Dirty Little Secret:The Timeline Exposed My Ex's Biggest Secret

How would you react if your ex moved on immediately after your breakup, got married, had a baby—and the timeline didn't add up? This week's Dirty Little Secret comes from a listener who can't shake the feeling that her ex-boyfriend was living a double life before their relationship ended. After dating on and off for more than three years, the couple finally called it quits. Almost immediately, he began dating someone new, got engaged within months, got married, and then welcomed a baby just six months after their breakup. Now she's left wondering if the relationship actually started long before she was out of the picture. While part of her wants to move on and leave the past behind, another part believes his wife deserves to know the truth about the man she married. Billy, Candice, and Producer Pooh dive into a passionate debate about honesty, karma, cheating, and whether exposing the truth would be helping another woman—or simply reopening old wounds

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is dirty little secret.

Speaker 2 (00:05):
Bring it, confess, do it. It's Mike's one or two
point nine. Good morning, Bailing the Kid. Candaelowpens is here, producer,
who is here? Your confessions? Your secrets are safe with
us and everybody else who's listening.

Speaker 3 (00:16):
But we don't see your name.

Speaker 2 (00:17):
We can keep it anonymous, and that's what we do,
and it's the non judgment zone for the most part.
So just get it off your chest. Confess anytime you want.
Now you got one. What's going on?

Speaker 3 (00:26):
All right?

Speaker 4 (00:27):
Well, I have a secret, but it's technically not my secret.
It's my ex boyfriend and his wife definitely doesn't know it.
We dated on and off for over three years, but
then one day we just like finally broke up for good.
And I thought it was just because we were over

(00:49):
and he needed to focus on himself. But no, almost
immediately he starts dating this other woman. And like, when
I say immediately, I mean immediately.

Speaker 2 (01:01):
Okay, so he moved on super quick, super quick, which
suspiciously quick.

Speaker 4 (01:07):
Yes, within a few months they were literally engaged. Then
they're married, and I'm sitting over here like, okay, well
that's completely insane, and so at first I was curious.
Then I convinced myself, Okay, he's just rushing into things
because he couldn't handle being alone, or maybe he was
trying to prove something after our breakup. But then six

(01:28):
months after we broke up, he has a baby.

Speaker 3 (01:32):
Like, what, oh, six months after you broke up, she
had a baby. Okay, that's all right, Okay, let me
hold on now.

Speaker 2 (01:42):
I'm I'm no mathematician, but yes, you've had a baby.

Speaker 1 (01:48):
Yeah, that not doesn't math?

Speaker 2 (01:50):
Usually around nine months, right, yeah, like six months?

Speaker 3 (01:53):
Hold on, let me write this down, carry the one.

Speaker 4 (01:58):
Yeah, that time, I'm suspicious, Yeah, pious in my mind,
I'm like, okay, if the baby is his, and trust
me like it's his, then he was absolutely talking to
her while he was still in a full blown relationship
with me. Yeah, and the baby looks exactly like him,
which is unfortunate for the baby of course.

Speaker 2 (02:20):
But poor baby. So you know right away that something's
going on. But at the end of the day you're like, well,
it's whatever now, or is it because he's obviously lying
to somebody, right.

Speaker 4 (02:34):
Yeah, I'm kind of like looking at the timeline, like
thinking to myself, Okay, these dates don't make sense, and
so I don't really know what to do. Like part
of me says, let it go. He's her problem, now
move on with your life. But then there's like another
part of me that saying, if I were her, i'd
want to know.

Speaker 3 (02:51):
Yeah. Right, So that's a good question.

Speaker 2 (02:54):
So this is a dilemma for you, because yeah, of
course she would want to.

Speaker 3 (02:59):
Know, you know what.

Speaker 2 (03:00):
Maybe she does know, maybe she knows, and she's just
like whatever, who knows what goes on in twenty twenty six.
But I mean, Cannis, if you just had a baby
with a man and the timeline's off but you don't know,
would you want to know?

Speaker 3 (03:13):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (03:13):
I think I would, honestly, Yeah, Oh she should mind
her business. I need to know what else to watch
out for if I have no clue that this guy
is shady.

Speaker 3 (03:21):
Yeah, I want to know, well, by the way things
are going on, who this is her business?

Speaker 2 (03:25):
Because she was with him when they conceived a child together,
so I mean I think this is yeah.

Speaker 5 (03:30):
Yeah, but they're no longer together. Why are you being
messy and gonna do that's that's messy.

Speaker 3 (03:34):
She's not the one being messy to me, He's the
messy one. I mean he's been messy.

Speaker 5 (03:38):
That's his karma. Though he's gone, he's out of your life.
Why you gotta worry about I can't.

Speaker 1 (03:43):
Imagine any woman not wanting to know.

Speaker 3 (03:45):
Yeah, and probably I'm assuming too. It just bugs you
that it's like he's it really bugs me getting away
with it.

Speaker 2 (03:51):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (03:52):
Yeah, it's like he's online playing husband of the Year
super dead and when I see the coach, it literally
makes me like I have a physical reaction. Yes, I
like posting family photos like he's gonna saint his entire life. Meanwhile,
I was literally there for the deleted chapters. So that's

(04:12):
my dilemma.

Speaker 2 (04:13):
I'm gonna tell you I'm petty. I'm petty if somebody
does me wrong. I'm gonna make sure you are. Everyone
is well aware of the kind of person you are.

Speaker 1 (04:21):
Yeah. This isn't like getting revenge though. This is like,
this is the truth that you don't know about.

Speaker 2 (04:26):
Yeah, it'd be different if you were making something up.
But hey, I'm letting you know that this is right.
It's not okay what he did. That kind of person
does it to other people. Yeah, and it never stops
her too. Yeah, and he'll do it to her, which
whatever and that sucks for her. I don't know her,
but you know, to mind your own business. To me
that whole well, just mind your own business.

Speaker 3 (04:45):
I know. If you if you got if this happened.

Speaker 2 (04:49):
To you and some girl left you and then all
of a sudden she had a baby that's not yours.

Speaker 3 (04:55):
Right, you're gonna be like, uh, wait a minute.

Speaker 5 (04:58):
I mean the girl who broke up with me had
a baby not too long after.

Speaker 2 (05:04):
Well after the time you had broken out, though it
wasn't in the window where you knew she had a
baby while she was with you.

Speaker 3 (05:10):
That's the difference. Okay, I get.

Speaker 5 (05:11):
That, but I mean you never know what that girl
was the side piece, and she probably already knew. You're
gonna waste your time in that effort to go tell
her something, and what if she goes, yeah, I know he.

Speaker 2 (05:22):
Was well cool, yeah now, but at least I got
it off my chest. And you're just really stupid. Now
now you're okay with the guy you know, cheating on
his girl to be the side piece. Cool, Congratulations, you
played yourself. Yeah you won. You won that battle. And
for you, I say, you do what you want.

Speaker 4 (05:40):
So yeah, it can't hurt it's gonna make me feel better.

Speaker 2 (05:44):
Yeah, let me call I wish I could call her
right now. I tell her, well, let us know what we decide.
I don't expect to decide right now, but let us
know what you decide and what happens, because I don't
I get it. I'd be mad too, playing Dad of
the Year online on Facebook.

Speaker 4 (05:58):
Look at me, exactly.

Speaker 3 (06:00):
You get out of here, you slimeball you. This just
makes me mad.

Speaker 2 (06:05):
You know, I want cheaters to be busted all the time.
I don't care what when you did it, what happened.
People should know you're that kind of guy.