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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:04):
Y'all know what time.

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Y'all don't know y'all baby at all at all.

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Speaker 7 (00:54):
Show you know you love you.

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I can't.

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I got to turn the mouth.

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Turn you probably got to turn out, turn out, turn
ald the money up.

Speaker 2 (01:55):
Come come on, you'll think, uh huh, I sure will.
Good morning everybody.

Speaker 5 (02:03):
You're listening to the voice, Come on, dig me now,
one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Well,
I got to tell you something everybody, and this is
great news for everybody that I'm going to share something
with your principal of becoming successful.

Speaker 2 (02:25):
At whatever level you choose.

Speaker 5 (02:27):
It can be successful in the relationship, successful in the family.
Successes may be considered to you becoming a homeowner. It
could be being debt free. Your ideal success could be
sixty thousand a year, fifty thousand a year, one hundred
thousand dollars a year. Doesn't matter if you're considering it,

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if you're wanting it, if you have a desire to
become successful. I want to share with you the very
beginning of that. If no one's ever done it. I'm
going to say the beginning of it today. See scripture
makes it very clear.

Speaker 2 (03:09):
For us.

Speaker 5 (03:11):
You don't The only thing you need to become successful
is already inside of you. It's not an external need.
God wouldn't do that to you. He puts the core
basis of everything you need inside of you. So if
you discover it, if you tend to it, nurture it,

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fertilize it, and water it, it grows, it branches out.
Then it reaches out externally and it starts grabbing things
outside of there to make it even bigger, stronger, better,
last longer. But in the very beginning, you don't need anything.
It's all within you. And if you cultivate your relationship

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with God, it comes out.

Speaker 2 (03:58):
It flourishes.

Speaker 5 (04:00):
Now, let me tell you that thing that I'm talking
about is a God given gift that He has given
to all of us. We all possess it. It is
all within us. Everybody has a gift. Had somebody told
me what I know now back then, I would have
saved myself tons of mistakes.

Speaker 2 (04:19):
I just didn't know the principles. I had to learn
them all well.

Speaker 5 (04:22):
One of the principles are becoming successful is your mindset.
You got to get your mind right now. This mindset
is simply a decision that you can make. I can't
get it for you. I can tell you what to do,
but you got to make the decision. You that's listening

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have to decide. You know what, I'm gonna go on
and get at it. I'm gonna stop wrinting. I'm gonna
become a homeowner.

Speaker 4 (04:49):
You know what.

Speaker 2 (04:49):
I'm gonna do it.

Speaker 5 (04:49):
I'm gonna stop living check to checkmama. I'm gonna put
a budget together. I'm gonna stop stepping out on my family.
I'm gonna go home. I'm gonna get it together. I'm
gonna stop using when you make these decisions. That's correcting
your mindset.

Speaker 2 (05:09):
Now.

Speaker 5 (05:09):
The closer connection you have with God, the more help
you get sustaining the mindset. How many times have you
started to do something and you stopped? How many resolutions
have you made at the New Year and stopped by
February over with by me? And January done in March?
Because if you don't have a clear connection with your

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creator to help you carry out the other force out there,
that evil force is designed to get you not to
reach your goals.

Speaker 2 (05:39):
Get you not to come.

Speaker 5 (05:41):
To resolution with whatever the resolutions are you made son,
so you can consider yourself not worthy or failure or
unable to do something. But the more things you are
able to accomplish, the greater your confidence goals grows. So
we got to get your mindset together. Your mindset is
a decision that you have to make. When you make
the decision, you can begin in the process. Your mindset

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is also a will of yours, a will along with
the decision, A will, a willingness to do right, a
willingness to change, a willingness to be better. Is going
to then cause you to have to make a decision
to make a change of direction. Don't go where everybody

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else going. You got to go your way now. You
can't follow the crowd. You got to take a less
travel path. You cannot do this without changing your direction.

Speaker 2 (06:38):
You can't keep hanging.

Speaker 5 (06:39):
With the people you've been hanging with if you want
to be different, because they not. Then you have to
develop an obligation to yourself. You've got to say, you
know what for me and my family, or if you
don't have a family for me, I owe it to myself.
I have an obligation to myself to be the best

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meed that I can pay possibly be, To be the
best self that I can possibly be, to be the
best father, the best man, the best husband, the best wife,
the best mother, the best daughter, the best son, the
best student, the best employee, the best owner. You have
an obligation to yourself to give yourself a shot at

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the best life you can. That's an obligation you owe
that to yourself. Why would you not live the best
life that you possibly could? You have an obligation to yourself.
Why would you cheat yourself like that?

Speaker 2 (07:36):
Why would you take.

Speaker 5 (07:37):
Yourself and never allow yourself to see the goodness that's
already in you, to have the abundance that's been promised
to you, to go and explore all.

Speaker 2 (07:50):
The riches out there that's available to you.

Speaker 5 (07:55):
But one of the worst ways that you can rob
yourself of the joy of your obligation is to keep
comparing yourself to somebody else. Because guess what, Man, that
ain't your life. You ain't jay Z and Beyonce, You're
not Oprah. Instead, man, that's not who you are. Quit
looking around at everybody else. That comparison of everybody else

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will keep you broken, It'll keep you unhappy.

Speaker 2 (08:21):
You won't even be.

Speaker 5 (08:23):
Able to be grateful for what you have because you
steady talking about what you don't have.

Speaker 2 (08:27):
That's not the way, man.

Speaker 5 (08:29):
You have an obligation to yourself to be the best
you you can be, not the best them.

Speaker 2 (08:34):
You're not them. Stop trying to be them. Be the
best you. It's cool. You got a nice little house.
That's cool.

Speaker 5 (08:42):
You know how many big houses is empty and feel
with hate and resentment. I'd rather have a smaller house
fill with joy in it than to go to a
big house.

Speaker 4 (08:53):
Man.

Speaker 5 (08:53):
Prince got a line in the song that says, I realized,
in its best disguised, a pretty house.

Speaker 2 (09:00):
Don't make a home. Man.

Speaker 5 (09:03):
Don't you know I know how true that is? So
I'm just trying to tell you now. Another part of
the mindset is taking dead aim at your life's goals
and ambitions. What are they? What are your goals and
your visions? What do you see for yourself? What do

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you dream about? If you knew you couldn't fail at
whatever it is you were attempting, what would you go
attempt see? That's what we need to be after. It's
a mindset y'all. It's a decision. It's a will, it's
a change of direction. It's an obligation to yourself. It's
taking dead aim at your life's visions and goals. Come on, man,

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you got to get your mind wrapped around this thing.
You owe it to yourself to live the best life
you can be. Come on, man, talk to God. God
got something for you. You just got to check in
with him.

Speaker 11 (09:56):
You're listening.

Speaker 2 (09:59):
Show.

Speaker 5 (10:02):
Ladies and Gentlemen. My name is Steve Harvey. This is
the Steve Harvey Morning Show. This show would be nothing
without the following people.

Speaker 2 (10:15):
Ladies and gentlemen.

Speaker 12 (10:16):
Shirley Strawberry, Thank you, Steve, Good morning.

Speaker 10 (10:20):
Call it Parrell, Good morning, Crew.

Speaker 2 (10:23):
Cure Spate's better known as Junior.

Speaker 4 (10:29):
J.

Speaker 2 (10:29):
Anthony Brown, better known as bitter.

Speaker 5 (10:32):
Man, Ladies and Gentlemen.

Speaker 2 (10:36):
Thomas W.

Speaker 13 (10:38):
Miles, better known as the Food aka Nephew Tommy Slash
little Man, Good morning everybody, and the little Man is
just for aggravation purposes.

Speaker 2 (10:56):
He's really not that small.

Speaker 11 (11:02):
We know, we know how to push each other's buttons.

Speaker 1 (11:05):
Though we worked together. Everybody know, everybody we worked.

Speaker 10 (11:09):
Together for so long.

Speaker 14 (11:10):
Lay Yeah, we lay don't have a button.

Speaker 9 (11:15):
Found we're gonna bitter as you.

Speaker 2 (11:19):
Oh you have a butt?

Speaker 1 (11:21):
Yeah, marriage, Yes, it's what.

Speaker 2 (11:28):
Oh his button is called marriage? Marriage? Right, you bring
it up? He start.

Speaker 12 (11:34):
The last time I brought it up, he snapped at
he remembered, went in, Lord, I.

Speaker 5 (11:44):
Know another button, but I'll only use it if you
fished me off.

Speaker 11 (11:49):
Wow, because you know you've known him the longer.

Speaker 2 (11:51):
Yeah, I God, buddy, you.

Speaker 15 (11:53):
Got some but he got another butt.

Speaker 2 (11:58):
If the same as we won't sit no Trump, then
it's nuclear.

Speaker 14 (12:11):
About what it is then.

Speaker 2 (12:14):
Yeah, yeah, we've been together a long time, my boy.
Right there. Boy, it was the best thing.

Speaker 5 (12:19):
Putting him on the show Man kind of gave me
like a balance punch, you know.

Speaker 2 (12:23):
You know when you see how I talked to me
when I come into.

Speaker 1 (12:25):
Work like that. Yes, no, but you all have history.

Speaker 5 (12:31):
Man.

Speaker 2 (12:32):
Oh he talked to me so crazy when I come
to work.

Speaker 12 (12:34):
If we didn't know, we would, yeah, we would think
you hated each other the way you talk to each other.

Speaker 14 (12:41):
That's just yeah, I don't do it on the other job.

Speaker 11 (12:45):
But that's love though, that that's live, that's.

Speaker 2 (12:50):
Junior.

Speaker 7 (12:51):
He lie right now?

Speaker 11 (12:52):
What did he do when he doesn't do it anywhere?

Speaker 10 (12:54):
Else he come in there on the days, he come
in there and give.

Speaker 2 (12:58):
Us a gift.

Speaker 11 (13:04):
Wow, it's fun.

Speaker 1 (13:06):
It's money coming up.

Speaker 12 (13:09):
At thirty two minutes after the hour, run that prank
back with the nephew.

Speaker 11 (13:12):
Right after this. You're listening Hardy Morning Show.

Speaker 12 (13:16):
It is time now for the nephew to run that
prank back. What you got for his neph boss shutter.

Speaker 9 (13:22):
Sometimes you got to get out on your own and
save some soul. This right here is mobile baptismal pool.
Mobile baptismal pool. In order to do the works that
is needed, sometimes you got to get out and do
it on your own. We come by and we baptize
you in your driveway. Cat dog, give you a mobile

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baptismal pool.

Speaker 4 (13:44):
You can it.

Speaker 9 (13:45):
Hey, hey, hey, to be careful. I'll stop by their Saturday.

Speaker 16 (13:51):
Hello.

Speaker 4 (13:51):
Hello, I'm trying to reach a mister Wilson.

Speaker 16 (13:54):
It's how you doing?

Speaker 4 (13:56):
How you doing? My name is brother spring Water Man.

Speaker 2 (13:58):
Listen.

Speaker 4 (13:58):
We we we we got paid to actually come by
and do some services to uh for for you by
some friends of yours, and we wanted to actually call
and see about scheduling and see what you had available.

Speaker 16 (14:12):
Uh some some services.

Speaker 17 (14:14):
What y'all plan on cut some grass, which I do.

Speaker 16 (14:18):
What kind of services you have?

Speaker 4 (14:19):
Actually, sir, you've got some friends that have actually spent
a great amount of money on you. And what we
do is we have a Baptismal on Wheels survey. And
what we do is we go and we we baptize
people at their home and and Baptism on Wheels has
been a new company, but we've we've baptized over a

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thousand people. Now we have a truck which actually has
a baptismal pool on the back of it, and we
actually come to your home and we will baptize you
in your driveway and and make you hold again. So
we brother water, Brother, what's again, fringwater springwater?

Speaker 16 (15:02):
What you want to come to.

Speaker 17 (15:03):
My house and give me a baptism in my front yard?

Speaker 4 (15:06):
We want to baptize you right there in your drive
where your friends are paid for the services.

Speaker 17 (15:10):
And my friend, what friend will pay for me to
get baptized?

Speaker 16 (15:13):
I've been baptized already.

Speaker 4 (15:15):
Well from my understanding, sir that but then that you
you had some some bumps and bruises and and and
they seem to believe that you need to be Washington
coming again.

Speaker 17 (15:24):
I mean that's all good, that's all.

Speaker 4 (15:26):
That's all.

Speaker 16 (15:26):
It's all good.

Speaker 17 (15:27):
But I mean things are I mean things be that
that it made man. I mean, I've been baptized, I
go to church. You know, me and the Lord don't
have no problems. I mean, we all have setbacks. But
for you to pull up with your pool in front
of my house to say you finah baptized me, that
that doesn't make any sense to me.

Speaker 4 (15:44):
I mean, see, sir, sometimes when some people are not
able to go to the House of the Lord and
get baptized, you know, we're making a lot more convenient
for you. But we can.

Speaker 17 (15:54):
I don't need no convenience.

Speaker 16 (15:56):
I don't need no convenience.

Speaker 17 (15:57):
What I need convenience for you? Add the many to
come to my house on a Tuesday.

Speaker 18 (16:03):
To baptize me in my driveway? Does that make any
sense to you?

Speaker 17 (16:08):
Brother Water? I mean, come on, if you really sit
back and think about it, does that make any sense
to you?

Speaker 4 (16:13):
The Hebert first of all, so that that's that's that's
that's brother spring water. But what I'm trying to what
I'm trying to the.

Speaker 17 (16:21):
Water it is holy water, spring water. It doesn't make
no difference to me. You can't come to my neighborhood
and baptize me in front of mine.

Speaker 4 (16:30):
Sir, what is all that? This is? This is what
your friends are talking about that don't.

Speaker 18 (16:35):
Give me My prayers are telling you. Man, anybody which
which one of my prayers don't recommend you to come
to my damn house.

Speaker 4 (16:41):
So my and my.

Speaker 17 (16:46):
That don't even make any sense to me.

Speaker 4 (16:47):
You understand, I'm not at any liberty to tell you
who actually h the liberty.

Speaker 18 (16:53):
Because of my damn house that that tizes me. But
you can't tell me who the hell go see you?
But you're not what may come off? You're gonna even
come on that that makes sense to you?

Speaker 4 (17:02):
God, come off?

Speaker 18 (17:03):
That doesn't make any no way in the world. I'm
gonna allow you to come and bring your pone in
front of my house at baptize me. Then I'm asking
you ask and you you're supposed to be a pastor,
you're supposed to be baptized. I'm asking you, Okay, what's
a friend of mine is sending you, you know, letting
you know I need to be don sell you got
that liberty to.

Speaker 4 (17:21):
All I want to know. Basically, I've already been paid.
I'm coming caradule baptizing me.

Speaker 18 (17:29):
I've had that time.

Speaker 4 (17:30):
I'm going to baptize you on Tuesday in your driveway.

Speaker 18 (17:33):
Now, I tell you was if you come to my
house in front of my driveway, you better bring the
own congregation. You understand. You better bring the deacons, the brothers,
the sisters.

Speaker 4 (17:43):
And everybody else.

Speaker 16 (17:44):
Is you think I'm gonna be backtizing life?

Speaker 4 (17:46):
This is the problem. This is what your friends are
talking about. This is why you need to be baptized
and cleansed again and washed in the blood of the lamp.
This is what's wrong. You need to be cleansed. That's
what's wrong with you, mister Wilton. What problems mean? Now?

Speaker 18 (17:59):
What's prob with you? Was calling me in the middle
of my hook day telling me I need to be
back tied in front of my house if I need
to be baptismed, don't get some only water. I go
down to the church. I don't need you come in
front of my house looking ah turkus. We're at your
fraiders and white sheets talking about to a baptize me.

Speaker 4 (18:14):
Say mamma, m up, saying me, I'm from my understanding,
from my understanding, mister Wilson, you missed two Sundays already
this month.

Speaker 19 (18:22):
Shun this so, ma'am.

Speaker 18 (18:23):
I can't go anywhere and get the water. I don't
need you coming here because you telling me I missed
two damn Sundays. I'm missed there Sunday too, SI the
Puploll game.

Speaker 4 (18:31):
Coming off, sir. All I know is I've been paid
to do a job. I will be there Tuesday morning
at seven o'clock and we will baptize you before you
go to work on two.

Speaker 18 (18:40):
Before you would I tell you what. You cut my
bout seven o'clock in the morning. I sweart on your lord,
I'm gonna bust YOA. You understand me. You would not
come to my house telling me you f the backtip.

Speaker 4 (18:52):
Now.

Speaker 18 (18:52):
I don't give a damn who paid you. You understand
I was trying your in the water matter. Sat Now, Fringden, you,
your teachers, everybody else. We gonna have a fool part hele.
You understand I know that I'm here.

Speaker 4 (19:04):
All of this anger and all of this this, these
problems you have within you. We are going to purge
your body and get it out your system.

Speaker 18 (19:12):
I want your you, I tell you rot the swinging water.

Speaker 4 (19:18):
You gotta get baptized on Thursday morning. I won't give
a damn who pays you.

Speaker 18 (19:23):
Who called you bring your I'm go, well I carry
it kill you. I'm gonna try, y'all site.

Speaker 4 (19:29):
I got one more thing I want to say to
you when you listen to got it?

Speaker 18 (19:32):
That's matter how I'm busy. You ain't got to say
to me. I gotta go. You understand you can't make more.

Speaker 4 (19:38):
Man, I want to say to you. Is you listening
to me? Was? No? That's his nephew Timmy from the
Steve Harby Morning Show. You just got pranked by your
boy Mason.

Speaker 16 (19:49):
Let me check out something, man, y'all'll bring some man,
I say he Man, I was about to act the
fool on you because y'all to show they crib you
just stand.

Speaker 4 (20:00):
Me just made it to do that. I gotta ask
you something. What is the baddest radio show in the land?

Speaker 20 (20:10):
Man?

Speaker 16 (20:10):
You know it's the Steve Harvey Mowing the Show.

Speaker 11 (20:14):
Oh, I'm praying for you, nephew. Coming up next?

Speaker 12 (20:17):
Ask the COLO, our Chief love Officer, Steve Harvey in
the building. Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning show.
All right, guys, it is time for ask the clo.
The chief officer, Steve Harvey, is in the building.

Speaker 11 (20:30):
Are you ready, sir, Let's go Oh yeah, oh yeah.

Speaker 12 (20:35):
This one is from Talia in Atlanta. Talia says, my
husband and I decided to spice up our sex life
after being married for almost twenty years. Back in the day,
we'd have sex anywhere, so he had a brilliant idea
to have sex in the backseat of our car in
the parking lot of a best Buy. The sneaking part

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was fun and we were almost done when someone yelled
on the knocked on the window and uh it was
a parking lot security guard. He yelled, hey, you can't
do that here. The security guard is my son's friend.
What do you recognized me? And tells our son, how
do we explain this?

Speaker 2 (21:18):
Whoa, that's what you're worried about? Well, yeah, I mean
it was with your husband.

Speaker 5 (21:26):
Your problem would be if that wasn't your husband, you
can always say boy, you know good?

Speaker 2 (21:32):
Hell, well, we wasn't doing nothing in that damn parking lot.

Speaker 5 (21:35):
I had dropped a French fry down in the crack
of that seat and was trying to get down in
there and get that thing. That's all that was damn
French fry. And I still well, I found I found
French fry from last summer there just say that.

Speaker 21 (21:48):
You know, you need not worry about you Oka, for
she was naked though, Okay, Mama, it was almost world.

Speaker 5 (22:00):
I got hot, you know, I was trying to find
it friend Fried. He got hot and Hali next. It
took me so long to find it, damn friend fry.

Speaker 10 (22:07):
Oh god, so I just took my clothes away.

Speaker 1 (22:10):
What was daddy doing?

Speaker 4 (22:11):
Who?

Speaker 11 (22:13):
He was naked too looking?

Speaker 2 (22:15):
You know how your daddy is.

Speaker 7 (22:19):
All right?

Speaker 11 (22:20):
Moving on, Ronnie in North Carolina.

Speaker 12 (22:22):
I'm not using my real name because I would be
in a world of trouble if my friend finds out
I'm messing with his oldest daughter.

Speaker 11 (22:29):
For the record, she's thirty six and fine.

Speaker 12 (22:33):
I'm only forty two and my friend is much older
than me, so it's not like I'm a dirty old man.
I have a real attraction to his daughter, and sex
is the best because we've known each other for so long.
She's ready to be honest with her dad, but I
need more time.

Speaker 11 (22:49):
How do I tell my friend this?

Speaker 2 (22:51):
You're gonna get your ass with us. Boy, Yeah, this
ain't none, But I'm just ass whipping on the horizon. Yes,
right in the future, you know.

Speaker 5 (23:03):
But see she wants to be honest. Well you know, now, okay,
let's let's do a little bit of math. She thirty six.
Let's assume he's fifty six. Let's say she had him
he was followed at twenty. Let's say eighteen. Let's say
he's fifty four.

Speaker 2 (23:23):
U forty two. The girl thirty six. He ain't gonna
handle it, right, man, He just ain't.

Speaker 11 (23:31):
Because he doesn't want his friend and the friendship.

Speaker 2 (23:37):
Well, you know, being uh being honest.

Speaker 5 (23:40):
Now I'll come He keep telling y'all, where is this
honesty is the best policy?

Speaker 2 (23:44):
Where they keep coming from? How many times have I
told y'all about that?

Speaker 10 (23:51):
Why why I.

Speaker 5 (23:55):
Keep proving this to y'all over and open and open
honesty is not the best policy.

Speaker 2 (24:01):
I'm a proponent of this. Don't don't do this. So
cad is with you to your grade? Yes, huh, what
if it.

Speaker 11 (24:11):
Turns into something? I mean, it has turned into something.

Speaker 2 (24:15):
It's all.

Speaker 11 (24:17):
Turned into what a real relationship.

Speaker 2 (24:23):
That they wasn't saying it is? He said, just the
best sex. That's all he's said.

Speaker 11 (24:26):
That is, he said he has a real attraction to her,
and she wants to tell him.

Speaker 2 (24:31):
A real attraction.

Speaker 16 (24:37):
Huh.

Speaker 5 (24:39):
Do you know how many real attractions listen to this y'all?
And all of y'all know this is true. Do you
know how many real attractions you got to keep to
your damn self?

Speaker 11 (24:52):
Oh yeah, that's where the line stuff comes in.

Speaker 1 (24:55):
Okay, okay, yeah.

Speaker 11 (25:00):
Take it to the ground.

Speaker 1 (25:03):
Take Why are you looking like me?

Speaker 2 (25:08):
You're disappointed in the team. I don't know what is
this a damn discussion for.

Speaker 10 (25:16):
Which he's just as obvious. Yeah, all right, come in
the room.

Speaker 2 (25:21):
You got to leave, you know.

Speaker 18 (25:22):
What I mean?

Speaker 11 (25:30):
In Birmingham, we've moved on.

Speaker 12 (25:32):
Steve says, I've been driving trucks for ten years and
I'm ready for a career change. I am trying to
lose weight and stop smoking, but it's hard. The reason
I want a lifestyle change is because I met a
special lady recently and I want to see her more.
She says. She gets lonely when I'm away, so it
causes her to date other men. She said, if I'm home,

(25:53):
she will be all about me. My kids said I'm
falling for a garden tool, and they told me to
get advice.

Speaker 11 (26:01):
From Uncle Steve to Clo before she breaks my heart.
Is she worth my time or not?

Speaker 2 (26:06):
Clo? Well, sure did he give an age?

Speaker 11 (26:11):
No, but he's been driving trucks for ten years.

Speaker 2 (26:13):
Okay, cause you've been driving trucks. Your name is big Daddy.
You trying to lose weight?

Speaker 5 (26:21):
Yeah, you trying to lose weight because you got this
girl you like and stop smoking, because you got this
girl just like and you and when you away, she
says she misses you and it causes her to date
other men.

Speaker 2 (26:35):
And if you was around all the time, she could
be about you.

Speaker 5 (26:39):
You want to get in a relationship with a person
like this, because see this, If you were here, I
could be all about you, could be you for right now?
You driving off too many times? It could work his
way into just Hell, well, you went to the Star.
I was sitting here, so I wanted to date. Took

(27:01):
your ass down to that store and took forty minutes. Hell,
I was just sitting on the porch talking.

Speaker 11 (27:08):
So I entertained the gentlemen.

Speaker 2 (27:13):
I don't know, man, I don't know.

Speaker 5 (27:15):
I would lose weight and quit smoking so I could
be health to meet the chicken my dreams.

Speaker 2 (27:19):
She may not be it, dog, she may not be it.

Speaker 11 (27:23):
All right, Celo, good advice. Good advice is always.

Speaker 15 (27:27):
These are things you want to say to your mate
that you really can't, but you really can't. Every man
in a relationship at one point has wanted to say
these things.

Speaker 1 (27:37):
Watch yourself, Watch yourself. If you got a hang nail
on your foot, don't rub that up against man.

Speaker 14 (27:44):
You know what I'm saying, Man, he's done.

Speaker 1 (27:46):
Come on, man, how you don't know that scratching everything.

Speaker 15 (27:50):
I know it's sexy to throw your legs across mine,
but let me just tell you something. That stuff when
we first met, when we first like hooked, that leg
was a lot lighter. You know what I mean? Right there,
right there, that's what I'm saying in trouble, that's I'm
just saying.

Speaker 10 (28:09):
It's not gonna stay that long.

Speaker 7 (28:11):
That's all.

Speaker 2 (28:13):
I love you.

Speaker 22 (28:14):
But that leg is a.

Speaker 10 (28:16):
Little everything, Yeah, fibrant.

Speaker 12 (28:24):
You know what that.

Speaker 4 (28:27):
Is?

Speaker 14 (28:27):
Light in the world.

Speaker 10 (28:28):
When we wait on that leg, I'm like, I'm already diabetic.

Speaker 14 (28:41):
I need you need their taste.

Speaker 11 (28:46):
You're listening Morning show?

Speaker 7 (28:51):
All right, Jay?

Speaker 12 (28:52):
It is time for one of our favorite segments, comedy roulette.

Speaker 10 (28:56):
Yeah, please do.

Speaker 19 (28:59):
Because Junior is a comedian, Tommy is a comedian, I'm
a comedian, and Steve's comedian.

Speaker 2 (29:06):
Because we're all four comedians.

Speaker 19 (29:08):
Since you have four comedians on the show, we take
full steps to put them on a wheel where we'll
make it funny.

Speaker 5 (29:15):
Wow.

Speaker 2 (29:16):
Why do we do that?

Speaker 12 (29:17):
Jay?

Speaker 15 (29:18):
Because because Junior is comedian, comedian, I'm a comedian.

Speaker 2 (29:27):
You who are they?

Speaker 4 (29:33):
Now?

Speaker 12 (29:36):
It's you Jay, Tommy And.

Speaker 11 (29:40):
Let's go no, because you're taking fun out of it.

Speaker 4 (29:44):
Here we go.

Speaker 11 (29:46):
The number one things people say who've been in jail
a long time.

Speaker 14 (29:51):
Oh, that's a nice one.

Speaker 1 (29:54):
Okay, get this one, guys.

Speaker 11 (29:55):
Directions that black people give you.

Speaker 12 (29:58):
All right, okay, okay, excuses men say when they're not
getting a lot of sex.

Speaker 2 (30:04):
All day, that for a hour.

Speaker 11 (30:09):
If you want, some people say, who don't have cable?

Speaker 1 (30:14):
That's another girl, all right, it's funny. Oh this is unusual.

Speaker 10 (30:28):
It's stopped on directions that black people give you.

Speaker 14 (30:33):
Definitely, black people give different directions.

Speaker 11 (30:37):
What do you mean?

Speaker 14 (30:38):
Here we go? Okay, what you want to do is
do you know where the Baptist church used to be?

Speaker 4 (30:49):
You.

Speaker 14 (30:49):
You don't know where it used to be, Well, you're
not gonna find it.

Speaker 3 (30:59):
Okay, direction, I know a lot about this because I
am black. I do have a I do he some
directions that black people give. This is also a direction
when you back it up. Come on, come on, come on,
come on back, come on back, Oh, come on, you
come on Union.

Speaker 4 (31:19):
You got it on this side.

Speaker 10 (31:21):
Yeah you got it. Yeah, come on, Hold what you got.

Speaker 9 (31:27):
That's what you're looking for right there, that's the whole
what you got direction people give.

Speaker 2 (31:34):
Now, look, this is what you want to do.

Speaker 9 (31:36):
Now you want to go down here to the second
stop time, you're gonna mend the left right there, Go
down to the next block. I don't know what street
that is, but go down to the next block. It's
a store there.

Speaker 1 (31:48):
Go in that store and ask for Lucky, and Lucky
know how to get.

Speaker 2 (31:58):
Come on, all right is right out there across from
Earl Neil.

Speaker 1 (32:07):
That's what the black people say.

Speaker 10 (32:09):
Yeah, come on.

Speaker 1 (32:12):
Directions that black people give you. Jay, we're different with Okay.

Speaker 19 (32:16):
You're gonna go down a bit ways and you're gonna
see an old man sitting on the porch.

Speaker 2 (32:21):
If he ain't on the porch.

Speaker 19 (32:23):
You just keep driving, or wait till he come out,
and then you make the left. Right there, you can't
miss it.

Speaker 15 (32:36):
Yeah, right that.

Speaker 10 (32:38):
This is a direction that black people give you.

Speaker 2 (32:42):
What you mean, you don't know where we're at.

Speaker 10 (32:44):
We're at the.

Speaker 2 (32:44):
Same place where Lyddy.

Speaker 10 (32:46):
Was shot right there.

Speaker 2 (32:49):
How come you home with him?

Speaker 1 (32:50):
You've been when Liddy got shot.

Speaker 10 (32:52):
I was there, Keith was said down with there.

Speaker 2 (32:55):
We have the exact same spot when Lindy got shot.
This is what you want to do.

Speaker 1 (33:03):
Take this road, this row it, Take this row it
this row it, take this road it you go down
this road.

Speaker 2 (33:11):
Now, this here is.

Speaker 9 (33:13):
Asphalt. Now, wait till you see a dirt road. You
see a dirt road, that way, you make your right.
You are to see the house coming up on the
right side. If you go further than that, you might
see a klan round. Now that means you went too far.
You might want to back it up. You might want
to back it up.

Speaker 5 (33:35):
Steve directions and black people give make enough when you
get down there and see the big black tree that
got the squirrels.

Speaker 14 (33:41):
In it, and you got to be looking the direction.

Speaker 19 (33:49):
Yes, he go here, go right here, y'all, how much
gas you got in your car because you ain't gonna
make it on half a tank.

Speaker 14 (33:56):
You're gonna need to have a whole full take a gas.

Speaker 1 (34:01):
What I got it?

Speaker 3 (34:09):
These are directions that black people give you. Okay, you're
coming to the fan re union. Okay, follow the north
Star till the running the Cheryl House. What just follow
the north Star to the run into Sharyl House.

Speaker 2 (34:33):
People.

Speaker 1 (34:33):
Yeah, all right, all right.

Speaker 9 (34:35):
You're trying to get to the convention Center. That's where
you're trying to go. Let me tell you what you
need to do. I can't get you there, but I
can get you there. But let me do what I
need you to do. Take Maine, get the main if
you go down Maine. Uh uh the second street, I
think Commerce, Commerce and Maine. It's a girl uh named Glitter.
That's the prostitute. She right there on the Corletta. Get

(34:58):
Glitter in that glitna know how to get.

Speaker 2 (35:01):
You to that con.

Speaker 11 (35:07):
Thank you, Glita.

Speaker 4 (35:09):
All right?

Speaker 5 (35:10):
Direction Ali, wold you go all the way down now
to you don't see black people no more? Then come
back to blocks.

Speaker 4 (35:29):
All right?

Speaker 12 (35:30):
Coming up more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right
after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys,
it's time now for another round of would you rather?

Speaker 2 (35:42):
Here we go?

Speaker 12 (35:43):
Would you rather never be able to take a hot
shower or never be able to eat fried food again,
specifically fried chicken and fried catfish.

Speaker 5 (35:55):
I never, I know, I never have fried food again. Okay,
take a sh olum hot shower, hot show. Who on
a cold show?

Speaker 11 (36:06):
A lot of people take cold showers.

Speaker 4 (36:08):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (36:09):
I don't they do. No, I'm through the fray. I
need the shower. I take too many a day. I
need that show. It can't be cold.

Speaker 11 (36:21):
New takes three showers a day.

Speaker 5 (36:25):
Stop letting him tell y'all that before taking No damn
three showers a day.

Speaker 2 (36:31):
You got stuff with you.

Speaker 5 (36:34):
You got radio show, he got radio show, he tool,
and he got TV show and a game show. Were
the hell he got time to take three damn showers
a day? Y'all be letting him tell y'all this stuff fall?

Speaker 2 (36:48):
Dude, we know he shower.

Speaker 5 (36:51):
Hold up, hold, let me play just picture for you
got a four hour radio show that you do every day?

Speaker 2 (36:57):
He got TV show, he got game show, he toured,
he got kids.

Speaker 5 (37:03):
He gotta go to baseball games with he gotta go
to prums and stuff with. He got family time, and
he got a white How you take three showers a day?

Speaker 9 (37:13):
Man?

Speaker 2 (37:14):
He worked? Shall I'm letting him tell you that, fulk
How would you know all that?

Speaker 5 (37:22):
Because I got molded, he got they got no time
for no damn three showers this day. Gotta make this money, man,
three damn showers of day. Call I get home sometime
I fall asleep in my office. Ain't gonna be no
damn shower now sitting up in here, o, Man sitting

(37:49):
up here, you just like my stylist Ellie, with his
little simple ass, over overdoing and all this holl notion
and baby in.

Speaker 2 (37:57):
His damn So get your lett we can go.

Speaker 5 (37:59):
Man sitting up in here, rub it all tween your
damn toes, put some all on your foot.

Speaker 2 (38:05):
Let's go take all this damn showers. Man, you ain't
that damn queen. We got to go.

Speaker 4 (38:13):
I do.

Speaker 2 (38:17):
Thank you all right? All right? Next one tell you
there for go ahead.

Speaker 12 (38:23):
Would you rather have the ability to read minds? Or
would you rather have the ability to move objects with
your mind?

Speaker 1 (38:32):
Move the object you want to read?

Speaker 2 (38:37):
I know you don't like me'll I don't need to
read you mine, man. No, I don't need that. I
want to move stuff with my mind.

Speaker 12 (38:47):
All right, you're listening hard morning show. All right, ladies
and gentlemen, get ready. We consulting an expert because we
wanted to know the real deal. Okay, Steve is here
with his breakup handbook.

Speaker 2 (39:02):
All right.

Speaker 5 (39:03):
These are things that you need to have in mind
after the breakup. Most of this is for fellas because
when we take a breakup hard, it's ugly. It's ugly
out there.

Speaker 8 (39:20):
Now.

Speaker 2 (39:20):
These are things from Steve.

Speaker 5 (39:24):
Harvey's break Up Handbook, How to act when you break up?

Speaker 2 (39:31):
Right now, hiss. Rule number one, you are allowed only
one drunk.

Speaker 8 (39:41):
Die.

Speaker 5 (39:42):
You know how you call them up when you drunk?
You only get to one and it sounds like something
like this, Hello is me?

Speaker 2 (39:55):
You know who means.

Speaker 4 (40:00):
With me?

Speaker 14 (40:00):
You know who men play with my emotions?

Speaker 2 (40:08):
You you you know who me is?

Speaker 4 (40:12):
How many of you?

Speaker 15 (40:14):
One?

Speaker 5 (40:15):
One?

Speaker 2 (40:15):
Get one of them? All right? Now, here's the next rule.

Speaker 5 (40:20):
You are not allowed to roll up on your ex
just cause you see the car parked outside.

Speaker 2 (40:27):
The club, the restaurant or church.

Speaker 10 (40:30):
Don't go in down.

Speaker 2 (40:32):
You can't do that ship because we broke up here.
I can't go in there.

Speaker 10 (40:37):
If I see the car, you can.

Speaker 2 (40:39):
You can't roll up on them.

Speaker 4 (40:43):
Now.

Speaker 5 (40:44):
I gotta say you with church later on, but just
stay that stay out right. You can't roll up on them.

Speaker 2 (40:49):
Oh that she is. I'm gonna go in now. Yeah,
Oh that he is. I'm going in there. You can't
do that. Call look at legend all right.

Speaker 5 (41:01):
Next one y'all's favorite spot. It's off limits to both
parties for at least four months. Anybody else over there,
you get.

Speaker 2 (41:11):
To go to the spot.

Speaker 1 (41:13):
At least four months.

Speaker 4 (41:15):
Keep it.

Speaker 2 (41:16):
Here's another one.

Speaker 11 (41:17):
Okay.

Speaker 5 (41:18):
Texting your favorite song to each other is off limits.
You can listen to it, you can cry to it.
You're playing over and over, but you can't send it.
So I'm trying to move on and im killing you.

Speaker 2 (41:40):
Now. Listen to this.

Speaker 5 (41:43):
All y'all stuff, all possessions is collected at one time
and one time over. Anything that's left behind will be
thrown away by both parties. Keep coming over here looking
for see.

Speaker 1 (42:03):
My red shirt?

Speaker 5 (42:04):
You can't keep coming back over here. I got coming
to you in the closet looking for your tank top.

Speaker 4 (42:14):
You're keeping it real.

Speaker 2 (42:18):
You hear the big one right here.

Speaker 5 (42:21):
Nobody is allowed to talk to each other's mama, and
you can't be friendd with mama.

Speaker 10 (42:37):
Come home. Yeah, good.

Speaker 2 (42:43):
One was trying to pick up some greens and you
and it talking rolling.

Speaker 1 (42:49):
Your eyes when I walk in the door.

Speaker 2 (42:50):
Here's the next one.

Speaker 1 (42:52):
Okay, all parties.

Speaker 2 (42:54):
She find a new church hall.

Speaker 1 (42:58):
Yes, but yeah that's I love cluster Wicks.

Speaker 5 (43:06):
All your friends should be dividing up equally, except the
ones you hate it.

Speaker 11 (43:12):
You can have him.

Speaker 2 (43:15):
No posting a new pictures? Yeah yeah, you know, like
her naked on him just up like the damn easter.

Speaker 1 (43:24):
But the private.

Speaker 2 (43:30):
What about I'm gonna do. I'm gonna finish this one,
all right, old naked pictures?

Speaker 14 (43:36):
All right?

Speaker 12 (43:38):
Well, nephew, tell me has a prank fall coming up
and we'll finish out seams break up rules right after this.

Speaker 11 (43:44):
You're listening hard morning show coming up at the top
of the hour.

Speaker 12 (43:51):
Right about four minutes after, it's my strawberry letter for today.
The subject my husband is a thug and a prominent pastor.
What but uh, right now, the nephew is here with
today's prank phone call.

Speaker 1 (44:04):
What you got for us? Now, I'm gonna throw this
one up from my pops right here? Can I have
your kidney.

Speaker 2 (44:15):
Favorite?

Speaker 4 (44:15):
Right? Hello? Hello, I'm trying to reach a brother Conley.
This is kind of how you doing, bro? This is
Deacon Patterson calling from the church. How you doing today? Uh,
Deacon Patterson? Yeah, just do it finding yourself, sir. I'm
doing good, doing good. You know the church is behind
you on what you're going through. When we were praying

(44:36):
for you, man, we know all about the you know
you're going in the surgery on Friday to get your
get your prankers removed. So I wanted to give you
a call, man, have a word of prayer and let
you know that we all are pulling for you, and
we know that that the man upstairs are gonna pull
you through this success.

Speaker 20 (44:52):
Will God blessing keep you? Uh that Deacon, God bless
and keep you because I tell you I'm going through
something here, me and my wife, we've been talking about
it and we've been praying on it, and it shows
a wonderful pain to know that your church is with
you and y'all thinking about me in prayer. I I
really had to take this this to the Lord. This
is a serious thing with me and uh, I ain't

(45:12):
never had an operation before in my life. And I
know I needed my wife that made it clear, the
doctor that made it clear. And I believe I'm ready
to go forward because and we're gonna give the victory
to who the lor Yes, sir, he's the victory he is.

Speaker 4 (45:26):
Let me, let me, let me have a word of
prayer with your brother con if you don't mind, just
about your head from me. Father God, we ask right now,
we ask right now that you touch brother Conley as
he goes in on Friday, Please put your hands on him.
We asked, Father, that you hold on to the doctor
that's getting ready to go and Lloyd to put surgery
on it. Yes, we asked that you make sure that

(45:48):
the doctor he's got a strong eye on that morning
walk with him. We asked that that that he got
a steady hand when he got the scoppel in his hand.
We asked that you hold on he's as it goes
into a surgeon because we don't come side the morning. Nah,
the victory gonna belong to brother Conley and the law.

(46:08):
Thank you Lord, we know all of this, but we
we we asked that you take that pancreas and you
remove it out success, closing back up like it will
never been into the end before walk with me. That's
what we're asking. We ask your Lord at the same
time that they're removing this pancreas Lord, we asked that
you reach around his backside, and we asked that you

(46:29):
touch his kidney. Lord, touch his kidney and make it whole,
make it one hundred and ten percent. We want you
to make that that.

Speaker 22 (46:36):
Kidney like it's been the best kidney it was Loca Deacon,
that's deacon Deacon whoop packed dexon cancl Yes, you know
you're saying they dul sir, there's nothing wrong with my kidney.

Speaker 4 (46:46):
Deacon. I'm doing.

Speaker 20 (46:48):
I'm doing sign the Lordest Lordest then madd well, he's
gonna work on my pancreage. That's what the doctor's operating though.
They don't trap me forward and that's what they plan
to remove. So really, my kidney is signed. They did
what they called when it me in my eyes, and
everything else is fine. They ain't working on nothing but
my pack.

Speaker 4 (47:04):
Right right right, Well, let me say I'm glad you
brought that up. This This wouldn't reason why I call you,
uh huh uh of course I did call to pray
for you, Yes, you know, because I want to make
sure that that that that you make it through this successfully.
But what another reason why I getting around it is
here is uh, what I want to ask you. And
I know we we you know we've never met face

(47:25):
to face. I've seen you a couple of times, like
I said, the church, but you've been out most time.
Uh you're with your sickness and whatnot. But now, what
what I was gonna ask you was, yeah, and I
know this is I hate to come at you in
the final hour and you're getting ready to go have
certain and all that, but if you don't mind it,
if you could see it in your heart to see

(47:46):
to do something for somebody else, yes, Uh, that's that's
the last will. You always supposed to have those who
right right, And I'm glad you you think like that
when they go in on Friday morning and and remove
that Chris out, Do you think that that that that
they could go in and get one of your kidneys?

Speaker 20 (48:08):
Because I need one hold hold on just met begging
up what you say?

Speaker 4 (48:13):
What you said, see see see what else I've been
going through myself with a little ailment and and I'm
wondering if if I need a kitteny, And I'm wondering
if you can give me one of yours when they
go in and get your pain, because they gonn already
have your open. Did you say you wanted them to
take one of my kidneys? Yeah, and give it to
me because I need one. You need a kidney? Yeah?

(48:34):
But what I mean you already gonna be laying there open.
Wait a minute, mister, you need a kidney. I need
help with my package. You gonna call me with Man,
this ain't no work of the Lord. Now you said
you're a dickon, Like I said, dickon patters of my name.
But see what I'm asking you? If what what me?
Brother Conny? What harm is it? If you already open

(48:55):
and laying on the table. Oh, you ain't hearing a
damn thing I said? Have you? I said, I'll be man,
you're crazy as hell. Now what I'm gonna have to do.
I'm gonna need to call the pastor because here's something
going on here. You say you knew you madendamn new mister.
Matter of fact, you too damn new to know who
you're talking to. What I'm saying is you have two
look like you said, you say they did the MRI.

(49:17):
I God, don't give up what I said they did. Man,
I got two kidneys. You got to one of your
advand that's your problem. Mister.

Speaker 20 (49:24):
Let me tell you something. I'm trying to get well
and you call them with this, You say you a
new dickers. You damn show is and you won't be
at that church loan. I tell you that because if
I ever get gold to your sister. We got some
rinchmen and do.

Speaker 4 (49:36):
What is it gonna hurt for you to give me
one of them kittingers and both of them if both
them kitteners is good, ain't gonna hit him? Thank them?
You ain't kidding my kidney man can't go a huad?
What's wrong with you? Say? Man? All I'm saying is,
if you're gonna be opening laying on the table, what
is it gonna hurt? I hit got me moved. Now
you're gonna tell Him'm open laying on the damn table?
What kind of a play you in charge of? Mister?

(49:58):
Let me tell you something I was. I need to
meet thank you before I get to the hospital, and
nobody can help. They got that damn bad getting to yours,
and I can tell you that we law. You won't
feel a damn thing.

Speaker 20 (50:07):
I got that.

Speaker 4 (50:08):
I'll be damned if you gonna call and talk to
me out of one of my damn kiddings. Man, I'm
trying to live just like you, trying to let Nod
take care of me, because what you talking about, he
ain't got a damn thing to do with Jesus. You
can kiss my and get off my phone, that's what
you can do. Can I say one more thing to you?
What is you listening to me? Man? I to listen
to you, and you ain't talking about nothing that's got

(50:30):
nothing to do with what's going on with me? Mister
you running a game? If I could get to you
to put land in you? What can I just say
one more thing and then I'm gonna let you go?
Is you listening for what Bless just left you? Timing
from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got pranked
by your daughter? Oh Lord, have that girl? Lord, have mercy, Lord,

(50:54):
have much Jesus and you all right? Brother Coudins Man, Man,
you the man me use language that I swear I
don't know nobody I heard my natism using that I
have stopped a long time ago talking that away. Please
forgive me, Lord hen merch whoa yo, I'm gonna have
to Lord, have mercy. My heart is time painting here. Lord,
have mercy. Jesus, this ain't me, This ain't me. And you,

(51:18):
I'll tell you what I joined Steve Harvey, if you
told me I do. Brother Colin, I gotta ask you
one more thing, man, what is the baddest I'm talking
about the baddest radio show in the land. It's gotta
be It's gotta be y'all. It's gotta be y'all. Hell,
I don't even remember the name of it now, Steve Harvey, Martin,

(51:39):
Steve Harvey Morning Show. Lord help us. I ain't gonna
forget it now.

Speaker 9 (51:42):
I prayed that thing at the beginning. I was praying
that thing. Yeah, you know if you why are you
open this?

Speaker 10 (51:51):
You open?

Speaker 2 (51:52):
They just reach around?

Speaker 9 (51:53):
Now, let me get one of them kidneys because I
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Speaker 2 (52:03):
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Speaker 2 (52:18):
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Speaker 1 (52:19):
A Shirly is on you up next to Strawberry Letter.

Speaker 12 (52:22):
My husband is a thug and a prominent pastor. We'll
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(52:44):
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Speaker 1 (52:49):
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Speaker 11 (52:53):
Thank you nephew.

Speaker 12 (52:54):
Subject my husband is a thug and a prominent pastor.
Dear Stephen Shirley. I've been married for seven years. I'm
forty three and my husband is thirty eight. But he
acts like the world owes him something and always has
a chip on his shoulder. He is argumentative and I
wanna be thug. He grew up in a rough area

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and he had to make it out of a hood
on his own. But he won't acknowledge that he's in
a much better place spiritually and financially now. He will
preach a good sermon on Sunday, but Monday through Saturday
he curses, drinks, and he's a womanizing thug. He curses
like a sailor, and he loves to brag about fighting
and who's behind.

Speaker 11 (53:37):
He could whoop if he had the chance.

Speaker 12 (53:40):
He's cheated on me twice. The second time it happened,
I checked out of the marriage. I would love to
divorce him, but I can't because he is my sole
source of income. I got laid off in April of
last year, and I'm having a hard time finding a
full time job. He stands in the pulpit on sun

(54:00):
Days while I sit amongst the two or more women
he slept with at the church. A few sundays ago,
a female church member approached me and said my husband
made inappropriate remarks to her.

Speaker 11 (54:11):
I told her that she should tell her husband.

Speaker 12 (54:13):
A couple of days later, my husband came home and
said he got into a verbal altercation with the lady's
husband and I acted surprised. My husband was flustered and embarrassed.
I'm thinking all of the men in the church need
to know what he's up to. The two church members
he slept with are married, and I think their husband
should know what my husband has been doing. Should I

(54:36):
start a war at the church or leave vengeance up
to the Lord? Well, I'll say no, definitely, don't start
a war at the church. And the first lady, you
know the Bible does say vengeance is mine. You know
that vengeance is mine saith the Lord, so you already
know the answer to that. The question is what are
you going to do? I mean, I'm trying to figure

(54:57):
out how you're still with him. He's a hip chrit
he's supposed to be a changed man, and you know
all of that practice what he preaches every Sunday. And
you know, of course, I'm not saying that he should
be perfect, because you know he's still a man of course,
but nothing in the letter says that he's a man
of God except for that he goes Sunday and preaches

(55:21):
and preaches a good sermon. But after that, money through Saturday,
you know he's all in this thug life or whatever.
He's been trying to do. You say, he's a womanizing thug,
but then you're dependent upon him financially, so that makes
it hard for you to leave.

Speaker 11 (55:38):
He's a cheater.

Speaker 12 (55:39):
You've been humiliated every Sunday when you see these women's faces.
Your man is sexually harassing women at the church, and
and just wrong. He's just wrong on every level. I mean,
you can't change him, but I guess, you know, I
guess you should be planning your escape. I mean I
say escape because you got to get a from him,

(56:00):
at least for a little while. You got to do something.
I mean, he's not showing any signs of stopping. He's
not showing any signs of remorse or anything, and he's
being very disrespectful and self destructive, you know, really trying
not to I do ask you this. Try not to
make any emotional decisions like telling the husbands. You know,

(56:21):
like you said at the end of the letter, let
God handle that. You just continue to look for a
job because you know something is going to give eventually.
See if you have any friends or family members you
can trust that maybe can help you. And in the meantime,
maybe you could suggest counseling I doubt if he'll go.
Maybe you can suggest that, but definitely you have to

(56:42):
change your situation, your pattern, what you're doing, so to start.

Speaker 11 (56:46):
Saving up if you.

Speaker 12 (56:47):
Can, you know, get a little part time job or
something you're looking for full time.

Speaker 11 (56:52):
But you've got to get out of there, because this
is not healthy, especially for.

Speaker 12 (56:56):
You, Steve.

Speaker 5 (57:00):
You know this letter right here, it starts off as
a major conflict, just the subject my husband is a
thug and a prominent pastor. What Okay, let's just deal
with the he's a pastor part because he's really not
a thug. He's really really not He's nothing in this

(57:21):
letter he does is thuggish. I'm just but but he's
supposed to be a pastor, So let's get with the
conflict right away. He acts like the world owes him.
First of all, you took forty three and he thirty eight.
What did he say to you to get you in
the first place? I don't even understand this here, but
that ain't what the letters about. But let me show

(57:41):
you the conflict of him being a prominent pastor. First thing,
he acts like the world owes him something. Here's another one.
He always has a chip on his shoulder. Here's another one.
He's argumented. And last but not least, he's a wanna
bee thug. How the hell did he get to be

(58:03):
the pastor? I mean, just these four qualities right here?
How did he become a prominent pastor? He grew up
in the work, in the rough air, had to make
it out the hood on his own.

Speaker 2 (58:17):
How many you know? How many of us got that story?
Three on this show? On this show?

Speaker 5 (58:22):
That damnar everybody I know that's anything damn near got
that story. Tell all of us on this show got
that story? So what is he talking about? He don't
acknowledge that he's in a much better place spiritually.

Speaker 2 (58:40):
What I can't tell you? I'm this and let it
just too much? All right, here we go.

Speaker 5 (58:46):
He will preach a good sermon on Sunday, but Monday
through Saturday he cusses, he drinks, and he's a womanizing thug. Okay,
now let's let's let's go back. He's your husband and
you're putting up with the cussing, the drinking, and the
womanize it. He cusses like a sailor, loves a brag

(59:07):
about fighting.

Speaker 2 (59:08):
Hold on and who's behind? He could whoop if he
had a chance.

Speaker 12 (59:12):
We'll have part two of Steve's response coming twenty three
minutes after the hour. Subject my husband is a thug
and a prominent pastor. We'll get back into it right
after this. You're listening to Steve Hardy Morning Show. All right,
come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter. The subject,
my husband is a thug and a prominent pastor.

Speaker 5 (59:33):
All right, the prominent pastor has these following qualities the world. Oh,
he acts like the well owe and something. He always
got a chip on his shoulder. He's argumented, and he's
a wanna be thug. You're married to him. He worked
his way out the hood, but he won't acknowledge that
he's in a better place because he wants to hold
up this little thug mentality for some dumb ass reason.

Speaker 2 (59:56):
He'll preach a.

Speaker 5 (59:57):
Good sermon on Sunday, but mone he cusses, drinks, and
he's a womanizing thug. So he has a lot of
women and obviously you know this. Cusses like a sailor.
He loves a brag about fighting and who's behind. He
could whoop if he had a chance. You always got
the chance to jump on somebody if that opportunity is available.

(01:00:20):
Twenty four seven. You just going over there and start
to fight, if that's what you want to do. He
just talking, he running his damn mouf.

Speaker 2 (01:00:27):
He ain't whooping.

Speaker 5 (01:00:28):
Nobody asks. But this dude right here is worse than that.
Now you said he's cheated on me twice. The second
time it happened, you checked out the marriage. Then you
say I would love to divorce him, but I can't
because he's my sole source of income. Okay, now we
have to deal with this part for a second. So

(01:00:50):
I understand that. I mean, look, don't think I don't.

Speaker 2 (01:00:53):
So I got it. You you ain't got no means
of taking care of yourself and everything. I get it.

Speaker 5 (01:00:59):
I'm not naive to that. But now let's go with
what you have to swallow to have this roof over
your head and car to drive. He acts like the
world owe him something. He's argumenting, got a chip on
his shoulder. He's sleeping with women at the church. You

(01:01:20):
know about it. And you got to deal with all
that if you want to keep having the key to
that house.

Speaker 2 (01:01:29):
I just I don't. Is it worth it? Is it
worth it?

Speaker 4 (01:01:33):
You know?

Speaker 5 (01:01:34):
I would love to divorce him, but I can't because
he's my sole source of I got laid off in
April last year, having a hard time finding full time job.
He stands in the pool pitch on Sundays while I
sit amongst the two or more women he slept with
at church. Woo, you.

Speaker 2 (01:01:52):
You bad girl? You you you a bad girl. Man.

Speaker 5 (01:01:57):
You use use a bad girl, and you gotta swallow
a lot. Look, I don't know where your relatives at.
I don't know who you could move in with temporarily.
I don't know if you think you're walking away from
something and leaving it to somebody else. But you ain't
got nothing though. I mean, he's doggish.

Speaker 2 (01:02:15):
Man. This dude is doggish. But here the one that
got it.

Speaker 5 (01:02:19):
A few sundays ago, female churchmen approached me and said,
my husband made an inappropriate remark to her. You told
her you should tell her husband. A couple days later,
my husband came home, said he got into a verbal
altercation with the lady's husband and acted surprise, what happened
to all that ass whooping he was gonna do?

Speaker 2 (01:02:41):
Remember that?

Speaker 5 (01:02:43):
Remember that, you know, if you really wanted to whoop
somebody ass. This was the perfect opportunity. Dude up in
your face accusing you of something you probably gonna act
like you didn't do. So you're gonna act like you
didn't say it. You got to because you're the pastor,
because you can't admit it, because you know if you
admit you did what you said, you know this dude

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gonna light into you.

Speaker 2 (01:03:07):
So your little husband is a little coward.

Speaker 5 (01:03:10):
Now my husband was flustered and embarrassed once again? What
happened to this ass whooman he been wanting to do?
See the man approached you? Now you flustered in the back.
Where is all these ass whoopers at?

Speaker 4 (01:03:25):
Man?

Speaker 10 (01:03:25):
When you come home?

Speaker 2 (01:03:28):
Give me one? Come on, Jack Johnson, show me something.
All right?

Speaker 5 (01:03:34):
I'm thinking of all the men in the church that
need to know what he's up to. The two church
members he slept with, a married and I think that
husband should know what my husband has been doing.

Speaker 2 (01:03:47):
Okay, now.

Speaker 5 (01:03:49):
Your husband has been talking about whooping a lot of
people's behind.

Speaker 2 (01:03:53):
But if you go to these.

Speaker 5 (01:03:54):
Women, husband and tellness eager, he shure gonna be involved
in ask what was there?

Speaker 2 (01:04:01):
And he ain't gonna want neither one of them. But
they gonna do something to your husband, see you, they
gonna do something to him.

Speaker 4 (01:04:08):
Man.

Speaker 5 (01:04:09):
So I agree with Shirley. I don't think you should
say it to them. I think the bigger problem for
you is what you gonna do. I think that's the
bigger problem. I think your situation you should start focusing
on you. You've already checked out the marriage. It ain't
much of a marriage. What you're willing to lose you

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don't have. You don't have no cause. He's disrespectful, he's misleading,
he's overbearing, he's the bully pull pit. He's abusive to you.
He treats you any kind of way. And if I
were you, I would just find a way to remove
myself from that situation. All you got to do is

(01:04:51):
gone a bout your business. You ain't got to do nothing.
You can't stand in the poor pit, claim to be
God's man and be doing what you You might be
getting away with it to them people, but you ain't
getting away from God.

Speaker 2 (01:05:03):
You walk away from it.

Speaker 5 (01:05:04):
Go set yourself up, Go stay at relative's house, get
out of that situation. Because the London Bridge is falling down.

Speaker 11 (01:05:11):
Yeah, all right, post your comments.

Speaker 12 (01:05:13):
Thank you, Steve On Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey
FM on Instagram and Facebook. Check out the Strawberry Letter
podcast on demand. You're listening Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys,
there's a new study out and researchers have identified a
strong sign of lying is mimicking the body language of
the person they're lying too, a liar and a copycat.

(01:05:36):
The title of a new study now published in the
Royal Society's Open Science Journal could later lead to application
applications of the theory in criminal justice. Wow, so, Steve,
Tommy and JUNR. What's your physical tell when you're lying?

Speaker 2 (01:05:53):
I do a lot of blame.

Speaker 10 (01:05:55):
Yeah, can you not look at why would we sit
here tell that right there?

Speaker 2 (01:05:58):
Why would we do that?

Speaker 10 (01:05:59):
We know I'm.

Speaker 2 (01:06:03):
I ain't got no tail. I lie to you as
dead in your faces. I ain't no tail, ain't my lines.

Speaker 5 (01:06:12):
You can't ever bust me on the original line. You
you can go days and do some fact checking and
come up with the truth. But the moment I'm telling
the lie, very very.

Speaker 18 (01:06:26):
Girl.

Speaker 7 (01:06:26):
What what tail?

Speaker 2 (01:06:29):
Right now? Sir?

Speaker 12 (01:06:32):
Now?

Speaker 11 (01:06:32):
Color is your shirt?

Speaker 12 (01:06:37):
What it is?

Speaker 11 (01:06:40):
It's leopard?

Speaker 2 (01:06:42):
Excuse me? If you've ever seen when have you ever
seen a black leopard.

Speaker 11 (01:06:52):
That'ar, Yes, the jaguar.

Speaker 2 (01:06:56):
Wipe your camera off.

Speaker 11 (01:06:59):
You're just gonna go with the line right down.

Speaker 2 (01:07:03):
I gotta keep it going.

Speaker 11 (01:07:04):
Well, have you ever been man?

Speaker 2 (01:07:06):
Show something? What have y'all not? Immediately?

Speaker 5 (01:07:10):
Let me ask you something, y'all Probably y'all ain't never
took a polygraph before?

Speaker 2 (01:07:14):
I never you took a polygraph before?

Speaker 4 (01:07:18):
Hell?

Speaker 2 (01:07:19):
Yeah, you comed.

Speaker 1 (01:07:25):
Take the tail you will take.

Speaker 5 (01:07:27):
I didn't become a comedian until I was twenty seven.
I didn't get famous at this till I was thirty eight.
Poly Have I ever took a protagraph of federal charges?

Speaker 4 (01:07:37):
Here? You mean?

Speaker 11 (01:07:39):
Please?

Speaker 2 (01:07:40):
You have them gone?

Speaker 5 (01:07:41):
I've been cleared. I'm fine. It's been way more than
seven years. I can't get on none of this year.

Speaker 2 (01:07:48):
Your pass every line, my ass off time lied right
to his ass.

Speaker 11 (01:07:56):
You need to go on first forty eight or something.
See if they can.

Speaker 5 (01:08:01):
Only thing got me was that video surveillance. I was
standing there right there with the dude.

Speaker 8 (01:08:05):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:08:06):
When the truth, Well, that's how you.

Speaker 5 (01:08:07):
Get good at it, Shirley, And what you have to
lie when you don't have to lie, that that gives
you the expertise, y'all, wait till it's time to lie.

Speaker 11 (01:08:20):
They got a horrible liar. I'm a horrible life I
really am. I really am. I'm the worst. All right,
you're listening Morning show. All right, So guys, here's a
question for you. Do you have a hiding place in
your home to just have a few minutes alone?

Speaker 4 (01:08:40):
You know?

Speaker 12 (01:08:40):
I mean everybody should have someplace, some little getaway place
that they can have some me time. For instance, some
women like to have what they call a she shed
or a small room that they can read in or
just chill in. You know what, I love the bathroom.
Men usually go into the garage or their man cave
or the basement or someplace.

Speaker 4 (01:09:00):
Uh.

Speaker 12 (01:09:00):
Do you take an extended break in your home hiding place?
Do you do it every day?

Speaker 1 (01:09:05):
Is the question?

Speaker 12 (01:09:07):
Or does your family know not to disturb you when
you're in your favorite room or you're hiding place.

Speaker 11 (01:09:12):
Come on, Steve, I know you take time for yourself.

Speaker 4 (01:09:15):
Yeah.

Speaker 11 (01:09:15):
I always done that.

Speaker 5 (01:09:16):
I go, I go to San Diego. You lead a house, Yeah,
get the hell out. Can't follow me down now, Damn.
Grand kids know how to use the elevator and everything.
I'll be Damn I'm going to Sandy Eggles.

Speaker 11 (01:09:32):
It's beautiful there.

Speaker 2 (01:09:34):
I don't care if it is not there.

Speaker 1 (01:09:39):
Yeah, I left.

Speaker 11 (01:09:40):
I will be in my bathroom for out words.

Speaker 2 (01:09:43):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (01:09:44):
I was in the bathroom in the bad because.

Speaker 12 (01:09:46):
I have a TV in there, and you know I
do my makeup, you know. Yeah, I don't mean the water.
You don't mean no, no, no, I don't time. I
spend most of my time in the bathroom.

Speaker 11 (01:09:58):
No, no, no, not there.

Speaker 4 (01:09:59):
I just.

Speaker 11 (01:10:01):
Yes, that's a separate with the bad.

Speaker 2 (01:10:03):
I got my TV right in front of the toilet
and a computer.

Speaker 1 (01:10:06):
Oh no, that's how you go from No, that's how you.

Speaker 5 (01:10:10):
I don't miss nothing because when I'm watching the game,
I just get up and going in the bathroom. It's
on the wall right in front of you. That's yeah
that I ain't nothing up a little highway. You can
keep your head up. You don't want to look either,
keep your head up, your digestive tracking.

Speaker 2 (01:10:28):
More open the slight little.

Speaker 11 (01:10:37):
What about you tell me I'm in.

Speaker 2 (01:10:40):
My theater, I can get away from the theater. Did
you hear that, rich ass?

Speaker 11 (01:10:44):
Yeah, yeah, you.

Speaker 2 (01:10:47):
Said a rich as statement. I ain't saying that.

Speaker 4 (01:10:49):
You said.

Speaker 1 (01:10:50):
My kids on my grand baby's on the elevator. I
ain't saying nothing at your elevator in your house.

Speaker 5 (01:10:54):
I ain't even paying that no change. I know you
say that I was going to because I ain't going up. Now,
go ahead, t you got the rooms in this I
thought I had it limited.

Speaker 1 (01:11:05):
Okay, all right, Well July passed his elevator on my theater.

Speaker 2 (01:11:09):
Hey, Junior, which one of your rooms in your house
is your theater?

Speaker 1 (01:11:13):
Yeah, let's hear from the poet.

Speaker 2 (01:11:15):
I have no theater.

Speaker 3 (01:11:17):
What I had to do is take some some drapes
and put them on the side of the TV. Make
my ass in the with the I'm gonna make a theater.
Hold on, y'all, come out the kitchen. Drake's gonna catch you.
I'm gonna make a field. That boy to be nice,

(01:11:38):
ain't I go to my theater.

Speaker 2 (01:11:42):
Thoroughly nothing. I can't say nothing.

Speaker 11 (01:11:52):
How many seats in the theater, I'm not.

Speaker 2 (01:11:54):
Telling so many. They can't find him in there? You
shut up, Steve, where theater? Go down front? See if
he's down now.

Speaker 1 (01:12:07):
I said, go down to the theater. I better take
my hand down.

Speaker 7 (01:12:09):
I ain't gonna look in the bark and to see
him be up now, DNA.

Speaker 1 (01:12:18):
Ask me where I go to get away? That's all
I said.

Speaker 11 (01:12:21):
Man, well the Lord is still blessing me.

Speaker 7 (01:12:26):
I didn't even know you had.

Speaker 2 (01:12:29):
If you're talking like you had one, I gotta change.
I talked to you.

Speaker 11 (01:12:32):
How are you talking to him from?

Speaker 2 (01:12:33):
Like he ain't had no thiat?

Speaker 11 (01:12:34):
Now he got a thief.

Speaker 14 (01:12:35):
I gotta change. I talked to him, man, mister nephew.

Speaker 2 (01:12:37):
Now, hey, missus nephew, what.

Speaker 7 (01:12:40):
Time you go down to the.

Speaker 2 (01:12:43):
Ohhead?

Speaker 4 (01:12:44):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (01:12:45):
What head? So steph.

Speaker 11 (01:12:47):
In case you don't make it to San Diego, what
what room in your home do you go to?

Speaker 1 (01:12:51):
Where do you go?

Speaker 2 (01:12:52):
I go all the way down to the placement. It's
down there, then down there this little man cave I got.

Speaker 11 (01:12:59):
Oh okay, all right, see, oh all right.

Speaker 12 (01:13:04):
Coming up more of today's trending stories on the Steve
Harvey Morning Show, and we'll.

Speaker 11 (01:13:09):
Be back in twenty minutes after the hour. Right after this.

Speaker 12 (01:13:13):
Yeah you're listening.

Speaker 2 (01:13:17):
Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 12 (01:13:20):
According to the Washington Post, getting hot and sweaty between
the sheets can feel like a workout, and several recent
studies look into answering is sex exercise. Researchers in Spain
study couples and found that sex counts as moderate exercise
as it revs up the heart rate and burns calories,
but just how much varies widely. The amount of time

(01:13:43):
people spend having sex also varies, with young, healthy couples
going at it for an average of thirty two minutes,
while couples with health conditions last about nineteen minutes.

Speaker 1 (01:13:54):
So here's a question for you, guys.

Speaker 11 (01:13:56):
Guys, Yeah, that's me right back, the health conditions. That's
why I'm in nineteen nineteen.

Speaker 12 (01:14:03):
You're all right, So come on, sexy guys.

Speaker 11 (01:14:09):
Do you consider sex of workout?

Speaker 12 (01:14:13):
And do you ever look at your fitness tracker to
see how many calories it burns or your heart rate?

Speaker 11 (01:14:19):
That's the question.

Speaker 5 (01:14:21):
Okay, I can't have nothing on me. I can't have
no extra chords or nothing. I had a watch caught
on the sheet of none of that. I can't have
nothing to throw my rhythm off. I can't hear no
long go off.

Speaker 11 (01:14:38):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:14:38):
Warning, warning, you're in the red. You're in the red.
You're a heart rating through hard road off. You're dying.
You are dying.

Speaker 12 (01:14:50):
You had it coming up at thirty three minutes after
the hour. We'll play around it. Would you rather right
after this this guy?

Speaker 14 (01:15:00):
No, I don't know him.

Speaker 12 (01:15:02):
You're listening.

Speaker 11 (01:15:04):
Morning show?

Speaker 12 (01:15:05):
All right, guys, it's time now for another round of
would you rather?

Speaker 13 (01:15:09):
Uh?

Speaker 2 (01:15:10):
Here we go?

Speaker 12 (01:15:10):
Would you rather never be able to take a hot
shower or never be able to eat fried food again,
specifically fried chicken and fried catfish?

Speaker 5 (01:15:23):
I never, I know, I never have fried food again. Okay,
take a shower, hot shower, no hot show? Who on
a cold shower?

Speaker 11 (01:15:33):
A lot of people take cold showers.

Speaker 17 (01:15:35):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (01:15:36):
I don't, but they do. I need a show. I
take too many a day. I need a shower. It
can't be cold.

Speaker 11 (01:15:47):
Yesterday, your nephew takes three showers a day.

Speaker 5 (01:15:52):
No stop letting him tell y'all that before taking no
damn three showers a day.

Speaker 2 (01:15:58):
We've got stuff to sing with you.

Speaker 5 (01:16:01):
You got a radio show, he got radio show, he tool,
and he got a TV show and a game show.
Where the hell he got time to take three damn
showers a day? Y'all letting him tell y'all this stuff?

Speaker 2 (01:16:14):
Fall dude?

Speaker 5 (01:16:18):
Hold up, hold, let me paint this picture for you.
Got a four hour radio show that he do every day.
He got a TV show, he got game show, he toured,
he got kids, he gotta go to baseball games with,
He got to go to proms and stuff with. He
got family time, and he got white. How you take
three showers a day?

Speaker 2 (01:16:40):
He worked? Shall letting him tell you that fault? How
would you know all that? Cause I got moded, he
got He's got no time for no damn three shows day.

Speaker 5 (01:16:56):
Gotta make this money, man, three damn showers a day,
call I get hold sometime I fall asleep in my office.
Ain't gonna be no damn shower now, Rich sitting up
in here, Man sitting up here, you just like my

(01:17:17):
stylist Ellie with his little simple ass, over overdoing and
all this had notion and baby in his damn So
get your let we go. Man sitting up in here,
rubbing all between your damn toes, put some all on
your foot and let's.

Speaker 2 (01:17:32):
Go take all this damn showers. No you ain't that
damn queen. We got to go. I do, thank you
all right, all right? Next one him tell you that
for go ahead.

Speaker 12 (01:17:49):
But you rather have the ability to read minds, or
you rather have the ability to move objects with your mind?

Speaker 1 (01:17:57):
Moving my object, you want to read mind.

Speaker 2 (01:18:00):
Or would you want to reading I know you don't
like me. I don't need to read my mind. No,
I don't need that.

Speaker 5 (01:18:07):
I want to move stuff with my mind. All right,
you walking down and mailbox over in front of your head.
You can watch your money on.

Speaker 1 (01:18:19):
Man coming up.

Speaker 12 (01:18:20):
At forty nine minutes after the hour, it's our last
break of the day and we'll get some closing remarks
from the one and only Steve Harvey right after this.

Speaker 11 (01:18:28):
You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 12 (01:18:31):
All right, here we are, Steve, last break of the day.

Speaker 11 (01:18:34):
It's been a great day.

Speaker 4 (01:18:39):
What a day, What a day.

Speaker 1 (01:18:40):
Yeah, it's been a crazy day today.

Speaker 11 (01:18:42):
So Steve, now it's time for you to take us
home with your closing remarks.

Speaker 5 (01:18:47):
My closing remarks today are going to be based around
the value of yourself. I think this is important. Tommy
sent this to me, you know, a billboard, and it
really triggered me to thinking, I'm gonna share that with you.
But it all pertains to the value of yourself. This

(01:19:08):
can pertain to you in terms of reaching your goals,
your dreams, all in business, and this is for you
to consider in the relationship of love, It is amazing
to me while I talk to people, and people talk

(01:19:29):
about how they're being treated and handled it and represented
and dealt with, and they can't seem to get nobody
to see their value in their worth.

Speaker 2 (01:19:40):
And I'm sitting the bere going wait a minute, Wait
a minute.

Speaker 5 (01:19:44):
You can't try to get someone to see something in
you that you don't see in yourself.

Speaker 2 (01:19:52):
It starts with you.

Speaker 5 (01:19:55):
You know, you've all heard the saying beauty is on
the inside. Is not just skin deep. That's true. Confidence
is not an outward emotion. It's something that starts from within.
Everything starts from within, and it exudes and and manifest

(01:20:16):
itself in the outward shape or form. So if you
want people to value you, you must first value yourself.
I tell my daughters all the time, you can train
a man how to treat you well, Daddy, how do
you train a man? You just don't accept bad treatment

(01:20:38):
from him. If you don't accept bad treatment from him,
little girl of mine, then guess what. He can't keep
giving it to you. A person can only treat you
the way you allow them to do it. If you
don't accept a man coming to pick you up late
all the time. But you stop going with him every
time he late. The next time he want to go

(01:20:59):
out you, he got to be on time.

Speaker 2 (01:21:01):
Now.

Speaker 5 (01:21:01):
If he don't want to be on time, then guess
what you don't go out. You've trained him how to
treat you, and if he don't line up with what
you want, then guess what he not for you. At
least you don't have to be mistreated the way he
want to treat you by simply not allowing him to
treat you any way he wants to. You cannot have

(01:21:24):
high value for yourself and expect someone else to have
a high value of you. That goes into same thing
with business. You can't go in and ask for a
raise if you don't think you deserve one. What would
cause you to walk in there and ask for a
raise if you don't think you deserve one, If you
don't have the facts to back up a raise, you
can't want more money just because you don't spend all

(01:21:46):
the money you have. You got to go in there
and ask for a raise because you can show value
to the company. You'll worth this much more to the company.
The company has become this because of you. Then you
can show your value. Then you can go in there
with a raise, and you can go in there with
some confidence with the raids. It happens with goals and dreams.
If you aim too low, your problem is you might

(01:22:09):
hit it. But I'm gonna say that for tomorrow. So
it's what you think of yourself, how you value yourself,
that matters most. Now let me tell you what was
said to me, and listen to this real careful, because
this is gonna register with a lot of people.

Speaker 2 (01:22:26):
Listen to me.

Speaker 5 (01:22:27):
If you aren't being treated with love and respect, check
your price tag. Maybe you've marked yourself down. It is
you who tells people what you're worth. Get off the
clearest rack and get behind the glass where they keep
the values.

Speaker 2 (01:22:48):
It's you who tells people what you're worth.

Speaker 5 (01:22:51):
Get off the clearest rack and get behind the glass
where they keep the value. Stop acting like you aside
walk sail. Stop acting like you can be picked up
at the swap meat. Stop acting like you belong in
the junk yard. You a new car, don't act like
an old car. I don't care how old you are

(01:23:12):
to somebody. You got to be a new car. Stop
putting yourself on the sales rack when clearly you deserve
full price. If you lower the value for yourself, that's
what we'll pay for you. And that's how we'll treat you.
And that's how we respect. If you don't respect yourself,
if I see you constantly disrespecting yourself, then you're gonna

(01:23:36):
turn to me and demand respect.

Speaker 2 (01:23:38):
How how does that work?

Speaker 4 (01:23:39):
Be?

Speaker 5 (01:23:40):
That be a coat where they got to lock on it. See,
you can't take me off the rack and just try
me on. No, that ain't how this work. See, but
now you go over that to that valuable section in
the store. You everybody been to Mason's. You got that
stuff where you got to go get a salesperson to
come and unlock it for you to even try it on.
That's cause they don't put a value on that. Are

(01:24:02):
you going over there and just put the little shirt on?
T shirts ain't locked up. Anybody can get one if
you steal this T shirt. It ain't that big a loss.
They ain't a four dollars pack of three. Come over here,
by the swede, Come over here, by this first stuff.
We got locks on this stuff right here because it
has value. We know it has value. So we can't

(01:24:23):
just let you try to stop letting people just try
you on.

Speaker 2 (01:24:27):
You got it.

Speaker 5 (01:24:28):
Put a value to yourself. Maintain it. You determine your value.
Don't let other people do it. You do it all right.

Speaker 2 (01:24:36):
Those are my closer.

Speaker 11 (01:24:38):
Drop the mic, Drop the mic, Baby.

Speaker 2 (01:24:42):
Blake it, Tommy, appreciate you pimp needed that.

Speaker 12 (01:24:47):
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