July 8, 2026 • 28 mins
Ashlee gets a DM Dilemma from a guy who gets botox but as a single man, he is wondering how that will go over with his dates.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Boys Show and you need to know.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
We got you three things you need to know on
Boston Number one for hip hop and the best throwbags.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
You haven't any four.
Speaker 4 (00:11):
Five.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
I'm about to.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
Make this three things you need to know all stuff
about Boston, which is I don't know if that's ever happened,
where every story is something related to us here in
the city. But that's what it's gonna be right now, Wednesday,
July eighth, And let's start with the nurses at Brigham
and Women's Hospital. They're officially on strike. It was expected
to happen around seven am, and boy did it. Thousands
(00:36):
of nurses at bringing the Women's Hospital and Boston went
on strike this morning and it is said to be
one of the largest nurses strikes in Massachusetts history. I
guess the way nurses work, and if you're a nurse
and you're listening, you of course call and correct me.
But the way I read the article is like they
work in five day shifts, so if there, they were
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only expected to do the strike for day, but because
that's the way they work, they're gonna be out for
the next four.
Speaker 3 (01:03):
So bring them in.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
Women's brought in thirteen hundred replacement nurses, so operations at
the hospital because my first thought was like, yo, who's
checking the monitors now, Like what the hell? Bringing the
women's is like, hey, nobody will be affected. Care will
be okay because we bought it. We brought in all
these nurses to cover shifts for the next five days.
But that is why these specific nurses that are striking
(01:25):
won't be back in. They've been negotiating two contracts, one
for four thousand nurses at bringing them women's in, another
one for nearly five hundred home healthcare workers.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
Both sides are stuck on one thing. Money. Hey, it's
always pay, It's always pay.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
I also like, I know this is crazy to say,
I realized this, but when I don't see like the
big inflatable rat out at the strikes, they're not serious
to mem Like I want to see that large pop rat.
And then I'm like, please take this serious. They're gonna
be out there for a long time, a very long time.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
But I don't like this.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
There are people in this world that need to be
taken care of. Teachers, nurses, like of the utmost importance.
Speaker 5 (02:05):
Yeah, I think about during the pandemic, the disrespect that
the nurses got they were so quick to fire them. Yeah,
they were.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
They were getting rid of nurses because the nurse was like,
I don't want to take the vaccine, but boom bang gone.
Speaker 3 (02:17):
But what Yeah, you know how I feel about that.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
But no, I just if there's people in this world
that deserve to get paid more, I'm putting nurses on
the list for sure. All right, let's talk about JT.
Jason Tatum was going around. He has this new book out.
Speaker 5 (02:34):
I deleted the baby dunks a lot.
Speaker 3 (02:36):
Thank you Baby dunks a lot.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
And it's just interesting because he's out talking about the book,
and of course he gets asked about Jalen Brown, and
I think this was an honest, real response. It's weird.
Speaker 1 (02:51):
You know, you play on the team with the guy
for nine years who else fortily enough to go through
the fine through twice and when a shift and pushed
each other to be good players.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
If you are today, you know, you just kind of
feel like you're going to be young team.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
With sublty because that's all you want to and then
it's just like one.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
Day you find out that you know there's no longer
on your team, and you where and you know, we're all,
I'm going to hear those emotions. It's going to be weird.
I mean it's not on the same level. But I
think about like the first day I came in here
when Santi wasn't working and I was like, what is
this place without him? Like you? It's just like, that's
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your person, that's your go to. And to think about
JT putting on a Seltz jersey without Jalen lacing them up,
is it is weird?
Speaker 3 (03:40):
I think that's that's a perfect response. It's it's weird.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
Jab By the way, the Goodbye tour, he's been out
and about. Yesterday he was gifted seven to seven Juice
Foundation day by Mara Heally. He also got to meet
up with the six year old who was so sad
to see him go. That was the cutest interaction I've
ever seen. That said to me multiple times, can't man,
Oh what a little doll. He was so heartbroken that
Jaylen Brown was going to be leaving. But he can
(04:05):
be a Sixers fan now It's okay. But I think
the most important thing to know about JB is we
talked about this a ton. He wants to be able
to say goodbye to his friends, to you know, fans
that have become like family to him. He had this
whole event set up for tomorrow at one ten Canal Street.
Pup was going to be there. It was gonna be
from three to eight pm. We were like, get there
at breakfast time or you're not going to see the man.
And and in fact has been postponing. It doesn't say
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canceled right now, but certainly postponed. And I think mainly
because the crowd was going to be nuts and they
didn't think they were going to be able to house
all these people because listen, the whole Lakers fan, Lakers
fans are trying.
Speaker 5 (04:40):
Yeah, my son's a Lakers fan, and he was like,
I know that he was gonna want to go. Yes, yes, yeah.
His mother hit me up yesterday and said, did you
see this? Is this real? I said yes, and then
I had to send her the postpone.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
I actually hit Pup immediately when I saw this postpone
that I'm like, what's going on? But it's a simple thing,
like they want to be able to do it and
do it the right way and be able to like
house all these people while they stand in line, and
it wasn't gonna happen across.
Speaker 3 (05:06):
From the garden.
Speaker 5 (05:08):
You got to do it in the garden for real.
Speaker 3 (05:11):
That's that's a fact.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
So as soon as we get more details from Pop
on that we have the we have the plug, so
we will let you know.
Speaker 6 (05:17):
All right.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
And lastly, big day at Duncan, Big, big, big, huge
day at Duncan. My sister Kylie Jenner because now everyone
thinks Kardashian, which is amazing, Dunks is announcing today debuting
the King Kylie Collection all right, a trio of limited
time drinks inspired by Kylie's iconic King Kylie era, which
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is very pink.
Speaker 3 (05:39):
Just so you know, this is up your alley jewels,
let me read you some of these. Okay, let me
start with the first one.
Speaker 5 (05:45):
I don't understand anything you say. Right now.
Speaker 2 (05:47):
Kylie Jenner has a Duncan Donuts collab that is dropping today.
You're gonna want to get one of the drinks. I'm
gonna start with the one you're gonna love the most.
Candy pink Lemonade refresher. Come on ready, listen, pink pineapple
flavors mixed with lemonade and layered with dragon fruit pieces
of a bright, juicy sip.
Speaker 5 (06:07):
You know it's messed up, your alley, buddy, you know
it's messed up. That sounds mad refreshing. I was actually
mad that it actually does sound really good.
Speaker 3 (06:18):
Wait for it. Another lemonade for you, Pink lemon drop
Suncloud lemonade, a luscious, creamy and refreshing lemonade drink topped
with a pink strawberry cold foam.
Speaker 5 (06:31):
He's out on that note.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
Okay, how about this the vanilla pink cloud latte, espresso
and whole milk combined with French vanilla flavor and topped
with that pink strawberry cold phoam.
Speaker 5 (06:41):
The pink cold foam. Like, yeah, we could do colde foam.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
But pink's too my frae.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
But if it's whipped cream, we're good, got it? Okay,
just trying to okay, I'm just trying to see there's
levels to this. So anyways, guys, go grab your Kylie
drink because they are officially available today.
Speaker 3 (06:54):
That as three things need to know for Wednesday, July eighth.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
When I see jewels coming in with a pink cup tomorrow,
I will everybody, now, I will seriously take.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
A photo of that.
Speaker 2 (07:03):
Eight seven seven six one seven twenty five where hooking
you up tickets to go see Neo and Akon.
Speaker 7 (07:09):
To It's Ashley and the jam in morning show and
it's time for another DM dilemma.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
Hot guys, good morning, quick shout out to Charlene in Boston.
Speaker 3 (07:21):
Charlene's gonna go to Neo and Akon.
Speaker 2 (07:23):
Remember, if you win it either seven twenty or eight
twenty h you're qualified for the grand prize, which is
to be upgraded to the floor. That would be like
the pit area at the Xfinity Center, correct, right. I
feel like every show now has like a pit.
Speaker 3 (07:38):
This is a thing. This is a new age thing.
Speaker 5 (07:41):
What's weirdest. I've never seen a pit at Exfinity, But
like you said, I it's got to be a new thing.
Speaker 2 (07:46):
No I have. I've been in it at a summer jam.
They write you remember this aj in like that middle
area there's no seats and I feel like I was
definitely standing like amongst people.
Speaker 8 (07:58):
I feel like I heard that the Xpandy Center has
changed things and that front area is now Okay, they
got rid of the seat.
Speaker 2 (08:04):
Yeah, Like I remember standing, but who knows, maybe there
was a seat there, but I remember being like a monkey.
But doesn't it feel like that's the new wave at
these concerts, it's like seats and then also like GA
like general admission and that that's why people camp out
and all the things.
Speaker 5 (08:20):
And I don't like it. No, yeah, I don't want
to be pushing and no.
Speaker 3 (08:24):
And for me at five four, one hundred and thirty pounds.
Speaker 2 (08:29):
In moody, Okay, this is a DM dilemma that I got, which,
by the way, I when I wrote this down to
talk about it, I was like, this is certainly a
first I'm very speaking of things being new age.
Speaker 3 (08:44):
If you're going through something.
Speaker 2 (08:45):
By the way, at Ashley Feldman two, he's on the
Ashley we call it DM dilemma because some people are
like I don't want to come on air because I
worried people recognize my.
Speaker 3 (08:52):
Voice or they just feel uncomfortable.
Speaker 2 (08:54):
So sometimes people feel a little bit more of themselves
to be able to like message me what's going on
and stay there on Instagram and that way I can
ask follow up questions. But this is from a guy,
and he basically said that he feels like at the
age of forty one, as a single man, he's trying
to take care of himself and he needs botox. He
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wants botox, and he needs botox, so he says, And
he is worried that as a single man, when women
find out that he's getting botox, they might find that
to be a turn off. And he's asking straight up,
if you met a guy you go on on a
date he tells you he's forty one and he gets botox?
Are you like h Are you like okay, he's taking
care of himself. Do you have an opinion on that
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as it? Do you get botox?
Speaker 5 (09:38):
I've never I don't die my hair either, but you know,
I don't have any grace.
Speaker 2 (09:44):
Okay, this really really I almost said the same thing.
Speaker 3 (09:47):
I can, but you're really on yourself today.
Speaker 5 (09:51):
No, I think it's weird to say, you know, like that,
you're a guy and get botox. I don't know. Once.
I think as you get older, a lot of people
age very well. You know. Yeah, yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (10:08):
There here's the thing.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
It's a weird it's a weird thing. If this was
a female writing this, we wouldn't even be having the
conversation because like, honey, who cares. But there it's a
different It feels a little different because it's coming from
a guy, and that shouldn't be right, right, because if
a guy wants to reduce his lines in his forehead.
Speaker 3 (10:24):
Then he should be able to.
Speaker 2 (10:25):
But there's something like guys turning gray or guys getting
like wrinkles on their forehead, like it's attractive to me,
Like I, I don't know, that's just the way they're
supposed to age women like we don't feel that, Like
I'm not I'm not ready to go gray. I can,
I cannot, and I have had a baby on my
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nipple for the last how many years of my life,
so I haven't been able to get botox. But if
I could, I one hundred percent what I will dive
on needles when I can dive on them, line them up?
Speaker 3 (10:56):
Okay? But I think we.
Speaker 2 (10:57):
Could ask Aj this because AJ goes on dates, you know,
once a year, and when you do.
Speaker 3 (11:03):
If you sat down with a guy and he.
Speaker 2 (11:04):
Said, I'm forty one, I am with Jules, why would
this come up? But maybe it's noticeable so he feels
like he needs to say it. Would that be a
turn off to you? I'm forty one. I felt weird,
I was getting lined, so I got botox.
Speaker 3 (11:15):
I feel like to hear a.
Speaker 8 (11:16):
Guy say that they're getting botox is definitely not the norm,
but I think it's fine as long as it still
looks natural like they're like, I agree, I don't want
a guy that looks like he's getting work done, but
I think he can still get very natural looking botox.
Speaker 2 (11:30):
Also feel it would be me and you have gotten it,
so we would it would we would?
Speaker 3 (11:34):
It would be.
Speaker 2 (11:35):
Wrong of us in our time to say no.
Speaker 3 (11:38):
But if his face doesn't move, that's yeah, I don't
think I can deal with that.
Speaker 5 (11:44):
Do we think it's okay for women to feel insecure
about certain things and it's not okay for men to
feel that feels secure.
Speaker 3 (11:53):
I don't think that's fair.
Speaker 9 (11:54):
Because that's what it is, right, that is what it is. Yeah,
it's messed up, but it's not fair. So I think
a lot of you know, men are insecure. I feel
like I'm just aging the way I'm supposed to age, right,
And you know, we had this conversation about going bald, like,
if I have to go bald, I'll go bald.
Speaker 5 (12:10):
You know, if I'm getting wrinkles, I'm getting wrinkles.
Speaker 2 (12:13):
But do you would you find it attractive if a
forty one year old woman just let her hair go
all the way gray.
Speaker 5 (12:20):
Yeah, well, I mean women at forty if women at
thirty go gray, I know, right, So you know, and
women are different. They always dyeing their hair just to
dye their hair, right.
Speaker 2 (12:33):
Well, No, I think they're dying their hair because they
think they look better with the hair dye. You know
what I mean, like that you're doing things to make
yourself feel better about.
Speaker 5 (12:39):
Yeah, yea yeah, No, no, I mean I mean yes, I
mean that they're dying their hair, like you know, one
day they want to be blonde, one day they want
to be dark. You know, like, yeah, they're not dying
it necessarily because they're going gray. They're dying it because.
Speaker 2 (12:55):
Okay, I started going gray down my part as soon
as Laila came into this world, and I was like,
the actual hell is happening. But the real question is,
as we know the beauty standards are, they're unfair. I
we obviously know this, but if you went on a
date with a man, but guys, can I also adde
in i've seen this man's photo, I would air on
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the side. I feel bad saying this. I think it's
noticeable like his face is like is strong? You know what?
Speaker 3 (13:27):
It's given a little bit of Simon Cow. Have you
seen Simon cal lately?
Speaker 2 (13:31):
You're like, Oh, that man he's got there's some work
that's been done. That's kind of how I feel.
Speaker 3 (13:35):
So I do. I think a little bit of botox
is okay.
Speaker 2 (13:37):
But if like you're always smiling and you have no
other reaction, that that's kind of tough.
Speaker 3 (13:42):
But put yourself in this scenario. Let's see.
Speaker 2 (13:45):
You know he wants he wants a lady's opinion. You
go on a date with a guy he is forty
one years old, and he tells you that he gets
botox to like maintain his appearance.
Speaker 3 (13:54):
Turn on or turn off?
Speaker 2 (13:55):
Eight seven seven six one seven nine four five eight
seven seven six one seven five Do we like it?
Or are we like?
Speaker 9 (14:02):
Well?
Speaker 3 (14:03):
Wait a second, this was a little bit tight.
Speaker 2 (14:05):
Guys.
Speaker 3 (14:06):
Good Morning's Ashley and the GM in Morning Show.
Speaker 2 (14:08):
I got a DM from Diamond about this conversation, and
I feel like Diamond has a point.
Speaker 3 (14:13):
But backtracking, I.
Speaker 2 (14:15):
Get a DM from a guy who basically is like,
ash is it a turnoff that I get botox at
forty one? I'm a man and I'm going on these dates,
and I'm worried that girls are gonna be like, oh,
his face doesn't move whatever he look I feel so
bad because he's listening. I would say it's like Simon
Cowell esque, where like he looked one way, started aging
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and kind of switched it.
Speaker 3 (14:38):
It does not look bad.
Speaker 2 (14:40):
But Diamond messaged me, she goes, Honey, there are men
out here getting bbls and fake calves. A little botox
isn't bad if he doesn't look bad, get it. I
got another DM from a girl's like Ash, that's probably
filler and not botox. It could be I'm just reading
what he said, which is that it's botox. I've never
had filler, so I don't really know the difference.
Speaker 5 (14:59):
But yeah, I don't. I don't know the difference, he though,
But I feel like what Diamond said is one hundred, Like, Hey,
there are guys getting bbls, Like people.
Speaker 3 (15:08):
Think that Drake, not me.
Speaker 2 (15:10):
Some people think Drake got fake abs not May.
Speaker 9 (15:12):
Yeah, but he's definitely good like the chess or in Sati.
Yeah he did this chess. Yeah, jewels, you have jewels
to that list.
Speaker 3 (15:20):
On the list.
Speaker 2 (15:21):
We got a couple of talkbacks about this I know
some people are on holds.
Speaker 3 (15:24):
They don't go anywhere.
Speaker 2 (15:26):
Botox on a man on a first date, turn off
or turn on.
Speaker 10 (15:30):
Hey, y'all.
Speaker 7 (15:31):
I literally just pulled up to work. But I have
to reply to this DM dilemma. I'm twenty eight, I
get lip filler. I'm waiting on botoks to clear up
my skin. But if this man wants to do it,
go off, bib.
Speaker 3 (15:42):
I agree.
Speaker 7 (15:42):
I think a silver fox is so fine. But if
he feels better about himself, like who literally cares? That's
my opinion. Same with like the girlies, you want to
do it, who cares? My opinion, keep it natural, not frozen.
But I mean to each their own.
Speaker 2 (15:57):
That is like Forbatim, I would agree on that. I've
been the first one to say, like anybody that throws
shade at Chris Jenner for getting that facelift, you are
just a hater. You wake up every morning a hater
because that woman looks good.
Speaker 5 (16:09):
You know what you're I agree. You never hear me
say that, Like I didn't think I would have ever
said that.
Speaker 3 (16:15):
I agree, And that's okay. She's gotten worked one, she's good.
Speaker 2 (16:19):
I I always stand on if you want to do it,
to make yourself feel better by all means, I'm not
a fan of like the frozen look.
Speaker 3 (16:25):
But another talk back that we.
Speaker 1 (16:27):
Got, there's nothing wrong with men getting botox. It depends
on the injector, a good injector. You shouldn't even know
that anything was done. It just looks better younger. So
if a man gets botox and it's done right, people
won't even know.
Speaker 2 (16:45):
That's yeah, I agreed. Joseph is in Boston. Joseph, I
do not agree with this. Joseph thinks if you take
care of yourself, you don't need botox. Lines are gonna come. Joseph,
just that's that's life, that's age, right.
Speaker 10 (17:00):
Yes, actually, thank you for taking my call. I'm a
big fan of yours. So so basically I'm out ten
fifty six this year, right, And for me, I'm not judging,
but I'll say from the get go, you should know
at least how to massage your face. You know, you
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do your forehead upward, your face on five ways, you
know left all right? Number two as a guy for
the one, you gotta take care of yourself. You know,
exercise regularly, want your diet and also you know, have
the belief system because once you put that in on
your face and then some women will be fine, but
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others will question. I scud to say, your man, would
you know is it metrosexuality? I mean it's so for me.
I will not do it because it come across as
not confident in yourself. I'll kind of just that's hey.
Speaker 2 (18:01):
I think that's why he's asking, right, because he's worried
about people having that that take.
Speaker 3 (18:04):
I get it. Joseph, thank you so much for the call.
Jenny is in JP.
Speaker 2 (18:08):
Hi, Jenny, good morning, good hey, good morning. You go
on a date with a guy and he's can you
turn me down in the background.
Speaker 11 (18:18):
I don't have you in the I have you in
the car. Do not have you in the background giving
me a second?
Speaker 3 (18:23):
Okay, it's probably bluetooth.
Speaker 11 (18:24):
Thanks, I have a background in general.
Speaker 2 (18:32):
Hello. Okay, there we go way better, all right. So
you go on a date with a guy. He's in
his early forties. He tells you that he gets botox. Again,
weird that that would even come up, but he's worried
about it, and you're is that a turnoff or a
turn onto? You? Are we cool guys getting a little
work done?
Speaker 11 (18:48):
I mean, do you want to make you happy, you
know what I mean?
Speaker 5 (18:51):
But nothing you know, aging like fine wine.
Speaker 2 (18:53):
I'm forty eight, I'm fully great.
Speaker 10 (18:56):
I have my natural highlights. You know that gave me.
Speaker 11 (18:59):
You know, yeah, But to each down, if you want
to do a little something.
Speaker 2 (19:03):
Does it turned me off?
Speaker 10 (19:04):
Yes, it would turn me off.
Speaker 5 (19:05):
But I'm an old school shake right right any yes.
Speaker 2 (19:09):
And I think to each their own on this, he's
gonna he's gonna find somebody that's like cool with that,
and maybe you know, also gets work done or whatever
it is. I just think I'm with you on the
you know, if that makes you happy, go ahead and
get your botox. Chenny, thank you for the call. A
lot of d ms about this. This is so like
new Age this conversation to me because I don't know,
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ten fifteen years ago, I feel like botox was so taboo,
like nobody could say they got it, and now people
have whole like botox parties. But I again, I'm standing
on if he wants to do it, he should do it.
But the injector part, like that, you gotta find somebody
who makes it natural. And I know you're listening, Sarah,
so I'm not saying yours doesn't.
Speaker 3 (19:48):
But I you know, maybe maybe.
Speaker 2 (19:51):
You want to find a different injector show Bustin's number
one for hip hop. He am in ninety four or five.
Speaker 3 (20:00):
Oh my god, you guys. Hi, good morning, Happy Wednesday.
I'm I'm.
Speaker 2 (20:06):
I am still cackling over the conversation that we did earlier.
If you missed it, it all started because we got
this talk back about Jewles.
Speaker 6 (20:15):
Well, the longest I thought Jewles was black, and then
I saw his Instagram and he ends up he's not.
Speaker 4 (20:22):
Not that that matters. But yeah, Jewles is kinda hot.
Speaker 3 (20:27):
So that's good for you, Jules. That's nice.
Speaker 2 (20:30):
Funny Jewels is so I appreciate. That's like the third
time I've played it. Every time I look up, Jewels
has a massive smile on his face. He's so gassed
about that one. But yeah, I guess if you haven't
looked anybody up, you know you kind of like for
I mean, we do only read books, right, I read
a book if the if the film hasn't come out,
there's a TV show, what you do? What?
Speaker 4 (20:49):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (20:49):
Here we go with this?
Speaker 5 (20:50):
I read them.
Speaker 3 (20:51):
I don't care what, I don't care what anybody says.
I'm listening but I'm reading.
Speaker 2 (20:55):
I create these characters in my head, especially if they
haven't gone to film or TV.
Speaker 3 (21:00):
Same thing.
Speaker 2 (21:01):
I guess if you were listening to the show and
you never looked Jeules up, you never looked me up.
So I asked, I said, does anybody listened to this
show like a good amount? I don't expect anybody listening
five days a week. Love you if you do, and
call me and tell me what you think I look
like if you have no idea, and I mean literal
tears were coming to me. I at one point looked
at Jeweles in my mouthed, are they are they thinking me?
Speaker 5 (21:22):
Or Ajes?
Speaker 2 (21:23):
Because the descriptors were like legit aja short, petit with
a booty like that is AJ nine four five.
Speaker 3 (21:29):
That is not at Ashley Film. And I was like,
I was blown away.
Speaker 2 (21:33):
But we got so many calls about it, so many
talkbacks from people trying to.
Speaker 3 (21:37):
Guess what I look like.
Speaker 2 (21:38):
I posted on Instagram the picture of the call screener
and I was like, guys, I'm I'm in tears.
Speaker 3 (21:44):
People were guessing my weight.
Speaker 2 (21:46):
Never asked for that, but one person was like, Ashley's
you know one hundred and forty pounds and five four
and a brunette that was one of the guesses. So
a guy writes me he must have gone to my
Instagram after the combo, and he goes, are you on
jam in ninety four?
Speaker 3 (22:00):
I said I am.
Speaker 2 (22:01):
He goes, you look a lot better than I was
expecting based on your description of yourself, and then he goes,
you're definitely not one hundred and thirty pounds, though you're
probably one hundred and fifty wait for it.
Speaker 3 (22:11):
Enjoy your day.
Speaker 2 (22:14):
What So, let's run through some of these talkbacks because
I know we couldn't get to them, and I appreciate them.
Speaker 3 (22:20):
Ashley.
Speaker 6 (22:21):
I've been listening to you for years and I did
not look you up because I'm not on like Instagram
like that until I think it was like last year,
and I was so surprised because you're always like, oh,
I'm so tall, like I'm a monster or whatever you say,
like you are so friggin beautiful like I you describe
yourself so badly.
Speaker 2 (22:43):
I don't think I did that bad the way I
think like compliments make me so uncomfortable. I appreciate her
saying now, but I I am, I'm a monstar, I'm
five ten, Like, I'm a big woman.
Speaker 5 (22:54):
People.
Speaker 2 (22:54):
Again, I've said this on air a million times, Like
I am a big woman, and when I walk in
a room, I am most likely like heads taller than
all the girls.
Speaker 5 (23:02):
Yeah. I feel like you're taller than a lot of
the men who work here.
Speaker 4 (23:06):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (23:06):
Oh yeah, there's a couple of men here that when
I walk past them, like I feel uncomfortable. Yeah, I'm like, here,
it's a buddy. But yeah, like these are things that
i've like, like traits of myself that I've always described
myself as tall. So like every other call was that
I was short. I have a short sounding voice.
Speaker 5 (23:26):
Yeah, no, you definitely sound tall.
Speaker 3 (23:28):
Yeah, yeah, it's strange. Okay, we had a lot more.
Speaker 11 (23:31):
Good morning y'all. Oh MG, Actually, I'm so glad you're
talking about this topic right now because five years ago,
I believe up and you guys first started five years ago.
You were on the radio and my daughter's dad was like, actually,
sounds like she's a baddie and I'm thinking of Romero
and Pebble still, so I'm like, yeah, she's not what
you think she looks like. But then I've seen a
(23:52):
billboard and yes, you are a baddy for real, girl?
Uh huh, girl, work at you are a baddy. Wow, yep,
I loved you ever since.
Speaker 2 (24:00):
I'm about to take the rest of the week off. Yeah,
like someone's calling me a battie. I will take that.
Speaker 5 (24:04):
You are a baby, well, thank you. That's two.
Speaker 2 (24:06):
That's two times today, a huge, big bunny.
Speaker 12 (24:08):
Some of these people describing what you look like, Ashley,
are you sure they listen to the show, Because one
girl said you're short, and you tell us all the
time that you're tall and you play basketball, and then
she thought you had a booty. But if you listen
to the show, you always say that you have no butt.
Your butts flag even if they don't know what you
look like. I feel like you've given a lot of
clues on the show, so if they were true listeners,
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they would be guessing a little bit better.
Speaker 2 (24:33):
You know.
Speaker 3 (24:33):
It's wild, though. I don't think they're lying about saying
that they listen.
Speaker 5 (24:36):
No, I couldn't get it off. I don't because I.
Speaker 2 (24:38):
Can listen to something and not hear certain things. Or
you could be in your car and you have it
on in the background, you take a car.
Speaker 3 (24:45):
I don't know. I don't think anybody was lying.
Speaker 2 (24:47):
I just was blown away at the amount of people
that were like, I'm five to four, I'm tiny, I'm petite.
People were out here guessing one hundred and thirty pounds
like I was a hundred wi yeah I am, because
I can't even think of a time that it was Hi.
Speaker 4 (25:04):
Actually, this is Crystal. I've talked to a few times
with you. I've looked you up because you always talk
about your kids and stuff, so I always look when
you say that you guys did a photo shoot, and
then with ash with the other Ashley, I definitely looked
her up, like, wellhy can't she get a date? I
don't understand, and I still don't understand because she's not
(25:26):
bad looked in. Okay, but yeah, everybody have a great Wednesday.
Speaker 2 (25:30):
This is a weird thing because like we are asking
people to describe how we look, so like there's somebody
for everybody, Like somebody might look at me and be.
Speaker 3 (25:37):
Like, she's grotesque.
Speaker 2 (25:38):
I got that's fine, not bad looking.
Speaker 3 (25:42):
How do you feel? How do you feel about that?
Speaker 8 (25:44):
I'll take it. Yes, I mean I guess she was
assuming because my love life is so bad that.
Speaker 2 (25:51):
This is the example that I keep using you, guys,
because when we talked about this earlier, I'm like, we
talked about AJ's dating life so much so that every
story I'd be like, Yo, I gotta see this. I
have to see what she looks like, because what.
Speaker 3 (26:03):
Yeah, she's very superficial, but I'm just saying.
Speaker 5 (26:06):
She's got a face that just you just want to
cheat on her.
Speaker 2 (26:08):
I think, WHOA, I don't know where that came from.
Speaker 3 (26:12):
Why are you mad at her?
Speaker 5 (26:13):
Wait?
Speaker 3 (26:16):
She just really nice teeth, you guys, So I don't know.
I get that that's a factor.
Speaker 6 (26:19):
But show Boston's number one for hip hop jam in
ninety four or five.
Speaker 3 (26:25):
All right, bibs, that is going to do it for us.
I want to say this.
Speaker 2 (26:31):
You guys had me in actual tears today with the
what do I look like? That really made my day.
If you missed any of those conversations, you can hear
that on the podcast now the free iHeart Radio apps
artch ASHLW I am five four and one hundred and
thirty pounds. That's what I'm going with to the grave.
I also, you got the one. I say this often
about you guys, but you always keep me hip to
like the things that are happening. And I kept getting
(26:52):
dms yesterday from people being like, Ashley, have you seen this?
And if like woman falls in love with Scottish fan
who moved to Boston and she's moving to Scotland to
be with him. So like the fourth time I got
at ten to me, I wrote back to the girl, igo,
this is ai like it just looked fake to me.
I don't believe it. She's like, no, here's the woman's instagram.
Speaker 5 (27:09):
It's real.
Speaker 3 (27:10):
So of course you know me journalist.
Speaker 2 (27:12):
I reached out to the girl, I go, you should
come on my shelf, like I have to hear about this.
Speaker 3 (27:17):
So she gave me her sell. She confirmed she.
Speaker 2 (27:19):
Will come on the show. I'm hoping to get her
on this week, so we'll have her. We have Bemo
joining us the next couple of days, so it'll be
it'll be a time let's go.
Speaker 5 (27:28):
I know, found love And this is coming from the
Puerto Rican snack.
Speaker 2 (27:33):
Yes self described I'm waiting for some Well, this woman
said you were hot. I don't think she called you
a Puerto Rican snack, but that was what you took
from it. But no, I find the Scottish love affair
to be so interesting because the woman also just came out.
Speaker 5 (27:48):
As a lesbian.
Speaker 3 (27:49):
Hold on what yeah, gear up man, I know we
have a lot of questions for her.
Speaker 5 (27:52):
Oh so the Scott was a girl.
Speaker 2 (27:56):
The Scott was a redheaded man, and the woman who
was from Boston that fell in love with him just
came out as a lesbian a few months ago.
Speaker 5 (28:05):
It, dude, we got we got to talk to me.
Speaker 3 (28:08):
Talks of offense.
Speaker 2 (28:10):
So I don't have the confirmed time. We just called
her and we left a message, so hopefully she'll get
back to us.
Speaker 3 (28:15):
We'll have her on.
Speaker 2 (28:16):
Either tomorrow or Friday. Bemo is gonna be excited for this.
We have a lot to chat about. If I missed
anything today at Ashley Feldman tw he's on the Ashley,
or if you just want to look at my five
four hundred and thirty pound frame,
Boys Show and you need to know.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
We got you three things you need to know on
Boston Number one for hip hop and the best throwbags.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
You haven't any four.
Speaker 4 (00:11):
Five.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
I'm about to.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
Make this three things you need to know all stuff
about Boston, which is I don't know if that's ever happened,
where every story is something related to us here in
the city. But that's what it's gonna be right now, Wednesday,
July eighth, And let's start with the nurses at Brigham
and Women's Hospital. They're officially on strike. It was expected
to happen around seven am, and boy did it. Thousands
(00:36):
of nurses at bringing the Women's Hospital and Boston went
on strike this morning and it is said to be
one of the largest nurses strikes in Massachusetts history. I
guess the way nurses work, and if you're a nurse
and you're listening, you of course call and correct me.
But the way I read the article is like they
work in five day shifts, so if there, they were
(00:58):
only expected to do the strike for day, but because
that's the way they work, they're gonna be out for
the next four.
Speaker 3 (01:03):
So bring them in.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
Women's brought in thirteen hundred replacement nurses, so operations at
the hospital because my first thought was like, yo, who's
checking the monitors now, Like what the hell? Bringing the
women's is like, hey, nobody will be affected. Care will
be okay because we bought it. We brought in all
these nurses to cover shifts for the next five days.
But that is why these specific nurses that are striking
(01:25):
won't be back in. They've been negotiating two contracts, one
for four thousand nurses at bringing them women's in, another
one for nearly five hundred home healthcare workers.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
Both sides are stuck on one thing. Money. Hey, it's
always pay, It's always pay.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
I also like, I know this is crazy to say,
I realized this, but when I don't see like the
big inflatable rat out at the strikes, they're not serious
to mem Like I want to see that large pop rat.
And then I'm like, please take this serious. They're gonna
be out there for a long time, a very long time.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
But I don't like this.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
There are people in this world that need to be
taken care of. Teachers, nurses, like of the utmost importance.
Speaker 5 (02:05):
Yeah, I think about during the pandemic, the disrespect that
the nurses got they were so quick to fire them. Yeah,
they were.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
They were getting rid of nurses because the nurse was like,
I don't want to take the vaccine, but boom bang gone.
Speaker 3 (02:17):
But what Yeah, you know how I feel about that.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
But no, I just if there's people in this world
that deserve to get paid more, I'm putting nurses on
the list for sure. All right, let's talk about JT.
Jason Tatum was going around. He has this new book out.
Speaker 5 (02:34):
I deleted the baby dunks a lot.
Speaker 3 (02:36):
Thank you Baby dunks a lot.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
And it's just interesting because he's out talking about the book,
and of course he gets asked about Jalen Brown, and
I think this was an honest, real response. It's weird.
Speaker 1 (02:51):
You know, you play on the team with the guy
for nine years who else fortily enough to go through
the fine through twice and when a shift and pushed
each other to be good players.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
If you are today, you know, you just kind of
feel like you're going to be young team.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
With sublty because that's all you want to and then
it's just like one.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
Day you find out that you know there's no longer
on your team, and you where and you know, we're all,
I'm going to hear those emotions. It's going to be weird.
I mean it's not on the same level. But I
think about like the first day I came in here
when Santi wasn't working and I was like, what is
this place without him? Like you? It's just like, that's
(03:33):
your person, that's your go to. And to think about
JT putting on a Seltz jersey without Jalen lacing them up,
is it is weird?
Speaker 3 (03:40):
I think that's that's a perfect response. It's it's weird.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
Jab By the way, the Goodbye tour, he's been out
and about. Yesterday he was gifted seven to seven Juice
Foundation day by Mara Heally. He also got to meet
up with the six year old who was so sad
to see him go. That was the cutest interaction I've
ever seen. That said to me multiple times, can't man,
Oh what a little doll. He was so heartbroken that
Jaylen Brown was going to be leaving. But he can
(04:05):
be a Sixers fan now It's okay. But I think
the most important thing to know about JB is we
talked about this a ton. He wants to be able
to say goodbye to his friends, to you know, fans
that have become like family to him. He had this
whole event set up for tomorrow at one ten Canal Street.
Pup was going to be there. It was gonna be
from three to eight pm. We were like, get there
at breakfast time or you're not going to see the man.
And and in fact has been postponing. It doesn't say
(04:27):
canceled right now, but certainly postponed. And I think mainly
because the crowd was going to be nuts and they
didn't think they were going to be able to house
all these people because listen, the whole Lakers fan, Lakers
fans are trying.
Speaker 5 (04:40):
Yeah, my son's a Lakers fan, and he was like,
I know that he was gonna want to go. Yes, yes, yeah.
His mother hit me up yesterday and said, did you
see this? Is this real? I said yes, and then
I had to send her the postpone.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
I actually hit Pup immediately when I saw this postpone
that I'm like, what's going on? But it's a simple thing,
like they want to be able to do it and
do it the right way and be able to like
house all these people while they stand in line, and
it wasn't gonna happen across.
Speaker 3 (05:06):
From the garden.
Speaker 5 (05:08):
You got to do it in the garden for real.
Speaker 3 (05:11):
That's that's a fact.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
So as soon as we get more details from Pop
on that we have the we have the plug, so
we will let you know.
Speaker 6 (05:17):
All right.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
And lastly, big day at Duncan, Big, big, big, huge
day at Duncan. My sister Kylie Jenner because now everyone
thinks Kardashian, which is amazing, Dunks is announcing today debuting
the King Kylie Collection all right, a trio of limited
time drinks inspired by Kylie's iconic King Kylie era, which
(05:38):
is very pink.
Speaker 3 (05:39):
Just so you know, this is up your alley jewels,
let me read you some of these. Okay, let me
start with the first one.
Speaker 5 (05:45):
I don't understand anything you say. Right now.
Speaker 2 (05:47):
Kylie Jenner has a Duncan Donuts collab that is dropping today.
You're gonna want to get one of the drinks. I'm
gonna start with the one you're gonna love the most.
Candy pink Lemonade refresher. Come on ready, listen, pink pineapple
flavors mixed with lemonade and layered with dragon fruit pieces
of a bright, juicy sip.
Speaker 5 (06:07):
You know it's messed up, your alley, buddy, you know
it's messed up. That sounds mad refreshing. I was actually
mad that it actually does sound really good.
Speaker 3 (06:18):
Wait for it. Another lemonade for you, Pink lemon drop
Suncloud lemonade, a luscious, creamy and refreshing lemonade drink topped
with a pink strawberry cold foam.
Speaker 5 (06:31):
He's out on that note.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
Okay, how about this the vanilla pink cloud latte, espresso
and whole milk combined with French vanilla flavor and topped
with that pink strawberry cold phoam.
Speaker 5 (06:41):
The pink cold foam. Like, yeah, we could do colde foam.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
But pink's too my frae.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
But if it's whipped cream, we're good, got it? Okay,
just trying to okay, I'm just trying to see there's
levels to this. So anyways, guys, go grab your Kylie
drink because they are officially available today.
Speaker 3 (06:54):
That as three things need to know for Wednesday, July eighth.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
When I see jewels coming in with a pink cup tomorrow,
I will everybody, now, I will seriously take.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
A photo of that.
Speaker 2 (07:03):
Eight seven seven six one seven twenty five where hooking
you up tickets to go see Neo and Akon.
Speaker 7 (07:09):
To It's Ashley and the jam in morning show and
it's time for another DM dilemma.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
Hot guys, good morning, quick shout out to Charlene in Boston.
Speaker 3 (07:21):
Charlene's gonna go to Neo and Akon.
Speaker 2 (07:23):
Remember, if you win it either seven twenty or eight
twenty h you're qualified for the grand prize, which is
to be upgraded to the floor. That would be like
the pit area at the Xfinity Center, correct, right. I
feel like every show now has like a pit.
Speaker 3 (07:38):
This is a thing. This is a new age thing.
Speaker 5 (07:41):
What's weirdest. I've never seen a pit at Exfinity, But
like you said, I it's got to be a new thing.
Speaker 2 (07:46):
No I have. I've been in it at a summer jam.
They write you remember this aj in like that middle
area there's no seats and I feel like I was
definitely standing like amongst people.
Speaker 8 (07:58):
I feel like I heard that the Xpandy Center has
changed things and that front area is now Okay, they
got rid of the seat.
Speaker 2 (08:04):
Yeah, Like I remember standing, but who knows, maybe there
was a seat there, but I remember being like a monkey.
But doesn't it feel like that's the new wave at
these concerts, it's like seats and then also like GA
like general admission and that that's why people camp out
and all the things.
Speaker 5 (08:20):
And I don't like it. No, yeah, I don't want
to be pushing and no.
Speaker 3 (08:24):
And for me at five four, one hundred and thirty pounds.
Speaker 2 (08:29):
In moody, Okay, this is a DM dilemma that I got, which,
by the way, I when I wrote this down to
talk about it, I was like, this is certainly a
first I'm very speaking of things being new age.
Speaker 3 (08:44):
If you're going through something.
Speaker 2 (08:45):
By the way, at Ashley Feldman two, he's on the
Ashley we call it DM dilemma because some people are
like I don't want to come on air because I
worried people recognize my.
Speaker 3 (08:52):
Voice or they just feel uncomfortable.
Speaker 2 (08:54):
So sometimes people feel a little bit more of themselves
to be able to like message me what's going on
and stay there on Instagram and that way I can
ask follow up questions. But this is from a guy,
and he basically said that he feels like at the
age of forty one, as a single man, he's trying
to take care of himself and he needs botox. He
(09:15):
wants botox, and he needs botox, so he says, And
he is worried that as a single man, when women
find out that he's getting botox, they might find that
to be a turn off. And he's asking straight up,
if you met a guy you go on on a
date he tells you he's forty one and he gets botox?
Are you like h Are you like okay, he's taking
care of himself. Do you have an opinion on that
(09:37):
as it? Do you get botox?
Speaker 5 (09:38):
I've never I don't die my hair either, but you know,
I don't have any grace.
Speaker 2 (09:44):
Okay, this really really I almost said the same thing.
Speaker 3 (09:47):
I can, but you're really on yourself today.
Speaker 5 (09:51):
No, I think it's weird to say, you know, like that,
you're a guy and get botox. I don't know. Once.
I think as you get older, a lot of people
age very well. You know. Yeah, yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (10:08):
There here's the thing.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
It's a weird it's a weird thing. If this was
a female writing this, we wouldn't even be having the
conversation because like, honey, who cares. But there it's a
different It feels a little different because it's coming from
a guy, and that shouldn't be right, right, because if
a guy wants to reduce his lines in his forehead.
Speaker 3 (10:24):
Then he should be able to.
Speaker 2 (10:25):
But there's something like guys turning gray or guys getting
like wrinkles on their forehead, like it's attractive to me,
Like I, I don't know, that's just the way they're
supposed to age women like we don't feel that, Like
I'm not I'm not ready to go gray. I can,
I cannot, and I have had a baby on my
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nipple for the last how many years of my life,
so I haven't been able to get botox. But if
I could, I one hundred percent what I will dive
on needles when I can dive on them, line them up?
Speaker 3 (10:56):
Okay? But I think we.
Speaker 2 (10:57):
Could ask Aj this because AJ goes on dates, you know,
once a year, and when you do.
Speaker 3 (11:03):
If you sat down with a guy and he.
Speaker 2 (11:04):
Said, I'm forty one, I am with Jules, why would
this come up? But maybe it's noticeable so he feels
like he needs to say it. Would that be a
turn off to you? I'm forty one. I felt weird,
I was getting lined, so I got botox.
Speaker 3 (11:15):
I feel like to hear a.
Speaker 8 (11:16):
Guy say that they're getting botox is definitely not the norm,
but I think it's fine as long as it still
looks natural like they're like, I agree, I don't want
a guy that looks like he's getting work done, but
I think he can still get very natural looking botox.
Speaker 2 (11:30):
Also feel it would be me and you have gotten it,
so we would it would we would?
Speaker 3 (11:34):
It would be.
Speaker 2 (11:35):
Wrong of us in our time to say no.
Speaker 3 (11:38):
But if his face doesn't move, that's yeah, I don't
think I can deal with that.
Speaker 5 (11:44):
Do we think it's okay for women to feel insecure
about certain things and it's not okay for men to
feel that feels secure.
Speaker 3 (11:53):
I don't think that's fair.
Speaker 9 (11:54):
Because that's what it is, right, that is what it is. Yeah,
it's messed up, but it's not fair. So I think
a lot of you know, men are insecure. I feel
like I'm just aging the way I'm supposed to age, right,
And you know, we had this conversation about going bald, like,
if I have to go bald, I'll go bald.
Speaker 5 (12:10):
You know, if I'm getting wrinkles, I'm getting wrinkles.
Speaker 2 (12:13):
But do you would you find it attractive if a
forty one year old woman just let her hair go
all the way gray.
Speaker 5 (12:20):
Yeah, well, I mean women at forty if women at
thirty go gray, I know, right, So you know, and
women are different. They always dyeing their hair just to
dye their hair, right.
Speaker 2 (12:33):
Well, No, I think they're dying their hair because they
think they look better with the hair dye. You know
what I mean, like that you're doing things to make
yourself feel better about.
Speaker 5 (12:39):
Yeah, yea yeah, No, no, I mean I mean yes, I
mean that they're dying their hair, like you know, one
day they want to be blonde, one day they want
to be dark. You know, like, yeah, they're not dying
it necessarily because they're going gray. They're dying it because.
Speaker 2 (12:55):
Okay, I started going gray down my part as soon
as Laila came into this world, and I was like,
the actual hell is happening. But the real question is,
as we know the beauty standards are, they're unfair. I
we obviously know this, but if you went on a
date with a man, but guys, can I also adde
in i've seen this man's photo, I would air on
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the side. I feel bad saying this. I think it's
noticeable like his face is like is strong? You know what?
Speaker 3 (13:27):
It's given a little bit of Simon Cow. Have you
seen Simon cal lately?
Speaker 2 (13:31):
You're like, Oh, that man he's got there's some work
that's been done. That's kind of how I feel.
Speaker 3 (13:35):
So I do. I think a little bit of botox
is okay.
Speaker 2 (13:37):
But if like you're always smiling and you have no
other reaction, that that's kind of tough.
Speaker 3 (13:42):
But put yourself in this scenario. Let's see.
Speaker 2 (13:45):
You know he wants he wants a lady's opinion. You
go on a date with a guy he is forty
one years old, and he tells you that he gets
botox to like maintain his appearance.
Speaker 3 (13:54):
Turn on or turn off?
Speaker 2 (13:55):
Eight seven seven six one seven nine four five eight
seven seven six one seven five Do we like it?
Or are we like?
Speaker 9 (14:02):
Well?
Speaker 3 (14:03):
Wait a second, this was a little bit tight.
Speaker 2 (14:05):
Guys.
Speaker 3 (14:06):
Good Morning's Ashley and the GM in Morning Show.
Speaker 2 (14:08):
I got a DM from Diamond about this conversation, and
I feel like Diamond has a point.
Speaker 3 (14:13):
But backtracking, I.
Speaker 2 (14:15):
Get a DM from a guy who basically is like,
ash is it a turnoff that I get botox at
forty one? I'm a man and I'm going on these dates,
and I'm worried that girls are gonna be like, oh,
his face doesn't move whatever he look I feel so
bad because he's listening. I would say it's like Simon
Cowell esque, where like he looked one way, started aging
(14:37):
and kind of switched it.
Speaker 3 (14:38):
It does not look bad.
Speaker 2 (14:40):
But Diamond messaged me, she goes, Honey, there are men
out here getting bbls and fake calves. A little botox
isn't bad if he doesn't look bad, get it. I
got another DM from a girl's like Ash, that's probably
filler and not botox. It could be I'm just reading
what he said, which is that it's botox. I've never
had filler, so I don't really know the difference.
Speaker 5 (14:59):
But yeah, I don't. I don't know the difference, he though,
But I feel like what Diamond said is one hundred, Like, Hey,
there are guys getting bbls, Like people.
Speaker 3 (15:08):
Think that Drake, not me.
Speaker 2 (15:10):
Some people think Drake got fake abs not May.
Speaker 9 (15:12):
Yeah, but he's definitely good like the chess or in Sati.
Yeah he did this chess. Yeah, jewels, you have jewels
to that list.
Speaker 3 (15:20):
On the list.
Speaker 2 (15:21):
We got a couple of talkbacks about this I know
some people are on holds.
Speaker 3 (15:24):
They don't go anywhere.
Speaker 2 (15:26):
Botox on a man on a first date, turn off
or turn on.
Speaker 10 (15:30):
Hey, y'all.
Speaker 7 (15:31):
I literally just pulled up to work. But I have
to reply to this DM dilemma. I'm twenty eight, I
get lip filler. I'm waiting on botoks to clear up
my skin. But if this man wants to do it,
go off, bib.
Speaker 3 (15:42):
I agree.
Speaker 7 (15:42):
I think a silver fox is so fine. But if
he feels better about himself, like who literally cares? That's
my opinion. Same with like the girlies, you want to
do it, who cares? My opinion, keep it natural, not frozen.
But I mean to each their own.
Speaker 2 (15:57):
That is like Forbatim, I would agree on that. I've
been the first one to say, like anybody that throws
shade at Chris Jenner for getting that facelift, you are
just a hater. You wake up every morning a hater
because that woman looks good.
Speaker 5 (16:09):
You know what you're I agree. You never hear me
say that, Like I didn't think I would have ever
said that.
Speaker 3 (16:15):
I agree, And that's okay. She's gotten worked one, she's good.
Speaker 2 (16:19):
I I always stand on if you want to do it,
to make yourself feel better by all means, I'm not
a fan of like the frozen look.
Speaker 3 (16:25):
But another talk back that we.
Speaker 1 (16:27):
Got, there's nothing wrong with men getting botox. It depends
on the injector, a good injector. You shouldn't even know
that anything was done. It just looks better younger. So
if a man gets botox and it's done right, people
won't even know.
Speaker 2 (16:45):
That's yeah, I agreed. Joseph is in Boston. Joseph, I
do not agree with this. Joseph thinks if you take
care of yourself, you don't need botox. Lines are gonna come. Joseph,
just that's that's life, that's age, right.
Speaker 10 (17:00):
Yes, actually, thank you for taking my call. I'm a
big fan of yours. So so basically I'm out ten
fifty six this year, right, And for me, I'm not judging,
but I'll say from the get go, you should know
at least how to massage your face. You know, you
(17:21):
do your forehead upward, your face on five ways, you
know left all right? Number two as a guy for
the one, you gotta take care of yourself. You know,
exercise regularly, want your diet and also you know, have
the belief system because once you put that in on
your face and then some women will be fine, but
(17:43):
others will question. I scud to say, your man, would
you know is it metrosexuality? I mean it's so for me.
I will not do it because it come across as
not confident in yourself. I'll kind of just that's hey.
Speaker 2 (18:01):
I think that's why he's asking, right, because he's worried
about people having that that take.
Speaker 3 (18:04):
I get it. Joseph, thank you so much for the call.
Jenny is in JP.
Speaker 2 (18:08):
Hi, Jenny, good morning, good hey, good morning. You go
on a date with a guy and he's can you
turn me down in the background.
Speaker 11 (18:18):
I don't have you in the I have you in
the car. Do not have you in the background giving
me a second?
Speaker 3 (18:23):
Okay, it's probably bluetooth.
Speaker 11 (18:24):
Thanks, I have a background in general.
Speaker 2 (18:32):
Hello. Okay, there we go way better, all right. So
you go on a date with a guy. He's in
his early forties. He tells you that he gets botox. Again,
weird that that would even come up, but he's worried
about it, and you're is that a turnoff or a
turn onto? You? Are we cool guys getting a little
work done?
Speaker 11 (18:48):
I mean, do you want to make you happy, you
know what I mean?
Speaker 5 (18:51):
But nothing you know, aging like fine wine.
Speaker 2 (18:53):
I'm forty eight, I'm fully great.
Speaker 10 (18:56):
I have my natural highlights. You know that gave me.
Speaker 11 (18:59):
You know, yeah, But to each down, if you want
to do a little something.
Speaker 2 (19:03):
Does it turned me off?
Speaker 10 (19:04):
Yes, it would turn me off.
Speaker 5 (19:05):
But I'm an old school shake right right any yes.
Speaker 2 (19:09):
And I think to each their own on this, he's
gonna he's gonna find somebody that's like cool with that,
and maybe you know, also gets work done or whatever
it is. I just think I'm with you on the
you know, if that makes you happy, go ahead and
get your botox. Chenny, thank you for the call. A
lot of d ms about this. This is so like
new Age this conversation to me because I don't know,
(19:29):
ten fifteen years ago, I feel like botox was so taboo,
like nobody could say they got it, and now people
have whole like botox parties. But I again, I'm standing
on if he wants to do it, he should do it.
But the injector part, like that, you gotta find somebody
who makes it natural. And I know you're listening, Sarah,
so I'm not saying yours doesn't.
Speaker 3 (19:48):
But I you know, maybe maybe.
Speaker 2 (19:51):
You want to find a different injector show Bustin's number
one for hip hop. He am in ninety four or five.
Speaker 3 (20:00):
Oh my god, you guys. Hi, good morning, Happy Wednesday.
I'm I'm.
Speaker 2 (20:06):
I am still cackling over the conversation that we did earlier.
If you missed it, it all started because we got
this talk back about Jewles.
Speaker 6 (20:15):
Well, the longest I thought Jewles was black, and then
I saw his Instagram and he ends up he's not.
Speaker 4 (20:22):
Not that that matters. But yeah, Jewles is kinda hot.
Speaker 3 (20:27):
So that's good for you, Jules. That's nice.
Speaker 2 (20:30):
Funny Jewels is so I appreciate. That's like the third
time I've played it. Every time I look up, Jewels
has a massive smile on his face. He's so gassed
about that one. But yeah, I guess if you haven't
looked anybody up, you know you kind of like for
I mean, we do only read books, right, I read
a book if the if the film hasn't come out,
there's a TV show, what you do? What?
Speaker 4 (20:49):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (20:49):
Here we go with this?
Speaker 5 (20:50):
I read them.
Speaker 3 (20:51):
I don't care what, I don't care what anybody says.
I'm listening but I'm reading.
Speaker 2 (20:55):
I create these characters in my head, especially if they
haven't gone to film or TV.
Speaker 3 (21:00):
Same thing.
Speaker 2 (21:01):
I guess if you were listening to the show and
you never looked Jeules up, you never looked me up.
So I asked, I said, does anybody listened to this
show like a good amount? I don't expect anybody listening
five days a week. Love you if you do, and
call me and tell me what you think I look
like if you have no idea, and I mean literal
tears were coming to me. I at one point looked
at Jeweles in my mouthed, are they are they thinking me?
Speaker 5 (21:22):
Or Ajes?
Speaker 2 (21:23):
Because the descriptors were like legit aja short, petit with
a booty like that is AJ nine four five.
Speaker 3 (21:29):
That is not at Ashley Film. And I was like,
I was blown away.
Speaker 2 (21:33):
But we got so many calls about it, so many
talkbacks from people trying to.
Speaker 3 (21:37):
Guess what I look like.
Speaker 2 (21:38):
I posted on Instagram the picture of the call screener
and I was like, guys, I'm I'm in tears.
Speaker 3 (21:44):
People were guessing my weight.
Speaker 2 (21:46):
Never asked for that, but one person was like, Ashley's
you know one hundred and forty pounds and five four
and a brunette that was one of the guesses. So
a guy writes me he must have gone to my
Instagram after the combo, and he goes, are you on
jam in ninety four?
Speaker 3 (22:00):
I said I am.
Speaker 2 (22:01):
He goes, you look a lot better than I was
expecting based on your description of yourself, and then he goes,
you're definitely not one hundred and thirty pounds, though you're
probably one hundred and fifty wait for it.
Speaker 3 (22:11):
Enjoy your day.
Speaker 2 (22:14):
What So, let's run through some of these talkbacks because
I know we couldn't get to them, and I appreciate them.
Speaker 3 (22:20):
Ashley.
Speaker 6 (22:21):
I've been listening to you for years and I did
not look you up because I'm not on like Instagram
like that until I think it was like last year,
and I was so surprised because you're always like, oh,
I'm so tall, like I'm a monster or whatever you say,
like you are so friggin beautiful like I you describe
yourself so badly.
Speaker 2 (22:43):
I don't think I did that bad the way I
think like compliments make me so uncomfortable. I appreciate her
saying now, but I I am, I'm a monstar, I'm
five ten, Like, I'm a big woman.
Speaker 5 (22:54):
People.
Speaker 2 (22:54):
Again, I've said this on air a million times, Like
I am a big woman, and when I walk in
a room, I am most likely like heads taller than
all the girls.
Speaker 5 (23:02):
Yeah. I feel like you're taller than a lot of
the men who work here.
Speaker 4 (23:06):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (23:06):
Oh yeah, there's a couple of men here that when
I walk past them, like I feel uncomfortable. Yeah, I'm like, here,
it's a buddy. But yeah, like these are things that
i've like, like traits of myself that I've always described
myself as tall. So like every other call was that
I was short. I have a short sounding voice.
Speaker 5 (23:26):
Yeah, no, you definitely sound tall.
Speaker 3 (23:28):
Yeah, yeah, it's strange. Okay, we had a lot more.
Speaker 11 (23:31):
Good morning y'all. Oh MG, Actually, I'm so glad you're
talking about this topic right now because five years ago,
I believe up and you guys first started five years ago.
You were on the radio and my daughter's dad was like, actually,
sounds like she's a baddie and I'm thinking of Romero
and Pebble still, so I'm like, yeah, she's not what
you think she looks like. But then I've seen a
(23:52):
billboard and yes, you are a baddy for real, girl?
Uh huh, girl, work at you are a baddy. Wow, yep,
I loved you ever since.
Speaker 2 (24:00):
I'm about to take the rest of the week off. Yeah,
like someone's calling me a battie. I will take that.
Speaker 5 (24:04):
You are a baby, well, thank you. That's two.
Speaker 2 (24:06):
That's two times today, a huge, big bunny.
Speaker 12 (24:08):
Some of these people describing what you look like, Ashley,
are you sure they listen to the show, Because one
girl said you're short, and you tell us all the
time that you're tall and you play basketball, and then
she thought you had a booty. But if you listen
to the show, you always say that you have no butt.
Your butts flag even if they don't know what you
look like. I feel like you've given a lot of
clues on the show, so if they were true listeners,
(24:31):
they would be guessing a little bit better.
Speaker 2 (24:33):
You know.
Speaker 3 (24:33):
It's wild, though. I don't think they're lying about saying
that they listen.
Speaker 5 (24:36):
No, I couldn't get it off. I don't because I.
Speaker 2 (24:38):
Can listen to something and not hear certain things. Or
you could be in your car and you have it
on in the background, you take a car.
Speaker 3 (24:45):
I don't know. I don't think anybody was lying.
Speaker 2 (24:47):
I just was blown away at the amount of people
that were like, I'm five to four, I'm tiny, I'm petite.
People were out here guessing one hundred and thirty pounds
like I was a hundred wi yeah I am, because
I can't even think of a time that it was Hi.
Speaker 4 (25:04):
Actually, this is Crystal. I've talked to a few times
with you. I've looked you up because you always talk
about your kids and stuff, so I always look when
you say that you guys did a photo shoot, and
then with ash with the other Ashley, I definitely looked
her up, like, wellhy can't she get a date? I
don't understand, and I still don't understand because she's not
(25:26):
bad looked in. Okay, but yeah, everybody have a great Wednesday.
Speaker 2 (25:30):
This is a weird thing because like we are asking
people to describe how we look, so like there's somebody
for everybody, Like somebody might look at me and be.
Speaker 3 (25:37):
Like, she's grotesque.
Speaker 2 (25:38):
I got that's fine, not bad looking.
Speaker 3 (25:42):
How do you feel? How do you feel about that?
Speaker 8 (25:44):
I'll take it. Yes, I mean I guess she was
assuming because my love life is so bad that.
Speaker 2 (25:51):
This is the example that I keep using you, guys,
because when we talked about this earlier, I'm like, we
talked about AJ's dating life so much so that every
story I'd be like, Yo, I gotta see this. I
have to see what she looks like, because what.
Speaker 3 (26:03):
Yeah, she's very superficial, but I'm just saying.
Speaker 5 (26:06):
She's got a face that just you just want to
cheat on her.
Speaker 2 (26:08):
I think, WHOA, I don't know where that came from.
Speaker 3 (26:12):
Why are you mad at her?
Speaker 5 (26:13):
Wait?
Speaker 3 (26:16):
She just really nice teeth, you guys, So I don't know.
I get that that's a factor.
Speaker 6 (26:19):
But show Boston's number one for hip hop jam in
ninety four or five.
Speaker 3 (26:25):
All right, bibs, that is going to do it for us.
I want to say this.
Speaker 2 (26:31):
You guys had me in actual tears today with the
what do I look like? That really made my day.
If you missed any of those conversations, you can hear
that on the podcast now the free iHeart Radio apps
artch ASHLW I am five four and one hundred and
thirty pounds. That's what I'm going with to the grave.
I also, you got the one. I say this often
about you guys, but you always keep me hip to
like the things that are happening. And I kept getting
(26:52):
dms yesterday from people being like, Ashley, have you seen this?
And if like woman falls in love with Scottish fan
who moved to Boston and she's moving to Scotland to
be with him. So like the fourth time I got
at ten to me, I wrote back to the girl, igo,
this is ai like it just looked fake to me.
I don't believe it. She's like, no, here's the woman's instagram.
Speaker 5 (27:09):
It's real.
Speaker 3 (27:10):
So of course you know me journalist.
Speaker 2 (27:12):
I reached out to the girl, I go, you should
come on my shelf, like I have to hear about this.
Speaker 3 (27:17):
So she gave me her sell. She confirmed she.
Speaker 2 (27:19):
Will come on the show. I'm hoping to get her
on this week, so we'll have her. We have Bemo
joining us the next couple of days, so it'll be
it'll be a time let's go.
Speaker 5 (27:28):
I know, found love And this is coming from the
Puerto Rican snack.
Speaker 2 (27:33):
Yes self described I'm waiting for some Well, this woman
said you were hot. I don't think she called you
a Puerto Rican snack, but that was what you took
from it. But no, I find the Scottish love affair
to be so interesting because the woman also just came out.
Speaker 5 (27:48):
As a lesbian.
Speaker 3 (27:49):
Hold on what yeah, gear up man, I know we
have a lot of questions for her.
Speaker 5 (27:52):
Oh so the Scott was a girl.
Speaker 2 (27:56):
The Scott was a redheaded man, and the woman who
was from Boston that fell in love with him just
came out as a lesbian a few months ago.
Speaker 5 (28:05):
It, dude, we got we got to talk to me.
Speaker 3 (28:08):
Talks of offense.
Speaker 2 (28:10):
So I don't have the confirmed time. We just called
her and we left a message, so hopefully she'll get
back to us.
Speaker 3 (28:15):
We'll have her on.
Speaker 2 (28:16):
Either tomorrow or Friday. Bemo is gonna be excited for this.
We have a lot to chat about. If I missed
anything today at Ashley Feldman tw he's on the Ashley,
or if you just want to look at my five
four hundred and thirty pound frame,
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