January 7, 2026 • 23 mins
We find out a lot about thrupples and Ashlee & Santi pay their respects to the Uxbridge Police Officer that passed this morning.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Especial morning show and you need to know, We got
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Speaker 2 (00:11):
Five Wednesday, Jan seven, And I think if you really
digest this news story, you're like, wow, wait a second,
this man had enough time to vlog himself before the
police found where he was. Yeah, that's that is what
we learned. Claudio Nevez Valente, the man suspective of shooting
(00:32):
and killing two Brown University students and an MIT professor
last month, had little to no remorse for what he
did and no clear motive. How do I know this Well,
the FBI has released transcripts from the videos that he
made while cooped up in a storage facility in Salem,
New Hampshire. He made it into pretty much every state
(00:53):
here in New England by the time he made it
to Salem, to then have the time to make videos
about why he did what he did, but never really
giving us a real explanation.
Speaker 3 (01:03):
Which is wild to think how long he was on
the loose for and they just couldn't find him.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
He said things like, you know, I don't regret what
I did, not going to apologize because during my lifetime,
no one sincerely apologized to me. Okay, so since you
never got an apology in life to young kids and
an MIT professor had to lose their life because because
no one ever said sorry to you, like.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
Maybe zero sense sorry, but yeah, like most people will
track down the person that hurt them, They're not going
to pick random people to take it out on.
Speaker 2 (01:31):
He you know, he said a lot of things, one
of which probably the only thing I can get behind,
was that he could still couldn't believe that they took
this long to find him. There was a whole reddit
about him and his license plate and I saw this
guy and he looked suss and yet still he had
enough time to make these videos.
Speaker 4 (01:48):
You know.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
One part he basically was like, let's see if I
have the balls now to do this to myself, because
it was hard to do it to other people. I
envy those who have no difficulty doing this, and those
people exist, and those are the people that I really envy.
The rest means nothing to me. Let's see if I
have the courage, which we know he did. He died
of a self inflicted gunshot wound.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
Seems like he was sitting up there for days, just thinking.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
So every time taking VIDs, all shooting victim all shooting victims,
by the way, have been released from the hospitals, which
is the one good thing from all of this. All right,
bad news for a little dark little Dirk's federal trial
for the old murder for hire remember son the murder
for hire against Kwondo Rondo. But bad news for a
(02:30):
little Dirk. Basically the thing has been postponed. They're trying
to postpone it to may the fourth be with you.
I knew it was coming, followed by emotion by prosecutors
and co defend and citing basically the case is too complex.
There's over thirty thousand pages of docs and they're saying
it's just unresponsible and unfair to kind of rush a
trial like this with that many transcripts, and I guess
(02:53):
it falls under the Speedy Trial Acts Timeliness lutory short.
Little Dirk is not happy about this. Why would. He
doesn't want people to take all the time to go
through every single piece of research. He's opposing the trials
to delay and insists that it should start on schedule.
He's been locked up since October of twenty twenty four.
Like I said, on those charges of orchestrating a violent
attack against Kwondo Rundo.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
It also seems spot on the fact that he did it.
So I feel like he's going to do life.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
I think so. Yeah, tough all right. Lastly, re Re
was trying to stop it. Not that wasn't to her
by the way, you guys, that was not her. We
love we re U. She went viral yesterday because she
launch her new Savage by Fente a lingerie campaign for
V Day. Crazy that we're talking about V Day, but
it really is right around the corner.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
Yeah, I get something now.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
That's fourteen. Anyways, the advertisement is her in this striking
red lace lingerie set. If you're wondering why Santi went,
he has purchased things from the Savage by fenty line
and he was not pleased.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
No, because it falls apart like if you're gonna buy
something from this company, especially like a you can wear
it once, maybe twice, and that's it.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
There are certain celebs who they put their name on
something and I'm like, it's gonna be a good product.
I could ice cream skims through the rooftop. The it's
amazing quality. I've never bought a bad thing. You know,
when I hear reread and I think about her makeup
and her you know that line, her fancy make eye
ten out of ten. Yeah, so you would expect you like,
(04:26):
this is gonna be a nice thong.
Speaker 3 (04:27):
This sounds crazy, but the underwear and the lingerie feels
like paper. It really does. It's not good at all.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
He bought a pair of pants that had the butt
cut out in them so it would just be his
cheeks walking around. And never forget Santia is the man
that described his cheeks as chewed bubble guma. I'll let
you sit with that on ninety three that if three
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Speaker 1 (05:15):
Good morning, Boston's number one for hip hop jamming ninety
four five.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
Hi, everybody, good morning. I don't know what's going on
out there in the streets. I think there's like this
new new wave happening out there. Listen, do what you
want to do. Like, I don't care. I'm gonna judge you.
I'm gonna talk about it, and I'm gonna be like, wow,
this is not for me, but if it makes you happy, cool.
(05:44):
I've always been that way about a lot of things. Yeah,
we talked to us about the vaccines, like you shoot
them up, honey. I don't get like that. I'm gonna
do what i'm gonna do because I want to do
what I want to do. You should do what you
want to do and we can still be cool.
Speaker 3 (05:56):
Absolutely, I'm not doing a throttle Yeah no, like I'm
not sign.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
Enough for that. I don't. I'm way I would be jealous.
I don't like that. But two of my friends two
have gotten asked would you want to join our marriage? Like?
Speaker 3 (06:17):
What would you want to? So you're saying that it's
a throupple like a relationship not a threesome because there's
two different things.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
It's like, uh no, so maybe this is more of
a hookup thing, because I don't think this is like, hey,
come have dinner with us or whatever. I think this
is like hook.
Speaker 3 (06:30):
Up with Okay, because that's a threesome. I feel like
those have been happening. But to your point, thrupples seem
to be like a new thing.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
What exactly are you defining a throuple? What AI think?
Speaker 3 (06:41):
For example, it's like you and I are married or
in a relationship, and then a thrupple would be bringing
a third person to join our relationship, and the three
of us are in a relationship together.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
A throuple is an informal term for romantic relationship involving
three people forming a committed, often non monogamous relationship where
all members are equally involved partners. Distinct from a casual threesome,
this relationship involves the emotional, romantic, and sometimes sexual connections,
with partners often sharing living arrangements and responsibilities, emphasizing communication
(07:14):
and consent. So if we're in a throttle, all three
of us are equal.
Speaker 3 (07:17):
No, Nope, Like you have to be a really strong
person because usually at some point one person is gonna
feel like left out, and.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
Usually right you would think the third person being invited,
they're always going to be a step down. They were
always the third invited in.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
During the holidays, we went to a holiday party where
the people who owned the home were in a thrupple.
And I know this because we heard movement upstairs and
the person told us that's their new partner. And I
forget what her name was, but she was up partner.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
Yp she wasn't allowed to come down to the party.
Speaker 3 (07:49):
I think she was allowed to. I think she chose
not not to. But then they told us that they
were all in a relationship. And then once we left,
we've gone to the conversation with some other people that
they were in a thropple, that she was brand new,
but the only thing is she was younger than them,
And then we were talking about how that's not gonna.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
Allow, and she was allowed to.
Speaker 3 (08:05):
She lived in the house and they had a thruptle bed,
which I didn't know was.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
A thing, all three of them sleeping sce bed.
Speaker 3 (08:13):
My question was, how does that work? Does one person
rotate like every night to see who's in the middle,
But they all sleep in the same bed.
Speaker 2 (08:23):
That's see, I'm thinking we all get our own rooms.
Speaker 3 (08:26):
I think sometimes it works like that. But if we're
going by the traditional sense of a relationship, you're all
in the situation.
Speaker 2 (08:33):
Yeah, California King.
Speaker 3 (08:35):
Yeah. Like again, it's not on paper. It may sound
like cool and fun and all this stuff, but the
longer you go, somebody's gonna catch feelings more towards one end.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
It's hard enough to be with one yeason, let alone multiples.
Speaker 3 (08:50):
And then the decision is say you were not don't
make a joke of this, right, but you and I
are are, Like in a relationship, are we bringing in
a male or a female? Cause that matters?
Speaker 2 (09:00):
Well, if you and I were the example, obviously it
would be a male. But yes, I get what you're
saying here. That does matter. That does matter. There's a
whole article that I just pulled up and it's like
what because you gotta be thinking, like why would you
consider it? This is what it says. Being in a
thruple gives you access to more or different types of
emotional affection, intimacy, care, joy, and if the thruple is
a sexual sex pleasure experience, there are three main ways
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a threutle can form. A pre existing couple decides to
add a third person to their relationship and actively seeks
out a third. A pre existing couple organically adds a third,
or three people organically come together around the same time
ISH and choose to enter the thrupple together.
Speaker 3 (09:40):
That's what I would want if we all came into
this thing together.
Speaker 2 (09:44):
There's a name. There's a name when a heterosexual couple
seeks a bisexual woman to join.
Speaker 3 (09:55):
Ken and I guess yep.
Speaker 2 (09:56):
Unicorn hollis unicorn hunting. You've heard of this.
Speaker 3 (10:06):
I don't know if it's because the town's a little
bit on the affluent side, but I feel like that
demographic of people seem to push the boundaries and I
feel like they get a little boredered with what they
have and they go out looking for stuff like this. Yes,
I have heard of it.
Speaker 2 (10:18):
And there are unicorn because they're like a diamond in
the rocks, like they're hard to come by.
Speaker 3 (10:23):
And then when you bring them into the bedroom, they're magical.
Speaker 2 (10:25):
Yeah, guys, I don't know if we get it, but
I need someone to call me that lives in a thrustle. Again,
it is hard enough for me to maintain, but one relationship.
Now you're adding another person, and let it be a
female with all those feelings and all the things. It's
a lot.
Speaker 3 (10:41):
I used to work with a guy who was in
a thruptle. Right, he was in a thruptle with two
other men. Where the hell are you working at Country one?
O two five?
Speaker 2 (10:48):
What?
Speaker 3 (10:50):
And then he he was dealing with a Uh. They
were breaking up because the throttle three gay men. Yes,
so he was the odd man out because the two
fell in love and they brought this guy into their
relationship and he was forced out because those two fell
in love and had more feelings for each other.
Speaker 2 (11:07):
Than So he was part of the original.
Speaker 3 (11:08):
But the unicorn came in and he got the boot. Yeah. See,
and that happens all the time.
Speaker 2 (11:13):
Six one seven nine three one one nine four five
six one seven nine three one one nine four five.
I am actually Lowhi, not shocked that you knew what
unicorn hunting is. But that was the first time I've
ever learned that reading this article, are you in a freupple?
Speaker 5 (11:30):
Kind?
Speaker 2 (11:30):
Everybody of Morning It's Sashley in the gym of Morning Show.
This convo started because of something very different my friend
got invited into a marriage certainly more of like a
hookup and sound people like no, like there are real throubles.
You went to a party where like the third person
was upstairs not coming down to the party, lives there
(11:51):
like those. Throppling is different than the other thing. Thrippling
is like there are three people inside of this one
relationship and to find that one person that, like I say,
a married couple might want to invite somebody and they
call it unicorn hunting, which I just learned.
Speaker 3 (12:08):
Gonna go find me.
Speaker 2 (12:08):
We're not hunting for and me unicorns. Caitlin is in Leminster. Kaitlin,
I was like, we're not going to find somebody who
will talk about this. Thank God for you. So you
are currently in a throuple, like a committed relationship. Three people, yes,
So talk to me like, how did this start? Who
who's involved? Do we sleep in the same bed? Give
(12:31):
us the rules.
Speaker 6 (12:33):
So it started out with me and my now fiance.
I had this best friend that I had for a
very long time who helped me through a lot of
difficult parts of childhood and growing up in high school
and all that, and then I got pregnant. She was
the first one to find out that I was pregnant,
and we got even closer and I don't know what happened.
(12:55):
We just kind of started hanging out a lot more
and then we kind of just wanted to try it.
And we've been and we're almost at a year in March,
and my biggest tip to everybody is a lot of
people think of it differently. A lot of people think
of it in different ways. One hundred percent, I wouldn't
regret I don't regret it for one second.
Speaker 2 (13:14):
So your fiance and her hook up, and that's fine,
Like that's you don't feel jealous about that, nothing, You're
good with that.
Speaker 6 (13:24):
Well, we don't see it really like as a hookup
because we're all in one big relationship and it's a
lot more than it's, yeah, a lot more. She's, like
I said, we have a two year old together. She's
another parent to my son. My son absolutely loves her.
You know, it's been nothing but positive.
Speaker 2 (13:44):
Do you guys all sleep in the same bed or
do you have individual bedrooms?
Speaker 6 (13:49):
So we definitely switch off. We're going for the individual bedrooms,
but you know, we have sleepovers where sometimes it's me
and him, me and her, her and him, and sometimes
it's all three of us. Sometimes even the baby will
have a big sleepover with the baby in the bed,
like we did that on Christmas.
Speaker 3 (14:05):
Oh do you have to be there when they get
intimate together?
Speaker 6 (14:12):
Oh? Well, it's really a choice. You can be there,
you cannot be there.
Speaker 2 (14:17):
You sound so matter of fact. This is not the
life for me, but it's working for you.
Speaker 3 (14:21):
I mean, is it working though? Because I know it's
only been a year. At some point, is this all
going to get old for you guys? And one person
is going to start falling in love with the other more.
Speaker 6 (14:31):
I mean, I haven't seen any signs of it whatsoever,
and I don't think that will be the situation. My
biggest piece of advice is that if you ever do
want to go through with it, do it with someone
that you're close to. I feel like it would be
a lot different if it wasn't hurt, it wasn't my
best friend.
Speaker 2 (14:48):
What's one complaint about it you have? And don't lie
to me and tell me that you don't have a
singular complaint about your relationship, because hey, you're in one
with two people, so that's going to be double the problems.
What is one if you had to say issue that
you have with being in a relationship with two people.
Speaker 6 (15:03):
I would say I work a different shift, so when
you all work different schedules. I think the biggest thing is,
you know the fom like, oh, you know I can't
do this with you guys because I'm at work, or
you know, she or him can't do it with us
because they're at work, or like I work overnight so
I sleep during the day. It's like, you know, sometimes
(15:24):
I miss out on a lot of stuff during the
day because I got to sleep for work. But you
know you make up for it all right.
Speaker 2 (15:30):
Well, Caitlin, thank you so much. What good insight you
gave us on this.
Speaker 3 (15:35):
Thank you.
Speaker 6 (15:36):
Yeah, I heard it. I was driving home from work.
I had it on. I was like, no way, they're
talking about this right now. I have to call in.
I didn't even think I was going to get through.
I'm not gonna live. I've never gone through a radio
station before. Well, we're kind of hoping that they hear
this and they're like, oh my god, I can't believe
you're talking about us.
Speaker 2 (15:51):
Well, well, no word, happy to have you. We learned
something here. Now, By the way, did you know the
term unicorn hunting.
Speaker 6 (15:58):
I did not know. I didn't even know the term
really throuble. It was kind of just to me it
was adding someone into the relationship. And then we kind
of just made a group chat and that's what we
called our group chat, and then we just kind of
rolled with it. We just went with throuble.
Speaker 2 (16:15):
You know what this sprung into my mind, is anybody
in your family like call her weird as hell and
I'm not dealing with this. This is weird, Like I'm
not we're not doing Christmases together with the whole thing.
Has anybody given you pushback?
Speaker 6 (16:28):
So I wouldn't say anyone's given us pushback or anything
like that. I would say a lot of people are
a lot more open to it, to hearing about it,
to understanding it a little more than others. But we
haven't had anyone say, you know that they don't approve
of it, or I think they're more or less just
a little confused.
Speaker 2 (16:47):
Makes sense, all right, Caitlin, thank you so much for
the calling for the insight. We appreciate it.
Speaker 6 (16:52):
Yeah, no problem. I hope you guys have a great.
Speaker 2 (16:54):
Day you as well. Yeah, you already know at Christmas
are like, oh god, cousin Caitlyn's coming with our eight lovers,
like you know, you know it is, and the way
she talks about it, it's going well for her. Right.
We also know we could get a call from someone
being like it didn't it didn't go well, like it
started out great and didn't it ended up whatever, and
like I don't mean to put a negative thing on it,
(17:15):
but it's only been a year, like the real problem
start to rise, like years down the road, what's gonna happen?
Speaker 3 (17:19):
Like happen then, because you're trying to keep two people happy.
Speaker 2 (17:21):
I'm good. I am so good on a thropple.
Speaker 3 (17:24):
Yeah, I'm too old.
Speaker 2 (17:26):
There's not enough for that Thanksgiving You're like, hey, cousin
Katie's oh my wait, just remember she's with both She's
with both of them.
Speaker 3 (17:35):
Show Good morning.
Speaker 2 (17:38):
Bust is number one for hip hop. He am in
ninety four or five, Hi everybody, good morning. You know
it's it's interesting that we were having this conversation earlier
about how, you know, we can't We try our best
to be on top of everything, right, but I can't
know everything. News is coming at us all the time,
(17:59):
and that's what I always appreciate you guys. You usually
will keep me looped in on everything that's going on
and around the city, the good and the bad. We
just got this talk back.
Speaker 4 (18:10):
I just wanted to hop on here this morning and
pay respects to the Uxbridge police officer that was killed
in the line of duty this morning while helping a
motorist that broke down. It's sad.
Speaker 5 (18:23):
It's a sad day for their family and friends in
the police department and something that we have to be
aware of every single day when on the highway or
driving fast past these officers.
Speaker 2 (18:34):
So true, and you hear this all the time, but
that's a lot of deaths happen because of that. I'm
just I'm reading a little bit more into the article,
but basically, he was helping a motorist at like twelve
forty this morning and was hit and despite you know,
(18:55):
emergency responders getting out there and trying, he died in
the collision. They have yet to name him, but there
was a procession of police cruisers that were escorting his
body from the scene of the crash hours.
Speaker 3 (19:08):
After heartbreaking news. It's especially their first responders out there
to help and this is you know, unfortunate.
Speaker 2 (19:14):
And the roads and the conditions today, like it was
missing all morning. It was hard for people to see.
And I think it's just it's so sad.
Speaker 3 (19:22):
They always say be super cautious, especially when you see
flashing lights like move over, slow down, and softwer situations
like this.
Speaker 2 (19:29):
And I think I read a stat on that one
time that a lot of deaths from police officers in
the line of duty come from that, like stopping on
the side of the road and trying to help people out.
Speaker 3 (19:37):
And I actually have a friend who lost their dad
years ago to a situation like this, got hit by a.
Speaker 2 (19:42):
Car and it's scary.
Speaker 3 (19:44):
It's so scary, and she honors him like every year
on the day past. Yeah, I know.
Speaker 2 (19:48):
It's like when you're driving and you see, you know,
like little things off on the side of the roads,
you know that someone has passed away because of that.
It's just it's sad. And I'm sure you know, within
the next couple hours we'll be learning who the actual
police officer is. But now it's it's all over the
news and it's it's all we're seeing. I'm not really
familiar with Uxbridge and where it is, but the crash
itself happened on one forty six.
Speaker 3 (20:08):
I know the news has to report on it, but
clearly that department is going through a lot now. To
see all the news trucks outside, that seems a little
bit like, especially now.
Speaker 2 (20:17):
It's a lot. And yeah, every article I'm reading, it's
like the police apartment is obviously heartbroke. Absolutely it's one
of their brothers, so thought and praise but is always
thank you guys for keeping me in the loop if
I missed anything else at Ashley Felm and Tweeze on
the Ashley Today, I want.
Speaker 1 (20:33):
To show Good Morning Boston's number one for hip hop
jam in ninety four or five.
Speaker 2 (20:43):
Look at us cruising through the work week Wednesday.
Speaker 3 (20:45):
Yeah, this week is pacing fast.
Speaker 2 (20:47):
No, yeah, I think you know. It's the first week back,
so it's like exciting see everybody well, exciting or sad.
I don't know which way you want to play.
Speaker 3 (20:55):
Who are we seeing?
Speaker 2 (20:56):
Yeah, No, I don't mean us necessarily, just in general.
In general, people go back to work, they see people
they haven't seen. This place is ghost town. Yeah, no
one's here. And the people who are here are nice though,
but like there's not many. Absolutely, I we like a
lot of the people. I would say, I'll be interested
to see what your percentage is. I feel like I
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genuinely enjoy eighty percent of the people here.
Speaker 3 (21:20):
I would say the same thing. Yeah, yeah, probably there's
nobody here that I really despise, but I guess we
just don't interact as much as we used to.
Speaker 2 (21:26):
I wouldn't say that for myself. I think I have
a couple of despise, but well, you know, it's not
that time. But the other twenty percent the people I'm
not you know, But overall, I think that's good numbers.
It's like one hundred percent of the people in a
big building.
Speaker 3 (21:41):
That definitely is I feel like back in the day,
when I was younger, I said despise a lot more people,
But in my maturity, I've gotten better with that.
Speaker 2 (21:48):
For me, it's that I've caught people in this workplace
in a lie, and then once that happens, I'm good. Yeah, yeah, oh,
well that's the true.
Speaker 3 (21:56):
No, it's very true. But yeah that I'm just.
Speaker 2 (21:59):
Too old at this point and I'm like, hurt my
feelings if you must tell me the truth.
Speaker 3 (22:02):
I think one thing with you that's been very clear
from the beginning is that loyalty is huge for you,
and that's not a huge ask of a person, especially
have a friend.
Speaker 2 (22:10):
So yeah, yeah, and I think also to around here
because it's it's very skeleton crew. It's like, you don't
ever want to feel like anybody here doesn't have your
back because there's just not many of us.
Speaker 3 (22:19):
How many people right now are like is she talking about.
Speaker 2 (22:21):
Probably if you're think of that, probably probably all right
shout outs.
Speaker 3 (22:26):
Yeah Instagram shot now that's going out to Jackie five
eight five, Maddie Carson and Kelly Baker and nine two eight.
Speaker 2 (22:32):
It is funny because in the hallways every day they
rotate what morning show they're playing. They're probably playing ours today, Yeah,
And then everyone in and out there is like, well,
wait a second, who you know? I'm getting a text?
That's how you know? Like who are you talking about?
Speaker 6 (22:44):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (22:45):
Yeah, yeah, I've never said that. Maybe they weren't here anymore.
Who you don't know?
Speaker 3 (22:48):
Yeah, but they're definitely gauging. It's like, is she talking
about me? Depending on what you write back, that's.
Speaker 2 (22:52):
True, all right? Like I said, if I missed anything
at Ashley Feldman to ease on the Ashley and We
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Speaker 2 (00:11):
Five Wednesday, Jan seven, And I think if you really
digest this news story, you're like, wow, wait a second,
this man had enough time to vlog himself before the
police found where he was. Yeah, that's that is what
we learned. Claudio Nevez Valente, the man suspective of shooting
(00:32):
and killing two Brown University students and an MIT professor
last month, had little to no remorse for what he
did and no clear motive. How do I know this Well,
the FBI has released transcripts from the videos that he
made while cooped up in a storage facility in Salem,
New Hampshire. He made it into pretty much every state
(00:53):
here in New England by the time he made it
to Salem, to then have the time to make videos
about why he did what he did, but never really
giving us a real explanation.
Speaker 3 (01:03):
Which is wild to think how long he was on
the loose for and they just couldn't find him.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
He said things like, you know, I don't regret what
I did, not going to apologize because during my lifetime,
no one sincerely apologized to me. Okay, so since you
never got an apology in life to young kids and
an MIT professor had to lose their life because because
no one ever said sorry to you, like.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
Maybe zero sense sorry, but yeah, like most people will
track down the person that hurt them, They're not going
to pick random people to take it out on.
Speaker 2 (01:31):
He you know, he said a lot of things, one
of which probably the only thing I can get behind,
was that he could still couldn't believe that they took
this long to find him. There was a whole reddit
about him and his license plate and I saw this
guy and he looked suss and yet still he had
enough time to make these videos.
Speaker 4 (01:48):
You know.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
One part he basically was like, let's see if I
have the balls now to do this to myself, because
it was hard to do it to other people. I
envy those who have no difficulty doing this, and those
people exist, and those are the people that I really envy.
The rest means nothing to me. Let's see if I
have the courage, which we know he did. He died
of a self inflicted gunshot wound.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
Seems like he was sitting up there for days, just thinking.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
So every time taking VIDs, all shooting victim all shooting victims,
by the way, have been released from the hospitals, which
is the one good thing from all of this. All right,
bad news for a little dark little Dirk's federal trial
for the old murder for hire remember son the murder
for hire against Kwondo Rondo. But bad news for a
(02:30):
little Dirk. Basically the thing has been postponed. They're trying
to postpone it to may the fourth be with you.
I knew it was coming, followed by emotion by prosecutors
and co defend and citing basically the case is too complex.
There's over thirty thousand pages of docs and they're saying
it's just unresponsible and unfair to kind of rush a
trial like this with that many transcripts, and I guess
(02:53):
it falls under the Speedy Trial Acts Timeliness lutory short.
Little Dirk is not happy about this. Why would. He
doesn't want people to take all the time to go
through every single piece of research. He's opposing the trials
to delay and insists that it should start on schedule.
He's been locked up since October of twenty twenty four.
Like I said, on those charges of orchestrating a violent
attack against Kwondo Rundo.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
It also seems spot on the fact that he did it.
So I feel like he's going to do life.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
I think so. Yeah, tough all right. Lastly, re Re
was trying to stop it. Not that wasn't to her
by the way, you guys, that was not her. We
love we re U. She went viral yesterday because she
launch her new Savage by Fente a lingerie campaign for
V Day. Crazy that we're talking about V Day, but
it really is right around the corner.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
Yeah, I get something now.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
That's fourteen. Anyways, the advertisement is her in this striking
red lace lingerie set. If you're wondering why Santi went,
he has purchased things from the Savage by fenty line
and he was not pleased.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
No, because it falls apart like if you're gonna buy
something from this company, especially like a you can wear
it once, maybe twice, and that's it.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
There are certain celebs who they put their name on
something and I'm like, it's gonna be a good product.
I could ice cream skims through the rooftop. The it's
amazing quality. I've never bought a bad thing. You know,
when I hear reread and I think about her makeup
and her you know that line, her fancy make eye
ten out of ten. Yeah, so you would expect you like,
(04:26):
this is gonna be a nice thong.
Speaker 3 (04:27):
This sounds crazy, but the underwear and the lingerie feels
like paper. It really does. It's not good at all.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
He bought a pair of pants that had the butt
cut out in them so it would just be his
cheeks walking around. And never forget Santia is the man
that described his cheeks as chewed bubble guma. I'll let
you sit with that on ninety three that if three
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Speaker 1 (05:15):
Good morning, Boston's number one for hip hop jamming ninety
four five.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
Hi, everybody, good morning. I don't know what's going on
out there in the streets. I think there's like this
new new wave happening out there. Listen, do what you
want to do. Like, I don't care. I'm gonna judge you.
I'm gonna talk about it, and I'm gonna be like, wow,
this is not for me, but if it makes you happy, cool.
(05:44):
I've always been that way about a lot of things. Yeah,
we talked to us about the vaccines, like you shoot
them up, honey. I don't get like that. I'm gonna
do what i'm gonna do because I want to do
what I want to do. You should do what you
want to do and we can still be cool.
Speaker 3 (05:56):
Absolutely, I'm not doing a throttle Yeah no, like I'm
not sign.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
Enough for that. I don't. I'm way I would be jealous.
I don't like that. But two of my friends two
have gotten asked would you want to join our marriage? Like?
Speaker 3 (06:17):
What would you want to? So you're saying that it's
a throupple like a relationship not a threesome because there's
two different things.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
It's like, uh no, so maybe this is more of
a hookup thing, because I don't think this is like, hey,
come have dinner with us or whatever. I think this
is like hook.
Speaker 3 (06:30):
Up with Okay, because that's a threesome. I feel like
those have been happening. But to your point, thrupples seem
to be like a new thing.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
What exactly are you defining a throuple? What AI think?
Speaker 3 (06:41):
For example, it's like you and I are married or
in a relationship, and then a thrupple would be bringing
a third person to join our relationship, and the three
of us are in a relationship together.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
A throuple is an informal term for romantic relationship involving
three people forming a committed, often non monogamous relationship where
all members are equally involved partners. Distinct from a casual threesome,
this relationship involves the emotional, romantic, and sometimes sexual connections,
with partners often sharing living arrangements and responsibilities, emphasizing communication
(07:14):
and consent. So if we're in a throttle, all three
of us are equal.
Speaker 3 (07:17):
No, Nope, Like you have to be a really strong
person because usually at some point one person is gonna
feel like left out, and.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
Usually right you would think the third person being invited,
they're always going to be a step down. They were
always the third invited in.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
During the holidays, we went to a holiday party where
the people who owned the home were in a thrupple.
And I know this because we heard movement upstairs and
the person told us that's their new partner. And I
forget what her name was, but she was up partner.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
Yp she wasn't allowed to come down to the party.
Speaker 3 (07:49):
I think she was allowed to. I think she chose
not not to. But then they told us that they
were all in a relationship. And then once we left,
we've gone to the conversation with some other people that
they were in a thropple, that she was brand new,
but the only thing is she was younger than them,
And then we were talking about how that's not gonna.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
Allow, and she was allowed to.
Speaker 3 (08:05):
She lived in the house and they had a thruptle bed,
which I didn't know was.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
A thing, all three of them sleeping sce bed.
Speaker 3 (08:13):
My question was, how does that work? Does one person
rotate like every night to see who's in the middle,
But they all sleep in the same bed.
Speaker 2 (08:23):
That's see, I'm thinking we all get our own rooms.
Speaker 3 (08:26):
I think sometimes it works like that. But if we're
going by the traditional sense of a relationship, you're all
in the situation.
Speaker 2 (08:33):
Yeah, California King.
Speaker 3 (08:35):
Yeah. Like again, it's not on paper. It may sound
like cool and fun and all this stuff, but the
longer you go, somebody's gonna catch feelings more towards one end.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
It's hard enough to be with one yeason, let alone multiples.
Speaker 3 (08:50):
And then the decision is say you were not don't
make a joke of this, right, but you and I
are are, Like in a relationship, are we bringing in
a male or a female? Cause that matters?
Speaker 2 (09:00):
Well, if you and I were the example, obviously it
would be a male. But yes, I get what you're
saying here. That does matter. That does matter. There's a
whole article that I just pulled up and it's like
what because you gotta be thinking, like why would you
consider it? This is what it says. Being in a
thruple gives you access to more or different types of
emotional affection, intimacy, care, joy, and if the thruple is
a sexual sex pleasure experience, there are three main ways
(09:23):
a threutle can form. A pre existing couple decides to
add a third person to their relationship and actively seeks
out a third. A pre existing couple organically adds a third,
or three people organically come together around the same time
ISH and choose to enter the thrupple together.
Speaker 3 (09:40):
That's what I would want if we all came into
this thing together.
Speaker 2 (09:44):
There's a name. There's a name when a heterosexual couple
seeks a bisexual woman to join.
Speaker 3 (09:55):
Ken and I guess yep.
Speaker 2 (09:56):
Unicorn hollis unicorn hunting. You've heard of this.
Speaker 3 (10:06):
I don't know if it's because the town's a little
bit on the affluent side, but I feel like that
demographic of people seem to push the boundaries and I
feel like they get a little boredered with what they
have and they go out looking for stuff like this. Yes,
I have heard of it.
Speaker 2 (10:18):
And there are unicorn because they're like a diamond in
the rocks, like they're hard to come by.
Speaker 3 (10:23):
And then when you bring them into the bedroom, they're magical.
Speaker 2 (10:25):
Yeah, guys, I don't know if we get it, but
I need someone to call me that lives in a thrustle. Again,
it is hard enough for me to maintain, but one relationship.
Now you're adding another person, and let it be a
female with all those feelings and all the things. It's
a lot.
Speaker 3 (10:41):
I used to work with a guy who was in
a thruptle. Right, he was in a thruptle with two
other men. Where the hell are you working at Country one?
O two five?
Speaker 2 (10:48):
What?
Speaker 3 (10:50):
And then he he was dealing with a Uh. They
were breaking up because the throttle three gay men. Yes,
so he was the odd man out because the two
fell in love and they brought this guy into their
relationship and he was forced out because those two fell
in love and had more feelings for each other.
Speaker 2 (11:07):
Than So he was part of the original.
Speaker 3 (11:08):
But the unicorn came in and he got the boot. Yeah. See,
and that happens all the time.
Speaker 2 (11:13):
Six one seven nine three one one nine four five
six one seven nine three one one nine four five.
I am actually Lowhi, not shocked that you knew what
unicorn hunting is. But that was the first time I've
ever learned that reading this article, are you in a freupple?
Speaker 5 (11:30):
Kind?
Speaker 2 (11:30):
Everybody of Morning It's Sashley in the gym of Morning Show.
This convo started because of something very different my friend
got invited into a marriage certainly more of like a
hookup and sound people like no, like there are real throubles.
You went to a party where like the third person
was upstairs not coming down to the party, lives there
(11:51):
like those. Throppling is different than the other thing. Thrippling
is like there are three people inside of this one
relationship and to find that one person that, like I say,
a married couple might want to invite somebody and they
call it unicorn hunting, which I just learned.
Speaker 3 (12:08):
Gonna go find me.
Speaker 2 (12:08):
We're not hunting for and me unicorns. Caitlin is in Leminster. Kaitlin,
I was like, we're not going to find somebody who
will talk about this. Thank God for you. So you
are currently in a throuple, like a committed relationship. Three people, yes,
So talk to me like, how did this start? Who
who's involved? Do we sleep in the same bed? Give
(12:31):
us the rules.
Speaker 6 (12:33):
So it started out with me and my now fiance.
I had this best friend that I had for a
very long time who helped me through a lot of
difficult parts of childhood and growing up in high school
and all that, and then I got pregnant. She was
the first one to find out that I was pregnant,
and we got even closer and I don't know what happened.
(12:55):
We just kind of started hanging out a lot more
and then we kind of just wanted to try it.
And we've been and we're almost at a year in March,
and my biggest tip to everybody is a lot of
people think of it differently. A lot of people think
of it in different ways. One hundred percent, I wouldn't
regret I don't regret it for one second.
Speaker 2 (13:14):
So your fiance and her hook up, and that's fine,
Like that's you don't feel jealous about that, nothing, You're
good with that.
Speaker 6 (13:24):
Well, we don't see it really like as a hookup
because we're all in one big relationship and it's a
lot more than it's, yeah, a lot more. She's, like
I said, we have a two year old together. She's
another parent to my son. My son absolutely loves her.
You know, it's been nothing but positive.
Speaker 2 (13:44):
Do you guys all sleep in the same bed or
do you have individual bedrooms?
Speaker 6 (13:49):
So we definitely switch off. We're going for the individual bedrooms,
but you know, we have sleepovers where sometimes it's me
and him, me and her, her and him, and sometimes
it's all three of us. Sometimes even the baby will
have a big sleepover with the baby in the bed,
like we did that on Christmas.
Speaker 3 (14:05):
Oh do you have to be there when they get
intimate together?
Speaker 6 (14:12):
Oh? Well, it's really a choice. You can be there,
you cannot be there.
Speaker 2 (14:17):
You sound so matter of fact. This is not the
life for me, but it's working for you.
Speaker 3 (14:21):
I mean, is it working though? Because I know it's
only been a year. At some point, is this all
going to get old for you guys? And one person
is going to start falling in love with the other more.
Speaker 6 (14:31):
I mean, I haven't seen any signs of it whatsoever,
and I don't think that will be the situation. My
biggest piece of advice is that if you ever do
want to go through with it, do it with someone
that you're close to. I feel like it would be
a lot different if it wasn't hurt, it wasn't my
best friend.
Speaker 2 (14:48):
What's one complaint about it you have? And don't lie
to me and tell me that you don't have a
singular complaint about your relationship, because hey, you're in one
with two people, so that's going to be double the problems.
What is one if you had to say issue that
you have with being in a relationship with two people.
Speaker 6 (15:03):
I would say I work a different shift, so when
you all work different schedules. I think the biggest thing is,
you know the fom like, oh, you know I can't
do this with you guys because I'm at work, or
you know, she or him can't do it with us
because they're at work, or like I work overnight so
I sleep during the day. It's like, you know, sometimes
(15:24):
I miss out on a lot of stuff during the
day because I got to sleep for work. But you
know you make up for it all right.
Speaker 2 (15:30):
Well, Caitlin, thank you so much. What good insight you
gave us on this.
Speaker 3 (15:35):
Thank you.
Speaker 6 (15:36):
Yeah, I heard it. I was driving home from work.
I had it on. I was like, no way, they're
talking about this right now. I have to call in.
I didn't even think I was going to get through.
I'm not gonna live. I've never gone through a radio
station before. Well, we're kind of hoping that they hear
this and they're like, oh my god, I can't believe
you're talking about us.
Speaker 2 (15:51):
Well, well, no word, happy to have you. We learned
something here. Now, By the way, did you know the
term unicorn hunting.
Speaker 6 (15:58):
I did not know. I didn't even know the term
really throuble. It was kind of just to me it
was adding someone into the relationship. And then we kind
of just made a group chat and that's what we
called our group chat, and then we just kind of
rolled with it. We just went with throuble.
Speaker 2 (16:15):
You know what this sprung into my mind, is anybody
in your family like call her weird as hell and
I'm not dealing with this. This is weird, Like I'm
not we're not doing Christmases together with the whole thing.
Has anybody given you pushback?
Speaker 6 (16:28):
So I wouldn't say anyone's given us pushback or anything
like that. I would say a lot of people are
a lot more open to it, to hearing about it,
to understanding it a little more than others. But we
haven't had anyone say, you know that they don't approve
of it, or I think they're more or less just
a little confused.
Speaker 2 (16:47):
Makes sense, all right, Caitlin, thank you so much for
the calling for the insight. We appreciate it.
Speaker 6 (16:52):
Yeah, no problem. I hope you guys have a great.
Speaker 2 (16:54):
Day you as well. Yeah, you already know at Christmas
are like, oh god, cousin Caitlyn's coming with our eight lovers,
like you know, you know it is, and the way
she talks about it, it's going well for her. Right.
We also know we could get a call from someone
being like it didn't it didn't go well, like it
started out great and didn't it ended up whatever, and
like I don't mean to put a negative thing on it,
(17:15):
but it's only been a year, like the real problem
start to rise, like years down the road, what's gonna happen?
Speaker 3 (17:19):
Like happen then, because you're trying to keep two people happy.
Speaker 2 (17:21):
I'm good. I am so good on a thropple.
Speaker 3 (17:24):
Yeah, I'm too old.
Speaker 2 (17:26):
There's not enough for that Thanksgiving You're like, hey, cousin
Katie's oh my wait, just remember she's with both She's
with both of them.
Speaker 3 (17:35):
Show Good morning.
Speaker 2 (17:38):
Bust is number one for hip hop. He am in
ninety four or five, Hi everybody, good morning. You know
it's it's interesting that we were having this conversation earlier
about how, you know, we can't We try our best
to be on top of everything, right, but I can't
know everything. News is coming at us all the time,
(17:59):
and that's what I always appreciate you guys. You usually
will keep me looped in on everything that's going on
and around the city, the good and the bad. We
just got this talk back.
Speaker 4 (18:10):
I just wanted to hop on here this morning and
pay respects to the Uxbridge police officer that was killed
in the line of duty this morning while helping a
motorist that broke down. It's sad.
Speaker 5 (18:23):
It's a sad day for their family and friends in
the police department and something that we have to be
aware of every single day when on the highway or
driving fast past these officers.
Speaker 2 (18:34):
So true, and you hear this all the time, but
that's a lot of deaths happen because of that. I'm
just I'm reading a little bit more into the article,
but basically, he was helping a motorist at like twelve
forty this morning and was hit and despite you know,
(18:55):
emergency responders getting out there and trying, he died in
the collision. They have yet to name him, but there
was a procession of police cruisers that were escorting his
body from the scene of the crash hours.
Speaker 3 (19:08):
After heartbreaking news. It's especially their first responders out there
to help and this is you know, unfortunate.
Speaker 2 (19:14):
And the roads and the conditions today, like it was
missing all morning. It was hard for people to see.
And I think it's just it's so sad.
Speaker 3 (19:22):
They always say be super cautious, especially when you see
flashing lights like move over, slow down, and softwer situations
like this.
Speaker 2 (19:29):
And I think I read a stat on that one
time that a lot of deaths from police officers in
the line of duty come from that, like stopping on
the side of the road and trying to help people out.
Speaker 3 (19:37):
And I actually have a friend who lost their dad
years ago to a situation like this, got hit by a.
Speaker 2 (19:42):
Car and it's scary.
Speaker 3 (19:44):
It's so scary, and she honors him like every year
on the day past. Yeah, I know.
Speaker 2 (19:48):
It's like when you're driving and you see, you know,
like little things off on the side of the roads,
you know that someone has passed away because of that.
It's just it's sad. And I'm sure you know, within
the next couple hours we'll be learning who the actual
police officer is. But now it's it's all over the
news and it's it's all we're seeing. I'm not really
familiar with Uxbridge and where it is, but the crash
itself happened on one forty six.
Speaker 3 (20:08):
I know the news has to report on it, but
clearly that department is going through a lot now. To
see all the news trucks outside, that seems a little
bit like, especially now.
Speaker 2 (20:17):
It's a lot. And yeah, every article I'm reading, it's
like the police apartment is obviously heartbroke. Absolutely it's one
of their brothers, so thought and praise but is always
thank you guys for keeping me in the loop if
I missed anything else at Ashley Felm and Tweeze on
the Ashley Today, I want.
Speaker 1 (20:33):
To show Good Morning Boston's number one for hip hop
jam in ninety four or five.
Speaker 2 (20:43):
Look at us cruising through the work week Wednesday.
Speaker 3 (20:45):
Yeah, this week is pacing fast.
Speaker 2 (20:47):
No, yeah, I think you know. It's the first week back,
so it's like exciting see everybody well, exciting or sad.
I don't know which way you want to play.
Speaker 3 (20:55):
Who are we seeing?
Speaker 2 (20:56):
Yeah, No, I don't mean us necessarily, just in general.
In general, people go back to work, they see people
they haven't seen. This place is ghost town. Yeah, no
one's here. And the people who are here are nice though,
but like there's not many. Absolutely, I we like a
lot of the people. I would say, I'll be interested
to see what your percentage is. I feel like I
(21:16):
genuinely enjoy eighty percent of the people here.
Speaker 3 (21:20):
I would say the same thing. Yeah, yeah, probably there's
nobody here that I really despise, but I guess we
just don't interact as much as we used to.
Speaker 2 (21:26):
I wouldn't say that for myself. I think I have
a couple of despise, but well, you know, it's not
that time. But the other twenty percent the people I'm
not you know, But overall, I think that's good numbers.
It's like one hundred percent of the people in a
big building.
Speaker 3 (21:41):
That definitely is I feel like back in the day,
when I was younger, I said despise a lot more people,
But in my maturity, I've gotten better with that.
Speaker 2 (21:48):
For me, it's that I've caught people in this workplace
in a lie, and then once that happens, I'm good. Yeah, yeah, oh,
well that's the true.
Speaker 3 (21:56):
No, it's very true. But yeah that I'm just.
Speaker 2 (21:59):
Too old at this point and I'm like, hurt my
feelings if you must tell me the truth.
Speaker 3 (22:02):
I think one thing with you that's been very clear
from the beginning is that loyalty is huge for you,
and that's not a huge ask of a person, especially
have a friend.
Speaker 2 (22:10):
So yeah, yeah, and I think also to around here
because it's it's very skeleton crew. It's like, you don't
ever want to feel like anybody here doesn't have your
back because there's just not many of us.
Speaker 3 (22:19):
How many people right now are like is she talking about.
Speaker 2 (22:21):
Probably if you're think of that, probably probably all right
shout outs.
Speaker 3 (22:26):
Yeah Instagram shot now that's going out to Jackie five
eight five, Maddie Carson and Kelly Baker and nine two eight.
Speaker 2 (22:32):
It is funny because in the hallways every day they
rotate what morning show they're playing. They're probably playing ours today, Yeah,
And then everyone in and out there is like, well,
wait a second, who you know? I'm getting a text?
That's how you know? Like who are you talking about?
Speaker 6 (22:44):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (22:45):
Yeah, yeah, I've never said that. Maybe they weren't here anymore.
Who you don't know?
Speaker 3 (22:48):
Yeah, but they're definitely gauging. It's like, is she talking
about me? Depending on what you write back, that's.
Speaker 2 (22:52):
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