July 17, 2024 • 9 mins
➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up
What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Andy is on the phone today for our first day
follow up and he's getting ghosted by a girl named Serena.
So in a few minutes we're gonna call her and
see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting her and
maybe get him another date. But first, Andy, how long
has it been since you heard from Serena?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
It's been two weeks.
Speaker 4 (00:21):
Have you been counting?
Speaker 1 (00:23):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (00:23):
Yeah, okay, that's so frustrating. Have you reached out to her?
Speaker 3 (00:27):
Yeah, I've reached out. I've I've sent her some texts
and stuff, But yeah, I'm not. I'm not. I haven't
heard anything back.
Speaker 4 (00:33):
Why don't you go back and tell us about the date?
How did you meet her?
Speaker 6 (00:37):
So we met him bumble, and we spent a few
weeks talking and facetiming before we actually met up the
first time.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
So it's like, I feel like we got to know
each other a little bit.
Speaker 6 (00:48):
We eventually planned to meet at a cafe that we
both are into, and we were going to do a
mike ride and drink slater and stuff, and I was
really excited to meet her in person, but he yeah,
she never ended up being able to show up.
Speaker 4 (01:02):
Did not actually have the date?
Speaker 6 (01:05):
No, actually, because about twenty minutes before I was you know,
I've been sending way to get the coffee shop, and
she sent me a text that her dog was sick
and something got sicked so she needed.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
To take them to the vet.
Speaker 6 (01:19):
And I never ended up happening, and I and I
was really excited, Like I ended up wearing a T shirt,
these plaid shorts and sneakers that she you know, she's
kind of like telling me to wear beforehand so that
she could find me.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
But you know, I was I was happy, you.
Speaker 5 (01:33):
Were happy, So she told you what to wear. You
guys planned this whole date. And then so her dog
got sick. Did she ever give you an update on
her dog?
Speaker 4 (01:41):
Like what happened with that after that?
Speaker 1 (01:45):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (01:45):
I haven't. I honestly haven't really heard.
Speaker 6 (01:47):
So that's where, yeah, I'm trying to figure it out.
Speaker 4 (01:50):
How did you respond to that text?
Speaker 6 (01:51):
Cause oh, yeah, yeah, sorry, yeah, yeah, no, when she's
sent me that, I that's okay. So I responded like
I just kind of said bummer, and I said, hope
your dog is okay, because I was.
Speaker 3 (02:01):
I was really sad at the time, But I don't know.
Speaker 6 (02:03):
I've looked back and I've read that text a million times,
and I feel like, maybe I maybe I wasn't a
little cold.
Speaker 4 (02:10):
Would she have expected you to say more?
Speaker 3 (02:13):
Maybe?
Speaker 1 (02:14):
Maybe?
Speaker 3 (02:14):
Uh, maybe I should offer to go with her.
Speaker 5 (02:18):
So has anything happened then between that text message and
maybe all those face times? You know, like if you
were talking for the past couple of weeks, you kind
of start to build what is it about her that
makes you want to see her again? Like if this
girl just disappears, like, don't you kind of feel like
screw you?
Speaker 2 (02:31):
Then?
Speaker 6 (02:32):
Yeah? I mean I think she's first of all beautiful,
and I felt like our personalities kind of balanced each
other out. And you know, she seems like she does
once and I'm happy to give that to her.
Speaker 4 (02:44):
So okay, okay.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
And so she just ghosted you basically for the date,
like she didn't show up and then hasn't responded to
you since, saying that she couldn't make it because her
dog was sick.
Speaker 6 (02:56):
Right, And yeah, again, like I don't know if I
just responded wrong at the time, it wasn't you know, nice.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
Enough, but hopefully hopefully we can get it worked out.
Speaker 4 (03:04):
What if, like something really bad happened to her dog.
Speaker 3 (03:07):
That's also a concern of mine too.
Speaker 4 (03:09):
Yeah, would I be mad at a bummer?
Speaker 5 (03:11):
I think if somebody responds bummer if your dog sick,
I mean maybe I would have been like, Okay.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
Maybe, yeah, you know, maybe that's what she's like. Bummer
is more than a bummer?
Speaker 4 (03:18):
Yeah? Maybe? All right, Andy, Well we'll try to figure
it out.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
We'll play a song and then come back and call
her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting
you and maybe get you another date.
Speaker 3 (03:26):
Okay, all right, thank you.
Speaker 4 (03:28):
All right, we'll get your first day follow up next.
Right in the middle of today's first date follow up,
if you're just.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
Joining us, Andy is on the phone and he's getting
ghosted by Serena. So in a second we're going to
call her and see if she'll tell us why she's
ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But first, Andy,
why don't you catch everybody up on your situation?
Speaker 3 (03:43):
Yeah, so I met Serena on Bumble.
Speaker 7 (03:46):
We've spent a few weeks talking facetiming before we finally
met or plans to meet up in person. And then
during that time, you know, I wore a T shirt,
plaid shorts, white shoes that she told me to pick out.
I was waiting for her and I got a text
said her dog was stick and that she need taken
to the vet.
Speaker 3 (04:03):
So the date never happened, and I haven't heard from
her sex.
Speaker 4 (04:05):
And it might be because he responded, bummer, All right, Andy,
are you ready to call her?
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (04:14):
Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, man speak to Serena.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
Please m.
Speaker 4 (04:31):
Yeah, Hi Serena. My name is Jewbell. I host so
Rato show. It's called the Jewbel Show. Hi, Serena, I'm Nina.
The whole show's here. Hi, and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 3 (04:38):
How are you.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
Hi? I'm good.
Speaker 4 (04:43):
We're calling you today because we got an email about
you from somebody who listens to the show and they
wanted us to call you. Okay, So we do a
segment on the show. It's called the first Date follow Up.
What that is is if you go out on a
date with somebody and then you end up ghosting them,
they can ask us to get you on the phone
and ask why you're them. So a dude named Andy
emailed us. He told us about your date. Well, the
(05:05):
date that didn't happen, and then asked if we could
call you and ask why are you ghosted him?
Speaker 1 (05:12):
Wow, that's really cute. You know, he's that far to
see what happened, so.
Speaker 4 (05:19):
You think it's cute. Is your dog? Okay?
Speaker 1 (05:21):
No, no, I didn't. He's just not what I thought
he would be.
Speaker 4 (05:26):
And uh, the dog, no, Andy, Andie, do you have
a dog?
Speaker 1 (05:32):
Even? Whoa? I mean we chatted for a while in
a bumble. It was nice getting to know him. Yeah,
and he also like, I actually don't have a dog.
Speaker 4 (05:48):
I figured that's where it was going.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
Yeah. So when I walked up to go to the
date they we didn't go on, I saw him sitting
there like a puppy dog. He had like a rose
and some dirty white sneakers, and I'm just like, I'm
not busy, but Helena keeps up the sneakers just kind
of shays a.
Speaker 4 (06:10):
Lot, you know, So it's the dirty shoes.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
Yeah, Like I don't know, just it wasn't. He didn't
look like he did any pictures.
Speaker 4 (06:19):
Wait, but he had a rose there, yeah, but he
just like I was just sitting.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
There like a like a bad puppy dog.
Speaker 5 (06:26):
Like it just like, I don't know, you felt like
you could bulldozehim. I mean sometimes sometimes that's sometimes that's
the thing. I mean it sounds a little shallow, but
sometimes you know, if you're gonna like be too much
for somebody.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
Yeah, and if I did have a dog and he
replied a bummers or your dogs like come on, okay.
Speaker 5 (06:48):
So it was because he was sitting like a puppy
dog and he had dirty sneakers. Oh so what did
dirty sneaker say about him?
Speaker 4 (06:54):
Man to you?
Speaker 1 (06:55):
I mean, come on, it's the first day. If you
can't like see in your shoes or.
Speaker 4 (06:59):
Like wear some like, come on, like was it a nice,
like fancy restaurant that you were going to.
Speaker 1 (07:06):
I mean I wasn't a fatty restaurant. It was just
like a caffe. But still, come on, like, come on,
just at least wash your shoes or buy a new
pair on the first feet.
Speaker 5 (07:15):
I get presenting yourself nicely. I wouldn't And we don't
have to go as far as buy new shoes, but
I mean keeping them, you know, do you think about that?
Speaker 4 (07:23):
I do. I try not to wear dirty shoes if
I go places. But also yeah, but I'm one of
those people that always wants, you know, tries to clean
my shoes and stuff too. Right, some people don't care though,
I mean.
Speaker 1 (07:33):
Well I cared, and I was just sitting there with
like a rose, like not even like a bookcase of
like a rose. Now it's really wimpy, you know.
Speaker 2 (07:43):
Well okay, well, thank you for telling us. And now, Serena,
I'll let you know that Andy is actually on the
phone listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 3 (07:51):
What say, I'm a whimp because I have dirty shoes
and a rose. You lied about having a sick dog.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
I mean.
Speaker 3 (08:03):
I was wearing when you told me to wear. I
didn't tell you to wear dirty shoes.
Speaker 1 (08:08):
And you know, come on, first impressions or kind of
big Well, I went out and.
Speaker 6 (08:14):
Bought a new shirt and plaid shorts because I didn't
have any I wasn't thinking about my shoes.
Speaker 3 (08:19):
I'm sorry.
Speaker 1 (08:20):
Oh that's a bummer.
Speaker 3 (08:22):
So you so you saw me sitting there, and instead
of coming up to me and saying anything.
Speaker 6 (08:27):
Like an adult, you just walked away and hid lied
about having a dog that was sick, and you're saying
that I'm aware, yeah, I mean a little bit.
Speaker 1 (08:37):
And you don't even look like your pictures, so.
Speaker 3 (08:40):
You know what, you didn't look like your pictures either.
You didn't look evil.
Speaker 2 (08:45):
Well, I think that was the appropriate time to ask Serena,
would you like to go on another day with Andy?
Speaker 4 (08:49):
We'll pay for it.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
No, thank you, no.
Speaker 3 (08:55):
Good luck, though I wish you the best.
Speaker 4 (08:57):
Candy, somebody's gonna appreciate your rose.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
Thank you. I think I'm dodging a bullet, you know what.
Speaker 6 (09:03):
Well, I'll pay attention to if you ever do end
up getting a dog, and I'm gonna call a spc
I on you, because yeah, you shouldn't be owning an animals.
Speaker 4 (09:13):
Jubile's first Date follow up
First date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Andy is on the phone today for our first day
follow up and he's getting ghosted by a girl named Serena.
So in a few minutes we're gonna call her and
see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting her and
maybe get him another date. But first, Andy, how long
has it been since you heard from Serena?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
It's been two weeks.
Speaker 4 (00:21):
Have you been counting?
Speaker 1 (00:23):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (00:23):
Yeah, okay, that's so frustrating. Have you reached out to her?
Speaker 3 (00:27):
Yeah, I've reached out. I've I've sent her some texts
and stuff, But yeah, I'm not. I'm not. I haven't
heard anything back.
Speaker 4 (00:33):
Why don't you go back and tell us about the date?
How did you meet her?
Speaker 6 (00:37):
So we met him bumble, and we spent a few
weeks talking and facetiming before we actually met up the
first time.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
So it's like, I feel like we got to know
each other a little bit.
Speaker 6 (00:48):
We eventually planned to meet at a cafe that we
both are into, and we were going to do a
mike ride and drink slater and stuff, and I was
really excited to meet her in person, but he yeah,
she never ended up being able to show up.
Speaker 4 (01:02):
Did not actually have the date?
Speaker 6 (01:05):
No, actually, because about twenty minutes before I was you know,
I've been sending way to get the coffee shop, and
she sent me a text that her dog was sick
and something got sicked so she needed.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
To take them to the vet.
Speaker 6 (01:19):
And I never ended up happening, and I and I
was really excited, Like I ended up wearing a T shirt,
these plaid shorts and sneakers that she you know, she's
kind of like telling me to wear beforehand so that
she could find me.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
But you know, I was I was happy, you.
Speaker 5 (01:33):
Were happy, So she told you what to wear. You
guys planned this whole date. And then so her dog
got sick. Did she ever give you an update on
her dog?
Speaker 4 (01:41):
Like what happened with that after that?
Speaker 1 (01:45):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (01:45):
I haven't. I honestly haven't really heard.
Speaker 6 (01:47):
So that's where, yeah, I'm trying to figure it out.
Speaker 4 (01:50):
How did you respond to that text?
Speaker 6 (01:51):
Cause oh, yeah, yeah, sorry, yeah, yeah, no, when she's
sent me that, I that's okay. So I responded like
I just kind of said bummer, and I said, hope
your dog is okay, because I was.
Speaker 3 (02:01):
I was really sad at the time, But I don't know.
Speaker 6 (02:03):
I've looked back and I've read that text a million times,
and I feel like, maybe I maybe I wasn't a
little cold.
Speaker 4 (02:10):
Would she have expected you to say more?
Speaker 3 (02:13):
Maybe?
Speaker 1 (02:14):
Maybe?
Speaker 3 (02:14):
Uh, maybe I should offer to go with her.
Speaker 5 (02:18):
So has anything happened then between that text message and
maybe all those face times? You know, like if you
were talking for the past couple of weeks, you kind
of start to build what is it about her that
makes you want to see her again? Like if this
girl just disappears, like, don't you kind of feel like
screw you?
Speaker 2 (02:31):
Then?
Speaker 6 (02:32):
Yeah? I mean I think she's first of all beautiful,
and I felt like our personalities kind of balanced each
other out. And you know, she seems like she does
once and I'm happy to give that to her.
Speaker 4 (02:44):
So okay, okay.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
And so she just ghosted you basically for the date,
like she didn't show up and then hasn't responded to
you since, saying that she couldn't make it because her
dog was sick.
Speaker 6 (02:56):
Right, And yeah, again, like I don't know if I
just responded wrong at the time, it wasn't you know, nice.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
Enough, but hopefully hopefully we can get it worked out.
Speaker 4 (03:04):
What if, like something really bad happened to her dog.
Speaker 3 (03:07):
That's also a concern of mine too.
Speaker 4 (03:09):
Yeah, would I be mad at a bummer?
Speaker 5 (03:11):
I think if somebody responds bummer if your dog sick,
I mean maybe I would have been like, Okay.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
Maybe, yeah, you know, maybe that's what she's like. Bummer
is more than a bummer?
Speaker 4 (03:18):
Yeah? Maybe? All right, Andy, Well we'll try to figure
it out.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
We'll play a song and then come back and call
her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting
you and maybe get you another date.
Speaker 3 (03:26):
Okay, all right, thank you.
Speaker 4 (03:28):
All right, we'll get your first day follow up next.
Right in the middle of today's first date follow up,
if you're just.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
Joining us, Andy is on the phone and he's getting
ghosted by Serena. So in a second we're going to
call her and see if she'll tell us why she's
ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But first, Andy,
why don't you catch everybody up on your situation?
Speaker 3 (03:43):
Yeah, so I met Serena on Bumble.
Speaker 7 (03:46):
We've spent a few weeks talking facetiming before we finally
met or plans to meet up in person. And then
during that time, you know, I wore a T shirt,
plaid shorts, white shoes that she told me to pick out.
I was waiting for her and I got a text
said her dog was stick and that she need taken
to the vet.
Speaker 3 (04:03):
So the date never happened, and I haven't heard from
her sex.
Speaker 4 (04:05):
And it might be because he responded, bummer, All right, Andy,
are you ready to call her?
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (04:14):
Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, man speak to Serena.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
Please m.
Speaker 4 (04:31):
Yeah, Hi Serena. My name is Jewbell. I host so
Rato show. It's called the Jewbel Show. Hi, Serena, I'm Nina.
The whole show's here. Hi, and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 3 (04:38):
How are you.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
Hi? I'm good.
Speaker 4 (04:43):
We're calling you today because we got an email about
you from somebody who listens to the show and they
wanted us to call you. Okay, So we do a
segment on the show. It's called the first Date follow Up.
What that is is if you go out on a
date with somebody and then you end up ghosting them,
they can ask us to get you on the phone
and ask why you're them. So a dude named Andy
emailed us. He told us about your date. Well, the
(05:05):
date that didn't happen, and then asked if we could
call you and ask why are you ghosted him?
Speaker 1 (05:12):
Wow, that's really cute. You know, he's that far to
see what happened, so.
Speaker 4 (05:19):
You think it's cute. Is your dog? Okay?
Speaker 1 (05:21):
No, no, I didn't. He's just not what I thought
he would be.
Speaker 4 (05:26):
And uh, the dog, no, Andy, Andie, do you have
a dog?
Speaker 1 (05:32):
Even? Whoa? I mean we chatted for a while in
a bumble. It was nice getting to know him. Yeah,
and he also like, I actually don't have a dog.
Speaker 4 (05:48):
I figured that's where it was going.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
Yeah. So when I walked up to go to the
date they we didn't go on, I saw him sitting
there like a puppy dog. He had like a rose
and some dirty white sneakers, and I'm just like, I'm
not busy, but Helena keeps up the sneakers just kind
of shays a.
Speaker 4 (06:10):
Lot, you know, So it's the dirty shoes.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
Yeah, Like I don't know, just it wasn't. He didn't
look like he did any pictures.
Speaker 4 (06:19):
Wait, but he had a rose there, yeah, but he
just like I was just sitting.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
There like a like a bad puppy dog.
Speaker 5 (06:26):
Like it just like, I don't know, you felt like
you could bulldozehim. I mean sometimes sometimes that's sometimes that's
the thing. I mean it sounds a little shallow, but
sometimes you know, if you're gonna like be too much
for somebody.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
Yeah, and if I did have a dog and he
replied a bummers or your dogs like come on, okay.
Speaker 5 (06:48):
So it was because he was sitting like a puppy
dog and he had dirty sneakers. Oh so what did
dirty sneaker say about him?
Speaker 4 (06:54):
Man to you?
Speaker 1 (06:55):
I mean, come on, it's the first day. If you
can't like see in your shoes or.
Speaker 4 (06:59):
Like wear some like, come on, like was it a nice,
like fancy restaurant that you were going to.
Speaker 1 (07:06):
I mean I wasn't a fatty restaurant. It was just
like a caffe. But still, come on, like, come on,
just at least wash your shoes or buy a new
pair on the first feet.
Speaker 5 (07:15):
I get presenting yourself nicely. I wouldn't And we don't
have to go as far as buy new shoes, but
I mean keeping them, you know, do you think about that?
Speaker 4 (07:23):
I do. I try not to wear dirty shoes if
I go places. But also yeah, but I'm one of
those people that always wants, you know, tries to clean
my shoes and stuff too. Right, some people don't care though,
I mean.
Speaker 1 (07:33):
Well I cared, and I was just sitting there with
like a rose, like not even like a bookcase of
like a rose. Now it's really wimpy, you know.
Speaker 2 (07:43):
Well okay, well, thank you for telling us. And now, Serena,
I'll let you know that Andy is actually on the
phone listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 3 (07:51):
What say, I'm a whimp because I have dirty shoes
and a rose. You lied about having a sick dog.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
I mean.
Speaker 3 (08:03):
I was wearing when you told me to wear. I
didn't tell you to wear dirty shoes.
Speaker 1 (08:08):
And you know, come on, first impressions or kind of
big Well, I went out and.
Speaker 6 (08:14):
Bought a new shirt and plaid shorts because I didn't
have any I wasn't thinking about my shoes.
Speaker 3 (08:19):
I'm sorry.
Speaker 1 (08:20):
Oh that's a bummer.
Speaker 3 (08:22):
So you so you saw me sitting there, and instead
of coming up to me and saying anything.
Speaker 6 (08:27):
Like an adult, you just walked away and hid lied
about having a dog that was sick, and you're saying
that I'm aware, yeah, I mean a little bit.
Speaker 1 (08:37):
And you don't even look like your pictures, so.
Speaker 3 (08:40):
You know what, you didn't look like your pictures either.
You didn't look evil.
Speaker 2 (08:45):
Well, I think that was the appropriate time to ask Serena,
would you like to go on another day with Andy?
Speaker 4 (08:49):
We'll pay for it.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
No, thank you, no.
Speaker 3 (08:55):
Good luck, though I wish you the best.
Speaker 4 (08:57):
Candy, somebody's gonna appreciate your rose.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
Thank you. I think I'm dodging a bullet, you know what.
Speaker 6 (09:03):
Well, I'll pay attention to if you ever do end
up getting a dog, and I'm gonna call a spc
I on you, because yeah, you shouldn't be owning an animals.
Speaker 4 (09:13):
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