December 9, 2025 • 6 mins
Paulina's baby was put her in her first timeout and Paulina doesn't know if she did the right thing!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:27):
Tell me.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
These are the radio blogs on the Fresh Show runing
in our diaries. We say them aloud though, and Pauline
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Speaker 2 (00:34):
Thank you so much, dear blog.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
I'm going to need some input on this because I
am starting a new chapter in my life and it
is called disciplining your child chapter. Because I have a
two year old. I'm gonna say, Okay, I'm not doing
this to be annoying. I have a twenty month old
because I think it's important in this context because.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
When do we stop with that efort two, then we
don't do months anymore.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
I'll stop after that.
Speaker 1 (00:58):
Curious cycle.
Speaker 3 (00:59):
When we stop with months thing, I just do it
because I think as a parent, like every month is
so different, okay until like they reach too honestly, that's
how I feel. And then once you're like at the
two and a half, it makes more sense to really
right than twenty five.
Speaker 2 (01:11):
I get it, you know, so like.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
That's fine, but the months I feel like up to
two it is slightly important because I think in eighteen
month old and up twenty two month old, you just
know so many different things.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
Okay that age, yep, I'm seeing it.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
So my twenty month old, uh does this thing where
she gets very upset, she doesn't get her way, kind
of like her mother a little bit.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
But the different difference is you can say same. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (01:35):
The difference is I don't, you know, act out on it.
I kind of just like let it sink in what
I say at all. No, you know, once she decided
to do though she couldn't get her way with something yesterday.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
It was like a snack or something, and I have one.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
Of those really big giant Christmas tree bows on my tree,
like the one that's like not even funny, like six feet.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
Long almost, and it's just like on the tree.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
She decided to smack it because she was so mad
she smacked the Christmas tree.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
Which then hit the bow and the bow fell on
the floor.
Speaker 3 (02:07):
So now I don't know how to discipline anyone, let
alone a twenty month old who's my child. And I
don't want to do what our parents said. I don't
want to yell at all. I'm not going to spanker
him and we're not talking, we're not doing any of that.
I just don't know what to do though, because I
can't let that be okay. But I also need to
show her I am boss, okay, I am Boston's house,
and I.
Speaker 1 (02:27):
Have identify the problem.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
Nowry started with me because I don't even believe it.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
I'm like, I don't know what.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
To do, and like at first she did that, I
gasped because I thought that would make like a dramatic effect,
you know, I'd be like oh.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
I was like, oh, I was taken aback and let
her know this was not okay.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
And her dad happy, my husband he was there, her
dad that guy, yeah, my husband, Hobby, and he's like,
you know, we don't do that type thing, and like me,
I'm like, you know what, I got this And I
was like, you're.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
Going to time out?
Speaker 1 (03:05):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (03:05):
And she stared at me, and I said, going to
time out. I took her little chair. She's like a
little table the chair. I took the chair and moved
it to a corner of the wall. I put her
in the chair and made her face the wall. Now
that probably wasn't the greatest thing I've done, but I
also didn't know what else to do because she has
to understand me. You're gonna be separated from the situation.
You're gonna act down and smack my Christmas tree like
(03:26):
we're not doing that.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
You can't. You can't let her do whatever she wants. Yeah, something,
But it was just so funny, like looking at this
little person, this little late body in a chair the wall.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
Not great because she doesn't really understand it yet and
she will soon, but I feel like if you do
it more, she'll get it. This is like the timeout area.
This is the not okay area. And I said, no,
you want to time out?
Speaker 2 (03:48):
And she was trying to talk to me, and I
said no, no, no, you can't talk to mommy right now.
She turned heround and said, I'm sorry. I love you. Oh,
I get your time out.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Why we have a problem.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
You did a great job.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
She's working you.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
She is, but it was the cutest thing and I
love her so much that I don't know, I don't
know how to do.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
She was I have to imagine that it's hard when
it's your little being there and and like you. But
she did say she was sorry, and she doesn't do
it again unless it learned, I guess. But yeah, I
think I'm gonna cry. I feel like I would be
such a whoos as it pet like if the girls
or if I had a little I mean, I just
like I wouldn't have it in me. Okay, fine here,
(04:32):
Like I don't feel like it's wallet right exactly, Like
you know what I mean, you can just tear the
tree down to fine. I don't you know what I mean? Like,
I just I don't think i'd be good at this either.
It's gotta be hard.
Speaker 2 (04:42):
It's so hard.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
What is Hobby doing? Is he just watching this with
entertainment the whole time?
Speaker 2 (04:46):
So him and I are doing this thing now.
Speaker 3 (04:47):
We're glaring at each other because we can't don't laugh
when right, because he gets like so funny, So we're
not laughing.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
We're not getting noise.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
You know, we're both on the same page here Okay,
we're doing time out. No, you know you can't be
hitting trees. And she hits the wall when she's mad.
I'm like, this is getting a little Yeah, this is
getting like not great because she just gets angry. Aren't
you a wall puncher too? I punched the wall before.
Yeahs are wild. I'm like a hormonal a little teenage boy.
But those days are those days are past me. Okay
I have not punched the wall. Maybe in seven years?
Speaker 1 (05:15):
Did you act that as a kid? Yeah, because I
feel like sometimes you get what you.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
I don't know how bad though, Like I don't know
how bad I was.
Speaker 3 (05:25):
I actually should ask my mom because I don't think
I was terrible, but I know that I had a
little towed, a little attitude.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
I also can see Marta being a real enforcer of
the law, like I can. I can see I can
see things not flying with Marta from the very beginning.
Like I don't think Marta had Mama Marta didn't have
the same issue with feeling bad about telling you to
act right, I can. I can almost guarantee that.
Speaker 3 (05:47):
Mama Marta is from Poland. Was Marta does things differently
Mama Marza?
Speaker 1 (05:52):
Uh?
Speaker 2 (05:52):
Maybe I met a couple of people or a couple
of things in my life.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
I've met the belt, I've met cables near me, I've
met a what does it called, like a flip flop,
like a chankola, like yeah, foot flop, oh boy, oh yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
I've had everything in their aim my way good. Oh
the aim never misses, martsin, never missed.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
And I love my mom.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
But you know what though, that that I deserved every
minute of that. I'm gonna lie to you, like I
know when I got my little butt.
Speaker 3 (06:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
Thanks.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
It's got to be hard. It's got to be hard
to uh, you know, to try and lay down the law.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
It is with a two year old, not even a
two year old, but that's what I'm saying. Twenty month old.
I'm like, she.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
Doesn't know what this is. I say, and I've asked her,
I'm gonna put you in time out. You want to
go to time out? She goes, yeah, because she doesn't know.
She got something working this last time. This might have
been a guy.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
We'll see transforming, you know, maybe she's different now.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
She's totally changed.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
At twenty one months, this whole thing will go away.
Everything's fine, yeah. I used to be like stepping to
my room. I got TV in there. Actually, yeah, you know,
like I got a little phone, like yeah, off to
the room, I go.
This is the fread show. Jane is taking over Las
Vegas this January for his seven Night Residents Adobe Live
at Park MGM, and we've got a trip for two
to the January twenty fifth show to Night Hotel State
Park MGM January twenty fourth through the twenty sixth and
round trip airfare. Text forever to three seven three three
seven now for a chance to win. A confirmation text
(00:21):
will be said. Standard message of data rates may apply.
All thanks to Live Nation. They talk better than they sign.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
Tell me.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
These are the radio blogs on the Fresh Show runing
in our diaries. We say them aloud though, and Pauline
has got one go.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
Thank you so much, dear blog.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
I'm going to need some input on this because I
am starting a new chapter in my life and it
is called disciplining your child chapter. Because I have a
two year old. I'm gonna say, Okay, I'm not doing
this to be annoying. I have a twenty month old
because I think it's important in this context because.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
When do we stop with that efort two, then we
don't do months anymore.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
I'll stop after that.
Speaker 1 (00:58):
Curious cycle.
Speaker 3 (00:59):
When we stop with months thing, I just do it
because I think as a parent, like every month is
so different, okay until like they reach too honestly, that's
how I feel. And then once you're like at the
two and a half, it makes more sense to really
right than twenty five.
Speaker 2 (01:11):
I get it, you know, so like.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
That's fine, but the months I feel like up to
two it is slightly important because I think in eighteen
month old and up twenty two month old, you just
know so many different things.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
Okay that age, yep, I'm seeing it.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
So my twenty month old, uh does this thing where
she gets very upset, she doesn't get her way, kind
of like her mother a little bit.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
But the different difference is you can say same. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (01:35):
The difference is I don't, you know, act out on it.
I kind of just like let it sink in what
I say at all. No, you know, once she decided
to do though she couldn't get her way with something yesterday.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
It was like a snack or something, and I have one.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
Of those really big giant Christmas tree bows on my tree,
like the one that's like not even funny, like six feet.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
Long almost, and it's just like on the tree.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
She decided to smack it because she was so mad
she smacked the Christmas tree.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
Which then hit the bow and the bow fell on
the floor.
Speaker 3 (02:07):
So now I don't know how to discipline anyone, let
alone a twenty month old who's my child. And I
don't want to do what our parents said. I don't
want to yell at all. I'm not going to spanker
him and we're not talking, we're not doing any of that.
I just don't know what to do though, because I
can't let that be okay. But I also need to
show her I am boss, okay, I am Boston's house,
and I.
Speaker 1 (02:27):
Have identify the problem.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
Nowry started with me because I don't even believe it.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
I'm like, I don't know what.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
To do, and like at first she did that, I
gasped because I thought that would make like a dramatic effect,
you know, I'd be like oh.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
I was like, oh, I was taken aback and let
her know this was not okay.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
And her dad happy, my husband he was there, her
dad that guy, yeah, my husband, Hobby, and he's like,
you know, we don't do that type thing, and like me,
I'm like, you know what, I got this And I
was like, you're.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
Going to time out?
Speaker 1 (03:05):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (03:05):
And she stared at me, and I said, going to
time out. I took her little chair. She's like a
little table the chair. I took the chair and moved
it to a corner of the wall. I put her
in the chair and made her face the wall. Now
that probably wasn't the greatest thing I've done, but I
also didn't know what else to do because she has
to understand me. You're gonna be separated from the situation.
You're gonna act down and smack my Christmas tree like
(03:26):
we're not doing that.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
You can't. You can't let her do whatever she wants. Yeah, something,
But it was just so funny, like looking at this
little person, this little late body in a chair the wall.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
Not great because she doesn't really understand it yet and
she will soon, but I feel like if you do
it more, she'll get it. This is like the timeout area.
This is the not okay area. And I said, no,
you want to time out?
Speaker 2 (03:48):
And she was trying to talk to me, and I
said no, no, no, you can't talk to mommy right now.
She turned heround and said, I'm sorry. I love you. Oh,
I get your time out.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Why we have a problem.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
You did a great job.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
She's working you.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
She is, but it was the cutest thing and I
love her so much that I don't know, I don't
know how to do.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
She was I have to imagine that it's hard when
it's your little being there and and like you. But
she did say she was sorry, and she doesn't do
it again unless it learned, I guess. But yeah, I
think I'm gonna cry. I feel like I would be
such a whoos as it pet like if the girls
or if I had a little I mean, I just
like I wouldn't have it in me. Okay, fine here,
(04:32):
Like I don't feel like it's wallet right exactly, Like
you know what I mean, you can just tear the
tree down to fine. I don't you know what I mean? Like,
I just I don't think i'd be good at this either.
It's gotta be hard.
Speaker 2 (04:42):
It's so hard.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
What is Hobby doing? Is he just watching this with
entertainment the whole time?
Speaker 2 (04:46):
So him and I are doing this thing now.
Speaker 3 (04:47):
We're glaring at each other because we can't don't laugh
when right, because he gets like so funny, So we're
not laughing.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
We're not getting noise.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
You know, we're both on the same page here Okay,
we're doing time out. No, you know you can't be
hitting trees. And she hits the wall when she's mad.
I'm like, this is getting a little Yeah, this is
getting like not great because she just gets angry. Aren't
you a wall puncher too? I punched the wall before.
Yeahs are wild. I'm like a hormonal a little teenage boy.
But those days are those days are past me. Okay
I have not punched the wall. Maybe in seven years?
Speaker 1 (05:15):
Did you act that as a kid? Yeah, because I
feel like sometimes you get what you.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
I don't know how bad though, Like I don't know
how bad I was.
Speaker 3 (05:25):
I actually should ask my mom because I don't think
I was terrible, but I know that I had a
little towed, a little attitude.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
I also can see Marta being a real enforcer of
the law, like I can. I can see I can
see things not flying with Marta from the very beginning.
Like I don't think Marta had Mama Marta didn't have
the same issue with feeling bad about telling you to
act right, I can. I can almost guarantee that.
Speaker 3 (05:47):
Mama Marta is from Poland. Was Marta does things differently
Mama Marza?
Speaker 1 (05:52):
Uh?
Speaker 2 (05:52):
Maybe I met a couple of people or a couple
of things in my life.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
I've met the belt, I've met cables near me, I've
met a what does it called, like a flip flop,
like a chankola, like yeah, foot flop, oh boy, oh yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
I've had everything in their aim my way good. Oh
the aim never misses, martsin, never missed.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
And I love my mom.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
But you know what though, that that I deserved every
minute of that. I'm gonna lie to you, like I
know when I got my little butt.
Speaker 3 (06:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
Thanks.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
It's got to be hard. It's got to be hard
to uh, you know, to try and lay down the law.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
It is with a two year old, not even a
two year old, but that's what I'm saying. Twenty month old.
I'm like, she.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
Doesn't know what this is. I say, and I've asked her,
I'm gonna put you in time out. You want to
go to time out? She goes, yeah, because she doesn't know.
She got something working this last time. This might have
been a guy.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
We'll see transforming, you know, maybe she's different now.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
She's totally changed.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
At twenty one months, this whole thing will go away.
Everything's fine, yeah. I used to be like stepping to
my room. I got TV in there. Actually, yeah, you know,
like I got a little phone, like yeah, off to
the room, I go.
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