May 19, 2026 • 9 mins
Joe has a list for us this morning.... what are things that you can say to your significant other that could be 'relationship' ending?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This portion of the Joe Show podcast is powered by
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ninety three. Well, there's a couple of things we can
get into right now. You guys want to pick. Sure,
I laid out everything, but now I don't really like
the layout.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
He was so excited.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
I know I was. I said, Ashle, I love these.
We can do this. Thirteen phrases that kill relationships. I
got a list.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
Oh, I love your list.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
Thank you. Our emoji's dead. If someone says the word
to you, I'm getting divorced, what do you say back
to them? And then the last one, well, I got
(01:10):
two more wedding drama with me, although we might want
to save that for a later date. And then left
unattended and someone stole it. I want to hear the divorce.
Who's getting divorced?
Speaker 2 (01:26):
I like the thirteen reasons.
Speaker 1 (01:28):
Yeah on the middle, the list or the divorce make it, Katie,
Let's go the list, all right? I got a list
and eight hundred and four nine ninety three ninety three
I want to know if you agree with this list
or if you think like no, you should be able
to say things like this in your relationship. But there
(01:50):
are thirteen phrases people should avoid because they can damage communication,
create resentment, and make your partner feel dismissed. Are you
ready to hear?
Speaker 2 (02:01):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (02:02):
All right? First one, you're acting crazy?
Speaker 2 (02:06):
Oh Jesus, you never say that coming out the gates.
Speaker 1 (02:11):
But what if they're acting crazy? You don't say that, Hey,
you're acting crazy. Take a chill take a chill pill.
Speaker 2 (02:16):
Okay, that's the one thing that someone doesn't.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
Say to.
Speaker 2 (02:20):
You just you know, let's let's have a conversation, like,
talk to me, what's going on?
Speaker 1 (02:24):
Yeah? All right, So then that's another one. Don't say
calm down there.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
Okay, hey, calm down.
Speaker 1 (02:30):
But what if you got to calm down, Hey, just
calm down, relax.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
I don't know something.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
About that calm Yeah. Any experience you've had was telling
someone to calm down? Did they actually calm down? Hey?
That's stupid. No, have very negative All right, This one
for sure, I can't stand you.
Speaker 2 (02:52):
Are you in a relationships? This is the relationship in
the room. They don't like each other.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
You always do this.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
This relationship is on the verge of a breakup.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
Here we go, it's your fault, I.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
Won't nope, Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
Okay, whatever. They say that you should never in an
argument say whatever.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
I say it a lot because.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
It dismisses their feelings. You're saying whatever. Maybe I say
whatever because I don't want to like engage, and.
Speaker 2 (03:22):
I don't have more fuel to the fire, so I'm
just like, okay whatever.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
I feel like women can get away with saying a lot.
I feel like if a man says any of these
next scene, your fault, Joe, it's your fault, whatever. Google it. Hey,
you're overreacting though, seriously whatever, you're overreacting.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
You need to calm down.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
No you Oh, I don't care anymore.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
Oh it breaks my heart. Care what cancer exactly? You
have to care?
Speaker 1 (03:58):
I think this is the worst one.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
He probably says it.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
No, I've never said this one.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
OK.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
Let's roll through the ones that I've definitely said, you're
acting crazy, that's stupid. Calm down, whatever, we love whatever,
and you're overreacting. I've said those you love whatever, whatever
(04:27):
with the eye roll.
Speaker 4 (04:28):
Yeah, boy, this is the worst one, I think.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
And you guys tell me. You ladies, tell me if
this is the worst one that you can say to someone.
I wish you were more like.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
Oh, we're done, it's all right. Yeah, that's right.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
You were more like blank. And it doesn't necessarily have
to be a comparison to a person. It's just more so, Uh,
don't say that phrase.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
Because it makes a person feel like they're not good enough,
they're not up to the standard.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
And this ain't a competition. Baby, I'm out of here.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
I'm done. No, because done doesn't Yeah, it's a bad one.
You never listen. That is that it's like I got
I got hit with that. Yeah a couple of days ago.
You don't say that because all you do is valid.
Date what a listen was saying to me a couple
(05:43):
of days ago, that I don't listen whatever. And then
the last one, I'm not in the mood.
Speaker 2 (05:50):
I think I've said that before.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
A lot, like the guy a lot not the mood, like, hey,
I want to give you a massage, Okay, fine, but
I'm not in the mood. Okay, then I don't want
to give you a raven You are married to someone
with autism, right.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
I am?
Speaker 1 (06:11):
Now, of course I knew that because Jed wrote it down.
I didn't just guess. But as someone who's married to
someone with autism, you say that actually a lot of
these phrases are said to you.
Speaker 5 (06:24):
They're actually said to each other. So that when I'm
still learning, and I've known my husband for over twenty
years and I'm still learning this, his mouth will pop
off before his brain tells him wait a minute, you
really got to think about what you're saying. So I
(06:44):
am still learning to deal with his bluntness, and he's
still learning to deal with mine.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
What is the worst thing he said to you?
Speaker 5 (06:59):
Honestly, I couldn't even I couldn't even think of it
because I always just like, Okay, whatever it was said,
don't even worry about it.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
What's the first thing that pops in your head? Though?
Maybe it's not the worst thing, but what's something like, Hey,
what was something that bothered you? Bank go.
Speaker 5 (07:18):
You're being dramatic?
Speaker 2 (07:19):
Ah, don't tell me I'm being dramatic?
Speaker 1 (07:23):
Why though? What if you are being dramatic.
Speaker 2 (07:26):
Don't tell me I'm being dramatic.
Speaker 1 (07:27):
And I'm not saying that the sense as dramatic, Like
I'm very dramatic. You are, I am more than her.
Oh completely, I'm one of the most dramatic people of
all time.
Speaker 5 (07:40):
You know what The crazy part is, I tell him
to call me out on it all the time when
I'm being dramatic. However, when he says it, we're in
a fight. So I take it to heart, and honestly,
I started, well, we both started listening to this podcast.
It's called to Be Better and it's this couple who
talk put out their problems and other couples problems and
(08:02):
how to fix it.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
M Hey, I got a good couple's podcast. You should
look up. We don't and iHeart radio podcast is very good.
You should check it out.
Speaker 5 (08:13):
Will do barfy.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
It's my mom and my dad. But they just won
an award because of it, so that's cool. Never won
an award, you guys ever won an award?
Speaker 2 (08:23):
Yeah, j Roll for heart, that's true.
Speaker 1 (08:26):
I won thirty under thirty in radio, but I didn't
get anything and they put me in a magazine and
I lost the magazine, so it doesn't even matter. Raven,
We love you, love you too. Wait, Raven, I've got
a drop for your husband. Can I play a drop
for your husband?
Speaker 5 (08:41):
Absolutely?
Speaker 1 (08:42):
From Kanye West. Play this back from him. Okay, I
maybe all right, We'll maybe autistic. It's one of the
best drops we have. That's for your husband. We love you, Raven.
I love you too, Raven. Did you hear the drop? No?
(09:03):
All right, hold on playing everyone quiet, So I get
I'm playing this for Raven and her husband and no
one else. I may be slightly autistic. That's for her husband.
We love your Raven. You know, someone in their car
got laughing atoo done their parade. All right, Raven, we
(09:23):
love you. We will talk to you. I'm sure very soon. Okay.
This portion of The Joe Show podcast is powered by
Fair and Farah, Tampa accident attorneys.
This portion of the Joe Show podcast is powered by
Fair and Farah, Tampa Accident Attorneys. Hey, now we're live,
Tampa Bay's number one and only hit music channel ninety
three three FLZ eight hundred and four OHN ninety three
(00:21):
ninety three. Well, there's a couple of things we can
get into right now. You guys want to pick. Sure,
I laid out everything, but now I don't really like
the layout.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
He was so excited.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
I know I was. I said, Ashle, I love these.
We can do this. Thirteen phrases that kill relationships. I
got a list.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
Oh, I love your list.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
Thank you. Our emoji's dead. If someone says the word
to you, I'm getting divorced, what do you say back
to them? And then the last one, well, I got
(01:10):
two more wedding drama with me, although we might want
to save that for a later date. And then left
unattended and someone stole it. I want to hear the divorce.
Who's getting divorced?
Speaker 2 (01:26):
I like the thirteen reasons.
Speaker 1 (01:28):
Yeah on the middle, the list or the divorce make it, Katie,
Let's go the list, all right? I got a list
and eight hundred and four nine ninety three ninety three
I want to know if you agree with this list
or if you think like no, you should be able
to say things like this in your relationship. But there
(01:50):
are thirteen phrases people should avoid because they can damage communication,
create resentment, and make your partner feel dismissed. Are you
ready to hear?
Speaker 2 (02:01):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (02:02):
All right? First one, you're acting crazy?
Speaker 2 (02:06):
Oh Jesus, you never say that coming out the gates.
Speaker 1 (02:11):
But what if they're acting crazy? You don't say that, Hey,
you're acting crazy. Take a chill take a chill pill.
Speaker 2 (02:16):
Okay, that's the one thing that someone doesn't.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
Say to.
Speaker 2 (02:20):
You just you know, let's let's have a conversation, like,
talk to me, what's going on?
Speaker 1 (02:24):
Yeah? All right, So then that's another one. Don't say
calm down there.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
Okay, hey, calm down.
Speaker 1 (02:30):
But what if you got to calm down, Hey, just
calm down, relax.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
I don't know something.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
About that calm Yeah. Any experience you've had was telling
someone to calm down? Did they actually calm down? Hey?
That's stupid. No, have very negative All right, This one
for sure, I can't stand you.
Speaker 2 (02:52):
Are you in a relationships? This is the relationship in
the room. They don't like each other.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
You always do this.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
This relationship is on the verge of a breakup.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
Here we go, it's your fault, I.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
Won't nope, Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
Okay, whatever. They say that you should never in an
argument say whatever.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
I say it a lot because.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
It dismisses their feelings. You're saying whatever. Maybe I say
whatever because I don't want to like engage, and.
Speaker 2 (03:22):
I don't have more fuel to the fire, so I'm
just like, okay whatever.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
I feel like women can get away with saying a lot.
I feel like if a man says any of these
next scene, your fault, Joe, it's your fault, whatever. Google it. Hey,
you're overreacting though, seriously whatever, you're overreacting.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
You need to calm down.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
No you Oh, I don't care anymore.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
Oh it breaks my heart. Care what cancer exactly? You
have to care?
Speaker 1 (03:58):
I think this is the worst one.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
He probably says it.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
No, I've never said this one.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
OK.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
Let's roll through the ones that I've definitely said, you're
acting crazy, that's stupid. Calm down, whatever, we love whatever,
and you're overreacting. I've said those you love whatever, whatever
(04:27):
with the eye roll.
Speaker 4 (04:28):
Yeah, boy, this is the worst one, I think.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
And you guys tell me. You ladies, tell me if
this is the worst one that you can say to someone.
I wish you were more like.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
Oh, we're done, it's all right. Yeah, that's right.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
You were more like blank. And it doesn't necessarily have
to be a comparison to a person. It's just more so, Uh,
don't say that phrase.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
Because it makes a person feel like they're not good enough,
they're not up to the standard.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
And this ain't a competition. Baby, I'm out of here.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
I'm done. No, because done doesn't Yeah, it's a bad one.
You never listen. That is that it's like I got
I got hit with that. Yeah a couple of days ago.
You don't say that because all you do is valid.
Date what a listen was saying to me a couple
(05:43):
of days ago, that I don't listen whatever. And then
the last one, I'm not in the mood.
Speaker 2 (05:50):
I think I've said that before.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
A lot, like the guy a lot not the mood, like, hey,
I want to give you a massage, Okay, fine, but
I'm not in the mood. Okay, then I don't want
to give you a raven You are married to someone
with autism, right.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
I am?
Speaker 1 (06:11):
Now, of course I knew that because Jed wrote it down.
I didn't just guess. But as someone who's married to
someone with autism, you say that actually a lot of
these phrases are said to you.
Speaker 5 (06:24):
They're actually said to each other. So that when I'm
still learning, and I've known my husband for over twenty
years and I'm still learning this, his mouth will pop
off before his brain tells him wait a minute, you
really got to think about what you're saying. So I
(06:44):
am still learning to deal with his bluntness, and he's
still learning to deal with mine.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
What is the worst thing he said to you?
Speaker 5 (06:59):
Honestly, I couldn't even I couldn't even think of it
because I always just like, Okay, whatever it was said,
don't even worry about it.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
What's the first thing that pops in your head? Though?
Maybe it's not the worst thing, but what's something like, Hey,
what was something that bothered you? Bank go.
Speaker 5 (07:18):
You're being dramatic?
Speaker 2 (07:19):
Ah, don't tell me I'm being dramatic?
Speaker 1 (07:23):
Why though? What if you are being dramatic.
Speaker 2 (07:26):
Don't tell me I'm being dramatic.
Speaker 1 (07:27):
And I'm not saying that the sense as dramatic, Like
I'm very dramatic. You are, I am more than her.
Oh completely, I'm one of the most dramatic people of
all time.
Speaker 5 (07:40):
You know what The crazy part is, I tell him
to call me out on it all the time when
I'm being dramatic. However, when he says it, we're in
a fight. So I take it to heart, and honestly,
I started, well, we both started listening to this podcast.
It's called to Be Better and it's this couple who
talk put out their problems and other couples problems and
(08:02):
how to fix it.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
M Hey, I got a good couple's podcast. You should
look up. We don't and iHeart radio podcast is very good.
You should check it out.
Speaker 5 (08:13):
Will do barfy.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
It's my mom and my dad. But they just won
an award because of it, so that's cool. Never won
an award, you guys ever won an award?
Speaker 2 (08:23):
Yeah, j Roll for heart, that's true.
Speaker 1 (08:26):
I won thirty under thirty in radio, but I didn't
get anything and they put me in a magazine and
I lost the magazine, so it doesn't even matter. Raven,
We love you, love you too. Wait, Raven, I've got
a drop for your husband. Can I play a drop
for your husband?
Speaker 5 (08:41):
Absolutely?
Speaker 1 (08:42):
From Kanye West. Play this back from him. Okay, I
maybe all right, We'll maybe autistic. It's one of the
best drops we have. That's for your husband. We love you, Raven.
I love you too, Raven. Did you hear the drop? No?
(09:03):
All right, hold on playing everyone quiet, So I get
I'm playing this for Raven and her husband and no
one else. I may be slightly autistic. That's for her husband.
We love your Raven. You know, someone in their car
got laughing atoo done their parade. All right, Raven, we
(09:23):
love you. We will talk to you. I'm sure very soon. Okay.
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Fair and Farah, Tampa accident attorneys.
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