July 6, 2026 • 15 mins
Ashlee gets a VERY juicy DM Dilemma after a listener finds out her best friend is cheating on her husband.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Ashley and the jam In Morning Show, and you need
to know.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
We got you three scenes you need to know on
Bustin's Number one for Hip Hu and the best Throwbags
you haven't eighty four five? All right, guys, Monday, July six,
and we just got off celebrating America's big two hundred
and fiftieth birthday and we are trying to keep the
celebrations alive. USA men's soccer going down tonight. They are
(00:24):
taking on Belgium in Seattle. I know little to nothing
about FIFA and the World Cup, but I asked Alex
who's here today, Man's a big soccer fan, and I said,
can the USA do it? Can they beat Belgium? And
he absolutely believes that we can. The big story flow.
Baligan officially cleared to play in the World Cup match tonight,
and thank god his one game, one game suspension got
(00:45):
lifted because this is do or die, this is a
critical elimination game. He received a red card in the
game and victory over Bosnia. Nobody believed it was a
red card, like, absolutely no one. I've seen it on
Sports Center seven hundred and fifty tis where we're like,
that's a yellow card. I guess FIFA agreed because they said, no, no, no,
we are going to remove this. He will eventually have
to do that one game suspension, but it certainly will
(01:08):
not be in the World Cup, and thank God for that.
He's going to have an immediate return. And the rumor
is that the team found out on the bus that
he was going to be able to play, and that
thing was electric. Everybody went crazy. So tonight is the
nights USA taken on Belgium. Fingers crossed, because what a
time to get it done. Coming off the fourth go USA.
All right, let's talk about Beyonce. No, no, sorry, let's do
(01:30):
Sizza because we just did Beyonce. Let's talk say the
Sizza made a major reveal on social media. This is
pretty crazy, guys. I guess she did it from her
Instagram burner account, but that everybody knows is actually her.
And she said that she has formally been diagnosed with
Aspergers and high functioning autism. She reflected on the blend
(01:51):
of both things a little bit of humor, and she
said smarter than you, stop playing in my face, indicating
that she is well aware of the way her diagnosis
could be per She basically connected her diagnosis with quote
intense feelings about discussion surrounding AI and music. This is
the first time that she's ever shared this diagnosis, and
(02:12):
you know, I've seen a lot of support in her
comments section and online and people being like that, you know,
they're appreciative. They're also suffering with those things and that
same diagnosis, and they're appreciative that she's come out and
said that she has it as well. And she, you know,
she kind of even said like it makes sense with
some of her public persona and how she's kind of
(02:33):
been like categorized to people in the industry. So there
you have it. Sizza has officially announced that she's been
diagnosed with both Aspergers and high functioning autism. All right,
and lastly, who's Drake's girlfriend? Who is Drake's girl friend?
Because I was stressed out about this, So if you
haven't seen the still shot, I'm gonna put this in.
(02:54):
I'm just gonna make sure because when I googled it
this morning, no one had found her yet. I just
put but Drake's mystery girl. Still haven't seen anybody, you know,
clarifying exactly who she is. But long story short, guys,
Drake calls Ben to Don, who is like a live streamer,
and Ben is live. Drake calls, so you know they're
(03:18):
having a little bit of chatter and Drake. Listen. Listen
to how quickly Drake hung up.
Speaker 1 (03:26):
Yes, I am please relax.
Speaker 3 (03:30):
Bye.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
She said, no, that's Drake him. Wait are you on live?
That's Drake. Benadon says yeah, he goes, don't hang up
Drake bye. But it already happened. We had already saw
the still of Drake with his arm around a mystery woman.
So now obviously there's insane amounts of you know, fuel
and speculation online that Drake has this whole girlfriend and
(03:54):
he's keeping her a secret. She looked young, she looked pretty,
and I need the answer. I want to know evbai thing.
So hopefully the internet can do its thing and can
find this mystery woman, because Drake looked very boot app
If you will, and if you haven't seen the photos,
check it out. Tell me what you think or if
you have any idea on who she is, Let's find
her out. Let's find her out and maybe get her
(04:15):
social We need all the info that as three Things
Need to Know for Monday, July six, Round two of
these tickets going down right now, Acon and Neo. Wow.
Interesting song, Drake, Hat's gone love one with me? Eight
seven seven six one seven twenty five, I digress, You're
going to Neo and Acon? Good luck.
Speaker 1 (04:34):
Four.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
It's Ashley and the jam In Morning Show and it's
time for another DM dilemma. This one's tough, guys. This
one is tough. By the way, if you're going through
something and you need some advice, you know you can
always DM me at Ashley Feldman two. He's on the Ashley.
You can say anonymous, you could hop on the show.
(04:55):
You can be inside the DM with me live just
in case I have any follow up questions, which is
what is happening in this situation? You know, when I
think about like a friendship and my friendship with my
best friend, I think about the scene from the Town
when Ben's like we got to go do something it's
like not good and homeboys like, yeah, whose car are
we taking? Like that's you know you killed someone? All right,
(05:16):
well we'll figure it out.
Speaker 4 (05:17):
Guy.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
That's the kind of like level I feel like I'm
on with my friends, So this one would this would
be tough. Here we go, ash I have a dilemma,
and I want to hear opinions from people. I caught
my friend cheating on her husband last week. She's been
talking to this guy that she knows for months, like
since the beginning of the year. They have been rocky
in her marriage for a little bit. I've been all
(05:40):
over about it and being in an emotional affair. She
finally asked for a separation from her husband, and I
caught her with the new guy at the end of
last week. Not to be stuck up or on my
high horse, but that bothers me so much that she
would cheat on her husband to the point that I
don't even know if I can be friends with her anymore.
Am I being dramatic feeling the way I do? And
(06:00):
should I tell her husband? I didn't catch them physically
hooking up, but I called her when I was driving
because I noticed she was driving like we all like
we do all the time, and I knew the minute
she answered her phone something was off. I kept asking her,
what's wrong, what are you doing? Who are you with?
And she just kept saying, I cannot talk, it's me
and basically, and then she texted me and basically said
(06:21):
that she's not gonna lie to me about it, but
she understands why I'm mad. So the question is, if
you find your friend cheating or you you know, are
in that same situation, do you tell the husband? Listen?
I have many opinions on this. I'm I'm I guess
my first question I'm texting I'm dming her back. Who
(06:43):
were you friends with first? That matters to me because
if she says, hey, yeah, like this was my friend first.
I met the husband through her when they started dating,
I feel like that makes it different. You know. I
understand feeling like, oh, like, come on, you're better than this,
(07:05):
but like that's also your bestie. So how do you
you know? We've all made mistakes. I just okay, who
are you friends with? But she said her honestly, I
don't even like him. Oh my god, she doesn't even
like the husband. But she's like, this is just not wrong.
What do you guys think? Does she insert herself in
this situation or does she kind of back off? Does
she distance herself from her friend? How would you handle this?
(07:29):
I caught my friend cheating on her husband last week.
She's been talking to this guy that she knows for months.
I told her straight up. It's an emotional affair. She
then went on to hook up with him right when
she asked her husband for a separation. She's cheating? Am
I being dramatic? I feel like I should tell her husband?
Eight seven seven six one seven one nine four five
eight seven seven six one seven nine four five. You
(07:51):
find out your best friend is cheating on their husband,
do you tell? How? Everybody? Good morning, It's Ashley in
the jam In Morning Show. We're helping a girl out
in a Dmlimm right now. Wants to stay anonymous, but
basically she now knows that her best friend is cheating
on her husband. We asked a couple follow ups. They
are quote separated, but they're still living together. She had
(08:11):
a feeling this was happening. She called her friend. Her
friend was like, I can't talk right now. Then she
ended up texting her being like, yes, I am, you know, cheating,
I'm hooking up with this other guy. I'm separated from
my husband, but we still live together, and now she
wants to know from us should she tell? Maybe I'm
just a different kind of friend, Like I'm literally texting
my Bessie right now on the side, and we're both
like yeah, now, like we would tell each other about
(08:32):
like you're doing the wrong thing, you're a pos for this,
like this is horrible, but we're off to the grave,
popopop up to the grave. I don't know. And she
did say she wanted me to throw in and tell
this to you guys. I was one hundred percent supportive
of them separating and would have had a lot more
respect if she waited until they were actually separated or divorced.
(08:54):
But they're still living together. You know, she threw it.
I don't even like him, and I would help or
the dead body if she needed it, But this just
crosses a line for me. That's good to know. Cheating okay,
no sorry, killing okay, cheating not go ahead and slice
the man up. But you can't cheat on him, okay.
So many calls and a lot of people actually in
(09:15):
this same sort of scenario. Here's a talkback that we got.
Speaker 5 (09:19):
So as someone who has had the unfortunate task of
having to tell her best friend that her husband is
cheating on or don't do it. It doesn't ever get anywhere.
They're gonna they're gonna pick the spouse over the friend.
I go the old Sam and Ron way send a letter,
Send a letter on the nail, tell him everything that's happening.
(09:39):
You'll feel better. Don't sign it, but just say, hey,
just want to let you know this is happening.
Speaker 2 (09:43):
Just penn palam, just pen palam and let him know again.
Another question that I had asked her, who did you
know first? She said she knew that she knew the
girl first. Like that, to me, that's where the allegiance
has to lie. Uh, emma is in lull emma to
tell or not to tell?
Speaker 1 (10:01):
Don't tell, don't tell.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
A lot of people saying don't tell, I'm saying don't tell.
Speaker 6 (10:08):
Yeah, I think you and the girl should have the
conversation or whoever the relationship should have the conversation. But
don't tell, because, like you said, we always kicked the spouse.
Speaker 2 (10:17):
Yeah. And this actually is close to home to you
because it happened that your best friend told your boyfriend
that you were cheating.
Speaker 6 (10:26):
Yeah. She we had a mutual friend obviously, so she
ended up running to him, told him that I cheated
on him, and then a year later, while I was
still dating him, they both cheated together.
Speaker 2 (10:39):
Wow, So she snitched on you and then ended uphunking
up with them.
Speaker 7 (10:43):
Yeah pretty much.
Speaker 2 (10:43):
Oh my god, you know what's so wild? I had
a girl DM me and she was like, do we
not think that the friend has a crush on the husband?
Because like what, why? Why would you ever tell? Y's
so crazy? And after your loning to listen, you did
something wrong. So like, okay, we can own up to
that you should not have cheated, but that in one
foul swood you lost your bestie and your boyfriend. That's
that's a lot.
Speaker 1 (11:06):
Yeah exactly.
Speaker 6 (11:07):
So when she came running to him to tell him,
nobody came money to tell me.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
Right, Oh yeah, wow am I all right? Well, thank
you so much for the call. Uh Kimberly is involved
in Hi Kim, good morning.
Speaker 1 (11:19):
Hi, good morning, Ashley, talk to.
Speaker 2 (11:21):
Me to tell you not to tell him? Good She's listening,
so so listen what I was trying to tell you.
Speaker 3 (11:27):
It was that, respectfully, Like it's kind of iffy because
it's like how long was the friendship?
Speaker 1 (11:33):
Was she in the wedding?
Speaker 7 (11:35):
Was she.
Speaker 2 (11:36):
How deep?
Speaker 7 (11:37):
Like it's true, the question is too like does she
have a crush on him? Who she meant first? Are
they that close? It gets a little sticky because it's
like you don't cheat.
Speaker 1 (11:47):
On husband's like, damn, baby daddy.
Speaker 2 (11:50):
I know it's bad.
Speaker 7 (11:52):
You don't and it's bad, but.
Speaker 2 (11:56):
Our business, it's bad. But is it our business? I
don't think it is.
Speaker 3 (12:01):
Respectfully, Yeah, I think yeah, I think now that after
listening to the people, I think I would take it
to the grave.
Speaker 1 (12:07):
But I would have a conversation with her like shorty,
like this is too much. This is your husband. You
did the vows, you did the whole thing. I don't
know how the wedding was whatever. You guys did the
whole jump camp and then to be cheated, that's crazy.
Speaker 2 (12:17):
She should have waited.
Speaker 7 (12:18):
She should have waited like the other girl said. She
should have waited until they were.
Speaker 2 (12:21):
Like oh yeah, like okay, by the way, she just
answered so many questions. She just answered two of your questions.
She said, I was not in the wedding and we've
been friends for about four years.
Speaker 7 (12:33):
Oh yeah, yeah. Just fall back, just fall back.
Speaker 1 (12:37):
That's not gonna affect her.
Speaker 7 (12:39):
Just fall back, fall back, take it to the grave.
Speaker 2 (12:41):
Yeah, I don't, but I don't mind. Hey like sitting
her down and being like, listen, you need to talk
to him about this, like this is not fair. This
is not right. You're better than this, like you're.
Speaker 3 (12:51):
Better or get a therapist something or get them yeah something.
But actually I wanted to sorry to interrupt you, but
I want to late say happy, but this is my
daughter two years old today, my little indetendant baby. Happy
about they say, savela, But yeah, I hope they figure
out everything that got going on.
Speaker 2 (13:08):
To the babes kisser for me. Thank you for the call.
All right, one more Anonymous is in Boston. All right, Anonymous,
you'd be our deciding factor here, tell or not tell,
don't tell?
Speaker 4 (13:20):
She should just mine her business. There's so many factors
and clearly you're you aren't in her wedding, so you're
not her best safe wright than you would have already
known about whatever dynamic that's going on in their relationship.
And yeah, just mind your business. I think eventually they
might get to get back together. Who knows what's going on.
She did the right thing by getting separated. Clearly she's
(13:42):
not happy married like.
Speaker 2 (13:44):
Reach till the man moves out. But yeah, and you
know what I think too, It's like you can now
distance yourself from the friendship because if you're like, you
know what this isn't the type of friend I want.
That's cool, that's fine, you can distance yourself. But I
just don't think it is your business to tell I
just I just don't.
Speaker 4 (13:58):
I couldn't understand it was like a ten year friendship.
Then yeah, go ahead, tell her how you feel. Don't
tell the husband, but tell your friend how you feel.
But for more years you were in our wedding. Girl, bye,
you're not her bestie. Yeah, mind your business.
Speaker 2 (14:12):
Okay, done, Anonymous, thank you for the call. Yeah, dude,
I just four years not in the wedding. You don't
even like them, you don't even like the man. If
this was me, if I'm in this exact same situation,
and I know she's listening, I am not telling, but
I am sitting my friend down and saying just what
I said, Like, girl, this isn't you, This is this
(14:32):
is not right. What you were doing is like grotesque.
You're better than this. You know you should. You should
really tell him, you should be honest with him. I
realized you said you were going to separate yourself from him.
You haven't even moved out. Whatever the case may be.
But I do not think she should be the one
to relay the information to the husband, and I do
(14:52):
not think there should be a note anonymously written in
the mail absolutely not mind your business and pray to
the dear Lord above that this man doesn't listen to Jamine.
Speaker 6 (15:04):
Dashy Morning Show, Boston's number one for hip hop Jammin
ninety four five.
Speaker 2 (15:11):
All Right, babes, that is gonna do it for me again.
Just to look ahead at the week. It'll be me
and you for the next couple and then Demo is
gonna be back to join us on Thursday and Friday.
If I missed anything at Ashley Feldman to ease on
the Ashley. We will talk to you tomorrow
Ashley and the jam In Morning Show, and you need
to know.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
We got you three scenes you need to know on
Bustin's Number one for Hip Hu and the best Throwbags
you haven't eighty four five? All right, guys, Monday, July six,
and we just got off celebrating America's big two hundred
and fiftieth birthday and we are trying to keep the
celebrations alive. USA men's soccer going down tonight. They are
(00:24):
taking on Belgium in Seattle. I know little to nothing
about FIFA and the World Cup, but I asked Alex
who's here today, Man's a big soccer fan, and I said,
can the USA do it? Can they beat Belgium? And
he absolutely believes that we can. The big story flow.
Baligan officially cleared to play in the World Cup match tonight,
and thank god his one game, one game suspension got
(00:45):
lifted because this is do or die, this is a
critical elimination game. He received a red card in the
game and victory over Bosnia. Nobody believed it was a
red card, like, absolutely no one. I've seen it on
Sports Center seven hundred and fifty tis where we're like,
that's a yellow card. I guess FIFA agreed because they said, no, no, no,
we are going to remove this. He will eventually have
to do that one game suspension, but it certainly will
(01:08):
not be in the World Cup, and thank God for that.
He's going to have an immediate return. And the rumor
is that the team found out on the bus that
he was going to be able to play, and that
thing was electric. Everybody went crazy. So tonight is the
nights USA taken on Belgium. Fingers crossed, because what a
time to get it done. Coming off the fourth go USA.
All right, let's talk about Beyonce. No, no, sorry, let's do
(01:30):
Sizza because we just did Beyonce. Let's talk say the
Sizza made a major reveal on social media. This is
pretty crazy, guys. I guess she did it from her
Instagram burner account, but that everybody knows is actually her.
And she said that she has formally been diagnosed with
Aspergers and high functioning autism. She reflected on the blend
(01:51):
of both things a little bit of humor, and she
said smarter than you, stop playing in my face, indicating
that she is well aware of the way her diagnosis
could be per She basically connected her diagnosis with quote
intense feelings about discussion surrounding AI and music. This is
the first time that she's ever shared this diagnosis, and
(02:12):
you know, I've seen a lot of support in her
comments section and online and people being like that, you know,
they're appreciative. They're also suffering with those things and that
same diagnosis, and they're appreciative that she's come out and
said that she has it as well. And she, you know,
she kind of even said like it makes sense with
some of her public persona and how she's kind of
(02:33):
been like categorized to people in the industry. So there
you have it. Sizza has officially announced that she's been
diagnosed with both Aspergers and high functioning autism. All right,
and lastly, who's Drake's girlfriend? Who is Drake's girl friend?
Because I was stressed out about this, So if you
haven't seen the still shot, I'm gonna put this in.
(02:54):
I'm just gonna make sure because when I googled it
this morning, no one had found her yet. I just
put but Drake's mystery girl. Still haven't seen anybody, you know,
clarifying exactly who she is. But long story short, guys,
Drake calls Ben to Don, who is like a live streamer,
and Ben is live. Drake calls, so you know they're
(03:18):
having a little bit of chatter and Drake. Listen. Listen
to how quickly Drake hung up.
Speaker 1 (03:26):
Yes, I am please relax.
Speaker 3 (03:30):
Bye.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
She said, no, that's Drake him. Wait are you on live?
That's Drake. Benadon says yeah, he goes, don't hang up
Drake bye. But it already happened. We had already saw
the still of Drake with his arm around a mystery woman.
So now obviously there's insane amounts of you know, fuel
and speculation online that Drake has this whole girlfriend and
(03:54):
he's keeping her a secret. She looked young, she looked pretty,
and I need the answer. I want to know evbai thing.
So hopefully the internet can do its thing and can
find this mystery woman, because Drake looked very boot app
If you will, and if you haven't seen the photos,
check it out. Tell me what you think or if
you have any idea on who she is, Let's find
her out. Let's find her out and maybe get her
(04:15):
social We need all the info that as three Things
Need to Know for Monday, July six, Round two of
these tickets going down right now, Acon and Neo. Wow.
Interesting song, Drake, Hat's gone love one with me? Eight
seven seven six one seven twenty five, I digress, You're
going to Neo and Acon? Good luck.
Speaker 1 (04:34):
Four.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
It's Ashley and the jam In Morning Show and it's
time for another DM dilemma. This one's tough, guys. This
one is tough. By the way, if you're going through
something and you need some advice, you know you can
always DM me at Ashley Feldman two. He's on the Ashley.
You can say anonymous, you could hop on the show.
(04:55):
You can be inside the DM with me live just
in case I have any follow up questions, which is
what is happening in this situation? You know, when I
think about like a friendship and my friendship with my
best friend, I think about the scene from the Town
when Ben's like we got to go do something it's
like not good and homeboys like, yeah, whose car are
we taking? Like that's you know you killed someone? All right,
(05:16):
well we'll figure it out.
Speaker 4 (05:17):
Guy.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
That's the kind of like level I feel like I'm
on with my friends, So this one would this would
be tough. Here we go, ash I have a dilemma,
and I want to hear opinions from people. I caught
my friend cheating on her husband last week. She's been
talking to this guy that she knows for months, like
since the beginning of the year. They have been rocky
in her marriage for a little bit. I've been all
(05:40):
over about it and being in an emotional affair. She
finally asked for a separation from her husband, and I
caught her with the new guy at the end of
last week. Not to be stuck up or on my
high horse, but that bothers me so much that she
would cheat on her husband to the point that I
don't even know if I can be friends with her anymore.
Am I being dramatic feeling the way I do? And
(06:00):
should I tell her husband? I didn't catch them physically
hooking up, but I called her when I was driving
because I noticed she was driving like we all like
we do all the time, and I knew the minute
she answered her phone something was off. I kept asking her,
what's wrong, what are you doing? Who are you with?
And she just kept saying, I cannot talk, it's me
and basically, and then she texted me and basically said
(06:21):
that she's not gonna lie to me about it, but
she understands why I'm mad. So the question is, if
you find your friend cheating or you you know, are
in that same situation, do you tell the husband? Listen?
I have many opinions on this. I'm I'm I guess
my first question I'm texting I'm dming her back. Who
(06:43):
were you friends with first? That matters to me because
if she says, hey, yeah, like this was my friend first.
I met the husband through her when they started dating,
I feel like that makes it different. You know. I
understand feeling like, oh, like, come on, you're better than this,
(07:05):
but like that's also your bestie. So how do you
you know? We've all made mistakes. I just okay, who
are you friends with? But she said her honestly, I
don't even like him. Oh my god, she doesn't even
like the husband. But she's like, this is just not wrong.
What do you guys think? Does she insert herself in
this situation or does she kind of back off? Does
she distance herself from her friend? How would you handle this?
(07:29):
I caught my friend cheating on her husband last week.
She's been talking to this guy that she knows for months.
I told her straight up. It's an emotional affair. She
then went on to hook up with him right when
she asked her husband for a separation. She's cheating? Am
I being dramatic? I feel like I should tell her husband?
Eight seven seven six one seven one nine four five
eight seven seven six one seven nine four five. You
(07:51):
find out your best friend is cheating on their husband,
do you tell? How? Everybody? Good morning, It's Ashley in
the jam In Morning Show. We're helping a girl out
in a Dmlimm right now. Wants to stay anonymous, but
basically she now knows that her best friend is cheating
on her husband. We asked a couple follow ups. They
are quote separated, but they're still living together. She had
(08:11):
a feeling this was happening. She called her friend. Her
friend was like, I can't talk right now. Then she
ended up texting her being like, yes, I am, you know, cheating,
I'm hooking up with this other guy. I'm separated from
my husband, but we still live together, and now she
wants to know from us should she tell? Maybe I'm
just a different kind of friend, Like I'm literally texting
my Bessie right now on the side, and we're both
like yeah, now, like we would tell each other about
(08:32):
like you're doing the wrong thing, you're a pos for this,
like this is horrible, but we're off to the grave,
popopop up to the grave. I don't know. And she
did say she wanted me to throw in and tell
this to you guys. I was one hundred percent supportive
of them separating and would have had a lot more
respect if she waited until they were actually separated or divorced.
(08:54):
But they're still living together. You know, she threw it.
I don't even like him, and I would help or
the dead body if she needed it, But this just
crosses a line for me. That's good to know. Cheating okay,
no sorry, killing okay, cheating not go ahead and slice
the man up. But you can't cheat on him, okay.
So many calls and a lot of people actually in
(09:15):
this same sort of scenario. Here's a talkback that we got.
Speaker 5 (09:19):
So as someone who has had the unfortunate task of
having to tell her best friend that her husband is
cheating on or don't do it. It doesn't ever get anywhere.
They're gonna they're gonna pick the spouse over the friend.
I go the old Sam and Ron way send a letter,
Send a letter on the nail, tell him everything that's happening.
(09:39):
You'll feel better. Don't sign it, but just say, hey,
just want to let you know this is happening.
Speaker 2 (09:43):
Just penn palam, just pen palam and let him know again.
Another question that I had asked her, who did you
know first? She said she knew that she knew the
girl first. Like that, to me, that's where the allegiance
has to lie. Uh, emma is in lull emma to
tell or not to tell?
Speaker 1 (10:01):
Don't tell, don't tell.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
A lot of people saying don't tell, I'm saying don't tell.
Speaker 6 (10:08):
Yeah, I think you and the girl should have the
conversation or whoever the relationship should have the conversation. But
don't tell, because, like you said, we always kicked the spouse.
Speaker 2 (10:17):
Yeah. And this actually is close to home to you
because it happened that your best friend told your boyfriend
that you were cheating.
Speaker 6 (10:26):
Yeah. She we had a mutual friend obviously, so she
ended up running to him, told him that I cheated
on him, and then a year later, while I was
still dating him, they both cheated together.
Speaker 2 (10:39):
Wow, So she snitched on you and then ended uphunking
up with them.
Speaker 7 (10:43):
Yeah pretty much.
Speaker 2 (10:43):
Oh my god, you know what's so wild? I had
a girl DM me and she was like, do we
not think that the friend has a crush on the husband?
Because like what, why? Why would you ever tell? Y's
so crazy? And after your loning to listen, you did
something wrong. So like, okay, we can own up to
that you should not have cheated, but that in one
foul swood you lost your bestie and your boyfriend. That's
that's a lot.
Speaker 1 (11:06):
Yeah exactly.
Speaker 6 (11:07):
So when she came running to him to tell him,
nobody came money to tell me.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
Right, Oh yeah, wow am I all right? Well, thank
you so much for the call. Uh Kimberly is involved
in Hi Kim, good morning.
Speaker 1 (11:19):
Hi, good morning, Ashley, talk to.
Speaker 2 (11:21):
Me to tell you not to tell him? Good She's listening,
so so listen what I was trying to tell you.
Speaker 3 (11:27):
It was that, respectfully, Like it's kind of iffy because
it's like how long was the friendship?
Speaker 1 (11:33):
Was she in the wedding?
Speaker 7 (11:35):
Was she.
Speaker 2 (11:36):
How deep?
Speaker 7 (11:37):
Like it's true, the question is too like does she
have a crush on him? Who she meant first? Are
they that close? It gets a little sticky because it's
like you don't cheat.
Speaker 1 (11:47):
On husband's like, damn, baby daddy.
Speaker 2 (11:50):
I know it's bad.
Speaker 7 (11:52):
You don't and it's bad, but.
Speaker 2 (11:56):
Our business, it's bad. But is it our business? I
don't think it is.
Speaker 3 (12:01):
Respectfully, Yeah, I think yeah, I think now that after
listening to the people, I think I would take it
to the grave.
Speaker 1 (12:07):
But I would have a conversation with her like shorty,
like this is too much. This is your husband. You
did the vows, you did the whole thing. I don't
know how the wedding was whatever. You guys did the
whole jump camp and then to be cheated, that's crazy.
Speaker 2 (12:17):
She should have waited.
Speaker 7 (12:18):
She should have waited like the other girl said. She
should have waited until they were.
Speaker 2 (12:21):
Like oh yeah, like okay, by the way, she just
answered so many questions. She just answered two of your questions.
She said, I was not in the wedding and we've
been friends for about four years.
Speaker 7 (12:33):
Oh yeah, yeah. Just fall back, just fall back.
Speaker 1 (12:37):
That's not gonna affect her.
Speaker 7 (12:39):
Just fall back, fall back, take it to the grave.
Speaker 2 (12:41):
Yeah, I don't, but I don't mind. Hey like sitting
her down and being like, listen, you need to talk
to him about this, like this is not fair. This
is not right. You're better than this, like you're.
Speaker 3 (12:51):
Better or get a therapist something or get them yeah something.
But actually I wanted to sorry to interrupt you, but
I want to late say happy, but this is my
daughter two years old today, my little indetendant baby. Happy
about they say, savela, But yeah, I hope they figure
out everything that got going on.
Speaker 2 (13:08):
To the babes kisser for me. Thank you for the call.
All right, one more Anonymous is in Boston. All right, Anonymous,
you'd be our deciding factor here, tell or not tell,
don't tell?
Speaker 4 (13:20):
She should just mine her business. There's so many factors
and clearly you're you aren't in her wedding, so you're
not her best safe wright than you would have already
known about whatever dynamic that's going on in their relationship.
And yeah, just mind your business. I think eventually they
might get to get back together. Who knows what's going on.
She did the right thing by getting separated. Clearly she's
(13:42):
not happy married like.
Speaker 2 (13:44):
Reach till the man moves out. But yeah, and you
know what I think too, It's like you can now
distance yourself from the friendship because if you're like, you
know what this isn't the type of friend I want.
That's cool, that's fine, you can distance yourself. But I
just don't think it is your business to tell I
just I just don't.
Speaker 4 (13:58):
I couldn't understand it was like a ten year friendship.
Then yeah, go ahead, tell her how you feel. Don't
tell the husband, but tell your friend how you feel.
But for more years you were in our wedding. Girl, bye,
you're not her bestie. Yeah, mind your business.
Speaker 2 (14:12):
Okay, done, Anonymous, thank you for the call. Yeah, dude,
I just four years not in the wedding. You don't
even like them, you don't even like the man. If
this was me, if I'm in this exact same situation,
and I know she's listening, I am not telling, but
I am sitting my friend down and saying just what
I said, Like, girl, this isn't you, This is this
(14:32):
is not right. What you were doing is like grotesque.
You're better than this. You know you should. You should
really tell him, you should be honest with him. I
realized you said you were going to separate yourself from him.
You haven't even moved out. Whatever the case may be.
But I do not think she should be the one
to relay the information to the husband, and I do
(14:52):
not think there should be a note anonymously written in
the mail absolutely not mind your business and pray to
the dear Lord above that this man doesn't listen to Jamine.
Speaker 6 (15:04):
Dashy Morning Show, Boston's number one for hip hop Jammin
ninety four five.
Speaker 2 (15:11):
All Right, babes, that is gonna do it for me again.
Just to look ahead at the week. It'll be me
and you for the next couple and then Demo is
gonna be back to join us on Thursday and Friday.
If I missed anything at Ashley Feldman to ease on
the Ashley. We will talk to you tomorrow
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