Soft Parenting (Full Show)

Episode Transcript

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Wake up, wake yo, wake, wake it up, honey. On
Wednesday, how's everybody doing? It? Was hot yesterday hot? Last night

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was insane. What are you not? You, Santi? What are we
putting the acs at right now?You think you'd be proud of me?
I was at about sixty seven becauseI was told if you put it at
sixty two, the it'll freezeengs willcome out, it will freeze and then
it doesn't blow out as hard asopposed to pause. So I put it
at about sixty seven. Shockingly,me too, only because of the kid.

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Okay, because she's not there.I'm going sixty five. That's cold,
though, right like you guys cold. I had seen what were you
wearing with sixty seven though? Becausenothing, because I was gonna say I
was in shorts and a T shirt. Sixty seven fine. I only put
it at sixty seven because of Leila. If not, it would be a

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cool sixty five. And actually thefireman was working on twenty four and he
if it were up to him,the aces would never go. And remember
that was my stipulation to even moveinto his home. I'll move in if
you put in central air or minisplits. I don't care what. There
has to be air conditioning. SoI had to text him last night and
be like, I don't want anypushback. The AC's are on. I
had them on in every room,in the living room. We're not playing

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these games. It was hot yesterday, and I think it was just hotter
because we had We have not hadthat, so I was not used to
being out there. Plus I'm upin wait, so everything makes me just
like I breathe and I'm sweating.But yesterday was more comfortable than what it's
gonna be today. Though. Yeah, I mean today is gonna be They're

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saying it's almost gonna be ninety.Yeah, but I feel like today still
feels good because it's not like humanright. You can still right now.
But by the time I mean that, because I felt like that yesterday,
I was cooler in the morning.But by the time we get about it
here, it's gonna be hot.So on days like today, do you
have a roll down the windows oris it just the AC? No,
when you guys are in your cars, Oh no, I'd rolled down my

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window till I hit the highway.I have respect for the expensive hair that
I bought, and I would neverever do that because because this is fake
and it's expensive, don't ask.I'm good if my hair. If it's
wash day and my hair is ina ponytail, maybe I don't care about

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it. But like right now,with my hair down with the wa it
could frizz, it could get naughtyor whatever. Like we have a rule
in the car, he'll like crackhis window a little bit, but the
very second we come close to ahighway or anything of that nature, bop,

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We're up. We're not playing thesegames. Yeah, that's why he
hates going on vacation with me becauseI only if we're gone for five days,
I'll only swim one day because ofmy hair. So it's like he
wakes up on swim day and he'slike, it's swim day, Oh my
god, and the pool guy can'tgo on his own. I just this
is the double whammy. It's swimday because I'm willing to get my hair

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wet, but it's also swim daybecause I'm willing to risk losing a little
bit of my spray tan in thepool. So the other days I'll sit
at the edge and chat with himwhile he So you go to a beach
resort, right and you only getin the water one time, So this
is how the beach I can getin. There's no chlorine. Oh okay,
it's not gonna strip your spray tanlike you guys, just don't get
it. I don't get crazy.You're also not translucent white, so you

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can't possibly understand this. Okay,so sweet, this is new to me.
So if I'm going if I'm leavingon a Friday, okay, I'm
gonna get sprayed Thursday, I'm gonnawake up, I'm gonna shower Friday morning,
get the bronzer off. Friday throughthe weekend. I'm most likely you're
not gonna catch me in a pooltill like the last day, or maybe
the day before the last day.And my showers are not going to be

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real showers. They're all going tobe rinsofs because every time you get in
the shower, you're essentially wiping offsome of the spray tan. It's all
about conservation. At that point,I got it, man, And I
thought Santo was crazy for sleeping inthe bed with jeans, But then you
take a gander at this and youunderstand why it must be not My white

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seekers and white sox are the samewhite as my leg, Like I can't
go out without a spray It's serious, but it's serious. At least you
match the majority of the people you'reon vacation with, so it's not like
they're going to be sticking out thatmuch. True. I mean, I
got a spray tan for Disney,Like I don't play gamba, I'm going

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away on any sort of vacation.Spraytan is happening. In fact, because
we have Memorial Long Day weekend.I'm getting a spray tan tomorrow just because
I just think it's crazy. Ifyou fly to the place like Hawaii,
they have this amazing pool, right, you don't go in the pool.
That's crazy. I would go inthe pool towards the end of the vacant.
Imagine you know at that point youdon't, I don't care. We're

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going home, and I probably atthat point for and have got some real
sun through the spray tand so it'snot as translucenty, it's not as like
ghost. You have told me somecrazy stories about the stuff you've experienced in
your life, but this is oneof the craziest things I've ever thought.
All my stuff seating up to vacationbronze. Okay, so what happens is

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you go, let's let's just pretendI'm leaving on a Friday morning, so
I would go Thursday night at likeseven pm. She would spray me completely
naked. Okay, you sleep inthat, you let it bake, you
smell it, you it and theydon't stay the sheets it does, they
don't. Don't you wash them thenext day. But I have a I
sleeps. I have tanning sheets thatI'll lay down and you sleep in it,

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and then the morning form when youshower, it off like if you
look in the drain, the drain'slike legit brown juice because it's like the
bronze are apart coming off, andthen just looks like I was in Mexico
the day before. And then whenyou shower after the bronze whatever, right,
ye are you like real real showeror just a rinse? I'll do?
Will I use specific when I crazy? This is the levels when I

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have a spray tan. I usespecific body wash for a spray tan.
So I do a full shower,but I would never use my real like
harsh soap because it would strip thetan. WHOA imagine being my husband having
to understand before we go on vacation. The amount of like it's a lash
appointment, it's a nail appointment,it's a hair appointment. It's uh,

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it's a spraytan appointment. But thatwas the old me. Now I'm poor
in a homeowner, so it's gonnabe different. I'm going I am going
on trips pail Okay, I'll getin the pool. I don't have a
spray tan to striple, especially foreign. It's saunty when you need to know,

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we got you three things you needto know. Austin's number one for
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trying to get treated throwing in thecorner. Brown fakes fires up the three
game time out, Indiana best Places, Bonkers right now, Bonkers in the

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garden last night, say May twentysecond and you love to see it.
Our guy Jaylen Brown giving us thechance he's winning in ot That was crazy,
the way he turned around and didhis old muscle face. He had
like no room to shoot that shotand he still got it off. I
just posted the video of him hittingit because he had posted on his Instagram,

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and it's like it was great dguy was all up in it and
he just figured it out. Ilove that face too, that he makes
the muscle face. Gave us achance, and the Celts got the job
done one thirty three, one twentyeight. But you know what, all
of them are giving all their creditto Drew Holliday. Drew Holiday, I
mean dropped a Celts high for himtwenty eight and just d it up like

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he was. Aw. The mandoesn't tire. He don't. Me and
my son were talking about that.He don't sweat like you look, he
barely sweat. He's like, yeah, he's mad calm. I'm like,
yeah, this dude, don't hedon't look unbothered. He's just chilling.
He's always even killed and he justplays his thing and he does this thing
on the Bock's crazy. There aresome people that just don't say, don't
that. I feel like I'm justconstantly sweat tea and some people just like

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the back of my neck. MaybeI don't know, but some people don't
like that either way. Here's Jalenafter the game. It's just so exciting.
We knew what ever gonna be fastingsurprises, but it's one thing watching
it on a film and then seeingit in person. They just got out
of a dogfight in New York andand it just felt like they were just
flying by. It's getting easy layups. We got to be better. We

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got to match their intensity if wewant to win this series the next one,
you got to match their intensity.Now you can use that one.
You can use that one their intensityif we went away team and just got
up a dog fight. He's right. If you watch Jalen hit that shot,
watch the pacers bench exactly. That'sthe funniest part of the whole And
you gotta get it from where itlike. It's kind of viewing them from

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above the arena and there's one downon the side who was like, oh
like like all of them silent,just roch could not believe what they were
seeing. And Jalen's a friend ofthe show. Ash get the drop.
I'll say some things in the meantimefor you. But we played it eighteen
times yesterday and I feel like maybethis was why they want. What Up

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Boston is Dalen Brown Wake up withAshley in the gem in Morning Show with
DJ Forn and Santi only on JAMin ninety four to five. Boston's number
one for hip hop and the bestthrowbacks. Man loves the show. I
don't know what to say. Heloves the show. By the way,
exciting news talks of perzingis coming backfor Game four. Okay, Seltzer back
in action. Game two is tomorrownight, eight p m. Tip And

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what do they have to do protectthe rock and scoring transition match the papers?
He just said it. All right, let's talk about Matthew Perry.
I don't know if you guys sawthe headline. That's not the story I'm
telling. This is not the storyI'm telling. But there was a headline
of Courtney Cox saying that she yousee this, she feels like he's still

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around. She's still he still talksto her. I know people believe in
that sort of thing. There istruth. Yes, probably there's some communication
between the afterworld and this, butshe's not talking to her. I actually,
just because he's gonna come back,it's not gonna be for her.
Come on, this isn't the characters. These are real people, real actors,

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Matthew and his family. He's notgoing back for her. What you
don't think Chandler is coming back fromMonica? Yes, but they aren't Chandler
and Monica. I know Matthew,but I'm saying, like, sometimes we
can put these things into our head. When he got the call that we
got the house, I said tothe fireman that it was Nona maybe,
yeah, you know what. Hesaid, No, it's not. The

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yard's not that big. So Iwas like, oh, okay, it
was. But all I mean tosay is some people see things and they
think, oh, that's a deadperson. Not you. No, but
it's not that. I mean,I'm sure you can connect them dots,
but this isn't that ooh the sun. It's my uncle Jerry. The son

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rose at six sixteen and my uncle'sname was sixteen and his number was six.
Comes like the Taylor Swift fans,like they're making something out of nothing.
But anyway, six months after MatthewBerry's passing, the LAPD and the
Drug Enforcement Administration have just launched ajoint criminal investigation into how he died.
So we know he died October twentyeighth. He was just fifty four.

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He had ketamine in his system.The autopsy listed him as drowning coronary artery
disease, and a certain drug thathe was used to treat opioid addiction.
We know, or I don't knowif you remember, but he was undergoing
ketamine infusion therapy from his therapist tohelp with his depression, his anxiety,

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his PTSD. You know, hehad struggled a long, long time with
drug and alcohol problems. He hadchronic pain and more. The very last
session he had was about a weekand a half before he died. The
autopsy concluded that the ketamine in hissystem at death could not be from that
infusion therapy, since ketamine's half lifeis three to four hours or less.
So it seems like what I'm gatheringis they've been investigating this matter for months.

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They've interviewed some key people in quoteHollywood, but no arrests have been
made. I'm assuming they think thathe was getting ketamine elsewhere, not just
from his therapist during that sort oftherapy, and potentially they're going to try
to get these people that were Ithink, I mean, I'm guessing I'm
surmising here what else would it possiblybe, because if they're making it clear

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that to mean is in your systemfor three to four hours or less.
It was a week and a halfafter his quote infusion with his therapist.
Yeah, and again I'm trying tosurmise it, but clearly he must have
been feeling good with this therapy andprobably found another way to get it to
kind of keep that consistent feel goodfeeling. Something just seems off because when
the autopsies listened his drowning, coronaryartery disease, and then beuforefarene, which

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is aka it's something to treat addiction, those effects altogether concluded to his death.
Obviously, it was ruled an accidentwith no foul play. It seems
that they believe that he had likesomething else was going on. Could he
have had the ketamine in the system, had a heart attack because of the
coronary disease, and then drowned inthe pool. I don't know. Kendemine

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is special what people call special campcorrect. Yeah, if he If he
was, If that was in hissystem and he was getting that off the
street, that there point is goingto be like I get that person who's
selling it in Hollywood. To geta drug like that, I'm sure you
got to go to some type ofdoctor like Michael Jackson was. So I'm
like that's probably where that's not actlike some of these doctors won't write this
sc absolutely, Yeah, so thatdeveloping. That story is developing. I'll

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keep you posted there if they findanything out. Another day, another accuser
for Ditty. It's tough out there, man. So yesterday we found out
that Crystal McKinney filed a sexual assaultlawsuit against Ditty. So she was working
with him in two thousand and three. She claims after a meeting with him
at Men's Fashion Week event in NewYork, he came on to her in

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a quote sexually suggestive manner, invitedher to his studio, and then there
he took advantage of her. Shesaid she was given an alcohol and weed
that she believes was laced with anarcotic or some sort of other intoxicating substance.
She's asking for unspecified damages pertaining toemotional injury, distress, pain,

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and suffering an injury to her reputation. As of now, Didty and his
team not responded, but that filingyesterday becomes his sixth sexual assault suit filed
against him since November last year.The details in these stories seem all pretty
consistent. Like with him, it'sclearly a thing with the drugs kind of

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there's a power thing here. Yeah, absolutely, and that's clearly what he's
into. I just go back tothinking about Cassie and her documents, and
you know, not that the threeof us ever didn't believe her, but
the thought of her saying that multipletimes, on multiple different occasions, she
took drugs on her own just toget through what she was going to have

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to do. Because remember she saidthat he would make her have sex with
other people. He would watch,he would sit in the corner of the
room, like horrifying. Oh youhaven't you haven't read the latest one with
like apparently that she when she's onthat time of the month, he would
take said thing from her to tryto I don't know, feed it to

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other people or something like that.I don't know. I won't die,
bro Like it's crazy amount of freaky, Like just that's not even freaky,
that's just I don't know what thatis. That's sick. And it's just
the stories just keep coming out andcoming out and coming out. Rich people
are weird. I think we canjust say it. Rich people are bored
and weird, and he's a predator. Yeah, nothing is ever enough,

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nothing is ever Now. Then afteryou get called. You get so arrogant
enough that you're like, oh,now all these are lies and now we
got evidence, Like just be quiet, no, did he did? He's
a creep closeted monster. Yeah.And what suck is that there's a lot
of people like this in Hollywood andin the music industries, so many blent,
so many. All right, thethree things you need to know for
Wednesday May twenty Second, This istough. It's not tough. Is it

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has to happen. We're going totalk about it at six thirty in like
just a couple of minutes. IAm going to go out on a limb
here and say Pop has never embarrassedus as badly as he. Okay,
I thought this was about Asa.No, well she's embarrassed worse than ever
than Pop. But Pop, Ijust like, you gotta do your research,
you know, use your eyes.Like, yes, if you have

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eyes for some people, they work. Maybe for him, they're just not
working. I'm low key mortified.I'm gonna leave it up. I'm going
to I'm gonna leave it up fornow. So here's my hint to you.
I'm going to leave it up onsocial media for right now, and
then the second we finished the conversationat six thirty five or whatever it is.
I'm taking it down because I don'twant to be associated. No,

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We're one of the biggest media companiesin the world and we miss me media.
Yeah, yeah, we missed media. Not to Hymn though he was
bumping off fifty Lo what happens say? And the jam In Morning show with
DJ Foreign It's saut Morning Bustin's numberone for hip hop jam in ninety four
or five. Oh man, I'vesaid, you ever watch a show on

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TV. I know people have feltthis emotion and you get second hand embarrassment
if you watch a scene and you'relike, but it has to be a
reality based show to really feel thatsecondhand. I think you have to really
be invested in a character to feelit. Yeah, or yeah, a
reality stars. But I've watched thingsbefore where I've even videos that like Influencer

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have posted and I feel it.Yeah, I feel it more there than
anything, because you know those peoplewalking around life thinking they're doing something really
positive and fun, or they captureand some sort of content that's great.
I feel like you can talk aboutthis in length and I will explain why
I say that I have been caughtup in this too, so I have

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physically experienced it. But anytime apresident comes to New England, no matter
what president it is, it's notabout the president for you, son,
it's it is only about it isthe things that come with it, the
motor Air Force One, like Santiis not going to see Joe Biden.
Santi wants to see all of thethings that surround Joe Biden's I go to

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everyone. So yesterday I went toManchester to watch Air Force one. Land
saw the motorcade and there's something likepresidential and American and very like wow,
like powerful above seeing Air Force onecome over the horizon, amazing, breathtaken,
iconic. And yesterday I saw themotorcade like as well. Even pulling
up there you see police everywhere allalong the highway, just out of curios

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ahead. So when you saw themotorcade, like how close would you say
you were able to get? Iwas able to get probably around two hundred
feet the closest you can get becausethey had police blocking off everything and the
police was very clear like you cannotget past this point. Now you saw
the motorcade it went by, itwas like amazing, But there was no
way that I was getting close toit. Because here's the reality. If

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I even attempted to get maybe withinten feet of it, I would get
shot, I would get arrested,I would get the because were about to
try to assassinate the president of theUnited States. You can't if you are
a civilian, you cannot and willnot ever be able to just walk up
or drive up to the president ofthe United States. President, you could

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just shut down highways in cities unlessunless for some reason, I don't know
where he got the clearance. YourDJ pop Dog, Yeah, DJ pop
Dog thought he was able to rollup on the presidents of the United States

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yesterday. This man had his windowsdown, he was blaring fifty cent and
he thought that he could literally driveup next to Joe Biden. Hey Joe,
I'm on my way to the studio. My real name is Kareem Pop
posted a video on jay in ninetyfour or five reels which I'm I feel
like I have to take down atsome point. Let us stay, have

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to let them watch it for atwhat time can I take it? Because
it's embarrassing. Well, I feelbad for the people who would listen to
this podcast, I feel bad forthe family of the dead. Yeah what
I feel that it's because these peoplewho listen to the pod later. You

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know, you gotta give it atleast a twenty four hour hold. Oh
my god, twenty Okay. DJpop Dog was on. It was ninety
three north down that's where it started. And he thought that he was driving
next to the motorcade for the Presidentof the United States, and he videoed

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the entire thing with his window down, blaring ft decent as if Joe Biden
would care or no. And guys, it was a funeral, Yeah,
it was a funeral. There wasa literal. Hearse. Now. I
know some people make the joke thatit seems like Joe's dead but he ain't
dead. Well, I feel badfor the family. Like what there was

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a dead person in a coffin inthe thing and this guy out the window
and you know how he does itwith the phone. It's like, sir
I And the other thing is toowhen there's a funeral and we passed them
like all the time, they're flags, flags, lights, funeral, there
are lights, people looking sad.I think one of the calls had a

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whole picture of the level was deceased. I think they did so front Bill
Bullet saw a wooden sign of somesort. The last time Joe Joe came.
We all know I wasn't trying tosee Joe and I was headed to
the seaport. I had an eventto be at. But I knew Joe
was in town, and I knewtraffic was going to be affected. I

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was right near my house, likeI think I drove. I stayed on
Marcie a little bit. Anyways,I was in southeast trying to get on
ninety three, and I was abouttwo cars from getting on the actual highway,
and in seconds there were two stadesbut locking the exit. They had
their hands up. We put thewindows down and they were like, you
have to wait for the motorcade,like the president is driving by physically wouldn't

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let us on the highway. Butsomehow Pop saw the stadies and they were
like, PA, come on,Joe, Joe wants to see you now.
Sure that's Pop. He's passing us. He has a mixed tape and
also mix right now noon too.The other thing about it too, like

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the motor cane is covered with thepresidential like flags and like all the seals
and everything. Did he miss that? He missed that ambulances. I'm reading
the comments and I have they Ohyeah, from when he first posted.
They start, someone goes man,that's a damn funeral procession. Someone else

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pop, someone else, that's ahearse, someone else, I love the
horse. Gotta keep a horse aroundbecause he's so old he just might die.
People are thinking that the hearse wasshe put horse, but hearse,
that's a funeral lawn and with abunch of crying, laughing faces. Like,
guys, man, that dead personright now is up and heaven looking
down this post and he can't comehim because he died. But he's like

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Jesus, that was me. Guys, that was me. I'm just I'm
Are you gonna say something to him? They already sent a message already.
Someone's gonna snitch on me. Idon't care on us, Like that's why.
Like, but if you really watchthe video, like he thought that

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he was getting that, like sirwhip speeding past bien bro Like what has
he never has he never seen oneTV? Like has he never seen an
episode of the West Wing or Scandal? It doesn't work like that. I

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guess what he sees, is maybeJoe going to like a boys and girls
club and people are getting close.But those events are vetted. Max.
You know, Joe Biden doesn't justgo to boys and girls club and everybody
comes in. It does work likethat. Guys. You can't even go
in the White House without running backgroundchecks. Absolutely, you can't get it
within five hundred feet of the doornow, but pup can get twenty feet

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from the motor kid good back,all right, he said he's playing and
he's whipping by a funeral. I'mgonna actually redo his intro. Let's pretend
he's getting ready to a mix fromPakistan to LA to Boston to d C.
It's DJ Pop Dug Sham in ninetyfour to five traffic, forty five

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minute ride one twenty in south boundPbD down to the Burlington Mall and the
expressily northbound stop and go traffic fromthe split in Braintree all the way up
to South Bay. Honestly, though, I do want to say per our
last conversation made that man rest inpeace or woman whoever was a person who
died. Yeah, yeah, theydidn't know that they were going to be
posting. They did not know theywere going to be posting on social media
with fifty cent I hope they werefifty something fans in that family, because

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I don't I don't think they wereprepared for that. Imagine you're in the
back of the car, you justdevastated that, like your dad died or
something like that, and you lookover to the left and there's a guy
flying by you with the like yeah, yeah, no, it's you have
to be able to put two andtwo together here that the reason they wouldn't
let you on the highway back closeis because you could try to crash into
Joe's car. You could you couldtry to assassinate. Now you made a

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good point and just showed me avideo. If you're just standing on the
street, you might get the chancefor the motorcade to drive by because you're
standing on the street at the time. They're not gonna be able to but
they're they're never gonna let a carthey don't know who you are roll up
to the precedent of the United Statesof America. Yeah, yeah, whatever.

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However, Pup got that clearance though, not to go back to it.
But we all know what a hearseis, right, We all know
they're distinct. There's a coffin inthe back, but in the in the
motor case, some of those carscan kind of yes, but he drove
up. I'm gonna shoot him alittle bail. The one limo did look
like the president. Yes, yes, the one though he's just coming over

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the bridge. But after that,yes, once you noticed, once you
were like, wow, I'm intraffic with the President. This doesn't seem
right. Yeah, I'm in trafficwith the President and there's no cops around
me. We only got two policeon motorbikes. That'sh it. But for
you get say like like for me, it's the hearse at the end,
yes, cars, the coffin.After that, I would have been,
Oh, I definitely would have beenlike, I'm not putting this on social

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media because I'm not sure. Especiallyin the Jamie Morning Show with DJ Foreign
and Sunty when you need to know, No, we got you three things
you need to know on Boston's numberone for hip hop and the best throwbacks
you haven't any more us trying toget treated, throwing in the corner round

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Buckers right Now just hearing that audio, you can feel I feel like we're
there, you can feel the hypeWednesday May twenty second and our guy Jaylen

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Brown giving us a chance. Welove to see it, sees win it
in overtime Game one against the Pacersone thirty three, one twenty eight.
I think Drew Holiday was the realstory here, dropping twenty eight his record
high for him for the Celts andjust dealing up and playing all over the
place both ends of the core.I mean he he doesn't tire. The

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engine is insane. It had tobe done because the Celtics had to match
their pace, because the Pacers area fast team that just got out of
a dog fight against the Knicks.Oh my god, it's so crazy you
say that because we knew it evergonna be fastening surprises. But it's one
thing watching it on a film andthen seeing it in person. They just
got out of a dogfight in NewYork game and crazy just felt like East

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flying by. It is getting easylayups. We got to be better,
We got to match their intensity ifwe want to win this series. Why
would you listen to the Sports Up? Why would you listen to ESPN?
Why would you why we got wecan. It's like Santi's in the play
like you were in Jalen's head ringI'm in the huddle. This is sad

(29:14):
and I'm going to say that,and it does. It does rule in
the favor of YouTube thinking I havea drinking problem. I can't hear that
audio of Jalen hitting the game,like the tying the game three pointer put
them in overtime, and not likepicture myself there, I can taste the
Jamison and ginger. It's sad.At that point, you would have not
realized that I wouldn't. I wouldn'thave known that Jalen Brown even shot that

(29:34):
shot, but I would have beenon my twelfth Jamison. And the only
time I actually paid attention to thegame was the time where they zoomed up
on me and I was sober becauseI was hiding my pregnancy and I was
drinking coffee. I was going toask you that was this last year and
I was pregnant early on and Iwas hiding it, so I was remember

(29:56):
when they zoomed in my face,I was really you were, like what
happened the first time ever? Alot of celebs at this game too,
There were so many slaves. Millieswas there, Jada Kiss was there,
Big Poppy was there, Mick LoveHow does how does he get the seats
because those seats aren't easy to collbriand like, how does he we know

(30:18):
where he gets those seats from myguy? But if everybody you can get
taken, he's a he's a celebrity. Came out in twenty thirteen. Remember
the name of the film. Buthe's so trying to tell my son that
yesterday and I couldn't remember. Yeah, but you just know he was with
his girl. Oh, Drake maywas there, the new quarterback for the

(30:41):
Patriots with ankle socks on. Letme just point that out too. Yeah,
he is gen Z. That washe should really know better, all
right, Seltzer back in action gamesuits tomorrow night a PM. By the
way, we might get a porzingisshowing for game four. That is what
the rumor is. All right,let's talk Kelly Rowland for And do you

(31:02):
have the video of kel up on? Okay, yeah, I don't know
what happened. I don't know whathappened, but I am on Kelly's side
because I think if you watch thevideo you can see that this security guard
was starting with her from the beginning. I don't know what the exchange.
Well, let me let's start thistop. So, so Kelly Roland is
walking the red carpet for the something. I were going back and forth about

(31:26):
this Conn's Cohn Film Festival. Somesay cans and say kan, but it's
spelled c A N n e sall the celebrities go. She look gorgeous
by the way. She was Yeah, film platinum blonde hair, Kelly Rowland.
If you don't know Kell's name,she was a part of Destiny's Child.

(31:47):
She's Beyonce's best friend. Yeah,but you know, listen. Anyways,
she was making the stairs remind mea little bit of the met Gala.
You gotta walk up these huge stairsor whatever. The second Kelly came
out, the security guard had herarm behind her and was kind of trying
to like rush her up and usherher in. Maybe the film was getting

(32:08):
ready to start, maybe the VNwas getting ready to begin. I don't
know, but there was certainly somerushing from the security guard, and it
kind of looks to me that atone point the security guard is so pressed
to get her in that she stepson Kelly's dress. Did you see Kelly
kind of turn around. All wehave right now is the video without audio

(32:28):
and the stills. Kelly Roland gotin this woman's face, like finger pointed,
yelling at this woman. I thinkthe background was is that the security
was trying to usher like everybody inand kind of they put the pressure on
everybody, which got really annoying toa lot of people, not just her
because the video I saw Kelly comesout, the security is there. There's
another male security too, doing thesame thing. They don't touch you,
but they put the arm almost likea barricade. Yes, and then she

(32:52):
walked up a few steps, turnsaround and looks like she wanted to take
some pictures waving or whatever, andthey kind of blocked her completely. Yeah,
and then she walked up a fewall she touches the lady on their
hand, looked like I don't knowif she was saying back. I don't
know what she said, but itlooked nice, and within seconds flipped and
fingered in the dress. Okay,I could be wrong, but it kind
of looked like that. And whoeverwas with Kelly, like Kelly's PR person

(33:15):
was also yelling at the security guardlike back up you know, if you're
paparazzi, you couldn't get a clearshot of Kelly Roland because the security guards.
Yes, and I thought that's whyshe got mad, is because she
stopped at the steps. She turnsaround and the dude is on once.
It's like they almost crowded her.You couldn't even see you could only see
the red of the blod head.I wanted to know what she said so
bad because the photo of her yellingis trending. But I'm dying to know

(33:37):
what to Honestly, I wouldn't messwith her because she looked I'm a question.
Why was Kelly there? You giveKelly Roland Gail King energy and you
shouldn't do that Kelly. Yeah,because Kelly has talent. Kellye Roland has
talent. But if this was anaward show for like music, I would
understand why she's there. But thisis the common music like the films,

(33:59):
right, yeah? Why don't knowif she's in a movie or maybe she
was just doing it. Just Iguess she's not a lot of like movies.
Okay, what's enough, she's ina Netflix phone? Im sorry,
now my answer my question the fine. I apologize, don't treat her.
Maybe the security guy thought she wasthe French of different Man Different either way,

(34:23):
if you haven't seen it at Ashleyin the A M two, he's
on the Ashley you be the judge, all right. And lastly, I
it's just weird in general. Ithink when people that you don't know or
they don't ask you touch your pregnantbelly. I can say this because I
have one, and I've had acouple of instances where people have touched without

(34:45):
asking or you know, it's justawkward. There are people that work here
that do it to you, andI get uncomfortable. Yeah, So I
also think, like it is veryIt's clear that I'm pregnant, you know,
but I still find it strange whenpeople say to me, like,
oh, how far along are you? Because what what if I wasn't?

(35:07):
If you weren't, then you wouldhave a major like, yeah, we
have to have a few talks likethat. Beer belly is right. I'm
just saying I just think i'd becare But either way, obviously we all
know Ashanti announced that she's pregnant.But there's this video going viral of Lloyd
singing by the way, Southside isSouthside takes me back. Lloyd and Ashanti

(35:30):
are performing Southside together and Lloyd islike on his knees serenading to a Shanties
belly. I that's weird. Idon't It's just like that was me.
I'd been good. How you knowthey don't have like a he wrote the
night listen, he wrote, dearbaby Haynes, you are surrounded by love,

(35:51):
by good energy, and by peoplehave prayed for your peace of mind
way before you were born. Oneday I will tell you about all the
times I got to sing to youwhile you were still in your mother There's
belly, or how your mommy changedmy life, and of how your dad
was there for me when I neededa little love and guidance. I can't
wait to meet you and make youlaugh. Your uncle Lloyd. With that
context, I still think it's weird. I would be like, yeah,

(36:21):
here's a clip you guys remember.I mean, I think some of the

(36:45):
who listened to show would be tooyoung, but listen. Like, if
you don't know the song south Side, listen to it. It's such a
good song. It brings me wayback. I just I don't know if
Justin from down the hall, whoyou know I'm very close with I was
standing up. Came in here andgot on his knees and started rubbing my
belly. You wouldn't be like,get up, okay yah, y'all hosting

(37:06):
an event with him, right,and he's talking about how great of a
person you are. We came hereto celebrate and look, she's pregnant.
Then he got on his knee andkind of, you wouldn't be like,
you would be like Joe, youhave your own kids. Doesn't get the
hell up. I don't know ifLloyd has kids. It's weird. People
get weird around a pregnant belly.It's strange. I don't Lloyd came in

(37:27):
here back in the day. Hewas it looks like such a nice guy.
He is, right, and heThey had the entire staff in the
tiny conference roman. Lloyd performed likea cappella for everybody, and everybody laughed,
and then he asked me, so, what do you think was that
good? I was like, andI'm young, I'm like, yeah,
I thought it was really good.And I said something about hitting the notes
and stuff. I had no idea, what care about yours? I'm like

(37:49):
nice guy. In turn, man, he's a nice guy. He really
could have stayed standing and when hemaybe touched the belly, don't. I
don't know. There's three things youneed to know for Wednesday, May twenty
second. Meg the Stallion is goingto be here in just a couple of
days. Meg is performing at theBoston Calling Music Festival this Sunday. She
won't be alone. Tons of mother, tons of other mother, her mother,

(38:10):
her mother will not be there.That was mom, Jesus, I
forgot. That was not a goodI was forgot. I know you forgot.
I did. I guess I wouldhas passed. I will never have
you. So I went into amom joke and it wasn't good because Meg
the Scienn's mother has passed. Sono will not be there, but Meg
will. Yeah, that got weirdfast. But Meg will be there on

(38:34):
Sunday with other people, not motherpeople, other people, other acts.
So check out the line up.Get out of this six one, seven,
one twenty five. Save me.You're going buss calling me festival.
Hi, everybody, good morning,it's Actuley in the Jam in the Morning
Show. Quick shout out to aarriYella in Rochester. She's gonna go see

(38:55):
Meg the Stallion. We will doit again at A twenty I I,
obviously the tickets are for Meg,but the lineup for Boston Calling on Sundays.
But you have to pull it upbecause I know there's probably a ton
of other huge names on it.So Killers are going to be there on
Sunday. I just typed in theKillers. What's the name of the thing?

(39:16):
Boston Calling. Sorry, we'll behere for the next eight hours,
you guys, but I want toget the line up for you because we're
gonna be doing it all week,getting you in last minute to you know,
the Boston Calling music festivals. Soare you looking for specific days?
Right? Is he serious? Asare we? Okay, hold on,
my Google's broken. I mean we'renot. We're not giving tickets away for

(39:37):
Friday or Saturday. Yes, sospecifically we're giving out tickets for Sunday.
Are you assuming Meg Good? Megis actually not the The Killers are?
Sure? Meg, the Stallion,the Heavy, Heavy, the Chappelle,
Roan Blonde Shell. I think we'rein a good place right now, so

(40:00):
sure the Killers, Meg the Stallionare also going to be there on Sunday.
Flesh Water Simon flesh Water, Yeah, that's interesting. You love the
I don't like Thomas Oh Billy Billyflesh Water. I stop, Okay,
I don't want to have a thingI can't even imagine, like tisk test.

(40:23):
All right, see you guys asalways ruined it. It's like the
Killers, Posure, the Killers andMega Staion. You're going to go see
you on Sunday. I'm adding themto the list. And then when you
get with the flesh Water, it'slike, you know, every time we
make fun of someone's name, wealways get in trouble. And here we
are again. The flesh Water isgoing to be coming for us whoever they

(40:44):
are. Yeah, it will beblonde, show shot, blind blind.
That's good, that's good. Anyways, we will do it again. We'll
hook you up with tickets to seeFleshwater at eight twenty. Now we're doing
the check in. What are youdoing? How are you doing? What's
going on? Six one seven themnine three one one nine four five six
one seven nine three one one ninefour five Call me say what up?

(41:07):
Ask for advice, tell me astory. We're talking about anything you want.
Nothing is off the table. It'sthe check in only on jam In
ninety four five and The jam InMorning Show with d j fourn It's saw
Take Warning, Boston's number one forhip hop jamming ninety four five. Hi
babes, Good morning, Happy Wednesday. Halfway through the work week. We

(41:28):
are closing in on Memorial Day.For we haven't even discussed the excellent Spoday.
We usually do it Thursday. Isyour lineup for clubs crazy this weekend?
Yes? Day parties? Ah?Do I have a day party?
No? No day parties. Ifeel like usually Memorial that you might.
Yeah, I know. Saturday itis like this little kind of unofficial Boston
calling after party happening at this newspot in Cambridge called the d X.

(41:49):
That's going to be five Flushwitter willbe there, hope, I hope,
yeah, spring it all over theplace. Are you in the club tomorrow?
Because no, that's flash water.You get the reference, right,
Penis do what he said? Afterthat, we ain't even going I feel
like, don't they call it penis? A flush light? Oh? What

(42:17):
is? It's the device that somemen will use. Okay, so close,
I'm close, I'm all around it. Flash water. I don't know
I were here. All right,let's do the check in. What's up
with you? How are you?What's going on? Six one seven nine
three one one nine four five.That is six one seven nine three one
one nine four five. We're talkingabout anything. You want, call me

(42:37):
and say what up? Ask foradvice, Tell me a story Tina in
Boston. Rough day for you?Was this yesterday when this happened? No,
this is Friday, all right?So Friday you and your baby daddy
kind of got into it. Heended up calling the cops on you for
quote discipline. Yeah, tell mewhat's happening. So, first of all,

(42:57):
I love all of you, guys. We love you more reason good.
I'm calling you guys and asking youbecause y'all are all parents, so
santi the text us what to dowith you? But I love you too.
You have older kids. But Ashley, yes, I want to talk
to you and Foreign because he hasmultiply these mothers. But Wednesday, I

(43:25):
don't listen to you guys, Andhe did say he wasn't given no Mother's
Day presents to nobody. So Ido listen to you guys, and I
love you guys to death. Butthe reason why I'm asking y'all is because
I really want to know what wouldy'all have done? Well? Tell us
will tell me My daughter is five, and she swore in my back seat

(43:46):
and I didn't hear her. Mynephew caught it, so I said,
okay, well we go home.I got something for you. So we
got home. So I don't believein beating my kids, but as a
black mother, my daughter makes mewant to snatch her whole so but I'm
not going to do it. Butanyways, I told her to sit in
time out. She decided to takethe chair and sit in front of the

(44:09):
television. So I said, okay, Sarah, put it back to the
side. She didn't want to listen, so I said, okay, so
I popped her. She never gotpopped ever in her life. I popped
her butt. I didn't have tocall my baby's father, and I'm not
going to say his name because everybodyin Boston knows him, so I didn't

(44:29):
have to call him, but mebeing respectful, I called him and I
said, listen, you have tostop swearing around her, because when I
asked her where she get it from, she said, oh, my dad
swears. Next thing you know,the police was knocking at my door.
WHOA all right? So I wouldwhen you said popped there, I wasn't
sure, I didn't know the definition, but basically, you hit her in

(44:50):
the butt is what you did.Yes, I did like a spank.
I popped her with a belt,but not really like she's never gotten hit,
so it's like her getting hit forthe first time that she's dramatic.
Well, okay, let's start outby this. I got the belt.
Yeah, I got the belt alot. Yeah, our generation we got

(45:14):
the belt. This one is thisbelt. This one's different like these there,
it's just different. I think.Let me start out by Santina.
I don't judge you because how youdiscipline your kids is how you discipline your
kids. So let me make thatvery clear. That's that that's not my
five year old. That is yourfive year old. That is you disciplined.
And you know what, I'll goahead and say too. Sometimes Layla
acts so crazy. In my head, I'm like, I'm gonna I am

(45:36):
going to my mind, is gonnacome out of my soul. I'm gonna
lose it. I get it.I I just think that this this day
and age is different and people,you know, everybody disciplines differently. I
will say this, Tina, myson is seven, so it's not too
far gone. From your five yearold. I am a little bit beyond
the spanking, but I'm not againsta nice little tight like like spank.

(45:58):
But the issue is is that theypulled the chair back to the TV,
so they're testing you consistently. Ithink you need to put them back in
time out and like a stern conversationwith them about to swearing. And I
think which is most of your concernhave a conversation. I mean, I
don't think he should have called thecops on you. I don't know what
kind of relationship Yah got it doesgreat, but they should be an understanding

(46:20):
and like, yo, this ishow we're going to raise our kids.
This is you know, if thediscipline is in line between both houses,
then you don't have these problems,or maybe you do, but at least
you know how to deal with them. I also staying with Tina, like
a five year old shouldn't be cursingno, Like, no, Tina.
I'm in this weird place right nowbecause I must have one time like dropped
something or something to be like,oh my god. So now Layla will
literally look me in the eye withlike annoyed face and be like, oh

(46:44):
my god. And I hate it. I'm like trying to, you know,
but it's so crezy. They heareverything. And if she's actively saying
she hears dad cursing, then Ithink you guys have to have like a
communication on that, you know,and also what you do with your crib
discipline wise, you don't really haveto tell them. You don't have to.

(47:06):
And I try to be respectful becausewe're two different ages. And this
is another story that I can tellyou guys another day, but we're two
different ages. And it's just likeI really tried to respect even though our
history because it's beyond that and it'sway worse. But it's to the point
where I had to go to thecourthouse, damn. And you know what,

(47:27):
Away from that, parenting in generalis just so hard. It's so
hard, and we're trying to likeraise these little humans into being good people
and it's not easy, and theyjust be testing them sometimes sometimes the lay
of a split home when you gotdifferent parents and so obviously you know what

(47:51):
I mean, And the kids canpick up on that, they can pick
up on I this is the moregentle one, this is the most strict
one. I'm gonna this way infront of this, you know. I
mean, yes, exactly. Soit's it's it's more it sucks that you
guys don't really have a good relationship. But before y'all started getting courts involved
in all of this again, I'veraised my kids with somebody I'm not with.
Really really just said, even ifyou don't like each other, really
really sit down and try to figurethat thing out, because once the courts

(48:13):
get involved. I have tried.It's horrible. I've tried throughout the years,
and it's to the point where youcalled the police. I mean,
I would never do that to you, knowing your history. Stop. No,
he's the story, but I knowto send the ride to you guys

(48:36):
when sy's discipline, because uh,we're clearly the masters of discipline. Tina,
thank you so much for good luck. Bab No, it's it's it's
hard. It's only gonna get harder. I know that. What sucks about
those situations, bro, it's likeit's the kid is caught in the middle.
I know. So yeah, y'allcan say whatever y'all want about each
other. The kid sees this,the kid feels it, and you know

(48:58):
that could cause some some it.The police come to the house. You
can't go back from that. Likeas a neighbor, if I look at
the one of the police fair like, I'm like, what's going on and
why comes to the crib? It'sa rep bro. I'm also like,
we're at the point now if shedoes the newest thing is she she will
hit the dogs with like a toyor something like, she'll throw it and
she'll laugh. She thinks like shedoesn't really understand she's hurting them. So

(49:22):
we have to put her in timeout, right, and you know,
I'll put her in time out andbe like you can't hurt teddy, Like
she'll start bawling. Oh, butthen I want to get her out,
but I'm like, no, Idon't. I don't. But again,
like discipline is different to everybody becausethere's that discipline and then there's the mom
who would like let their kids smacksand why'd you do that? Why did

(49:45):
you hit that? What are youfeeling? What are you It's like,
no, you can't be out herehitting people. But our generation was just
totally I mean I can think aboutlike my mom twisting my arm in public
when I did something bad, orlike I got the belt before my sister
does it because they got it,so that's what they know. Remember again,
I don't know how it was whenwe were getting raised. Especially a

(50:07):
lot of foreign kids will know aboutthis. Ourill parents raised us more so
like respect us also from fear.You understand what I'm saying. So it's
not like, let's this generation ismore like, let's sit down, let's
talk about it. Feeling yes,and let's figure this thing out. Yeah,
when we were raised, it waslike you do as I say,
and if you don't, but yeah, I don't really care how you feel.
What you just did was disrespectful andwrong, and you're gonna hear about

(50:29):
exactly. It's just it's so different. I'm forty three and I got into
an argument with my dad this summerand I was afraid, Like I was
still like I was a kid.Yeah, I'm not kidding you guys.
I live every day like wanting tomake my parents proud. Still I'm thirty
seven, Like that's just how wegrew up. I just came to my
house and tried to steal all myespecial clothing and my sneakers, and I
had to wait for him to goout with a friend, go into his

(50:52):
suitcase because I'm scared into his suitcaseand take the stuff out low key so
he wouldn't known. And then Igo complain to my mom, Yo,
why is you over here weighing allmy Now? My mom got to go
talk to him because I'm too afraid, Like I feel you something. I'm
so scared of my Poppea. Yeah, it's it's just different the world now,
it's just different. It really is, like a big thing is now.

(51:15):
When I'm changing her, she doesn'twant to get changed, like if
potty training has to happen. Butshe'll kick me sometimes, so I will
grab her like when she kicks me, I'll grab her foot and say,
you know, we don't kick thebaby, like you're gonna hurt the baby.
But again, somebody might come overand see me grab her foot.
I'm not hurting, I'm describing andmake it it could. Yeah, yes,
my sister does a gentle parent athing. Her child is a monster.

(51:37):
A monster doesn't work. There hasto be a balance. But you
know, the system makes it alittle hard. Situations like this, Yeah,
you do one little thing, someonetakes it the wrong way. You
yell at your kid, you grabthem by the oh, oh my god,
it's child abuse. Next thing,you know, people involved in your
life that you don't want to be. I should call the place on my
tie because sometimes she goes crazy,nor like I'm afraid six one seven nine

(51:59):
one one four five six one sevennine three one one nine four five.
If you're on hold, don't goanywhere. We are talking about you,
your life, your world, anythingyou want. It is the check in
only on Jamin eighty four or five. Good morning, Hi everybody, Good
morning. It's actually in the jamIn Morning Show. We are doing the
check in, checking in on you. What's going on in your world?

(52:20):
Sean is down the cape HOI Sean? Hello, Hi babe, Pie,
how are you? We're good?How are you? What's up? Great?
I was actually just listening to youguys talking about the gentle parenting,
and I can tell you firsthand itdoes not work. No, it doesn't
work in Santy's land either. Everytime Santy hangs out with it's your sister

(52:42):
and correct and it's my sister,your sister and her kid. He's always
like, it's so. What wasThey were at a restaurant and he was
taking the drink and just pouring iton the table. He didn't want to
drink a specific thing, so shedumped it out on the table. So
and so what my sister did,She took her side to talk about her
feelings. She came right back inand right over to Yeah, my I'm

(53:07):
forty three. My father, ifwe started to act out and you know,
do stuff at a restaurant, hewould literally just look across the table
and hid saying, like a lowtone, do we need to step outside?
Oh? It wasn't to talk aboutmy feelings. It was not Yeah,

(53:27):
we've had we had times growing upwhere we would act out at the
restaurant. We would she would paythe bill and we'd leave. We wouldn't
even stay that she played zero gameswith her. There wasn't even an option.
My dad would sometimes look at mymom and say, we'll be outside,
and it was I was like,oh, yeah, welve, here's
where I die. Yeah, thisis where I died. We all know

(53:50):
Rule fifteen. He's got no fear, no fear. He's got what I
like to call texting Can I saytexting balls? Is that fine? Text
balls? We can do? Yeah? I don't know what that means.
You've got texting balls? Well,because he'll text me one thing and then
he'll I'll say say it to myface, I dare you, and he

(54:10):
like towers like a little girl underthe table, like, yeah, they're
all the key the keyboard. Yeah, entitlement. I can say what I
want to do, what I want. You try and stop me. I
dare you. Guys, I'm notready for that. I'm not ready for
that. I'm not having fun.I'm not having fun. He's going to

(54:31):
be fifteen on Saturday. I wantto throat. Yeah, these young kids
are being taught that on TikTok.You know, so by the time Laila
is like a teen or even apreteen, they taught about this. They
talked about not it's your feelings,you know. I mean, you should
express your feelings, and it's agood thing to express. They should be
a balance. Listen. I wantto talk. I want her to be

(54:52):
able to tell me how she feels. But I also want her to be
like I don't want to disappoint mymother. I think there can somehow be
both in there. I don't knowhow we make it happen, but what
I here's what I love that we'reall being honest about how parenting isn't easy
all the time because there's so manypeople out there that are like, no,
it's the best, it's so great. No, it's hard. We
are trying to raise like good littlehumans to go out there in the world.

(55:16):
It's a lot of pressure and theyhate us for water. Yeah.
I tell my sons all the time. Listen, I might be tough on
you right now, but trust me, the stranger outside in these streets who
don't know you, they ain't gonnagive a damn about you when it comes.
If you do something wrong, they'regonna hem you up quick. So
rather you take it from Pope,so I can teach you a lesson other
than being taught by the world,you know what I mean. Yeah,

(55:37):
it's a hard lesson, but theygotta hear it. They gotta hear it.
Mine texted me, had text involvedsaid some stuff that I had never
heard out of his mouth before,and then he went to school like it
was no big deal. So Iwent to our cell phone company and I
just connected his line real quick,and yeah, you can text me those

(55:58):
words now you can. I'm payingthe bill, honey, and the minu
you take that power away from themtheir phone. Oh my god, it's
like the end of the world forthem. Mom's all right, Sean.
I think it was like a directYeah. I think it was like a
month or two ago, and Santiand Joanne took away like phones and iPads
from from the kids. And Joannewas like a cold my type. Yeah.

(56:20):
She was like, I don't care, they're acting up, They're not
getting them. Santi would come inhere and be like, it's been a
day out. I feel I feelso bad. There wasn't a part of
me that felt that I was likerelishing in the fact that he was,
like I said, he was likewhimpering. He was like, Mom,
what can I do? I waslike nothing, Well, you said his
birthday is Saturday. Are we ina good place? Well will it be

(56:43):
a celebratory one? Yes? Yes? Oh yeah, no. We made
up. It's you know, it'sa quick turnaround over here. He overall,
he's a really really good kid.Shout out happy birthday to my Jake.
He's a really good kid, superrespectful, but he's got a you
know, fifteen year old mouth andattitude that I just want to smack up
from something. Yeah, I know, really good kid. He does go

(57:05):
to school, he's you know,overall great kids. So we're good.
It's the celebratory weekend. I lovethem all, right, girl, Well,
hey, thanks for the honesty.We appreciate it, and thanks for
the call. I mean it justit just is what it is like.
There are the most amazing days andthen there are really hard days. It's
and what's something we can says onlysay it's with each age comes a new
new challenge. Yeah, but youknow what, it's all a blessing because

(57:28):
once they become older and they becomethose those good kids that you always wanted
to you can't help but love them. Man. And now with mine,
I'm going to be able to belike, listen, I gave you this
amazing house to grow up, andyou depleted my bank account and I'm a
sex worker now and that's like mymom, don't you got to be on
the streets today? I need myunlimited texting Actually morning with Foreign and Sony.

(57:55):
When you need to know, wegot you three things you need to
know on Bustin's number one for hiphop and the best throwbags you haven't any
more. Fires made him trying toget free throwing in the corner. Brown
fakes fires up to three time totime a game time out in diato best

(58:24):
place of bonkers right now. Ohgod, that literally gives me the chilies.
Even if you don't like sports,you don't have to like sports to
be like, wow, that musthave been a moment, dude, you
can feel it. Shot out tomy guy JB. Big, big fan
of the show. He's come outtwice. But it's fine. Wednesday May
twenty second and the Celts get itdone in game one because of JB's three

(58:46):
pointer that tied it up in regulationto put them into over time and that's
where they won it. One thirtythree one eight. Drew Holiday's Jew has
Jew Holiday is the guy though droppedtwenty eight high for him as a Celtic
and just d ing up. Imean that the motor on him is crazy

(59:06):
were I was talking about his engineearlier. He never tires. He is
just end line to end line,and it's amazing to watch. They're so
fun to watch. They love playingwith each other. It really seems like
they love, you know, justthe atmosphere of the Celtics right now.
And there have been Celtics teams whereit was toxic. Yeah, not right

(59:27):
now, which, by the way, I'm I saw the shot. Oh
my god, to you guys' point, like, how did he make that
shot? That was impossible? Yeah, I love. I put it on
my Instagram story because it's just sucha moment. And then if you look
behind him, he's doing his likemuscly thing and the Pacers are just all
in like zombie mode. What I'mso. I'm so happy for them.
It's a great start to this seriesbecause it's not going to be easy.

(59:51):
Why, you might ask, becauseof the Pacers motor as well. They're
fast, they're quick. They theymay even be faster than what they look
like on film. Absolutely, andI think the key to the game is
keeping up with them, keeping pacewith them. And you have to remember
too, they just got out ofa dogfight with the Knicks. We knew
it ever gonna be fasting surprises,but it's it's one thing watching it on

(01:00:12):
film and then seeing it in person. They just got out of a dogfight
in New York team and it justfelt like they were just flying by.
It's getting easy layups. We gotto be better, We got to master
their intensity if we want to winthis series. JB. Santi Diolio.
I don't know, listen, Idon't wanna. I'm not like a big
braggy type person that that's not me. But we did play this one hundred

(01:00:32):
times yesterday. It may or maynot have given them a little luck.
What up Boston is Dalen Brown WakeUp with Ashley in the Gym in morning
show with DJ Forn and Santi onlyon JAM in ninety four to five.
Boston's number one for hip hop andthe best throwbacks. Loves the show,
Yeah, he's listened to twice.One thing against some though that I don't
like is that he's never seen theshow Yellowstone. When Jaln was in here,

(01:00:55):
we were asking on what shows hewatching, He'd like, never,
he said. People have told himto watch it, yeah, but he
didn't. Can I tell you Isee a lot of Yellowstone march outside like
in rap videos. Crazy, I'veseen you four and rocking at one time.
I'm like, it's not a Yellowstone. Scully he got over because like
last year, Drake was out ata bar and he had on like this
nice like swishy jacket. It saidDunton Ranch on it everywhere. Seltzer back

(01:01:21):
in action. Game two is goingto be tomorrow night, eight pm.
Tip and just so we're all clear, there are talks of prison is coming
back for Game four, which wouldbe very exciting, all right. Like
I said another day, another accuseragainst Diddy, and at this point I
believe every single word because they allare very, very similar. Crystal McKinney
filed a sexual assault lawsuit against Diddy, and it's a lot of the same

(01:01:43):
thing. You know, she methim in two thousand and three after a
meeting for Men's Fashion Week. Heasked her to come back to the studio.
He was sexually aggressive with her.He made her have alcohol and weed
that she believes was laced with anarcotic. She's asking for unspecified damages retaining
to emotional injury, distress, pain, and suffering an injury to her reputation.
As of now, Ditty and histeam hasn't said anything but counting them

(01:02:06):
all up since November of last year. This is the six one, two,
three, four, five six sexualassault filing against Diddy. We also
have to assume that more goanna comedown the pipeline. That's what I was
about to say that because now eventhough we kind of believed that he was
doing it once the video came andyou were so adamated about being like,
Yo, these are all lies.People are just trying to get shall come

(01:02:27):
out, buddy, this is moneygrabs from people. Now we see the
video, we can't believe nothing yousay, Yan is a pattern too,
like with the drag queue. Yeah, there's actually people who could even accuse
him who've never nothing's happened to him. You feel what I'm saying, And
they could just take advantage of thissituation be like, all right, let
me get my bag too. IUh, like I said, I watched
that video. I could barely getthrough it. I watched it once.

(01:02:50):
I see it so many places now. But to think that that was what
he was doing a Cassie during thatentire relationship is sick. Like he's a
monster. Yeah. Did you guyssee that there's a doc that was coming
out at fifty cent is shopping around? Is that extra? I think?
Yeah? And that there was abidding war. There's a bidding war,
then that document must be amazing andhave a lot of validity validity behind it.
No, I'm not laughing at youmessing up validity. I'm laughing at

(01:03:14):
the fact that fifty cents is baskingin this like this is what fifty needed.
There's nobody in the world you wantto beef with, Like he's the
worst of the I want to knowwhere the relationships are because this guy does
not miss anything that comes out aboutDiddy. He's on it, he posts
about it, he clowns about it. He does not like that. Man.
No, he hasn't missed with anybody, right, No, but he's

(01:03:35):
taken. He's crazy, all right. Glririlla just dropped her new mixtape Everything
Everything It was like in April.It became her second top twenty in the
Billboard two hundred chart. She's beentalking about it, She's been responding to
people on Twitter talking about it,and she basically said, in the reason

(01:03:58):
I'm telling everybody about this is hermixtape will make your butt get bigger.
Oh. She responded to somebody thatsaid, hold up, I see why
Glilla's ass is so fat now.Her album got me doing extra reps in
the gym, to which she responded, my mixtape literally will make your butt
grow. I have seen it withmy own two eyes. I'm gonna buy

(01:04:20):
twelve of them. I'm gonna buyliterally double digit of this mixtape and maybe,
just maybe we can go from asflat as a door to like,
I don't know, a mini muffin, like a little mound, like a
little mini muffing like an ants hill. Someone hit me on the DMS.
I don't know, Sante. You'veseen on my Instagram story it was like,
yo, is this Ashley hanging outwith Sexy Red? I threw up.

(01:04:42):
I threw up the picture of Ashleytoo, eas and am y'all go
check it out? What it is? You know who it is? It's
the girl that everybody's Everyone says mycelebrity Ilana del Rey. People say that
her and I look alike. Wedon't. But in that photo I can
see myself funny with it. Youknow how people when when people get like
link up, they're like, Ididn't see that on my Bingo car for

(01:05:03):
Lana del Rey tourking with Sexy Redwas not on anybody's Bingo card. Can
you see it's one? Yes,I can do mean a lot of sunder.
Yeah, yeah, no, thereyou have it. I'm gonna buy
every single copy. I can shutout the girrilla. She's helping me out
one day at a time. Thatis three things you need to know for
Wednesday, May twenty second, MegnaStallion, The Killers, Hosier, Flesh

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Water and more will be at BostonCalling just a couple of days. On
Sunday, we are getting you inLast Minute six one seven, nine,
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Music Festival. Didna Dashy and thejam In Morning Show with DJ fourn It's
saws A Good Morning, Boston's numberone for hip hop jam in ninety four
or five. Hi, everybody,good morning. A couple of talkbacks.

(01:05:53):
I want to get through that wedidn't. We weren't able to because the
check in got taken over by parentingstyle. Else that's a hot topic and
a hot debate, so I understandwhy it did. I do have a
few gentle parenting parents cursing me outmy DMS right now. I didn't say
anything Santy did, but it alwayscomes back on me somehow. Did you

(01:06:13):
respond with it doesn't work. No, I said, if it works for
you and your kid, that's great. And never the girl wrote me,
which I thought was hil Ai.She was like, hey, Ash,
love the show, love this conversation. She goes, gentle parents parent gentle
kids. I got gangster so I'mnot gentle parenting. I don't care how
you parent, it is your kids, it's but Santy has actual examples of

(01:06:39):
gentle parenting, like the mom,the kid took a glass of let's just
say coke, insert pours it onthe on the table. The kid takes
the kid, Mom takes kid outside, gentle parents comes back in, and
the kid then takes his plate andflips it over the I'm not we're leaving,
we're leaving. So so anyways,if you had called and you didn't

(01:07:00):
get through, a couple people leftus a talk back. We're going to
kick this out. We're going tostart this conversation off with this one,
which I think is a very goodpoint that we, the three of us,
should address. So I had aquestion for the check in. I
know, obviously everyone's very invested inthe John o'keef thing and whatnot, But
how come we gave up tender Tuesdayfor John o'keeflake. I know he's on

(01:07:26):
Tuesdays and Fridays. How come wego to do like like a Monday and
Friday or Wednesday and Friday, youknow, like we couldn't give up one
day and the check in we hadto do the one day we do Tender
Tuesday. So obviously he's referencing thefact that we have Nick Rocco on on
Tuesday and Friday to fill us inwhat's going on in the Karen Read case.
It we do it Tuesday Friday becauseit wouldn't make sense any other days

(01:07:47):
because he's physically in court and weneed to know what happened. But we
kind of stuck between a rock anda hard place because do we get rid
of the check in or do weget rid of tender Tuesday. More than
happy to make it like a combothing on Tuesday and see if we could
get both. But sometimes it's justeasier for you guys to have one thing.

(01:08:08):
But it will come back. It'snot it's not going in where it's
just we have to There's so manyupdates every single day. I mean,
you guys, I can't wait forhim to come on on Friday. Between
between the butt the butt dialing liesand there's there's so many things to cover.
But I don't know, should wedo it maybe where we rotate and

(01:08:29):
every other t one Tuesday we dotender Tuesday, one Tuesday we do the
check in. I don't know.I think we do a look like that
because to his point, like wecould sacrifice check in for that one specific
day. So maybe next time aroundwe do tender Tuesday at eight thirty and
make it seven. How about thecheck in Tender Tuesday edition. Yeah,
that's what we were saying, likewe could combo it. I understand people
being like this Tender Tuesday is thebest. I mean, we love it

(01:08:51):
crazy, So I don't want peopleto think it's going away. It's certainly
not. It's just one of thosethings where it makes the most sense because
you know, Nick could have beenin court on Friday and Monday, then
he comes on Tuesday, breaks itdown, then he goes back to court
Wednesday, Thursday and comes on Friday. I can't miss those updates. So
I'm gonna go ahead and be selfishhere. I can't, all right,

(01:09:14):
So there you have it. Tuesdayswe will rotate one time, we'll do
the check in one time, we'lltend Tuesday. That way, everybody's happy.
There we go. This next talkbackis hilarious, especially because I don't
know what it would take for meto call nine one one, like my
hand would shake it doing it Idon't want the cops involved. I don't
want to call the police. Inet. My first thought is never like

(01:09:35):
I have to call the cops.But Santi's is different. So this makes
sense. Santi, why do youcall the police every two seconds on everybody?
It's a good question and he answerit. Watched this, It's so
honest. It just feels good.You feel like you're doing something right,
because like when I say, Son, you call the cops for the dumbest

(01:10:00):
I don't need something. Hey,they're on the trails and they shouldn't be.
You're wasting the police's time when Isee something that I find is wrong.
That's the only solution that I thatI see, just to get the
problem solved, call the police.Calling the cops on your ex because she
dumped you and went to the becauseshe ghosted. That is not the use
of resources. How was I supposedto get that party broken up? I

(01:10:23):
wasn't gonna go over there and talkwhen you go home. The only solution
was to get the police. PointI'm just saying, though you could have
you know what I mean, Idon't know. We could have did something.
There are other things we could havecalling calling nine one one on the
trail, so you could be theonly one that doing COVID No, cuz
that's not what we do. Iwanted to use that for me and nobody

(01:10:43):
else should ye people like I thinkpeople think that he's lying, but he
he means this wholeheartedly. It makeshim feel good to snitch. Yeah,
it definitely does. The other day, I was on my way in and
there was a car swerving. Theguy was like falling asleep. I didn't
know what was going on, soso I called the police. Okay,
and I timed it out like so, I said, by this time,
he'll probably be at this kid.And that's a good thing that you did.

(01:11:05):
You saved a couple of lives.You might have. Yeah, but
calling the police to say that therewas a sign that said you can't be
on the bike trail, and yousaw somebody on the bike trail, so
that way he would get kicked offthe bike trails, so you can get
on the bike trail. You havenever called the police. It is so
exciting. Try to think if Ihave ever called the police. I've called

(01:11:25):
on one one for medical issues.I don't think I have. I'll call
ye, tell me something. Whatare you going to call it? What
are you gonna report me? Iknow, maybe someone like down like down
the hall and make something. You'regonna call nine one on kiss oney,
Yeah, Billy's acting crazy high room. I'm disappointed in y'all because foreign we

(01:11:47):
really thought it was a one offwith this man Santia. We knew this
about him, but we got totalk back about why does he like to
call nine one one? And hegenuinely means it when he says that it
just feels good. He likes todo it. He actively likes to do
it. And I thought to myself, he's he's alone in this. He's
he's the only one. I waswrong. I would have been an apartment

(01:12:10):
complex near Law and often there's peopledoing some weird crap outside of our complex,
and often me and my boyfriend posicsomething we're going on. We call
the cops and then we and welisted on our ring camera and it's part
of our enjoyment. Like you see, doesn't that sound like fun? Right?

(01:12:35):
Entertained watching? Maybe, but thencalling the police after is not the
way to do it. Just belike, damn they crazy neighbors over there.
You see what you did? I'llgive in if I'm driving or walking
down the street and I see thecops talking to somebody I like to love.
Yes, I love it, butI don't want to be the one
that called the cops on them.I'm good if you called and you know

(01:12:57):
that they're gonna come. And Ithink that's the biggest thing. Payoff hits.
So there's a build up. Sowhen they pull off, you you're
invested. You're looking out there,You're involved in like the whole like end
credits. Yeah, it's amazing,right, you don't feel that in that
excitement like her talking, I wantto know. You can tell she was
excited. She was like she's like, it's our entertainment. That's how you
feel that foreign and I are withthis woman. Satie is the kind of

(01:13:19):
guy that will call the police onhis kid for not going to bed.
No, I won't do it becausethey're mine. But if I'm in a
like hotel and like the people nextdoor is being super loud with like the
kids, I will call the hotelslike, hey, they'd be acting crazy
in there. That's happening. AtLeast you don't go you you don't rat
out your own family, No,no, no, not everybody else gets

(01:13:40):
it. But others, yeah,others. For surely Morning Show with d
J Foreign it's Saunt Warning Bustin's numberone for hip hop jam in ninety four
or five. Not often. I'dsay that. You see Old Hall,
New Hampshire in the news. It'sa quiet town. You know someone that

(01:14:04):
resides there in orchards. A motherand child in Hollis are recovering after a
fox attacked them. Oh yeah,in their own backyard. So I'm talking
to Satya about it. I'm like, thank god they got the fox and
he's like, yeah, no,but now that's a huge drama in the

(01:14:24):
town. I'm like, what aboutit? The fox was attacking a kid,
and not just that it was rabidoh too, Yeah, like a
kid had to go get shut Yes, the kid and them there, but
Foreign. Now the town of Hollisis mad because they killed the fox.
I'm not going to say it's theentire town. There were definitely people within
the town that were causing an uproar. They were pissed off that h they

(01:14:45):
killed the fox, But what dothey want to happen? Listen, I
don't know. The girl's mom pinneddown the fox for about five to ten
minutes and received a ton of scratcheson her arm. For one to run
across the yard and bite someone ispretty rare out to her, I guess
we know this to be truth.There's wild animals all over Hell. It
was like, sat You'll wake upin the morning and show me like,
oh, there was a coyote,there was a bear. I mean there
are times when they've been coyotes inthe yard and I've brought I've taken out

(01:15:09):
the gun, taken a couple ofshots because I don't want them around the
gate. I never hit so itis so far away shoot the opposite.
But all I'm saying is the kidtested positive for rabies and people are upset.
There's no other option. Did themom killed the fox? Who killed?
The police came and they put itdown? Okay, let me also

(01:15:30):
add in everybody that's mad that thefox was killed, if that was your
kid, the fox off like enough. Absolutely, the cops in our town.
The cops in our town are amazing. They're on top of everything.
They're super nice. It's actually onethat I think is really attractive, and
I'm trying to get pulled over likeall the time. But she but they

(01:15:50):
did the right thing, and Ilove the chief. He backed this whole
thing up too and said I wouldabsolutely do this again. Okay, what
was the argument from the from frompeople against this, Like, they're like,
yes, just people. Probably peoplewhat they do with a rabbit fox?
You can't it's got to get pulleddown. They probably thought that you
should bring it out to the WhiteMountains and just let it go free so
you can infect other Yes, again, this is really stupid. It's not

(01:16:14):
the entire town. It's a handfulof idiots. Who are you afraid of?
What do you like? Why doyou keep saying it's not the entire
town. Well, because the entiretown was on the same page where this
fox should have been put that.I don't know if you worried it was
a specific They shut out to themom for wrestling the fox. It's crazy.
Yeah, you do what you gotto do for your kids for five

(01:16:34):
to ten minutes. That's a longtime. That was a long time.
And when they maybe don't, theyjust act crazy. Yeah, it's like
fous. The other thing is whenkids get them, it's there's a hundred
percent chance of fatality if you don'tget a shot by like a certain time,
so like, yeah, they didthe right thing, and those shots
hurt I heard, Yeah, that'sI mean, they did what they were

(01:16:57):
spoking. Did you know the family? I did not know any we're near
your house? No, well youkind of yes, because the town's not
massive, but yeah, small richtowns. But that's the thing is like
anybody's like, actually, no,they're driveways next to us, but it's
ten miles spot so I can't seethem down the ways. And the jam
In Morning Show with d J fourand it's say Big Morning, Bustin's number

(01:17:21):
one for hip hop jam In ninetyfour or five. All right, everybody
that is going to do it forus. Speaking of Nick Rocco, it's
going to be another absolute crazy dayin court for Jen McCabe. We haven't
put this way. AJ and Iwere saying, we haven't even gotten to
the questioning about her Google search yet. We are straight up on why are

(01:17:43):
you calling John o'keef six times?Oh it was a butt dial? Well
that's weird because when you butt dialsomeone it goes to voicemail, and there
were no voicemails. Why would onebe calling him that many times in the
middle of the night. You're lookingfor his phone. What's going on?
Assuming they will get to the Googlesearches today, but this is what day
three for he understand because she wason Friday, and again we haven't even

(01:18:06):
got to the mid thing. Soassuming Friday is going to be fireworks,
what could she possibly say? Becauseshe's been saying like I don't remember,
I don't know this. Could shesay like I don't remember? One of
her convenient remember one of the thingsshe said was she was looking up how
long does it take to digest?And one of the things that populated was

(01:18:27):
to die in the cold, becausewhat would you want to digest in the
call? That? Would it bethe same? I did google it and
it did do that. Yeah,but plenty of time to press you.
She's been pressed. It can alwaysgo both either way. And the thing
with her is like she's trying toargue with the defense. You know what
I'm saying, Like she's trying tolike say, she'd try to add on

(01:18:47):
to her answers and old boys likelisten, I just need a yes or
no answer from you. I don'tneed all this. Your guy can cross
examine you again and you can explaineverything. So I said to Nick yesterday
when we were texting, I said, she very clearly had a tone,
yes, yes, right, likeshe had attitude. And I said to
Nick, I go, I knowit doesn't matter, but she does come

(01:19:08):
across like this attitude and tone,and he goes, it does matter,
though, Ash, it does matterto the jury. It does matter.
And I don't even think about that. But yeah, they're gonna they're gonna
be digesting everything the way she's answeringthe questions, how she's answering the questions,
because a lot of times it wasI don't know, I can't remember.
We'll let me see. I'm notsure. And it could work both
ways, right, because we imagineyou all the jury in your hear and
now you'd be like, Yo,this is all bs what you're telling me.

(01:19:30):
But they could be a Joe rowho's like, Yo, this defense
is really going at her and sheand she sounds believable. Yeah, she
sounds like she's doing a thing.So it's it's how you play yourself in
that court is going to determine howthey kind of swayed their decision. Yeah,
bosn't dot Com wrote a whole articleabout the way Karen Reid is dressing
and that I always go back toCasey Anthony because Casey Anthony, the first

(01:19:50):
couple of times she was in courtfor killing her her child, she was
dressing sexy like she looked. Andthen by the third time she showed up
to that courtroom, it was glasses, it was suit it was mercy nerdy
because every matters. Yes, Inoticed, because remember that she they were
like, she's she was out inthe club. She wanted a party,

(01:20:12):
so they couldn't let her look likea party. But Karen is a professor
something. She's a professor. Shegot money. But also I noticed yesterday
that was zooming in a lot onher while Karen uh mckayble was being questioned
and she would be nodding ahead writingdown notes. Yep, I got you.
You know what I'm saying, likemaking these little manualisms, which again
can also sway the jewelry because it'slike, why are you you know what

(01:20:32):
you're watching? Everything? Everything crazy? All right? So IM go ahead
and give you a shout outs InstagramInstagram going out to Summer being hilarious,
Summer Baby six two one, KimHill Tuning and Johnna Ryan No police shadows
shout out to the police apartment andhallisay are absolutely amazing and I feel the

(01:20:53):
nine one one dispatcher and Hollis islike, dude, it's him again.
I'm not doing this. What's goingon now on the streets. Everything else
is good actually to easy the Am ya tap in at DJ forming big
long weekend coming down. So ifyou want to party me Saturday, I'm

(01:21:14):
going to be at the d Xout there in Cambridge and then Sunday I'm
doing my thing with my god,DJ Husky at FT Boston at DJ Forum
for the full rundown. All right, guys, like I always say if
I missed anything today at Ashley Feldmanto ease on the Ashley I if you
are a gentle parent, you cango to at Santidi e O L e
O. Not my issue. Ididn't. I didn't say anything about it.

(01:21:34):
I did in my opinion is gentleparenting does not work, period period.
I have one woman, I havea one woman sending me to I
have a one woman sending me Gentleparenting charts like I didn't say it of
how it works do it? Andhow you respond? Like I I didn't

(01:21:55):
say anything, Just know your kidsare bullies at school and they get away
with everything. Gentle parenting not work. There's a balance. You can be
gentle at times, Yeah, yougot to be strict at tomes. If
you're gentle all the time, it'sa bad thing. If you're strict all
the time, it's a bad thing. You got to have a balance.
And I'm sorry, guys, Ididn't know I was dealing with the parents
of the years. Paid four andSo's beast to a the pinnacles of fathers.

(01:22:16):
I had no idea I could buy