Waiting by the Phone: I’m Becoming A Priest!

Theresa is confused why her date Jordan won’t call her back after a great first date… Find out why she got ghosted!

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Kind I've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's
the Fred Show, Theresa, good morning, welcome to the program.

Speaker 2 (00:09):
How are you.

Speaker 3 (00:10):
I'm all right? Thanks?

Speaker 1 (00:12):
Okay, she's just all right because on waiting by the phone,
we try and figure out why somebody's been ghosted, hopefully
get to the bottom of it, straighten things out, and
then pay for another date, which very rarely happens. When
someone asked me that the day, does it happen? It
does happen, but not very often. But what happened with
this guy, Jordan? How did you meet? Tell us about
any dates you've been on, and why? What's going on?

Speaker 4 (00:33):
Now?

Speaker 2 (00:33):
Why do you think maybe you're being ghosted?

Speaker 3 (00:34):
Yeah?

Speaker 5 (00:35):
So I met him at church and we've gone on
a few coffee dates and we've got a lot in common.

Speaker 3 (00:46):
And he's tall, he's.

Speaker 5 (00:48):
Kind funny, and I don't know, like, I just I
can't figure out why I got ghosted, and I just
I just surely want to know what happened.

Speaker 1 (01:02):
Okay, So you met at church, so presumably you have
similar interests, beliefs, kind of things. So that's good, and
then you know the conversation flowed you were attracted to him?
I mean, really, you look back on this date and
I always asked the question, but everything went well. I mean,
you walked away and you're like, this guy's gonna call
me and we're gonna go out again.

Speaker 3 (01:19):
Yeah, exactly.

Speaker 1 (01:21):
All right, Well, let's call Jordan in just a second,
get a place song, come back, we'll call him. We'll
ask these questions, and hopefully we're setting up another date
that we pay for.

Speaker 3 (01:28):
Okay, sounds great, Thank you.

Speaker 1 (01:31):
Hey, Teresa. Hi, all right, let's call this guy Jordan.
You met at church, You went on a date that
you thought went really well. You were hoping to hear
from this guy again since you were attracted to him
and all these things. Except he has not reached out
since the date. He hasn't responded to you. When you
reach out, you feel like you're being ghosted, and you
want to know why. Yeah, I do too, So let's
call me now. Good luck. Hello, hi'sus Jordan. Yes, my

(02:07):
name is Fred. I'm calling for the Friend's Show, the
morning radio show, the whole cruise here, and I do
have to tell you that we are on the radio
right now and I would need your permission to continue
with the call.

Speaker 4 (02:16):
Can we chat for just a minute. Oh my god, yeah, absolutely,
how can I help you? I love the excitement the
guy wants to help us. I mean, this is great.
We'll see if he wants to help us in just
a second. But I appreciate your kindness so far. But
we're calling on behalf of a woman named Teresa. I
guess you met her at church and you, guys recently
went out on a date. Less helpful, Now I know

(02:39):
he's less helpful all of a sudden. Yeah you know Teresa.
Well I would hope you know Teresa because you went
on a date with her, right.

Speaker 2 (02:46):
No, so of course I know there is a wonderful,
wonderful girl. We never went on.

Speaker 1 (02:52):
A date, Okay, So why did you just tell us
send you a thing that you went on a date.

Speaker 2 (02:58):
I don't know.

Speaker 6 (02:58):
I can't even recall.

Speaker 2 (03:00):
I mean, the only time I see her is at
fellowship meetings at a church.

Speaker 3 (03:06):
But that's about it.

Speaker 6 (03:08):
Maybe maybe she went on it for somebody else.

Speaker 1 (03:12):
Not me. Okay, because we just to be clear with you, Jordan,
Teresa just told us that she met you at church
and that you went on a date, and she thought
you were handsome and thought that the communication was good
and all these things.

Speaker 2 (03:24):
But then you're saying there was never a date.

Speaker 6 (03:28):
No, no, that's very kind of her handsome, but those
were I mean, if she took the fellowship meetings as
a date, I'm really really sorry.

Speaker 2 (03:37):
But don't.

Speaker 1 (03:38):
So you're with her an these fellowship meetings, like you, guys, go,
I met other people go to these right, Like yeah,
I haven't been to ver Eddy, which is that's surprises a.

Speaker 2 (03:47):
Lot of people.

Speaker 3 (03:48):
Coffee Like she said, you guys got coffee.

Speaker 6 (03:50):
Yeah, maybe sometimes I bring coffee or she brings coffee
or like other people bring it.

Speaker 1 (03:54):
But so you lead the meetings. Then you lead these
fellowship meetings.

Speaker 6 (03:59):
Yeah, I'm actually I'm actually it's gonna sound crazy.

Speaker 2 (04:04):
Well, I'm actually.

Speaker 6 (04:05):
Studying to become a priest, a Catholic priest.

Speaker 2 (04:10):
So days before before that timeline. Yeah, you're not there yet,
so you could go, and I mean.

Speaker 6 (04:20):
Yeah, I'm just trying to get it all in, you know,
right before it has.

Speaker 2 (04:23):
To all go.

Speaker 6 (04:25):
No, No, absolutely, I'm almost done.

Speaker 2 (04:28):
Okay, Theresa.

Speaker 1 (04:30):
Now we're dealing with a man of the of the
Lord here, of the cloth, so I can't mess around a.

Speaker 2 (04:36):
Clergyman. A clergyman, why.

Speaker 1 (04:41):
Theresa Teresa, this man is your priest, and you attended
a fellowship meeting with other parishioners and he led it,
and he brought coffee.

Speaker 2 (04:49):
To the meeting.

Speaker 4 (04:51):
Is yet?

Speaker 3 (04:52):
He said?

Speaker 1 (04:53):
But I think if you're training to be a priest,
I don't think you can just mess around until like
the deadline. Teresa, this guy's your priest.

Speaker 5 (05:06):
Oh I I honestly had no idea.

Speaker 1 (05:12):
How did you not know he was the priest? I mean,
you're a fellowship meeting, he's leading away, right, I mean,
was it the collar he was?

Speaker 2 (05:21):
It was just in fashion right now on trend.

Speaker 3 (05:24):
That's what it is.

Speaker 2 (05:27):
Is He like, are you training? Is there another priest
like at the church now? While you're like, I don't
know how it works?

Speaker 6 (05:33):
Yeah, yeah, definitely, because I'm just still training and I'm
getting like, I'm just like, I'm.

Speaker 1 (05:40):
Okay, guys. We have a few layers of problems here. One,
he's trained to be a priest. Yeah, that's so that's limiting.
And then too, there wasn't a day Teresa. You attended
a fellowship meeting with other parishioners. I mean other people
were there.

Speaker 5 (05:55):
I mean maybe I misread the signs and just the
thought that it was a day.

Speaker 3 (06:03):
But I'm just so confused.

Speaker 5 (06:05):
I mean, why didn't why didn't you respond to me
after I was reaching out to me because.

Speaker 1 (06:11):
You weren't on a day, Teresa, with all due respect,
he didn't take you to coffee. You went to a
Bible study and he brought coffee to it.

Speaker 3 (06:18):
Oh girl, Yeah no, I apologize to each thank you if.

Speaker 6 (06:23):
Like you meet tread or anything, but also for not
respond I was actually going to get back to you.

Speaker 3 (06:29):
Although the timely retreat so.

Speaker 6 (06:32):
Where like there's no phones nothing, just.

Speaker 1 (06:34):
Likely because you studied to be a priest, even if
I don't even know how that works. I don't know
if you can like do stuff and then you become
a priest and you can't do stuff. I don't know,
but you know, wait, there was going to be a
deadline here where like it wasn't. This was a very
There was a hard stop on this relationship if it
even were taking place.

Speaker 3 (06:55):
Absolutely, and you're a wonderful girl.

Speaker 6 (06:57):
I mean I hear all kinds.

Speaker 2 (06:58):
Of stories not about you.

Speaker 4 (06:59):
But about like but I try I try to, you know,
she's a devoted member of the community.

Speaker 2 (07:10):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (07:10):
So so Teresa, where do you think the confusion lies
like I'm not making fun of you, but it doesn't
sound like this is even one on one.

Speaker 3 (07:17):
I don't know. Maybe I just really misread what was
going on.

Speaker 5 (07:22):
He was just so funny, just and kind and handsome,
and I don't know, like, have you ever considered not
being a priest?

Speaker 2 (07:39):
I'm gonna out. I don't think it will.

Speaker 1 (07:49):
I think it's a conscious decision that you're making. I
don't think it's not going to work like this isn't
This isn't like I'm gonna try it and see, I
don't see.

Speaker 2 (07:57):
This is where the confusion comes in. You got to
have hard. I don't think it's a life choice. And
I think that's hard to be a hot priest. Like
all right, look church, yeah right, there is scientology. That's
why we're not saying the name. We're not trying to

(08:18):
get sued.

Speaker 1 (08:18):
Maybe I should go to Catholic church. It sounds wild
over there where you guys arend all right, look, teresaid,
the man is going to be a priest. It's not
going to work out. He's not supposed to be doing
those sorts of things. I think that's definitely not a
main sort of a covenant of that, I think. But
but Teresa, I'm sure there's a parishioner there who's not

(08:43):
going to vow to celibacy.

Speaker 2 (08:46):
Who you might, I don't know.

Speaker 1 (08:47):
Maybe that's a lot of people meet at church, so
maybe keep our eyes open for somebody else.

Speaker 3 (08:51):
Yeah, I'll do that.

Speaker 5 (08:54):
And yeah, I just feel really silly now about all
of us to fusion.

Speaker 1 (09:01):
I mean, I went to the doctor the other day
and they made me take my clothes off, and I
thought for sure that she was hitting on me.

Speaker 2 (09:06):
That sounds like to me, that's what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (09:08):
Like, I thought, she's like, take your clothes, I need
to look at my she wants it, you know. But
it turns out that that's part of her job and
she's not not able to do that. But it's unethical anyway.
I'm sorry, guys, it's not Jordan. Thank you for your
honesty and good luck to you.

Speaker 5 (09:21):
No.

Speaker 6 (09:22):
Absolutely, it was such a fun I mean it's still
a very fun experiencing.

Speaker 2 (09:26):
Like there's nothing along with Loft, you know, there.

Speaker 1 (09:29):
Was nothing wrong with that. No, but now except that
with you. Raymond is right. Absolutely, praise me. I wish
you the best. Good luck to you as well, thank you,