May 8, 2026 • 13 mins
A woman broke up with her boyfriend after finding his ChatGPT searches were about their relationship!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Here's an ethical question. Many ethical things have been covered
already this morning. Can I shoot a drone out of
the sky over my house? It's a little it's a
little unclear. You own some amounts of air over your house,
but not enough, so I don't know. Can I do it?
Speaker 2 (00:15):
Can I not do it?
Speaker 1 (00:16):
If your drone crashes in my backyard because you were
spying on me at night, then is it really outside
of the realm of possibility that I would destroy said
drone and I wouldn't go to jail for that? I
guess I think that's sort of a buyer beware or
flyer beware in this case.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
If you're going to crash your.
Speaker 1 (00:33):
Drone over my house, we'll try to spy on my
wife and I doing it, which would be very, very
boring video. I don't even know where i'd find this wife,
but if I, if I had one, I think that's
up to you, though, not to crash your drone over
my house while you're spying on me.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
I'm sorry.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
I think that's I think it's a minimum expectation. What
else did we covered. We've discussed infidelity already this morning.
We've really gotten to do a lot of things now
let's talk about ethics. A woman says that this is
from the post that she ended her relationship after accidentally
discovering her boyfriend's chat GPT history on his laptop, and
what hurt wasn't cheating, but what he was secretly saying
(01:12):
about her. To the AI Paulina, I'm looking at you
because you act like AI is a therapist sometimes and
it's taking it's recording what you're saying, and it's accessible
for people who have access to your computer to go
look and see what you've typed in.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
In court court records. Yeah, I heard the court record store.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
You're talking about hobby, asking for relationship advice, you're venting
or whatever.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
This is not How is that any different than the
radio what I'm doing right now.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
Because I have a feeling you're saying more to chat
GBT than you're saying on the radio.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
Yes and no, yes and no.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
What I like to do is I like to put
our text messages in there, and I'd be like, can
you analyze this for me?
Speaker 2 (01:49):
Oh god? What?
Speaker 4 (01:50):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (01:50):
Oh yeah, or like can you respond to this but
like be a little sassy, but yeah, but like give
a little attitude, but like the understanding.
Speaker 1 (01:59):
Okay, So relationship okay, text between you and your husband. Yes, thread,
you're putting into chatgpt.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
When I need help with a response and asking for.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
An analysis, and then you're responding to him with something
that chat GPT wrote.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
I absolutely do. But this is a real.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
Relationship debate that you're having, Like why wouldn't you want
it to be entirely authentic and organic? Why are we
using cheap codes?
Speaker 3 (02:23):
Oh, it's authentic, Like it's my thoughts. It's just condensed
nicely because you know, I can go on and on
and on. But I also don't want to be like
so I know. I don't want to be like so
harsh because like you guys know, I take it to
hell like people take it low.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
I go to the bottom. I don't want to be
that person anymore. I'm done. I'm done being that person.
Speaker 1 (02:38):
Chatgypt is just going to run your relationship for you,
and then you won't be responsible for your own words.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
Well, they'll just help me say it nicer.
Speaker 5 (02:45):
I can.
Speaker 3 (02:46):
I can say like the most insane thing, but like
in a nice way, wrapped in a bow. She does
a great job.
Speaker 1 (02:51):
I found out that every fight I was having with
my significant other was being filtered through CHATCHEPT. I may
as well just chat with fight with the computer, then away.
I'm not really fighting with you anymore.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
My husband knows. He called me out once.
Speaker 3 (03:03):
He would go, he goes you and those chat GPT responses,
that's what I mean.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
So now he's not taking you seriously because he knows
that's not what you would say. It's a formulated response
based on what some textbook would.
Speaker 3 (03:16):
You want to know what I want to say, Like,
it's not nice. You guys know I'm not nice when
I'm fighting him.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
Okay, this woman doing it for him.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
She founded chat titled Relationship Issues and Uncertainty, Which that's
your first mistake. Let's not be so specific with how
we're naming our chat.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
So wait, so you name I don't I'm using it.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
I haven't and I don't use it very often. Apparently
we're supposed to move on now to Claude. Who's that girl?
Apparently we're supposed to be moving on. Yeah, I ever
heard about we're.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
At Claude now?
Speaker 4 (03:44):
Oh yeah.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
My best friend Jonathan was like, get off chat, We're
at Claude.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
I guess we're done with Chad at claude now but anyway, so,
He apparently had written to chat Gpt asking whether she
they should stay together, whether he should stay with her.
He complained about things like her lifestyle, her cats, her
past struggles, and even question whether he was attracted to her.
One comment especially crusher, when he wrote, two chetchept, I'm just.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
Not proud of her.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
Paul said, the raw honesty this woman changed how she
saw the relationship, and although the couple stayed together a
few more months after confronting the issue, the damage was
done and they eventually broke up. She later said that
she doesn't think that her ex is a villain, but
the experience showed her how painful it can be to
see someone's completely unfiltered private thoughts, especially when they're being
shared with AI instead of another person. Here's my question
(04:32):
eight five, five, five, nine, one one three five You
can call him text the same number. Does she have
any right to be looking at that? And does she
have any right to be holding it against him when
she would have had no idea, arguably no idea that
he felt this way had she not read essentially his
diary or is he sloppy and we shouldn't be typing
(04:54):
into computer, you know, programs for advice about our relationship
relationship plural. And because he did that, it was fair
game and she found it. She can go read it.
Because how is this a whole lot different than if
I were talking Well, it's very different than if I
were talking to a therapist, but not maybe in the
authenticity and the and the sort of unedited nature of
(05:16):
the communication, you know what I mean. So I probably
shouldn't be using chat sheep and to run my relationship Paulina,
And maybe shouldn't be so sloppy as to like be
typing in things that I'm trying to work through in
a way that's being documented. But if I go to
my therapist and say all the same things, that's a
more healthy way of dealing with it. But you're still
saying a bunch of really mean things essentially that you're
(05:39):
thinking to someone else that that person wouldn't have any access.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
To, right, you wouldn't know?
Speaker 3 (05:44):
Does that mean though, Like, I know what he said
wasn't wasn't kind. But if he's that's how he feels
and he's being honest, is that mean necessarily if you
want to do a therapist, like a real life person
like human.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
Talk to her about it first, right, you know what
I mean? Like, I think that's unfair to have all
these thoughts and not like I mean you can and
say hey babe, I'm not proud of you.
Speaker 4 (06:01):
But no.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
But if he had gone to his therapist and said
all these things to try and figure out with his
therapists how to communicate these things to her in a
way that doesn't burn the relationship down, how is that
really any different than a computer? Well, okay, but like
on the basic level, I mean, yes, of course it's different.
You really probably should be interacting with a licensed therapist
and not a computer for life advice. That being said,
(06:24):
how would it be any different for him to confide
in a human these things that are not nice, versus
writing them down like let's say chat GPT were't involved,
and this WE was just his diary and he's working
through his thoughts in his head that you would never know.
But essentially, she opened up his diary and read it
and held it against him. So my question is is
that fair? Yes, because now she knows his raw thoughts. However,
(06:46):
he might have processed them and then communicated them with
her in a more healthy way that then could have
affected change, and therefore her feelings wouldn't have been so
fundamentally hurt. Did she really? I don't think she actually
had any business reading this information. And yeah, once you ready,
you can hear it. Yeah, but that's not her business,
my friend. Things happen for a reason.
Speaker 4 (07:08):
You know.
Speaker 6 (07:08):
Information falls in my lap all the time, all the time,
you know, And you have to take that as.
Speaker 2 (07:13):
A no, you have to take that it's kind of information.
Speaker 4 (07:15):
You know.
Speaker 6 (07:15):
I do a ninety day check on the phone just
to see what's up. Yeah, and it's all it's cool.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
You know. It's because he doesn't need privacy, right, No, man,
but no.
Speaker 6 (07:25):
But honestly, in this case, I think she like if
that's her lap for a reason. She saw this search
history for a reason, girl, don't ignore the signs the
man is proud of you.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
The reason was that the reason was that she was
flying on him.
Speaker 6 (07:38):
Well, she might have just been going to order some
dinner and search history control.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
You're gonna find something. You go looking, you're always gonna
fight and I always find something. But yes, you do.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
So you think that he You think that she has
a right. I mean, she has a right to do anything,
but you think it's fair. And I guess it doesn't
matter what's fair and what's not fair because she knows
it now and she's not going to unknow it. But
like the fact that they're not together because she read
something that he wasn't ready to communicate with her or
maybe never would have.
Speaker 2 (08:08):
I mean, come on, I.
Speaker 1 (08:09):
Think we all have had intrusive thoughts about people or
things at times that are natural, you know, and that
we work through in our heads and then we moved past,
but we wouldn't necessarily want someone to know that we
thought it.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
Now. Is it sloppy that he was doing it this way?
Speaker 1 (08:23):
Yeah, he's asking to get Hey Hunter, good morning, How
you doing good?
Speaker 2 (08:27):
How you doing?
Speaker 4 (08:28):
Fred? Hey?
Speaker 1 (08:29):
Is it cool like if I read someone's diary or
I go look at their search history, or I go
read their chat EPT log or whatever, and I see
their sam bad stuff about me? Is it really fair
for me to be like, I'm done with you. I'm
completely done. I'm not going to accept this.
Speaker 4 (08:44):
No, Fred, I.
Speaker 7 (08:45):
Don't think it's fair. But if you're thinking and saying
those things, you got no business being with me. See,
that's not love and that ain't.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
Right yeah, but hunter, so you've never been with someone
romantically or loved someone and thought that in your head, like, man,
right at this very moment, I wish this, but you'd
never say it to them, And then you move past it,
like isn't that a human thing?
Speaker 6 (09:09):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (09:09):
Maybe, but to think to say, I'm just not proud
of her. Do I want to be with her? Yeah?
Well that's great, that's not real, right right, I appreciate
you every day.
Speaker 2 (09:23):
No, it means not.
Speaker 1 (09:24):
But again, if it were in my brain and in
this moment, I'm like, God, I'm embarrassed by this person.
They're drunk, they're acting stupid, they're you know, getting in
I don't know, making a scene or something, having a
bad day. I'm like, you've never in your head thought
I'm so embarrassed right now, But you're not. You wouldn't
want them to know that because tomorrow you might not be,
and then for the next fifty years you're together, you
might not be.
Speaker 2 (09:43):
But a thought is a thought.
Speaker 6 (09:44):
But you took time to type it into chat and
having a whole conversation with a computer.
Speaker 2 (09:49):
That's really on your heart. That's what you think, that's
what you feel. Hey, Emily, Emily.
Speaker 1 (09:57):
Yet, Hi, So what do you think how much if
I stumble upon someone's diary or I don't know, search
history or something, am I really is it fair for
me to take it out against them that I win
and read this stuff without their permission?
Speaker 5 (10:12):
I mean me personally, I'm going to keep it a
sinkert that I even know. I don't think it's fair.
Speaker 2 (10:20):
I don't think.
Speaker 5 (10:20):
It's fair for me to hold it against you.
Speaker 2 (10:22):
But like you said, now.
Speaker 5 (10:23):
I know it's all out in the open air, so
obviously I'm going to take it to heart and I'm
not going to forget.
Speaker 2 (10:30):
So for Hunter said, I'm.
Speaker 5 (10:33):
Done because why could you tell Chad Gpt this? But
you couldn't tell me right to.
Speaker 2 (10:37):
My faith and you already feel those things. So for me,
you're not even proud of me. Come on, dude, get
out of here.
Speaker 1 (10:44):
But like see, I might say that to Google or whatever,
but I might not. I've said things to my you know,
to my executive coaches that I go to sometimes, I've
said this to my executive coach that I would not.
I say it how it's in my brain trying to
formulate a more healthy way to actually communicate it, right
so like, maybe that's what he said in the moment,
but he didn't really feel that way. But now you've
(11:05):
seen it, you weren't supposed to see it, and then
we're not together anymore, and that's the reason why.
Speaker 7 (11:09):
Well yeah, but.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
At that point, it's just too late. It's too late.
Speaker 5 (11:13):
Like your coworker said, you can formulate ideas and explain
things in a more gentle way, but you know what,
it's all out in the open, now, how you truly
feel I'm done, baby late.
Speaker 1 (11:24):
Now, all right, Emily, thank you, have a good day. Yeah, yeah,
you can learn it. But she's like, that's how you
learn you were spying on me.
Speaker 2 (11:30):
The fact that she could hold that as a secret,
like for the rest of the relationship. The caller like,
I would not be able to.
Speaker 6 (11:38):
Do that, okay, argument were arguing over the dishes. Yes,
you're not even proud of me.
Speaker 1 (11:45):
She would come out of the worst side. Yes, I
would never defend a man. Some one said, However, we
have all had bad days and thought really terrible thoughts
about people that we love dearly that I would never
want them to know. It's healthy to get those thoughts out,
then to keep them in and ruminate on them. Maybe
they just got into a fight about something and he
needed to vent. All right, one more is it? Is it?
Speaker 2 (12:06):
Kaisha?
Speaker 4 (12:07):
It's Kaisha, good morning.
Speaker 2 (12:09):
How you doing.
Speaker 7 (12:11):
I'm doing great.
Speaker 4 (12:12):
Thank you guys in the morning. I'm doing great.
Speaker 2 (12:14):
Thank you so much. You get the final say, I
do agree with you.
Speaker 4 (12:18):
It is more like a privacy issue because when you're
in a relationship sometimes sometimes you don't want to say
things out loud at first thought because it comes off unkind,
and when you go to a therapist, not everybody gets
to hear that information. When you write into a diary,
that is a privacy issue. And for her to go
through his stuff like that, she's looking for something. She
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was looking for a reason out and she found it,
and it's horrible that it came across that way to her.
And maybe he wanted to say it nicer, but she
was looking for it and she found it, and that
was his own private thoughts.
Speaker 1 (12:52):
So it would be impossible to forget something like he's
not proud of me. That being said, you also have
to realize that you were never supposed to see that,
like what if that was something that he worked through.
Speaker 4 (13:03):
Exactly looking at the intention of it. It wasn't malicious.
It was for him to work through an issue he
had for learning heart.
Speaker 1 (13:10):
But it was sloppy too. Keisha was sloppy. I mean,
come on, now, we write.
Speaker 2 (13:14):
This stuff down for everybody. You can see, you know,
right next to the door down shore.
Speaker 1 (13:18):
To come on.
Speaker 2 (13:18):
Deleted delete the threat.
Speaker 7 (13:20):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (13:20):
Keisha had a good day on YouTube.
Speaker 1 (13:22):
Yeah, hey, I can tell you if I'm writing stuff
like that on my computer that I'm making absolutely sure
I don't just actually leave that open. That being said,
I've left things up on the browser that I was
done with and then gone to show someone something else
and then it's, you know, you open it up.
Speaker 2 (13:36):
It's that's never happened. I just heard that it happens
to people.
Here's an ethical question. Many ethical things have been covered
already this morning. Can I shoot a drone out of
the sky over my house? It's a little it's a
little unclear. You own some amounts of air over your house,
but not enough, so I don't know. Can I do it?
Speaker 2 (00:15):
Can I not do it?
Speaker 1 (00:16):
If your drone crashes in my backyard because you were
spying on me at night, then is it really outside
of the realm of possibility that I would destroy said
drone and I wouldn't go to jail for that? I
guess I think that's sort of a buyer beware or
flyer beware in this case.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
If you're going to crash your.
Speaker 1 (00:33):
Drone over my house, we'll try to spy on my
wife and I doing it, which would be very, very
boring video. I don't even know where i'd find this wife,
but if I, if I had one, I think that's
up to you, though, not to crash your drone over
my house while you're spying on me.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
I'm sorry.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
I think that's I think it's a minimum expectation. What
else did we covered. We've discussed infidelity already this morning.
We've really gotten to do a lot of things now
let's talk about ethics. A woman says that this is
from the post that she ended her relationship after accidentally
discovering her boyfriend's chat GPT history on his laptop, and
what hurt wasn't cheating, but what he was secretly saying
(01:12):
about her. To the AI Paulina, I'm looking at you
because you act like AI is a therapist sometimes and
it's taking it's recording what you're saying, and it's accessible
for people who have access to your computer to go
look and see what you've typed in.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
In court court records. Yeah, I heard the court record store.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
You're talking about hobby, asking for relationship advice, you're venting
or whatever.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
This is not How is that any different than the
radio what I'm doing right now.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
Because I have a feeling you're saying more to chat
GBT than you're saying on the radio.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
Yes and no, yes and no.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
What I like to do is I like to put
our text messages in there, and I'd be like, can
you analyze this for me?
Speaker 2 (01:49):
Oh god? What?
Speaker 4 (01:50):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (01:50):
Oh yeah, or like can you respond to this but
like be a little sassy, but yeah, but like give
a little attitude, but like the understanding.
Speaker 1 (01:59):
Okay, So relationship okay, text between you and your husband. Yes, thread,
you're putting into chatgpt.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
When I need help with a response and asking for.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
An analysis, and then you're responding to him with something
that chat GPT wrote.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
I absolutely do. But this is a real.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
Relationship debate that you're having, Like why wouldn't you want
it to be entirely authentic and organic? Why are we
using cheap codes?
Speaker 3 (02:23):
Oh, it's authentic, Like it's my thoughts. It's just condensed
nicely because you know, I can go on and on
and on. But I also don't want to be like
so I know. I don't want to be like so
harsh because like you guys know, I take it to
hell like people take it low.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
I go to the bottom. I don't want to be
that person anymore. I'm done. I'm done being that person.
Speaker 1 (02:38):
Chatgypt is just going to run your relationship for you,
and then you won't be responsible for your own words.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
Well, they'll just help me say it nicer.
Speaker 5 (02:45):
I can.
Speaker 3 (02:46):
I can say like the most insane thing, but like
in a nice way, wrapped in a bow. She does
a great job.
Speaker 1 (02:51):
I found out that every fight I was having with
my significant other was being filtered through CHATCHEPT. I may
as well just chat with fight with the computer, then away.
I'm not really fighting with you anymore.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
My husband knows. He called me out once.
Speaker 3 (03:03):
He would go, he goes you and those chat GPT responses,
that's what I mean.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
So now he's not taking you seriously because he knows
that's not what you would say. It's a formulated response
based on what some textbook would.
Speaker 3 (03:16):
You want to know what I want to say, Like,
it's not nice. You guys know I'm not nice when
I'm fighting him.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
Okay, this woman doing it for him.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
She founded chat titled Relationship Issues and Uncertainty, Which that's
your first mistake. Let's not be so specific with how
we're naming our chat.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
So wait, so you name I don't I'm using it.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
I haven't and I don't use it very often. Apparently
we're supposed to move on now to Claude. Who's that girl?
Apparently we're supposed to be moving on. Yeah, I ever
heard about we're.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
At Claude now?
Speaker 4 (03:44):
Oh yeah.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
My best friend Jonathan was like, get off chat, We're
at Claude.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
I guess we're done with Chad at claude now but anyway, so,
He apparently had written to chat Gpt asking whether she
they should stay together, whether he should stay with her.
He complained about things like her lifestyle, her cats, her
past struggles, and even question whether he was attracted to her.
One comment especially crusher, when he wrote, two chetchept, I'm just.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
Not proud of her.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
Paul said, the raw honesty this woman changed how she
saw the relationship, and although the couple stayed together a
few more months after confronting the issue, the damage was
done and they eventually broke up. She later said that
she doesn't think that her ex is a villain, but
the experience showed her how painful it can be to
see someone's completely unfiltered private thoughts, especially when they're being
shared with AI instead of another person. Here's my question
(04:32):
eight five, five, five, nine, one one three five You
can call him text the same number. Does she have
any right to be looking at that? And does she
have any right to be holding it against him when
she would have had no idea, arguably no idea that
he felt this way had she not read essentially his
diary or is he sloppy and we shouldn't be typing
(04:54):
into computer, you know, programs for advice about our relationship
relationship plural. And because he did that, it was fair
game and she found it. She can go read it.
Because how is this a whole lot different than if
I were talking Well, it's very different than if I
were talking to a therapist, but not maybe in the
authenticity and the and the sort of unedited nature of
(05:16):
the communication, you know what I mean. So I probably
shouldn't be using chat sheep and to run my relationship Paulina,
And maybe shouldn't be so sloppy as to like be
typing in things that I'm trying to work through in
a way that's being documented. But if I go to
my therapist and say all the same things, that's a
more healthy way of dealing with it. But you're still
saying a bunch of really mean things essentially that you're
(05:39):
thinking to someone else that that person wouldn't have any access.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
To, right, you wouldn't know?
Speaker 3 (05:44):
Does that mean though, Like, I know what he said
wasn't wasn't kind. But if he's that's how he feels
and he's being honest, is that mean necessarily if you
want to do a therapist, like a real life person
like human.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
Talk to her about it first, right, you know what
I mean? Like, I think that's unfair to have all
these thoughts and not like I mean you can and
say hey babe, I'm not proud of you.
Speaker 4 (06:01):
But no.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
But if he had gone to his therapist and said
all these things to try and figure out with his
therapists how to communicate these things to her in a
way that doesn't burn the relationship down, how is that
really any different than a computer? Well, okay, but like
on the basic level, I mean, yes, of course it's different.
You really probably should be interacting with a licensed therapist
and not a computer for life advice. That being said,
(06:24):
how would it be any different for him to confide
in a human these things that are not nice, versus
writing them down like let's say chat GPT were't involved,
and this WE was just his diary and he's working
through his thoughts in his head that you would never know.
But essentially, she opened up his diary and read it
and held it against him. So my question is is
that fair? Yes, because now she knows his raw thoughts. However,
(06:46):
he might have processed them and then communicated them with
her in a more healthy way that then could have
affected change, and therefore her feelings wouldn't have been so
fundamentally hurt. Did she really? I don't think she actually
had any business reading this information. And yeah, once you ready,
you can hear it. Yeah, but that's not her business,
my friend. Things happen for a reason.
Speaker 4 (07:08):
You know.
Speaker 6 (07:08):
Information falls in my lap all the time, all the time,
you know, And you have to take that as.
Speaker 2 (07:13):
A no, you have to take that it's kind of information.
Speaker 4 (07:15):
You know.
Speaker 6 (07:15):
I do a ninety day check on the phone just
to see what's up. Yeah, and it's all it's cool.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
You know. It's because he doesn't need privacy, right, No, man,
but no.
Speaker 6 (07:25):
But honestly, in this case, I think she like if
that's her lap for a reason. She saw this search
history for a reason, girl, don't ignore the signs the
man is proud of you.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
The reason was that the reason was that she was
flying on him.
Speaker 6 (07:38):
Well, she might have just been going to order some
dinner and search history control.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
You're gonna find something. You go looking, you're always gonna
fight and I always find something. But yes, you do.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
So you think that he You think that she has
a right. I mean, she has a right to do anything,
but you think it's fair. And I guess it doesn't
matter what's fair and what's not fair because she knows
it now and she's not going to unknow it. But
like the fact that they're not together because she read
something that he wasn't ready to communicate with her or
maybe never would have.
Speaker 2 (08:08):
I mean, come on, I.
Speaker 1 (08:09):
Think we all have had intrusive thoughts about people or
things at times that are natural, you know, and that
we work through in our heads and then we moved past,
but we wouldn't necessarily want someone to know that we
thought it.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
Now. Is it sloppy that he was doing it this way?
Speaker 1 (08:23):
Yeah, he's asking to get Hey Hunter, good morning, How
you doing good?
Speaker 2 (08:27):
How you doing?
Speaker 4 (08:28):
Fred? Hey?
Speaker 1 (08:29):
Is it cool like if I read someone's diary or
I go look at their search history, or I go
read their chat EPT log or whatever, and I see
their sam bad stuff about me? Is it really fair
for me to be like, I'm done with you. I'm
completely done. I'm not going to accept this.
Speaker 4 (08:44):
No, Fred, I.
Speaker 7 (08:45):
Don't think it's fair. But if you're thinking and saying
those things, you got no business being with me. See,
that's not love and that ain't.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
Right yeah, but hunter, so you've never been with someone
romantically or loved someone and thought that in your head, like, man,
right at this very moment, I wish this, but you'd
never say it to them, And then you move past it,
like isn't that a human thing?
Speaker 6 (09:09):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (09:09):
Maybe, but to think to say, I'm just not proud
of her. Do I want to be with her? Yeah?
Well that's great, that's not real, right right, I appreciate
you every day.
Speaker 2 (09:23):
No, it means not.
Speaker 1 (09:24):
But again, if it were in my brain and in
this moment, I'm like, God, I'm embarrassed by this person.
They're drunk, they're acting stupid, they're you know, getting in
I don't know, making a scene or something, having a
bad day. I'm like, you've never in your head thought
I'm so embarrassed right now, But you're not. You wouldn't
want them to know that because tomorrow you might not be,
and then for the next fifty years you're together, you
might not be.
Speaker 2 (09:43):
But a thought is a thought.
Speaker 6 (09:44):
But you took time to type it into chat and
having a whole conversation with a computer.
Speaker 2 (09:49):
That's really on your heart. That's what you think, that's
what you feel. Hey, Emily, Emily.
Speaker 1 (09:57):
Yet, Hi, So what do you think how much if
I stumble upon someone's diary or I don't know, search
history or something, am I really is it fair for
me to take it out against them that I win
and read this stuff without their permission?
Speaker 5 (10:12):
I mean me personally, I'm going to keep it a
sinkert that I even know. I don't think it's fair.
Speaker 2 (10:20):
I don't think.
Speaker 5 (10:20):
It's fair for me to hold it against you.
Speaker 2 (10:22):
But like you said, now.
Speaker 5 (10:23):
I know it's all out in the open air, so
obviously I'm going to take it to heart and I'm
not going to forget.
Speaker 2 (10:30):
So for Hunter said, I'm.
Speaker 5 (10:33):
Done because why could you tell Chad Gpt this? But
you couldn't tell me right to.
Speaker 2 (10:37):
My faith and you already feel those things. So for me,
you're not even proud of me. Come on, dude, get
out of here.
Speaker 1 (10:44):
But like see, I might say that to Google or whatever,
but I might not. I've said things to my you know,
to my executive coaches that I go to sometimes, I've
said this to my executive coach that I would not.
I say it how it's in my brain trying to
formulate a more healthy way to actually communicate it, right
so like, maybe that's what he said in the moment,
but he didn't really feel that way. But now you've
(11:05):
seen it, you weren't supposed to see it, and then
we're not together anymore, and that's the reason why.
Speaker 7 (11:09):
Well yeah, but.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
At that point, it's just too late. It's too late.
Speaker 5 (11:13):
Like your coworker said, you can formulate ideas and explain
things in a more gentle way, but you know what,
it's all out in the open, now, how you truly
feel I'm done, baby late.
Speaker 1 (11:24):
Now, all right, Emily, thank you, have a good day. Yeah, yeah,
you can learn it. But she's like, that's how you
learn you were spying on me.
Speaker 2 (11:30):
The fact that she could hold that as a secret,
like for the rest of the relationship. The caller like,
I would not be able to.
Speaker 6 (11:38):
Do that, okay, argument were arguing over the dishes. Yes,
you're not even proud of me.
Speaker 1 (11:45):
She would come out of the worst side. Yes, I
would never defend a man. Some one said, However, we
have all had bad days and thought really terrible thoughts
about people that we love dearly that I would never
want them to know. It's healthy to get those thoughts out,
then to keep them in and ruminate on them. Maybe
they just got into a fight about something and he
needed to vent. All right, one more is it? Is it?
Speaker 2 (12:06):
Kaisha?
Speaker 4 (12:07):
It's Kaisha, good morning.
Speaker 2 (12:09):
How you doing.
Speaker 7 (12:11):
I'm doing great.
Speaker 4 (12:12):
Thank you guys in the morning. I'm doing great.
Speaker 2 (12:14):
Thank you so much. You get the final say, I
do agree with you.
Speaker 4 (12:18):
It is more like a privacy issue because when you're
in a relationship sometimes sometimes you don't want to say
things out loud at first thought because it comes off unkind,
and when you go to a therapist, not everybody gets
to hear that information. When you write into a diary,
that is a privacy issue. And for her to go
through his stuff like that, she's looking for something. She
(12:40):
was looking for a reason out and she found it,
and it's horrible that it came across that way to her.
And maybe he wanted to say it nicer, but she
was looking for it and she found it, and that
was his own private thoughts.
Speaker 1 (12:52):
So it would be impossible to forget something like he's
not proud of me. That being said, you also have
to realize that you were never supposed to see that,
like what if that was something that he worked through.
Speaker 4 (13:03):
Exactly looking at the intention of it. It wasn't malicious.
It was for him to work through an issue he
had for learning heart.
Speaker 1 (13:10):
But it was sloppy too. Keisha was sloppy. I mean,
come on, now, we write.
Speaker 2 (13:14):
This stuff down for everybody. You can see, you know,
right next to the door down shore.
Speaker 1 (13:18):
To come on.
Speaker 2 (13:18):
Deleted delete the threat.
Speaker 7 (13:20):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (13:20):
Keisha had a good day on YouTube.
Speaker 1 (13:22):
Yeah, hey, I can tell you if I'm writing stuff
like that on my computer that I'm making absolutely sure
I don't just actually leave that open. That being said,
I've left things up on the browser that I was
done with and then gone to show someone something else
and then it's, you know, you open it up.
Speaker 2 (13:36):
It's that's never happened. I just heard that it happens
to people.
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