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are coming up. A forty we guys shows. Oh week, guys.
Jingle Ball was last night. Thank you. I can't believe
it's coming gone already. I feel like for three months
we talked about it and tried to sell tickets and
many of you bought them, and thank you, and now
it's just over, just like that boom. But thank you
for coming last night. It was an amazing United Place
is packed and nine artists, everybody was. I mean, I
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was impressed by everybody. I know that. I gotta say,
I've met Nellie before, but I've never never, in my
whole life thought I would introduce Nelly on a stage anywhere.
And I get I get to Nelly, like, is not
Nellie's the man? And Nelly could do anything he wants
as far as I'm concerned. But it's not necessarily like Nelly.
(01:24):
What was he was prime Nelly two thousand and five. Yeah,
before that even you know, so I get that we're
a little removed from Pride, but he was amazing. People
loved it, and I was still like, I still was
a surreal, like almost out of body moment that he
was standing right there and I got to do it,
and Paulina even cried.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
Pauline was hysterical multiple times.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
I had to be consoled Kaylin and Jason that they
were holding me, and Kis like.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
I don't know what it was crying. I would have
joined the holding. And I appreciate you, I said, Nelly.
And then I stayed for one song and I and
then I heard the second one as I walked.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
To my car, So come off your heels.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
No, I can't get in the car fast enough, right
because I was not going to sit in draving when
we had to get up in three hours and in
Jason State. He just came from all state and then
arrived here. Literally my beat is still on too yet
he's wearing the same outfit from last night, the same J. C.
Penny sequence outfit from last which was beautiful on both
of you. By the way, I don't know who wore
it better, Pride Franklinson, so you understand what I mean.
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I didn't see you crying, but like I don't know,
for whatever reason that that moment really touched me. Like
we've got to do a lot of cool things in
our careers, but like I just I'm like, this is wild.
Speaker 3 (02:37):
Yeah, I feel like it was a nostalgic. Maybe it
brought me back to like a much simpler time.
Speaker 2 (02:41):
I don't know what it was.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
And he's so cool and so nice, and I would
actually hang out with him, like I feel like good
doing that.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
Like he may sound me happy, he was. He wanted
to chitch out. I know, he was just hanging out.
He was talking.
Speaker 3 (02:53):
I told him, I'm like, okay, you know you're my guy.
I've been loving you for a while because I did. Oh,
I just I love him. He's so goods beautiful.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
I think we all were sort of like, this is crazy.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
It was insane to think that.
Speaker 3 (03:03):
Yeah, like I grew up listening to you at my
little iPod shuffle and you're standing right here in your leather.
Speaker 4 (03:08):
Jacket and so humble. Yes, he was down to do
whatever we need it from him, and that was great.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
Teddy Swims the nicest guy. Love him like, that's a
dude who I want him to win? Like I want
him to win because he's just the nicest guy. Like,
keep doing it, man, because I cheer for you. And
that's not to say that I don't cheer for all
of the artists, but some are. Some are so much
more accessible and like real people than others. It just
is what it is. And I get why they're probably
tired of it and whatever. But nicest guy, shine down,
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the nicest people, the nicest people they are. I don't
know if somebody prepped them or what. But Brent, the
lead singer of Sign Down, if you saw.
Speaker 5 (03:44):
He's just an amazing He walked in the room and
he goes, he goes.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
You used to play our songs with nobody would in
Austin in two thousand and five. I don't know. Somebody
must have prepped him for that because but they didn't
have like people around. But I'm like, how do you
remember that?
Speaker 6 (04:00):
Right?
Speaker 1 (04:01):
He's like, well, you don't really forget that. I was like, dude,
that's such a good feeling. But I remembered that. But
I didn't think he would, and I wasn't gonna be like, hey,
remember when I was baby Djan and Austin we used
to play. I wasn't gonna do that. But then he
did it, and I was like, I can't believe you
remember that. Everybody was so nice.
Speaker 4 (04:15):
Star Larson, Rabel Nae Jesse, Mr Mike Queen, Jackson Wang
was freaking out watching Nellie. He was behind me and
we both were like screaming. So shout out to Jackson Wayne.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
He loved.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
Made it on the big screen. Willie and Jason were
in the video. Was me for jac Punny and I
was like that kind of made me tear up. I'm like,
look at her, go my girl.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
It was a big night. Thank you for coming, and
I hope you can go next year. It's the Fred
Show up in the city, my last dame retired.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
You don't stop that boy? Where to God?
Speaker 1 (04:49):
Yeah, honestly I've had enough Sabrina Corporator with that single espresso.
But Kiki, you got what double expresso?
Speaker 3 (04:55):
Baby Fred Show is.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
It's you say this summer night, The Friend Show's on.
Hi Kaalin Hi Jabikilla means here on the phone. The
text eight five five five nine one one three five
and almost an hour of commercial free fread show starts
right now. Blogs stay or go, We debja relationship drama,
Shelley you versus Daniel fifty another time Riker he's good.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
Surprisingly, I know he is good.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
And the entertainer reports coming up to what are working on?
Speaker 7 (05:26):
K and after Sun pens a really emotional letter to
one of his dad's biggest critics, and we got to
talk about it.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
Yeah, they talk better than the excite. These are the
radio blogs on The Fred Show, like Corerite in our diaries,
except we say them aloud. We call it blogs. Kaylin's
got one go.
Speaker 7 (05:46):
Yes, thank you, dear blog. So my friend Tatiana, one
of my best friends, who you think all of you
know her and to know her is to love her.
She she wants what she wants, she likes what she likes,
she voices. She's very opinionated, and this trickles all the
way down into her family planning, her children having, if
(06:08):
you will. So I was at dinner with her the
other night and she was telling us she does. By
the way, she does not even have a baby who
has hit one years old yet, so she has a
newborn at home. And she is telling me that she
has begun trying again for another baby because it's very
important to her that they are back to back in
the same or back to back grades, so not the
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same grade, but like.
Speaker 1 (06:30):
Irish twins, they would have to be a year apart, correct,
but and no.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
More yes, And she was doing the math.
Speaker 7 (06:37):
Doing the math, however, she said, if I'm not pregnant
right now, I'm going to stop trying for a couple months.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
And I said, well, why is that? And she said why.
I don't want a baby with a holiday birthday.
Speaker 7 (06:48):
And I'm like, you care about that? And she's like,
oh yeah. So it was crazy.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
And I was researching and I guess.
Speaker 7 (06:56):
That a lot of moms feel a certain type of
way about their baby's birthday. I know, like if it's
a c section, a lot of people will, you know,
schedule it, such as though they have a birthday that
they want. I know Paulina didn't want an April Fool's baby.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
I almost did, though, you wand yes, because I was
induced on March thirtieth at seven pm and you guys
were texting me everything. It was like on Monday or something,
and I was like, you guys like I could have
this baby any second. You don't know, but I was
so scared because if she came out on April first,
I would have.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
Been very upset that my poor baby at.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
The April fools birthday. And had been listening for a while.
Then you know that Paulina clearly didn't plan that because
she was pregnant at her wedding.
Speaker 3 (07:36):
I was pregnant, three months pregnant. My wedding did not
plan that.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
That was on purpose.
Speaker 2 (07:39):
My wedding name was.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
Like wild Weekend in Vegas. That was the thing with
my wedding. The one that was your husband, Oh, he
didn't make it to the party, the pre party.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
Yeah, I was like, where's hobby at my engagement party?
Didn't make it? No, No, my friend made it the
engaging party or whatever.
Speaker 2 (07:57):
You're frogs. We're gonna prop Tavy up, like we probably
we can't talk about that enough. I'm not mad enough
about that. I was surprised that you were so sad
about it, but well, you know me, I like to
go out without them sometimes, you know. Yeah, I was
getting into a.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
Lot that night, Shelly. Was there much planning for your kids?
Speaker 8 (08:14):
No, you know me, I'm kind of like, let the
universe do what it's gonna do. Whatever's gonna happens.
Speaker 2 (08:19):
That happened.
Speaker 8 (08:19):
So we well, for my first we were trying to
have a baby and then wonderful experience. And for the
second we did not plan it at all whatsoever. It
was a complete shock and surprise.
Speaker 1 (08:32):
So it just is it trying? Is that kind of
is it get kind of like annoying? Because I feel
like the when people are trying, then it's like, you know,
we're we're sort of tracking things, and then it's like, oh, now,
as we got to now, and then, like I've heard
from my buddies, it gets to the point where if
you're trying for a while that it becomes very unromantic
and like almost not even enjoyable because it's like a
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now we're just we're doing this for the purpose. We're
not doing this for the fun, right.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
Well, I will say it did, no, I mean, we
were lucky.
Speaker 8 (09:04):
I feel very lucky because I know not everybody's as
lucky as like, we didn't have to try that hard.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
I guess, Okay, yeah, I didn't take too many times,
but oh hell yeah, yeah that's good.
Speaker 1 (09:16):
But you know, I think for some people, like they
try and try and try and try, and then it's
like at some point, you know, and we're getting really
granular about the process, and it's oh god, my buddies
will be like, Okay, well this weekend, I'm busy, and
it's not. And it's busy in a fun way, but
not a fun way because at some point it's like, okay,
enough is enough, Like it's not going to work. It's like,
you know what I mean. And I never thought there'd
be a world where like I wouldn't I wouldn't be
(09:38):
onto that. But my poor sister, I mean, she had
polly within I think, I don't know, after maybe six
or eight months of being married, because she was told
by her doctor that it would be extremely difficult for
them to conceive, if at all, and then they didn't
do anything special, and then they just she got pregnant
and she was like, oh, so we're doing this now.
I think she was hoping they had a little more time,
(09:58):
like to be you know, married, did not without kid interesting,
but yeah, it was like yeah, and I won't I
don't know the whole process, but there's something going on there.
And it was like, yeah, it's going to be hard.
No that it went hard. Apparently it was pretty easy,
so so be careful, I guess.
Speaker 3 (10:14):
But you know what, though, I think a lot of
people will appreciate what your friend is doing, especially because
I have friends whose birthdays fall right like on New
Year's Christmas and someone just.
Speaker 2 (10:22):
Texted about that too, and they're like it sucks.
Speaker 3 (10:24):
And I feel like because you get the shine taken
away from you, right if your birthdays near Christmas?
Speaker 2 (10:28):
You guys got Thanksgiving. I like you, that was not
so bad. I don't think Thanksgiving.
Speaker 1 (10:33):
And that was a month early, so I wasn't I
think I was supposed to be closer to Christmas.
Speaker 2 (10:37):
Oh you were, Oh you were a month early?
Speaker 1 (10:38):
Yes, I was. I was born small, and it was
there was viability was a question. I won't sure if
I was ever going to get big and tall?
Speaker 2 (10:46):
Look at you now?
Speaker 1 (10:47):
Yeah, I knowsh Apparently I had a gigantic head for
a for a premie and so that my mom was convinced.
I was like, what do they call that? U? A
hydro cephalic? Oh yeah, it turns out I just I didn't.
I had to grow into my head. That is what
it turned out to me, which is still true. It's
still true. I need to go into my ears too. Yeah,
maybe that's more common than people think.
Speaker 2 (11:08):
Texas, Like they.
Speaker 1 (11:09):
Don't want to have a summer baby. Some people don't
want to be pregnant in the summer.
Speaker 2 (11:12):
Oh yeah, that's the thing too.
Speaker 7 (11:14):
My one friend said my other friend that it's like
the best to be pregnant starting around like right before
the holidays, because then you're like inside it's cold, and
like you don't.
Speaker 2 (11:23):
Have to do a lot, you know, if you're eating
ooh yeah.
Speaker 1 (11:27):
Yeah, I guess in the winter you can sort of
get away with that, was me. Yeah, and I would
imagine it would be more enjoyable to be carrying around
another human being and gaining weight when it's when it's
cold outside, because it's hot, but it's I don't know,
hard child. Childbirth is not for me. So it's a
good thing.
Speaker 6 (11:47):
Right now.
Speaker 1 (11:50):
It's a miracle that has never happened. It's stay or go.
I feel like give us some advice. Yes, goes to
If you said no, we would just would have moved on. Hi, Kelly.
Oh you gotta push that on button, Hi Kelly. Sorry on.
It's important to push when you want people to talk
in the radio. How you doing, Hey, I'm okay, I
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wanted some advice. Oh, she's right into it, man, like
she did. This is serious, No, not at all. All right,
let's talk about this I have I'm gonna pretend like
I don't know what you're about to say, but I've
read your note. Okay, this is about your boyfriend.
Speaker 9 (12:32):
It is Yeah, we've been together for gosh six six
and a half.
Speaker 1 (12:36):
Years, okay, and so yeah, and you you witnessed something
rather unfortunate for you and for him quite frankly, because
nobody really wants to get caught uh like this, But
explain what what did you see?
Speaker 6 (12:55):
So?
Speaker 9 (12:55):
I had gotten home from work and I walked in
on him. I'm watching let's call it adult content.
Speaker 2 (13:05):
Will I see familiar?
Speaker 1 (13:06):
I see? Yeah? Yeah, on the fun iPad was did
he have his did he have his full laptop? It
makes a difference. Was he in front of his desktop computer?
Was it a video?
Speaker 2 (13:17):
Is a projector?
Speaker 1 (13:19):
Why does it make a difference?
Speaker 2 (13:20):
Because I need to know, like if you have a
projector out like.
Speaker 1 (13:25):
He wheeled screen, you know what I mean? Like, yeah,
if you're on my couch watching on my eighty inch
it's not even sanitary. Okay, sorry, But what is the
answer though? Was it phone? The phone?
Speaker 9 (13:38):
Luckily it wasn't a projector, but it was his iPad,
so it was a little bit bigger iPad.
Speaker 1 (13:47):
That's serious.
Speaker 9 (13:48):
Well, and that's why I was able to see it
very clearly. Uh that you know, it was not the
kind of adult content that I was expecting. Again, I watch,
I watched. There's nothing wrong with it. It was just
that he was watching.
Speaker 3 (14:10):
Uh gay man.
Speaker 1 (14:16):
Up and walked out? She did walked out.
Speaker 2 (14:21):
You can't compete with that.
Speaker 1 (14:25):
Okay, did you finish? All right?
Speaker 2 (14:27):
So you.
Speaker 1 (14:29):
Wow? All right? So so you walk in on this
first of the logistics of the iPad to it, I know,
I'm caught, I'm caught on the details here, but so
so you walk in he's watching content that is not
congruent with what you thought he was into, based on
the fact that you've been with him for six and
a half years, and did you did you say something
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of him, because look, I mean, you're right, there's nothing
wrong with consuming that kind of content. I realized that
it's slippery slope. There can be other issues and connection issues,
and there's a lot of there's a lot of reasons
why this could be problematic. But in itself, watching that
kind of content is all right. And but but yet
this was this was not this was not what you
thought he was into. So you asked him about it.
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What does he say?
Speaker 9 (15:13):
Well, I had said, like, what what is happening? And
he said he wanted to try something new, like and
you know, listen again, there's nothing wrong with it, and
he said it's fantasy.
Speaker 10 (15:27):
Like I'm not going to act on it.
Speaker 9 (15:28):
People do that, like I I don't want to do
it in real life.
Speaker 1 (15:32):
Jason heard this one before.
Speaker 2 (15:34):
Yeah, but I do think that it's okay to I
don't know you, I don't.
Speaker 5 (15:40):
Watch everything I would actually do, right, Like, do you
everything that you watch are you actually going to try
to do in real life?
Speaker 4 (15:48):
No?
Speaker 1 (15:49):
No point? Yeah, Gay, you know but too.
Speaker 2 (15:58):
Well, and that's what he has said, Like you, he
flipped the script something going on watch two women?
Speaker 1 (16:07):
So why, like, what's wrong with me? It's kind of
a double standard. I will I will say, there is
a double is it? Everybody can be watching two girls
and that's.
Speaker 2 (16:16):
Not a lot of three women do say that they
watch that.
Speaker 1 (16:18):
Yeah, and that's no one's saying anything about that.
Speaker 2 (16:21):
That's true.
Speaker 1 (16:22):
But then you know a couple of dudes and now
all of a sudden, we you know, now we're questioning
someone's like true identity. That is that is a good
point that it is. There's a double standard there.
Speaker 2 (16:31):
Yeah it was her.
Speaker 3 (16:31):
We wouldn't better this man would not be batting an
eye at her, you know what I mean. They was like,
it's another Tuesday at the house. But because it's too
men exactly bred.
Speaker 1 (16:39):
Yeah right, But but I will say I don't like, yeah,
well we'll get to that, but like I don't I
don't mean, yeah, I'm trying to interrupt you, but I
wouldn't say. I have vast conversations with my friends about
what sort of content they like, but none of them
have shared with me that they like watching two men.
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So I don't know if that's just like another level
or if it's simply a double standard, and I should
be able to watch that and no one should say
two things about it, like I don't know, I don't
know why that is. So he's just fantasizing you have
other concerns. Have you ever had any other reason to
question and try if you can to remove the fact
(17:21):
that you're now sort of influenced by what you saw
him watching. Have you ever had any concern otherwise? Like
without this, I feel like sometimes something happens to you're like, oh,
I've been seeing the signs, but maybe you're putting two
things together that weren't already there. So never you've never
and everything in your life, no, intimately has been sound
and and all of that.
Speaker 9 (17:43):
Yeah, and we're I mean, you know again, we've been
together forever. But it's not like you know, that is
an issue for us. We are physical together.
Speaker 3 (17:52):
You know.
Speaker 9 (17:53):
Of course, now I'm over analyzing everything, like oh yeah,
a couple of months ago when he said, oh my gosh,
that man is you know that he's like an Adonis,
and I thought I'd love to jump him.
Speaker 1 (18:05):
I'd love to jump him. Intimately, I love him up
and that you know, now you're concerned about.
Speaker 9 (18:11):
That thinking yeah, of course, and then like, oh my gosh,
you know last week when we were intimate, was he
thinking about that Adonnas of the supermarket?
Speaker 1 (18:20):
Like you know, if he's referring to other men as Adonis,
maybe we yeah, yeah, maybe maybe we have more to
talk about here. Okay, I want to take some phone
calls on this. I want to see if other people
have to say eight five five five three five. We'll
surveyed the room here as well. I appreciate you sharing this.
Have the radio on and let's see what people say.
Maybe other people can relate and have been through this.
Speaker 2 (18:41):
Good luck, Kelly, thank you, I really appreciate it.
Speaker 1 (18:44):
Got it so in short, this man that she's been
with for six and a half years, she walked in
on him consuming content uh of two gay of two men,
of two men enjoying one another's company a lot, and
it's uncharacteristic. It's not what she thought he was into.
(19:05):
He's never expressed that before. And what I was saying
to her was I didn't want her to jump to
conclusions like I didn't want her to say, well, now
that he did that, now I can connect the Dodgs
to a bunch of other stuff. If he's really calling
other men Adonis, then it's interesting. But here's the other thing.
It doesn't necessarily mean that he doesn't value her. It
doesn't mean that he doesn't value what they do together.
(19:27):
It's possible that the guy is by curious maybe, but
that doesn't that doesn't if the concern here is that
it's that his affection for her, or his life for her,
or their life together is fraudulent, I don't think it
necessarily says that. It doesn't have to mean that. It
could mean that he has some kind of fantasy that
he's not comfortable sharing because of this kind of speculation
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or the double standard that we referred to earlier, or whatever,
But like, I don't I you're right if I walked
in on it. If I'm dating a woman and I
walked in she was watching two women, I wouldn't necessarily
assume that I'm no longer you know, she's not into me.
So I don't know why it would be fair to
do it the other way around. We all agree or
(20:12):
or or or no.
Speaker 3 (20:14):
Well, I just think sometimes like what we watch doesn't
really always equal like real life, especially like the damsel
in distress, Like no, I will never like you know,
be like doing things.
Speaker 2 (20:22):
With like the burglar that comes in the house right, Like.
Speaker 1 (20:29):
That's good, sounds like something done many times, tim breaking
in the house again, climbing through again. I'm here to
rib you girl.
Speaker 3 (20:49):
No, but like in the bedroom, yes, So like I
don't know, I just feel like what I have questions
absolutely like yeah, why not? But at the same time,
it's like I gotta think back to like when you
first discover this stuff and you're like exploring.
Speaker 2 (21:02):
It's like, did you not like look into that, you know,
when you first discovered it? Do you know what I'm saying?
Like maybe it's new to him or in the situation.
Speaker 1 (21:09):
New to her. Boy, I'm just not certain that m
M if her concern is that because why would you Okay,
why would somebody worry about this. You'd worry because it's like, oh,
he likes men, he doesn't like women. Well, I don't
think it necessarily means that. It could mean he also
likes men, because apparently he likes her and she was
none the wiser and their intimate life has been sound
(21:30):
until she saw this, and now she's second guessing it.
So if that's her worry, then I don't necessarily think
that she that that one leads to the other. Now, Jason,
you in a previous time in your life, Yeah, you
were with women and you did not necessarily like or
care for them. But you also did know, right, And
I don't mean to speak for you, but we've talked
about this at length for a decade or longer. You
(21:53):
did know that that wasn't necessarily what you wanted to
gravitate towards. You were kind of doing it to conform, right, Yeah, Yeah,
I think it was. Yeah.
Speaker 5 (22:00):
I think like you sort of set out and think
what you should do and what you should be in
the world. But I mean, I definitely did care for
the women that I was with, And so there's.
Speaker 1 (22:11):
A world where he could maybe be with her because
he's repressing what he really wants to do.
Speaker 5 (22:16):
Yeah, people do that every single day. But I think
to jump to that conclusion just from this specific example
is a little much.
Speaker 1 (22:24):
Six and a half years to be with someone while
you really want to do something else is a very
long time. And then for her to not see any
sign or feel any sort of gap in the connection,
You know what I mean like people do it.
Speaker 2 (22:36):
All the time though people live secret lives.
Speaker 1 (22:41):
Relationship. I guess life, Yeah, I guess Hey Sarah, Yeah,
Hi Sarah. Hey, what do you think if you're just
tuning in a woman with her boyfriend of six and
a half years, she walks in on him watching content
that is not necessarily what she brings to the table,
and now she's questioning everything.
Speaker 11 (23:00):
I think she should still say. I think you know,
it's somewhat normal for you know, people to watch that. Again,
like you said, the double standard, and if you bisexual,
that still doesn't change, you know how he feels about her.
Speaker 1 (23:16):
I mean, now I'll have her jokes like the George
Michael posters all over the rooms. I mean, you know
you might have. I don't know. He loves to go
to he loves to go to a village of people
or whatever. The village people cover band shows. But you
know what I mean, that's that's normal, isn't it.
Speaker 2 (23:37):
You know you have a steam works.
Speaker 1 (23:42):
All right? All right, Sarah, So it's normal and and
and so she should stick with it. I think so yeah, okay,
fair enough, Thank you, Sarah.
Speaker 11 (23:50):
I have a good day, of course, thanks you too.
Speaker 1 (23:52):
Glad you called, Hey, Josie, How you doing, Josie? So
you call the station. Look alive, Josie. We're on the
radio station all right now. Thank you for calling him
for listening? What say you?
Speaker 10 (24:12):
I think she should stay.
Speaker 1 (24:15):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (24:16):
And I say that because.
Speaker 10 (24:18):
I feel like maybe there needs to be a little
bit more communication between them. I know it's been they've
been together quite a long time, and like he said it,
you know, it is a fantasy that maybe he was
just a little bit embarrassed to like tell her about
I kind of went through a similar situation with my
(24:40):
now fiance, except that my fiance in the past acted
upon it. And we're still kind of working through that
whole what what what the heck did you do?
Speaker 1 (24:51):
How did he acted upon it? Now? How did he
did he act upon it before he met you? Did
he cheat on you with a man? Like when you
say acted upon it and you work through it, like,
what is that mean?
Speaker 10 (25:01):
So he before he met me, and it was with
a transgender man who wanted to be a woman, and
he knew this person before he met me, and then
while we were dating he acted upon it recently, So
(25:23):
we're still trying to work through that and with our
communication that we've been going through is that he told
me it was fantasy. Obviously, the typical lack of judgment.
I was being selfish, blah blah blah. So we're still
trying to work through that. But I will never forget
because I live and die by the Golden Girls. And
(25:44):
one of the quotes in the show that Sophia says
is that if you could erase this one moment in
your entire relationship, is this the person that you still
want to be with? And my answer was yet, Okay,
we are working. We are working through that, rebuilding that trust.
Speaker 6 (26:04):
You know.
Speaker 10 (26:05):
Obviously everyone has their fantasies, everyone has their their likes,
but he does not really want to communicate his feelings
because he feels embarrassed about the things that he likes
in that aspect. But he has been more open about it,
which I'm glad that he is more comfortable to talk
to me about that.
Speaker 1 (26:24):
Well, I think that's a good sign, right, that's a
good Now you've opened the lines of communication, You've made
him feel accepted, and so I think you're going to
get the truth as opposed to if you shunned him
or you pretended like it never happened. Then in the
back of your mind you'd always wonder, like, what's really
going on here? But I think you've done the right thing.
You've said, this is a person I want to be with,
(26:45):
and I accept you for who you are. So let's
work through this and let's let's have an open dialogue.
I think I think that's the only.
Speaker 10 (26:51):
Way exactly, and communication is key. And you're right, I
didn't shun him because I feel like if I did,
then he would be a lot less a more reluctant
to communicate with me about for them faith.
Speaker 1 (27:05):
Yeah, I think you're right, Josie. I'm glad you called.
I'm glad that I yelled at you to talk to me,
because this is a great You woke me up. I
love you. Have a good day. Yeah, all these years later,
man deep Hey Amber, Hi Amber, good morning. There go go.
Speaker 6 (27:25):
Why oh, well, with my opinion, if that was me
and I was with a man for over six years
and you know I randomly saw him doing what he
was doing the middle of the night, morning, whatever time
of day it was, I would almost kind of be
like offended, almost in shock, especially if I didn't know
that that was something that he was into or exploring.
(27:48):
I don't think I can be with somebody that's even
bisexual or has ever been with a man ever.
Speaker 1 (27:53):
That's just you know, not something that I'm into.
Speaker 2 (27:55):
I'm completely heterosexual.
Speaker 6 (27:57):
And that's you know, how I would want my boyfriend
or husband or you know, fiancee to be or whatever
the case may be.
Speaker 2 (28:04):
Uh, you know, six years is more than.
Speaker 11 (28:05):
Half a decade.
Speaker 6 (28:06):
That's you know, a pretty good chunk of time for
somebody that you've been with and they've never done this before.
You know, you never knew about this, So for it
to be like new information, you know, I don't think
it's worth saying.
Speaker 1 (28:18):
Okay, fair enough, Hamberg, thank you, thank you. I think
the bottom line is that if she really cares about
this man and really wants to be with him, and
she can live with it, live with what she saw,
then the only way is to have a dialogue and
to make the guy feel like she's comfortable with him.
And maybe the end result is that we find out
that they're not supposed to be together or that or
that he has been repressing something. But like again, you
(28:40):
could shun it, and then he's never going to tell
you anything about anything, and you're always going to wonder
or you can have the conversation is I don't know
that there's another choice.
Speaker 2 (28:49):
Yeah, seeing a man do that at all is a
little terrifying. So no matter what he's watching, you know,
how do you get that on your brain?
Speaker 1 (28:56):
Yeah, that's that's something that we never you never want you.
Speaker 2 (28:59):
Kind of you know, I would look with so much shame,
like if someone walked to nothing. Never want to get
cutting with myself.
Speaker 1 (29:04):
Oh yeah, I like it. I'd like to see it.
Speaker 2 (29:13):
There I go.
Speaker 1 (29:18):
Caitlin's Entertainment Report. He's on the fread Show.
Speaker 7 (29:21):
Stephen Colbert announced that Taylor Swift will be on his
late show tomorrow night. He posted a little video yesterday
to announce that he was dancing to opal light. In
the end of the clip, Taylor calls him up, saying hey, Stephen,
which is also a name of one of her songs
up the Fearless album.
Speaker 2 (29:37):
The caption read meet Me at Midnight JK eleven thirty
five at.
Speaker 7 (29:41):
Taylor Swift is on Colbert Wednesday at twelve ten, so
look out for that. The last time she was on
a show was back in twenty twenty one for the
release of her album Fearless Taylor's version. Actor Matthew Lillard's
child Ace defended their dad after Quentin Tarantino named him
as one of three actors whose work he didn't care for,
so if you missed it. The pulp fiction director named Matthew,
(30:05):
along with actress Paul Dano and Owen Wilson. During an
appearance on the Brett Easton Ellis podcast of Just Actress,
he was like, I don't like him in a letter
posted to social on Sunday, I believe, Ace responded, writing
to whom I may concern, my dad is a talent,
He is a joy, and he will.
Speaker 2 (30:22):
Always be my hero on screen and off.
Speaker 7 (30:24):
Not only is my dad the kind of creative I
strive to be, but he is the kind of human, decent,
humble that I hope to become. An Ace, who is
currently attending Carnegie Mellon University studying acting indirectly, slamm Tarantino
for this like unprovoked attack, saying creatives are supposed to
lift each other up, find empathy for those that we
(30:44):
may have a hard time understanding.
Speaker 2 (30:46):
My dad does his best to embody it.
Speaker 7 (30:48):
That and Ace praise their father, who admitted that the
comments by Tarantino stung him as well. I can imagine
as an actor how hard that would be and really quick.
On a recent episode of This Past Weekend with Theo Vaughn,
he kept fully dropped that he and Morgan Wallen are
in a regular weekly Bible study together.
Speaker 2 (31:06):
Over the years. I dug into it.
Speaker 7 (31:07):
I guess Morgan has also brought up this Bible study once,
telling a fan that he added him to his Bible
study prayer list. And so I'm just gonna leave that
right there and say that Morgan and THEO need Jesus.
So I hope they keep it up. So keep on
going to your Bible study friends, And if you miss
anything from our show, everything's all up there. Type of
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Speaker 1 (31:30):
Do you have what it takes to battle show Biz?
Shelley in the show.
Speaker 2 (31:34):
Biz Showdown Show?
Speaker 6 (31:37):
No?
Speaker 1 (31:41):
Oh no, Daniel Daniel's back again. Hi Daniel Daniel.
Speaker 2 (31:50):
The energy it makes me nervous.
Speaker 1 (31:52):
Four hours? Man, did you.
Speaker 6 (31:56):
Like?
Speaker 1 (31:56):
What's the deal?
Speaker 10 (31:58):
I'm the ducks on the water above the water.
Speaker 1 (32:02):
Below the water an hours? Okay, wow, wow, duck above
the one? Well we are getting like metaphorical wow? Yeah,
whatever you got? I want some right now. All right,
here we go five questions. This is your third appearance
on the show. You may have earn yourself some extra
money four hundred and fifty bucks. In Shelley's record, one thousand,
ninety one wins only seventy six losses. Let's go sell.
(32:24):
You gotta get out.
Speaker 2 (32:25):
Bye Daniel, good b ba, goodbye John.
Speaker 1 (32:29):
She goes to the sound boof poof, Enter within that door. Wow,
by the way, I have an update on the door,
not a new door. That's just some improvements that they
believe they've made to the door while we wait for
the door that we're supposed to get. Love that. Yeah, no,
and I can huge improvements, a big, huge difference, all right, Daniel.
(32:50):
Question number one are on a Grande credits this late
wrapper and ex boyfriend for helping her find her signature
pop an R and B sound name him Blacklow, which
Pink Pony Club singer said she had a full circle
moment after being named the global ambassador for Mac Cosmetics.
(33:10):
Fans are upset about the Secret Lives of Mormon Wives finale,
hosted by is It's Jassy Schroeder. I didn't well, I
refuse which reality show brought her to fame Stossy. I'm sorry,
(33:33):
I'm sorry. It was past the time, which singer said
that she would no longer play her song Penthouse at
concerts if people couldn't be respectful to her ex Morgan Evans.
Speaker 10 (33:46):
And that was yesterday.
Speaker 1 (33:48):
Yes you listen.
Speaker 11 (33:50):
You you got this one, all.
Speaker 1 (33:53):
Right, final one? You got this one? Which Chicken Fried
singer is being called out by fans who think that
he and his band's show at the Spear in Las
Vegas was demonic three two that's a two point five.
I wish I could give you three he got we
really stole on it. No two point five is I
(34:16):
think you're gonna I think we will be a clean win.
But we'll see you ready.
Speaker 10 (34:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (34:20):
Ariana Grade credits this late rapper and ex boyfriend for
helping her find her signature pop an R and B
sound name him Mac Miller. That's right, which Pink Pony
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after being named the global ambassador for Mac Cosmetics. Chapron
fans are upset that the Secret Lives of Mormon Wives
finale hosted by Sassy Schroder or it was hosted by
that by that person by which reality show brought Saucy
(34:45):
to fame. Yeah he got that moment after the buzzer
which singer said that she would no longer play her
song Penthouse and concerts if people couldn't be respectful to
her ex Morgan.
Speaker 2 (34:57):
Evans, Oh, no, three, two, I don't know, Kelsey.
Speaker 1 (35:05):
Listen to the show, Listen to the program. Finally, Yeah,
you were actually right there. Winter Chicken Fried singer is
being called out by fans who think that he and
his band show at the Sphere in Las Vegas is demonic.
Speaker 2 (35:18):
I kick them, Zack O'Brian, No, no, no.
Speaker 10 (35:24):
Brown.
Speaker 1 (35:26):
So you got you got three barely so that you won.
And it was so very, so very close.
Speaker 2 (35:32):
He got to play five. Don't do that though, I know,
but you.
Speaker 1 (35:35):
Got three, you got three. You got it with Daniel,
he's did a great job. We're gonna get you a
runner up prize. It was so so close. But you
have to say, my name is Daniel, I got showed
up on a showdown and you can't hang with the gorilla.
Speaker 11 (35:45):
Go my name is Daniel, and I got showed up
on the showdown and I cannot hang with the gorilla.
Speaker 1 (35:52):
You my friend, Daniel. He is very chill. Man. You
can't hang with the gorilla.
Speaker 4 (36:00):
Get cat cat, Yeah, cat, shout out to Luke.
Speaker 7 (36:11):
That're pretty different earth things, Yes, Luke and Zach and
I was so close.
Speaker 1 (36:16):
I thought we're gonna do it again. Man, I thought
we were gonna do it again. Hang on, have a
great day, all right. Right he was good, he was
really he was really good. Proud of him, all right,
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I did?
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I was like, what are you gonna do for two thousand?
I'm like, are we that colder? No, we're nine hundred
a week to look at it on paper. The girl
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