June 30, 2026 • 27 mins
Ashlee needs to give an update on the biggest joke there is....AJ's dating life
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
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This position for Paraguay byes.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
Hoday Germany? Olcome bah, come.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Oh my god, it's so exciting. Tuesday, June thirtieth, and
you heard it right there at Germany eliminated by Paraguay
after penalty shootout in extra time, four to three. And
I'm happy for those that came and traveled from Paraguay
for this because Germany was talking a lot of smack.
Speaker 1 (00:47):
I was watching German like news.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
I saw clip. But I'm saying that Paraguay was no
threat at all. That we're a third tier team, so
we never give up, you know, we fight until we
fight until we die. Well, listen, shout out to that
third tier time team that's sent in Germany packing right
on home just in time for October Fest. The last
game is next week at Boston Stadium. It's the quarter final.
We're packing up the World Cup bag. I'm really sad
(01:12):
about it. I know, it's crazy, it is crazy. We
have just had such a delightful experience, really of all
of the countries that have come here. I mean, listen,
I think we all know who's who's number one in
our hearts. I don't think that'll change.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
It was funny.
Speaker 5 (01:25):
Maybe we should stop saying all the different countries that
come here because it was really just a Scottish right like, respectfully.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
No, I know now, listen, I do feel like the
Netherlands had a little thing going on with the Viking.
I did enjoy that a close second, let's just say that.
But nobody's beating that top Scot No, nobody, and even
Miami didn't welcome the Scots like we did.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
Oh they didn't. The Scots didn't like Miami right now.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
They didn't.
Speaker 5 (01:51):
We want to go back to Boston. The didn't like
New York either, they said, they said, Boston is the place.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
Boston's the spot. All right. Well, one thing I've said
over and over and over again. It is a beautiful
thing to see how prideful everybody is. So the World
Cup obviously continues. It's just the last game will be
next Thursday here, the quarter final, all right. I always
give credit where credit is due. Jewels brought this to
me yesterday. He's like ash Cardi B went on live
after the BET Awards. I don't know if you want
to play this, and I was like, let's hold off,
(02:17):
let's concentrate on the BET Awards because we had a
lot going on. But as the day went, that story
about Cardi B being on live and talking about Bea
really went. And it's so fitting because I'm staring at Jules, who,
by the way, is in bea Mert right now, like
just heads. He's just like mister b he hass on,
that's a He's just like obsessed. So what happened was
(02:41):
just to kind of like reframe the whole thing for you.
Cardi is performing at the BET Awards. She performs pretty
and petty. Here's a clip, Hey a song, Hey Hey, okay,
and then Miss Bay sad time my preak God not too.
(03:02):
I've sat the dumb, the send for meself. Every time
I pray, I thank God, I'm not you put a
gun to my head. Name five be a song? Nobody
does Boom You're dead? Okay, Like that's a lie. I
listen to that song and every time I'm like, I
hate Bea too. I don't even know b It probably
a nice lady. Everybody makes you want to when you
hear that song. Cardie's not stupid. She knows that she
(03:24):
doesn't perform that song in the BET Awards, Everybody's like wait,
what like that song goes so after her performance, she
probably saw a few things online and she wants to
spread a different kind of message. I really really loved
that song. It turns people up.
Speaker 6 (03:40):
However, I know, I know my fans is gonna hate this,
but please don't pick on that girl. I am very
big against internet like bullying. Unless my fans have to,
unless my fans got a dress, don't have to. But
if somebody not bothering me, and I feel that she's
not bothering me, I don't want. I don't want to
the reason why somebody gets on the Internet and have
(04:02):
a bad day or get the pressed, or feel bad
or feel like the world is against them, because I really.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
Went through that before.
Speaker 6 (04:08):
I really really went through that before, and like I
went through that in twenty eighteen, in twenty nineteen.
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Twenty twenty, twenty twenty one, twenty twenty.
Speaker 6 (04:17):
Two, when all these bitches was against me, when all
these blogs was against me, when every single day it
was a bad viral tweet about me and I do
like teaching bitches a lesson, Like it's like you think
you me bitch, I'll show you. But then after a while,
like I'm one of those people they're like, I'll kill you,
and then I feel bad.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
That I killed you. Remorse. Yes. I love when she
listed every single year instead of just being like yo
from like twenty eighteen to twenty twenty two, I wasn't well.
She was like, I am going to list to make
sure you guys can math here on this. I like
the message. I think her point is like yo, me
and Bea, Like we're not going back and forth right now.
So when I perform this song, people come from Bea. Obviously,
(04:56):
the whole premise is like nobody can name five songs
from Bea. You're her shirt. I wasn't going to put
you on blast last hour, but now I will.
Speaker 5 (05:03):
A whole lot of money. Okay, there's a whole lot
of you gotta make me do five, dog, yeah that's
the thing, or boom, you're dead? Can you so one?
Speaker 1 (05:12):
I could name five? You put me on the spot.
Speaker 3 (05:14):
At least give me two?
Speaker 1 (05:16):
Is okay?
Speaker 3 (05:18):
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Is it expensive?
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They have sales every comm Yeah, it's pricey. But it's
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Speaker 1 (06:13):
I like quality. I'll pay the money for what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (06:16):
They will last you. But anyways, he is going to
be Will Ferrell. That is, he's going to portray Lonnie
Hawkins in a new upcoming golf film on Netflix. So
he's being Lonnie in the campaign.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
His body says here tired, his skims say one more round.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
Built from them? Who's still there's got it. When Kim
does skims collections and she has people model, it's usually
like supermodels or like you know, Haley Bieber's modeled for like,
like she always has these people that are I saw
Will Ferrell's what is this? But now it makes sense.
It's like promo for the film. But also he's wearing skims.
So there you have. There's three things need to know
(06:56):
for Tuesday, June thirtieth. We're doing it Don Oliver at
the Garden. Earlier I was talking about Don and somebody
wrote me and was like, I didn't know they were
doing a Don Julio. Eventually they got who said Don Julio.
Now they probably sell it, but I said, d t
not Trump. Don Tolliver is gonna be at the Garden
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performing songs like this, Who's I know malice excuh.
Speaker 7 (07:26):
Live so much money on a weak till.
Speaker 5 (07:28):
Hey Hey okay, mister hey, I'm all right.
Speaker 6 (07:35):
There you have it.
Speaker 3 (07:36):
That's the man that's gonna be at the garden. You
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Speaker 3 (07:58):
Hi, guys, good morning is Ashley and the gym in
morning show? Quick shout out to Candy. Candy is going
to don Tolliver. When Jules was getting Candy's information, we
don't want to give her email out, but just know that,
like Candy's Candy had quite the interesting email email address.
Speaker 5 (08:17):
So I was like, you give that to you a job,
like you'll apply the jobs with this email.
Speaker 3 (08:22):
You give this to your place. And there was a
curse word in there, but anyway, shout to ourgo Candy,
Candy is going to down Tolliver. You just pop talk
at your next shot in the three pm hour and
then of course we'll hook you up again tomorrow at
eight twenty. All right, we are doing beyond the swipe
right now, so we're talking like dating, love relationship black
thereof we just had a pretty heavy conversation about relationships
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and what can happen in one. So I think, just
to keep this conversation a little lighter, we will go
to the biggest joke of all That was too easy,
that like that like wrote itself. But no, oh, I
was like, how did we didn't You and I both agreed.
We were like, okay, we're doing this DM dilemma. We
(09:06):
knew what it was about. We're like, this is a
heavy like, this's gonna be a heavy conversation. What should
we talk about for beyond the swipe? Now? Mind you,
if you have something going on in your relationship and
you want to call us, you certainly can eight seven
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You want to tell me a story? You wanted to
first say something funny happen? But I just I so
badly wish that Santi wasn't in Spain because I would
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want him on for this conversation. We're back to this,
And I say we're back to this because there was
a time period a little while ago when AJ basically said, like,
this guy kept staring at you in the gym, like
she was convinced Jules. She was like, he's eyeing me
like he wants me. What should I do? How do
I handle?
Speaker 8 (09:48):
Uh?
Speaker 3 (09:48):
It turns out that guy had a whole girlfriend. Like
he wasn't staring at her like it was just the gym,
so he his eyeballs were probably just moving around like
he's looking at me. He's looking at me. And then
we were imitating what she was looking like when her
I was trying to make eye contact, and then it
was the whole thing. But guys, she comes in here
yesterday and what does she say to me?
Speaker 9 (10:08):
I have a new gym crush and we're locking eyes.
Speaker 3 (10:11):
At the gym? But are we though? Like, who's to
say we're locking eyes? Like set the scene for us?
Speaker 9 (10:18):
Well, it's happened over a couple of gym sessions at
this point. This past Sunday, I went and as soon
as I walked in, as soon as I walked in,
We're looking at each other.
Speaker 3 (10:30):
And I'm like, oh my god, was there anywhere else
for him to look?
Speaker 7 (10:33):
Like?
Speaker 3 (10:33):
I need to know that the man had options. Absolutely, Okay,
there's a whole gym. Yeah, but if you were walking
in the front door and maybe he looked over at
the door because you walked in or you know.
Speaker 9 (10:44):
Honestly, he should have had like his back to me
the way that he was standing, so he had options.
Speaker 3 (10:48):
Okay, right, sure, So then fast forward. There was a
couple other times where you as well feel you feel
like you guys locked eyes. Yeah.
Speaker 9 (10:57):
So there was one time I was on the treadmill.
He picked a treadmill, maybe about like five or six
away from me, and there was one time where we
were both locking and we looked at each other and
then he was.
Speaker 3 (11:09):
So there was this one time where we were breathing
and we looked at each other's direction.
Speaker 9 (11:14):
Okay, go on, and then when he was done, he
went into the locker room and he came out, and
when he came out, we looked at each other again,
and it was like a not like this quick like, oh,
you observe someone and then you look away immediately like
we locked.
Speaker 3 (11:28):
I get that, but are you staring at him, like
is he looking at you like out of fear of
like okay, well she's looking at me. I gotta look
at her again. I don't know. I'm worried about it
with you because we've been we have literally been down
this exact same road. The feeling is mutual, it's not
just me. So that does this one feel different than
the last one seriously? Or does it feel just about
the same? It feels the same? Okay, oh okay. Now
(11:51):
when you mentioned this to me and Jeules off Air Jewels,
you were like, enough's enough. She just needs a shoot.
Speaker 1 (11:56):
Her shot shoots your shot. Shoot, shoot shoots your shot.
Speaker 3 (12:00):
You are working out at the gym, how would you
want a girl to approach you? Because like, there are
some guys and girls that are like, the gym is
not the place for it. I think the opposite. Every
guy I've ever really like dated, I've I've had a
gym type of setup with.
Speaker 5 (12:15):
Yeah, I hate I hate even looking at girls. I
hate that girls that go to my gym. When I
went to the distracted, Yeah, they distract me, Like I
want to tell you, yeah.
Speaker 1 (12:26):
It's been a while.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
He was about that.
Speaker 5 (12:29):
I needed to know that answer. But you know, I
hate being distracted at the gym. I I want to
go there, focus on what I'm doing, getting out, getting
get out, and I do not want to see any ladies.
Speaker 1 (12:41):
I don't want to see I don't want to see
none of that.
Speaker 3 (12:43):
Yeah, because they look good and you get distracted. Correct, Okay, yeah,
he's not throwing shots shade guys. No no, no, no, no,
all right, fine, I get that. But if you think
she should choo, what what is she? What is How
does one approach what is she saying? In a gym setting?
Speaker 5 (12:58):
If if if Ashley, excuse me, if AJ is indeed
correct and he is locking eyes with her, I think
it's okay to say, you know, go up to him
and say, hey, what's up?
Speaker 1 (13:11):
You know, are you single? Or my name is AJ?
Speaker 3 (13:14):
Are you single? Just doesn't It just sounds so gress and.
Speaker 9 (13:17):
It's just so hard in the gym because everyone's got
their headphones in and then.
Speaker 3 (13:21):
He's gonna have to be like what and like stop down,
you get to like wave to him. It's the whole thing.
And it's like I know her based off of messages
that she sent a guy. So I couldn't picture going
up and be like, are you single? But I could
picture he being like is it leg day tries today?
Speaker 9 (13:40):
Like anything that I do, I feel like it just
feels so awkward, Like in the past, not at the gym,
but what I did when I did shoot my shot
at a guy? Is I wrote my number down on
a piece of paper. I handed it to him and
then I ran away.
Speaker 3 (13:52):
And did he ever contact?
Speaker 9 (13:54):
Yes, he didn't speak English.
Speaker 3 (13:56):
That'll do it. That'll do it. Honestly, you should stayed
with that one. We'd had a better chance. All right.
Put yourself in this scenario. You wrap the gym, somebody
approaches you. What is the least non creepy thing that
she could do? This guy's probably already reported her as
a stalker, like, hey, she won't stop staring at me.
But let's just say she's right this time. Let's just
say she's right. He's giving her the eyes. How does
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one approach this situation in a gym set? Eight seven
seven six five. Here we go again. Aj Hi, guys,
good morning, it's Ashley in the gym at morning show.
I said, you know, we had a really heavy, heavy
conversation earlier in the show about relationships, so I was
trying to keep this one like a super light and
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as much of a joke as I could. So that's
why we're talking about Ajay's dating life. And you know
what's funny, mad people, DM, He're like, you beat me,
I beat you to the joke. I knew you were
there with that guys. It was a layup. But we're
back to this and she's in the gym. It's she
goes every Sunday. She's in there, her and this man
keep making eye contact. So you say, so you're happening.
(15:01):
I'm not making it up. It's happening. I don't think
you're making it up. But I also think you could
be creating this optical illusion that he's looking at you,
when in fact, he's just like looking over in your direction.
She's like, he's doing it, he's doing it. So now
we're like, Jules is telling you shoot or shoot, you
gotta go talk to him. I myself, I think I
(15:22):
would want to wait until he approached me, but I
also understand, like you got to you gotta go for
what you want. Ye go for what you want. Lexi
is inhaviorl. Lexi says she gets approached all the time.
At the gym.
Speaker 7 (15:33):
Lex Yeah, well, I mean not just at the gym,
but like, yeah, I mean anywhere, but yeah, at the
gym specifically, I'm dang workout. But I feel like if
like you canna catch a vibe, like if someone's looking
at you, and like if you always look at them
and they're already looking at you. I feel like it's
kind of like a tell sign, like all right, maybe
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there's some type of visor, so I feel like she'd
be safe to, like maybe say something. I'm like, I
always shoot my shot first if I like, I'm not
scared to go for it. Like when I met my man,
I went up to him first. I was like, yeah,
I want that, so.
Speaker 3 (16:05):
Directly what you said? Did you literally go up to
him and say I want that? Like, what did you
actually say to him?
Speaker 7 (16:11):
Well, I actually looked at my mom and I said, wow,
I'm going to marry that man someday. And we're still
together ten years, so that's amazing.
Speaker 3 (16:17):
I answer my question now, flex, I need to know.
Was that's what we're trying to figure out. What did
you actually say to him? I love that you said
that's mom, that's cutesie. What did you say to him?
I said?
Speaker 7 (16:27):
I went up to him and I said, Hi, you're
very good looking. So either you're basically like a hoe
or you're I was like, or you're your boot up
and he was like, I don't date. I said, perfect,
I'm oulexaid, I'm in my little head. I was like
I'm going to make you fall in love with me.
Speaker 3 (16:41):
Okay, perfect, hold on one second. I want you to practice that.
I want you to say those exact words.
Speaker 9 (16:46):
Yeah, you're really attractive, so you're either a hoe.
Speaker 3 (16:53):
Yeah that's you're really because you're either a hoe or Okay,
you know what, LEXI, thank you so much, Thank you
so much for the Well, there you have it. We
don't need any more from her. You really attractive. Either
you're a hoe or you're with so body. I mean
that that's one way to get his attention.
Speaker 9 (17:10):
Actually, in my case, it would be like, you're really attractive,
so you must be married.
Speaker 3 (17:14):
Yeah exactly, Yeah, you have to be married, or you
must have kids, a family, a wife.
Speaker 2 (17:19):
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Speaker 3 (17:30):
Oh my god, you guys, we're doing the check in
right now, and I do want to check in on
your life and your world. You can call me and
you can leave talkbox. But I just got a text
from Nanny Helen and she said, I'm spraying Layles's hair
for her ponytail. And she just said, oh, that's effing
cold of course, the fireman writes back, I wonder which
(17:52):
pirate she gets that from. Yo, she said it in
the right context too. That's crazy, that's wild. Any even
that's effing cold, my god. AnyWho eight seven seven six
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one seven nine four five. I know I'm throwing you
guys for a loop right now. We're doing the check
in later in the show. But we just had a
(18:13):
ton going on earlier. And speaking of that, we had
a DM dilemma that just went. People are still messaging
me about it. But my girl was going is going
through it. She packed up the kids left to go
to her sisters after her boyfriend essentially has just been
it's been a cycle. You know. She'll try to talk
to him, Hey, I don't like when you do a
B and C and he'll say, well, whatever, you did
(18:34):
a girl's weekend down the cape, and then you know,
she'll threaten to leave and he'll say I'm sorry, and
then she leaves and he's sorry and she goes back.
And the most recent thing, she's like, we just bought
a house a month ago, and now since he's paying
the mortgage of the house, he thinks he can talk
to me degrading in any way he wants. So a
ton of you guys wanted to weigh in on that.
We took a bunch of calls, but we also got
(18:54):
some talkbacks.
Speaker 4 (18:56):
I just want to say, be careful who you're getting
your advice from. You've got a lot of kids involved.
You know, he's been around for.
Speaker 3 (19:02):
A long time.
Speaker 4 (19:03):
Men have this like instinctual I'm the provider in them,
which is you know, not an excuse. Try some counseling,
Try some therapy first to fight for the relationship if
you really want it. Headspace is a really good resource online.
Speaker 3 (19:19):
Try it out.
Speaker 4 (19:20):
Don't listen to these bitter single people who don't have relationships.
Speaker 3 (19:24):
Oh well, well I'm not bitter, nor am I single.
And I told her to leave because the follow ups
that that was her saying that she went back last
night and said, hey, why did you take the baby
cams out of the rooms? And he snapped on her
because he said she didn't ask properly. And then she said, okay,
well where are they? And he said, well why don't
you go. Look, he's a loser and he's mean to her.
(19:47):
And if she's going to type out the words degrading.
I don't think I sound bitter or single by saying
she deserves better than that.
Speaker 5 (19:53):
Well, I'm not bitter, but I am single and I
agree with her. But but but I think it did
get you a point where the more information we got,
we were like, God, it's really it's really not good.
Speaker 3 (20:06):
Because listen, I'm all about fight for love, like get
out here, put they got a fist, fight for love.
You know, I don't think love comes across like it's
gonna get it often. But I've also never said the
words like he is degrading me. And I think once
you get to the point where that's how you're describing
the treatment and the behavior like I don't know, and
then the camera thing is off putting, that sounds a
(20:26):
little sus to me. I don't like that.
Speaker 1 (20:28):
That was weird.
Speaker 3 (20:29):
She even sent me the voicemail live. Yeah, I read
the the you know how that transcribes it for you.
And he was leaving her voicemails this morning at six
thirty talking about I'm so sorry, please come back, like
this is what this guy does.
Speaker 1 (20:42):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (20:44):
I hate to say it, but you know, it really
seems like it's it's abusive.
Speaker 1 (20:49):
Yes, you know.
Speaker 3 (20:50):
I mean it's giving ike without like the craziness.
Speaker 1 (20:54):
Yeah, yeah, you can't. You got you gotta go.
Speaker 5 (20:56):
And you know, like I said, don't feel like you're
you don't have the courage. You know, it's it's tough
out there by yourself.
Speaker 3 (21:03):
And I'm not naive, like I know what this girl's
saying in a sense of like, don't listen to all
of us and just leave if you have the support
to do so, like and and but she does. She
has mom, she has her sister, and it's gonna be
so hard because she's a seven three and eighteen month old.
But anyways, so that was a conversation we had this morning.
What is up with you? Call me, tell me a story.
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We're talking about anything you want. It's all about you.
It's the checking only on jam Hi, guys, good morning.
It is Ashley and the gm at morning show doing
a late check in on you. I love seeing how
you're doing and what's going on. You know. I genuinely
mean that this show is nothing without you, guys, and
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Speaker 10 (21:48):
Uh.
Speaker 3 (21:48):
You also can check in on the phones and via
the talkback.
Speaker 8 (21:51):
Good morning, Ashley, AJ and Jules from Tallahassee. Do you
have any viewpoints or discussion regarding parasocial relationships and as
they are?
Speaker 3 (22:04):
I don't know what parasocial is. I'm gonna look it
up to you.
Speaker 1 (22:07):
I have no idea.
Speaker 3 (22:08):
Okay, well, I'm shocked you didn't just try and then
just get wrong. A parasocial relationship is a one sided
psychological bond where a fan or viewer feels a strong
sense of intimacy and friendship with a public figure, such
as a celebrity influencer a fictional character who does not
actually know they even exist. The key characteristics of this
(22:29):
relationship is it's unreciprocated. So I'm gonna go ahead and
say I'm good on a parasocial relationship.
Speaker 5 (22:35):
Je, we were just talking about parasocial relationships with a
family member that I have.
Speaker 3 (22:40):
Yeah, you know, that's a good point, and I want
to tell that story later this week. All right, let's
check in with Crystal. I'm sorry, Caitlyn, Caitlyn is in Holbrook. Hi, Kaitlin,
good morning, Good morning. What's going on with good? How
are you.
Speaker 2 (22:58):
Good?
Speaker 3 (22:59):
God?
Speaker 7 (22:59):
I'm shaking.
Speaker 10 (23:01):
Last Tuesday I had a really traumatic had a traumatic experience.
My six year old dog went in for just a
routine dental and he went into cardiac arrest and passed
away on the table. It. Yeah, it's been really hard.
Speaker 3 (23:23):
You know.
Speaker 10 (23:24):
It's I don't have kids, I don't have a significant other,
so it's my dogs that really you know, that I
come home to every day and that give me love. Yeah,
And but I just wanted to let you know that,
you know, listening to you in the morning, like it
puts a smile on my face. And I've heard you know,
(23:45):
I've been listening to gym and for a very long time,
and I've heard you go through so much and you know,
you're so strong to be able to just you know,
go on the radio and you know, talk about your
feelings and and move forward with life no matter what
you go through. So I really, you know, well admire that.
Speaker 3 (24:06):
I you know me, I'm gonna cry. I want to
say that. Number One, I am so, so so sorry.
A six year old doggie going in for a just
a routine dental to get that call. I'm sure when
you saw the vet calling, you were just like, oh,
it's pickup time, you know, not ever thinking that it
(24:26):
was that. When my dog Drake died, I remember, I
was having just like the worst time, like just I
remember crying and being like, would I even cry this
hard for a human? Like it's a different type of pain.
And I think that's because this is the best example
about pets. It's like, if we put our dogs in
a trunk for twenty four hours, right, we would open
(24:48):
up that trunk after the twenty four hours and they
would lick us, The tail would be waggoned, it'd be
so excited, like, oh, you forgot me the trunk, but
it's okay, I'm so happy to see you. We do
that with a human, that human locked in that trunk,
you eat talking to us ever again, like we're weird
to that human. Dogs just have this sense of like
unconditional love no matter what. So don't ever for a
second be like, you know, feeling bad that you obviously
(25:10):
are just broken over this, because that is traumatic and
that is just horrifying. So I know exactly what you're
feeling and I am so sorry that you went through that.
I did hear you say dog's plural, So does that
mean we have some other babies at home?
Speaker 8 (25:25):
Yeah?
Speaker 10 (25:26):
I have one other other dog. He he's older, so
he's been you know, grieving.
Speaker 3 (25:31):
Oh, oh for sure, because they they're like, wait, where
did my friend go? You know, I'm just so happy
to know that you're not. You have you have someone
to snuggle up to because I know you're probably going
through it.
Speaker 10 (25:42):
Yeah. Yeah, it's you know, you question everything you know,
So it's it's been tough. But thank you for putting
a smile on my face because it's been it's been
a minute week.
Speaker 3 (25:56):
Yeah, listen, that is my quite literally my job. But
the but the truth of it is is like I
go through stuff too, and that's why you guys think
I'm you know, you you might be using me for
a mile, but I'm certainly leaning on you guys for
that too. You guys are my live action diary. So
I appreciate you hanging with me in the mornings, through
my tears, through the laughing, through everything. You give me
(26:17):
as much as I give you, and that's a fact.
So thank you so much for listening. I'm hugging you.
Hey go give McDonalds or something, do something to make
yourself happy. You deserve it.
Speaker 10 (26:27):
Thank you, and hey, we go way back. I was
a Real World fan, like I've never met you, but
I'm the girl, and right, well.
Speaker 3 (26:34):
We need to meet. That's what we need to do.
Wow the oh gee shout out to a Real World
I love it, all right, Caitlin, I'm thinking about your babe.
Speaker 10 (26:42):
All right, thank you so much.
Speaker 3 (26:45):
I almost made it the whole day almost.
Speaker 1 (26:48):
Where can we binge watch your Real World series?
Speaker 3 (26:52):
It's actually on I want to say it's on Paramount.
Somebody hit me up and everyone's like, oh my god,
you're a baby. I'm like no, I was quite literally
like a baby. I don't sound the same, I don't
look the same. I was a child. Was it? Uh?
Twenty four? I have it tatted right under my boob.
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Speaker 4 (00:12):
This position for Paraguay byes.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
Hoday Germany? Olcome bah, come.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Oh my god, it's so exciting. Tuesday, June thirtieth, and
you heard it right there at Germany eliminated by Paraguay
after penalty shootout in extra time, four to three. And
I'm happy for those that came and traveled from Paraguay
for this because Germany was talking a lot of smack.
Speaker 1 (00:47):
I was watching German like news.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
I saw clip. But I'm saying that Paraguay was no
threat at all. That we're a third tier team, so
we never give up, you know, we fight until we
fight until we die. Well, listen, shout out to that
third tier time team that's sent in Germany packing right
on home just in time for October Fest. The last
game is next week at Boston Stadium. It's the quarter final.
We're packing up the World Cup bag. I'm really sad
(01:12):
about it. I know, it's crazy, it is crazy. We
have just had such a delightful experience, really of all
of the countries that have come here. I mean, listen,
I think we all know who's who's number one in
our hearts. I don't think that'll change.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
It was funny.
Speaker 5 (01:25):
Maybe we should stop saying all the different countries that
come here because it was really just a Scottish right like, respectfully.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
No, I know now, listen, I do feel like the
Netherlands had a little thing going on with the Viking.
I did enjoy that a close second, let's just say that.
But nobody's beating that top Scot No, nobody, and even
Miami didn't welcome the Scots like we did.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
Oh they didn't. The Scots didn't like Miami right now.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
They didn't.
Speaker 5 (01:51):
We want to go back to Boston. The didn't like
New York either, they said, they said, Boston is the place.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
Boston's the spot. All right. Well, one thing I've said
over and over and over again. It is a beautiful
thing to see how prideful everybody is. So the World
Cup obviously continues. It's just the last game will be
next Thursday here, the quarter final, all right. I always
give credit where credit is due. Jewels brought this to
me yesterday. He's like ash Cardi B went on live
after the BET Awards. I don't know if you want
to play this, and I was like, let's hold off,
(02:17):
let's concentrate on the BET Awards because we had a
lot going on. But as the day went, that story
about Cardi B being on live and talking about Bea
really went. And it's so fitting because I'm staring at Jules, who,
by the way, is in bea Mert right now, like
just heads. He's just like mister b he hass on,
that's a He's just like obsessed. So what happened was
(02:41):
just to kind of like reframe the whole thing for you.
Cardi is performing at the BET Awards. She performs pretty
and petty. Here's a clip, Hey a song, Hey Hey, okay,
and then Miss Bay sad time my preak God not too.
(03:02):
I've sat the dumb, the send for meself. Every time
I pray, I thank God, I'm not you put a
gun to my head. Name five be a song? Nobody
does Boom You're dead? Okay, Like that's a lie. I
listen to that song and every time I'm like, I
hate Bea too. I don't even know b It probably
a nice lady. Everybody makes you want to when you
hear that song. Cardie's not stupid. She knows that she
(03:24):
doesn't perform that song in the BET Awards, Everybody's like wait,
what like that song goes so after her performance, she
probably saw a few things online and she wants to
spread a different kind of message. I really really loved
that song. It turns people up.
Speaker 6 (03:40):
However, I know, I know my fans is gonna hate this,
but please don't pick on that girl. I am very
big against internet like bullying. Unless my fans have to,
unless my fans got a dress, don't have to. But
if somebody not bothering me, and I feel that she's
not bothering me, I don't want. I don't want to
the reason why somebody gets on the Internet and have
(04:02):
a bad day or get the pressed, or feel bad
or feel like the world is against them, because I really.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
Went through that before.
Speaker 6 (04:08):
I really really went through that before, and like I
went through that in twenty eighteen, in twenty nineteen.
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Twenty twenty, twenty twenty one, twenty twenty.
Speaker 6 (04:17):
Two, when all these bitches was against me, when all
these blogs was against me, when every single day it
was a bad viral tweet about me and I do
like teaching bitches a lesson, Like it's like you think
you me bitch, I'll show you. But then after a while,
like I'm one of those people they're like, I'll kill you,
and then I feel bad.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
That I killed you. Remorse. Yes. I love when she
listed every single year instead of just being like yo
from like twenty eighteen to twenty twenty two, I wasn't well.
She was like, I am going to list to make
sure you guys can math here on this. I like
the message. I think her point is like yo, me
and Bea, Like we're not going back and forth right now.
So when I perform this song, people come from Bea. Obviously,
(04:56):
the whole premise is like nobody can name five songs
from Bea. You're her shirt. I wasn't going to put
you on blast last hour, but now I will.
Speaker 5 (05:03):
A whole lot of money. Okay, there's a whole lot
of you gotta make me do five, dog, yeah that's
the thing, or boom, you're dead? Can you so one?
Speaker 1 (05:12):
I could name five? You put me on the spot.
Speaker 3 (05:14):
At least give me two?
Speaker 1 (05:16):
Is okay?
Speaker 3 (05:18):
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face for Skims. You guys did not see this one coming.
Will Ferrell is posing for Skims. I never had to
tell DJ Foreren or Santi about this because they know
because they bought the product. Do you own anything Skims? No,
I am telling you. I promise, I assure you. If
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all of it. If you ever a lot of times
they do sales, grab yourself some. You'll be a Skims
fan for life. Really, it's all I buy. It's such
good quality. You can hate him all you want. Skims
is good.
Speaker 1 (05:58):
You said that they did.
Speaker 3 (05:59):
A Nike They have a Nike collab. They have, but
just like the basic stuff like basic teas, sweatpants, sweatshirts.
I promise you will not be disappointed.
Speaker 1 (06:08):
Is it expensive?
Speaker 3 (06:09):
They have sales every comm Yeah, it's pricey. But it's
worth the money, is what I would say.
Speaker 1 (06:13):
I like quality. I'll pay the money for what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (06:16):
They will last you. But anyways, he is going to
be Will Ferrell. That is, he's going to portray Lonnie
Hawkins in a new upcoming golf film on Netflix. So
he's being Lonnie in the campaign.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
His body says here tired, his skims say one more round.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
Built from them? Who's still there's got it. When Kim
does skims collections and she has people model, it's usually
like supermodels or like you know, Haley Bieber's modeled for like,
like she always has these people that are I saw
Will Ferrell's what is this? But now it makes sense.
It's like promo for the film. But also he's wearing skims.
So there you have. There's three things need to know
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for Tuesday, June thirtieth. We're doing it Don Oliver at
the Garden. Earlier I was talking about Don and somebody
wrote me and was like, I didn't know they were
doing a Don Julio. Eventually they got who said Don Julio.
Now they probably sell it, but I said, d t
not Trump. Don Tolliver is gonna be at the Garden
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performing songs like this, Who's I know malice excuh.
Speaker 7 (07:26):
Live so much money on a weak till.
Speaker 5 (07:28):
Hey Hey okay, mister hey, I'm all right.
Speaker 6 (07:35):
There you have it.
Speaker 3 (07:36):
That's the man that's gonna be at the garden. You
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Hi, guys, good morning is Ashley and the gym in
morning show? Quick shout out to Candy. Candy is going
to don Tolliver. When Jules was getting Candy's information, we
don't want to give her email out, but just know that,
like Candy's Candy had quite the interesting email email address.
Speaker 5 (08:17):
So I was like, you give that to you a job,
like you'll apply the jobs with this email.
Speaker 3 (08:22):
You give this to your place. And there was a
curse word in there, but anyway, shout to ourgo Candy,
Candy is going to down Tolliver. You just pop talk
at your next shot in the three pm hour and
then of course we'll hook you up again tomorrow at
eight twenty. All right, we are doing beyond the swipe
right now, so we're talking like dating, love relationship black
thereof we just had a pretty heavy conversation about relationships
(08:45):
and what can happen in one. So I think, just
to keep this conversation a little lighter, we will go
to the biggest joke of all That was too easy,
that like that like wrote itself. But no, oh, I
was like, how did we didn't You and I both agreed.
We were like, okay, we're doing this DM dilemma. We
(09:06):
knew what it was about. We're like, this is a
heavy like, this's gonna be a heavy conversation. What should
we talk about for beyond the swipe? Now? Mind you,
if you have something going on in your relationship and
you want to call us, you certainly can eight seven
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You want to tell me a story? You wanted to
first say something funny happen? But I just I so
badly wish that Santi wasn't in Spain because I would
(09:28):
want him on for this conversation. We're back to this,
And I say we're back to this because there was
a time period a little while ago when AJ basically said, like,
this guy kept staring at you in the gym, like
she was convinced Jules. She was like, he's eyeing me
like he wants me. What should I do? How do
I handle?
Speaker 8 (09:48):
Uh?
Speaker 3 (09:48):
It turns out that guy had a whole girlfriend. Like
he wasn't staring at her like it was just the gym,
so he his eyeballs were probably just moving around like
he's looking at me. He's looking at me. And then
we were imitating what she was looking like when her
I was trying to make eye contact, and then it
was the whole thing. But guys, she comes in here
yesterday and what does she say to me?
Speaker 9 (10:08):
I have a new gym crush and we're locking eyes.
Speaker 3 (10:11):
At the gym? But are we though? Like, who's to
say we're locking eyes? Like set the scene for us?
Speaker 9 (10:18):
Well, it's happened over a couple of gym sessions at
this point. This past Sunday, I went and as soon
as I walked in, as soon as I walked in,
We're looking at each other.
Speaker 3 (10:30):
And I'm like, oh my god, was there anywhere else
for him to look?
Speaker 7 (10:33):
Like?
Speaker 3 (10:33):
I need to know that the man had options. Absolutely, Okay,
there's a whole gym. Yeah, but if you were walking
in the front door and maybe he looked over at
the door because you walked in or you know.
Speaker 9 (10:44):
Honestly, he should have had like his back to me
the way that he was standing, so he had options.
Speaker 3 (10:48):
Okay, right, sure, So then fast forward. There was a
couple other times where you as well feel you feel
like you guys locked eyes. Yeah.
Speaker 9 (10:57):
So there was one time I was on the treadmill.
He picked a treadmill, maybe about like five or six
away from me, and there was one time where we
were both locking and we looked at each other and
then he was.
Speaker 3 (11:09):
So there was this one time where we were breathing
and we looked at each other's direction.
Speaker 9 (11:14):
Okay, go on, and then when he was done, he
went into the locker room and he came out, and
when he came out, we looked at each other again,
and it was like a not like this quick like, oh,
you observe someone and then you look away immediately like
we locked.
Speaker 3 (11:28):
I get that, but are you staring at him, like
is he looking at you like out of fear of
like okay, well she's looking at me. I gotta look
at her again. I don't know. I'm worried about it
with you because we've been we have literally been down
this exact same road. The feeling is mutual, it's not
just me. So that does this one feel different than
the last one seriously? Or does it feel just about
the same? It feels the same? Okay, oh okay. Now
(11:51):
when you mentioned this to me and Jeules off Air Jewels,
you were like, enough's enough. She just needs a shoot.
Speaker 1 (11:56):
Her shot shoots your shot. Shoot, shoot shoots your shot.
Speaker 3 (12:00):
You are working out at the gym, how would you
want a girl to approach you? Because like, there are
some guys and girls that are like, the gym is
not the place for it. I think the opposite. Every
guy I've ever really like dated, I've I've had a
gym type of setup with.
Speaker 5 (12:15):
Yeah, I hate I hate even looking at girls. I
hate that girls that go to my gym. When I
went to the distracted, Yeah, they distract me, Like I
want to tell you, yeah.
Speaker 1 (12:26):
It's been a while.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
He was about that.
Speaker 5 (12:29):
I needed to know that answer. But you know, I
hate being distracted at the gym. I I want to
go there, focus on what I'm doing, getting out, getting
get out, and I do not want to see any ladies.
Speaker 1 (12:41):
I don't want to see I don't want to see
none of that.
Speaker 3 (12:43):
Yeah, because they look good and you get distracted. Correct, Okay, yeah,
he's not throwing shots shade guys. No no, no, no, no,
all right, fine, I get that. But if you think
she should choo, what what is she? What is How
does one approach what is she saying? In a gym setting?
Speaker 5 (12:58):
If if if Ashley, excuse me, if AJ is indeed
correct and he is locking eyes with her, I think
it's okay to say, you know, go up to him
and say, hey, what's up?
Speaker 1 (13:11):
You know, are you single? Or my name is AJ?
Speaker 3 (13:14):
Are you single? Just doesn't It just sounds so gress and.
Speaker 9 (13:17):
It's just so hard in the gym because everyone's got
their headphones in and then.
Speaker 3 (13:21):
He's gonna have to be like what and like stop down,
you get to like wave to him. It's the whole thing.
And it's like I know her based off of messages
that she sent a guy. So I couldn't picture going
up and be like, are you single? But I could
picture he being like is it leg day tries today?
Speaker 9 (13:40):
Like anything that I do, I feel like it just
feels so awkward, Like in the past, not at the gym,
but what I did when I did shoot my shot
at a guy? Is I wrote my number down on
a piece of paper. I handed it to him and
then I ran away.
Speaker 3 (13:52):
And did he ever contact?
Speaker 9 (13:54):
Yes, he didn't speak English.
Speaker 3 (13:56):
That'll do it. That'll do it. Honestly, you should stayed
with that one. We'd had a better chance. All right.
Put yourself in this scenario. You wrap the gym, somebody
approaches you. What is the least non creepy thing that
she could do? This guy's probably already reported her as
a stalker, like, hey, she won't stop staring at me.
But let's just say she's right this time. Let's just
say she's right. He's giving her the eyes. How does
(14:18):
one approach this situation in a gym set? Eight seven
seven six five. Here we go again. Aj Hi, guys,
good morning, it's Ashley in the gym at morning show.
I said, you know, we had a really heavy, heavy
conversation earlier in the show about relationships, so I was
trying to keep this one like a super light and
(14:39):
as much of a joke as I could. So that's
why we're talking about Ajay's dating life. And you know
what's funny, mad people, DM, He're like, you beat me,
I beat you to the joke. I knew you were
there with that guys. It was a layup. But we're
back to this and she's in the gym. It's she
goes every Sunday. She's in there, her and this man
keep making eye contact. So you say, so you're happening.
(15:01):
I'm not making it up. It's happening. I don't think
you're making it up. But I also think you could
be creating this optical illusion that he's looking at you,
when in fact, he's just like looking over in your direction.
She's like, he's doing it, he's doing it. So now
we're like, Jules is telling you shoot or shoot, you
gotta go talk to him. I myself, I think I
(15:22):
would want to wait until he approached me, but I
also understand, like you got to you gotta go for
what you want. Ye go for what you want. Lexi
is inhaviorl. Lexi says she gets approached all the time.
At the gym.
Speaker 7 (15:33):
Lex Yeah, well, I mean not just at the gym,
but like, yeah, I mean anywhere, but yeah, at the
gym specifically, I'm dang workout. But I feel like if
like you canna catch a vibe, like if someone's looking
at you, and like if you always look at them
and they're already looking at you. I feel like it's
kind of like a tell sign, like all right, maybe
(15:53):
there's some type of visor, so I feel like she'd
be safe to, like maybe say something. I'm like, I
always shoot my shot first if I like, I'm not
scared to go for it. Like when I met my man,
I went up to him first. I was like, yeah,
I want that, so.
Speaker 3 (16:05):
Directly what you said? Did you literally go up to
him and say I want that? Like, what did you
actually say to him?
Speaker 7 (16:11):
Well, I actually looked at my mom and I said, wow,
I'm going to marry that man someday. And we're still
together ten years, so that's amazing.
Speaker 3 (16:17):
I answer my question now, flex, I need to know.
Was that's what we're trying to figure out. What did
you actually say to him? I love that you said
that's mom, that's cutesie. What did you say to him?
I said?
Speaker 7 (16:27):
I went up to him and I said, Hi, you're
very good looking. So either you're basically like a hoe
or you're I was like, or you're your boot up
and he was like, I don't date. I said, perfect,
I'm oulexaid, I'm in my little head. I was like
I'm going to make you fall in love with me.
Speaker 3 (16:41):
Okay, perfect, hold on one second. I want you to practice that.
I want you to say those exact words.
Speaker 9 (16:46):
Yeah, you're really attractive, so you're either a hoe.
Speaker 3 (16:53):
Yeah that's you're really because you're either a hoe or Okay,
you know what, LEXI, thank you so much, Thank you
so much for the Well, there you have it. We
don't need any more from her. You really attractive. Either
you're a hoe or you're with so body. I mean
that that's one way to get his attention.
Speaker 9 (17:10):
Actually, in my case, it would be like, you're really attractive,
so you must be married.
Speaker 3 (17:14):
Yeah exactly, Yeah, you have to be married, or you
must have kids, a family, a wife.
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Speaker 3 (17:30):
Oh my god, you guys, we're doing the check in
right now, and I do want to check in on
your life and your world. You can call me and
you can leave talkbox. But I just got a text
from Nanny Helen and she said, I'm spraying Layles's hair
for her ponytail. And she just said, oh, that's effing
cold of course, the fireman writes back, I wonder which
(17:52):
pirate she gets that from. Yo, she said it in
the right context too. That's crazy, that's wild. Any even
that's effing cold, my god. AnyWho eight seven seven six
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one seven nine four five. I know I'm throwing you
guys for a loop right now. We're doing the check
in later in the show. But we just had a
(18:13):
ton going on earlier. And speaking of that, we had
a DM dilemma that just went. People are still messaging
me about it. But my girl was going is going
through it. She packed up the kids left to go
to her sisters after her boyfriend essentially has just been
it's been a cycle. You know. She'll try to talk
to him, Hey, I don't like when you do a
B and C and he'll say, well, whatever, you did
(18:34):
a girl's weekend down the cape, and then you know,
she'll threaten to leave and he'll say I'm sorry, and
then she leaves and he's sorry and she goes back.
And the most recent thing, she's like, we just bought
a house a month ago, and now since he's paying
the mortgage of the house, he thinks he can talk
to me degrading in any way he wants. So a
ton of you guys wanted to weigh in on that.
We took a bunch of calls, but we also got
(18:54):
some talkbacks.
Speaker 4 (18:56):
I just want to say, be careful who you're getting
your advice from. You've got a lot of kids involved.
You know, he's been around for.
Speaker 3 (19:02):
A long time.
Speaker 4 (19:03):
Men have this like instinctual I'm the provider in them,
which is you know, not an excuse. Try some counseling,
Try some therapy first to fight for the relationship if
you really want it. Headspace is a really good resource online.
Speaker 3 (19:19):
Try it out.
Speaker 4 (19:20):
Don't listen to these bitter single people who don't have relationships.
Speaker 3 (19:24):
Oh well, well I'm not bitter, nor am I single.
And I told her to leave because the follow ups
that that was her saying that she went back last
night and said, hey, why did you take the baby
cams out of the rooms? And he snapped on her
because he said she didn't ask properly. And then she said, okay,
well where are they? And he said, well why don't
you go. Look, he's a loser and he's mean to her.
(19:47):
And if she's going to type out the words degrading.
I don't think I sound bitter or single by saying
she deserves better than that.
Speaker 5 (19:53):
Well, I'm not bitter, but I am single and I
agree with her. But but but I think it did
get you a point where the more information we got,
we were like, God, it's really it's really not good.
Speaker 3 (20:06):
Because listen, I'm all about fight for love, like get
out here, put they got a fist, fight for love.
You know, I don't think love comes across like it's
gonna get it often. But I've also never said the
words like he is degrading me. And I think once
you get to the point where that's how you're describing
the treatment and the behavior like I don't know, and
then the camera thing is off putting, that sounds a
(20:26):
little sus to me. I don't like that.
Speaker 1 (20:28):
That was weird.
Speaker 3 (20:29):
She even sent me the voicemail live. Yeah, I read
the the you know how that transcribes it for you.
And he was leaving her voicemails this morning at six
thirty talking about I'm so sorry, please come back, like
this is what this guy does.
Speaker 1 (20:42):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (20:44):
I hate to say it, but you know, it really
seems like it's it's abusive.
Speaker 1 (20:49):
Yes, you know.
Speaker 3 (20:50):
I mean it's giving ike without like the craziness.
Speaker 1 (20:54):
Yeah, yeah, you can't. You got you gotta go.
Speaker 5 (20:56):
And you know, like I said, don't feel like you're
you don't have the courage. You know, it's it's tough
out there by yourself.
Speaker 3 (21:03):
And I'm not naive, like I know what this girl's
saying in a sense of like, don't listen to all
of us and just leave if you have the support
to do so, like and and but she does. She
has mom, she has her sister, and it's gonna be
so hard because she's a seven three and eighteen month old.
But anyways, so that was a conversation we had this morning.
What is up with you? Call me, tell me a story.
Say Hi gives a shout out again. I know it's
(21:23):
late eight seven seven six one seven one nine four five.
We're talking about anything you want. It's all about you.
It's the checking only on jam Hi, guys, good morning.
It is Ashley and the gm at morning show doing
a late check in on you. I love seeing how
you're doing and what's going on. You know. I genuinely
mean that this show is nothing without you, guys, and
I love getting a little peak ski into your life
eight seven seven six one seven nine four five Tell
(21:46):
me about your life, your world, anything you want.
Speaker 10 (21:48):
Uh.
Speaker 3 (21:48):
You also can check in on the phones and via
the talkback.
Speaker 8 (21:51):
Good morning, Ashley, AJ and Jules from Tallahassee. Do you
have any viewpoints or discussion regarding parasocial relationships and as
they are?
Speaker 3 (22:04):
I don't know what parasocial is. I'm gonna look it
up to you.
Speaker 1 (22:07):
I have no idea.
Speaker 3 (22:08):
Okay, well, I'm shocked you didn't just try and then
just get wrong. A parasocial relationship is a one sided
psychological bond where a fan or viewer feels a strong
sense of intimacy and friendship with a public figure, such
as a celebrity influencer a fictional character who does not
actually know they even exist. The key characteristics of this
(22:29):
relationship is it's unreciprocated. So I'm gonna go ahead and
say I'm good on a parasocial relationship.
Speaker 5 (22:35):
Je, we were just talking about parasocial relationships with a
family member that I have.
Speaker 3 (22:40):
Yeah, you know, that's a good point, and I want
to tell that story later this week. All right, let's
check in with Crystal. I'm sorry, Caitlyn, Caitlyn is in Holbrook. Hi, Kaitlin,
good morning, Good morning. What's going on with good? How
are you.
Speaker 2 (22:58):
Good?
Speaker 3 (22:59):
God?
Speaker 7 (22:59):
I'm shaking.
Speaker 10 (23:01):
Last Tuesday I had a really traumatic had a traumatic experience.
My six year old dog went in for just a
routine dental and he went into cardiac arrest and passed
away on the table. It. Yeah, it's been really hard.
Speaker 3 (23:23):
You know.
Speaker 10 (23:24):
It's I don't have kids, I don't have a significant other,
so it's my dogs that really you know, that I
come home to every day and that give me love. Yeah,
And but I just wanted to let you know that,
you know, listening to you in the morning, like it
puts a smile on my face. And I've heard you know,
(23:45):
I've been listening to gym and for a very long time,
and I've heard you go through so much and you know,
you're so strong to be able to just you know,
go on the radio and you know, talk about your
feelings and and move forward with life no matter what
you go through. So I really, you know, well admire that.
Speaker 3 (24:06):
I you know me, I'm gonna cry. I want to
say that. Number One, I am so, so so sorry.
A six year old doggie going in for a just
a routine dental to get that call. I'm sure when
you saw the vet calling, you were just like, oh,
it's pickup time, you know, not ever thinking that it
(24:26):
was that. When my dog Drake died, I remember, I
was having just like the worst time, like just I
remember crying and being like, would I even cry this
hard for a human? Like it's a different type of pain.
And I think that's because this is the best example
about pets. It's like, if we put our dogs in
a trunk for twenty four hours, right, we would open
(24:48):
up that trunk after the twenty four hours and they
would lick us, The tail would be waggoned, it'd be
so excited, like, oh, you forgot me the trunk, but
it's okay, I'm so happy to see you. We do
that with a human, that human locked in that trunk,
you eat talking to us ever again, like we're weird
to that human. Dogs just have this sense of like
unconditional love no matter what. So don't ever for a
second be like, you know, feeling bad that you obviously
(25:10):
are just broken over this, because that is traumatic and
that is just horrifying. So I know exactly what you're
feeling and I am so sorry that you went through that.
I did hear you say dog's plural, So does that
mean we have some other babies at home?
Speaker 8 (25:25):
Yeah?
Speaker 10 (25:26):
I have one other other dog. He he's older, so
he's been you know, grieving.
Speaker 3 (25:31):
Oh, oh for sure, because they they're like, wait, where
did my friend go? You know, I'm just so happy
to know that you're not. You have you have someone
to snuggle up to because I know you're probably going
through it.
Speaker 10 (25:42):
Yeah. Yeah, it's you know, you question everything you know,
So it's it's been tough. But thank you for putting
a smile on my face because it's been it's been
a minute week.
Speaker 3 (25:56):
Yeah, listen, that is my quite literally my job. But
the but the truth of it is is like I
go through stuff too, and that's why you guys think
I'm you know, you you might be using me for
a mile, but I'm certainly leaning on you guys for
that too. You guys are my live action diary. So
I appreciate you hanging with me in the mornings, through
my tears, through the laughing, through everything. You give me
(26:17):
as much as I give you, and that's a fact.
So thank you so much for listening. I'm hugging you.
Hey go give McDonalds or something, do something to make
yourself happy. You deserve it.
Speaker 10 (26:27):
Thank you, and hey, we go way back. I was
a Real World fan, like I've never met you, but
I'm the girl, and right, well.
Speaker 3 (26:34):
We need to meet. That's what we need to do.
Wow the oh gee shout out to a Real World
I love it, all right, Caitlin, I'm thinking about your babe.
Speaker 10 (26:42):
All right, thank you so much.
Speaker 3 (26:45):
I almost made it the whole day almost.
Speaker 1 (26:48):
Where can we binge watch your Real World series?
Speaker 3 (26:52):
It's actually on I want to say it's on Paramount.
Somebody hit me up and everyone's like, oh my god,
you're a baby. I'm like no, I was quite literally
like a baby. I don't sound the same, I don't
look the same. I was a child. Was it? Uh?
Twenty four? I have it tatted right under my boob.
Speaker 2 (27:09):
Dashy Morning show Boston's number one for hip hop jam
in ninety four or five.
Speaker 3 (27:17):
All right, babe, that is going to do it for us. Listen.
It's called the literal roll of the dice. Will Anthony
be here tomorrow? I don't know. I have no idea
if that man's going to get in his flight tonight
from Houston, or if he's going to stay to see
the Cape Verdians roll on on Friday. However, he has
assured me he'll be here, so tomorrow morning we shall
(27:37):
see am I solo or am I with Nobody cares,
Anthony if I missed anything else today at Ashley Feldman
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