July 16, 2026 • 49 mins
Ashlee gets a DM Dilemma from a listener who can't understand why things changed between her and the father of her son....until Ashlee gets to the bottom of things.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Well, well, well everybody, Hi, Happy Thursday.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
I'm back and I'm joined by my guy Bemo, the Prince. Wow,
what's going on? What have we missed?
Speaker 3 (00:10):
I have a little bone to pick with you. By
the way, let's go h I love how come there's
always fun people here? When I ate, I know you,
I knew what was going on here.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
Reet Price came on the show earlier in the week,
and it was actually like, how.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
Insane was that I wouldn't know?
Speaker 2 (00:28):
Well just by the video.
Speaker 1 (00:30):
No, So he I've known him for like ten plus years.
He's he used to be like a straight up just
hip hop violinist, like he did his violin to hip
hop songs. He has since come out with his own album,
The Renaissance Man you can you can check it out,
So he's kind of obviously moving away from the hip
hop thing. But I said to him, I was like,
you know, we're doing the interview and then at the
very end of the entryw I.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
Just go, so, can you, like you have your violink,
can you do something for me?
Speaker 3 (00:54):
Now?
Speaker 1 (00:54):
I did not tell him what song, and so then
I just I'm like, hey, it's gonna have to be
a Drake song because it's me, and it's gonna be
Janis STFU and you're just gonna have to.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Do it on the deal all a.
Speaker 3 (01:11):
Like right, what it was?
Speaker 1 (01:13):
I was taken aback And then when the show was over,
I said to him, I said, I cannot believe you
were able to just do that, like on the spot
like that, and he's like, well, I mean I've been
doing it since I was four.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
I was like, okay, I played the.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
Recorder, but I couldn't pick up hot cross buttons, like you.
Speaker 2 (01:31):
Need to know it was. He was like he was
downplaying how like he's so talented and he always.
Speaker 3 (01:35):
Downplays those banana but people.
Speaker 4 (01:37):
All the cool people keep coming when I'm not here,
invite invite cool people while I'm here.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Yeah, you're right, my bad here today. I don't know
if you're all right. Well, and he just recently celebrated
a birthday. Happy happy milated, my guy. I actually did
wish you happy birthday on air, but not that you
were here to hear it.
Speaker 5 (01:54):
I appreciate it, thank you.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
Yeah, and you spent your birthday sick under the weather
in bed. Yeah, it actually sound terrible.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
What did you like is this part of the parasite, Like,
what do you have going on?
Speaker 6 (02:06):
Let me slide down, It's just a cough. And then
I actually slept good yesterday. The day before I could
not fall asleep. I was just like coughing the whole night.
Speaker 5 (02:17):
It was. It was pretty bad.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
Yeah, okay, how did you turn forty four?
Speaker 3 (02:21):
Forty four sounds like seventy eight.
Speaker 5 (02:23):
Yeah, I don't like.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
The last thing I want to do is gas this
man because I feel like he gets enough of it,
like random times during the show.
Speaker 2 (02:31):
But I think he looks really good for his age.
Speaker 5 (02:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
I would never really wouldn't have been.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
My guest, I know, and I don't think. Let me
make it very clear, I don't think in your forties is.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
Old at all because.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
Bo never would I have guess forty four I said,
I would go like thirty seven, thirty eight.
Speaker 4 (02:52):
I can write with that. I was gonna I would
say thirty five that was mine. Oh wow, that's it's
going to give you a clean thing.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
That was not. Yeah, I wasn't good. That's that's low.
That's yeah.
Speaker 4 (03:02):
By the way, the last time we was at the bar,
like twenty something told me they thought I was thirty one.
Speaker 3 (03:07):
I did. I did not make it.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
I I'm not kidding. Like if I go to the
liquor store and they ask for my ID, I'm like
this thrill. Oh, it's the best thing ever. I mean,
it really happens anymore. When it does, I'm like, whoa, all.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
Right, anyways, enough about you two. It's a really big
day for me. Yeah, I'm moving straight on. Actually, like
today should be a holiday. I feel like I shouldn't
have to be in here. But at seven am is
the first.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
Round of Halloween. Drop at home deepot.
Speaker 3 (03:44):
Oh, boom boom.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
The twelve foot led lit speaking skeleton drops at seven A.
He speaks, Now, I have the seven footer inside. You
can you can custom you can make it custom. So like,
for instance, my seven footer inside. When Leila walks up
the stairs, he says, Hi, Laila, happy Halloween.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
No it's crazy. So they that's why they're coming out.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
With a twelve foot this will you'll like my reference
put the nail on the coffin.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
Of my divorce.
Speaker 1 (04:12):
For sure, that man is gonna he's going to be
if that's if I even get it. It feels like
the world is out to get this skeleton today.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
It drops at seven am. My heart's beating through my
chest like we're getting We're getting, We're getting close.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
H I don't know if it will happen for me.
It's three hundred and seventy nine dollars.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
Oh so that's nothing to drop in the bucket.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
The the OG twelve foot skeleton was one ninety nine,
and I felt like I could get behind that. So
like when people would ask me how much it costs,
I would just say, like one hundred because why.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
Why is this one so much more?
Speaker 2 (04:43):
Because he does so much more?
Speaker 3 (04:44):
So he just talks though he speaks.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
His eyes can be like one hundred different colors. You
can put like shamrocks in his eyeballs.
Speaker 3 (04:51):
Like you like dance. What else? Right is he gonna
do your taxes? What it would? That's a price.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
Tag, I know it is the fact that he three
seventy nine is like it is painful, but they can
have it.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
Yeah, he'd better be making eggs in the morning, all
of it.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
They can have the three seventy night.
Speaker 1 (05:09):
And what's gonna pay me is if I actually do
get it at seven am, it will get delivered earlier
than when I plan on putting out my skeletons.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
But I feel like I will have to go up early.
Speaker 1 (05:17):
He will have to go up early, So please everybody
pray for me.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
Seven Am Ashley ended Jamie Morning Show.
Speaker 7 (05:24):
When you need to know, we got you three things
you need to know on Bustin's number one for Hippa
and the best throwbags you haven't eighty four five?
Speaker 2 (05:33):
All right, Dall's Thursday.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
It's July sixteenth, which is crazy. We are cruising through
July and we have a final for the World Cup.
It's gonna happen this Sunday and it is Spain taken
on Argentina.
Speaker 2 (05:48):
Lionel Messi has put on a show.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
It has been show time behavior for him, setting up
both the tying and winning goals for Argentina, essentially rescuing
them from their game against England.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
And then we have on the other side, La mean
La mean Yamal Sure yep.
Speaker 3 (06:09):
For Spain.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
And it's the connection between the two that is sending
me to Zimoon.
Speaker 1 (06:18):
No, this is gonna sound made up, but you probably
have seen it. You're gonna be like, oh, there is
a photo of Lionel Messi washing a young Lamin Yamal
as a baby. Like in a bathtub for a charity
photo shoot.
Speaker 4 (06:36):
Sound I could never play against.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
No, it's like put it this way.
Speaker 1 (06:43):
I saw the photo and I was like, oh, this
is a.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
I and they being like he's his little child. You
know that actually happens.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
So if you guys have seen that photo, they call
it a they're calling it a cosmic connection. But like this,
he's a whole baby and Lionel Messy is like an whole,
like adult looking man, and he's bathing him in a
tub for it's no no.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
No, yeah, no.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
Yeah yeah. So they've met. They've met, you mean, Leman
doesn't remember it, but they have met.
Speaker 1 (07:16):
There's so many things and there's so much hype around
this game. I love that it's at three o'clock, but
really the performers should be talked about as well. Posty
is going to headline the closing ceremony. That event will
start at one point thirty. It'll be obviously ninety minutes
before the match kicks off. But Jay hudd Jennifer Hudson
is going to sing the national anthem wait with other
(07:38):
performers like quote Tom Cruise, Robbie Williams, and Nicole Scherzinger.
What's Tom Cruise doing out here? Is he gonna play
a plane again? Like, What's what's Tom doing? I'm confused.
It's it's gonna be some stupid top top gun like
for sure. The halftime show curated by Chris Chris Martin,
starring BTS, Justin Bieber, Madonna, and Shakira. Oh my lord,
(08:02):
tat like wow, I even the Beabs, like the Beebes
does not really perform like that anymore. I am very
excited for this. They were gonna have all the eyes
in the world on them anyway, but now they're really
turning up.
Speaker 2 (08:15):
So there you have.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
It's Spain and Argentina will bathe each other at three
pm on Sunday. It is the final We've been building
up for this, people, and I think we're I mean,
we're most certainly.
Speaker 2 (08:23):
Going to get a show. MESSI has just been.
Speaker 4 (08:26):
Insane, yes, and like it's truly, truly, truly goat behavior.
And I'm so happy that I had a chance to
see him play at Gillette Live once because there's like.
Speaker 3 (08:37):
I don't follow soccer, so I don't really know what
I'm looking.
Speaker 4 (08:39):
At super well, but you could tell there was like
this was a man amongst different energy.
Speaker 3 (08:45):
He is just good.
Speaker 1 (08:46):
And what's crazy is they say that Lamina mal is
going to be like his direct successor like.
Speaker 3 (08:52):
Some people on the next He's been bathed.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
For sure. All right, let's talk about the day. Let's
daylight saving time.
Speaker 1 (09:01):
Because this was just everywhere yesterday and there's so much
of a back and forth and like there's people love
to debate whether we should have it or not. I
was telling you my thing is like I had seen
before I had kids, people complaining with kids.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
About daylight saving Simon. I was like, I don't really understand.
Speaker 1 (09:18):
Now that I have kids, I do understand, because you know,
when they're used to getting up at six, we're putting
the clocks back at all of a sudden it's five am,
and they're like.
Speaker 2 (09:25):
What's up. It's really annoying. I feel like as for us,
for adults, like not going to change much.
Speaker 3 (09:31):
I do not care. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:33):
The House officially voted to make daylight saving time permanent,
advancing a major push to end the quote controversial twice
a year clock changes.
Speaker 2 (09:41):
I loved this.
Speaker 8 (09:42):
Vern.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
Buchanan is the one that introduced the vern, and.
Speaker 1 (09:45):
He said, quote, the current clock changes and disrupts daily
schedules for no good reason. It's actually a fact, like
why are we doing this? I don't know the way
it will work now, guys, the legislation will now have
to the sentence.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
Where its exact future remains pretty much uncertain. So will
it actually happen?
Speaker 3 (10:05):
We don't know.
Speaker 1 (10:05):
But this was a big step that it made it
out of out of the house. If you're wondering, like
what does that mean for us? Just an example, So
summer's here, the sun would rise at five oh six
am and it would set at eight twenty five pm.
Speaker 3 (10:19):
That's not bad.
Speaker 2 (10:20):
I mean that's dan ward nine pm.
Speaker 1 (10:21):
Okay, wintertime, the sun would rise at eight thirteen am.
That does seem a little late, and then it would
set at five eleven. Five eleven is not bad in
the winter because if you think about it, there are
some days at four pm in the winter where it
is like pitch on outside looked, yeah, So.
Speaker 3 (10:39):
That you know what not bad? I'm on board.
Speaker 1 (10:42):
It wouldn't be bad, and then we wouldn't have a
deal with the changes, and it wouldn't like I mean,
it does disrupt for no good reason.
Speaker 3 (10:47):
I'm willing actually good reason stand with I've never understood it.
Speaker 1 (10:51):
Yeah, no, it's I don't think it's necessary, but we
shall see alright. And lastly, the Asps were on last
night honoring obviously some of the biggest as leads, the teams,
the moments.
Speaker 2 (11:01):
The Knicks really just swept this thing.
Speaker 3 (11:03):
Like as they should. That's that's a story, that's the story.
Speaker 2 (11:06):
Yeah, this will come as no shock to anybody.
Speaker 1 (11:08):
Best Athlete for men's Sports Jalen Brunson first and.
Speaker 9 (11:13):
Foremost to be.
Speaker 2 (11:16):
Award of this award, and with a group like that
means the world.
Speaker 3 (11:21):
So I want to say thank you to the fans.
Speaker 1 (11:23):
I really do appreciate y'all, my family, my teammates, just
everyone that's always.
Speaker 3 (11:30):
Believed in me.
Speaker 5 (11:32):
I lost the words. You know, it's been it's been
all of the run, I'll say to say, the least.
Speaker 2 (11:36):
Little lack of enthusiasm there.
Speaker 4 (11:39):
Yeah, they were probably cooked before they ever hit that stage.
Speaker 2 (11:42):
Sure. Some other notable winners. Best Athlete on the women's side.
Speaker 1 (11:46):
Asia Wilson of the Las Vegas Ace's best record breaking
performance went to Miles Garrett of the Browns. He broke
the NFL single season Zach record. The Browns don't win
much so that's cool, and he's not human, he doesn't
look like he does it. And the big story was
he got up there and when he accepted the ward,
he like kissed his girlfriend on the lips and everyone was.
Speaker 2 (12:04):
Like, Oh, she's actually the one who gave him the award.
Speaker 1 (12:08):
Best Championship Performance, uh Jalen Brunson of the New York Knicks,
and then best Team again, Uh, the New York Knicks
should have should have been the Celtics should have a kid.
I have three things even though for Thursday, July sixteenth,
make sure you catch up on the pod. Obviously we
might mention that amazing violinist that was your name price
that EMO has no idea about.
Speaker 2 (12:30):
But you know you can share the podcast too. Down
the free I heard radio app search a s h
l leg when.
Speaker 7 (12:39):
In the morning Boston's number one for hip hop jam
in ninety four or five.
Speaker 1 (12:44):
We are about twenty minutes out from the first drop
at home.
Speaker 4 (12:51):
I genuinely thought, I was like, Oh, does she have
some crazy tickets?
Speaker 3 (12:56):
Oh my god, what is actually happening?
Speaker 2 (12:58):
No, my god, it's all like an think about so
I just needed to get it off my chest.
Speaker 1 (13:02):
Guys, home Depot's dropping the twelve foot Skelly that speaks today,
and I just all I need it like I need
air to breathe. I'm not gonna get it, though. I've
put a lot of thought into this. So we have
Jimmy and we have Steve. Those are my two right now,
and I just I don't know, I have to put
some thought into it, cause obviously jimm and Steve are kind.
Speaker 2 (13:22):
Of like just chill.
Speaker 3 (13:24):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (13:24):
I usually try to go by somebody that died recently.
Speaker 4 (13:28):
Yeah, that I like have Sam Neil, the guy from
Jurassic Park.
Speaker 1 (13:32):
You know what, I could call him doctor Ellen Grant. Oh,
just Grant, Jimmy Stephen Grant, doctor Grant.
Speaker 3 (13:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (13:40):
Wow. Okay, do you like doctor on me too? Do
you like putting because now he's an authority figure?
Speaker 1 (13:44):
Yeah, but I don't want Jimmy to feel the type
of way because Jimmy's the og. But you're right, that
does give like an authoritative All right, Well, listen, this
is why you're I'm keeping you around, all right. So
I'm going to try to talk about other things, but
we all know where my mind is. But I listen.
I will say this about the fireman. He hates being
on my social media. I think that's everybody knows that.
(14:05):
But when he is included in my social media, it's
rarely him speaking. It's ninety percent of the time like
a photo that I've taken or something. And when he
is speaking, most of the time, people are just taken
aback by the accent.
Speaker 2 (14:17):
So a couple days ago, I want to say, it
was like.
Speaker 1 (14:19):
Monday, I'm in here and AJ and I are like
giggling at this video where a wife is like acting
out a scene and she's pretending like she's on the
phone with her best friend. The best friend's kitchen is
on fire and she's giving the wrong advice and the
fire her husband's a firefighter as well, and her firefighter
husband like got up out of his chair. He was
like freaking out all this stuff. And I said, I
(14:41):
have to do this with the fireman. He will he
will not panic, he will not stand up, He probably
will barely look at me. It will be relaxation to
the utmost level, because.
Speaker 2 (14:52):
That's he does. And by the way, I say this
a lot about him.
Speaker 1 (14:56):
If you are looking at somebody to like come into
your house and save you and be like a first responder,
you want them to not be able to rattle, right, like, yeah,
you want that again?
Speaker 2 (15:04):
Yeah, and he that man does not rattle like he.
Speaker 5 (15:09):
Always.
Speaker 2 (15:11):
I also feel like we're gonna play it.
Speaker 1 (15:13):
I would like you to kind of like break down
my acting because I was pretty proud of myself, like
I thought it was good. Yeah, I thought it was good.
I didn't break character. I wanted to multiple times. But
to set the scene for you guys, I had on
my metaglasses and he was sitting outside in the rocking chair,
just chilling with the kids, and I did a pretend
phone call and he had to then like I don't know,
(15:36):
I didn't know if he was going to react or
what it was.
Speaker 2 (15:38):
Okay, here it is, hello, dude, calm down. Well, if
the if the stove is on fire, just get get witter.
Speaker 1 (15:48):
No, don't get no, no, don't no no. Don't put
the lid on the don't put the lid on it,
don't keep it.
Speaker 2 (15:58):
Putter on it.
Speaker 1 (16:00):
The oiler is there oil, Okay, just put the water
on it.
Speaker 2 (16:03):
Just put yes, it is oil.
Speaker 3 (16:05):
Knock the water on it.
Speaker 10 (16:06):
Cover it with a top with the okay, come with
a turn turn it off, cover.
Speaker 1 (16:11):
Over with the lid.
Speaker 2 (16:13):
Is it on the stove? She's getting the water?
Speaker 5 (16:16):
Do not get the water?
Speaker 2 (16:17):
Do not get the water? What's that going to do?
Will when you blow up your kitchen, turn the gas No, no,
turn the gas up, off off, I'm like, And then
when I stopped.
Speaker 1 (16:31):
Because he literally did the hand motion of like, let
the bitch's kitchen light up.
Speaker 2 (16:35):
I don't care, I can't deal with you anymore. Just
let it light up.
Speaker 4 (16:38):
It is the It is one of my favorite But
it's the fact when you say he didn't rattle, he
remained rocking in the chair the entire time, like he
never broke stride of leisure, which was beautiful.
Speaker 2 (16:53):
It was so leisurely, Like there's a couple of things
that I really noticed.
Speaker 1 (16:57):
The Beebo's right, he never stopped rocking in that you
if you haven't seen it at Ashley Felman two, he's
on the ass, but he never stopped rocking. At one
point he was so relaxed and he was like, let
me cross my legs, like he adjusted himself. He like
crosses his legs, and then throughout the rest of the combo,
he's just scratching his beard like he's just like, yeah, no,
she shouldn't do that. She absolutely should not do And
(17:18):
then pretty much what I gathered at the end, he
was like, you're so stupid and I'm so annoyed with you,
like let the woman's kitchen burn, but get do it
away from me.
Speaker 3 (17:27):
This conversation some motion.
Speaker 2 (17:29):
Of like I'm done, like I am not.
Speaker 5 (17:31):
I I had.
Speaker 1 (17:33):
Actual like tears were coming because I knew. I knew
the reaction wasn't going to be like oh my god,
like which how I would be.
Speaker 2 (17:42):
Such panic mode. He's just not that. Have you seen it, Juels?
Did you watch it.
Speaker 5 (17:45):
Like I did? I watched it last night.
Speaker 3 (17:47):
It was so funny.
Speaker 5 (17:50):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (17:50):
And so then like my friend who I Casey, who
I pretended to call. She calls and she's like, put
me on speaker and she's like, what's up with you? Man?
Just gonna let she's given me the wrong advice. He's
gonna let my kitchen burn.
Speaker 1 (18:02):
He's like, I thought to myself, if Casey's that stupid
to call.
Speaker 2 (18:06):
Her for advice during this, then that's on her. She
gets her kitchens gun over her.
Speaker 1 (18:12):
I did have a couple of people DM me and
I've seen the video where it's a woman and she
asks her firefighter husband to like pretend rescue her out
of a burning building. We have a better chance of
the Lord Jesus Christ coming to pretend to rescue me
from whatever. The only reason that one worked is because
he doesn't know the metaglasses record, like I'm telling you,
(18:32):
and yet I still don't think he does.
Speaker 10 (18:34):
Which is incredible insane, which is in yeah, sane. Well,
first of all, I still can't believe he can't see
the light now, let it go right there. It's headlight
on the side.
Speaker 1 (18:46):
So wild, and I knew this was only going to
work if I could do it outside, because so I
can have the glasses on. But I think, like, he
doesn't have the internet, guys, like, he doesn't have social media,
so he doesn't know that there's an actual video of him.
I did tell him, I said, oh, I posted our
conversation and he was like, oh, did.
Speaker 2 (19:03):
That help with your dopamine today?
Speaker 5 (19:07):
All right?
Speaker 1 (19:07):
Man, Like okay, But then I was telling him that
it's like some of the comments people were making and
he was like, I don't get it, like yeah, well,
because I was.
Speaker 2 (19:18):
Like, no, no one could believe that you were just
so calm and you were rocking. He's like, what did
you want me to do?
Speaker 1 (19:23):
It's like no, he he actually a couple of the
guy from his fire house.
Speaker 4 (19:27):
Comments like it just all right, But that was so funny.
Speaker 1 (19:32):
I also think it's like you're seeing this person actually
speak for like a good amount of time. It was
like a little over a minute, and nobody nobody gets
that from him.
Speaker 4 (19:40):
I said, it's like if you go to the zoo
and see a rare animal. Yeah, you're like, watch, watch,
just watch, just watch.
Speaker 2 (19:49):
Yeah, that was I can't believe it worked.
Speaker 1 (19:51):
I literally told ages, I'm gonna sempt this, but I
don't I don't know if it'll work.
Speaker 5 (19:55):
And I was it was funny.
Speaker 2 (19:56):
He also wasn't sure if it was funny. Like I
was like, it's funny.
Speaker 1 (19:59):
To me, but I don't know if anyone's getting like
the man has just no racking.
Speaker 3 (20:03):
I was cackling.
Speaker 5 (20:05):
I strived to be that level of laid back.
Speaker 4 (20:07):
Oh my god, yeah, seriously, oh gosh, fire like freaking.
Speaker 1 (20:12):
If you haven't seen it at Ashley Filman tweeze on
the Ashley the Fireman is officially featured.
Speaker 7 (20:19):
Show and you need to know we got you three
things you need to know on Boston's number one for
hip hop and the best throwbags.
Speaker 2 (20:28):
You haven't any four five.
Speaker 1 (20:30):
All right, babe, Thursday July sixteenth, and uh, this is
going to be an addition to the other three things
you need to know. I got the skeleton, and just
so we're all clear, it's already sold out, really already.
So I'm getting messages being like it's already sold out.
I can see my heart, I can't see you.
Speaker 3 (20:46):
Guys.
Speaker 2 (20:47):
Watched that live action and it was very nerve racking,
But that was one.
Speaker 1 (20:51):
Of the most intense things I've ever been a part of.
I know, I couldn't sit. I couldn't sit and I
was just typing type type, typing away. But the craziest
part about it is I secured the brand new twelve
foot skeleton that speaks led all the things from Home depot.
Speaker 2 (21:08):
It's coming tomorrow. Why is it getting delivered so fast?
Speaker 3 (21:11):
They're trying to get rid of themsel.
Speaker 2 (21:14):
Floating these guys like we're trying. I mean, I don't.
Speaker 1 (21:17):
I was going to try to keep it a secret
as long as I could, but I mean, there's going
to be a whole body delivered tomorrow.
Speaker 3 (21:21):
You put it up immediately, I like kind of want
you to just gonna text to.
Speaker 1 (21:26):
My neighbor because I know she wanted it so bad
and she hasn't hit me up, meaning she didn't get it.
Speaker 2 (21:30):
So all right, let's talk about the news you actually need,
because no one's going to work being like, hey, did
you're Ashley Pellman from no one cares about this? All right?
Speaker 1 (21:38):
Moving on, Spain Argentina will be the final for the
World Cup. It's this Sunday at three o'clock. This will
be the first time in my life I ever tuned
into a World Cup final because.
Speaker 2 (21:49):
Ever, but I got so invested in it.
Speaker 3 (21:52):
You know, it's a lot more fun than you think
it is.
Speaker 4 (21:56):
I think by the first one I watched maybe was
two years ago, not two years ago, but two cups ago.
Speaker 1 (22:02):
I didn't even know, like where one would watch it.
Two years ago I have had and I've had no
dog in the fight. I still don't. It's just the
excitement around it. And because it was in our face.
I will one hundred percent stand on if the World
Cup didn't go to our city, I would still be
living in my I don't care about the World Cup
world but it was in our face and I fell
in love. So it's happening Sunday, three o'clock Lanta. Messi
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has just been putting on a show. I mean, setting
up both the tying and winning goals for Argentina to
be the to beat England. He is one of the
ones where like you expect him to play well and
he always beats said expectation.
Speaker 4 (22:38):
It's insane and that's so hard to do because the
expect the like it's to the move.
Speaker 1 (22:43):
I know you're playing quite literally against the best in
the world. He has dominated this tourney.
Speaker 2 (22:48):
I think he's in the lead with like eight goals
or something crazy.
Speaker 4 (22:52):
I mean, he someone told me he was the youngest
to ever score, like the youngest person to score a
World Cup goal, so he held that record and the
oldest person to score a World Cup goal.
Speaker 1 (23:01):
And he's just it is And he's the jersey you
see everywhere. I can just picture that hot pink jersey
that says Messy on the back. I want that thing.
I think why this game itself is so highly anticipated
is because Lamina mal who plays for Spain.
Speaker 2 (23:15):
I'm praying it. I don't think I'm saying it right.
Speaker 4 (23:17):
I have no idea I'm not going to correct you.
Speaker 1 (23:22):
People consider him in the soccer world the direct successor
of Messy, so it's like we're kind of getting the
best of the best playing, which is super exciting. It's
it's it's worth mentioning that you at some point leading
up to Sunday's game are going to see the photo
heard around the world.
Speaker 2 (23:39):
They've they've met before.
Speaker 1 (23:42):
Lamina mal was a little baby and Messi also young,
was bathing him for a charity photo shoot.
Speaker 2 (23:51):
Have you Joles, have you seen the photo?
Speaker 5 (23:54):
I photo and I thought it was weird.
Speaker 2 (23:56):
I thought I thought it was a I I a hundred.
I mean, I actually still wish it was. I just
tell ourselves that because it just looks so weird. We
remove that.
Speaker 1 (24:07):
There are these big soccer stars and it's just like
a picture of a dad like washing his baby.
Speaker 2 (24:11):
I don't know, but they weren't even I don't know.
Speaker 3 (24:13):
He anointed him, What was the charity?
Speaker 2 (24:15):
That's what I need to know.
Speaker 1 (24:17):
But anyways, they have had a moment, but this is
gonna be the bigger moments three o'clock and we will
have all types of entertainment leading up to it. Post
he is going to headline the closing ceremony, which will
start ninety minutes before the game in New Jersey. Jennifer
Hudson is going to sing the national anthem, joining other
performers like Tom Cruise, Robbie Williams, and Nicole Scherzinger. I
(24:37):
can't wait to see.
Speaker 3 (24:37):
What Tom has in store for us.
Speaker 2 (24:40):
He'll be flying out of some plane.
Speaker 1 (24:42):
And then during the halftime show, it is a full
show curated by Chris Martin from Coldplay, starring BTS, Madonna, Shakira,
and just In Beeber.
Speaker 4 (24:53):
That is insane And I don't care what anyone says.
The World Cup halftime show or the World Cup in
general is bigger than the Super Bowl. So this halftime
show kind of feels Oh, I'm sold on that they were.
Speaker 1 (25:05):
I mean, those are like the biggest names and now Donna,
I think, honestly, I don't know BTS, but I know
if it was just them alone, that would be enough for.
Speaker 2 (25:15):
Their fan base.
Speaker 3 (25:16):
Donna and Bieber and Shakiada Shakiada.
Speaker 4 (25:19):
It feels like they just took all the big famous
people that they did, like the biggest acts they can find,
just slammed.
Speaker 2 (25:24):
I know how disrespectful this sounds to the other people.
Speaker 1 (25:27):
But I just I'm a big Beabes fan and he
doesn't perform a lot, so I'm really excited for that.
Speaker 3 (25:31):
That's insane, I know.
Speaker 6 (25:32):
So he's going to do that trash performance he did
at Cochell excuse.
Speaker 1 (25:36):
Me, oh oh, where he plays the YouTube and like
sings along all of that.
Speaker 2 (25:41):
But yeah, people were mad.
Speaker 1 (25:42):
They were like, wait, so I basically paid all types
of money for Justin Bieber to play his own YouTube
like his own YouTube vide don't talk bad about him.
Speaker 2 (25:50):
He's had a Ramsey hunt and it's been a long
JOm and his wife just.
Speaker 1 (25:55):
Dropped new jeans at the cap how I mean, yeah,
stop it, everybody, like, give it up, keep it up,
all right, I.
Speaker 2 (26:01):
Listen one thing about Cardi B.
Speaker 1 (26:04):
You're not going to talk a bad about her, her
baby Daddy's like she she will.
Speaker 2 (26:08):
Stand up for those men.
Speaker 1 (26:09):
I mean, look how many times she took back offset
for real, for real, this would have I wasn't here yesterday.
If I was, it probably would have played it yesterday.
But I just didn't want you guys to miss out
on it because it's so juicy. But Stefan Diggs is
in the midst man. He is in the midst of
this trial that is coming up where a friend of
his is claiming who's a male that they had like
(26:29):
a romantic relationship. When he threatened to cut off the
romantic relationship, Stefan Diggs had his brother jump him in
the elevator of his hotel building.
Speaker 2 (26:41):
If you haven't seen the video.
Speaker 1 (26:44):
Yeah, and in fact, Stefan Diggs brother does have to
pay him some serious cash, but it doesn't matter. He
is still taking Stefan Diggs to trial. So that means
that Cardi has been probably hearing this non stop, like, oh,
you're having babies with a guy that lays with men,
Like what's up with you?
Speaker 2 (27:01):
And now she's gotten pushed a little bit too far.
Speaker 11 (27:04):
Yeah, got me defending that I'm beefing with And I
don't like that, Like I really I really really really
really really really really really really really really but I'm
not liking how it's one thing for the Internet to
get get false claims and report false news, but for
(27:27):
credible sources and credible people they're supposed to be talking about,
credible they're supposed to be doing their research to talk
about it. This light s getting out Vino came on
the Internet and told the story three different times.
Speaker 2 (27:42):
The first time.
Speaker 11 (27:43):
Was, oh, I asked this for some money, you know,
like he was my people, and he came and whispered
in my ear like, oh you want the money, you
gotta do this, this and that.
Speaker 2 (27:53):
Then when your story.
Speaker 11 (27:55):
Wasn't getting picked up how you wanted.
Speaker 2 (27:57):
It to get picked up.
Speaker 11 (27:58):
You juiced it up and you'll sp the up and
now is oh yeah he pulled out. Yeah he was
high and he pulled down. You'll set two different stories.
And the crazy is the bloggers and people they're supposed
to be making their research are not even doing their
research to see how this man did the story too
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different side.
Speaker 2 (28:19):
Well, I'm going to make my research and I will
look into that.
Speaker 1 (28:23):
But yeah, I mean listen the light skin albino as
Kurti you know, describes him.
Speaker 3 (28:29):
Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (28:30):
After she went on spaces and said this, he posted
like a carousel of probably ten plus photos of him
and Stefan digs together and was like it'll all come
out in the trial, like the truth will prevail.
Speaker 3 (28:41):
That is crazy. So what is spaces?
Speaker 2 (28:44):
It's a good question. Do you know what it is? Tools?
Like she goes on there all the time.
Speaker 5 (28:47):
That's like the audio.
Speaker 2 (28:50):
Uh is it Twitter?
Speaker 5 (28:52):
But like no, it's it's it's the audio.
Speaker 1 (28:54):
Like when so you can't see her by the way,
you know when she does this, Oh.
Speaker 5 (28:58):
Wow, so you just talked and everybody can hear you.
Speaker 1 (29:01):
It would be like a photo of you and then
like it bleeps, so we know that it yeah, it says.
Speaker 2 (29:06):
This is the most common meaning of X.
Speaker 1 (29:08):
Spaces is a live, interactive audio feature of the social
media platform X formerly known as Twitter. So it is
through Twitter, but it would be like just your avatar
and it would kind of light up when you were speaking.
Speaker 2 (29:18):
So we never physically see her.
Speaker 1 (29:20):
But she she lives in spaces like that's where she
goes to like talk about headlines or whatever.
Speaker 2 (29:26):
She loves that place.
Speaker 6 (29:27):
Actually, you know what, think about it as live like
like Instagram live. Oh yeah, yeah that makes sense, but
no picture, yeah h video. It's just her talking and
you can invite different people to come on.
Speaker 1 (29:37):
I feel like it makes her like go at people
even more because you can't see her.
Speaker 2 (29:40):
So she's like, I'm just gonna play whatever I want,
all right.
Speaker 1 (29:44):
And lastly, R Kelly has officially asked DT to commute
his thirty year prison sentence for sex crimes.
Speaker 2 (29:52):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (29:52):
He recently followed a formal clemency requesting the Department of
Justice Agency handle Executive partner that handles executive parts Gardians
to please get him up out of jail. This comes
like pretty recent after his attorney Bo Brindley made this
emergency plea basically saying that R. Kelly is at risk
every single day. People are trying to kill him. Gang
(30:13):
members have been recruited to kill him, and they really
need the President to intervene and place him on home detention.
He said, Well, R Kelly does not have the time,
with his life in danger, to go through normal channels.
I beg to differ that those young women that he
was trafficking and all those crimeskins also didn't have the time. Yeah,
but they were forced, yes, by the creep known as
(30:34):
correct R Kelly. He by way, is currently scheduled to
be released from federal prison Jan thirty one of twenty
forty five.
Speaker 2 (30:43):
See you then, Bud, Yeah, do you know how old
he'll be at that time?
Speaker 3 (30:46):
One hundred and six seventy eight. My god, heay not
that bad.
Speaker 2 (30:51):
You got some time, all right?
Speaker 1 (30:52):
The three things He's know for Thursday, July sixteenth, past
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Fat Joe, It's jaw Rule, It's Jadakiss, It's Nelly and
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Good luck m eighty four five. It's Ashley and the
jam In Morning.
Speaker 7 (31:26):
Show and it's time for another DM dilemma.
Speaker 2 (31:33):
Hey guys, good morning, It's Ashley and the jam In
Morning Show.
Speaker 1 (31:36):
Bemo.
Speaker 2 (31:36):
The Prince is here joining us. Okay, So it was
very strange yesterday.
Speaker 1 (31:41):
I got a couple messages from different girls being like
ash listen, I'm going through something. I want to stay anonymous.
Do you think you could, you know, talk about this.
I'd be anxious to hear what people have to say,
always willing to do so you know every The one
thing that I love about DM dilemma is everybody has
some sort of dilemma in their life, and I think
things change.
Speaker 2 (32:01):
With the seasons.
Speaker 1 (32:02):
Some seasons it's really bad, the dilemma is crazy big,
and another time it's like, you know, did I get
the skeleton or not? Like you just don't know I did.
By the way, you don't know what it's gonna be.
So we're gonna help her out. She is on ig
with me right now, so if we have follow up questions,
fair game and we can ask. So, she says, my
ex and I broke up two years ago and we
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have a child together together. Earlier this year, whenever I
would drop off our daughter, he was very flirtatious with me. Duels,
are you listening, okay. He would touch me, he would
act affectionate. He would show me a lot of attention.
The confusing part is that he had a girlfriend, So
I started wondering if they were having problems and if
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he was just trying to reconnect with me. Recently, I
asked him for something our daughter needed. Out of nowhere.
He texted me saying he was taking me to court
because he thinks I'm going to stop him from seeing
our daughter. That caught me completely off guard because I
never said or did anything to make him think that.
Now I'm changing and wondering if something happened on his end.
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Part of me thinks his girlfriend could be pregnant, or
maybe she saw our text messages and is influencing him
to take me to court. But I need to know
what could have changed. Sorry, that was a lot, Joels.
I'm adding you into this just because you know you
have a great relationship with the mother of your child,
and you know if there was an if if I
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think things would change obviously for you, if if you
guys were each in real relationships.
Speaker 2 (33:30):
But had you ever had it maybe.
Speaker 1 (33:31):
In the beginning where like she's saying, when I would
drop the kid off, they would be flirty.
Speaker 2 (33:36):
He would be like affectionate with me, touchy with me.
Speaker 5 (33:40):
No, no, no, there was never like I was never
flirty with her. Well you know what, I'm lying.
Speaker 1 (33:48):
Because I'm so glad you said that, because I was
gonna say, I've heard their calls.
Speaker 6 (33:52):
He flirts with her, good boy, But it's like it's
like me joking around, like I just do that to
kind of like mess with her. Like it's not like
a real flirty, like she knows what I'm doing.
Speaker 1 (34:07):
This scenario, though, is weird because we're going from when
I dropped the kid off, he's flirty with me, he's
touching me, he's affectionate with me, to all of a sudden.
Speaker 2 (34:18):
I want custody the kid. We're going to court.
Speaker 5 (34:20):
Yeah, that's crazy.
Speaker 3 (34:21):
I gotta be the girlfriend.
Speaker 2 (34:22):
Got that's what she's guessing. And what else?
Speaker 6 (34:27):
It's you know what I mean, don't. I don't know
what to tell her. I can only speak to the man,
but it's like be a man, Like stop stop having
your girlfriend tell you what to do. Like that's just
weird to me. Like your relationship with you with your
kid's mother has to be that relationship. You can't have
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other people influences.
Speaker 1 (34:50):
Yeah, and I think that has to be like of
the utmost priority, right, Like you guys aren't together. The
kid's already going to be going to two different houses.
Like we need to make that good. So everybody's good.
Speaker 4 (35:01):
And even the girlfriend is new to the situation, so
she gotta kind of respect it. Don't touch her or
talk to her.
Speaker 1 (35:08):
It's always crazy to me when like a new girlfriend
comes in the scenario and all of a sudden starts
calling the shots. But if I'm new girlfriend and I
come into the scenario and I see text messages between
the two being like.
Speaker 2 (35:22):
Oh, so good to see you today, like you're so
not being so flirty with me or something, Excuse me?
What do I need to be at drop offs?
Speaker 1 (35:28):
I don't know, Like I so, I can see why
she might feel a type of way.
Speaker 4 (35:33):
You gotta be ready to get into that type of
scenario because there's always going to be someone else.
Speaker 1 (35:38):
Or she just said the girl was with him back
in the day, she came out of nowhere when we
were together, he didn't post me.
Speaker 2 (35:44):
Those are the things that she's added in so far.
So should we ask? I want to know specifically, why
do they break up?
Speaker 3 (35:52):
That's a lot.
Speaker 2 (35:54):
I mean, I don't listen. I don't think this is
one like where all of a sudden, she's gonna call
us in a week and be like, guess what it is?
Like I think it's what it is.
Speaker 1 (36:01):
I think the girlfriend is like, I'm uncomfortable now going
to court and getting the custody is kind of But
maybe she's saying if they have no custody agreement. Maybe
what the girlfriend's trying to insinuate is is like it's
all in her control.
Speaker 2 (36:15):
You don't have any control here. Yeah, maybe you know.
Speaker 6 (36:20):
My My thing is is whenever I start dating somebody,
I tell them, like me and my son's mother have
a great relationship, like like there's got to be there's
got to be some type of respect.
Speaker 1 (36:33):
I don't think like you're saying, right, but I don't
think you understand like what he can I give an example, right,
give me the context. Okay, so for instance, one time
they went on a family vacation together and stayed in
the same room. I'm new girlfriend, I am putting on
my foot down. No, no, no, Like I want you
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to have a good relationship. But that's crazy.
Speaker 3 (36:57):
Well you know it's rooms are expensive? Thank you?
Speaker 2 (37:03):
Now correct me if I'm wrong.
Speaker 1 (37:04):
You guys weren't dating any bait of the time, so
who what does it really matter exactly? But given that
same scenario, we are dating, like one of us is
that's not cool.
Speaker 2 (37:12):
Yeah, hey, I'm all about family.
Speaker 5 (37:14):
But but you know what, I agree with you. I
agree with you.
Speaker 1 (37:21):
Sorry, she just wrote and said he was cheating. He
said I wasn't affectionate enough, and that's why we broke up.
I don't feel like any of these details are helping us.
Speaker 3 (37:30):
Kids still be affectionate.
Speaker 2 (37:32):
Yeah, he seeks like he's a little bit of a player,
but playing devil's advocate here.
Speaker 1 (37:38):
Maybe the new girlfriend was just like, hey, she kind
of has all the power, and when you see the
kid and when you don't, maybe we should go to
court and you get some like actual.
Speaker 4 (37:48):
Yeah, and he could have just like taken it to
a whole new level. She could have just suggested a
thing and he ran with it.
Speaker 1 (37:54):
But I'm gonna say she just said I've never kept
my child away from him. And I asked to meet
the girl friend if she's long term. I said, do
you guys have a custody agreement or is it something
you work out?
Speaker 3 (38:08):
Yeah, because if she's letting him see.
Speaker 2 (38:10):
Okay, they don't. They don't have a custody agreement.
Speaker 1 (38:12):
They work it out like outside of court, which a
lot of X couples do. But like again, then then
you guys have to agree and you have to talk
about if it's a court agreed costody.
Speaker 2 (38:23):
It's like you get the kid when you get the kids,
she gets the kid.
Speaker 4 (38:26):
Like, yeah, that, and it feels like then they're then
they're definitely cool enough to be able to manage that,
and that definitely feels like an X.
Speaker 2 (38:34):
Yeah, well yeah they're cool because he he flirts his
way through it.
Speaker 5 (38:37):
I guess.
Speaker 1 (38:38):
I mean, well, listen, I can tell you this. There's
I just asked, does he help money wise? Because I'm
interested to see if Yeah.
Speaker 3 (38:44):
I guess that's a good point.
Speaker 2 (38:45):
Is your custody agreement in or outside of court?
Speaker 5 (38:48):
Outside? Yeah?
Speaker 6 (38:49):
Yeah, we do not have a there's no courts. I
see my son whenever I want to see my son,
and you know, with holidays we figure it out.
Speaker 2 (39:00):
Okay, so money wise, you guys have never had an
issue or anything.
Speaker 6 (39:04):
If my son's mother needs something, if she's like and
she really very rarely asked for money, like I give
it to her.
Speaker 5 (39:11):
Yeah, whatever she needs to her.
Speaker 2 (39:13):
I like that attitude this guy said. She said he doesn't.
Speaker 1 (39:17):
He doesn't help many wise money wise, and if he does,
it's just like whenever he wants.
Speaker 2 (39:21):
It's not like.
Speaker 3 (39:21):
A oh that's a turn.
Speaker 2 (39:25):
Yeah, what am I not asking to him? Kind of?
But again, now, what what if that's that?
Speaker 1 (39:33):
What if that's all the girlfriend's saying is, hey, let's
go to court and get like an actual custoger. So
that way, because maybe the girlfriend is jealous, right, She's like,
I don't want you talking to her as much as
you do. And he's like, but I have to talk
to her because we're figuring out what I'm gonna see
my son.
Speaker 2 (39:45):
And she's like, well, if you went to court, you
wouldn't have to talk as much.
Speaker 6 (39:48):
Yeah, but you know what, that's gonna mess him up
because now he's got to pay.
Speaker 1 (39:56):
He's gonna have to pay real child support. That yeah, yeah,
so or she's listening. We can obviously continue to ask
follow ups. But given this situation they broke up two
years ago.
Speaker 2 (40:06):
He's always so.
Speaker 1 (40:07):
Nice with her, he's flirty, he touches her when they
do drop off, super affectionate. All of a sudden, out
of the blue, hits her with I want to go
to corp. I feel like you're keeping my son from me.
Speaker 2 (40:17):
What do we think is going on?
Speaker 1 (40:19):
Is the new girlfriend eight seven seven, six, one seven
one nine four five eight seven seven six one seven,
one nine four or five she's listening to this so
we can ask follow ups. Good morning, Sashally in the
gym in morning though. Hi guys, Good morning, Sashally in
the gym in morning show. My brain can't help but
put myself in this scenario because I know once the
skeleton gets delivered, it might be going to divorce course
(40:41):
and I'm like, damn, I would want to keep it
out of corp. But the fireman might be pissed an
ex skeleton. Yeah, no it is. I don't want to
think about that part. But anyway, So we had a
DM from oh Man. I almost said, uh, it's from Anonymous, who,
by the way, is on Live with Us. She did
give me some additions to it, but basically she said
her when her X broke up two years ago.
Speaker 2 (41:01):
They have a kid together.
Speaker 1 (41:02):
Every time they do drop offs, by the way, there
they have no custody agreement from inside the court. They
kind of work on it outside of court themselves. But
you know, she's like, anytime I drop the kid off,
he's touchy feeling with me. He acts affectionate, he shows
me a lot of attention. In the confusing part is
that he has a girlfriend.
Speaker 2 (41:20):
She goes.
Speaker 1 (41:20):
So I kind of started wondering, like, is he having problems,
Like he's trying to reconnect with me, and then she said,
out of literally nowhere, he texted her and said that
he wants to go to court because he thinks I'm
going to stop letting him see our daughter. She goes, now,
I'm kind of wondering what changed. Part of me thinks
the girlfriend could be pregnant or maybe she saw some
of our text messages and she's influencing him to take.
Speaker 2 (41:39):
Me, you know, to court.
Speaker 1 (41:41):
So we had a little bit of back and forth.
We asked a few follow up questions. She did just
add in guys, she said, I asked him for money
for my daughter. He said that he doesn't want to
give me the money because he quote doesn't know where
it would be going, which is funny to me because
if he actually has to pay me child sport, he's
never going to know where that money's going.
Speaker 3 (41:57):
Anyways.
Speaker 1 (41:58):
He says he doesn't want me to be in charge
when he can pick up and he wants to make
those decisions himself. But literally, it would only be the weekends.
I take my daughter to school every day and after school.
So no matter what, you're going to lose in court,
it's just sad. I was never trying to take this
to court.
Speaker 6 (42:12):
What about we need to know what she thinks are
What are in those text messages?
Speaker 2 (42:18):
Good call jewels?
Speaker 5 (42:20):
Yeah, what a text messages that she thinks that she saw.
Speaker 1 (42:22):
Let me write that while we take some calls. What
text could she have seen that would upset her?
Speaker 3 (42:30):
A little risk?
Speaker 1 (42:32):
Let's go to the talkback first. We have a ton
of calls. I have a ton of dms. We did
get this talkback. If they go to court, whether she
files or he files in court, that man will be
put on child support.
Speaker 2 (42:44):
He will be he's not contributing.
Speaker 1 (42:47):
What. Yeah, that's pretty much what all my dms are
saying too, Like, go ahead to take it to court.
But most of the girls in my dms are like
kind of to Jules's point, like the girlfriend saw something
and was like, listen, you gotta.
Speaker 2 (43:03):
Cut this, Like you you don't want to, like you
don't want.
Speaker 1 (43:05):
Your time with your kid to be dependent upon her
because it's clear like something's going on. By the way,
while that was happening, I said, what text could she
have seen?
Speaker 2 (43:13):
Them up set her? And she goes when he came
to my house? Lol, I go, oh, the millennial Lol,
what do you mean? I mean, I'll never let it die.
Oh oh wait and stayed over.
Speaker 3 (43:26):
Oh okay, all right, well then that's when was that.
We know everything about this.
Speaker 2 (43:31):
Yeah, we we know it all. Olivia is in Wolster.
Hi live, Good morning, babe. Good All right, So.
Speaker 1 (43:39):
You can speak on the in court agreement because you
actually had one that went through the court system with
your ex. Uh.
Speaker 8 (43:45):
Yeah, I still currently had it.
Speaker 12 (43:47):
My daughter's fourteen and.
Speaker 8 (43:49):
We are in the process of moving, so I have
to go back to court to redo the parenting agreements.
But I feel like actually kind of got screwed in
mine when I went because my ex cousin was making
a lot of money under the table, so the court
didn't know about any of that, so they actually wanted
me to pay him child support.
Speaker 2 (44:09):
I've heard.
Speaker 12 (44:11):
Yeah, yeah, so we actually had to go in and
I had to agree on a certain price. So I mean,
she could still go in and do the same thing
if she wants to, still be looking like she's being nice,
but she's kind of screwing himself, I know.
Speaker 2 (44:24):
Well, yeah, depending on what his funds look like. Thank
you for the calling. Can I just add it? She
goes and he stayed over?
Speaker 1 (44:32):
I go, Okay, when was that she goes, well, he
stayed till four am, and I go, hell, were y'all
doing till four?
Speaker 2 (44:38):
Wait for it? Just talking?
Speaker 1 (44:40):
I wrote, girl, please, I'm the girlfriend. I'm like, where
have you been?
Speaker 3 (44:48):
Brother? What are you doing there? Till four?
Speaker 1 (44:50):
A m unnecessary? Like unnecessary? She probably the new girlfriend,
gave him an ultimatum and was like, you got to cut,
Like what are we doing here? Get a colostady agreement
so that way this cannot continue to happen.
Speaker 3 (45:05):
My brother trying to have his cake and eat it,
and yes, if this ain't gonna work, Lauren.
Speaker 1 (45:13):
Is in wouburn Laura, like, I get what you're saying,
but are you changing your mind a little bit?
Speaker 2 (45:18):
Because Lauren says I think the girlfriend is.
Speaker 1 (45:20):
Jealous, So do I, but like, hey, wouldn't you be
the hell are you doing at a sleepball?
Speaker 9 (45:27):
So I've been in her in the girl in the
baby mother's position, and honestly, like, at first, yes, I
was like, oh, maybe she's jealous or whatever, But now
that I'm looking at the other side, I think that,
like maybe she should just go to court the baby
mother and like, at the end of the day, he
listens to his girlfriend, right so whatever karma they get
(45:48):
or whatever he has to do with child support, that's
just gonna be on him. And if he doesn't like it,
oh well, like you listen to your girlfriend and yes
he shouldn't have stayed so for m that's a little crazy.
Speaker 2 (45:57):
No, that's but yeah, like what's the saying that Boombo say,
like nothing.
Speaker 1 (46:02):
Good happens after one something like I mean seriously though,
like you didn't need to be there till four A
like I do think.
Speaker 9 (46:11):
I also think the baby mother she didn't say, like
why didn't she just say all of that in the beginning?
Why is she just say no she's like I don't.
Speaker 1 (46:18):
Playing, but yeah, like that should have been added into
the initial message. Oh, in one night he stayed till
four am and a girlfriend saw the messages because that's
obviously they were just chatting like about what like chah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (46:35):
Yeah she's bubbling. She just heard that joke. Thank you
so much for the call. I mean everybody like is
kind of an agreement here, like okay, like if he
wants to take it to court, let it go to court.
Speaker 3 (46:45):
And also, is this gonna stop him from four am sleepovers?
Speaker 4 (46:49):
He's just gonna have to pay child support and then
still be slumber party and whenever.
Speaker 1 (46:53):
Yeah, I I I do have to say, it seems
like this guy has a away with the ladies because
he's getting away with murder.
Speaker 2 (47:03):
Quite literally.
Speaker 1 (47:04):
She's bubbling, and so I'm anxious to see and hear
what her defense.
Speaker 2 (47:07):
Is for this. What should we should we play a song?
And then yeah, because she might be writing me a
novel here. Yeah, she heard Bemo's joke and she's like,
you take your funny. If you're on a hole, don't
go anywhere. Well, we'll get what she's bubbling that. We
don't care to everybody, Good morning, It's Ashley and the
(47:28):
gam in the Morning show, Bimo, the Prince. Listen to me.
Speaker 1 (47:31):
I this is why we we do this. We do
DM dilemmas. You tell me what's going on. We kind
of all way in, We kind of work through it.
This scenario was, Hey, me and my ex broke up
two years ago. Whenever we do the you know, child
drop off, we're very flirty with each other, we're affectionate.
All of a sudden, she says, out of nowhere, Ashley,
out of nowhere, I.
Speaker 2 (47:52):
Don't even know how this could possibly be.
Speaker 1 (47:54):
He says, I've taken you to court and I want
to figure things out in courtant and I said, what happened?
Speaker 2 (47:59):
I don't know. She just didn't. So through a few
you know, light questions, thank god for Jewls question of like,
you know, what were you guys texting because we thought
he's got a girlfriend.
Speaker 1 (48:11):
The girlfriend had to have seen something she didn't like,
hurt something she didn't like, and was like, what are
we doing?
Speaker 2 (48:16):
Why do you go to court?
Speaker 1 (48:18):
Stop having to have these back and forth conversations and
we won't be here. So Jules is like, I wonder
you know.
Speaker 2 (48:23):
What she saw?
Speaker 1 (48:24):
And a text method maybe asked so when I asked that,
that's when we got to the sleepover heard around the world,
and she said, well he did come to my house.
Speaker 2 (48:32):
I said, what happened? I just stayed over.
Speaker 1 (48:34):
We were up till four am, just talking. Now, we
made a few jokey jokes. She's been bubbling this entire time.
I knew it was going to be long. Stay with me, everybody.
Speaker 3 (48:46):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (48:47):
He wrote me the other night and he said, listen,
I can never come over again. Oh And I said, okay,
I'm gonna need you to be honest with me.
Speaker 2 (48:56):
You didn't touch that man the entire time. No, Okay, Ashley,
Yes we did sleep together. You know what, you know
what gas to.
Speaker 1 (49:07):
The bottom of it, investigative journalism, clever way to get
your child support.
Speaker 5 (49:10):
Though.
Speaker 2 (49:12):
I'm on his side, he's good.
Speaker 1 (49:15):
He's trying to protect the other relationship because he slept
with you.
Speaker 2 (49:18):
The girlfriend knows, and hey, mystery solved. Mystery solved.
Well, well, well everybody, Hi, Happy Thursday.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
I'm back and I'm joined by my guy Bemo, the Prince. Wow,
what's going on? What have we missed?
Speaker 3 (00:10):
I have a little bone to pick with you. By
the way, let's go h I love how come there's
always fun people here? When I ate, I know you,
I knew what was going on here.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
Reet Price came on the show earlier in the week,
and it was actually like, how.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
Insane was that I wouldn't know?
Speaker 2 (00:28):
Well just by the video.
Speaker 1 (00:30):
No, So he I've known him for like ten plus years.
He's he used to be like a straight up just
hip hop violinist, like he did his violin to hip
hop songs. He has since come out with his own album,
The Renaissance Man you can you can check it out,
So he's kind of obviously moving away from the hip
hop thing. But I said to him, I was like,
you know, we're doing the interview and then at the
very end of the entryw I.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
Just go, so, can you, like you have your violink,
can you do something for me?
Speaker 3 (00:54):
Now?
Speaker 1 (00:54):
I did not tell him what song, and so then
I just I'm like, hey, it's gonna have to be
a Drake song because it's me, and it's gonna be
Janis STFU and you're just gonna have to.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Do it on the deal all a.
Speaker 3 (01:11):
Like right, what it was?
Speaker 1 (01:13):
I was taken aback And then when the show was over,
I said to him, I said, I cannot believe you
were able to just do that, like on the spot
like that, and he's like, well, I mean I've been
doing it since I was four.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
I was like, okay, I played the.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
Recorder, but I couldn't pick up hot cross buttons, like you.
Speaker 2 (01:31):
Need to know it was. He was like he was
downplaying how like he's so talented and he always.
Speaker 3 (01:35):
Downplays those banana but people.
Speaker 4 (01:37):
All the cool people keep coming when I'm not here,
invite invite cool people while I'm here.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Yeah, you're right, my bad here today. I don't know
if you're all right. Well, and he just recently celebrated
a birthday. Happy happy milated, my guy. I actually did
wish you happy birthday on air, but not that you
were here to hear it.
Speaker 5 (01:54):
I appreciate it, thank you.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
Yeah, and you spent your birthday sick under the weather
in bed. Yeah, it actually sound terrible.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
What did you like is this part of the parasite, Like,
what do you have going on?
Speaker 6 (02:06):
Let me slide down, It's just a cough. And then
I actually slept good yesterday. The day before I could
not fall asleep. I was just like coughing the whole night.
Speaker 5 (02:17):
It was. It was pretty bad.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
Yeah, okay, how did you turn forty four?
Speaker 3 (02:21):
Forty four sounds like seventy eight.
Speaker 5 (02:23):
Yeah, I don't like.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
The last thing I want to do is gas this
man because I feel like he gets enough of it,
like random times during the show.
Speaker 2 (02:31):
But I think he looks really good for his age.
Speaker 5 (02:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
I would never really wouldn't have been.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
My guest, I know, and I don't think. Let me
make it very clear, I don't think in your forties is.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
Old at all because.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
Bo never would I have guess forty four I said,
I would go like thirty seven, thirty eight.
Speaker 4 (02:52):
I can write with that. I was gonna I would
say thirty five that was mine. Oh wow, that's it's
going to give you a clean thing.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
That was not. Yeah, I wasn't good. That's that's low.
That's yeah.
Speaker 4 (03:02):
By the way, the last time we was at the bar,
like twenty something told me they thought I was thirty one.
Speaker 3 (03:07):
I did. I did not make it.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
I I'm not kidding. Like if I go to the
liquor store and they ask for my ID, I'm like
this thrill. Oh, it's the best thing ever. I mean,
it really happens anymore. When it does, I'm like, whoa, all.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
Right, anyways, enough about you two. It's a really big
day for me. Yeah, I'm moving straight on. Actually, like
today should be a holiday. I feel like I shouldn't
have to be in here. But at seven am is
the first.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
Round of Halloween. Drop at home deepot.
Speaker 3 (03:44):
Oh, boom boom.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
The twelve foot led lit speaking skeleton drops at seven A.
He speaks, Now, I have the seven footer inside. You
can you can custom you can make it custom. So like,
for instance, my seven footer inside. When Leila walks up
the stairs, he says, Hi, Laila, happy Halloween.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
No it's crazy. So they that's why they're coming out.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
With a twelve foot this will you'll like my reference
put the nail on the coffin.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
Of my divorce.
Speaker 1 (04:12):
For sure, that man is gonna he's going to be
if that's if I even get it. It feels like
the world is out to get this skeleton today.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
It drops at seven am. My heart's beating through my
chest like we're getting We're getting, We're getting close.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
H I don't know if it will happen for me.
It's three hundred and seventy nine dollars.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
Oh so that's nothing to drop in the bucket.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
The the OG twelve foot skeleton was one ninety nine,
and I felt like I could get behind that. So
like when people would ask me how much it costs,
I would just say, like one hundred because why.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
Why is this one so much more?
Speaker 2 (04:43):
Because he does so much more?
Speaker 3 (04:44):
So he just talks though he speaks.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
His eyes can be like one hundred different colors. You
can put like shamrocks in his eyeballs.
Speaker 3 (04:51):
Like you like dance. What else? Right is he gonna
do your taxes? What it would? That's a price.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
Tag, I know it is the fact that he three
seventy nine is like it is painful, but they can
have it.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
Yeah, he'd better be making eggs in the morning, all
of it.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
They can have the three seventy night.
Speaker 1 (05:09):
And what's gonna pay me is if I actually do
get it at seven am, it will get delivered earlier
than when I plan on putting out my skeletons.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
But I feel like I will have to go up early.
Speaker 1 (05:17):
He will have to go up early, So please everybody
pray for me.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
Seven Am Ashley ended Jamie Morning Show.
Speaker 7 (05:24):
When you need to know, we got you three things
you need to know on Bustin's number one for Hippa
and the best throwbags you haven't eighty four five?
Speaker 2 (05:33):
All right, Dall's Thursday.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
It's July sixteenth, which is crazy. We are cruising through
July and we have a final for the World Cup.
It's gonna happen this Sunday and it is Spain taken
on Argentina.
Speaker 2 (05:48):
Lionel Messi has put on a show.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
It has been show time behavior for him, setting up
both the tying and winning goals for Argentina, essentially rescuing
them from their game against England.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
And then we have on the other side, La mean
La mean Yamal Sure yep.
Speaker 3 (06:09):
For Spain.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
And it's the connection between the two that is sending
me to Zimoon.
Speaker 1 (06:18):
No, this is gonna sound made up, but you probably
have seen it. You're gonna be like, oh, there is
a photo of Lionel Messi washing a young Lamin Yamal
as a baby. Like in a bathtub for a charity
photo shoot.
Speaker 4 (06:36):
Sound I could never play against.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
No, it's like put it this way.
Speaker 1 (06:43):
I saw the photo and I was like, oh, this
is a.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
I and they being like he's his little child. You
know that actually happens.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
So if you guys have seen that photo, they call
it a they're calling it a cosmic connection. But like this,
he's a whole baby and Lionel Messy is like an whole,
like adult looking man, and he's bathing him in a
tub for it's no no.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
No, yeah, no.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
Yeah yeah. So they've met. They've met, you mean, Leman
doesn't remember it, but they have met.
Speaker 1 (07:16):
There's so many things and there's so much hype around
this game. I love that it's at three o'clock, but
really the performers should be talked about as well. Posty
is going to headline the closing ceremony. That event will
start at one point thirty. It'll be obviously ninety minutes
before the match kicks off. But Jay hudd Jennifer Hudson
is going to sing the national anthem wait with other
(07:38):
performers like quote Tom Cruise, Robbie Williams, and Nicole Scherzinger.
What's Tom Cruise doing out here? Is he gonna play
a plane again? Like, What's what's Tom doing? I'm confused.
It's it's gonna be some stupid top top gun like
for sure. The halftime show curated by Chris Chris Martin,
starring BTS, Justin Bieber, Madonna, and Shakira. Oh my lord,
(08:02):
tat like wow, I even the Beabs, like the Beebes
does not really perform like that anymore. I am very
excited for this. They were gonna have all the eyes
in the world on them anyway, but now they're really
turning up.
Speaker 2 (08:15):
So there you have.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
It's Spain and Argentina will bathe each other at three
pm on Sunday. It is the final We've been building
up for this, people, and I think we're I mean,
we're most certainly.
Speaker 2 (08:23):
Going to get a show. MESSI has just been.
Speaker 4 (08:26):
Insane, yes, and like it's truly, truly, truly goat behavior.
And I'm so happy that I had a chance to
see him play at Gillette Live once because there's like.
Speaker 3 (08:37):
I don't follow soccer, so I don't really know what
I'm looking.
Speaker 4 (08:39):
At super well, but you could tell there was like
this was a man amongst different energy.
Speaker 3 (08:45):
He is just good.
Speaker 1 (08:46):
And what's crazy is they say that Lamina mal is
going to be like his direct successor like.
Speaker 3 (08:52):
Some people on the next He's been bathed.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
For sure. All right, let's talk about the day. Let's
daylight saving time.
Speaker 1 (09:01):
Because this was just everywhere yesterday and there's so much
of a back and forth and like there's people love
to debate whether we should have it or not. I
was telling you my thing is like I had seen
before I had kids, people complaining with kids.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
About daylight saving Simon. I was like, I don't really understand.
Speaker 1 (09:18):
Now that I have kids, I do understand, because you know,
when they're used to getting up at six, we're putting
the clocks back at all of a sudden it's five am,
and they're like.
Speaker 2 (09:25):
What's up. It's really annoying. I feel like as for us,
for adults, like not going to change much.
Speaker 3 (09:31):
I do not care. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:33):
The House officially voted to make daylight saving time permanent,
advancing a major push to end the quote controversial twice
a year clock changes.
Speaker 2 (09:41):
I loved this.
Speaker 8 (09:42):
Vern.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
Buchanan is the one that introduced the vern, and.
Speaker 1 (09:45):
He said, quote, the current clock changes and disrupts daily
schedules for no good reason. It's actually a fact, like
why are we doing this? I don't know the way
it will work now, guys, the legislation will now have
to the sentence.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
Where its exact future remains pretty much uncertain. So will
it actually happen?
Speaker 3 (10:05):
We don't know.
Speaker 1 (10:05):
But this was a big step that it made it
out of out of the house. If you're wondering, like
what does that mean for us? Just an example, So
summer's here, the sun would rise at five oh six
am and it would set at eight twenty five pm.
Speaker 3 (10:19):
That's not bad.
Speaker 2 (10:20):
I mean that's dan ward nine pm.
Speaker 1 (10:21):
Okay, wintertime, the sun would rise at eight thirteen am.
That does seem a little late, and then it would
set at five eleven. Five eleven is not bad in
the winter because if you think about it, there are
some days at four pm in the winter where it
is like pitch on outside looked, yeah, So.
Speaker 3 (10:39):
That you know what not bad? I'm on board.
Speaker 1 (10:42):
It wouldn't be bad, and then we wouldn't have a
deal with the changes, and it wouldn't like I mean,
it does disrupt for no good reason.
Speaker 3 (10:47):
I'm willing actually good reason stand with I've never understood it.
Speaker 1 (10:51):
Yeah, no, it's I don't think it's necessary, but we
shall see alright. And lastly, the Asps were on last
night honoring obviously some of the biggest as leads, the teams,
the moments.
Speaker 2 (11:01):
The Knicks really just swept this thing.
Speaker 3 (11:03):
Like as they should. That's that's a story, that's the story.
Speaker 2 (11:06):
Yeah, this will come as no shock to anybody.
Speaker 1 (11:08):
Best Athlete for men's Sports Jalen Brunson first and.
Speaker 9 (11:13):
Foremost to be.
Speaker 2 (11:16):
Award of this award, and with a group like that
means the world.
Speaker 3 (11:21):
So I want to say thank you to the fans.
Speaker 1 (11:23):
I really do appreciate y'all, my family, my teammates, just
everyone that's always.
Speaker 3 (11:30):
Believed in me.
Speaker 5 (11:32):
I lost the words. You know, it's been it's been
all of the run, I'll say to say, the least.
Speaker 2 (11:36):
Little lack of enthusiasm there.
Speaker 4 (11:39):
Yeah, they were probably cooked before they ever hit that stage.
Speaker 2 (11:42):
Sure. Some other notable winners. Best Athlete on the women's side.
Speaker 1 (11:46):
Asia Wilson of the Las Vegas Ace's best record breaking
performance went to Miles Garrett of the Browns. He broke
the NFL single season Zach record. The Browns don't win
much so that's cool, and he's not human, he doesn't
look like he does it. And the big story was
he got up there and when he accepted the ward,
he like kissed his girlfriend on the lips and everyone was.
Speaker 2 (12:04):
Like, Oh, she's actually the one who gave him the award.
Speaker 1 (12:08):
Best Championship Performance, uh Jalen Brunson of the New York Knicks,
and then best Team again, Uh, the New York Knicks
should have should have been the Celtics should have a kid.
I have three things even though for Thursday, July sixteenth,
make sure you catch up on the pod. Obviously we
might mention that amazing violinist that was your name price
that EMO has no idea about.
Speaker 2 (12:30):
But you know you can share the podcast too. Down
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Speaker 7 (12:39):
In the morning Boston's number one for hip hop jam
in ninety four or five.
Speaker 1 (12:44):
We are about twenty minutes out from the first drop
at home.
Speaker 4 (12:51):
I genuinely thought, I was like, Oh, does she have
some crazy tickets?
Speaker 3 (12:56):
Oh my god, what is actually happening?
Speaker 2 (12:58):
No, my god, it's all like an think about so
I just needed to get it off my chest.
Speaker 1 (13:02):
Guys, home Depot's dropping the twelve foot Skelly that speaks today,
and I just all I need it like I need
air to breathe. I'm not gonna get it, though. I've
put a lot of thought into this. So we have
Jimmy and we have Steve. Those are my two right now,
and I just I don't know, I have to put
some thought into it, cause obviously jimm and Steve are kind.
Speaker 2 (13:22):
Of like just chill.
Speaker 3 (13:24):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (13:24):
I usually try to go by somebody that died recently.
Speaker 4 (13:28):
Yeah, that I like have Sam Neil, the guy from
Jurassic Park.
Speaker 1 (13:32):
You know what, I could call him doctor Ellen Grant. Oh,
just Grant, Jimmy Stephen Grant, doctor Grant.
Speaker 3 (13:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (13:40):
Wow. Okay, do you like doctor on me too? Do
you like putting because now he's an authority figure?
Speaker 1 (13:44):
Yeah, but I don't want Jimmy to feel the type
of way because Jimmy's the og. But you're right, that
does give like an authoritative All right, Well, listen, this
is why you're I'm keeping you around, all right. So
I'm going to try to talk about other things, but
we all know where my mind is. But I listen.
I will say this about the fireman. He hates being
on my social media. I think that's everybody knows that.
(14:05):
But when he is included in my social media, it's
rarely him speaking. It's ninety percent of the time like
a photo that I've taken or something. And when he
is speaking, most of the time, people are just taken
aback by the accent.
Speaker 2 (14:17):
So a couple days ago, I want to say, it
was like.
Speaker 1 (14:19):
Monday, I'm in here and AJ and I are like
giggling at this video where a wife is like acting
out a scene and she's pretending like she's on the
phone with her best friend. The best friend's kitchen is
on fire and she's giving the wrong advice and the
fire her husband's a firefighter as well, and her firefighter
husband like got up out of his chair. He was
like freaking out all this stuff. And I said, I
(14:41):
have to do this with the fireman. He will he
will not panic, he will not stand up, He probably
will barely look at me. It will be relaxation to
the utmost level, because.
Speaker 2 (14:52):
That's he does. And by the way, I say this
a lot about him.
Speaker 1 (14:56):
If you are looking at somebody to like come into
your house and save you and be like a first responder,
you want them to not be able to rattle, right, like, yeah,
you want that again?
Speaker 2 (15:04):
Yeah, and he that man does not rattle like he.
Speaker 5 (15:09):
Always.
Speaker 2 (15:11):
I also feel like we're gonna play it.
Speaker 1 (15:13):
I would like you to kind of like break down
my acting because I was pretty proud of myself, like
I thought it was good. Yeah, I thought it was good.
I didn't break character. I wanted to multiple times. But
to set the scene for you guys, I had on
my metaglasses and he was sitting outside in the rocking chair,
just chilling with the kids, and I did a pretend
phone call and he had to then like I don't know,
(15:36):
I didn't know if he was going to react or
what it was.
Speaker 2 (15:38):
Okay, here it is, hello, dude, calm down. Well, if
the if the stove is on fire, just get get witter.
Speaker 1 (15:48):
No, don't get no, no, don't no no. Don't put
the lid on the don't put the lid on it,
don't keep it.
Speaker 2 (15:58):
Putter on it.
Speaker 1 (16:00):
The oiler is there oil, Okay, just put the water
on it.
Speaker 2 (16:03):
Just put yes, it is oil.
Speaker 3 (16:05):
Knock the water on it.
Speaker 10 (16:06):
Cover it with a top with the okay, come with
a turn turn it off, cover.
Speaker 1 (16:11):
Over with the lid.
Speaker 2 (16:13):
Is it on the stove? She's getting the water?
Speaker 5 (16:16):
Do not get the water?
Speaker 2 (16:17):
Do not get the water? What's that going to do?
Will when you blow up your kitchen, turn the gas No, no,
turn the gas up, off off, I'm like, And then
when I stopped.
Speaker 1 (16:31):
Because he literally did the hand motion of like, let
the bitch's kitchen light up.
Speaker 2 (16:35):
I don't care, I can't deal with you anymore. Just
let it light up.
Speaker 4 (16:38):
It is the It is one of my favorite But
it's the fact when you say he didn't rattle, he
remained rocking in the chair the entire time, like he
never broke stride of leisure, which was beautiful.
Speaker 2 (16:53):
It was so leisurely, Like there's a couple of things
that I really noticed.
Speaker 1 (16:57):
The Beebo's right, he never stopped rocking in that you
if you haven't seen it at Ashley Felman two, he's
on the ass, but he never stopped rocking. At one
point he was so relaxed and he was like, let
me cross my legs, like he adjusted himself. He like
crosses his legs, and then throughout the rest of the combo,
he's just scratching his beard like he's just like, yeah, no,
she shouldn't do that. She absolutely should not do And
(17:18):
then pretty much what I gathered at the end, he
was like, you're so stupid and I'm so annoyed with you,
like let the woman's kitchen burn, but get do it
away from me.
Speaker 3 (17:27):
This conversation some motion.
Speaker 2 (17:29):
Of like I'm done, like I am not.
Speaker 5 (17:31):
I I had.
Speaker 1 (17:33):
Actual like tears were coming because I knew. I knew
the reaction wasn't going to be like oh my god,
like which how I would be.
Speaker 2 (17:42):
Such panic mode. He's just not that. Have you seen it, Juels?
Did you watch it.
Speaker 5 (17:45):
Like I did? I watched it last night.
Speaker 3 (17:47):
It was so funny.
Speaker 5 (17:50):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (17:50):
And so then like my friend who I Casey, who
I pretended to call. She calls and she's like, put
me on speaker and she's like, what's up with you? Man?
Just gonna let she's given me the wrong advice. He's
gonna let my kitchen burn.
Speaker 1 (18:02):
He's like, I thought to myself, if Casey's that stupid
to call.
Speaker 2 (18:06):
Her for advice during this, then that's on her. She
gets her kitchens gun over her.
Speaker 1 (18:12):
I did have a couple of people DM me and
I've seen the video where it's a woman and she
asks her firefighter husband to like pretend rescue her out
of a burning building. We have a better chance of
the Lord Jesus Christ coming to pretend to rescue me
from whatever. The only reason that one worked is because
he doesn't know the metaglasses record, like I'm telling you,
(18:32):
and yet I still don't think he does.
Speaker 10 (18:34):
Which is incredible insane, which is in yeah, sane. Well,
first of all, I still can't believe he can't see
the light now, let it go right there. It's headlight
on the side.
Speaker 1 (18:46):
So wild, and I knew this was only going to
work if I could do it outside, because so I
can have the glasses on. But I think, like, he
doesn't have the internet, guys, like, he doesn't have social media,
so he doesn't know that there's an actual video of him.
I did tell him, I said, oh, I posted our
conversation and he was like, oh, did.
Speaker 2 (19:03):
That help with your dopamine today?
Speaker 5 (19:07):
All right?
Speaker 1 (19:07):
Man, Like okay, But then I was telling him that
it's like some of the comments people were making and
he was like, I don't get it, like yeah, well,
because I was.
Speaker 2 (19:18):
Like, no, no one could believe that you were just
so calm and you were rocking. He's like, what did
you want me to do?
Speaker 1 (19:23):
It's like no, he he actually a couple of the
guy from his fire house.
Speaker 4 (19:27):
Comments like it just all right, But that was so funny.
Speaker 1 (19:32):
I also think it's like you're seeing this person actually
speak for like a good amount of time. It was
like a little over a minute, and nobody nobody gets
that from him.
Speaker 4 (19:40):
I said, it's like if you go to the zoo
and see a rare animal. Yeah, you're like, watch, watch,
just watch, just watch.
Speaker 2 (19:49):
Yeah, that was I can't believe it worked.
Speaker 1 (19:51):
I literally told ages, I'm gonna sempt this, but I
don't I don't know if it'll work.
Speaker 5 (19:55):
And I was it was funny.
Speaker 2 (19:56):
He also wasn't sure if it was funny. Like I
was like, it's funny.
Speaker 1 (19:59):
To me, but I don't know if anyone's getting like
the man has just no racking.
Speaker 3 (20:03):
I was cackling.
Speaker 5 (20:05):
I strived to be that level of laid back.
Speaker 4 (20:07):
Oh my god, yeah, seriously, oh gosh, fire like freaking.
Speaker 1 (20:12):
If you haven't seen it at Ashley Filman tweeze on
the Ashley the Fireman is officially featured.
Speaker 7 (20:19):
Show and you need to know we got you three
things you need to know on Boston's number one for
hip hop and the best throwbags.
Speaker 2 (20:28):
You haven't any four five.
Speaker 1 (20:30):
All right, babe, Thursday July sixteenth, and uh, this is
going to be an addition to the other three things
you need to know. I got the skeleton, and just
so we're all clear, it's already sold out, really already.
So I'm getting messages being like it's already sold out.
I can see my heart, I can't see you.
Speaker 3 (20:46):
Guys.
Speaker 2 (20:47):
Watched that live action and it was very nerve racking,
But that was one.
Speaker 1 (20:51):
Of the most intense things I've ever been a part of.
I know, I couldn't sit. I couldn't sit and I
was just typing type type, typing away. But the craziest
part about it is I secured the brand new twelve
foot skeleton that speaks led all the things from Home depot.
Speaker 2 (21:08):
It's coming tomorrow. Why is it getting delivered so fast?
Speaker 3 (21:11):
They're trying to get rid of themsel.
Speaker 2 (21:14):
Floating these guys like we're trying. I mean, I don't.
Speaker 1 (21:17):
I was going to try to keep it a secret
as long as I could, but I mean, there's going
to be a whole body delivered tomorrow.
Speaker 3 (21:21):
You put it up immediately, I like kind of want
you to just gonna text to.
Speaker 1 (21:26):
My neighbor because I know she wanted it so bad
and she hasn't hit me up, meaning she didn't get it.
Speaker 2 (21:30):
So all right, let's talk about the news you actually need,
because no one's going to work being like, hey, did
you're Ashley Pellman from no one cares about this? All right?
Speaker 1 (21:38):
Moving on, Spain Argentina will be the final for the
World Cup. It's this Sunday at three o'clock. This will
be the first time in my life I ever tuned
into a World Cup final because.
Speaker 2 (21:49):
Ever, but I got so invested in it.
Speaker 3 (21:52):
You know, it's a lot more fun than you think
it is.
Speaker 4 (21:56):
I think by the first one I watched maybe was
two years ago, not two years ago, but two cups ago.
Speaker 1 (22:02):
I didn't even know, like where one would watch it.
Two years ago I have had and I've had no
dog in the fight. I still don't. It's just the
excitement around it. And because it was in our face.
I will one hundred percent stand on if the World
Cup didn't go to our city, I would still be
living in my I don't care about the World Cup
world but it was in our face and I fell
in love. So it's happening Sunday, three o'clock Lanta. Messi
(22:25):
has just been putting on a show. I mean, setting
up both the tying and winning goals for Argentina to
be the to beat England. He is one of the
ones where like you expect him to play well and
he always beats said expectation.
Speaker 4 (22:38):
It's insane and that's so hard to do because the
expect the like it's to the move.
Speaker 1 (22:43):
I know you're playing quite literally against the best in
the world. He has dominated this tourney.
Speaker 2 (22:48):
I think he's in the lead with like eight goals
or something crazy.
Speaker 4 (22:52):
I mean, he someone told me he was the youngest
to ever score, like the youngest person to score a
World Cup goal, so he held that record and the
oldest person to score a World Cup goal.
Speaker 1 (23:01):
And he's just it is And he's the jersey you
see everywhere. I can just picture that hot pink jersey
that says Messy on the back. I want that thing.
I think why this game itself is so highly anticipated
is because Lamina mal who plays for Spain.
Speaker 2 (23:15):
I'm praying it. I don't think I'm saying it right.
Speaker 4 (23:17):
I have no idea I'm not going to correct you.
Speaker 1 (23:22):
People consider him in the soccer world the direct successor
of Messy, so it's like we're kind of getting the
best of the best playing, which is super exciting. It's
it's it's worth mentioning that you at some point leading
up to Sunday's game are going to see the photo
heard around the world.
Speaker 2 (23:39):
They've they've met before.
Speaker 1 (23:42):
Lamina mal was a little baby and Messi also young,
was bathing him for a charity photo shoot.
Speaker 2 (23:51):
Have you Joles, have you seen the photo?
Speaker 5 (23:54):
I photo and I thought it was weird.
Speaker 2 (23:56):
I thought I thought it was a I I a hundred.
I mean, I actually still wish it was. I just
tell ourselves that because it just looks so weird. We
remove that.
Speaker 1 (24:07):
There are these big soccer stars and it's just like
a picture of a dad like washing his baby.
Speaker 2 (24:11):
I don't know, but they weren't even I don't know.
Speaker 3 (24:13):
He anointed him, What was the charity?
Speaker 2 (24:15):
That's what I need to know.
Speaker 1 (24:17):
But anyways, they have had a moment, but this is
gonna be the bigger moments three o'clock and we will
have all types of entertainment leading up to it. Post
he is going to headline the closing ceremony, which will
start ninety minutes before the game in New Jersey. Jennifer
Hudson is going to sing the national anthem, joining other
performers like Tom Cruise, Robbie Williams, and Nicole Scherzinger. I
(24:37):
can't wait to see.
Speaker 3 (24:37):
What Tom has in store for us.
Speaker 2 (24:40):
He'll be flying out of some plane.
Speaker 1 (24:42):
And then during the halftime show, it is a full
show curated by Chris Martin from Coldplay, starring BTS, Madonna, Shakira,
and just In Beeber.
Speaker 4 (24:53):
That is insane And I don't care what anyone says.
The World Cup halftime show or the World Cup in
general is bigger than the Super Bowl. So this halftime
show kind of feels Oh, I'm sold on that they were.
Speaker 1 (25:05):
I mean, those are like the biggest names and now Donna,
I think, honestly, I don't know BTS, but I know
if it was just them alone, that would be enough for.
Speaker 2 (25:15):
Their fan base.
Speaker 3 (25:16):
Donna and Bieber and Shakiada Shakiada.
Speaker 4 (25:19):
It feels like they just took all the big famous
people that they did, like the biggest acts they can find,
just slammed.
Speaker 2 (25:24):
I know how disrespectful this sounds to the other people.
Speaker 1 (25:27):
But I just I'm a big Beabes fan and he
doesn't perform a lot, so I'm really excited for that.
Speaker 3 (25:31):
That's insane, I know.
Speaker 6 (25:32):
So he's going to do that trash performance he did
at Cochell excuse.
Speaker 1 (25:36):
Me, oh oh, where he plays the YouTube and like
sings along all of that.
Speaker 2 (25:41):
But yeah, people were mad.
Speaker 1 (25:42):
They were like, wait, so I basically paid all types
of money for Justin Bieber to play his own YouTube
like his own YouTube vide don't talk bad about him.
Speaker 2 (25:50):
He's had a Ramsey hunt and it's been a long
JOm and his wife just.
Speaker 1 (25:55):
Dropped new jeans at the cap how I mean, yeah,
stop it, everybody, like, give it up, keep it up,
all right, I.
Speaker 2 (26:01):
Listen one thing about Cardi B.
Speaker 1 (26:04):
You're not going to talk a bad about her, her
baby Daddy's like she she will.
Speaker 2 (26:08):
Stand up for those men.
Speaker 1 (26:09):
I mean, look how many times she took back offset
for real, for real, this would have I wasn't here yesterday.
If I was, it probably would have played it yesterday.
But I just didn't want you guys to miss out
on it because it's so juicy. But Stefan Diggs is
in the midst man. He is in the midst of
this trial that is coming up where a friend of
his is claiming who's a male that they had like
(26:29):
a romantic relationship. When he threatened to cut off the
romantic relationship, Stefan Diggs had his brother jump him in
the elevator of his hotel building.
Speaker 2 (26:41):
If you haven't seen the video.
Speaker 1 (26:44):
Yeah, and in fact, Stefan Diggs brother does have to
pay him some serious cash, but it doesn't matter. He
is still taking Stefan Diggs to trial. So that means
that Cardi has been probably hearing this non stop, like, oh,
you're having babies with a guy that lays with men,
Like what's up with you?
Speaker 2 (27:01):
And now she's gotten pushed a little bit too far.
Speaker 11 (27:04):
Yeah, got me defending that I'm beefing with And I
don't like that, Like I really I really really really
really really really really really really really really but I'm
not liking how it's one thing for the Internet to
get get false claims and report false news, but for
(27:27):
credible sources and credible people they're supposed to be talking about,
credible they're supposed to be doing their research to talk
about it. This light s getting out Vino came on
the Internet and told the story three different times.
Speaker 2 (27:42):
The first time.
Speaker 11 (27:43):
Was, oh, I asked this for some money, you know,
like he was my people, and he came and whispered
in my ear like, oh you want the money, you
gotta do this, this and that.
Speaker 2 (27:53):
Then when your story.
Speaker 11 (27:55):
Wasn't getting picked up how you wanted.
Speaker 2 (27:57):
It to get picked up.
Speaker 11 (27:58):
You juiced it up and you'll sp the up and
now is oh yeah he pulled out. Yeah he was
high and he pulled down. You'll set two different stories.
And the crazy is the bloggers and people they're supposed
to be making their research are not even doing their
research to see how this man did the story too
(28:19):
different side.
Speaker 2 (28:19):
Well, I'm going to make my research and I will
look into that.
Speaker 1 (28:23):
But yeah, I mean listen the light skin albino as
Kurti you know, describes him.
Speaker 3 (28:29):
Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (28:30):
After she went on spaces and said this, he posted
like a carousel of probably ten plus photos of him
and Stefan digs together and was like it'll all come
out in the trial, like the truth will prevail.
Speaker 3 (28:41):
That is crazy. So what is spaces?
Speaker 2 (28:44):
It's a good question. Do you know what it is? Tools?
Like she goes on there all the time.
Speaker 5 (28:47):
That's like the audio.
Speaker 2 (28:50):
Uh is it Twitter?
Speaker 5 (28:52):
But like no, it's it's it's the audio.
Speaker 1 (28:54):
Like when so you can't see her by the way,
you know when she does this, Oh.
Speaker 5 (28:58):
Wow, so you just talked and everybody can hear you.
Speaker 1 (29:01):
It would be like a photo of you and then
like it bleeps, so we know that it yeah, it says.
Speaker 2 (29:06):
This is the most common meaning of X.
Speaker 1 (29:08):
Spaces is a live, interactive audio feature of the social
media platform X formerly known as Twitter. So it is
through Twitter, but it would be like just your avatar
and it would kind of light up when you were speaking.
Speaker 2 (29:18):
So we never physically see her.
Speaker 1 (29:20):
But she she lives in spaces like that's where she
goes to like talk about headlines or whatever.
Speaker 2 (29:26):
She loves that place.
Speaker 6 (29:27):
Actually, you know what, think about it as live like
like Instagram live. Oh yeah, yeah that makes sense, but
no picture, yeah h video. It's just her talking and
you can invite different people to come on.
Speaker 1 (29:37):
I feel like it makes her like go at people
even more because you can't see her.
Speaker 2 (29:40):
So she's like, I'm just gonna play whatever I want,
all right.
Speaker 1 (29:44):
And lastly, R Kelly has officially asked DT to commute
his thirty year prison sentence for sex crimes.
Speaker 2 (29:52):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (29:52):
He recently followed a formal clemency requesting the Department of
Justice Agency handle Executive partner that handles executive parts Gardians
to please get him up out of jail. This comes
like pretty recent after his attorney Bo Brindley made this
emergency plea basically saying that R. Kelly is at risk
every single day. People are trying to kill him. Gang
(30:13):
members have been recruited to kill him, and they really
need the President to intervene and place him on home detention.
He said, Well, R Kelly does not have the time,
with his life in danger, to go through normal channels.
I beg to differ that those young women that he
was trafficking and all those crimeskins also didn't have the time. Yeah,
but they were forced, yes, by the creep known as
(30:34):
correct R Kelly. He by way, is currently scheduled to
be released from federal prison Jan thirty one of twenty
forty five.
Speaker 2 (30:43):
See you then, Bud, Yeah, do you know how old
he'll be at that time?
Speaker 3 (30:46):
One hundred and six seventy eight. My god, heay not
that bad.
Speaker 2 (30:51):
You got some time, all right?
Speaker 1 (30:52):
The three things He's know for Thursday, July sixteenth, past
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Fat Joe, It's jaw Rule, It's Jadakiss, It's Nelly and
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Eight seven seven six one seven nine four five Callers
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Good luck m eighty four five. It's Ashley and the
jam In Morning.
Speaker 7 (31:26):
Show and it's time for another DM dilemma.
Speaker 2 (31:33):
Hey guys, good morning, It's Ashley and the jam In
Morning Show.
Speaker 1 (31:36):
Bemo.
Speaker 2 (31:36):
The Prince is here joining us. Okay, So it was
very strange yesterday.
Speaker 1 (31:41):
I got a couple messages from different girls being like
ash listen, I'm going through something. I want to stay anonymous.
Do you think you could, you know, talk about this.
I'd be anxious to hear what people have to say,
always willing to do so you know every The one
thing that I love about DM dilemma is everybody has
some sort of dilemma in their life, and I think
things change.
Speaker 2 (32:01):
With the seasons.
Speaker 1 (32:02):
Some seasons it's really bad, the dilemma is crazy big,
and another time it's like, you know, did I get
the skeleton or not? Like you just don't know I did.
By the way, you don't know what it's gonna be.
So we're gonna help her out. She is on ig
with me right now, so if we have follow up questions,
fair game and we can ask. So, she says, my
ex and I broke up two years ago and we
(32:22):
have a child together together. Earlier this year, whenever I
would drop off our daughter, he was very flirtatious with me. Duels,
are you listening, okay. He would touch me, he would
act affectionate. He would show me a lot of attention.
The confusing part is that he had a girlfriend, So
I started wondering if they were having problems and if
(32:43):
he was just trying to reconnect with me. Recently, I
asked him for something our daughter needed. Out of nowhere.
He texted me saying he was taking me to court
because he thinks I'm going to stop him from seeing
our daughter. That caught me completely off guard because I
never said or did anything to make him think that.
Now I'm changing and wondering if something happened on his end.
(33:04):
Part of me thinks his girlfriend could be pregnant, or
maybe she saw our text messages and is influencing him
to take me to court. But I need to know
what could have changed. Sorry, that was a lot, Joels.
I'm adding you into this just because you know you
have a great relationship with the mother of your child,
and you know if there was an if if I
(33:25):
think things would change obviously for you, if if you
guys were each in real relationships.
Speaker 2 (33:30):
But had you ever had it maybe.
Speaker 1 (33:31):
In the beginning where like she's saying, when I would
drop the kid off, they would be flirty.
Speaker 2 (33:36):
He would be like affectionate with me, touchy with me.
Speaker 5 (33:40):
No, no, no, there was never like I was never
flirty with her. Well you know what, I'm lying.
Speaker 1 (33:48):
Because I'm so glad you said that, because I was
gonna say, I've heard their calls.
Speaker 6 (33:52):
He flirts with her, good boy, But it's like it's
like me joking around, like I just do that to
kind of like mess with her. Like it's not like
a real flirty, like she knows what I'm doing.
Speaker 1 (34:07):
This scenario, though, is weird because we're going from when
I dropped the kid off, he's flirty with me, he's
touching me, he's affectionate with me, to all of a sudden.
Speaker 2 (34:18):
I want custody the kid. We're going to court.
Speaker 5 (34:20):
Yeah, that's crazy.
Speaker 3 (34:21):
I gotta be the girlfriend.
Speaker 2 (34:22):
Got that's what she's guessing. And what else?
Speaker 6 (34:27):
It's you know what I mean, don't. I don't know
what to tell her. I can only speak to the man,
but it's like be a man, Like stop stop having
your girlfriend tell you what to do. Like that's just
weird to me. Like your relationship with you with your
kid's mother has to be that relationship. You can't have
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other people influences.
Speaker 1 (34:50):
Yeah, and I think that has to be like of
the utmost priority, right, Like you guys aren't together. The
kid's already going to be going to two different houses.
Like we need to make that good. So everybody's good.
Speaker 4 (35:01):
And even the girlfriend is new to the situation, so
she gotta kind of respect it. Don't touch her or
talk to her.
Speaker 1 (35:08):
It's always crazy to me when like a new girlfriend
comes in the scenario and all of a sudden starts
calling the shots. But if I'm new girlfriend and I
come into the scenario and I see text messages between
the two being like.
Speaker 2 (35:22):
Oh, so good to see you today, like you're so
not being so flirty with me or something, Excuse me?
What do I need to be at drop offs?
Speaker 1 (35:28):
I don't know, Like I so, I can see why
she might feel a type of way.
Speaker 4 (35:33):
You gotta be ready to get into that type of
scenario because there's always going to be someone else.
Speaker 1 (35:38):
Or she just said the girl was with him back
in the day, she came out of nowhere when we
were together, he didn't post me.
Speaker 2 (35:44):
Those are the things that she's added in so far.
So should we ask? I want to know specifically, why
do they break up?
Speaker 3 (35:52):
That's a lot.
Speaker 2 (35:54):
I mean, I don't listen. I don't think this is
one like where all of a sudden, she's gonna call
us in a week and be like, guess what it is?
Like I think it's what it is.
Speaker 1 (36:01):
I think the girlfriend is like, I'm uncomfortable now going
to court and getting the custody is kind of But
maybe she's saying if they have no custody agreement. Maybe
what the girlfriend's trying to insinuate is is like it's
all in her control.
Speaker 2 (36:15):
You don't have any control here. Yeah, maybe you know.
Speaker 6 (36:20):
My My thing is is whenever I start dating somebody,
I tell them, like me and my son's mother have
a great relationship, like like there's got to be there's
got to be some type of respect.
Speaker 1 (36:33):
I don't think like you're saying, right, but I don't
think you understand like what he can I give an example, right,
give me the context. Okay, so for instance, one time
they went on a family vacation together and stayed in
the same room. I'm new girlfriend, I am putting on
my foot down. No, no, no, Like I want you
(36:55):
to have a good relationship. But that's crazy.
Speaker 3 (36:57):
Well you know it's rooms are expensive? Thank you?
Speaker 2 (37:03):
Now correct me if I'm wrong.
Speaker 1 (37:04):
You guys weren't dating any bait of the time, so
who what does it really matter exactly? But given that
same scenario, we are dating, like one of us is
that's not cool.
Speaker 2 (37:12):
Yeah, hey, I'm all about family.
Speaker 5 (37:14):
But but you know what, I agree with you. I
agree with you.
Speaker 1 (37:21):
Sorry, she just wrote and said he was cheating. He
said I wasn't affectionate enough, and that's why we broke up.
I don't feel like any of these details are helping us.
Speaker 3 (37:30):
Kids still be affectionate.
Speaker 2 (37:32):
Yeah, he seeks like he's a little bit of a player,
but playing devil's advocate here.
Speaker 1 (37:38):
Maybe the new girlfriend was just like, hey, she kind
of has all the power, and when you see the
kid and when you don't, maybe we should go to
court and you get some like actual.
Speaker 4 (37:48):
Yeah, and he could have just like taken it to
a whole new level. She could have just suggested a
thing and he ran with it.
Speaker 1 (37:54):
But I'm gonna say she just said I've never kept
my child away from him. And I asked to meet
the girl friend if she's long term. I said, do
you guys have a custody agreement or is it something
you work out?
Speaker 3 (38:08):
Yeah, because if she's letting him see.
Speaker 2 (38:10):
Okay, they don't. They don't have a custody agreement.
Speaker 1 (38:12):
They work it out like outside of court, which a
lot of X couples do. But like again, then then
you guys have to agree and you have to talk
about if it's a court agreed costody.
Speaker 2 (38:23):
It's like you get the kid when you get the kids,
she gets the kid.
Speaker 4 (38:26):
Like, yeah, that, and it feels like then they're then
they're definitely cool enough to be able to manage that,
and that definitely feels like an X.
Speaker 2 (38:34):
Yeah, well yeah they're cool because he he flirts his
way through it.
Speaker 5 (38:37):
I guess.
Speaker 1 (38:38):
I mean, well, listen, I can tell you this. There's
I just asked, does he help money wise? Because I'm
interested to see if Yeah.
Speaker 3 (38:44):
I guess that's a good point.
Speaker 2 (38:45):
Is your custody agreement in or outside of court?
Speaker 5 (38:48):
Outside? Yeah?
Speaker 6 (38:49):
Yeah, we do not have a there's no courts. I
see my son whenever I want to see my son,
and you know, with holidays we figure it out.
Speaker 2 (39:00):
Okay, so money wise, you guys have never had an
issue or anything.
Speaker 6 (39:04):
If my son's mother needs something, if she's like and
she really very rarely asked for money, like I give
it to her.
Speaker 5 (39:11):
Yeah, whatever she needs to her.
Speaker 2 (39:13):
I like that attitude this guy said. She said he doesn't.
Speaker 1 (39:17):
He doesn't help many wise money wise, and if he does,
it's just like whenever he wants.
Speaker 2 (39:21):
It's not like.
Speaker 3 (39:21):
A oh that's a turn.
Speaker 2 (39:25):
Yeah, what am I not asking to him? Kind of?
But again, now, what what if that's that?
Speaker 1 (39:33):
What if that's all the girlfriend's saying is, hey, let's
go to court and get like an actual custoger. So
that way, because maybe the girlfriend is jealous, right, She's like,
I don't want you talking to her as much as
you do. And he's like, but I have to talk
to her because we're figuring out what I'm gonna see
my son.
Speaker 2 (39:45):
And she's like, well, if you went to court, you
wouldn't have to talk as much.
Speaker 6 (39:48):
Yeah, but you know what, that's gonna mess him up
because now he's got to pay.
Speaker 1 (39:56):
He's gonna have to pay real child support. That yeah, yeah,
so or she's listening. We can obviously continue to ask
follow ups. But given this situation they broke up two
years ago.
Speaker 2 (40:06):
He's always so.
Speaker 1 (40:07):
Nice with her, he's flirty, he touches her when they
do drop off, super affectionate. All of a sudden, out
of the blue, hits her with I want to go
to corp. I feel like you're keeping my son from me.
Speaker 2 (40:17):
What do we think is going on?
Speaker 1 (40:19):
Is the new girlfriend eight seven seven, six, one seven
one nine four five eight seven seven six one seven,
one nine four or five she's listening to this so
we can ask follow ups. Good morning, Sashally in the
gym in morning though. Hi guys, Good morning, Sashally in
the gym in morning show. My brain can't help but
put myself in this scenario because I know once the
skeleton gets delivered, it might be going to divorce course
(40:41):
and I'm like, damn, I would want to keep it
out of corp. But the fireman might be pissed an
ex skeleton. Yeah, no it is. I don't want to
think about that part. But anyway, So we had a
DM from oh Man. I almost said, uh, it's from Anonymous, who,
by the way, is on Live with Us. She did
give me some additions to it, but basically she said
her when her X broke up two years ago.
Speaker 2 (41:01):
They have a kid together.
Speaker 1 (41:02):
Every time they do drop offs, by the way, there
they have no custody agreement from inside the court. They
kind of work on it outside of court themselves. But
you know, she's like, anytime I drop the kid off,
he's touchy feeling with me. He acts affectionate, he shows
me a lot of attention. In the confusing part is
that he has a girlfriend.
Speaker 2 (41:20):
She goes.
Speaker 1 (41:20):
So I kind of started wondering, like, is he having problems,
Like he's trying to reconnect with me, and then she said,
out of literally nowhere, he texted her and said that
he wants to go to court because he thinks I'm
going to stop letting him see our daughter. She goes, now,
I'm kind of wondering what changed. Part of me thinks
the girlfriend could be pregnant or maybe she saw some
of our text messages and she's influencing him to take.
Speaker 2 (41:39):
Me, you know, to court.
Speaker 1 (41:41):
So we had a little bit of back and forth.
We asked a few follow up questions. She did just
add in guys, she said, I asked him for money
for my daughter. He said that he doesn't want to
give me the money because he quote doesn't know where
it would be going, which is funny to me because
if he actually has to pay me child sport, he's
never going to know where that money's going.
Speaker 3 (41:57):
Anyways.
Speaker 1 (41:58):
He says he doesn't want me to be in charge
when he can pick up and he wants to make
those decisions himself. But literally, it would only be the weekends.
I take my daughter to school every day and after school.
So no matter what, you're going to lose in court,
it's just sad. I was never trying to take this
to court.
Speaker 6 (42:12):
What about we need to know what she thinks are
What are in those text messages?
Speaker 2 (42:18):
Good call jewels?
Speaker 5 (42:20):
Yeah, what a text messages that she thinks that she saw.
Speaker 1 (42:22):
Let me write that while we take some calls. What
text could she have seen that would upset her?
Speaker 3 (42:30):
A little risk?
Speaker 1 (42:32):
Let's go to the talkback first. We have a ton
of calls. I have a ton of dms. We did
get this talkback. If they go to court, whether she
files or he files in court, that man will be
put on child support.
Speaker 2 (42:44):
He will be he's not contributing.
Speaker 1 (42:47):
What. Yeah, that's pretty much what all my dms are
saying too, Like, go ahead to take it to court.
But most of the girls in my dms are like
kind of to Jules's point, like the girlfriend saw something
and was like, listen, you gotta.
Speaker 2 (43:03):
Cut this, Like you you don't want to, like you
don't want.
Speaker 1 (43:05):
Your time with your kid to be dependent upon her
because it's clear like something's going on. By the way,
while that was happening, I said, what text could she
have seen?
Speaker 2 (43:13):
Them up set her? And she goes when he came
to my house? Lol, I go, oh, the millennial Lol,
what do you mean? I mean, I'll never let it die.
Oh oh wait and stayed over.
Speaker 3 (43:26):
Oh okay, all right, well then that's when was that.
We know everything about this.
Speaker 2 (43:31):
Yeah, we we know it all. Olivia is in Wolster.
Hi live, Good morning, babe. Good All right, So.
Speaker 1 (43:39):
You can speak on the in court agreement because you
actually had one that went through the court system with
your ex. Uh.
Speaker 8 (43:45):
Yeah, I still currently had it.
Speaker 12 (43:47):
My daughter's fourteen and.
Speaker 8 (43:49):
We are in the process of moving, so I have
to go back to court to redo the parenting agreements.
But I feel like actually kind of got screwed in
mine when I went because my ex cousin was making
a lot of money under the table, so the court
didn't know about any of that, so they actually wanted
me to pay him child support.
Speaker 2 (44:09):
I've heard.
Speaker 12 (44:11):
Yeah, yeah, so we actually had to go in and
I had to agree on a certain price. So I mean,
she could still go in and do the same thing
if she wants to, still be looking like she's being nice,
but she's kind of screwing himself, I know.
Speaker 2 (44:24):
Well, yeah, depending on what his funds look like. Thank
you for the calling. Can I just add it? She
goes and he stayed over?
Speaker 1 (44:32):
I go, Okay, when was that she goes, well, he
stayed till four am, and I go, hell, were y'all
doing till four?
Speaker 2 (44:38):
Wait for it? Just talking?
Speaker 1 (44:40):
I wrote, girl, please, I'm the girlfriend. I'm like, where
have you been?
Speaker 3 (44:48):
Brother? What are you doing there? Till four?
Speaker 1 (44:50):
A m unnecessary? Like unnecessary? She probably the new girlfriend,
gave him an ultimatum and was like, you got to cut,
Like what are we doing here? Get a colostady agreement
so that way this cannot continue to happen.
Speaker 3 (45:05):
My brother trying to have his cake and eat it,
and yes, if this ain't gonna work, Lauren.
Speaker 1 (45:13):
Is in wouburn Laura, like, I get what you're saying,
but are you changing your mind a little bit?
Speaker 2 (45:18):
Because Lauren says I think the girlfriend is.
Speaker 1 (45:20):
Jealous, So do I, but like, hey, wouldn't you be
the hell are you doing at a sleepball?
Speaker 9 (45:27):
So I've been in her in the girl in the
baby mother's position, and honestly, like, at first, yes, I
was like, oh, maybe she's jealous or whatever, But now
that I'm looking at the other side, I think that,
like maybe she should just go to court the baby
mother and like, at the end of the day, he
listens to his girlfriend, right so whatever karma they get
(45:48):
or whatever he has to do with child support, that's
just gonna be on him. And if he doesn't like it,
oh well, like you listen to your girlfriend and yes
he shouldn't have stayed so for m that's a little crazy.
Speaker 2 (45:57):
No, that's but yeah, like what's the saying that Boombo say,
like nothing.
Speaker 1 (46:02):
Good happens after one something like I mean seriously though,
like you didn't need to be there till four A
like I do think.
Speaker 9 (46:11):
I also think the baby mother she didn't say, like
why didn't she just say all of that in the beginning?
Why is she just say no she's like I don't.
Speaker 1 (46:18):
Playing, but yeah, like that should have been added into
the initial message. Oh, in one night he stayed till
four am and a girlfriend saw the messages because that's
obviously they were just chatting like about what like chah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (46:35):
Yeah she's bubbling. She just heard that joke. Thank you
so much for the call. I mean everybody like is
kind of an agreement here, like okay, like if he
wants to take it to court, let it go to court.
Speaker 3 (46:45):
And also, is this gonna stop him from four am sleepovers?
Speaker 4 (46:49):
He's just gonna have to pay child support and then
still be slumber party and whenever.
Speaker 1 (46:53):
Yeah, I I I do have to say, it seems
like this guy has a away with the ladies because
he's getting away with murder.
Speaker 2 (47:03):
Quite literally.
Speaker 1 (47:04):
She's bubbling, and so I'm anxious to see and hear
what her defense.
Speaker 2 (47:07):
Is for this. What should we should we play a song?
And then yeah, because she might be writing me a
novel here. Yeah, she heard Bemo's joke and she's like,
you take your funny. If you're on a hole, don't
go anywhere. Well, we'll get what she's bubbling that. We
don't care to everybody, Good morning, It's Ashley and the
(47:28):
gam in the Morning show, Bimo, the Prince. Listen to me.
Speaker 1 (47:31):
I this is why we we do this. We do
DM dilemmas. You tell me what's going on. We kind
of all way in, We kind of work through it.
This scenario was, Hey, me and my ex broke up
two years ago. Whenever we do the you know, child
drop off, we're very flirty with each other, we're affectionate.
All of a sudden, she says, out of nowhere, Ashley,
out of nowhere, I.
Speaker 2 (47:52):
Don't even know how this could possibly be.
Speaker 1 (47:54):
He says, I've taken you to court and I want
to figure things out in courtant and I said, what happened?
Speaker 2 (47:59):
I don't know. She just didn't. So through a few
you know, light questions, thank god for Jewls question of like,
you know, what were you guys texting because we thought
he's got a girlfriend.
Speaker 1 (48:11):
The girlfriend had to have seen something she didn't like,
hurt something she didn't like, and was like, what are
we doing?
Speaker 2 (48:16):
Why do you go to court?
Speaker 1 (48:18):
Stop having to have these back and forth conversations and
we won't be here. So Jules is like, I wonder
you know.
Speaker 2 (48:23):
What she saw?
Speaker 1 (48:24):
And a text method maybe asked so when I asked that,
that's when we got to the sleepover heard around the world,
and she said, well he did come to my house.
Speaker 2 (48:32):
I said, what happened? I just stayed over.
Speaker 1 (48:34):
We were up till four am, just talking. Now, we
made a few jokey jokes. She's been bubbling this entire time.
I knew it was going to be long. Stay with me, everybody.
Speaker 3 (48:46):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (48:47):
He wrote me the other night and he said, listen,
I can never come over again. Oh And I said, okay,
I'm gonna need you to be honest with me.
Speaker 2 (48:56):
You didn't touch that man the entire time. No, Okay, Ashley,
Yes we did sleep together. You know what, you know
what gas to.
Speaker 1 (49:07):
The bottom of it, investigative journalism, clever way to get
your child support.
Speaker 5 (49:10):
Though.
Speaker 2 (49:12):
I'm on his side, he's good.
Speaker 1 (49:15):
He's trying to protect the other relationship because he slept
with you.
Speaker 2 (49:18):
The girlfriend knows, and hey, mystery solved. Mystery solved.
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