March 9, 2026 • 7 mins
Kaelynn is confused why her date Derek won't call her back... Find out why she got ghosted!
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
I've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the
Frend Show. Hey Caitlyn, good morning, Welcome to the show.
How are you good morning?
Speaker 2 (00:09):
I'm okay, how.
Speaker 1 (00:10):
Are you doing great? Trying to help you out though
with this guy Derek. So this is someone you met
in a bar a few weeks ago and then what happened?
Speaker 2 (00:19):
Yeah, so we hung out like the whole night when
we met in the bar. We even ended up back
at his place, and I don't know, like I really
don't know what happened. Like I thought we would have
been like dating by now, planning our wedding and our
future kids.
Speaker 1 (00:33):
Like, oh wow, So it was like that, like you
you went on this date and you could envision the future.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
Yeah, it was a great night. We spent the whole
entire night together.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
But you didn't tell him that, did you on the date?
Like I envisioned my entire future with you, Like you
didn't talk about the kids you're going to have and
stuff on the first date. Okay, all right, So you
went on this great date and you liked him obviously,
and you were hoping to see him again and see
where things went. But you haven't heard from him since
the date, and I have you reached out to him?
Have you texted or called him at all?
Speaker 2 (01:03):
I tried to, but like he's not responding, and I
just feel like it's really odd, like I don't know
what happened.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
Well, as Tolina would say on waiting by the phone,
it's the tail so old as time, because you know,
you go out with somebody. Dating is tough. Everyone who's
dating right now knows that. And then you finally connect
with somebody and you're thinking, this is great, finally we finally,
you know, all my hard work is paid off, and
all the bad dates I've been on, and then and
then you go out with someone you like and they
don't call you back. So let's let's call this guy Derek.
(01:29):
You'll be on the phone at the same time. We'll
ask some questions and hopefully we can figure out what's
going on and set you guys up on another date
that we pay for. Sound good, sounds great? Hey? Cayln Yeah,
And by the way, she spells a K A y
l y n n, which is one of the many
spellings of Caylin that I've seen over the past what
seven eight years. Caylen yes. In addition to Caitlin and
(01:49):
Courtney and Steve and Bob and everything else. They call you.
Speaker 3 (01:52):
Yeah, they call me Bob. I was going to ask,
so thank you for asking. How she's spelled to Yeah, yeah,
she's Caitlin. Is a k A E l I N
for ree, but then k y l y n it anyway.
I just wanted to specify because you don't see that
name every day. But let's call this guy Derek. You
met at a bar, you went out, you had a
great time. You were hoping to see him again. Except
he's ghosted you, it appears, and you want to know why, right.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Kaitln, Yes, I need to know why. All right, let's
call him now? Good luck? Hello, Hi is this Derek?
Hey Derek, good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling
from the Fred's Show, the Morning radio Show, and I
do have to tell you that we are on the
radio right now, and I would need your permission to
(02:35):
continue with the call. Can we chat for just a
second on the show? Would you mind? It's just like
a gotcha thing or something. I don't I wouldn't say
that necessarily doesn't have to be I got youa thing,
but I'm gonna take that as a yes. So we're
calling on behalf of someone named Kaylin, who I guess
you met recently. He went on a date. Do you
(02:56):
remember her? Yeah? Yeah, yeah. And by the way, you
you can hang up any time. If you're uncomfortable, you
can hang up any time. But so she called us
and told us about you. I had a lot of
nice things to say about you and the date. It
was really optimistic about the future. Except for whatever reason,
she says, you're not calling her back, So what's up
with that? Yeah, she's just gross. I'm sorry.
Speaker 4 (03:17):
It was just a really bad night and I don't
know what she said, but she Lets just say she
got really drunk, really sloppy, and she threw up all
over me in my house and like I, I was
just it was a mess, and.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
Honestly, I had to pay for it.
Speaker 4 (03:34):
She didn't even she didn't even offer to pay for it.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
She was too drunk for that. I sent her home
on a cab.
Speaker 4 (03:40):
I was just like, yeah, yeah, I'll talk to you later,
but I wasn't planning to ever hear talk or see
her again. So she needs to learn how to use
a toilet and be properly toilet trained on.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
The floor fum oh oh, Kaylen, Kaylen, Derek, there's the
got chi part. Sorry about that. I just get into
these stories. I forget. I have two things. First of all, Derek,
about twenty minutes ago, you said, let's just say, and
then you told the whole story. Normally people would let's
just let's just say, they abbreviate, but I'm glad you
told us everything. And the second thing is I've been there.
(04:19):
I've had someone throw up in my home and then
so so now I'm hungover going to the store to
buy the carpet cleaner, and now my homeover ass is
trying to clean the nasty puke, and then I don't
feel good and it's really grows and it's really discussing
to have to clean up somebody else's we'll call it
excrement or you know, like whatever it comes out of
(04:40):
their body. It's gross if you know the person in
love them. It's especially gross if you don't.
Speaker 4 (04:46):
Yeah, I was turned off like from that right there.
I was just like, I'll never I never want to.
I'm not going to kiss you. She tried to kiss me,
and I'm just like.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
Yeah, that's smooth. And the whole thing is, it's very hard.
It's very hard to klen what happened. I mean, I
obviously you got too drunk, but like, why didn't How
were you not able to make it to the bathroom.
Why are we trying to kiss him afterwards? Like what
are we doing here?
Speaker 2 (05:10):
You know, like it happened. It wasn't on purpose, like
nobody wants to get sick, and like I helped clean
it up.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
You did not knew.
Speaker 4 (05:19):
You thought you did, but you're too drunk to remember.
I sent you home. You tried to clean it up
by taking out a tissue in your pursing. Dang, let
me clean this up.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
See, this is what you needed to do. What you
needed to do is attempt to clean it up as
best you can all by yourself. And that well, what
you needed to do is get to the bathroom. But
that's okay, so you didn't, So then you got to
clean it up. And that what you got to do
is the next day you got to send somebody over
there to clean it you know what I mean, Like
you got to if you really like this guy, and
(05:50):
that happens, and you know, unfortunate things happen. You got
to go over the top to make this better and
it sounds like you just kind of did it and
then eh, and then last and then one wonder why
he and then tried to kiss him, and then wondered
why he didn't call you, like you got to fix it.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
I remember the tissue. I remember being on my hands
and knees like I would clean it up.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
I think something. You think I had somebody to throw
up in my bed once? That was a gross nice
It's fairness to that woman. She cleaned everything like she
she said, get out of the bed, and then she
like took all the sheets and she'd like found my
dryer and wash and dryer and she cleaned it. And
then she offered to have somebody come over, and then
she sent me a bunch of cleaning supplies and a
(06:29):
cookie basket. Did you ever see her again? Well, yeah,
but not in that capacity, so yeah no. But anyway,
I mean what I'm saying is I felt bad for
her the way that I would feel bad for Kaylin
and obviously for Derek. But like she went over the
top to make it right, like in a very cute
way because she felt bad. And that's the part that
(06:51):
I think you needed to do here, Kaylen, if you
really like this guy.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
I just feel like I tried my best.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
For what I had at the moment, Like next day, now, okay,
there you go, So how about that? How about that
next date? No drinks? Would you give her another chance?
Because it sounded like everything was going well, I mean
she did wind up back at your place in fairness, no,
of course not.
Speaker 4 (07:11):
I'm sorry, Galen, but there's a no go.
Speaker 1 (07:15):
You know there's a no go.
Speaker 2 (07:17):
Okay, gag, I tried.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
I don't think you did. I don't think you tried
hard enough for a guy that you really really wanted
to see again. But anyway, and now he's left with
this bad taste in his mouth, no pun intended, and
he's not going to forget it. So I feel bad
for you, but it's not going to work out. Guys,
Thank you both for your time. Best of luck out there.
Speaker 2 (07:36):
Thanks guys,
I've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the
Frend Show. Hey Caitlyn, good morning, Welcome to the show.
How are you good morning?
Speaker 2 (00:09):
I'm okay, how.
Speaker 1 (00:10):
Are you doing great? Trying to help you out though
with this guy Derek. So this is someone you met
in a bar a few weeks ago and then what happened?
Speaker 2 (00:19):
Yeah, so we hung out like the whole night when
we met in the bar. We even ended up back
at his place, and I don't know, like I really
don't know what happened. Like I thought we would have
been like dating by now, planning our wedding and our
future kids.
Speaker 1 (00:33):
Like, oh wow, So it was like that, like you
you went on this date and you could envision the future.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
Yeah, it was a great night. We spent the whole
entire night together.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
But you didn't tell him that, did you on the date?
Like I envisioned my entire future with you, Like you
didn't talk about the kids you're going to have and
stuff on the first date. Okay, all right, So you
went on this great date and you liked him obviously,
and you were hoping to see him again and see
where things went. But you haven't heard from him since
the date, and I have you reached out to him?
Have you texted or called him at all?
Speaker 2 (01:03):
I tried to, but like he's not responding, and I
just feel like it's really odd, like I don't know
what happened.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
Well, as Tolina would say on waiting by the phone,
it's the tail so old as time, because you know,
you go out with somebody. Dating is tough. Everyone who's
dating right now knows that. And then you finally connect
with somebody and you're thinking, this is great, finally we finally,
you know, all my hard work is paid off, and
all the bad dates I've been on, and then and
then you go out with someone you like and they
don't call you back. So let's let's call this guy Derek.
(01:29):
You'll be on the phone at the same time. We'll
ask some questions and hopefully we can figure out what's
going on and set you guys up on another date
that we pay for. Sound good, sounds great? Hey? Cayln Yeah,
And by the way, she spells a K A y
l y n n, which is one of the many
spellings of Caylin that I've seen over the past what
seven eight years. Caylen yes. In addition to Caitlin and
(01:49):
Courtney and Steve and Bob and everything else. They call you.
Speaker 3 (01:52):
Yeah, they call me Bob. I was going to ask,
so thank you for asking. How she's spelled to Yeah, yeah,
she's Caitlin. Is a k A E l I N
for ree, but then k y l y n it anyway.
I just wanted to specify because you don't see that
name every day. But let's call this guy Derek. You
met at a bar, you went out, you had a
great time. You were hoping to see him again. Except
he's ghosted you, it appears, and you want to know why, right.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Kaitln, Yes, I need to know why. All right, let's
call him now? Good luck? Hello, Hi is this Derek?
Hey Derek, good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling
from the Fred's Show, the Morning radio Show, and I
do have to tell you that we are on the
radio right now, and I would need your permission to
(02:35):
continue with the call. Can we chat for just a
second on the show? Would you mind? It's just like
a gotcha thing or something. I don't I wouldn't say
that necessarily doesn't have to be I got youa thing,
but I'm gonna take that as a yes. So we're
calling on behalf of someone named Kaylin, who I guess
you met recently. He went on a date. Do you
(02:56):
remember her? Yeah? Yeah, yeah. And by the way, you
you can hang up any time. If you're uncomfortable, you
can hang up any time. But so she called us
and told us about you. I had a lot of
nice things to say about you and the date. It
was really optimistic about the future. Except for whatever reason,
she says, you're not calling her back, So what's up
with that? Yeah, she's just gross. I'm sorry.
Speaker 4 (03:17):
It was just a really bad night and I don't
know what she said, but she Lets just say she
got really drunk, really sloppy, and she threw up all
over me in my house and like I, I was
just it was a mess, and.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
Honestly, I had to pay for it.
Speaker 4 (03:34):
She didn't even she didn't even offer to pay for it.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
She was too drunk for that. I sent her home
on a cab.
Speaker 4 (03:40):
I was just like, yeah, yeah, I'll talk to you later,
but I wasn't planning to ever hear talk or see
her again. So she needs to learn how to use
a toilet and be properly toilet trained on.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
The floor fum oh oh, Kaylen, Kaylen, Derek, there's the
got chi part. Sorry about that. I just get into
these stories. I forget. I have two things. First of all, Derek,
about twenty minutes ago, you said, let's just say, and
then you told the whole story. Normally people would let's
just let's just say, they abbreviate, but I'm glad you
told us everything. And the second thing is I've been there.
(04:19):
I've had someone throw up in my home and then
so so now I'm hungover going to the store to
buy the carpet cleaner, and now my homeover ass is
trying to clean the nasty puke, and then I don't
feel good and it's really grows and it's really discussing
to have to clean up somebody else's we'll call it
excrement or you know, like whatever it comes out of
(04:40):
their body. It's gross if you know the person in
love them. It's especially gross if you don't.
Speaker 4 (04:46):
Yeah, I was turned off like from that right there.
I was just like, I'll never I never want to.
I'm not going to kiss you. She tried to kiss me,
and I'm just like.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
Yeah, that's smooth. And the whole thing is, it's very hard.
It's very hard to klen what happened. I mean, I
obviously you got too drunk, but like, why didn't How
were you not able to make it to the bathroom.
Why are we trying to kiss him afterwards? Like what
are we doing here?
Speaker 2 (05:10):
You know, like it happened. It wasn't on purpose, like
nobody wants to get sick, and like I helped clean
it up.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
You did not knew.
Speaker 4 (05:19):
You thought you did, but you're too drunk to remember.
I sent you home. You tried to clean it up
by taking out a tissue in your pursing. Dang, let
me clean this up.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
See, this is what you needed to do. What you
needed to do is attempt to clean it up as
best you can all by yourself. And that well, what
you needed to do is get to the bathroom. But
that's okay, so you didn't, So then you got to
clean it up. And that what you got to do
is the next day you got to send somebody over
there to clean it you know what I mean, Like
you got to if you really like this guy, and
(05:50):
that happens, and you know, unfortunate things happen. You got
to go over the top to make this better and
it sounds like you just kind of did it and
then eh, and then last and then one wonder why
he and then tried to kiss him, and then wondered
why he didn't call you, like you got to fix it.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
I remember the tissue. I remember being on my hands
and knees like I would clean it up.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
I think something. You think I had somebody to throw
up in my bed once? That was a gross nice
It's fairness to that woman. She cleaned everything like she
she said, get out of the bed, and then she
like took all the sheets and she'd like found my
dryer and wash and dryer and she cleaned it. And
then she offered to have somebody come over, and then
she sent me a bunch of cleaning supplies and a
(06:29):
cookie basket. Did you ever see her again? Well, yeah,
but not in that capacity, so yeah no. But anyway,
I mean what I'm saying is I felt bad for
her the way that I would feel bad for Kaylin
and obviously for Derek. But like she went over the
top to make it right, like in a very cute
way because she felt bad. And that's the part that
(06:51):
I think you needed to do here, Kaylen, if you
really like this guy.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
I just feel like I tried my best.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
For what I had at the moment, Like next day, now, okay,
there you go, So how about that? How about that
next date? No drinks? Would you give her another chance?
Because it sounded like everything was going well, I mean
she did wind up back at your place in fairness, no,
of course not.
Speaker 4 (07:11):
I'm sorry, Galen, but there's a no go.
Speaker 1 (07:15):
You know there's a no go.
Speaker 2 (07:17):
Okay, gag, I tried.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
I don't think you did. I don't think you tried
hard enough for a guy that you really really wanted
to see again. But anyway, and now he's left with
this bad taste in his mouth, no pun intended, and
he's not going to forget it. So I feel bad
for you, but it's not going to work out. Guys,
Thank you both for your time. Best of luck out there.
Speaker 2 (07:36):
Thanks guys,
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