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they made a department store. I don't know, man. From
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By the time I left, it was. It was we
were on the State Street, but didn't it didn't really matter.
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Oh my god, Yeah that was something. But honestly, thank
you to everybody who came out on a Friday night
hung out with us. And and I haven't looked at
my credit card bill yet, but I know I bought
a lot of shots.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
I know you bought a lot of shots.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
I stood in that corner did a lot of shots,
and the bartenders, I think it was like they were
looking at it like they were scientists doing some kind
of focus group, like how much alcohol can this man
consume before he like implodes? And then you're right, And
then Kaylen and I went to another bar after that
with Captain Steve and his wife, because well, why wouldn't
we But we did not drive. I will have you, no,
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we did not drive. I may have fallen asleep in
the back of the uber a couple of times, but
that's okay. I did check to make sure that no
one like puked in my uber. I'm checking to make
sure because Caitlen, they dropped me off, I think right,
and then you went after and you went home after me.
Speaker 3 (02:30):
I don't know.
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You tell me, I know we both got home.
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I do too. I think I got dropped off first.
I think so.
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But then I went to check to make sure that
you didn't puke in the back of it, because oh, well, no,
you say that, but that's happened to me a number
of times. And I finally am getting my score back
up from the times I either got somebody in an
uber or like got out of the uber. So that
they could get dropped off somewhere else and then wake
up the next day and it's like two hundred and
fifty bucks on my credit card. I'm like, what did
you do? But that didn't happen, So thank you for coming.
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We'll do it again. I don't know what are we
gonna do with spring? Maybe yeah, another Tangent live. Yeah,
and uh, I think there were some interesting things I
recall in our tangent because we did we did tape
the episode, so if you weren't able to make it,
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Yeah?
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Like I only like to see pretty stuff on my timeline.
Ugly people on my timeline. Like it, like it triggers,
Oh god, I'm not to again.
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Like wow, so.
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I'm not ut to you again. So Frend Show is on.
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Always give it up to the veterans.
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any member of our military, first responder you know what
to do, you know what to do.
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I don't. You've done it, you continue to do it.
I do fight you too.
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You gotta do it. Give it up to mechanics, Kiky.
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What same goes for guys who proposed to you?
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You should give it up to now after the wedding though.
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What are you working on?
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K It looks like Orlando Bloom may have moved on
with a woman who dressed up as Katie Perry very recently.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
So we got to unpack this because it's weird.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
Oh boy, we all know the people. Man, they date
the same person over and over and over again, in
this case, this person who dresses up like the same version. Yeah,
they talk better than they sit. These are the radio
blogs on the Fred Show.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
Coreddly in our diaries, except we say them a lot.
We call him blogs Kiki. Yeah, dear blog.
Speaker 5 (05:08):
So I've been waiting and excited all weekend to update
you about the photo shoot that you didn't come to
for my engagement photos.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
I was hobbling around. I guess, yes, he didn't want
me with my walker, with my bad back. You know,
you didn't confirm. You didn't confirm little time and location,
or I would have been there. What at your engagement photos?
Speaker 3 (05:31):
Yes, it was. It was quite the party.
Speaker 5 (05:33):
We did have our engagement photo shoot, and I told you, guys,
I was extremely nervous about how Big Tim would perform
at this photo shoot. He's not like a g Q model.
He doesn't like a camera in his face. He's not
me so.
Speaker 3 (05:50):
Very concerned.
Speaker 5 (05:51):
We posed, you know, did our practice poses. You know.
We had his outfits all laid out, and I am
happy to say the photo shoot went extremely well.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
He pulled it off.
Speaker 5 (06:02):
He had his little Tira eyes and smising down pack.
He was like in his element. But then he did
get sick in the middle of the photo shoot. Oh yeah,
he got sick. Got sick to the point where he
had to go, Like we were shooting at a hotel.
Shout out to the version here in Chicago and my
girl Trician who set it up with me or for
me and Jason. But yeah, he went and had to
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go lay down in one of the rooms because he
was so sick.
Speaker 3 (06:28):
And I was like, oh this diva, Like I was
so over it.
Speaker 5 (06:30):
In the middle of the photo shoe like are you okay?
And my hair Styalace was like, you know, it's weird.
I see this happen a lot on like photo shoes.
Somebody who like the grooms a lot of time, they
get nervous and the nerves make them sick, and I'm like,
are you serious?
Speaker 3 (06:45):
So he got sick. I had a little solo shoot
for a while.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
I was going to say, no, time was wasted with
a bunch of cameras around, I'm sure to get yeah.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (06:57):
So but he came back and you know, like the
true profect, I should know, he was great and the
photos turned out really well.
Speaker 3 (07:04):
We we went.
Speaker 5 (07:05):
All over that hotel, like when I cannot wait to
show you guys the photos. We went everywhere. We were
on a rooftop and started snowing.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
Oh yes, but.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
Well, you need lots of photos to line the wedding
with of just you, so I'm glad that you took
a variety.
Speaker 5 (07:20):
Oh I have so many I'm just gonna blow your
phone in one day with all of the photos back
to back to back.
Speaker 3 (07:25):
But it was great.
Speaker 5 (07:26):
It was great, And so shout out to all the
men who you know, put all their little tucks and
do what is acts of them. But yeah, big Tim,
he did a great job.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
Wow, it was so overwhelming. He had take a nap
in the middle of it.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
He was so sick. He was so overwhelmed with your beauty.
That's what it was. The pop princess and me kind
of like that. Yeah, and my favorite part about playing
songs like I'm a Hillary Duff, I'm a big Hillary
Duff guy. A lot of people don't know that big
Hillary Duff guy. Yeah, she was very nice to me
back in the day. There's a picture of me somewhere.
I'm more a turtleneck.
Speaker 4 (07:57):
Well we need it.
Speaker 2 (07:58):
That was the last time the turtlenecks were in. But
my favorite part about this is now the record company's
gonna call the bosses in six cities and be like, oh,
amazing you ahead of the song, and then they're all
gonna go you know what I'm talking about. I love
to do this because they can they can see, like
they get alerts on their phones right when they're when
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they're the songs that the different the labels are working,
you know, like when they get a little alert on their.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
Phone and whoever it is, it's like, yeah.
Speaker 2 (08:25):
The Hillary Duff in Chicago and West Palm and Rawl,
this is so exciting.
Speaker 1 (08:30):
And then they gotta call Trevor and he's like, I
don't even know what you're talking about. What she has
a song?
Speaker 2 (08:41):
Dotium or like our boss is trying to like maneuver
something and Nope, I just went ahead and did it.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
Ah, Mary, how you doing?
Speaker 7 (08:50):
Hey?
Speaker 8 (08:51):
I'm okay.
Speaker 4 (08:52):
How are you guys doing.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
I don't know how you can be just okay after
that new Hillary Duff song, But okay, that's fine. So whatever,
I mean, I'm all fired up.
Speaker 9 (09:00):
For me.
Speaker 2 (09:00):
It's like so Yesterday all over again, Like it's just
the same kind of feels. Nonetheless, what's going on with
you and your husband? You guys are high school sweethearts.
You've been together for twenty years, and he wrote us
a note because you want to be on Stay or
Go so that we can talk about you and decide,
you know, how you should live out the rest of
your life. So tell us at the end of this
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we will give you the pathway to follow to live
the rest of your life. Because everyone who comes on
Stay or Gogo agrees to do exactly what we tell them,
So go ahead.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (09:33):
So we openly talk about this all the time.
Speaker 8 (09:38):
We neither one of us have been with anybody else,
and you know, since we've been together since high school,
and we talk about the fact that it's just been us,
and we always talk about this.
Speaker 1 (09:51):
Okay.
Speaker 8 (09:53):
Recently, though, while we were talking about it like usual,
he kind of shocked me because he asked if I
would ever be interested in opening up our relationship.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
Why are you talking about? Like what is the context?
Like is it just like, oh, I wonder what it
would be like since we've only been with each other,
Like I wonder what other people you know. I wonder
if it's different or is it like kind of in
a cent or is it or is it coming you know,
from your perspective, because you don't really know necessarily where
it's coming from within him. But for you, is it?
Is it your curiosity? Like do you wonder, hey, it
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could be better, it could be different, So you're satisfied
you're not having this conversation because you're unfulfilled in some way.
Speaker 9 (10:35):
Yeah, I I honestly talk about it, and we joke
about it, and I thought he was joking that he
was actually being serious, and it's it's not something I've
ever considered, But I told him I would think about it,
because what else am I going to say?
Speaker 2 (10:54):
Well, yes, I guess for me, I'm just curious why
that conversation because you said earlier like that you guys
talk about it a lot, like the idea of and
then and now all of a sudden, it's why you
know one step further in that conversation. So I just wonder,
is that I don't know what it's like to be
with only one person, so I wouldn't even know how
to have a conversation like that. But I just I
was curious, like what the impetus was. But nonetheless, this
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time he says, you, well, what if we what if
we uh you know, what if I stepped out? What
if you stepped out? I assume that's what he's talking about,
Like that you guys would individually go maybe do other things.
Speaker 8 (11:26):
Yeah, like maybe this would add to our relationship because
we've been together so long and and I just talked
about it, but I really I don't want to share him.
I mean, I feel stuck because I don't want to
lose him, but I can't stay and tell him I
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don't want an open relationship, right, I mean.
Speaker 1 (11:50):
Yeah, you can.
Speaker 2 (11:51):
Like this is all very confusing to me, Like when
I hear about situations where one person wants and believe
it or not, I know more than one person who's
kind of secretly in an open relationship, and oftentimes he's
toldly one person that really wanted it, and the other
one went for it because they wanted to appease their
partner in some way even though they're very uncomfortable with it.
And in fact, at least two of the situations I'm
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aware of, the relationship is ending because the person was
uncomfortable they did it anyway, and then that wound up
being the thing that sort of you know, created the
whole thing. It was like, well, I'll do this for
you because maybe adding some spice or some variety, maybe
that adds some spice and variety to our lives or whatever.
And it turns out no, the person who didn't want
to do it was always uncomfortable with it. So no,
(12:35):
I don't think in the confines of a relationship, of
a marriage, or any form of committed relationship, that you
have to agree to something or risk losing someone.
Speaker 3 (12:42):
But how do you stay.
Speaker 6 (12:43):
Knowing they want that the whole That would be in
the back of my mind for the rest of our relationship.
Speaker 2 (12:47):
But within relationships, don't people ask for a lot of
things and maybe you do some of them and maybe
you don't.
Speaker 1 (12:51):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (12:52):
I mean, do you do you get the idea that
he's really committed to this or is it just like
he just threw it out there as a curiosity? And
if you were to say no, you really believe that
he would resent you if you said no, if.
Speaker 8 (13:04):
I don't go along with it, I do feel like
he would.
Speaker 3 (13:09):
This is really tough, you know. It's like I don't
want to share him, but.
Speaker 2 (13:12):
You don't have to. My thing is, I don't think
you don't have to agree to anything you don't want
to do. And if he's going to leave you over this,
now all of a sudden, after twenty years.
Speaker 5 (13:20):
But he might cheat, you know what I'm saying, Like
he's telling her he wants a variety, he wants to
try to other things, and if she doesn't agree to it,
she can run the risk of him cheating.
Speaker 3 (13:30):
On hearing him.
Speaker 2 (13:31):
Or I would like to give him the benefit of
the doubt and say that he's being transparent because he
wants to do this something up and up and if
she says no, he'll respect his wife. I would like
to believe that after twenty years. I feel like if
he were going to cheat, he doesn't have to communicate anything.
He can just go cheat. So I don't know that
one necessarily leads to another. I mean no, I would
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say that you have to protect your piece, and if
you don't want to do it, then you say no.
And if he cheats on you or leaves you, then
I think that as painful as that would be, that
tells you absolutely everything you need to know, doesn't it.
Speaker 8 (14:05):
Yeah, I guess I just wanted to know if anyone
had been with someone as long as we've been together,
and if they experienced this, and if they went for
it or it was a bad idea, Okay, well.
Speaker 2 (14:16):
Let me take the whole calls what to do, because
this is where it comes in. You don't really have
to do what we tell you. I mean you should
because we're usually right, especially usually me, I'm usually the
most right, but because I'm the voice of reason. But
the thing is, there are people listening out there, I'm
sure who have been through something like this, and then
who will call and and and share their their perspective.
So I'm going to take some calls, have the radio one.
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Thank you for listening. We wish you the very best
and thanks for sharing too.
Speaker 1 (14:42):
Thanks guys, eight five.
Speaker 10 (14:45):
Mile, Hi, good morning.
Speaker 9 (14:48):
Hi.
Speaker 1 (14:48):
So your theory.
Speaker 2 (14:49):
By the way, just to recap if someone's just joining in.
This woman Mary has been with her husband now for
twenty years. They were high school sweethearts, so the entire
you know, span of the relationship is twenty years they've
only been with each other, and she'd mentioned that they
talk occasionally about what it would be like openly, you know,
to be with other people, and finally, in this one
conversation recently, he said, well, what if we just open
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the relationship. She doesn't want to do it, but she's
afraid if she doesn't do it, that he'll leave her,
there'll be repercussions or resentment or what.
Speaker 1 (15:18):
Do you think?
Speaker 10 (15:19):
So from my understanding, they joked about it before. I
think he stepped out of the marriage already.
Speaker 1 (15:27):
I really do, based on what's.
Speaker 10 (15:31):
I mean, here's the thing. If he brings it up
here and there jokingly, I feel like it's not a joke.
I kind of feel like he already stepped out of
the marriage and he keeps trying to push it to
see like, hey, maybe do you want to give it
a try to kind of, you know, ease his guilt
and maybe he wants to do it again twenty years
together and you're bringing it up now.
Speaker 2 (15:54):
But do people telegraph their their I mean, I guess
people project all the time. I mean, again, if he's
willing to be that communicative about it, is he really
telling on himself in that way? I mean, I feel like,
if you're gonna really because I think if you're going
to cheat you I don't have to tell you about it.
I don't have to I don't have to try. And
I guess I could manipulate you into it. But if
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I'm already doing it, then why don't need your permission?
Now to ease his guilt.
Speaker 10 (16:19):
He doesn't need permission. It's a narcissistic thing where he
feels like, I'm going to tell you a little bit,
but not enough to rat on me, do you know
what I mean?
Speaker 2 (16:27):
So, there's no way that this guy, after twenty years,
actually respects his wife and is having an open communication
about something that he would like to try and running
the risk that she says no, there's no way, but
that's possible.
Speaker 4 (16:41):
She needs to leave.
Speaker 10 (16:43):
I'm sorry, No, don't really sorry.
Speaker 2 (16:45):
I'm just I'm playing devil's advocate here. I yeah, but yeah,
I would like to believe after twenty years in open communication,
and it sounds like she admitted that they've had a
lot of communication about things that are sort of taboo topics,
I'd like to believe that it's not that cut and dry.
But thank you, Maya.
Speaker 1 (17:01):
I have a good day, me too.
Speaker 10 (17:03):
Bye.
Speaker 1 (17:03):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (17:03):
I mean this is a pretty overwhelming thought that he's
already doing it.
Speaker 1 (17:07):
Hey, Shelley, Yeah, Hi, Hey, good morning. You say go
because he's already at it.
Speaker 11 (17:13):
You know what, I think that he might have met someone.
I really do, and you know what, open herself up do,
what makes her heart feel good. You know, if she
doesn't feel comfortable with it, go just just.
Speaker 10 (17:27):
Let him go.
Speaker 2 (17:28):
Yeah, I don't think she has to agree to anything.
And I think if the relationship is if the relationship
is contingent on her allowing him to be with other
people or introducing other people into their relationship, then that
relationship is highly fractured in my opinion.
Speaker 11 (17:44):
In my opinion as well, And you know what, she
is never going to trust him after this. The trust
line is broken. She's going to be miserable. You will
be missing out on a great opportunity for herself.
Speaker 2 (17:57):
Maybe, But I also don't want to encourage people not
to comunicate the things that they might want to do.
And granted that's an extreme one, but I mean, wouldn't
you rather that your partners say, hey, I thought about this,
or would you consider this, rather than never talk about
it and then keep it inside.
Speaker 1 (18:12):
I mean, I mean, you know, I.
Speaker 11 (18:14):
Agree with the communication. I'm one hundred percent with the
on communication. But my opinion is her trust is now altered,
and she's not going to trust him whether they communicate.
She tells him no, she's always going to wonder.
Speaker 1 (18:30):
Okay, fair enough, thank you? Sheelly have a good day.
Speaker 3 (18:32):
Oh you too, by and I got a.
Speaker 1 (18:34):
Bunch of calls to get to.
Speaker 2 (18:35):
But like Paulina, so if Hobby comes to you and
says he wants to do X y Z, whether it's
an activity or a specific thing or bringing other people
in or whatever, do you feel like, I mean, you
have a good marriage. Do you feel like if you
say no, that that automatically means he'll just go do
it with someone else? Or do you feel like he
would should be able to come to you and say, hey,
I'm thinking about this, this would be hot, and then
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you say no, and then all right, well that kind
of sucks, but then you're still married.
Speaker 12 (19:01):
Yeah, that did happen to us. And it wasn't a
question of like can we do this? It was just like, oh,
what do you think of something like this? My hot
take on the like kind of what essentially opening up
your marriage?
Speaker 9 (19:12):
Right?
Speaker 3 (19:12):
So like seeing other people?
Speaker 12 (19:13):
My hot take on that is like I would almost
feel like why, like are you not satisfied with us
in the bedroom? Like I'm also a little insecure sized
aar thinking a little deeper, I'm like, are you not
attracted to me?
Speaker 2 (19:23):
Like?
Speaker 3 (19:24):
Do you not want me? Do you not want this marriage.
Speaker 12 (19:26):
I get a little deep with it, okay, So like
it could be as simple as like I just want to,
you know, spice things up, whatever the reasoning is for
this couple, Like I would feel some type of way,
but I think, what do you shut it down? And
your partner's like, okay, that sucks, but it is what
it is. I think that's like fine, I don't think
Hobby's going to go off and do things.
Speaker 3 (19:41):
I don't see that.
Speaker 1 (19:42):
Yeah, I don't.
Speaker 2 (19:43):
I don't know that one leads to the other. But
I agree with you, it might be hard to unring
that bell.
Speaker 1 (19:47):
It is.
Speaker 3 (19:48):
It is, it is.
Speaker 12 (19:49):
It makes you kind of question like okay, like like
why would you want that?
Speaker 1 (19:53):
Would you just mean?
Speaker 3 (19:53):
And that's how I think, and I think a lot
of women do.
Speaker 2 (19:56):
But I'm afraid that if you say, oh my god,
absolutely not, you've probably shut down all communication on that
topic and maybe some others moving forward, like if you
shame some and granted adding another person's different than I
want to. I want you to do X y Z
between the two of us. But you know, I guess
it's a tough spot to be in because depending how
you answer, how you react, you know that could that
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could really change trajectory of things.
Speaker 1 (20:20):
Juda, whatever, right, what's your name? All right? Radio?
Speaker 7 (20:28):
Now?
Speaker 1 (20:28):
When you called the radio.
Speaker 2 (20:29):
Station, hey, Kim him, I know that you don't want
to miss a word of the things that we're saying
because they're usually you know, dead on. But you can't
have the radio one because this is his delay, Kim,
what did you want to say?
Speaker 1 (20:43):
Good morning?
Speaker 7 (20:45):
So I think she should stay. Twenty years is a
long time she's been talking and adding it as spice.
But you have to be very very confident in yourself
and in your marriage. I've been married a very long
time and we have talked about it numerous times, and
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one time we went to Vegas and it happened. I
don't know if you're talking about an open relationship adding
a person to it, but I don't think she should leave.
I think he's talking to her. It's communication. It doesn't
(21:31):
mean that he's already done it. You guys are sitting
there saying, oh, he's in it, he's doing it.
Speaker 2 (21:37):
I don't think some people are saying that, Tim, Yes,
I don't think that necessarily means that he's done it.
I think it means he's curious about it, but which
could have its own problems. Kim, I have to be nosy.
Was at the beginning of something that you guys started
doing in your relationship or was that just a one,
one off thing.
Speaker 7 (21:55):
No, it was a one off thing, and we talk
about doing it their times. But it's we thought about
swinging way back in the day, probably married ten years,
but it wasn't. It was something we said to each
other that added spice to our relationship. But I have
(22:17):
to say, you know, I'm I trust him. I don't
think he would ever ever do something like that without me.
And that's where your relationship.
Speaker 1 (22:27):
Has to be. Yeah, it has to be where you're.
Speaker 7 (22:30):
Trusting, even not swinging or open or one time, you
guys have to trust each other, and obviously they do
they're married twenty years.
Speaker 5 (22:43):
Kim, I'm down for it, Kim, you were down for
this Woeman. She doesn't want to do it, and she's
what I don't know. And thank you for calling, Kim.
I appreciate you have a great day. What I don't
know is is, though, is there no Why is she
so trepidacious about saying no to him?
Speaker 2 (23:02):
Like? Why is she so convinced saying no to him
leads to something bad, Like that's what That's the part
of this that's interesting for me is she I think
she should be able to say no and then okay,
and he can be disappointed, but that's the end of it.
Speaker 5 (23:14):
But you you would think about this, like if your
partner came to you and had that request and you
said no. I know in the back of your mind
you would be like, okay, but that's something she wants
to do, and you would think about that over and
over again, like I know I said no, But does
that mean they're not going to do it?
Speaker 1 (23:30):
Yeah? Maybe?
Speaker 2 (23:31):
But if I say no and then we move on
from it, I hope that that our marriage continues and
that we have a functioning relationship and all the other
things I get with you would mess with me. But
I also I don't know that I would assume it's
already happening. I don't know that I would assume everything's over.
I'd like to believe people can say a lot of
things in a marriage and they're not just going to
leave when you don't agree with it.
Speaker 5 (23:51):
Yeah no, But having you know another person is a
different type of thing. But I wish I could be
like Kim. You know, Kim was down. She's like, let's
go to Vegas. Let's get it off. That's how you
want it to be. You want to be on the
same type of time with your partner. But if one
of you was like, oh no, I don't want to
do it, then that leaves the other person like, man,
I really want to do this.
Speaker 1 (24:09):
But I will tell you this much, Kiky.
Speaker 2 (24:11):
In one hundred percent of the examples that I'm aware of,
and it's more than one, one of the people didn't
want to do it but gave in to a piecy
other person and it still didn't work. Because I don't
know that that's something that you I feel like you're
either into it or you're not, and if you're not,
I don't know that you can be convinced by actually
doing it.
Speaker 1 (24:29):
So that's a tricky one. No, we didn't solve this
person's from Paul now Alan's entertainer report is on the
Fread show.
Speaker 6 (24:36):
A Mississippi college student has been arrested after and I
have to say allegedly, but it seems pretty clear to
me yelling an anti semitic comment at Barstool. Sports founder
Dave Portnoy as he filmed one of those pizza reviews.
You may have seen the video making its rounds on
social when a twenty year old named Patrick McClintock was
heard yelling f the Jews as he was filming this
(24:59):
peace to review, you know, the one bite everybody knows
the rules at Dave who is Jewish, and he was
filming in Mississippi on Friday. Then this video started making
its rounds going viral, and the police department did confirm
that he was arrested and later released on bond. He
was a junior and mechanical engineering major at Mississippi State University,
(25:22):
but he voluntarily left the college I think yesterday since
all of this happened. And there's a lot of talk
these days about freedom of speech and what that means,
but you can't just say whatever.
Speaker 4 (25:32):
He was hit with a misdemeanor charge of.
Speaker 6 (25:35):
Disturbing the peace, and the police department did say, yes, okay,
offensive words alone are protected, but when the behavior disrupts
a public event or risks violence, they will step in
and help to maintain the safety and security of everyone.
Speaker 4 (25:49):
In the video, you can hear Dave saying okay, come on,
say that on.
Speaker 6 (25:51):
Camera and he does say that he gets these anti
semitic attacks every single day.
Speaker 4 (25:55):
Said it certainly ramped up in recent years.
Speaker 6 (25:59):
Actress Rachel Lynn Matthews, who some people say is Orlando
Bloom's like maybe girlfriend, or maybe they're just you know,
getting with each other. I have no idea, but she's
going viral for dressing up as Orlando's ex fiance Katy Perry.
Now this was from a Halloween party, but we're just
now seeing the photos or at least figuring out okay, wait,
they may be talking, and this is what she dressed
(26:19):
up as. And she chose to go as Katie in
her astronaut era, remember when she was an astronaut.
Speaker 1 (26:25):
So she as.
Speaker 4 (26:28):
She went to space and she should have taken.
Speaker 3 (26:32):
She did.
Speaker 6 (26:32):
She also took Lauren Sanchez Bezos if you if you
do not remember any fashion nova space suits they did,
and that's what she wore.
Speaker 4 (26:41):
And she even recreated the photo of Katie kissing the
ground when she came back, so.
Speaker 6 (26:45):
Like she did all this weird though, yeah, and then
like just interesting either way that Orlando would.
Speaker 3 (26:52):
Like pose with her. I don't know, it's just timing
seems very weird.
Speaker 4 (26:55):
It's interesting, isn't it?
Speaker 6 (26:57):
So you know, I don't know, wash out for her,
I guess I would say, because that's little creepy.
Speaker 3 (27:01):
Speaking of aces, Vivica A.
Speaker 6 (27:02):
Fox is warning women not to date fifty Cents specifically
or any rappers because it quote took her years to
be able to laugh about it. Fifty obviously responded saying,
either way, I'm gonna have that ass in the matrix.
You know, I love me some, you girl, but damn
it's been twenty two years.
Speaker 4 (27:18):
So there you go. That's what he had to say
about that.
Speaker 6 (27:21):
And if you want to catch up on anything that
we had to say the frend Show on demand on
the Free I heard radio.
Speaker 4 (27:25):
But I don't know what he means having me.
Speaker 3 (27:27):
In a matrix space.
Speaker 6 (27:28):
He's so confused, say, why are you gonna have my
ass in the matrix?
Speaker 3 (27:33):
What did that meant? What is the matrix exactly? I
don't know, but don't shoot the message.
Speaker 1 (27:38):
I'm cleary.
Speaker 3 (27:38):
It's the Fred Show.
Speaker 1 (27:41):
Do you have what it takes to battle show biz?
Speaker 3 (27:43):
Shelley in the Show Business.
Speaker 1 (27:45):
Showdown be.
Speaker 2 (27:51):
Shelley's here Hi for fifty surprise one eighty three wins,
only seventy five losses. All time won six straight, and
Desiree is your challengeer. Good morning, desire.
Speaker 1 (28:02):
How are you good?
Speaker 3 (28:04):
How are you doing?
Speaker 1 (28:05):
All right, Desiree. Fun fact about you is.
Speaker 6 (28:10):
I am a veteran.
Speaker 2 (28:11):
You're a veteran, A veteran of of which branch?
Speaker 1 (28:16):
And tell me more.
Speaker 3 (28:18):
I am a marine.
Speaker 5 (28:20):
I got out six years ago and now I'm the
special education teacher.
Speaker 2 (28:25):
Well, thank you for your service on multiple fronts. You're amazing.
I would say Shelley has to now lose, except Shelley's
husband also serves, so you know, I don't.
Speaker 3 (28:35):
Know that's out. Yeah, cancel out right.
Speaker 1 (28:38):
You know both are extremely important.
Speaker 2 (28:40):
You're the spouse of a member of the military, so
I think we're gonna have to do this fair and square, okay, Desiree.
And what was your rank?
Speaker 1 (28:48):
Do I have to call you by your rank?
Speaker 10 (28:50):
I was a lance corporal when I got out, all.
Speaker 2 (28:52):
Right, lance corporal. I'm we're all saluting you right now, Yes,
but here we go. No, thank you for your service.
Four hundred and fifty bucks is a price. Let's play
five questions.
Speaker 4 (29:01):
Good luck, guys, good luck, Desiree.
Speaker 2 (29:03):
All right, jerlly, if you go sound booth poof? Okay,
here we go, Lance Corporal, desire question number one. The
cops were called to this Amazon founder's mansion over the
weekend thanks to noise complaints over a birthday party for
Chris Jenner.
Speaker 4 (29:18):
H three.
Speaker 2 (29:20):
When like gazillionaires get called like you're having a high
school party, get called. Outcast was inducted into the Rock
and Roll Hall of Fame over the weekend. Name the
rappers that make up Outcast?
Speaker 9 (29:33):
Three?
Speaker 7 (29:34):
I do not know?
Speaker 1 (29:35):
All right, you got three left? You're good.
Speaker 2 (29:36):
Cardi B posted a video cheering for her boyfriend's touchdown Sunday.
Which NFL team does he play for?
Speaker 5 (29:44):
NFL team?
Speaker 2 (29:45):
Yes, Cardi B's boyfriend? All right, all right, two left,
you're gonna get both of these. Orlando Bloom's rumored girlfriends
going viral after she seemingly dressed up as his ex fiance.
Speaker 1 (29:58):
We just did the story. Name is.
Speaker 3 (30:02):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (30:02):
And which? Blink?
Speaker 2 (30:03):
One eighty two drummer ran a five K then performed
on Sunday all before lunchtime.
Speaker 3 (30:09):
Oh, Travis Barker to Travis Barker.
Speaker 1 (30:14):
Yeah, Lance Corporal, you're so good.
Speaker 2 (30:18):
That is a three. We're gonna bring Shelley back. She
got a three because she's a Lance corporal. She's a
she's all that. Yeah, she's fine as hell. All right,
you should see her. I've never seen her, but I'm
going with okay, wow, all right, clus you gotta get
you gotta get three ready?
Speaker 1 (30:39):
Yeah, I got a little distract it there.
Speaker 4 (30:42):
It's not a minute since you heard that.
Speaker 2 (30:44):
Yes, I never hear that. Actually, it's never, certainly never
from a lance corporal. The cons were called to this
Amazon founder's mansion over the weekend thanks to noise complaints
over a birthday party for Chris.
Speaker 1 (30:55):
Jenner Jeff Bezos.
Speaker 2 (30:57):
Yes, Outcast was inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall
of Fame over the weekend. Name the rappers that make
up Outcast.
Speaker 4 (31:04):
Big Boy and Andre Breeth South.
Speaker 1 (31:07):
That would be correct.
Speaker 2 (31:08):
Cardi B posted a video cheering for her boyfriend's touchdown
on Sunday. Which NFL team does he play for?
Speaker 3 (31:15):
The Patriots?
Speaker 1 (31:16):
The Patriots is correct?
Speaker 2 (31:17):
Orlando Yes, Orlando Bloom's rumored girlfriend is going viral after
she seemingly dressed up as his ex fiancee.
Speaker 1 (31:25):
Name is x Katy Perry?
Speaker 8 (31:27):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (31:27):
And which?
Speaker 2 (31:28):
Blink one eighty two drummer Ran A five K then
performed on Sunday, all before lunchtime.
Speaker 4 (31:33):
Travis Barker.
Speaker 1 (31:34):
Yep, there you go.
Speaker 2 (31:35):
That's the five, that's the Windlands. Corporal Desiree. I'm sorry.
I will try and find you something because it's Veteran's
Day and you deserve it, but you have to say it.
My name is Desiree. I got showed up on a
showdown and you can't hang with the gorilla.
Speaker 12 (31:45):
Go.
Speaker 1 (31:47):
My name is.
Speaker 5 (31:47):
Desary and I got showed up on the showdown and
I can't hang with the gorilla.
Speaker 2 (31:54):
That was really good. And I don't know if I
can do this. I know this may, this may exert
me in ways I don't need. But Desiree, you Lance
corpal Hey with a reel.
Speaker 5 (32:06):
Cat cat cat cat shout out, so all the matteries.
Speaker 2 (32:17):
Wow, oh man, even in my crippled state, I did
that for the veterans.
Speaker 6 (32:22):
Okay, yeah, yeah, you did for the veterans.
Speaker 2 (32:25):
Dohn right, Lance corporal Hey, thank you again for your
service and to all of your all of your former
members of the military and or fellow I should say,
and hang on one second, all right, all right, right,
We're gonna get you some sort of wildly underwhelming price,
but you'll You'll love every second and you will, you will.
Budget's real low, Jason, real low at this time of year,
(32:47):
real low, five hundred bucks tomorrow, one thousand and eighty
four wins in a seven game win streak, Shelley, Let's
do it again tomorrow.
Speaker 1 (32:55):
Let's do it sounds good. And I had a military
mic for us. I know he's had a veneral just yet,
But boy, is that guy.
Speaker 2 (33:01):
What's he gonna do with is like, he's gonna have
to be He's gonna have to be missus showbiz Shelley
at some point, and that's gonna be something.
Speaker 3 (33:08):
Point, Yes, at some point.
Speaker 4 (33:09):
Yeah, just I don't know where he is right now.
He's in the ocean somewhere.
Speaker 7 (33:12):
Oh, is he.
Speaker 2 (33:13):
Yet see one of these top secret missions? Yeah, except
he's gonna except he's gonna pop up on Instagram with
his shirt off at Barbados or something.
Speaker 4 (33:23):
Let me know.
Speaker 2 (33:24):
Yeah, you know, I guess it's close friends only when
he that I have a good day, And that joke
is that, you know, Shelley's husband's in the navy. He's
a big time, big time Navy guy. But whatever he
does is top secret or something something with I'm not
gonna make Shelley explain this. But it's some sort of
tech thing and we're really unclear exactly what he does
(33:46):
or where he does it. We just know it's an
aircraft carrier. So she's explaining to this to me and
this is no joke. Like, right around the time she
explains it to me, I look on my Instagram and
it's him in Dubai with his shirt off at a
club with the bottle of champagne in his hand.
Speaker 1 (34:01):
I'm like, show, I think I know where he is.
I'll take us out. I think I found him. Yeah.
Way we saw on a little bit of a break.
Speaker 4 (34:08):
They do get nights off. Yeah, yeah, he was.
Speaker 2 (34:11):
It was all about bo I was well aware of
where he was, so not much of a secret waiting
by the phone his next More Bread show Next