March 3, 2026 • 26 mins
The Atlanta Hawks is promoting a strip club theme night. Plus, we debate relationship issues on an all new Stay or Go!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Rib the biggest stories.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
Of the day, right, So this Nancy Guthrie case continues.
I mean, talk about how does somebody disappear without a
trace in twenty twenty six, like literally without a trace.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
I don't even I didn't think that was possible anymore.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Everyone's got cameras all over their house, and cameras on
the stop lights, and satellites in the sky and whatever else.
But one month after Nancy Guthrie disappeared from her Arizona home,
investigators still have no clear account of what happened to
the eighty four year old Aerial video on Monday showed
her daughter today in Chris Savannah Guthrie, and other family
members laying flowers at a memorial outside the house. Authority
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say that they've received tens of thousands of tips and
pursuit thousands of leads, but none have produced a breakthrough.
DNA recovered from inside the home described by investigators. He
is described by investigators is as a mixture for multiple people.
Is now undergoing genetic testing, but still a month later,
they have no idea which either the investigators are inept
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or like she truly disappear without a trace, so scary,
which is like, no wonder if these letters they've been getting,
these ransom letters are from the actual person.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
No wonder.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
They're like so nonchalant because they got away with it.
You can't find me. It's really crazy. The Department of
Justice is trial against Live Nation and Ticketmaster started in
court yesterday in Manhattan. The anti trust case began with
the jury selection yesterday and opening statements of scheduled to
start today. The trials expected to last six weeks. The
lawsuit was filed in twenty twenty four by the Justice Department,
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dozens of states and Washington d C. It alleges at
Live Nation illegally dominated the live concert industry by monopolizing ticketing,
concert booking venues, and promotions. The lawsuit said this activity
led to fans paying more and fees, artists getting fewer
chances to play concerts, and venues having limited choices for
ticketing services. This whole thing really started with Taylor, right,
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mm hmm, people trying to get tailor tickets where.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
It became obvious. Yeah, and that's when you two decided
to sue.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
Yes, yeah, yeah, yeah, And now every tour has like
great war like airy everyone say.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
Everybody knows like I said yesterday about you know, hype
bee'st clothing. If you want something from the internet, just
hire a teenager to get.
Speaker 4 (02:09):
It for you.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
It's true.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
Yeah, Like, go to the computer lab and find the
kid who's writing code, and then he'll figure out how
to do it for you.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
If you're into space, we love space.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
Around here, a blood red moon will be visible in
the sky this morning is part of a total lunar eclipse.
The blood moon looks red because bits of sunlight filter
through the Earth's atmosphere. Anybody wanting to see the lunar
eclipse won't need any special glass.
Speaker 1 (02:32):
It's just a clear cloudlest view of the sky.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
This type of red moon won't be seen again until
late twenty twenty eight. This cript up on me because
I need to go buy the ticket because I'm gonna
win mega millions. He is nearly half a billion dollars
four hundred and seventy three million ahead of tonight's drawing.
The cash option works out to about two hundred and
twenty two million. I'm not going to tell you the odds.
They don't matter because the odds for us to win
are very good. I just need to remember to buy
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a ticket. That's the only thing I keep forgetting. Have
you guys heard about this? And I have no tie
to any of it, and I still want all the
merge related to him. But there's an NBA player who
is urging the Atlanta Hawks to rethink a promotion that
gives a win to one of these cities most famous
trip clubs. They're doing a Magic City Monday event at
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the Atlanta Hawks game.
Speaker 1 (03:21):
What's the problem. That's awesome? Nothing at all.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
The Center for the San Antonio Spurs who asked you,
Bro Cornette, published a statement on Medium asking a team
to scrap its Magic City Monday event, tied to Monday's
game against the Orlando Magic and named for Atlanta's Magic
City Adult entertainment club. He argued the league should remain
a safe, respectful, and welcoming environment for everyone involved, and
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said the NBA teams should be held to a higher
standard of what they find worthy of promoting.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
What are you talking.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
Magic City has been supported by NBA players for generations.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
Okay, yeah, there's respect. That's your own moral code.
Speaker 5 (03:58):
I mean, listen in Atlanta, especially like people go to brunches,
strip clubs like it is.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
It is the culture. Yeah, we need it.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
Yeah, you go to Atlanta, you go to the aquarium,
you go to the State House. Yeah, you know, you
got to go to the State House. Everybody knows that.
And you go to Magic City or what you do.
The Hawks announced the promotion last week, featuring a performance
by Atlanta rapper Tei, a collaborative hoodie for sale, and
a menu that includes Magic City's famous lemon pepper wings.
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But this guy who played for the Spurs road that
allowing the Knight to proceed without protests risks complicity in
the potential objectification and mistreatment of women. Instead, celebrating a
strip club is not consistent with creating a family friendly
arena where fans of all ages can enjoy the game.
He also noted that the Hawks promoted the event as
celebrating an iconic cultural institution, while failing to acknowledge that
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institution is a strip club. The Hawks did not publicly
respond to the request. I did see the hoodie, and
I did want it. I just have no other reason
to wear Atlanta Hawks gear. I really don't care about
them at all.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
I would respect the move. Yeah, I thought about it though.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Yeah, you know, I try and be thoughtful about the
teams that I wear, and I think that one would
have made sense to me bought just as well, I can,
you know, just as a just an overall connoisseur of culture.
As they call me, the connoisewer of culture. One thing
about me is I'm a connoisseur of culture. The state
of Georgia couldn't look to revoke driver's licenses belonging to
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students who frequently skipped school Paulina. The Georgia State Senate
approved the Everyday Count Act, which would let the state
revoke driving privileges for fifteen to seventeen year olds who
have five unexcused absences in the first fifty days of school.
The act passed by a vote forty six to one
and will now go to the State House. Students who
have this many excuse absences will also be barred from
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school activities, including sports, ban choir, and drama. See, we
couldn't do this because I went to like a little
little school and there were none enough people to skip.
You couldn't skip because like they were like, you know,
three people in the class, So two showed up. It's like,
where's Christopher? And then they called my mom and then
my mom, would you know beat me? So like, there
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was none of that, And I remember I was afraid
of disappointing my parents, So skipping school was not a thing.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
Did you guys skip school?
Speaker 6 (06:17):
Mean?
Speaker 2 (06:17):
I guess if you had, you know, fifty people in
your class or something, you could get away with that.
Oh yeah, so you you went to a similar school
to that. I went to Jason, Like, they would know
and they'd call somebody immediately and then.
Speaker 1 (06:29):
They signed the number. You sign your own parents the number. Yeah. Yeah,
you'd go into the system and put your your number
in there. I mean there's things you could do people
a system. It's the Catholic guilty. I used to call her,
call myself out of school. Hell, yeah, what would you
How would you do this? Hey, it's Selena Johnson here. Hey,
it's not coming in today. And then I would call
from my friends is their mothers? Hey it's tar Wow,
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you won't be in today? Mob for life? Hey?
Speaker 2 (06:54):
Would you call from the same number and do that?
Because I guess back in the day you could do that.
Now you know, you'd have to have burner phones. You'd
have to I mean, this is a very complicated game.
We'd have to play now if you were trying to
do it with caller ID and whatnot.
Speaker 1 (07:06):
Yeah, we did it.
Speaker 7 (07:06):
Well, we would go to school, but then like if
you went to Carre, you know, you know, there's certain
doors that you could leave. And we also got to
go out for lunch. Was the best thing ever, been
the worst thing for administrations.
Speaker 3 (07:15):
People they got to do.
Speaker 1 (07:16):
We wouldn't come back ever coming back lunch.
Speaker 7 (07:19):
You're not coming back now the rest of your three classes.
Speaker 2 (07:21):
Yeah. Oh we got to leave for lunch too, but
we came back. Oh well, wow, we were all afraid
of trouble.
Speaker 1 (07:27):
There was no leaving for us. Oh man, they changed that,
I think real quick. There's no skipping school. Yeah. Everyone
came back with really blundshot eyes too. Well the left
handed cigarette. I just I can't.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
I'm kind of think of the worst thing we did
in high school? Nothing?
Speaker 1 (07:44):
Nothing. I should be a rule follower too.
Speaker 2 (07:46):
Maybe that's why I don't know why you are, Jason,
because I feel like people like us who grew up
with rules, now we don't have to follow them, so
we don't.
Speaker 3 (07:53):
Yeah, you know, yeah, it's usually the Catholic school kids
that are the worst.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
But I don't know. Yeah, and fatal car craft in
the US jump about fifteen percent on days when major
new music releases hit streaming platforms. Man, I hope everybody
was okay last week with Bruno mars Man because that
was hot, that was hot fire, and I you know,
people were going crazy, and I really hope that everybody
was okay. Who listens to our show, you know, when
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you had the Bruno mars on repeat the iHeartRadio album
release party that we were not required to promote at nauseum.
Researchers believe that it's likely due to distracted driving when
a big album drops, streaming activity concerned by roughly forty percent,
suggesting lots of drivers may be fiddling with their phones
or infotainment systems to play the new music. The study
found that the pattern holds across major releases from top artists,
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pointing to a broader behavioral effect rather than one specific
fan base. But see, you don't have to do that.
You can just tune into the Fred Show and lo
and behold, we'll be playing the crap out of it.
Speaker 1 (08:50):
I promise you that, I promise you exactly.
Speaker 2 (08:56):
It's national pancake tape and it's national anthem.
Speaker 1 (08:59):
D ye. Hey, I don't make the days.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
And it's Magic City day to day too, you know,
if you know, you know, I don't if I can.
Speaker 1 (09:06):
Still get the hoodie anything.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
I thought it was like a poser wearing an Atlanta hoodie,
you know.
Speaker 1 (09:12):
And I have nothing to do with Atlanta. It's stay
or go, all right?
Speaker 2 (09:17):
You got an issue and you think, Man, I'd love
to know what the Fred Show thinks about this, and
I know that probably comes up regularly. Fred Show Radio
on Instagram, Freends Show Radio on all thesocials, Fredshow Radio
dot Comic you hit us.
Speaker 1 (09:30):
Up, Ethan. Good morning, Ethan. Hello, Oh very Ethan. You're
so distraught? How are you? Ethan? You all right?
Speaker 4 (09:41):
Yeah, I mean as all right as they can be.
Speaker 2 (09:45):
All right as you can be. So I have your
note here, but I want to hear about this. You've
been with a woman for a while, it seems like,
but you've been having some issues of late.
Speaker 4 (09:56):
Right, correct, over the past couple years. It's been rough
with my girlfriends, I would say, major issues.
Speaker 2 (10:04):
Okay, all right, and so the purpose of the call, Ethan,
you know what do you need our advice on this?
Is a wide array of opinions here we have a
very diverse panel of people. You know me, I'll probably
tell you to break up with her. I don't even
know what the scenario is yet, But tell me what's
going on.
Speaker 4 (10:23):
Well, I mean, when you're with anybody for a while,
you get past all the surface things and you get
to really know them, and sometimes stuff gets you know,
rough before it gets great. So I guess we were
going through that period and we were fighting a lot
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and not really like prioritizing each other, which can happen.
And I guess what it all boiled down to is
we both really wanted to be together, but we had
a lot to work out, and we couldn't figure out
how to break old habits, and little like micro things
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were becoming magnified.
Speaker 3 (11:06):
So we decided to take a.
Speaker 4 (11:08):
Three month break, just reset everything, just you know, clear
the air, and then get back together.
Speaker 2 (11:16):
Okay, all right, so you guys take this break and
then you do come back together.
Speaker 4 (11:23):
Yeah, all right, after you know, killing out what it
would be like to not be together, we were like, okay,
so we'll take a break. See what we're missing, see
what you know we're taking for granted, and you know,
let's see what this new perspective might be, I.
Speaker 2 (11:39):
See where this is, like, yeah, yeah, so you do
take a break and then you get back together and
all is well or no, no, that was a very
desperate So you take the break and then but you
get back together. But then what's the issue.
Speaker 4 (12:00):
Well, when we were on the break, I didn't even
think about another.
Speaker 1 (12:06):
Woman for a second because I.
Speaker 4 (12:09):
Thought the break was about like centering myself, finding my
way to make our relationship work, not about finding other people.
Speaker 1 (12:20):
And so she found someone else. Yeah, but this is
the thing.
Speaker 4 (12:25):
She claims, it's just a one night stand, she's never
going to see the guy again, doesn't even have his
number saved. And also that we were broken up, which
I'm like, okay, very valid things, but also it happened,
so I'm like, why would you even entertain that or
go there?
Speaker 1 (12:44):
Well, I mean, the goodness is she wants to get
back with you, right, because that's nice she does. I mean,
I'm not laughing at you.
Speaker 2 (12:50):
You know, here's the thing, Ethan, I feel like this
is kind of the territory that you enter into when
you take a break, and I don't I mean, this
is sort of a don't mean to be harsh, you know,
it's a little tough love here, Ethan, But like I
feel like it's inherently in a break that somebody may
go do something else with someone else, and like something
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else with someone else, and then that's sort of the
I mean, you weren't together technically, so while you were
focused on getting back together with her, I mean, maybe
part of her process was seeing what else was out
there to make sure she wants to be with you, right.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
I mean, I.
Speaker 2 (13:26):
Know that that's hurtful, and I know that it doesn't
feel great, and that now you have to forget about that.
But I mean, did you expect her to not be
with you and then just sit there on her couch
and you know, wait for I don't know you to
call again. I mean, I guess I don't. What did
you think was going to happen during this time?
Speaker 4 (13:44):
Well, we only intended to break up for three months,
and it was just to me, it was like like
a pause and then we would presume also there was
a pause.
Speaker 1 (13:55):
There was a pause.
Speaker 2 (13:56):
Yeah, but you didn't think she'd get with anybody else.
But that wasn't spoken, right, It wasn't This break didn't
have conditions.
Speaker 4 (14:04):
Right, I didn't even think to think about that because
she's all I can think about, and so I just
feel the trade that, you know, when that opportunity arose
for her, she was like, Yeah, let me take this
chance to see that's about.
Speaker 1 (14:19):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (14:20):
Yes, she wants to be with me. Yes, the three
months is done. Yes, She's like, because I did that,
now I know I want to be with you. But
also in my brain, I'm like, why did you want
to do that? Why did that happen? So that's that's
kind of why I need the advice on.
Speaker 1 (14:36):
Everything. Well, I want to know what.
Speaker 2 (14:38):
People have to say about this, about this whole break
theory eight five, five, five, nine, one one oh three five,
you can call it text the same number. Are you
gonna be able to get over this? Because that's the
real question. What's happened? Has happened? She wants to get
back together with you, But I think the only way
this works is if you can say, fine, that's what
happened during the break, no one did anything wrong.
Speaker 1 (14:56):
We're going to work on this. Now I get back together.
Speaker 2 (14:57):
But this is not something we're in my opinion, where
you know, three months from now, six months of now,
a year from now, you can be like, remember that
time that you got with somebody else, because technically she
wasn't cheating on you. Technically you weren't together, and technically
you made that decision together.
Speaker 4 (15:12):
Yes, and we have so much history to lean on.
It's just you know that it happened, and I don't
I get where you're coming Is it fair game to
do while you're separated? I guess so, but it's just
something I'm going to keep thinking about and then hoping, yeah, that,
like what you said, we were broken up, so it
was her game that she wouldn't do it while we're
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back together.
Speaker 1 (15:33):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (15:33):
I get where he's coming from too, And I know,
as I said earlier, like I know this must hurt,
and the idea of the person that you love being
with someone else is tricky. And then the fact that
you now want to be with this person, maybe get married,
you know whatever, And then there's this little, this little
blemish you know in the track record as far as
you're concerned.
Speaker 1 (15:50):
But here's the thing.
Speaker 2 (15:52):
You guys were having issues and you decided together to
take this break. This happened. That sucks, But it wasn't
like she came to you one day and and maybe
it doesn't hurt any differently. But if I'm with someone
and they come to me after years and go, we
should take a break, and then you know, they come
back to me, that's orchestrated. That's you telling me you
want to get with somebody else and see what it's like,
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you know what I mean? Like this was a byproduct
of It sounds like a by product of a decision
that you guys made together. And while she was single,
she did test the field a little bit, play the
field a little bit, and now she wants to come
back to you. But I would be more alarmed if
there was really nothing wrong and then all of a
sudden it's like, yeah, you know, we should take a
little time off, because that, to me sounds like you
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were foreshadowing what you want to do, you know what
I mean? To me, that's different that I'm single. I
met someone out one night, we hooked up. Technically, I'm
not cheating. We're not together. I didn't really care for
it or it's not worth pursuing any further, and I
really want to be with you.
Speaker 1 (16:53):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (16:53):
Maybe in some ways it just reinforces that you guys
are meant to be together.
Speaker 4 (16:58):
Yeah, you're saying, I'm not like a premeditated thing.
Speaker 1 (17:01):
It's just kind of.
Speaker 4 (17:04):
She was like, whatever, this might be part of finding ourselves.
Speaker 2 (17:08):
But the question is can you get over it? That's
really the only question at this point. Can you get
over it? Can you move on and forget about it?
Because if you can, then I think you know you try,
and if you're not going to be able to get
over it, then I don't you know, then this whole
thing's going to be hindered by that.
Speaker 8 (17:22):
Yeah, I just think of it.
Speaker 4 (17:23):
I don't get over it. I'm i kiel myself right
and find someone as great as her.
Speaker 1 (17:26):
So sure, baby, I get it.
Speaker 5 (17:29):
Like if you're taking an open ended break where it's
like we don't have an end date and the purpose
of the break is like I don't know if we
want to be together, like I do, feel like that's
different than going, Okay, we're taking three months. We're going
to see what it's like to live separately, and if
we find our way back to each other and there's
an end date. I understand how he feels like, Okay,
this was about something completely different than banging other people.
Speaker 2 (17:48):
Yeah, but but he doesn't get to dictate. There were
no rules about how she gets to spend her three months.
Speaker 1 (17:54):
It wasn't.
Speaker 2 (17:54):
It wasn't as though they sat down and said, let's
take a let's be apart but still be you know, monogamous,
or let's keep physical relationships out of this. You broke
would you not agree, Ethan? You broke up for three
months no conditions.
Speaker 4 (18:09):
Yes to no conditions, But I mean to me, because
it was like a three month break. The word break
up is a different area.
Speaker 1 (18:18):
It's a great area for sure.
Speaker 4 (18:19):
And yes, I didn't have brand rules or conditions for
I just I thought it would be a time to
be like, wow, we're on top of each other every second,
Like what if we had space, what would that look like?
Speaker 1 (18:32):
Yeah, and it.
Speaker 4 (18:32):
Sucks constantly, you know, think of each other.
Speaker 2 (18:35):
And it sucks, Ethan, that you were committed to sort
of like your mind was focused on getting back with her,
and it sounds like her mind was focused on actually
sort of clearing the air and anything was possible. But
the bottom line is here, she is right and she
wants to be with you, and that's a good thing,
isn't it. I mean, whatever she found out there wasn't
better in her opinion, right, Glass, Well let me I'll
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take some other perspectives on this and we'll see what
you think about it. You can have the radio on
the Ihard app or whatever. But I wish you the best.
Speaker 1 (19:05):
Man.
Speaker 2 (19:05):
I can hear in your voice you know you're hurting,
and I'm sorry that you're hurting. And this is why
I don't like breaks though, because this is this is
a fair game. I don't think she did anything wrong,
and this is the problem because this may be irreparable
now and she didn't technically do anything wrong. But I
can also understand why you may never be able to
get this out of your head. And if that's the case,
if this is always going to linger, then you can't
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get back together because the only way it's going to
work is if you can let go of the past
and move forward. And I don't know if you can,
but I wish you the best, Ethan, thanks for calling.
Speaker 1 (19:36):
Thank you.
Speaker 4 (19:37):
I appreciate your time.
Speaker 1 (19:38):
Yeah you got it, guys, sounds devastated, he does. I
hate all of this. I just if you're going to
do a break, just break up.
Speaker 7 (19:46):
That's just I've always been a believer in that, because
like anything can happen those three months, Right, I understand,
like you're taking a break from this person and you're
going to see if you can live without. I get
what this was, but again, there were no rules. She
did what she did, and now that's going to linger
in your brain for a very long time.
Speaker 2 (20:00):
Here's another question, and again eight five five, five nine
one of three five So get ahold of us called
text the same number.
Speaker 1 (20:06):
Here's another thing. Should she even have told him?
Speaker 4 (20:08):
No?
Speaker 1 (20:08):
No, No, I might have.
Speaker 2 (20:09):
Not if it was a one off deal that didn't
mean anything. Honestly, I don't know that I short of like,
I don't know bringing any sort of outside anything into
the relationship, like if you you know, maybe get tested
or something, so there's no like risk. But I mean
what I'm saying is otherwise unless it's like a health thing,
I don't know that he needed to know that, because
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now this might kill the whole thing.
Speaker 1 (20:32):
You could live with yourself not saying it. I wasn't.
I didn't do anything wrong, I know, but like, oh yeah,
for like what reason? I didn't do anything wrong? Eric?
How you doing? You say? Go by the way, Hey, hey,
hey y'all doing Hey Hey, hello, Eric, We are all
doing great? What do you do here?
Speaker 4 (20:50):
Hey?
Speaker 2 (20:51):
Hey?
Speaker 1 (20:51):
Yeah, you doing Oh?
Speaker 8 (20:52):
So I think he's this. That's a lot of us.
Man that ran into that situation right there with a woman.
And I was telling the woman over the phone. I
was letting her know, like, I think, Hi, Hefner didn't
have these issues. He had fifty women in the in
the house like that. It'd be the man that's trying to.
Speaker 1 (21:14):
That you just made.
Speaker 8 (21:17):
I'm like, his mentality was just completely different, like you
in the household. And then he's chasing this one woman
that been with him for years and didn't want to
separate go be with another, like he just too down
and like he I don't know, he got to outgrow that.
Speaker 1 (21:33):
So how many women should he have? How many women
do you?
Speaker 4 (21:39):
Said?
Speaker 1 (21:40):
If you got a lot of women, then you have
to worry about one. I guess. So there's that, But
you're right, how many do you have? Eric? How many
are you juggling currently? Like?
Speaker 8 (21:49):
So, so I had a situation like this before. And
when I bring up things like this, I'll say, yeah,
I'll tell my girlfriend this, and then she the whole
face expression changes.
Speaker 5 (22:02):
How does that go?
Speaker 8 (22:06):
Like you don't care what girl? Is she didn't know
who's talking to who? You got fifty different women in
the household, but.
Speaker 1 (22:12):
How many do you have? You never answered the question.
Speaker 4 (22:16):
Oh I only got one? All right?
Speaker 2 (22:20):
I don't know, man. I have a good day, Eric.
I appreciate you. Be somebody executed that. I'm wrong. I mean, period,
Fred is absolutely wrong. Love you, but he needs to go.
I was the person who got with a guy when
he was on a break. Of course I didn't know
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until I found out I was pregnant. Well, if you're
on a break, then it should be to focus on
growing and improving. He's hurt and having right to me,
I'm not saying he does. I've said multiple times that
I understand that he's heard. I hear that he's heard.
I understand why. But there were no rules. You broke up,
way right up.
Speaker 1 (23:00):
You broke up.
Speaker 3 (23:01):
You broke up.
Speaker 2 (23:04):
Kathy, Yeah, Hi, Kathy?
Speaker 1 (23:09):
How you doing? You say go yes, hi, Kathy, you
say go go hi?
Speaker 7 (23:18):
Yes yes.
Speaker 6 (23:19):
I think if they were going to take a break
for three months and they agreed to that, she should
have really done what he did and worked on herself
and then if she wants someone after, then do that.
But that's not what they agreed.
Speaker 1 (23:32):
She did work on herself while working on somebody else. Look,
but there were no rules like they were.
Speaker 2 (23:38):
They worked. I think if your expectation in a break
is that you're not going to get with somebody else,
and you got to say that, I think you have
to define the kind of break that we're talking about here,
and they didn't. And so I'm sad that he's sad,
but like, Roe.
Speaker 1 (23:54):
Actually hate this. I want her to go now now
that I think about it.
Speaker 7 (23:57):
Yes, he wanted his cake too, and he wanted to eat.
Speaker 1 (23:59):
If somebody texted that, and I agree, think about it.
Speaker 7 (24:01):
If we're breaking up ray and he's like, but you
can't do this, you can't do that, gotta think of
me for three months, Like excuse me, but you don't
want me, you don't want to be with me. I understand.
Speaker 1 (24:08):
We're figuring out.
Speaker 2 (24:09):
He wanted to clear the air, he wanted the problems.
He wanted to hopefully like hit reset on the relationship.
But it's a very risky move. It's a very risky move.
Speaker 1 (24:18):
Yeah, go ahead.
Speaker 6 (24:19):
I think that's a break. Was meant to kind of
like settle some dust and take some space.
Speaker 8 (24:24):
But that didn't seem.
Speaker 6 (24:26):
Like she was suddling any dush.
Speaker 2 (24:28):
Yeah, go out here, Okay, I don't think I don't.
I don't think she did anything wrong. I mean, if
this is and thank you Kathy for calling, you, have
a good day. If this is the demise of the relationship,
find but it would sad because I don't know that
she violated any terms of a break.
Speaker 1 (24:45):
Brian, how you doing? Good morning?
Speaker 4 (24:48):
Y'all?
Speaker 2 (24:49):
All right, Brian, are you gonna make it? You haf
no reference or not? I'm scared. No, Okay, all right,
there go so I say you should so okay. Why
the reason.
Speaker 8 (25:03):
Being because when they broke up initially, if he didn't.
Speaker 1 (25:06):
Stipulate you know what this is really gonna be? What
the rules and regulations go be, that's.
Speaker 4 (25:10):
On him and her to a degree, but that's on him.
Speaker 6 (25:13):
All this all I could think about was her and man,
that's a sucking.
Speaker 1 (25:18):
You need to be specific and what's go like.
Speaker 8 (25:21):
I've been in a relationship for fifteen years and we
communication is key.
Speaker 1 (25:24):
So if he's not gonna be direct.
Speaker 8 (25:27):
And all this other stuff, that's on him either that
or I'm you know, get his get back.
Speaker 1 (25:31):
But even its way, you know, no.
Speaker 4 (25:33):
Man, stay with your girls. You didn't specify you out
there her. She was at home spooling your thumbs.
Speaker 1 (25:39):
That's on you, bro.
Speaker 2 (25:40):
Yes, he had every opportunity to go do the same
thing and he didn't. And it's lovely that he was
so focused on her that he didn't do that. But
I mean, if the roles are reversed, I have a
feeling he would want to be forgiven too, and he
would want to move forward.
Speaker 1 (25:54):
He just didn't make that choice.
Speaker 6 (25:55):
Yeah, all right, my man's had ninety days to go
out there and do what he needs to do.
Speaker 2 (26:00):
All right, all right, Brian, thank you laughing? You laughing, Brian,
you're laughing in this man's face. I'm going through all
these texts. I don't know, it seems pretty fifty to
fifty here. He needs to go. He'll never get over
I mean, that's what it comes down to. Are you
gonna get over this or not? It doesn't sound like
he is, no, so that might that might be the
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end then, because again, if it's gonna come up every time,
if he's going to wallow in this thing forever, then
he never should have agreed to a break. They should
have I don't know, gone a therapy or done something
different where they stayed together and then that you know,
the terms of a relationship stayed intact.
Speaker 4 (26:36):
Yep.
Speaker 2 (26:37):
He just he expected her to do the same thing
he did and now he's bummed she didn't. That's what
this is really about.
Speaker 1 (26:43):
There you go, right, yeah, all yeah, thank you so much, right,
Rib the biggest stories.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
Of the day, right, So this Nancy Guthrie case continues.
I mean, talk about how does somebody disappear without a
trace in twenty twenty six, like literally without a trace.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
I don't even I didn't think that was possible anymore.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Everyone's got cameras all over their house, and cameras on
the stop lights, and satellites in the sky and whatever else.
But one month after Nancy Guthrie disappeared from her Arizona home,
investigators still have no clear account of what happened to
the eighty four year old Aerial video on Monday showed
her daughter today in Chris Savannah Guthrie, and other family
members laying flowers at a memorial outside the house. Authority
(00:38):
say that they've received tens of thousands of tips and
pursuit thousands of leads, but none have produced a breakthrough.
DNA recovered from inside the home described by investigators. He
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Is now undergoing genetic testing, but still a month later,
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(00:59):
or like she truly disappear without a trace, so scary,
which is like, no wonder if these letters they've been getting,
these ransom letters are from the actual person.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
No wonder.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
They're like so nonchalant because they got away with it.
You can't find me. It's really crazy. The Department of
Justice is trial against Live Nation and Ticketmaster started in
court yesterday in Manhattan. The anti trust case began with
the jury selection yesterday and opening statements of scheduled to
start today. The trials expected to last six weeks. The
lawsuit was filed in twenty twenty four by the Justice Department,
(01:30):
dozens of states and Washington d C. It alleges at
Live Nation illegally dominated the live concert industry by monopolizing ticketing,
concert booking venues, and promotions. The lawsuit said this activity
led to fans paying more and fees, artists getting fewer
chances to play concerts, and venues having limited choices for
ticketing services. This whole thing really started with Taylor, right,
(01:51):
mm hmm, people trying to get tailor tickets where.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
It became obvious. Yeah, and that's when you two decided
to sue.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
Yes, yeah, yeah, yeah, And now every tour has like
great war like airy everyone say.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
Everybody knows like I said yesterday about you know, hype
bee'st clothing. If you want something from the internet, just
hire a teenager to get.
Speaker 4 (02:09):
It for you.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
It's true.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
Yeah, Like, go to the computer lab and find the
kid who's writing code, and then he'll figure out how
to do it for you.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
If you're into space, we love space.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
Around here, a blood red moon will be visible in
the sky this morning is part of a total lunar eclipse.
The blood moon looks red because bits of sunlight filter
through the Earth's atmosphere. Anybody wanting to see the lunar
eclipse won't need any special glass.
Speaker 1 (02:32):
It's just a clear cloudlest view of the sky.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
This type of red moon won't be seen again until
late twenty twenty eight. This cript up on me because
I need to go buy the ticket because I'm gonna
win mega millions. He is nearly half a billion dollars
four hundred and seventy three million ahead of tonight's drawing.
The cash option works out to about two hundred and
twenty two million. I'm not going to tell you the odds.
They don't matter because the odds for us to win
are very good. I just need to remember to buy
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a ticket. That's the only thing I keep forgetting. Have
you guys heard about this? And I have no tie
to any of it, and I still want all the
merge related to him. But there's an NBA player who
is urging the Atlanta Hawks to rethink a promotion that
gives a win to one of these cities most famous
trip clubs. They're doing a Magic City Monday event at
(03:19):
the Atlanta Hawks game.
Speaker 1 (03:21):
What's the problem. That's awesome? Nothing at all.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
The Center for the San Antonio Spurs who asked you,
Bro Cornette, published a statement on Medium asking a team
to scrap its Magic City Monday event, tied to Monday's
game against the Orlando Magic and named for Atlanta's Magic
City Adult entertainment club. He argued the league should remain
a safe, respectful, and welcoming environment for everyone involved, and
(03:45):
said the NBA teams should be held to a higher
standard of what they find worthy of promoting.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
What are you talking.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
Magic City has been supported by NBA players for generations.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
Okay, yeah, there's respect. That's your own moral code.
Speaker 5 (03:58):
I mean, listen in Atlanta, especially like people go to brunches,
strip clubs like it is.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
It is the culture. Yeah, we need it.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
Yeah, you go to Atlanta, you go to the aquarium,
you go to the State House. Yeah, you know, you
got to go to the State House. Everybody knows that.
And you go to Magic City or what you do.
The Hawks announced the promotion last week, featuring a performance
by Atlanta rapper Tei, a collaborative hoodie for sale, and
a menu that includes Magic City's famous lemon pepper wings.
(04:29):
But this guy who played for the Spurs road that
allowing the Knight to proceed without protests risks complicity in
the potential objectification and mistreatment of women. Instead, celebrating a
strip club is not consistent with creating a family friendly
arena where fans of all ages can enjoy the game.
He also noted that the Hawks promoted the event as
celebrating an iconic cultural institution, while failing to acknowledge that
(04:52):
institution is a strip club. The Hawks did not publicly
respond to the request. I did see the hoodie, and
I did want it. I just have no other reason
to wear Atlanta Hawks gear. I really don't care about
them at all.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
I would respect the move. Yeah, I thought about it though.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Yeah, you know, I try and be thoughtful about the
teams that I wear, and I think that one would
have made sense to me bought just as well, I can,
you know, just as a just an overall connoisseur of culture.
As they call me, the connoisewer of culture. One thing
about me is I'm a connoisseur of culture. The state
of Georgia couldn't look to revoke driver's licenses belonging to
(05:28):
students who frequently skipped school Paulina. The Georgia State Senate
approved the Everyday Count Act, which would let the state
revoke driving privileges for fifteen to seventeen year olds who
have five unexcused absences in the first fifty days of school.
The act passed by a vote forty six to one
and will now go to the State House. Students who
have this many excuse absences will also be barred from
(05:51):
school activities, including sports, ban choir, and drama. See, we
couldn't do this because I went to like a little
little school and there were none enough people to skip.
You couldn't skip because like they were like, you know,
three people in the class, So two showed up. It's like,
where's Christopher? And then they called my mom and then
my mom, would you know beat me? So like, there
(06:12):
was none of that, And I remember I was afraid
of disappointing my parents, So skipping school was not a thing.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
Did you guys skip school?
Speaker 6 (06:17):
Mean?
Speaker 2 (06:17):
I guess if you had, you know, fifty people in
your class or something, you could get away with that.
Oh yeah, so you you went to a similar school
to that. I went to Jason, Like, they would know
and they'd call somebody immediately and then.
Speaker 1 (06:29):
They signed the number. You sign your own parents the number. Yeah. Yeah,
you'd go into the system and put your your number
in there. I mean there's things you could do people
a system. It's the Catholic guilty. I used to call her,
call myself out of school. Hell, yeah, what would you
How would you do this? Hey, it's Selena Johnson here. Hey,
it's not coming in today. And then I would call
from my friends is their mothers? Hey it's tar Wow,
(06:52):
you won't be in today? Mob for life? Hey?
Speaker 2 (06:54):
Would you call from the same number and do that?
Because I guess back in the day you could do that.
Now you know, you'd have to have burner phones. You'd
have to I mean, this is a very complicated game.
We'd have to play now if you were trying to
do it with caller ID and whatnot.
Speaker 1 (07:06):
Yeah, we did it.
Speaker 7 (07:06):
Well, we would go to school, but then like if
you went to Carre, you know, you know, there's certain
doors that you could leave. And we also got to
go out for lunch. Was the best thing ever, been
the worst thing for administrations.
Speaker 3 (07:15):
People they got to do.
Speaker 1 (07:16):
We wouldn't come back ever coming back lunch.
Speaker 7 (07:19):
You're not coming back now the rest of your three classes.
Speaker 2 (07:21):
Yeah. Oh we got to leave for lunch too, but
we came back. Oh well, wow, we were all afraid
of trouble.
Speaker 1 (07:27):
There was no leaving for us. Oh man, they changed that,
I think real quick. There's no skipping school. Yeah. Everyone
came back with really blundshot eyes too. Well the left
handed cigarette. I just I can't.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
I'm kind of think of the worst thing we did
in high school? Nothing?
Speaker 1 (07:44):
Nothing. I should be a rule follower too.
Speaker 2 (07:46):
Maybe that's why I don't know why you are, Jason,
because I feel like people like us who grew up
with rules, now we don't have to follow them, so
we don't.
Speaker 3 (07:53):
Yeah, you know, yeah, it's usually the Catholic school kids
that are the worst.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
But I don't know. Yeah, and fatal car craft in
the US jump about fifteen percent on days when major
new music releases hit streaming platforms. Man, I hope everybody
was okay last week with Bruno mars Man because that
was hot, that was hot fire, and I you know,
people were going crazy, and I really hope that everybody
was okay. Who listens to our show, you know, when
(08:17):
you had the Bruno mars on repeat the iHeartRadio album
release party that we were not required to promote at nauseum.
Researchers believe that it's likely due to distracted driving when
a big album drops, streaming activity concerned by roughly forty percent,
suggesting lots of drivers may be fiddling with their phones
or infotainment systems to play the new music. The study
found that the pattern holds across major releases from top artists,
(08:40):
pointing to a broader behavioral effect rather than one specific
fan base. But see, you don't have to do that.
You can just tune into the Fred Show and lo
and behold, we'll be playing the crap out of it.
Speaker 1 (08:50):
I promise you that, I promise you exactly.
Speaker 2 (08:56):
It's national pancake tape and it's national anthem.
Speaker 1 (08:59):
D ye. Hey, I don't make the days.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
And it's Magic City day to day too, you know,
if you know, you know, I don't if I can.
Speaker 1 (09:06):
Still get the hoodie anything.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
I thought it was like a poser wearing an Atlanta hoodie,
you know.
Speaker 1 (09:12):
And I have nothing to do with Atlanta. It's stay
or go, all right?
Speaker 2 (09:17):
You got an issue and you think, Man, I'd love
to know what the Fred Show thinks about this, and
I know that probably comes up regularly. Fred Show Radio
on Instagram, Freends Show Radio on all thesocials, Fredshow Radio
dot Comic you hit us.
Speaker 1 (09:30):
Up, Ethan. Good morning, Ethan. Hello, Oh very Ethan. You're
so distraught? How are you? Ethan? You all right?
Speaker 4 (09:41):
Yeah, I mean as all right as they can be.
Speaker 2 (09:45):
All right as you can be. So I have your
note here, but I want to hear about this. You've
been with a woman for a while, it seems like,
but you've been having some issues of late.
Speaker 4 (09:56):
Right, correct, over the past couple years. It's been rough
with my girlfriends, I would say, major issues.
Speaker 2 (10:04):
Okay, all right, and so the purpose of the call, Ethan,
you know what do you need our advice on this?
Is a wide array of opinions here we have a
very diverse panel of people. You know me, I'll probably
tell you to break up with her. I don't even
know what the scenario is yet, But tell me what's
going on.
Speaker 4 (10:23):
Well, I mean, when you're with anybody for a while,
you get past all the surface things and you get
to really know them, and sometimes stuff gets you know,
rough before it gets great. So I guess we were
going through that period and we were fighting a lot
(10:44):
and not really like prioritizing each other, which can happen.
And I guess what it all boiled down to is
we both really wanted to be together, but we had
a lot to work out, and we couldn't figure out
how to break old habits, and little like micro things
(11:04):
were becoming magnified.
Speaker 3 (11:06):
So we decided to take a.
Speaker 4 (11:08):
Three month break, just reset everything, just you know, clear
the air, and then get back together.
Speaker 2 (11:16):
Okay, all right, so you guys take this break and
then you do come back together.
Speaker 4 (11:23):
Yeah, all right, after you know, killing out what it
would be like to not be together, we were like, okay,
so we'll take a break. See what we're missing, see
what you know we're taking for granted, and you know,
let's see what this new perspective might be, I.
Speaker 2 (11:39):
See where this is, like, yeah, yeah, so you do
take a break and then you get back together and
all is well or no, no, that was a very
desperate So you take the break and then but you
get back together. But then what's the issue.
Speaker 4 (12:00):
Well, when we were on the break, I didn't even
think about another.
Speaker 1 (12:06):
Woman for a second because I.
Speaker 4 (12:09):
Thought the break was about like centering myself, finding my
way to make our relationship work, not about finding other people.
Speaker 1 (12:20):
And so she found someone else. Yeah, but this is
the thing.
Speaker 4 (12:25):
She claims, it's just a one night stand, she's never
going to see the guy again, doesn't even have his
number saved. And also that we were broken up, which
I'm like, okay, very valid things, but also it happened,
so I'm like, why would you even entertain that or
go there?
Speaker 1 (12:44):
Well, I mean, the goodness is she wants to get
back with you, right, because that's nice she does. I mean,
I'm not laughing at you.
Speaker 2 (12:50):
You know, here's the thing, Ethan, I feel like this
is kind of the territory that you enter into when
you take a break, and I don't I mean, this
is sort of a don't mean to be harsh, you know,
it's a little tough love here, Ethan, But like I
feel like it's inherently in a break that somebody may
go do something else with someone else, and like something
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else with someone else, and then that's sort of the
I mean, you weren't together technically, so while you were
focused on getting back together with her, I mean, maybe
part of her process was seeing what else was out
there to make sure she wants to be with you, right.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
I mean, I.
Speaker 2 (13:26):
Know that that's hurtful, and I know that it doesn't
feel great, and that now you have to forget about that.
But I mean, did you expect her to not be
with you and then just sit there on her couch
and you know, wait for I don't know you to
call again. I mean, I guess I don't. What did
you think was going to happen during this time?
Speaker 4 (13:44):
Well, we only intended to break up for three months,
and it was just to me, it was like like
a pause and then we would presume also there was
a pause.
Speaker 1 (13:55):
There was a pause.
Speaker 2 (13:56):
Yeah, but you didn't think she'd get with anybody else.
But that wasn't spoken, right, It wasn't This break didn't
have conditions.
Speaker 4 (14:04):
Right, I didn't even think to think about that because
she's all I can think about, and so I just
feel the trade that, you know, when that opportunity arose
for her, she was like, Yeah, let me take this
chance to see that's about.
Speaker 1 (14:19):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (14:20):
Yes, she wants to be with me. Yes, the three
months is done. Yes, She's like, because I did that,
now I know I want to be with you. But
also in my brain, I'm like, why did you want
to do that? Why did that happen? So that's that's
kind of why I need the advice on.
Speaker 1 (14:36):
Everything. Well, I want to know what.
Speaker 2 (14:38):
People have to say about this, about this whole break
theory eight five, five, five, nine, one one oh three five,
you can call it text the same number. Are you
gonna be able to get over this? Because that's the
real question. What's happened? Has happened? She wants to get
back together with you, But I think the only way
this works is if you can say, fine, that's what
happened during the break, no one did anything wrong.
Speaker 1 (14:56):
We're going to work on this. Now I get back together.
Speaker 2 (14:57):
But this is not something we're in my opinion, where
you know, three months from now, six months of now,
a year from now, you can be like, remember that
time that you got with somebody else, because technically she
wasn't cheating on you. Technically you weren't together, and technically
you made that decision together.
Speaker 4 (15:12):
Yes, and we have so much history to lean on.
It's just you know that it happened, and I don't
I get where you're coming Is it fair game to
do while you're separated? I guess so, but it's just
something I'm going to keep thinking about and then hoping, yeah, that,
like what you said, we were broken up, so it
was her game that she wouldn't do it while we're
(15:32):
back together.
Speaker 1 (15:33):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (15:33):
I get where he's coming from too, And I know,
as I said earlier, like I know this must hurt,
and the idea of the person that you love being
with someone else is tricky. And then the fact that
you now want to be with this person, maybe get married,
you know whatever, And then there's this little, this little
blemish you know in the track record as far as
you're concerned.
Speaker 1 (15:50):
But here's the thing.
Speaker 2 (15:52):
You guys were having issues and you decided together to
take this break. This happened. That sucks, But it wasn't
like she came to you one day and and maybe
it doesn't hurt any differently. But if I'm with someone
and they come to me after years and go, we
should take a break, and then you know, they come
back to me, that's orchestrated. That's you telling me you
want to get with somebody else and see what it's like,
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you know what I mean? Like this was a byproduct
of It sounds like a by product of a decision
that you guys made together. And while she was single,
she did test the field a little bit, play the
field a little bit, and now she wants to come
back to you. But I would be more alarmed if
there was really nothing wrong and then all of a
sudden it's like, yeah, you know, we should take a
little time off, because that, to me sounds like you
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were foreshadowing what you want to do, you know what
I mean? To me, that's different that I'm single. I
met someone out one night, we hooked up. Technically, I'm
not cheating. We're not together. I didn't really care for
it or it's not worth pursuing any further, and I
really want to be with you.
Speaker 1 (16:53):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (16:53):
Maybe in some ways it just reinforces that you guys
are meant to be together.
Speaker 4 (16:58):
Yeah, you're saying, I'm not like a premeditated thing.
Speaker 1 (17:01):
It's just kind of.
Speaker 4 (17:04):
She was like, whatever, this might be part of finding ourselves.
Speaker 2 (17:08):
But the question is can you get over it? That's
really the only question at this point. Can you get
over it? Can you move on and forget about it?
Because if you can, then I think you know you try,
and if you're not going to be able to get
over it, then I don't you know, then this whole
thing's going to be hindered by that.
Speaker 8 (17:22):
Yeah, I just think of it.
Speaker 4 (17:23):
I don't get over it. I'm i kiel myself right
and find someone as great as her.
Speaker 1 (17:26):
So sure, baby, I get it.
Speaker 5 (17:29):
Like if you're taking an open ended break where it's
like we don't have an end date and the purpose
of the break is like I don't know if we
want to be together, like I do, feel like that's
different than going, Okay, we're taking three months. We're going
to see what it's like to live separately, and if
we find our way back to each other and there's
an end date. I understand how he feels like, Okay,
this was about something completely different than banging other people.
Speaker 2 (17:48):
Yeah, but but he doesn't get to dictate. There were
no rules about how she gets to spend her three months.
Speaker 1 (17:54):
It wasn't.
Speaker 2 (17:54):
It wasn't as though they sat down and said, let's
take a let's be apart but still be you know, monogamous,
or let's keep physical relationships out of this. You broke
would you not agree, Ethan? You broke up for three
months no conditions.
Speaker 4 (18:09):
Yes to no conditions, But I mean to me, because
it was like a three month break. The word break
up is a different area.
Speaker 1 (18:18):
It's a great area for sure.
Speaker 4 (18:19):
And yes, I didn't have brand rules or conditions for
I just I thought it would be a time to
be like, wow, we're on top of each other every second,
Like what if we had space, what would that look like?
Speaker 1 (18:32):
Yeah, and it.
Speaker 4 (18:32):
Sucks constantly, you know, think of each other.
Speaker 2 (18:35):
And it sucks, Ethan, that you were committed to sort
of like your mind was focused on getting back with her,
and it sounds like her mind was focused on actually
sort of clearing the air and anything was possible. But
the bottom line is here, she is right and she
wants to be with you, and that's a good thing,
isn't it. I mean, whatever she found out there wasn't
better in her opinion, right, Glass, Well let me I'll
(19:00):
take some other perspectives on this and we'll see what
you think about it. You can have the radio on
the Ihard app or whatever. But I wish you the best.
Speaker 1 (19:05):
Man.
Speaker 2 (19:05):
I can hear in your voice you know you're hurting,
and I'm sorry that you're hurting. And this is why
I don't like breaks though, because this is this is
a fair game. I don't think she did anything wrong,
and this is the problem because this may be irreparable
now and she didn't technically do anything wrong. But I
can also understand why you may never be able to
get this out of your head. And if that's the case,
if this is always going to linger, then you can't
(19:26):
get back together because the only way it's going to
work is if you can let go of the past
and move forward. And I don't know if you can,
but I wish you the best, Ethan, thanks for calling.
Speaker 1 (19:36):
Thank you.
Speaker 4 (19:37):
I appreciate your time.
Speaker 1 (19:38):
Yeah you got it, guys, sounds devastated, he does. I
hate all of this. I just if you're going to
do a break, just break up.
Speaker 7 (19:46):
That's just I've always been a believer in that, because
like anything can happen those three months, Right, I understand,
like you're taking a break from this person and you're
going to see if you can live without. I get
what this was, but again, there were no rules. She
did what she did, and now that's going to linger
in your brain for a very long time.
Speaker 2 (20:00):
Here's another question, and again eight five five, five nine
one of three five So get ahold of us called
text the same number.
Speaker 1 (20:06):
Here's another thing. Should she even have told him?
Speaker 4 (20:08):
No?
Speaker 1 (20:08):
No, No, I might have.
Speaker 2 (20:09):
Not if it was a one off deal that didn't
mean anything. Honestly, I don't know that I short of like,
I don't know bringing any sort of outside anything into
the relationship, like if you you know, maybe get tested
or something, so there's no like risk. But I mean
what I'm saying is otherwise unless it's like a health thing,
I don't know that he needed to know that, because
(20:30):
now this might kill the whole thing.
Speaker 1 (20:32):
You could live with yourself not saying it. I wasn't.
I didn't do anything wrong, I know, but like, oh yeah,
for like what reason? I didn't do anything wrong? Eric?
How you doing? You say? Go by the way, Hey, hey,
hey y'all doing Hey Hey, hello, Eric, We are all
doing great? What do you do here?
Speaker 4 (20:50):
Hey?
Speaker 2 (20:51):
Hey?
Speaker 1 (20:51):
Yeah, you doing Oh?
Speaker 8 (20:52):
So I think he's this. That's a lot of us.
Man that ran into that situation right there with a woman.
And I was telling the woman over the phone. I
was letting her know, like, I think, Hi, Hefner didn't
have these issues. He had fifty women in the in
the house like that. It'd be the man that's trying to.
Speaker 1 (21:14):
That you just made.
Speaker 8 (21:17):
I'm like, his mentality was just completely different, like you
in the household. And then he's chasing this one woman
that been with him for years and didn't want to
separate go be with another, like he just too down
and like he I don't know, he got to outgrow that.
Speaker 1 (21:33):
So how many women should he have? How many women
do you?
Speaker 4 (21:39):
Said?
Speaker 1 (21:40):
If you got a lot of women, then you have
to worry about one. I guess. So there's that, But
you're right, how many do you have? Eric? How many
are you juggling currently? Like?
Speaker 8 (21:49):
So, so I had a situation like this before. And
when I bring up things like this, I'll say, yeah,
I'll tell my girlfriend this, and then she the whole
face expression changes.
Speaker 5 (22:02):
How does that go?
Speaker 8 (22:06):
Like you don't care what girl? Is she didn't know
who's talking to who? You got fifty different women in
the household, but.
Speaker 1 (22:12):
How many do you have? You never answered the question.
Speaker 4 (22:16):
Oh I only got one? All right?
Speaker 2 (22:20):
I don't know, man. I have a good day, Eric.
I appreciate you. Be somebody executed that. I'm wrong. I mean, period,
Fred is absolutely wrong. Love you, but he needs to go.
I was the person who got with a guy when
he was on a break. Of course I didn't know
(22:42):
until I found out I was pregnant. Well, if you're
on a break, then it should be to focus on
growing and improving. He's hurt and having right to me,
I'm not saying he does. I've said multiple times that
I understand that he's heard. I hear that he's heard.
I understand why. But there were no rules. You broke up,
way right up.
Speaker 1 (23:00):
You broke up.
Speaker 3 (23:01):
You broke up.
Speaker 2 (23:04):
Kathy, Yeah, Hi, Kathy?
Speaker 1 (23:09):
How you doing? You say go yes, hi, Kathy, you
say go go hi?
Speaker 7 (23:18):
Yes yes.
Speaker 6 (23:19):
I think if they were going to take a break
for three months and they agreed to that, she should
have really done what he did and worked on herself
and then if she wants someone after, then do that.
But that's not what they agreed.
Speaker 1 (23:32):
She did work on herself while working on somebody else. Look,
but there were no rules like they were.
Speaker 2 (23:38):
They worked. I think if your expectation in a break
is that you're not going to get with somebody else,
and you got to say that, I think you have
to define the kind of break that we're talking about here,
and they didn't. And so I'm sad that he's sad,
but like, Roe.
Speaker 1 (23:54):
Actually hate this. I want her to go now now
that I think about it.
Speaker 7 (23:57):
Yes, he wanted his cake too, and he wanted to eat.
Speaker 1 (23:59):
If somebody texted that, and I agree, think about it.
Speaker 7 (24:01):
If we're breaking up ray and he's like, but you
can't do this, you can't do that, gotta think of
me for three months, Like excuse me, but you don't
want me, you don't want to be with me. I understand.
Speaker 1 (24:08):
We're figuring out.
Speaker 2 (24:09):
He wanted to clear the air, he wanted the problems.
He wanted to hopefully like hit reset on the relationship.
But it's a very risky move. It's a very risky move.
Speaker 1 (24:18):
Yeah, go ahead.
Speaker 6 (24:19):
I think that's a break. Was meant to kind of
like settle some dust and take some space.
Speaker 8 (24:24):
But that didn't seem.
Speaker 6 (24:26):
Like she was suddling any dush.
Speaker 2 (24:28):
Yeah, go out here, Okay, I don't think I don't.
I don't think she did anything wrong. I mean, if
this is and thank you Kathy for calling, you, have
a good day. If this is the demise of the relationship,
find but it would sad because I don't know that
she violated any terms of a break.
Speaker 1 (24:45):
Brian, how you doing? Good morning?
Speaker 4 (24:48):
Y'all?
Speaker 2 (24:49):
All right, Brian, are you gonna make it? You haf
no reference or not? I'm scared. No, Okay, all right,
there go so I say you should so okay. Why
the reason.
Speaker 8 (25:03):
Being because when they broke up initially, if he didn't.
Speaker 1 (25:06):
Stipulate you know what this is really gonna be? What
the rules and regulations go be, that's.
Speaker 4 (25:10):
On him and her to a degree, but that's on him.
Speaker 6 (25:13):
All this all I could think about was her and man,
that's a sucking.
Speaker 1 (25:18):
You need to be specific and what's go like.
Speaker 8 (25:21):
I've been in a relationship for fifteen years and we
communication is key.
Speaker 1 (25:24):
So if he's not gonna be direct.
Speaker 8 (25:27):
And all this other stuff, that's on him either that
or I'm you know, get his get back.
Speaker 1 (25:31):
But even its way, you know, no.
Speaker 4 (25:33):
Man, stay with your girls. You didn't specify you out
there her. She was at home spooling your thumbs.
Speaker 1 (25:39):
That's on you, bro.
Speaker 2 (25:40):
Yes, he had every opportunity to go do the same
thing and he didn't. And it's lovely that he was
so focused on her that he didn't do that. But
I mean, if the roles are reversed, I have a
feeling he would want to be forgiven too, and he
would want to move forward.
Speaker 1 (25:54):
He just didn't make that choice.
Speaker 6 (25:55):
Yeah, all right, my man's had ninety days to go
out there and do what he needs to do.
Speaker 2 (26:00):
All right, all right, Brian, thank you laughing? You laughing, Brian,
you're laughing in this man's face. I'm going through all
these texts. I don't know, it seems pretty fifty to
fifty here. He needs to go. He'll never get over
I mean, that's what it comes down to. Are you
gonna get over this or not? It doesn't sound like
he is, no, so that might that might be the
(26:21):
end then, because again, if it's gonna come up every time,
if he's going to wallow in this thing forever, then
he never should have agreed to a break. They should
have I don't know, gone a therapy or done something
different where they stayed together and then that you know,
the terms of a relationship stayed intact.
Speaker 4 (26:36):
Yep.
Speaker 2 (26:37):
He just he expected her to do the same thing
he did and now he's bummed she didn't. That's what
this is really about.
Speaker 1 (26:43):
There you go, right, yeah, all yeah, thank you so much, right,
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