December 8, 2025 • 29 mins
What do you do when you clog someone else's toilet?! Fred and the crew discuss! Plus, Judge Keke weighs in on daycare drama with an all new Keke's Court!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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apply all thanks to Live Nation. What do you do
if you're staying somewhere, be at a hotel, but especially if
you're like at a friend's house and you clog the
toilet and and maybe that you're not able to maybe
there's a plunger in there. Maybe there's not though, and
you're unable to undo it. What do you do? And
(00:43):
in this the question in this particular topic was if
you're at a party at someone's house and this happened
in a party, you should be arrested.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
That's that's not a police right now.
Speaker 1 (00:53):
Yeah, at the club and at a party, I just
if you feel like that may need to happen, then
maybe it's not club night, you know what I mean? Like,
maybe we don't go to live tonight, you know, maybe
tomorrow and after I get some emodium come something. I mean,
I realize an emergency. Emergencies occur, but in this scenario,
it was it's a party and this guy's like, you know,
there may only be one bathroom for everyone to use.
(01:15):
So it's not like you can just walk out like
I mean, I suppose you could walk out like it
didn't happen and hope that nobody was waiting outside the
thing for you to have to explain, because then everyone
the party's going to know that it was you. You can't
stay in there for a very long time because then
people are like, is he okay? But even if you're
like staying in someone's guest house and this occur or
(01:37):
guest room rather and this occurs, like how long can
you go before you have to say something like hey,
I I yeah, are he's broken? And then you know
then your host is probably going to go in there
and try and figure it out, only to find out
that So what do you what is the etiquette? Like,
I think you have to just cop to it, don't you.
You have to just walk right out there now, people
(01:58):
in the comp when people are in I guess, I
don't know if they were commenting, I don't remember. I
guess they were commenting saying that they've actually well I'm
trying to figure out how I knew this, but people
were saying that they've actually reached their hand down as
far as it will go in an effort to unclog it.
Because that was better than having to go and explain
(02:19):
to your friend that you did this and then having
them have to go in there and figure out how
to undo it, because like, let's say, it's simply you
just need to, you know, use the plunger more effectively. Well,
then and your friend then has to plunge your stuff.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
That's bad.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
People's houses bad, that is bad.
Speaker 4 (02:42):
I agree, But I would first and foremost, Yeah, if
you got to go number two, like leave the party,
just don't even say by just leave. But I understand,
but I would put my hand in there.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
I thought about that.
Speaker 4 (02:53):
If I'm desperate, if I didn't bare hand. If I didn't,
then my bare hands are going in because I'm not
letting it.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
Just about anything. Yes, I think I would start trying
to find like the long objects. I don't know what
I mean, Are you gonna make it worse, But like,
what do you do? What do you do? You're just
gonna go right out there and cop to it.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
No, I'm like, I'm gonna lay down and just make
myself comfortable. I'm not leaving the bathroom here.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
Until it goes down.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
Because you could hope, you could hope and pray, Like
if it's a guest room, when no one else is
using the bathroom, I suppose you could give it like
an hour and just hope that it clears itself. What
odds are it's not going to I'm laying it.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
I'm laying in there, man, I can't leave out. I'm
sorry this.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
Bathroom is occupied for the rest of the night, but
I cannot put my hand in there.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
Like that's crazy, girl.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
But eventually you're gonna have to You're gonna have to
be honest about it.
Speaker 5 (03:46):
No, I just.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
Bring me a phone charge tend not to fix itself,
whether there's a clog. No, I mean, someone said I
have cronics disease, so I got to go. When I
got to go, someone else and you just you dip,
you go.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
It's out of the gas stations that I do.
Speaker 6 (04:06):
We're talking about people who are just like making the
active decision to take.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
A jump at a party, not if you have a
medical issue. No, yeah, it's just like.
Speaker 6 (04:16):
Joe down the street line you had like a big dinner, leave,
get out of my house.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
It's two scenarios, Like one is, if you're staying in
someone's house for an extended period of time, then you're
probably gonna have to go number two. And I don't know,
you just got to hope that because who's to say
that the toilet doesn't have an issue that a known
issue that you don't know about, you know, and so
like this is a common occurrence, but you don't know that.
So you're embarrassed. But you got to go out there
and be like, hey, guys, they're eating their breakfast, you
(04:41):
know whatever, Hey the toasted over here, CEO's over here,
about that about I don't need any fiber because well
you know what I mean. Like, so you'd have to
say something because you can't just leave it like all
weekend and then it's killing Then let's ruin the friendship,
like territory. You just I mean, was that I'm hopping
out the window someone else that I had it happen
(05:04):
and quietly told the host and was very nice that
the guy before me did it. That's messed up. How
would you do that again? If the guest room scenario
like odds are they know that it wasn't like that
before blame their kids. Didn't we do a waiting by
the phone a bunch of years ago? Or did I
(05:25):
just read the story? I think we did a waiting
by the phone? Yeah, it was, Well, it was the
woman who the toilet was clogged, so she took the
poop and put it in the in the kiddy litter
whoa right, okay? And the cat had died though, well,
there are a couple of issues. Wasn't the cat dead?
Speaker 2 (05:41):
I thought she bagged it up?
Speaker 1 (05:43):
Oh, there was another one who took it with her, Oh,
put it in her purse and took it away. And
then there was one that we've done this for fifteen years.
And then there was one who she put it in
the But first of all, it's a human one, so like, okay,
like you know little kiddies like I didn't do that.
You nasty for that. And then but then the cat
was dead, so it couldn't have been. I don't know,
(06:04):
maybe I just read that one.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
Awful Hunter, you just gotta leave, You gotta go home,
You gotta leave.
Speaker 7 (06:12):
Yeah, I'm leaving, whether it's out the window or out
the front door. I'm not sticking around.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
But there's no hiding these people, like are we not?
Are we just not gonna be friends anymore? Like I'm
just never gonna speak to you with them, because I mean,
you could leave, but they're still gonna knows you.
Speaker 7 (06:27):
How am I going to be friends with someone that
doesn't keep a plunger in the bathroom?
Speaker 1 (06:32):
That's actually a good question, that's a good question. But
what if the plunger doesn't work? Like what if it's
what if it's like a really like a really unfortunate
situation and the plunger somehow isn't.
Speaker 7 (06:40):
Working, And you could be worrying about me crawling out
the window, but you got plumbing issues, and I think
that's more important, So it's.
Speaker 2 (06:48):
Not on you at all. Ever, No, okay, got it.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
I don't think I'd make matters worse by insulting your
plumbing on top of all of it. But anyway, Okay,
thank you, Hunter, have a good day.
Speaker 7 (06:58):
You two friends.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
Yeah, a lot of people play them, that's right, That's yeah,
that's grim. Now, hold on, we finally got some good
advice here on the text. If I'm at a party
or at a guest room or whatever, I will test
flush before I use the bathroom. Okay, so you can
make sure that it's like a strong flush. But the
problem is that still doesn't negate the fact that you
(07:21):
got it. Like what if it's a weak flush or
no matter what, you gotta go, you gotta go eventually,
so like it's it is what it is.
Speaker 3 (07:27):
And sometimes that strong flush is the only strong flush,
so the next time you do it, it won't.
Speaker 1 (07:32):
Work like you wasted your strong Yeah, back up. Well,
the other option not to get too gross. And I
know some people do this anyway, it's like a multiple
flush situations, like where it just along the way you
do it so that it likes not it doesn't. But
the problem is if I'm like if I don't, you know,
have a very big apartment, I would know if you
(07:53):
flushed three times when you were I would I would
hear it, So I'd be like, what on earth, I
can't I'm not listening, but like my couch, my couch
is about fifteen feet away from the guest bathroom, Like
I'm not. I can't counters. But come on, if somebody
was somebody were in there and you heard it flush
three four times, you wouldn't think something about that?
Speaker 2 (08:15):
Or I think three is okay.
Speaker 1 (08:17):
Four is where you, four is where we drawn along.
I would call the okay, three of them, you know,
you know that's a normal, that's yeah, right, but four okay?
Hey Jay, Yeah, you're sticking your hands down there. Oh no,
you have to. I think you do leave that. I
think you do. I think you've got to try absolutely
(08:37):
everything before you listen.
Speaker 8 (08:39):
If they don't have any soap, I always check the
makes this has happened multiple times.
Speaker 2 (08:43):
If they don't have any.
Speaker 8 (08:44):
Soap, then I guess we just have to leave it
because that's on you at that point. But if there's soap,
and yeah, I did it, I messed it up.
Speaker 1 (08:52):
I have read that. I've read that soap and warm
water will work. Because you know, if it has happened before,
we meant to wash his hands after he grabbed.
Speaker 8 (08:59):
Well, you could do it after I grab it.
Speaker 1 (09:01):
Well, of course you're gonna wash your hand. No, I mean,
come on, come on, yeah, you're not a total Wait.
Speaker 2 (09:05):
Please, after you grab it, that's what I want to know.
Speaker 1 (09:09):
Oh that's a good point because wash your hands flushes.
Then they're breaking in hoping that you clean it so
that it will Oh god, this is gross. Okay, Jay,
thank you, I have a good day. Thank you. No,
I've read for like alternatives like if I if you
don't have draino and the punge doesn't work apparently, and
the plumbers are probably screaming me, But there are other
ways that you can clear it using what you have
(09:30):
sometimes like hot water and soap or something. I don't know.
It's just because I don't have like I don't have.
It's not a regular currens in my house, and I
don't have like draino laying around.
Speaker 2 (09:39):
What are you put it in your pocket?
Speaker 9 (09:40):
Like what?
Speaker 2 (09:41):
You don't look at me. I wouldn't grab it. I
would tell my friend if I'm saying at your house,
I'm close enough with you to go yo, I clugged
your toilet.
Speaker 1 (09:47):
Man, Yes, but I'm with Carla who texted like you should.
If you have multiple bathrooms, just go get multiple plunge
your step number one. Just make sure that all the
equipment necessary is in there. Vanessa, great investment.
Speaker 10 (09:59):
Oh yes, we threw a housewarming party, and my friend
came up to me and was like, so, my boyfriend
does what he does best and.
Speaker 11 (10:11):
He clogged your toilet.
Speaker 10 (10:14):
Where's your plunger? And I was like, oh, and because
it was our housewarming, like, we didn't have a plunger
upstairs for that bathroom, no boy So like now I'm
like running downstairs to get a different one, trying to
not make a scene because I didn't want to embarrass
him in front of other people. But yeah, it needed
to be taken care of. I don't think she felt
good leaving it like that, and I don't know what
(10:35):
his plan was originally.
Speaker 1 (10:37):
Yeah, Vanessa, well and you're still friends like it? Just
this this what happens, is it is what it is, Yes.
Speaker 10 (10:44):
But I honestly always think of it when I look.
Speaker 1 (10:46):
At a See this is what I'm worried about. This
is exactly what worries me. Thank you, Vanessa, have a
good day you too.
Speaker 2 (10:53):
This is this is the issue, and believe you and
are counting the flushes.
Speaker 1 (10:58):
Well.
Speaker 2 (10:58):
You also listened to how long some people watch their
hands too, don't you?
Speaker 1 (11:02):
Uh No, I listened to here I listen if there
is a washing of the hand going on. But again,
like I don't have a very big house, like I
can you can hear everything. I run the sink. I
also I noticed, I noticed it when people use my
guest room. I notice if you'd run the sink or
you don't run the sink. I always run the sink.
I run the sink. If you're in my house and
I'm in my bathroom, I still run the sink. Like
(11:23):
you don't need to hear that. I know that you
know that I'm doing something there. But like we can
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the honorable Kikey is here and show. But Shelley working
overtime today. I love how you did. You're just hanging
out normally, you're in your your private wing.
Speaker 2 (12:08):
Yeah, it's under construction.
Speaker 1 (12:10):
Oh, I see what are we adding like a glamor
room to it? What are we doing like a dressing
room for radio? Is that what we're adding?
Speaker 2 (12:15):
Yeah?
Speaker 12 (12:16):
And also like the hot bar area, it just isn't
hot enough.
Speaker 1 (12:19):
I understand, I got it.
Speaker 2 (12:21):
Thank you to work on that.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
Yeah. By the way, do you like our new our
bigger window door. I heard that story. What are your
thoughts on that? Does that not look exactly the same?
You know what?
Speaker 12 (12:31):
I did not notice it when I walked in, so
I would say, yes, it does.
Speaker 1 (12:35):
I think what happened was you got bigger and we
got the same door, and they're trying to pretend that
it's what it is. This place is insane and the
amount of thought and effort and money that probably went
into that little project there, I can't even begin to
tell you. Kick you take it away, sorry and go ahead.
Speaker 2 (12:51):
Okay, all right, let's get into the court. All right here,
all right, the gable shelley.
Speaker 1 (12:57):
You can sit. You don't really have to stand.
Speaker 3 (12:58):
It's okay, sambor Kians, I'm the sand, It says, key
KEI tell me if I'm wrong for wanting to sue
my son's daycare after they kicked him out. My son
Liam was expelled because of the staff.
Speaker 2 (13:13):
Claiming that he was randomly yelling F bombs.
Speaker 3 (13:16):
They kept sending me notes about his inappropriate language, and
I told them clearly that I raised my kids to
express themselves and that yes, I allow swearing if it's
used in the right context.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
After that, I so we're talking like three four, Yeah.
Speaker 2 (13:34):
He's five. I could feel the judgment.
Speaker 3 (13:37):
They even started filming him and sending me videos as proof,
which I felt was completely passive aggressive, so I ignored it.
Then last week they officially terminated his enrollment, saying that
other parents complained that he was a bad influence. I
called total bs. I'm seriously considering calling my attorney, and
I've already had my friends leave bad reviews.
Speaker 2 (13:59):
Am I wrong?
Speaker 1 (14:01):
This reminds me I've I've been holding onto this little
nugget for a while, and we'll probably revisit this this week.
But I have a little little audio to go along
with this, really, because I think we would have the
same problem if Little Gigi. Oh if Little went to
daycare because she learned a new word.
Speaker 2 (14:18):
Oh boy, oh.
Speaker 5 (14:23):
You can say oh man, oh not nice, she learned
a new word.
Speaker 1 (14:41):
You're not supposed to do that. Yep, I don't know
that if Kiki a five year old, Judge Kiki. I
don't know if a five year old's able to discern
when you can and can't use those words. So I
think we got to go with not using those words
until we know when the time and the place is right,
and even if.
Speaker 3 (14:58):
They can figure out the right way. So you those words,
because my nephew sure knows how to use them, they
should not be doing it at daycare. Like I understand
everybody has a different type of parenting strategy whatever, but
like this is a society. Okay, you can't have your
kids just shouting f bombs at daycare and now.
Speaker 2 (15:16):
The other kids are singing along like lady.
Speaker 3 (15:19):
And then you are so wrong in my opinion, because
you had your friends go leave negative reviews their kids
don't even attend this daycare, right, you know, like you're
trying to take this business down because your kid is
disrupting the class.
Speaker 1 (15:30):
Yeah, I don't think this is a matter of them
being a bad daycare I think it's a matter of
you letting your kid at age five do things that
at age five we don't know that there is a
time and a place to do the Like if you
want to let your five year old cuss, fine, right,
but then they got to know that. Then they can't
just do it anywhere because other kids will learn and
it's just, you know, it's disruptive and offensive to some.
(15:51):
So I don't know if they're older and they know, like,
all right, fine, I can cuss it home around mom
and dad, but I can't cuss at school. Well fine,
but you're not old enough to know that. Then that's
what I say. I'm I think about me. I would
love to just curse all morning, you know, cursing. I
think it's very good.
Speaker 11 (16:09):
I think.
Speaker 2 (16:12):
Feel so good sometimes. But I can't get up here
and just do that, you know, in the morning, Like
I have to watch my words. You have to see
your children the same thing, like come.
Speaker 1 (16:22):
On, man, oh yeah, we have we have filthy mouths.
What would surprise a lot of people is how much
Showbi Shelley cusses. It's an fom dropper man, Like it's nothing,
and I love I love it too, and I remember
growing up. You know, teachers used to say when you
were young that if you you only use those words
(16:42):
if you didn't know a better word, like if you
weren't smart enough to know what else? No, no, no,
I know a lot of words, guys. I choose those
words because they do feel good to say, but I'm
also in a grown ass man.
Speaker 2 (16:53):
Absolutely, we save those words for the podcast.
Speaker 3 (16:56):
Everybody knows that, you know, there's a time and a place,
So I don't know if they care is the place
for your kid to just be shouting out swear words.
I would love to hear from the parents, especially the
gentle parenting.
Speaker 1 (17:05):
Yeah, you know, let me know about that. Eight three five.
What do you do if the daycare is complaining that
your kid is using words that he or she shouldn't
be using. I mean, I think it's pretty obvious, like you,
you simply can't let your kids do stuff until they
know how to moderate their behavior.
Speaker 12 (17:23):
So I have two kids in daycare, and from what
I think I've heard, they both make great.
Speaker 2 (17:30):
But I've heard.
Speaker 12 (17:30):
Stories not just like swearing, but like if there's a
kid like daycare is not a fit for every kid,
And I've heard parents say that like they they enrolled
their kid and for whatever reason, the kid had like
behavioral things they couldn't calm out in a classic And
I think the daycare has the right to say, like,
you're not a fit for us, so we can't. You know,
maybe it's beast because I don't know that I want
my kid anyway. If you're kicking me out, why would
(17:51):
I try to force my kid like me?
Speaker 2 (17:52):
It's just not a fit. I the teachers.
Speaker 12 (17:55):
I wouldn't want my kids working with those teachers.
Speaker 6 (17:57):
Then if they didn't want me there, I got kicked
out of dance class and my mom had to make
her peace with that. Was that No, it's because I
told the instructor I wanted to do my own thing.
Speaker 1 (18:06):
Which you know what I understand that's going into adulthood
like it's nothing true for sure.
Speaker 6 (18:11):
Yeah no, if you ever want to know me, that's
my origin story. But yeah, my mom is like, all right,
she doesn't want to follow the teacher. We got to
take her out of the stamps class.
Speaker 1 (18:17):
Well, and the other thing is, okay, this kid doesn't
know how to moderate. The other kids don't know they're
the same age. They don't know how to moderate so
then they hear it, and then they start saying it,
and then they go home and say it, and then
the daycare looks you at because it's like, what are
they learning at this place? So the daycare is in
a no win situation here either, because the kids are
(18:38):
going to pick up on what they see and hear
from the other ones. Is it ellie, oh, it's just
oh hi ol, good morning. So Kiki's court. This kid
is would I guess no longer allowed to go to daycare.
And they're writing bad reviews. The parents are writing bad
reviews and then having other people write bad reviews because
they won't let the five year old cuss in daycare.
Speaker 13 (19:00):
Yeah, this is ridiculous. So I know my son used
the F word like at three, learned it from me.
I've never censored myself around him, necessarily, and he learned
how to use it.
Speaker 7 (19:13):
I told him he was not allowed to use it around.
Speaker 9 (19:15):
Anyone else and and and he knew that, and he
learned that, and so it was fine. I mean, he
wouldn't even do it, like when I wanted to trick
my friends and be like, listen to what cold can
say like F you, And and he wouldn't do it.
So it's like, no, this mom is completely and utterly
wrong because now those other kids are learning it and
that's just not that's not good parenting.
Speaker 1 (19:36):
So how do you deal with it? L Like you
you saying held your kid.
Speaker 9 (19:40):
Well, not be seven, but.
Speaker 1 (19:42):
You're saying when he was younger and even now, like
it's you're not centering yourself. So then how do you
Was he a you able to teach him at a
young age, like hey, there are places that you can
say this in places that you can't, or is this
just that that's just the risk you take because you're
not gonna gonna hold back.
Speaker 13 (19:58):
I mean, I guess it's the risk you take. But
also he did learn right away, because I do remember
I was at a parent event he was in pre
K and they were all like, oh my god, did
you hear so and so learn the F word? And
I was like, oh my god. I was like, you guys,
it was my son. And they're like they all looked
at me first of all to being crazy that I
admitted to it, but I was like, he knows that word.
It was him, and they were actually like, no, it wasn't.
(20:20):
It was actually this kid over here, and I was like, oh, okay,
I'm good. So I mean that would have been when
he was four years old. So yeah, I mean it's
possible if you have the right methods to teach your
kid what to do.
Speaker 1 (20:31):
Yeah, okay, well, thank you have a good day. Thanks
you too, Glad you called Nicole. Good morning, Welcome to
the friend Shale. How are you Hi, doing good? How
are you guys doing great? Thanks for listening. So what
do you think you hear Kiki's chord?
Speaker 2 (20:45):
So I totally.
Speaker 14 (20:46):
Agree with there was time a place. If you want
to allow your kid to do that, that's your prerogative.
We have a three year old if who's in day care,
and he's granted not the one necessarily sweary, but he
is picking up on some of the language and the arguing,
whether it's from other kids or even like teachers. So
my perspective is kind of like you can only control
what you can control. So we're trying to teach our
(21:07):
toddler like, these aren't nice words. You don't say these
words kind of honestly, like Fred, what your teacher would
say growing up in school, Like if you can't think
of a better word, don't say that word, try to
think of other words or expressing it a different way.
But I mean, it's going to happen unfortunately, So we
just got to kind of deal with it with our
own kids.
Speaker 1 (21:25):
Yeah, all right, thank you, Nicole.
Speaker 4 (21:27):
Yeah, what I just well, I want to know why
I have five year old's in daycare, Like, isn't a
kidergarten time?
Speaker 2 (21:33):
Yeah, kind of blessing. Maybe it's a blessing it's time
to go to kindergarten.
Speaker 4 (21:36):
And then also five years old versus two and three
is so different, like even though they're still young, like
that is a huge difference, and like developmentally and all that,
you know what I'm saying. So like I feel like
five year old should know a little better. I'm not
saying he's everything coming. He's a kid, he's five.
Speaker 1 (21:50):
My niece Polly's almost five, and she would know the
difference between a word she can and can't say, like
at that point, if she said the words, she made
the choice to say the word, Like.
Speaker 3 (21:58):
This kid is obviously using in the right context, like
his mom is teaching and be good on him.
Speaker 1 (22:04):
Because if you're going to use the profane words, were
using him correct?
Speaker 11 (22:07):
Right?
Speaker 1 (22:07):
Yeah? Yeah, yeah, but I think in five you know
that you should be able to say you should be
able to teach your kid like if you insist on
allowing them to say that stuff, then only here and
not there.
Speaker 2 (22:19):
He's clearly teaching the other kids at this time.
Speaker 1 (22:21):
Yes, she knows right from wrong. Yeah, absolutely, Hay Amber, Yes,
good morning. This story resonates with you. You were the parent.
Speaker 11 (22:31):
I was a parent. I unfortunately was my son. He's
he's now six and a half. But a couple of
years back, when he was in pre school, he overheard
me and my husband talking and I did drop enough
bomb because I tried to be you know, like conscientious
about what I'm talking about and what I'm talking about
with socials my young children. There he while ever heard me,
and he went to school the next day, didn't even
(22:53):
know if he heard me, you know, drop it. Went
to school the next day. Apparently he was dropping it
quite a bit, and school when I went to go
pick him up, the school had to pull me aside
and was like, hey, we noticed a new vocabulary word
in your son's vocabulary. And I here, I'm thinking like, oh,
maybe he you know, learned, you know, I'm thinking He's like, oh,
you know he learned something new, you know. No, it
(23:13):
was just just truly a bomb. And I sat there
and my face turned right as a tomato, and I'm like,
oh my god, I am so sorry. And you know,
they they you know, they try to do what they
you know, redirecting and what have you. And he continued
that behavior for probably about another week or two, and
so he kind of just learned like, hey, I can't
do that. So you know, we tried our best with redirecting,
(23:36):
you know, because he was only three at the time,
so you know, there's only so much disciplining you can
do with a three year old because they don't really gress,
you know, gress that concept. But yeah, he continues the
behavior for about a week or two, and then he
kind of fortunately he stopped. Was that parrot.
Speaker 1 (23:53):
Remember when cuss it's funny, and so like you got
to not laugh because if you laugh and then they
think they made you happy either going to keep doing it.
You gotta be like, that's not somebody's so.
Speaker 11 (24:02):
Funny, yep, And then that only instills it more into them.
They think, oh, hey, this is a good time. I'm
making my mom and dad happier. You know, they think
it's funny and so you know, they laugh. I have
three kids, and so you know, I every everyone I've had,
I've learned what to do and what not to do,
and he by far was the one that gave me
a run for my money. He's the middle one, so
(24:24):
the middle one. Definitely. Yeah, he's definitely And even now
at six and a half, he's still I still have
to look at him sideways.
Speaker 1 (24:30):
Like what just came out of your life?
Speaker 11 (24:32):
Because he's just the funniest, most ridiculous things.
Speaker 9 (24:34):
But yeah, definitely was a parent.
Speaker 11 (24:37):
I can definitely tell you I don't think a five
year old. I mean, I'm now expert in child development,
but I do have a bit of a background in it.
No child that the right age of five has any
type of awareness as to win approreate time is to
use a cuss word, to shoot, but are still barely
learning how to Mico potty.
Speaker 1 (24:55):
But I mean, I'm not a parent, but I still
I do think at that age they might make the
miss take a couple of times, but I do think
that they know the choice and they and if you
teach them then they I think they can grasp that
at that age. So yeah, yeah, but the mom's totally
in the wrong here, and I got to go have
a good day for sure, you too, Thank you so much.
Speaker 11 (25:13):
Just have a great one.
Speaker 1 (25:14):
Yeah, this is not the daycare's fault.
Speaker 2 (25:16):
No, And ladies stop stop.
Speaker 3 (25:18):
Having your friends leave reviews, like, come on, man, you're
messing up their business and their scores online.
Speaker 2 (25:24):
Over this little situation. Like you you need to keep
your kid at home.
Speaker 1 (25:27):
Honestly, I saw one of the reviews. It was what
is his name? Gabriel? What's her name? Not me, it's
your picture, but what's what's your burners?
Speaker 11 (25:34):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (25:35):
That was in my past and her name was Victoria.
Speaker 1 (25:37):
That's right, it was Victoria. Yeah, made she had a
she had a burner that she liked to give negative
reviews on. The problem was it was your picture. So
that was part of the issue with that. Kelsey, Hi, Kelsey,
good morning. So Kicky's Court. If you're just tuning in,
a five year old kid is at daycare cussing up
a storm and the daycare kicked him out finally because like,
you can't be doing this and the mom now is
(25:58):
matter of daycare?
Speaker 9 (25:59):
Right?
Speaker 1 (25:59):
And nast reviews having our friends right, Nazzi reviews, Mom's
in the wrong here though, right, I think.
Speaker 11 (26:05):
The mom's in the wrong because of the fact that
a five year old, if you feel like your five
year old can make a decision at that point where
their brain is at to decide whether it's a good
time to swear or not. I just don't think they're ready. Yeah,
I don't think a five year old's ready. And then
if you expose the other children to that, you can't
really blame the other parents for being like, hey, I
(26:27):
don't want my kid to start swearing too, And you
know what, in your home, in your own car, cool,
go for it. That's your kids, raise them the way
that you want to. But also having people do bad
reviews for that, I don't think this daycare had a choice.
Speaker 1 (26:41):
I agree with you. I agree. Thank you, have a
good day.
Speaker 4 (26:45):
Thank you so much.
Speaker 11 (26:46):
Fred.
Speaker 4 (26:46):
Have it come when you guys are awesome?
Speaker 1 (26:48):
Yeah, Kiki, it's what I have to I always have
to go Kiki, Yeah, all the time. Every day. I'm like, God,
one more time, listen.
Speaker 2 (27:00):
I don't say that. You can say, oh man, she knows,
that's right.
Speaker 1 (27:12):
Not nice, not nice, that's funny's laughing at herself saying it.
Speaker 2 (27:17):
Yeah, she knows.
Speaker 1 (27:18):
She knows better because you you probably were struggling to
keep a straight face.
Speaker 8 (27:22):
Right.
Speaker 2 (27:22):
I laugh every time, and she knows it.
Speaker 1 (27:24):
She knows it.
Speaker 2 (27:25):
It's my own fault.
Speaker 1 (27:26):
Kicked out of daycare. Uh, just sign your name next time, Ballina. Honestly,
something's gotta.
Speaker 15 (27:33):
Hold on me, Lady. No, I'm all on myself and
feels like the water.
Speaker 16 (27:43):
All holes and little and aple's knocking and model.
Speaker 15 (27:50):
Out of my mind? How many times did I tell.
Speaker 2 (27:53):
You I'm all good it alone?
Speaker 16 (27:58):
It's taking a tall on me, trying my bestjogie from
tapping the skin on my bones.
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Speaker 9 (28:27):
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Speaker 15 (28:30):
H When you're not excuse me, you're breaking my heart. Baby,
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apply all thanks to Live Nation. What do you do
if you're staying somewhere, be at a hotel, but especially if
you're like at a friend's house and you clog the
toilet and and maybe that you're not able to maybe
there's a plunger in there. Maybe there's not though, and
you're unable to undo it. What do you do? And
(00:43):
in this the question in this particular topic was if
you're at a party at someone's house and this happened
in a party, you should be arrested.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
That's that's not a police right now.
Speaker 1 (00:53):
Yeah, at the club and at a party, I just
if you feel like that may need to happen, then
maybe it's not club night, you know what I mean? Like,
maybe we don't go to live tonight, you know, maybe
tomorrow and after I get some emodium come something. I mean,
I realize an emergency. Emergencies occur, but in this scenario,
it was it's a party and this guy's like, you know,
there may only be one bathroom for everyone to use.
(01:15):
So it's not like you can just walk out like
I mean, I suppose you could walk out like it
didn't happen and hope that nobody was waiting outside the
thing for you to have to explain, because then everyone
the party's going to know that it was you. You can't
stay in there for a very long time because then
people are like, is he okay? But even if you're
like staying in someone's guest house and this occur or
(01:37):
guest room rather and this occurs, like how long can
you go before you have to say something like hey,
I I yeah, are he's broken? And then you know
then your host is probably going to go in there
and try and figure it out, only to find out
that So what do you what is the etiquette? Like,
I think you have to just cop to it, don't you.
You have to just walk right out there now, people
(01:58):
in the comp when people are in I guess, I
don't know if they were commenting, I don't remember. I
guess they were commenting saying that they've actually well I'm
trying to figure out how I knew this, but people
were saying that they've actually reached their hand down as
far as it will go in an effort to unclog it.
Because that was better than having to go and explain
(02:19):
to your friend that you did this and then having
them have to go in there and figure out how
to undo it, because like, let's say, it's simply you
just need to, you know, use the plunger more effectively. Well,
then and your friend then has to plunge your stuff.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
That's bad.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
People's houses bad, that is bad.
Speaker 4 (02:42):
I agree, But I would first and foremost, Yeah, if
you got to go number two, like leave the party,
just don't even say by just leave. But I understand,
but I would put my hand in there.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
I thought about that.
Speaker 4 (02:53):
If I'm desperate, if I didn't bare hand. If I didn't,
then my bare hands are going in because I'm not
letting it.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
Just about anything. Yes, I think I would start trying
to find like the long objects. I don't know what
I mean, Are you gonna make it worse, But like,
what do you do? What do you do? You're just
gonna go right out there and cop to it.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
No, I'm like, I'm gonna lay down and just make
myself comfortable. I'm not leaving the bathroom here.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
Until it goes down.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
Because you could hope, you could hope and pray, Like
if it's a guest room, when no one else is
using the bathroom, I suppose you could give it like
an hour and just hope that it clears itself. What
odds are it's not going to I'm laying it.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
I'm laying in there, man, I can't leave out. I'm
sorry this.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
Bathroom is occupied for the rest of the night, but
I cannot put my hand in there.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
Like that's crazy, girl.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
But eventually you're gonna have to You're gonna have to
be honest about it.
Speaker 5 (03:46):
No, I just.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
Bring me a phone charge tend not to fix itself,
whether there's a clog. No, I mean, someone said I
have cronics disease, so I got to go. When I
got to go, someone else and you just you dip,
you go.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
It's out of the gas stations that I do.
Speaker 6 (04:06):
We're talking about people who are just like making the
active decision to take.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
A jump at a party, not if you have a
medical issue. No, yeah, it's just like.
Speaker 6 (04:16):
Joe down the street line you had like a big dinner, leave,
get out of my house.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
It's two scenarios, Like one is, if you're staying in
someone's house for an extended period of time, then you're
probably gonna have to go number two. And I don't know,
you just got to hope that because who's to say
that the toilet doesn't have an issue that a known
issue that you don't know about, you know, and so
like this is a common occurrence, but you don't know that.
So you're embarrassed. But you got to go out there
and be like, hey, guys, they're eating their breakfast, you
(04:41):
know whatever, Hey the toasted over here, CEO's over here,
about that about I don't need any fiber because well
you know what I mean. Like, so you'd have to
say something because you can't just leave it like all
weekend and then it's killing Then let's ruin the friendship,
like territory. You just I mean, was that I'm hopping
out the window someone else that I had it happen
(05:04):
and quietly told the host and was very nice that
the guy before me did it. That's messed up. How
would you do that again? If the guest room scenario
like odds are they know that it wasn't like that
before blame their kids. Didn't we do a waiting by
the phone a bunch of years ago? Or did I
(05:25):
just read the story? I think we did a waiting
by the phone? Yeah, it was, Well, it was the
woman who the toilet was clogged, so she took the
poop and put it in the in the kiddy litter
whoa right, okay? And the cat had died though, well,
there are a couple of issues. Wasn't the cat dead?
Speaker 2 (05:41):
I thought she bagged it up?
Speaker 1 (05:43):
Oh, there was another one who took it with her, Oh,
put it in her purse and took it away. And
then there was one that we've done this for fifteen years.
And then there was one who she put it in
the But first of all, it's a human one, so like, okay,
like you know little kiddies like I didn't do that.
You nasty for that. And then but then the cat
was dead, so it couldn't have been. I don't know,
(06:04):
maybe I just read that one.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
Awful Hunter, you just gotta leave, You gotta go home,
You gotta leave.
Speaker 7 (06:12):
Yeah, I'm leaving, whether it's out the window or out
the front door. I'm not sticking around.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
But there's no hiding these people, like are we not?
Are we just not gonna be friends anymore? Like I'm
just never gonna speak to you with them, because I mean,
you could leave, but they're still gonna knows you.
Speaker 7 (06:27):
How am I going to be friends with someone that
doesn't keep a plunger in the bathroom?
Speaker 1 (06:32):
That's actually a good question, that's a good question. But
what if the plunger doesn't work? Like what if it's
what if it's like a really like a really unfortunate
situation and the plunger somehow isn't.
Speaker 7 (06:40):
Working, And you could be worrying about me crawling out
the window, but you got plumbing issues, and I think
that's more important, So it's.
Speaker 2 (06:48):
Not on you at all. Ever, No, okay, got it.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
I don't think I'd make matters worse by insulting your
plumbing on top of all of it. But anyway, Okay,
thank you, Hunter, have a good day.
Speaker 7 (06:58):
You two friends.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
Yeah, a lot of people play them, that's right, That's yeah,
that's grim. Now, hold on, we finally got some good
advice here on the text. If I'm at a party
or at a guest room or whatever, I will test
flush before I use the bathroom. Okay, so you can
make sure that it's like a strong flush. But the
problem is that still doesn't negate the fact that you
(07:21):
got it. Like what if it's a weak flush or
no matter what, you gotta go, you gotta go eventually,
so like it's it is what it is.
Speaker 3 (07:27):
And sometimes that strong flush is the only strong flush,
so the next time you do it, it won't.
Speaker 1 (07:32):
Work like you wasted your strong Yeah, back up. Well,
the other option not to get too gross. And I
know some people do this anyway, it's like a multiple
flush situations, like where it just along the way you
do it so that it likes not it doesn't. But
the problem is if I'm like if I don't, you know,
have a very big apartment, I would know if you
(07:53):
flushed three times when you were I would I would
hear it, So I'd be like, what on earth, I
can't I'm not listening, but like my couch, my couch
is about fifteen feet away from the guest bathroom, Like
I'm not. I can't counters. But come on, if somebody
was somebody were in there and you heard it flush
three four times, you wouldn't think something about that?
Speaker 2 (08:15):
Or I think three is okay.
Speaker 1 (08:17):
Four is where you, four is where we drawn along.
I would call the okay, three of them, you know,
you know that's a normal, that's yeah, right, but four okay?
Hey Jay, Yeah, you're sticking your hands down there. Oh no,
you have to. I think you do leave that. I
think you do. I think you've got to try absolutely
(08:37):
everything before you listen.
Speaker 8 (08:39):
If they don't have any soap, I always check the
makes this has happened multiple times.
Speaker 2 (08:43):
If they don't have any.
Speaker 8 (08:44):
Soap, then I guess we just have to leave it
because that's on you at that point. But if there's soap,
and yeah, I did it, I messed it up.
Speaker 1 (08:52):
I have read that. I've read that soap and warm
water will work. Because you know, if it has happened before,
we meant to wash his hands after he grabbed.
Speaker 8 (08:59):
Well, you could do it after I grab it.
Speaker 1 (09:01):
Well, of course you're gonna wash your hand. No, I mean,
come on, come on, yeah, you're not a total Wait.
Speaker 2 (09:05):
Please, after you grab it, that's what I want to know.
Speaker 1 (09:09):
Oh that's a good point because wash your hands flushes.
Then they're breaking in hoping that you clean it so
that it will Oh god, this is gross. Okay, Jay,
thank you, I have a good day. Thank you. No,
I've read for like alternatives like if I if you
don't have draino and the punge doesn't work apparently, and
the plumbers are probably screaming me, But there are other
ways that you can clear it using what you have
(09:30):
sometimes like hot water and soap or something. I don't know.
It's just because I don't have like I don't have.
It's not a regular currens in my house, and I
don't have like draino laying around.
Speaker 2 (09:39):
What are you put it in your pocket?
Speaker 9 (09:40):
Like what?
Speaker 2 (09:41):
You don't look at me. I wouldn't grab it. I
would tell my friend if I'm saying at your house,
I'm close enough with you to go yo, I clugged
your toilet.
Speaker 1 (09:47):
Man, Yes, but I'm with Carla who texted like you should.
If you have multiple bathrooms, just go get multiple plunge
your step number one. Just make sure that all the
equipment necessary is in there. Vanessa, great investment.
Speaker 10 (09:59):
Oh yes, we threw a housewarming party, and my friend
came up to me and was like, so, my boyfriend
does what he does best and.
Speaker 11 (10:11):
He clogged your toilet.
Speaker 10 (10:14):
Where's your plunger? And I was like, oh, and because
it was our housewarming, like, we didn't have a plunger
upstairs for that bathroom, no boy So like now I'm
like running downstairs to get a different one, trying to
not make a scene because I didn't want to embarrass
him in front of other people. But yeah, it needed
to be taken care of. I don't think she felt
good leaving it like that, and I don't know what
(10:35):
his plan was originally.
Speaker 1 (10:37):
Yeah, Vanessa, well and you're still friends like it? Just
this this what happens, is it is what it is, Yes.
Speaker 10 (10:44):
But I honestly always think of it when I look.
Speaker 1 (10:46):
At a See this is what I'm worried about. This
is exactly what worries me. Thank you, Vanessa, have a
good day you too.
Speaker 2 (10:53):
This is this is the issue, and believe you and
are counting the flushes.
Speaker 1 (10:58):
Well.
Speaker 2 (10:58):
You also listened to how long some people watch their
hands too, don't you?
Speaker 1 (11:02):
Uh No, I listened to here I listen if there
is a washing of the hand going on. But again,
like I don't have a very big house, like I
can you can hear everything. I run the sink. I
also I noticed, I noticed it when people use my
guest room. I notice if you'd run the sink or
you don't run the sink. I always run the sink.
I run the sink. If you're in my house and
I'm in my bathroom, I still run the sink. Like
(11:23):
you don't need to hear that. I know that you
know that I'm doing something there. But like we can
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the honorable Kikey is here and show. But Shelley working
overtime today. I love how you did. You're just hanging
out normally, you're in your your private wing.
Speaker 2 (12:08):
Yeah, it's under construction.
Speaker 1 (12:10):
Oh, I see what are we adding like a glamor
room to it? What are we doing like a dressing
room for radio? Is that what we're adding?
Speaker 2 (12:15):
Yeah?
Speaker 12 (12:16):
And also like the hot bar area, it just isn't
hot enough.
Speaker 1 (12:19):
I understand, I got it.
Speaker 2 (12:21):
Thank you to work on that.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
Yeah. By the way, do you like our new our
bigger window door. I heard that story. What are your
thoughts on that? Does that not look exactly the same?
You know what?
Speaker 12 (12:31):
I did not notice it when I walked in, so
I would say, yes, it does.
Speaker 1 (12:35):
I think what happened was you got bigger and we
got the same door, and they're trying to pretend that
it's what it is. This place is insane and the
amount of thought and effort and money that probably went
into that little project there, I can't even begin to
tell you. Kick you take it away, sorry and go ahead.
Speaker 2 (12:51):
Okay, all right, let's get into the court. All right here,
all right, the gable shelley.
Speaker 1 (12:57):
You can sit. You don't really have to stand.
Speaker 3 (12:58):
It's okay, sambor Kians, I'm the sand, It says, key
KEI tell me if I'm wrong for wanting to sue
my son's daycare after they kicked him out. My son
Liam was expelled because of the staff.
Speaker 2 (13:13):
Claiming that he was randomly yelling F bombs.
Speaker 3 (13:16):
They kept sending me notes about his inappropriate language, and
I told them clearly that I raised my kids to
express themselves and that yes, I allow swearing if it's
used in the right context.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
After that, I so we're talking like three four, Yeah.
Speaker 2 (13:34):
He's five. I could feel the judgment.
Speaker 3 (13:37):
They even started filming him and sending me videos as proof,
which I felt was completely passive aggressive, so I ignored it.
Then last week they officially terminated his enrollment, saying that
other parents complained that he was a bad influence. I
called total bs. I'm seriously considering calling my attorney, and
I've already had my friends leave bad reviews.
Speaker 2 (13:59):
Am I wrong?
Speaker 1 (14:01):
This reminds me I've I've been holding onto this little
nugget for a while, and we'll probably revisit this this week.
But I have a little little audio to go along
with this, really, because I think we would have the
same problem if Little Gigi. Oh if Little went to
daycare because she learned a new word.
Speaker 2 (14:18):
Oh boy, oh.
Speaker 5 (14:23):
You can say oh man, oh not nice, she learned
a new word.
Speaker 1 (14:41):
You're not supposed to do that. Yep, I don't know
that if Kiki a five year old, Judge Kiki. I
don't know if a five year old's able to discern
when you can and can't use those words. So I
think we got to go with not using those words
until we know when the time and the place is right,
and even if.
Speaker 3 (14:58):
They can figure out the right way. So you those words,
because my nephew sure knows how to use them, they
should not be doing it at daycare. Like I understand
everybody has a different type of parenting strategy whatever, but
like this is a society. Okay, you can't have your
kids just shouting f bombs at daycare and now.
Speaker 2 (15:16):
The other kids are singing along like lady.
Speaker 3 (15:19):
And then you are so wrong in my opinion, because
you had your friends go leave negative reviews their kids
don't even attend this daycare, right, you know, like you're
trying to take this business down because your kid is
disrupting the class.
Speaker 1 (15:30):
Yeah, I don't think this is a matter of them
being a bad daycare I think it's a matter of
you letting your kid at age five do things that
at age five we don't know that there is a
time and a place to do the Like if you
want to let your five year old cuss, fine, right,
but then they got to know that. Then they can't
just do it anywhere because other kids will learn and
it's just, you know, it's disruptive and offensive to some.
(15:51):
So I don't know if they're older and they know, like,
all right, fine, I can cuss it home around mom
and dad, but I can't cuss at school. Well fine,
but you're not old enough to know that. Then that's
what I say. I'm I think about me. I would
love to just curse all morning, you know, cursing. I
think it's very good.
Speaker 11 (16:09):
I think.
Speaker 2 (16:12):
Feel so good sometimes. But I can't get up here
and just do that, you know, in the morning, Like
I have to watch my words. You have to see
your children the same thing, like come.
Speaker 1 (16:22):
On, man, oh yeah, we have we have filthy mouths.
What would surprise a lot of people is how much
Showbi Shelley cusses. It's an fom dropper man, Like it's nothing,
and I love I love it too, and I remember
growing up. You know, teachers used to say when you
were young that if you you only use those words
(16:42):
if you didn't know a better word, like if you
weren't smart enough to know what else? No, no, no,
I know a lot of words, guys. I choose those
words because they do feel good to say, but I'm
also in a grown ass man.
Speaker 2 (16:53):
Absolutely, we save those words for the podcast.
Speaker 3 (16:56):
Everybody knows that, you know, there's a time and a place,
So I don't know if they care is the place
for your kid to just be shouting out swear words.
I would love to hear from the parents, especially the
gentle parenting.
Speaker 1 (17:05):
Yeah, you know, let me know about that. Eight three five.
What do you do if the daycare is complaining that
your kid is using words that he or she shouldn't
be using. I mean, I think it's pretty obvious, like you,
you simply can't let your kids do stuff until they
know how to moderate their behavior.
Speaker 12 (17:23):
So I have two kids in daycare, and from what
I think I've heard, they both make great.
Speaker 2 (17:30):
But I've heard.
Speaker 12 (17:30):
Stories not just like swearing, but like if there's a
kid like daycare is not a fit for every kid,
And I've heard parents say that like they they enrolled
their kid and for whatever reason, the kid had like
behavioral things they couldn't calm out in a classic And
I think the daycare has the right to say, like,
you're not a fit for us, so we can't. You know,
maybe it's beast because I don't know that I want
my kid anyway. If you're kicking me out, why would
(17:51):
I try to force my kid like me?
Speaker 2 (17:52):
It's just not a fit. I the teachers.
Speaker 12 (17:55):
I wouldn't want my kids working with those teachers.
Speaker 6 (17:57):
Then if they didn't want me there, I got kicked
out of dance class and my mom had to make
her peace with that. Was that No, it's because I
told the instructor I wanted to do my own thing.
Speaker 1 (18:06):
Which you know what I understand that's going into adulthood
like it's nothing true for sure.
Speaker 6 (18:11):
Yeah no, if you ever want to know me, that's
my origin story. But yeah, my mom is like, all right,
she doesn't want to follow the teacher. We got to
take her out of the stamps class.
Speaker 1 (18:17):
Well, and the other thing is, okay, this kid doesn't
know how to moderate. The other kids don't know they're
the same age. They don't know how to moderate so
then they hear it, and then they start saying it,
and then they go home and say it, and then
the daycare looks you at because it's like, what are
they learning at this place? So the daycare is in
a no win situation here either, because the kids are
(18:38):
going to pick up on what they see and hear
from the other ones. Is it ellie, oh, it's just
oh hi ol, good morning. So Kiki's court. This kid
is would I guess no longer allowed to go to daycare.
And they're writing bad reviews. The parents are writing bad
reviews and then having other people write bad reviews because
they won't let the five year old cuss in daycare.
Speaker 13 (19:00):
Yeah, this is ridiculous. So I know my son used
the F word like at three, learned it from me.
I've never censored myself around him, necessarily, and he learned
how to use it.
Speaker 7 (19:13):
I told him he was not allowed to use it around.
Speaker 9 (19:15):
Anyone else and and and he knew that, and he
learned that, and so it was fine. I mean, he
wouldn't even do it, like when I wanted to trick
my friends and be like, listen to what cold can
say like F you, And and he wouldn't do it.
So it's like, no, this mom is completely and utterly
wrong because now those other kids are learning it and
that's just not that's not good parenting.
Speaker 1 (19:36):
So how do you deal with it? L Like you
you saying held your kid.
Speaker 9 (19:40):
Well, not be seven, but.
Speaker 1 (19:42):
You're saying when he was younger and even now, like
it's you're not centering yourself. So then how do you
Was he a you able to teach him at a
young age, like hey, there are places that you can
say this in places that you can't, or is this
just that that's just the risk you take because you're
not gonna gonna hold back.
Speaker 13 (19:58):
I mean, I guess it's the risk you take. But
also he did learn right away, because I do remember
I was at a parent event he was in pre
K and they were all like, oh my god, did
you hear so and so learn the F word? And
I was like, oh my god. I was like, you guys,
it was my son. And they're like they all looked
at me first of all to being crazy that I
admitted to it, but I was like, he knows that word.
It was him, and they were actually like, no, it wasn't.
(20:20):
It was actually this kid over here, and I was like, oh, okay,
I'm good. So I mean that would have been when
he was four years old. So yeah, I mean it's
possible if you have the right methods to teach your
kid what to do.
Speaker 1 (20:31):
Yeah, okay, well, thank you have a good day. Thanks
you too, Glad you called Nicole. Good morning, Welcome to
the friend Shale. How are you Hi, doing good? How
are you guys doing great? Thanks for listening. So what
do you think you hear Kiki's chord?
Speaker 2 (20:45):
So I totally.
Speaker 14 (20:46):
Agree with there was time a place. If you want
to allow your kid to do that, that's your prerogative.
We have a three year old if who's in day care,
and he's granted not the one necessarily sweary, but he
is picking up on some of the language and the arguing,
whether it's from other kids or even like teachers. So
my perspective is kind of like you can only control
what you can control. So we're trying to teach our
(21:07):
toddler like, these aren't nice words. You don't say these
words kind of honestly, like Fred, what your teacher would
say growing up in school, Like if you can't think
of a better word, don't say that word, try to
think of other words or expressing it a different way.
But I mean, it's going to happen unfortunately, So we
just got to kind of deal with it with our
own kids.
Speaker 1 (21:25):
Yeah, all right, thank you, Nicole.
Speaker 4 (21:27):
Yeah, what I just well, I want to know why
I have five year old's in daycare, Like, isn't a
kidergarten time?
Speaker 2 (21:33):
Yeah, kind of blessing. Maybe it's a blessing it's time
to go to kindergarten.
Speaker 4 (21:36):
And then also five years old versus two and three
is so different, like even though they're still young, like
that is a huge difference, and like developmentally and all that,
you know what I'm saying. So like I feel like
five year old should know a little better. I'm not
saying he's everything coming. He's a kid, he's five.
Speaker 1 (21:50):
My niece Polly's almost five, and she would know the
difference between a word she can and can't say, like
at that point, if she said the words, she made
the choice to say the word, Like.
Speaker 3 (21:58):
This kid is obviously using in the right context, like
his mom is teaching and be good on him.
Speaker 1 (22:04):
Because if you're going to use the profane words, were
using him correct?
Speaker 11 (22:07):
Right?
Speaker 1 (22:07):
Yeah? Yeah, yeah, but I think in five you know
that you should be able to say you should be
able to teach your kid like if you insist on
allowing them to say that stuff, then only here and
not there.
Speaker 2 (22:19):
He's clearly teaching the other kids at this time.
Speaker 1 (22:21):
Yes, she knows right from wrong. Yeah, absolutely, Hay Amber, Yes,
good morning. This story resonates with you. You were the parent.
Speaker 11 (22:31):
I was a parent. I unfortunately was my son. He's
he's now six and a half. But a couple of
years back, when he was in pre school, he overheard
me and my husband talking and I did drop enough
bomb because I tried to be you know, like conscientious
about what I'm talking about and what I'm talking about
with socials my young children. There he while ever heard me,
and he went to school the next day, didn't even
(22:53):
know if he heard me, you know, drop it. Went
to school the next day. Apparently he was dropping it
quite a bit, and school when I went to go
pick him up, the school had to pull me aside
and was like, hey, we noticed a new vocabulary word
in your son's vocabulary. And I here, I'm thinking like, oh,
maybe he you know, learned, you know, I'm thinking He's like, oh,
you know he learned something new, you know. No, it
(23:13):
was just just truly a bomb. And I sat there
and my face turned right as a tomato, and I'm like,
oh my god, I am so sorry. And you know,
they they you know, they try to do what they
you know, redirecting and what have you. And he continued
that behavior for probably about another week or two, and
so he kind of just learned like, hey, I can't
do that. So you know, we tried our best with redirecting,
(23:36):
you know, because he was only three at the time,
so you know, there's only so much disciplining you can
do with a three year old because they don't really gress,
you know, gress that concept. But yeah, he continues the
behavior for about a week or two, and then he
kind of fortunately he stopped. Was that parrot.
Speaker 1 (23:53):
Remember when cuss it's funny, and so like you got
to not laugh because if you laugh and then they
think they made you happy either going to keep doing it.
You gotta be like, that's not somebody's so.
Speaker 11 (24:02):
Funny, yep, And then that only instills it more into them.
They think, oh, hey, this is a good time. I'm
making my mom and dad happier. You know, they think
it's funny and so you know, they laugh. I have
three kids, and so you know, I every everyone I've had,
I've learned what to do and what not to do,
and he by far was the one that gave me
a run for my money. He's the middle one, so
(24:24):
the middle one. Definitely. Yeah, he's definitely And even now
at six and a half, he's still I still have
to look at him sideways.
Speaker 1 (24:30):
Like what just came out of your life?
Speaker 11 (24:32):
Because he's just the funniest, most ridiculous things.
Speaker 9 (24:34):
But yeah, definitely was a parent.
Speaker 11 (24:37):
I can definitely tell you I don't think a five
year old. I mean, I'm now expert in child development,
but I do have a bit of a background in it.
No child that the right age of five has any
type of awareness as to win approreate time is to
use a cuss word, to shoot, but are still barely
learning how to Mico potty.
Speaker 1 (24:55):
But I mean, I'm not a parent, but I still
I do think at that age they might make the
miss take a couple of times, but I do think
that they know the choice and they and if you
teach them then they I think they can grasp that
at that age. So yeah, yeah, but the mom's totally
in the wrong here, and I got to go have
a good day for sure, you too, Thank you so much.
Speaker 11 (25:13):
Just have a great one.
Speaker 1 (25:14):
Yeah, this is not the daycare's fault.
Speaker 2 (25:16):
No, And ladies stop stop.
Speaker 3 (25:18):
Having your friends leave reviews, like, come on, man, you're
messing up their business and their scores online.
Speaker 2 (25:24):
Over this little situation. Like you you need to keep
your kid at home.
Speaker 1 (25:27):
Honestly, I saw one of the reviews. It was what
is his name? Gabriel? What's her name? Not me, it's
your picture, but what's what's your burners?
Speaker 11 (25:34):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (25:35):
That was in my past and her name was Victoria.
Speaker 1 (25:37):
That's right, it was Victoria. Yeah, made she had a
she had a burner that she liked to give negative
reviews on. The problem was it was your picture. So
that was part of the issue with that. Kelsey, Hi, Kelsey,
good morning. So Kicky's Court. If you're just tuning in,
a five year old kid is at daycare cussing up
a storm and the daycare kicked him out finally because like,
you can't be doing this and the mom now is
(25:58):
matter of daycare?
Speaker 9 (25:59):
Right?
Speaker 1 (25:59):
And nast reviews having our friends right, Nazzi reviews, Mom's
in the wrong here though, right, I think.
Speaker 11 (26:05):
The mom's in the wrong because of the fact that
a five year old, if you feel like your five
year old can make a decision at that point where
their brain is at to decide whether it's a good
time to swear or not. I just don't think they're ready. Yeah,
I don't think a five year old's ready. And then
if you expose the other children to that, you can't
really blame the other parents for being like, hey, I
(26:27):
don't want my kid to start swearing too, And you
know what, in your home, in your own car, cool,
go for it. That's your kids, raise them the way
that you want to. But also having people do bad
reviews for that, I don't think this daycare had a choice.
Speaker 1 (26:41):
I agree with you. I agree. Thank you, have a
good day.
Speaker 4 (26:45):
Thank you so much.
Speaker 11 (26:46):
Fred.
Speaker 4 (26:46):
Have it come when you guys are awesome?
Speaker 1 (26:48):
Yeah, Kiki, it's what I have to I always have
to go Kiki, Yeah, all the time. Every day. I'm like, God,
one more time, listen.
Speaker 2 (27:00):
I don't say that. You can say, oh man, she knows,
that's right.
Speaker 1 (27:12):
Not nice, not nice, that's funny's laughing at herself saying it.
Speaker 2 (27:17):
Yeah, she knows.
Speaker 1 (27:18):
She knows better because you you probably were struggling to
keep a straight face.
Speaker 8 (27:22):
Right.
Speaker 2 (27:22):
I laugh every time, and she knows it.
Speaker 1 (27:24):
She knows it.
Speaker 2 (27:25):
It's my own fault.
Speaker 1 (27:26):
Kicked out of daycare. Uh, just sign your name next time, Ballina. Honestly,
something's gotta.
Speaker 15 (27:33):
Hold on me, Lady. No, I'm all on myself and
feels like the water.
Speaker 16 (27:43):
All holes and little and aple's knocking and model.
Speaker 15 (27:50):
Out of my mind? How many times did I tell.
Speaker 2 (27:53):
You I'm all good it alone?
Speaker 16 (27:58):
It's taking a tall on me, trying my bestjogie from
tapping the skin on my bones.
Speaker 1 (28:06):
Don't you know d gonna not excuse me?
Speaker 15 (28:20):
I'm falling on part riding front.
Speaker 2 (28:23):
Of you casual fee.
Speaker 9 (28:27):
Cools.
Speaker 15 (28:30):
H When you're not excuse me, you're breaking my heart. Baby,
you back them.
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Less.
Speaker 4 (28:44):
Ride them?
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Maddie ridom is wun't you Patty like? Feel like bad
hebby bad habits. Try to break gin him with truth. Yeah,
I know how to do it on my own, but
I want that fiel fool moved back.
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win them with you having Baddy and the least some
reason I see in your too you can't see the
boats through the trees.
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lie next to me, I'm falling apart riding front of you.
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