Do I Want Kids? (Part One)

We're talking wedding rumors and Ashlee gets a DM Dilemma from a woman who can't decide if she should have kids or not. 

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Oh, you guys, wake it up. Look at us.

Speaker 2 (00:04):
It's Wednesday, and it's already getting a little hectic out there.
Like we have standoffs on four ninety five road rage.
That wasn't road ridge. That incident was not a j
and Jeweles just telling me about that wasn't roadridge.

Speaker 1 (00:18):
I was like, craziness. But the traffic is already picking up.

Speaker 2 (00:22):
I feel like a lot of people are taking off
tomorrow because the fourth is Saturday, and so they're trying
to get ahead of the weekend and get where they're going.
I even know some people in this building that are
like skattling. They're getting out of here. They're going to
the Hampton, so they're going to the Cape. Yesterday driving
home to Marshfield took me a minute.

Speaker 1 (00:41):
So now I just know that traffic is gonna be bad. Yeah,
it's gonna continue to get worse this traffic.

Speaker 3 (00:46):
I left after you. I was like, oh, like the
traffic was already building up. I left that like what
like noontime.

Speaker 2 (00:52):
Right, No, it's best, it's yeah, And I think it's
going to continue to be bad because people are just
like they'd rather get where they're going and get comfy
it's a big weekend.

Speaker 3 (01:01):
Yeah, I cannot wait.

Speaker 1 (01:02):
I know, what are you leaving for the Vineyard?

Speaker 3 (01:04):
Do I actually have to buy the I'm gonna go
in there, upload this audio and then buy my ticket.

Speaker 2 (01:08):
You better there's tickets still a veil. I like the
ferries to I've never gone to the Vineyard, but the
ferries to Nantucket they sell out.

Speaker 3 (01:16):
Yeah, yeah, no, no, no, this is the boat that
I take out of New Bedford will sell out.

Speaker 1 (01:20):
Do you bring your car?

Speaker 3 (01:22):
No, you can't take your car from New Bedford. Okay,
you have to drive to Woodshold to take your car.
Got it?

Speaker 2 (01:27):
Yeah, because I've done that, I've taken my car to
Nantuket and I've also just hopped on the ferry. The
ferries also a time. Yeah I don't know. Yeah, kambooz
on the ferry. There's a bar on there. It's like
it's all part of the experience.

Speaker 4 (01:38):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:38):
Yeah. So the spot that I DJ at you literally
get off the boat. You get off the ferry and
it's probably a three minute walk. What what's the spot
called the eleven circuit?

Speaker 1 (01:48):
Eleven circuit.

Speaker 2 (01:49):
I'm looking this up.

Speaker 3 (01:50):
Yep, it's gone through like fifteen names in the past
three years.

Speaker 1 (01:54):
What what type of music were you playing there?

Speaker 3 (01:57):
It's gonna be hip hop like hip hop in like
probably some nineties.

Speaker 2 (02:01):
Oh. I see eleven Circuit Restaurant and bar. Yeah, oh cool.
That's a cute little spot in there, serving breakfast, lunch
and dinner breakfast.

Speaker 1 (02:11):
They got it all going on. So what time will
your party start? Are you doing too bad?

Speaker 3 (02:15):
Yep? Friday three? I'm doing Friday Saturday and a day
party on Sunday.

Speaker 2 (02:19):
Damn all at eleven Circuit. Yep, wow, eleven Circuit they
booked you.

Speaker 3 (02:23):
Uh yeah, it's gonna be like the line is gonna
be down the street. There's gonna be like three hundred people,
three four hundred people in there.

Speaker 1 (02:30):
What's gonna be crazy inside it?

Speaker 2 (02:31):
Okay, I'm gonna bee with the pictures I'm looking at.
I'm like, hey, I'm fitting three hundred people in here.
But yeah, yeah, DJ Jewels Man, there's gonna be a time.

Speaker 1 (02:39):
Oh I'm jealous. Okay, here I am. I'm looking at
the I see the flyers and stuff. There you are.
You're on the It's like my proud little moment with
my little son.

Speaker 2 (02:49):
DJ Jewels Flavor Friday Saturday, and day party vibes on Sunday.

Speaker 1 (02:53):
Wow, and see how I said flava right there, that
was nice. That was nice. I will never So there
you have it.

Speaker 2 (03:01):
There's the one time. No, I'm excited for the weekend.
I feel like I have a lot going on. I
have the third a Marshfield is the day, which is
so strange to me.

Speaker 1 (03:12):
I had to get that.

Speaker 2 (03:13):
Took a little bit of time to get used it.
But the third is when they do the fireworks. That's
the big party day. Nana's Nana's watching the kiddos and
we're hitting the town.

Speaker 1 (03:22):
That's a big one. In the fourth is like the
big kid party.

Speaker 3 (03:24):
Got you do you take the kids to watch the fireworks?

Speaker 1 (03:27):
Absolutely not.

Speaker 2 (03:28):
They'll be asleep for hours before. Layla asked to go
to bed last night at six' ten night. Night oh,
yeah like po. Night OH i love. That, Yeah i'm.
NOT i am not keeping them up for lights in the.
Sky that's you know what's.

Speaker 3 (03:41):
Crazy my son would my son could stay up at
two years. Old he'd be up just like now until
we put him. Down he.

Speaker 2 (03:48):
Helped, yeah, Yeah i'm. NOT i am not playing these.
Games and they'll be fast asleep before the. Fireworks eventually
one day they'll watch. Part BUT i also unpopular. OPINION
i think the fireworks are. STUPID i don't ever look
at fireworks in the sky And i'm, like, wow probably
the first TIME i ever saw, them at, six i.

(04:08):
Did but now almost, FORTY i see it's all the.

Speaker 3 (04:13):
Same The disney. Fireworks you had to be, like oh my, god, no.

Speaker 1 (04:16):
Yeah WHEN i was. Six NOW i don't even watch.
THEM i don't WANT i.

Speaker 2 (04:19):
Would they're the, same, yeah do the same thing in
this guy they pop up and they fall down.

Speaker 1 (04:30):
THING i, disagree thank.

Speaker 2 (04:32):
YOU i watched The disney fireworks just a couple of months,
ago AND i was like emotional and. Crying they were
but it was magic because you're In. Disney there's The
disney effect of it. All you're In metford watching the.
Fireworks it's not gonna have the same, thing but they
could be the exact same ones in the. Sky thosey is,

(04:53):
No But i'm saying The disney ones are on another.

Speaker 1 (04:56):
Level LIKE i feel like we can't talk trash about those.

Speaker 5 (04:58):
ONES i.

Speaker 1 (04:58):
CAN a firework is a.

Speaker 2 (05:00):
Firework you're not gonna convince me otherwise they're all the.

Speaker 3 (05:03):
SAME i feel like we're gonna get talk backs on.
That that is trying me on.

Speaker 2 (05:08):
This it's, like what they're all multi colored lights in the,
sky but for why? Listen?

Speaker 3 (05:20):
Listen people wouldn't call me the most like patriotic. Person
like WHEN i see those those fireways go, Up i'm,
like That's. America That's.

Speaker 2 (05:31):
America there's lights in the skies. Here oh that's.

Speaker 1 (05:36):
Amazing there you have.

Speaker 2 (05:37):
It everybody happy for The July morning. Show and you
need to know we.

Speaker 6 (05:43):
Got you three things you need to know On bussin's
number one for hip hop and the best throwbacks you
haven't any four five all.

Speaker 2 (05:51):
Right Babes, Wednesday july, First and the biggest story we
got going is This Chris brown. Story this is why
because if you really think the way this whole thing worked,
out it's. Nuts so, Basically Chris brown has what he's
calling like a security dog in his, house a large
dog that will kind of roam around in the. Backyard

(06:15):
and his housekeeper is at the.

Speaker 1 (06:18):
House she's doing the.

Speaker 2 (06:19):
Trash she goes to take the trash out into the
backyard and she gets mauled by this. Dog LIKE i am,
TALKING i can barely look at the photos ON. Tmz
chris is home at the time of, this you, guys
he is in the. House he is.

Speaker 1 (06:34):
Present But chris sees what. Happened he gets nervous because he's.

Speaker 2 (06:41):
Like IF i call nine one, one the cops. Show
the media gets wind of. This this turns into just
like a media circus and a Frenzy chris. Leaves chris
gets up out of. There he's, LIKE i, CAN'T i
can't be. Here when this happens in, Court, maria the
housekeeper who was, mauled is, like and this man was,
Negligent like he would just let this dog roam around the.

(07:02):
Backyard he knew how bad the dog. Was chris, says, no,
no she provoked the. Dog, well turns out the jury
definitely did not Believe Chris brown on that because he
must pay her thirteen million. Dollars there was a rumor
at one point that he was trying to settle with
buying her a house for one point four and she was,
Like i'm, GOOD i have a, House LIKE i don't
have a face, anymore AND i am traumatized by this.

(07:26):
Incident she, said quote on the, STAND i will never
be the. Same and now you gotta think was it
all worth?

Speaker 1 (07:32):
It was it all? Like this is? NOW i am media.

Speaker 2 (07:35):
CIRCUS i Know chris thought he was doing the right
thing by getting out of there and not having an
his voice in the nine one one call and being,
home but.

Speaker 1 (07:41):
This one didn't pan.

Speaker 3 (07:42):
Out you got to do the right.

Speaker 2 (07:43):
Thing you gotta call nine one one like what are we?

Speaker 1 (07:46):
Doing this woman's face was literally falling. Off BUT i,
mean his lawyers tried so.

Speaker 2 (07:53):
Hard they acknowledged the, injuries but they really were trying
to fight against this massive. Payoff if you're, wondering Was chris?
Present was he? There?

Speaker 7 (08:01):
No he was.

Speaker 1 (08:01):
Not chris on.

Speaker 2 (08:02):
Tour chris can't can't be bothered with this court. Case
he's on tour With. Usher so there you have. It
thirteen million dollars to the former. Housekeeping there was a
lot of back and forth about. THIS i THINK i
reported on it initially AND i didn't continue on BECAUSE
i knew they were going to.

Speaker 1 (08:18):
Court but the bottom.

Speaker 2 (08:19):
Line is Is chris thought he could avoid all of
this by, leaving and That hey really bit him in the.

Speaker 1 (08:27):
Buck WHAT i did, That i'm just.

Speaker 2 (08:30):
Saying i'm just, saying all, right let's talk About Lebron.

Speaker 1 (08:32):
James this one's for, You.

Speaker 2 (08:33):
Jules lebron will not return to The lakers for the
twenty twenty SEVEN nba. Season first Thing jules says to me
when you, walksing you're talking About.

Speaker 1 (08:41):
Lebron during his.

Speaker 2 (08:42):
Eight seasons with The, Lakers james led the team to
a championship in twenty. Twenty he became the all time
leading scorer IN nba history and has like crazy amount of,
records solidifying i'd say his legacy with the.

Speaker 1 (08:54):
FRANCHISE i don't think it's a shock to.

Speaker 2 (08:58):
Anybody The lakers are, like, listen we gonna start building Around,
luca but, now what is the future here For.

Speaker 3 (09:03):
Lebron so they're, thinking, So Draymond green just gave up
his h he just opted out of his, deal which
frees up a bunch of money for The Golden State.
Warriors so they're thinking that they're gonna team up with
the With Steph, Curry Draymond, green and they're trying to
bring in ad so they're trying to make it a big.
Four they're also thinking that he might team up With

(09:25):
giannis In, miami which he's already been.

Speaker 1 (09:27):
To that's WHAT i. Heard even the calves are in the, mix.

Speaker 3 (09:29):
And the calves are in the mix as, well so
he'd be going back home back. There that's what initially
before any of, This like when he first went TO,
LA i was, like he should retire a, calve, right,
like you, know go TO la Because i'm A lakers, fan,
Right but like when you're, done like take that farewell
to and. Go and the crazy thing is Is James
harden just opted out of his deal to free up,

(09:52):
money so that might be a route For lebron to
get him because there was no way For lebron to
get to The, calves like the calves just didn't have any.
Money but now With hardened opting out of his, deal
Now lebron can Ah and what are we?

Speaker 1 (10:04):
Thinking like one more?

Speaker 2 (10:05):
Season two more, Seasons like the talk of retirement has
been out there for a, minute.

Speaker 3 (10:09):
Probably two, MORE i would, say, definitely it might be,
one but. Definitely.

Speaker 1 (10:14):
Yeah well we know who has this.

Speaker 2 (10:16):
Answer it's Rich Paul adele's man's, uh that's his, Agent
and here his agent is talking about the potential.

Speaker 8 (10:21):
Trade once he got to a place to where he, said, listen,
MAN i understand where things, are and THEN i get.
IT i know that's WHERE i could probably make the most.
Money you, know for me Where i'm at, today you,
know it's probably not the best thing for me to.
DO i probably would just go away from. That AND i,
said are you one hundred percent? Sure and he, said,

(10:44):
Yes i'm one hundred percent sure that that's that's not
a PLACE i would want to, return.

Speaker 1 (10:49):
Going like the wind.

Speaker 2 (10:50):
Gone, sorry, angels it's a tough.

Speaker 1 (10:52):
One no more lebron for. YOU i just don't need
the spectacle of.

Speaker 2 (10:55):
It just announce where you're. Going put on a picture
with the. Jersey we don't need, fireworks quite, literally we
don't need.

Speaker 3 (11:02):
It we.

Speaker 1 (11:03):
Don't i'm over it all.

Speaker 2 (11:04):
Right JAY z has released three bonus tracks from his
twenty seventeen album four four.

Speaker 1 (11:09):
Four we got three new.

Speaker 2 (11:10):
Songs have you heard?

Speaker 3 (11:11):
THEM i didn't, Know, WELL i have.

Speaker 1 (11:13):
Them we have adness.

Speaker 9 (11:16):
Must have been the pastor mini snaf.

Speaker 2 (11:18):
Fools she started a good.

Speaker 3 (11:21):
Man you married my. MAMA i was in her.

Speaker 9 (11:24):
Belly you harried that. Summer she had two kids from
a previous mister one. FAMILY i don't believe and have.
Sisters never treated my brother like a step. Pop remember
the many lessons when we stepped. Out what was you?

Speaker 1 (11:44):
Preparing do you have the JAY z blinders on?

Speaker 2 (11:47):
You like?

Speaker 1 (11:47):
Everything i'm just.

Speaker 2 (11:48):
No, Like i'm Not i'm not playing that ever.

Speaker 1 (11:51):
Again, yeah you have no desiring her.

Speaker 3 (11:53):
That i'm Gonna i'm gonna listen to it in the
car in, totality But i'm not really feeling it off.

Speaker 2 (11:59):
Now This i'm. Excited this Is these are all obviously
first listens for. Us this is Called Blues Freestyle We
family featuring The Blue Ivy.

Speaker 10 (12:08):
Carter everything IS bonticu sad in The senate come and
in so everything actually no right, now everything a boom
shack a luck boom shack boom shack a lack a
boom shack a, luck everything in shack, up everything in

(12:28):
fucka everything in. Shack everything.

Speaker 1 (12:34):
Sounds like she's cursick right.

Speaker 3 (12:35):
There by the.

Speaker 2 (12:36):
Way this had to be when she was, eight because
she sounds like a babe's. There and the last new
song bonus track that we got is Called Many Faced
god Featuring James.

Speaker 1 (12:48):
Blake it's getting too.

Speaker 9 (12:49):
Late we can't afford. Mistakes would have broke me, down
had you got a, way would have broke me. Up
you Took michelle. Away i'm glad we found.

Speaker 10 (12:59):
The Way.

Speaker 2 (13:01):
Sex and The pain, away.

Speaker 11 (13:04):
Vacate the pain of wet.

Speaker 9 (13:07):
Drank in the pain and wet To, yeah we create
when wall still.

Speaker 1 (13:17):
So, okay all, right well.

Speaker 2 (13:19):
LISTEN i think the bigger thing here is that all
the songs are available on streaming after, LIKE i think
it was over a decade of them exclusively being On Title.
Yeah and this is all about and all to promote
the celebration and commemorate the thirtieth anniversary of Jay z's debut,
album which was reasonable, doubt reasonable. Doubt there's three things
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Speaker 1 (13:43):
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Speaker 2 (13:43):
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Shl believe.

Speaker 6 (13:49):
Show bustin's number one for hip hop he am in
ninety four.

Speaker 2 (13:53):
Five you know it's tailor time When jules in here
and says to, Me, hey oh my, god we got
to talk about.

Speaker 1 (14:03):
Lebron, also This Taylor.

Speaker 2 (14:04):
Swift stuff is, crazy by the, WAY i feel. Hurt
we don't have Any swifties that listen to this. SHOW
i know we. DO i know somebody knows SOME i
text my Friend, liz she got two. KIDS i, said
come on the, show not, responding what are you? Doing,
LIKE i know you're up you have a baby? Anyways
eight seven seven six one seven nine four five eight

(14:25):
seven seven six one seven one nine four. Five you guys,
KNOW i love like the celebrity couple. Tea BUT i
don't know Why i'm not so invested in. THIS i
don't know WHAT i GUESS i. Thought and you can
test to. THIS i, said once they're married and that's
confirmed that we, KNOW i will report. It, yeah but
now it's just so much in our. FACE i feel
like we have to talk about. It.

Speaker 3 (14:46):
YEAH i think the thing that has been bothering you is, like,
oh it's gonna be? Here is?

Speaker 1 (14:50):
It this is it?

Speaker 3 (14:51):
That it's like way too many rumors and you're, LIKE
i don't Like Taylor swift that. Much let me just
report it when it when it.

Speaker 2 (14:57):
HAPPENED i Got champagne problems in My Apple music. LIBRARY
i enjoy that. SONG i Think august is a, banger
the one that we're playing on, us but like that's
My i'm not any Like i'm not staying up to
listen to A Taylor swift. Album But i've never heard
A Taylor swift. ALBUM i Play Taylor. Swift, yeah Well
i've never heard like front of Back Taylor. Swift ye,
know But jeels is, right, guys BECAUSE i was, like,

(15:17):
okay REMEMBER i did report WHEN i heard it was
In Rhode island BECAUSE i was, like, wow it's like
right up the. Street we gotta talk about, This so
that ONE i did talk to you, about but then
it had switched so many times and if you look
it up right now the Latest Taylor swift And Travis
kelcey are hosting a massive wedding celebration At Madison.

Speaker 1 (15:39):
Square garden On.

Speaker 2 (15:42):
Friday there's a permit that's closing surrounding streets from the
second which is tomorrow Through july, Fourth. Saturday the heavily
security event requires guest NDAs and features elaborate wait for
it castle, setups.

Speaker 1 (15:57):
With up to twelve hundred and ten d's. Expected there
is a.

Speaker 2 (16:01):
Literal whole rumor right now going on that they are
building a castle inside Of Madison Square garden for this.

Speaker 1 (16:10):
Wedding DO i look stupid to?

Speaker 3 (16:14):
YOU i.

Speaker 2 (16:16):
LISTEN i don't know much about all of the craziness
with The, SWIFTIES i don't look at tailor and count
her buttons and, say, well because she has seven buttons
on her, shirt and there's seven stars in the, sky
and the stars are related to the, moon and the
moon knows the, sun which means that she's.

Speaker 1 (16:32):
ORBITED i don't do.

Speaker 2 (16:33):
All of this like The swifties.

Speaker 1 (16:34):
DO i don't know what all of it.

Speaker 2 (16:35):
Means but how intricate that woman is with literally every
single thing in her. LIFE i, mean for the love Of,
god when she sends sourdoughs to the team at the
chief she puts like bread puns on the. Bread there
is no way in hell you are convincing me that

(16:56):
she's gonna get married finally to the love of her
life Inside Madison Square. Garden, no, NO i just won't believe.
IT i, Don't AND i don't feel like there's a
True swifty.

Speaker 1 (17:12):
That is getting behind this. EITHER i.

Speaker 2 (17:15):
DON'T i think that maybe they're already.

Speaker 1 (17:18):
MARRIED. A i THINK b there might be a small ceremony.

Speaker 2 (17:22):
Before AND i, think, see maybe we're all getting thrown.

Speaker 3 (17:26):
Off.

Speaker 2 (17:26):
Now that would be, tough because just Yesterday Madison Square
garden was putting out red carpet all over to cover their,
steps meaning like they're gonna have this massive red carpet,
event and all signs are pointing to the fact that
it could Be taylor and Das travis yesterday, morning this

(17:47):
time yesterday morning running Around New York. City here is
The mayor Of New york.

Speaker 1 (17:53):
Almost co signing that it's.

Speaker 12 (17:54):
Happening multiple outlets are confirming That Taylor swis's wedding is
happening AT msg This thursday And. Friday anything you can
share on that and to that, point Should New yorkers
be aware of street closures that we saw during the
next games and watch parties and those types of.

Speaker 4 (18:09):
Things my recommendation to All New yorkers is to stay
inside and stay. Cool and if you happen to be
getting married At Madison Square, garden you will be staying
inside and you will be staying. Cool AND i think
it's a good example to set for the city at.

Speaker 2 (18:25):
Large for what for WHO i mean him making the. Joke,
okay everybody's gonna stay inside there's a heat, wave especially
if you're getting married At Madison Square. GARDEN i am
sure BECAUSE i know The Swifties july, Fourth taylor swift,
reference because why else Would taylor beginning like why this, Weekend,
like what is the. Significance i'm sure there's, something BUT i,

(18:47):
again there's just No they're saying that there's eleven hundred
to twelve hundred people on this guest. List first, off that's.
Stupid that is. Stupid there is no way you care
about that many people being at this. Wedding AND i just,
AGAIN i can't get Behind Taylor, swift who has like
artistry like no, other SAYING i want to get married

(19:09):
to the love of my life inside Of Madison Square.
CARDON i just, ah it's, cold it's, huge it's not
the ocean house In Rhode. Island is that?

Speaker 3 (19:18):
Coastal, yeah But i'm sure the way they're gonna make
it look is gonna be.

Speaker 2 (19:23):
Crazy, no there's a rumor that they hired like the
craziest wedding, design which obviously, yeah But i'm Sure taylor has,
it has a hand in all of.

Speaker 1 (19:31):
It but it, just you, know what it gives to, me.

Speaker 2 (19:34):
CELEBRITY i, mean it's like in your, FACE i, know
but that's Not Travis.

Speaker 1 (19:40):
Kelcey that's not the way he. Is AND i feel
like this is just so grossly over the. Top this
is What jlo would. Do she's getting she's getting like
shots for no.

Speaker 2 (19:50):
Reason but like it's just this is giving j low
energy to, me AND i JUST i don't. UNDERSTAND i
don't get. It but it's hard for me at this
point not to believe that something is going down At
Madison Square.

Speaker 1 (20:01):
Garden there's been too many.

Speaker 2 (20:02):
Articles there's been too Many like the other day there
were trucks outside Of Madison Square. Garden they were unloading
things that, said please return To nashville After did you
know there is a rumor That Stevie nicks From Fleetwood
back is going to be performing At taylor's wedding because
their little.

Speaker 3 (20:17):
Best days that is why don't? Know that's you're not.

Speaker 2 (20:20):
Kidding that's That's pinnacle that's peaking right.

Speaker 1 (20:22):
There AND i get, it BUT i just.

Speaker 2 (20:26):
Like The New York times is Confirming taylor is getting
married this weekend At Madison Square.

Speaker 1 (20:32):
Garden, LIKE i don't, know, GUYS i.

Speaker 2 (20:34):
DON'T i don't. Know i'm not losing sleep, over, okay
BUT i don't see.

Speaker 3 (20:39):
IT i.

Speaker 2 (20:40):
DON'T i can't eight seven seven six one seven one
nine four. Five if you're swiftly and want to fight
me on, it but it's just not giving like champagne.
PROBLEMS i don't. Know, hi, everybody good. Morning It's ashley
and the gym In morning show THAT i am like.
Shocked you guys are, like ACTUALLY i pushed on top

(21:00):
talking about this, wedding but now it's like it's supposedly
here and we can't escape.

Speaker 1 (21:05):
IT i, mean you open up your phone and it's something.
New des moy.

Speaker 2 (21:09):
Has been posting a ton AND i got a message From.
Abby Thanks, ab she goes. Ash i'm not a swifty
but this account has some rumors. Posted the peeps are
saying this is. Wild listen to. This it is the
only way that they can ensure no. Pictures there's no,
windows no one can fly. Overhead but, agreed who would
want to get married inside of an? Arena But, yo

(21:30):
that actually blew my mind a little. Bit if a
wedding is inside of an, arena unless there's cameras, inside
you literally cannot see.

Speaker 1 (21:42):
Anything AND i do picture know.

Speaker 5 (21:44):
What it's.

Speaker 2 (21:44):
Crazy back to J, LO i picture that aerial shot
of her And Ben affleck on her wedding day and
her walking in her dress like they got got by the.
PAPARAZZI i don't know IF i can hear you At.

Speaker 3 (21:55):
Jules, oh, okay great. TAKE i think that that's probably
one of the biggest reasons why they getting married At.

Speaker 2 (22:01):
Madison BECAUSE i, could you know, WHAT i couldn't think of.
ONE i was, like, OH i make it makes it's
so cold to. Me like WHEN i when the rumor
was the ocean house In Rhode, ISLAND i was, like,
wow that would be. STUNNING i, mean she has ties
To Rhode, island she has a home. There it's, coastal
It's New england in the, summer like The hyderranges all the.

(22:21):
Thing Madison square they sell hot dogs in, there like
They you're getting married in a place where you can
get hot, dogs popcorn and a pretzel for eighty, fifty
saying like that's.

Speaker 1 (22:35):
WHY i just was, like this is Not.

Speaker 2 (22:36):
Tea this Is Tea, hey whatever the hell you guys call.
Her But i'm acting to LIKE i know. HER i
JUST i couldn't picture.

Speaker 1 (22:44):
It but that's the.

Speaker 2 (22:45):
Latest des moy also saying this is from an anonymous.
MESSAGE i just went to my wedding florist appointment today
and the main flower is. Kalalilies my flora said they
had to get the middle tier kalalilies for our mock
set up today because every pop tier kalalily on the
entire domestic market was bought by someone In New york

(23:07):
forty two thousand bunches of. Kalalilies the message, says this
has to be For Taylor swift's wedding At Madison Square.

Speaker 1 (23:16):
GARDEN a kalalily is like a nice, white pretty.

Speaker 2 (23:19):
Floral so essentially what this flora said, is, hey you want,
kalalies that your wedding this weekend not gonna happen Because
Taylor swift bought every single one in the. State now
that like little titbits like that are leading us to
and again yesterday, Morning Travis kelcey running Around New. York
he's definitely, there like working, out on, talking like going
on a.

Speaker 3 (23:36):
Jog, WOW i.

Speaker 2 (23:41):
My body is still saying they're already, married probably already
married in some, intimate really nice. Wedding and then this
is just like the MASSIVE Parthi.

Speaker 3 (23:52):
Like you, said there are so many beautiful venues Between
Rhode island And, massachusetts like just so many beautiful, venues
like no reason why you're not getting married at like a,
mansion yeahland down In.

Speaker 2 (24:04):
Newport, Right like you could rent Out Rhode. ISLAND i
just you know WHAT i, Mean like You're Taylor swift
the whole. State you could rent out fifteen mansions and
have everybody. There i'm just, saying it is freezing to
me In Madison, Square Guard like it's cold in. There
the air is. Different WHEN i go to the, Bathrooms
i'm literally passing a hot dog. STAND i JUST i

(24:25):
don't like, it but it seems to be. True, obviously
anything we, Hear i'll keep you. Posted but just Know
i'm not a swiftye and my soul believes that those
two already did some, magical beautiful ceremony that was just
tied to the chest with the. Family and this is
just a huge Extravagan ashley And Morning.

Speaker 6 (24:45):
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things you need to know On Bustin's number one for
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Five all, right.

Speaker 1 (24:55):
Guys by the, Way july, first.

Speaker 2 (24:59):
Unbelieva Happy july to Everybody, wednesday except For Chris. Brown
Because Chris brown is hurt and that man's gonna pay
thirteen mil to his former housekeeper following a severe dog
and they're calling it a mauling at his, home and,
honestly that's what it. Was because if you if you
want your day to be, ruined you could go look

(25:20):
up the photos Of maria after that dog viciously attacked.
Her but it's not, pretty, guys it's not. Good not
SOMETHING i would do BEFORE i, ate that's for. Sure
the way this all went, Down chris has this security.

Speaker 1 (25:34):
Dog, okay the security.

Speaker 2 (25:35):
Dog rooms around in his. Backyard let's just, say to
help in case somebody tries to. Trespass all, right the,
Housekeeper maria was taking out the trash in the. Backyard boom,
done dog attacks her and it's. Bad chris is home
at the. Time chris is. There chris, SAYS i can't
call nine one one because IF i call nine one, one

(25:56):
the cops are gonna show, up fire, trucks. Ambo it
is going to be a media circus AND i know,
That so you know What i'm gonna. Do i'm gonna.
Leave he, left, Gone. Saya the rumor is that then
behind closed, doors he Offered maria a one point four
million dollar, home to which she said, No i'm. GOOD
i already have a, HOUSE i want, money and a

(26:19):
jury agreed with. Her she, said by the, way she
will never be the same. Again that's how bad and
extensive her physical injuries. Are one little lookski at the,
photo AND i, KNEW i knew.

Speaker 5 (26:29):
It was that.

Speaker 2 (26:30):
Bad thirteen million Dollars chris will now have to. Pay
that's a lot heftier than the one point two million
home he was trying to buy. Her if you're wondering
if he was president, court don't wonder. Anymore he was
not because he's on, tour which her lawyers used against
him many a, time stirring many a statements like, Look
chris isn't even.

Speaker 1 (26:50):
Here, chris by the, way says that he feels Like
maria provoked the dog and caused her own.

Speaker 2 (26:57):
Injuries, now, Now, chris no one believed, that not even the,
jury but also the woman was taking out the, trash
she was doing her. Job she got attacked by that.

Speaker 1 (27:05):
Dog you gotta do the right.

Speaker 2 (27:06):
Thing you have to pick up the phone and you
have to call nine one, One santi's favorite number to.
Call all, Right Lebron james is not going to return
to The LAKERS a True lakers fan sadly works on this. Show,
jules it is so weird that you're A lakers.

Speaker 1 (27:21):
FAN i gotta.

Speaker 2 (27:21):
Site where were you?

Speaker 1 (27:22):
Born what town were you born? In?

Speaker 2 (27:25):
Okay, yeah, GUYS i don't. KNOW i don't know who
dropped him on his. Head but, anyways when you saw
this news like, hurt, pain, sadness.

Speaker 3 (27:34):
Thankful, no, no definitely not thankful Because Lebron james is
an amazing. PLAYER i definitely think the time he gave,
you you, know he brought us like the year the
year before he, came we had twenty four wins that,
year like we were. Trash so definitely glad.

Speaker 1 (27:53):
That He's it's a wee thing For.

Speaker 2 (27:55):
JULES i mean that he do, NO i mean listen
when it comes to like, STATS i mean his eight
season with The lakers led him to a championship in twenty,
twenty all time leading SCORING nba, history crazy amount of,
records like he when you think The lakers like you
do Think Lebron, now, WELL i mean that's no shade To,

(28:16):
kobe But i'm just saying you do you think of
him like he's A. Laker, yeah you think he's A,
Laker but where he might end. Up is also a
place THAT i think of AND i think Of, lebron
like The calves are in talks to potentially get him the,
heat but you think the one that's kind of holding
the most weight is The Golden State.

Speaker 3 (28:34):
Warriors The Golden State, warriors he's got a really great
relationship With Draymond green And Steph, curry and of Course
Steph curry and him played in The. Olympics they just
want a gold medal during the. Summertime he's openly said
that he would love to play With Steph curry And
Draymond green just opted out of his uh out of his.

Speaker 1 (28:55):
Deal he declined his player.

Speaker 2 (28:57):
OPTION i thank, him yep.

Speaker 3 (28:58):
Did he declined? That so so that opens up money
for them to Grab lebron at like fifteen, mil, Right
like that's a.

Speaker 1 (29:05):
Lot kind of a cool fifteen. Mil the guy who
really knows all the answers Is Rich.

Speaker 2 (29:10):
Paul you, Know rich is laying up in bed With
adele at night and he's, like we got to figure this.

Speaker 1 (29:14):
Out we got to try to get ourselves the most.

Speaker 8 (29:15):
Money once he got to a place to where he, said, listen,
MAN i understand where things. Are and THEN i get.
IT i know that's WHERE i could probably make the most,
money you, know for me Where i'm at. Today you,
know it's probably not the best thing for me to.
DO i probably would just go away from. That AND i,
said are you one hundred percent? Sure and he, said,

(29:39):
Yes i'm one hundred percent sure that that's that's not
a PLACE i would want to.

Speaker 1 (29:43):
Return hell from me, side that's What adele is.

Speaker 2 (29:48):
Saying hello from the other side to a new, team
new money and all of the.

Speaker 1 (29:54):
Things where will he end?

Speaker 3 (29:55):
Up he's gonna get less money wherever he.

Speaker 2 (29:57):
Goes, yeah, yes, yeah BUT i, mean obviously a fifteen
mil seems that sounds crazy to. SAY a fifteen mill
doesn't even sound like that much For. Lebron But Rich
rich wants his, Money, Okay Rich, paul that's his. Agent,
guys that's a rich is going to get his. CUT
i want him to go to the. CAVES i don't
have a dog in the, fight BUT i want him
to go to the. Caves even more, So i'm happy

(30:19):
that we're not talking About Jaylen brown right now BECAUSE
i want that story to.

Speaker 1 (30:22):
Die but that's not. Dying that one's getting.

Speaker 3 (30:24):
Traction, actually, yeah because they're talking About Jayleen brown going
to The calves as. Well oh my, God Brian wenthurst
was talking about that. Yesterday they are trying to Get
Jalen brown And lebron over at The, Calves.

Speaker 1 (30:39):
Like DOES i see this narrative being pushed like?

Speaker 2 (30:42):
THAT jb at this point just needs to go because
he's going to have a bad taste in his mouth
with The. Celtics and that really makes me.

Speaker 3 (30:48):
SAD i saw that he liked a post like somebody,
Tweeted i'm not A celtics. Fan this is the post,
right so not me saying, it but they, Said i'm
not A celtics, fan But Jalen brown needs to go
somewhere way he's. Appreciated, yeah and that's sad because we
appreciate him A boston appreciate.

Speaker 1 (31:05):
One hundred percent.

Speaker 2 (31:06):
Already, lastly was what was the headline The lizzo headline
that you? Saw it was like it was it's not,
funny but for like twenty four hours after her album,
sales like that first, day she basically.

Speaker 1 (31:18):
Contemplated every life decision she ever.

Speaker 3 (31:20):
Made so it Said Lizzo's bitch album sales were so
bad she questioned her worth for twenty four.

Speaker 2 (31:26):
HOURS i can't. HANDLE i, mean then, LISTEN i feel
like that first twenty four for an artist is like
that's the, day, Right it's. Celebratory we're selling all these,
albums Not. Lizzo but you know, what Thank god For.
Siss sissa picked up the phone and called her in
her time of.

Speaker 13 (31:41):
Need there was like twenty four hours of my life
WHERE i based my success in my worth on a.
Number AND i think that was so crushing AND i
AND i had to remind. MYSELF i was, like oh my, god,
like Thank god For Solana sissa call.

Speaker 3 (31:56):
Me she just called.

Speaker 13 (31:57):
Me she was, like, hey you're on my. Mind AND
i was like.

Speaker 2 (32:02):
And she was, like oh my.

Speaker 3 (32:03):
God, no she was like she's so.

Speaker 13 (32:05):
Sweet AND i like meditated AND i prayed on, it
AND i was, like this is WHY i don't judge
myself and my success or my impact on. Numbers this
is WHY i don't do, that because it's so crushing
if you, do BECAUSE i could turn around and then you,
know you look at the thing and it's, like oh
a billion streams oh diamond. Record BUT i can't judge

(32:26):
my success on that either because that goes away SO
i had. TO i had to reframe and be, like
but aren't you proud of? Yourself AND i was, like,
YEAH i actually am proud of.

Speaker 2 (32:34):
Myself, honestly as much As i'm not like the Biggest lizzo.

Speaker 1 (32:38):
Fan she has a.

Speaker 2 (32:39):
Point even this, show you, guys and the way ratings,
WORK i will have months where the show is crushing
and it's doing, well and Then i'll have months where
the show is struggling in the.

Speaker 1 (32:50):
Ratings like, you and if every time.

Speaker 2 (32:53):
The ratings came in and they, struggled AND i started
questioning every Decision i've, met we'd have.

Speaker 1 (32:57):
Problems i'd be out in the. Streets i'd be on
mass and Cat.

Speaker 3 (33:00):
Okay you're not a trash, person so you.

Speaker 2 (33:03):
Know, what, THANKS i feel little bit BETTER i feel about.

Speaker 1 (33:08):
IT, i in, fact didn't wait.

Speaker 2 (33:10):
To get a lobster roll it come five minutes, late
and then post the picture of the, woman say here's her, number.

Speaker 1 (33:14):
HARASSMER i didn't do.

Speaker 2 (33:15):
THAT i didn't go To amsterdam and do weird stuff
with bananas to my. Dancers that wasn't, me all, right
but a street things need to know For, Wednesday july,
first we are close to eight am and we are
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(33:37):
your way at Eight good morning.

Speaker 6 (33:39):
Four It's Ashley Morning show and it's time for ANOTHER dm.

Speaker 2 (33:43):
Dilemma oh my, god. Stop SO i get THIS dm
From she, said it's a fair, name, Anonymous AND i
think this is a really good. Question BUT i also
feel like you guys are gonna be torn down the
middle on. It, jueles can you come here for one?

(34:05):
Second can can you give me your? Song sorry, guys she,
uh she was gonna just talk ON dm with, me
but then she said that she would come. On So
i'm she's gonna give. Her she should be ready me
back to, us which she gives you the, cell give
her a call and we'll put her. On actually, NO
i need that to read THE. Da all, right let's do.
This we'll play a. Song do you have? It?

Speaker 3 (34:27):
Oh she's?

Speaker 2 (34:27):
Bubbling, oh here we. Go, okay let's play a. Song
we're gonna call, her sorry lactic for. Live we're gonna
call her and we'll do THE dms dilemma. Next good,
Morning hi, guys good. Morning it Is ashley in the gaymid.
Morning so sorry about all the craziness. Today you, know
we're just trying to figure it out one day at a. Time.

Speaker 1 (34:44):
Uh anonymous is now joining.

Speaker 2 (34:46):
Me she was gonna be in message with, me but
what a. DOLL i love how you were, like, well
you're by yourself, today So i'll join. You thank, You thank, You.

Speaker 1 (34:53):
Anonymous somebody step it up to the plate.

Speaker 2 (34:56):
TODAY i appreciate. It all. Right so let's backtrack on
this before you ask everybody the. Question you are thirty
three years. Old, yeah you are in a long term.

Speaker 11 (35:08):
Relationship, yes we've recently got, married but we've been together
for a little bit over six.

Speaker 2 (35:14):
Years, okay, yeah and we and we are loving our.

Speaker 1 (35:18):
Life we are loving our child free.

Speaker 2 (35:21):
Life.

Speaker 11 (35:22):
ABSOLUTELY i love having friends' kids. OVER i love, toddlers love.
BABIES i also love when they leave.

Speaker 14 (35:29):
And WHEN i can go, home, yeah in my own.

Speaker 2 (35:31):
House and you know what's, funny LIKE i myself who have,
Kids like there are some people that would hear you
say that and be.

Speaker 1 (35:36):
Like ough and like take offense to.

Speaker 2 (35:38):
It. Me i'm like facts like, yeah like you don't
have any kids yet of your, own and so you you,
know you're just living it. Up you're living your. Life
you don't have to worry about bedtimes and if they're
eating and diaper changes and all of the, things like you're.

Speaker 11 (35:54):
Thirty three years old, Crying like when they're, crying LIKE
i can't just like give them to some, enough you
know exactly WHEN i work with, KIDS i love. KIDS
i like kids more THAN i like adults most of the.
Time but LIKE i just my own and like twenty
four to seven is just a, Lot like that's a
lot to wrap your head.

Speaker 2 (36:11):
Around and so did something Happen like did you guys
have a conversation or are you just around kids so
much that you're starting to feel a little bit of.

Speaker 11 (36:19):
Pressure, WELL i MEAN i feel like thirty three BIOLOGICALLY
i feel that. Pressure but also LIKE i have a.

Speaker 2 (36:26):
Dog he's my.

Speaker 11 (36:26):
Baby he's, Eight So i'm LIKE i want a baby
for my dog to. Experience but so it's all those,
things you, know like my parents getting, OLDER i want
like my kids to grow up with other babies and,
Kids SO i feel that. Pressure but, like does this
feeling change of being unsure or SHOULD i just go for?

Speaker 1 (36:46):
It, well let me ask you, too what where is
your husband on all?

Speaker 11 (36:50):
THIS i, mean he's a little bit younger than, me
but like he doesn't think about things as much AS i.
Do so, eventually like maybe in two years he's he'll be,
like let's do. It BUT i like to plan things,
THOUGH i.

Speaker 2 (37:02):
Think, Yeah, well let me let me just also throw, in,
yes you are thirty, three and for sure the clockworks
against us when it comes to that, stuff but you're
not at the. POINT i, MEAN i had my babies
at thirty five and thirty, seven so it's like.

Speaker 1 (37:14):
You Can we're. Okay we're not in like a you're
not forty, three you.

Speaker 2 (37:18):
Know WHAT i, Mean it's still, okay can do. It
BUT i get what you're. Saying and that was kind
of your message to. Me it was, LIKE i don't
really want, Kids However i'm feeling the pressure to have.
Kids so SHOULD i just have? Kids and that's the,
Question like once you get to that point in your,
life you're thirty, three all your friends have, Kids like
now you're questioning that and so the question to you

(37:40):
guys is has anybody ever felt like? That have you
ever gotten to the point where you're, Like, OKAY i
didn't really want kids and see myself with, kids BUT
i feel LIKE i have to have them at that
at this? Point is that?

Speaker 11 (37:51):
Accurate, Yeah, LIKE i know Eventually i'll want. Kids i'm
gonna do it at some. POINT i don't know if
for me this feeling will ever change or If i'll
all ways feel like, This SO i might as weant
to do it now BECAUSE i could be thirty seven
and still feel like this is What I'M i Guess i'm.

Speaker 2 (38:08):
Wondering, yeah, no AND I i hear, you AND i
guarantee you there's other people that have been in the
exact same.

Speaker 1 (38:13):
Situation so let's do. This i'm gonna put you on, hold.

Speaker 2 (38:16):
And let's let everybody else kind of weigh in on. This,
so thirty three years, old married in that phase of,
Like i'm thirty, THREE i should be having. KIDS i want,
kids BUT i don't really want them. Now BUT i
feel like my parents are getting, older my biological clock
is Taking like what IF i still feel like this
And i'm thirty, seven SHOULD i just go. Ahead and

(38:38):
by the, way it sounds like we're like talking about
a job or, something but we're actually talking about little whole.

Speaker 1 (38:42):
Humans should she pull the? Trigger should she just have
the kids?

Speaker 2 (38:47):
Now because what if in five six years she still
feels the same way and she's, like, oh, damn, well
Now i'm forty eight, seven seven six one seven one
nine four five eight seven seven six one seven one
nine four five to have the babies or. Not, hi,
guys good. Morning it Is ashley in the GM At Morning.
SHOW i had a feeling you guys were gonna feel
strongly about this.

Speaker 1 (39:07):
Situation all.

Speaker 2 (39:09):
Right So, anonymous who by the, way is on hold
so we can go to her if we have any.
Questions she's thirty three years, old she's, married she works with,
kids she's around, kids her friends have, kids and she's
feeling the pressures now of feeling like she should have
a kid. Now she, said she does feel like maybe
eventually down the, road but she's worried, that, like you,

(39:29):
know her biological clock is.

Speaker 1 (39:31):
Ticking you, know her parents are.

Speaker 2 (39:33):
Around one thing she's also wanting is her dog to
see her, baby WHICH i will tell her this, to you,
know to her when we go back to, her but
my dogs hate my. Kids when my kids came into my,
life my dog's got moved down the probably already list
that dog don't care about, kids don't worry about, that
do not worry about. That BUT i got a COUPLE

(39:53):
dms that really stood out to. Me the first ONE
i got that girl needs to have that. Baby she's
gonna love that child and never question a, thing especially
when she meets them. Earthside, plus she could get pregnant
tomorrow or it could.

Speaker 1 (40:08):
Take, years and that's a good. Point we all know
my child's and.

Speaker 2 (40:13):
Tribulations i'm not trying to make this, sad but it
just because you say, Yes i'm ready to have the
baby doesn't mean you're GETTING pg. Tomorrow to the thirty
three year old questioning whether she's ready to be a
mom or, not she needs to just take a minute
and think about the scenario of, like could you imagine
your life without them at a certain, age because nobody's
ever truly ready for, KIDS i, think but it's LIKE
i could never imagine my life without. Them AND i
have friends that have lost babies and even, children and

(40:35):
it's devastating to think that they could have never even
had that time with. THEM i think she needs to
just think about it if she could picture her life without,
kids because it's harder to picture your life with kids
when you've never had. That, JULES i don't know if
you feel like. THIS i don't know what my life
looked like BEFORE i had. KIDS i can't remember.

Speaker 3 (40:53):
It OH i, Can, OH i.

Speaker 2 (40:54):
CANNOT i, Literally i'm, like what DID i do with the.
TIME i GUESS i would thinking about what dog park
to go? To like my world is my kids. Now
it's LIKE i can't even think about that pre. Life,
okay you stop, howing stop.

Speaker 3 (41:07):
Howing no, no, no, No because yesterday we were talking
about BECAUSE i was eating pancakes yesterday and you were, like,
oh you got to eat you like. PANCAKES i was,
LIKE i used to make pancakes every day before my
son was. BORN i think about all the THINGS i
used to do before my son was.

Speaker 1 (41:21):
Born, yeah and, like like when you were the number one.

Speaker 2 (41:24):
PRIORITY i think What i'm saying is is like my
days are better with my kids in. Them, like, yeah
there's no question on, that all. Right anonymous is An,
attleborough weighing. In anonymous is thirty seven years, old has
an eleven month old, baby and talk to. Me you
feel like your life has, changed both for the better

(41:45):
and for the. Worse good.

Speaker 5 (41:49):
Morning. Yes CAN i just SAY i agree with everything
that you just said from the, tips especially the last.
One life changes for the, better AND i don't want
to say the worst because nothing could come worse from a.
BABY i could tell you that it took about a. YEAR,
IBF iui all of. It so my prothers started at thirty.

(42:11):
FIVE i ENDED u getting corner at thirty. Six, wow
your body just you just don't. Know we did five.

Speaker 11 (42:17):
Rounds the last one.

Speaker 5 (42:18):
Works my wife is, older SO i MEAN i can't
think of life with our without our little girl. Now
AND i can't tell you what it was before because
every means of. Blur have your, Kid get yourself. Checked
have even though you may not be, infertile have those
conversations because you don't, know you know what your inside

(42:42):
body may look. Like you could be the healthiest thirty
three year, old but you just don't. Know have those.
Conversations get your self. Checked get your partner checked as.
WELL i have friends that literally way older than me
now try for many years and didn't work my, parents
it didn't. Work so if if you if you're having those,
questions those are the right questions to. Have just know

(43:03):
that once you addocate to your, life everything. Changes, yeah
BUT i guess get yourself. Educated well you know, what
yeah you could.

Speaker 2 (43:12):
Have we all roll up on these females that like
breathe and they get. Pregnant i'm so jealous of. THEM
i want to no for, real like they just they
it's so easy for. Them but then there's us who,
like blink, yes and then there's us who, like it's
really hard for. It and you don't, know you, know
you just you just don't, know you don't.

Speaker 1 (43:29):
Know you know.

Speaker 2 (43:30):
WHAT i do know, though all those trials and tribulations
that you went, through THAT i went, through they mean.
Nothing once the baby, comes you're, like, oh, YEAH i
had to take seven hundred shots to get, you but
that doesn't.

Speaker 1 (43:38):
Matter NOW i have.

Speaker 2 (43:39):
You it's, fine but that doesn't.

Speaker 5 (43:41):
MATTER i leave for work, now And i'm just LIKE
i don't want to.

Speaker 2 (43:43):
Leave but, yeah all.

Speaker 1 (43:46):
Right well the little, thing it, is the little.

Speaker 2 (43:47):
Things thank you so much for the, Call. Jules who
else who would you?

Speaker 1 (43:50):
Pick we get a?

Speaker 2 (43:51):
Lot, okay Uh soriyah is twenty eight years old In Rhode.

Speaker 1 (43:56):
Island High, babe good, morning.

Speaker 7 (43:59):
Good.

Speaker 1 (43:59):
Morning all, right your take on this?

Speaker 14 (44:03):
Okay SO i For, JULES i would, say think about
the absolute worst day of your life and then imagine
a six year old in the backseat, crying, mommy, MOMMY
i want. Dinner and you just have to regulate your nervous.
System and also if your spouse is not even thinking
about it right, now that is something you definitely need to.

(44:25):
Discuss and unfortunately it's if you don't think you have
the mental capacity to be a single, parent because you
never know if your spouse leaves, you or if they become,
disabled god forbid and they can't. Work you're the sole.
Provider so just really think about all of the external.

(44:46):
Factors do you have a village to help you raise this?
Child do you live near your family and don't feel
pressured because you already work with.

Speaker 2 (44:54):
Kids thank you for the most bleak take. Ever thank
you for making me a question all my life. Decisions rah,
Goodbye oh my. God daniella is In.

Speaker 1 (45:06):
LOWELL i gotta end this on a little bit of
a positive.

Speaker 2 (45:09):
Note, daniella can you can you bring us back to
life because now like people's husbands are.

Speaker 1 (45:12):
Disabled what's?

Speaker 8 (45:13):
Up good?

Speaker 7 (45:15):
Morning AS i got, YOU i, say fully pull the.
Trigger no matter what age you, are, well no matter what.
Age but she's in her. Thirties you're never fully ready
to have her. Baby but once it, happens you're gonna
deal with it and do the best you, can just
like you do with everything else in.

Speaker 11 (45:29):
Life honestly needs to.

Speaker 7 (45:30):
Have that baby because she doesn't want to be thirty
seven forty giving birth and then think about, it she's
forty years, old has a, baby her, daughters our son
is going to be. Ten you, know it's just pulled the.
Trigger you never fully hady to have her. Baby but
she'll figure it. Out esus with, children she thinks.

Speaker 11 (45:45):
Like she has like a.

Speaker 7 (45:46):
Village she'll be totally.

Speaker 2 (45:47):
FINE i was gonna, Say i'm still googling things like
to this, DAY i still google things about kids THAT
i don't, know none of us. Know we're all just
literally trying to figure it. Out there's no manual for,
this there's no right. Way there's no wrong, way like
keep them alive is like. Basic But i'm with.

Speaker 3 (46:04):
YOU i.

Speaker 2 (46:04):
Agree thank you so much for the call let's go
back to. Anonymous what a roller. Coade by the, way
there's tons of other calls my dms are. Crazy we
just all want you to get, pregnant except for the
lady who's put your.

Speaker 1 (46:16):
Husband in a. WHEELCHAIR i don't know if.

Speaker 2 (46:17):
The hell that.

Speaker 1 (46:18):
Was that was.

Speaker 2 (46:19):
WILD i here's my thing is like you keep saying
that eventually you want to do it, anyway you, know
but you're thirty. Three you have a little bit of.
Time BUT i JUST i don't. KNOW i think if
you end up doing, it you're just going to be so.
Happy it's just the best thing. EVER i remember making
fun of my mother because she kept saying like it's a,

(46:40):
miracle like every time the babies would, come it's a.
Miracle And i'm, like, yo it's a, miracle like, birth like.
Pregnancy it is a genuine. Miracle it really.

Speaker 11 (46:50):
Is and it's so funny because my best friend that
like growing, up she's always, LIKE i don't want. KIDS
i don't want. Kids she just had a, baby and
it's like she is in a completely different like way
life love. That it's wild to watch that. Transition i've
always Known i've wanted a. KID i Think i've just
been waiting for that like aha moment of like, YES
i want to try. Now but What i'm hearing is

(47:11):
maybe there was never that, time AND i should just
like stop waiting for.

Speaker 14 (47:15):
That.

Speaker 1 (47:16):
Suck, YEAH i, think.

Speaker 2 (47:17):
LISTEN i think there are some girls like on the.
Opposite one of my best friends from high, school, LIKE
i remember when we were literally in elementary, school she
wanted to be a, mommy like They she just like
that was her, thing and now she has multiple, children
she's just living her. LIFE i Remember Kylie jenner saying
the same. Thing she just wanted to grow up and
be a. Mom some people have, that you know how
you said you'd rather be around kids than. ADULTS i
am the complete. Opposite i'm not even the real kid.

(47:38):
Person Like i'm cool with my. Own BUT i don't,
know like if you're SAYING i think to, me if
you're saying, eventually you know you guys want to have them.
Anyway the one Consistent i've seen with, comments AND i,
agree is like just making sure he's ready to and he's.

Speaker 1 (47:54):
Down you, know check in with the.

Speaker 2 (47:56):
HUSBAND a lot of people are saying that it doesn't
seem like he's anti, no.

Speaker 11 (48:02):
No, No, no he's just more of like a what's
the thing fly by the seat of your, pants like,
sure let's do.

Speaker 2 (48:07):
It, yeah well that's what you'd be doing with parenting.
ANYWAY i feel Like i'm doing that.

Speaker 11 (48:10):
DAILY i just THINK i need to have my mom
moved right next.

Speaker 2 (48:15):
Door, yes that would be crucial my. Mother people and
people are, like how do you do? It i'm, like,
well my mom lives ten minutes down the. Road that
is HOW i do it, that you know, what that's
another real real Thing in the comments the, calls everyone's,
like make sure she has a, village because you do need,
help that's for.

Speaker 1 (48:33):
Sure.

Speaker 2 (48:34):
Yeah, well, anyways call me back when you're. Pregnant i'll be.
Awaiting i'll be awaiting that. Call thank, you you're, welcome
best of. Luck you.

Speaker 3 (48:43):
Know So riah talked about how you know.

Speaker 2 (48:46):
Her husband's going to be in a. WHEELCHAIR i couldn't believe.
That that WAS i don't even know what that. Was
she was, like he could be. DISABLED i would and
you told me to take her.

Speaker 1 (48:53):
Call that's on.

Speaker 2 (48:54):
You you literally dead it there with a poor girl's usman
like what