June 16, 2026 • 20 mins
A woman in Arizona was arrested for speending over 100mph because she was trying to not miss Love Island! Plus, we debate relationship drama on an all new Stay Or Go!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Friend's biggest stories of the day. So, the World Cup's
going on and tiny cape Verdi pulled off a stunning
result in its World Cup debut, shutting out heavily favored Spain.
So cape Verdi is a group of violins with around
half a million inhabitants. They're playing in its first World Cup,
or it's playing in its first World Cup. The twenty
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ten Champi in Spain is aiming to win the World
Cup for the second time, but their coach warned on
Sunday the cape Verdi could be one of the surprise
teams of the tournament. So like that's the kind of
stuff about World Cup that I think is cool, Like
these places you've never heard of before, and they're competitive
and whatever else. But I don't know how. I just
missed soccer, like I just missed like my whole life,
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I just missed it, Like it is never I was
never on a soccer team, you know, Like I feel
like every kid played tea ball in soccer and we
didn't do that. I don't know, there was there was
none of that. What did you play as a kid?
Did basketball? But like that wasn't until I got a
little bit older. So I don't know. Maybe because I
didn't play soccer as a kid, then maybe I didn't
get into it. I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (00:59):
I played soccer and I'm not a huge fan. I
think it's really much like it's it's the rest of
the world and then us with American football. I feel
like I don't feel like it was drilled. It's hard
to like go watch the game.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Or it's definitely in the last ten years like popped
up as being very mainstream. I don't remember hearing a
whole lot about it unless you had some European tie.
I was gonna say, yeah, like if your mom's from
the old country like mine, then yeah, I knew about it.
We would watch it, but I just I never like
clung onto it. It wouldn't be like my thing.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
I don't enjoy watching the games. But if anyone knows
who I should bet on, let me know.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
The world loves soccer.
Speaker 3 (01:34):
Man.
Speaker 2 (01:36):
Yeah, there's a place I'm a baby where you can.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
You can go for thirty to sixty days and come
out and okay for now. It's like when you go
to Vegas and you win the first time. It's the
worst thing. I remember I won the first time and
went to Vegas. I want some money, and the cab
drivers like, did you win? I'm like, yeah, I guess
the worst possible thing it could happen to you, because
now you think you're a winner, and you're certainly not.
I can see you you're not a winner at all.
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So you think you think you're good at this until
you start gambling more, and then then you're broke. You're
little brokey, and then we have to send you to
a place where they dry you out for a while.
Researchers found that even light drinking can raise the risk
of health problems, including some cancer's, heart disease, liver disease,
and early death. The risks appear to start increasing at
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about one drink a day and climb higher as alcohol
consumption goes up. The study also challenged the old idea
that a daily glass of wine might be good for
your health. Research except they found no clear evidence that
alcohol provides a net health benefit even at low levels
of consumption. Based on those findings, the researchers said that
the safest choice is not to drink at all, and
for people who do drink, they recommend limiting alcohol to
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no more than one drink a day. I don't go
ahead on with that. Not even supposed to be doing that,
not even the one glass of wine, guys, not good
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Number three, y'all, dirty dogs, is Salt Lake City up
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should be on only fans if we want people in
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find us that way. Jason, Yeah, hey, get to it. Yeah,
everything's got a price, is I mean, do you think
that's a coincidence or do you think it's like, well,
you know, people say that the aspects of that place
are a little very conservative. Yeah, and so do you
think people are repressed and they're going to OnlyFans? Because
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they can like secretly look at stuff and on their
phones and computers and maybe nobody finds out about it. Yeah,
maybe or maybe those some of those sites that you know,
I may may not frequent, maybe illegal there, you know
those there are those states that might be I of
course don't know because when I you know, I frequent
the area, but I certainly am not using my phone
for those purposes. So I don't know. I don't remember
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if I if I couldn't because occasionally I like accidentally
type in the wrong thing and it's like, oh my gosh,
how did I get here? Yeah, only to find in
some states you can't even.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
Look at it, can't gamble there either, Just letting you.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
Know, okay, you have a problem. Miami, Minneapolis, Cleveland, Denvers, Seattle,
Saint Louis, and Las Vegas the top ten cities for
only fans spending per ten thousand people. And Amazon delivery
driver Room was caught on a homeowner security camera taking
a cat from the California family's yard. Is now claiming
the cat was actually his own missing pet. So the
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guy's name is Joshua the Amazon driver. He says he
recognized the cat by its markings. While delivering a package
in Bakersfield. He says he had adopted a similar gray
cap in twenty twenty five his daughter and believe the
animal that he saw was the family pet that had
gone missing. So he picked up the cat and took
it home because he was convinced it belonged to him.
But the homeowner, a woman named Brenda, says, no, that's
(05:12):
our cat, and we've had the cat for years. They
felt a police report after reviewing doorbell footage that appeared
to show the driver picking up the cat and walking away.
They then showed the local media adoption paperwork. He had
a paperwork as well. So now there's this debate. Now,
what I don't know is how far away from his
house was this cat, you know, Like, I mean, I
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don't know how far he lives in Bakersfield. But if
the cat's like, you know, tens of miles away, it's
probably not your cat. It could be, but I mean,
you can't just pick up a cat that looks like
your cat and say, hey, this is mine. Now it
looks like mine, I'm taking him. It turns out you can't.
The controversy, the controversy has cost this guy his job.
Delivering Amazon package. His Amazon said he's no longer allowed
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to deliver on the company's behalf, and then it's cooperated
with law enforcement. The Sheriff's office is now in this.
They're investigating the dispute and no criminal charges have been filed.
But the question is whose cat is it? I guess
if you had a microchip in the cat, then this
would be an easy problem to solve. But I love
that idea. It turns out you can't if you once
owned a great cat, you can't just pick up any
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great cat and be like, well, that's definitely mine. Put
it back. And a woman has been busted for rushing
home at one hundred and eight miles an hour to
make sure that she could watch Love Island. Okay, have
to hear both sides. She was in a rush to
watch the reality show and now she's behind bars. The
Arizona Department of Public Safety says that it had happened
last week, with the woman caught speeding south of Phoenix.
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The driver was clocked at one hundred and eight miles an
hour in a sixty five when she was pulled over.
She told troopers that she wanted to get home in
time to watch Love Island. The woman, who was not identified,
was arrested for criminal speed and reckless driving, and her
vehicle was put into what authorities called car jail for
twenty days.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
Girl, I get it. Sometimes I forego going out so
I can watch Love Island. It's been so long since
something's like hit me that way, And what's the.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
Deal with this show comes out like daily?
Speaker 2 (07:05):
Oh my goodness, it is a full time job. That's
why I have to stay home sometimes. So it comes
out Sunday, Monday, Tuesday. They skip Wednesday, We do Thursday, Friday,
and no Saturday.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
It's pretty random. It's a commitment. Why don't you just
wait until like five or six are all in there
and then just knock those out?
Speaker 2 (07:25):
Because social ruins it for me, you know, Okay, But like,
can I watch it in Italy? Because this is like
a genuine fear, like you.
Speaker 1 (07:33):
Might have to get a VPN that and for your
gambling as well, because I don't know if I don't
know if being gambled there, so you might have to
get a VPN, so you can, you know.
Speaker 2 (07:41):
I don't even know how to say gamble and Italian.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
In like Ohio, you know, so you can log in
and the thing thinks you're or what's like, I don't know, Florida,
Like you got it. The computer has to think you're
somewhere else. But pick a state where you can do
the most you know, inappropriate thing like gamble and look
at porn obviously. Well yeah, I mean yeah, don't mean don't.
I would want to pick a state where I could
and I'd be really disappointing. Yeah, the show is on,
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it's stay or go. So now now people texting me going,
who is it? They want to know? We call you
Kate a man, he's a legend, and you know what,
I'm Kate Case. Somebody texted, maybe he's Filipino. Your name
is the P word in Tagalog? Did I say it right? Tagal?
(08:25):
I don't know. Well, I think that's the language if
they speak. But he's he's not sure. I'm so positive
he called you the P word. That'd be way funnier.
Stick to Kate. You want to stay safe, right, I
don't understand, Like it's he has the email to invite
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you to the meeting. It's on the screen. Other people
are calling you that you've corrected the person Like what,
I don't know what I don't know. Hey McKenzie, good morning,
how you doing. Good morning, I'm doing well, say to
my friend Kate, hi girl, not even her name? All right, mackenzie.
(09:08):
So there go, and thank you to all the people
who hit us up on all the different various platforms.
Search for the Fred Show. If you want to be
featured on the show, you want us to talk about you, right,
And it's kind of behind your back, but right in
front of you. Two, you've been diatting a guy for
about six months and you became official three months after that.
It's very exciting. So what's the problem mckinzi.
Speaker 4 (09:28):
Well, I really do like him. I want to be
clear about that. But I'll be up front. I have
the worst track record when I shoot men, and honestly,
I just don't detect the red flags even if I
see them out in front of me. I just am
not good at it.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
Okay, So what what are we missing? What do you
what's right in front of us that you're missing somehow?
Speaker 5 (09:50):
Okay?
Speaker 4 (09:51):
So recently I actually just had surgery for a deviated
steptam and my boyfriend was really wonderful. He offered to
take care of me, you know, because my family she
doesn't live close and you know, I actually told him
I'd be fine, I can do it on my own,
but he actually really insisted and it was so sweet
of him.
Speaker 1 (10:09):
That's nice. That's what boyfriends is supposed to do, right,
take care of you.
Speaker 6 (10:13):
Well yeah, green flag.
Speaker 4 (10:14):
But you know, after doing a great job of taking
care of me, he went back home and just like
really nonchalant, just asked me if I could send him
money since he took time off work to take care
of me.
Speaker 1 (10:27):
Excuse me, right, what you're supposed to pay the.
Speaker 3 (10:30):
Man after he and he's your he's your boyfriend, Like
that's that's That's part of what boyfriends do when girlfriends
have surgery, is they, you know, pake him up in
the hospital or whatever and make sure they have all
the stuff that they need.
Speaker 4 (10:45):
I mean, yeah, I mean that's what I thought.
Speaker 1 (10:47):
Money And how much learn does he want?
Speaker 4 (10:51):
Well, he didn't get into the exact mouth. It's just
I just feel uncomfortable because it's weird. It's not an
unreasonable request, I guess, because I do make more than
he does and he doesn't get PTO. But I guess
I'm starting to feel kind of like, you know this
if he offered, this should be something that doesn't require
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me to pay him, But I don't know. I'm feeling
very confused about all this. Am I overthinking it? Is
this a red flag?
Speaker 1 (11:18):
You know?
Speaker 4 (11:18):
Am I being selfish?
Speaker 1 (11:20):
I feel like if it was going to be of
that much financial consequence to him to take a day
or two off to take care of his girlfriend, then
he should have told you, like, look, I can pick
you up, I can do this, I can do that,
but I can't miss two days at work because that's
too much money. I mean, I understand that people are
living a paycheck to paycheck and every dollar counts. I
understand that, but like free, that might be something where
he said, whoa, whoa, you listen to Drake, what's going
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on commuting? Yeah? But as far as like if it
were going to be that big of a deal where
he can't afford to take off work long enough to
take care of you, then I feel like he should
have said that, like, hey, I want to be involved here.
I want to help, but I can't help the whole time.
But for him just pop up later and go, hey,
so I took two days off and I would have
made you know, five hundred bucks and so you gotta
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pay me that that that that feels off to me.
Speaker 4 (12:11):
Oh and that's just why I'm not sure if I'm overreacting.
I talked to my sister about it, and she actually
like flipped out. She was like, I can't believe he
would ask you for money after he offered. And I'm
starting to really see that she might be right, But again,
like you know, he, as you just said, people are
living paycheck to paycheck. Every penny counts. Maybe he really
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couldn't afford to take the time off. But if he couldn't,
he didn't tell me. So I feel like I'm just
slinging back and forth here.
Speaker 1 (12:39):
And it's it's weird. He could have communicated to you
in some way like I can't afford to take off
work and I know that's embarrassing to say, but that's
better than That's better than now are we playing? Are
we playing? Are you are to take out working?
Speaker 4 (12:55):
Well?
Speaker 1 (12:58):
Are you playing the symbols in a hotel lobby right now?
Speaker 6 (13:00):
Like?
Speaker 1 (13:00):
What are you a street performer?
Speaker 6 (13:09):
I mean I could pay I was gonna say.
Speaker 1 (13:12):
Like, you know, it's is he a street performer? Are
you attending on Mackenzie? I don't like it. I think
there is a way to communicate this. And the problem
is if he'd said that to you, then you think
he's kind of a brokie and that's not attractive. And
then if he'd said to you, I can't help you
because I have to work, then that makes him look
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like an inattended boyfriend. But but but sending you a
VENMO request afterwards for his nursing care, you know, is
also sort of a strange thing to do. I don't
I think he should have prepared for this, Like he
should have figured it out right, like this is part
of your obligation as a partner is to be there
at least part of the time. But Mackenzie would take
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some phone calls on this. I wish you the best.
Speaker 7 (13:56):
Thanks, I appreciate no, thank you.
Speaker 1 (13:59):
Have a good day. Eight five five, you're right, all right?
I want to make Trans Siberian Orchestra over.
Speaker 5 (14:11):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (14:12):
I mean that she's practicing for upcoming tour.
Speaker 5 (14:16):
Eight.
Speaker 1 (14:18):
I want to know. So if you're dating somebody in
they're like, yeah, I'm gonna take care of you for
a couple of days, and then afterwards you're like, you,
I had to take work off. I didn't get paid,
so I need you to pay me for that. I mean,
how would you react to then? And if you're on
his side and you're really entire straits And again I'm
not making fun of people who, by any means, who
like have to go to work to pay the bills.
I think that's very real. But you know, how do
you navigate this? Then? If you're on the other side, Hey, Rachel, Hi,
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Hey Rachel, what do you think when you hear this?
Speaker 7 (14:45):
So I was in a very similar situation in December.
I got my second debated septem surgery, and I have
to say, she needs to go uh footslop. I don't
make as much money as my boyfriend, but he was
there every step of the way. I even told him, Hey,
if the money becomes too much, or taking care of
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me becomes too much, you know, please let me know.
So he did communicate that. But this man went to
the store every day for me. I needed fresh water
and you not need two of them. So you know,
life happens, You're gonna get sick, You're going to need surgery,
so your partner should be there for you, and heaven forbid,
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money is an issue you talk about it and you
don't talk about it after the fact.
Speaker 1 (15:32):
Yeah, I agree. And Rachel, like, if you needed specific
medicine or you needed you know, if the prescriptions for
the aftercare were expensive, or if you need a very
specific dietary things or what, and there's not a lot
of extra money, then maybe you help with that. Maybe
it's like here, I'll give you the money to go
pick the stuff up. But like as a boyfriend or
a husband or whatever, to charge your partner to do
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those things, it just doesn't ridiculous. It doesn't feel like
he can take care of her and he doesn't have
to take care of her and you know completely, but
like occasionally, you know, for something like a big deal
like this, I think you should be able to figure
that out. But you're right. Communication. Thank you, Rachel.
Speaker 4 (16:12):
Than you guys, love you.
Speaker 1 (16:13):
I love you too. Have a great day. Thanks for listening.
Hey Katie, good morning, Good morning. Hi Katie. So you
just heard this guy, this woman's boyfriend, she had surgery.
He said, hey, I want me take care of you
for a couple of days as you recover, and then
afterwards he sent her a bill. If he wanted money,
you want to be compensated for this, and it was
never discussed ahead of time. And his explanation is, well,
I don't have paid time off and I couldn't go
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to work, and so I need you to pay for
the time that essentially I would have been working. What
do you think.
Speaker 5 (16:40):
I think that's wild. I think to your point, like,
not just as a partner that needs to figure it out,
but just as an adult with a life with other obligations,
like you are in the best position to know whether
or not you can accommodate any sort of thing that
pops up in your life. Right if they were to
married and have kids and the kids were sick, would
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he be like, uh, honey, because I took off work,
can you vend mommy, you know, five hundred bucks because
I had to stay home with the kids. Like super
bizarre situation. But he needs to figure out his communication
and that might lead to a lot more problems for
her down the road. So yeah, one hundred percent, this
is this is wild and I would never be okay
with that.
Speaker 1 (17:22):
Well, they and they've been dating long enough that like
it would be okay I think for him to be
honest about and she probably would be at this point
be aware of his financial situation, like, hey, he's having
to work, you know, each day, and he needs eat
the money to pay the bills and whatever whatever. That
would be something that I think he would have communicated
with her such that if he offered to do it,
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then she could say, Hey, I know you need to work,
so thank you for offering, but I'll get someone else
to do it who isn't going to be as you know,
financially taxed by this as you are. But but if
you offer, then I'm assuming that that's a free offer
because I'm sleeping with you definitely.
Speaker 5 (18:00):
Yeah, you know, like it's all about like communicate your
intention and it's gonna be fine to say, listen, I
absolutely want to but you know my financial situation. Is
there anything else I can do to help? I mean,
like the way he went around this is super weird.
Speaker 1 (18:16):
I think that feels way better Katie than sending a bill,
you know. But thank you. Have a great day.
Speaker 5 (18:23):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (18:23):
Thanks.
Speaker 5 (18:23):
Oh and by the way, my name is Kiki.
Speaker 1 (18:27):
And I'm from now on you'll be Katie. You'll be
Kiky and she's going to be Katie. So it's fine,
ye have a good day.
Speaker 5 (18:35):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (18:35):
That is so wild to me that, like, how many
different ways have you written your name? It's like, at
this point, I think I'm being punked, Like am I
on a TV show? That was me yesterday?
Speaker 4 (18:44):
Just watching Cruise in some of your laugh because I
know they heard this, and I'm just like, well.
Speaker 1 (18:48):
Then, you know what, why didn't one of them go, hey, bro,
that's not her name. That's what I was doing the
whole time, like no, it's me. For your life over here,
I would have stop the whole meeting down and been
like her name is Jessica, Okay, Like, how dare you
disrespect her in this way? Hi? Trish? Good morning?
Speaker 5 (19:08):
Good morning?
Speaker 7 (19:09):
How are you?
Speaker 1 (19:09):
Hi, Tris? I'm doing great. I hope you are.
Speaker 6 (19:11):
Starego definitely go because this is going to become a pattern.
And if he's going to be asking for money one
during a relationship, he's going to continue to ask for
money in that relationship for who knows what. It does
seem that way, and that's yeah, and that's not a partnership.
(19:32):
You know, you're doing something for somebody for money, or
you're doing something because you are in a relationship, and
that's just the best thing to do.
Speaker 1 (19:42):
Yeah, I don't like it. Thank you, Trish, glad you called.
Have a good day and thanks for listening. Hey, Alison,
good morning, Good morning. Boyfriends don't send bills, says Alison. Period.
That's right.
Speaker 7 (19:56):
Period.
Speaker 5 (19:57):
Yeah, boyfriends don't send bills.
Speaker 1 (20:00):
What everyone's been saying.
Speaker 5 (20:00):
If he had communicated ahead of time and had.
Speaker 4 (20:03):
Been like, hey, you know, I can only do a
couple of days, or I can maybe I can spend
the night and I can help you out overnight or
something like that, but for him to be.
Speaker 1 (20:11):
Like, here's all the stuff that I did for you,
by the way, pay up.
Speaker 5 (20:14):
No, that's not okay.
Speaker 1 (20:15):
Yeah, I think clearly communicating what he can and can't
do financially, is, while difficult and maybe a little embarrassing,
is better to do and say yeah, I got you,
only to send an invoice.
Speaker 2 (20:29):
Clearly, clearly he doesn't got her because he needed money afterwards,
so clearly he.
Speaker 1 (20:33):
Didn't have her. Yeah, thank you, Alison. I have a
great day.
Friend's biggest stories of the day. So, the World Cup's
going on and tiny cape Verdi pulled off a stunning
result in its World Cup debut, shutting out heavily favored Spain.
So cape Verdi is a group of violins with around
half a million inhabitants. They're playing in its first World Cup,
or it's playing in its first World Cup. The twenty
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ten Champi in Spain is aiming to win the World
Cup for the second time, but their coach warned on
Sunday the cape Verdi could be one of the surprise
teams of the tournament. So like that's the kind of
stuff about World Cup that I think is cool, Like
these places you've never heard of before, and they're competitive
and whatever else. But I don't know how. I just
missed soccer, like I just missed like my whole life,
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I just missed it, Like it is never I was
never on a soccer team, you know, Like I feel
like every kid played tea ball in soccer and we
didn't do that. I don't know, there was there was
none of that. What did you play as a kid?
Did basketball? But like that wasn't until I got a
little bit older. So I don't know. Maybe because I
didn't play soccer as a kid, then maybe I didn't
get into it. I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (00:59):
I played soccer and I'm not a huge fan. I
think it's really much like it's it's the rest of
the world and then us with American football. I feel
like I don't feel like it was drilled. It's hard
to like go watch the game.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Or it's definitely in the last ten years like popped
up as being very mainstream. I don't remember hearing a
whole lot about it unless you had some European tie.
I was gonna say, yeah, like if your mom's from
the old country like mine, then yeah, I knew about it.
We would watch it, but I just I never like
clung onto it. It wouldn't be like my thing.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
I don't enjoy watching the games. But if anyone knows
who I should bet on, let me know.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
The world loves soccer.
Speaker 3 (01:34):
Man.
Speaker 2 (01:36):
Yeah, there's a place I'm a baby where you can.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
You can go for thirty to sixty days and come
out and okay for now. It's like when you go
to Vegas and you win the first time. It's the
worst thing. I remember I won the first time and
went to Vegas. I want some money, and the cab
drivers like, did you win? I'm like, yeah, I guess
the worst possible thing it could happen to you, because
now you think you're a winner, and you're certainly not.
I can see you you're not a winner at all.
(02:02):
So you think you think you're good at this until
you start gambling more, and then then you're broke. You're
little brokey, and then we have to send you to
a place where they dry you out for a while.
Researchers found that even light drinking can raise the risk
of health problems, including some cancer's, heart disease, liver disease,
and early death. The risks appear to start increasing at
(02:23):
about one drink a day and climb higher as alcohol
consumption goes up. The study also challenged the old idea
that a daily glass of wine might be good for
your health. Research except they found no clear evidence that
alcohol provides a net health benefit even at low levels
of consumption. Based on those findings, the researchers said that
the safest choice is not to drink at all, and
for people who do drink, they recommend limiting alcohol to
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no more than one drink a day. I don't go
ahead on with that. Not even supposed to be doing that,
not even the one glass of wine, guys, not good
for you. Don't be doing that. So there's a search
engine for finding only fans creators called only Guider, and
they search traffic, financial financial filings, and population data to
compare one hundred and sixty seven major US cities to
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see which ones spend the most un only fans subscriptions.
This was in the year twenty twenty five. So these
are the top ten cities for only fans spending per
ten thousand people. Atlanta number one. Number two is Orlando.
Number three, y'all, dirty dogs, is Salt Lake City up
in there spending a lot of Holy fans? Maybe we
(03:30):
should be on only fans if we want people in
Salt Lake City to listen to our show, maybe they
find us that way. Jason, Yeah, hey, get to it. Yeah,
everything's got a price, is I mean, do you think
that's a coincidence or do you think it's like, well,
you know, people say that the aspects of that place
are a little very conservative. Yeah, and so do you
think people are repressed and they're going to OnlyFans? Because
(03:52):
they can like secretly look at stuff and on their
phones and computers and maybe nobody finds out about it. Yeah,
maybe or maybe those some of those sites that you know,
I may may not frequent, maybe illegal there, you know
those there are those states that might be I of
course don't know because when I you know, I frequent
the area, but I certainly am not using my phone
for those purposes. So I don't know. I don't remember
(04:13):
if I if I couldn't because occasionally I like accidentally
type in the wrong thing and it's like, oh my gosh,
how did I get here? Yeah, only to find in
some states you can't even.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
Look at it, can't gamble there either, Just letting you.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
Know, okay, you have a problem. Miami, Minneapolis, Cleveland, Denvers, Seattle,
Saint Louis, and Las Vegas the top ten cities for
only fans spending per ten thousand people. And Amazon delivery
driver Room was caught on a homeowner security camera taking
a cat from the California family's yard. Is now claiming
the cat was actually his own missing pet. So the
(04:49):
guy's name is Joshua the Amazon driver. He says he
recognized the cat by its markings. While delivering a package
in Bakersfield. He says he had adopted a similar gray
cap in twenty twenty five his daughter and believe the
animal that he saw was the family pet that had
gone missing. So he picked up the cat and took
it home because he was convinced it belonged to him.
But the homeowner, a woman named Brenda, says, no, that's
(05:12):
our cat, and we've had the cat for years. They
felt a police report after reviewing doorbell footage that appeared
to show the driver picking up the cat and walking away.
They then showed the local media adoption paperwork. He had
a paperwork as well. So now there's this debate. Now,
what I don't know is how far away from his
house was this cat, you know, Like, I mean, I
(05:33):
don't know how far he lives in Bakersfield. But if
the cat's like, you know, tens of miles away, it's
probably not your cat. It could be, but I mean,
you can't just pick up a cat that looks like
your cat and say, hey, this is mine. Now it
looks like mine, I'm taking him. It turns out you can't.
The controversy, the controversy has cost this guy his job.
Delivering Amazon package. His Amazon said he's no longer allowed
(05:54):
to deliver on the company's behalf, and then it's cooperated
with law enforcement. The Sheriff's office is now in this.
They're investigating the dispute and no criminal charges have been filed.
But the question is whose cat is it? I guess
if you had a microchip in the cat, then this
would be an easy problem to solve. But I love
that idea. It turns out you can't if you once
owned a great cat, you can't just pick up any
(06:15):
great cat and be like, well, that's definitely mine. Put
it back. And a woman has been busted for rushing
home at one hundred and eight miles an hour to
make sure that she could watch Love Island. Okay, have
to hear both sides. She was in a rush to
watch the reality show and now she's behind bars. The
Arizona Department of Public Safety says that it had happened
last week, with the woman caught speeding south of Phoenix.
(06:38):
The driver was clocked at one hundred and eight miles an
hour in a sixty five when she was pulled over.
She told troopers that she wanted to get home in
time to watch Love Island. The woman, who was not identified,
was arrested for criminal speed and reckless driving, and her
vehicle was put into what authorities called car jail for
twenty days.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
Girl, I get it. Sometimes I forego going out so
I can watch Love Island. It's been so long since
something's like hit me that way, And what's the.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
Deal with this show comes out like daily?
Speaker 2 (07:05):
Oh my goodness, it is a full time job. That's
why I have to stay home sometimes. So it comes
out Sunday, Monday, Tuesday. They skip Wednesday, We do Thursday, Friday,
and no Saturday.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
It's pretty random. It's a commitment. Why don't you just
wait until like five or six are all in there
and then just knock those out?
Speaker 2 (07:25):
Because social ruins it for me, you know, Okay, But like,
can I watch it in Italy? Because this is like
a genuine fear, like you.
Speaker 1 (07:33):
Might have to get a VPN that and for your
gambling as well, because I don't know if I don't
know if being gambled there, so you might have to
get a VPN, so you can, you know.
Speaker 2 (07:41):
I don't even know how to say gamble and Italian.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
In like Ohio, you know, so you can log in
and the thing thinks you're or what's like, I don't know, Florida,
Like you got it. The computer has to think you're
somewhere else. But pick a state where you can do
the most you know, inappropriate thing like gamble and look
at porn obviously. Well yeah, I mean yeah, don't mean don't.
I would want to pick a state where I could
and I'd be really disappointing. Yeah, the show is on,
(08:04):
it's stay or go. So now now people texting me going,
who is it? They want to know? We call you
Kate a man, he's a legend, and you know what,
I'm Kate Case. Somebody texted, maybe he's Filipino. Your name
is the P word in Tagalog? Did I say it right? Tagal?
(08:25):
I don't know. Well, I think that's the language if
they speak. But he's he's not sure. I'm so positive
he called you the P word. That'd be way funnier.
Stick to Kate. You want to stay safe, right, I
don't understand, Like it's he has the email to invite
(08:47):
you to the meeting. It's on the screen. Other people
are calling you that you've corrected the person Like what,
I don't know what I don't know. Hey McKenzie, good morning,
how you doing. Good morning, I'm doing well, say to
my friend Kate, hi girl, not even her name? All right, mackenzie.
(09:08):
So there go, and thank you to all the people
who hit us up on all the different various platforms.
Search for the Fred Show. If you want to be
featured on the show, you want us to talk about you, right,
And it's kind of behind your back, but right in
front of you. Two, you've been diatting a guy for
about six months and you became official three months after that.
It's very exciting. So what's the problem mckinzi.
Speaker 4 (09:28):
Well, I really do like him. I want to be
clear about that. But I'll be up front. I have
the worst track record when I shoot men, and honestly,
I just don't detect the red flags even if I
see them out in front of me. I just am
not good at it.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
Okay, So what what are we missing? What do you
what's right in front of us that you're missing somehow?
Speaker 5 (09:50):
Okay?
Speaker 4 (09:51):
So recently I actually just had surgery for a deviated
steptam and my boyfriend was really wonderful. He offered to
take care of me, you know, because my family she
doesn't live close and you know, I actually told him
I'd be fine, I can do it on my own,
but he actually really insisted and it was so sweet
of him.
Speaker 1 (10:09):
That's nice. That's what boyfriends is supposed to do, right,
take care of you.
Speaker 6 (10:13):
Well yeah, green flag.
Speaker 4 (10:14):
But you know, after doing a great job of taking
care of me, he went back home and just like
really nonchalant, just asked me if I could send him
money since he took time off work to take care
of me.
Speaker 1 (10:27):
Excuse me, right, what you're supposed to pay the.
Speaker 3 (10:30):
Man after he and he's your he's your boyfriend, Like
that's that's That's part of what boyfriends do when girlfriends
have surgery, is they, you know, pake him up in
the hospital or whatever and make sure they have all
the stuff that they need.
Speaker 4 (10:45):
I mean, yeah, I mean that's what I thought.
Speaker 1 (10:47):
Money And how much learn does he want?
Speaker 4 (10:51):
Well, he didn't get into the exact mouth. It's just
I just feel uncomfortable because it's weird. It's not an
unreasonable request, I guess, because I do make more than
he does and he doesn't get PTO. But I guess
I'm starting to feel kind of like, you know this
if he offered, this should be something that doesn't require
(11:11):
me to pay him, But I don't know. I'm feeling
very confused about all this. Am I overthinking it? Is
this a red flag?
Speaker 1 (11:18):
You know?
Speaker 4 (11:18):
Am I being selfish?
Speaker 1 (11:20):
I feel like if it was going to be of
that much financial consequence to him to take a day
or two off to take care of his girlfriend, then
he should have told you, like, look, I can pick
you up, I can do this, I can do that,
but I can't miss two days at work because that's
too much money. I mean, I understand that people are
living a paycheck to paycheck and every dollar counts. I
understand that, but like free, that might be something where
he said, whoa, whoa, you listen to Drake, what's going
(11:44):
on commuting? Yeah? But as far as like if it
were going to be that big of a deal where
he can't afford to take off work long enough to
take care of you, then I feel like he should
have said that, like, hey, I want to be involved here.
I want to help, but I can't help the whole time.
But for him just pop up later and go, hey,
so I took two days off and I would have
made you know, five hundred bucks and so you gotta
(12:05):
pay me that that that that feels off to me.
Speaker 4 (12:11):
Oh and that's just why I'm not sure if I'm overreacting.
I talked to my sister about it, and she actually
like flipped out. She was like, I can't believe he
would ask you for money after he offered. And I'm
starting to really see that she might be right, But again,
like you know, he, as you just said, people are
living paycheck to paycheck. Every penny counts. Maybe he really
(12:32):
couldn't afford to take the time off. But if he couldn't,
he didn't tell me. So I feel like I'm just
slinging back and forth here.
Speaker 1 (12:39):
And it's it's weird. He could have communicated to you
in some way like I can't afford to take off
work and I know that's embarrassing to say, but that's
better than That's better than now are we playing? Are
we playing? Are you are to take out working?
Speaker 4 (12:55):
Well?
Speaker 1 (12:58):
Are you playing the symbols in a hotel lobby right now?
Speaker 6 (13:00):
Like?
Speaker 1 (13:00):
What are you a street performer?
Speaker 6 (13:09):
I mean I could pay I was gonna say.
Speaker 1 (13:12):
Like, you know, it's is he a street performer? Are
you attending on Mackenzie? I don't like it. I think
there is a way to communicate this. And the problem
is if he'd said that to you, then you think
he's kind of a brokie and that's not attractive. And
then if he'd said to you, I can't help you
because I have to work, then that makes him look
(13:32):
like an inattended boyfriend. But but but sending you a
VENMO request afterwards for his nursing care, you know, is
also sort of a strange thing to do. I don't
I think he should have prepared for this, Like he
should have figured it out right, like this is part
of your obligation as a partner is to be there
at least part of the time. But Mackenzie would take
(13:54):
some phone calls on this. I wish you the best.
Speaker 7 (13:56):
Thanks, I appreciate no, thank you.
Speaker 1 (13:59):
Have a good day. Eight five five, you're right, all right?
I want to make Trans Siberian Orchestra over.
Speaker 5 (14:11):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (14:12):
I mean that she's practicing for upcoming tour.
Speaker 5 (14:16):
Eight.
Speaker 1 (14:18):
I want to know. So if you're dating somebody in
they're like, yeah, I'm gonna take care of you for
a couple of days, and then afterwards you're like, you,
I had to take work off. I didn't get paid,
so I need you to pay me for that. I mean,
how would you react to then? And if you're on
his side and you're really entire straits And again I'm
not making fun of people who, by any means, who
like have to go to work to pay the bills.
I think that's very real. But you know, how do
you navigate this? Then? If you're on the other side, Hey, Rachel, Hi,
(14:41):
Hey Rachel, what do you think when you hear this?
Speaker 7 (14:45):
So I was in a very similar situation in December.
I got my second debated septem surgery, and I have
to say, she needs to go uh footslop. I don't
make as much money as my boyfriend, but he was
there every step of the way. I even told him, Hey,
if the money becomes too much, or taking care of
(15:06):
me becomes too much, you know, please let me know.
So he did communicate that. But this man went to
the store every day for me. I needed fresh water
and you not need two of them. So you know,
life happens, You're gonna get sick, You're going to need surgery,
so your partner should be there for you, and heaven forbid,
(15:27):
money is an issue you talk about it and you
don't talk about it after the fact.
Speaker 1 (15:32):
Yeah, I agree. And Rachel, like, if you needed specific
medicine or you needed you know, if the prescriptions for
the aftercare were expensive, or if you need a very
specific dietary things or what, and there's not a lot
of extra money, then maybe you help with that. Maybe
it's like here, I'll give you the money to go
pick the stuff up. But like as a boyfriend or
a husband or whatever, to charge your partner to do
(15:53):
those things, it just doesn't ridiculous. It doesn't feel like
he can take care of her and he doesn't have
to take care of her and you know completely, but
like occasionally, you know, for something like a big deal
like this, I think you should be able to figure
that out. But you're right. Communication. Thank you, Rachel.
Speaker 4 (16:12):
Than you guys, love you.
Speaker 1 (16:13):
I love you too. Have a great day. Thanks for listening.
Hey Katie, good morning, Good morning. Hi Katie. So you
just heard this guy, this woman's boyfriend, she had surgery.
He said, hey, I want me take care of you
for a couple of days as you recover, and then
afterwards he sent her a bill. If he wanted money,
you want to be compensated for this, and it was
never discussed ahead of time. And his explanation is, well,
I don't have paid time off and I couldn't go
(16:34):
to work, and so I need you to pay for
the time that essentially I would have been working. What
do you think.
Speaker 5 (16:40):
I think that's wild. I think to your point, like,
not just as a partner that needs to figure it out,
but just as an adult with a life with other obligations,
like you are in the best position to know whether
or not you can accommodate any sort of thing that
pops up in your life. Right if they were to
married and have kids and the kids were sick, would
(17:02):
he be like, uh, honey, because I took off work,
can you vend mommy, you know, five hundred bucks because
I had to stay home with the kids. Like super
bizarre situation. But he needs to figure out his communication
and that might lead to a lot more problems for
her down the road. So yeah, one hundred percent, this
is this is wild and I would never be okay
with that.
Speaker 1 (17:22):
Well, they and they've been dating long enough that like
it would be okay I think for him to be
honest about and she probably would be at this point
be aware of his financial situation, like, hey, he's having
to work, you know, each day, and he needs eat
the money to pay the bills and whatever whatever. That
would be something that I think he would have communicated
with her such that if he offered to do it,
(17:43):
then she could say, Hey, I know you need to work,
so thank you for offering, but I'll get someone else
to do it who isn't going to be as you know,
financially taxed by this as you are. But but if
you offer, then I'm assuming that that's a free offer
because I'm sleeping with you definitely.
Speaker 5 (18:00):
Yeah, you know, like it's all about like communicate your
intention and it's gonna be fine to say, listen, I
absolutely want to but you know my financial situation. Is
there anything else I can do to help? I mean,
like the way he went around this is super weird.
Speaker 1 (18:16):
I think that feels way better Katie than sending a bill,
you know. But thank you. Have a great day.
Speaker 5 (18:23):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (18:23):
Thanks.
Speaker 5 (18:23):
Oh and by the way, my name is Kiki.
Speaker 1 (18:27):
And I'm from now on you'll be Katie. You'll be
Kiky and she's going to be Katie. So it's fine,
ye have a good day.
Speaker 5 (18:35):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (18:35):
That is so wild to me that, like, how many
different ways have you written your name? It's like, at
this point, I think I'm being punked, Like am I
on a TV show? That was me yesterday?
Speaker 4 (18:44):
Just watching Cruise in some of your laugh because I
know they heard this, and I'm just like, well.
Speaker 1 (18:48):
Then, you know what, why didn't one of them go, hey, bro,
that's not her name. That's what I was doing the
whole time, like no, it's me. For your life over here,
I would have stop the whole meeting down and been
like her name is Jessica, Okay, Like, how dare you
disrespect her in this way? Hi? Trish? Good morning?
Speaker 5 (19:08):
Good morning?
Speaker 7 (19:09):
How are you?
Speaker 1 (19:09):
Hi, Tris? I'm doing great. I hope you are.
Speaker 6 (19:11):
Starego definitely go because this is going to become a pattern.
And if he's going to be asking for money one
during a relationship, he's going to continue to ask for
money in that relationship for who knows what. It does
seem that way, and that's yeah, and that's not a partnership.
(19:32):
You know, you're doing something for somebody for money, or
you're doing something because you are in a relationship, and
that's just the best thing to do.
Speaker 1 (19:42):
Yeah, I don't like it. Thank you, Trish, glad you called.
Have a good day and thanks for listening. Hey, Alison,
good morning, Good morning. Boyfriends don't send bills, says Alison. Period.
That's right.
Speaker 7 (19:56):
Period.
Speaker 5 (19:57):
Yeah, boyfriends don't send bills.
Speaker 1 (20:00):
What everyone's been saying.
Speaker 5 (20:00):
If he had communicated ahead of time and had.
Speaker 4 (20:03):
Been like, hey, you know, I can only do a
couple of days, or I can maybe I can spend
the night and I can help you out overnight or
something like that, but for him to be.
Speaker 1 (20:11):
Like, here's all the stuff that I did for you,
by the way, pay up.
Speaker 5 (20:14):
No, that's not okay.
Speaker 1 (20:15):
Yeah, I think clearly communicating what he can and can't
do financially, is, while difficult and maybe a little embarrassing,
is better to do and say yeah, I got you,
only to send an invoice.
Speaker 2 (20:29):
Clearly, clearly he doesn't got her because he needed money afterwards,
so clearly he.
Speaker 1 (20:33):
Didn't have her. Yeah, thank you, Alison. I have a
great day.
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