May 8, 2026 • 12 mins
She wants to know if she is the a-hole for having her son's high school prom after party and allowing kids to drink!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This portion of the Joe Show podcast is powered by
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the a hole moment where if you made a decision,
you're second guessing it.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
You need us to help you out.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
We help you out and we'll figure out if you
made the wrong decision. Eight hundred four nine ninety three
ninety three Jackie, which we are using a fake name
for Jackie and a voice disguiser. Hey Jackie, good morning,
good morning. All right, so voice disguiser, because you are
a little nervous. What you did was illegal, prom happened,
(00:42):
and your kids were the house. You were the house
where the kids all came over for the party. And
you're catching a lot of flak right now because kids
were drinking at your house.
Speaker 3 (00:57):
Correct.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
Did you know that they were drinking?
Speaker 4 (01:06):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (01:06):
I knew. My son told me and he wanted to
have some friends over, and.
Speaker 4 (01:13):
I thought about it.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
And took some precautions and I let him go.
Speaker 4 (01:19):
Yeah, that's cool.
Speaker 1 (01:24):
I mean I would assume that you knew that people
were going to find out, right, I.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
Mean I thought I thought if their parents would find out,
But I didn't think that their parents would tell the school,
the school board.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
Others, Oh, the school.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
The school Nos, yeah, will And honestly, I'm not very
concerned because he's a senior.
Speaker 4 (01:55):
And he's going to be done with them in a
few weeks.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
So eight hundred four, the ninety three, ninety three.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
Uh, you know, as as Jackie allows her house to
be the party house. You know, if you're if you're
listening right now, you are a parent.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
You know, what can I say something to to No,
you're not allowed to say anything. Yes, what's up?
Speaker 3 (02:24):
Well? Look, I took like I was responsible it. I
took their keys, I had the ring camera activated, I
was checking in. I did random searches of a few bags.
Like I didn't want drugs in the house. I'd let
that be known. But yes, were they to name deer Pong?
Speaker 4 (02:41):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (02:42):
Did they do flip club?
Speaker 4 (02:43):
Yes? Was there some vomiting the next day? Yes? But
I don't.
Speaker 3 (02:52):
I mean, I'm just wondering if I'm an a hole,
But I don't think I am. We did it as kids.
We're all fine, they're fine, everybody's fine.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
Did you guys have a party house in high school?
Speaker 5 (03:03):
I did have a party house that sounds like the
party house that I would have gone to. But you know,
things have changed, So I think that letting the other
parents are like, hey, their kids are gonna be over,
they're going to have some drinks, letting you know now,
instead of those parents finding out their kids are getting
sick from drinking at your house.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
Es. I don't have kids, but I've got a brother
who's like ten years younger than me, and he's now
in college. But the stories he tells me about when
he was in high school, I think that they are
just increasingly getting worse and worse and worse. I mean,
they're all sucking on a USB drive when they're eight
years old, basically. I mean, my brother told me he
(03:41):
was stealing my weed pens when he was that young ist,
scaring the crap out of me, but he was. He's
much worse than me too. But I also wonder if
it's one because I'm a nerd. I didn't go to
prom was the first.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
Night I drank?
Speaker 5 (03:52):
You didn't go to house parties?
Speaker 1 (03:53):
Huh No, I didn't get invited. Yeah, Jed was younger
than me and got invited at the parties. I wasn't
invited to.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
That's a that's a fact.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
Actually, though Jed's kind of an expert in this because
Jed here, and I know that Jed's picking up phone calls.
But Jed, come in here because we're going to talk
about and don't say the last name. But he went
to a party house when we were younger. I wasn't
allowed at this house because it was such a party house.
You guys got suspended, Yeah, we got suspended. I had
to sit out from baseball for almost two weeks because
(04:23):
drinking at house because of the school. Well, it's because
the school had found out about it. So I think
that you kind of are an ahole because you now
are subjecting not just your son to any that stuff
if he is playing a spring sport or a summer sport,
but you're also subjecting the other kids.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
Like Ashley just said, Hey, is it Elena?
Speaker 4 (04:43):
Hi?
Speaker 2 (04:43):
Elena, Elena. You're on with Jackie.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
Jackie you know her son prom They all go over
to her house after throws a house party. The kids
are allowed to drink. Now the school is not happy. Uh,
these other parents some of them not happy Jackie. Are
all the parents mad at you? Or or I guess
I never even asked that. I'm assuming are any of
(05:07):
the parents mad at you or were they aware of
what was going to happen.
Speaker 3 (05:12):
They were aware there was a party, they didn't know
it was going to be as much of a razor
as it turned out to be. I also want to say,
these kids would have drank anyway if it was at
my house or another person's house.
Speaker 4 (05:28):
That is going to happen.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
You're right under my watch and everyone's alive, Elena, what.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Do you think?
Speaker 6 (05:36):
That's exactly what I was going to say. I don't
think you're the a hole Jackie. When I was younger
of nineteen years old, I've been a field doing god
knows what, and I almost always had a friend passed
away actually from alcohol poisoning, but they were going to
just leave her there. So, No, you're not the a whole.
It's in a controlled environment, possibly limited. No, you're not
(05:59):
the a whole, And I'll stand on that. Kids will
drink anyways, man.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
Cool kids in my school always went to like fields
and fond fire Fire. Then I never got invited what
I was going to say. I mean, it is a
controlled environment. We had several part party houses where like
the cops would get called and the parents run home
and we would scatter. We're running through neighborhoods and hopping fences,
we're in fields, we're camping. I mean, it was wild.
(06:24):
So Jackie, I don't think you're an a hole. I mean,
I'm sorry that everyone's mad at you. But again, you
were making it as safe of an environment for something
that was just gonna happen.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
Anyways. You would get chased, chased by the cops. You
would get chased by the cops.
Speaker 5 (06:38):
Literally, it was winter and we were running over the
pool cover boo boom boom.
Speaker 3 (06:41):
Boom boom.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
Really, when you would run from the cops, would this play?
Why do I picture you running away from the cops.
But you guys are only running around the fire and
they can't catch you.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
Katie going round and round and around her round. You said,
which number was good?
Speaker 7 (07:04):
Jed?
Speaker 2 (07:07):
Which number?
Speaker 1 (07:07):
Jed?
Speaker 2 (07:09):
Sorry your mic was down? Go ahead number six? Hey kay, Hey,
you said that you were all good morning, good morning.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
You say that Jackie is the a hole mom who
had her son to the prom after party at her
house and they drank.
Speaker 2 (07:30):
She's the age.
Speaker 7 (07:30):
Yeah. Absolutely, we had a party house growing up. When
I was in high school, and not only was that
wrong number one because you're encouraging it. The number two
like mom got herself in trouble, she got herself arrested
for it. Cops got called and she was arrested and
went into uh Hillsboro Ownty jail for thirty days.
Speaker 2 (07:54):
Was it worth it?
Speaker 3 (08:01):
So from my perspective, everybody is alive. My kids didn't
drink and drive, nobody fought, nobody got poisoning. So if
I have to pay thirty days in jail, so do it.
Speaker 7 (08:16):
Well, God bless you go. I wouldn't do it. They
were just I mean, I understand like having a safe
place to do for it, but like you know, I
mean encouragement and I know it's a safe place, but
you know, in.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
Other words, Jackie, you would risk jail time for the
safety of your kids.
Speaker 2 (08:40):
Yes, that's right here, Yes, as you're absolutely right.
Speaker 1 (08:47):
Yeah, you got no worry about it. I got you, kay,
Thank you for calling in. Uh Jordan, you say she's
not the a hole?
Speaker 2 (08:53):
Why is that.
Speaker 4 (08:55):
Absolutely not? First of all, I am the first time caller.
Pull it out there.
Speaker 2 (08:59):
Let me hit you with yeah.
Speaker 4 (09:10):
So exciting, uh yeah, so absolutely not. Uh So anyone
that says she is maybe not a parent or a
very helicopter parent. They're gonna do it anyway. I was
at the link with kid. I have three kids myself.
They're not quite old enough to drink yet, but they're
gonna do it anyway. Man, I was, I was drinking
and had high for my parents sneaking out. I don't
(09:32):
want that for my kids. I want my kids to
trust me, to come to me with with problems, and
and like she said, create a safe space. They're gonna
do it anyway. Took the keys. They can't drive, you know.
I rather I'd rather all their friends come to my
house and hang out there and instead of my kids
go out to other places and doing god knows what.
I can see who their friends are, I can see
(09:53):
their influences. I mean, I just think I just think
that was especially for PROM. I mean, that's probably one
of the craziest nights when the most accidents happened. That's
where crazy car crashes and drunk driving happens. And you
have a little bit of control over that.
Speaker 5 (10:08):
Absolutely, don't you think the other parents should have been
aware of it? Though, like you said, you're okay with
your kid doing it at your place. But what if
your kids as somebody else.
Speaker 1 (10:16):
I feel like the parents were aware of it, because
like when I went to prom and I went to
the party and everything, I got to stay at the house.
So funny though, as I think about it, I don't
remember whose house I was at.
Speaker 2 (10:29):
I remember the girl I took to prom. Her name
is Hannah, very cute girl.
Speaker 1 (10:32):
I ended up sleeping in her car, and I remember
getting home and my mom was like, did you drink?
And I see I drink and she goes, how do
you feel like I'm not good? And she goes, that's
what happens when you drink, and I feel that good.
Speaker 5 (10:42):
Those parents knew yea, yeah, I feel like staying there
little wink wink nod.
Speaker 2 (10:46):
Oh yeah.
Speaker 1 (10:46):
I mean the kids are like kissing in the basement
and I'll never forget anything. I wanted to kiss Hannah
and she didn't kissing Heather.
Speaker 4 (10:54):
I'm sure. I'm sure there's some kids parents that didn't know.
But I mean that's kind of on the parent and
the parent kid relationship. Kind of have that talk and
know where they're going and know where they're at. You know,
I want to know where my kid's at and he's
at my house safe and I'm brushed him enough to
I mean, I've raised them at this point, he's what's
(11:15):
seventeen eighteen years old if you're saying, a senior, right,
so he's should know by this point. There's you're less
parents at this point and more overseer of what's happening
and guiding him at this point.
Speaker 2 (11:29):
Well, thank you, Jordan, I appreciate you. Jackie. We're gonna
move on. Listen. I uh yeah.
Speaker 1 (11:38):
At the end of the day, it's your son, so
you're gonna do what you'd do. And you know, how
do you feel after this? Do you feel like you're
the a hole or no?
Speaker 4 (11:46):
No, I feel good.
Speaker 3 (11:47):
I'm a little worried about the school finding out, but
we'll work it through and I'm gonna use the same
defense and maybe i'll play back this.
Speaker 2 (11:56):
Well, hold on if you get it. Yeah, wait, hold on,
don't don't get me caught up in this. NA you can,
that's fine, that's fine.
Speaker 1 (12:05):
This portion of The Joe Show podcast is powered by
Fair and Farah, Tampa accident attorneys.
This portion of the Joe Show podcast is powered by
Fair and Faarah Tampa Accident Attorneys. A Joe Show had
to make sure that that was good because am I
the a hole moment where if you made a decision,
you're second guessing it.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
You need us to help you out.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
We help you out and we'll figure out if you
made the wrong decision. Eight hundred four nine ninety three
ninety three Jackie, which we are using a fake name
for Jackie and a voice disguiser. Hey Jackie, good morning,
good morning. All right, so voice disguiser, because you are
a little nervous. What you did was illegal, prom happened,
(00:42):
and your kids were the house. You were the house
where the kids all came over for the party. And
you're catching a lot of flak right now because kids
were drinking at your house.
Speaker 3 (00:57):
Correct.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
Did you know that they were drinking?
Speaker 4 (01:06):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (01:06):
I knew. My son told me and he wanted to
have some friends over, and.
Speaker 4 (01:13):
I thought about it.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
And took some precautions and I let him go.
Speaker 4 (01:19):
Yeah, that's cool.
Speaker 1 (01:24):
I mean I would assume that you knew that people
were going to find out, right, I.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
Mean I thought I thought if their parents would find out,
But I didn't think that their parents would tell the school,
the school board.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
Others, Oh, the school.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
The school Nos, yeah, will And honestly, I'm not very
concerned because he's a senior.
Speaker 4 (01:55):
And he's going to be done with them in a
few weeks.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
So eight hundred four, the ninety three, ninety three.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
Uh, you know, as as Jackie allows her house to
be the party house. You know, if you're if you're
listening right now, you are a parent.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
You know, what can I say something to to No,
you're not allowed to say anything. Yes, what's up?
Speaker 3 (02:24):
Well? Look, I took like I was responsible it. I
took their keys, I had the ring camera activated, I
was checking in. I did random searches of a few bags.
Like I didn't want drugs in the house. I'd let
that be known. But yes, were they to name deer Pong?
Speaker 4 (02:41):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (02:42):
Did they do flip club?
Speaker 4 (02:43):
Yes? Was there some vomiting the next day? Yes? But
I don't.
Speaker 3 (02:52):
I mean, I'm just wondering if I'm an a hole,
But I don't think I am. We did it as kids.
We're all fine, they're fine, everybody's fine.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
Did you guys have a party house in high school?
Speaker 5 (03:03):
I did have a party house that sounds like the
party house that I would have gone to. But you know,
things have changed, So I think that letting the other
parents are like, hey, their kids are gonna be over,
they're going to have some drinks, letting you know now,
instead of those parents finding out their kids are getting
sick from drinking at your house.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
Es. I don't have kids, but I've got a brother
who's like ten years younger than me, and he's now
in college. But the stories he tells me about when
he was in high school, I think that they are
just increasingly getting worse and worse and worse. I mean,
they're all sucking on a USB drive when they're eight
years old, basically. I mean, my brother told me he
(03:41):
was stealing my weed pens when he was that young ist,
scaring the crap out of me, but he was. He's
much worse than me too. But I also wonder if
it's one because I'm a nerd. I didn't go to
prom was the first.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
Night I drank?
Speaker 5 (03:52):
You didn't go to house parties?
Speaker 1 (03:53):
Huh No, I didn't get invited. Yeah, Jed was younger
than me and got invited at the parties. I wasn't
invited to.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
That's a that's a fact.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
Actually, though Jed's kind of an expert in this because
Jed here, and I know that Jed's picking up phone calls.
But Jed, come in here because we're going to talk
about and don't say the last name. But he went
to a party house when we were younger. I wasn't
allowed at this house because it was such a party house.
You guys got suspended, Yeah, we got suspended. I had
to sit out from baseball for almost two weeks because
(04:23):
drinking at house because of the school. Well, it's because
the school had found out about it. So I think
that you kind of are an ahole because you now
are subjecting not just your son to any that stuff
if he is playing a spring sport or a summer sport,
but you're also subjecting the other kids.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
Like Ashley just said, Hey, is it Elena?
Speaker 4 (04:43):
Hi?
Speaker 2 (04:43):
Elena, Elena. You're on with Jackie.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
Jackie you know her son prom They all go over
to her house after throws a house party. The kids
are allowed to drink. Now the school is not happy. Uh,
these other parents some of them not happy Jackie. Are
all the parents mad at you? Or or I guess
I never even asked that. I'm assuming are any of
(05:07):
the parents mad at you or were they aware of
what was going to happen.
Speaker 3 (05:12):
They were aware there was a party, they didn't know
it was going to be as much of a razor
as it turned out to be. I also want to say,
these kids would have drank anyway if it was at
my house or another person's house.
Speaker 4 (05:28):
That is going to happen.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
You're right under my watch and everyone's alive, Elena, what.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Do you think?
Speaker 6 (05:36):
That's exactly what I was going to say. I don't
think you're the a hole Jackie. When I was younger
of nineteen years old, I've been a field doing god
knows what, and I almost always had a friend passed
away actually from alcohol poisoning, but they were going to
just leave her there. So, No, you're not the a whole.
It's in a controlled environment, possibly limited. No, you're not
(05:59):
the a whole, And I'll stand on that. Kids will
drink anyways, man.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
Cool kids in my school always went to like fields
and fond fire Fire. Then I never got invited what
I was going to say. I mean, it is a
controlled environment. We had several part party houses where like
the cops would get called and the parents run home
and we would scatter. We're running through neighborhoods and hopping fences,
we're in fields, we're camping. I mean, it was wild.
(06:24):
So Jackie, I don't think you're an a hole. I mean,
I'm sorry that everyone's mad at you. But again, you
were making it as safe of an environment for something
that was just gonna happen.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
Anyways. You would get chased, chased by the cops. You
would get chased by the cops.
Speaker 5 (06:38):
Literally, it was winter and we were running over the
pool cover boo boom boom.
Speaker 3 (06:41):
Boom boom.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
Really, when you would run from the cops, would this play?
Why do I picture you running away from the cops.
But you guys are only running around the fire and
they can't catch you.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
Katie going round and round and around her round. You said,
which number was good?
Speaker 7 (07:04):
Jed?
Speaker 2 (07:07):
Which number?
Speaker 1 (07:07):
Jed?
Speaker 2 (07:09):
Sorry your mic was down? Go ahead number six? Hey kay, Hey,
you said that you were all good morning, good morning.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
You say that Jackie is the a hole mom who
had her son to the prom after party at her
house and they drank.
Speaker 2 (07:30):
She's the age.
Speaker 7 (07:30):
Yeah. Absolutely, we had a party house growing up. When
I was in high school, and not only was that
wrong number one because you're encouraging it. The number two
like mom got herself in trouble, she got herself arrested
for it. Cops got called and she was arrested and
went into uh Hillsboro Ownty jail for thirty days.
Speaker 2 (07:54):
Was it worth it?
Speaker 3 (08:01):
So from my perspective, everybody is alive. My kids didn't
drink and drive, nobody fought, nobody got poisoning. So if
I have to pay thirty days in jail, so do it.
Speaker 7 (08:16):
Well, God bless you go. I wouldn't do it. They
were just I mean, I understand like having a safe
place to do for it, but like you know, I
mean encouragement and I know it's a safe place, but
you know, in.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
Other words, Jackie, you would risk jail time for the
safety of your kids.
Speaker 2 (08:40):
Yes, that's right here, Yes, as you're absolutely right.
Speaker 1 (08:47):
Yeah, you got no worry about it. I got you, kay,
Thank you for calling in. Uh Jordan, you say she's
not the a hole?
Speaker 2 (08:53):
Why is that.
Speaker 4 (08:55):
Absolutely not? First of all, I am the first time caller.
Pull it out there.
Speaker 2 (08:59):
Let me hit you with yeah.
Speaker 4 (09:10):
So exciting, uh yeah, so absolutely not. Uh So anyone
that says she is maybe not a parent or a
very helicopter parent. They're gonna do it anyway. I was
at the link with kid. I have three kids myself.
They're not quite old enough to drink yet, but they're
gonna do it anyway. Man, I was, I was drinking
and had high for my parents sneaking out. I don't
(09:32):
want that for my kids. I want my kids to
trust me, to come to me with with problems, and
and like she said, create a safe space. They're gonna
do it anyway. Took the keys. They can't drive, you know.
I rather I'd rather all their friends come to my
house and hang out there and instead of my kids
go out to other places and doing god knows what.
I can see who their friends are, I can see
(09:53):
their influences. I mean, I just think I just think
that was especially for PROM. I mean, that's probably one
of the craziest nights when the most accidents happened. That's
where crazy car crashes and drunk driving happens. And you
have a little bit of control over that.
Speaker 5 (10:08):
Absolutely, don't you think the other parents should have been
aware of it? Though, like you said, you're okay with
your kid doing it at your place. But what if
your kids as somebody else.
Speaker 1 (10:16):
I feel like the parents were aware of it, because
like when I went to prom and I went to
the party and everything, I got to stay at the house.
So funny though, as I think about it, I don't
remember whose house I was at.
Speaker 2 (10:29):
I remember the girl I took to prom. Her name
is Hannah, very cute girl.
Speaker 1 (10:32):
I ended up sleeping in her car, and I remember
getting home and my mom was like, did you drink?
And I see I drink and she goes, how do
you feel like I'm not good? And she goes, that's
what happens when you drink, and I feel that good.
Speaker 5 (10:42):
Those parents knew yea, yeah, I feel like staying there
little wink wink nod.
Speaker 2 (10:46):
Oh yeah.
Speaker 1 (10:46):
I mean the kids are like kissing in the basement
and I'll never forget anything. I wanted to kiss Hannah
and she didn't kissing Heather.
Speaker 4 (10:54):
I'm sure. I'm sure there's some kids parents that didn't know.
But I mean that's kind of on the parent and
the parent kid relationship. Kind of have that talk and
know where they're going and know where they're at. You know,
I want to know where my kid's at and he's
at my house safe and I'm brushed him enough to
I mean, I've raised them at this point, he's what's
(11:15):
seventeen eighteen years old if you're saying, a senior, right,
so he's should know by this point. There's you're less
parents at this point and more overseer of what's happening
and guiding him at this point.
Speaker 2 (11:29):
Well, thank you, Jordan, I appreciate you. Jackie. We're gonna
move on. Listen. I uh yeah.
Speaker 1 (11:38):
At the end of the day, it's your son, so
you're gonna do what you'd do. And you know, how
do you feel after this? Do you feel like you're
the a hole or no?
Speaker 4 (11:46):
No, I feel good.
Speaker 3 (11:47):
I'm a little worried about the school finding out, but
we'll work it through and I'm gonna use the same
defense and maybe i'll play back this.
Speaker 2 (11:56):
Well, hold on if you get it. Yeah, wait, hold on,
don't don't get me caught up in this. NA you can,
that's fine, that's fine.
Speaker 1 (12:05):
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Does hearing about a true crime case always leave you scouring the internet for the truth behind the story? Dive into your next mystery with Crime Junkie. Every Monday, join your host Ashley Flowers as she unravels all the details of infamous and underreported true crime cases with her best friend Brit Prawat. From cold cases to missing persons and heroes in our community who seek justice, Crime Junkie is your destination for theories and stories you won’t hear anywhere else. Whether you're a seasoned true crime enthusiast or new to the genre, you'll find yourself on the edge of your seat awaiting a new episode every Monday. If you can never get enough true crime... Congratulations, you’ve found your people. Follow to join a community of Crime Junkies! Crime Junkie is presented by Audiochuck Media Company.