Second Date Energy, Workplace Wreckage & Fletch’s “Very Real” Broadcasting Degree

Kat is getting ready for only her SECOND date in months… and the pressure is on. What do you wear? How do you act? Do you play it cool or immediately talk about your gut health underwear collection? The show rallies around Kat with wildly unhelpful advice.
Then we open the phones for your most unhinged workplace disaster stories — from accidental emails to HR nightmares to “I thought I was muted” moments. Let’s just say… some of you should not be allowed near a company Slack channel.
And finally, Fletch drops a bombshell: he claims he has an actual degree in broadcasting… which would make him the ONLY person in the entire building technically qualified to be on the radio. Is it real? Is it framed? Was it printed at Kinko’s in 2007? The investigation begins.
It’s dating pressure, workplace chaos, and credential controversy — just another calm morning with Big Rich, TD, and Fletch

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's big rich tdium fledged one on one five kgb

(00:02):
Disneyland tickets. We've got a four pack coming up in
the seven o'clock hour. You are an hour away from
the queue to call, so write down this number eight
eight eight five seven oh one one five.

Speaker 2 (00:14):
But ladies and.

Speaker 1 (00:14):
Gentlemen, hydro group chat, Maybe loosen that belt one more notch,
dim the lights and go ahead and tell hr it's
time to clock out. He's sweatier than a saunaut of
nudist colony. He's more confident than a guy who says
trust me with zero credentials, and he's got none. And

(00:35):
he's twice as inappropriate as a hot mic at a
work Christmas party loo fleg.

Speaker 2 (00:44):
Where fledged salts sports. So why do I have to
lose in our belt taking a big bite? You're get,
You're day right good. I do have a college degree,
so some credentials, but zero zero. We are going to
start off with the Olympics today. That degree in sports broadcasting.

(01:05):
Wait a second, your your major was broadcasting, Well, yeah,
journalism with the emphasis on broadcasting.

Speaker 1 (01:12):
What was the emphasis did you did you major in
broadcasting or minor in broadcasting?

Speaker 2 (01:18):
No, it was so it's cal poly. It's learned by doing.
So you have a major, which mine was journalism, n
make you do emphasis? Is there there?

Speaker 1 (01:26):
There's so somewhere there is written down Ben Fletcher, journalism degree.
Emphasis in broadcasting. Yeah, all right, we're gonna need yeah, yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:37):
We need that. We need to because I'm called a
lot right now. This guy says a lot of things.

Speaker 1 (01:42):
That are not true.

Speaker 2 (01:43):
That one's true hundred percent. We are going to start
all the Olympics. And speaking of workplace disasters, we just
heard from rich about fingers being cut off and bosses
throwing punches. Finland's ski jump coach, his name is Igor Mendev.
He's been sent home from the Olympics before his event
even happens because he was boozing on the job. He

(02:03):
was so do that finish. This is a Finnish coach, Yes,
the Finland head coach for the ski jump, you know,
the one where they go down the big hill and
then they fly for like two hundred yards. He has
been sent home because he was boozing a little too hard.
They won't release details outside of the fact that he
was just hammered the entire time. But what is there
a rule against being hammered as the coach. It's the Olympics,

(02:25):
so it's supposed to be a celebration.

Speaker 1 (02:27):
Telling me hold on that, like the prerequisite to ski
jumping isn't alcohol, Then, I mean, how.

Speaker 2 (02:34):
Was this sport evented? I'll tell you how A drunk, finish.

Speaker 1 (02:37):
Guy, God thank you, got completely wasted on Vodker whatever
they drink in Finland and decided to.

Speaker 2 (02:44):
Ski off his roof. Is bowling an Olympic sport? No,
but I did take bowling like five times in a
row because of the broadcast journalism emphasis. You were a
journalism major with an emphasism bowling. I knew it. I
did do a lot of bullying. I took it like
three quarters in a row. So Pittsburgh Steelers in the NFL,
they are starting to talk a little bit now that

(03:05):
the head coach, Mike Tomlin is out. Do you remember
Joey Porter, who was the linebacker on the Super Bowl team? Yep,
So he has come out and said that James Harrison
and Ben Roethlisberger both broke the brotherhood by talking about
Mike Tomlin on their podcast and that Ben Roethlisberger wasn't
only a bad teammate, but a bad person when they

(03:25):
were playing together, He says, I loved my quarterback. We
won a super Bowl together, but he's a bad person
and a bad teammate. Oh, those words are cutting teeth. Rich,
I would like you to start talking some smack about
your former quarterbacks.

Speaker 1 (03:38):
Well, I don't have smack to talk about my quarterbacks
because I was fortunate enough to play with a lot
of good ones.

Speaker 2 (03:43):
But let me say this, that isn't the first time
I've heard that. Let's put it that way well about
Ben Roethlisberger specifically, and did not argue that Joey Porter
is also kind of breaking the brotherhood by coming out
and saying all this and by the way, the.

Speaker 1 (04:00):
Whole thing, it's may he who has you know, a
clean soul cast the first stone. I mean, look, as
soon as you start pointing at somebody and saying, oh, yeah, Tomlins,
this Tomlin's that big Ben, You've got some skeletons in
your closet, buddy. I mean, there were there were some
things that we know about some of them. There were

(04:21):
some things.

Speaker 2 (04:22):
Oh yeah, that ain't good. But I'd like to see
it unfold. I would like to see for the drama.
Former Pittsburgh Steelers start coming out and talking to Schmack
because I want to know it all. Yeah, babe, we
can make a reality show. That'd be kind of fun.
All right. Finally, today is a big day in the
world of golf. The at and t pro am at
Pebble Beach opens up today. So this is part of
the best time of the golf year because you had

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Tory Pines two weeks ago, you had Arizona last week,
and then Pebble Beach today up in the Monterey Bay
area kind of area of the state here, and this
is when the celebrities go out. Bill Murray always makes
an appearance, and then all the best golfers of the world.
This is the first event on the pgates this season
that Rory is confirmed for. Is that what's on the
TV here? And you know this is a tournament like

(05:07):
Dubai clear clearly not Pebble Beach, Nonny. Well, here's the problem.
No ocean. I saw water somewhere. California's weather's been kind
of crazy over the last couple of days. Crazy. The
wind at Pebble is gonna be a problem the next few.

Speaker 1 (05:21):
Wind is the toughest to play through wind, and I
mean rain when when it's really coming down, you can't
get a hold on your grip. But I will say this,
I can't wait to see who actually golfs in this
because you'll always have a mixture of athletes and celebrities.

Speaker 2 (05:36):
What you got, TD? Oh no, I remember when you
guys invited me to go golfing in the rain. That
was funny, and you said you were gonna come, and
then you didn't go. He didn't You didn't even drive
close to the When did you guys on the third hole?
See you later?

Speaker 1 (05:51):
One to a vibe KGB the topic, doujore, what is
the most bizarre on the worksite experience you've ever had?
You know, while you're at while you're at your work,
you know you have a job, your career even and
you don't have to call him with your name if
you're worried about your boss listening or whatever it is like.
So we we one support hiding your identity if you

(06:15):
need to, but you just have to tell the story.

Speaker 2 (06:18):
We want to hear it. So the craziest on the
job experience you've ever had? We got Mike from San
Diego calling in.

Speaker 1 (06:24):
Mike apparently used to work for his buddy's cleaning service.

Speaker 2 (06:30):
What happened to you, Mike?

Speaker 3 (06:33):
Yeah, So he basically rented out places short term rentals, and.

Speaker 4 (06:42):
You know, I helped him clean and turn over the
the the places. So basically we went into this one house.

Speaker 5 (06:52):
And this guy had been there I guess like half
a year or a year somewhere.

Speaker 3 (06:59):
Close somewhere between that. But basically he kept extending his
like his rental agreement, and we went in to clean
the place and we went into like kind of the
master bedroom and where the bed was, you know, you
could see an outline of where the bed was, and
of course you know, that whole area.

Speaker 6 (07:21):
Was totally clean, but surrounding the bed was like a
layer of like cheese dust, like cheese doodle cheeto dust.

Speaker 4 (07:34):
What it was everywhere like.

Speaker 2 (07:39):
Someone was eating so many I don't know, cheetos or
or whatever, cheese puffs. There was cheese dust covering the
room everywhere. You can you buy just the cheese dust?

Speaker 7 (07:58):
Now?

Speaker 2 (07:58):
I think you can? You actually can. The dude has
a topping for maca chie. Yeah, yeah, like they put
it on popcorn. Sure, But can I take a lot
of offense to you? Ask you if this is my place. Actually, no, no, no,
this is going to be the giveaway here, Mike was
a flaming hot.

Speaker 4 (08:18):
I don't think it was flaming hot. Maybe maybe particles.

Speaker 2 (08:21):
I guess you would only know if you tasted it.
And I'm guessing he didn't take a lick, Mike, all right,
so definitely did not. This room was this was a bedroom?

Speaker 1 (08:29):
Was it carpeted or was it like a hardwood or
a different type before it was carpeted?

Speaker 4 (08:36):
No, stacked on top of the carpet like there was
like a layer.

Speaker 2 (08:40):
Of it, man. And were you able to clean it up?

Speaker 4 (08:46):
Yeah? We were able to clean it up, but you know,
we had to wear masks, and it was it was
a mask. I mean, it was pretty crazy. I don't
think whoever the guy that lived there must have been eaten.
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (08:57):
Thousands and thousands of cheese, good old cheese cuffs, man.

Speaker 2 (09:04):
Man, I can buy a two and a half pound
container of yellow cheddar cheese powder from Amazon thirty bucks.
I can have it here by tomorrow. Mork this one
twenty bucks. It's a Cheeto duster you put chs inside
of and it blends them up for you see this
guy was blending Cheetos. This is well, this is what

(09:24):
I use my little little blender for. Not for smoothies.
Yeah yeah, no, no, I use it, but not for Cheetos.
I use it for Captain Crunch when I make French toe.
Oh my god, you are living in the future. I
just pictured actual Chester Cheeto living in this apartment. This

(09:47):
guy sounds cool. Honestly to mike're able to get his number.
He seems like someone you would want to hang out.
Oh you don't want to hang Why would you want
to hang out with the.

Speaker 1 (09:57):
Cheeto dust guy with the cheetah It's a literal cheetah
moved into this apartment, all right? So Mike, last question,
So was this I mean, how long did that one
room take you to clean?

Speaker 5 (10:12):
It probably took us like three or four hours in
one room. Oh yeah, I mean usually we could turn
rooms over in like, you know, half hour something like that.

Speaker 8 (10:26):
Do you charge would you charge extra for like weird
debris or is it just like the extra hourly?

Speaker 2 (10:32):
Are you asking us because hourly? Oh man? Are you?
Were you asking cat because you wanted to come here
and clean up from the spilled demree that we have
hat here in studio. But you guys do dump drinks
on the floor daily. Man, I do want the yellow
cheddar cheese. Yeah, I feel like we could use that
for a lot of things.

Speaker 1 (10:52):
Hey, Mike, thank you so much for the call. You
kicked it off for us. But we want to hear
from you eight eight eight five seven on one one five.
You're weird on the job experience ever, we want to
hear yours, and again, your anonymity can be protected. If
you don't want to call them with your name, you
can make one up, or we could choose one for you.
If you don't want to say where you live because

(11:13):
you're worried about perturbing your current employer.

Speaker 2 (11:16):
That's fine too.

Speaker 1 (11:18):
But let's hear your weirdest on the job site experience.
It's Big Rich TD in fletch one one five KGB.

Speaker 2 (11:25):
It's just the tips with a big rich.

Speaker 1 (11:27):
Yes, yes, it is just a tip with Big Rich.
Is a little advice I slide out your way. It's
yours for the taking if you'd like it. If not,
send it back this way. Okay, So today's tip park
far away. Okay, So so don I figured TD you
would like this. Here's the reason why you are wasting
time instead of saving time circling the lot incessantly for

(11:51):
a close spot. First of all, segree you are usually
parking closer to other people who are rushing into a store,
which avails.

Speaker 2 (12:01):
More of an opportunity for door things. There's gonna be
more people in.

Speaker 1 (12:05):
And out of that spot, especially if you're going to
take a while to shop. Here's the other thing about
it you don't think about. So you park further away,
you're actually adding steps. You know how everybody says, oh,
you got to walk ten thousand steps. Well, maybe that's true,
maybe it's not, but I do know this. You're getting
more exercise. San Diego is not a cold weather city.
So if you park further away, say you're adding one

(12:27):
hundred steps every time you do this over the course
of a year, that's probably hundreds of miles by the
time you get through a three hundred and sixty five
day year.

Speaker 2 (12:38):
I like all this tip. I like the whole thing.

Speaker 4 (12:40):
Now.

Speaker 1 (12:41):
The reason why you like this tip is because you
do not want anybody to park near your car.

Speaker 2 (12:47):
You would park on the moon to avoid I don't
want a door ding, I don't want to scratch and
for some reason when even when I park far far away,
people decide, you know what, we should park right next
to that gas. Yeah, and I'll be all alone. So
you got to find a spot that's either near a
like a planter, so you have some space on one side.
Then you hug that planter as close as you can get,

(13:09):
I mean like one sheet of paper between your tire
and the curb. And then and then you leave space
on the other side. Or you should move to Wyoming, no,
somewhere where there's no people. I'm gonna give another tip,
and this is one. This one's not exactly that mean's
a little cold. This one's not llegal. You want to
hear this tip.

Speaker 1 (13:26):
I'm sure travel with two parking cotings, but yeah, you
park cone in front of the two spaces next to you.

Speaker 2 (13:33):
Yeah, that's that. That seems pretty harsh. Someone would keep
my car well, yeah.

Speaker 1 (13:38):
If they saw you. That's why you also have to
be very very sneaky. I'm not very ninja like. Just
a tip with bigger it's it's one one five kg.
Be collecting your stories the weirdest or craziest work experience
you ever had on the job. We want to hear
from you this morning. It's bigger. It's TD and Fletch.
The number to dials eight eight eight five, seven oh

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one one five. We go to Eve, our buddy from
Scripts Ranch, who actually baked a cake for Kendall Fletch's
wife's birthday. This was a couple of weekends back. Eve,
Good morning. I heard the cake was awesome.

Speaker 4 (14:12):
Man, Yeah, that's what I say. But I know this
one is really good on you.

Speaker 7 (14:15):
You should try it because you said you upcoming since
last here.

Speaker 2 (14:20):
That's true, that's true. You know the problem is you
gave me bad directions. I ended up. I ended up
in you.

Speaker 4 (14:29):
You get you get to blame Google.

Speaker 2 (14:31):
Yeah, that's right, that's right.

Speaker 1 (14:33):
So you've owned a bakery for a while, you've worked
in pastry for a long time, You've worked with chefs.
I know that restaurants and that whole food service environment can.

Speaker 2 (14:42):
Get wild at times.

Speaker 1 (14:44):
What's the craziest job site experience you've ever had?

Speaker 2 (14:48):
Well, it's one of them.

Speaker 7 (14:49):
But when I first moved here in the midnight beginning
of nineties, I used to work after American Hotel in Coronado,
and we had a couple of waiting cake to to
do that day and a couple of our everything was decorated.

Speaker 4 (15:05):
We had played up to do as well, and everything
was decorated.

Speaker 7 (15:09):
In excuse me in in a walking and we went
on looked at those cakes and someone had stuck two
bananas and one onion in.

Speaker 4 (15:19):
Each cake and it was chaos.

Speaker 2 (15:23):
And one on one. Yeah, we found the guy.

Speaker 7 (15:27):
I mean the thing was crazy because panic right, yeah,
I mean it was in two hours when we had
to redo all the cake and we had to find out.

Speaker 4 (15:36):
Who was who was a crazy guy?

Speaker 2 (15:40):
And uh he happened.

Speaker 7 (15:41):
There was one guy who used to work at the gardmound,
the kitchen, and he was a tamp and he was
he looked a little crazy and he denied it.

Speaker 4 (15:51):
But on his uh, on his apron there was mark
of because he.

Speaker 7 (15:56):
Stuck his finger as well, there was there was mark
all so that cake on the on the front, so
he was this film was right there.

Speaker 2 (16:06):
This feels like an episode of Silver Spoons. Yeah something.
By the way, he did it wrong. It's supposed to
be two onions and one banana. Thank you.

Speaker 1 (16:13):
I was so glad that you asked for clarification. I
was like, this guy screwed it all up. What a
crazy situation. So you had two wedding cakes and you
had a wedding that was two hours away, and some
knucklehead who was a town working in the kitchen deface
the cakes and created.

Speaker 2 (16:29):
All this this nightmare for the kitchen.

Speaker 4 (16:33):
It was crazy.

Speaker 2 (16:34):
Did you you were? Were you able to fix the
cake and save the day. Yeah, we will.

Speaker 4 (16:38):
But the patronship we used to work with me at
the big over there.

Speaker 7 (16:42):
He was an older gentleman and he went crazy, I
mean the older French style, French style type of chefs.

Speaker 4 (16:49):
So that was that was I would say that was.

Speaker 2 (16:55):
You just had to You had to use that cake
for a bachelorette party. Yeah, yeah, you already had. You
already have the molds cut out. Eve. Thanks for the call, brother,
and again thank you for making Fletcher's wife Kendall's birthday
so special and all the goods you bring in from
the French Alvenanda. It's just incredible.

Speaker 1 (17:13):
The best best charlong chap coup game ever had, easily
and the croissants on or as Eve calls him, croissans,
it's there.

Speaker 2 (17:21):
Absolutely Okay.

Speaker 1 (17:26):
I love you man, capsulater buddy. If you have a
crazy on the job experience you'd like to share with
us this morning. We want to hear from you. Eight
and eight five seven oh one on one, one on
one five kg B. It's bigg Rich, TD and Fletch.
What old is new again? That's what's coming up on trending.
We've got a conspiracy theory from the nineties. Was it

(17:48):
suicide or was it murder? Oh my god, I cannot
wait to dive into this, which with Travis Dale, our
very own TD on trending with TD that's coming up
in just a few minutes. But first we're asking you
for your workplace disasters, the craziest job site experiences you've
ever had?

Speaker 2 (18:07):
Eight eight eight five seven oh one o one five.
We go now to Sherry from Escandido.

Speaker 1 (18:11):
Sherry, what's the craziest on the job experience you ever encountered.

Speaker 9 (18:15):
I was a manager of a self standing shoe store
manager and they used to move me around. So I
was in this location and I had a couple come up,
a man and a woman come up to buy shoes,
and they were buying a lot of shoes. So back then,
this tells you how old the story is. You didn't
have automatic authorizations with credit cards you had to call

(18:37):
in the credit card information to get an authorization if
it was over a dollar amount. So I did. I
called it in and they put me on hold real
fast and said, oh, wait a minute, we need you
to hang on the line for just a second. And
so I waited, and when they came back on it
was the fraud and Security department. Apparently this part had

(18:57):
been stolen in an armed robbery the night.

Speaker 2 (19:00):
WHOA, where they.

Speaker 9 (19:03):
They took the car. They took the woman's purse, her
car for everything. WHOA, yeah, they said, so are they
they're in this? I said, yeah, they're here waiting to
buy a lot of shoes and it's going to make
my day. So let's get me an authorization.

Speaker 2 (19:17):
Yeah. Yeah, they go by, they go by Bonnie and Clyde.

Speaker 1 (19:22):
Yeah, so I'm assuming they authorized and that's the end
of the store.

Speaker 9 (19:27):
No, no, oh, contraire. I actually had to stay in
the line with them for ten to fifteen minutes because
they were getting mall security, they were getting the police,
they were getting everybody to converge upon my store and asking,
you know, are you okay? Are you comfortable? I said, yeah,
I just I need you guys to speed this up
because if I lose this sale, it's going to kill

(19:47):
my day. And so at the same time, I'm looking
at them going, hey, I'm really sorry, but I really
need this sale. It's going to make my whole day.
Can you please be patient? And yeah, yeah, okay. So
after about ten minutes and then keeping me on the
line the whole time, the police and mall security showed
up to arrest up.

Speaker 1 (20:09):
One hundred. Wow, what a bunch of dumb criminals. They
were like, yeah, it's taken a while, but everything's on
the up and up till this should be fine.

Speaker 2 (20:17):
Yeah, we'll hang out while you get that authorization. No
big deal, Sherry, Thank you so much for the story.
That's crazy. Sherry was in the middle of a bus.
She made it go down.

Speaker 1 (20:27):
That's incredible sting operation at the shoe store at the mall.

Speaker 2 (20:32):
It's scary. Absolutely.

Speaker 1 (20:34):
Do we got another call in the line? Fledged Oh
we do? Oh yeah, we got Navy Dave on the line.
Navy Dave, you're up next, Dave from San Diego. What's
the craziest on the job experience you've ever had?

Speaker 10 (20:45):
Warner Sports fans, I hope you're having the best Thursday ever.
So crazy, crazy job experience. So we're in the shipyard
early on in my naval career, and let's say, you
know during the early years that wasn't a model citizen.
Oh I was on restriction, me and another guy, and
we're supposed to be closing out this tank, like cleaning
his tank and closing out this tank, but it was

(21:06):
already clean, you know. So we're just in there assing around,
wasting time. And boss came down and he started yelling
through the little porthole that we crawled through to get
into this tank. He guys clean and blah blah blah.
We started talking trash to you, big fat nasty, greasy coffee,
drinking cigarettes, smoking breaths, tanking sandwich stealing, big fat nasty guy.

(21:32):
And he took off his shirt and his T shirt,
slatthered his midriff with the gentle purpose grease that brown stuff.

Speaker 4 (21:39):
Oh god, and he came.

Speaker 10 (21:41):
He came sliming through this hole like an octopus. And
when we saw that, we were like, we're climbing the
walls of this trying to get away from him. He
came in like just like I said, he just kind
of slimmed through the hole and started screaming, and we
were like, ah, we're.

Speaker 2 (21:55):
Terrified birth but in reverse like an you know, I'll
tell you right now, David, that is.

Speaker 1 (22:08):
A wild story watching a sailor loube up and squeeze
himself through a porthole. This sounds like a very different experience.
Good Lord, Thank you, Bavy Dave. It never fails to
impress her surprise, all right, Jessica Rabbit Jessica from Alcohol, Hey,
real quick, do you have a story, a crazy story

(22:29):
from the job site?

Speaker 9 (22:31):
I do.

Speaker 2 (22:32):
So.

Speaker 8 (22:33):
I worked just from my first job at pet shop.
It's very clerk to style environment.

Speaker 2 (22:38):
So I'm heading to the back to get something.

Speaker 10 (22:42):
And I hear this loud, like freaking.

Speaker 9 (22:45):
The booms, like I thought a car.

Speaker 8 (22:47):
Had crashed into the back of the building.

Speaker 9 (22:49):
I'm like, what the hell? Hey, my manager and the
new girl, they come running out of the bag dressed
in freaking water like she's a squeez Like they're like
drenched freaking water from heads to home. What the hell
is going on? So they were looking up in the
bathroom in the back and the sink ended up being

(23:12):
h busted off the walls.

Speaker 2 (23:15):
Oh wow, I mean someone was maybe on the sink. Yeah,
for leverage. Oh man, okay, cow you win?

Speaker 1 (23:28):
Yeah, yea, I guess, I guess Cardi b was ride.

Speaker 2 (23:33):
We're gonna need a bucket and the moup. That is unbelievable.
Thank you, Jessica rabb It. If you ever had a.

Speaker 1 (23:41):
Crazy on the job site experience, in the workplace experience,
we want to hear from you this morning. We got
this party started when I was talking about my days
back working in a deli, and we have heard some
crazy stories. Now we want to hear yours. Eight and
eight five seven, one.

Speaker 2 (23:56):
On one five one Frending with Gene Simmons is ripping
the rock and roll Hall of Fame for embracing hip hop.
He's saying it's not my music, which I don't know.
I'm kind of half and half on this. I understand
where he's coming from. That's not rock and roll. But
also rock and roll can be whatever it wants to
be because that's rock and roll. Also, Beastie Boys are

(24:19):
kind of rock and roll.

Speaker 1 (24:20):
Yeah, it's there are crossovers with every genre, There's no
question about it. It's it's hard, right, you know. I
Walk this Way from Aerosmith is in a hit without Run.
DMC correct. And here's the other thing about.

Speaker 2 (24:33):
It points a good point.

Speaker 1 (24:35):
This comes from the standpoint of somebody who really thinks
halls of Fame are extremely stupid. So right, I mean
for anybody to get really hot and bothered about it,
they sound really dumb to me.

Speaker 2 (24:46):
So yeah, I mean, but the Rock and Roll Hall
of Fame is kind of the music Hall of Fame
at this point, right.

Speaker 8 (24:52):
Yeah, because there are people from there's a lot of
hip hop artists, especially now.

Speaker 2 (24:56):
I feel like that crossover is bigger than ever. They
just change the name of the hall, just call it
the Hallway, yeah, or just call it call it.

Speaker 1 (25:04):
The Rock Hall and then just change it to rocks
of sedimentary ignius or metamorphic quality.

Speaker 2 (25:10):
I'd make a trip out there. Yeah, Oh my god.
Cheula Vista the film capital of the world. That is
a man named Aaron Roberts. He said he's going to
create a ninety thousand square foot studio space in Cheula
Vista that could one day also become a soundstage for
movies and television shows. The Cheula Vista Entertainment Center would

(25:31):
create a space for photographers, podcasters, and digital creatives to
work and ultimately bring movie and TV filming out to Cheulavista.
Who's looking to do that? Aaron Roberts, not the quarterback. Okay, yeah,
this does, said Rogers.

Speaker 1 (25:45):
Sound idea wow, because literally, in droves, people are fleeing
from California, Yeah, to do production because it's cheaper and
less regulated in Texas and Nevada, in Arizona, in other
countries in Ireland.

Speaker 2 (26:00):
Georgia and Texas have become huge filming spots.

Speaker 9 (26:03):
Yeah.

Speaker 8 (26:03):
True. I wonder though if a lot of those regulations
are Los Angeles specific versus California, and maybe the city
of Chula Vista has looser rules.

Speaker 2 (26:13):
Maybe maybe there's probably some in there that I'm sure
that are Los Angeles specific. And part of the problem
with filming in Los Angeles is they painted all the
bike lanes green, so now when they try to do
different cities around the country, they can't film in downtown
LA because it has green bike lanes.

Speaker 8 (26:30):
Yes.

Speaker 2 (26:30):
Ce bizarre. And there's a new forensic study that's reigniting
that debate over Kurt Cobain's death. This challenges the nineteen
ninety four suicide ruling. It's an independent, peer reviewed study
that claims Nirvana's frontman's autopsy and crime scene evidence point
to a homicide and it was a staged suicide. So

(26:52):
this is two different people here that independently decided they
were going to go look at this. One of them
was here from San Diego. Wow, you CSD Brian. I
can't find the last name Frankston. That's him. That's the guy.

Speaker 8 (27:05):
Always been theories about Kurt Cobain's death. And the thing
about now is that you have more evidence that you
can actually look into now in the twenty twenties versus
back in the nineties.

Speaker 2 (27:17):
We're going to have DNA abilities back then the way
that we do now.

Speaker 8 (27:20):
So that's why you see a lot of cold cases
get solved thirty forty years later.

Speaker 2 (27:24):
Yeah, but what's crazy is that so they can They
said they looked at the evidence and within three minutes said, oh,
this is not a suicide. This is a stage suicide.
Then brought the evidence to Seattle PD, and Seattle PD
said not enough for us to reopen the case, so
they immediately shut it down. But there's a list of
different items. One thing was how clean the area was,

(27:47):
which looked like somebody had set up a suicide. Yeah,
and also I don't know the way that the because
he was he had used drugs prior to the suicide,
and the way that the drug were set up, the
heroin the needles were covered and it was set aside.

Speaker 1 (28:05):
It wouldn't have been as clean like things would have
been dropped there blood this way.

Speaker 2 (28:10):
Yeah, the way his arm was sitting was not the Yeah.
I also think the study said there was way more
heroin in his system than there would be from somebody
just doing it themselves. Well yeah, yeah, so it was
like ten times the amount if somebody was just like
somebody had injected him. And and also the autopsy showed
that there was brain failure and lung failure. So that

(28:33):
wouldn't have happened if he would have killed himself right
because he was, he would have been not conscious and
on his way to death, died from the overdose before
he died unshot. So how would that constantly have happened?
You can't shoot yourself if you already did exactly, So
interesting because I mean, we were we were told long
time that there was no way. Can't shoot yourself if

(28:54):
you're already done. Yeah, write that down honestly, would have
been a pretty good Nirvana song, you know.

Speaker 1 (29:00):
What no easy segues in talk radio. Now, Disneyland tickets everywhere?
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Speaker 2 (29:21):
It's big ratch TD and fledged one one five KGB.

Speaker 1 (29:24):
We got Linda from Chula Vista driving around the grandkids
in the car this morning. Eight eight eight five seven
oh one O one five is the number you need
a dial if you want to be in the running
for Disneyland tickets.

Speaker 2 (29:35):
Good morning, Linda, how are you doing?

Speaker 9 (29:38):
Oh my gosh, I'm having a great morning. I think
my grandkids just got in the car and I'm talking
to you guys who are wonderful in the morning.

Speaker 2 (29:49):
Okay, Linda, you're saying all the right things. How many
grandkids are in the car with you right now?

Speaker 11 (29:54):
I have two?

Speaker 9 (29:55):
I have a sixth grader and a sixth grader.

Speaker 2 (30:00):
And what are their names? What are their names?

Speaker 9 (30:03):
Can we give him a little Mikey? We have Mikey
who's in sixth grade.

Speaker 2 (30:08):
And Lilah, who's well, Mikey and Lilah.

Speaker 1 (30:12):
Turn the radio up. Let's hear it out loud. Do
you want to go to Disneyland?

Speaker 9 (30:17):
Yeah, Yla, she's doing a subject.

Speaker 2 (30:22):
Are fired up, guys, Fletch, hang up on them. We'll
take the Disneyland tickets.

Speaker 9 (30:35):
Excited? You know, I am really happy about that.

Speaker 2 (30:39):
Yeah, we're all happy for you. It's a family four
pack of one day, one park tickets. You're using three
of them, which means you got one left. You want
to take one of us?

Speaker 1 (30:47):
Yeah, you got your choice between Big Rich TD Cat
of course Fletch, who's in quite a mood this morning
because I was teasing him about his broadcast degree.

Speaker 2 (30:58):
But who would you like to take to Disney?

Speaker 9 (31:00):
Oh my gosh, you're putting me in a spot. But
you know, I do have the one ticket, and I'm
not sure where I want to go with it.

Speaker 2 (31:07):
Okay, he's gonna make us work for it.

Speaker 1 (31:09):
I'll tell you what I fine. I am carrying and
nurturing love here. That's all I can offer me.

Speaker 2 (31:16):
Do you have other grandkids or just the two?

Speaker 11 (31:18):
Oh no, no, no, I have four grandkids right here
in Tulivist. But then I have grandkids that are in
the Chicago area and great grandkids.

Speaker 2 (31:30):
Wow, you've got you. I'll tell you what. Diasneyland is
going to be happy because you need to buy nine tickets.
Linda's good or Linda's gonna have to choose favorites. Mikey.
Apparently you pass the test. You better get excited back there.

Speaker 1 (31:47):
Hey, Linda, hang on the line. We need a little
more information from you. Congrats on the big win. You're
going to Disneyland, and if you want to win tickets
to Disneyland, we're gonna have more tickets coming up in
the eight o'clock hour. Just wait for the queue to call,
and the number to dial is eight ah eight five
seven oh one on one five it's bigg h tdum
fletch one one five kg b b it's big htdum

(32:08):
fletch on a Thursday, and uh it's barkard Eve. We
that's right, have yet to find out what is coming
through the doors on a barquard Friday.

Speaker 2 (32:18):
And you know I forgot to ask, Yeah, I forgot
to uh to poke the bear. But I will say this.

Speaker 1 (32:24):
We're almost a full week away from the Big Game
tailgate party and we have to give another shout out
to all of yous showed up who hung out with
us in the morning last week. In fact, around this
time on Friday last week, can b Bistro was about
one hundred and fifteen to one hundred and thirty people deep.

Speaker 2 (32:45):
Yeah, that was a good time because to a crowd.

Speaker 8 (32:48):
I love when the crowd is there because they're interacting
with each other. We get to go hang out with everybody.
You meet some new listeners that we haven't met in
person before. That was my favorite party that we've had
so far.

Speaker 2 (32:58):
Yeah, that was a good one one. Not just people though.
Oh no, there was a goat. There was a goat.
There was a goat. Diane brought uh Lucy the Big
Game goat out. She does goat yoga. Gotga dot com
is where you can go if you want to do
some goat yoga. Where's that one at? It's Alpine. Okay,
we do know who's coming in tomorrow. Who's It's the

(33:19):
Bourbon Pursuit guys. They host the podcast. They're awesome. All right,
it'll be a fun, fun day. It's gonna be a
whiskey Friday.

Speaker 10 (33:28):
Your good Days.

Speaker 1 (33:29):
So one of the funniest things that's happened to this
show over the course of time is there was there
was a moment where barkhar Friday went away for a
little while and we had a conversation with a couple
of people in the building and it was like, yeah,
we're just gonna pivot, and we're like, why, it's just
like someone died. Yeah, we we love we built a
bark card for the love of God, I mean, we

(33:50):
can't pivot.

Speaker 2 (33:51):
And so we were told, no, the bark cart's got.

Speaker 1 (33:53):
To be hidden in a production studio and you guys,
I mean, maybe just back away from those barkhard Fridays.

Speaker 2 (33:59):
And we said, but again, why.

Speaker 1 (34:02):
So what we started doing instead is whiskey Wednesdays. Clearly
the day was the issue.

Speaker 2 (34:10):
We did get away with that for a little while.
It looks like three or four of them.

Speaker 1 (34:13):
The very funny conversation when we got found out for
that one, they were like, you know, there was nothing
wrong with the day Friday, right, The problem was all
the drinking.

Speaker 2 (34:22):
Yeah, yeah, because Thursday Thursday was also no go.

Speaker 1 (34:26):
So we petitioned the mayor, we got we got you know,
public action involved in that, and therefore park Our Friday
came back in a big way.

Speaker 2 (34:34):
Actually, yeah, which is.

Speaker 8 (34:35):
Kind of what the mayor is doing now with parking
at Bubble Park really took away.

Speaker 2 (34:39):
He's like, no, we'll give you a little bit back.
And now they drink, yeah, yeah, now they drink on Fridays,
which is God blessed San Diego and God bless America.

Speaker 1 (34:50):
All right, it's Big Rich TD and fledged Hey, download
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(35:12):
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Speaker 2 (35:15):
Okay. In the interim, we've got oh my god, coffee,
I just out of the way to see as quick.

Speaker 4 (35:24):
There I have.

Speaker 2 (35:31):
So fun fact about me. I'm a little clumsy.

Speaker 8 (35:37):
And so that's a fun fact. A fun fact would
be like, oh, I like to run in my spare time.
That's not fun either, Philly and gone to be making
a mess. It is fun for nobody.

Speaker 1 (35:50):
So here on Big Rich tdum fledged chat Chad gets
really upset at me because me big Rich, I'll come
in with coffee and I.

Speaker 2 (35:59):
Don't really love lids.

Speaker 1 (36:01):
I don't unco like, I'll tolerate them, but Mike, I
would prefer to drink a lidless beverage can with you.

Speaker 2 (36:09):
For a lot of things that I know I just
can't handle.

Speaker 8 (36:11):
You cannot handle a lidless cup because you knocked everything
over Rich.

Speaker 2 (36:17):
Spilled.

Speaker 8 (36:18):
You have spilled twice today, okay, in the last forty
five minutes.

Speaker 1 (36:21):
In fact, okay, the first one. The first one was
an accident. I was just in excitement and exclamation, was
pounding my fist in the table and its spilled all over.
The second one was the second one was an accident.
Oh yeah, sorry, thank you. And the second one cat
was also accidents.

Speaker 8 (36:38):
Regardless, you need lids, Rich, because you are not to
be trusted.

Speaker 2 (36:43):
Well, I'm gonna get that lid. It would have spilled
unless though that was lidless, and so the whole sixteen
ounces of coffee went everywhere.

Speaker 10 (36:51):
It was.

Speaker 8 (36:54):
Yeah, you just stared at it as an inch closer
and closer to the buttons that we need to use
to our microphones.

Speaker 2 (37:00):
On you watch this, I'm gonna turn mine on and off.
Just keep just keep it off, keep it off. They
are pretty sticky. It was working though, so no harm,
no foul t. Today might be the day there what
that cat kills Rich? I mean, that was a bad day.

(37:21):
Hold on the morning started with with cat saying that
she can't stand me most days, and I said most days,
and then she changed it to all days.

Speaker 1 (37:31):
And then and then you went well, mainly only like
five days a month, and then all of a sudden,
that was a little harsh.

Speaker 8 (37:38):
But the two of your tables, a table such agrees
the two of you, Rich and TD are really irritating today.

Speaker 2 (37:47):
You guys are rare form. Why this is irritating today?
It might be purple nurples to go around for the
boys talk about you keep your hands off of this
glorious body. Actually, the only person.

Speaker 1 (38:01):
I've worked with it so far in this building who's
gotten a talking to from the superior about about keeping
his hands to sad.

Speaker 2 (38:08):
This is because of excessive nipple touching.

Speaker 1 (38:11):
We're not even kidding. There was a live broadcast we
once did downtown in San Jo. Yeah, it was it
was like a podcasts pregame show, and he got hammered
and just was touching everyone's nipples and then unbuttoned his
shirt and he was touching his own nipples alot.

Speaker 2 (38:28):
For some reason, you decided to do the broadcast leaning
back in a chair three feet from the microphone, with
your shirt unbuttoned and tu sher sunglass. It was the
green list. And then I get a phone call of
what the hell is going on down there? I don't know,
I don't know. You just live in the dream.

Speaker 1 (38:47):
Yeah. We At one point we laughed and Fletch took
over the broadcast on his own, and you can imagine
how it went.

Speaker 2 (38:55):
Flawlessly broadcast made flawlessly exception.

Speaker 10 (39:00):
Wow on it.

Speaker 2 (39:03):
I'm sure it was great. I'm not I'm not kidding.
I love this show, but you're the only one I
like to say. Thanks.

Speaker 9 (39:10):
Wow.

Speaker 8 (39:10):
That was like.

Speaker 2 (39:12):
It's big rich TD and Fletch.

Speaker 1 (39:15):
It is one of those moments where we feel like,
finally the whole is complete. The masts are erected. We
can break a bottle of champagne on the stern. We
can we can slap her right on the tush and
send her off into the wild and say you're ready Cat,

(39:37):
you are ready to date, has been in training, she
has been watching montages that we've put together for her,
and finally she is going out into the wild and
dating a man.

Speaker 2 (39:53):
Congratulations, Cat, congratulations, thank you. No, you did, but now
you had to secure this date with someone you already know.
Well that's not a bad thing.

Speaker 10 (40:07):
No.

Speaker 8 (40:07):
I like going out with people that I already know, Okay,
because you know, you already know.

Speaker 2 (40:14):
What to expect. There's not like the variable of what
if this person sucks? What if I don't like them?
What if they don't like me? But but you try
to you've already determined, yeah, you never know, right right, right, Well,
you've already determined this person does not suck and you
do like them, yes, but you've already determined as well
that you don't like them for the long term. Yes,

(40:39):
I just I'm just curious how come it didn't work
the first time? So this is an old flame that
flickered out?

Speaker 8 (40:46):
Yes, okay, yeah, several times over over, Like this is
somebody that I have known for many years, and it's
always been like maybe i'll see you, maybe.

Speaker 1 (40:56):
I won't type of thing, you know. Okay, So the
universe keeps bring you. I'm gonna, I'm gonna, I'm gonna
sort of read between the lines here. Well, Cat's describing
as a booty call. Okay, right, that is not true. Okay,
well right, I mean listen you. If I was the
person receiving this information, I'd be like, okay, yes, understood,

(41:22):
I understand the assignment.

Speaker 2 (41:23):
Okay, So is there any place selected for the dinners
so far? Yes? Oh there is. Oh that's good. Okay,
you don't have to say where because obviously droves of
people will show up. Well, I've worried about you guys
showing up. So no, I'm not gonna. I'm not gonna
say what we're doing.

Speaker 8 (41:38):
But there's a time, there's a location. He's picking me
up at a specific time, and I'm sure we'll have.

Speaker 2 (41:42):
A great night. CD saw that tracker we put on
Cat's car. Yep, that's crazy. I wouldn't do that. Yeah,
what are you talking about? We had to replace the
magnetic one. Yeah, it's insane. It's insane. Air attacking her purse.
Remember if I share my location with you guys anymore
or not? Usually I share it.

Speaker 8 (41:59):
Yeah, I phone when I'm going out of the country.
But I feel like I stop doing that now.

Speaker 2 (42:05):
I have shared mine indefinitely. Can if the three of
us showed up on your date, it would go better?
Oh yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. You probably wouldn't go home
with him. We would probably go out with them after
your date. Yes, dude, you should have a stop by.
Absolutely not. Why just like a stopping chat. We won't
make two hours top like, It'll just be the three

(42:25):
of us who just happened to go by this romantic as.

Speaker 8 (42:28):
Would never be out in the place that I'm going out, Yes,
we abs.

Speaker 2 (42:37):
Is it in North Park? Yes? Okay, I'm always in
North Park? You've never gone to North Park. I'm always
searching for parks? Great map? Where's that great Mabel? Is
that in North Park? Actually? Think that is Hillcrest? So
I've been to the breakfast bee that was in Hillcrest.
There's a lot of it, it's not there. I have

(42:57):
also been to a pharmacy there to deliver don't Is
there a thought process of having this happened two days
before Valentine's Day?

Speaker 11 (43:06):
No?

Speaker 2 (43:08):
I think no, What do you mean You're you looking
for vale Valentine?

Speaker 8 (43:13):
No, because then I would be looking for somebody to
hang out with on Valentine's Night.

Speaker 2 (43:20):
It's odd. It's odd that you didn't say Valentine's Day
because that is the that is the day nobody goes
out during the day on Valentine's Hold on, it will
be there will be a day that you guys can
go on a date with me.

Speaker 1 (43:37):
But but okay, say this date goes really well, all right,
and everything completes the way you want it to happen,
whatever that means, will you.

Speaker 2 (43:48):
Then invite us on the second date?

Speaker 9 (43:49):
No?

Speaker 2 (43:50):
Wait, I can't wait. You guys got back up? Back up?
What this feels like. We're going to prom right, So
I don't know, like you're going to prompt and then
you don't if you drop your kid off to prompt, Yeah,
you drop them off. Then you got to take pictures. Yeah,
we got to do the whole thing, you know, So
I feel like we should be a part of that.

(44:11):
Will take some pictures of you guys together, all of users.
Booteer for the guy, Corssage for the We need to
interview this guy find out what his intentions are with
our Catherine. Okay, that's right, that's right. But we know
we need to find out what you're wearing, so we
know what corsage to buy. Yeah, I don't know yet.

(44:32):
I'm going to pick out an outfit. I will let
you guys help in that process later day.

Speaker 1 (44:37):
Also, like, we need to size this guy up just
in case his intentions aren't pure.

Speaker 2 (44:41):
Can we fight him to the death? Can we kick
his ass?

Speaker 1 (44:44):
Cat?

Speaker 2 (44:44):
Yeah, he's bigger than all of you guys, bigger than
big Rich. He is bigger than Rich. That is no
way that is I promise on trending with t D
A big, big day in the twenty twenty six Winter
Olympics yesterday because the United States is surging in the

(45:05):
medal count whoa, yes, now tied for second in overall
medals Norway and sitting in third place behind Norway in Italy,
which I have questions about, see in the host being
the host city and all of a sudden you have
all the golds. Yeah sure, yeah, especially for.

Speaker 8 (45:24):
The things that are judged, Like how do we not
know that these aren't Italian judges that are biased?

Speaker 11 (45:29):
Right?

Speaker 2 (45:30):
Yeah? I watched it for probably like four hours last night.
The third place in the gold medal count. By the way,
I don't think I said that. Ah, And what's cool
about this year's Olympics, and they do this every year,
but it feels like they really ratcheted up this year.
Is in between primetime coverage and the re airing of
the primetime coverage, they do essentially forty five minutes of
stories that just make you cry. Oh really if you

(45:51):
want to watch, like it's the backstory of all our Olympians,
US Olympians cool who are there, and it's pretty incredible. Man,
the guy who won gold for US last night in
speed skating, his dad used to wake up at like
four in the morning to take his John Deere lawnmower
out to their little frozen lake in their backyard and
make a path for him to go train because it
was forty five minutes to the closest uh skating rink.

(46:13):
Sounds like I didn't want to pay for a skating
rink or his dad did not use a mower that
was supposed to be for the lawn, not for the lake.
I'm just kidding. Hockey starts today. By the way, I
have not been able to get into any Olympics at all.
I flip over to it and I watched for about

(46:34):
thirty seconds. Ago I'd watched the one Where's Where's Mat Hamilton. Yeah,
a fair bit of curling as a result of Matt Hamilton.
That's about it. Today, twelve o'clock on Peacock or NBC
the official start of the US men's hockey run for
a gold medal. Okay, okay, and you can get into that.
So everybody take off work and get to watching the

(46:54):
Olympics or just start betting on it that way, you care. Cool? Wow,
and a hip man. Here in San Diego, teenagers have
been throwing illegal parties in vacant houses in San Diego County.
It's now making national news. There's been five of them
that happened in the past thirty days. And they're ruining

(47:14):
these houses. Okay if these parties are at and my
only question is where are the parties catch you?

Speaker 8 (47:19):
Yeah, it looks like they're sending out flyers on social
media just to their own friends, and then you have
to be able to DM them so that they know
who you are to get the address, and then yeah,
they're showing up. They're breaking into homes that are for sale. Essentially,
I mean I could.

Speaker 1 (47:35):
Be part of as a homeowner. I would hate, oh
my if it happened to me. As a reputable responsible parent.
I would hate if my kids were involved in this
or partiers in this. Now having that I was once
a teenager and these guys what are their names? Coolest,

(47:57):
coolest kid? Yeah, just call me cc hey coolest kid. Sure,
I've done this. You're a party in high school in Merceill.

Speaker 2 (48:08):
This was a block you. But here's the thing. When
we were doing it, there wasn't social media to report
on it. This has been going on forever. This was
the life pack of the teenage years. If somebody broke
into my house I was trying to sell and had
a party, I would use the damage is so substantial.
They're letting off fireworks inside the hall. Oh I know,

(48:29):
I can't. We got shot at once. Where they get
the fireworks. I have no idea where they're getting the fireworks.
I'll tell you where Medico maybe, yeah, And I'll also tell.

Speaker 1 (48:39):
You now yes again, never remember that as an option.
Agree with TD and I don't like this. But at
the same time, if I were a teenager and somebody's like,
oh my god, last night's party was so cool. We
went to the Percy's Old Residents that they're trying to
sell and we set off fireworks in their kitchen counter.

Speaker 8 (49:00):
So I actually saw a clip on the news of
because somebody had reported that there was a party happening
at one of these vacant homes, probably a neighbor nearby
that knew this wasn't supposed to be happening.

Speaker 2 (49:09):
Of course, so the cops show up, news news shows up, and.

Speaker 8 (49:13):
There's just droves of teenagers and maybe people in the
early twenties going out.

Speaker 2 (49:17):
Of this house.

Speaker 9 (49:18):
And that.

Speaker 8 (49:20):
Aren't even arresting. People on the cops say because they
can't tell who who actually started the party, because you know,
if I get in by it, it's not anybody's house.
I'm not at fault I show up to a party.

Speaker 1 (49:31):
You should start doing this, But we're gonna do it.
Like so, it's just a bunch of dads in the
neighborhood who take over a vacant house just so we
could watch like the documentaries.

Speaker 2 (49:40):
We got to just take our own house and throw
everything out in the front yard I experience.

Speaker 1 (49:47):
We're just we're just rewatching the Jordan doc and having
some sensible bourbon.

Speaker 8 (49:51):
Honestly, honest, none of you guys would go to a
house party, you guys part I totally would if it
was a party, one the full or one to three.

Speaker 1 (50:01):
Do that.

Speaker 2 (50:02):
TD would probably like rewire the living room to make
it work better. Property Yeah, yeah, exactly right.

Speaker 1 (50:07):
It was like they had a plumbing issue in the
primary ansary bathroom.

Speaker 2 (50:11):
So I figured I solve it for that. You didn't
have many outlets I've put in just because things are inconvenient.
Happiness research researchers Sonya Laam Bijorsky, Professor of psychology at
the University of California, Riverside. She's a relationship expert as
well as a happiness researcher. She says that the secret
to happiness that we have been searching our entire lives for,

(50:36):
it's just be feeling love. Just to be feeling loved
by others. That's how you need kat. You did not
provide that this morning. Yeah, you walked in and you
actually did the opposite.

Speaker 8 (50:45):
He told us, said that, he told me how clumbs.
Yeah I was, yes, I did say you need to
use lists. You're not to be trusted with lidless cups.
You still two different types.

Speaker 2 (50:55):
Of you despise him for that piece of cake. She
was like a really rich Yeah, Jesus, that's so I
didn't say that. Somebody did send in. Are these David's cookies?
But they're like cupcakes and I've only had three, there

(51:16):
were only six. They're big. Well that that's half of them. Man,
how about happiness research at Disneyland? Okay, huh you feeling me?
I'm feeling you.

Speaker 1 (51:28):
We have a four pack of tickets and if you
want to win them, you need to call right now.
Eight a' eight five seven oh one one five is
the number to dial in that order. If your caller ten,
you're going to Disneyland, big Ritch, TD and fletch. Okay,
let's comment down. We've had a lot of fun giving
away Disneyland, I guess. But we got to get back
to the crux of the issue. We got to get

(51:48):
back to our girl cat who is going out on
a date for the first time in months, only her
third date in eighteen months.

Speaker 2 (52:00):
I was on a date last Friday.

Speaker 1 (52:03):
Yeah, but this is only your third and eighteen months.
So that was it was a failed date. I was
you called a failure to launch.

Speaker 2 (52:10):
So you said you said that you you were going
to need help picking out your outfit for tonight. Do
you have options already lay down in your head Today
at work, you wore a wet suit. Yeah, you look
like a SeaWorld dolphins. You really do, fashion show, fashion show, jesus.
Just a zip up kind of like sports shirt of sorts.

(52:32):
You're the going for one hundred mile bike ride or
you're jumping in the aquarium. One of the two was
your only options. You're like the signs of the Tour
de France and you're like Lance leans me, Okay, so
should I not? Should I not wear this?

Speaker 8 (52:48):
No?

Speaker 2 (52:48):
No?

Speaker 1 (52:48):
No, no, Actually, well let's all go around the room.
Let's get away from the outfit for a second. That's
it's a part of your advice.

Speaker 2 (52:54):
Let's all give.

Speaker 1 (52:55):
Kad some advice on what to do at a date
because my last it didn't go so well two days ago,
did not go well at all.

Speaker 9 (53:03):
Go.

Speaker 2 (53:04):
That was more his fault argue, do you you know
where you're going to dinner? Yes, but we're not allowed
to know where you're going to dinner. Can't know anything.
We can't even know what kind of food it is. No,
you guys can't know a single thing about what it's
gonna be difficult. As his first line of advice, this
is cat this should be a no brainer, but I
feel like you're gonna do it anyways, No beans at dinner,

(53:25):
that's good. We don't need your farting after dinner, all right.
I eat beans to where they don't make me fart
because I'm not. I don't have a lack of farmer.
And then suddenly an INFLUXI fire. You're with your friends.
You don't need to lie with us. We know what happens.

Speaker 1 (53:40):
And by the way, I've repaired your chair a couple
of times. If you get that cushion, I mean you
better be n ninety five up. So way do you
see the menu and you're like, oh yum, beans, just
move on from.

Speaker 7 (53:53):
It, all right?

Speaker 2 (53:54):
Yeah, otherwise it's gonna be.

Speaker 1 (53:55):
A party party okay, okay, And that's a cat task
for keeping me out, so okay, making.

Speaker 2 (54:04):
It per flash skip means gone. Have you seen this
guy in a while? I know it's been a little
bit since I see So you don't know what he
looks like. Man, what if you got fat? Yeah, I
say that's what I'm gonna say. Don't call him fat
out of the get guy, all right. You can't. It's
not like us. You can't just walk in here and

(54:26):
be like Hey, Patty never walked in and called any
of you guys large structurally bigger, bigger locations are not.
She This is how she didn't call me fat today.
She goes, is that your third cupcake? But she did

(54:49):
not call me fat? Yeah, okay, so don't call him
fat right away. I wouldn't do that. Who who's gonna
pay for the bill? Good question? Is that all on him? Yeah? No,
I never I went hold on you initiated the day. No,
I didn't. I said hey, and then he took you.
Said hey, because Rich said you have to delete everything

(55:09):
you've gotten so far.

Speaker 1 (55:11):
Just send the word hey. She wrote a paragraph. I'm like,
you are not going to send that? And then she goes,
she goes, what do you think this is bad? I
was like, yeah, just start with hey. I was like,
and trust me, he'll.

Speaker 2 (55:22):
Get the hint. Yeah, and it did work right right now,
he's I like that you did? You did bring me here? Okay,
so check this out. Here's my advice. Immediately start talking
about marriage and babies.

Speaker 1 (55:33):
Now, for me, this is a little bit of a
litmus test. You know, this is how you find out
pH levels. We need to know you understand, like, is
this going to be a long lasting, long term interaction
or are we stopping this short just just a quick
dip around the pool.

Speaker 8 (55:53):
Well, I mean, this is somebody that is not new
to me. I've known him gosh since I think twenty
twenty one. Okay, so we're going on five years that
we've known each other.

Speaker 2 (56:02):
Okay, so I kind of get the gist. Okay, let
me get a little background.

Speaker 10 (56:08):
Is this guy?

Speaker 1 (56:09):
Has this guy ever been married before or in a
serious relationship?

Speaker 2 (56:13):
Okay? Yeah, okay, does he have any kids? He does? Okay, cool,
So actually he's knocked out all the hard stuff. So
you could just be like, where's the ring?

Speaker 1 (56:21):
Yeah? Or hold on, hold on a little presump shows
don't I say, you know, we're we're not getting any younger.

Speaker 2 (56:27):
I would say, you don't want to talk about the
guys in your life currently, so you're gonna have not
have any guys in my life? A lot a lot
we get brought up.

Speaker 8 (56:37):
Yeah, you guys, I'm not brain How flattering of yourself?
Do you think that I talk about you guys on date?

Speaker 1 (56:43):
You?

Speaker 7 (56:44):
Ah?

Speaker 2 (56:45):
Date?

Speaker 11 (56:46):
Right?

Speaker 2 (56:47):
I talk about you guys? That honestly hurts my feelings.
And I don't think it's should we take up the
state life.

Speaker 1 (56:55):
We talk about you all of your friends, literally all
of your friends not only of metace now huh, but
they also know everything about and.

Speaker 2 (57:04):
Family and family.

Speaker 8 (57:05):
Yeah, you guys have been quite a few of my
family members. Yeah, but when I go on a date,
when you guys are in dates with your wives, you
don't talk about the rest of us.

Speaker 2 (57:13):
What else were we talking about? Would we talk to him?
My wife is obsessed with rich, so I talk about Rachel.

Speaker 1 (57:20):
It's important. You got to keep the romance right. Yeah,
which I mean, who knows how Now? You said, how
long has it been since last time you've seen this guy?

Speaker 2 (57:28):
I've seen him in maybe close to a couple of years.
Does he know how fast you take down cupcakes that
are sitting to the station? You beat a lance speed director?

Speaker 1 (57:41):
That is going to be our fourth tip, and this
one I think his group think maybe slowed down with
the spoon.

Speaker 2 (57:46):
Yeah, we don't want to hold on? Is that your
way calling me fa?

Speaker 8 (57:49):
No?

Speaker 2 (57:49):
No, I'm just saying little friction burns at the bottom
of a cupcake tip. It's crazy. You know what metal
metal contact? I noted, No, that was a cup of
beans be both flow down to my consumption. And yeah,
maybe we.

Speaker 1 (58:03):
Them might know the plane, you know, be a little
bit mirror about it. I don't need that last trip.
You'll be like, well it's your third plate.

Speaker 2 (58:10):
I just said, maybe not lead with the degrading comments.
You guys are only giving me degrading comments this whole time.
We were trying to helpism. God see, look here we
go again. And this is why why I don't bring
you guys. Right, you know what fun we were and
how the prevention is worth a pound of cure. And

(58:32):
cat does what I know. Let's get some Let's get
some JBJ going. In the meantime, Kat, we need you
to pull up some photos of what you plan on
wearing tonight. I don't know yet, but she's going naked
this big rid stadium. Fledged.

Speaker 1 (58:46):
Okay, So Cad has heard our advice, and you guys
miss this because we played a couple of songs.

Speaker 2 (58:51):
But she is she is not taking end of our vice. Seriously.
She thinks we're just a big joke.

Speaker 1 (58:57):
Right.

Speaker 8 (58:58):
I don't think you guys are a big joke. However,
I don't think that your advice will get me anywhere
that that I want to.

Speaker 2 (59:05):
Beat one one five kg.

Speaker 1 (59:07):
B Fletch, I thought he gave stage advice no beans
at dinner, because you're going on your first dad in
a while.

Speaker 2 (59:13):
It's good t you. What was your advice again, don't uh,
don't degrade the guy do.

Speaker 9 (59:19):
That.

Speaker 2 (59:20):
And my advice was simple, just put the fork down
in between bites every once in a while.

Speaker 8 (59:25):
So Ted's advice is for me to not call the
guy fat, which I would never But then Rich in
the same breath, your advice to me is basically like, hey, Fatty,
you don't eat something.

Speaker 2 (59:34):
No, I just said, look it. First of all, nobody
said that. I said, it's a soup spoon, not a shovel.

Speaker 9 (59:41):
That's all.

Speaker 2 (59:42):
It's meat, all right, Fletch, what what? What? What do
you want to say here? I'd like to know the
layout of events for tonight, Like is it just dinner?
Maybe a kiss goodbye and gone dinner? Dancing? Yeah? Is
there a movie? Is there a movie? Heights comes out tonight?
There's no movie. There is an event, we'll call it.

(01:00:02):
Where is an event to take place?

Speaker 8 (01:00:05):
I'm not telling you guys where anything is taking place?

Speaker 2 (01:00:07):
There's an event? Yeah, to an event together? Don't take
this poor got a bingo oh lord to do? Yeah? Yes,
Wait did he choose it? Or you choose? He chose it? Okay, okay.
So he's taking you to an event and it's when
you are interested in going. Is it running running? No,

(01:00:33):
I don't think we're skating or something. It's like a
pilates class. It's yoga evening. It's not a workout, even yoga.
Yogurt cold, you know, like for yogurt. For me, it's
either tricks yogurt, which I can't find anymore, or or

(01:00:53):
a go gurt.

Speaker 4 (01:00:55):
You eat.

Speaker 2 (01:00:57):
One in the friends, I'll pick it up me like,
I look at that. I free I freeze them and
then snap them in a half and then I eat both.

Speaker 10 (01:01:04):
Si.

Speaker 8 (01:01:05):
That makes sense for you to have gogret in your fridge,
rich because you've got children.

Speaker 2 (01:01:12):
Sold your kids are in their twenties. Also by fruit
gushers from Costco. Those are still good. Those are the
elite fruit snacks. Yeah, go gourts are for kids. Almost fridge.
It's the best. Yeah. It's on rfk's new Flipped over Pyramids.

(01:01:34):
It's like the main square. Seriously, it's just written you.
How confident are you in your dance? Moves. I feel
like I am a good dancer to get by. We're
not having a dance off. Oh no, you gotta have
a dance off. That's how you signed them off.

Speaker 1 (01:01:54):
Would you describe your dancing as like like like, I
don't know. Is it dancing that you can and you
with somebody? Is it sensual?

Speaker 9 (01:02:02):
Is it? Is it like?

Speaker 8 (01:02:03):
Oh, I do aspire to take like a salsa class
at some point.

Speaker 2 (01:02:06):
Are you don't do that? Now?

Speaker 10 (01:02:08):
Are you?

Speaker 2 (01:02:08):
Are you bumping and grinding sometimes?

Speaker 10 (01:02:11):
Okay?

Speaker 2 (01:02:11):
Last weekend I did.

Speaker 8 (01:02:12):
Actually I had a big birthday party for one of
my friends and we cant the night with a dance
party at Parking rec in University Heights and we did
bump and grind.

Speaker 1 (01:02:20):
Okay, So there's a lot of movie shaking. Okay, okay,
so there is dancing going to be involved tonight at all.

Speaker 2 (01:02:26):
It could be yeah, but it would be slow. It
would be slower dancing. Oh like, wait, hold on, we're
back to the prom thing again. We have to take pictures.
I do think you should invite us. I first want
me and Travis a TV on in the streets, in
the street, so you call me in the hallways. Everyone
knows that and I stand on.

Speaker 1 (01:02:45):
The okay, if we're good photographers and flew, Yeah, nobody
frames the shop better.

Speaker 2 (01:02:51):
That's right, that's right. And then between the three of
us we can put together a solid forty five to
forty five second video with captions. What is the after
party going to be?

Speaker 9 (01:03:02):
Like?

Speaker 1 (01:03:02):
Are you guys taking it somewhere else after the event?
Are you guys going back to one of each other's domicide?

Speaker 7 (01:03:09):
Hold on?

Speaker 2 (01:03:09):
Is the event the after party?

Speaker 10 (01:03:13):
No?

Speaker 2 (01:03:14):
I don't know that there will be thought, oh e yeh.

Speaker 1 (01:03:19):
Wait a second, So you tell me this night is
going to end at the event where he goes? Okay, Catherine,
excellent seeing you in squiring you about town?

Speaker 2 (01:03:26):
Now, I bid you ad Oh no, he's picking me up,
so I'll have to drop me off. Is he going
to anyone kind of car?

Speaker 10 (01:03:33):
Is the draft?

Speaker 2 (01:03:33):
Yeah? That's your point. Well, I'm it seem in a
little while, so I can't be I wish it was
a hummer h one. That what I'm saying. I did
have an SUV last time I saw him. Okay, so
is it possible that this is a sleepover?

Speaker 8 (01:03:49):
I wake up so early, you guys, even if I
wanted a sleepover. If not, have a sleepover.

Speaker 2 (01:03:53):
If it is a sleepover, can he come in tomorrow morning,
you guys will be together. He could drive you here. Now,
can you guys bring coffee? He would be my best friend.
He also has a job that he goes to. Yeah,
but your job starts earlier?

Speaker 10 (01:04:09):
Yeah?

Speaker 9 (01:04:09):
Sure?

Speaker 2 (01:04:10):
Yeah? What time does his job start? I can't be
too sure. Can you join us on the show? Absolutely not.
You will recap on Friday.

Speaker 1 (01:04:18):
A weekend is coming, and when the weekend arrives, you're
gonna need things to do.

Speaker 2 (01:04:25):
The question is will you player stay? Hey, there's a
lot happening in San Diego this weekend. Thatt TD, the
self proclaimed homebody King, now as the ultimate decision to
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Speaker 1 (01:04:44):
We do it every week where TD on Thursday's forecast
the weekends events, and we decide whether or not he
should go or just stay at Valevue Casino and Hotel.

Speaker 2 (01:04:55):
Yeah, that's fine, let's stay at home, which if seen
him a hotel my home away from home. But it
Valentine's Day this weekend, guys, so lots happening out there
in San Diego. There's always something happening in San Diego.
But the President's Day Jazz Festival at Humphreys Backstage is
happening live Sunday, February fifteenth. Smooth jazz much more than

(01:05:16):
just Kenny g and cassettes and commercials for easy listening.
That's according to the website. I like that, okay, Well,
it's the annual President's Day Jazz Fest at Humphrey's Backstage.
Singer and sax player Darryl Walker will lead a lineup
that also features vocalists Sindris and Stiletta, DJ John Phillips
and the SD Jazz All Star Band.

Speaker 1 (01:05:37):
And I think President's Day, I think Jazz Show. I
ask you this question TD on a very controversial weekend
because you're gonna have to slam your jazz into your
Valentine's Day plans well, and make sure talking transformers right
now it all fits. How are you TD going to
play or stay?

Speaker 2 (01:05:57):
I'm gonna click stay on this one. This is the
anniversary of the day my wife and I met, and
she's not a fan of jazz music and the basketball
team jazz music a lot.

Speaker 8 (01:06:09):
Though yesterday the other day I watched in the studio
and you were in here alone working on your bar
after something broke off, and you were blasting jazz music.

Speaker 2 (01:06:18):
I have to soothe the savage beast. Way to call
me it out? Coronado Valentine's Day ten K, five K
and one mile fun run. It's happening. This is on
Sunday morning out at San Diego Bay. Is there running
every weekend? There's so much running, so much running that's

(01:06:39):
on Sunday. That's on Sunday. I actually do that. It's
a ten k and five K, ten K, five k
and we're taking a ten k on Sunday. Here's the saying.

Speaker 8 (01:06:48):
A lot of these runs on Saturdays, and I teach
at cycle bar on Saturday morning, so I can never
do them anymore.

Speaker 2 (01:06:53):
But on a Sunday I'm in. This event will feature matchmaking,
a free mass wedding and vow renewal, and a post
race party with live music, entertainment and food vendors. I'll
tell you what, if this day goes well tonight, maybe
you might need a mass wedding. Man, Why are you
running at the wedding? Is are you going to? There's

(01:07:18):
also a Valentine's Premiere brunch cruise. This is happening down
at the Harbor at San Diego Bay, where you can
treat you all a special someone to a chef pampered buffet,
meal featuring savory and sweet classics, bottomless Mimosa's delicious cocktails,
top notch service and music entertainment. Stay look, I'm out
on rush. Eat breakfast or eat lunch like an adults,

(01:07:41):
or dinner like a man at the Black and Blue
Steakhouse at Valley Vue Casino and Hotel, San Diego's most
romantic steakhouse.

Speaker 1 (01:07:50):
Right third year in a row, they've won that prestigious
award from Bigger Issues talking about what if you want
a reservation, you better make one now at.

Speaker 2 (01:07:58):
Valide You Casino Hotel because the Blue will fill up quickly. Oh,
there's no doubt about it.

Speaker 1 (01:08:03):
But don't do broach. So you're staying again? No, No,
I'm staying on that, but I'm playing.

Speaker 2 (01:08:08):
On the Black. Yeah, Well what's in value?

Speaker 1 (01:08:11):
Casino hotel and spa and golf course and sweet sweet
home away from home.

Speaker 2 (01:08:17):
They won again. TD has elected to stay at half time.
That's what happens. The free rose for Sarah, That's what
I'm talking about when you're at the Black and Broche.
Can you imagine we're eating the best take on planet
Earth and then they just walk up and handle a rose.
Hey fella, you got eyes from a name trending with

(01:08:41):
TD A possible finding in the Nancy Guthrie case. They
have just erected a white forensic tint outside of Nancy
Nancy Guthrie's home, the very place that that chilling figure
wearing a ski mask and thick gloves was seen approaching
her home just eleven days ago or is that twelve
days ago? Now, yes, that a long time. But they

(01:09:03):
but they put a tent up and it looks like
they are pulling something, whether that is some sort of
forensic evidence or something. But the police believe they found something. Okay, okay,
well that's interesting. That is really good news. Yeah, I mean,
what happens when there's kidnapping.

Speaker 1 (01:09:20):
Oftentimes you know, the person who's being kidnapped doesn't go quietly,
and so there can be anything could happen.

Speaker 2 (01:09:28):
You could tear the fabric on your the sleeve of
your jacket exiting a doorway.

Speaker 1 (01:09:33):
You can lean up against something and get poked, and
there could be a blood spatter somewhere. It could be
you know, the clue and literally the domino that sets
off the whole investigation.

Speaker 2 (01:09:43):
I did see last night as well as the ransom
notes have come in, there's a third one now that
came through that said if you give me one bitcoin,
I will give you the name of the abductor. Okay,
So why don't they just do that? Well, one bitcoin
is worth sixty six thousand dollars. But there was a
test done to that has to be done. I guess

(01:10:04):
when you're transferring bitcoin, it's one hundred and fifty dollars
transaction that goes through. If that transaction goes through, then
it's a working account and then they can send the bitcoin.
So the test was done, and there was an expert
on bitcoin who said, well, most people think that it
is untraceable. This is not true. When that test was done,
if that was accepted, there is a signature that they

(01:10:26):
can follow. So interesting to hear exactly. And some Padres
news here local Apparently the Padres might be interested in
a reunion with Tie France. Yes, right, I think he's
in the Olympics right now, we're tied with France. Now,
Ty France was in San Diego State, Alum. He got

(01:10:48):
drafted by the Padres and he was pretty good for
the Padres for a second, and then they traded him.
He was actually with Kat Stupid M's was in the
a third basement or or at very least an infielder
with the Pods. Yeah, when they moved him to the
outfield for a little bit, yeah, I think so, But
he moved on went to the Mariners. Was actually an
All Star for the Mariners back in twenty twenty two.
I think so, he's been there for a bit. He

(01:11:08):
bounced around a little bit after that too, Blue Jays Twins.
But he's a free agent, so it would make sense
for the Padres to grab. So he's ready to go.
He's ready to bounce back and come back home. Man,
come on, bring it back home to me. Cat going
on a date tonight and trending. Well, you'll find out it. Yeah,

(01:11:30):
I mean that was it, Cat going on? Hold on,
I'm just kidding. I'm just kidding. Apparently there's a telling
facial feature that can determine sexual compatibility. That's according to
a faith reader. You guys want to know what it is? Yeah,
Well you're gonna find out oh, right now, right now,
All you gotta do is look at their face. If

(01:11:50):
you look at the lower half of their face, measuring
from the tip of the nose to the tip of
the chin, the greater the distance, the greater the sex drive.
Oh wow, So do you have a photo we can
look at.

Speaker 8 (01:12:02):
I don't have a photo, but I know that we
already have combative bilm.

Speaker 2 (01:12:05):
You know what, bring a ruler on the date. Guys
love that. It's just the tips, all right.

Speaker 1 (01:12:13):
Just the tip with Big Rich is a little advice
I like to give out every day. It's yours for
the taking, or send it back this way, no harm,
no foul. Today's just the tip is the three second pause.
So I realized during conversations, sometimes especially with my wife Annie,
or sometimes honestly out in the wild, if I'm just

(01:12:34):
having a conversation with somebody, I realize I start talking
before I fully form a sentence, you know what I mean, Like,
I just get revved up and going. If you pause,
you think it's awkward, but it's not. No, you think
it's traumatic or I don't know what you think, but
you you assume the person who's speaking with you is

(01:12:56):
going to think you're weird for.

Speaker 2 (01:12:57):
Taking a second.

Speaker 1 (01:12:58):
But most of the time it's a lot quicker for
them than it is for you, and it collects your thoughts.
So a lot of times I'll say something and and
I'll realize, oh, now we're getting off on a tangent
because she's just upset that I didn't think that through.

Speaker 2 (01:13:12):
I also think that that's a strategy in conversation or negotiation.
You use a pause before you answer because it puts
you in control of the conversation and also it makes
you appear to be smarter.

Speaker 10 (01:13:24):
Is that really.

Speaker 1 (01:13:26):
Honestly, No, it's a really I've developed the idea because
I get myself in trouble constantly because I'm usually talking
too much.

Speaker 2 (01:13:35):
I feel like I just want to say something stupid. Yeah,
I want to make fun of the situation always. But
you and that happened like and then you filter it
actually pulls it out, like so you're.

Speaker 1 (01:13:45):
Like, oh, no, you are at a funeral that is
inappropriates whoops, Yeah, yeah about that. We know what the
frozen yogurt looks like coming out, but maybe now's out
the time.

Speaker 2 (01:13:58):
Anyways, that almost got me in trouble last night having chocolate. Yes,
thank you. Well begger swirl you get it.