May 7, 2026 • 26 mins
Fred wants to know the silliest reason you went to the doctors! Plus, find out why Grant got ghosted on Waiting by the Phone from the vault!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
But in light of milking the goose attack, just one
more step. Calin attacked by a goose yesterday or two
days ago, a goose that was with her children, that
lived in a Mexican food restaurant, and it was hitting
profusely prior to the attack, which would have been most
people's indication to walk away. But instead the goose attack
to Cayle's nose. It'll be reconstructed by those guys that
(00:22):
used to have the show on E's Surgeon. They're going
to be fixing it soon. However, you had to go
to CVS and you get a tennis shot, which the
doctors on our text line say you didn't need. Aka
never been to medical school. We're not even certain anyone's
graduated high school or college. But we don't really know
these people who were giving you this medical advice. But
(00:43):
I guess I just don't see the harm.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
No, Like people were saying that like that's not even
the right thing to do when you get it by
a goose. I'm like, I'm rocking with the with the pharmacist. Also,
people are telling me like, oh got that vaccine and
like all their horror stories.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
I'm like, guys, not helpful.
Speaker 4 (00:56):
I gotta get it, you know, But what would you say?
And just we'll throw it out there eight five five
five three five. I'm sure there is some in the room.
Speaker 1 (01:04):
What would you say is the dumbest reason that you
had to go to the doctor slash the emergency room?
What would you say is the dumbest reason, Kaylin, not
quite the doctor, but the pharmacist for a goose attack
to her nose. To then try and figure out what
to do the rest of you anything, I have one, Yeah,
I'm all ears.
Speaker 5 (01:26):
I've never had surgery up until my meniscus. So somehow
I got thirty seven years without breaking a bone or
doing anything, mainly because I'm not an athlete. I don't
do anything.
Speaker 4 (01:33):
However, I had.
Speaker 5 (01:34):
A butt cyst, oh and waited for too long to
tell anyone about it because I was scared and embarrassed.
So then I was at school one day and it
exploded and I had to go as I drank my cof. Sorry,
I had to go to the er, and my dad,
being the sweet lovely man that he is, you know,
(01:56):
raced there from work and just flow my hospital room
door open as I was getting it worked on. And
you can imagine what position I had to be on
to get it my butt worked on?
Speaker 4 (02:09):
Could show us? Could you show us the position?
Speaker 1 (02:12):
Just I mean right, It would just be helpful if
I could do your complete the visual. If you leave
your clothes on, leave your clothes on, No, we don't
take them all. Let anything thing. Yeah, I trying to
get a full character.
Speaker 5 (02:25):
My room was literally right in the nurses station, so
he flung the door open. It's in the middle of
the emergency room and there I am, face down, booty
up getting my butt sys fixed.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
I mean, you guys know, I woke up from a
nap like six months ago. It could walk for a week,
and I had to go to like get every I
never went to it to the doctor, but I did
go to like massage therapy people, you know, like physical therapist.
I went and called one up like hey, I woke
up for a nap and I can't walk now, and
they're like what what?
Speaker 4 (02:52):
No, but what you do before that? I'm like, go
with nothing.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
No. I talked on the radio, so I was sitting,
so I didn't do anything. I had no great story
for you. I wasn't like it based camp on Everest,
and I somehow you know, injured my back climbing up
ice wall.
Speaker 6 (03:05):
No.
Speaker 4 (03:05):
I just woke up.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
And it was embarrassing though, because you'd like go hobbling
in there and it's like, oh boy, car accident. No, huh,
oh you GM injury. No, noso not that. No, I
just woke up from a nap. I know you were
yourself putting leather pants on.
Speaker 4 (03:20):
For sure.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
I could go all day with these.
Speaker 2 (03:22):
In college, there were a group of guys that put
a cinderbox in a cardboard box outside their home in
the middle of the street in hopes that someone would
try and move it and hurt themselves. And I kicked
it and broke my toe, and then I found out
it was where my friend's now husband lives, so it
was his friends. But I broke my toe and I'd
go to the er and they're like, what happened. I'm like,
(03:44):
I kicked a box and there was a cinder block inside.
Speaker 4 (03:48):
I'm not falling for this one.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
Someone said they texted us eight five five five one
three five you can context the same number. When I
was doing my emt rotation, a guy came in with
a jurbil stuck in his rears.
Speaker 3 (03:58):
You know, that's just a thing.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
I understand that.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
But when I've heard too many of these stories, like
it's not happening as regularly as people, I think it's
a wives tale. I think every emergency room claims to
have seen this. I don't think everybody should out here
sticking gerbils in there, you know. I don't think it's
a regular occurrence. Now. I've told a story many times
about my friend who was in medical school who was
doing his er rotation and someone came in with a
(04:23):
bottle up there, a glass bottle at that, And the
lesson that he taught me was about empathy because he
was sitting there with the attending and he's like, how
did you I need to know how this got in here,
because that's how it's going to help us get it out,
and the guy's like, I don't know. I slipped and fell.
And so the thing with my friend was telling me,
(04:45):
who's now a full fledged doctor, was like, I was
so angry with this guy because he simply was too
embarrassed to tell us the real reason, and what he
didn't seem to realize was that we were going to
have to if they had tried to get it out
in the wrong way and it broke. Now it becomes
serious abdominal search. So it was imperative that this guy, like,
you need to let this go and tell us how
you did this so we can reverse the process. I mean,
(05:06):
I think there's only real one way you can do,
you know, but I think you wanted a little more detail,
like how do we get from here to here?
Speaker 4 (05:14):
You just slip and fall?
Speaker 1 (05:16):
Right?
Speaker 3 (05:16):
Did you think they were believing him anyway?
Speaker 1 (05:18):
They finally got it out, But his thing was, I
was really really angry with this guy for a long time,
and I had to realize it. You know that people
we are not going to tell me the truth. And
I have to have empathy for people who make choices
like that, Hey Kim, good morning.
Speaker 4 (05:31):
How you do it? And heckod morning?
Speaker 6 (05:33):
Who are you?
Speaker 4 (05:34):
I'm doing? Okay? Why is it that you had to
go to the doctor?
Speaker 7 (05:38):
So you know how they all say you're not supposed
to put you chips in your ear because it like
pushes wax down all that stuff. I bought this tool
on Amazon where there's like a it kind of looks
like a dental floss for almost where like you stick
a part of it in your ear.
Speaker 8 (05:54):
And has like a.
Speaker 7 (05:54):
Camera so it helps you like buy the wax out. Well,
the little rubber part got.
Speaker 9 (05:59):
Stuck, so I had to go to urgent care and
you should take it out.
Speaker 4 (06:03):
Wow, that happened to me.
Speaker 5 (06:05):
It came off in myoo and I was able to
fish it out.
Speaker 4 (06:08):
But I was terrified too. I would have been I
would have been terrified. Yes, yes, And I woke.
Speaker 7 (06:14):
Up and I was like, oh no, the little I
tried to use like the eyebrows tweezersatwork.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
Yeah, that's not one you probably want to do by yourself.
I feel like you might puncher something in there, and
it's probably better a professional handles. But Kim, everything's okay, right.
Speaker 7 (06:30):
Oh yeah, it took literally not even ten seconds.
Speaker 4 (06:33):
Okay, Kim, thanks for calling, Thanks to listening. Have a
good day too.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
I broke my wrist in two places driving, but not
even erratically driving. I was sitting on my floor while
my baby was in his jumper many years ago, and
as I went to move closer, a piece of my
wood floor came up and got stuck in my butt cheek. Oh,
a giant sliver in my butt cheek, and they had
to cut it open.
Speaker 4 (06:56):
And take it out. No torture. Oh no.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
Broke my finger opening a car door of someone texted,
required two surgeries.
Speaker 4 (07:05):
Still don't have full mobility. Wow damn.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
A couple of years ago, I broke my foot when
I missed the step into a sunken living room. Last year,
I broke my ankle and fibula walking down a step
steep hill rather in sandals. And these are not like
you know, with all due respect to you, these are
not impressive injuries.
Speaker 4 (07:24):
You know it well.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
No, I mean, this is like silly stuff. You're hurting
yourself badly doing basic things. I mean, it's not like
a burglar broke into my house and I was defending
the life all the lives of my family and I
tripped and fell while tackling the assassin.
Speaker 4 (07:41):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (07:41):
It's like That's what I mean. It's like you open
the door and all of a sudden you have you
need a new shoulder. It's like what happened.
Speaker 4 (07:47):
See.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
I'm afraid to read these real time because I'm trying
to like read them ahead in my brain because I
don't know what they're going to say.
Speaker 4 (07:54):
This is no way.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
When I was in high school, I was trying to
keep my cat from killing a mole. The mole bit me.
I had to get a tetanus shot. Well that was
very noble of you. Well there you go, see tetnis
shot for animal attacks.
Speaker 3 (08:07):
See sometimes I listened to the doctors.
Speaker 1 (08:09):
I guess sometimes you got to do it. And then
of course I had to google. The craziest reason that
people went to the doctor, which I mean, you can
only imagine. I swolloed a key. Someone said, I have
no idea. A woman went to the arfter swallowing her
apartment key to avoid losing it.
Speaker 4 (08:28):
Understand, toothbrushing in my throat.
Speaker 1 (08:30):
He tripped over his cat while brushing his teeth and
then swallowed a tooth brush. They had to use an
endoscope to remove it. Potato in the rectum, the old potato.
Speaker 4 (08:41):
In the rectum.
Speaker 3 (08:42):
Potato.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
A man slipped onto a potato while doing home repairs
in the nude. Okay, okay, I'm always doing home repairs naked,
and the potato just happens to be right on the
other side of the slippery but.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
Saying there's better options.
Speaker 4 (09:03):
A teenager admitted just swallowing a glowstick on a dare.
Let's not do that.
Speaker 1 (09:08):
A woman was dancing in a club, got hurt, went
to the ear with back pain, but it turned out
she had a much bigger fracture and a tumor had
weakened her spine. All of this because she thought she
had like danced art like like freak do art in
the cloth glue, just thought something. He broke a foot
from a dance move and I had.
Speaker 5 (09:27):
Just met and we were down dancing and I fell
on him and he broke he like hurt his knee
and we had to go to the e R because
I like this.
Speaker 3 (09:34):
Oh just look you almost broken.
Speaker 5 (09:39):
I was throwing it back on to careful.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
Oh my god, my friend sprained her thumb while neeeding
sour dough.
Speaker 4 (09:50):
Now that is gangster here.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
You are just out here making some sour dough on
a Saturday, just white girl wasted, I don't know, watching
in a garden on TV.
Speaker 4 (09:59):
And look what happened, Hey Sarah, good morning, Hello?
Speaker 1 (10:02):
Hi? How did you hurt yourself in a relatively embarrassing way?
Speaker 4 (10:07):
So all it was you.
Speaker 1 (10:08):
I got my dog out of the car, had him
on the leash, was walking him into my house.
Speaker 7 (10:12):
I don't know what excited him and he pulled me
and I sat my ankle back and forth and then
broke my leg at the same time.
Speaker 4 (10:18):
And whoa girl, Oh my god, this just.
Speaker 10 (10:21):
Happened in January.
Speaker 3 (10:22):
I just got to prove to drive, like two weeks ago.
Speaker 4 (10:25):
I'm like, should you be driving and talking at the
same time? We are you okay to do?
Speaker 8 (10:29):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (10:29):
Right?
Speaker 3 (10:29):
I just got to prove that that. I gotta go
back in to get the hardware removed too.
Speaker 1 (10:34):
Oh lord, all right, well, I'm glad you're okay. Thank
you for calling Sarah.
Speaker 3 (10:38):
Thank you. Love you guys, I.
Speaker 4 (10:39):
Love you too.
Speaker 1 (10:40):
You know there's a lot of these. A daughter stuck
a rice Crispy upper. No, see, that's the one. The
kids of the one were like, if you're not, that
would be obviously you don't want the kid to get hurt.
But that'd be my luck because I'd be watching my
nieces and ate stick you know, I screwdriver up their
nose or something, and then it would be somehow like
what happened to the screw drive? And then I have
to explain that to my sister. You know that this
(11:00):
probably has happened with my sister, but we'll never know
about it. But when I do it. Oh yeah, it
would be a total catastrophe.
Speaker 3 (11:07):
Oh yeah, no, when it's Awesome's the parents. Oh it's
our fault.
Speaker 4 (11:10):
We had this conversation and then we can move on.
Speaker 1 (11:12):
But maybe we did, and I forgot because I have
the intention span of a nat sometimes. But I was shocked. Okay,
So I have two nieces. I have a two year
old niece and I have a five year old niece.
And my sister and I are very close and I
love her. She's seven and a half years younger, but
she is neurotic. She is my mom. They are the
same person, and they fight like hell because they're the
exact same person.
Speaker 4 (11:30):
But my sister is a control person.
Speaker 1 (11:32):
My mom is like a controlled person, and my sister
once things done exactly the right way and no one
else is really going to do them right. But yet
she also is a martyr at times because it's like, well,
why aren't people helping me? Well, because you've yelled at
us eight times in the way that we did it,
you didn't like it.
Speaker 4 (11:46):
Love my sister to death.
Speaker 1 (11:47):
That being said, I am very nervous to be responsible
for those two girls, or any of them individually. I
am afraid something very routine would happen on my watch,
and it would be a total catastrophe, not knowing what
the day to day life is like you know what
I mean, Like, come on, my sister is an amazing mother.
(12:08):
Those kids have bopped their head on something or tripped
on something, or we're playing with something she gave them
and they got it. But we don't ever hear about that.
But if I do it, it would be a catastrophe.
So I was hanging out with a friend of mine
who is an obgyn, a physician, fully trained physician. She
has a nephew, maybe two, and she said, oh, no,
(12:29):
I'll never be alone with those children. I'll never be
alone with those children. I go, but you delivered children, like,
you're a physician, you could fix You're a surgeon, you
could fix almost that you could you at least know
how to triage it, and you're probably the most qualified person.
And she goes, no, I will not be watching those
kids because my sister in law is like your sister,
(12:50):
and if something happens, it could be truly family fracturing,
which it shouldn't be. But like, what would happen if Gigi,
if your mom were watching Gigi and she to her
head on something like you would probably initially freak out
as a mom, but then you also would probably show
grace because it could have happened to you. Your initial
reaction might be to be overprotective, but then I think,
(13:11):
you know, cooler heads would prevail and you would say, well,
this has happened to me, It could happen to me.
But I just I wonder how many people in my
position who are not kid people. Mm hmm. You know,
like I don't know a lot about kids, and I
could keep them safe for sure, but I'm afraid to
I'm afraid to drive with them. I'm afraid to watch
them because God forbid something happens on my watch.
Speaker 11 (13:30):
Listen, kids are gonna get hurt all the time. Like
that just comes with like the manual they give you
when you give birth. In that manual, like the little
book they give you, it sounds like your kids are
gonna fall, They're gonna get hurt. It could be on
anybody's watch. It'll happen at school. I'm sure it happened
there too to them, So I don't know. We got
to like kind of fall back a little bit and
realize that things are going to happen and that it's okay.
Speaker 4 (13:48):
I'm afraid.
Speaker 3 (13:49):
I know you are, I know.
Speaker 4 (13:50):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 10 (13:51):
Yeah, this is why I'm live streaming when I have
my nephews. We are on Instagram live.
Speaker 4 (13:55):
Because you have eighty seven nephews.
Speaker 1 (13:57):
I do.
Speaker 4 (13:57):
And okay, wait a bitte so you can relate to
what I'm saying, Lily.
Speaker 10 (14:00):
I need full surveillance and kids be lying. Okay, now
you didn't climb on the tree and drumped and then
you can't tell your parents Tikiki.
Speaker 3 (14:07):
Pushed you like no, I didn't you know? Or she
left me there like no.
Speaker 10 (14:11):
I need full surveillance with these kids because I don't
want it to happen on my watch either.
Speaker 1 (14:16):
Just maybe just supervision. Maybe I need to be supervised
so I have a witness, and maybe that person is
my attorney that just follows us around with case you
know and everything. Hey, Erica, okay, you get the last
say you hurt yourself in an embarrassing way.
Speaker 4 (14:30):
Oh do tell?
Speaker 6 (14:33):
Okay, So I went to the er last year in June,
and that was because my husband dropped me from a
sex seen Now, yeah.
Speaker 1 (14:45):
Girl, how did he drop you? He was he trying
to load you up in there. Not like that, you
know what I mean. I don't even try to do that, but.
Speaker 6 (14:57):
I yeah, theah over the door. So I put myself
in the swing.
Speaker 4 (15:09):
Okay, that was the question with my husband.
Speaker 6 (15:11):
Okay, yeah, I mean.
Speaker 4 (15:13):
Be very careful. I'd be very careful. It's early, oh
I know.
Speaker 6 (15:17):
Yeah, So I put myself in a sex wing. I'm like, hey,
let's go for it. So he starts, you know.
Speaker 4 (15:23):
I can imagine what he was doing.
Speaker 6 (15:25):
Yeah, and I'm holding myself and I'm telling him, slow down,
you're going a little too hard. And I smacked my
head on the tile. And I've never seen him. I've
never seen a grown man look so sad in his life.
Speaker 4 (15:43):
I imagine there was in that moment.
Speaker 6 (15:47):
Honestly, he just walked away and left me by myself.
So I'm like, okay, so loving care after what, I
was like, all right, yeah, my husband's not very good
with the conflict, and like, way.
Speaker 4 (16:03):
Okay, are you okay though? Everything's fine?
Speaker 6 (16:06):
No, Yeah, I'm fine. I didn't have a concussion or anything.
I went to urgent care, like, hey, we think this
is serious. You could have a concussion. Go to the
r then when we went to the yar and they're like, actually,
you're fine, you didn't need to come here. I was like, well,
great hospital.
Speaker 1 (16:20):
Did you tell them the truth or did you make
up some other reasons?
Speaker 8 (16:23):
No?
Speaker 6 (16:24):
No, no, no, no, no, I did tell them. I'm like,
my husband dropped me from a sex wing. And then
the nurse was like, hmm, that's a new one. And
then another nurse came in.
Speaker 4 (16:32):
She's like, ask her why she.
Speaker 6 (16:34):
Hurt her head. I'm like, okay, she said, this is no,
it's totally fine. I mean I'm very open about like
my certain certain lifestyle of marriage.
Speaker 4 (16:45):
Well a lifestyle of marriage. Indeed. Yeah, people in Cincinnati everything.
I was just there and I didn't have that much fun.
So anyway, have a good day, Erica.
Speaker 3 (16:54):
Why do you get your doors?
Speaker 6 (16:55):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (16:56):
I still ran the doors.
Speaker 4 (16:57):
I can fred. Let the people who call talk. What
do you talk? What do you want? What do you mean?
She just talks. She's told a full as story. I
get excited. I'm an active listener. Sometimes.
Speaker 1 (17:12):
I also needed to sort of patrol that call a
little bit, uh, radio connoisseer over there at your house
with your cell phone, because she was talking about something
that's a little bit mature, RelA.
Speaker 4 (17:27):
Tall off here. I'm not gonna let you talk. Ever
been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show.
Hey Greg, good morning, welcome to the program. How are you?
I'm great man, thanks for having me. This guy?
Speaker 1 (17:40):
He sounds very positive for a guy who I mean,
you were ghosted, bro, Like you're not sad about it.
Speaker 4 (17:45):
I mean, I guess you're sad enough that you want
some answers. I am sad.
Speaker 8 (17:49):
I mean, come on, I'm a little let down, but
I'm a pretty confident guy.
Speaker 4 (17:51):
Well I hear that.
Speaker 1 (17:53):
You hear this? Yeah, yeah, Grant is a confident man.
So what happened here? We are confident that maybe you
got ghosted, but what happened with Natalie? We got to
know how you met. I want to hear about any
dates you've been on, and then why you think go?
You know we were here?
Speaker 4 (18:07):
Okay?
Speaker 8 (18:07):
Well I met Natalie the way you mostly meet people
nowadays online of course, on an app. We matched and
we got to talking back and forth. I asked her out.
Things went great. We had a really amazing date. And
I know the date was amazing because I wouldn't normally
reveal this but we ended up, you know, cooking up.
Speaker 1 (18:27):
Yeah, he wouldn't normally kiss and tell. Granted, no, granted,
but he sudd the kind of guy that wouldn't normally
kiss and tell. But but in this case, for context,
I appreciate that. Thank you for this, thank you transparency.
Yeah yeah, and congratulations by the way as well.
Speaker 3 (18:40):
Well.
Speaker 8 (18:41):
First off, thank you, And it's important because it went well.
I mean that normally is a sign that things are,
you know, going good for you. And let me tell you,
we had a really good time.
Speaker 4 (18:52):
So that's what you did.
Speaker 1 (18:53):
But okay, no, you had a good time, all right,
So you're confused.
Speaker 8 (18:57):
I am confused. Why she she's not hitting me back.
I can't reach her anymore. I just I had no
idea why she's not like answering my calls. It's weird.
I can't think of anything that went wrong, not one thing.
Speaker 1 (19:10):
Then I don't know. Then maybe this is going to
be very easy. We call her, she's like, I've been busy.
I want to go out with you again. You were
such a stud. And then we pay for it, you
get a free date. Maybe that's what this is, probably not,
but we have no idea until here, I can't do.
I honestly can't wait. I'm gonna hurry up and play
a song. We'll come back in a couple of minutes. Grant,
we'll call Natalie. You'll be on the phone. We'll ask
(19:31):
some questions on your behalf. And the hope is just
that that we can straighten things out, set you guys
up on another date, and pay for it.
Speaker 8 (19:38):
I hope. So, I hope it's gonna be that easy.
Speaker 1 (19:40):
Hey, Grant, yes, sir, let's call Natalie. You guys, you
met on one of the apps.
Speaker 4 (19:44):
You went on a date. You felt the date was
very successful. I believe it.
Speaker 1 (19:47):
He just said a second ago that he couldn't come
up with one flaw about the date, and then he
very humbly shared with us that there was, you know,
some physicality on the date as well. He doesn't normally
tell people that Grant does him, but he did. He
wanted us to know because it's just like, you know,
we got to I will say, though, you know, if
that happens, that's usually a pretty good sign. And you
(20:08):
might think you're gonna hear from someone again, but you
didn't hear from Natalie. So we're gonna call her now.
And see if we can straighten this out. Good luck,
Thank you.
Speaker 8 (20:21):
Hello.
Speaker 4 (20:22):
Hi is this Natalie? Yes, Natali, Hi, good morning. My
name is Fred.
Speaker 1 (20:26):
I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the Morning radio Show,
and I have to tell you that we are on
the radio right now and I would need your permission
to continue with the call. Can we chat for just
a second on the air, would you mind? You can
hang up anytime?
Speaker 9 (20:37):
Oh wow, what are we talking about?
Speaker 6 (20:41):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (20:42):
I know, and thank you very much. We appreciate you
and your patients. Here we're actually talking about a guy
named Grant, who I guess you went on a date with.
Do you remember him? Yeah? Less confidence from her there
than him. But we just talked to Grant, Natalie, and
he had a lot of nice things to say about you,
and he felt that the date that you guys went
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on was successful. I'm guessing that you don't feel the
same way. Because he did. It meant that he can't
get a hold of you, and he was hoping that
we can help him find out why.
Speaker 4 (21:11):
What's your side of the story.
Speaker 9 (21:14):
I mean, it's all pretty embarrassing, but we did have
a good time. Was it was fun. We have chemistry,
We did have drinks and we were just vibing and
we ended up going back to his place and.
Speaker 4 (21:31):
We hooked up.
Speaker 1 (21:33):
That'll check out, Yeah yeah, yeah.
Speaker 9 (21:36):
So at that point it seemed fine.
Speaker 7 (21:38):
But the issue really came when we were saying goodbye
and I realized he's he's a total douche.
Speaker 4 (21:45):
What did he do?
Speaker 9 (21:46):
So during our hook up I did something for him specifically,
and he did nothing for me.
Speaker 4 (21:54):
No, I love mister Convina grant Man.
Speaker 3 (21:57):
Come on bro, all right, all right, okay, that is
that the issue?
Speaker 9 (22:02):
You know, it wasn't so much at that time, but
when he was hugging me to say bye, she whispered
in my ear and he said, we have to work
on your skills a little.
Speaker 10 (22:16):
Yo, yo, you can never do that nice.
Speaker 3 (22:24):
She tried to do a good deed in the all.
Speaker 1 (22:27):
See, I mean, that's not something you say to somebody.
Maybe you get to a point where we can give
a little direction, but that's not there. And then if
you didn't do anything, okay, let me bring Granty in.
I get so caught up in the story. I forget
that part. Granted is here, dude, she did something nice
for you.
Speaker 4 (22:46):
You didn't do anything for her. You don't talk to
you don't do that.
Speaker 8 (22:51):
Well, listen, listen, I don't understand why Natalie's so upset.
I'm just being honest with her. I'm one of those
guys I don't lie to the woman that I'm with.
I just wanted to offer him.
Speaker 4 (23:02):
Sometimes we don't need the honesty, bro.
Speaker 8 (23:06):
Come on, what's the big deal?
Speaker 1 (23:09):
If you expect to see a woman again or a man,
then what you don't do is after they did something
that they thought you would enjoy, you don't tell it
that they weren't good. Well, you didn't enjoy it enough, apparently,
because you had to let her know if you.
Speaker 4 (23:20):
Enjoyed it, then keep your mouth shut. And he did it? Yeah,
oh wow. Okay, let me ask you, I still want
to hang out.
Speaker 1 (23:33):
Well, that remains to be seen, But let me ask you.
Then grant mister confidence. So let's say you had decided
to give a little of yourself as opposed to just
taking and right, and then she says to you, that
wasn't that good. What I mean, it wasn't good enough,
Like you know, hopefully you get better at it, like
you wouldn't like that.
Speaker 8 (23:51):
Here's the thing, though, I know I'm good at that.
Speaker 1 (23:53):
Oh yeah, you know what, which means he's not which
means he's not good at what I do.
Speaker 4 (23:57):
I'm telling you, if you're so good, then why don't
you do it?
Speaker 6 (24:00):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (24:00):
Right, Like if I if I think I'm good at something,
then I'm going to make sure that I do that
thing so that you can see that I'm good at
it and say I'm good, right, and then hopefully you know,
add a little value. So if you're so good at it,
then why don't you do it?
Speaker 4 (24:13):
Well?
Speaker 8 (24:13):
I would love the opportunity to do it if.
Speaker 4 (24:15):
You had it, you had the opportunity.
Speaker 3 (24:18):
So she's not good.
Speaker 2 (24:19):
You wanted to tell her that, But you do want
to see her again, and you want to let her
do that thing to you again.
Speaker 1 (24:24):
But you're really good. You want to give her the
gift of grant, is what you're saying.
Speaker 8 (24:30):
You know what, man, I look, I was just trying
to be honest. I thought that's what people wanted, especially women,
they say all the time to midline. I was just
trying to offer some some honesty with her out in that.
Speaker 1 (24:41):
Read the room you just met, you just met, like
it's not it said maybe in time, ladies, you can
tell me, ladies, and Jason maybe in time, like you
coach someone like if you like them enough and there's
enough of a foundation there with that, then you can
sort of direct them towards something that you would like.
But there's a way to do that, and it takes time.
You don't just deflate someone because Natalie, I assume.
Speaker 4 (25:05):
That you you you.
Speaker 1 (25:07):
You were just doing what you thought he would enjoy
and kind of going with it, and obviously it takes
time to You cannot judge someone on the first time.
Speaker 4 (25:15):
I want to go out again? Okay, Well, then you
didn't go about it the right way. You don't.
Speaker 1 (25:20):
You don't tell someone that they're not good at something
and then ask to see them and have them do
it again. To Calin's point, look, I'll ask the question, Natalie.
I think I know the answer. But would you like
to go out with Grant again? We'll pay for it.
I mean, apparently he's good at a lot of stuff. He
just didn't show you, but he'd like to show you.
And you're not that good, but he'd like it again.
So which makes a ton of sense. You're not helping.
Speaker 10 (25:42):
Neither you, right, I don't like yours, don't don't get
mad at me bro.
Speaker 4 (25:48):
Yeah, Natalie, would you like to see him again?
Speaker 9 (25:51):
No, this is perfect closure.
Speaker 6 (25:53):
I appreciate.
Speaker 4 (25:55):
Grant. Grant.
Speaker 1 (25:56):
You gotta sometimes you got to. You're gonna have to
keep that mouth of yours out hold on. Sometimes you
need to open it and then sometimes you need to
shut it. And you're not doing it in the right
order exactly.
Speaker 8 (26:05):
Man, I think Natalie's making a big mistake. I have
a lot to offer A do.
Speaker 4 (26:12):
I don't know, ma'amod.
Speaker 1 (26:14):
Natalie, thank you so much for your time and for
answering and grank good luck to you.
Speaker 8 (26:17):
Thank you
But in light of milking the goose attack, just one
more step. Calin attacked by a goose yesterday or two
days ago, a goose that was with her children, that
lived in a Mexican food restaurant, and it was hitting
profusely prior to the attack, which would have been most
people's indication to walk away. But instead the goose attack
to Cayle's nose. It'll be reconstructed by those guys that
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used to have the show on E's Surgeon. They're going
to be fixing it soon. However, you had to go
to CVS and you get a tennis shot, which the
doctors on our text line say you didn't need. Aka
never been to medical school. We're not even certain anyone's
graduated high school or college. But we don't really know
these people who were giving you this medical advice. But
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I guess I just don't see the harm.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
No, Like people were saying that like that's not even
the right thing to do when you get it by
a goose. I'm like, I'm rocking with the with the pharmacist. Also,
people are telling me like, oh got that vaccine and
like all their horror stories.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
I'm like, guys, not helpful.
Speaker 4 (00:56):
I gotta get it, you know, But what would you say?
And just we'll throw it out there eight five five
five three five. I'm sure there is some in the room.
Speaker 1 (01:04):
What would you say is the dumbest reason that you
had to go to the doctor slash the emergency room?
What would you say is the dumbest reason, Kaylin, not
quite the doctor, but the pharmacist for a goose attack
to her nose. To then try and figure out what
to do the rest of you anything, I have one, Yeah,
I'm all ears.
Speaker 5 (01:26):
I've never had surgery up until my meniscus. So somehow
I got thirty seven years without breaking a bone or
doing anything, mainly because I'm not an athlete. I don't
do anything.
Speaker 4 (01:33):
However, I had.
Speaker 5 (01:34):
A butt cyst, oh and waited for too long to
tell anyone about it because I was scared and embarrassed.
So then I was at school one day and it
exploded and I had to go as I drank my cof. Sorry,
I had to go to the er, and my dad,
being the sweet lovely man that he is, you know,
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raced there from work and just flow my hospital room
door open as I was getting it worked on. And
you can imagine what position I had to be on
to get it my butt worked on?
Speaker 4 (02:09):
Could show us? Could you show us the position?
Speaker 1 (02:12):
Just I mean right, It would just be helpful if
I could do your complete the visual. If you leave
your clothes on, leave your clothes on, No, we don't
take them all. Let anything thing. Yeah, I trying to
get a full character.
Speaker 5 (02:25):
My room was literally right in the nurses station, so
he flung the door open. It's in the middle of
the emergency room and there I am, face down, booty
up getting my butt sys fixed.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
I mean, you guys know, I woke up from a
nap like six months ago. It could walk for a week,
and I had to go to like get every I
never went to it to the doctor, but I did
go to like massage therapy people, you know, like physical therapist.
I went and called one up like hey, I woke
up for a nap and I can't walk now, and
they're like what what?
Speaker 4 (02:52):
No, but what you do before that? I'm like, go
with nothing.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
No. I talked on the radio, so I was sitting,
so I didn't do anything. I had no great story
for you. I wasn't like it based camp on Everest,
and I somehow you know, injured my back climbing up
ice wall.
Speaker 6 (03:05):
No.
Speaker 4 (03:05):
I just woke up.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
And it was embarrassing though, because you'd like go hobbling
in there and it's like, oh boy, car accident. No, huh,
oh you GM injury. No, noso not that. No, I
just woke up from a nap. I know you were
yourself putting leather pants on.
Speaker 4 (03:20):
For sure.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
I could go all day with these.
Speaker 2 (03:22):
In college, there were a group of guys that put
a cinderbox in a cardboard box outside their home in
the middle of the street in hopes that someone would
try and move it and hurt themselves. And I kicked
it and broke my toe, and then I found out
it was where my friend's now husband lives, so it
was his friends. But I broke my toe and I'd
go to the er and they're like, what happened. I'm like,
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I kicked a box and there was a cinder block inside.
Speaker 4 (03:48):
I'm not falling for this one.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
Someone said they texted us eight five five five one
three five you can context the same number. When I
was doing my emt rotation, a guy came in with
a jurbil stuck in his rears.
Speaker 3 (03:58):
You know, that's just a thing.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
I understand that.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
But when I've heard too many of these stories, like
it's not happening as regularly as people, I think it's
a wives tale. I think every emergency room claims to
have seen this. I don't think everybody should out here
sticking gerbils in there, you know. I don't think it's
a regular occurrence. Now. I've told a story many times
about my friend who was in medical school who was
doing his er rotation and someone came in with a
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bottle up there, a glass bottle at that, And the
lesson that he taught me was about empathy because he
was sitting there with the attending and he's like, how
did you I need to know how this got in here,
because that's how it's going to help us get it out,
and the guy's like, I don't know. I slipped and fell.
And so the thing with my friend was telling me,
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who's now a full fledged doctor, was like, I was
so angry with this guy because he simply was too
embarrassed to tell us the real reason, and what he
didn't seem to realize was that we were going to
have to if they had tried to get it out
in the wrong way and it broke. Now it becomes
serious abdominal search. So it was imperative that this guy, like,
you need to let this go and tell us how
you did this so we can reverse the process. I mean,
(05:06):
I think there's only real one way you can do,
you know, but I think you wanted a little more detail,
like how do we get from here to here?
Speaker 4 (05:14):
You just slip and fall?
Speaker 1 (05:16):
Right?
Speaker 3 (05:16):
Did you think they were believing him anyway?
Speaker 1 (05:18):
They finally got it out, But his thing was, I
was really really angry with this guy for a long time,
and I had to realize it. You know that people
we are not going to tell me the truth. And
I have to have empathy for people who make choices
like that, Hey Kim, good morning.
Speaker 4 (05:31):
How you do it? And heckod morning?
Speaker 6 (05:33):
Who are you?
Speaker 4 (05:34):
I'm doing? Okay? Why is it that you had to
go to the doctor?
Speaker 7 (05:38):
So you know how they all say you're not supposed
to put you chips in your ear because it like
pushes wax down all that stuff. I bought this tool
on Amazon where there's like a it kind of looks
like a dental floss for almost where like you stick
a part of it in your ear.
Speaker 8 (05:54):
And has like a.
Speaker 7 (05:54):
Camera so it helps you like buy the wax out. Well,
the little rubber part got.
Speaker 9 (05:59):
Stuck, so I had to go to urgent care and
you should take it out.
Speaker 4 (06:03):
Wow, that happened to me.
Speaker 5 (06:05):
It came off in myoo and I was able to
fish it out.
Speaker 4 (06:08):
But I was terrified too. I would have been I
would have been terrified. Yes, yes, And I woke.
Speaker 7 (06:14):
Up and I was like, oh no, the little I
tried to use like the eyebrows tweezersatwork.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
Yeah, that's not one you probably want to do by yourself.
I feel like you might puncher something in there, and
it's probably better a professional handles. But Kim, everything's okay, right.
Speaker 7 (06:30):
Oh yeah, it took literally not even ten seconds.
Speaker 4 (06:33):
Okay, Kim, thanks for calling, Thanks to listening. Have a
good day too.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
I broke my wrist in two places driving, but not
even erratically driving. I was sitting on my floor while
my baby was in his jumper many years ago, and
as I went to move closer, a piece of my
wood floor came up and got stuck in my butt cheek. Oh,
a giant sliver in my butt cheek, and they had
to cut it open.
Speaker 4 (06:56):
And take it out. No torture. Oh no.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
Broke my finger opening a car door of someone texted,
required two surgeries.
Speaker 4 (07:05):
Still don't have full mobility. Wow damn.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
A couple of years ago, I broke my foot when
I missed the step into a sunken living room. Last year,
I broke my ankle and fibula walking down a step
steep hill rather in sandals. And these are not like
you know, with all due respect to you, these are
not impressive injuries.
Speaker 4 (07:24):
You know it well.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
No, I mean, this is like silly stuff. You're hurting
yourself badly doing basic things. I mean, it's not like
a burglar broke into my house and I was defending
the life all the lives of my family and I
tripped and fell while tackling the assassin.
Speaker 4 (07:41):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (07:41):
It's like That's what I mean. It's like you open
the door and all of a sudden you have you
need a new shoulder. It's like what happened.
Speaker 4 (07:47):
See.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
I'm afraid to read these real time because I'm trying
to like read them ahead in my brain because I
don't know what they're going to say.
Speaker 4 (07:54):
This is no way.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
When I was in high school, I was trying to
keep my cat from killing a mole. The mole bit me.
I had to get a tetanus shot. Well that was
very noble of you. Well there you go, see tetnis
shot for animal attacks.
Speaker 3 (08:07):
See sometimes I listened to the doctors.
Speaker 1 (08:09):
I guess sometimes you got to do it. And then
of course I had to google. The craziest reason that
people went to the doctor, which I mean, you can
only imagine. I swolloed a key. Someone said, I have
no idea. A woman went to the arfter swallowing her
apartment key to avoid losing it.
Speaker 4 (08:28):
Understand, toothbrushing in my throat.
Speaker 1 (08:30):
He tripped over his cat while brushing his teeth and
then swallowed a tooth brush. They had to use an
endoscope to remove it. Potato in the rectum, the old potato.
Speaker 4 (08:41):
In the rectum.
Speaker 3 (08:42):
Potato.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
A man slipped onto a potato while doing home repairs
in the nude. Okay, okay, I'm always doing home repairs naked,
and the potato just happens to be right on the
other side of the slippery but.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
Saying there's better options.
Speaker 4 (09:03):
A teenager admitted just swallowing a glowstick on a dare.
Let's not do that.
Speaker 1 (09:08):
A woman was dancing in a club, got hurt, went
to the ear with back pain, but it turned out
she had a much bigger fracture and a tumor had
weakened her spine. All of this because she thought she
had like danced art like like freak do art in
the cloth glue, just thought something. He broke a foot
from a dance move and I had.
Speaker 5 (09:27):
Just met and we were down dancing and I fell
on him and he broke he like hurt his knee
and we had to go to the e R because
I like this.
Speaker 3 (09:34):
Oh just look you almost broken.
Speaker 5 (09:39):
I was throwing it back on to careful.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
Oh my god, my friend sprained her thumb while neeeding
sour dough.
Speaker 4 (09:50):
Now that is gangster here.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
You are just out here making some sour dough on
a Saturday, just white girl wasted, I don't know, watching
in a garden on TV.
Speaker 4 (09:59):
And look what happened, Hey Sarah, good morning, Hello?
Speaker 1 (10:02):
Hi? How did you hurt yourself in a relatively embarrassing way?
Speaker 4 (10:07):
So all it was you.
Speaker 1 (10:08):
I got my dog out of the car, had him
on the leash, was walking him into my house.
Speaker 7 (10:12):
I don't know what excited him and he pulled me
and I sat my ankle back and forth and then
broke my leg at the same time.
Speaker 4 (10:18):
And whoa girl, Oh my god, this just.
Speaker 10 (10:21):
Happened in January.
Speaker 3 (10:22):
I just got to prove to drive, like two weeks ago.
Speaker 4 (10:25):
I'm like, should you be driving and talking at the
same time? We are you okay to do?
Speaker 8 (10:29):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (10:29):
Right?
Speaker 3 (10:29):
I just got to prove that that. I gotta go
back in to get the hardware removed too.
Speaker 1 (10:34):
Oh lord, all right, well, I'm glad you're okay. Thank
you for calling Sarah.
Speaker 3 (10:38):
Thank you. Love you guys, I.
Speaker 4 (10:39):
Love you too.
Speaker 1 (10:40):
You know there's a lot of these. A daughter stuck
a rice Crispy upper. No, see, that's the one. The
kids of the one were like, if you're not, that
would be obviously you don't want the kid to get hurt.
But that'd be my luck because I'd be watching my
nieces and ate stick you know, I screwdriver up their
nose or something, and then it would be somehow like
what happened to the screw drive? And then I have
to explain that to my sister. You know that this
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probably has happened with my sister, but we'll never know
about it. But when I do it. Oh yeah, it
would be a total catastrophe.
Speaker 3 (11:07):
Oh yeah, no, when it's Awesome's the parents. Oh it's
our fault.
Speaker 4 (11:10):
We had this conversation and then we can move on.
Speaker 1 (11:12):
But maybe we did, and I forgot because I have
the intention span of a nat sometimes. But I was shocked. Okay,
So I have two nieces. I have a two year
old niece and I have a five year old niece.
And my sister and I are very close and I
love her. She's seven and a half years younger, but
she is neurotic. She is my mom. They are the
same person, and they fight like hell because they're the
exact same person.
Speaker 4 (11:30):
But my sister is a control person.
Speaker 1 (11:32):
My mom is like a controlled person, and my sister
once things done exactly the right way and no one
else is really going to do them right. But yet
she also is a martyr at times because it's like, well,
why aren't people helping me? Well, because you've yelled at
us eight times in the way that we did it,
you didn't like it.
Speaker 4 (11:46):
Love my sister to death.
Speaker 1 (11:47):
That being said, I am very nervous to be responsible
for those two girls, or any of them individually. I
am afraid something very routine would happen on my watch,
and it would be a total catastrophe, not knowing what
the day to day life is like you know what
I mean, Like, come on, my sister is an amazing mother.
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Those kids have bopped their head on something or tripped
on something, or we're playing with something she gave them
and they got it. But we don't ever hear about that.
But if I do it, it would be a catastrophe.
So I was hanging out with a friend of mine
who is an obgyn, a physician, fully trained physician. She
has a nephew, maybe two, and she said, oh, no,
(12:29):
I'll never be alone with those children. I'll never be
alone with those children. I go, but you delivered children, like,
you're a physician, you could fix You're a surgeon, you
could fix almost that you could you at least know
how to triage it, and you're probably the most qualified person.
And she goes, no, I will not be watching those
kids because my sister in law is like your sister,
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and if something happens, it could be truly family fracturing,
which it shouldn't be. But like, what would happen if Gigi,
if your mom were watching Gigi and she to her
head on something like you would probably initially freak out
as a mom, but then you also would probably show
grace because it could have happened to you. Your initial
reaction might be to be overprotective, but then I think,
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you know, cooler heads would prevail and you would say, well,
this has happened to me, It could happen to me.
But I just I wonder how many people in my
position who are not kid people. Mm hmm. You know,
like I don't know a lot about kids, and I
could keep them safe for sure, but I'm afraid to
I'm afraid to drive with them. I'm afraid to watch
them because God forbid something happens on my watch.
Speaker 11 (13:30):
Listen, kids are gonna get hurt all the time. Like
that just comes with like the manual they give you
when you give birth. In that manual, like the little
book they give you, it sounds like your kids are
gonna fall, They're gonna get hurt. It could be on
anybody's watch. It'll happen at school. I'm sure it happened
there too to them, So I don't know. We got
to like kind of fall back a little bit and
realize that things are going to happen and that it's okay.
Speaker 4 (13:48):
I'm afraid.
Speaker 3 (13:49):
I know you are, I know.
Speaker 4 (13:50):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 10 (13:51):
Yeah, this is why I'm live streaming when I have
my nephews. We are on Instagram live.
Speaker 4 (13:55):
Because you have eighty seven nephews.
Speaker 1 (13:57):
I do.
Speaker 4 (13:57):
And okay, wait a bitte so you can relate to
what I'm saying, Lily.
Speaker 10 (14:00):
I need full surveillance and kids be lying. Okay, now
you didn't climb on the tree and drumped and then
you can't tell your parents Tikiki.
Speaker 3 (14:07):
Pushed you like no, I didn't you know? Or she
left me there like no.
Speaker 10 (14:11):
I need full surveillance with these kids because I don't
want it to happen on my watch either.
Speaker 1 (14:16):
Just maybe just supervision. Maybe I need to be supervised
so I have a witness, and maybe that person is
my attorney that just follows us around with case you
know and everything. Hey, Erica, okay, you get the last
say you hurt yourself in an embarrassing way.
Speaker 4 (14:30):
Oh do tell?
Speaker 6 (14:33):
Okay, So I went to the er last year in June,
and that was because my husband dropped me from a
sex seen Now, yeah.
Speaker 1 (14:45):
Girl, how did he drop you? He was he trying
to load you up in there. Not like that, you
know what I mean. I don't even try to do that, but.
Speaker 6 (14:57):
I yeah, theah over the door. So I put myself
in the swing.
Speaker 4 (15:09):
Okay, that was the question with my husband.
Speaker 6 (15:11):
Okay, yeah, I mean.
Speaker 4 (15:13):
Be very careful. I'd be very careful. It's early, oh
I know.
Speaker 6 (15:17):
Yeah, So I put myself in a sex wing. I'm like, hey,
let's go for it. So he starts, you know.
Speaker 4 (15:23):
I can imagine what he was doing.
Speaker 6 (15:25):
Yeah, and I'm holding myself and I'm telling him, slow down,
you're going a little too hard. And I smacked my
head on the tile. And I've never seen him. I've
never seen a grown man look so sad in his life.
Speaker 4 (15:43):
I imagine there was in that moment.
Speaker 6 (15:47):
Honestly, he just walked away and left me by myself.
So I'm like, okay, so loving care after what, I
was like, all right, yeah, my husband's not very good
with the conflict, and like, way.
Speaker 4 (16:03):
Okay, are you okay though? Everything's fine?
Speaker 6 (16:06):
No, Yeah, I'm fine. I didn't have a concussion or anything.
I went to urgent care, like, hey, we think this
is serious. You could have a concussion. Go to the
r then when we went to the yar and they're like, actually,
you're fine, you didn't need to come here. I was like, well,
great hospital.
Speaker 1 (16:20):
Did you tell them the truth or did you make
up some other reasons?
Speaker 8 (16:23):
No?
Speaker 6 (16:24):
No, no, no, no, no, I did tell them. I'm like,
my husband dropped me from a sex wing. And then
the nurse was like, hmm, that's a new one. And
then another nurse came in.
Speaker 4 (16:32):
She's like, ask her why she.
Speaker 6 (16:34):
Hurt her head. I'm like, okay, she said, this is no,
it's totally fine. I mean I'm very open about like
my certain certain lifestyle of marriage.
Speaker 4 (16:45):
Well a lifestyle of marriage. Indeed. Yeah, people in Cincinnati everything.
I was just there and I didn't have that much fun.
So anyway, have a good day, Erica.
Speaker 3 (16:54):
Why do you get your doors?
Speaker 6 (16:55):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (16:56):
I still ran the doors.
Speaker 4 (16:57):
I can fred. Let the people who call talk. What
do you talk? What do you want? What do you mean?
She just talks. She's told a full as story. I
get excited. I'm an active listener. Sometimes.
Speaker 1 (17:12):
I also needed to sort of patrol that call a
little bit, uh, radio connoisseer over there at your house
with your cell phone, because she was talking about something
that's a little bit mature, RelA.
Speaker 4 (17:27):
Tall off here. I'm not gonna let you talk. Ever
been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show.
Hey Greg, good morning, welcome to the program. How are you?
I'm great man, thanks for having me. This guy?
Speaker 1 (17:40):
He sounds very positive for a guy who I mean,
you were ghosted, bro, Like you're not sad about it.
Speaker 4 (17:45):
I mean, I guess you're sad enough that you want
some answers. I am sad.
Speaker 8 (17:49):
I mean, come on, I'm a little let down, but
I'm a pretty confident guy.
Speaker 4 (17:51):
Well I hear that.
Speaker 1 (17:53):
You hear this? Yeah, yeah, Grant is a confident man.
So what happened here? We are confident that maybe you
got ghosted, but what happened with Natalie? We got to
know how you met. I want to hear about any
dates you've been on, and then why you think go?
You know we were here?
Speaker 4 (18:07):
Okay?
Speaker 8 (18:07):
Well I met Natalie the way you mostly meet people
nowadays online of course, on an app. We matched and
we got to talking back and forth. I asked her out.
Things went great. We had a really amazing date. And
I know the date was amazing because I wouldn't normally
reveal this but we ended up, you know, cooking up.
Speaker 1 (18:27):
Yeah, he wouldn't normally kiss and tell. Granted, no, granted,
but he sudd the kind of guy that wouldn't normally
kiss and tell. But but in this case, for context,
I appreciate that. Thank you for this, thank you transparency.
Yeah yeah, and congratulations by the way as well.
Speaker 3 (18:40):
Well.
Speaker 8 (18:41):
First off, thank you, And it's important because it went well.
I mean that normally is a sign that things are,
you know, going good for you. And let me tell you,
we had a really good time.
Speaker 4 (18:52):
So that's what you did.
Speaker 1 (18:53):
But okay, no, you had a good time, all right,
So you're confused.
Speaker 8 (18:57):
I am confused. Why she she's not hitting me back.
I can't reach her anymore. I just I had no
idea why she's not like answering my calls. It's weird.
I can't think of anything that went wrong, not one thing.
Speaker 1 (19:10):
Then I don't know. Then maybe this is going to
be very easy. We call her, she's like, I've been busy.
I want to go out with you again. You were
such a stud. And then we pay for it, you
get a free date. Maybe that's what this is, probably not,
but we have no idea until here, I can't do.
I honestly can't wait. I'm gonna hurry up and play
a song. We'll come back in a couple of minutes. Grant,
we'll call Natalie. You'll be on the phone. We'll ask
(19:31):
some questions on your behalf. And the hope is just
that that we can straighten things out, set you guys
up on another date, and pay for it.
Speaker 8 (19:38):
I hope. So, I hope it's gonna be that easy.
Speaker 1 (19:40):
Hey, Grant, yes, sir, let's call Natalie. You guys, you
met on one of the apps.
Speaker 4 (19:44):
You went on a date. You felt the date was
very successful. I believe it.
Speaker 1 (19:47):
He just said a second ago that he couldn't come
up with one flaw about the date, and then he
very humbly shared with us that there was, you know,
some physicality on the date as well. He doesn't normally
tell people that Grant does him, but he did. He
wanted us to know because it's just like, you know,
we got to I will say, though, you know, if
that happens, that's usually a pretty good sign. And you
(20:08):
might think you're gonna hear from someone again, but you
didn't hear from Natalie. So we're gonna call her now.
And see if we can straighten this out. Good luck,
Thank you.
Speaker 8 (20:21):
Hello.
Speaker 4 (20:22):
Hi is this Natalie? Yes, Natali, Hi, good morning. My
name is Fred.
Speaker 1 (20:26):
I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the Morning radio Show,
and I have to tell you that we are on
the radio right now and I would need your permission
to continue with the call. Can we chat for just
a second on the air, would you mind? You can
hang up anytime?
Speaker 9 (20:37):
Oh wow, what are we talking about?
Speaker 6 (20:41):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (20:42):
I know, and thank you very much. We appreciate you
and your patients. Here we're actually talking about a guy
named Grant, who I guess you went on a date with.
Do you remember him? Yeah? Less confidence from her there
than him. But we just talked to Grant, Natalie, and
he had a lot of nice things to say about you,
and he felt that the date that you guys went
(21:03):
on was successful. I'm guessing that you don't feel the
same way. Because he did. It meant that he can't
get a hold of you, and he was hoping that
we can help him find out why.
Speaker 4 (21:11):
What's your side of the story.
Speaker 9 (21:14):
I mean, it's all pretty embarrassing, but we did have
a good time. Was it was fun. We have chemistry,
We did have drinks and we were just vibing and
we ended up going back to his place and.
Speaker 4 (21:31):
We hooked up.
Speaker 1 (21:33):
That'll check out, Yeah yeah, yeah.
Speaker 9 (21:36):
So at that point it seemed fine.
Speaker 7 (21:38):
But the issue really came when we were saying goodbye
and I realized he's he's a total douche.
Speaker 4 (21:45):
What did he do?
Speaker 9 (21:46):
So during our hook up I did something for him specifically,
and he did nothing for me.
Speaker 4 (21:54):
No, I love mister Convina grant Man.
Speaker 3 (21:57):
Come on bro, all right, all right, okay, that is
that the issue?
Speaker 9 (22:02):
You know, it wasn't so much at that time, but
when he was hugging me to say bye, she whispered
in my ear and he said, we have to work
on your skills a little.
Speaker 10 (22:16):
Yo, yo, you can never do that nice.
Speaker 3 (22:24):
She tried to do a good deed in the all.
Speaker 1 (22:27):
See, I mean, that's not something you say to somebody.
Maybe you get to a point where we can give
a little direction, but that's not there. And then if
you didn't do anything, okay, let me bring Granty in.
I get so caught up in the story. I forget
that part. Granted is here, dude, she did something nice
for you.
Speaker 4 (22:46):
You didn't do anything for her. You don't talk to
you don't do that.
Speaker 8 (22:51):
Well, listen, listen, I don't understand why Natalie's so upset.
I'm just being honest with her. I'm one of those
guys I don't lie to the woman that I'm with.
I just wanted to offer him.
Speaker 4 (23:02):
Sometimes we don't need the honesty, bro.
Speaker 8 (23:06):
Come on, what's the big deal?
Speaker 1 (23:09):
If you expect to see a woman again or a man,
then what you don't do is after they did something
that they thought you would enjoy, you don't tell it
that they weren't good. Well, you didn't enjoy it enough, apparently,
because you had to let her know if you.
Speaker 4 (23:20):
Enjoyed it, then keep your mouth shut. And he did it? Yeah,
oh wow. Okay, let me ask you, I still want
to hang out.
Speaker 1 (23:33):
Well, that remains to be seen, But let me ask you.
Then grant mister confidence. So let's say you had decided
to give a little of yourself as opposed to just
taking and right, and then she says to you, that
wasn't that good. What I mean, it wasn't good enough,
Like you know, hopefully you get better at it, like
you wouldn't like that.
Speaker 8 (23:51):
Here's the thing, though, I know I'm good at that.
Speaker 1 (23:53):
Oh yeah, you know what, which means he's not which
means he's not good at what I do.
Speaker 4 (23:57):
I'm telling you, if you're so good, then why don't
you do it?
Speaker 6 (24:00):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (24:00):
Right, Like if I if I think I'm good at something,
then I'm going to make sure that I do that
thing so that you can see that I'm good at
it and say I'm good, right, and then hopefully you know,
add a little value. So if you're so good at it,
then why don't you do it?
Speaker 4 (24:13):
Well?
Speaker 8 (24:13):
I would love the opportunity to do it if.
Speaker 4 (24:15):
You had it, you had the opportunity.
Speaker 3 (24:18):
So she's not good.
Speaker 2 (24:19):
You wanted to tell her that, But you do want
to see her again, and you want to let her
do that thing to you again.
Speaker 1 (24:24):
But you're really good. You want to give her the
gift of grant, is what you're saying.
Speaker 8 (24:30):
You know what, man, I look, I was just trying
to be honest. I thought that's what people wanted, especially women,
they say all the time to midline. I was just
trying to offer some some honesty with her out in that.
Speaker 1 (24:41):
Read the room you just met, you just met, like
it's not it said maybe in time, ladies, you can
tell me, ladies, and Jason maybe in time, like you
coach someone like if you like them enough and there's
enough of a foundation there with that, then you can
sort of direct them towards something that you would like.
But there's a way to do that, and it takes time.
You don't just deflate someone because Natalie, I assume.
Speaker 4 (25:05):
That you you you.
Speaker 1 (25:07):
You were just doing what you thought he would enjoy
and kind of going with it, and obviously it takes
time to You cannot judge someone on the first time.
Speaker 4 (25:15):
I want to go out again? Okay, Well, then you
didn't go about it the right way. You don't.
Speaker 1 (25:20):
You don't tell someone that they're not good at something
and then ask to see them and have them do
it again. To Calin's point, look, I'll ask the question, Natalie.
I think I know the answer. But would you like
to go out with Grant again? We'll pay for it.
I mean, apparently he's good at a lot of stuff. He
just didn't show you, but he'd like to show you.
And you're not that good, but he'd like it again.
So which makes a ton of sense. You're not helping.
Speaker 10 (25:42):
Neither you, right, I don't like yours, don't don't get
mad at me bro.
Speaker 4 (25:48):
Yeah, Natalie, would you like to see him again?
Speaker 9 (25:51):
No, this is perfect closure.
Speaker 6 (25:53):
I appreciate.
Speaker 4 (25:55):
Grant. Grant.
Speaker 1 (25:56):
You gotta sometimes you got to. You're gonna have to
keep that mouth of yours out hold on. Sometimes you
need to open it and then sometimes you need to
shut it. And you're not doing it in the right
order exactly.
Speaker 8 (26:05):
Man, I think Natalie's making a big mistake. I have
a lot to offer A do.
Speaker 4 (26:12):
I don't know, ma'amod.
Speaker 1 (26:14):
Natalie, thank you so much for your time and for
answering and grank good luck to you.
Speaker 8 (26:17):
Thank you
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