That's the stupid part right.

Speaker 1 (25:18):
There, because the two women are best friends.

Speaker 6 (25:21):
Well, we're gonna see how long deck that's not fit
to be the case anymore.

Speaker 10 (25:27):
No, no, because if she just said it, if she
says remember when died him one more time, it's gonna.

Speaker 1 (25:34):
She can't wait to say remember She's going to say
it again. But twenty years ago though, Come on, come on,
all right.

Speaker 10 (25:45):
Moving on to Marlon in Oxford, Marlin writes, I gave
my mom's son five hundred. I gave my son's mom
five hundred dollars for his graduation expenses. She bought him
designer sneakers.

Speaker 1 (25:59):
With the money. My son called me to get more money.
I ain't got it.

Speaker 10 (26:04):
It took a lot for me to pull an extra
five hundred dollars together. Is this my problem or his mom's, Well,
it's your problem. Well he already gave five hundred, he's.

Speaker 2 (26:14):
Saying, and the boy wants some more money.

Speaker 10 (26:18):
Yeah, yeah, well for his graduation expenses. Okay, So he said,
all right, so what should he do?

Speaker 2 (26:25):
Then put this gown on and walk. That's what you
better do, yeap walk.

Speaker 6 (26:34):
I would tell him, I said, look, man, I gave
you mom to get your graduation gift five hundred dollars,
and she chose to buy your shoes.

Speaker 2 (26:44):
That was my gift for the graduation.

Speaker 6 (26:46):
So you can explain it to him like that, maybe
he'll understand, and if he don't, then you have a
decision to make.

Speaker 2 (26:54):
How you handle it next time, or do you just
deal directly with your boy?

Speaker 6 (27:02):
You know that's kind of a tough one because if
he's eighteen, you're paying child support.

Speaker 1 (27:08):
Yeah, you can give a shock to the gate and
when he comes eighteen, you know.

Speaker 6 (27:13):
And after eighteen you could deal directly with him. Well
you can still have a relationship with him and say, hey,
I pay child support, but I want to do this
for you, which is what you did with the sneakers.
So yeah, but at one point in time, you have
to be truthful with your kids. I've had to have
these real conversations with my sons about what really happened.

Speaker 1 (27:32):
So and five hundred dollars is a lot of money.
I mean, you know he said he had just grape
to put that together.

Speaker 11 (27:38):
So yeah, you know rolls everywhere you're going, just keep
waying the rope. Ain't nobody gonna see underneath the rod
robe to graduate camp and gown every were the whole
weekend where the rope?

Speaker 1 (27:52):
What's that? And that's gonna do what?

Speaker 2 (27:54):
Right now? We ain't got to spend five hundred or nothing? Now,
just quare the robe you go, I'm with you, Steve
with you Rod? Why we are still going overall?

Speaker 1 (28:12):
Don't you walk? Push one?

Speaker 2 (28:15):
She won't.

Speaker 1 (28:18):
Yeah, this is kind of a problem for U. See
this right here?

Speaker 10 (28:22):
Yeah, the mom all right? Last one, Steve, last one.
This is from Vett in Stamford. Vet writes, My boyfriend
and I moved in together. He told me that he
would use the bathroom in the hallway and let me
use the one in our bedroom. But he wakes up
at night and he uses my bathroom.

Speaker 1 (28:42):
His aim is always off? How do I keep him
out of there?

Speaker 2 (28:48):
Wow? I don't standing on the problem. Y'all want y'all
move in together? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (28:57):
She wants her own bathroom because it's crazy.

Speaker 11 (29:00):
Heat them all on that wall everything In the morning,
he done wore the wall out everything.

Speaker 2 (29:08):
Who did you marry?

Speaker 1 (29:09):
They're gonna have to break up. This is unacceptable. It
don't take.

Speaker 2 (29:21):
I've been peeling, Okay. I just want you to know it.
At some point in time, you're gonna have to master
this thing now, grown man. Rule number one. This is
how you have to make it works up. The seat

(29:41):
up is not an option. It has to be up.
There is nowhere around this.

Speaker 6 (29:46):
When you're done and you get a little sprinkle sprinkle
on the realm of it, you gotta take some tissue
and wipe it off.

Speaker 2 (29:53):
Flush And didn't wash your hands. Next thing you do.

Speaker 6 (29:58):
You can't have just a floor around there, cause you
tink a tinkle on the float. That little drop it
hit the float. She come and sit down, put her
foot in it.

Speaker 2 (30:07):
She said, to be mad.

Speaker 10 (30:12):
Don't get me upset this morning, just thinking about it.
All right, we gotta go, Colo, Thank you, coming up
to the timey hour. Yeah, we'll have some entertainment news
right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. According

(30:33):
to TMZ, former Department of Homeland Security Secretary Christine Nome
is devastated over the allegations.

Speaker 1 (30:40):
Her husband of thirty three years.

Speaker 10 (30:42):
His name is Brian Nome, is a cross dresser who
takes selfies yeah, wearing oversized fake boobs. According to The
Daily Mail, Byron snap pictures of himself wearing oversized fake
breasts and chatted with adult performers from the bembo Fication
fetish about their massively augmented booths. Other pictures allegedly published

(31:06):
show Byron wearing women's clothing now Yeah. Christine nom responded
to these allegations, and her people released a statement.

Speaker 1 (31:17):
They said, quote miss not here, it is Steve.

Speaker 10 (31:21):
Miss Nomans devastated the family was blindsided by this, and
they asked for privacy and prayers at this time.

Speaker 6 (31:29):
Privacy and prayer. Pray, No administration, y'all wire privacy and prayer.
Where that come from? Right? Oh no.

Speaker 2 (31:41):
Running into No no no no, no that charge.

Speaker 6 (31:47):
Oh no no no no, your your president of your party.
Don't give privacy and prayers to nobody.

Speaker 1 (31:58):
Hm hmm.

Speaker 2 (31:59):
He has set the tone for how to treat people.

Speaker 6 (32:04):
And it is as rude and obnoxious behavior as you
can perform publicly in front of a camera. And it's
okay with the head of your administration. So no, no, no, no, no,
no no, don't come over here talking about no, no, we're.

Speaker 2 (32:17):
Not fred for you.

Speaker 11 (32:18):
Now.

Speaker 1 (32:19):
This is different though, This is why different?

Speaker 6 (32:25):
Yeah what And.

Speaker 1 (32:29):
They haven't had this problem, this particular problem before you.

Speaker 6 (32:33):
And well no, no, no, no no, this is embarrassing.
No no no no, let's go and and let me
tell you something. This is that this party and administration
stands on that. Oh they don't. They ain't nobody free
to do nothing in this country according to them. But man, yeah,

(32:57):
I've seen the picture.

Speaker 2 (32:58):
I saw it.

Speaker 6 (32:59):
Oh yeah, sir, this dude right here, Well let me
say this, Well, have we not seen this before, have
we Where have we not seen the family have to
be surprised when they.

Speaker 2 (33:15):
Discover some crazy activity from the man in the family.

Speaker 10 (33:20):
Well yeah, yeah, okay, you're generally speaking, you're saying, right,
you can't.

Speaker 2 (33:26):
Get privacy on this right here. No you can't.

Speaker 1 (33:29):
It's out there. Yeah, it's too late. The privacy part
is over.

Speaker 2 (33:34):
It's too late.

Speaker 8 (33:35):
You're the former secretary of the Department of Homeland Security.

Speaker 2 (33:39):
We all know who she is.

Speaker 1 (33:41):
You know she walks the cats, you know Christinoans. So nope,
you can't get privacy.

Speaker 2 (33:46):
No, she said she is he asking for prap.

Speaker 10 (33:57):
Shut up, Telly. Family is asking for privacy and prayer.
The pictures are out there.

Speaker 3 (34:05):
No, no, no, no, no, no.

Speaker 2 (34:07):
Listen to me.

Speaker 6 (34:08):
It's not going to be no privacy. We can that's
off the tape. My question is is do he want
to prayer?

Speaker 14 (34:17):
It was family, He's a part of the family. The
family don't like praying for people that don't want to
be praised. I have found that to be a waste
of time.

Speaker 1 (34:32):
All right, we're moving on. Do what you like, but
that's what they want.

Speaker 2 (34:36):
Okay, where is my bra we my clothes? I can't
find none of my stuff.

Speaker 1 (34:45):
All right, we're moving on.

Speaker 10 (34:46):
This is kind of a devastating story right here. Brandy
has opened up. The singer Brandy has opened up like
never before. She has a new memoir called Phases, and
she said she dated boys to mend singer One Morris
back when she was just sixteen years old and he
was twenty two, six years older than her. And now

(35:07):
it feels like he quote took advantage of her youth
and her I guess naive day. However, back in twenty
twenty one, juan Ye had a different account of their relationship.
Juanier posted on social media that he and Brandy were
friends and once she became of age, they had a
relationship and fell in love. Brandy also wrote quote, I

(35:31):
was not a fast girl with a crush. I was
not a dramatic teenager who couldn't handle rejection. I was
not an unstable, obsessive fan. I was a child and
he was an adult. And it's time the world understood
the difference.

Speaker 6 (35:47):
Well said man, I have a question about that. Now, Yeah,
I have a question about that.

Speaker 1 (35:55):
Oh, oh it's her true, Yeah it is well her book.

Speaker 2 (35:59):
Yeah, Well, y'all, I'm just saying though.

Speaker 6 (36:03):
Now, first of all, now I know, I know, I
know Brandy's mama, who has been her manager.

Speaker 2 (36:11):
Her entire career.

Speaker 1 (36:13):
Yeah, very involved.

Speaker 2 (36:14):
I don't see her.

Speaker 6 (36:17):
Allowing sonya that sister put some time in with them kids.
I can't see her allowing a twenty two year old
man to date her sixteen year old daughter, Brandan Hano
con sixteen.

Speaker 1 (36:33):
Well, she said she lied to her mom.

Speaker 8 (36:36):
More passages from the book what I saw today Internet,
she lies she would sneak out and things like that.

Speaker 6 (36:42):
So sneak out, sneak out the house. Yeah at sixteen. Yeah,
Brandy mama, y'all, man, y'all need to come home. Man,
y'all need to brand book.

Speaker 10 (36:58):
Her book is called Faces all right, coming up at
twenty minutes after the hour tomorrow is good Friday, guys.
And so when we come back, we're going to discuss
the perfect fish fry right after this.

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or globelifradio dot com. Well, tomorrow is good Friday, guys,
and eating fish, of course is part of the tradition
in our culture.

Speaker 1 (37:55):
So here's the question. Well, yeah, fish on Friday Friday.
Oh good, good fry fish.

Speaker 2 (38:04):
I'm gonna have it. I ain't no doubt about it.

Speaker 10 (38:08):
Well, here's the question, what's the secret to perfectly frying
some fish? To the perfect fish fry? Well, let's go
to Tommy, say me, come on ahead, Tommy.

Speaker 11 (38:23):
All right, what we got Let's see, we got to
have my mama seasoning. Let's start with that. We just
don't have a whole lot of salt in it, but
it has sea salt in it. If you're gonna have
to have the best corner, I'm gonna mix. You're gonna
season that coin meal too. Even though you're gonna seizon
the fish, You're gonna season that cor meal. Get that
grip that grease. Hit that grease by three, about three fifty,

(38:44):
get it about three fifty. And let me say, let
me tell you what we're cooking. And if I'm with him,
we get to get bass. You know, you can't just
go buy bass. We get fresh if you if you
would understand, you got fresh water.

Speaker 2 (38:56):
Bag.

Speaker 11 (38:56):
Everybody ain't got that. That's that's something of the best.
Eat Mama gonna have what they call crappy.

Speaker 2 (39:02):
That's good.

Speaker 6 (39:03):
No man, croppy, I never had that. Crappy tastes better
than bags. I love cropping.

Speaker 1 (39:11):
Oh wow, better fish. Yeah, I love catfish.

Speaker 2 (39:17):
Some people don't like catfish.

Speaker 11 (39:20):
I do like it.

Speaker 1 (39:22):
I still like love. It's not the black people, I know.

Speaker 2 (39:24):
But go ahead, I'll.

Speaker 11 (39:26):
Tell you what.

Speaker 6 (39:27):
I'll tell you what if you don't like If you
don't like catfish, if you go to Mississippi and go
to the cock of the Walk, they're gonna change your mind.

Speaker 2 (39:34):
Body of the meadow. I'm trying to let you know now.

Speaker 6 (39:38):
And yeah, you can put your thumb down if you
want to, because you don't know what you're talking about.

Speaker 1 (39:42):
She's from Mississippi, you're talking. Why are you mad?

Speaker 2 (39:47):
Though? She got full degrees. She don't know everything.

Speaker 14 (39:54):
Fish in Mississippi, though, Come on, Tommy thirty years gonna
walk shut up?

Speaker 1 (40:01):
Okay, well maybe back then, red fish, red.

Speaker 2 (40:05):
Red fish, red snapper. You can cook all that if
you want to.

Speaker 11 (40:08):
That's that's but to me, red snapper bet on the grill,
if you know what I'm saying, that's a lot better
on the trip.

Speaker 6 (40:16):
Yeah, well you know, man, see, I started frying fish
when I was homeless, so I ain't have a whole lot.

Speaker 2 (40:23):
I had salt, pepper, corn meal. It was dishes. I
stole the bottle, well I got Oh God, tell the
true though. It's okay, how much I really stole.

Speaker 6 (40:39):
I'm gonna come out with a new book, stealing for
living coaslaw spaghetti.

Speaker 1 (40:44):
That's how we ate it. Catfish, coal flaw and spaghetti.

Speaker 11 (40:47):
Yeah yeah, but I hated as a kid because your
mama mushed all your fish up for his time to eat.

Speaker 2 (40:55):
Just mush it up. Make sure ain't no bones and bones.

Speaker 10 (40:57):
Yeah all right, all right, coming up a third, four
minutes after the hour. Why is everyone so angry these days?
We got to talk about that. Right after this, we
do everybody's ad.

Speaker 1 (41:08):
You're listening hard Morning show.

Speaker 10 (41:16):
Yesterday, you guys recall we were talking about why is
everyone so angry? What is the problem is that what
we see on the news. Is it the political divide?
Is it racism?

Speaker 1 (41:27):
Is it the war? Is it the economic uncertainty?

Speaker 8 (41:31):
What is it?

Speaker 10 (41:32):
We've seen viral road rage, aggressive videos, not to mention
all the fights and all that stuff on social media.

Speaker 1 (41:38):
So what do you think is the problem? Is it
d all of the above or what is going on?

Speaker 10 (41:45):
Because everybody's angry, everybody's cussing each other out.

Speaker 1 (41:48):
I mean it's just fighting.

Speaker 10 (41:50):
Yeah, where's the where are your manners? Where's the kindness
these days?

Speaker 11 (41:55):
The fights, the fights I see on social media, they
just it's NonStop.

Speaker 2 (42:01):
It's ever swee. It's just like, man, they fighting everywhere
for real.

Speaker 7 (42:07):
You know.

Speaker 6 (42:07):
I think a lot of it because of social media.
He is for social media. It's amazing what these people
are doing for clicks and views now. And then also
I think it's the condition of the world that we
live in. We live in in some times, man, where
it ain't a lot of happy news on TV.

Speaker 2 (42:25):
So listen to me. If you're listening to music that's.

Speaker 1 (42:28):
Negative, yeah, I agree.

Speaker 6 (42:30):
If you turn on the news and it's negative. You
turn on social media and here comes some more negativity. Now,
I guess what if you allow that to inundate your mind,
then you're going to become a.

Speaker 2 (42:44):
Part of it.

Speaker 11 (42:45):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (42:46):
Period, That's why, man, I've changed, you know, I like
you know, I still love forty eight hours.

Speaker 2 (42:56):
Yeah, the first forty eight that's just for me.

Speaker 6 (42:59):
You know. I love to see how they get caught
what y'all doing, and it helps me when I'm talking
to my kids and.

Speaker 1 (43:05):
You like the interrogation room and everybody fall apart.

Speaker 2 (43:09):
He nobody survived that room like that in there, you
and him.

Speaker 6 (43:17):
Man.

Speaker 2 (43:18):
But if they get you uncomfortable, you wanna get out
of That's what you tell it, h.

Speaker 7 (43:23):
That you know what.

Speaker 6 (43:25):
I started watching because I'm becoming more spiritual, not not
not in a sense that that's all I want to
talk about it. I lost my sense of humor because
I'm being holy. Now, that ain't it. That ain't it
ain't even close to that. But I've started watching a
different series and I and I started I downloaded this app.

Speaker 2 (43:47):
I don't want to tell you what it is yet, Scott,
see how it worked for me.

Speaker 6 (43:50):
But I started watching the different things, like I'm watching
this new series called House of David.

Speaker 1 (43:55):
Oh, yeah, I said I was gonna watch that this weekend.

Speaker 6 (43:59):
Yeah, I'm gonna tell you, man, the story of David
and Goliath, because it gets into what the real reason
why David fought golife in the first place, and it's
actually in there because people don't understand. He didn't go
out there to be the hero. Because the king had

(44:20):
promised whoever defeated this giant would rule over the land.
He had another choice, or his daughter's hand in marriage.
David used to sit in his window and watch that
girl go by in that carriage, and people was cheering
and all that that they wanted the girl.

Speaker 2 (44:41):
So when the option came about, so when King Saul said,
you know what you want?

Speaker 6 (44:47):
You want this? Hey, I want that girl, man, I
want that chick would fly. So I've been I've been
watching stuff like that because it helps me. It's really
helped me learn myself because you know, a lot of
times when you read the Bible, you think these stories
are just in there, but they take they take this survey.

Speaker 2 (45:08):
It's a really extensive survey.

Speaker 6 (45:09):
You take on this app, and the app turns you
your personality, your gun into a biblical figure. Oh wow,
who are your closest to? And I'm a cross between
Paul and David whoa.

Speaker 1 (45:32):
Yeah, wow, that's something.

Speaker 6 (45:38):
It really opened my eyes. So when I was looking
at this stuff about Paul out it became more relatable
while I understood him.

Speaker 1 (45:45):
Okay, all right, all right, uh coming up next, thank
you for that.

Speaker 3 (45:52):
Come welcome.

Speaker 2 (45:55):
To fight.

Speaker 1 (45:55):
I don't know, I don't know, I don't know.

Speaker 10 (45:58):
Took a heart, don't worry about that. Yeah, all good,
it's all good, all right. Coming up next to his
the nephew and the prank phone call for today. Right
after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Coming up at the top of the hour, right about

(46:18):
four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today and
the subject is the Big Reveal. We'll get into that
find out what they're revealing. H Right after this, I mean,
right after this prank with the nephew, what you got
for us?

Speaker 1 (46:34):
Neph I got.

Speaker 11 (46:37):
Let's see, you know, we got to do this right
for them as we go into Easter weekie, we got
to do this right. This right here is colorful adoption.
Colorful adopt you'll.

Speaker 2 (46:52):
Want you'll want to just make a plane. Can we
make a plane? Yeah?

Speaker 11 (46:57):
Somebody someone can adopt you? Why kids, that's it, okay,
somebody adopt the white kid.

Speaker 1 (47:01):
What you're not gonna go Easter week?

Speaker 11 (47:03):
Yeah? Yeah, yeah, somebody gonna get these keys. Now we
got these white keys. We're gonna do it all right,
this is a reverse different stroke.

Speaker 2 (47:12):
Just what this? Let's go cat up Colorful Adoption.

Speaker 9 (47:18):
Hello.

Speaker 7 (47:19):
Hello, I'm trying to reach a Valerie Valerie Hill. Listen,
my name is Kadem, I'm from Adoptions. I'm giving you
a call. I'm sure you're aware that we're coming by tomorrow,
and uh, we were great.

Speaker 15 (47:34):
First of all, I wanted to say thank you for.

Speaker 7 (47:35):
Being a part of this adoption thing for black history.
We really greatly appreciate what you're doing. We want you
to know that we have your scheduled tomorrow that we're
gonna drop two Caucasian kids off at your household and uh, hello,
you're gonna drop them off at my house right right? Uh?
Are you familiar with what's going on with Colorful? Now

(47:59):
you're okay? I mean, well wait a minute, hang on
you your name has been.

Speaker 15 (48:02):
Submitted to us that you are volunteering to take in.

Speaker 7 (48:08):
Two Caucasian kids. Here is during Black History Month, and
you're going to teach them as much as you can
about Black history for a week. They're going to be
with you for seven days. How many rooms do you
have in your apartment so we can make sure that
the kids have adequate space?

Speaker 13 (48:21):
Can you tell me who's submitted my name?

Speaker 7 (48:23):
Ma'am?

Speaker 15 (48:24):
Can you tell me?

Speaker 7 (48:25):
Uh? Do you guys have a back door so that
you know there's an as an access? Uh? I'm sorry?

Speaker 13 (48:34):
Where are you calling from again?

Speaker 7 (48:36):
I am calling from Adoptions? Well, what I do need
to know is I do need to know where the
kids have transportation? Do you have a vehicle that is
definitely yours?

Speaker 13 (48:46):
The kids won't have transportation. I'm sorry you're asking me? No,
who are you again?

Speaker 15 (48:52):
My name is Kadeen, ma'am.

Speaker 7 (48:54):
I'm calling for adoptions, okay?

Speaker 13 (48:56):
And who submitted my who submitted my information?

Speaker 7 (49:00):
I have adequate space to accommodate the children?

Speaker 13 (49:02):
No, who submitted my name to you to say that
I was gonna take two more? Two more?

Speaker 2 (49:07):
Ma'am?

Speaker 7 (49:08):
I'm asking you do you have adequate space? And do
you are you going to be having enough food to,
you know, for the foods to for the kids.

Speaker 13 (49:14):
I know because I have three children. I'm trying to
feed feed three over here.

Speaker 16 (49:18):
And no, I don't have enough food.

Speaker 13 (49:20):
To feed two more children. Now you're calling me, and
who gave you my information?

Speaker 7 (49:25):
Ma'am? I'm going to ask you another time. How many
bedrooms do you have in your apartment unit so we
can make sure that the shitty kids are accommodated properly.

Speaker 13 (49:32):
No, don't bring any kids to my house.

Speaker 6 (49:34):
I don't.

Speaker 16 (49:34):
I don't care, no what color they are and what
you need?

Speaker 13 (49:38):
Who submitted my information to you?

Speaker 7 (49:40):
Okay, ma'am, let me ask you something. How long have
you had? How long have you been on your job?

Speaker 15 (49:45):
Okay?

Speaker 16 (49:47):
What the I don't know?

Speaker 7 (49:49):
Hell nom, I mean your name has been submitted.

Speaker 13 (49:52):
But let's say that's I'm not interested.

Speaker 1 (49:56):
You're not.

Speaker 15 (49:58):
About two white right and my uh no man' oh no,
we're not.

Speaker 16 (50:05):
No, that's okay.

Speaker 13 (50:07):
I don't have time. I worked ten dollars a day.

Speaker 7 (50:09):
I don't have time for it.

Speaker 15 (50:10):
It's okay. You can drop the you know.

Speaker 16 (50:13):
What's gonna happen to them?

Speaker 13 (50:14):
Be dropping, mama, that it's gonna be right where you
drop them out there when you come back to get
them next week.

Speaker 7 (50:18):
Okay, okay, man, Michael, have you somebody has submitted your
name that you don't mind volunteering to take?

Speaker 13 (50:25):
You know, you can take them to the to submit
it my name. Take them to that.

Speaker 10 (50:30):
I don't need them.

Speaker 8 (50:31):
I don't need them.

Speaker 13 (50:31):
I work ten dollars a day.

Speaker 16 (50:33):
Ta't come to whoever submits. How about you take them.

Speaker 7 (50:35):
I'm I work for the agency, ma'am. I'm I'm here
to try and get these kids.

Speaker 15 (50:40):
A great place to get educated. And that's okay.

Speaker 13 (50:44):
I'm not even take nobody, no, no, thank you, and
you have ever tild.

Speaker 16 (50:50):
You this, take them to take them to that.

Speaker 13 (50:52):
I have three children on my own I'm taking care
of that.

Speaker 16 (50:56):
Will tell you that.

Speaker 7 (50:58):
I don't know exact who submitted your name. All I
know is that that they said that you would be
good as far as taking.

Speaker 15 (51:04):
Care of my children and teaching them about black kids
to them.

Speaker 13 (51:07):
I told you this, ma'am.

Speaker 7 (51:09):
I don't you know. Like I said, I'm working here
adoptions and I'm.

Speaker 14 (51:15):
Who do you work for?

Speaker 13 (51:16):
And I want three kids of my own? I worked
ten hours a day. I'm teaching about black.

Speaker 7 (51:22):
History mode okay, I mean it is it a problem
teaching two more children and two Caucasian children who probably
don't know as much about black history.

Speaker 16 (51:30):
It is a problem.

Speaker 13 (51:31):
I worked ten hours a day, I got three.

Speaker 16 (51:34):
I'm trying to feed on my own.

Speaker 1 (51:36):
What are you what?

Speaker 16 (51:37):
You didn't take them children to that who told you.

Speaker 7 (51:40):
To bring them to me?

Speaker 15 (51:41):
How about that, ma'am?

Speaker 7 (51:43):
I don't know. I'm not at liberty to give out
the names on who exactly submitted your name.

Speaker 16 (51:47):
I want the name of the black who far to
bring some kids to my I try as the kid's wife.
I want the name of the told you that.

Speaker 7 (51:58):
That's what I want them. I don't have their names
in front of me.

Speaker 13 (52:01):
I don't told you to bring these two kids tomorrow.

Speaker 7 (52:05):
Like I said, I don't know who told me that.
All I know is what scheduled to drop them off
at ten o'clock tomorrow morning.

Speaker 13 (52:11):
What kind of sense they from there? I said, when
you come back to get them, I didn't sign up
for any more kids.

Speaker 16 (52:18):
Give me the name by the person who told you.

Speaker 15 (52:20):
To bring me from said, I don't have the name
in front of me, And actually.

Speaker 7 (52:24):
I'm not at liberty to let you know who submitted
your name. All I know who was scheduled to drop
two kids off at ten o'clock tomorrow.

Speaker 8 (52:31):
Did you know?

Speaker 13 (52:31):
I don't know what the I've been asking you how
the signed me up to bring two white kids.

Speaker 16 (52:36):
I don't even have a problem with the kids.

Speaker 13 (52:38):
Bill right, they could be Vexican agents. That's not the point.

Speaker 15 (52:42):
Who gave you my I don't know who submitted your name.
I don't know that. Oh, now you about to.

Speaker 13 (52:48):
Know who gave you my information because they know not
have been a mile.

Speaker 15 (52:51):
All I know is, ma'am, I'm skeedtued to bring those
kids over there at ten o'clock in the morning.

Speaker 16 (52:55):
Okay, Oh that's who them told you that say, don't
bring no kids to my house. I don't even care
if they wife, just don't bring two more kids to
my mouse Carrie Carrio.

Speaker 15 (53:07):
I will see you in the morning, Miss Valerie. Okay,
I have one more thing I need to tell you
about tomorrow. Are you listening?

Speaker 8 (53:16):
You?

Speaker 15 (53:16):
Are you listening?

Speaker 2 (53:18):
Yeah?

Speaker 13 (53:18):
I'm you about to say to me right now?

Speaker 7 (53:23):
Is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 15 (53:26):
You just got branked by your coworker name.

Speaker 16 (53:37):
I'm not three kids and them Dad ain't Oh god,
I got you.

Speaker 15 (53:46):
Right.

Speaker 7 (53:47):
I'm all right, all right, Valerie, I got one more
thing to ask you. What is what is the baddest
And I'm talking about the baddest radio show in the land,
Steve every morning.

Speaker 2 (53:59):
So we're gonna get these kids in here. They're gonna
learn some black history, is what they're gonna do. You're
gonna learn. Yeah.

Speaker 11 (54:11):
You know who else we're gonna have in there with
with these white kids is in there learning this black history?

Speaker 6 (54:15):
Oh?

Speaker 11 (54:17):
Nick Kennedy, so he can learn some black history. Okay,
you know black host was Republicans back in the day.
We know that, Nick law.

Speaker 2 (54:27):
You don't.

Speaker 11 (54:31):
You know it was flip flopped back in the day.
But clearly you missed that day of class, of that
week that they was teaching it.

Speaker 2 (54:37):
That's what it is. My daddy used to say, it's
all right to shut up. It's alright to.

Speaker 10 (54:42):
Do it now.

Speaker 2 (54:43):
It's okay.

Speaker 1 (54:45):
You frustrated enough?

Speaker 2 (54:47):
Yeah, Nick, make me tired. He listen.

Speaker 11 (54:50):
I'm gonna be in Knoxville on April tenth. All right,
I'm gonna be down there at the Hilton Downtown. It
is the ninetie South Central Province Council. Uh, this will
be the commedist show. I would be there. This is
cop Appaside Fraternity Incorporated. All right, All right on, let
y'all know next week where I'm going after that, because

(55:11):
right now just it's Nick.

Speaker 1 (55:13):
It's just Nick. Didn't owners and Barrows?

Speaker 11 (55:18):
All right now with the Democrat and who was Republican
back in the eighteen We do know you don't know Nick?

Speaker 10 (55:26):
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Speaker 2 (56:34):
It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on type
be guide it for you. Here it is Strawberry Lot.

Speaker 10 (56:40):
All right, if you thank you? The subject the big Reveal.
Dear Stephen Shirley, I've been in a secret relationship and
it has served me well. I overlooked physical attraction and
I decided to follow my heart. We have the best
conversations and we have real fun when we're together. He's
a provider and he puts it down in the bedroom.

(57:02):
We're moving in with each other at the beginning of May,
so he's itching to let my family know about us.
He decided that he's going to church with me on
Easter Sunday. I don't think I'm ready for the big reveal.
Here's why. He's my preacher's son, and he looks exactly.

Speaker 1 (57:18):
Like his daddy.

Speaker 10 (57:19):
But at a younger as a younger man. He's only
thirty two, but he has a receding hairline and his
skin is bumpy, just like his daddy. He's not overweight,
but he's not slim. These are all things we can
work on, so I overlook them in the beginning. I
run out of time to fix him up, and now

(57:39):
he wants to go to service on Easter Sunday. My preacher,
his daddy, has no idea that we are dating. I
don't think he will approve of me because I have
a child and I got arrested for stealing when I
was young. He was also my counselor after my mom
made me get baptized and go to church every Sunday.
I feel like he still judging me when I see him.

(58:02):
But the bigger problem is when my family realizes who
my man is. My brothers have teased my boyfriend since
we were kids, so when they see us together at church,
they are going to make a scene. I encouraged my
boyfriend to get a new suit, but he's got painful
razor bumps, so he can't shave now. Right now, I

(58:24):
admire his confidence and trust me, I have no room
to judge I don't want others to judge him either.
Should I tell my family about us before Sunday?

Speaker 2 (58:35):
I mean, you don't have to.

Speaker 10 (58:36):
This is your business. I didn't really get the part
about the new suit and the razor bumps, but okay,
I think you're way too worried about other people think
about you.

Speaker 1 (58:47):
I just think that's an issue. Is this your man?
If this is your man, then why are you ashamed?
He's not ashamed of you.

Speaker 10 (58:55):
In fact, he wants to tell everybody starting on Easter
Sunday where everybody is at church. So what if your brothers,
what if they have something to say, It shouldn't stop
you from being happy. If you like this guy, his dad,
the pastor, should mind his business too. What you did
happened a long time ago, and obviously you've made big

(59:17):
changes since then. I think for you, the best way
to handle all this is just to show up at
church with him.

Speaker 1 (59:23):
Let him know this is what it is. Let everybody
know this.

Speaker 10 (59:26):
Is what it is, whether they like it or not
respectively respectfully. Just be happy, I think, and just work
on the stuff you need to work on, like the
razor bumps and his weight if that's an issue, and
whatever you have going on. Since you said you have
no room to judge, I think you should just be
with the guy. If that's who you like, Steve.

Speaker 6 (59:47):
Well, well, well, Thyland, this letter is the big reveal. Yeah,
and yes it's going to be a big one. Based
on this letter right here, now, you don't have as
big a problem as you think you have. I think
you've put more into this. You've produced anxiety over this

(01:00:11):
Easter Sunday. Anxiety comes from you concern yourself with the
two things that you can't control, your past and your future.
Once you have major concerns about either one of those, tada,
let me introduce you. You are now suffering from anxiety.
You're worried about what's gonna happen this Sunday when y'all

(01:00:32):
get at church.

Speaker 2 (01:00:33):
Now, but how did it come about? Well, I see
some things in this letter.

Speaker 6 (01:00:39):
You said you're in a secret relationship and it has
served me well.

Speaker 2 (01:00:45):
Oh so he's feeling the serving you well.

Speaker 6 (01:00:49):
Block And if you got to this secret, wonderful relationship,
that has served you well because you overlooked some physical
attraction and you followed your heart. So based on this letter,
you done fell in love with this half fat pole dunkle,

(01:01:14):
little chunky, chippy face. You just fell in love with
the ugly man. Let's just go and put it out there.
You have fallen in love with an ugly man. But
he's got some benefits as the most ugly man. Do
I can attest to this. We had the best conversation.

(01:01:39):
You have got to be a great conversationalist because if
somebody can sit there and stand looking at you, you
have got to keep their attention by having a fascinating conversation.
You can't be ugly and can't talk. I'm just tell
you that right now. You can't be both of those.
You have to be able to talk. Yeah, he's a provider.

(01:02:00):
You got to be a buy some.

Speaker 2 (01:02:03):
You an ugly man.

Speaker 6 (01:02:04):
You can't talking, You can't buy nothing. You ain't gonna
be able to stay in there. And he puts it
down in the bedroom. He has no choice. He'dne bought
performance videos, tapes, hookers, he'dn't been out there trying to
hone his skills set. Yeah, ugly people, you can't just
practice all the time. Oh, you gotta go get some

(01:02:27):
help unless you just want to practice on a bunch
of other women. You try to act wow, so that
when we get back, I'll tell you what's really going
on with you.

Speaker 2 (01:02:39):
But I'm full of inside information.

Speaker 1 (01:02:42):
Okay, Oh, I know this.

Speaker 2 (01:02:46):
Will oh too well?

Speaker 10 (01:02:49):
All right, uh well, we will have part two of
Steve's response has promised as twenty three minutes at twenty
three minutes after the hour of today's Strawberry Letters, subject
the Big Reveal. We'll get back into that right after this.
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Speaker 10 (01:03:41):
Come on, Steve, Let's recap today's Strawberry Letter subject the
Big Reveal?

Speaker 2 (01:03:46):
What you got for us?

Speaker 6 (01:03:47):
Well, ladies, Gentlemen's big reveal is this woman is dating
a half fat, ugly man and she don't want nobody
to know.

Speaker 2 (01:03:56):
But it's a perfect.

Speaker 6 (01:03:57):
Relationship because this relationship press served her well and because
of that, she that overlook the physical attraction and decided
to follow her heart.

Speaker 2 (01:04:08):
We have the best conversations. I'm gonna tell you something.

Speaker 6 (01:04:12):
Ugly men know how to hold your attention because you
got to be a great conversation because you hard to
look at. So you gotta be able to talk constantly
or steady flow of wonderful words and stuff to keep
people in front of you cause cause you toe up.
We have real fun with me together. He's a provider.

Speaker 2 (01:04:30):
He got to be.

Speaker 6 (01:04:31):
All his money is spent on keeping you happy and
your attention. And he puts it down in the bedroom.
You ain't putting it down in the bedroom. He got
to He done bought in all types of people.

Speaker 2 (01:04:43):
Help with that.

Speaker 6 (01:04:43):
He had a couple of hookers come over because you know,
you ugly man, you just can't go do like you
want to do, so you gotta you gotta elicit some
services from somewhere.

Speaker 2 (01:04:54):
This is true, Hirley.

Speaker 6 (01:04:55):
You don't tell me to stop any dating other ugly
women because he ugly. So that's the only way. He
didn't got but he didne got good at this bedroom.
He can handle them anything.

Speaker 2 (01:05:05):
Now he doing it so good. You said we moving
in with each.

Speaker 6 (01:05:08):
Other at the beginning of May, so he's itching to
let my family know about us. I will come back
to that line because I have an explanation for that.
He decided that we're gonna go to church with me
on Easter sunny. Everybody gonna be there. Who everybody feeling.
I don't think I'm ready for the big reveal because

(01:05:31):
I don't want people to know that I'm dating this
ugly man, just spending money and you're in the bedroom
getting getting your.

Speaker 2 (01:05:37):
Little socks twirled around.

Speaker 6 (01:05:40):
And why because he is my preacher's son and he
looks exactly like his daddy. Or now you're preacher ugly too, well,
at least your preacher ugly. You know how to sit
there and watch an ugly person talk. I told you
ugly people is great conversationists. You said that he got
a church.

Speaker 2 (01:06:00):
You've been sitting there looking at him, but as a
younger man.

Speaker 6 (01:06:04):
He is only thirty two, but he has a receiving
hairline and his skin is bumpy, just like he daddy.
See right there, thirty two of the receiving hairline. We
had that going on on this show.

Speaker 1 (01:06:19):
Focus Steve Focus.

Speaker 2 (01:06:21):
I am. I'm just trying to tell people. And Junior's
a good little hud.

Speaker 6 (01:06:26):
Uh Well, back to the letter, h and his skin
is bumpy, just like his daddy. Uh huh, Well, let
me go back a little bit in this letter, because
you did say.

Speaker 7 (01:06:41):
So.

Speaker 6 (01:06:41):
He is itching to let my family know about us.
That's them bumps. That's them bumps on his face. That's
what that is. That's why he itching. He's stretched, just
digging in his face too.

Speaker 2 (01:06:51):
Well.

Speaker 6 (01:06:51):
I can't wait to get up there on Sunday. Hold
your chein up in there and start scratching up under
your throat. That's what he do the whole time. He
be talking very good. He's handled that very well. And
he wants to go to service on Easter. My preacher,
who is his daddy, has no idea that we are dating. Well,

(01:07:12):
it's gonna be a big reveal. He gonna be shocked
and littly boy dating anybody. He might handle that pretty good,
but I don't think he will approve of me because
I had a child and I got arrested for stealing
when I was young. Oh, now we see why your
selection pool is so low. It ain't the baby, it's

(01:07:35):
to stealing. I can't have you keep coming over every
time you leave something else gone. That could be why
you're dating problems is while you got to reduce your
selection pool, you got to date the u repeople you got.

Speaker 2 (01:07:48):
Have you quit stealing yet, that's the question.

Speaker 6 (01:07:51):
Yeah, he was also my counselor after my mom made
me get baptized and go to church every Sunday. I
feel like he's still judging me when I see him.
But the bigger problem is that when my family realizes
who this man is, because my brothers have teased my
boyfriend since we was kids. So when they see us together,

(01:08:12):
Oh ah, y'all, so you dating cap'n Crunch.

Speaker 1 (01:08:16):
Oh, I see what's happening, Captain Crunch.

Speaker 6 (01:08:19):
Yeah, oh hey it was up little Seal. Oh they
got all types of name for him. Yeah, I see
right now. And so then you said, I encourage my
boyfriend to get a new suit. But he's got painful
raise of bumps, so he can't shave right now. This
is extens its foliation problem. It's gonna take a minute,

(01:08:43):
but you could fix this. So instead of shaving, he
needs to exfoliate. Then he needs to get in the
mirror with a pair of needle nosed tweezers and pull
each hat out of each bump. But do not pull
the hair out your face. This is a big mistake
that me and make who have ingrown hands, ingrown hairs

(01:09:05):
calls when hair comes out of your face and curls
back into your skin. And it's easier to curl back
in your skin because you don't exfoliate. The more you
exfoliate and you remove the layers of dead skin, it
can't curl.

Speaker 2 (01:09:19):
Back into your regular skin.

Speaker 1 (01:09:21):
Got it.

Speaker 6 (01:09:21):
Okay, that's how you keep them off. But you have
to pick each hair out of the bump and do
not shave it off. I mean, I mean, I mean,
do not pull it out. So once you do that,
then you got to exfoliate for three four days and
then shave and then the next day exfoliate again.

Speaker 1 (01:09:41):
Oh he's gonna be fine. Post comments Yes you ain't
gonna be able to dating.

Speaker 10 (01:09:46):
On Today's Strawberry Letter and Steve Harvey fim on Instagram
and Facebook. Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on the
free iHeartRadio app coming up at forty six minutes after
the hour, we got Junior and Sports Talk.

Speaker 1 (01:09:59):
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It is time now for Junior and Sports Talk. Junior,
what you got for us?

Speaker 9 (01:10:40):
The World Cup is coming to the North America's The
tickets went on sale yesterday and may listen. Tell someone
you gotta just pick you a game. You go to
one game. You're not going to all these games. You
go to one because these prices is not for the
faint of heart. I'm telling you right, get you one game,
and matter of fact, don't let the skull be one nothing.
That's too much money for one nothing game. We need

(01:11:01):
to see fifteen fourteen.

Speaker 2 (01:11:03):
I need to see. That's not that's not what soccer is.
That's not gonna happen. Well, look at these prices.

Speaker 9 (01:11:09):
Then up to go to the opening matches is eight
hundred and forty five dollars to two thousand, seven hundred
and thirty five dollars.

Speaker 2 (01:11:16):
Oh, I gotta play, You got.

Speaker 1 (01:11:20):
To get up, you gotta be on the field.

Speaker 3 (01:11:24):
Tell me.

Speaker 2 (01:11:26):
All that's gonna be on TV. I don't know why, yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:11:30):
Right, oh yeah, there you go.

Speaker 2 (01:11:31):
Oh it's gonna be on TV.

Speaker 9 (01:11:33):
But if you want to go in person to experience
the World Cup the group stages, this is probably about
the best price you can get at the group stages.
It's one hundred and thirty five dollars to nine hundred
and ten dollars. That's the probably the one you want
to go to.

Speaker 2 (01:11:46):
The group stage And what at one thirty five? See
that though on top. It's gonna be up there.

Speaker 1 (01:11:52):
Way up there.

Speaker 2 (01:11:54):
You're gonna be up there.

Speaker 6 (01:11:56):
The round of thirty one hundred and thirty five dollars.
You're gonna be up to on top of them lights
and they're gonna give you something to do.

Speaker 1 (01:12:05):
Now you're working at the World Cup.

Speaker 2 (01:12:08):
You're the switch. Hey in seat number sixteen O five yo, lie,
ain't on.

Speaker 1 (01:12:19):
You knew your assignment stupid?

Speaker 9 (01:12:23):
The around of thirty two to sixteen, it's two hundred
and five dollars to one thousand dollars.

Speaker 2 (01:12:30):
That's just a round of sixteen.

Speaker 9 (01:12:32):
Now the quarterfinals, the quarter finals got one price at
the lowest, and it's one thousand, six hundred ninety dollars,
and then it just go up.

Speaker 2 (01:12:40):
It ain't even.

Speaker 1 (01:12:42):
Now like Steeve say, you're just gonna watch it, watch it, Yeah,
I watch it. I hear them scream, go.

Speaker 2 (01:12:50):
You gonna hear them say, I love that.

Speaker 8 (01:12:53):
Ju.

Speaker 2 (01:12:53):
How long does it last? How long does the world comet?

Speaker 11 (01:12:57):
No?

Speaker 2 (01:12:57):
No, I mean I mean how many weeks? It goes
from like June eleven all the way to July nineteenth.

Speaker 6 (01:13:03):
Well, I can't believe you knew that about the monk. Yeah, Junior,
that's impressive.

Speaker 2 (01:13:09):
I did not know you knew that.

Speaker 9 (01:13:11):
Yeah, I gotta know all these all these dates, he
gonna want on, he's gonna want for you on this one.

Speaker 2 (01:13:16):
You going to walk. I know this game.

Speaker 9 (01:13:17):
You going to the finals is four thousand, one hundred
eighty five dollars to eight thousand, six hundred dollars.

Speaker 1 (01:13:24):
That's the game.

Speaker 2 (01:13:25):
You're going to. Where's the one? Oh, it's gonna be
in New York. I need three days in a row.
I can't. I can't stay up there.

Speaker 10 (01:13:39):
Coming up at the top of the hour. Man on
social media needs some advice. He says, I have siblings
I've never met. We'll talk about it right after this.
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. This is
from Terry on Steve Harvey FM. Terry says, my biological

(01:14:00):
father left my mom when I was an infant, but
she got together with my stepdad not long after, and
he's been my real dad my whole life. My biological
father has passed away now, but before he died, I
found his Facebook and saw that he had a family
and three kids. I thought about reaching out, but I
have no idea how that might impact my mother or

(01:14:22):
what it could open up. Do I leave things as
they are or take the risk of introducing myself and
potentially changing both of our lives.

Speaker 6 (01:14:33):
Well, man, that's really up to you. How important is
that to you. I haven't been in that situation. I
have no experience at it, But it's totally up to you.
If you would like to meet your siblings, thenk going
over there and do it. I mean he died, yea,
So maybe people need to know what's happening.

Speaker 2 (01:14:54):
You know, they won't be.

Speaker 6 (01:14:55):
As mad because you ain't trying to get over there
and take their daddy time and all like that. You
just say, I found y'all on Facebook. Man, he was
my father. I just wanted to say, hey, man, it's
nice to meet y'all. Glad to know I have still
have some connection to him. And and that's a cool
way to do it. And then and then if they

(01:15:16):
don't like that, then they buttholes and gone back to
your life.

Speaker 1 (01:15:19):
Man.

Speaker 11 (01:15:21):
But his mama don't like it though, what this is
painful for her money?

Speaker 6 (01:15:29):
Yeah, but you know you can't have these babies by
these men. And then the boy, the boy wanted never
met his real father and then he died. He was
raised by a man who was his dad.

Speaker 2 (01:15:39):
He loves him.

Speaker 6 (01:15:39):
He just doesn't take away anything. But you can't tell
a grown man how to feel once they grow up.
I'm not his biological father, so.

Speaker 10 (01:15:49):
You know, because he left his mom when he was
a baby. Yeah, all right, moving on, we have time
for another one. This is Bailey on Steve BARBFM Bailey says,
I'm supposed to to get married in a few months,
but I'm having some serious doubts about my partner. He's
a great person in a lot of ways, but he
is highly dysfunctional. He struggles with follow through, managing responsibilities

(01:16:13):
and handling stress, and I feel like I'm carrying a
lot of the load for the both of us. I
love him but and don't want to walk away, but
I'm scared. At what point do I decide to move
forward anyway or call things off before it's too late?

Speaker 6 (01:16:29):
What the best advice I got about marriage? The only
thing to change was with marriage is the appearance of
your left hand third finger. If you're dealing with these
problems now, they only going to magnify, y'all. Ain't even
marry chi, right right? He don't have the stress? Well, yeah,
you don't like responsibility. Please don't marry this man to

(01:16:51):
not you'll be miserable.

Speaker 2 (01:16:52):
Yeah, girl, because it ain't even started.

Speaker 1 (01:16:56):
Chit exactly right, right, Yeah, it's just.

Speaker 2 (01:17:00):
All the time you got to deal with what's happening
with your spouse.

Speaker 1 (01:17:05):
Yeah, so should she?

Speaker 10 (01:17:07):
She says, At what point does she decide to move Uh?
Huh before it's too late. Yeah, yeah, today, break it off.
You're marry this little boy. He don't like responsibility, he
can't handle stress.

Speaker 1 (01:17:23):
Yeah, you're gonna.

Speaker 2 (01:17:24):
Need a shoulder the crown. He's gonna be there crying
on yours.

Speaker 1 (01:17:29):
She says, he's highly dysfunctional. Higher, that's not good.

Speaker 2 (01:17:34):
Why would you marry a highly dysfunctional man?

Speaker 3 (01:17:36):
Right?

Speaker 6 (01:17:37):
Right?

Speaker 2 (01:17:37):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:17:38):
What is it with these red flags? We just collect? Nor?
Yeah we ignore them. What is that about?

Speaker 6 (01:17:45):
Stop collecting red flags? Stop putting them in the back
of your truck.

Speaker 10 (01:17:49):
Yeah, well she sees it and like she sees the
red flags and like a lot of women, yeah, we choose.

Speaker 1 (01:17:56):
To ignore them.

Speaker 10 (01:17:57):
Oh, he'll be better once we're married, and you know
he'll change I can change him.

Speaker 3 (01:18:03):
All of that.

Speaker 10 (01:18:04):
Yeah, you know goes into goes into this. So I'm
with you, Steve. She needs to stop this right now,
call it off. Don't marry this guy.

Speaker 2 (01:18:12):
Oh man, you had it for life of doom. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:18:16):
Yeah, it's not gonna get better. No, No, pe will
show you who they are. Yeah, believe him, that's right. Yeah.
All right, Well, thank you for writing in. Hopefully that helped.

Speaker 10 (01:18:30):
Yeah, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show
coming up at twenty minutes after.

Speaker 1 (01:18:36):
Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 10 (01:18:43):
A Kentucky man who made headlines last year when he
won a massive powerball jackpot and then got arrested in
Florida for kicking a cop is back in the headlines,
this time not for winning money, but this time for
burglarizing a house.

Speaker 1 (01:19:00):
Uh police in Lexington? Yeah yeah, yeah yeah, police.

Speaker 10 (01:19:07):
Well, police in Lexington say, fifty one year old James Farthing,
a career criminal who won over one hundred and sixty
seven million dollars last year in the Power Bowl, hasn't
given up the criminal life.

Speaker 1 (01:19:20):
Okay, he stayed the same and he won his money.

Speaker 2 (01:19:23):
Yeah, same money. Just magnify who you are. He just
made it criminal.

Speaker 1 (01:19:28):
Yeah, yep.

Speaker 7 (01:19:29):
Yeah.

Speaker 10 (01:19:29):
He broke into a home over the weekend. He stole
twelve thousand dollars in cash, Cops say. Surveillance video shows
James Farthing entering the house and then driving away in
a black Porsche. Officers later stopped him and reported finding
marijuana in his car.

Speaker 12 (01:19:45):
What is going on?

Speaker 1 (01:19:47):
You won one hundred and sixty seven million dollars in.

Speaker 2 (01:19:51):
The power ball. How are you.

Speaker 1 (01:19:54):
You just cased that you need some you need twelve
thousand months? Yeah, one hundred and sixty seven the plus twist.

Speaker 2 (01:20:00):
He's just doing it for the thrill of it and
the toil.

Speaker 1 (01:20:03):
Yeah, sounds like a klepto.

Speaker 2 (01:20:05):
Yeah. Wow, break in the wrong house in a minute though.

Speaker 1 (01:20:09):
Yeah, and you're though you're driving a Porsche craziness right here?
All right, guys, coming up next. Yeah, we'll have another
round of would you rather? Right after this? You're listening
to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 8 (01:20:32):
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Speaker 1 (01:21:01):
It's time now for a round of would you rather? Guys?

Speaker 10 (01:21:03):
Would you rather be on the receiving end of a prank?
Or would you rather be responsible for setting up the
prank that goes too far.

Speaker 1 (01:21:12):
Oh yeah, you're.

Speaker 2 (01:21:18):
Right there.

Speaker 1 (01:21:19):
It's a day after April for say, what you got?

Speaker 10 (01:21:23):
I got to be the one setting it up always, yeah,
and it goes too far always.

Speaker 2 (01:21:28):
And I don't have a problem with that, all right?

Speaker 1 (01:21:33):
Would you rather try something new in the bedroom or
would you rather just stick to what you know?

Speaker 2 (01:21:40):
No, I'm gonna stick to what you know. Because you
try something new, they're gonna ask you what you got that?

Speaker 1 (01:21:44):
Oh yeah, mm hmm, So what junior?

Speaker 9 (01:21:49):
Now I'm too I'm too old to be trying something new. Now,
I just stick to what I know, because you ain't
gonna come mere time by guess what we've been to do.

Speaker 1 (01:21:54):
We ain't guess it.

Speaker 2 (01:21:57):
We need to do that.

Speaker 1 (01:22:00):
Yes, we know, all right, Steve, what you got?

Speaker 2 (01:22:08):
I mean what I do has served me well, uh.

Speaker 1 (01:22:11):
Huh uh huh. So if it's not broke, don't fix it, okay?

Speaker 7 (01:22:15):
All right?

Speaker 1 (01:22:15):
Hello, all right, So just stick to what you know?

Speaker 2 (01:22:18):
All right?

Speaker 1 (01:22:18):
Guys?

Speaker 10 (01:22:19):
Would you rather be an usher on Easter Sunday or
would you rather do this? Be an usher on the
Mother's Day service? So?

Speaker 1 (01:22:28):
Would you rather be an usher on Easter Sunday or
Mother's Day.

Speaker 2 (01:22:31):
I want to see all these colors coming through the.

Speaker 6 (01:22:37):
Yeah, because I'm gonna see that everybody. I'm a color
coordinator church. Everybody makes sense. Man, when you look out there,
your church gonna be flies.

Speaker 7 (01:22:50):
I like that.

Speaker 2 (01:22:50):
Steve, you.

Speaker 1 (01:22:56):
All right?

Speaker 10 (01:22:56):
Would you rather work in the parking lot ministry or
each Sunday school on Easter Sunday parking lot? Everybody comes
to church on Easter Sunday.

Speaker 6 (01:23:06):
Now, I see, we only had a parking lot ministry
because so we could stop theft.

Speaker 2 (01:23:11):
Our problem was people were still in the cars.

Speaker 1 (01:23:15):
On the church parking lot on Holy Ground, the cars because.

Speaker 6 (01:23:20):
They know they was in there, and they knew what
time service get out, and they had plenty of time.
I volunteered to be in the park parking lot ministry.
And I want you all to bleep this out, but
but this is how I protected the cars. I said, hey, hey, hey,
I see you. You know, we kept a lot of

(01:23:41):
people off, hey hey hey. And that year we only.

Speaker 2 (01:23:49):
Lost two cars.

Speaker 6 (01:23:51):
Whole year. And I received the Young Christian of the
Award year war and Christy, I'll find and found out
what that custom would come in hand. I well, praise
the Lord Okay, you welcome. That's today's round. It would

(01:24:13):
you rather coming up? Coming up next?

Speaker 10 (01:24:16):
It is our last break of the day, and we'll
close out the show with the one and only Steve
Harvey right after this.

Speaker 1 (01:24:22):
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 8 (01:24:29):
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after you mop?

Speaker 1 (01:24:32):
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Speaker 1 (01:24:57):
All right here we are, guys, our last break of
the day, our last break of the week. This is
Holy Week, This is Easter Week. Thank you for listening.
We appreciate you.

Speaker 2 (01:25:07):
Holy Week.

Speaker 1 (01:25:08):
Yeah yeah, yeah, you didn't know that.

Speaker 2 (01:25:11):
No, I ain't been participating.

Speaker 3 (01:25:13):
I tell you.

Speaker 1 (01:25:14):
Good Friday, Easter Sunday, Yeah, Holy Week, Holy Week, keep
it Holy Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:25:23):
Were supposed to do something Monday.

Speaker 1 (01:25:26):
This is leading It's the week leading up to.

Speaker 2 (01:25:30):
Eastern and I ain't did nothing. I didn't know the
whole week.

Speaker 6 (01:25:34):
Yeah, I'm behind, man, Holy week, I'm starting today.

Speaker 1 (01:25:42):
All right, you have a closing.

Speaker 6 (01:25:45):
Here's my closing today. I was thinking about this. We
kind of talk about it off the air. Parenting is tough, man,
It really really is. If you're doing a good.

Speaker 2 (01:25:56):
Job of it.

Speaker 6 (01:25:57):
It's hard. It's hard to care for somebody. It's hard
to watch a person you love and care deeply for
make mistakes. It's hard to stay on top of everything
to help them through the mistakes, to try to help
them avoiding mistakes. It's really tough being a parent, man.

(01:26:21):
And then you got to give them enough range where
they have the freedom to learn. But then you got
to have enough restraints so they don't overdo it. And sometimes, man,
you wind up overdoing both. You wind up giving them
too much leeway, you wind up sometimes giving them too
much restraint. It's a hard job because parenting don't come

(01:26:43):
with a manual and the book you can read and
says that when they do this, you do that. It
don't work that way. Every child is different. All of
my kids are different. The way I had to handle
them was different. One of the rewards I found about
parenting now that my children are older, is I find

(01:27:04):
it really cool man that they still want to be
around you if your kids no, no, this is not
all the time. Don't get me wrong, man. Now they
don't want to do everything with you. They got their
circle of friends, they got the spots they want to
go down.

Speaker 2 (01:27:20):
Younger.

Speaker 6 (01:27:21):
You're not gonna get invited to everything. That's not what
I'm talking about. I'm talking about just occasionally they call
and they check on you without wanting nothing. Sometimes man,
they just want to come hang out with you. It's
a rewarding thing, man. But you in order to get
to that side of it, you got to put time

(01:27:42):
in with your kids.

Speaker 2 (01:27:43):
Man. You got to invest in them.

Speaker 7 (01:27:48):
You know.

Speaker 6 (01:27:48):
I watched Tommy on this show as a father and
deal with his kids. How he invested in his kids,
and the payout is good to see his daughters love him,
his son love him. You know, they ask him questions,
they come to him for godless. I watched Shirley do
it with her daughter. I'm watching car and do it
with her daughter. It's amazing. They come in there and

(01:28:10):
say goodbye every day on this zoom while we do
our radio show. It's amazing, man. You want to have
kids that when they do grow up and they appreciative
of what you did for them. Now, they ain't always
and they don't always get it right, and oftentimes they

(01:28:33):
lack in the appreciation department, But that don't mean you
didn't do a good job. Sometimes being a parent is
a thankless job. It really is, especially to single mothers, man,
single mothers out there, it is such a thankless job
because they have no idea what you're doing.

Speaker 2 (01:28:52):
They have no idea.

Speaker 6 (01:28:54):
Your children are clueless to the real sacrifices you done made,
and I know they are. That's why my foundation comes
to the aid of single mothers who are raising boys
by theyself, because I know it's a daunting task. So
we try to take them for five days and kind
of give them something else mental to think about and
reshape their mind and they thinking, and try to give

(01:29:15):
them back a better boy. But it's tough. So many
things about parenting is tough. But man, how rewarding is it?

Speaker 2 (01:29:23):
Though?

Speaker 11 (01:29:25):
Man?

Speaker 2 (01:29:25):
When my sons go, hey, Dad, you fishing this weekend?
Can I come fish with you? Yeah? Man, how rewarding
is it?

Speaker 11 (01:29:33):
Man?

Speaker 6 (01:29:33):
When your son is getting dressed for an eventing he
calls you with a friend on the other phone. Wentton
did this to me last year getting ready for a galo.
He was coming to my gala with a friend of
his and he was trying to tie his tie. The
boy had on the wingtip tuxedo shirt, but he wanted
to wear a regular tie, and he asked wanting to

(01:29:55):
tie his tie for him, and Win couldn't get it
straighted to not kept being slanted.

Speaker 2 (01:30:00):
He called me.

Speaker 6 (01:30:01):
He said, Dad, my buddy Sean got this tuxedo shirt
on its got a wing tip on it. I knew
what he was talking about, the little collar to stick
up like a penguin. I said, yeah, man, what's wrong?
He said, I keep tying the knot, man, but it's
coming out slanting and it don't look even. I said, son,
you gotta tie a double windsor.

Speaker 2 (01:30:21):
He said.

Speaker 6 (01:30:21):
I said, instead of going around once bringing it through
like you do on a regular shirt to make a
thin knot, you got to make that vnight. So you
need a double windsor. He said, hold on, Dad, let
me try that. He said, Wow, that worked. He said,
thanks Dad, I appreciate that.

Speaker 3 (01:30:36):
Man.

Speaker 6 (01:30:37):
But he didn't hang up the phone, and I didn't
hang up, and I overheard him saying to his boy, man,
my dad know everything. He said, I ain't ever called
my father and he ain't have an answer for me.
He has never told me he didn't know. And that

(01:30:57):
dude said, yeah, man, that's cool.

Speaker 2 (01:30:59):
I ain't had that.

Speaker 6 (01:31:01):
And that teared me up, man, because my son man
realizes that I've been there for him like Tommy been
there for his son. And that's effective, man. So it's
a really cool thing. That's one of the rewards and parents,
or one of the rewards of parenting when you find
out that they get it. And sometimes they don't get
it till they've grown, just hanging there, but they will

(01:31:23):
get it. Those are my closesing remarks today. Y'all keep parenting,
Stop trying to be their friend, be their parent. It's
the most important thing you can do for them. Y'all
have a great day today.

Speaker 2 (01:31:36):
Talk to God. He would absolutely love to hear from you.
I'm gonna go fish.

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