FULL SHOW: 11/11/2025

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:27):
You've got your way good?

Speaker 3 (00:28):
What wait?

Speaker 1 (00:29):
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Next hour in the showdown, if you can beat our
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Waiting by the phone. Why did somebody get ghost? In
this hour we'll do headlines, vlogs and the Entertainment Report.
What are you working on?

Speaker 3 (01:04):
K I will tell you who.

Speaker 4 (01:06):
Joe Exotic says, all the guys are listening to. There's
one specific song. It's a female. She just dropped it.
And I gotta tell you what they're listening to, Opra
in jail.

Speaker 1 (01:16):
What is the I know Klin's it's it was putting
on leather pants, I think. But what is the the
dumbest way, most insane way, most unexplainable way that you've
injured yourself? Because I woke up this morning in excruciating
pain with back. My back is messed up again. How
could this be? I did nothing. I did nothing like
I want to. I want to tell you a story

(01:36):
about how I saved a kitten from the river or
I uh, you know, something like like something good, like
I don't know, an old lady was slipping on the
ice and I I risked my life. I jumped, you know,
so she fell on top of me. And I mean,
I wanted to be this amazing story, but I don't
have one. I simply woke up feeling this way, really

(01:57):
like I can barely walk, Like how does this happen?
Aside from getting well?

Speaker 3 (02:01):
I know, sorry, I don't want to say it.

Speaker 1 (02:04):
We didn't you had no problem saying it. You didn't
want to say it, but you had no problem.

Speaker 3 (02:07):
Saying I'm not the same person I was five years ago.

Speaker 5 (02:10):
Ten.

Speaker 3 (02:11):
I amn't really follow at that was really hard for
her to say. If you couldn't tell it just flew
right out.

Speaker 6 (02:16):
It was hard. Said oh that's what she said. No,
sound great, Oh, here we go, yeah, here we go.
She just called me old with him two minutes. I mean,
that's that is the answer. But like I didn't need
to hear it. I didn't need you to tell.

Speaker 3 (02:32):
Me that you are great.

Speaker 1 (02:35):
But I'm not great though, which is the problem. I'm
not great like any any slight movement and I just
feel like I'm going to break in half, not in
a good way, not in the kind of way that
you hope for. In the weekend, Jason, No things done. Yeah, okay,
well nobody.

Speaker 2 (02:50):
Oh I fell off of I tried jumping off of
a pier onto my inflatable unicorn and landed on the
bottom of the lake and hurt my knees.

Speaker 1 (02:58):
All right, and now we're having surgery. Yeah, if insurance
will ever approve it.

Speaker 2 (03:04):
Yeah, yeah, I know this that was another knee. The
need that I have to have surgery on was just
from walking here, That's kind of what I was looking for.

Speaker 1 (03:12):
So you were just walking and now you have to
have me reconstructive surgery.

Speaker 2 (03:17):
Form my little moniscus. They're like, oh, were you like
doing anything, you know, exerting yourself. I was like, does
it look like I'm athletic? Like, no, I wasn't running
a half marathon. I was walking.

Speaker 1 (03:27):
Well, what's wrong with the other knee?

Speaker 2 (03:29):
Nothing. I just had to get a shot and do
some therapy and it's good. So that needs that needs
golden kay the other one?

Speaker 1 (03:35):
You know?

Speaker 2 (03:35):
My knees, my knees, this is right?

Speaker 1 (03:38):
Well, I don't know. I really wish I could explain
to you, well I feel this way, but I I
really can't. But I slept, I slept the wrong way.
I slept in a ball, I slept on the wrong side.
I don't know. Maybe someone came in the night and
maybe they were fun activities. I just don't remember them.
I didn't even have a dream about fun activities that

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would have led to me feeling this way.

Speaker 6 (04:01):
When did this this pain started last night? Or did
it start it started weekend? Because you were lit on Friday?

Speaker 1 (04:08):
Was well, I was lit because at the Tangent Live,
every single person bought me a drink, every single person
in attendance. I mean you just laughed. I mean you you,
you left you, you you put me in the line
of fire. You made me deal with it.

Speaker 6 (04:23):
When I left, you were on top of the bar
doing splits. I said, I don't know what's going on.

Speaker 1 (04:27):
That might that could explain. That's probably, that could Actually,
that makes a lot of sense now, But no, it
didn't start until last night and then it just it's
just progressively worse. Yeah, I don't know I could do splits,
but I can do it. But when I'm at the
Tangent Live.

Speaker 7 (04:43):
Yeah, you've never seen you so happy.

Speaker 1 (04:47):
I don't know if it was just I don't know
if it was happy.

Speaker 3 (04:49):
You were drunk. You guys, they got us drunk. It's fine.

Speaker 1 (04:52):
Yeah, yeah, everyone else left. You left us to the animals.

Speaker 2 (04:57):
Were dug together.

Speaker 1 (04:58):
But you no use state. I'm looking at Kiki and
I'm looking at at Paulina. You guys just knew you left.
You threw us to the animals.

Speaker 3 (05:05):
We didn't see a chance.

Speaker 1 (05:07):
I didn't. So we did a live Tangent for a
certain section, for a certain region of our listening audience
who could attend. Maybe we'll just start doing it around
the country so that various people can see this. But
are Tangent go to the war area the Tangents are
Offare Uncentered Podcast. Oh, don't you worry. I gotta go
to West Palm Beach around February for my quality assurance check.
I do. No, I always, I always go to West

(05:28):
Palm Beach in February for a couple of weeks. I
got to make sure that everything is running properly. I
have to. It's my job is to host it the
show quality control. But I you know, I'm not available
in August. No, I got other places to go in August,
like Salt Lake City. It's much nicer there. So we
did our Offare Uncentered podcast? Did it live? In fact,

(05:48):
that's up on the iHeart radio efforts going up so
you can hear it. Uh that that particular episode, I
guess because we've got hundreds up there already. It's anything
that if you haven't heard of it before, it's anything
that we really sort of like get to a certain
point on our show here on the radio where we
probably shouldn't say anything more. Believe it or not, we
do have some limits and then we go and do
it there. So we did the live Tangent and several

(06:09):
hundred people showed up and that was amazing. And then
at the end of it, we walk out and I
didn't get within five feet of the backstage door for
two hours. And I'm very grateful that that many people
lined up. They wanted to meet us, take pictures, they
wanted to do but then everyone wanted to do a drink,
doing a shot or have a drink. They wanted to

(06:30):
do a drink.

Speaker 2 (06:30):
I didn't were still a thing, but ye are.

Speaker 1 (06:34):
And I probably did twenty because I just stood there
and then people just kept handing it me. They could
have been anything, there could have been anything in there.
I just kept drinking it.

Speaker 3 (06:41):
Yeah. When I heard that you shut that place down.

Speaker 1 (06:44):
They locked the door behind me like they were like,
we gotta leave, dude, Like that everyone owned the place left.
It was the janitors. They were cleaning, like, sir, you
need to go home.

Speaker 3 (06:52):
We didn't go home. We went to another bar.

Speaker 1 (06:54):
Yeah we did.

Speaker 3 (06:55):
Why was I shocked about you? Because well, yeah, in
shocked about me? Well, no, like.

Speaker 1 (07:04):
Paulina, I'm a man of the people. Okay, I'm a
man of the people, and those were my people. They
wanted to hang out. You're right, You're right, and and
you know, there's always a story that the propositions that
I was offered the I mean, it's it's amazing. So
I'm so grateful for you people that listen to this thing.
You really are a special group. And I wouldn't have

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it any other way. And I'll say that that being said,
that has nothing to do with what my back feels
this way. I don't know. I got aj saying, rotate
your mattress. I mean, or I could just go to
the other side of the mattress because no one sleeps
on that side. Yeah, I have no explanation. Someone said
you slept wrong. Yeah, I guess so, like excruciating pain.

(07:48):
I didn't know if I I was doing the thing
I had to lay down to put my socks on,
like pants, like one leg's not coming off the ground.
So that was interesting. I have no idea. I know,
if it's nerves, I don't know if it's on I'm
not sure you have a chirop. I'm going to have
to find somebody.

Speaker 3 (08:03):
We need to get you home.

Speaker 1 (08:08):
If you don't want to work today. You could just
say that, okay, we don't want to work. You also
could have told me that an hour ago when I
was in bed very much considering I had.

Speaker 6 (08:20):
I know, I will gash you up anytime, like you
know what needed lay down.

Speaker 1 (08:24):
That's like my mom. Like when I want to spend
money on something, I call my mom, Hey, should I
spend money on this? And she'll always enable me. You apparently,
if it comes to not working.

Speaker 3 (08:32):
And spending money, call me.

Speaker 1 (08:34):
But see if I told you when I like I
was it was about five, what time was it? It was
five something with five just after five When I was like,
I don't know, you already would have been halfway here.
You would have then it would have been like a
waste of your time. So I came in anyway. Never
think about wasting my time.

Speaker 3 (08:51):
Never worry about that. You don't ever have to worry
about that because I can turn around.

Speaker 2 (08:55):
Best way has off rail the other way. I'm kidding.

Speaker 3 (09:00):
I want to be here.

Speaker 1 (09:02):
I said you were lit on. I guess how, Yeah,
I was. I was just standing there while you're acting.
You're acting like I put on a full on strip tease,
which I saw, well did you enjoy it.

Speaker 3 (09:14):
I did.

Speaker 1 (09:15):
Me and Lieutenant Steve we saw you. He's a captain,
you know, let's get it right. Let's let's get our
boys rank correct.

Speaker 6 (09:24):
Kept saying, hey, friend, because I couldn't. I didn't realize
what the right title was. So but yeah, you were
lit and you were having a good time, and no
one saved me. No one, No, because you need to
have a good time, you need to lay. It was
not I mean for your back to get messed up.

Speaker 1 (09:38):
You know, all right, start the show. I guess somebody
say it's getting old. Sucks. I'm reading through all these
texts of people. Yes, you were turned, Yes you're the
picture of Yeah, yeah I was. Yes, it was someone
who sent a picture of us together in the corner,
so that the picture that you sent in that corner.
I didn't leave that corner because it was it's allowed

(10:00):
to for two hours like I couldn't. I couldn't leave.
I couldn't take like two steps. It was shot. It
was heroin, it was cocaine, it was no it was crazy, man,
we were doing lines of it. It was wild. You missed
all this.

Speaker 4 (10:13):
Imagine if no one came though, I'm so grateful that
you guys gave me the worst hangover ever.

Speaker 1 (10:18):
Yeah, I don't know. I you know, on Saturday I
questioned whether I wouldn't have preferred if no one came.
But it was good.

Speaker 3 (10:25):
Yeah, No, I hadn't been that hung over it a
long time. I was good.

Speaker 1 (10:28):
I'm sure I was reading here through all. I broke
my foot going down a stair in twenty twenty two,
that's it, huh. In twenty twenty three, I broke my
other ankle going down a hill. Well, I mean, at
least stairs are kind of dangerous.

Speaker 3 (10:42):
They really are.

Speaker 1 (10:42):
We don't talk about that enough about how dangerous stairs are. Right,
I got me one wrong step.

Speaker 7 (10:47):
And then boom, you're on the floor and you're just tumbling.
That's yes, But at least at least there was a
stair involved. Like there wasn't even a stair involved in this,
Like this just happened. I have no excuse, I have
no explanation. I don't know what to tell you.

Speaker 1 (11:01):
But we're gonna We're gonna do the thing. I guess
how many how many add milk can somebody take? Friends
and biggest stories of the day. It's nothing worse for
someone who has anxiety than to be reminded constantly, Oh
yeah you were drunks on whatever night. Yes, I was
in a bar and party, Yes I was, and I
was stirred a lot of alcohol, Yes I was. Did

(11:21):
I do anything illegal?

Speaker 8 (11:22):
No?

Speaker 1 (11:23):
Did I do anything career ending? No? Did I do
anything regrettable? No? My friends, except for Caitlin, all left
me to the wolves.

Speaker 3 (11:32):
Yeah you remember that.

Speaker 1 (11:34):
That's right. People said they had a good time though,
So thank you, yes, thank you.

Speaker 3 (11:39):
Ran out of that.

Speaker 9 (11:40):
Thank you guys, Thank you guys for letting me perform
and do my big one and start my career.

Speaker 1 (11:45):
Yeah, Paulina, it was life performance. It was something I
don't know what that was. Yeah, yeah, it was something
you did. You did. The people were stunned. The people
in the audience day seem stunned.

Speaker 3 (11:59):
When they stared at me and nothing.

Speaker 1 (12:02):
Yeah. I was a little surprised after an hour and
some minutes of us being rowdy with these people and
then all of a sudden they just seemed like perplexed
by you. You finishing the show with one of your
original productions.

Speaker 3 (12:13):
They're probably very confused, like, you know, is she for real?

Speaker 9 (12:16):
Like is this a bit I don't know what they
thought us, and I admitted that.

Speaker 1 (12:23):
I said, I said that at the end. I said
at the end that this was a dare. We did
this to see if she would do it, and she
did do it. I pulled my back putting my sock
on a few weeks ago, worst pain of my life.
I couldn't walk or move without screaming in pain. That's
basically what I'm talking about. Like, I'm close, I'm close,
I'm close to walking, and every every step I take

(12:45):
being a scream and not in a good way. I
cracked a rib having sex with my husband. Oh yeah,
that'll do it for you. Yeah, I think it's sciatica
as what I think it is. But this is old
people's stuff. I don't know what was he doing? Wow,
I mean it was a good night.

Speaker 2 (13:02):
I mean that's crazy.

Speaker 1 (13:03):
I don't know. Then you got to go explain that
to the you know, emergency room or the doctor or whatever,
like what'd you do? But see if I when I
go to the if I go to someone today, if
I find someone who will like fix this somehow. I
don't know, surgically, I don't. I don't know what they're
gonna do. Is there anyone who can fix this surgically today.

Speaker 2 (13:19):
I mean, please with insurance, right, let's tink about six
to eight months to get approval.

Speaker 1 (13:26):
At this is when I'll just spend cash, like the
cash I don't have. I'm not how much I write
you and check just don't catch it. For about ninety days,
thought that, God, I don't know.

Speaker 3 (13:36):
It's terrible.

Speaker 1 (13:36):
I'm sorry, are you no?

Speaker 3 (13:39):
I really am?

Speaker 1 (13:40):
Yeah? I could, really, I can tell I can I can?
I hear a lot of sympathy coming from you today.

Speaker 6 (13:44):
Oh, I really am, because they say if you laugh
at somebody when they're in pain, it's gonna happen to you.

Speaker 3 (13:49):
And I don't need that. Sorry that I don't know.

Speaker 1 (13:53):
I don't know what I'm gonna do.

Speaker 3 (13:55):
You need a chiro PreCure?

Speaker 1 (13:58):
I need something. I need a physical therapist. I need
a massage therapist. I need some anyone want to come
up here and just with a table and just do it. Yeah,
I'm pulling my back out, pulling up my pants at
the GUYO.

Speaker 2 (14:14):
Yeah, yeah's office.

Speaker 1 (14:17):
Wrong kind of doctor. But like you know, at least
there were medical professionals around. I'm serious, Like this morning,
I'm like, I don't know how I'm gonna get my
pants on, like I do. I was not sure that
we were gonna have pants on today, and then I
was starting to this is like, it's insane to me.
You take I think you take mobility for granted. Yes
you do. Because I was like, Okay, now what do

(14:40):
I do if I can't put my pants on? Well,
I can connect from home, Okay, so I'll sit in
my underwear. I do the show, I guess, but I
can't put my pants on. Can I even like put
my arms up? The type? I don't know. This is
just not it's not pretty, guys, it's not good. And no,
I don't want a shot to ease the pain. I don't.
I think that's a bad idea. Yeah, that's how you
wind up in the parking lot of a holiday and
express us on on that attic show intervention. It starts

(15:06):
with one shot to the back, and before long your
your family's chasing you around, trying to put you in
the minivan to go to promises. You know what I mean?

Speaker 3 (15:13):
That's so true, that's so true.

Speaker 1 (15:15):
Right, I'm scared. So we were not here yesterday, so
we have to recap Jason's NFL picks. Do we know
how well he did have we tallied them?

Speaker 3 (15:26):
No, hold on, just pardon me for one.

Speaker 1 (15:29):
Okay, Paul, pardon this live show. But I'll go through
the winners and then I don't know, maybe we can
figure this out. But Broncos won. But I don't think
you picked that correct wrong, even though the game had
already been played. Colts, Ravens, Bears, Dolphins, Seahawks, Lions, Jets, Saints, Patriots, Texans, Rams, Chargers,

(15:51):
and then the Eagles won last night. And I have
no idea about the Parsley. We can get back to
you on that.

Speaker 3 (15:55):
Okay. Yeah, I don't have a tally here.

Speaker 4 (15:57):
Okay, we'll figure that out from based on what you
just said.

Speaker 3 (16:01):
And he did not do well. I will have Italian
a moment.

Speaker 1 (16:04):
The Senates on Monday, it proved a bill to reopen
the government. Yay government, Yay government. Right. I'm sure there's
some people like yay getting paid, like our air traffic controllers.
Shout out to you, guys. To vote went sixty forty,
with nearly all Republicans and eight Democrats voting for the measure.
The deal restores funding for federal agencies through January thirtieth
of twenty twenty six insurance that there are no further

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federal worker layoffs until that date and back pays furloyd
furloyd fur lloyd, furload employees. That's a weird word for
me today. I don't know how many times can I
say it. But it doesn't include the extension of the
healthcare subsidy tax credits that the Democrats that demanded, triggering
major party backlash to build out moves to the House
of Representatives, where approval is expected this week before being

(16:48):
sent to the President. Some of the autumns the autumn.
I think if you say autumn instead of fall, because
automan falls are synonymous, right, it's the same thing. Yeah,
But autumn just seems like you're fancier if you call
it the autumn. Some of the autumn's coldest weather yet
is bearing down on the continental US, enveloping the eastern
two thirds in Arctic air. This Monday was crazy, affecting

(17:10):
millions of people. The National Weather Service forecasters said the
weather could bring record low temperatures in the US southeast,
including all of Florida, where parts of the state were
near eighty degrees the day before. The cold air brought
gusty wind and reg flag warnings for the Great Plains
on Monday, and forecasters said that the Great Lakes and
Appalachian or however you'd like to say it, Appalachian. Do

(17:33):
some people say Appalachians. I can't even say words now,
and no offense, Paulina, But I'm not quite sure that
I'm I'm not. A four to eight inches of snow
could fall there, yeah. Cold weather warnings issued for Ohio, West, Virginia, Kentucky.
Freezing temperatures predicted for a large swath further south from
Texas to Oklahoma, Alabama, and Georgia. The wintry weather, combined

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with the government shutdown, contributed to flight to lays across
the country, including four hour wait times at airports like
O'Hare in Florida. Forecasters said the windshiels could dip to
the thirties. You're in Florida, guys, Florida. You using me
in the thirties? Sorry. A United Airlines flight attendant was
busted for being drunk on a San Francisco to London flight,

(18:19):
later found to be ten times over the legal limit
for alcohol for aircrew. The fifty six year old veteran
admitted chugging vodka to calm down while working the long
haul flight. Paramedics met the plane and Heathrow after the
crew noticed her slurred speech and unsteady walk. Test show
to blood alcohol level of two hundred and sixteen mg milligrams.
I guess I'm not sure. The UK aviation limit is

(18:41):
twenty milligrams. Who So she pled guilty to performing an
aviation duty well intoxicated, avoided jail, paid a fine, and
then resigned. Her lawyer said that she had been under
emotional strain and deeply regrets her actions. We've all been there, girl,
We've all been there. I'm there right now. I have
a bottle of tequila right there, but it's just a

(19:03):
little tiny one. Oh yeah, I have. It's a joke.
But I have like a break glass in case of
emergency tequila bottle right there, which I can't believe it's
not broken and consumed. The number of times that I
you know, we've had emergency.

Speaker 4 (19:14):
I'm gonna say Jason Brown got seven correct out of
fourteen and only one of the legs of his parsley hits.

Speaker 1 (19:20):
Okay, last week, you're you know fifty percent?

Speaker 3 (19:23):
Yeah, yeah, what's happened to you?

Speaker 2 (19:26):
And I'll take fifty percent.

Speaker 1 (19:27):
Okay, yeah, I mean you were an expert. You worry
you are an expert, and I don't know what. I
don't know what's going on. I think you've had more
successful years in the past. I'm just not I'm not
sure what's happening. And this is a sweet story. Supporters
of the La Dodgers have donated about thirty thousand dollars
to Toronto's Hospital for six Children, a tribute inspired by
Blue Jays fans who had earlier donated to Seattle Children's

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Hospital after their own playoff loss. The hospital says more
than four hundred Americans contributed, many leaving notes about baseball
and even setting up recurring gifts. Several donors sent fifty
one dollars a nod to Blue Jays fans, who wore
that number in honor of Dodger's pitcher Alex Vesla, who
missed the series following the death of his infant daughter.

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A donor called it a classy response to a classy opponent,
while Jay's fan Marcus Kim, who floated the charity, wager
ideas that the kindness helped ease the sting of defeat
sick kids in the name of the hospital. Officials say
the money will fund new equipment and research. Silver Lining
born from sportsmanship and shared compassion. See, it's it's possible

(20:32):
to be kind to the people that you beat in sports.
You don't have You don't have to like throw beer
at them and spit on them. What you know, you don't, Galen,
I know that's what you do. But you don't have to.

Speaker 3 (20:43):
I lay a couch on fire every time, right, win
or lose.

Speaker 1 (20:46):
Right, you have to burn down your own city when
you win. Everybody knows that. Yeah, you have to cause
mass havoc where you live, right exactly, Yeah, cause problems
where you live for yourself, for your own car, Let
your own car and fire. You do that, or you
could also do something nice like this. It's a National
Sunday Day, and it's Veterans Day today. Shout out to

(21:07):
all the veterans. Caitlin's entertainment report is on The Fresh Show.

Speaker 4 (21:12):
Simmy Sweeney is saying she doesn't really care that her
movie flapped at the box office over the weekend. Christy,
that movie based on real life boxer Christy Martin, opened
in more than two thousand theaters but pulled in just
one point three million, one of the weakest wide.

Speaker 3 (21:26):
Release debuts on record.

Speaker 4 (21:28):
After headlines were calling it a bomb, she fired back
on Instagram, saying that she was deeply proud of this movie,
adding we don't always make art for numbers.

Speaker 3 (21:36):
We make it for impact.

Speaker 1 (21:38):
Management every week no ratings, but it's not about that.
It's it's about impact.

Speaker 3 (21:46):
Right, you're looking at it wrong art.

Speaker 1 (21:48):
No what I've been telling him every week now for
a while.

Speaker 4 (21:52):
She said that Christy was meant to honor a survivor's
story of courage and resilience, not chase ticket sales.

Speaker 3 (21:59):
So she doesn't give health but like, what is she
supposed to say?

Speaker 4 (22:01):
Okay, by now you may have heard that miss Kim Kardashian,
it did not pass the bar exam. What's even more
is she's super mad because four separate psychics assured her
that she would pass the test, and now she's coming
for them.

Speaker 3 (22:15):
Listen to this.

Speaker 4 (22:16):
I'm just letting you guys know that all of the
psychics that we have met with and that we're obsessed with.

Speaker 3 (22:22):
Are all full of shit.

Speaker 10 (22:24):
They all collectively, maybe four of them, have told me
I was going to pass the bar.

Speaker 11 (22:28):
So they're all full pathological liars don't believe anything they say.

Speaker 1 (22:33):
I know people that very upset or otherwise. I have
gone to law school that did takes three or four
times to pass the bar. Yeah, So the fact that
she didn't go to law school and did this whole
thing herself, you know, which is legal in California somehow,
I mean, I would have been surprised if she had been.
It would have been remarkable if she'd passed the bar
the first time hundred percent.

Speaker 4 (22:50):
And it's one of the hardest bars to pass because
everybody wants to practice there, so she has more chances.
But it just made me laugh that she's taking all
her anger out on these psychics.

Speaker 3 (23:00):
Very funny.

Speaker 4 (23:01):
Teddy Swims is the new sexy guy and a campaign
for booking dot com called This Guy Books, where he
leans into the idea that booking a trip for someone romance,
spontaneity is more attractive than just good looks or a
big paycheck. The campaign backs us up with actual data
saying fifty six percent of women say that their partner
booking a trip is a rousing or as a rousing

(23:24):
or more than for play. Ninety three percent say taking
the lead on travel plans beats a good physique or salary.

Speaker 3 (23:31):
I would have to agree.

Speaker 4 (23:32):
The commercial shows Teddy in a robe channeling ron Burgundy,
like a similar vibe, and he's like, I'm gonna do
the sexiest thing a man can do, taking the reins
and booking a trip for your significant other. As part
of this promo, five couples will win a getaway to
Chicago in December. Meet Teddy enjoy ten thousand dollars in
travel credit, dining, VIP events. This offer opens on the

(23:55):
twenty fifth of this month for just one dollar and
forty three cents. So that's pretty cool and said He
says this campaign is his favorite that he's done to date,
because you know, it's fun. It was fun, and people
are gonna win a trip and have some romance.

Speaker 3 (24:09):
And lastly, Hillary.

Speaker 4 (24:11):
Duff dropped a new single called Mature and if you
have not listened to it, she has certainly all grown up,
very mature, So give that a listen.

Speaker 3 (24:19):
If you have not yet.

Speaker 4 (24:20):
But I just wanted to point out that Joe Exotic
aka the Tiger King, who is currently locked up for
a murder for higher plot against you know, Carol Baskin.
He wrote in the comments of Hillary's Instagram and I
quote all the guys in here are listening to it,
which Hillary's husband responded things, Uncle Joe, So I just
want to let you guys know that wherever Joe is

(24:41):
locked up, all the guys are listening to the new
Hillary Duff single.

Speaker 12 (24:45):
And that is hysterical to me. Sure, yes, should to
some of its ok But I know, okay, you obviously
like it. I've heard parts of it.

Speaker 4 (24:56):
I've seen the lyrics. I have not heard it, so
I'm interested to hear what it sounds like.

Speaker 1 (24:59):
Take it a listen. I'm not gonna listen to the
whole thing, so don't be mad at me when I stop.

Speaker 13 (25:04):
She's me of hers de Friston, just a few years
young newest.

Speaker 3 (25:12):
Very really as you just gonna be.

Speaker 4 (25:15):
Who is this Hillary?

Speaker 1 (25:20):
This is it?

Speaker 3 (25:22):
It just doesn't sell like her.

Speaker 1 (25:23):
She so is pressed by a bus.

Speaker 14 (25:27):
She thinks you're deep and noise, you're nut.

Speaker 13 (25:36):
She's a sweet she sinks, basically as.

Speaker 1 (25:47):
It's kind of slaps my hairs.

Speaker 14 (25:54):
WI sense, She.

Speaker 1 (26:13):
Sla that slaps. Yes, good, I played the whole thing
in a minute. I don't know. I haven't decided yet.
You had me all worried, like I'm like, well, I
don't know. I haven't heard the whole thing yet, but
it says that it's Hillary.

Speaker 3 (26:26):
I was saying, I don't know that voice, like I
know Hillary, and I don't know who that.

Speaker 1 (26:30):
Was that was because I was like, oh wait, so
they're tricking me. Literally they put that there. Nothing would
surprise me more if we had the wrong song in there.
And I'm that's so good. So a thirty four year
old woman is demanding compensation from her ex boyfriend who's
thirty eight, for what she says is stealing or I

(26:52):
guess did steal. He did steal her child bearing years.
This is from Fox and Fox News. Do don't worry.

Speaker 13 (27:02):
I think this is it.

Speaker 1 (27:03):
You don't have to stop listening for m not that
it would have anything to do with anything, but it's like,
as soon as I say Fox, I think people are like,
oh no, Fox Local.

Speaker 11 (27:11):
The la four year old woman is demanding her ex
boyfriend pay compensation, claiming he stole her child bearing years
after nearly a decade together. She says her thirty eight
year old X into things just as she was ready
to start a family. She said she put her career
and her goals on hold, believing they'd have kids, and
now wants them to cover fertility treatments like egg freezing
or IVF. The story from The New York Post has

(27:31):
gone viral, sparking a debate. Some call it justified, others
say it's absurd to blame an ex. Legal experts say
her case wouldn't hold up in court, but it is
raising some questions about love timing and who really pays
the price when relationships.

Speaker 3 (27:45):
In So what do you think? Does she have a point?

Speaker 1 (27:47):
Okay, so this is my question because this is kind
of my demographic, Like I'm in my I guess mid forties.

Speaker 10 (27:53):
Now.

Speaker 1 (27:54):
I love how they and I say this every time,
but was supplying makeup, I'm sorry distract to think I'm sorry.
Oh okay, I just didn't want to get away. Should
I look over and there's this mess Scara? And I was, oh, well,
this is very very distracting to me. Is that not mess, Scara?

Speaker 3 (28:11):
No, but I'll put it.

Speaker 14 (28:13):
What is it?

Speaker 3 (28:14):
It's eyebrow?

Speaker 5 (28:15):
Joe?

Speaker 3 (28:15):
Oh yeah, YEA pass it over here. Okay, I got none.

Speaker 1 (28:20):
I guess me too. Then I guess I feel now
I feel left out. I need some eyebrow, come over there,
and because I can't move my arms, so.

Speaker 3 (28:28):
Get you somewhere.

Speaker 1 (28:30):
Every time I say that, management's like, you know, you
shouldn't say how old you are, Like, well, I've been
here for sixteen years, so like, I don't know. I
feel like people can do the math. I wasn't. I
wasn't twelve when I got here, but whatever, So, you know,
mid thirties is sort of it seems to be the
appropriate age. I think for me. Maybe people would say,
and I think that when I meet people who are

(28:52):
in their mid thirties, if they want to have kids,
they're very understandably, I wouldn't say, well in very states
of eagerness, I'll put it, but I understand why. You know,
it's like people kind of want to know, hey, where's
this going pretty quickly if they want to have kids
and don't have any. And it used to kind of
annoy me, but then I really sat back and was like, well, no,

(29:14):
I understand, like you there's only so much time, and yes,
you can freeze your eggs, there's other things, but like
just generally speaking, and yes, people are going to text me, oh,
well you can have a kid when you're fifty. Yes,
I know, and people are gonna text me, well this
and that. I'm I'm not talking about the exceptions. I'm
just saying generally speaking, you know, early mid thirties or
before people like to have kids, I guess. And so

(29:36):
if you're not sure, then that could be a problem,
because what if you date somebody for two or three years,
four or five years even, and maybe you didn't freeze
your eggs, then you get to a certain point where
you're at an age where it would be more difficult
to have kids safely. And then I mean, whose fault
is that. I don't think you can't blame it on
in this case, the guy. But I also think that

(29:58):
a guy should be thoughtful about the fact that if
that's something that you are absolutely wanting to do, and
and and the dude if he knows in his mind
he absolutely doesn't want to do it, and he's not
telling you that because he doesn't want you to go anywhere.
That's wildly selfish. Now, should I have to pay for
your fertility? No? But like, let's say that this person
brought up over the course of that relationship, I want

(30:18):
I want to have I I want to freeze my
eggs and he's like, no, no, you don't have to
do that. Well, that's messed up too, because like that
might be the only way, that might be one of
the only ways that you could have a natural child.
And and maybe oh yeah, I don't want the expense
or I don't want to deal with the you know,
the process, because I know even though it's the woman
who who endures most of that process. I mean, a

(30:41):
guy can help. But it's like, as far as all
the different things that come with that, there's a dude.
A dude who says don't don't freeze your egg because
you don't want to deal with it is the ultimate
level of selfishness in my opinion. But I mean, does
a guy. Does a man hold any level of responsibility
eight five, five, five, nine one one oh three five
If he's dating a woman who wants to have kids

(31:01):
in a certain demographic and it's not extremely vocal or
extremely communicative about his intentions, does the guy hold any
responsibility perhaps not financially, but morally or ethically. You're saying no.

Speaker 9 (31:19):
I almost want to say yes, only because a man
will waste your time if you let him.

Speaker 3 (31:24):
And I'm big on that, and I know. Yeah, No,
that's very true. It's very true.

Speaker 9 (31:28):
But if you're a woman and you know you want
kids or you know you want this, I do think,
like in your heart, like you have to decide if
this is something that you're gonna pursue or how long
you're going to stay in this. You don't have to
like tell the world like you have tail years, but
you can't say, like, I do want children, and like
if that's not something you want or like we can
do it by a certain time, then like then this
might not be for me, this relationship, just.

Speaker 3 (31:48):
Because I don't know. I just feel like already, like I'm.

Speaker 9 (31:51):
A mom where I'm thirty three, I'm a mom of
a one and a half year old, and I personally
like don't want children later. I only want one. But
I also don't want kids later in life because this
is so harder. I feel like a team mom some
days and other days I feel like a nan on
because it's just like it's the hardest, most exhausting thing ever.
So for me, if hobby was like over here, like well,
I don't know, like I'm not gonna let a man
anybody waste my time.

Speaker 3 (32:11):
Yeah, for me, it's more nuanced than just like a
blanket yes or no.

Speaker 4 (32:14):
However, if I do think of a dude as like
constantly telling you that's what he wants and that's what
the plan is, then yes, the same way that he
would want me to respect him in that relationship, I
would demand or I ask for, at least that respect
in return of the second you know you don't want
to do this with me. You know, you have to
be transparent about it. Now, if a guy is never
sure if he wants kids, then it's on the woman.

(32:36):
You're entering that at your own risk.

Speaker 3 (32:38):
You know what I mean. I agree with that, I.

Speaker 1 (32:40):
Said, interrupt her. I don't mean to say to you.
I hate the counter argument. You know, guys do this,
we'll so do girls. I hate that argument, but it
is true. I mean, I've been in different types of
situations where women are biding time dealing with things, but
they don't want me to go anywhere. So it's like, yes,
this happens. So people do waste each other's time that

(33:00):
and they do it in dating, and they do it
on the dating apps. So they do it in all
forms relationships, marriage otherwise, So you know, but in this
particular case, if a dude knows that he doesn't want
to have kids, or in this case, apparently he said
to her. This guy to his girlfriend, He tells me
he feels at thirty eight as though he still has

(33:20):
a decade of enjoying his lifestyle and powering through with
his career and is not ready for marriage and children.
But he knows that it's become a priority for me,
So he's off. So he broke up with her as
a result of it, I guess, And now now you
know she wants I guess, compensation or something for this,
which I have to be honest, Based on that quote,
it doesn't sound like he misled her. It just sounds

(33:43):
it sounds like she always knew that and hoped that
he would change his mind and hedged her bets, and
now she had a position where it's going to be
a little bit more challenging and she's mad about it.
That's kind of what it sounds like. I mean, I
think if a dude is like, yep, I want to
do it. I want kids. I want kids. I want kids.
I want kids, and then you know, four or five
years later, now I don't want kids. That's his right.

(34:05):
But I think you would have every right to be
really upset about it. Now do you get financial damages
for that? I don't know.

Speaker 3 (34:10):
I wish you should, right like you should.

Speaker 6 (34:12):
I feel like a lot of women waste their time
in relationships and men may not understand how important it
is that time window. Like you have your your child
bearing years and you waste them with a guy who's
just leading you on. But it doesn't seem like this
guy was leading her on. It seems like he was
clear about what he does want and what he doesn't want.
And you can't stick around hoping somebody's going to change

(34:32):
their mind.

Speaker 1 (34:32):
That's on you. Well, then you can say, well, guys,
had you know you can. You can be Mick Jagger.
You can have kids until you're eighty years old. You can.
But I suppose the same And here I go flipping
the argument again, which I really don't like that as
an argument tactic. But I mean, I could date someone
for five years and then wind up being five years
older than I wanted to be having kids, and then

(34:55):
it turns out we don't have kids and break up,
and now I have to start over, which means a
couple more years maybe to meet someone else, and then
get to the point where so now I'm five six, seven, eight,
ten years older than I wanted to be having kids,
and now I'm a really old dad. I mean, so,
I it's not physiologically impossible for a man, but I
still run the risk of it not lining up with

(35:15):
how I wanted my life to be. And I can't
sue for that.

Speaker 10 (35:19):
You know what I mean?

Speaker 6 (35:20):
I mean, I share yours on each other. Yeah, let's
just meet both stops in each other time.

Speaker 3 (35:24):
I'm so fry.

Speaker 1 (35:25):
Hey, Eric, what's up? Eric?

Speaker 15 (35:28):
Hey?

Speaker 1 (35:29):
Are we doing? Hey? Man? So what do you if
a woman dates a guy in her mid thirties wants
to have kids, and after years, you know, he decides,
you know what, I don't want kids, and uh, even
if he said he wanted kids previously, and then they
break up, I mean, does he have any kind of
moral or ethical or financial obligation? I mean, I know
this is kind of a ridiculous question, but on the

(35:50):
financial front, but like, I mean, is he responsible in
some ways for the position that she finds herself in
late thirties and no kids.

Speaker 16 (36:00):
No, I don't think he owed her anything financially, but
you definitely morally if someone wants kids and you don't.
You definitely should let them know up front. If it's
a situation where the two just split and she feels
that she wasted her time, then it's her choice to

(36:22):
stay in that relationship. She definitely could have frozen her eggs.
I think a woman has the right to do that
without acting a guy, so she still had played a
part in it as well.

Speaker 1 (36:33):
Yeah, that's interesting. I guess she very easily could have
just gone ahead with that. And yeah, she didn't need
him to say one way or the other weather she
should or shouldn't do it, unless she was expecting him
to pay for it for some reason. But yeah, I
mean I've dated people who are in the process of
freezing their eggs who who did before did right after
we I mean, that's something you don't need me for that,
You don't need my certainly don't need my permission for

(36:55):
that either.

Speaker 16 (36:56):
Exactly exactly, so, so he definitely should just go ahead
and do that if you want to. But at the
same time, though, I don't think he owed her anything financially,
But definitely, guys don't hold up women.

Speaker 1 (37:11):
Yeah, if you know what you want to have kids,
just go for it and do it all right, Eric,
thank you, have a good day. Thank you guys, love
me to I've walked from a lot of early situations
that I never saw developed because it seemed that the
she wanted kids so badly and I was unsure that
I thought it was unfair, and so it's possible I

(37:33):
could have changed my mind. But again, you know, I'm
respectful of the fact and aware of the fact that
it only would become more difficult depending on your age.
So like I'm holding you up in some ways. Yeah,
and that's not fair to her, No, But is it
worth ending a relationship that could have been I mean
it was I a little maybe over sensitive to it
on your behalf, or was I a little reactive to

(37:55):
it in some strength? And I'm not saying I'm a
hero by any means, but I just mean, you know,
did I wind up? Did we wind up not pursuing
something that could have been great? And it could have
led to that because I was concerned with you not
meeting your needs and being resentful to me for it. Hey, Jessica, Yes, Hi,
good morning. Final, say what do you want to say?

Speaker 17 (38:16):
I definitely think that there's some sort of case for
holding them financially responsible. This happened to my sister. She
was with a guy for eleven years, from twenty four
to thirty six, and he just up and left her.
But the whole time they had talked about it, like
she wanted multiple kids. He wasn't really into multiple kids.

(38:37):
But yeah, we'll have at least one kid. Yeah, let's
have kids. She's like, well, she had some health issues,
maybe I should freeze my eggs, do like that sort
of thing. No, No, well you know we're gonna we'll
get into that. We'll get into that over and over
and over again for years and then just up and
left her. And here she is now, like thirty seven

(38:58):
years old, trying to start over again. She still wants kids,
but now you have to start over, You have to
find a partner that you trust and like and all
of these things. And now, because of the fult that
she was, is she going to be able to have
kids in what is now after thirty five considered a
geriatric pregnancy, So it they is really a hard situation,
but it is hard. Jes definitely need to take that

(39:19):
into consideration because.

Speaker 1 (39:20):
Mary, he genuinely was on the fence and didn't want
to I mean, and I'm not defending him, I don't
know him, but maybe he was genuinely on the fence,
didn't want to lose her, and then you find yourself
at a point of no return, where it's now you
look like a jacka, but like you genuinely maybe he
really didn't know, or maybe he hoped that he would
come around to the idea. I think we all take
risks in dating and in relationships and on the dating

(39:43):
apps and everything else, and I think, you know, unfortunately,
this is a place that you can find yourself. But
I think that the key is, you know, and I'm
not saying your sister did anything wrong, but maybe she
should have just proceeded with some of these backup plans
on her own and did not and not wait for
him to just side what she should or shouldn't do,
or you know. It's almost like creating a backup plan

(40:04):
ahead of time by freezing your eggs.

Speaker 5 (40:06):
Right.

Speaker 17 (40:07):
But some people, I think, misconstrue that backup plan as
like disloyalty or you know, or not having faith in
that relationship. And I think that's probably which is not
right at all. But that's probably what he would have
thought and why he pressured her not all so much
to not do those things because then he thought, well,

(40:28):
then why are you making a backup plan for not
being with me.

Speaker 1 (40:32):
It's complicated, Jessica, thank you. Have a good day. Yep,
you Cuba multiple what so that you wind up having
a kid going on Maury, you don't know whose kid
it is?

Speaker 3 (40:43):
You know who kid it is the one who wanted
to have one, but you probably do, you know, I
want to give it to somebody.

Speaker 1 (40:54):
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success in Griffith, Indiana. Our boy Patrick, the nicest guy,
the nicest people out there, and we really appreciate them
having us in there in their venue that used to
be a department store. By the way they made a
department store. I don't know, man. From the outside, I

(42:20):
was like, what did this used to be? Because now
it is a Now it is a high class, high
quality venue period for all sorts of entertainment. I'm told
they do all kinds of things there, parties and concerts
and everything. So if you're in that Griffith, Indiana, go
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nine one two or nine one three. It was nine
one three at the time I left. By the time

(42:43):
I left, it was it was we were on the
State Street. It didn't really matter. Oh my god, Yeah
that was something. But honestly, thank you to everybody who
came out on a Friday night hung out with us.
And and I haven't looked at my credit card bill yet,
but I know I bought a lot of shot. I
know you bought a lot of shots. I stood in
that corner, did a lot of shots. And the bartenders,

(43:03):
I think it was like they were looking at it
like they were scientists doing some kind of focus group,
like how much alcohol can this man consume before he
like implodes? And then you're right? And then Caylen and
I went to another bar after that with Captain Steve
and his wife, because well, why wouldn't we. But we
did not drive. I will have you know. We did
not drive. I may have fallen asleep in the back

(43:24):
of the uber a couple of times, but that's okay.
I did check to make sure that no one like
puked in my uber I'm checked to make sure because
Caylen and they dropped me off, I think right, and
then you went after and you went home after me.

Speaker 3 (43:35):
I don't know, you tell me. I know we both
got home.

Speaker 1 (43:39):
I did too, and I think I got dropped off first.
I think so, But then I went to check to
make sure that you didn't puke in the back of it,
because oh, well, no, you say that, but that's happened
to me a number of times. And I finally am
getting my score back up from the times I either
got somebody an uber or like got out of the
uber so that they could get dropped off somewhere else
and then wake up the next day and it's like
two hundred and fifty bucks in my tren cord. I'm like,

(44:00):
what did you do? But that didn't happen, So thank
you for coming. We'll do it again. I don't know
what are we gonna do it spring? Maybe? Yeah? Another
Tangent Live. Yeah, and uh, I think there were some
interesting things I recall in our Tangent because we did.
We did tape the episode, so if you weren't able
to make it, it will be on the iHeart radio

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and you could search for the Friend Show on demand,
wit anute. So you only follow pretty people?

Speaker 6 (44:26):
Yeah, like I only like to see pretty stuff on
my timeline, ugly people all my time.

Speaker 3 (44:30):
I'm like it, like it triggers. I'm like, oh god,
not like wow.

Speaker 1 (44:35):
So nuts to you again. So frend show is on,
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November eleventh, The French Show is not Happy Veterans Day,
Good morning, Kaitlin.

Speaker 3 (44:49):
Always give it up to the veterans.

Speaker 1 (44:51):
Yes, yes, and yes, all active duty and and in former. Yeah,
any member of our military first responder. You know what's
it too? You know what's a new I don't. Oh yeah,
you've done it. You continue to do it. I do
a good fight.

Speaker 17 (45:05):
You.

Speaker 3 (45:05):
I do it for everybody.

Speaker 1 (45:07):
Jason Sun goes for mechanics, I got you. You gotta
do it. Give it up to mechanics, Kik what same
goes for guys who proposed to you.

Speaker 6 (45:14):
You should give it up to now after the wedding though, yes,
that's right, that's right.

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Speaker 4 (45:38):
What are you working on, k It looks like Orlando
Bloom may have moved on with a woman who dressed
up as Katy Perry very recently.

Speaker 1 (45:48):
So we got to unpack this because it's weird. Oh boy,
we all know the people. Man, They date the same
person over and over and over again. In this case
this person who dresses up like the same person.

Speaker 8 (46:00):
Yeah, they talk better than These are the radio blogs
on the Fresh shows already in our diaries, except we
say them a lot.

Speaker 1 (46:08):
We call him blogs Kiki. Yeah, dear blog.

Speaker 6 (46:12):
So I've been waiting and excited all weekend to update
you about the photo shoot that you didn't come to
for my engagement photos.

Speaker 1 (46:21):
I was hobbling around. I guess, yes, he didn't want
me with my walker with my bad back. You know
you didn't confirm. You didn't confirm at the time and location,
or I would have been there. What at your engagement photos? Yes,
it was it was.

Speaker 3 (46:37):
Quite the party.

Speaker 6 (46:38):
We did have our engagement photo shoot, and I told
you guys, I was extremely nervous about how Big Tim
would perform.

Speaker 3 (46:45):
At this photo shoot. He's not like a G co
Q model. He doesn't like a camera in his face.
He's not me so.

Speaker 6 (46:54):
Very concerned. We posed, you know, did our practice poses.
You know, we had his outfits all laid out, and
I am happy to say the photo shoot went extremely well.

Speaker 3 (47:05):
He pulled it off.

Speaker 6 (47:07):
He had his little Tira eyes and smising down pack.

Speaker 3 (47:11):
He was like in his element. But then he did
get sick in the middle of the photo shoot.

Speaker 1 (47:15):
Oh yeah, he got sick.

Speaker 6 (47:17):
Got sick to the point where he had to go,
Like we were shooting at a hotel. Shout out to
the version here in Chicago and my girl Trician who
set it up with me or for me and Jason.
But yeah, he went and had to go lay down
in one of the rooms because he was so sick.
And I was like, oh this diva, Like I was
so over it in the middle of the photo shoe

(47:37):
like are you okay?

Speaker 3 (47:39):
And my hair Styalace was like, you know, it's weird.

Speaker 6 (47:41):
I see this happen a lot on like photo shoots
somebody who like the grooms a lot of time, they
get nervous and the nerves make them sick, and.

Speaker 3 (47:48):
I'm like, are you serious? So he got sick. I
had a little solo shoot for a while.

Speaker 1 (47:55):
I was gonna say no, time was wasted with a
bunch of cameras around. I'm sure. Oh I had to
get my kiky. Yeah.

Speaker 6 (48:01):
So but he came back and you know, a true professional,
he was great and the photos turned out really well.
We we went all over that hotel, like when I
cannot wait to show you guys the photos. We went everywhere.
We were on a rooftop it started snowing.

Speaker 1 (48:16):
Oh yeah, yeah, but well, you need lots of photos
to line the wedding with of just you, so I'm
glad that you took a variety.

Speaker 6 (48:24):
Oh I have so many I'm just gonna blow your
phone up one day with all of the photos back
to back to back.

Speaker 3 (48:30):
But it was great.

Speaker 6 (48:30):
It was great, And so shout out to all the
men who you know, put on their little tucks and
do what is asked of them.

Speaker 3 (48:38):
But yeah, big tim he did a great job.

Speaker 1 (48:39):
Wow, it was so overwhelming. He had take a nap
in the middle of it.

Speaker 16 (48:42):
He was so sick.

Speaker 1 (48:43):
He was so overwhelmed with your beauty. That's where it
was the pop princess and me kind of like yeah,
And my favorite part about playing songs like I'm a
Hillary Duff, I'm I'm a big Hillary Duff guy. A
lot of people don't know that big Hillary Duff guy. Yeah,
she was very nice to me back in the day.
There's a picture of me somewhere. I'm more a turtleneck.
That was the last time the turtlenecks were in. But

(49:06):
my favorite part about this is now the record company's
gonna call the bosses in six cities and be like, oh,
amazing you ahead of the song, and then they're all
gonna go you know what I'm talking about. I love
to do this because they can they can see, like
they get alerts on their phones right when they're when
they're the songs and the different labels are working, you know,
like when they get a little alert on their phone

(49:27):
and whoever it is, it's like, yeah, Hillary duffs in
Chicago and West Palm and Rawl, this is so exciting.
And then they got to call Trevor and he's like,
I don't even know what you're talking about what she
has a song gotium or like our boss is trying

(49:49):
to like maneuver something and Nope, I just went ahead
and did it. Hi, Marry, how you doing?

Speaker 18 (49:55):
Hey?

Speaker 3 (49:56):
I'm okay. How are you guys doing?

Speaker 1 (49:57):
I don't know how you can be just okay after
that new Hillary song? But okay, that's fine. So whatever
I mean, I'm all fired up.

Speaker 17 (50:05):
For me.

Speaker 1 (50:05):
It's like so Yesterday all over again, Like it's just
the same kind of feels. Nonetheless, what's going on with
you and your husband? You guys are high school sweethearts.
You've been together for twenty years, and he wrote us
a note because you want to be on Stair or
Go so that we can talk about you and decide,
you know, how you should live out the rest of
your life. So tell us at the end of this,

(50:25):
we will give you the pathway to follow to live
the rest of your life. Because everyone who comes on
Stay or Go agrees to do exactly what we tell them,
So go ahead, Okay.

Speaker 3 (50:37):
So we openly talk about this all the time.

Speaker 10 (50:43):
We neither one of us have been with anybody else,
and you know, since we've been together since high school,
and we talk about the fact that it's just been
us and we always talk about this.

Speaker 1 (50:55):
Okay.

Speaker 10 (50:57):
Recently though, while we were talking about it like usual,
he kind of shocked me because he asked if I
would ever be interested in opening up our relationship.

Speaker 1 (51:10):
Why are you talking about? Like what is the context?

Speaker 9 (51:12):
Like?

Speaker 1 (51:13):
Is it just like, Oh, I wonder what it would
be like since we've only been with each other, Like
I wonder what other people you know? I wonder if
it's different or is it like kind of in a
cent or is it or is it coming you know,
from your perspective because you don't really know necessarily where
it's coming from within him? But for you, is it?
Is it your curiosity? Like do you wonder, Hey, it
could be better, it could be different, So you're satisfied,

(51:34):
You're you're not having this conversation because you're unfulfilled in
some way.

Speaker 10 (51:39):
Yeah, I I honestly talk about it, and we joke
about it, and I thought he was joking that he
was actually being serious, and it's it's not something I've
ever considered, But I told him.

Speaker 3 (51:54):
I would think about it, because what else am I
going to say?

Speaker 1 (51:58):
Well, yeah, I guess for me, I'm I'm just curious
why that conversation because you said earlier like that you
guys talk about it a lot, like the idea of
and then and now all of a sudden, it's why,
you know, one step further in that conversation. So I
just wonder, is that I don't know what it's like
to be with only one person, so I wouldn't even
know how to have a conversation like that. But I
just I was curious, like what the impetus was. But nonetheless,

(52:21):
this time he says, well, what if we what if
we uh, you know, what if I stepped out? What
if you stepped out? I assume that's what he's talking about,
like that you guys would individually go maybe do other things.

Speaker 3 (52:31):
Yeah, like maybe this would add to our relationship because
we've been together so long and and I just talked
about it. But I really I don't want to share him.

Speaker 10 (52:44):
I mean, I feel stuck because I don't want to
lose him, But I can't stay and tell him.

Speaker 3 (52:51):
I don't want an open relationship, right, I.

Speaker 1 (52:53):
Mean, yeah, you can. Like this is all very confusing
to me, Like when I hear about situations where one
person wants and believe it or not, I know, more
than one person who's kind of secretly in an open relationship,
and oftentimes he told me one person that really wanted it,
and the other one went for it because they wanted
to appease their partner in some way even though they're
very uncomfortable with it. And in fact, at least two

(53:16):
of the situations I'm aware of, the relationship is ending
because the person was uncomfortable they did it anyway, and
then that wound up being the thing that sort of,
you know, created the whole thing. It was like, well,
I'll do this for you because maybe adding some spice
or some variety, maybe that adds some spice and variety
to our lives or whatever. And it turns out, no,
the person who didn't want to do it was always

(53:38):
uncomfortable with it. So no, I don't think in the
confines of a relationship, of a marriage, or any form
of committed relationship that you have to agree to something
or risk losing someone.

Speaker 4 (53:47):
But how do you stay knowing they want that the
whole That would be in the back of my mind
for the rest of our relationship.

Speaker 1 (53:51):
But within relationships, don't people ask for a lot of things,
and maybe you do some of them. And maybe you don't.
I don't know. I mean, do you do you get
the idea that he's really committed to this or or
is it just like he just threw it out there
as a curiosity. And if you were to say no,
do you really believe that he would resent you if
you said no?

Speaker 3 (54:08):
If I don't go along with it. I do feel
like he would. This is really tough, you know. It's
like I don't want to share him.

Speaker 1 (54:17):
You don't have to. My thing is I don't think
you don't have to agree to anything you don't want
to do. And if he's going to leave you over
this now all of a sudden, after twenty years, but
he might cheat.

Speaker 3 (54:26):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (54:26):
Like he's telling her he wants a variety, he wants
to try to other things, and if she doesn't agree
to it, she can run the risk of him cheating
on hearing him or together.

Speaker 1 (54:37):
I would like to give him the benefit of the
doubt and say that he's being transparent because he wants
to to do this something up and up, and if
she says no, he'll respect his wife. I would like
to believe that after twenty years, I feel like if
he were going to cheat. He doesn't have to communicate anything,
he could just go cheat. So I don't know that
one necessarily leads to another. I mean no, I would

(54:58):
say that you have to protect your piece. If you
don't want to do it, then you say no. And
if he cheats on you or leaves you, then I
think that, as painful as that would be, that tells
you absolutely everything you need to know, doesn't it.

Speaker 10 (55:09):
Yeah, I guess I just wanted to know if anyone
had been with someone as long as we've been together,
and if they experienced this, and if they went for
it or it was a bad idea.

Speaker 1 (55:20):
Okay, well, let me take the whole calls what to do,
because this is where it comes in. You don't really
have to do what we tell you. I mean, you
should because we're usually right, especially usually me, I'm usually
most right, but because I'm the voice of reason. But
but the thing is, there are people listening out there,
I'm sure who have been through something like this, and
then who will call and and and share their their perspective.

(55:40):
So I'm going to take some calls, have the radio one.
Thank you for listening, We wish you the very best,
and thanks for sharing too.

Speaker 3 (55:46):
Thanks guys.

Speaker 1 (55:47):
Eight five.

Speaker 3 (55:52):
Morning.

Speaker 1 (55:52):
Hi, So your theory by the way, just to recap
if someone's just joining in. This woman, Mary has been
with her husband now for twenty years. They were high
school sweethearts, so the entire you know, span of the
relationship is twenty years they've only been with each other,
and she had mentioned that they talk occasionally about what
it would be like openly, you know, to be with
other people, and finally, in this one conversation recently, he said, well,

(56:13):
what if we just open the relationship. She doesn't want
to do it, but she's afraid if she doesn't do
it that he'll leave her, there'll be repercussions or resentment
or what do you think.

Speaker 19 (56:24):
So from my understanding, they joked about it before. I
think he stepped out of the marriage already.

Speaker 1 (56:31):
I really do, based on what's I mean. Here's the thing.

Speaker 19 (56:36):
If he brings it up here and there jokingly, I
feel like it's not a joke. I kind of feel
like he already stepped out of the marriage. And he
keeps trying to push it to see like, hey, maybe
do you want to give it a try to kind of,
you know, ease his guilt and maybe he wants to
do it again twenty years together and you're bringing it

(56:57):
up now?

Speaker 1 (56:59):
But are you people telegraph their their I mean, I
guess people project all the time. But I mean, again,
if he's willing to be that communicative about it, is
he really telling on himself in that way? I mean,
I feel like if you're gonna really because I think
if you're gonna cheat you, I don't have to tell
you about it. I don't have to. I don't have
to try. And I guess I could manipulate you into it.

(57:19):
But if I'm already doing it, then why don't need
your permission now?

Speaker 3 (57:23):
To esu guilt?

Speaker 19 (57:24):
He doesn't need permission. It's a narcissistic thing where he
feels like, I'm going to tell you a little bit,
but not enough to rat on me, do you know
what I mean?

Speaker 1 (57:32):
So there's no way that this guy after twenty years
actually respects his wife and is having an open communication
about something that he would like to try and running
the risk that she says no, there's no way, but
that's possible.

Speaker 3 (57:46):
She needs to leave.

Speaker 19 (57:48):
I'm sorry, No, no, don't sorry.

Speaker 1 (57:50):
I'm just I'm playing devil's advocate here. I yeah, but yeah,
I would like to believe after twenty years in open communication,
and it sounds like she admitted that they had a
lot of communication about things that are sort of taboo topics,
I'd like to believe that it's not that cut and dry.
But all right, thank you, Maya, I have a good day,
me too. Bye.

Speaker 17 (58:08):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (58:08):
I mean this is a pretty overwhelming thought that he's
already doing it. Hey, Shelley, Yeah, Hi, Hey, good morning.
You say go because he's already at it.

Speaker 19 (58:18):
You know what, I think that he might have met someone.
I really do, and you know what, open herself up,
do what makes her hurt feel good? You know, if
she doesn't feel comfortable with it, go.

Speaker 3 (58:30):
Just just let him go.

Speaker 1 (58:33):
Yeah, I don't think she has to agree to anything.
And I think if the relationship is if the relationship
is contingent on her allowing him to be with other
people or introducing other people into their relationship, then that
relationship is highly fractured in my opinion.

Speaker 19 (58:48):
In my opinion as well. And you know what, she
is never going to trust him after this. The trust
line is broken, She's going to be miserable. You will
be missing out on a great opportunity for.

Speaker 1 (59:01):
Herself maybe, But I also don't want to encourage people
not to communicate the things that they might want to do.
And granted that's an extreme one, but I mean, wouldn't
you rather that your partners say hey, I've thought about this,
or would you consider this, rather than never talk about
it and then keep it inside. I mean, I mean,
you know, I.

Speaker 19 (59:19):
Agree with the communication. I'm one hundred percent with you
on communication.

Speaker 3 (59:23):
But my opinion is.

Speaker 19 (59:26):
Her trust is now altered and she's not going to
trust him whether they communicate. She tells him no, she's
always going to wonder, Okay, fair.

Speaker 1 (59:35):
Enough, thank you, sheelly, have a good day, Oh you too,
buy And I've got a bunch of calls to get to.
But like Paulina, so if Hobby comes to you and
says he wants to do X y Z, whether it's
an activity or a specific thing or bringing other people
in or whatever, do you feel like, I mean, you
have a good marriage. Do you feel like if you
say no, that that automatically means he'll just go do
it with someone else, or do you feel like he

(59:56):
would should be able to come to you and say, hey,
I'm thinking about this. This would be and then you
say no and then all right, well that kind of sucks,
but then you're still married.

Speaker 9 (01:00:05):
Yeah, that did happen to us. And it wasn't a
question of like can we do this? It was just like, oh,
what do you think of something like this? My hot
take on the like kind of what essentially opening up
your marriage?

Speaker 14 (01:00:16):
Right?

Speaker 3 (01:00:16):
So like seeing other people, my hot.

Speaker 9 (01:00:18):
Take on that is like I would almost feel like why,
like are you not satisfied with us in the bedroom?
Like I'm also a little insecure sized sart thinking a
little deeper. I'm like, are you not attracted to me?

Speaker 17 (01:00:28):
Like?

Speaker 1 (01:00:28):
Do you not want me?

Speaker 3 (01:00:29):
Do you do not want this marriage? I get a
little deep with it, Okay, So like it could be as.

Speaker 9 (01:00:32):
Simple as like I just want to, you know, spice
things up, whatever the reasoning is for this couple, Like
I would feel some type of way, but I think
once you shut it down and your partner's like, okay,
that sucks, but it is what it is. I think
that's like fine. I don't think how he's going to
go off and do things. I don't see that.

Speaker 1 (01:00:47):
Yeah, I don't. I don't know that one leads to
the other, but I agree with you it might be
hard to unring that bell.

Speaker 10 (01:00:52):
It is, it is, it is.

Speaker 3 (01:00:53):
It makes you kind of question like okay, like like
why why would you want that?

Speaker 1 (01:00:57):
What would you just mean?

Speaker 3 (01:00:58):
And that's how I think, and I think a lot
of women do.

Speaker 1 (01:01:00):
But I'm afraid that if you say, oh my god,
absolutely not, you've probably shut down all communication on that
topic and maybe some others moving forward, like if you
shame some and granted adding another person's different than I
want to. I want you to do X y Z
between the two of us. But you know, I guess
it's a tough spot to be in because depending how
you answer, how you react, you know that could that

(01:01:21):
could really change trajectory of things. Judah, whatever, right, what's
your name?

Speaker 16 (01:01:28):
Hear me?

Speaker 1 (01:01:30):
All right.

Speaker 14 (01:01:32):
Now?

Speaker 1 (01:01:32):
When you called the radio station, Hey, Kim, Kim, I
know that you don't want to miss a word of
the things that we're saying because they're usually you know,
dead on. But you can't have the radio one because
this is his delay, Kim, what did you want to say?
Good morning?

Speaker 5 (01:01:49):
So I think she should stay. Twenty years is a
long time she's been talking and adding it as spice.
But you have to be very, very confident in yourself and.

Speaker 17 (01:02:05):
In your marriage.

Speaker 5 (01:02:07):
I've been married a very long time and we have
talked about it numerous times, and one time we went
to Vegas and it happened. I don't know if you're
talking about an open relationship adding a person to it,

(01:02:28):
but I don't think she should leave. I think he's
talking to her. It's communication. It doesn't mean that he's
already done it. You guys are sitting there saying, oh,
he's in it, he's doing it.

Speaker 1 (01:02:42):
I don't think some people are saying that. Yes. I
don't think that necessarily means that he's done it. I
think it means he's curious about it. But which could
have its own problems. Kim, I have to be nosy.
Was that the beginning of something that you guys started
doing in your relationship or was that just a one
off thing.

Speaker 5 (01:03:00):
It was a one off thing, and we talk about
doing it other times. But it's we thought about swinging
way back in the day, probably be married ten years.

Speaker 15 (01:03:13):
But it wasn't.

Speaker 5 (01:03:15):
It was something we said to each other that added
spice to our relationship. But I have to say, you know,
I'm I trust him. I don't think he would ever
ever do something like that without me. And that's where
your relationship has to be. Yeah, it has to be
where you're trusting, even not swinging or open or one time.

Speaker 15 (01:03:42):
You guys have to trust each other.

Speaker 5 (01:03:44):
And obviously they do they're married twenty years.

Speaker 3 (01:03:48):
Kim, I'm down for it, Kim, you were down for this, Woeman.

Speaker 1 (01:03:51):
She doesn't want to do it, and she's what I
don't know, And thank you for calling, Kim. I appreciate you.
Have a great day. What I don't know is is, though,
is there no Why is she so trepidacious about saying
no to him? Like? Why is she so convinced saying
no to him leads to something bad like that? That's
the part of this that's interesting for me, is she

(01:04:13):
I think she should be able to say no and
then okay, and he can be disappointed, but that's the
end of it.

Speaker 6 (01:04:18):
But you you would think about this like if your
partner came to you and had that request and you
said no. I know, in the back of your mind
you would be like, okay, but that's something she wants
to do, and you would think about that over and
over again, like I know I said no, but does
that mean they're not going to do it.

Speaker 1 (01:04:35):
Yeah. Maybe, But if I say no and then we
move on from it, I hope that that our marriage
continues and that we have a functioning relationship and all
the other things I get with you would mess with me.
But I also I don't know that I would assume
it's already happening. I don't know that I would assume
everything's over. I'd like to believe people can say a
lot of things in a marriage and they're not just
gonna leave when you don't agree with it.

Speaker 6 (01:04:56):
Yeah no, But having you know another person is a
different type of thing. I wish I could be like Kim.
You know, Kim was down, She's like, let's go to Vegas.
Let's get it out. That's how you want it to be.
You want to be on the same type of time
with your partner. But if one of you was like,
oh no, I don't want to do it, then that
leaves the other person like, man, I really want to
do this.

Speaker 1 (01:05:14):
But I will tell you this much, Kiky. In one
hundred percent of the examples that I'm aware of, and
it's more than one, one of the people didn't want
to do it but gave in to a piecy other person,
and it still didn't work because I don't know that
that's something that you I feel like you're either into
it or you're not. And if you're not, I don't
know that you can be convinced by actually doing it.
So that's a tricky one. No, we didn't solve this

(01:05:36):
person sprout. Paul now An's entertainer report is on the
Pread Show.

Speaker 4 (01:05:40):
A Mississippi college student has been arrested after and I
have to say allegedly, but it seems pretty clear to
me yelling an anti Semitic comment at Barstool Sports founder
Dave Portnoy as he filmed one of those pizza reviews.
You may have seen the video making its rounds on
social when a twenty year old named Patrick McClintock was
heard yelling.

Speaker 3 (01:06:02):
F the Jews as he was filming this pizza review.

Speaker 4 (01:06:04):
You know, the one bite everybody knows the rules at Dave,
who is Jewish, and he was filming in Mississippi on Friday.
Then this video started making its rounds going viral, and
the police department did confirm that he was arrested and
later released on bond. He was a junior and mechanical
engineering major at Mississippi State University, but he voluntarily left

(01:06:28):
the college I think yesterday, since all of this happened.
And there's a lot of talk these days about freedom
of speech and what that means, but you can't just
say whatever. He was hit with a misdemeanor charge of
disturbing the peace, and the police department did say, yes, okay,
offensive words alone are protected, but when the behavior disrupts
a public event or risks violence, they will step in

(01:06:49):
and help to maintain the safety and security of everyone.
In the video, you can hear Dave saying okay, come on,
say that on camera, and he does say that he
gets these anti Semitic attacks every single day. Said it
certainly ramped up in recent years. Actress Rachel Lynn Matthews,
who some people say is Orlando Bloom's like maybe girlfriend,
or maybe they're just you know, getting with each other.

(01:07:10):
I have no idea, but she's going viral for dressing
up as Orlando's ex fiancee Katy Perry. Now this was
from a Halloween party, but we're just now seeing the
photos or at least figuring out Okay, wait, they may
be talking and this is what she dressed up as
and she chose to go as Katie in her astronaut era,
remember when she was an astronaut.

Speaker 8 (01:07:30):
So she.

Speaker 3 (01:07:32):
Went to space and she should have take.

Speaker 15 (01:07:36):
She did.

Speaker 4 (01:07:37):
She also took Lauren Sancho's bezos if you if you
do not remember any fashion nova Space, they did and
that's what she wore. And she even recreated the photo
of Katie kissing the ground when she came back, so
like she did all this weird though, yeah, and then
like just interesting either way that Orlando would like pose
with her.

Speaker 3 (01:07:57):
I don't know, it's the timing seems very weird. It's interesting,
isn't it.

Speaker 4 (01:08:01):
So you know, I don't know, wash out for her,
I guess I would say, because that's a little creepy.

Speaker 3 (01:08:05):
Speaking of axes, Vivica A.

Speaker 4 (01:08:07):
Fox is warning women not to date fifty Cents specifically
or any rappers because it quote took her years to
be able to laugh about it. Fifty obviously responded saying,
either way, I'm gonna have that ass in the matrix.

Speaker 3 (01:08:19):
You know, I love me some you girl, but damn,
it's been twenty two years. So there you go. That's
what he had to say about that.

Speaker 4 (01:08:25):
And if you want to catch up on anything that
we had to say the frend Show on demand on
the free I heard radio.

Speaker 3 (01:08:29):
But I don't know what he means having me in
the matrix face. He's so confused, say, why are you
gonna have my ass in the matrix? What does that mean?

Speaker 2 (01:08:38):
What is the matrix exactly?

Speaker 3 (01:08:40):
I don't know, but don't shoot the message.

Speaker 1 (01:08:42):
I'm cleary.

Speaker 14 (01:08:43):
It's the Fread Show. Do you have what it takes
to battle show biz? Shelley in the show Business Showdowns show,
Shelley's here.

Speaker 1 (01:08:58):
For fifty surprise one eighty three wins, only seventy five
losses all time, You've won six straight in Desiree is
your challenge? Good morning, Desiree. How are you good? How
are you doing all right? Desiree. Fun fact about you is.

Speaker 3 (01:09:14):
I am a veteran.

Speaker 1 (01:09:15):
You're a veteran, a veteran of which branch? And tell
me more? I am a marine.

Speaker 3 (01:09:25):
I got out six years ago and now I'm the
special education teacher.

Speaker 1 (01:09:30):
Well, thank you for your service on multiple front. You're amazing.
I would say Shelley has to now lose, except Shelley's
husband also.

Speaker 3 (01:09:38):
Serves, so you know, I don't know it's all yeah,
cancel out right.

Speaker 1 (01:09:42):
Both are extremely important. You're the spouse of a member
of the military, so I think we're gonna have to
do this fair and square. Okay, Desiree. And what was
your rank? Do I have to call you by your rank?

Speaker 3 (01:09:55):
I was a lance corporal when I got out.

Speaker 1 (01:09:57):
All right, Lance corporal, I'm we're all saluting you right now.

Speaker 5 (01:10:01):
But here we go.

Speaker 1 (01:10:01):
No, thank you for your service. Four hundred and fifty
bucks is a price. Let's play five questions? Good luck guys,
good luck, Desiree. All right, jelly, if you go sound
booth poof ouh. Okay, here we go, Lance corporal, Desiree.
Question number one. The cops were called to this Amazon
founder's mansion over the weekend thanks to noise complaints over
a birthday party for Chris Jenner.

Speaker 15 (01:10:24):
Three.

Speaker 1 (01:10:25):
When like gazillionaires get called like you're having a high
school party, get called. Outcast was inducted into the Rock
and Roll Hall of Fame over the weekend. Name the
rappers that make up Outcast?

Speaker 3 (01:10:38):
Three I do not know?

Speaker 1 (01:10:39):
All right, you got three left? You're good. Cardi B
posted a video cheering for her boyfriend's touchdown Sunday. Which
NFL team Does he play for?

Speaker 6 (01:10:48):
NFL team?

Speaker 1 (01:10:49):
Yes, Cardi B's boyfriend. All right, all right too left,
you're gonna get both of these. Orlando Bloom's rumored girlfriends
going viral after she seemingly dressed up as his ex fiance.
We just did the story. Name is X, yes and
which link? One eighty two drummer ran a five K

(01:11:10):
then performed on Sunday all before lunchtime. Oh, Travis Barker
to Travis Barker, Yeah, Lance corporal, you're so good. That
is a three. We're gonna bring Shelley back. She got
a three because she's a Lance corporal. She's and all that. Yeah,

(01:11:31):
she's fine as hell. All right, you should see her.
I've never seen her, but I'm going with Okay, wow,
all right, Ques, you gotta get Yeah, you get three? Ready?

Speaker 3 (01:11:43):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:11:44):
I got a little distracted there a minute.

Speaker 3 (01:11:47):
Since you heard that?

Speaker 1 (01:11:48):
Yes, I never hear that. Actually never, certainly never from
a lance corporal. The console called to this Amazon founder's
mansion over the weekend thanks to noise complaints over a
birthday party for Christian genner Jeff Bezo. Yes Outcast was
inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame over
the weekend. Name the rappers that make up Outcast.

Speaker 3 (01:12:08):
That's a big boy and Andre Breeth South.

Speaker 1 (01:12:11):
That would be correct. Cardi B posted a video cheering
for her boyfriend's touchdown on Sunday. Which NFL team does
he play for?

Speaker 3 (01:12:20):
The Patriots?

Speaker 1 (01:12:20):
The Patriots is correct? Orlando Yes. Orlando Bloom's rumored girlfriend
is going viral after she seemingly dressed up as his
ex fiancee. Name is x Katy Perry Yeah? And which
Blink one eighty two drummer ran a five K then
performed on Sunday all before lunchtime.

Speaker 3 (01:12:38):
Travis Barker, Yep, there you go, that some five.

Speaker 1 (01:12:40):
That's the Windlands corporal Desiree. I'm sorry. I We'll try
and find you something because its Veterans Day and you
deserve it, but you have to say, my name is Desiree.
I got showed up on a showdown and you can't
hang with the gorilla.

Speaker 17 (01:12:49):
Go.

Speaker 5 (01:12:51):
My name is DeBary and I got showed up on
the showdown and I can't hang.

Speaker 1 (01:12:55):
With the gorilla. That was really good, and I don't
know if I can do this. I know this may
this may exert me in ways I don't need to,
but desiree you. Lance corpwalk Hey with a reel.

Speaker 3 (01:13:08):
O cat cat cat Cat shout out. So all the vetteransoo.

Speaker 1 (01:13:22):
Wow, oh man, even in my crippled state, I did
that for the veterans. Okay, yeah, yeah, you did that
for the veterans. Don right, Lance Corporal Hey, thank you
again for your service and to all of your all
of your former members of the military and or fellow
I should say, and hang on one second, all right,
all right, right, We're gonna get you some sort of

(01:13:43):
wildly underwhelming price, but you'll you'll love every second and
you will, you will. Budgets real low, Jason, It's real
low at this time of year, real low. Five hundred
bucks tomorrow, one thousand and eighty four wins in a
seven game win streak, Shelley, Let's do it again tomorrow.

Speaker 3 (01:14:00):
Let's do it sounds good.

Speaker 1 (01:14:01):
And I had a military mic for us. I know
he's not a baron just yet, but boy is that guy.
What's he gonna do with is like, he's gonna have
to be He's gonna have to be missus Showbiz Shelley
at some point, and that's gonna be something point, Yes,
at some point.

Speaker 3 (01:14:14):
Yeah, just I don't know where he is right now.
He's in the ocean somewhere.

Speaker 1 (01:14:17):
Oh is he? Yeah, I don't see one of these
top secret missions. Yeah, except he's gonna except he's gonna
pop up on on Instagram with his shirt off and
Barbados or something.

Speaker 6 (01:14:27):
Let me know.

Speaker 1 (01:14:28):
Yeah, you know, I guess it's close friends only when
hes like that have a good day. And that joke
is that, uh, you know, Shelley's husband's in the Navy.
He's a big time, big time Navy guy. But whatever
he does is top secret or something something with I'm
not gonna make Shelley explain this, but it's some sort
of tech thing and we're really unclear exactly what he

(01:14:50):
does or where he does it. We just know it's
an aircraft carrier. So she's explaining to this to me
and this is no joke. Like, right around the time
she explains it to me, I look on my Instagram
and it's him in Dubai with his shirt offs. He
had a club with a bottle of champagne in his hand.
I'm like, Shully, I think I know where he is.
Take us out. I think I found yeah. Way, he

(01:15:12):
was on a little bit of a break.

Speaker 3 (01:15:13):
They do get nights off. Yeah, yeah he was.

Speaker 1 (01:15:15):
It was all about for I was well aware of
where he was, so not much of a secret. Waiting
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Speaker 3 (01:15:57):
Wait, somebody has a voodooed all of me and they're
poking it.

Speaker 1 (01:16:05):
Okay, I'll stop. I'm sorry. Oh yeah, okay, I think
I've been poking it for years. I didn't think this
thing worked.

Speaker 3 (01:16:10):
But finally working, I'm sure we out of context.

Speaker 1 (01:16:13):
That's gonna be something. I've been poking it for years
and I didn't think this thing works. Save that. In Please,
Fred's show is on. Somebody got a voodoo dollar me
stab me in the back. With it. Let's see that's
the theme this year. Stabbed in the back. Oh it
Souit's time to roll into twenty twenty six. Man, girl,

(01:16:33):
don't I know it? A lot of good things have happened.
But you know we can roll right on and we
can leave some stuff and we can leaves this up
behind too. Mand Morning everybody. It's Tuesday, November eleventh. The
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Why did somebody get ghosted? Headlines fun fact d and
the Entertainmer Report all this hour? What are you working on?

Speaker 3 (01:17:14):
K something for Joe Bro's fans.

Speaker 4 (01:17:16):
Also a story that ties into Veteran's Day, so that'll
be possibly good.

Speaker 1 (01:17:23):
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show.
Hey Carly, good morning, welcome to the show. How are
you good? Are you doing okay? What's going on with
this guy Stefan? Or is it Stefan? Are we going
with Stefan? It's Stefan? Okay, I don't know Stefan. I
mean that would be fabulous, but anyway, it says Stefan.

(01:17:43):
So you how did you meet Stephan? Tell us about
if it's Stefan, I might know what the problem is.
But anyway, how did you meet Stefan? And tell us
about any dates you've been on? And then where things
are now?

Speaker 13 (01:17:56):
Okay, So we met on him at normal We went
on one day. So after he met he asked me
if I wanted to go to one of the days
of Lollsalooza with him because he had an extra risk band,
and I was like, absolutely yes, I would love to. Okay,
So we're having a really good time until I went

(01:18:19):
to the bathroom and I came out of the bathroom
and he was just gone, like he didn't answer any
of my calder texts and he hasn't sold me at
all since then.

Speaker 1 (01:18:29):
So he's up, he's out, and I mean huh, you
are you sure he laughtered you lose him because Lotapalooza
is like it's a very big place.

Speaker 8 (01:18:38):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (01:18:39):
You know, tens of people attend this thing every year,
and by tens, I meet hundreds of thousands. So is
there any way that you lost him in the crowd,
Like were you guys trying to watch Two Friends or
Sabrina Carpenter And then you know, I don't know, he
got mesmerized by the drones and you never saw him again.

Speaker 13 (01:18:53):
I mean, it's possible, but he didn't answer any of
my calder.

Speaker 17 (01:18:56):
Texts and I.

Speaker 13 (01:18:57):
Called and texted him a bunch.

Speaker 1 (01:18:58):
Yeah, I mean I had a lot of cell phone
coverage there. I found. I'm trying to come up with
a reason why hopefully he didn't ditch you. But you're
saying that it looks like he ditched you.

Speaker 3 (01:19:09):
Yeah, it does.

Speaker 13 (01:19:10):
And I'm still a little confused.

Speaker 1 (01:19:12):
And when you look back on this, really well, but
when you look back on the conversation and everything up
until that point, I mean, everything was cool. You guys
were getting a long fine, The conversation was good. No
strange topics. Means are all questions that I ask every
week and people don't tell the truth. But I mean,
just overall, though you were feeling a good vibe, you're
genuinely surprised this guy ditched you at Ladapalooza, which is

(01:19:32):
very end cool.

Speaker 13 (01:19:33):
By the way, Yeah, definitely. I don't understand what happened.
Like it was going well for sure.

Speaker 1 (01:19:39):
Okay, Well, let's see if we can get this guy
stepping on the phone. We're going to play a song. Comeback.
We'll call him. You'll be on the phone to The
hope is that we can straighten this out and set
you guys up on another date and pay for it.
Sound good, Hey, Carly? All right, welcome back. You're right
over there, Carly. I mean, energy is low. I know
you're disappointed, right, You're bummed because it's this guy Stephan.

(01:20:01):
You went to a lot of peloza with him, you
met on the dating app. You felt like everything went
really well, except he ditched you. A lot of pelooza,
You didn't get lost in a crowd, you reached out
to him, he tried to get a hold of him,
he didn't respond, and you haven't heard from him since.
I mean, you could even argue that you got separated
and he didn't have any cell phone coverage. But then
he could have text you later and been like, oh

(01:20:21):
my god, I'm so sorry. But that didn't happen either.

Speaker 13 (01:20:24):
No, it's been nothing since then, and I'm pretty bummed
about it.

Speaker 1 (01:20:27):
Yeah, I get that. Well, let's call him and figure
this out. Good luck, Carly.

Speaker 15 (01:20:30):
Thanks?

Speaker 10 (01:20:39):
Hello.

Speaker 1 (01:20:40):
Hi's is Stephan? Yeah, Hey, good morning, Stephan. My name
is Fred. I'm calling for the Fred's Show, the morning
radio show, and I have to tell you that we
are on the radio right now, and I would need
your permission to continue with the call. Can we chat
for just a second on the air. You can hang
up anytime? Yeah?

Speaker 15 (01:20:57):
Sure, what's going on?

Speaker 1 (01:20:58):
Well, thank you very much for calling on half of
a woman who said she met you on Hinge, the
dating app. Her name is Carly. You guys went to
a lot of Palooza. Do you remember Carly? I hope, yeah,
I remember Carly. So what happened? Because we just spoke
with her and she, you know, said that she had
met you on the dating app and you matched and
you chatted and you agreed to go to a lot
of paluza together and you did and she felt like

(01:21:21):
the vibe was good, everything was going great, and then
you guys were separated and she hasn't heard from you since,
so it would look like you ditched her. Had a
lot of plouza, which is not a very nice thing
to do.

Speaker 15 (01:21:31):
All right, if you really want to know, it's actually
kind of gross.

Speaker 1 (01:21:36):
But I can tell you, I really I think we
all really really want to know actly, But I'm not
sure if I do, But I do, you know what
I mean?

Speaker 15 (01:21:43):
Yeah, no, you'll heal the sid after listen. We were
having a great time. It was super fun, and then
we went to the porta potty she needed to use it,
and she's inside. I'm waiting outside for her, and I
get a text from her that says come in here,
and so I was like, is everything okay? Like I

(01:22:04):
you know, I thought maybe she's having a medical problem
or something. Turns out she wanted me to go into
the porter potty to hook up.

Speaker 1 (01:22:14):
Okay, absolutely not, absolutely not, But that's you know what
that right there, That is how you get yourself ditched.
A lot of palooza that right there, yes, right, or
some sort of issue, some sort of ratch that you
don't know what. That is the least sexy place on
the planet and I assumed this was one of the
nice ones, right, even that's gross. But this wasn't like

(01:22:35):
one of the VIP or conditioned ones, right, this is
like a porta potty.

Speaker 15 (01:22:39):
Yes, it's like a hole in the ground where all
the smells are coming up. Like I don't want to
I don't want to kiss someone. I don't even want
to use it myself, you know what I mean. I
avoid them at all costs, let alone.

Speaker 1 (01:22:47):
To hook up with I got to be on the
verge of a bladder explosion to do that, Like, we
have to be in dire, dire circumstances in order for
me to be just to use the restroom exactly.

Speaker 15 (01:23:01):
I think it's I mean, I am so so turned
off by it, like the opposite it is. It's disgusting,
to say the very least. And so I ran out
of there before she could even come out because I
was like, I don't know how to respond to someone
who thinks this is a good idea.

Speaker 1 (01:23:17):
So that means that may have been a little dramatic,
but still that is disgusting. And let me bring Karly,
and I forgot to mention Carly is here. Carly. I'm
all for a little improvisational fun. You know, we find
a nice dark corner or a bush, you know, or
I don't know, hide behind a tree or something.

Speaker 17 (01:23:35):
I don't.

Speaker 13 (01:23:35):
I don't know, but I'm okay, let me get this strate.
So you're mad because a girl wanted to hook up
with you?

Speaker 9 (01:23:43):
Is what I mean?

Speaker 18 (01:23:44):
In a potty Yeah that's what you hear? Yeah, okay,
important detail. I am appalled. I can't I why not rest?

Speaker 17 (01:23:58):
I mean.

Speaker 1 (01:24:00):
There was no better idea. I mean you could have
even can you leave and go back? I don't know.
There's gotta be there has to be a better place.
There has to be a better way. I mean, that
is a very disgusting place in general, even to use
it for what it's intended.

Speaker 3 (01:24:14):
In and out.

Speaker 15 (01:24:15):
It's honestly no fun, red flag for me.

Speaker 6 (01:24:18):
No fun?

Speaker 15 (01:24:19):
Are you kidding me?

Speaker 1 (01:24:20):
I don't know fun. I don't want lysteria. I don't
know what. Let them trying to think of whatever random
disease you can get from in there. No, no, no, no, no,
no no, no, huh uh. I don't even want. You
could even find me a new one, a clean one,
and I still don't want to. It's human. It's hot
in there. It's gross.

Speaker 15 (01:24:41):
No, I don't want to look up in like.

Speaker 1 (01:24:44):
A nice bathroom.

Speaker 15 (01:24:45):
I truly not any kind of bathroom where I know
what it is meant for a specific reason, and that
reason does not line up with the the reason.

Speaker 2 (01:24:53):
You were looking for.

Speaker 15 (01:24:54):
It's a real hard task for me. I think that's
so gross, and I think you all kind of agree
with me.

Speaker 1 (01:24:59):
Yeah, I mean, why can't we can have a little fun,
a lot of blues made, we can chat about a
little bit, a little flirty conversation, and then we go
to a bed, you know, we go to a place
that's not an enclosed essentially hole in the ground that
everyone in the entire festival p's and like, I mean.

Speaker 13 (01:25:15):
Come on, all right, you know what, it's fine if
he doesn't want to imagine my freak.

Speaker 1 (01:25:22):
No, I you know what, I don't want to match
your I don't think anyone here wants to match your freaks.

Speaker 3 (01:25:27):
Not one single person who wants to match a freak.

Speaker 1 (01:25:29):
Usually I'm but this one, I'm occasionally in this particular
case that that's I'm not trying to match your filth.

Speaker 3 (01:25:39):
I can smell it right now, like I can.

Speaker 1 (01:25:41):
Taste it, Like I think that that environment would cause
my parts to retract into my body. Yeah, Like, I don't.
I don't think there's any way I could even perform
under those circumstances.

Speaker 5 (01:25:52):
No, I cry.

Speaker 1 (01:25:55):
Yeah, I've done a lot of things in my life,
but like, that's no, No, I don't think so, Carli,
you need to find a different freak. I think.

Speaker 17 (01:26:01):
Yeah, sounds like it.

Speaker 1 (01:26:04):
Yeah, would never be me, Flora right up there. That's
terrible advice for the ladies. Do not do any of that,
all right, Stefan. Look, I'll ask the question, what if
we set you guys up in an environment where there
is not a porter body. We've got a nice restaurant,
hard path. Oh wow, we're not even going to consider that,

(01:26:27):
all right, Carly, Hey, I I'm sorry it's not going
to work out. I hope that you find someone who can.
I hope maybe we we adjust the freak a little
bit and then somebody can match that freak, the one
that's the adjusted freak. Yeah, I'm not sure if you will. Okay,
all right, good luck to both of you, guys. Than
Caitlin's entertainment report is on the Pread Show.

Speaker 4 (01:26:48):
Former NFL player Antonio Brown has put not guilty to
a second degree attentted murder charge semming from that shooting
outside a celebrity boxing match in Miami on Mason Steenth.
His lawyer said that he was acting in self defense
after being attacked and claimed he was protecting himself from
someone who'd allegedly committed violence against him and the incident,

(01:27:11):
he is accused of grabbing a gun from a security
guard and firing shots at a man, with a bullet
reportedly grazing the victim's neck. He was extradited from Dubai,
where he was found when they were looking for him,
and is currently in Jersey waiting his expected transfer to
Florida for trial. If convicted, he could face up to

(01:27:31):
fifteen years in prison. Travis Kelsey's ex, Kayla Nicole, deleted
her ex account after allegedly some old racist, homophobic tweets resurfaced.

Speaker 3 (01:27:42):
The influencer formerly went by I Am Kayla Nicole on
the platform.

Speaker 4 (01:27:46):
However, a page that used to be hers now reads
this account doesn't exist as of the time.

Speaker 15 (01:27:52):
You know that.

Speaker 3 (01:27:53):
I last checked.

Speaker 4 (01:27:53):
The thread of old posts, though, which was shared on Wednesday.
Last Wednesday, showed a lengthy catalog of evidence allegedly revealing
her problematic past dating back to the early twenty tens.

Speaker 3 (01:28:05):
I'm not going to read any of them. There's enough
hate in this world.

Speaker 4 (01:28:08):
But if they were hers, they are very much not good,
and I have not seen her say anything about it.
I think people reached out to her team, but I
haven't seen anything.

Speaker 3 (01:28:16):
Excuse me.

Speaker 4 (01:28:17):
The Jonas Brothers are gearing up to ring in twenty
twenty six with a live New Year's Eve special. The
trio will perform at the hard Rock Hotel and Casino
in Florida, Hollywood.

Speaker 3 (01:28:26):
I missed that part of the name. Hard Rock Hollywood
Casino in Florida.

Speaker 4 (01:28:31):
There you go on December thirty first, starting at nine
or ten, depending on where you're watching from. It will
be live streamed exclusively on Samsung TV Plus.

Speaker 3 (01:28:41):
So if you're a fan, figure out what that is
and how to get that, because I don't know what
you know.

Speaker 4 (01:28:48):
We got this Laguna Beach thing happening on roadcu ray,
I gotta get this and then it's like.

Speaker 3 (01:28:53):
The damn NFL schedule. Fans going in person.

Speaker 4 (01:28:56):
You can buy tickets with pre sale starting tomorrow and
then on Friday via Ticketmaster.

Speaker 3 (01:29:02):
I also saw they had a red carpet for that
holiday movie they have going on. So that's going on,
but good luck figuring that one out if you're a fan.

Speaker 4 (01:29:09):
And lastly, in honor of Veterans Day, I just want
to mention that country singer Riley Green, who is a
beautiful human, will play three military dates in March for
service members in Hawaii and Japan at those respective military bases.
And he has a really big history of supporting the military.
He established a charity fund in twenty twenty three to
support different organizations such as Folds of Honor and other

(01:29:33):
veteran focused charities to help out. So he is putting
his money where his mouth is and just wanted to
mention that on today of all days. By the way,
if you missed any part of our show from today
or any day, you can catch up on the free
iHeartRadio app.

Speaker 3 (01:29:46):
Just search the Fred Show on demand.

Speaker 1 (01:29:48):
Tomorrow, Game Show, Wednesday, Kiki Karaoke definite going to be
Paulina of course if a five hunder Buck show be
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morning and more. Guys, you know, I read a lot
of psychology today. One of my favorites one of my
favorite publications when I'm not reading the Journal of Medicine,
New England Journal of Medicine. That's a big one. I

(01:30:10):
also read at the house. In addition to all of
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Speaker 18 (01:31:08):
You for you?

Speaker 3 (01:31:09):
That's tough?

Speaker 17 (01:31:09):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:31:10):
One minute hug really long? That is a long time.
That is a long time. I don't care how close
you are to someone. That's a long time to be
that guy. A minute long.

Speaker 6 (01:31:20):
Hugg Jason on Friday, and I can feel the discomfort
A minute.

Speaker 3 (01:31:25):
No it wasn't a minute, but he was like, get
off of me.

Speaker 4 (01:31:27):
Let's tell me that you and Jason hugging for a
minute after the show, and we'll put it on some show.

Speaker 1 (01:31:31):
Hopefully that's a long At what point you start looking
around like like what else is there.

Speaker 3 (01:31:35):
To do at love?

Speaker 1 (01:31:37):
A hug for a minute, let me rub you down.
That's but that's more than a hug.

Speaker 2 (01:31:42):
That's rubbing. YEA hug.

Speaker 6 (01:31:46):
When you're a partner though, after a long day of work,
like let me hug you, let me caresh you.

Speaker 2 (01:31:50):
Oh my gosh, I can just imagine myself chasing like
around the house.

Speaker 1 (01:31:56):
A hug is one thing, A minute long.

Speaker 3 (01:32:00):
Know, we're all supposed to get eight touches a day.

Speaker 1 (01:32:03):
I do that to anybody else for that nobody else? Yeah,
I do know. And I don't worry. That's a slow day.
It's aw afternoon, Jason, I'm talking, Yeah, I got so,
don't worry about it. A moment of gratitude. This is
these are ways in one minute to make your relationship stronger.

(01:32:24):
From Psychology Today before Bad, where each of you shares
one thing that you appreciated that day. Could be anything
big or small.

Speaker 2 (01:32:32):
Yeah, I love this.

Speaker 1 (01:32:33):
Research shows that couples who regularly practice daily gratitude report
greater intimacy and resilience because appreciation shifts the emotional climate
of the relationship from criticism to connection. I don't like
I don't like list. You know, I don't like doing
list because I think it's the laziest thing morning radio
shows can do. But the minute long hug made me
laugh because honestly, like today, hug someone and time it

(01:32:58):
for one minute, and I want you to be very
honest with me about the point in which you think
it was enough, and it will happen about forty five
seconds before it's over. Yeah, a fifteen second hug is
a long hug. But honestly, experiment today.

Speaker 3 (01:33:12):
Don't hugger. Let's do it, right, I hugging for an hour.

Speaker 1 (01:33:15):
You're gonna be standing there, You're gonna be like, uh,
it just feels so good.

Speaker 3 (01:33:20):
It's got to release endorphins or something, or some form
of happiness.

Speaker 1 (01:33:22):
It does. Shows reduced cortisol response compared to those who didn't.
If you do that, a quick morning check him taking
one minute to ask, what's one thing that you're carrying today?
And how can I support you? Maybe come up with
a different ways.

Speaker 3 (01:33:37):
So yeah, let's say all that I'm gonna unpack and
josh you.

Speaker 1 (01:33:41):
And then a silent ritual For those who prefer more
nonverbal connection. Yeah, hello, you can be holding hands, sitting
forehead to for that's the one you're going to do today,
even doing some quick breath work together. Oh words aren't necessary.
Forehead to four. That's what I do with my nieces,

(01:34:03):
like you know, I don't know, but that doesn't last
for very long. It's not a minute.

Speaker 3 (01:34:07):
Oh my god. Couples yoga would freak you the hell out.

Speaker 1 (01:34:10):
I don't. That's all it takes.

Speaker 3 (01:34:18):
He's out the door.

Speaker 1 (01:34:19):
You had me a couple.

Speaker 3 (01:34:20):
That was it.

Speaker 1 (01:34:21):
That's more Fred Show. Next, the Fread Show is on
Fred's Fun Fact Fred Fun You learned so much? Do
you guys remember in the history of the show. Do
you guys remember when some of you laughed all over
my dreams? Do you remember you left all over my

(01:34:44):
dreams of becoming a hot air balloon pilot. Do you
remember this? You left all over my dreams. Some of
you didn't, but some of you clowned me so hard
because I wanted to become a hot air balloon pilot.
You weren't here, Peking, No, I did not know. I was.

Speaker 3 (01:34:58):
I believe in you. Thank you, hot air dream.

Speaker 1 (01:35:01):
Thank you because it comes in so handy. You know,
a hot air balloon pilot. There's just a lot that
you can do with that.

Speaker 2 (01:35:06):
There's always balloons around right everywhere.

Speaker 3 (01:35:09):
If you want to go somewhere in a hurry, you know,
like there's just there's.

Speaker 1 (01:35:11):
A Sandem comic that does that routine where he's like,
I don't know, let's we got to get there, take
the balloon, or like this.

Speaker 3 (01:35:20):
Is sorry to that man?

Speaker 13 (01:35:21):
I have heard that.

Speaker 1 (01:35:22):
No, well, I played the I know you didn't, but
I back in the day, I played the clip. But
what else is this part of this show? I can't
remember his name, but he was like, yes, of course,
let's get in a wicker basket with fire with fire
attached to it and float away. No, I, you guys know,
I'm a pilot, and there is There are all kinds
of different ratings you can get as a pilot. You know,

(01:35:42):
one is obviously airplane, helicopters, different kinds of airplanes, sailplanes,
like the gliders that I learned how to fly. I
remember that they don't have an engine on them, right,
blimp of seaplanes. So this is where I'm going. I
have a seaplane rating. I can land the kind of
planes and have floats on them. You know, I can
do that. But I did want to become a hot
air balloon pilot because if I'm going to get all

(01:36:03):
the ratings, then that's one of them lighter than air.
You got to do it. And then there's blimp. There's
a blim rating. However, did you know you know the
blimp Goodyear blimps. They fly over sporting events or whatever.
The blimps. There are only twenty five blimps left in
the whole world, with fewer than twenty of them still
active in service. These iconic airships are primarily used for

(01:36:23):
advertising in aerial photography, and their decline is attributed to
several factors, including the high cost of helium, limited pilot
availability which I'm about to change that, and the need
for specialized training to operate them. Despite their rarity, blimps
have a rich history and could potentially experience a revival
in tourism and scenic travel in the future.

Speaker 4 (01:36:45):
I'm in for this, and I think if you drop
that at a bar on a woman, I think that'll
get you laid that.

Speaker 1 (01:36:49):
I'm a blimp pilot, like you know, I could drive
a blue The word blimp is sort of what's.

Speaker 3 (01:36:58):
Compared to his hot air balloon.

Speaker 1 (01:37:00):
I don't know, honestly. I think there are people to
think hot air balloons are romantic, and I think they
would think that that was kind of hot. I told
you I've already I've only been in one hot air balloon,
and I was I had a parachute attached to me,
and I jumped out of it. That was the intention
to do that. The intention was to jump out of it.
I'm a sky diver and the point was to go
jump out of a hot air balloon. But I'm telling you,
thank god I had a parachute on because I didn't

(01:37:21):
like one second of that. I did not like it.
I don't understand why people like that. You don't know
where you're going. I can't stir it right, No, you
can only go up and down, and you go the
direction the wind goes. I'm oversimplifying it, but I don't.
I don't. I didn't love it. Now, if I want
to get all the ratings, I got to be a
hot air balloon pilot. That would you know me? You

(01:37:41):
know me that when whenever my time comes, whether it's
at the end of the day because my back hurt
so badly, or if it's in thirty years. All I
want people to say is you know, in lieu of
a great relationship and kids and all the rest of it. No,
I just want people to be like that guy was interesting.
He was interesting, he was different, and he used his
time to do things. And you could say that about me.

(01:38:02):
If I were a hot air balloon pilot or a
blimp pilot. I looked into it. They're just school where
you can go and learn how to fly a blimp.
The problem is, for as much as that costs, I
don't know what the hell you do with it. I mean,
I would be more exactly, I'd be more likely to
fly a hot air balloon than I would drive a blimp.
Because there's only twenty of them left.

Speaker 2 (01:38:19):
Where are the blims?

Speaker 1 (01:38:20):
That's what I'm saying. I think most of them are
in Florida. What I think they live in Florida, the blimps.
I don't know they live in Florida. Anyway, if the
blim School wants to hook me up, I'll go. I'll
go to the blim School. I'll learn how to fly
the thing and then an endorsement, Yeah for the blim School.
Why are you laughing at me? Are you dry again? Yeah?

Speaker 3 (01:38:38):
But why I am dry? Very draft. Let's land the plane.
She's wrapping your fun facts.

Speaker 1 (01:38:49):
You don't like my fun facts.

Speaker 3 (01:38:51):
It's a like happening here. We're talking about blimps in Florida. Like,
what is going on?

Speaker 15 (01:38:57):
This?

Speaker 1 (01:38:58):
This might be the most un I think we've met
all morning, and now you complain it about it?

Speaker 3 (01:39:02):
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Next, we only talk about one thing. Kick is about
to push the button on me. Man, it's my john up.
Why are you stand up? Come over here, get on
Missen and do any for you, Ticky, because you know
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the radio blogs on the Fred Show who are.

Speaker 1 (01:39:55):
Running in our diaries, except we say to them aloud.
We call him blogs Paulina. Yes go, Thank you so much,
dear blog.

Speaker 9 (01:40:01):
I'm curious if anybody feels this way, maybe with like
a niece or nephew or maybe their own kids. I know,
growing up we all probably experienced this, but I thought
this came like at a later age. I'm talking like
maybe teens or something, not when you're one point five
years old or eighteen months old. But my daughter Gigi,
we're starting to get into things like Disney characters stuff

(01:40:23):
like that, and it's really fun actually to like introduce
her to like toy story, We're into Frozen now, Princess Elsa,
stuff like that, because it's just the cutest thing ever.
And I also am kind of preparing her for Disney
when we go in twenty twenty seven.

Speaker 3 (01:40:35):
I have it all planned out. Guys, It's like the
whole thing.

Speaker 1 (01:40:37):
Yeah, I'm saving.

Speaker 3 (01:40:39):
Now my piggy. I'm literally putting going into my little
piggy bang. That's where we're at.

Speaker 9 (01:40:44):
But I wanted to be a fun trip, and I
really wanted to be memorable. But I also want her to,
like know when she sees characters, So I'm introducing them
to her, like through whatever, like movies and stuff. But
you know, with those movies come songs, and my girl
is a music girly. She likes the songs. She loves
you know, the animation, she loves it all. We've got
a couple of favorites. Perfect Day from Legally Blonde is

(01:41:05):
still her favorite. Thanks j Yeah, thank you, Jonathan. It's
still her favorite. It's perfect Day all the time. She's
just screaming at me.

Speaker 3 (01:41:11):
So I played, Yes.

Speaker 1 (01:41:13):
She comes over to my house and she's quoting Keith
Morrison from Dateline episodes Bobby, Mommy, he lights up the room.

Speaker 3 (01:41:20):
She picks up things so quick.

Speaker 9 (01:41:21):
So now I get the whole Like kids are sponge
just knowing as she was, She's been like you know,
two hours with you guys, and she'll come home and
sound just like you.

Speaker 3 (01:41:27):
It's it's crazy.

Speaker 9 (01:41:28):
She does it with like her her aunt and Jonathan everybody,
and it's it's cute though, But with the music and everything,
you know, if I'm gonna play music, whether it's a
Disney song. She actually saw a Brittany video yesterday maybe
one more time. Yeah, it was like kind of like
trying to play her old stuff, you know, and something
that makes her dance a little bit. She's dancing, guys,
She's dancing, you know, she's moving her little like hip

(01:41:49):
and this and when whatever she's she's dancing.

Speaker 3 (01:41:52):
So then I'm like, mom, gonna dance too, Like I'm
not gonna stand here. So then I started dancing and
I'm like, yeah, you guys.

Speaker 1 (01:41:59):
She so mad.

Speaker 3 (01:42:01):
She literally tells me no no no, no, no no
no no, I can't sing, I can't dance, And I'm like,
what am I supposed to do? Just watch and just
hang out?

Speaker 1 (01:42:11):
Like is it because she's embarrassed at you or because
she needs to be the center of attentions?

Speaker 3 (01:42:20):
Maybe I didn't think it that way.

Speaker 19 (01:42:22):
Star.

Speaker 1 (01:42:24):
You don't get to dance like I dance and you
watch like that's how this works.

Speaker 3 (01:42:28):
Oh okay, I thought she was just embarrassed with me.

Speaker 9 (01:42:30):
Could be both, but everybody else can dance with her,
like if you know, Grandma's there or Bobha's there, like
they can dance and dad can dance.

Speaker 3 (01:42:37):
But when mom dances, no, no, no, no, no, she's embarrassed.

Speaker 15 (01:42:41):
I think so.

Speaker 3 (01:42:43):
I think somebody you're right, but just mean her. Maybe
it's like, hey, your audience, I'm the star. I'm performing here.
You're gonna watch. It could be I don't know, just.

Speaker 9 (01:42:52):
I know, like growing up, I know we were all
embarrassed of our parents, but I didn't think it started
as young. Wow, she putting that together of like my
mom is dancing, she looks probably foolish.

Speaker 1 (01:43:02):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (01:43:03):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:43:03):
I'm just yeah, I'm moralizing if my own kid right now.

Speaker 3 (01:43:07):
Literally, I'm a weird thing. I hate. I'm like, yeah,
you know, she's like, no, I guess not. But you
know she is a star. You're right, I must give
her her flowers the respect that she is owed. Yeah,
it's not to do at.

Speaker 1 (01:43:21):
If you want to be held honest in your life,
just ask a kid, because there's no filter, there's no
you know's, it's just pure honesty. They haven't they haven't
learned yet, like what you know, internal dialogue is and whatever.
So if you want to be if you really want
to be humbled, then talk to a kid. Ask a
kid the question, how does this look? You do I
look fat? You know? Or just whatever?

Speaker 9 (01:43:41):
I've been humbled. She uh grabbed a she left in
my shirt. One day, I was laying on the couch.
She lifted my shirt and she smacked my stomach and said, mommy,
pooh poop.

Speaker 3 (01:43:52):
But all I saw was my stomach movement. Is that's
probably what she thought.

Speaker 8 (01:43:55):
I don't know.

Speaker 9 (01:43:55):
I was like grosses from you. First of all, this
is crazy, like say, hi, and this is your fault.
All you right here, we're working on it. But yeah,
and then she'll go in front of me and she'll
started saying.

Speaker 3 (01:44:06):
Push ups and she'll just do push ups.

Speaker 1 (01:44:08):
I'm like, girl, I'm like, yeah, G is not allowed
to come over to my I am too. I don't
need to get roasted by by a two year old

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