May 13, 2025 • 39 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Who is the guy Champagneoppy who hit me up yesterday
Trumpet Poppy?
Speaker 3 (01:32):
What Drake hit me up before as Daniel Champagne Poppy.
Speaker 1 (01:36):
No, No, he's not though he what's his name trumpet.
Speaker 3 (01:39):
Trumpet Poppy, Yeah, trump Poppy.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Trumpet Poppy.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
This is the dude who found an envelope full of
money near UIC's graduation and he went on TikTok and
he said I got a whole I mean it looked
like hundreds of dollars if somebody's parents gave them in
like a nice note and stuff in there. Anyway, we
announced yesterday that he was looking for the owner of
seid Envelope, but I'm not sure how exactly he was
(02:03):
able to confirm it. But he then he emailed me
yesterday and said, Hey, were you talking about me on
the radio this morning? And I'm like, as a matter
of fact, I was Champagne Bobby or Trumpet Pobby or
whatever your name. Yeah, very nice guy. Anyway, he found
the girl and was able to return the money to her,
and there's a video with it, and then he gave
her something else too.
Speaker 1 (02:19):
I'm not sure what it was, but.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
He said to me, I said, hey, that was a
really classy thing for you to do, and he said,
I'm just doing what any Chicagoan would do. Not sure
about that, Okay, No, I'm pretty sure that I know
some Chicagoans who would have taken that money. Yes, Like,
excuse me, is this your money? I tried to find
a person. I tried to find a person whose money
it is. Ye, So he believes that's what any Chicagoan
(02:43):
would do, and I appreciate that.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
It's nice of him. Did she break him off something
for a returning it?
Speaker 2 (02:48):
I don't think so. It didn't look like it. But
you know, look, she's a college graduate. She didn't have
any money. Her parents probably saved up to give her
that money. M that's true, coming up in Key Key Court.
Speaker 3 (02:58):
Really, he gave you your money bag.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
He didn't even see my kind of dude. Trumpet Poppy
doesn't seem like the kind of dude that would that
would even take the money.
Speaker 3 (03:07):
He's like, yeah, very for the community.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
He seems like a good dude about offering. But shout
out to him and go follow him on TikTok. I
don't know what his content is like. Hopefully it's not unsavory.
I don't actually know.
Speaker 2 (03:16):
I just saw the one video he got the money
back to the college graduate. I'm very excited, and then
he he hit us up to let us know. So
I take no credit for this. I just appreciate that
somehow it got back to him that we were trying
to help him in his quest.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
You know this guy, I do, yeah, he we're being.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
Cryptic about this guy. Have you dated this man?
Speaker 5 (03:33):
No?
Speaker 3 (03:33):
I did not date him.
Speaker 6 (03:35):
Over here him it's even Honestly, I can't remember if
I went to high school with him or not. As
one of those where I'm like, I've seen your face before.
I was in the hallways of Carrie And I could
be wrong, but I've seen him before.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
I hand this man poppy and in your personal day
and not.
Speaker 6 (03:46):
Call him poppy my personal life. This is this is
a good man. He's very for the community, he's very
for the people. Well, there you go, then then go
follow him. Trumpet poppy.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
I think there's more to it, but I don't know
how many trumpet poppies there are. But they'll get them
a fun it's the frend.
Speaker 3 (04:01):
Show'll wake up up.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
Why would Why would I do seventy five to get soft? No,
I would do seventy five to get hard, I guess,
But I wouldn't do seventy five to get.
Speaker 1 (04:16):
I mean I already am.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
Yeah, I am soft to medium, so I'm not trying
to get soft. I mean the seventy five soft he's
going to Culvert's every day or something like, or you.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
Know, Fred's show is on. How's that going to you?
Speaker 6 (04:28):
You know, I think it's somewhere between soft and hard,
like like a medium. So you're a medium, A medium,
which I don't think is a thing. But I made
seventy five medium. So you're walking every day, walking every day,
so every day I read every day a physical book, which.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
Has been really hard.
Speaker 6 (04:44):
Physical. Wow, I'm an audiobook girls book. Okay, Well do
you have time to like sit and reading on the
couch like it's it's hard. My mind is in a
hundred different places.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
I can't just really say yeah, that's all I do
when I go home. I just I just go home
and read and do legos. That's it, and do legos.
That's it. That's my whole life. Actually, that pretty much
sums it up. Sounds great, And then you want to
was it supposed to be a meal plan of some kind?
Speaker 7 (05:06):
Basically? No sugar.
Speaker 3 (05:07):
I sneak in a little sugar here there. So that's
why I'm medium.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
All right, So she's seventy five medium. Yeah, how you
doing on it?
Speaker 5 (05:14):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (05:14):
I'm doing great?
Speaker 1 (05:15):
Yeah, seventy five medium, Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
Seventy five medium, extra large charge.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
Yeah, so what's your day like? Then it's at least
a three piece from KFC.
Speaker 8 (05:25):
No, I don't eat that. I mean a shout out
to KFC. You know, I used to work there, right,
I'm familiar you were. You were the manager of the store.
Now we know you. Nobody could work a drive through
like you.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
Right. I think I could still hold it down there too.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
Did you win an award or something for like the
most efficient drive through time or something?
Speaker 1 (05:42):
Yeah?
Speaker 8 (05:42):
I want all type of certificates. Man, they offered me
my own store. Yeah, you fumbled the bag on that
work here. Yeah, sorry, I might have done that instead. Actually,
you probably make more money now. But what's your daily routine?
Are you reading ten pages a day seventy five hards?
Speaker 3 (05:56):
Yes, I read all of our dms.
Speaker 1 (05:58):
Yeah, well that those are novels emails. Oh yeah, so
very long. Yeah that's true.
Speaker 3 (06:03):
Yeah, so I do a lot of reading.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
Yeah. And how about the diet plan on that?
Speaker 3 (06:07):
Oh, the diet plan is very intact.
Speaker 8 (06:10):
Yes, on Tuesdays, which is today, I eat a salad
in the office to let everybody know that I'm eating
a salad, so I walk around and shap you will.
Speaker 2 (06:17):
Yeah, I wondered why do you walk around with the
salad Like, I'm like, why are you going you know,
position a position making sure everybody knows about it?
Speaker 8 (06:24):
Uh huh, Because when I know everyone's in the office,
that's the time to shine.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
But then what do you mean when you leave?
Speaker 9 (06:29):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (06:29):
When I leave, I eat the salad? Why you in
my business?
Speaker 2 (06:35):
I'm wondering what your definition of seventy five hard is,
and if it's anything like Minie is go to the
gym for an hour and a half or run around
with Gideon and circles and then order a pizza. And
as far as I'm right now, my backers, as far
as I'm concerned, that's just balance.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
It is.
Speaker 7 (06:48):
I agree, because before.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
I would have just eating a pizza and I've done
the workout part, so at least now I'm doing both.
Speaker 3 (06:55):
Hey, I'm proud of you. I think you're winning the workout.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
Man, I would be I would be on the cover
of Men Health if I didn't eat the pizza after
the workout.
Speaker 3 (07:03):
Seventy five hard. You gotta do better than that to play.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
Oh yeah, you're more of a two fifty Oh okay,
I got him. Stay here go.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
Fifty chicken nuggets. I can do that well. Debate some
relationship drama in just a second. The entertainment of Port
Kinki eight hundred bucks new player, Your record's thirty and
four good news stories.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
If we have time, what are you working on for
a fort k?
Speaker 7 (07:27):
Kim Kardashian will testify today.
Speaker 10 (07:29):
Also, fans are kind of disturbed by an actress saying
she was going to get put through the mattress to
celebrate Mother's Day.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
Yeah, that was yeah.
Speaker 2 (07:39):
And if I were that guy, I'd be the proudest
guy on the planet. I mean, yes, you can take
a picture of me because I'm about to hook up
with Halle Berry.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
Yeah, I mean I'm that guy. I'm him, right, you
all worried about the pope. Look about what I'm about
to do.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (07:53):
And that's not the guy though that I would have
thought would be hooking up with Halle Berry. Necessarily you think, so, oh, yeah,
that dude.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
Who is it? Do we know who it is?
Speaker 3 (08:01):
I don't know his name, but he find Van Van
oh something.
Speaker 7 (08:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (08:05):
I don't think he's hot, but I don't think that's
just she hooked up a way hotter.
Speaker 2 (08:13):
You get a three piece from KFC, can't you. Isn't
that a thing? Yeah, someone's tested me a three piece
from CAFC the question mark.
Speaker 1 (08:20):
I'm like, no, that's a thing.
Speaker 2 (08:21):
Yeah, they have that. Yeah, that's that. That's what I thought.
You know, you know, it might be a little light
for some people. But because I mean maybe you're more
of like a bucket of koc person. But you can
get a three piece little side or something, can't you?
Speaker 3 (08:33):
A bucket is insane? But yeah, what is that? Twelve yeah?
Eight piece? Twelve piece? Sixteen piece? How much money?
Speaker 1 (08:39):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (08:39):
A bucket?
Speaker 1 (08:40):
Yeah? Oh my god.
Speaker 3 (08:42):
We do catering, well, they do catering.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
Maybe you should have taken that location after all, A
starego in three minutes after got Bruno Marspreads show and
we're commercial free for the next forty minutes.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
Fread show is on. It's stay or go.
Speaker 2 (09:01):
It's gone too far, Bella, It's gone too far. We
obtained an actual photograph of Bella Hamine, our intern who
if you missed it a few minutes ago. She believes
that she should be honored as the first daughter of
her hometown in California because her dad is the part
time mayor. And if you go to our instagram Fred
Show Radio, you're gonna see that this is an image
(09:23):
that she posted herself. This is unbelievable. She had a
full on photo shoot and everything The haters are gonna
say it's photoshop because of the hands.
Speaker 1 (09:33):
But she has Madley hands, she has manly hands.
Speaker 3 (09:37):
And those shoulders, and she's part black.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
Which a lot of people didn't know. I didn't know
that about that.
Speaker 2 (09:45):
But man talk about taking his shine away from her dad,
who's doing the hard work.
Speaker 1 (09:50):
This is crazy.
Speaker 2 (09:52):
This is the image Fred Show Radio was like, last
we grew on this esteemed panel for this international radio
conference they flew us to to We're on this panel,
and this dude has been listening. We said, more than
a dude, he's a he too is an esteemed European
radio manager.
Speaker 1 (10:09):
Yeah right, big, big time guy.
Speaker 2 (10:11):
And apparently he'd been listening to our show for weeks
and like picking out moments and then use it for
this this slideshow kind of presentation thing and question and
answer in front of all these radio people from all
over the world. And one of the images he found
was of Kiki's cord and Kiki has three hands in
the image. He's just three hands and one's white or
(10:31):
two might be white. I'm not even sure. But okay,
here we are. You know, it's like miss you should know,
you know if you came you're thinking you were going
to get secrets. The secret is we don't have any
money for a graphic designer. That's the secret.
Speaker 1 (10:45):
We don't have to say something.
Speaker 3 (10:46):
We we do what we can photographers, none of the videographers.
Speaker 1 (10:51):
But I had to just say it.
Speaker 2 (10:52):
I had to say just I had to get it
out of the way and say, guys, we're aware that
Kiki has three hands in this. That's that's what we're
working within the United States. Guys, Hey, Amanda, good morning. Well,
hi Amanda, welcome to the show. Welcome to Stay or Go.
We appreciate your note. What's going on with this boyfriend
(11:12):
of yours?
Speaker 1 (11:12):
Is his name?
Speaker 2 (11:13):
Well, when I'm gonna say his name, but he's been
around for six months, this boyfriend, Yes, yeah, we've.
Speaker 4 (11:20):
Been dating for about six months. And you know, as
a disclaimer, he's not a heavy drinker like whatsoever. But
you know, he does like to go out over the
weekend on his days off, and he does usually getting
he gets really drunk.
Speaker 1 (11:40):
Okay, so what okay?
Speaker 2 (11:43):
So the guy, this guy even dating, he doesn't drink
like so what is like not during the week he
doesn't drink, but then when he goes out he beings drinks.
Speaker 1 (11:50):
Is that the story?
Speaker 11 (11:53):
Yeah, I mean, well, the thing is.
Speaker 4 (11:54):
That he just turns into a different person when he
starts drinking. And he's you know, he really is such
a kind and considerate boyfriend, but you know, on the
weekends when he drinks, he's just not as sweet, and
he starts like picking fights with me and even like
just people around in the bar. It's just really weird.
(12:17):
Like he gets like overly protective, Like he like he
thinks that guys are flirting with me when they're not.
Speaker 1 (12:26):
He's a tough guy what he's drinking.
Speaker 4 (12:30):
I mean, that's the thing is, like I know him
as this big softy, but you know there are times
like where he's even like left me at the bar
and he's gone home like without me, without telling me,
and it seems like he's he found a reason to
be like really mad. I don't know, but the whole
thing is that he doesn't even remember leaving me, you know,
(12:54):
Like I did talk to him about it. It's just
that he explained that he I don't know if this
is an excuse or not, but he said that he
probably did that because he knows his limits and he
was getting too drunk.
Speaker 1 (13:08):
Yeah, but that's you know, you would say that. I mean,
you're his partner.
Speaker 2 (13:12):
So if that were the case, and I realized when
you're drinking, you're not necessarily in your right mind. But
that's something you would say to your partner. You wouldn't
leave your partner somewhere. I mean, that's something I I'm
the thing of the iris exit when I have met
a little bit too much or whatever, when it's time,
I usually to sneak out, but I don't have anybody
with me.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
I don't leave anybody where we were. You can't do that, right, Like, at.
Speaker 4 (13:32):
Least let me know that you know, you need to
go home or something, because I know he would be
so modified did that to him, you know, But like
I said, I mean he he it's not just about
like checking off boxes. But he really is such a
great boyfriend outside of when he drinks.
Speaker 3 (13:53):
He's like, it.
Speaker 4 (13:54):
Seems like he's perfect for me other than that, And
I don't know, it's just it's not like I would
say he's class right of having a huge drinking problem
because he only drinks like once or twice a weekend.
Speaker 2 (14:08):
Yeah, but if he's drinking and again, not an alcohol substance,
abuse counselor. But if he's drinking to that level once
or twice a week, that's still a problem. I mean,
the problem isn't necessarily And again, someone who's welcome to
call and correct me on this eight five five five
nine one oh three five.
Speaker 1 (14:26):
I don't think it's the frequency.
Speaker 2 (14:27):
I don't think it's if you drink every day or
if you just get hammered twice a week. It sounds
like he may have a problem with alcohol. And I
think the question is, I mean, have you have you
said to him? And again, I don't know that I'm
qualified to give this advice, but I'm going to try.
I mean, have you said you have you had this
conversation with him, Hey, I'm concerned about your drinking. I'm
concerned about your behavior when you drink. I mean, have
(14:49):
you have you had like a like a kind sort
of constructive conversation about that.
Speaker 4 (14:55):
I have I've had, I would say, yeah, like a
few very like conversations around it. And I think, you know,
he gets a little bit defensive, like I'm attacking him
for all like the good things that he does do
for me, And so I don't think he really like
understands how it affects me and like other people because
(15:18):
he doesn't remember, you know. So yeah, it's kind of
like tricky.
Speaker 1 (15:25):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (15:26):
I hate to say this, but my gut tells me
you got to go. My gut tells me that it's
it's you're you're early in this relationship. It's going to
be a difficult thing. It's gonna be difficult thing to mitigate.
I don't know if it's your job to save this guy.
You know, he gets to fen. I mean you, I
think you can tell him, you know, in a caring,
loving way. Hey, this this concerns me. I care about you.
(15:49):
I like you, you know, but you don't seem to
be acknowledging what is a serious problem here. And someone
texted that Ben's drinking is a form of alcoholism. I mean,
I think again, it's a I don't think you have
to get hammered every day to be to have a problem.
I think you can get If you're getting hammered consistently
in any frequency, that's probably an issue, especially if he's
(16:11):
doing it to to sort of mask other issues, insecurities
or whatever. I don't know, I mean, this could be
something you deal with the entire length of your relationship.
This may never go away.
Speaker 4 (16:26):
Yeah, that would really thinks. I really like him so
much and I really care for him, so it's it's
really hard to.
Speaker 12 (16:35):
End it just like that, you know.
Speaker 4 (16:37):
But yeah, I totally hear what you're saying.
Speaker 2 (16:40):
I've dealt with this a little bit in my life,
and all I can tell you is that this is
a decision that the person using the substance.
Speaker 1 (16:47):
They have to make that decision.
Speaker 2 (16:49):
Like, you can beg him, you can, you can, you know, ultimatums,
you can do all this different stuff, But ultimately, I
think it's just going to cause a divide. I feel
like if you're saying to him, look, I really care
about you, and you are a lot of things that
I want, but this is a problem and in order
for this relationship to continue, you're going to need to
manage this somehow. And he's telling you all I don't know,
(17:10):
or he's using it making excuse you, why do remember? Okay, Well,
then don't drink as much. You might rememb you know
what I mean. I think the only real option here
is for him to stop drinking, or manage the drinking,
or get some help or do something if he wants
to save the relationship.
Speaker 1 (17:24):
If he's not willing to do any of that, then
I don't know that this changes, right, I mean, what.
Speaker 4 (17:31):
Do you think if you know he says, you know,
change shouldn't happen overnight, Like you have to just like
trust me with it, like let me, you know, take
care of it. And then it kind of it's like
a ball.
Speaker 11 (17:44):
It seems like a ball.
Speaker 4 (17:44):
Then is in my court to like let him deal
with it and try not to like micromanage these actions.
Speaker 3 (17:57):
Well, you bring it up.
Speaker 8 (17:58):
If he's getting defensive when you bring it up, it
doesn't even sound like he's really acknowledging that there's an issue.
Speaker 4 (18:05):
Yeah, I feel like he I feel like he knows
he I think he's like it feels vulnerable.
Speaker 2 (18:11):
Okay, But again, I mean this, this is going to
affect your life too. And so if he's serious about
this relationship and it's it really is becoming a problem,
whether it's the way he acts, it's about the way
he treats you or leaving you places of it, about
your safety. You know, again, I think you're in You
have your you have every right to communicate your concern.
You have every right to wish of him that he
(18:34):
changes his behavior. You can offer him help, you can
offer him support. But I mean, if he's not going
to do any of that and deny it, I don't know.
He may not be as perfect as you think. And
I'm again I'm not I'm not advocating you just dump
the guy and leave him. But I mean, if you
express your care and you express your concern, ultimately he
has to make the decision. If he's telling you he
doesn't have a problem, that's I think that says a lot.
Speaker 4 (18:54):
Yep, yeah, no, you have a point there, especially with
like leaving me and stuff. It's like comes more of
a safety issue.
Speaker 2 (19:02):
Yeah, I mean, the text is blowing up, it's overwhelmingly.
You've got to go run a lot of people, you know,
sharing their personal experience. I mean, it's hundreds of texts already. Unfortunately,
this is something that I think affects a lot of people.
But let me take some phone calls. Maybe there are
some people more qualify, anyone's more qualified than me to
be giving you advice on this, because again, this is
(19:23):
not something to play with. You know, this is a
this could be a disease, this could be you know,
a dependency that he needs. Real help with and I
don't I don't want to say anything that you know
I shouldn't say because I'm certainly not an expert. But
let me take some calls and and see people have
to say, and keep the radio one and man, I
wish you the best. Thank you for sharing that with us.
Good luck, Yeah, yeah, eight five five five N one
(19:45):
one oh three five. Nick, you're a you're a mental
health therapist.
Speaker 5 (19:48):
I am, I am. How's everybody doing today?
Speaker 1 (19:51):
Good morning? So you hear this story? What what what
comes to mind?
Speaker 5 (19:55):
What comes to mind is not immediately like leave obviously,
is like struggling, and what he's struggling with is impacting
their relationship, and he clearly needs some form of therapy
to address these concerns. Because Fred, I agree with you,
it's not necessarily about the frequency. It's also about like
(20:16):
how much you're drinking in that two day period that
he's getting blackout drunk. That could qualify as like a
potential binge eatings or binge drinking disorder, and that definitely
needs to be addressed.
Speaker 11 (20:30):
So I think maybe.
Speaker 5 (20:31):
Putting the relationship on like a probation and saying, hey,
if within this six month time period you don't seek
help or make any changes, and we don't communicate what
you're doing to make these changes, then I can't be
with you anymore.
Speaker 3 (20:45):
This has become unsafe.
Speaker 1 (20:47):
Yeah, man, good advice. Thank you, Nick, Thanks for listening.
Have a good day anytime.
Speaker 5 (20:51):
You guys too.
Speaker 1 (20:52):
Love you, Yeah, I love you too.
Speaker 2 (20:53):
I mean it's said, you know, you don't want to
leave someone who care about, who you think has all
these qualities, right, we don't want to just leave them.
But again, if I know anything about this, and sadly
it's in my family and it's been part of my life. Unfortunately,
it's the kind of thing where the person having the
issue and I don't mean to I don't mean to
isolate that person, but that person, in my experience, has
(21:14):
to make the decision that they want that for their
life and that people that they matter and that the
people around them matter enough. But like again, you can threaten,
you might threaten your whole relationship. Ye I'm gonna leave
you if well, guess what if you don't leave, then
then then your threats don't mean anything anymore. Oh yeah,
you know, ultimatums aren't going to work. And if you're
(21:35):
going to leave, then leave, you know what I mean.
And you can offer so much support, but then if
they don't want to take the support, this could be
an issue for a very long time. Hey Bianca, Yes, hi, Hi,
good morning. So this resonates with you, this story.
Speaker 11 (21:48):
Oh yes, I've been in a seventeen year relationship. I
have a child, blended family. He's a great guy. I mean,
don't get mean, he's a family guy. But seventeen years
weekend drinker doesn't get better. Definitely needs some kind of
therapy there. You know, it's just it's a hard situation.
(22:10):
You're six months and you know you have your whole
life ahead of you. It's sometimes it's not worth it.
Now it's gotten better through the years, but you don't
want to wait seventeen years for it to get better,
you know what I mean. Like he's like he has
really calmed down through the years, but you know it
was hardy, nothing but heartache and heartbreak and coming and
(22:34):
going into the house, and then when you have children,
it just makes it even worse because it's just like
you just feel stuck. And I'm a product of a divorce,
you know, divorced parents, and you know I've been through
relationships and whatnot, and it's just it's a hard you
want to make up. I say, Oh, he's a teddy bear,
he's this, he's a family guy. He does great things,
(22:56):
very successful, very this, very that. It's you know, you're
willing to spend the rest of your time with somebody
who just constantly drinks on the weekend. It's it's it's
never going to change, and they're never going to change,
and you know there's deeper issues there. There's deeper, deeper.
Speaker 2 (23:15):
Issues there, Beyonca. You what you're saying resonates with me
a little bit. And I think probably other people in
the room who are the product of a divorced family,
because because I know Caitlin is, I am Paulina was.
It's like, I think if I were married and I
had kids, I can tell you that I would, and
I think in some ways it maybe is preventive of
me getting into a serious relationship. I don't want to
(23:36):
be to someone else what my parents were to each
other at that, you know, I mean like I don't
want to I don't want I don't want.
Speaker 1 (23:42):
To be in a situation where I get divorced.
Speaker 2 (23:44):
I don't want to be in a situation where I
have kids and I break up the family or the
family is broken up by my actions are someone else's,
and so I think I would be inclined to stick
with things and behaviors and mannerisms that are unhealthy. And
I think this is a trap that a lot of
people fall into, where it's like, well, I don't want
to break up for the kids. I don't want to divorcely,
but it's like, hey, how long can.
Speaker 1 (24:04):
You live like that?
Speaker 9 (24:05):
You know?
Speaker 11 (24:06):
Yeah, it's very hard, you know, I cheeter her in
my own head here and there. It's kind of like,
but I stuck around this long? Yeah, why am I
going to leave now?
Speaker 4 (24:15):
You know?
Speaker 11 (24:15):
But I mean, like I said, through the years, that
has gotten a lot better. But you know, you do
suffer through I suffer through a lot of years in
between where I'm like, hey, you know, what the heck
am I doing? You know, like this is not right
and it's not and it's not fair if you're bringing
you know, other little people into the world and they
see that.
Speaker 2 (24:35):
Yeah, yeah, you know, well they see that mom or
dad isn't happy, and I know you think you're doing
the right thing, but sadly, you know, this stuff does
permeate and look, I thank you for sharing. Very brave
of you, Bianca, and I appreciate you calling and for
offering your perspective.
Speaker 1 (24:47):
Have a good morning.
Speaker 11 (24:49):
Thank you too.
Speaker 1 (24:49):
Yeah. Sadly this is I mean a lot of these
calls are the same.
Speaker 2 (24:52):
It's almost universally go ye, so yeah, Molly, Hi, good morning?
Speaker 1 (24:58):
Hi are you hey? You say good? Thanks for calling
for listening. So just said recap and stair go. Hear.
Speaker 2 (25:02):
This woman called and she's been with the guy for
six months. She thinks he's perfect in every way excepted
and these are my words, but he binge drinks on
the weekend, and he gets combative, not with her, but
with other people. He leaves her places, doesn't communicate well
when he's reached his limits, and you know, she's wondering,
is this something that I need to overlook or that
I can overlook? And I mean overwhelmingly people are saying no, right,
(25:27):
she absolutely.
Speaker 12 (25:28):
Needs to go. So my reasoning is that since they've
only been together for six months, if the relationship does
get any longer, and let's say they have kids, or
they get married, or something happens at his job, and
then there's more stressors of his life, he might start
drinking more and with the if he's already being mister
macho man at the bar, like, he's probably going to
(25:50):
be physically abusive towards her. And she definitely does not
need that in her life.
Speaker 2 (25:55):
Yeah, and I hate that she feels that he's perfect
in every way except for this. And I don't know
the guy, but that's a big this, you know what
I mean. He's perfect in every way except he's a
binge drinker and he and it seems like it's somebody
that he wants to deny and and doesn't. Isn't going
to be able to adjust easily that that Unfortunately, that
means you might deserve more. He might not be as
(26:16):
perfect as you think.
Speaker 3 (26:18):
Yeah, oh that's a big issue.
Speaker 8 (26:19):
And then if you bring children into the mix, a
lot of people are saying, you know, they stay for
the kids.
Speaker 3 (26:23):
The worst thing you can do is say these situations
for your kids.
Speaker 1 (26:26):
I agree.
Speaker 3 (26:27):
The kids are traumatized because they're scared of dad on
the weekend.
Speaker 2 (26:30):
Yeah, I agree, I agree. You know, it's a it's
a serious and it's a sad situation. But you know,
six months might be it might be more than enough
to know that this is what you're up against and
it's sad. Thank you, Mollie, thanks for calling. Have a
good day.
Speaker 12 (26:44):
Thanks, love you guys.
Speaker 1 (26:45):
I love you too.
Speaker 2 (26:46):
I only got time for one more. Sophia, you're a
therapist as well. Good morning.
Speaker 9 (26:50):
Hi. Yes, I'm so glad that I got through because
I'm never a caller in for the radio, but I
felt like I needed to because I actually.
Speaker 11 (26:58):
Have I am a there.
Speaker 9 (27:00):
But I also have firsthand experience within my family of
this happening where my brother in law became somebody that
was a drinker and unfortunately is he took it out
on my sister and he became physically abusive and it
is a very sad situation. One night he drank too much,
(27:21):
he became abusive, and she almost died because of the situation.
So this is just like in my gut, like you
need to go, Like there is no waiting for them
to get help. You're you're so new in the relationship,
You're going to find another guy that texts every box
and there is no this that you have.
Speaker 1 (27:39):
To kind of roll out.
Speaker 9 (27:42):
But it's just it's the beginning signs of abuse. If
he's already doing it in public. Just when he's getts home,
it's going to become even worse because there's no audience.
Speaker 12 (27:53):
She needs to go.
Speaker 1 (27:54):
Yeah, Sophia, thank you, have a good day. Thank you.
Speaker 2 (27:58):
I hate to say them. In my personal experience too,
I think sometimes people need to hit rock bottom. Sometimes
they need to either stand to lose or lose everything
absolutely before they can come to the Sadly, some people
that that's not enough either. But you know, again, the
threats aren't going to do anything unless you actually follow
through with it. And the truth is, if if he
feels for you what you feel for him, then maybe
(28:18):
he looks in the mirror and says, this is a
change I need to make if I want to be
with this person. And if he doesn't make that change,
I think that you then learned in six months what
you didn't need to take ten years to learn.
Speaker 4 (28:29):
Right.
Speaker 3 (28:29):
Absolutely, Yes, he.
Speaker 7 (28:30):
Has to want something more than he wants to drink.
Speaker 1 (28:32):
Yeah, Hostly, it sounds like it.
Speaker 2 (28:34):
And thanks for the actual professionals for calling, because I mean,
unfortunately we've all lived many of us in this room
have lived there. Yes, but at the same time I
don't claim to you know, know exactly the path to
take But all right, we'll get back to smut. The
Entertainer Report is up next and eight hundred bucks show
Bisquiky in the Showdown thirty and four is uh, how
(28:56):
do you say lav rena junior?
Speaker 1 (28:58):
How do you say junior? Junor?
Speaker 2 (29:03):
Because we'll go with that. I think you just called
her a home But anyway, it's fun. Fred Show is
the hub Caitlin's Entertainment report. He's on the Fred Show.
Speaker 10 (29:15):
Kim Kardashian touchdown excuse me in Paris yesterday so that
she can testify this morning in a long delayed trial
after she was robbed at gunpoint in the biggest French
jewelry heust in decades.
Speaker 7 (29:26):
So a group known as the Grandpa Robbers because they're
old are.
Speaker 10 (29:30):
Being charged with stealing more than ten million in jewelry
from her in twenty sixteen. Mom Chris Jenner and boyfriend
Corey Gamble are also there to support Kim today. Remember
she was in Paris for fashion week and about like
three am, two armed robbers overpowered a security guard standing
outside her hotel room. She was found the zip ties
and duct tape and put into a bathtub as two
(29:52):
mass men took her jewelry, including a four million dollar
engagement ring given to her by her then husband, Kanye West.
Remember he was in concert at the time Tim and
literally got the call and had to run off stage.
Nine men and one women, most in their sixties and seventies,
are now standing trial for the robbery that happened nearly
a decade ago, even though they were arrested like months
(30:12):
after this whole thing went down. We've heard Kim talk
about it on her show, of course, but we will
hear her testimony in court today. The Kansas City Chiefs
will officially host the Denver Broncos on Christmas Night. You
can watch the game on Prime as part of Amazon's
Thursday Night football package.
Speaker 7 (30:29):
This marks the third straight year that the Chiefs play
on Christmas.
Speaker 10 (30:32):
Netflix will stream the other two games, and the matchups
will be announced I think tomorrow afternoon with a full
NFL schedule after that. Prime also announced its Black Friday game,
which will be the Chicago Bears visiting the Eagles aka
the reigning Super Bowl champs on November twenty eighth, and.
Speaker 2 (30:48):
Last week so thought by the way, they came up
with the QR code to be able to get into
all these different things, like you know, when you pull
it up on your computer or on your TV, because
can you remember trying to first of all, trying to
remember your passwords and then trying to use the remote.
Speaker 7 (31:02):
To get the password in No, that's nasty word.
Speaker 1 (31:05):
It was terrible. So you know, thank you, Thank you
to whatver came up with that idea. I just I
just want to honor you this morning.
Speaker 7 (31:10):
We honor you and Ali Jackson and Alan jacks.
Speaker 2 (31:13):
Jackson very much alive, so alive, beautiful, life, vibrant, he's
a vibrant.
Speaker 7 (31:18):
And Leslie I saw this yesterday.
Speaker 10 (31:20):
I chose to ignore it because it kind of made
me uncomfy, but it's going viral now, so here you go.
Speaker 7 (31:24):
Halle Berry has people.
Speaker 10 (31:25):
Scratching their heads after she uploaded a video of she
and her boyfriend Van Hunt laying in a bed naked
as she announces to the world that she's prepared to
quote get put through the mattress in celebration of Mother's Day.
Speaker 7 (31:38):
She and Van were naked and they were giggling with her.
Speaker 10 (31:41):
Let's call it intimacy gel that I think she has
like a brand deal with that they were about to use,
so they showed us what they were going to use,
and he was rushing her to get the video over
with so we can put.
Speaker 7 (31:52):
Her through the mattress.
Speaker 2 (31:54):
If I were in bed with Halle Berry and she
wanted to make a video, I would be all about it.
Can you tag me in that?
Speaker 1 (31:58):
Please? Can we collaborate on more?
Speaker 5 (32:00):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (32:00):
I'd be like absolutely, She's.
Speaker 7 (32:02):
So hot and I have such a crush on her.
But like, I don't know, the video was odd.
Speaker 4 (32:05):
It was.
Speaker 1 (32:06):
It was very strange.
Speaker 7 (32:07):
People are calling it kind of like juvenile, Like the
way they were giggling like he was.
Speaker 1 (32:11):
It was not sexy.
Speaker 3 (32:13):
It was just odd to me.
Speaker 1 (32:14):
But Kiki, you got a look on your face.
Speaker 8 (32:16):
Hey man, I'm not hating o'holly getting getting it in.
You know, more people need to get it in and
we'll be We.
Speaker 1 (32:21):
Don't need to announce like yeah, I'm sure they get
it in.
Speaker 3 (32:24):
Yeah, but I don't even know.
Speaker 7 (32:26):
The moment you're going to use the job.
Speaker 1 (32:27):
I mean, get it in.
Speaker 7 (32:28):
I want her to get it in all day. I
love that she's getting it in. She's naked on balcony,
she's happy.
Speaker 10 (32:33):
But I don't need to know that after that video
you're getting put through the mattress in celebration.
Speaker 1 (32:38):
Of mother's Yeah, that was another I think the way
it was described was a.
Speaker 8 (32:40):
Little yeah, that's aggressive, right, like mam okay, all right, Helle.
Speaker 10 (32:45):
I mean listen, Paulina had a brunch and that's how
Halle celebrated.
Speaker 3 (32:49):
So that's there.
Speaker 4 (32:49):
You go.
Speaker 10 (32:50):
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Today you'll have to listen to us because they forgot
to play the electric bill and not surprisingly, got got
Daddy Trevor back there. He's got a soldering gun out
and a drill, yeah, you know, putting putting wires together.
People are texting us this morning. You guys get in trouble. No,
surprisingly not, It's just they forgot to pay the electric.
Speaker 1 (33:13):
Bills this place. Do you have what it takes to battle.
Speaker 2 (33:21):
With I know that I'll get an email from someone going, hay,
the ratings are down. Yeah, that's because you didn't turn
the transmitter off. Dummies, Yeah, dummies, what am I going?
Speaker 1 (33:36):
Stupid management of this company. If it's off, you just
turn it on. You know's like, I don't know what
readings are down. That's because we weren't on the air,
you idiots.
Speaker 3 (33:53):
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is okay.
Speaker 2 (34:00):
People aren't buying radios on the regular, so can you
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Oh no, it's okay.
Speaker 3 (34:07):
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Through the roots through forget about.
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Oh my god, we're gonna be unbelieve. Oh my god,
the ratings just exploded there. I think we're gonna learn
the Top three things not to microwave at work?
Speaker 1 (34:27):
Hey, Eric, how you doing doing well? I'm doing well?
How are you yet I'm the one begging for money.
Speaker 2 (34:35):
Top three things to microwave wave unbelievable, Eric kay Man,
good morning.
Speaker 1 (34:40):
Tell us about you please? Good morning.
Speaker 12 (34:44):
I'm doing well.
Speaker 1 (34:45):
Uh got a little family with a one year old boy.
That's exciting. What's nad redhead? Little ginger? Little one year old?
What's his name? Ezra?
Speaker 2 (34:57):
Well, good morning to Ezra and to you and eight
D the price this is good money. But Kiki said,
a very good job filling in for Shelley, who's back
in a couple of weeks. We think thirty and four
is the record. A bunch of ties in there, a
lot of good players. Five pop culture questions. Let's play
the game. Good luck all right?
Speaker 11 (35:13):
Good luck all right?
Speaker 5 (35:15):
Thank you?
Speaker 2 (35:15):
You gotta go off, you go Eric, Okay? Question number one,
Kim Kardashian is taking a stand. We just did the story.
By the way, Kim Kardashian's taking the stand in her
jewelry heist trial. Where is the trial taking place? Bill
Belichick's twenty four year old girlfriend got second runner up
(35:36):
in the Miss Main USA pageant.
Speaker 1 (35:39):
Couldn't happen to a nicer person? Name is girlfriend?
Speaker 9 (35:45):
All right?
Speaker 2 (35:46):
By the way, there are rumors that he's not even
gonna make it to the beginning of the season because
he does a buyout. I think it's after like June
first or something. He can buy him out for a
million bucks. So there are people are saying that he
won't even wind up coaching if this one. If he
doesn't wind up coaching this year because of his girlfriend,
that is insane. Actress Storm Reid, who plays plays Sendeia's
(36:10):
little sister in Euphoria, says she wants to be the
flower girl in her wedding? On which network or streaming
service would you find Euphoria HBO?
Speaker 1 (36:19):
That's right?
Speaker 2 (36:19):
A man who broke into Eminem's home multiple times has
finally been convicted of first degree home invasion and aggravated stalking.
Which Eminem song about an obsessed fan celebrates its twenty
fifth anniversary this month. Dan and Which, actor known for
playing Edward Cullen in The Twilight Saga, turns thirty nine today?
Speaker 5 (36:40):
Oh you.
Speaker 1 (36:45):
All right?
Speaker 2 (36:45):
That's a three. That's not bad. That's not about a three,
Kiki Boy. A three is the scorre of me for
eight hundred from Delores? Are you ready?
Speaker 5 (36:55):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (36:55):
Kim Kardashian is taking a stand in her jewelry heist try?
Where is the trial taking place? Paris strip? Bill Belichick's
twenty four year old girlfriend got second runner up in
the Miss Maine USA pageant.
Speaker 1 (37:07):
Name his girlfriend Jordaan Sure.
Speaker 2 (37:11):
Actress Storm Reed, who plays Sindeia's little sister in Euphoria,
says she wants to be the flower girl in her
wedding on which network of streaming service which you find Euphoria?
Speaker 3 (37:20):
HBO?
Speaker 1 (37:20):
Right or Max? We'll take both.
Speaker 2 (37:22):
A man who broke into Eminem's home multiple times, has
finally been convicted of first degree home invasion and aggravated stalking.
Which Eminem song about an obsessed fan celebrates its twenty
fifth anniversary this month stand and which actor known for
playing Edward Cohen in The Twilight Saga turns thirty nine today.
Speaker 3 (37:39):
No hold on Now three he the guy with the
dark hair.
Speaker 7 (37:45):
No Tom one Tom.
Speaker 2 (37:49):
Robert for Robert Pattinson's the answer. We were looking for
the win on your number thirty one, eight fifty. Surprised tomorrow, Eric,
you did a great job, but you're gonna have say it.
Speaker 1 (38:03):
My name is Eric. I got showed up on the showdown.
You know the rest. My name is Eric.
Speaker 11 (38:08):
I got showed up on the showdown.
Speaker 1 (38:09):
And I can't hang with the gorilla.
Speaker 2 (38:14):
You probably you probably wouldn't hung with the goerrilla either,
even though we love you, Eric, but you I'm gonna
try and do this.
Speaker 1 (38:19):
This is this is risky. You Eric can't hang with
the key. Cute cat Cat Cat Cat Cat Cat Cat Cash.
Speaker 8 (38:30):
Shout out to my boy Tom pet cat.
Speaker 2 (38:35):
Tom, Tom Pulman, I call him see Tom Pullman. He yeah,
he was they wanted him to be. He's one of
the high level executives, not one of the ones I
was just railing on. We actually liked him, but it
is all black and leather and whatever. They wanted him
to be the star of the Twilight movies, but they
didn't go with him. I think he's too busy.
Speaker 7 (38:54):
Well, he just got married, right, did he did?
Speaker 1 (38:56):
He didn't got.
Speaker 3 (38:56):
Married have a big enough budget for my boy?
Speaker 1 (38:58):
Yeah, no he didn't.
Speaker 2 (38:59):
He's not saying no because he's in I think Paris
or something. So I think he's hanging out with Kim
Kardashian from my understand. But hey, congratulations, said Tom Polman.
Speaker 1 (39:06):
Just got married. Yes, it's he's beautiful. The way they
look at each other, it actually is.
Speaker 7 (39:11):
They're they're really cute.
Speaker 1 (39:12):
Actually, it truly is.
Speaker 2 (39:13):
Actually the way I mean, I'm looking for my Luise
I am. It took him a long time to find her, though,
so there's hope for me.
Speaker 1 (39:21):
I guess. I just don't think I'll be as attractive
as he is at that age. So there's that.
Speaker 2 (39:28):
And by the way, Tom, don't take a halle Berry picture.
We know we love you, and we we love you
and we know, okay, so just do you. We don't
need to see it on Instagram. Yeah right, exactly to someone,
and our careers are slipping before very eyes. Yeah again,
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This is the dude who found an envelope full of
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really classy thing for you to do, and he said,
I'm just doing what any Chicagoan would do. Not sure
about that, Okay, No, I'm pretty sure that I know
some Chicagoans who would have taken that money. Yes, Like,
excuse me, is this your money? I tried to find
a person. I tried to find a person whose money
it is. Ye, So he believes that's what any Chicagoan
(02:43):
would do, and I appreciate that.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
It's nice of him. Did she break him off something
for a returning it?
Speaker 2 (02:48):
I don't think so. It didn't look like it. But
you know, look, she's a college graduate. She didn't have
any money. Her parents probably saved up to give her
that money. M that's true, coming up in Key Key Court.
Speaker 3 (02:58):
Really, he gave you your money bag.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
He didn't even see my kind of dude. Trumpet Poppy
doesn't seem like the kind of dude that would that
would even take the money.
Speaker 3 (03:07):
He's like, yeah, very for the community.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
He seems like a good dude about offering. But shout
out to him and go follow him on TikTok. I
don't know what his content is like. Hopefully it's not unsavory.
I don't actually know.
Speaker 2 (03:16):
I just saw the one video he got the money
back to the college graduate. I'm very excited, and then
he he hit us up to let us know. So
I take no credit for this. I just appreciate that
somehow it got back to him that we were trying
to help him in his quest.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
You know this guy, I do, yeah, he we're being.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
Cryptic about this guy. Have you dated this man?
Speaker 5 (03:33):
No?
Speaker 3 (03:33):
I did not date him.
Speaker 6 (03:35):
Over here him it's even Honestly, I can't remember if
I went to high school with him or not. As
one of those where I'm like, I've seen your face before.
I was in the hallways of Carrie And I could
be wrong, but I've seen him before.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
I hand this man poppy and in your personal day
and not.
Speaker 6 (03:46):
Call him poppy my personal life. This is this is
a good man. He's very for the community, he's very
for the people. Well, there you go, then then go
follow him. Trumpet poppy.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
I think there's more to it, but I don't know
how many trumpet poppies there are. But they'll get them
a fun it's the frend.
Speaker 3 (04:01):
Show'll wake up up.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
Why would Why would I do seventy five to get soft? No,
I would do seventy five to get hard, I guess,
But I wouldn't do seventy five to get.
Speaker 1 (04:16):
I mean I already am.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
Yeah, I am soft to medium, so I'm not trying
to get soft. I mean the seventy five soft he's
going to Culvert's every day or something like, or you.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
Know, Fred's show is on. How's that going to you?
Speaker 6 (04:28):
You know, I think it's somewhere between soft and hard,
like like a medium. So you're a medium, A medium,
which I don't think is a thing. But I made
seventy five medium. So you're walking every day, walking every day,
so every day I read every day a physical book, which.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
Has been really hard.
Speaker 6 (04:44):
Physical. Wow, I'm an audiobook girls book. Okay, Well do
you have time to like sit and reading on the
couch like it's it's hard. My mind is in a
hundred different places.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
I can't just really say yeah, that's all I do
when I go home. I just I just go home
and read and do legos. That's it, and do legos.
That's it. That's my whole life. Actually, that pretty much
sums it up. Sounds great, And then you want to
was it supposed to be a meal plan of some kind?
Speaker 7 (05:06):
Basically? No sugar.
Speaker 3 (05:07):
I sneak in a little sugar here there. So that's
why I'm medium.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
All right, So she's seventy five medium. Yeah, how you
doing on it?
Speaker 5 (05:14):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (05:14):
I'm doing great?
Speaker 1 (05:15):
Yeah, seventy five medium, Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
Seventy five medium, extra large charge.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
Yeah, so what's your day like? Then it's at least
a three piece from KFC.
Speaker 8 (05:25):
No, I don't eat that. I mean a shout out
to KFC. You know, I used to work there, right,
I'm familiar you were. You were the manager of the store.
Now we know you. Nobody could work a drive through
like you.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
Right. I think I could still hold it down there too.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
Did you win an award or something for like the
most efficient drive through time or something?
Speaker 1 (05:42):
Yeah?
Speaker 8 (05:42):
I want all type of certificates. Man, they offered me
my own store. Yeah, you fumbled the bag on that
work here. Yeah, sorry, I might have done that instead. Actually,
you probably make more money now. But what's your daily routine?
Are you reading ten pages a day seventy five hards?
Speaker 3 (05:56):
Yes, I read all of our dms.
Speaker 1 (05:58):
Yeah, well that those are novels emails. Oh yeah, so
very long. Yeah that's true.
Speaker 3 (06:03):
Yeah, so I do a lot of reading.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
Yeah. And how about the diet plan on that?
Speaker 3 (06:07):
Oh, the diet plan is very intact.
Speaker 8 (06:10):
Yes, on Tuesdays, which is today, I eat a salad
in the office to let everybody know that I'm eating
a salad, so I walk around and shap you will.
Speaker 2 (06:17):
Yeah, I wondered why do you walk around with the
salad Like, I'm like, why are you going you know,
position a position making sure everybody knows about it?
Speaker 8 (06:24):
Uh huh, Because when I know everyone's in the office,
that's the time to shine.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
But then what do you mean when you leave?
Speaker 9 (06:29):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (06:29):
When I leave, I eat the salad? Why you in
my business?
Speaker 2 (06:35):
I'm wondering what your definition of seventy five hard is,
and if it's anything like Minie is go to the
gym for an hour and a half or run around
with Gideon and circles and then order a pizza. And
as far as I'm right now, my backers, as far
as I'm concerned, that's just balance.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
It is.
Speaker 7 (06:48):
I agree, because before.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
I would have just eating a pizza and I've done
the workout part, so at least now I'm doing both.
Speaker 3 (06:55):
Hey, I'm proud of you. I think you're winning the workout.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
Man, I would be I would be on the cover
of Men Health if I didn't eat the pizza after
the workout.
Speaker 3 (07:03):
Seventy five hard. You gotta do better than that to play.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
Oh yeah, you're more of a two fifty Oh okay,
I got him. Stay here go.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
Fifty chicken nuggets. I can do that well. Debate some
relationship drama in just a second. The entertainment of Port
Kinki eight hundred bucks new player, Your record's thirty and
four good news stories.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
If we have time, what are you working on for
a fort k?
Speaker 7 (07:27):
Kim Kardashian will testify today.
Speaker 10 (07:29):
Also, fans are kind of disturbed by an actress saying
she was going to get put through the mattress to
celebrate Mother's Day.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
Yeah, that was yeah.
Speaker 2 (07:39):
And if I were that guy, I'd be the proudest
guy on the planet. I mean, yes, you can take
a picture of me because I'm about to hook up
with Halle Berry.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
Yeah, I mean I'm that guy. I'm him, right, you
all worried about the pope. Look about what I'm about
to do.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (07:53):
And that's not the guy though that I would have
thought would be hooking up with Halle Berry. Necessarily you think, so, oh, yeah,
that dude.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
Who is it? Do we know who it is?
Speaker 3 (08:01):
I don't know his name, but he find Van Van
oh something.
Speaker 7 (08:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (08:05):
I don't think he's hot, but I don't think that's
just she hooked up a way hotter.
Speaker 2 (08:13):
You get a three piece from KFC, can't you. Isn't
that a thing? Yeah, someone's tested me a three piece
from CAFC the question mark.
Speaker 1 (08:20):
I'm like, no, that's a thing.
Speaker 2 (08:21):
Yeah, they have that. Yeah, that's that. That's what I thought.
You know, you know, it might be a little light
for some people. But because I mean maybe you're more
of like a bucket of koc person. But you can
get a three piece little side or something, can't you?
Speaker 3 (08:33):
A bucket is insane? But yeah, what is that? Twelve yeah?
Eight piece? Twelve piece? Sixteen piece? How much money?
Speaker 1 (08:39):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (08:39):
A bucket?
Speaker 1 (08:40):
Yeah? Oh my god.
Speaker 3 (08:42):
We do catering, well, they do catering.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
Maybe you should have taken that location after all, A
starego in three minutes after got Bruno Marspreads show and
we're commercial free for the next forty minutes.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
Fread show is on. It's stay or go.
Speaker 2 (09:01):
It's gone too far, Bella, It's gone too far. We
obtained an actual photograph of Bella Hamine, our intern who
if you missed it a few minutes ago. She believes
that she should be honored as the first daughter of
her hometown in California because her dad is the part
time mayor. And if you go to our instagram Fred
Show Radio, you're gonna see that this is an image
(09:23):
that she posted herself. This is unbelievable. She had a
full on photo shoot and everything The haters are gonna
say it's photoshop because of the hands.
Speaker 1 (09:33):
But she has Madley hands, she has manly hands.
Speaker 3 (09:37):
And those shoulders, and she's part black.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
Which a lot of people didn't know. I didn't know
that about that.
Speaker 2 (09:45):
But man talk about taking his shine away from her dad,
who's doing the hard work.
Speaker 1 (09:50):
This is crazy.
Speaker 2 (09:52):
This is the image Fred Show Radio was like, last
we grew on this esteemed panel for this international radio
conference they flew us to to We're on this panel,
and this dude has been listening. We said, more than
a dude, he's a he too is an esteemed European
radio manager.
Speaker 1 (10:09):
Yeah right, big, big time guy.
Speaker 2 (10:11):
And apparently he'd been listening to our show for weeks
and like picking out moments and then use it for
this this slideshow kind of presentation thing and question and
answer in front of all these radio people from all
over the world. And one of the images he found
was of Kiki's cord and Kiki has three hands in
the image. He's just three hands and one's white or
(10:31):
two might be white. I'm not even sure. But okay,
here we are. You know, it's like miss you should know,
you know if you came you're thinking you were going
to get secrets. The secret is we don't have any
money for a graphic designer. That's the secret.
Speaker 1 (10:45):
We don't have to say something.
Speaker 3 (10:46):
We we do what we can photographers, none of the videographers.
Speaker 1 (10:51):
But I had to just say it.
Speaker 2 (10:52):
I had to say just I had to get it
out of the way and say, guys, we're aware that
Kiki has three hands in this. That's that's what we're
working within the United States. Guys, Hey, Amanda, good morning. Well,
hi Amanda, welcome to the show. Welcome to Stay or Go.
We appreciate your note. What's going on with this boyfriend
(11:12):
of yours?
Speaker 1 (11:12):
Is his name?
Speaker 2 (11:13):
Well, when I'm gonna say his name, but he's been
around for six months, this boyfriend, Yes, yeah, we've.
Speaker 4 (11:20):
Been dating for about six months. And you know, as
a disclaimer, he's not a heavy drinker like whatsoever. But
you know, he does like to go out over the
weekend on his days off, and he does usually getting
he gets really drunk.
Speaker 1 (11:40):
Okay, so what okay?
Speaker 2 (11:43):
So the guy, this guy even dating, he doesn't drink
like so what is like not during the week he
doesn't drink, but then when he goes out he beings drinks.
Speaker 1 (11:50):
Is that the story?
Speaker 11 (11:53):
Yeah, I mean, well, the thing is.
Speaker 4 (11:54):
That he just turns into a different person when he
starts drinking. And he's you know, he really is such
a kind and considerate boyfriend, but you know, on the
weekends when he drinks, he's just not as sweet, and
he starts like picking fights with me and even like
just people around in the bar. It's just really weird.
(12:17):
Like he gets like overly protective, Like he like he
thinks that guys are flirting with me when they're not.
Speaker 1 (12:26):
He's a tough guy what he's drinking.
Speaker 4 (12:30):
I mean, that's the thing is, like I know him
as this big softy, but you know there are times
like where he's even like left me at the bar
and he's gone home like without me, without telling me,
and it seems like he's he found a reason to
be like really mad. I don't know, but the whole
thing is that he doesn't even remember leaving me, you know,
(12:54):
Like I did talk to him about it. It's just
that he explained that he I don't know if this
is an excuse or not, but he said that he
probably did that because he knows his limits and he
was getting too drunk.
Speaker 1 (13:08):
Yeah, but that's you know, you would say that. I mean,
you're his partner.
Speaker 2 (13:12):
So if that were the case, and I realized when
you're drinking, you're not necessarily in your right mind. But
that's something you would say to your partner. You wouldn't
leave your partner somewhere. I mean, that's something I I'm
the thing of the iris exit when I have met
a little bit too much or whatever, when it's time,
I usually to sneak out, but I don't have anybody
with me.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
I don't leave anybody where we were. You can't do that, right, Like, at.
Speaker 4 (13:32):
Least let me know that you know, you need to
go home or something, because I know he would be
so modified did that to him, you know, But like
I said, I mean he he it's not just about
like checking off boxes. But he really is such a
great boyfriend outside of when he drinks.
Speaker 3 (13:53):
He's like, it.
Speaker 4 (13:54):
Seems like he's perfect for me other than that, And
I don't know, it's just it's not like I would
say he's class right of having a huge drinking problem
because he only drinks like once or twice a weekend.
Speaker 2 (14:08):
Yeah, but if he's drinking and again, not an alcohol substance,
abuse counselor. But if he's drinking to that level once
or twice a week, that's still a problem. I mean,
the problem isn't necessarily And again, someone who's welcome to
call and correct me on this eight five five five
nine one oh three five.
Speaker 1 (14:26):
I don't think it's the frequency.
Speaker 2 (14:27):
I don't think it's if you drink every day or
if you just get hammered twice a week. It sounds
like he may have a problem with alcohol. And I
think the question is, I mean, have you have you
said to him? And again, I don't know that I'm
qualified to give this advice, but I'm going to try.
I mean, have you said you have you had this
conversation with him, Hey, I'm concerned about your drinking. I'm
concerned about your behavior when you drink. I mean, have
(14:49):
you have you had like a like a kind sort
of constructive conversation about that.
Speaker 4 (14:55):
I have I've had, I would say, yeah, like a
few very like conversations around it. And I think, you know,
he gets a little bit defensive, like I'm attacking him
for all like the good things that he does do
for me, And so I don't think he really like
understands how it affects me and like other people because
(15:18):
he doesn't remember, you know. So yeah, it's kind of
like tricky.
Speaker 1 (15:25):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (15:26):
I hate to say this, but my gut tells me
you got to go. My gut tells me that it's
it's you're you're early in this relationship. It's going to
be a difficult thing. It's gonna be difficult thing to mitigate.
I don't know if it's your job to save this guy.
You know, he gets to fen. I mean you, I
think you can tell him, you know, in a caring,
loving way. Hey, this this concerns me. I care about you.
(15:49):
I like you, you know, but you don't seem to
be acknowledging what is a serious problem here. And someone
texted that Ben's drinking is a form of alcoholism. I mean,
I think again, it's a I don't think you have
to get hammered every day to be to have a problem.
I think you can get If you're getting hammered consistently
in any frequency, that's probably an issue, especially if he's
(16:11):
doing it to to sort of mask other issues, insecurities
or whatever. I don't know, I mean, this could be
something you deal with the entire length of your relationship.
This may never go away.
Speaker 4 (16:26):
Yeah, that would really thinks. I really like him so
much and I really care for him, so it's it's
really hard to.
Speaker 12 (16:35):
End it just like that, you know.
Speaker 4 (16:37):
But yeah, I totally hear what you're saying.
Speaker 2 (16:40):
I've dealt with this a little bit in my life,
and all I can tell you is that this is
a decision that the person using the substance.
Speaker 1 (16:47):
They have to make that decision.
Speaker 2 (16:49):
Like, you can beg him, you can, you can, you know, ultimatums,
you can do all this different stuff, But ultimately, I
think it's just going to cause a divide. I feel
like if you're saying to him, look, I really care
about you, and you are a lot of things that
I want, but this is a problem and in order
for this relationship to continue, you're going to need to
manage this somehow. And he's telling you all I don't know,
(17:10):
or he's using it making excuse you, why do remember? Okay, Well,
then don't drink as much. You might rememb you know
what I mean. I think the only real option here
is for him to stop drinking, or manage the drinking,
or get some help or do something if he wants
to save the relationship.
Speaker 1 (17:24):
If he's not willing to do any of that, then
I don't know that this changes, right, I mean, what.
Speaker 4 (17:31):
Do you think if you know he says, you know,
change shouldn't happen overnight, Like you have to just like
trust me with it, like let me, you know, take
care of it. And then it kind of it's like
a ball.
Speaker 11 (17:44):
It seems like a ball.
Speaker 4 (17:44):
Then is in my court to like let him deal
with it and try not to like micromanage these actions.
Speaker 3 (17:57):
Well, you bring it up.
Speaker 8 (17:58):
If he's getting defensive when you bring it up, it
doesn't even sound like he's really acknowledging that there's an issue.
Speaker 4 (18:05):
Yeah, I feel like he I feel like he knows
he I think he's like it feels vulnerable.
Speaker 2 (18:11):
Okay, But again, I mean this, this is going to
affect your life too. And so if he's serious about
this relationship and it's it really is becoming a problem,
whether it's the way he acts, it's about the way
he treats you or leaving you places of it, about
your safety. You know, again, I think you're in You
have your you have every right to communicate your concern.
You have every right to wish of him that he
(18:34):
changes his behavior. You can offer him help, you can
offer him support. But I mean, if he's not going
to do any of that and deny it, I don't know.
He may not be as perfect as you think. And
I'm again I'm not I'm not advocating you just dump
the guy and leave him. But I mean, if you
express your care and you express your concern, ultimately he
has to make the decision. If he's telling you he
doesn't have a problem, that's I think that says a lot.
Speaker 4 (18:54):
Yep, yeah, no, you have a point there, especially with
like leaving me and stuff. It's like comes more of
a safety issue.
Speaker 2 (19:02):
Yeah, I mean, the text is blowing up, it's overwhelmingly.
You've got to go run a lot of people, you know,
sharing their personal experience. I mean, it's hundreds of texts already. Unfortunately,
this is something that I think affects a lot of people.
But let me take some phone calls. Maybe there are
some people more qualify, anyone's more qualified than me to
be giving you advice on this, because again, this is
(19:23):
not something to play with. You know, this is a
this could be a disease, this could be you know,
a dependency that he needs. Real help with and I
don't I don't want to say anything that you know
I shouldn't say because I'm certainly not an expert. But
let me take some calls and and see people have
to say, and keep the radio one and man, I
wish you the best. Thank you for sharing that with us.
Good luck, Yeah, yeah, eight five five five N one
(19:45):
one oh three five. Nick, you're a you're a mental
health therapist.
Speaker 5 (19:48):
I am, I am. How's everybody doing today?
Speaker 1 (19:51):
Good morning? So you hear this story? What what what
comes to mind?
Speaker 5 (19:55):
What comes to mind is not immediately like leave obviously,
is like struggling, and what he's struggling with is impacting
their relationship, and he clearly needs some form of therapy
to address these concerns. Because Fred, I agree with you,
it's not necessarily about the frequency. It's also about like
(20:16):
how much you're drinking in that two day period that
he's getting blackout drunk. That could qualify as like a
potential binge eatings or binge drinking disorder, and that definitely
needs to be addressed.
Speaker 11 (20:30):
So I think maybe.
Speaker 5 (20:31):
Putting the relationship on like a probation and saying, hey,
if within this six month time period you don't seek
help or make any changes, and we don't communicate what
you're doing to make these changes, then I can't be
with you anymore.
Speaker 3 (20:45):
This has become unsafe.
Speaker 1 (20:47):
Yeah, man, good advice. Thank you, Nick, Thanks for listening.
Have a good day anytime.
Speaker 5 (20:51):
You guys too.
Speaker 1 (20:52):
Love you, Yeah, I love you too.
Speaker 2 (20:53):
I mean it's said, you know, you don't want to
leave someone who care about, who you think has all
these qualities, right, we don't want to just leave them.
But again, if I know anything about this, and sadly
it's in my family and it's been part of my life. Unfortunately,
it's the kind of thing where the person having the
issue and I don't mean to I don't mean to
isolate that person, but that person, in my experience, has
(21:14):
to make the decision that they want that for their
life and that people that they matter and that the
people around them matter enough. But like again, you can threaten,
you might threaten your whole relationship. Ye I'm gonna leave
you if well, guess what if you don't leave, then
then then your threats don't mean anything anymore. Oh yeah,
you know, ultimatums aren't going to work. And if you're
(21:35):
going to leave, then leave, you know what I mean.
And you can offer so much support, but then if
they don't want to take the support, this could be
an issue for a very long time. Hey Bianca, Yes, hi, Hi,
good morning. So this resonates with you, this story.
Speaker 11 (21:48):
Oh yes, I've been in a seventeen year relationship. I
have a child, blended family. He's a great guy. I mean,
don't get mean, he's a family guy. But seventeen years
weekend drinker doesn't get better. Definitely needs some kind of
therapy there. You know, it's just it's a hard situation.
(22:10):
You're six months and you know you have your whole
life ahead of you. It's sometimes it's not worth it.
Now it's gotten better through the years, but you don't
want to wait seventeen years for it to get better,
you know what I mean. Like he's like he has
really calmed down through the years, but you know it
was hardy, nothing but heartache and heartbreak and coming and
(22:34):
going into the house, and then when you have children,
it just makes it even worse because it's just like
you just feel stuck. And I'm a product of a divorce,
you know, divorced parents, and you know I've been through
relationships and whatnot, and it's just it's a hard you
want to make up. I say, Oh, he's a teddy bear,
he's this, he's a family guy. He does great things,
(22:56):
very successful, very this, very that. It's you know, you're
willing to spend the rest of your time with somebody
who just constantly drinks on the weekend. It's it's it's
never going to change, and they're never going to change,
and you know there's deeper issues there. There's deeper, deeper.
Speaker 2 (23:15):
Issues there, Beyonca. You what you're saying resonates with me
a little bit. And I think probably other people in
the room who are the product of a divorced family,
because because I know Caitlin is, I am Paulina was.
It's like, I think if I were married and I
had kids, I can tell you that I would, and
I think in some ways it maybe is preventive of
me getting into a serious relationship. I don't want to
(23:36):
be to someone else what my parents were to each
other at that, you know, I mean like I don't
want to I don't want I don't want.
Speaker 1 (23:42):
To be in a situation where I get divorced.
Speaker 2 (23:44):
I don't want to be in a situation where I
have kids and I break up the family or the
family is broken up by my actions are someone else's,
and so I think I would be inclined to stick
with things and behaviors and mannerisms that are unhealthy. And
I think this is a trap that a lot of
people fall into, where it's like, well, I don't want
to break up for the kids. I don't want to divorcely,
but it's like, hey, how long can.
Speaker 1 (24:04):
You live like that?
Speaker 9 (24:05):
You know?
Speaker 11 (24:06):
Yeah, it's very hard, you know, I cheeter her in
my own head here and there. It's kind of like,
but I stuck around this long? Yeah, why am I
going to leave now?
Speaker 4 (24:15):
You know?
Speaker 11 (24:15):
But I mean, like I said, through the years, that
has gotten a lot better. But you know, you do
suffer through I suffer through a lot of years in
between where I'm like, hey, you know, what the heck
am I doing? You know, like this is not right
and it's not and it's not fair if you're bringing
you know, other little people into the world and they
see that.
Speaker 2 (24:35):
Yeah, yeah, you know, well they see that mom or
dad isn't happy, and I know you think you're doing
the right thing, but sadly, you know, this stuff does
permeate and look, I thank you for sharing. Very brave
of you, Bianca, and I appreciate you calling and for
offering your perspective.
Speaker 1 (24:47):
Have a good morning.
Speaker 11 (24:49):
Thank you too.
Speaker 1 (24:49):
Yeah. Sadly this is I mean a lot of these
calls are the same.
Speaker 2 (24:52):
It's almost universally go ye, so yeah, Molly, Hi, good morning?
Speaker 1 (24:58):
Hi are you hey? You say good? Thanks for calling
for listening. So just said recap and stair go. Hear.
Speaker 2 (25:02):
This woman called and she's been with the guy for
six months. She thinks he's perfect in every way excepted
and these are my words, but he binge drinks on
the weekend, and he gets combative, not with her, but
with other people. He leaves her places, doesn't communicate well
when he's reached his limits, and you know, she's wondering,
is this something that I need to overlook or that
I can overlook? And I mean overwhelmingly people are saying no, right,
(25:27):
she absolutely.
Speaker 12 (25:28):
Needs to go. So my reasoning is that since they've
only been together for six months, if the relationship does
get any longer, and let's say they have kids, or
they get married, or something happens at his job, and
then there's more stressors of his life, he might start
drinking more and with the if he's already being mister
macho man at the bar, like, he's probably going to
(25:50):
be physically abusive towards her. And she definitely does not
need that in her life.
Speaker 2 (25:55):
Yeah, and I hate that she feels that he's perfect
in every way except for this. And I don't know
the guy, but that's a big this, you know what
I mean. He's perfect in every way except he's a
binge drinker and he and it seems like it's somebody
that he wants to deny and and doesn't. Isn't going
to be able to adjust easily that that Unfortunately, that
means you might deserve more. He might not be as
(26:16):
perfect as you think.
Speaker 3 (26:18):
Yeah, oh that's a big issue.
Speaker 8 (26:19):
And then if you bring children into the mix, a
lot of people are saying, you know, they stay for
the kids.
Speaker 3 (26:23):
The worst thing you can do is say these situations
for your kids.
Speaker 1 (26:26):
I agree.
Speaker 3 (26:27):
The kids are traumatized because they're scared of dad on
the weekend.
Speaker 2 (26:30):
Yeah, I agree, I agree. You know, it's a it's
a serious and it's a sad situation. But you know,
six months might be it might be more than enough
to know that this is what you're up against and
it's sad. Thank you, Mollie, thanks for calling. Have a
good day.
Speaker 12 (26:44):
Thanks, love you guys.
Speaker 1 (26:45):
I love you too.
Speaker 2 (26:46):
I only got time for one more. Sophia, you're a
therapist as well. Good morning.
Speaker 9 (26:50):
Hi. Yes, I'm so glad that I got through because
I'm never a caller in for the radio, but I
felt like I needed to because I actually.
Speaker 11 (26:58):
Have I am a there.
Speaker 9 (27:00):
But I also have firsthand experience within my family of
this happening where my brother in law became somebody that
was a drinker and unfortunately is he took it out
on my sister and he became physically abusive and it
is a very sad situation. One night he drank too much,
(27:21):
he became abusive, and she almost died because of the situation.
So this is just like in my gut, like you
need to go, Like there is no waiting for them
to get help. You're you're so new in the relationship,
You're going to find another guy that texts every box
and there is no this that you have.
Speaker 1 (27:39):
To kind of roll out.
Speaker 9 (27:42):
But it's just it's the beginning signs of abuse. If
he's already doing it in public. Just when he's getts home,
it's going to become even worse because there's no audience.
Speaker 12 (27:53):
She needs to go.
Speaker 1 (27:54):
Yeah, Sophia, thank you, have a good day. Thank you.
Speaker 2 (27:58):
I hate to say them. In my personal experience too,
I think sometimes people need to hit rock bottom. Sometimes
they need to either stand to lose or lose everything
absolutely before they can come to the Sadly, some people
that that's not enough either. But you know, again, the
threats aren't going to do anything unless you actually follow
through with it. And the truth is, if if he
feels for you what you feel for him, then maybe
(28:18):
he looks in the mirror and says, this is a
change I need to make if I want to be
with this person. And if he doesn't make that change,
I think that you then learned in six months what
you didn't need to take ten years to learn.
Speaker 4 (28:29):
Right.
Speaker 3 (28:29):
Absolutely, Yes, he.
Speaker 7 (28:30):
Has to want something more than he wants to drink.
Speaker 1 (28:32):
Yeah, Hostly, it sounds like it.
Speaker 2 (28:34):
And thanks for the actual professionals for calling, because I mean,
unfortunately we've all lived many of us in this room
have lived there. Yes, but at the same time I
don't claim to you know, know exactly the path to
take But all right, we'll get back to smut. The
Entertainer Report is up next and eight hundred bucks show
Bisquiky in the Showdown thirty and four is uh, how
(28:56):
do you say lav rena junior?
Speaker 1 (28:58):
How do you say junior? Junor?
Speaker 2 (29:03):
Because we'll go with that. I think you just called
her a home But anyway, it's fun. Fred Show is
the hub Caitlin's Entertainment report. He's on the Fred Show.
Speaker 10 (29:15):
Kim Kardashian touchdown excuse me in Paris yesterday so that
she can testify this morning in a long delayed trial
after she was robbed at gunpoint in the biggest French
jewelry heust in decades.
Speaker 7 (29:26):
So a group known as the Grandpa Robbers because they're
old are.
Speaker 10 (29:30):
Being charged with stealing more than ten million in jewelry
from her in twenty sixteen. Mom Chris Jenner and boyfriend
Corey Gamble are also there to support Kim today. Remember
she was in Paris for fashion week and about like
three am, two armed robbers overpowered a security guard standing
outside her hotel room. She was found the zip ties
and duct tape and put into a bathtub as two
(29:52):
mass men took her jewelry, including a four million dollar
engagement ring given to her by her then husband, Kanye West.
Remember he was in concert at the time Tim and
literally got the call and had to run off stage.
Nine men and one women, most in their sixties and seventies,
are now standing trial for the robbery that happened nearly
a decade ago, even though they were arrested like months
(30:12):
after this whole thing went down. We've heard Kim talk
about it on her show, of course, but we will
hear her testimony in court today. The Kansas City Chiefs
will officially host the Denver Broncos on Christmas Night. You
can watch the game on Prime as part of Amazon's
Thursday Night football package.
Speaker 7 (30:29):
This marks the third straight year that the Chiefs play
on Christmas.
Speaker 10 (30:32):
Netflix will stream the other two games, and the matchups
will be announced I think tomorrow afternoon with a full
NFL schedule after that. Prime also announced its Black Friday game,
which will be the Chicago Bears visiting the Eagles aka
the reigning Super Bowl champs on November twenty eighth, and.
Speaker 2 (30:48):
Last week so thought by the way, they came up
with the QR code to be able to get into
all these different things, like you know, when you pull
it up on your computer or on your TV, because
can you remember trying to first of all, trying to
remember your passwords and then trying to use the remote.
Speaker 7 (31:02):
To get the password in No, that's nasty word.
Speaker 1 (31:05):
It was terrible. So you know, thank you, Thank you
to whatver came up with that idea. I just I
just want to honor you this morning.
Speaker 7 (31:10):
We honor you and Ali Jackson and Alan jacks.
Speaker 2 (31:13):
Jackson very much alive, so alive, beautiful, life, vibrant, he's
a vibrant.
Speaker 7 (31:18):
And Leslie I saw this yesterday.
Speaker 10 (31:20):
I chose to ignore it because it kind of made
me uncomfy, but it's going viral now, so here you go.
Speaker 7 (31:24):
Halle Berry has people.
Speaker 10 (31:25):
Scratching their heads after she uploaded a video of she
and her boyfriend Van Hunt laying in a bed naked
as she announces to the world that she's prepared to
quote get put through the mattress in celebration of Mother's Day.
Speaker 7 (31:38):
She and Van were naked and they were giggling with her.
Speaker 10 (31:41):
Let's call it intimacy gel that I think she has
like a brand deal with that they were about to use,
so they showed us what they were going to use,
and he was rushing her to get the video over
with so we can put.
Speaker 7 (31:52):
Her through the mattress.
Speaker 2 (31:54):
If I were in bed with Halle Berry and she
wanted to make a video, I would be all about it.
Can you tag me in that?
Speaker 1 (31:58):
Please? Can we collaborate on more?
Speaker 5 (32:00):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (32:00):
I'd be like absolutely, She's.
Speaker 7 (32:02):
So hot and I have such a crush on her.
But like, I don't know, the video was odd.
Speaker 4 (32:05):
It was.
Speaker 1 (32:06):
It was very strange.
Speaker 7 (32:07):
People are calling it kind of like juvenile, Like the
way they were giggling like he was.
Speaker 1 (32:11):
It was not sexy.
Speaker 3 (32:13):
It was just odd to me.
Speaker 1 (32:14):
But Kiki, you got a look on your face.
Speaker 8 (32:16):
Hey man, I'm not hating o'holly getting getting it in.
You know, more people need to get it in and
we'll be We.
Speaker 1 (32:21):
Don't need to announce like yeah, I'm sure they get
it in.
Speaker 3 (32:24):
Yeah, but I don't even know.
Speaker 7 (32:26):
The moment you're going to use the job.
Speaker 1 (32:27):
I mean, get it in.
Speaker 7 (32:28):
I want her to get it in all day. I
love that she's getting it in. She's naked on balcony,
she's happy.
Speaker 10 (32:33):
But I don't need to know that after that video
you're getting put through the mattress in celebration.
Speaker 1 (32:38):
Of mother's Yeah, that was another I think the way
it was described was a.
Speaker 8 (32:40):
Little yeah, that's aggressive, right, like mam okay, all right, Helle.
Speaker 10 (32:45):
I mean listen, Paulina had a brunch and that's how
Halle celebrated.
Speaker 3 (32:49):
So that's there.
Speaker 4 (32:49):
You go.
Speaker 10 (32:50):
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And I guess in some cities.
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Today you'll have to listen to us because they forgot
to play the electric bill and not surprisingly, got got
Daddy Trevor back there. He's got a soldering gun out
and a drill, yeah, you know, putting putting wires together.
People are texting us this morning. You guys get in trouble. No,
surprisingly not, It's just they forgot to pay the electric.
Speaker 1 (33:13):
Bills this place. Do you have what it takes to battle.
Speaker 2 (33:21):
With I know that I'll get an email from someone going, hay,
the ratings are down. Yeah, that's because you didn't turn
the transmitter off. Dummies, Yeah, dummies, what am I going?
Speaker 1 (33:36):
Stupid management of this company. If it's off, you just
turn it on. You know's like, I don't know what
readings are down. That's because we weren't on the air,
you idiots.
Speaker 3 (33:53):
Did you try restarting it right?
Speaker 1 (33:55):
Unplugging right? Take it out? It's hard enough. Fancy to
is okay.
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People aren't buying radios on the regular, so can you
at least make it work technically.
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Oh no, it's okay.
Speaker 3 (34:07):
They're playing Seacrest Rey Runs or something.
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Through the roots through forget about.
Speaker 2 (34:15):
Oh my god, we're gonna be unbelieve. Oh my god,
the ratings just exploded there. I think we're gonna learn
the Top three things not to microwave at work?
Speaker 1 (34:27):
Hey, Eric, how you doing doing well? I'm doing well?
How are you yet I'm the one begging for money.
Speaker 2 (34:35):
Top three things to microwave wave unbelievable, Eric kay Man,
good morning.
Speaker 1 (34:40):
Tell us about you please? Good morning.
Speaker 12 (34:44):
I'm doing well.
Speaker 1 (34:45):
Uh got a little family with a one year old boy.
That's exciting. What's nad redhead? Little ginger? Little one year old?
What's his name? Ezra?
Speaker 2 (34:57):
Well, good morning to Ezra and to you and eight
D the price this is good money. But Kiki said,
a very good job filling in for Shelley, who's back
in a couple of weeks. We think thirty and four
is the record. A bunch of ties in there, a
lot of good players. Five pop culture questions. Let's play
the game. Good luck all right?
Speaker 11 (35:13):
Good luck all right?
Speaker 5 (35:15):
Thank you?
Speaker 2 (35:15):
You gotta go off, you go Eric, Okay? Question number one,
Kim Kardashian is taking a stand. We just did the story.
By the way, Kim Kardashian's taking the stand in her
jewelry heist trial. Where is the trial taking place? Bill
Belichick's twenty four year old girlfriend got second runner up
(35:36):
in the Miss Main USA pageant.
Speaker 1 (35:39):
Couldn't happen to a nicer person? Name is girlfriend?
Speaker 9 (35:45):
All right?
Speaker 2 (35:46):
By the way, there are rumors that he's not even
gonna make it to the beginning of the season because
he does a buyout. I think it's after like June
first or something. He can buy him out for a
million bucks. So there are people are saying that he
won't even wind up coaching if this one. If he
doesn't wind up coaching this year because of his girlfriend,
that is insane. Actress Storm Reid, who plays plays Sendeia's
(36:10):
little sister in Euphoria, says she wants to be the
flower girl in her wedding? On which network or streaming
service would you find Euphoria HBO?
Speaker 1 (36:19):
That's right?
Speaker 2 (36:19):
A man who broke into Eminem's home multiple times has
finally been convicted of first degree home invasion and aggravated stalking.
Which Eminem song about an obsessed fan celebrates its twenty
fifth anniversary this month. Dan and Which, actor known for
playing Edward Cullen in The Twilight Saga, turns thirty nine today?
Speaker 5 (36:40):
Oh you.
Speaker 1 (36:45):
All right?
Speaker 2 (36:45):
That's a three. That's not bad. That's not about a three,
Kiki Boy. A three is the scorre of me for
eight hundred from Delores? Are you ready?
Speaker 5 (36:55):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (36:55):
Kim Kardashian is taking a stand in her jewelry heist try?
Where is the trial taking place? Paris strip? Bill Belichick's
twenty four year old girlfriend got second runner up in
the Miss Maine USA pageant.
Speaker 1 (37:07):
Name his girlfriend Jordaan Sure.
Speaker 2 (37:11):
Actress Storm Reed, who plays Sindeia's little sister in Euphoria,
says she wants to be the flower girl in her
wedding on which network of streaming service which you find Euphoria?
Speaker 3 (37:20):
HBO?
Speaker 1 (37:20):
Right or Max? We'll take both.
Speaker 2 (37:22):
A man who broke into Eminem's home multiple times, has
finally been convicted of first degree home invasion and aggravated stalking.
Which Eminem song about an obsessed fan celebrates its twenty
fifth anniversary this month stand and which actor known for
playing Edward Cohen in The Twilight Saga turns thirty nine today.
Speaker 3 (37:39):
No hold on Now three he the guy with the
dark hair.
Speaker 7 (37:45):
No Tom one Tom.
Speaker 2 (37:49):
Robert for Robert Pattinson's the answer. We were looking for
the win on your number thirty one, eight fifty. Surprised tomorrow, Eric,
you did a great job, but you're gonna have say it.
Speaker 1 (38:03):
My name is Eric. I got showed up on the showdown.
You know the rest. My name is Eric.
Speaker 11 (38:08):
I got showed up on the showdown.
Speaker 1 (38:09):
And I can't hang with the gorilla.
Speaker 2 (38:14):
You probably you probably wouldn't hung with the goerrilla either,
even though we love you, Eric, but you I'm gonna
try and do this.
Speaker 1 (38:19):
This is this is risky. You Eric can't hang with
the key. Cute cat Cat Cat Cat Cat Cat Cat Cash.
Speaker 8 (38:30):
Shout out to my boy Tom pet cat.
Speaker 2 (38:35):
Tom, Tom Pulman, I call him see Tom Pullman. He yeah,
he was they wanted him to be. He's one of
the high level executives, not one of the ones I
was just railing on. We actually liked him, but it
is all black and leather and whatever. They wanted him
to be the star of the Twilight movies, but they
didn't go with him. I think he's too busy.
Speaker 7 (38:54):
Well, he just got married, right, did he did?
Speaker 1 (38:56):
He didn't got.
Speaker 3 (38:56):
Married have a big enough budget for my boy?
Speaker 1 (38:58):
Yeah, no he didn't.
Speaker 2 (38:59):
He's not saying no because he's in I think Paris
or something. So I think he's hanging out with Kim
Kardashian from my understand. But hey, congratulations, said Tom Polman.
Speaker 1 (39:06):
Just got married. Yes, it's he's beautiful. The way they
look at each other, it actually is.
Speaker 7 (39:11):
They're they're really cute.
Speaker 1 (39:12):
Actually, it truly is.
Speaker 2 (39:13):
Actually the way I mean, I'm looking for my Luise
I am. It took him a long time to find her, though,
so there's hope for me.
Speaker 1 (39:21):
I guess. I just don't think I'll be as attractive
as he is at that age. So there's that.
Speaker 2 (39:28):
And by the way, Tom, don't take a halle Berry picture.
We know we love you, and we we love you
and we know, okay, so just do you. We don't
need to see it on Instagram. Yeah right, exactly to someone,
and our careers are slipping before very eyes. Yeah again,
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