My Married Friend Is Being Sus

Episode Transcript

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Dash in the jam in Morning Showwith d J FOURGN It's saw tag Morning
Bustin's number one for hip hop jamin ninety four or five. Hi,
everybody, good morning, Slashing thegym in morning show. Adam had called
it earlier for the check in.We ran out a time, Adam.
This is this is quite the storyyou got going on. Yeah, it's

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quite the story of the morning.Guys. How's it going? Morning?
So your your friend, your goodbuddy is not being quote satisfied by his
girl. And by that do youmean is it like a strictly a sexual
thing or just now nothing sexual atall. It's more in general, just
kind of feeling laws, feeling theappreciation, the attention, you know,
nothing sexual like that. Nothing kindof like weird, so to speak.

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But it is kind of weird whatI think. Okay, So they've been
married for seven eight years now,two kids together. You know, they've
been going through some rough times,marriage counseling, you know whatnot. And
I was talking to some the otherday about it. I can't like what's
going on, you know, housingand the wife, all the kids.
You know, how he's done?He goes, Man, I gotta tell
you this is what's been going on. You know, I'm not getting I

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told you about how I'm not gettingall the attention from her. You know,
I'm out feeling the love. Likesometimes I think she's cheating like all
this kind of stuff, but youknow she's not, Like she loves me.
I love her. We're in agreat relationship. We've been together for
years and we have two you know, loving kids. Like we're good.
But I've been talking to my buddyfacts name, I'm not going to say
the name, and uh, he'sbeen telling us, you know, let's
go out for drinks, let's gohang out here, let's go this through

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there, Like we've been friends fora while. So I'm like, yeah,
cool, Like we'll do that.Still hasn't done it yet, but
to the point where we'll be sittingin the bathroom texting, you know,
while the wife's making dinner, talkingto this guy and saying like, hey
man, you know what's really goingon here? So come to find out,
he's been saying, you know,so many solar pictures, semi pictures
of you know, what you looklike after work when I see you all

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hot and sweaty, like things aregetting really weird. He's entertaining it.
He's taking these pictures and he sendit to him because he's giving the feedback
that he he's desiring from his wife. Just to loop everybody back in,
your buddy has been married for sevenor eight years, has two kids,
loves his wife, but is justhe's not getting the attention and love from
her that he desires. So he'sbeen texting a buddy on the side.

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This is a male that he's beentexting. They were just texting about like
kind of you know whatever at first. Now it has taken a turn where
the guy will say, hey,send me a picture when you get out
of the shower, send me apicture when you're sweaty leaving the gym,
And he's sending like provocative type photosto this other man. Yes, and
this other man's enjoying it, andto the point now where he's like,

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are you sure you love your wife? Are you sure you're this way?
Are you sure you're not really this? And it's gotten to the point where
this dude is basically trying to tellhim like, hey, we know you're
gay. Tell your wife already.He's trying to steal his wife from him,
And I keep telling him, that'snot your friend. The dude's a
home wrecker. And I understand itmakes you feel good, but you're not
gay. You never have been.But I know this, But so what

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are you doing? Dude? Butmaybe he is, which is okay,
it's completely fine with me. Iwouldn't. I'd still hang out with him
even if he was. But it'sjust the fact that, like, I
don't know, it's just weird whenyou say to him. So, by
the way, the guy that he'stexting is that guy out? Oh yes,
he's actually engaged to seriously, Okay, so you're your friend. Let's

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just call him Jay. Jay istexting a man that is engaged to another
man. Jay's wife knows about thefact that they have a text relationship or
no, yes, okay, becauseJay's wife thinks, oh, that's just
his friendever, yeah, that's whatever, whatever, just his fine, And
she knows that he's gay. Sheknows about the pictures being sent as well.

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Does she know the context of thepictures? Does she know that they're
like him, like bustled up andlike out of the shower. Yes,
okay, that's okay. So whyyou got a problem with it? Then?
So I just feel like he's gotsomething. If he's hiding, maybe
he's by, maybe he's not,Maybe he's gay, maybe he's straight,
Maybe he just is looking for theattention, but he won't tell us,

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he won't say anything. Well,you know what, let's stop down.
Luckily for you, we have somebodyon the show that does the exact same
thing, which is a huge positive. So let's go to the man on
the show that is married that entertainshomosexual man. Yes, what's the question,
do you do you do it forthe attention? I don't do it

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for the attention. I do itbecause that's my friend and I'm being nice
to him. I will say,this guy seemed to be very clear he's
doing it for the attention because he'sasking for specific types of pictures that are
provocative. Yes, okay, soone person is being nice and the other
person is doing it for attention.Yeah, got it. Okay, you're
clear to me. So that's crazy. So like to me, I feel

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the same way, Like, that'snot like if I had a friend who
was doing that, like I wouldentertain it. I wouldn't send those procative
to especially if my wife knew orwhatever, Like I wouldn't care. I
just you know, it's my friend, like whatever, But I wouldn't he
sending shower pictures. It's you know, stuff like that like that. Sure,
well listen, it's not weird ifhe's into the guy, Like it
makes complete sense when you call himout when you say do you are you
into him? Like what's going on? What is his response is a sponsors

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Oh No, that's just my that'sjust my boy. Like I'm just just
messing with him, like I'm justentertaining. I'm like, it's cool,
it's just whatever. I'm like allright, Like I get that, like
okay, but like it's like flirting, you know what I mean? Like,
actually, that's like they're flirting andAdam I think I think I think
your man's is probably discovering himself alittle bit or something like that. But
to tell him like let him livehis life. Ye honestly, let him

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live his life, like just belike, yo, bro, listen,
if that's what you want to do, that's what you want. It's me
like Adam's being nosy and I amthe nosiest of nosy, Like I want
to know how this ends to.But at the end of the day,
if the wife knows that he issending those specific photos. There's nothing we
can do, and and and ifthe guy isn't happy, like you're not
going to you're not going to bethe one to make him happy either.

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This that's the thing. Like he'shappy, that's what that's weird. Like
he's happy, but he's just notgetting the attention that he wants, apparently,
And it's just like all right,dude, like I wouldn't do that,
Like I'm just like, hey,like I want the attention, like
let's talk about this, let's dothis. But he said, it's like
he's getting it. I don't know. I don't know. Can I ask
Adam a real question? Would herather? Would you rather that he was

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coming to you for the attention?Uh no, just make well, Adam,
listen again. If they're good andhe's good and he wants to send
his sweaty must there's nothing you listenhe's I guess he's getting the best of
both worlds right now. Really,I mean, yeah, kind of jealous?
Right, yes? Yeah, wellall right, we're going to dig

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more in on people being nice andentertaining now. So thank you so much
for the call. I was waitingfor it to turn to me. It
was so crazy because it literally wasabout you, and I had two responses.
The serious side of me would belike, no, he's just being
nice, But the joke part ofme is like, wow, how did
you figure it out that has thebest of both worlds and had his wife

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cool with its