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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Oh baby, oh baby, wake it up. It's Tuesday, six
o eight. Hi, everybody, good morning. Sometimes I think to myself,
I like, look across the way, no one, and I'm like, hmm,
what am I going to tell you guys about, either
(00:20):
my night, last night, my morning? Something that popped off?
Like what do we have here? Because I don't have
anyone else to ask? You know, I have aj aj
could pop in, but for real, I'm like thinking, hmm,
what should I chat to everybody about this morning? And honestly,
I can only get but one thing. I just have
(00:42):
this loop in my head. Has anybody seen the video
of the woman at Villnsay Clancy trialing yesterday? It's it's
I'm I'm you may or may not have seen it,
but I'm sure there was like an all rise and
this woman in the front row of the courtroom like
stands up and they're fi and she winks at the camera.
(01:02):
Very bizarre, bizarre, Like I don't what do we are?
We we watched the same thing here, like is it
are we at a murder trial for three little babies?
Or like the are you trying to bag? Are you
trying to hook up with somebody at this thing? I
I have never seen anything like it in my life. Yeah,
it's very tone duff. It's beyond and I you know,
(01:25):
I think about all of the videos that we got
out of the Karen Reed trial. Nothing in this even
close in this realm nothing it was. Everybody was very stow.
I mean somebody was gone, so everybody was very stoic.
No one's there's certainly nothing to laugh or smile it
and wait for it, wink at who are you winking at?
(01:48):
At this camp? I cannot let it go again. I
was thinking to myself, if somebody was here, I would
chit chat with him. How are you? What you doing?
I want to be talking about this, But I guys,
I can't get it out of my head. I cannot
get this woman out of me. And she's got to
be local. Who is she? What's she doing?
Speaker 2 (02:03):
She's getting slammed right now because yeah, what are you
trying to get a date while you're saying?
Speaker 1 (02:07):
You know, it's very bizarre. There's no there's no way
people haven't found her to be like what And I'm
sure we have to believe that she has some sort
of rationale as to why she thought that winking at
a camera at a murder trial for three little babies?
Was the play?
Speaker 2 (02:26):
I mean, hopefully she regrets it now and she's like
what did I do?
Speaker 1 (02:29):
She was like giddy, She was like giggling and smiling
a winky. And by the way, the elderly lady next
door was like, I am not playing any of these games.
Who is this woman? What she is she writing for
a publication? Is she a friend? That was the craziest
video I have ever seen in my life. Well, it's
up there for sure.
Speaker 2 (02:48):
I feel like we have to find out more information
about her now.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
Yeah, I'm dying to know what she has to say
about it. Because but anyways, like the fireworks in the
courtroom yesterday, which we'll get to in a little bit,
I got a ton of dms from you guys about
Layla coming on the show yesterday and asking me how
things went. She crushed at a camp. It went really well.
She's already awake this morning telling Helen that she can't
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wait to go back, so thank god. So she is
ready for school. Oh, she's just ready for school. This camp,
by the way, guys, is at the school that she's
going to go to that she'll start in two weeks.
I wanted to kind of get her acclimated, so I
was really worried. I'm like, imagine she went Jada, But no,
she crushed it. She's she's miss Camp now. I asked
her specifically, this is like the mind of a four
year old. I was like, what did you do it
(03:32):
camp yesterday? How was it? She was like, I peed
in the toilet at the you know, in the bathroom,
and I was like, wow, that's so great. She goes,
but I have to tell you something. I didn't line
it with toilet paper like you always do when we
go out. I was like, what am I taught you? Nothing?
Speaker 3 (03:48):
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Speaker 1 (03:58):
She haven't eighty four to five Today August twenty fifth,
and beyond the win Heard around the world. Big keV
was in a mood yesterday and I can't say I
blame fireworks in the courtroom. With the jury being sent
home early, Kevin Runnington asked for a mistrial and it
came right after this.
Speaker 4 (04:19):
That was part of her expectation that she and the
children would be together in heaven with God. She was
raised as a Catholic and this, as I understand Catholic considerations,
that's not necessarily what happens. But when I ask her
(04:39):
about that, when I said, isn't suicide of mortal sin?
Speaker 5 (04:45):
She will yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
Kev's like, absolutely, absolutely not. There has to be a
separation between church and say. This is the second time
this has happened, and I think this does at some
point give Lindsay Clancy a very clear appeal. You cannot
be doing this, Judge obviously denying the mistrial. As we're
back in the courtroom today here he is explaining that.
Speaker 5 (05:08):
I'm not going to declare a mistrial at this time.
What I am going to do is I'm going to
bring the jury in. I gotta tell him to disregard it.
I'm going to tell him that it's an inappropriate ear
of inquiry and that this witness's understanding of Catholic dogma
Catholic teaching is irrelevant.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
This particular witness, this doctor, when he took the stand,
he said he basically believes Lindsay to be bipolar, but
he also doesn't believe she was having a psychotic break
during the time that she took the lives for children. Essentially,
his testimony was that she allegedly told him it took
her eighteen minutes to strangle the kids, and she told
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them during that time, like you hear him say, go
to God, Go to God. She said she heard an
external voice. That voice only spoke to her specifically during
that time. And that's why this doctor believes that it
makes it highly unusual to be psychosis if the voice
was isolated to the murders and not at other times. Now,
(06:12):
we also had another rebuttal witness on the standing today
that said during his testimony that Lindsay said her recollection
is fuzzy and foggy at times. So you really do
have both sides, guys. I think we're gonna get one
more witness on the stand, one last rebuttal witness, and
we could be looking at closing arguments, possibly as early
(06:32):
as this afternoon or even Wednesday. As a constant reminder
to you, especially with all of the craziness on social media,
remember this jury has to decide is Lindsay criminally responsible
for taking the lavest for three children or she mentally
insane at the time. All right, Chris Brown, that mean
is just out there on tour, like dancing around, doing
(06:56):
crazy things in the air and on ten bed. He's
earning a lot of money, a lot of royalties, and
you know where those moneies are going to rights former housekeeper.
He was just asked by a Los Angeles judge to
hand over thirteen million dollars to his former housekeeper. If
(07:18):
you don't remember that lawsuit, Marie was taking out the
trash and she was attacked by Chris Brown's two hundred
pounds Caucasian shepherd, leaving her with like insane facial scarring,
some of its permanent and partial vision loss. Chris was
in and around at the time, was afraid to call
the police, didn't want to make it a spectacle at
the home. The jury awarded eight hundred and eighty five
(07:39):
thousand dollars to the woman's sister for emotional distress, fifty
thousand dollars to her husband. You know, Chris said he
had made it clear that he had warned her over
and over about the security guard, but obviously that jury
ultimately ruled in her favor and now he has to
pay over thirteen million dollars. I did see though, that
(08:02):
Chris and Usher have just added dates to their tour,
so maybe at some point Chris will make it up,
but he's got a payout. Lastly, this one's just in
here for a good little smile, get a little laugh
for you guys. After talking about Lindsay Clancy, Matthew McConaughey
detailing why he decided to quit weed and what helped
him to quit smoking weed, the help comes from I
(08:25):
know you didn't see this coming. Janet Jackson.
Speaker 6 (08:28):
What a cool, groovy little tune.
Speaker 1 (08:30):
It's also the reason I quit smoking weed. It was
a night I was this particular night I was headed
to my own birthday party. Before I go on Buddy
Handson's joint was here. Man, it was not like the
wead i'd smoked before.
Speaker 5 (08:41):
I listened to Janet Jackson's Best Way Love Goes twenty
four Times Row.
Speaker 3 (08:46):
And when I finally got out of the car to
go into my birthday party, no one was in there
because it was over.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
They had all left because I sat in the freaking
car listen. I don't know this is I will. I'll
admit this is embarrassing. I don't know if you guys
listen to music the way I do. But when I
find a song I like. I will play that song
at nauseum to the point where the fireman's like, oh god,
(09:12):
He's like, damn it, what is this new song? Because
I know I mean at nauseum one hundred times. I
will just play it over and over and over until
I get sick of it, and then it goes away.
And then in a few months it'll pop up my
on my plays and I'm like, oh, I love this song.
But McConaughey has a good point. Now I want to
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hear it.
Speaker 3 (09:40):
That's the way loves the way to look.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
That's the way look. That's the way to look.
Speaker 7 (09:44):
That's the way loves the way to look.
Speaker 1 (09:46):
I mean, I don't think it'll make me stop drinking,
but I do enjoy the song. There's three things need
to know for Tuesday, August the twenty fifth. Talkbacks are
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I'd be like leaving me a personal voicemail. I can't
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Speaker 3 (10:15):
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Speaker 1 (10:21):
In ninety four or five. Well, guys, hi, hello, good morning.
Leave it to you. I knew that there wasn't gonna
take long. So this morning I was saying, how sometimes
it's like strange for me. I'll come in here and
I think it's six o'clock in the morning, and no
(10:42):
one's across from me today. So I'm just gonna talk
to you about what's going on in my head and
what's been going on in my head swirling around up
there is the wink heard round the world. I only
can picture it like Core is adjourned yesterday after just
absolute fireworks. There's almost a mistrial for Lindsay Clancy case.
We've got psychologists up there being like, I don't think
(11:03):
she had psycho says something, she actually knew what she
was doing. She was whatever. Court gets out early jury
is dismissed. Judge us all rise, everybody, everybody gets up.
They have risen and a camera starts panning like the
front row of the courtroom and then there there she
(11:23):
is a woman looks at the camera, smiles and winks
and I I've seen it eight hundred times At this point,
I can't get it out of my head because I'm like, honey,
what who are you winking? At four? What you were
at a murder trial for three little babies that are
no longer with us? A woman's whole life here is
(11:46):
on the line and you're winking at the It was
so off putting and just time in a place just
very strange to me. But I was like, who is she?
What's going on?
Speaker 4 (11:59):
Like?
Speaker 1 (12:00):
Who are these? I just needed answers, And you guys
are my favorite because you always slewth things out for me.
So now I'm getting blown up online and I appreciate it.
We have her name. I'm not gonna say her name.
You can find that, I'm sure if people are setting
it to me. But she works for Vanity Fair. She's
a reporter. Because that was another thing. I'm like, how
is she? Who is she? Why is she there? What's
(12:20):
going on? But this is the interesting part. Vanity Fair
reporter and apparently one of Lindsay Clancy's childhood friends, because
there were actual photos of her and Lindsay together when
they were really young, and there's pictures of her with
Kevin Reddington and Lindsay's lawyers. It says she shared in
an interview after day nineteen of the trial that her
(12:41):
father told her to smile next time, stating that she
quote looked bad when she was caught previously on camera
during the Lindsay Clancy trial. So the smile and wink
were at her dad.
Speaker 2 (12:55):
Which, Dad, that's the worst advice ever.
Speaker 1 (12:58):
You looked bad, Like why what?
Speaker 6 (13:01):
What?
Speaker 1 (13:01):
Why are you guys even chit chatting about that? Now.
I've also again I'm not gonna say her name, but
people are now sending me her her profile on online
and the comments and the dms and the things that
people are now saying to her, like are all so crazy?
Speaker 2 (13:20):
Yeah, And I don't think that a lot of those
things that are being said should.
Speaker 1 (13:23):
Be said, you know way. I mean, honestly, if I
could say anything to you or I'd be like, honey,
who are you winking at You're at a murder trial, like.
Speaker 2 (13:30):
Very distasteful, like bad place, right, you know, wrong time
to do that?
Speaker 1 (13:34):
What are we doing? That's what? Hey? What are we doing?
But people are in her dms, you guys, saying crazy stuff,
like wild things. I think that's a little bit too much.
But there's there's big still photos of her smiling and winking. Yeah,
and there's other women behind her, also smiling and winking
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at the camera. I don't know if how is anyone
in that court.
Speaker 8 (14:00):
I'm feeling happy like that is like what Every single
day before I report the news to you guys, and
before I talk about the Lindsay Clancy trial, I beg
myself to get through it without crying.
Speaker 1 (14:11):
I'm like, you can do this, you can get through it.
It's I mean, well I haven't every time. I've cried
multiple times trying to report on it. But this is wild,
Like I can't again, I cannot stand for some of
the comments that are being sent and thrown this woman's way,
like cuckoo creat You guys are nuts. But I'm not
shocked because the internet is the Internet. I just couldn't
(14:32):
believe that she was like, oh, the Cara's go bick,
the game's gemmick, and she's smiling and winking.
Speaker 2 (14:38):
And what I think is worse is she's kind of
excited that all of this is like going viral.
Speaker 1 (14:44):
And people are you know seeing her account now? Yeah,
she did write on her account AJ and I saw
this morning. She was like, thank you so much for
all of this engagement, all for just smiling at a camera.
And it's like, no, honey, you didn't just smile at
a camera. Yeah, that's my thing. This wasn't a specific
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This was a camera inside a courtroom and a murder
trial for three little babies. It's giving the ick.
Speaker 3 (15:10):
I don't like it.
Speaker 1 (15:11):
No, I don't.
Speaker 8 (15:12):
I don't like it either, and I don't it's I
don't know, guys.
Speaker 1 (15:16):
Eight seven seven six one seven nine four five eight
seven seven six one seven one nine four five. I
don't like what people are saying to her. But I
also feel like, who are you winking at?
Speaker 6 (15:28):
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Speaker 3 (15:30):
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Speaker 1 (15:38):
She haven't eighty four to five All right, guys. Tuesday,
August twenty fifth, Big Head Reddington was in a mood yesterday.
Cannot say that I blame him asking the judge for
a mistrial after this.
Speaker 4 (15:52):
That was part of her expectation that she and the
children would be together in heaven with God. She was
raised as a Catholic and this, as I understand Catholic considerations,
that's not necessarily what happens. But when I ask her
(16:12):
about that, when I said, isn't suicide of mortal sin?
Speaker 1 (16:19):
Yeah, yeah, it's like absolutely not. Wait a second, we
have to remove church from state here. People, we know that.
And this this has been a very fine line. And
I feel like because it's happened multiple times throughout this court,
throughout this trial, there is going to be a reason
for an appeal if you're one Lindsay Clancy. After but
absolute fireworks in Plymouth, the jury ends up being sent
home early. But the judge did deny the mistrial.
Speaker 5 (16:43):
I'm not going to declare a mistrial this time. What
I am going to do is I'm going to bring
the jury in. I'm gonna tell him to disregard it.
I'm going to tell him that it's an inappropriate ear
of inquiry and that this witness is understanding of Catholic dogma,
Catholic teaching is irrelevant.
Speaker 1 (17:02):
I think we can all agree on this. I understand
that we're gonna tell the jury to disregard it. But
in their brains are they really disregarding after somebody has
told you something and they say to you, let's pretelling.
If we never had this conversation, I will never forget
I will I'm gonna remember this conversation more. That specific doctor,
by the way, when he took the stand, his testimony
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was that he, you know, he said that Lindsey allegedly
told him that it took her eighteen minutes to take
the lives of the children. She said she told him
the kids are gonna go be with God during that time,
essentially because you know, she would be going with God
and they couldn't be without her. She didn't want them
to struggle without her. She also said that she heard
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this external voice, that she only heard that one specific time,
and the doctor says that makes it highly unusual for
him to be able to say it psychosis if the
voice was so isolated to just the murders and not
at other times. We also had a separate doctor who
said that Lindsay has said her recollection is fuzzy and
foggy at best, So I can only imagine that that
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jury is, you know, I don't know where their heads at.
It's got to be back and forth multiple times. We're
gonna have another rebetal witness on the stands today. Could
be that same doctor that we just heard from. Possible
closing arguments today, but I'm thinking most likely on Wednesday,
And as a reminder that I will always have you
keep in mind, this jury is made up of twelve
women and six men, and their job is to decide
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if Lindsay is to be criminally charged and responsible for
taking the lives for three kids, or if she was
mentally insane at the time. By the way, because we
discussed it so much earlier, we do now know who
the woman was that went five early yesterday for winking
at the cameras. I didn't say her name. I'm not
going to say her name, but it turns out she
is a reporter for Vanity Fair and a childhood friend
(18:49):
of Lindsay's. And she said that she smiled and winked
at the camera during a murder trial of three little
babies because her dad told her the last time he
saw her on camera, she didn't look so good because
she wasn't smiling. There, you have it, all right, Chris
Brown has to hand over his tour earnings and royalties
to pay off a massive thirteen million dollars judgment to
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his former housekeeper. If you don't remember this story, Maria
is at Chris Brown's house. She's taken out the trash.
She is then attacked by his two hundred pound Caucasian shepherd,
leaving her with both permanent facial scarring and partial vision loss.
Now Chris throughout the entire tiles, like I told her
a million times, stay away from the security guard, don't
go out there, but the jury ultimately ruled in her favor.
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At the time, Chris said he was afraid to call
on nine one one and abandoned the home and ran
because he didn't want the spectacle of it all. And
he still got it anyway. The jury awarded eight hundred
and eighty five thousand dollars to this woman's sister for
emotional distress, fifty thousand dollars to her husband, and, like
I said, overall, a massive thirteen million dollar judgment. I listen,
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Chris is going to continue on this tour. Chris just
added dates with Usher on this tour, so I think
he'll be able to make it back in the end.
But the tour itself. I think it's over sixty performances
that are going to run through December, all right. And lastly,
we got another breakup in Hollywood. Soriah has announced the
end of her engagement with Joey Badass. If you don't
(20:17):
know who Big Joe is ivastating one of his hit songs, Devastated.
Soriah shared the news on IG, saying she needs to
prioritize herself, protect her family. She's causing infidelity as the
(20:41):
primary reason for the split. It's so bad, but like
I love when the celebrity tells everything. It's like I
feel bad. I always think CARDI, you know, but then
I want her to tell us everything. So I appreciate
Sarah for giving us all the details she had. The
cheating occurred during some of the most vulnerable times in
her life, calling it a painful reality that she could
no longer accept. She used the announcement to send messages
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to other women, urging them to trust their instincts and
avoid compromising their self worth. Preach I like that. The couple,
by the way, welcome their first child last year, and
she stressed that she is still committed to keeping their
sons upbringing private amidst their superbation. We have not heard
from Joey Badass yet, so there you have it. He's
back on the market. That is three things that you
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need to know for Tuesday, August the twenty fifth. I've
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Speaker 3 (22:02):
You having ninety four five.
Speaker 1 (22:05):
Hi babe, Good morning Tuesday. Hope you're doing well. We
were going to be on the swipe here where we
talk about dating, love, relationships lack thereof. Are you with
somebody and you're going through it, and you want to
ask him some advice, You want to tell us the
first date story, you want to complain about being single.
Those are all my favorite. Usually my favorite calls eight
(22:25):
seven seven six, one seven, one nine four five. It
is eight seven seven, six, one seven, one nine four
or five. You're my co host today, So what's going on?
Hit us up? Rennie is in manch Hi, Renny, good morning,
Good morning. So you and your girlfriend we're in a
really good relationship. How long have we been together.
Speaker 7 (22:47):
We've been together for about at first, who were on
and off for a little bit, and we separated and
then we got back together. So I'm say, in total,
about a year and a half two years.
Speaker 1 (22:58):
Oh okay, I thought you were going to say, like
five six seven years after that, so it's it's still
kind of fresh, kind of new. Why did you guys separate?
Speaker 7 (23:08):
We just had some personal issues going on. I kind
of was a little bit of a hothead, and she
was ready to move down south, start her start her
life over.
Speaker 1 (23:19):
Wow, but she stayed for you in Manchester of all places.
She was like, she really loves you.
Speaker 9 (23:26):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (23:26):
No, So she did end up going to Florida. That's
where the separation came into place, she moved out there,
started going to school to be a nurse, and then
time kind of just passed and like kind of brought
us back together. And ever since being back together, we
(23:47):
have been happy. He's been good. We we've fixed our
differences and she's now back in New Hampshire. We're getting
ready to get our own place soon, and we are
expecting a baby. Remember.
Speaker 6 (24:03):
Wow.
Speaker 7 (24:04):
Yeah, So I was kind of just calling to reach
out to see if maybe there was that's the most
exciting story. But I was just calm, see if there
was anything you know that you guys could give me,
or anybody listening can tell me a story, anything that
kind of would help me be a better parent in
or even just preparing to be a parent.
Speaker 1 (24:23):
Well, I'm young.
Speaker 7 (24:24):
I'm only twenty five.
Speaker 1 (24:26):
Oh my god, you're a baby. And really, I mean,
you guys have only been together for a year and
a half, so you guys are still learning about each
other as well. How old is she?
Speaker 7 (24:36):
She's twenty six, got a year out me.
Speaker 1 (24:39):
Yeah, so you guys are you guys are definitely very young.
I mean, listen, I had my kids later in life,
I think. But regardless of the age, there is no
such thing as being prepared, Like you can't know everything.
Having a baby completely changes the game for the best.
(25:00):
But it's also just you know, it's it's crazy, and
it's it's a lot. I think one thing I'll say
too is it does put like a strain on the relationship.
You have to really focus on you guys, you know,
kind of keeping that bond because all of your energy
is going to go towards the baby. And since you
guys are young, we've only been together for a year
and a half, my advice would be to just you know,
(25:20):
be cognizance of that and really remember that you you know,
you made this baby with this beautiful partner that came
all the way back here to New Hampshire from Florida
for you, and you guys have to, you know, try
to like keep some time for yourselves as well.
Speaker 7 (25:37):
Okay, what is the I appreciate that I've actually noticed
already that it is it does put a little bit
of like a higga in in what we have going on.
Speaker 1 (25:49):
How of course, you know, how.
Speaker 7 (25:50):
We interact with each other. What was the when you
became a parent, what was the what was the thing
that made sure that you kept focus between you and
your husband.
Speaker 1 (26:05):
I mean, just keeping focus on trying to keep focus
because it can easily slip away.
Speaker 9 (26:11):
Right.
Speaker 1 (26:11):
You get there's a baby now, and you get into
this routine and everything's about eating, Like you will see
the first eight weeks of December for you, and that
baby comes, the only thing that matters is the baby fed?
Is the baby happy? Is the baby not crying? Does
the baby need a new diaper? I mean, it's a whirlwind.
Like you, I remember there were days where I didn't
even brush my teeth until like four pm because what
(26:32):
did it really matter? I wasn't leaving the house anyway.
But you just have, like again, you have to like
think about that and just remember that you made this
baby with this partner and that relationship needs flower watering
and flowering too. So yeah, but again, you guys are young,
so it's it's gonna be a lot. It's gonna be
a big it's gonna be a big life change, but
(26:53):
it will be amazing. I can't think about my life
without the kids in it now, and you'll get to
that point too. But you guys just got to remember,
do you do you have family and friends local?
Speaker 7 (27:05):
Yes, that's part of the reason why she wanted to
come back over here.
Speaker 1 (27:08):
Okay, perfectly. Her family's here.
Speaker 7 (27:13):
Yeah, her family here.
Speaker 1 (27:14):
Family. All right, this is big money. Village. Wait, and
that's what I was just about to say. And that's
what you need. It really does take a village every
once in a while. Hit that little date night action
and just you know, keep that relationship strong.
Speaker 7 (27:30):
Sounds good. Yeah, I've always wanted to be a dad
since I was young, so.
Speaker 1 (27:33):
It's gonna be.
Speaker 7 (27:35):
I'm excited.
Speaker 1 (27:36):
You got a job in a car? I do.
Speaker 7 (27:40):
I am currently at my job right now. I'm a
truck driver. That's it, talking to you guys with the headphones.
Speaker 1 (27:45):
And I love it. Employed with a car. All important things.
Before we have a child. You are you having a
boy or girl?
Speaker 7 (27:52):
Yes, ma'am it's a girl. Still no name, So if
anybody knows any good names, put them out there.
Speaker 6 (27:59):
Man.
Speaker 1 (27:59):
You guys here, it will come to you. It will
come to you, all right, buddy, Well, best of luck,
keep us posted. I can hear the excitement and your voice.
Are going to be the best dad.
Speaker 7 (28:10):
Thank you, guys so much. Appreciate Gamy ninety four or
five you guys every morning driving, so thank you.
Speaker 1 (28:16):
Thank you, thank you. I always love. I think it's
just easier for people to say when everyone's like, I
always love listening to you guys, I'm like, who who?
Who do we think they're referring to when they say
you guys? It is an easier thing to say because
I'll be like, hey, guys, could be one person. I
don't know, Well, I guess it's It's always been multiple people,
aren't you. Yeah, you are? You know I am. I'm
(28:36):
not alone. Anonymous is in Boston. Anonymous is going to
give us a hot take. Is this a hot take
that involves dating?
Speaker 4 (28:46):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (28:46):
Yeah, good morning guys, Mari.
Speaker 9 (28:48):
Yeah. My hot take is that adults need to stop
using their workplaces as sets of pop the balloon. It
is so frustrating just wanting to go to like a
grocery store and just wanted to like grapes and puppy food,
and you're being stopped up and down the aisles by
the actual staff.
Speaker 10 (29:03):
It needs to stop.
Speaker 9 (29:04):
Everyone going shopping. Isn't shopping for a partner.
Speaker 1 (29:07):
You know. AJ's actually the exact opposite, Like she wants
to go to the grocery store and buy her water
and grapes and get stocks by the employees. So where
what grocery store are you going to? Because we will
send her there.
Speaker 10 (29:19):
Tell her to go to the one in Grove Hall.
Speaker 9 (29:21):
There'll be a line of dust bunnies from the youngest
of the old dishes waiting and they're not doing gypsy cab.
Speaker 1 (29:27):
Okay, there you go, there you go. So you you
feel like when you leave the home like these the
guys are just they're all over you and you it's
too much.
Speaker 9 (29:37):
No, that's not the way I'm feeling.
Speaker 6 (29:39):
I'm feelings though.
Speaker 9 (29:39):
Maybe they don't own mirrors, and before they approach anyone
they should probably stop and look at one, because I
find it very disrespectful that if you still got sleep
on your face and your lip, you shouldn't be approaching anyone.
You should probably go down one of those aisles with
the lotion and hit that first, not try to hit
on women.
Speaker 1 (29:57):
Wow, all right, yeah, I got I think it's the
eyeboogi's out before you try to talk to anonymous.
Speaker 9 (30:03):
So do you feel the noose boogies come off the teeth?
Maybe wash and chains the uniform. I'm just saying, maybe
stand up straight and not look like lurch. Don't look
like the ministral cycle we are on. But all means
stand up straight and just don't follow me, stand at
the door, secure the premises.
Speaker 1 (30:22):
So then I'm gonna go ahead and assume that when
you're leaving the house you did dime ten. Guess you
have over men.
Speaker 9 (30:29):
I don't know if you I don't know if you
can tell. I'm get and dating and stuff.
Speaker 1 (30:33):
I know people are in the car like, well, this
woman must be going out looking like a prom queen
every time she's talking about Okay, yeah, you're just over it.
Speaker 9 (30:39):
No some some some sweatpants and crops. So that's what
I'm saying. If you're looking at me like this, then
I can only imagine what you're doing at home. Like again,
do we own mirrors? Because I'm coming to just shop?
Speaker 1 (30:50):
Who who hurt you?
Speaker 9 (30:54):
Uh? It's meant so I'm just you know, I'm just
trying to stay away from them. The things that I
am that bother me, I usually just hear from them,
So I'm trying to be peaceful. And it's like now
I got to get a sign that says I bite
not friendly because I try to do even the resting
bitch face doesn't work. It's still hey, miss lady, and
it's like, what do you want? Dragonfires go away?
Speaker 1 (31:14):
Yeah, no, I put stay kind of thing.
Speaker 9 (31:16):
Men are odd because the more you ignore them, the
more they like up in your face. The young ladies
over there that are cheating with the daddy issues, go
talk to them.
Speaker 1 (31:25):
Grow Grow grove. Where is it grocery Grove Hall, Grove Hall,
grocery store for Ajay.
Speaker 9 (31:33):
Specific dust bunny Caesar. You guys look for Caesar from.
Speaker 1 (31:37):
The dance and crop crocs aj and just look like
you don't want to talk to anybody. I'm writing all.
Speaker 6 (31:44):
These Yeah, resting bitch faits.
Speaker 1 (31:48):
Okay, Anonymous, it has been a time chatting with you.
Thank you so much for this advice.
Speaker 10 (31:54):
Yeah, you guys have a great one.
Speaker 9 (31:56):
Stay single.
Speaker 1 (32:02):
Damn I was She said, I'm out here looking like
you know, they're acting like the menstrual cycle that I have.
I said, well, okay, that was you know what, guy's
a swello of the show. Didn't see that coming. I
did not see her, Okay. I mean, it really is
the exact opposite, because most females are like hoping, like
(32:23):
I know, aj goes to the grocery store and on
purpose tries to get the smart orders from the top
shelf in hopes that somebody stops and says, let me
get your water, and then you guys, find love over.
Speaker 2 (32:33):
That absolutely and it has never happened, not even once.
Speaker 1 (32:36):
Now. I go out in public, no matter.
Speaker 2 (32:38):
Whether it's the grocery store or CBS or the gym anywhere.
Speaker 1 (32:42):
But I'm thinking I could find the love of my life. Yeah,
But do I ever get approached? And I no, no,
And I feel like also, if somebody's approaching you and
you are looking like a crackhead and you're just that's
even better, wow, because they love me my lowest for me.
(33:02):
Oh my god, you guys hi eight seven seven six
one seven one nine four five eight seven seven six
one seven one nine four or five. We're talking dating,
We're talking love, We're talking relationships. I'm here, AJ's gonna
head to grow, Paul, But what is happening? Are you single?
Do you need to vent? Do you want to tell
me about a first date? Are you in a relationship
and you need some advice? Eight seven seven six one
(33:24):
seven one nine four five call us? I don't need
a rich rich dot somebody. Oh what a fitting song
for this call. Hi everybody, good morning. It's actually the
jam In Morning Show. Courtney is from Texas. Just moved here.
Hi cork ad morning, good morning. So where where do you? Whereabouts?
(33:44):
Do you live here now? And how come you move
from Texas?
Speaker 10 (33:47):
No, I moved from Massachusetts to Texas.
Speaker 1 (33:50):
Oh come joy, I got it from that. Oh damn,
come back you guys.
Speaker 10 (33:54):
I know I'm still listening to Jammin in the Morning
because I've missed you guys so much.
Speaker 1 (33:58):
I love it. I'm trying to give you like a
little piece of home. Whereabouts Texas? Did you move for
a job? Yes?
Speaker 10 (34:05):
I did, Victoria, Texas all right, south of south Wow.
Speaker 1 (34:10):
Okay. One thing about Texas that you love that we
don't have here?
Speaker 10 (34:15):
Barbecue, baby, probably really good.
Speaker 1 (34:18):
I will say, shout out to Eminem's Barbecue in door Tester.
That's some of the best barbecue I've ever had in
my life. If you're looking for good barbecue, run here.
But anyways, we digress. I want to get to what
you really want to chat about, all right, So start
dating a guy. Let's get specific here. When you moved
to Texas, you'd been talking to him before Texas, Like,
who is this man.
Speaker 10 (34:39):
Yeah, I just changed my dating app locations so that
I could like chat with people and meet new people
ahead of time, not even necessarily for dating, just maybe
as friends or something like that, to be like, hey,
what's up with the local scene? Where do I go?
Speaker 1 (34:53):
Yeah?
Speaker 10 (34:54):
And when we met up for a glass of wine
when I got to town, he turned out to be
really funny, sexy, smart, like super smart, which I'm totally
attracted to. So we kept seeing each other and last weekend,
so I guess it's like six weeks in last weekend,
you know, we both kind of confirmed, like we're going
to be exclusive, We're in this relationship blah blah because
(35:19):
we've been kind of taken to slow and we get
ready to like be intimate, and I'm thinking this is
gonna be crazy. It's gonna be good. I hope everything
else matches up to the wonderful qualities he has. And
he could not close the deal.
Speaker 1 (35:40):
There we go, could not close the deal? Could he
get opposite down to even close?
Speaker 10 (35:47):
No? No, I mean he he took care of me.
Speaker 1 (35:52):
Okay, respects, but so points.
Speaker 10 (35:55):
Points for that. But no, he he could not get
the opposite of could not do that okay, and so
like I'm wondering if that's if that's a normal thing,
because he's like the forty one. And then the second
part is I tried to, uh, you know, give a
give a boy, assist, help, help in the group.
Speaker 1 (36:15):
Effort, right, you have to team active, Yeah, and uh,
nothing happened.
Speaker 10 (36:21):
It was like a microkay, And I've never experienced a
micro and I don't know what.
Speaker 6 (36:31):
I don't know what to do.
Speaker 10 (36:33):
I would be a horrible human.
Speaker 6 (36:34):
If I just wow, like all.
Speaker 10 (36:36):
Right, well, never never saw this person.
Speaker 1 (36:38):
Let's attack the first part of this, which is, you know,
you're asking if a forty one year old man, if
that's it's that's normal behavior. Alex is going to be
hanging Alex Well, Alex's has always been a part of
the show. Alex is a little bit of a baby
Alex twenty nine right, correct in your time, You're the
first go round with a female. Would you would would
(37:00):
you find that to be normal? Like could there be
a situation where like nerves play in here? Like can
you can you give this guy a pass? Is what
I'm saying. I would definitely give him pass. In my
fairly young ish age, it's my my has let me
down before. Okay, yeah, I would just ask I want
(37:23):
to ask, all right, but he does or something because
that's a factor.
Speaker 10 (37:28):
Ye were we both had two drinks at dinner.
Speaker 7 (37:31):
That was it.
Speaker 1 (37:32):
That's a little something. Yeah, he could have gotten nervous.
You know, there's a build up. I'm with you this.
Speaker 10 (37:40):
He is a very, He's a very. He's very shy, shy.
Speaker 1 (37:44):
He also could have said, okay, this is what it
is I'm about here. But he made sure that like
you know, oh, time happened for you, which I think
is huge. I love we all we are being as
careful as we possibly can guys. So yeah, so that
that I think is big.
Speaker 10 (38:02):
And to be fair. The next morning, like I still
spend the night. The next morning, he woke up and
he's like, hey, do you want to go to a
Mexican bakery and get conscious?
Speaker 1 (38:09):
You can't have it all. He's perfect. He woke up, Do
you want to go to a Mexican bakery?
Speaker 3 (38:15):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (38:15):
Yes, I do. All right here, well here, I guess
we need to put this question back on you. With
all of those things being said, can you see yourself still?
Because I you know, I think the micro part of
it all might be more of a and by the way, like,
let's just get this out while we can. Average is great,
(38:38):
like no, but I'm not saying we need hammer time
like average is. Guys, and this shout out if you
have an AF like, we're cool with that. Micro's off.
I don't know. I don't know about that.
Speaker 10 (38:54):
I think I don't think I can live with that. Okay,
I feel horrible.
Speaker 1 (38:58):
I know.
Speaker 10 (38:58):
I feel like technically we don't know what kind of
growth could happen because in.
Speaker 1 (39:05):
The relationship and other places we don't know. Cour, I
think you have to give this guy another chance, Alex
is saying. And by the way, shout out to you
Alex for admitting that it could It could be nerves,
it could be the booze, like your man has let
you down and so this could have happened to him.
I'm sure this guy is reeling Court being like damn,
like I need another you know, and I don't know
(39:28):
where you guys are at in the relationship. Six weeks
pretty early. But could you like make a little jokey
about it and be like we gotta we gotta get
back to it.
Speaker 10 (39:35):
Oh, I would feel so bad. Well, I can make
a joke about more.
Speaker 1 (39:40):
Yeah, like we got to do that again.
Speaker 10 (39:42):
Like we need we need to we need another sleepover,
this time at my house. Something right.
Speaker 1 (39:46):
I think we do that. I think we do that
and yeah, and we see. I am there's things on
this show that I've been invested in. Not like this, though.
I need now, we all need to know for the
next go round. If I need to know, I have
to know.
Speaker 10 (40:03):
Yeah, well, I want this to happen so much too.
I need a backup. So what I need is to
know if there are women out there who have dealt
with micro situations, how did they address them? Did they
say for the.
Speaker 1 (40:19):
Like, for the go of this, I will give the
number and see if we can get anybody to But
I think we have to be careful. I think we
should just say, uh, if you like or I've had
a mini size candy bar, a fun size candy bar. Okay,
if you have had a fun sized candy bar, give
(40:40):
us a call right now. We don't have a ton
of time, but tell Courtney there is life beyond the
fun size. Okay, that's what we need to know. Are
are we all agreement here on the code? Are we
all right? Court hand? The line hang on the line, like, ladies,
I don't know if anybody's been here with the fun size,
but if you have eight seven seven six one seven
nine five eight seven seven six one seven five fun
(41:04):
sized candy bars and need love too. Hi guys, good morning.
It is Ashley and the Gym in morning show. I'm
crying at both Alex and AJ telling me that when
you guys, when they answered the phones, you guys were like, Hi,
I'm calling about the candy bars. Okay, So a couple
DMS that I got coming in. First off, if you're
just tuning in Court left mask. She lives in Texas.
She listens on the app every day. Just started getting
(41:26):
a guy in Texas. They've been seeing each other a
little over six months, got intimate and her initial question
was is it normal for somebody around forty to maybe
not get excited the first time? And does size matter?
Alex waded in and was like, Hey, this guy could
have had nerves. It could have been liquer. Yes, you're
(41:46):
and you're yeah, you're a lot younger. All right, so
he's nine. I'm sad. So I you know, we're we're
trying to be careful here. So for the size, part.
We're calling it a fun size. She's kind of asking, like,
can she live with this? Like she she she doesn't
know some of my dms that are coming in hot.
(42:08):
My husband was a fund size, barely noticed the difference
in certain ways. He knew how to use other tools
to make things work a different one. The first time
I was intimate with my new boyfriend of two years,
I thought it was a fun size. Turns out it wasn't.
You really never know he could be stressed those drinks
if he had drinks before, he was probably trying to
(42:29):
ease the nerves. Anonymous, good morning, Court is listening. Hi Anonymous,
Hi babe, Hi, how are you good? So you too?
Have you've encountered a fun size? I have?
Speaker 10 (42:46):
Okay, yes, yes?
Speaker 1 (42:49):
Did you feel a letdown after that? Did you proceed? Like? Can? She?
Is there? Life after a fun size candy bar?
Speaker 11 (42:59):
The only his life after it was It's definitely a transition.
For sure, you know, you can have some fun I
think with it, but ultimately for me it wasn't in
the end. But I think it depends on the woman's energy,
what she's going to give and how she's going.
Speaker 10 (43:16):
To perceive it. For me, it was life changing.
Speaker 11 (43:18):
So I googled some facts like how to make this work?
Got it because I was like, okay, this is different
for me.
Speaker 6 (43:26):
So and he he was he validated. He knew that
he was only able to feed me fun sized candy,
but he was aware, and he just he said, you know,
don't worry about it.
Speaker 11 (43:40):
We'll have plenty of fun time regardless if I have
a friend.
Speaker 6 (43:45):
And then almost wanted to gasp a little bit, but.
Speaker 1 (43:50):
You yeah, And that's the thing I feel like, if
you're like a bag of fun size, like you know that,
and you're going to do everything you can to like
let her know that you can give king size energy.
Thank you for the coll Anonymous Pinky also encountered and
is still dating a fun size situation. And you're you're
(44:11):
having fun, girl, You're loving it.
Speaker 10 (44:14):
I sure him.
Speaker 1 (44:15):
Wow, that's what I'm saying. Like, and by the ways,
my dms are saying the same thing. I think. I
think Corny has to give this guy another chance, don't.
Speaker 9 (44:22):
You she does?
Speaker 1 (44:25):
Yeah, Okay, all right, Pinky. That shorts the point. Alana
is in Rhode Island, on the quite opposite of everybody else.
Alana courts listening, go ahead.
Speaker 12 (44:36):
All right, corn, I'm telling you, if you want to
give it another try, please do. Don't go off my
like my opinion. But I was on a dating app.
I saw this person, great person, okay, very attractive.
Speaker 6 (44:49):
He was like six feet tall.
Speaker 12 (44:51):
When we went to go.
Speaker 1 (44:52):
Have fun, that fun was not funny.
Speaker 6 (44:54):
Okay, Okay, I was like, what the heck?
Speaker 12 (44:58):
After that day, I probably go did him and you know,
he reached out a couple of times and it was
a little messed up on my part.
Speaker 6 (45:05):
But I'm sorry. I couldn't settle.
Speaker 1 (45:07):
Yeah, no, I mean, listen, you shouldn't settle for a
fun size. If you want a king size, that's period.
Like that's fine, and that's good. But I think, you know,
sometimes you just need a couple of bites, a lot
of thank you for the call, uh court, good morning,
good morning, Hi back to you. Yeah, hey, I think
it's overwhelming. This man deserves another chance because, like, let's
(45:28):
be honest, he knows, he knows what's happening, and so
I think we have to we have to do one
more sleepover test, test the water again, see if it
was nerves, because everything else sounds so great, you know,
like it seems like he's a really good dude. I
mean waking up and saying, should we go to a bakery?
The hell? Like I want that in my marriage.
Speaker 10 (45:49):
You know, he really is, and he's a good quality,
like decent human being.
Speaker 1 (45:54):
Yeah, which is nice.
Speaker 10 (45:56):
I definitely want to.
Speaker 1 (45:56):
Give it another try.
Speaker 10 (45:57):
But yes I don't. I'm not saying I have to
have Kingside been like standard size would be fine.
Speaker 1 (46:03):
Same me too, I don't. I'm right there with you, like,
but again, maybe we don't know. We're gonna have to
see so do let us know. Do keep us posted.
I hate that I'm doing this to you, but I
will find I will find you and hunt you down
in Texas if you don't call me back.
Speaker 10 (46:19):
Okay, hopefully there will be an update after this weekend.
Speaker 1 (46:23):
Play Cass. We were all gonna be thinking about those
candy bars for some time. So thank you so much.
Thanks for the call. You're welcome. Oh my god. It's
just every time we have conversations like this, my boss
is like, you know, Ashley, you really gotta you really
gotta be careful. I don't know how much more careful
(46:44):
I can be. Fun size candy bars, that's what we're
name in this podcast Hi guys, good morning,
Oh baby, oh baby, wake it up. It's Tuesday, six
o eight. Hi, everybody, good morning. Sometimes I think to myself,
I like, look across the way, no one, and I'm like, hmm,
what am I going to tell you guys about, either
(00:20):
my night, last night, my morning? Something that popped off?
Like what do we have here? Because I don't have
anyone else to ask? You know, I have aj aj
could pop in, but for real, I'm like thinking, hmm,
what should I chat to everybody about this morning? And honestly,
I can only get but one thing. I just have
(00:42):
this loop in my head. Has anybody seen the video
of the woman at Villnsay Clancy trialing yesterday? It's it's
I'm I'm you may or may not have seen it,
but I'm sure there was like an all rise and
this woman in the front row of the courtroom like
stands up and they're fi and she winks at the camera.
(01:02):
Very bizarre, bizarre, Like I don't what do we are?
We we watched the same thing here, like is it
are we at a murder trial for three little babies?
Or like the are you trying to bag? Are you
trying to hook up with somebody at this thing? I
I have never seen anything like it in my life. Yeah,
it's very tone duff. It's beyond and I you know,
(01:25):
I think about all of the videos that we got
out of the Karen Reed trial. Nothing in this even
close in this realm nothing it was. Everybody was very stow.
I mean somebody was gone, so everybody was very stoic.
No one's there's certainly nothing to laugh or smile it
and wait for it, wink at who are you winking at?
(01:48):
At this camp? I cannot let it go again. I
was thinking to myself, if somebody was here, I would
chit chat with him. How are you? What you doing?
I want to be talking about this, But I guys,
I can't get it out of my head. I cannot
get this woman out of me. And she's got to
be local. Who is she? What's she doing?
Speaker 2 (02:03):
She's getting slammed right now because yeah, what are you
trying to get a date while you're saying?
Speaker 1 (02:07):
You know, it's very bizarre. There's no there's no way
people haven't found her to be like what And I'm
sure we have to believe that she has some sort
of rationale as to why she thought that winking at
a camera at a murder trial for three little babies?
Was the play?
Speaker 2 (02:26):
I mean, hopefully she regrets it now and she's like
what did I do?
Speaker 1 (02:29):
She was like giddy, She was like giggling and smiling
a winky. And by the way, the elderly lady next
door was like, I am not playing any of these games.
Who is this woman? What she is she writing for
a publication? Is she a friend? That was the craziest
video I have ever seen in my life. Well, it's
up there for sure.
Speaker 2 (02:48):
I feel like we have to find out more information
about her now.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
Yeah, I'm dying to know what she has to say
about it. Because but anyways, like the fireworks in the
courtroom yesterday, which we'll get to in a little bit,
I got a ton of dms from you guys about
Layla coming on the show yesterday and asking me how
things went. She crushed at a camp. It went really well.
She's already awake this morning telling Helen that she can't
(03:12):
wait to go back, so thank god. So she is
ready for school. Oh, she's just ready for school. This camp,
by the way, guys, is at the school that she's
going to go to that she'll start in two weeks.
I wanted to kind of get her acclimated, so I
was really worried. I'm like, imagine she went Jada, But no,
she crushed it. She's she's miss Camp now. I asked
her specifically, this is like the mind of a four
year old. I was like, what did you do it
(03:32):
camp yesterday? How was it? She was like, I peed
in the toilet at the you know, in the bathroom,
and I was like, wow, that's so great. She goes,
but I have to tell you something. I didn't line
it with toilet paper like you always do when we
go out. I was like, what am I taught you? Nothing?
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was in a mood yesterday and I can't say I
blame fireworks in the courtroom. With the jury being sent
home early, Kevin Runnington asked for a mistrial and it
came right after this.
Speaker 4 (04:19):
That was part of her expectation that she and the
children would be together in heaven with God. She was
raised as a Catholic and this, as I understand Catholic considerations,
that's not necessarily what happens. But when I ask her
(04:39):
about that, when I said, isn't suicide of mortal sin?
Speaker 5 (04:45):
She will yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
Kev's like, absolutely, absolutely not. There has to be a
separation between church and say. This is the second time
this has happened, and I think this does at some
point give Lindsay Clancy a very clear appeal. You cannot
be doing this, Judge obviously denying the mistrial. As we're
back in the courtroom today here he is explaining that.
Speaker 5 (05:08):
I'm not going to declare a mistrial at this time.
What I am going to do is I'm going to
bring the jury in. I gotta tell him to disregard it.
I'm going to tell him that it's an inappropriate ear
of inquiry and that this witness's understanding of Catholic dogma
Catholic teaching is irrelevant.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
This particular witness, this doctor, when he took the stand,
he said he basically believes Lindsay to be bipolar, but
he also doesn't believe she was having a psychotic break
during the time that she took the lives for children. Essentially,
his testimony was that she allegedly told him it took
her eighteen minutes to strangle the kids, and she told
(05:49):
them during that time, like you hear him say, go
to God, Go to God. She said she heard an
external voice. That voice only spoke to her specifically during
that time. And that's why this doctor believes that it
makes it highly unusual to be psychosis if the voice
was isolated to the murders and not at other times. Now,
(06:12):
we also had another rebuttal witness on the standing today
that said during his testimony that Lindsay said her recollection
is fuzzy and foggy at times. So you really do
have both sides, guys. I think we're gonna get one
more witness on the stand, one last rebuttal witness, and
we could be looking at closing arguments, possibly as early
(06:32):
as this afternoon or even Wednesday. As a constant reminder
to you, especially with all of the craziness on social media,
remember this jury has to decide is Lindsay criminally responsible
for taking the lavest for three children or she mentally
insane at the time. All right, Chris Brown, that mean
is just out there on tour, like dancing around, doing
(06:56):
crazy things in the air and on ten bed. He's
earning a lot of money, a lot of royalties, and
you know where those moneies are going to rights former housekeeper.
He was just asked by a Los Angeles judge to
hand over thirteen million dollars to his former housekeeper. If
(07:18):
you don't remember that lawsuit, Marie was taking out the
trash and she was attacked by Chris Brown's two hundred
pounds Caucasian shepherd, leaving her with like insane facial scarring,
some of its permanent and partial vision loss. Chris was
in and around at the time, was afraid to call
the police, didn't want to make it a spectacle at
the home. The jury awarded eight hundred and eighty five
(07:39):
thousand dollars to the woman's sister for emotional distress, fifty
thousand dollars to her husband. You know, Chris said he
had made it clear that he had warned her over
and over about the security guard, but obviously that jury
ultimately ruled in her favor and now he has to
pay over thirteen million dollars. I did see though, that
(08:02):
Chris and Usher have just added dates to their tour,
so maybe at some point Chris will make it up,
but he's got a payout. Lastly, this one's just in
here for a good little smile, get a little laugh
for you guys. After talking about Lindsay Clancy, Matthew McConaughey
detailing why he decided to quit weed and what helped
him to quit smoking weed, the help comes from I
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know you didn't see this coming. Janet Jackson.
Speaker 6 (08:28):
What a cool, groovy little tune.
Speaker 1 (08:30):
It's also the reason I quit smoking weed. It was
a night I was this particular night I was headed
to my own birthday party. Before I go on Buddy
Handson's joint was here. Man, it was not like the
wead i'd smoked before.
Speaker 5 (08:41):
I listened to Janet Jackson's Best Way Love Goes twenty
four Times Row.
Speaker 3 (08:46):
And when I finally got out of the car to
go into my birthday party, no one was in there
because it was over.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
They had all left because I sat in the freaking
car listen. I don't know this is I will. I'll
admit this is embarrassing. I don't know if you guys
listen to music the way I do. But when I
find a song I like. I will play that song
at nauseum to the point where the fireman's like, oh god,
(09:12):
He's like, damn it, what is this new song? Because
I know I mean at nauseum one hundred times. I
will just play it over and over and over until
I get sick of it, and then it goes away.
And then in a few months it'll pop up my
on my plays and I'm like, oh, I love this song.
But McConaughey has a good point. Now I want to
(09:37):
hear it.
Speaker 3 (09:40):
That's the way loves the way to look.
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That's the way look. That's the way to look.
Speaker 7 (09:44):
That's the way loves the way to look.
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I mean, I don't think it'll make me stop drinking,
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Speaker 1 (10:21):
In ninety four or five. Well, guys, hi, hello, good morning.
Leave it to you. I knew that there wasn't gonna
take long. So this morning I was saying, how sometimes
it's like strange for me. I'll come in here and
I think it's six o'clock in the morning, and no
(10:42):
one's across from me today. So I'm just gonna talk
to you about what's going on in my head and
what's been going on in my head swirling around up
there is the wink heard round the world. I only
can picture it like Core is adjourned yesterday after just
absolute fireworks. There's almost a mistrial for Lindsay Clancy case.
We've got psychologists up there being like, I don't think
(11:03):
she had psycho says something, she actually knew what she
was doing. She was whatever. Court gets out early jury
is dismissed. Judge us all rise, everybody, everybody gets up.
They have risen and a camera starts panning like the
front row of the courtroom and then there there she
(11:23):
is a woman looks at the camera, smiles and winks
and I I've seen it eight hundred times At this point,
I can't get it out of my head because I'm like, honey,
what who are you winking? At four? What you were
at a murder trial for three little babies that are
no longer with us? A woman's whole life here is
(11:46):
on the line and you're winking at the It was
so off putting and just time in a place just
very strange to me. But I was like, who is she?
What's going on?
Speaker 4 (11:59):
Like?
Speaker 1 (12:00):
Who are these? I just needed answers, And you guys
are my favorite because you always slewth things out for me.
So now I'm getting blown up online and I appreciate it.
We have her name. I'm not gonna say her name.
You can find that, I'm sure if people are setting
it to me. But she works for Vanity Fair. She's
a reporter. Because that was another thing. I'm like, how
is she? Who is she? Why is she there? What's
(12:20):
going on? But this is the interesting part. Vanity Fair
reporter and apparently one of Lindsay Clancy's childhood friends, because
there were actual photos of her and Lindsay together when
they were really young, and there's pictures of her with
Kevin Reddington and Lindsay's lawyers. It says she shared in
an interview after day nineteen of the trial that her
(12:41):
father told her to smile next time, stating that she
quote looked bad when she was caught previously on camera
during the Lindsay Clancy trial. So the smile and wink
were at her dad.
Speaker 2 (12:55):
Which, Dad, that's the worst advice ever.
Speaker 1 (12:58):
You looked bad, Like why what?
Speaker 6 (13:01):
What?
Speaker 1 (13:01):
Why are you guys even chit chatting about that? Now.
I've also again I'm not gonna say her name, but
people are now sending me her her profile on online
and the comments and the dms and the things that
people are now saying to her, like are all so crazy?
Speaker 2 (13:20):
Yeah, And I don't think that a lot of those
things that are being said should.
Speaker 1 (13:23):
Be said, you know way. I mean, honestly, if I
could say anything to you or I'd be like, honey,
who are you winking at You're at a murder trial, like.
Speaker 2 (13:30):
Very distasteful, like bad place, right, you know, wrong time
to do that?
Speaker 1 (13:34):
What are we doing? That's what? Hey? What are we doing?
But people are in her dms, you guys, saying crazy stuff,
like wild things. I think that's a little bit too much.
But there's there's big still photos of her smiling and winking. Yeah,
and there's other women behind her, also smiling and winking
(13:56):
at the camera. I don't know if how is anyone
in that court.
Speaker 8 (14:00):
I'm feeling happy like that is like what Every single
day before I report the news to you guys, and
before I talk about the Lindsay Clancy trial, I beg
myself to get through it without crying.
Speaker 1 (14:11):
I'm like, you can do this, you can get through it.
It's I mean, well I haven't every time. I've cried
multiple times trying to report on it. But this is wild,
Like I can't again, I cannot stand for some of
the comments that are being sent and thrown this woman's way,
like cuckoo creat You guys are nuts. But I'm not
shocked because the internet is the Internet. I just couldn't
(14:32):
believe that she was like, oh, the Cara's go bick,
the game's gemmick, and she's smiling and winking.
Speaker 2 (14:38):
And what I think is worse is she's kind of
excited that all of this is like going viral.
Speaker 1 (14:44):
And people are you know seeing her account now? Yeah,
she did write on her account AJ and I saw
this morning. She was like, thank you so much for
all of this engagement, all for just smiling at a camera.
And it's like, no, honey, you didn't just smile at
a camera. Yeah, that's my thing. This wasn't a specific
(15:05):
This was a camera inside a courtroom and a murder
trial for three little babies. It's giving the ick.
Speaker 3 (15:10):
I don't like it.
Speaker 1 (15:11):
No, I don't.
Speaker 8 (15:12):
I don't like it either, and I don't it's I
don't know, guys.
Speaker 1 (15:16):
Eight seven seven six one seven nine four five eight
seven seven six one seven one nine four five. I
don't like what people are saying to her. But I
also feel like, who are you winking at?
Speaker 6 (15:28):
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Speaker 1 (15:38):
She haven't eighty four to five All right, guys. Tuesday,
August twenty fifth, Big Head Reddington was in a mood yesterday.
Cannot say that I blame him asking the judge for
a mistrial after this.
Speaker 4 (15:52):
That was part of her expectation that she and the
children would be together in heaven with God. She was
raised as a Catholic and this, as I understand Catholic considerations,
that's not necessarily what happens. But when I ask her
(16:12):
about that, when I said, isn't suicide of mortal sin?
Speaker 1 (16:19):
Yeah, yeah, it's like absolutely not. Wait a second, we
have to remove church from state here. People, we know that.
And this this has been a very fine line. And
I feel like because it's happened multiple times throughout this court,
throughout this trial, there is going to be a reason
for an appeal if you're one Lindsay Clancy. After but
absolute fireworks in Plymouth, the jury ends up being sent
home early. But the judge did deny the mistrial.
Speaker 5 (16:43):
I'm not going to declare a mistrial this time. What
I am going to do is I'm going to bring
the jury in. I'm gonna tell him to disregard it.
I'm going to tell him that it's an inappropriate ear
of inquiry and that this witness is understanding of Catholic dogma,
Catholic teaching is irrelevant.
Speaker 1 (17:02):
I think we can all agree on this. I understand
that we're gonna tell the jury to disregard it. But
in their brains are they really disregarding after somebody has
told you something and they say to you, let's pretelling.
If we never had this conversation, I will never forget
I will I'm gonna remember this conversation more. That specific doctor,
by the way, when he took the stand, his testimony
(17:24):
was that he, you know, he said that Lindsey allegedly
told him that it took her eighteen minutes to take
the lives of the children. She said she told him
the kids are gonna go be with God during that time,
essentially because you know, she would be going with God
and they couldn't be without her. She didn't want them
to struggle without her. She also said that she heard
(17:45):
this external voice, that she only heard that one specific time,
and the doctor says that makes it highly unusual for
him to be able to say it psychosis if the
voice was so isolated to just the murders and not
at other times. We also had a separate doctor who
said that Lindsay has said her recollection is fuzzy and
foggy at best, So I can only imagine that that
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jury is, you know, I don't know where their heads at.
It's got to be back and forth multiple times. We're
gonna have another rebetal witness on the stands today. Could
be that same doctor that we just heard from. Possible
closing arguments today, but I'm thinking most likely on Wednesday,
And as a reminder that I will always have you
keep in mind, this jury is made up of twelve
women and six men, and their job is to decide
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if Lindsay is to be criminally charged and responsible for
taking the lives for three kids, or if she was
mentally insane at the time. By the way, because we
discussed it so much earlier, we do now know who
the woman was that went five early yesterday for winking
at the cameras. I didn't say her name. I'm not
going to say her name, but it turns out she
is a reporter for Vanity Fair and a childhood friend
(18:49):
of Lindsay's. And she said that she smiled and winked
at the camera during a murder trial of three little
babies because her dad told her the last time he
saw her on camera, she didn't look so good because
she wasn't smiling. There, you have it, all right, Chris
Brown has to hand over his tour earnings and royalties
to pay off a massive thirteen million dollars judgment to
(19:10):
his former housekeeper. If you don't remember this story, Maria
is at Chris Brown's house. She's taken out the trash.
She is then attacked by his two hundred pound Caucasian shepherd,
leaving her with both permanent facial scarring and partial vision loss.
Now Chris throughout the entire tiles, like I told her
a million times, stay away from the security guard, don't
go out there, but the jury ultimately ruled in her favor.
(19:32):
At the time, Chris said he was afraid to call
on nine one one and abandoned the home and ran
because he didn't want the spectacle of it all. And
he still got it anyway. The jury awarded eight hundred
and eighty five thousand dollars to this woman's sister for
emotional distress, fifty thousand dollars to her husband, and, like
I said, overall, a massive thirteen million dollar judgment. I listen,
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Chris is going to continue on this tour. Chris just
added dates with Usher on this tour, so I think
he'll be able to make it back in the end.
But the tour itself. I think it's over sixty performances
that are going to run through December, all right. And lastly,
we got another breakup in Hollywood. Soriah has announced the
end of her engagement with Joey Badass. If you don't
(20:17):
know who Big Joe is ivastating one of his hit songs, Devastated.
Soriah shared the news on IG, saying she needs to
prioritize herself, protect her family. She's causing infidelity as the
(20:41):
primary reason for the split. It's so bad, but like
I love when the celebrity tells everything. It's like I
feel bad. I always think CARDI, you know, but then
I want her to tell us everything. So I appreciate
Sarah for giving us all the details she had. The
cheating occurred during some of the most vulnerable times in
her life, calling it a painful reality that she could
no longer accept. She used the announcement to send messages
(21:04):
to other women, urging them to trust their instincts and
avoid compromising their self worth. Preach I like that. The couple,
by the way, welcome their first child last year, and
she stressed that she is still committed to keeping their
sons upbringing private amidst their superbation. We have not heard
from Joey Badass yet, so there you have it. He's
back on the market. That is three things that you
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Speaker 3 (22:02):
You having ninety four five.
Speaker 1 (22:05):
Hi babe, Good morning Tuesday. Hope you're doing well. We
were going to be on the swipe here where we
talk about dating, love, relationships lack thereof. Are you with
somebody and you're going through it, and you want to
ask him some advice, You want to tell us the
first date story, you want to complain about being single.
Those are all my favorite. Usually my favorite calls eight
(22:25):
seven seven six, one seven, one nine four five. It
is eight seven seven, six, one seven, one nine four
or five. You're my co host today, So what's going on?
Hit us up? Rennie is in manch Hi, Renny, good morning,
Good morning. So you and your girlfriend we're in a
really good relationship. How long have we been together.
Speaker 7 (22:47):
We've been together for about at first, who were on
and off for a little bit, and we separated and
then we got back together. So I'm say, in total,
about a year and a half two years.
Speaker 1 (22:58):
Oh okay, I thought you were going to say, like
five six seven years after that, so it's it's still
kind of fresh, kind of new. Why did you guys separate?
Speaker 7 (23:08):
We just had some personal issues going on. I kind
of was a little bit of a hothead, and she
was ready to move down south, start her start her
life over.
Speaker 1 (23:19):
Wow, but she stayed for you in Manchester of all places.
She was like, she really loves you.
Speaker 9 (23:26):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (23:26):
No, So she did end up going to Florida. That's
where the separation came into place, she moved out there,
started going to school to be a nurse, and then
time kind of just passed and like kind of brought
us back together. And ever since being back together, we
(23:47):
have been happy. He's been good. We we've fixed our
differences and she's now back in New Hampshire. We're getting
ready to get our own place soon, and we are
expecting a baby. Remember.
Speaker 6 (24:03):
Wow.
Speaker 7 (24:04):
Yeah, So I was kind of just calling to reach
out to see if maybe there was that's the most
exciting story. But I was just calm, see if there
was anything you know that you guys could give me,
or anybody listening can tell me a story, anything that
kind of would help me be a better parent in
or even just preparing to be a parent.
Speaker 1 (24:23):
Well, I'm young.
Speaker 7 (24:24):
I'm only twenty five.
Speaker 1 (24:26):
Oh my god, you're a baby. And really, I mean,
you guys have only been together for a year and
a half, so you guys are still learning about each
other as well. How old is she?
Speaker 7 (24:36):
She's twenty six, got a year out me.
Speaker 1 (24:39):
Yeah, so you guys are you guys are definitely very young.
I mean, listen, I had my kids later in life,
I think. But regardless of the age, there is no
such thing as being prepared, Like you can't know everything.
Having a baby completely changes the game for the best.
(25:00):
But it's also just you know, it's it's crazy, and
it's it's a lot. I think one thing I'll say
too is it does put like a strain on the relationship.
You have to really focus on you guys, you know,
kind of keeping that bond because all of your energy
is going to go towards the baby. And since you
guys are young, we've only been together for a year
and a half, my advice would be to just you know,
(25:20):
be cognizance of that and really remember that you you know,
you made this baby with this beautiful partner that came
all the way back here to New Hampshire from Florida
for you, and you guys have to, you know, try
to like keep some time for yourselves as well.
Speaker 7 (25:37):
Okay, what is the I appreciate that I've actually noticed
already that it is it does put a little bit
of like a higga in in what we have going on.
Speaker 1 (25:49):
How of course, you know, how.
Speaker 7 (25:50):
We interact with each other. What was the when you
became a parent, what was the what was the thing
that made sure that you kept focus between you and
your husband.
Speaker 1 (26:05):
I mean, just keeping focus on trying to keep focus
because it can easily slip away.
Speaker 9 (26:11):
Right.
Speaker 1 (26:11):
You get there's a baby now, and you get into
this routine and everything's about eating, Like you will see
the first eight weeks of December for you, and that
baby comes, the only thing that matters is the baby fed?
Is the baby happy? Is the baby not crying? Does
the baby need a new diaper? I mean, it's a whirlwind.
Like you, I remember there were days where I didn't
even brush my teeth until like four pm because what
(26:32):
did it really matter? I wasn't leaving the house anyway.
But you just have, like again, you have to like
think about that and just remember that you made this
baby with this partner and that relationship needs flower watering
and flowering too. So yeah, but again, you guys are young,
so it's it's gonna be a lot. It's gonna be
a big it's gonna be a big life change, but
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it will be amazing. I can't think about my life
without the kids in it now, and you'll get to
that point too. But you guys just got to remember,
do you do you have family and friends local?
Speaker 7 (27:05):
Yes, that's part of the reason why she wanted to
come back over here.
Speaker 1 (27:08):
Okay, perfectly. Her family's here.
Speaker 7 (27:13):
Yeah, her family here.
Speaker 1 (27:14):
Family. All right, this is big money. Village. Wait, and
that's what I was just about to say. And that's
what you need. It really does take a village every
once in a while. Hit that little date night action
and just you know, keep that relationship strong.
Speaker 7 (27:30):
Sounds good. Yeah, I've always wanted to be a dad
since I was young, so.
Speaker 1 (27:33):
It's gonna be.
Speaker 7 (27:35):
I'm excited.
Speaker 1 (27:36):
You got a job in a car? I do.
Speaker 7 (27:40):
I am currently at my job right now. I'm a
truck driver. That's it, talking to you guys with the headphones.
Speaker 1 (27:45):
And I love it. Employed with a car. All important things.
Before we have a child. You are you having a
boy or girl?
Speaker 7 (27:52):
Yes, ma'am it's a girl. Still no name, So if
anybody knows any good names, put them out there.
Speaker 6 (27:59):
Man.
Speaker 1 (27:59):
You guys here, it will come to you. It will
come to you, all right, buddy, Well, best of luck,
keep us posted. I can hear the excitement and your voice.
Are going to be the best dad.
Speaker 7 (28:10):
Thank you, guys so much. Appreciate Gamy ninety four or
five you guys every morning driving, so thank you.
Speaker 1 (28:16):
Thank you, thank you. I always love. I think it's
just easier for people to say when everyone's like, I
always love listening to you guys, I'm like, who who?
Who do we think they're referring to when they say
you guys? It is an easier thing to say because
I'll be like, hey, guys, could be one person. I
don't know, Well, I guess it's It's always been multiple people,
aren't you. Yeah, you are? You know I am. I'm
(28:36):
not alone. Anonymous is in Boston. Anonymous is going to
give us a hot take. Is this a hot take
that involves dating?
Speaker 4 (28:46):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (28:46):
Yeah, good morning guys, Mari.
Speaker 9 (28:48):
Yeah. My hot take is that adults need to stop
using their workplaces as sets of pop the balloon. It
is so frustrating just wanting to go to like a
grocery store and just wanted to like grapes and puppy food,
and you're being stopped up and down the aisles by
the actual staff.
Speaker 10 (29:03):
It needs to stop.
Speaker 9 (29:04):
Everyone going shopping. Isn't shopping for a partner.
Speaker 1 (29:07):
You know. AJ's actually the exact opposite, Like she wants
to go to the grocery store and buy her water
and grapes and get stocks by the employees. So where
what grocery store are you going to? Because we will
send her there.
Speaker 10 (29:19):
Tell her to go to the one in Grove Hall.
Speaker 9 (29:21):
There'll be a line of dust bunnies from the youngest
of the old dishes waiting and they're not doing gypsy cab.
Speaker 1 (29:27):
Okay, there you go, there you go. So you you
feel like when you leave the home like these the
guys are just they're all over you and you it's
too much.
Speaker 9 (29:37):
No, that's not the way I'm feeling.
Speaker 6 (29:39):
I'm feelings though.
Speaker 9 (29:39):
Maybe they don't own mirrors, and before they approach anyone
they should probably stop and look at one, because I
find it very disrespectful that if you still got sleep
on your face and your lip, you shouldn't be approaching anyone.
You should probably go down one of those aisles with
the lotion and hit that first, not try to hit
on women.
Speaker 1 (29:57):
Wow, all right, yeah, I got I think it's the
eyeboogi's out before you try to talk to anonymous.
Speaker 9 (30:03):
So do you feel the noose boogies come off the teeth?
Maybe wash and chains the uniform. I'm just saying, maybe
stand up straight and not look like lurch. Don't look
like the ministral cycle we are on. But all means
stand up straight and just don't follow me, stand at
the door, secure the premises.
Speaker 1 (30:22):
So then I'm gonna go ahead and assume that when
you're leaving the house you did dime ten. Guess you
have over men.
Speaker 9 (30:29):
I don't know if you I don't know if you
can tell. I'm get and dating and stuff.
Speaker 1 (30:33):
I know people are in the car like, well, this
woman must be going out looking like a prom queen
every time she's talking about Okay, yeah, you're just over it.
Speaker 9 (30:39):
No some some some sweatpants and crops. So that's what
I'm saying. If you're looking at me like this, then
I can only imagine what you're doing at home. Like again,
do we own mirrors? Because I'm coming to just shop?
Speaker 1 (30:50):
Who who hurt you?
Speaker 9 (30:54):
Uh? It's meant so I'm just you know, I'm just
trying to stay away from them. The things that I
am that bother me, I usually just hear from them,
So I'm trying to be peaceful. And it's like now
I got to get a sign that says I bite
not friendly because I try to do even the resting
bitch face doesn't work. It's still hey, miss lady, and
it's like, what do you want? Dragonfires go away?
Speaker 1 (31:14):
Yeah, no, I put stay kind of thing.
Speaker 9 (31:16):
Men are odd because the more you ignore them, the
more they like up in your face. The young ladies
over there that are cheating with the daddy issues, go
talk to them.
Speaker 1 (31:25):
Grow Grow grove. Where is it grocery Grove Hall, Grove Hall,
grocery store for Ajay.
Speaker 9 (31:33):
Specific dust bunny Caesar. You guys look for Caesar from.
Speaker 1 (31:37):
The dance and crop crocs aj and just look like
you don't want to talk to anybody. I'm writing all.
Speaker 6 (31:44):
These Yeah, resting bitch faits.
Speaker 1 (31:48):
Okay, Anonymous, it has been a time chatting with you.
Thank you so much for this advice.
Speaker 10 (31:54):
Yeah, you guys have a great one.
Speaker 9 (31:56):
Stay single.
Speaker 1 (32:02):
Damn I was She said, I'm out here looking like
you know, they're acting like the menstrual cycle that I have.
I said, well, okay, that was you know what, guy's
a swello of the show. Didn't see that coming. I
did not see her, Okay. I mean, it really is
the exact opposite, because most females are like hoping, like
(32:23):
I know, aj goes to the grocery store and on
purpose tries to get the smart orders from the top
shelf in hopes that somebody stops and says, let me
get your water, and then you guys, find love over.
Speaker 2 (32:33):
That absolutely and it has never happened, not even once.
Speaker 1 (32:36):
Now. I go out in public, no matter.
Speaker 2 (32:38):
Whether it's the grocery store or CBS or the gym anywhere.
Speaker 1 (32:42):
But I'm thinking I could find the love of my life. Yeah,
But do I ever get approached? And I no, no,
And I feel like also, if somebody's approaching you and
you are looking like a crackhead and you're just that's
even better, wow, because they love me my lowest for me.
(33:02):
Oh my god, you guys hi eight seven seven six
one seven one nine four five eight seven seven six
one seven one nine four or five. We're talking dating,
We're talking love, We're talking relationships. I'm here, AJ's gonna
head to grow, Paul, But what is happening? Are you single?
Do you need to vent? Do you want to tell
me about a first date? Are you in a relationship
and you need some advice? Eight seven seven six one
(33:24):
seven one nine four five call us? I don't need
a rich rich dot somebody. Oh what a fitting song
for this call. Hi everybody, good morning. It's actually the
jam In Morning Show. Courtney is from Texas. Just moved here.
Hi cork ad morning, good morning. So where where do you? Whereabouts?
(33:44):
Do you live here now? And how come you move
from Texas?
Speaker 10 (33:47):
No, I moved from Massachusetts to Texas.
Speaker 1 (33:50):
Oh come joy, I got it from that. Oh damn,
come back you guys.
Speaker 10 (33:54):
I know I'm still listening to Jammin in the Morning
because I've missed you guys so much.
Speaker 1 (33:58):
I love it. I'm trying to give you like a
little piece of home. Whereabouts Texas? Did you move for
a job? Yes?
Speaker 10 (34:05):
I did, Victoria, Texas all right, south of south Wow.
Speaker 1 (34:10):
Okay. One thing about Texas that you love that we
don't have here?
Speaker 10 (34:15):
Barbecue, baby, probably really good.
Speaker 1 (34:18):
I will say, shout out to Eminem's Barbecue in door Tester.
That's some of the best barbecue I've ever had in
my life. If you're looking for good barbecue, run here.
But anyways, we digress. I want to get to what
you really want to chat about, all right, So start
dating a guy. Let's get specific here. When you moved
to Texas, you'd been talking to him before Texas, Like,
who is this man.
Speaker 10 (34:39):
Yeah, I just changed my dating app locations so that
I could like chat with people and meet new people
ahead of time, not even necessarily for dating, just maybe
as friends or something like that, to be like, hey,
what's up with the local scene? Where do I go?
Speaker 1 (34:53):
Yeah?
Speaker 10 (34:54):
And when we met up for a glass of wine
when I got to town, he turned out to be
really funny, sexy, smart, like super smart, which I'm totally
attracted to. So we kept seeing each other and last weekend,
so I guess it's like six weeks in last weekend,
you know, we both kind of confirmed, like we're going
to be exclusive, We're in this relationship blah blah because
(35:19):
we've been kind of taken to slow and we get
ready to like be intimate, and I'm thinking this is
gonna be crazy. It's gonna be good. I hope everything
else matches up to the wonderful qualities he has. And
he could not close the deal.
Speaker 1 (35:40):
There we go, could not close the deal? Could he
get opposite down to even close?
Speaker 10 (35:47):
No? No, I mean he he took care of me.
Speaker 1 (35:52):
Okay, respects, but so points.
Speaker 10 (35:55):
Points for that. But no, he he could not get
the opposite of could not do that okay, and so
like I'm wondering if that's if that's a normal thing,
because he's like the forty one. And then the second
part is I tried to, uh, you know, give a
give a boy, assist, help, help in the group.
Speaker 1 (36:15):
Effort, right, you have to team active, Yeah, and uh,
nothing happened.
Speaker 10 (36:21):
It was like a microkay, And I've never experienced a
micro and I don't know what.
Speaker 6 (36:31):
I don't know what to do.
Speaker 10 (36:33):
I would be a horrible human.
Speaker 6 (36:34):
If I just wow, like all.
Speaker 10 (36:36):
Right, well, never never saw this person.
Speaker 1 (36:38):
Let's attack the first part of this, which is, you know,
you're asking if a forty one year old man, if
that's it's that's normal behavior. Alex is going to be
hanging Alex Well, Alex's has always been a part of
the show. Alex is a little bit of a baby
Alex twenty nine right, correct in your time, You're the
first go round with a female. Would you would would
(37:00):
you find that to be normal? Like could there be
a situation where like nerves play in here? Like can
you can you give this guy a pass? Is what
I'm saying. I would definitely give him pass. In my
fairly young ish age, it's my my has let me
down before. Okay, yeah, I would just ask I want
(37:23):
to ask, all right, but he does or something because
that's a factor.
Speaker 10 (37:28):
Ye were we both had two drinks at dinner.
Speaker 7 (37:31):
That was it.
Speaker 1 (37:32):
That's a little something. Yeah, he could have gotten nervous.
You know, there's a build up. I'm with you this.
Speaker 10 (37:40):
He is a very, He's a very. He's very shy, shy.
Speaker 1 (37:44):
He also could have said, okay, this is what it
is I'm about here. But he made sure that like
you know, oh, time happened for you, which I think
is huge. I love we all we are being as
careful as we possibly can guys. So yeah, so that
that I think is big.
Speaker 10 (38:02):
And to be fair. The next morning, like I still
spend the night. The next morning, he woke up and
he's like, hey, do you want to go to a
Mexican bakery and get conscious?
Speaker 1 (38:09):
You can't have it all. He's perfect. He woke up, Do
you want to go to a Mexican bakery?
Speaker 3 (38:15):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (38:15):
Yes, I do. All right here, well here, I guess
we need to put this question back on you. With
all of those things being said, can you see yourself still?
Because I you know, I think the micro part of
it all might be more of a and by the way, like,
let's just get this out while we can. Average is great,
(38:38):
like no, but I'm not saying we need hammer time
like average is. Guys, and this shout out if you
have an AF like, we're cool with that. Micro's off.
I don't know. I don't know about that.
Speaker 10 (38:54):
I think I don't think I can live with that. Okay,
I feel horrible.
Speaker 1 (38:58):
I know.
Speaker 10 (38:58):
I feel like technically we don't know what kind of
growth could happen because in.
Speaker 1 (39:05):
The relationship and other places we don't know. Cour, I
think you have to give this guy another chance, Alex
is saying. And by the way, shout out to you
Alex for admitting that it could It could be nerves,
it could be the booze, like your man has let
you down and so this could have happened to him.
I'm sure this guy is reeling Court being like damn,
like I need another you know, and I don't know
(39:28):
where you guys are at in the relationship. Six weeks
pretty early. But could you like make a little jokey
about it and be like we gotta we gotta get
back to it.
Speaker 10 (39:35):
Oh, I would feel so bad. Well, I can make
a joke about more.
Speaker 1 (39:40):
Yeah, like we got to do that again.
Speaker 10 (39:42):
Like we need we need to we need another sleepover,
this time at my house. Something right.
Speaker 1 (39:46):
I think we do that. I think we do that
and yeah, and we see. I am there's things on
this show that I've been invested in. Not like this, though.
I need now, we all need to know for the
next go round. If I need to know, I have
to know.
Speaker 10 (40:03):
Yeah, well, I want this to happen so much too.
I need a backup. So what I need is to
know if there are women out there who have dealt
with micro situations, how did they address them? Did they
say for the.
Speaker 1 (40:19):
Like, for the go of this, I will give the
number and see if we can get anybody to But
I think we have to be careful. I think we
should just say, uh, if you like or I've had
a mini size candy bar, a fun size candy bar. Okay,
if you have had a fun sized candy bar, give
(40:40):
us a call right now. We don't have a ton
of time, but tell Courtney there is life beyond the
fun size. Okay, that's what we need to know. Are
are we all agreement here on the code? Are we
all right? Court hand? The line hang on the line, like, ladies,
I don't know if anybody's been here with the fun size,
but if you have eight seven seven six one seven
nine five eight seven seven six one seven five fun
(41:04):
sized candy bars and need love too. Hi guys, good morning.
It is Ashley and the Gym in morning show. I'm
crying at both Alex and AJ telling me that when
you guys, when they answered the phones, you guys were like, Hi,
I'm calling about the candy bars. Okay, So a couple
DMS that I got coming in. First off, if you're
just tuning in Court left mask. She lives in Texas.
She listens on the app every day. Just started getting
(41:26):
a guy in Texas. They've been seeing each other a
little over six months, got intimate and her initial question
was is it normal for somebody around forty to maybe
not get excited the first time? And does size matter?
Alex waded in and was like, Hey, this guy could
have had nerves. It could have been liquer. Yes, you're
(41:46):
and you're yeah, you're a lot younger. All right, so
he's nine. I'm sad. So I you know, we're we're
trying to be careful here. So for the size, part.
We're calling it a fun size. She's kind of asking, like,
can she live with this? Like she she she doesn't
know some of my dms that are coming in hot.
(42:08):
My husband was a fund size, barely noticed the difference
in certain ways. He knew how to use other tools
to make things work a different one. The first time
I was intimate with my new boyfriend of two years,
I thought it was a fun size. Turns out it wasn't.
You really never know he could be stressed those drinks
if he had drinks before, he was probably trying to
(42:29):
ease the nerves. Anonymous, good morning, Court is listening. Hi Anonymous,
Hi babe, Hi, how are you good? So you too?
Have you've encountered a fun size? I have?
Speaker 10 (42:46):
Okay, yes, yes?
Speaker 1 (42:49):
Did you feel a letdown after that? Did you proceed? Like? Can? She?
Is there? Life after a fun size candy bar?
Speaker 11 (42:59):
The only his life after it was It's definitely a transition.
For sure, you know, you can have some fun I
think with it, but ultimately for me it wasn't in
the end. But I think it depends on the woman's energy,
what she's going to give and how she's going.
Speaker 10 (43:16):
To perceive it. For me, it was life changing.
Speaker 11 (43:18):
So I googled some facts like how to make this work?
Got it because I was like, okay, this is different
for me.
Speaker 6 (43:26):
So and he he was he validated. He knew that
he was only able to feed me fun sized candy,
but he was aware, and he just he said, you know,
don't worry about it.
Speaker 11 (43:40):
We'll have plenty of fun time regardless if I have
a friend.
Speaker 6 (43:45):
And then almost wanted to gasp a little bit, but.
Speaker 1 (43:50):
You yeah, And that's the thing I feel like, if
you're like a bag of fun size, like you know that,
and you're going to do everything you can to like
let her know that you can give king size energy.
Thank you for the coll Anonymous Pinky also encountered and
is still dating a fun size situation. And you're you're
(44:11):
having fun, girl, You're loving it.
Speaker 10 (44:14):
I sure him.
Speaker 1 (44:15):
Wow, that's what I'm saying. Like, and by the ways,
my dms are saying the same thing. I think. I
think Corny has to give this guy another chance, don't.
Speaker 9 (44:22):
You she does?
Speaker 1 (44:25):
Yeah, Okay, all right, Pinky. That shorts the point. Alana
is in Rhode Island, on the quite opposite of everybody else.
Alana courts listening, go ahead.
Speaker 12 (44:36):
All right, corn, I'm telling you, if you want to
give it another try, please do. Don't go off my
like my opinion. But I was on a dating app.
I saw this person, great person, okay, very attractive.
Speaker 6 (44:49):
He was like six feet tall.
Speaker 12 (44:51):
When we went to go.
Speaker 1 (44:52):
Have fun, that fun was not funny.
Speaker 6 (44:54):
Okay, Okay, I was like, what the heck?
Speaker 12 (44:58):
After that day, I probably go did him and you know,
he reached out a couple of times and it was
a little messed up on my part.
Speaker 6 (45:05):
But I'm sorry. I couldn't settle.
Speaker 1 (45:07):
Yeah, no, I mean, listen, you shouldn't settle for a
fun size. If you want a king size, that's period.
Like that's fine, and that's good. But I think, you know,
sometimes you just need a couple of bites, a lot
of thank you for the call, uh court, good morning,
good morning, Hi back to you. Yeah, hey, I think
it's overwhelming. This man deserves another chance because, like, let's
(45:28):
be honest, he knows, he knows what's happening, and so
I think we have to we have to do one
more sleepover test, test the water again, see if it
was nerves, because everything else sounds so great, you know,
like it seems like he's a really good dude. I
mean waking up and saying, should we go to a bakery?
The hell? Like I want that in my marriage.
Speaker 10 (45:49):
You know, he really is, and he's a good quality,
like decent human being.
Speaker 1 (45:54):
Yeah, which is nice.
Speaker 10 (45:56):
I definitely want to.
Speaker 1 (45:56):
Give it another try.
Speaker 10 (45:57):
But yes I don't. I'm not saying I have to
have Kingside been like standard size would be fine.
Speaker 1 (46:03):
Same me too, I don't. I'm right there with you, like,
but again, maybe we don't know. We're gonna have to
see so do let us know. Do keep us posted.
I hate that I'm doing this to you, but I
will find I will find you and hunt you down
in Texas if you don't call me back.
Speaker 10 (46:19):
Okay, hopefully there will be an update after this weekend.
Speaker 1 (46:23):
Play Cass. We were all gonna be thinking about those
candy bars for some time. So thank you so much.
Thanks for the call. You're welcome. Oh my god. It's
just every time we have conversations like this, my boss
is like, you know, Ashley, you really gotta you really
gotta be careful. I don't know how much more careful
(46:44):
I can be. Fun size candy bars, that's what we're
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