You're Too Grown For This

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Flu a serious people flu a.

Speaker 2 (00:03):
White people are dying.

Speaker 1 (00:05):
People are like, it's on the news. The people are
legit dying. Flu A is crazy because that's what Laila
tested positive for. That's what pretty much everybody has right now.
It's just running rampant. I guess at this time last
year it also was pretty crazy. I mean, I always
expect around the holiday times to get some sort of
cold or something because you're around so many people, you

(00:27):
are doing so many events.

Speaker 3 (00:29):
The one thing about this though, is it's like it's
over weak now.

Speaker 2 (00:32):
Oh she's still like down and out.

Speaker 4 (00:34):
Me tapped out, like, yeah good, you've had a rough
like past couple of months with sicknesses. Please don't, I'm
not bringing up the one thing that you're thinking of.
But even after that, because weren't you like coughing for
a while too?

Speaker 1 (00:48):
Was that this year? I honestly couldn't remember. Technically, technically,
you're right, but I didn't know if that was in
that last string of the last couple of months or
I couldn't. I don't think it was, But there was
time where I was coughing so bad. Last year. Remember
my voice, like all my commercials sounded like trash and
then listen. You know what's weird though, I remember when
I didn't have kids, and you and Justin from down

(01:11):
the hall would be like, oh, just wait, like somebody
in the house gets something. Used to tell me that
all the time somebody in the house gets something, it's
just gonna run through the whole house. And that's true. Yeah,
And it's like, what can you do? You can't do anything.
You can't bubble boy them like you. You gotta let
them live, you know.

Speaker 2 (01:29):
I also have to tell you it's gonna get a
lot worse a moment they go to school. Then it's
like a cesspool of just germs everywhere.

Speaker 3 (01:35):
And speaking of that, I can't even think about it.

Speaker 1 (01:40):
I can't think about two pm because I start to
get like choked up and I think my mind goes
crazy places. But today we're touring a preschool that Leyla
could potentially go to starting in September, because I wanted
her to go just for a couple of days a
week to kind of, you know, understand what's looks like
and meet some kids that she'll be going to school with.

(02:03):
It's a lottery system.

Speaker 2 (02:04):
God only knows what we'll get it.

Speaker 1 (02:05):
I feel like I'm trying to get up new pair easies.
But we're touring the school today and I'm like, how
did we get here? Like, how is this? It happens
super fast, it happens so fast, and I just I
cannot I'm emotional about it.

Speaker 3 (02:21):
You guys, like, I'm literally emotional thinking about it.

Speaker 2 (02:23):
Do you know what you're looking for? And when it
comes to like a school, I'm just trying to.

Speaker 1 (02:27):
Catch a vibe. Yeah, I'm trying to catch a feeling.
I don't know really at all what I'm looking for.
I think I'm just trying to walk in there and
be like, Okay, this feels like a place I would
be comfortable leaving my kid.

Speaker 2 (02:40):
Because here's the thing. You walk into certain places you're like,
oh no, this is not the place we walked in
the one catch a vibe. And then also we walked
into the place where the kids were walking way too
close to the door. They were walking out. The people
who just walked in the door, I'm like, now, hey,
is anybody where because Jenny's about the walk out the door. Yeah.

(03:01):
And then if the people working there don't give you
this nice positive like feeling, if they're miserable, yeah, just walk.

Speaker 1 (03:07):
Right out the email. I won't say the school, but
it's in Marshfield and the email chain that I've been
on with the woman that runs it is like she's
the sweetest woman on the planet. So that made me
feel good already. You know, she was so nice. Bring
the whole family, Oh good, we can't wait to meet you.
Just very you know, arms open, very welcoming. But yeah,

(03:28):
I don't know what I'm looking for when I roll
up in there. I'm just trying to catch feels. I
need good vibes, I need happiness.

Speaker 3 (03:34):
I need this feels safe.

Speaker 2 (03:36):
One thing to look out for, too, is make sure
that the kids their faces are clean. If there's more
than one or two kids walking around with snots all
over the face, then they aren't keeping up on that.
They're just letting them walk around with drive snots and
they're on their phones.

Speaker 3 (03:50):
But is it their job to wipe the kids new?

Speaker 2 (03:53):
It is their job at that age. Yeah, think about it.
So if your daughter sneezes and she has stuff tripping
on our face.

Speaker 1 (03:59):
Yeah that's yeah, yeah, I mean or I guess they
could hand them the tissue.

Speaker 2 (04:03):
They could, but the very least they didn't hand them anything.

Speaker 1 (04:06):
You know, I'm assuming obviously it's preschool. She can go
to the bathroom by herself. I'm just not trusting a
two wipe, you know, Like I'm not. That's that's the truth.
That's just the truth. I wouldn't trust it. So we're
gonna have to really work if she gets in, we're
gonna have to really work on that. That's something that's
the goal of ours for September, because she can do
it all by herself.

Speaker 2 (04:26):
She can, but I think a lot of schools that's
one of the rules that they tell you to.

Speaker 1 (04:31):
Do, and she can't. She's body trained completely. But you know,
I'm not trusting the two I'm not.

Speaker 2 (04:37):
You're talking about like like number two right.

Speaker 3 (04:41):
Yeah, okay, yes, yeah, Like you know what I mean.

Speaker 1 (04:45):
I definitely know to be honest, I can just walk
by someone in the hallway and be like, wouldn't trust
you with the two wipes? You know what I mean.

Speaker 2 (04:52):
I'm not very true. Do you think, well, I'm not
playing that game.

Speaker 1 (04:57):
Let's play this game. I'm not playing that game. But
what I'll tell you is two PM and Marshfield, you're
gonna catch me crying.

Speaker 3 (05:04):
Doesn't want to look at preschool?

Speaker 1 (05:05):
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(05:29):
her man ten toes down. And you gotta love that
about her because sometimes I think to myself, the fireman
walked past a conversation where you heard someone being like,
you know that girl from Jammin. It's is crazy.

Speaker 3 (05:41):
I feel like he'd be like and not be what
did you say?

Speaker 2 (05:45):
I mean, I don't know. I feel like he would
defend you.

Speaker 3 (05:48):
He says he would defend my honor.

Speaker 1 (05:49):
I don't know. He might be like, what'd you do
this time?

Speaker 2 (05:53):
Because yeah, yeah, like I guess it depends what you did, right, Yeah.

Speaker 1 (05:56):
I feel like you as well well.

Speaker 2 (05:59):
I wouldn't defend you even if like you did something
crazy like when you peed in the bushes and your neighbors.
I was still defendingly Listen, she had a lot to drink.
But that's where that ends. There that's it.

Speaker 1 (06:10):
You better shut it down. Uh, it doesn't matter what's
going on. Carti is going to protect her man's and
that would be Stefon Diggs and this whole chef thing.

Speaker 3 (06:20):
Now here's what's interesting.

Speaker 1 (06:22):
Cardi did the old tweet and delete yesterday, and I
saved the text message that she had posted.

Speaker 3 (06:28):
But essentially Carti was like.

Speaker 1 (06:32):
In reference to the chef because remember, there's a woman
who's a chef. Do we think the chef is local?
She has to be got right. So there's a chef
who is claiming that she was strangled by Stefan Diggs.
He's rattled by it. By the way, he doesn't want
to talk about it. You can tell he's like hurting
when it comes to the situation. Anyways, he is vietname

(06:52):
Van Van, Vietnamese. This is why I'm going to preach
your Vinam v denied. I do love Vietnamese coffin. So
you're getting me away from myself. What are we even
talking about? So anyways, he has denied this. He's like,
this is didn't happen. But this chef has come out
and she's like, no, he you know, he strangled me.

(07:12):
He's expected in court at the end of the month
before this. But Carti's like, no, no, no, no, no,
You're not gonna do this. Somebody was tweeting back and
forth to Carty. She got upset. She tweets not once
has that woman said anything to me about being touched,
Not once, mind you. We were talking every single day
until she left that house, and she just wrote me this.

(07:33):
But I'm gonna let the courts handle this stuff, and
when it gets handled, I want y'all talking smack on
your knees with apologies, just as loud as y'all have
been harassing me over a lie, and I put that
on my two month old son in the name of
the Lord. That's how confident I am. The text message
came from the chef to Carti. I'm so sorry I

(07:53):
can't talk to you. I didn't say that, especially in
the way it was written. Please contact my mediator and
she will answer anything you need to know, but only
in person and confidently signed Lynette.

Speaker 2 (08:05):
Yeah, you know what that That makes me feel like
she may have said a few things and realized when
it spiraled like out of control, that she couldn't go
back on her head.

Speaker 1 (08:12):
I agree to and the way Carti is talking on this,
it's like I'll say anything because I know the truth
you guys are gonna see, and I don't care. Now
she did in fact take down the text message exchange.
But again, if this is going to court, I'm sure
maybe even Stefan Diggs's lawyer was like, get it down,
let's not deal with this. We'll handle this woman in

(08:33):
court because she is lying.

Speaker 2 (08:34):
This is why you just can't make comments and cant
I like say that somebody did did something just for
like a money grab, and this seems to be what
it was. Maybe she was hoping for a quick payout
just right in the.

Speaker 3 (08:44):
Mikay and maybe she you know who knows, she got
linked up with him somehow.

Speaker 1 (08:48):
She's local. She and it was quick and she was
in and out. She was mad that we don't know,
we don't know what the situation is. But it's just
giving to me the way Carti is talking on it.
That card he's got confidence here, I think. So she's
got some serious confidence and I think she's like, you're
not going to do this to my man.

Speaker 2 (09:06):
Clearly the Patriots back him too, because he's still playing.

Speaker 1 (09:09):
She was feeling the type of way yesterday, she was
doing the thing where she would come at anybody that
was tweeting her. Yeah, and you know when you mess
with Cardi, when she's in one of those moods, she'll
just be like, I hope your mother dies.

Speaker 3 (09:19):
Like for reality.

Speaker 1 (09:20):
She has tweeted that she does not play games, so
but she's always been this way, even when she was
with Offset.

Speaker 3 (09:25):
She's very protective of her own.

Speaker 5 (09:27):
So I like that.

Speaker 1 (09:28):
I like that for us.

Speaker 2 (09:29):
I will say, though, I do feel like she responds
way too much to people on social she does, it's unnecessary.

Speaker 1 (09:34):
I hate that he's dealing with this right now, especially
if it is a lie. Because the Pats are back
in action Sunday night. We got a wild card game.
We had a focus. Yeah, can't be worrying.

Speaker 2 (09:42):
About the mac and cheese about the football, you focus.

Speaker 1 (09:46):
All right? I don't. I don't necessarily know anybody who's
a massive Bruto mars fan, but I did see a
few people talking about this. Yesterday.

Speaker 3 (09:56):
He just tweeted out my album is done, and people would.

Speaker 1 (09:58):
Nuts, you brute Marska.

Speaker 2 (10:00):
I like his music, he has hits.

Speaker 3 (10:01):
It would be his first solo project in ten years. Really,
it's been that long ten years.

Speaker 1 (10:07):
Yeah, he had the Silk Sonic project with Anderson pot
But and he had some big hits with I Think
who is Lady Gaga? But the bottom line is this
would be a.

Speaker 2 (10:16):
Solo okay single? Do we have a release date for this?

Speaker 1 (10:19):
It's all he.

Speaker 3 (10:20):
Said, my album is done, and that sent people to
the moon.

Speaker 1 (10:23):
They were very excited.

Speaker 2 (10:24):
Doesn't mean it's good though.

Speaker 1 (10:25):
Yeah, it says, uh, just stay tuned.

Speaker 2 (10:29):
Bruno man.

Speaker 3 (10:30):
One of the things.

Speaker 2 (10:33):
He eats cocaine when he's hungry, hes cocaine that much.
He's like, you know, I'm gonna have cocaine.

Speaker 3 (10:38):
Why don't you judge people? Okay, people do what they do.

Speaker 2 (10:41):
Yes, people can do a couple of lines like I'm
not saying that's okay, but that I can understand. Bruno
eats kilos of cocaine.

Speaker 3 (10:48):
Yeah, we don't support drug use, whether we've done it
or not. We're not saying that. But I just don't judge.
You don't know what people are going through it.

Speaker 2 (10:55):
He was hungry, Yeah, he was like, YO, give me
some coke.

Speaker 1 (11:00):
Well. Another thing that went crazy yesterday, unrelated to music,
the CDC announcing a massive, unprecedented reduction to the recommended
chill childhood vaccination scheduled.

Speaker 3 (11:12):
They changed the number from eighteen to eleven.

Speaker 1 (11:16):
This was everywhere yesterday and listen, I it is the
second day of us back on this show. I'm not
dancing with you people.

Speaker 3 (11:23):
I'm just because you know how I'm.

Speaker 1 (11:25):
I'm passionate about this stuff if you are, but I
just I don't want to deal with you guys.

Speaker 3 (11:32):
It's literally six twenty in the morning. I'm just gonna
tell you the news.

Speaker 1 (11:36):
The vaccinations that will continue to be recommended are going
to be the DETAP, the hib the new macacle polio, measles, mumps.

Speaker 3 (11:43):
Rebella, and the chicken pox HPV.

Speaker 1 (11:45):
Will now be recommended as a single dose for younger
children instead of multiple doses, but future vaccinations for the flu,
for COVID, for rotavirus, for hepatitis A and B are
no longer recommended. Instead, they will be suggested through shared
clinical decision making for high risk groups. So essentially, like,

(12:06):
if you still want your kids to get these vaccines,
they absolutely can. Don't think that you can't shoot the
kids up if you want to, you can do that.
I think that was a big conversation I saw, yes well,
I still want to get the code vaccine. You can't.
You can absolutely do that. It's just they're not forcing
it anymore.

Speaker 2 (12:23):
Good jobs, good job. I only wish that I could
go back a couple of years and be a kid
and get all the vaccines that you do.

Speaker 1 (12:31):
I know you do. It was a big I'm not
mad at this day yesterday, but there are people.

Speaker 3 (12:38):
I just don't want people thinking like, oh my god,
now you want to get those for your kids. You
can absolutely do that. I just was I just I'm passionate.

Speaker 2 (12:48):
From what you said and the ones that you mentioned,
it seems like they're going back to what it was
like maybe twenty years ago.

Speaker 1 (12:52):
When we got vaccine. Yeah, pretty much.

Speaker 2 (12:54):
Yeah, yeah, I couldn't remember, but some of the ones
that you were kind of talking about, I remember them.

Speaker 1 (12:59):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (12:59):
I have been kicked out of practices.

Speaker 1 (13:01):
I will just say that.

Speaker 3 (13:03):
My kids have vaccines, certain ones, some of the ones
I named.

Speaker 1 (13:07):
But I have.

Speaker 3 (13:08):
I have had to leave practices because I didn't want
to get certain vaccines.

Speaker 1 (13:12):
Some of the ones that I mentioned, including the COVID
nineteen ones that anti vacui hy hilarious that now you
don't got to get it but I got Yeah, can
I hey, Hey Mary, can I come back in now?
All right? That it's reading these note for Tuesday, Jan
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(13:33):
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Speaker 2 (13:39):
Morning show.

Speaker 6 (13:40):
Good Morning.

Speaker 1 (13:41):
Bostin's number one for hip hop jam in ninety four
or five. Hi everybody, good morning yesterday. We were it
was our first show backs. We're just kind of like
running through things that we missed over the last two
weeks where we thought, oh damn, wish you were we
hear to chat about those? Was are exciting? Shrase your

(14:02):
things some films that we had seen, you know off air.
We had mentioned Tom Brady and Alex Earle. That was
a huge that go off guys, Like what people were
upset about?

Speaker 6 (14:13):
That?

Speaker 2 (14:14):
Is it the age difference?

Speaker 1 (14:16):
They're both single? Yeah, I don't know why. Yeah, people
were really but AJ had gone to Vegas to see
the Backstreet Boys on New Year's Eve, which is exciting.
So we were kind of going over that, and you know,
a couple of my friends had asked me too, like
how did it come up? And I can't remember because

(14:36):
we were talking about the Backstreet Boys?

Speaker 2 (14:39):
I did you ask her if she had sex in Vegas?
I feel like that.

Speaker 3 (14:43):
I don't think I directly asked that, did I I.

Speaker 7 (14:47):
Don't know what you initially asked me neither, but one
of you said something and then like I think I
started laughing.

Speaker 5 (14:53):
You were like, what did you have sex? And then
I like really lost it.

Speaker 1 (14:56):
Oh yeah, because I wouldn't that you would ask oh
to hook up in Vegas? Like I wouldn't ask that, But.

Speaker 2 (15:04):
Clearly was on her mind though, because it came out
pretty easy.

Speaker 7 (15:08):
Well, as soon as you go, oh, did you have sex?
I was like, shoot, I actually did, which I think.

Speaker 2 (15:14):
The oddest thing is that you didn't tell us that.
Like right from that, she.

Speaker 3 (15:19):
Get away because people are going to think, like, oh,
so what she hooked up in Vegas?

Speaker 1 (15:22):
No, no, no, no, no. We could respect that, you understandable,
We would get behind that, we would support that, and
we would be here for that. That's not what happened. Somehow,
some way, it came out that you had sexuals not
in Vegas, but in a car in front of a
bowling alley in haveral Nold. Okay, so.

Speaker 3 (15:51):
Is this a cry for help? Like what's going on?

Speaker 7 (15:53):
Sometimes things just happen, and that's just one of those
things that just happened.

Speaker 2 (15:58):
To your point, it's I think they do, but I
don't know if they happen in your thirties like that.
I feel like, when you're twenty one, you have sex
in a car, it's cool, it's fun.

Speaker 5 (16:06):
Well apparently it does happen in your thirties, becausin.

Speaker 3 (16:10):
And she's little, so you know, I think I am
five ten, Like you couldn't pay me money.

Speaker 1 (16:18):
To do that in a car, Like, I'm good?

Speaker 2 (16:21):
Have you ever? I feel like if the right of
passage like everybody? Yeah, you know what at some point
when I.

Speaker 1 (16:26):
Was like in high school, you know, or like when
when I didn't have a room or money to buy
something to have a bed.

Speaker 2 (16:34):
Yes, not as an adult, right, not in.

Speaker 1 (16:37):
My thirties, Like what are we doing?

Speaker 2 (16:38):
And that's where I think I have the biggest problem
with this is that like your tools for that, it.

Speaker 5 (16:43):
Wasn't in my plans and it just kind of happened.

Speaker 1 (16:46):
But is it a back seat thing? Yeah?

Speaker 2 (16:49):
Is it a big car?

Speaker 6 (16:51):
No?

Speaker 5 (16:51):
He had a rental and I think it was an
a Lantra.

Speaker 1 (16:55):
So no, it was, Yeah, I am not. I mean
it unless a shock of the century. It's a minivan. Like,
I don't what are we how with the bed? How
old is he too old? Thirty five?

Speaker 2 (17:09):
Yeah? Like grow up, bro.

Speaker 3 (17:11):
My issue is like, hey, we couldn't pitch in together
and grab a.

Speaker 1 (17:16):
Room and just chill.

Speaker 7 (17:19):
Well he did bring up like, hey, we could get
a hotel, but I said no, Why because so I
didn't have any intentions of this happening, and I wanted
to go home. I didn't want it to I didn't
want to stroll home at like five am.

Speaker 2 (17:32):
Wait, but you could still do what you need to
do and go home. You don't have to sleep at
the hotel.

Speaker 1 (17:36):
I know, but it would have.

Speaker 5 (17:37):
Turned into this whole like all night thing.

Speaker 1 (17:39):
But you're rationalizing this. You think what you did is better.
I didn't say that it was better the option you chose,
though in your way, you thought that the.

Speaker 5 (17:49):
I was actually going with was to not have sex
at all, And then it just well escalated.

Speaker 3 (17:55):
That was not what happened.

Speaker 1 (17:56):
It did not happen because because I gotta believe if
a Santi is bowling at that alley and goes out
to get into his vehicle and sees two people. You're
calling the police, the police because I don't know what's happening,
or hey, there's a lady of the night, or.

Speaker 2 (18:10):
I'm watching or I'm taping this thing. Because that's the
thing with this, it's kind of out in the public.
It's not like a hidden thing like people saw it,
like saw you guys, well.

Speaker 7 (18:20):
I will, to be honest, there's like a vestibule and
things started in there and nobody ever walked by. It
was a Sunday night kind of no one was really around.

Speaker 1 (18:31):
Means that these days you can't, yeah, can't decent exposure.

Speaker 2 (18:36):
Yes, that's exactly what it is.

Speaker 5 (18:38):
No, we didn't have clothes off or anything.

Speaker 1 (18:39):
They were like heavily, a little too detailed chairing.

Speaker 2 (18:43):
She's like, I don't know, Wow, that's a cry for help.

Speaker 1 (18:46):
Though, I'm I'm like, this one really sent me to
the mood. I don't because i I'm like, we hear
the stories from you. You've gone years and then all
of a sudden in a parking lot.

Speaker 5 (18:59):
Yeah, again, it just kind of happened.

Speaker 3 (19:02):
No, I mean words alts, you know, you you make
your making conscious decisions.

Speaker 2 (19:07):
Here well, right, driving down the driving home and skidding
off and hitting a telephone pole kind of just happens, right, And.

Speaker 3 (19:15):
I know, I know your wardrobe, so I'm assuming you
were in jeans.

Speaker 2 (19:20):
I yeah, O, my god, trust.

Speaker 8 (19:22):
Me what I tell you.

Speaker 1 (19:24):
Decisions have to be made, and they're.

Speaker 6 (19:28):
Jean.

Speaker 1 (19:31):
She put her coach clutch behind in that little thing
where it's the trunk and everything. Yeah, so like conscious
decisions were made and we wait. So I'm just there
was a.

Speaker 5 (19:42):
Little liquid courage involved.

Speaker 2 (19:45):
So still, guys.

Speaker 5 (19:47):
You guys get mad at me all the time for being.

Speaker 7 (19:49):
Stuck in my ways and uptight, and now I do
something like wild and crazy and that's not cool either.

Speaker 1 (19:54):
What do you want me to do? I want you
to get a hotel room. That's literally it. I just
don't want you getting the cops called on you for
indecent exposure out in the middle of a bowling.

Speaker 2 (20:04):
As imagine she got arrest and then had to come
back in here. Oh my gods, the best happen.

Speaker 3 (20:13):
It's not the like I'm cool that you that you
wanted to get down.

Speaker 1 (20:17):
I just feel like we are at the age now
where it's like, hey, let's splurge a little, like let's
get a room in Malden.

Speaker 2 (20:25):
Yes, or en route one like anywhere, and they're not
they're pretty cheap. There's a red roof in right next
to the coloon, Like, I don't know what that cost?

Speaker 3 (20:34):
Looking up best hotels in.

Speaker 2 (20:37):
Malden, Man, what do we got? I don't know. If
there's an.

Speaker 1 (20:42):
It's not giving me anything in Malden. It's say it's
telling me to go to Assembly Row that's.

Speaker 2 (20:47):
Still kind of far away. But if you go on
right by the colun there there's like a couple very doable.
And that's another thing too.

Speaker 1 (20:54):
I mean they're like one hundred dollars. This is nothing
to give you one hundred bucks. Yeah, revolution the issue.

Speaker 2 (21:01):
The revolution sounds fine.

Speaker 1 (21:03):
Revolution get that, let's revolutionize.

Speaker 3 (21:09):
I don't know where that is, but I mean, but
all I'm saying is I'm.

Speaker 1 (21:13):
Cool with the act.

Speaker 3 (21:14):
I'm just like, I'm what's going.

Speaker 6 (21:16):
On with you?

Speaker 2 (21:17):
And this keeps going back to this because remember she
did this like a year ago or two and again right.

Speaker 1 (21:21):
To this like she was just in Vegas, didn't make
a single bad decision, comes back and is like I'm
gonna in a car in Malden.

Speaker 7 (21:31):
Yeah, it happened before Vegas actually, so I got my
bad decisions out.

Speaker 1 (21:35):
Before there you go.

Speaker 3 (21:37):
That's why I just yeah, I feel now so yeah,
I'm just.

Speaker 1 (21:45):
I want to. I want to. I want to support it.
It's the hotel part.

Speaker 6 (21:48):
For me.

Speaker 2 (21:49):
It is a hotel part. And your whole reason about
not wanting to leave and having the stale for is crazy.
You're already setting it up in your mind to be
something that it doesn't have have to be.

Speaker 3 (21:58):
How long after did you guys part ways?

Speaker 1 (22:01):
Because I feel like that has to be a quick
like all right, because what are you gonna sit in
the back seat and ship chat?

Speaker 5 (22:07):
Good question. My memory is honestly a.

Speaker 2 (22:09):
Little right because like yeah, and then do you put
your pants back on in the back and then seat
and say bye?

Speaker 1 (22:16):
Yeah, person has to get out first.

Speaker 5 (22:18):
That's actually what we did. Now we probably got out
at the same time.

Speaker 3 (22:22):
I think, all play, So I'm gonna try to make it.
Let's play Luthor. Yeah, let's play Luthor because I just don't.

Speaker 2 (22:31):
Transaction like there were kids bowling at.

Speaker 1 (22:33):
That place, like hi, everybody, good morning. It's actually in
the game of morning show. We just got this talk
back and reference to our conversation about.

Speaker 9 (22:45):
A j Yo aj loan, and she had a fine
she wanted to have some fun.

Speaker 2 (22:50):
She decided doing a car.

Speaker 9 (22:52):
So wid you guys are so judgmental, like judgmental bitches,
like a bunch of girls.

Speaker 2 (22:56):
I want to just make judgmental in high school.

Speaker 9 (22:58):
Let her have her fu.

Speaker 1 (23:01):
We are we are, Yeah, we are judgmental bitches. I
there's no question I'm a judgmental bitch.

Speaker 2 (23:08):
Yeah, but that's okay. And who cares if I'm forty
five and.

Speaker 1 (23:12):
Yeah, I'm gonna be forty this year. And I would
also like to add in, we're not mad that she
did that, like we're good, Like I just I want
her to have, like, yeah, a safe space to lay
down on.

Speaker 2 (23:26):
Yeah, like you in her car would not work. Your
legs are way too long. I'm just far unless there
was a sunroof and you can stick your head.

Speaker 1 (23:35):
Like a whole giraffe and malden and that would be made.
That would be the only way to get it done.
But after that, it's like and again there's all the
things like you guys aren't thinking this far ahead, but
that you have to think like the magical moment is over,
and then what are we just like chilling in the
back seat? Are we having a combo? Are we just
like Okay, now we're gonna go sit up front and
talk a little bit more. And then it's a it's

(23:56):
a I.

Speaker 2 (23:57):
Feel like you get dressed and you leave. You really
can't hang in the car like after that, it's just
a little bit awkward, just the car.

Speaker 1 (24:03):
And obviously, without getting into graphic details, at six fifty
two in the morning, it's like this isn't the movies? Yeah,
all right, so it's like there are things to be done.

Speaker 2 (24:13):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, you know what I mean.

Speaker 3 (24:15):
Like I'll just say that, like this isn't the movies?

Speaker 2 (24:17):
Yes, And then like you're looking around.

Speaker 3 (24:20):
And now I don't want to look at her because
now I'm thinking.

Speaker 1 (24:22):
About like that part, and I just like, you know,
so that's right anyway, six fifty two sickening, Get a hotel,
That's what I'm saying. Judgmental bitch, damn.

Speaker 2 (24:33):
In ninety four to five traffic ninety three southbound, we
are looking good until we hit the brakes in and over.
Then it's slow traffic all the way down to one
twenty and root one top bound heavy traffic getting past
the Chelsea Curve.

Speaker 1 (24:44):
I love how much you guys are jumping to AJ's
defense on this and now, all of a sudden in
twenty twenty six, everybody's just hooking up in cars.

Speaker 7 (24:53):
But Ashley Santi Let the girl get hers how she
wants to get hers and just be happy for they're willing.

Speaker 2 (25:01):
Carr was there the hotel.

Speaker 1 (25:03):
Wasn't it is what it is? Pine?

Speaker 2 (25:05):
Yeah, all right, fine, all right, a car girl, you
know what?

Speaker 1 (25:09):
Yeah, our little car gay she gets arrested. It's all
to you guys now Especial Morning Show when you need
to know, we got you three things you need to
know on Boston's number one for hip hop and the
best throwbacks. She haven't any more vis Oh look at
Steve Kerr.

Speaker 2 (25:27):
He's all around here. Oh Steve gonna get thrown out.
Get him out of there, Get him out of the here.

Speaker 10 (25:32):
Vacuum up, Vacuum up, GP, vacuum up, Steve.

Speaker 1 (25:34):
Rade, Steve Banking Inglewood right now, ingle what Getty's Dwod's
d the.

Speaker 2 (25:43):
Arizona Round, Captain Kate Mining look at him?

Speaker 3 (25:49):
Tuesday, Jan six, That was Snoop got a new career.

Speaker 1 (25:52):
All right. Uh, he took the microphone last night for
the Warriors Clippers game and now he's just an analyst.

Speaker 2 (25:59):
He was Did he do the whole game?

Speaker 1 (26:01):
He did it? Yeah, And that was when Steve Kerr
got ejected, which was absolutely hilarious hearing him do the
play by play of that. But dude, he's multi faceted man.
He's got a lot of tricks.

Speaker 2 (26:11):
Of a sleep he is. But I want to see
him for like a quarter. I don't want to hear
him for the entire game.

Speaker 1 (26:15):
Steph Curry said when he was doing like the pregame interview,
he was asking him like hard hitting basketball questions and
he wasn't. He thought it was gonna be a little
bit more relaxed and it wasn't.

Speaker 2 (26:25):
Wow, Okay, so Snow might be doing this more research.

Speaker 3 (26:29):
Snoop's doing his research.

Speaker 1 (26:31):
I love that.

Speaker 3 (26:32):
Good for good for Snoop. He also has the wine.

Speaker 2 (26:35):
Yes, he also has some TV shows with Martha Stewart too.

Speaker 3 (26:38):
So Martha and him are their friends.

Speaker 2 (26:41):
I saw a Snoop dog back in the day in
like Vermont. It was awesome. It was so great. He's
like he's everywhere and he's been around for so.

Speaker 1 (26:48):
Long he really has. He certainly figured out longevity of
the game and staying in. I mean, and now look
at him now he's an NBA analyst and.

Speaker 2 (26:54):
Still real thin too.

Speaker 1 (26:56):
So thin, I guess started to smoke with the weed.
All right, let's talk about Cardi B. Cardi B is
always always going to protect her man's and she listen,
she was protective of Offset even when he was acting up.
So it doesn't shock me that she is, of course
taking the defense of our guy Stefon Diggs. This whole

(27:18):
chef incident seems off to me. Something is not adding,
The math isn't mathing here. I don't know what's going on.
You know, we were saying earlier you would believe that
this chef is probably local. Her name is Lynette. We
know that now because of Cardi posting the text message exchanges.
But if you for some reason didn't see the story,

(27:40):
Stefan Digs in the middle of the NFL playoffs is
dealing with a strangulation charge. A woman is saying that
she was a private chef for Stefan and he strangled
her when he was upset at something.

Speaker 3 (27:52):
He has immediately come out and said this is not true.

Speaker 1 (27:55):
This is a lie. No, he will not speak to
the press about it, but when he does reference the
last couple of week, he's like, it's been really hard.
You can tell that this one kind of messed him up.

Speaker 10 (28:03):
Now.

Speaker 1 (28:05):
The real reason I just think that it didn't happen
is because Cardi is so adamant. Like she's so so
adamant that it didn't happen. She's out here posting text messages,
She's responding to people on Twitter. She said, not once
has that woman said anything to me about being touched,
Not once, mind you. We were talking every single day

(28:25):
until she left that house, and she just wrote me this.
But I'm gonna let the court handle stuff, and when
it gets handled, I want you guys all to get
down on your knees and apologize just the way you
were yelling and harassing me over a lie. I put
that on my two month old same my two month
old son in the name of the Lord. That is
how confident I am. So then she posts the text
message from the chef to her that says, I'm so

(28:46):
sorry I can't talk with you. Quote.

Speaker 3 (28:48):
I didn't say that, especially in that way it was written.

Speaker 1 (28:52):
Please contact my mediator and she will answer anything you
need to know, but only in person and confidently.

Speaker 2 (28:58):
So it almost seems like she's saying that she was
making a joke or said something in reference to something
that didn't happen, but somebody took it a different way.

Speaker 1 (29:05):
Yeah, because remember I think originally this came over a
salary dispute, is what she was saying. So what I'm
thinking is she must have told somebody a story and
she's like, well, no, that wasn't the way that I
said it. Yeah, well did you say that he strangled
you because he was mad over how much he had
to pay? Like, what did you say?

Speaker 2 (29:23):
And when it's over salary, it makes me feel like
she probably got pissed off and wanted some more money
and said that he choked her, and then it turned
into a bigger thing than she assumed.

Speaker 1 (29:32):
I said this earlier last year. CARTI is not going
to play anymore. If you lie on her name, she
is just going to take you right to court. She's
gonna do what she did Anatasha. Kay, she doesn't care.
She's like, you want to lie, go ahead, We'll take
you right to court and will win. I mean, look
at when CARTI went to court and one she took
the mugshots and she took her pictures of her on

(29:53):
the stand and made money off of that.

Speaker 2 (29:54):
Yeah, I need to be careful now that she's local too.
If she hears something, she'd assume me that's my gal.

Speaker 1 (30:00):
Hi Cardy, Hi Cardy. And by the way, with all
this going on, this dude again is in playoff mode.
He has to be in court to get a rain
on January twenty third, and they're playing Sunday night in
the wildcard game.

Speaker 2 (30:12):
But this past week he did pretty well, so I
like it's on his mind, but it's not affecting his play.

Speaker 3 (30:16):
Which he's doing a fantastic job of separating. That's for sure,
all right.

Speaker 1 (30:21):
The CDC has announced a crazy reduction in the recommended
childhood vaccine schedule. They decreased the number yesterday from eighteen
to eleven. I think because I have littles and I'm
in mommy land. This was like everywhere on my stop
smiling at me the news I'm reporting it is. He
loves this. He loves to get me rattled.

Speaker 3 (30:42):
I'm just reporting the news.

Speaker 1 (30:43):
It was everywhere. The vaccines that will continue to be
recommended include detap HIM, newmccacle, polio, measles, mumps, reubella, chicken
pox HPV will now be recommended in a single dose
for younger kids instead of the multiple doses. For future
vaccinate for the flu, for covid nineteen, for the roatavirus,

(31:03):
for hepatitis A and B. They will no longer be recommended.
There's suggested for certain cases for high risk groups. If
you are somebody hearing this and you're like, oh my god, no,
I want to get my kid all the vaccines, you
can still do that. You can. That's what it always
should have been, right. You choose what you think is
best for your baby and for your kid. At least

(31:26):
that's how I always thought it should be. So Yeah,
the bottom line is you'll be able to decide what
you want to get for your baby at the time. However,
the ones I just listed covid, flu, rotavirus, HAVE A,
and B are no longer recommended. You don't have to
get those.

Speaker 2 (31:41):
Good job bash, No, not that I did, Not that
I did.

Speaker 1 (31:44):
That is three things you even know for Tuesday, January sixth.
Talkbacks are such a fun way to access the show.
I actually love the feistiness of the talkbacks. Today, AJ's
got some AJ's got some people defending her honor.

Speaker 3 (31:57):
We're gonna just let her do it in a car
if that's what she wants to do.

Speaker 1 (32:00):
Down the Free iHeartRadio app. Once you have jammin on,
hit that red microphone and sing it from the rooftops
that sexuals in a car and Malden is okay.

Speaker 2 (32:10):
Morning show, Good morning.

Speaker 1 (32:12):
Bustin's number one for hip hop jam in ninety four five. Hi,
Bab's good morning. We're talking dating love relationships. We call
it beyond the swipe because listen, it could be. Hey,
I got engaged over the holidays and it was amazing.
You missed it. I went on a first date while
you were gone. You missed it.

Speaker 3 (32:33):
I got dumped. I caught him cheating.

Speaker 1 (32:35):
We don't know. Possibilities are endless. Six one seven nine
three one one nine four five. That is six one
seven nine three one one nine four five. We're talking
dating love relationships. Lorraine is gonna kick it off for us. Hi, Lorraine, Hi,
how are you girl? I am so sorry You've been
dating a guy for three years and just found out what.

Speaker 8 (33:00):
He was married with. Three kid.

Speaker 3 (33:03):
I'm gonna bomb, married with one, two, three little nuggets.

Speaker 8 (33:08):
Ray Kid's allegedly married.

Speaker 1 (33:12):
How'd you find out?

Speaker 6 (33:14):
So?

Speaker 8 (33:14):
I've been with him for three years, we worked together.
Is my boss, and we've been working so hard together.
We spend the time together all the time, spend the
night at my house multiple time. It just go to
his house and change and come back. Difficult to know
this guy was doing something. Yeah, last week we were

(33:36):
going into some documents. I was supposed to apply for
some license and something, and I found out the business
is not on his name, is on his wife his name.

Speaker 1 (33:46):
Yeah, that's gonna do it. That's gonna do it. So
but you know what's so crazy to me? All the
time he's spending with you, How is she not like
or do they have some sort of arrangement? Because if
I'm the wife and I'm like, where the hell are
you you're going on that?

Speaker 8 (34:01):
That was my question. He spent the night at my house.
He spent the night at my house multiple time. He
woke up only in the morning to go change and
come back to work.

Speaker 1 (34:10):
And what do you say?

Speaker 8 (34:13):
So I tried to confront him. All he told me
is just together for some arrangement of the business, there
is nothing going on. He loved me and things like that.
So in the new year, I already tried. I tried
to make some vendors. I don't want that relationship anymore.
I told him so. Last week I tried to confront him,

(34:33):
which I think I was joking, and he still come
back home and trying to just try to figure things out,
which I said no. So this Saturday I put things straight.
I told him I need my key back. I don't
want anything to do with you anymore. You have a
three kids to go figure it out and things like that.
And as soon as I say that, in the mill
of the night, he fired me. He deleted me on

(34:54):
all the company and everything.

Speaker 1 (34:56):
Soerene, I'm so sorry.

Speaker 8 (35:00):
So yeah, the thing is, I'm not a bad person,
but I try also to be staying up. I've been
working so hard with that job. I've been putting so
much airfort. Should I bring him to the core or
should I just let it go. I'm just struggling right now.

Speaker 2 (35:14):
I don't know. If you want the headache of everything,
I would say let it go. But if you want
to stand on business, then take him to court.

Speaker 1 (35:22):
Clocking deal. That's a lot I mean that's a big
decision to make because Nanti's right, I mean the headache
of taking him to the core and doing all the thing.

Speaker 3 (35:30):
Now, did you guys start the business at the same.

Speaker 8 (35:33):
Time, Yes, so we this style of the business at
the same time.

Speaker 2 (35:37):
So how did he put it in his wife's name?

Speaker 8 (35:40):
So it doesn't have so I want it put to
discuss this. It doesn't have I cannot be having business legally, so.

Speaker 1 (35:50):
I don't know what that means.

Speaker 2 (35:51):
I don't think she can legally have a business, got it?

Speaker 1 (35:54):
So you needed him to sign off on something or
put it in his name, and now he wants to
take the biness from you. So well listen, yeah, that's
I understand your your need to want to fight. You've
been probably putting all of your blood, sweat and tears
into this. How long have you been messing with this man?

Speaker 2 (36:12):
Three years?

Speaker 6 (36:13):
Wow?

Speaker 1 (36:14):
Are the kids young?

Speaker 8 (36:17):
So the two one older older and then they have
a younger kids who is like a three years now.
I mean by the time we started.

Speaker 1 (36:27):
Pregnant, Yeah, was pregnant or just having the baby when
you guys, for oh man, that that is that is
so crazy. I'm glad you're not at least believing his
lies that you know that he's you know, married, because
some girls would be like, he's telling the truth.

Speaker 3 (36:42):
He's you know, he's not really with her. It's nuts
other things.

Speaker 8 (36:47):
No, man, this is a new year. I sent some
bends in my life on one of my own men.

Speaker 9 (36:52):
I don't want to doe anymore.

Speaker 8 (36:54):
If he doesn't mess up with him, it's supposed to
be not having him on company's name.

Speaker 9 (36:59):
Or anything like that.

Speaker 8 (37:00):
And they don't suppose you didn't have a kid to
get it.

Speaker 1 (37:02):
So it's a company that you could start over again
by yourself.

Speaker 8 (37:10):
No, I cannot because we're a partner. So if I
now I'm leaving, I'm gonna lose everything. I'm not afraid
to start over. It's just like I'm losing everything I know.

Speaker 2 (37:21):
But at least you won't have him and that headache.
So maybe that's a positive.

Speaker 1 (37:24):
What an anchor he is.

Speaker 8 (37:25):
Yeah exactly. So yeah, thank you so much, New year,
New year, new you.

Speaker 1 (37:32):
You know, well, Lorraine, keep its posted, baby, at least
you're in good spirits.

Speaker 8 (37:38):
I'm just trying to go to the gym right now,
stay busy, and then just trying to fig the things
positive and figured it out.

Speaker 1 (37:47):
Pray and praying now, pray, don't skip leg day, all right, loray,
best of luck.

Speaker 8 (37:54):
Thank you.

Speaker 1 (37:56):
When I just hear that people have to go to
court for things, it is headache is the only thing
I can think of, And so she's gonna have to
add that in. But also like, look at him, got
his cake, got to eat it too, and now he
gets the business and he still us to go home
to somebody.

Speaker 2 (38:11):
But maybe this is a situation where she contacts the
wife and blows that up.

Speaker 1 (38:14):
You know you would. I was actually shocking. I know
I couldn't believe you. Wait until you hung up. That
was respectful, respectful, boom done and then go do like
six one seven nine three one one nine four five
six one seven nine three one one nine four five.

Speaker 3 (38:30):
We were talking dating love relationships.

Speaker 1 (38:33):
Black thereof what do we miss? It's beyond the swipe? Hi, everybody,
good morning. It is Ashley and the Gym in morning show.
We're talking dating love relationships. You know, beyond the swipe
has turned into so many things. Sometimes it's you guys
calling to vent to us about what's going on in
the streets. And ain't pretty at least in twenty twenty five.
It wasn't pretty. Maybe twenty twenty six will be the
year of love forever.

Speaker 2 (38:54):
It's tough out there, though.

Speaker 1 (38:55):
Year of love or year of cars activities, I don't know.
It's the year of the horse, the Chinese New Year. Oh,
I wonder what that will bring out of riding. Let
us pray uh sixty one seven nine three one one
nine four five. That is six one seven nine three

(39:16):
one one nine four five. Dating love relationships. You went
on a date, you have a story to tell me,
you broke up, You want to vent about it, any
anything you want. We got a couple of talkbacks of
I feel like ladies just venting.

Speaker 10 (39:32):
Good morning everyone.

Speaker 1 (39:33):
So I just want to say something quickly. Love is
just the number, whether if you're twenty six with a.

Speaker 11 (39:41):
Fifty year old, sixty year old, if you're a sixty
year old with a twenty seven, twenty six thirty year old,
If the love is there, the chemistry.

Speaker 1 (39:49):
Is there, take it, roll with it and go with
the flow.

Speaker 5 (39:52):
I was also the.

Speaker 10 (39:53):
One that calls about dating Dominican man.

Speaker 6 (39:56):
My man is not Dominican.

Speaker 1 (39:57):
He's gut Omlin. So get you a Guatemala, Get you
a Guatemalan man twenty twenty six. You have to do that.
We know you'd be a club listen age is but
a number.

Speaker 3 (40:11):
That's fine, yeah, but there are some things where we're
just like you know, I.

Speaker 2 (40:16):
Also like always think of the fact of like if
you get somebody who's too old at some point, they're
going to die soon, right, Like if you're with somebody
who's in their seventies and you're twenty six or something
like that, that's a huge gap.

Speaker 1 (40:25):
And I also just think people are at different points
in your life and that's okay too. If you're sixty
something and you're dating your twenty some year old, Like
the twenty one year old is going to want to
go out to the club to do all the things
you've been there, You've done that, you might not want
to hit a lounge on a Saturday.

Speaker 2 (40:39):
Night when you're sixty. When I'm forty five, the last
thing I want to do is go out to like
a club, like, punch me in the face. Please.

Speaker 1 (40:44):
If I have to go out like I, well, you know,
I'll still hit a club.

Speaker 2 (40:49):
But you already hit a club. But how old would
that get for you? Especially when you feel old inside
the clubs, and it has to be like an occasion,
you know what I mean. You're right, I'm not going
to that.

Speaker 1 (40:57):
I used to be. I was ratting for a while.
I was sitting in the clubs time. But I was
young and that was that was what we were doing.
Now it's like some big celebration. Someone's at the club
and I am thinking, do we have a place to sit? Yes,
like that's really do we have a place to sit?

Speaker 2 (41:12):
In line? The oldest one here?

Speaker 1 (41:14):
You're right, was it? Once it hits a line situation?
Big Mama is out, Big Mama is out.

Speaker 6 (41:21):
Good morning, guys.

Speaker 11 (41:24):
I would just say the ladies out there be careful
for guys that act like they don't have anyone to
talk to, because nine times out of ten they have
a bazillion girls to talk to. My ex tried to
create a refrash and the woman just wasn't being a
girl's girl.

Speaker 6 (41:41):
So yeah, ladies, be careful for men out there playing
mind games.

Speaker 1 (41:47):
So if he says to you, I just don't have
anybody to talk to, is it that's a line? Now?
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (41:53):
Maybe says he's going for the sensitivity like angle and
he's hoping to get some sort of.

Speaker 3 (41:57):
Sympathy from the That would work for me.

Speaker 2 (42:00):
Ye, why because then you would want to talk to Yeah.

Speaker 1 (42:02):
If the fireman is like I get something off my chest,
I just like, I don't have anybody else to talk to.
I'm like, well, yere any but.

Speaker 2 (42:09):
We're dating guy meeting a guy out?

Speaker 1 (42:10):
No, I think that would work on me. Honestly, I'm
dating a guy. We're chatting and he's like, hey, can
I rearn something about you? I just like, don't have
anybody else to talk to you about it. I'm like,
what's up? Yeahs you know I'm nosy, Like yeah, sure.

Speaker 2 (42:21):
What's going on from a guy's perspective? Like absolutely, that's
that's a connection point, that's setting a foundation. There's like emotion, Yeah.

Speaker 1 (42:27):
Exactly, you're houcking me in game hook line and sinker
right there. Six one seven nine three one one nine
four five. That is six one seven nine three one
one nine four five. We're talking dating, love relationships. What
do we miss? What's going on in the new year?
Six one seven nine three one one nine four five.
It's beyond the swipe. Hi babes, Good morning, It's Ashley

(42:49):
the jam In Morning Show. Listen we're doing Beyond the Swipe.
It is the part of our week where we talk
about your dating.

Speaker 3 (42:56):
Life and what's happening and what you're doing and what's
going on.

Speaker 1 (42:59):
I keep saying, you know, we were gone for a
minute there at the end of twenty twenty five, so
I I know we.

Speaker 3 (43:05):
Got a holiday proposal.

Speaker 1 (43:06):
As somebody that listens to the show, I just know it.
We had one listener who didn't want to come on,
which I totally understand, find out that her husband of
nineteen years was cheating.

Speaker 2 (43:17):
That's a long time. What that is so long When
I hear stuff like that, I feel like something was
broken for a long time and he was probably looking
elsewhere for what he wanted. It's not the right move, no,
and he and he did.

Speaker 3 (43:31):
It with like just like this young girl that he
works with, like a fling type of situation.

Speaker 2 (43:36):
But well, maybe he's not a nice guy and was
looking for me on the side, and like she you know.

Speaker 1 (43:40):
If kids, and it's just it's turned into this whole thing.
I just feel so bad for her. But six one
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You have a dating story relationship story to tell us
Shae is in Rockland. Now, Shay, you had actually just
left this talk back in which we discussed, so I'll
play it again for everybody.

Speaker 6 (44:02):
Good morning guys.

Speaker 11 (44:05):
I would just say the ladies out there be careful
for guys that act like they don't have anyone to
talk to, because nine times out.

Speaker 6 (44:11):
Of ten, they have a bazilion girls to talk to.

Speaker 11 (44:16):
My ex tried to create a rifrash and the woman
just wasn't being a girl's girl.

Speaker 6 (44:21):
So yeah, ladies, be careful for men out there playing
nine games.

Speaker 1 (44:27):
Shay, what happened? What happened to you?

Speaker 9 (44:31):
So basically, you know, I had a baby, so I
wasn't really worth dating, but I rekindled him a recent
exs and stuff, and I guess to me, he told
me he not even want to talk to He wasn't
entertaining anybody. But you know, mass is small, so it's
bound to happen. If you are lying, it's bound to
come to the light. So the girl that he was

(44:53):
talking to, we were actually close friends, like back in
the day before having my kids, and I just hit
her up on like a girl's saying, like you know, hey,
he was just talking to me like he didn't have
anyone to talk to, wasn't entertaining anybody. And the girl,
when I tell you, goes off the handles at me
like I'm wrong, And it's like the way my growth

(45:14):
has kicked in is like I would have took up
social media and made it a big thing. But it's
like when someone when you're telling someone genuinely like you're
being played and they just start go be a parent
and directed to your parents. It's just like, what do
you do?

Speaker 1 (45:27):
You know, like, yeah, just so you know, we're both
talking to Joe. You know, I don't know what's going
on with you too, but him and I were just
chatting and she's like, go be a mom. I wouldn't
like that either. I wouldn't like that either exactly.

Speaker 9 (45:42):
And I've changed a lot, so I'm like, what do
I do in this situation? And then it's like, you know,
the man it was put in the bugge hair.

Speaker 11 (45:49):
I don't know.

Speaker 9 (45:49):
Some women, you know, they just want to be happy
where they're happy at, which is understandable. But it's like
if someone who wasn't dating or and they decided to
go back into the dating life and then you'll bag
their emotions being played with, especially you know, when you
decide to step back out, it just feels weird to me, like,
you know, you directed at the parenting, and this ex
already felt the way because I had a child and

(46:10):
it wasn't with him. So it was just like, you know,
I feel like little jazz and stuff. So I'm like,
what do I do?

Speaker 6 (46:16):
What do I do?

Speaker 1 (46:17):
Because well, listen, you don't take you to social media.
I'm proud of you because I know you said you
wanted to and you didn't. I think that's that's also
you know way we're glowing up.

Speaker 2 (46:27):
Exactly, but yeah, that's I think.

Speaker 1 (46:29):
Listen, at that point, she was just trying to hurt you,
and it works because she knew she knew exactly where
to go. Because that's just a wild thing to say,
unless you came at her like stop talking to him.

Speaker 9 (46:40):
No, like literally, I literally came at her like a
grown woman, like you know, hey, like you're talking to him.
He was just over here with me, like you know,
and I'm a big on my health. I'm big on
not switching body through it. So yeah, me telling her
was just like, hey, you know, be careful this dude's
like talking to me, talking to you, probably talking to
everybody else, and it's just a jab at my parents.
And it's like, at least I can have kids. That's

(47:01):
all I can really say. I am not going to
argue with you, but hey, take it there if you
want that. I'm not going to be on live samely
out live. And so she you know what she did
to prove a point. She goes and she posted six
different photos of them together, but you can tell it
was all taken on one day. I don't know if
that was to take a job with me, but it's like, hey, whatever,
you know, I'm just a girls girl, so I just

(47:22):
I guess I expected the same thing in return, but
not everyone's like me.

Speaker 3 (47:26):
So he sounds like a loser anyway, So I think
you can.

Speaker 1 (47:31):
Yeah. Also, hey, you can't be a girl's girl and
making jabs at people who can't have kids, because that's
also mean. So let's not do that either.

Speaker 9 (47:40):
Okay, that that was You're right, you're right, yeah, yeah,
I think a lot of.

Speaker 1 (47:44):
People struggle doing that, and that's you. You know, we
don't want to do that, not ever a girl's girl.
We don't want to do that. Either. But yeah, yeah,
all right, say, well thanks for the call.

Speaker 2 (47:55):
Not that I don't believe her, because I do think
there's a lot of validity to her store, but I
got to hear the other side because she's doing a
couple of jabs there that cut really deep that I
don't I can't imagine that she reached out very innocently.

Speaker 1 (48:09):
I know best to believe it was just like, hey,
just so you know, Joe and I were just saying
I want to believe that. But for the girl to
just come right back with.

Speaker 2 (48:17):
Go take care of your kid is at the very least,
it had to be some like underlying tones of like
some sort of like jabs. Right.

Speaker 1 (48:25):
I know that this happens every day and often, but
I couldn't imagine getting that text, Hey, just so you
know your man was over here a couple of nights.
I think that is there's that's a tough thing to receive.

Speaker 2 (48:42):
As much as I trust my wife, as much as
I know he location at all times, if I receive that,
I'm going to investigate with an.

Speaker 1 (48:49):
I need to know in spector gadgets.

Speaker 2 (48:52):
Yeah, let's let's tell me everything. Let's talk proof, because
I need to know.

Speaker 1 (48:56):
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It's beyond the swipe. Good morning, Hi everybody, Good morning,
It's Ashley and the jam In Morning Show. I was
really hoping for something different for us, the first to
be on the Swipe of twenty twenty six, But now

(49:19):
Jamie is in Gloucester. James, first off, how are you?
How are you? How are you?

Speaker 10 (49:25):
I'm okay, really yeah. You know, it's made me see
that I am a lot stronger than what I thought
I was.

Speaker 1 (49:34):
You know, you hear these stories and it's like these
people just they arise from the ashes. But uh, Jamie's
father of her children just straight up abandoned you, guys,
just like left you. You what happened? You came home
one day and he was gone. Did he tell you
he was leaving?

Speaker 10 (49:52):
So in summer of twenty twenty four, he told this
same stuff. He had a girl show interest in him,
and he decided that he didn't want to be with
me anymore, so he up and left me. Fortunately, I
was living in an affordable apartment then, so I was
okay on my own. She broke up with him about
three months later, and he's come crying back. And I'm

(50:14):
a very empathetic person. I I'm a CNA, so I
do that for work, you know, I'm a very caring person.
I let him come back to you know. My children
also missed him. And then about six months later, previous
to that, we moved into a more expensive apartment, a
four bedroom, three level townhouse, and he decided six months

(50:36):
later that he didn't want to be with me again
and basically just up and moved out into his own apartment.
And a month later he was in a relationship. And
a month later after that, he was telling my kids
he was marrying this girl.

Speaker 1 (50:49):
Oh jam how are the kids?

Speaker 10 (50:52):
My daughters are seventeen and thirteen.

Speaker 1 (50:54):
Oh my god. So he's he's out now, he's with someone.

Speaker 10 (50:58):
News out now. And he lost his opportunity to ever
come back because what he did. Even my seventeen year
old daughter basically said, please don't ever take him back.

Speaker 6 (51:07):
Hey.

Speaker 1 (51:08):
I love that for her. He's doing something right because
if she's noticing it and she's like, no, this is
not good, mom, you can't you can't be you can
be doing that. Uh, you even taken him back the
first time. I don't know how you did it. I
guess for the kids. But yeah, like you said, I mean,
you sound like you're in an okay place with everything,
but that is just ough.

Speaker 10 (51:28):
Yeah, he's crazy. He's crazy, you know, and I assume
when things don't work out, he'll I'll try try to
come back again. I cannot wait to shut him down
this time. I was gonna say, play with him a
little bit. I really, I'm like, entertained him a little
bit and then just shut him down, just to you know,
so he can feel how I felt.

Speaker 1 (51:46):
I just hope you hold your ground and he doesn't
try to weasele his way back in because it will
eventually happen. And he's definitely thinking to himself, well, you know,
if this one doesn't work, I'll just go back home.
And so I hope, I hope you hold your ground.
Are you okay? And did you stay at the same
place or did you guys have had to move.

Speaker 10 (52:01):
We ended up having to move where actually, like to
Friday will be fully out of this place and in
our new place.

Speaker 3 (52:07):
All right, Well, listen, I'm sorry all of that happened.

Speaker 11 (52:10):
To you.

Speaker 1 (52:10):
However, I think you know you standing up to him
and showing the girls like this isn't what we're going
to accept is important too, Right.

Speaker 10 (52:19):
They have to see that this is not how a
father or a man treats you.

Speaker 1 (52:24):
Absolutely, do they still spend time with him.

Speaker 10 (52:27):
They do not. He has an alcohol dependency. So I've
been keeping the kids away from him because the last
time that they went there, he just absolutely blew up
on them, and I just felt like it was not
a safe place for them to be anymore. And he
needs to go through the right channels and have a
custody agreement drawn up for them to even be there.

(52:49):
But he also needs to have some kind of you know,
reprimands for the behavior that he's put them through.

Speaker 1 (52:55):
Yeah. Well, again, sorry that you're going through all this,
but you know what, it's the new year. You're gonna
have a new place. It's all gonna work out, it will.

Speaker 10 (53:02):
Right, They said, twenty twenty five years with the Year
of the Snake in twenty twenty six is supposed to
be better.

Speaker 3 (53:08):
And I think that's what the Year of the horse,
and so Santi told me this morning, the Year of
the horse.

Speaker 1 (53:13):
Giddy up, Yeah, love it.

Speaker 3 (53:15):
Yes, all right, James, all right, best of luck.

Speaker 1 (53:18):
That's tough.

Speaker 2 (53:19):
That is really tough. Esp When they just leave like
that and then come back too, because then you're going
through the whole thing again.

Speaker 1 (53:25):
Yeah. And then you call and you're like, I'm going
to tell this on the radio. I'm gonna, you know,
get this all off my chest. And then there's just
the crackling crack. When are we announcing? When are we
making the big announcement?

Speaker 2 (53:35):
I mean I will ask our program director today.

Speaker 1 (53:37):
Yeah, because there's a big there's there's something happening. I mean,
they've done until the hall. Why can't we What is
it a secret?

Speaker 2 (53:44):
I don't think it's a secret. I think they were
just trying to time and out there.

Speaker 1 (53:46):
Were new phone number.

Speaker 3 (53:47):
We have a new phone number and it's coming in hot.
We don't know what it is, but wow, what a day.

Speaker 1 (53:51):
That'll be the first person to call with the brand
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