February 17, 2026 • 34 mins
This week Falen and Jenny reveal why Jenny's dress was soaking wet the morning after Tina's wedding, Falen claims she sh*t in Jenny's room in Punta Cana, something Falen is thinking about doing to stay on top of her health, the year of the horse and what we are hoping it brings for both of us, and more!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, we're talking about the most random shit right
now before we start this podcast. But Hi, we're back.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
I'm in perimenopaus and I went on a tear last
night to Jake. Moodswings are part of it, and for
no reason at all, I said, I guess you know
the last time we had sex. He's like, yep, and
I go, that was the last time we're having sex?
Out of nowhere, and I said, get used to fucking
sour dough.
Speaker 3 (00:23):
He goes, So I was like a dense fuck. I
said it's gonna be and he's like, what is happening?
I was just out of nowhere. Right before bed, we're
in the bathroom. This microphone is wild. Yeah, you're gonna
dost studio.
Speaker 1 (00:35):
Oh the studio we used to record it doesn't exist
anymore because the whole office is getting redone. But well,
I mean, I'm not going to say poor Jake, because
like it is just the way that men have to
get used to us deciding when we want to have sex,
you know.
Speaker 3 (00:50):
Yeah, but I mean it's not true.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
I will bless him with my starfishing again soon, I'm sure.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
Can I ask you real quick because I know we
have a lot of things we want to cover. But
I thought about it if we had.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
Sex in your room before you switched rooms with us,
and oh, I didn't.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
Even think about that, did you guys? Know? Okay, good, because.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
We did have sex in your first room.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
Well good, I'm happy after that left. I'm happy to
hear that. Also, Fallon threatened me and said that she's
ship in one of the events when we switched rooms,
which I don't know if we did. We tell the
story last week. No, I don't think we did. So
if you have no idea what we're talking about. At
Tina's wedding, we are all over the vice. At Tina's wedding,
(01:34):
we all check in at the same time, me and
Brie who were rooming together, and then Fallon and Jake
and we all of a sudden, they're like, all right,
one king bed for me and Brie and we're like what,
And then everyone around us was getting like double beds.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
We got, but I was in a mood and they
were like trying to get me a wet cloth.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
I was like, I don't want the fucking wet cloth.
I was like, I don't want anything.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
I just want food in my room, and they were
like trying to make it an experience.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
So I think they just gave me that were a bitch.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
No, I think. So we paid to have the pool view,
not the tropical view that you guys did, which we
paid a little bit more for creeping right, and so
we paid a little bit more to have that view,
not much. And then we get there and it's a
king bedroom and I'm like, Okay, I was in the
issues crazy physical pain at the time. I'm I was
barely sleeping. I could only sleep in like one position,
(02:22):
and if I had to move at all, it'd be
so uncomfortable. And I didn't want to put breathe through
me getting up in the night because like I would
literally get up and take a hot shower at like
two am.
Speaker 3 (02:30):
Sometimes that is not all you did.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
You took a bath in your dress, Okay, you forgot
took a shower like a normal person.
Speaker 3 (02:40):
No, you got drunk and you took a bath in
your dress that you passed out in.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
Forgot to mention that fun too, and found your wet
dress on the floor.
Speaker 3 (02:50):
The next day.
Speaker 1 (02:51):
My dress that I wore for Teena's wedding was soaking
wet on the bathroom floor. The morning after Teena's wedding,
Bree told me I passed out in it, and then
I get up in the morning. I'm in pajamas. Now,
mind you, I have laid out my pajamas for the weekend.
I'm not wearing those. They were laying on my bed.
I'm wearing a different random T shirt that was in
(03:12):
my suitcase. I'm wearing the sleeping shorts that we all
had to buy for like pictures for Tina's getting ready.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
Stuff made no sense.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
No, it was just a clusterfuck. So anyways, back to
Falon shitting in the events, So Fellon threatens that she's
in the events.
Speaker 3 (03:26):
No, I said, I'll switch a route.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
You didn't get his par so I said, Jenny, we
have a too bad you guys, can we can just
switch rooms? Well, it's crossed the pool, it's not a
big deal, so we as we're changing.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
Yes.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
First, No, I sent you a photo to show you
what your view with like, okay, because you said yours
was so great.
Speaker 3 (03:43):
It was Jake taking his shirt off and you didn't
respond because it Hake said you'd probably.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
Done something because I didn't want to see that. Yeah. No,
I didn't respond because I'm a cheap bitch, and I
didn't want to get charged for texting. So once we
got to the Dominican, I was like, I can't text anyone.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
He was like, just put your phone an airplane and
I was text on, WHI FI you cheat, bitch.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
But yeah, so Fallon tells us that she's ship in
the events, but we can definitely switch rooms.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
So we tell her which event.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
Yeah, so we switch, and I didn't, you know, I
didn't smell anything funky. I didn't see shit anywhere until
I pulled back my sheets on my bed and there
was like a brown stain up in the top corner.
I was like, did just shit on the bed?
Speaker 3 (04:27):
We were the only thing.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
We did in that room is we both like Peede,
and we changed into our out because we had no time.
We literally changed into an outfit to go to the
rehearsal dinner. So unfortunately that chit was for someone else,
not me.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
I would never Yeah, there was that, and then I
one other thing. I know, we already did a whole
podcast on Tina's wedding, but these are some more tidbits.
I don't think I've ever been around so many people
who have been so comfortable about talking about shit between
Tina's dad telling the whole fucking resort that he had
gotten food poisoning, was blowing his brains out with the.
Speaker 3 (05:01):
Pool next to him. I heard him tell that story.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
It was that another one of Tina's friend's husband's.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
He explosed, yes, yes, he did.
Speaker 1 (05:13):
One of Tina's friend's husbands. I had to hop on
like an emergency work call, even though he was on
vacation because of something that happened in the company. He
was shitting on the toilet the whole time, he said,
And he said he'd put he kept his finger over
the camera even though he had his camera off, but
just in case, he kept it with the finger of
his camera. Jake's telling me about a fucking rocket ship
he landed in the toilet at dinner one night, or
(05:36):
maybe not at dinner, but all I know is a raven.
Our friend was like, you, guys, I just this is
not I don't want you have to stop, and I'm like,
give me more. Come on, Jake, tell me all about it.
Like anyways, lots of poop talk at Tina's wedding.
Speaker 2 (05:48):
He's Jake has discovered the root cause of the discolouration
and at the Bamba sauce from Trader shows.
Speaker 3 (05:57):
Can't go in it. He can't quit it.
Speaker 2 (05:59):
I got for like the sandwich that went viral, and
it's kind of like a little bit of a spicy
but it's just like the right amount of heat peppery
sauce you put on sandwiches. And he's obsessed with it
and he knows that it wrecks him and has horrible results,
but he says he can't quit it.
Speaker 3 (06:15):
So anyway, so.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
Yeah, it's a little bit about us. How did we
even start this?
Speaker 3 (06:21):
Yeah, I too.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
My two big topics for the show today are I'm
officially in perimenopause. I haven't gotten into like test hormone levels,
but there's just no chance I'm not. So I looked
up all the symptoms last night when I couldn't sleep.
My superpower is I sleep anytime, anywhere, And like last
week I had a night, but I had a night
(06:43):
after like I got some information that like made my
brunt brain kind of run wild. So I was like,
maybe that's what it is. And then I last night
did not have that, but it was like I could
not stop my brain, and that is just not normal
to me, Like when people we'll talk about, like like
people we've worked with, they'll go home from jingle Ball,
(07:04):
for instance, and they're like, I can't just go to bed.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
I can eat.
Speaker 2 (07:08):
I've always been able to, So I'm like, this is weird,
what's happening? And I have been having these awful night sweats,
I'm sweating profusely and getting random hot flashes. All these
are obvious signs. But then I also didn't get a
period at all in January started at February first, and
I was like, Okay, what the fuck? Everything is a symptom.
(07:28):
I'm like, after like last night, me just looking up
more symptoms when I couldn't sleep, I'm like, it has
to be it. So anyway, a long story longer, I'm
gonna like look into like hormone replacement therapy and stuff.
So there's I don't know enough about it, so I'm
not gonna talk about it in depth because I haven't
spoken to my doctor. I just know that that is
a thing that for like people of my mother's generation,
(07:52):
and even after that, in typical fashion, there's just been
no information or studies done on a female body for
important things. Every woman goes through perimenopause and menopause. It
can be different ages, and it's just like there's no research,
so it's like just like sorry, women, just suffer through
all these horrible side effects.
Speaker 3 (08:13):
You'll eventually get through it. No, you shouldn't have to.
It's like anything.
Speaker 2 (08:17):
So I think there was even like some reports that
were found to not be true about hormone replacement therapy,
and so now people are trying to disprove that. I
have so many people message me today because I posted
it to be on Instagram saying do it, because go talk
to your doctor about it. There are like female like
specific clinics, et cetera, et cetera. I mean, my primary
(08:39):
care is still through my OBGI N so it's an
easy place, like I just go. I just literally text
my nurse practitioner Chancy shout out, and she'll set me
with appointments to get in with her. But yeah, it's
like supposed to just help with the side effects and
get you through it without having severe side effects. And
that's like what I want, because's like one thing I'm
really worried about, even more so than the hot flashes,
(09:03):
is you have brain fog and.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
Forgetfulness.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
I cannot afford that with my job. That is like
my thing that I'm good at in my job is
quick thinking. I cannot have brain fog issues like I
just so, I'm like, I gotta nip this.
Speaker 3 (09:24):
In the bud.
Speaker 1 (09:24):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
So that is my number one topic perimenopause. My number
two is the Chinese New Year. This is my fucking year.
Speaker 1 (09:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:33):
Literally, don't even start last night. This is how into ida.
Why are you telling me not to start? Okay, don't
I'm not okay. So it is the year of the aries.
Everything has told me that it is our time. We've
been in this like horrid space for like fourteen months, which,
by the way, my I just marked my fourteenth year here,
So is that a coincidence.
Speaker 3 (09:54):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (09:55):
So I don't mean to Minnesota. I was just joking
about radio in general here, but it says this is
my year and like things are happening. And then I
started seeing and if you're in areas, it's your year two,
good for you. But it said things to not do
on Chinese New Year, and then one thing was like
(10:15):
don't do like any house cleaning, like don't sweep, don't
take out the trash, don't So last night I said
to Jaco, go do not take out the trash tomorrow.
Speaker 3 (10:24):
I knew he wasn't gonna fucking sweet.
Speaker 1 (10:26):
For today, for today, okay.
Speaker 2 (10:27):
I was like, for the year, just today, on the
New Year everything, there are all these things you shouldn't
do on the do them tomorrow.
Speaker 1 (10:35):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (10:36):
So it was like, don't take naps, don't like it's
it symbolizes this stuff for the year.
Speaker 3 (10:41):
Now. Have I ever leaned it in Chinese New Year before?
Speaker 1 (10:44):
No?
Speaker 2 (10:44):
But now that I know that this year is my year,
I'm all about. So last night I'm laying in bed.
This is after I told Jake to fox sourdough and
I said, do not take out the trash tomorrow. And
he goes, I literally have to take out the trash tomorrow.
I go, if you take out the trash tomorrow, you're
ruining our entire year. And he goes, what are you
talking about? So I tell him, and you know what,
(11:04):
he's so used to me. He goes, all right, he
got up, he went and took out the trash because
I said, you're not putting negativity into our entire year.
So the trash was done yesterday. No trash or sweeping
is happening today?
Speaker 1 (11:19):
Okay, I didn't hear any of that stuff. I have
a little bit of a question though, because the year
of the Horse is something different than aries, because obviously
aris is like astrological signs. Year of the horse has
to do with Chinese. What's it called? Is it no
zodiacs too? Okay?
Speaker 2 (11:37):
So I am a rat because so the Chinese zodiac
is on your birth year, yes, not on your birth month,
and I'm a horse, yes, it's a big year for you.
Speaker 3 (11:46):
It is.
Speaker 2 (11:47):
So my exact opposite on the Chinese is the horse.
But instead of it being like a bad thing that
it's my opposite, it is actually a good thing. But
it does still line up, I guess with the zodiac
because the way that I've had it explained through my
(12:10):
various algorithms, it has to do with like planet alignment still,
and I guess ares have been behind, following behind or
something like a neptune for like this like fourteen year cycle,
and that's finally changing. So it's supposed to just be
(12:31):
like we've had a very unlucky like last year was
an unlucky year, and it's been like rough go for us.
But this year it's like we break free from that
planet and it's game on.
Speaker 3 (12:41):
Baby.
Speaker 2 (12:41):
It's like our year to go for it. But obviously,
since you're a horse, it's a good year for you.
What do you foresee that meaning for you? Because we
always read into things how we want to read into them, right, Yes,
I would say that, did you look into it enough
to see if last year was like a bad luck
(13:02):
year for you? I mean, in reality it was like
one of your worst years.
Speaker 1 (13:06):
I don't think I read into it enough. I just
like had heard it was the year of the snake,
which means shedding, So like that's kind of what I
took it as, not to like go specifically into like
what it was if I'm a horse or a chorus or.
Speaker 3 (13:17):
Whatever it is.
Speaker 1 (13:18):
But I don't know for this year. I guess everything
I've been reading it's like you're gonna have a good year,
you're gonna prosper, you're gonna do this and that. But
don't be impulsive is what I was reading. And so
I was like, oh God, there's so many impulsive thoughts
I have, Like do I quit my life and just
go live in the van? Like things like that happen
pretty often, especially after I just spent the weekend in
the band and I loved every second of it and
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I was by myself. So it's like, I don't know
for sure, but I think that happiness can come in
so many different forms, and I'm like learning that the
form that I feel like I was getting happiness from
is like not really in my life anymore. And so
and I've found like other ways that honestly I think,
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aligned with who I am as a person more now
that give me happiness.
Speaker 3 (14:05):
Do you want to give an example of a couple
of those or is it O.
Speaker 1 (14:09):
No, I feel like I want to find something that's worthwhile.
I guess it's just like this is silly, but when
my house is up to the standard of clean and
put together, and then I also accomplish a couple other
things on my list, that brings me a lot of happiness.
When I was in a relationship, I feel like I
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got kind of like lazy and didn't focus on things
that I would normally get done if I was just
by myself, and so I wasn't realizing like what kind
of toll that was taking on me mentally, Whereas like
now I go home and I feel like my home
is more honestly my home than it was before, and
(14:50):
I'm much more successful in things I put my mind
to than I was before. But I think that that
obviously comes with like, well, I'm not living with someone
and I'm not like sitting around talking to them instead
of accomplishing things like if I'm home alone, I'm usually
like accomplishing stuff. So I feel like I've learned that
in a future relationship, I have to make sure that
(15:12):
I'm still accomplishing all of these things that make me
happy and not just like sitting around chatting because that's
what my partner wants to do.
Speaker 3 (15:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (15:19):
I know there's compromise built in there, of course, but
just a lot of things that I wasn't doing before
that I know that they make me happy as a person. Yeah,
it's kind of a vague example, but I don't know.
What do you foresee this year being for you?
Speaker 2 (15:33):
Then it's talking about like starting something new and big
and things, so I foresee you know, I've talked about
this for a while of like needing to figure out
a better balance, and I genuinely believe this year I will,
like I have, like I've put in a lot of
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like thought and work into what I want and how
I want it to go. Now will it all play
out perfectly? No, But I'm feeling like more optimist optimism
not just because it's the Chinese New Year. Then I
am fear. Now when I make decisions, fear will probably
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come into play. But I think that that's also normal
and that's healthy, and but you have to take risks
on yourself. So I'm willing to do that this year.
I'm willing to take some risks on myself and realign
things that I'm lacking because due to.
Speaker 3 (16:33):
Exhaustion and things.
Speaker 2 (16:36):
I'm honestly, I'm like, re I'm going to I'm looking
I posted about your shape, But I'm like, I'm going
to reapproach my friendships. Like if people don't reach out
and text me and ask me to do things, if
they every time I ask them they're like no, then
I'm like, I'm pulling back on those friendships because it
feels too one sided. And I am not saying I'm
(16:57):
not like that to certain people. I am like, I
have like a few friends probably that reach out to
me more, and I wouldn't blame them if they pulled
back from me as well. I think it's an unhealthy balance,
and I think it's like a new transitional year for me.
I think I'm getting older and I need to reevaluate
adding I think some new people into my friendships, people
(17:20):
who are maybe in more similar places in life to
me and who are more available. Like I, you know,
I got really down because I'm like, I don't have
a single person that I can think of that I
can text and say, do you want to get coffee
this morning? And they would actually get coffee with me,
Like I don't. I maybe could with Jason, but I
don't even know. He's kind of busy at times. I
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don't think I have a single friend that would just
easily be like yes, back in the day, it was
my friend Harry. Harry is in a relationship now and
that's not a knock on him. He has more plans
because of it. But I don't have anyone and I
and that that makes me really sad, like I spent
so like I put so much value into my friendships
and oh, like I honestly think to the detriment of
(18:02):
my relationships sometimes, like I've put friendships above relationships. I
don't do that with Jake. But yeah, I think like
I have like a neighbor, I like a lot. I
have another friend I really like, and it's like I've
kind of kept them at a distance, not feeling like
I had enough energy to give. And now I think
I'm just gonna shift my current friendships and put more
energy into them because they've reached out to me to
(18:24):
do more stuff. And I think that that's going to
be Like I think it's like finding the people who
are there for you. And I think that like I
saw that as a thing and I was like, you
know what, that's true, and so I think that's part
of the shedding portion too, and like moving forward. So
I think that, like there are different sides of those things,
(18:46):
like not I always lean so much career based, but
there's so much more that goes into life than career.
So but focusing on my health is a big one
for me as I'm getting older, noticing these changes in
my body. I've been eating terribly for like two and
a half weeks now, like out of control, not working out,
I've been sick for two straight weeks. It's just been
(19:09):
like I just need to get things back on track,
so getting water, getting my minerals, focusing on like some weightlifting,
you know, things that I need to getting my walks.
I did a couple of walks this weekend, and it
was just nice to get some fresh air. So focusing
on bettering myself and hopefully finding a way to get
sleep because although I don't feel terrible today, and it did,
(19:31):
I will say me not sleeping last night did benefit
me because I watched the finale to tell me lies, Yeah,
and it's better to watch that show in the dark
because it's a dark show. And I had like complete
silence in my house for once in my fucking life,
and I got to truly enjoy the finale. And this
is a no spoilers situation. I love the finale and
I'm actually sad that it's gone, but so actually happy
(19:53):
that they're ending it after three seasons.
Speaker 1 (19:55):
I was gonna ask serious finale or series?
Speaker 3 (19:57):
Okay, three seasons? Serious?
Speaker 2 (19:59):
F The creator finally confirmed it last night because people
were kind of like she'd always said it was meant
to be three seasons, but you know how people are,
like money and success, they'll do another one. And she
said that they looked and try to figure out different
ways to do it another season, and they just think
that this was the way to end it, and it
was a in my opinion, a perfect ending.
Speaker 1 (20:17):
That was another show I fell off of, just like
this summer I turned.
Speaker 3 (20:21):
Pretty Yeah, I felt that one too.
Speaker 1 (20:22):
Tell me lies the second season, I.
Speaker 3 (20:24):
Well, they took a long time between seasons.
Speaker 1 (20:26):
Yeah, too well. I didn't even like finish second the
second season, I wasn't vibing with it. I loved the
first season, but then it, just like the whole show
gave me too much anxiety. I hated.
Speaker 2 (20:37):
I had very anxiety show. And every character is pretty awful.
Speaker 1 (20:40):
Yeah they are, and that's why I was like, I
can't like, people can't be like this in real life
in my opinion, Like, I know there are people like that,
but that many people in one group.
Speaker 3 (20:50):
I know, like it's pretty other.
Speaker 1 (20:51):
So I yeah, I definitely fell off season two. But
I don't know. You will talk about things like this
and then it makes me want to go back and
maybe restarted. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (20:59):
Well, they would do flash forward and flash back on
the show, and between the three seasons, I would forget
what had happened. So there were some things where I
was like, Okay, but I have like a couple of
friends I text a lot about my sister in law
and Raven, my friend. She watches it, so we kept
the hype train going between us and my brother in
law Michael.
Speaker 3 (21:20):
He's also into it.
Speaker 2 (21:21):
So it was like I have like my few friends
that I could text about it, which was really nice.
We also saw weathering Heights this weekend. Yeah, I'm not
getting into it again.
Speaker 3 (21:29):
It was bizarre. See it if you want to. It's long,
but you liked it.
Speaker 1 (21:32):
I thought you did it.
Speaker 3 (21:34):
It was good.
Speaker 2 (21:34):
I would never watch it again. Probably it was very long,
and that's probably the main reason. Two hours, sixteen minutes.
I feel bad saying this. I feel sexist because, like
so long you've like watched older men be with younger women.
I didn't feel like Margot Robbie and Jacob a Lordie
just because they're both hot, were a good match. She
(21:56):
feels older than him, and that's okay. Older women are
allowed to be with younger men. But like, the book
is not about a thirty five year old woman, and
I know that they took a lot of liberties with
this book, like it's very different. But like I think
the issue is like kind of like her sexual awakening,
and that's.
Speaker 3 (22:18):
At thirty five.
Speaker 2 (22:19):
That's probably not when your sexual awakening is happening. No,
So I just think that they were like, I think
they overpitched. We have great chemistry, and there were some
hot scenes, but it's not like, I don't know, it
makes me so fucking horny, like they're acting like it would.
The movie's dark and weird.
Speaker 1 (22:38):
Yeah, I've seen the reels where it's like people saying
that there's like wetness on the seats afterwards, and I
was like, oh, is it really?
Speaker 3 (22:45):
There's no new to either.
Speaker 2 (22:46):
And I'm not saying I needed to see Maro Robbie's boobs,
and I get why she didn't show them, but like
even Jacob Louri when it shows his back, I'm not
talking about his butt hit a back double.
Speaker 3 (22:55):
I don't know, Like, I just there were hot moments,
but I thought they were all.
Speaker 1 (23:00):
It didn't make you want to go home and bang Jake.
Speaker 3 (23:03):
Well, we were so sick.
Speaker 2 (23:05):
Maybe if we weren't both just sneezing and snodding and
super sick.
Speaker 1 (23:09):
Yeah, but he still got after it with the cellar dough.
Speaker 3 (23:12):
Or no TBD. I don't know what he did. And
you know what, that's good.
Speaker 1 (23:16):
God bless him.
Speaker 3 (23:17):
Yeah, I hope he did. Did you have sex on
Valentine's Day?
Speaker 1 (23:21):
Not on Valentine's Day because I was by myself in
the van, so he didn't do anything, that's true, But
honestly the day before, Yes, however, that was literally the
first time since.
Speaker 3 (23:33):
Your neck issues.
Speaker 1 (23:35):
Yeah, honestly, it'd probably been like a month because I
could barely do like anything without feeling pain. And it's
not just my neck by the way, it was like
my shoulder in my arm. It's actually more my upper
arm that I feel pain in consistently still, and it
was my back too, So anyway, I was not able
to move it very easily for a very long time.
(23:58):
So anytime we'd be together, I would like try to
like lay on him a little bit, and then I'd
last like two minutes without having to move to get
in a different comfortable position, which is basically just me
sitting upright with my right arm expanded next to my side.
Yeah it anyways, So yes, it had been a little
while for me and that poor man. I actually I
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don't feel bad for him because it's life, and he
wasn't upset about it by any means. He perfectly understood
the situation, but it was like kind of up in
the air still if it was going to happen on Friday.
And it did and it was fine and there was
no pain for yeah, my side, I don't know on
his side.
Speaker 3 (24:38):
Every man's dream. It was fine.
Speaker 1 (24:41):
You know, well, we do need to read some emails.
We didn't you bring it up because.
Speaker 2 (24:46):
They're also even after last week, we like literally said,
there's no way they're changing the date.
Speaker 3 (24:53):
And it is not the twenties.
Speaker 1 (24:54):
I said on it, I did. I watched that wild
say it's on the Saturday.
Speaker 3 (24:58):
And it did.
Speaker 2 (24:59):
So it's the twenty eighth our live podcast. It's going
to be at Top ten Liquors in Roseville. I think
they're getting like thirty or forty chairs, so that's all
that can come. I think it's thirty. We haven't talked
the one thing we haven't They will have a little
sample so you'll be able to try things like in
little Dixie cups, like little if you're curious about like
I think CBD drinks or wines or whatever. I think
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they're gonna have samples and then we'll just do like
a live podcast and get some picks. But I have
no idea how we're giving away seats. Is it like
a just come.
Speaker 1 (25:33):
I don't know that information yet either, I would.
Speaker 3 (25:35):
Say just come. You know why. Here's why. Well, part
of me feels like we need to reserve.
Speaker 1 (25:41):
I do think enough too, because.
Speaker 2 (25:42):
Then no one will show up assuming it'll be taken. Yeah,
but then I also like when you reserve thirty, this
is how events work. Thirty people sign up, fifteen come. Yeah,
and it's very frustrating. But everyone always has an emergency
and I don't. I mean I don't think they do.
I think they're like, oh, I actually don't want to
go do so thing today. One person has emerged, everyone
else kind of like, uh so it's it's uh, I
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don't know.
Speaker 3 (26:05):
How we'll do it.
Speaker 2 (26:06):
That's the one thing we haven't discussed is how to
give away. It won't be by the way, it won't
cost money either way.
Speaker 1 (26:11):
Oh yeah, free free samplings of some bevies and free
entertainment from us. That's okay. We never prepare for our podcast,
by the way, so like, do you think we should
prepare for this one? Probably?
Speaker 3 (26:23):
I know some like discussion points, but we do have emails.
We'll dive into those here.
Speaker 1 (26:28):
I can read this one right away. It says Jenny
and Fallen love the podcast, can't wait for the live show.
They do not want to say their name because they said.
I just had to write in because a couple episodes ago,
Fallen had asked if Jenny's new guy had noticed the
ringworm on her booty while enjoying a specific position.
Speaker 3 (26:43):
Jenny does not have the ringworm as TV going around.
Speaker 1 (26:45):
By the way, Yeah, thank you for everyone who was concerned, though,
I appreciate it. So the Pacific specific position was doggie style,
and she mentioned that she had not done that position
yet with him, and Fallen said that that it's probably
because he was worried he wouldn't last long. I think
you both mentioned how you too enjoy that position quite well,
and it got me thinking that I too enjoyed that
position quite well. So I got to talking to my
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husband and mentioned, you know, I think my favorite position
is doggie style. We should do it more often. My
husband replies, unfortunately, pause, it's my favorite position as well, laughing.
I laughed at his implication of Falan's reasoning a why
Jenny and her new guy hadn't done it yet. Well, ladies,
fast forward to last night, and no joke. It is
(27:27):
in fact his favorite position and thanks to Jeff Bezos,
I was able to overnight a plan be and it
was on my front step this morning. As I do
not use birth control, poland Prey has been working for
six years, I just thought I let you know I'm
thinking about you and making my sexual position choices. I'm
honor you will not say your name.
Speaker 2 (27:47):
And before anyone gets honest, I don't want to hear
it about the pull and prey. We're not telling you
to do it. Yeah, that's just what they're choosing to do.
Speaker 1 (27:54):
So there we go.
Speaker 3 (27:55):
Here is We have.
Speaker 2 (27:56):
A bunch of emails. This one says just this is
a very, very just kind one, so I want to
read it. Thank you so much, Falon Jenny wanted to
take a moment to thank you both for that I'm
Still Fun podcast. I always look forward to new episodes.
Your humor, SaaS and honest take on girlhood friendships. It
brings so much light into my days, along with the
fun recommendations I didn't know I needed. I appreciate how
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real you are, you don't pretend life is picture perfect,
and your willingness to share your vulnerabilities makes the podcast
feel safe, relatable, and genuinely comforting. I can't imagine how
challenging your professions must be, yet you both continue to
show up with heart, humor, and authenticity. You have so
much back to your communities and to the radio and
podcast world it doesn't go unnoticed. Thank you for your
consistency bringing joy, laughter, and a reminder that we can
(28:38):
still find fun even when life feels heavy. That's from Amber.
Thank you, Amber, so Umber. And some people don't want
us to use names. Let me delete that one. Okay,
I think we have one more.
Speaker 3 (28:51):
Did you get this one? I have your swift one,
I have.
Speaker 1 (28:53):
That one, And then there was another one about ringworm.
But we pretty much have addressed the situation, which is
that I am all good, I'm in the clear, and yeah.
Speaker 3 (29:03):
I don't know if I'm gonna have an answer for this.
Speaker 2 (29:06):
Recently, it was announced our girl Taita was nominated for
Songwriter Hall of Fame. The five songs she chose were
all Too Well to Minute, Version, Love Story, Anti Hero,
Blank Space, the Last Great American Dynasty. These are like
the five songs she thinks best demonstrates her writing by
the way to be nominated. Obviously, She's written so many
great songs that there would be differences among everyone's five
(29:27):
selected songs. I think that the ones that were selected
are pretty solid for me. I would switch out the
last great American Dyasty for Cruel Summer Jenny. I know
you're not a Swifty, but contribute if you would like.
But what would be your five songs that you would select? Actually,
somewhere have a list?
Speaker 1 (29:45):
Say I can't. I can't all time speak on that.
I like her a lot. I became real obsessed with
the last album that came out, and I think I
will become a Swifty eventually. But I don't have enough
knowledge to have an opinion on this.
Speaker 3 (29:58):
I definitely will.
Speaker 2 (30:00):
I look for like my actual just list, and my
favorite Taylor Swift songs will confirm that all too well.
The timidt version is definitely the best overall selection. I
think most people do agree that is her best song
of all time, so I do think that that would
come into play. Sorry, I'm really trying to find my
(30:20):
list because it would help me remember what my favorite
songs are.
Speaker 3 (30:27):
It's going to take me a minute. Should we delete
this whole thing out?
Speaker 1 (30:31):
Or should I still like it, and you're keeping people
on the edge of their seats, all the Swifties out there.
I'll tell you something while Allan's looking for this that
she did say before the podcast started that made me
chuckle was she was talking about someone reaching out to
her to work with her, and she was like, I
don't know, I would like a little GLP one shot
in my ass and I was no, you said, asshole?
(30:53):
Do she said asshole? And I looked at her and
she's like, what, I don't know how they do it?
And I was like, yeah, not up your.
Speaker 2 (30:59):
Asshole, thank you, just asshole, thank you. Okay, I have
my list of my favorite songs. I would add into
Okay all too well. I would I do understand Cruel
Summer because it's arguably see the thing is like love
Story is like her first great storytelling song that like
(31:20):
was mass success. That is just not my favorite song.
My favorite songs are not country Taylor Swift, but that's
where I grew to love her as well, Like I
loved so many songs from Fearless, So it's hard for
me to base her young writing to her new writing
(31:42):
because it's obviously evolved so much. So I would say
all too Well, Tim and a version out of the
Woods is one of my top favorite songs. The one
is stunning and just amazing. I think mirror Ball is
right up there.
Speaker 3 (31:58):
Man.
Speaker 2 (32:00):
My two, like two of my favorite tailors have songs
of all time are Invisible String. Although I would not
have selected that to be her top one, would have,
could have, should have is like a deep cut from Midnights,
like Part two or whatever, And I just I think
it's stunning right where you left me, clean Daylight.
Speaker 3 (32:19):
Man.
Speaker 2 (32:19):
It's hard for me to choose, but I would probably
go all too Well. I do think blank Space was
probably a smart choice. Out of the Woods, mirror Ball,
and maybe God, I don't remember what I said, but
maybe right where You left me or what it could have.
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I just think it's hard to not include songs from
like Folklore, which was such a lyrics and I don't
have anything, by the way from her new like Tortured
Poet Department, which has very beautiful writing on it.
Speaker 3 (32:54):
And I'm gonna be honest, I would.
Speaker 2 (32:55):
Not include anything from the Life of a Showgirl probably
on her top best songs. I don't think I answered
your question, but thank you for a fantastic question.
Speaker 1 (33:05):
You at least gave some examples. I don't even know
some of those songs that you listened, so I'm clearly
not a Swiftie.
Speaker 3 (33:13):
I like her, though, you too, That's okay. I don't
think you have to know deep cuts.
Speaker 1 (33:17):
I'm sorry. I like sitting awkwardly right now because my
back is starting to hurt. And this is what happens
now I did. I finally got to witness in the
airport me doing some of my exercises I have, like
physical therapy exercises I have to do at home every day,
and I did do them in the middle of the
chalet at Spirit Mountain this weekend, and I didn't care.
I'm sure everyone was like, what is this drunk bitch doing?
(33:38):
That's what I was like. I can't I can't help it.
Just deal with it.
Speaker 3 (33:43):
How long is this podcast today?
Speaker 1 (33:45):
We're at thirty three minutes.
Speaker 2 (33:46):
Oh, I thought I really rambled really long time on
that Chinese New Year stuff.
Speaker 1 (33:51):
Okay, well, happy Chinese New Year. We were all over
the fucking place, though, so I think that's where I
got confusing.
Speaker 3 (33:57):
Many blessings, thanks for listening.
Speaker 1 (33:59):
Tacking next week
All right, we're talking about the most random shit right
now before we start this podcast. But Hi, we're back.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
I'm in perimenopaus and I went on a tear last
night to Jake. Moodswings are part of it, and for
no reason at all, I said, I guess you know
the last time we had sex. He's like, yep, and
I go, that was the last time we're having sex?
Out of nowhere, and I said, get used to fucking
sour dough.
Speaker 3 (00:23):
He goes, So I was like a dense fuck. I
said it's gonna be and he's like, what is happening?
I was just out of nowhere. Right before bed, we're
in the bathroom. This microphone is wild. Yeah, you're gonna
dost studio.
Speaker 1 (00:35):
Oh the studio we used to record it doesn't exist
anymore because the whole office is getting redone. But well,
I mean, I'm not going to say poor Jake, because
like it is just the way that men have to
get used to us deciding when we want to have sex,
you know.
Speaker 3 (00:50):
Yeah, but I mean it's not true.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
I will bless him with my starfishing again soon, I'm sure.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
Can I ask you real quick because I know we
have a lot of things we want to cover. But
I thought about it if we had.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
Sex in your room before you switched rooms with us,
and oh, I didn't.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
Even think about that, did you guys? Know? Okay, good, because.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
We did have sex in your first room.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
Well good, I'm happy after that left. I'm happy to
hear that. Also, Fallon threatened me and said that she's
ship in one of the events when we switched rooms,
which I don't know if we did. We tell the
story last week. No, I don't think we did. So
if you have no idea what we're talking about. At
Tina's wedding, we are all over the vice. At Tina's wedding,
(01:34):
we all check in at the same time, me and
Brie who were rooming together, and then Fallon and Jake
and we all of a sudden, they're like, all right,
one king bed for me and Brie and we're like what,
And then everyone around us was getting like double beds.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
We got, but I was in a mood and they
were like trying to get me a wet cloth.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
I was like, I don't want the fucking wet cloth.
I was like, I don't want anything.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
I just want food in my room, and they were
like trying to make it an experience.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
So I think they just gave me that were a bitch.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
No, I think. So we paid to have the pool view,
not the tropical view that you guys did, which we
paid a little bit more for creeping right, and so
we paid a little bit more to have that view,
not much. And then we get there and it's a
king bedroom and I'm like, Okay, I was in the
issues crazy physical pain at the time. I'm I was
barely sleeping. I could only sleep in like one position,
(02:22):
and if I had to move at all, it'd be
so uncomfortable. And I didn't want to put breathe through
me getting up in the night because like I would
literally get up and take a hot shower at like
two am.
Speaker 3 (02:30):
Sometimes that is not all you did.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
You took a bath in your dress, Okay, you forgot
took a shower like a normal person.
Speaker 3 (02:40):
No, you got drunk and you took a bath in
your dress that you passed out in.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
Forgot to mention that fun too, and found your wet
dress on the floor.
Speaker 3 (02:50):
The next day.
Speaker 1 (02:51):
My dress that I wore for Teena's wedding was soaking
wet on the bathroom floor. The morning after Teena's wedding,
Bree told me I passed out in it, and then
I get up in the morning. I'm in pajamas. Now,
mind you, I have laid out my pajamas for the weekend.
I'm not wearing those. They were laying on my bed.
I'm wearing a different random T shirt that was in
(03:12):
my suitcase. I'm wearing the sleeping shorts that we all
had to buy for like pictures for Tina's getting ready.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
Stuff made no sense.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
No, it was just a clusterfuck. So anyways, back to
Falon shitting in the events, So Fellon threatens that she's
in the events.
Speaker 3 (03:26):
No, I said, I'll switch a route.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
You didn't get his par so I said, Jenny, we
have a too bad you guys, can we can just
switch rooms? Well, it's crossed the pool, it's not a
big deal, so we as we're changing.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
Yes.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
First, No, I sent you a photo to show you
what your view with like, okay, because you said yours
was so great.
Speaker 3 (03:43):
It was Jake taking his shirt off and you didn't
respond because it Hake said you'd probably.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
Done something because I didn't want to see that. Yeah. No,
I didn't respond because I'm a cheap bitch, and I
didn't want to get charged for texting. So once we
got to the Dominican, I was like, I can't text anyone.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
He was like, just put your phone an airplane and
I was text on, WHI FI you cheat, bitch.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
But yeah, so Fallon tells us that she's ship in
the events, but we can definitely switch rooms.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
So we tell her which event.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
Yeah, so we switch, and I didn't, you know, I
didn't smell anything funky. I didn't see shit anywhere until
I pulled back my sheets on my bed and there
was like a brown stain up in the top corner.
I was like, did just shit on the bed?
Speaker 3 (04:27):
We were the only thing.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
We did in that room is we both like Peede,
and we changed into our out because we had no time.
We literally changed into an outfit to go to the
rehearsal dinner. So unfortunately that chit was for someone else,
not me.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
I would never Yeah, there was that, and then I
one other thing. I know, we already did a whole
podcast on Tina's wedding, but these are some more tidbits.
I don't think I've ever been around so many people
who have been so comfortable about talking about shit between
Tina's dad telling the whole fucking resort that he had
gotten food poisoning, was blowing his brains out with the.
Speaker 3 (05:01):
Pool next to him. I heard him tell that story.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
It was that another one of Tina's friend's husband's.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
He explosed, yes, yes, he did.
Speaker 1 (05:13):
One of Tina's friend's husbands. I had to hop on
like an emergency work call, even though he was on
vacation because of something that happened in the company. He
was shitting on the toilet the whole time, he said,
And he said he'd put he kept his finger over
the camera even though he had his camera off, but
just in case, he kept it with the finger of
his camera. Jake's telling me about a fucking rocket ship
he landed in the toilet at dinner one night, or
(05:36):
maybe not at dinner, but all I know is a raven.
Our friend was like, you, guys, I just this is
not I don't want you have to stop, and I'm like,
give me more. Come on, Jake, tell me all about it.
Like anyways, lots of poop talk at Tina's wedding.
Speaker 2 (05:48):
He's Jake has discovered the root cause of the discolouration
and at the Bamba sauce from Trader shows.
Speaker 3 (05:57):
Can't go in it. He can't quit it.
Speaker 2 (05:59):
I got for like the sandwich that went viral, and
it's kind of like a little bit of a spicy
but it's just like the right amount of heat peppery
sauce you put on sandwiches. And he's obsessed with it
and he knows that it wrecks him and has horrible results,
but he says he can't quit it.
Speaker 3 (06:15):
So anyway, so.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
Yeah, it's a little bit about us. How did we
even start this?
Speaker 3 (06:21):
Yeah, I too.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
My two big topics for the show today are I'm
officially in perimenopause. I haven't gotten into like test hormone levels,
but there's just no chance I'm not. So I looked
up all the symptoms last night when I couldn't sleep.
My superpower is I sleep anytime, anywhere, And like last
week I had a night, but I had a night
(06:43):
after like I got some information that like made my
brunt brain kind of run wild. So I was like,
maybe that's what it is. And then I last night
did not have that, but it was like I could
not stop my brain, and that is just not normal
to me, Like when people we'll talk about, like like
people we've worked with, they'll go home from jingle Ball,
(07:04):
for instance, and they're like, I can't just go to bed.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
I can eat.
Speaker 2 (07:08):
I've always been able to, So I'm like, this is weird,
what's happening? And I have been having these awful night sweats,
I'm sweating profusely and getting random hot flashes. All these
are obvious signs. But then I also didn't get a
period at all in January started at February first, and
I was like, Okay, what the fuck? Everything is a symptom.
(07:28):
I'm like, after like last night, me just looking up
more symptoms when I couldn't sleep, I'm like, it has
to be it. So anyway, a long story longer, I'm
gonna like look into like hormone replacement therapy and stuff.
So there's I don't know enough about it, so I'm
not gonna talk about it in depth because I haven't
spoken to my doctor. I just know that that is
a thing that for like people of my mother's generation,
(07:52):
and even after that, in typical fashion, there's just been
no information or studies done on a female body for
important things. Every woman goes through perimenopause and menopause. It
can be different ages, and it's just like there's no research,
so it's like just like sorry, women, just suffer through
all these horrible side effects.
Speaker 3 (08:13):
You'll eventually get through it. No, you shouldn't have to.
It's like anything.
Speaker 2 (08:17):
So I think there was even like some reports that
were found to not be true about hormone replacement therapy,
and so now people are trying to disprove that. I
have so many people message me today because I posted
it to be on Instagram saying do it, because go talk
to your doctor about it. There are like female like
specific clinics, et cetera, et cetera. I mean, my primary
(08:39):
care is still through my OBGI N so it's an
easy place, like I just go. I just literally text
my nurse practitioner Chancy shout out, and she'll set me
with appointments to get in with her. But yeah, it's
like supposed to just help with the side effects and
get you through it without having severe side effects. And
that's like what I want, because's like one thing I'm
really worried about, even more so than the hot flashes,
(09:03):
is you have brain fog and.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
Forgetfulness.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
I cannot afford that with my job. That is like
my thing that I'm good at in my job is
quick thinking. I cannot have brain fog issues like I
just so, I'm like, I gotta nip this.
Speaker 3 (09:24):
In the bud.
Speaker 1 (09:24):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
So that is my number one topic perimenopause. My number
two is the Chinese New Year. This is my fucking year.
Speaker 1 (09:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:33):
Literally, don't even start last night. This is how into ida.
Why are you telling me not to start? Okay, don't
I'm not okay. So it is the year of the aries.
Everything has told me that it is our time. We've
been in this like horrid space for like fourteen months, which,
by the way, my I just marked my fourteenth year here,
So is that a coincidence.
Speaker 3 (09:54):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (09:55):
So I don't mean to Minnesota. I was just joking
about radio in general here, but it says this is
my year and like things are happening. And then I
started seeing and if you're in areas, it's your year two,
good for you. But it said things to not do
on Chinese New Year, and then one thing was like
(10:15):
don't do like any house cleaning, like don't sweep, don't
take out the trash, don't So last night I said
to Jaco, go do not take out the trash tomorrow.
Speaker 3 (10:24):
I knew he wasn't gonna fucking sweet.
Speaker 1 (10:26):
For today, for today, okay.
Speaker 2 (10:27):
I was like, for the year, just today, on the
New Year everything, there are all these things you shouldn't
do on the do them tomorrow.
Speaker 1 (10:35):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (10:36):
So it was like, don't take naps, don't like it's
it symbolizes this stuff for the year.
Speaker 3 (10:41):
Now. Have I ever leaned it in Chinese New Year before?
Speaker 1 (10:44):
No?
Speaker 2 (10:44):
But now that I know that this year is my year,
I'm all about. So last night I'm laying in bed.
This is after I told Jake to fox sourdough and
I said, do not take out the trash tomorrow. And
he goes, I literally have to take out the trash tomorrow.
I go, if you take out the trash tomorrow, you're
ruining our entire year. And he goes, what are you
talking about? So I tell him, and you know what,
(11:04):
he's so used to me. He goes, all right, he
got up, he went and took out the trash because
I said, you're not putting negativity into our entire year.
So the trash was done yesterday. No trash or sweeping
is happening today?
Speaker 1 (11:19):
Okay, I didn't hear any of that stuff. I have
a little bit of a question though, because the year
of the Horse is something different than aries, because obviously
aris is like astrological signs. Year of the horse has
to do with Chinese. What's it called? Is it no
zodiacs too? Okay?
Speaker 2 (11:37):
So I am a rat because so the Chinese zodiac
is on your birth year, yes, not on your birth month,
and I'm a horse, yes, it's a big year for you.
Speaker 3 (11:46):
It is.
Speaker 2 (11:47):
So my exact opposite on the Chinese is the horse.
But instead of it being like a bad thing that
it's my opposite, it is actually a good thing. But
it does still line up, I guess with the zodiac
because the way that I've had it explained through my
(12:10):
various algorithms, it has to do with like planet alignment still,
and I guess ares have been behind, following behind or
something like a neptune for like this like fourteen year cycle,
and that's finally changing. So it's supposed to just be
(12:31):
like we've had a very unlucky like last year was
an unlucky year, and it's been like rough go for us.
But this year it's like we break free from that
planet and it's game on.
Speaker 3 (12:41):
Baby.
Speaker 2 (12:41):
It's like our year to go for it. But obviously,
since you're a horse, it's a good year for you.
What do you foresee that meaning for you? Because we
always read into things how we want to read into them, right, Yes,
I would say that, did you look into it enough
to see if last year was like a bad luck
(13:02):
year for you? I mean, in reality it was like
one of your worst years.
Speaker 1 (13:06):
I don't think I read into it enough. I just
like had heard it was the year of the snake,
which means shedding, So like that's kind of what I
took it as, not to like go specifically into like
what it was if I'm a horse or a chorus or.
Speaker 3 (13:17):
Whatever it is.
Speaker 1 (13:18):
But I don't know for this year. I guess everything
I've been reading it's like you're gonna have a good year,
you're gonna prosper, you're gonna do this and that. But
don't be impulsive is what I was reading. And so
I was like, oh God, there's so many impulsive thoughts
I have, Like do I quit my life and just
go live in the van? Like things like that happen
pretty often, especially after I just spent the weekend in
the band and I loved every second of it and
(13:40):
I was by myself. So it's like, I don't know
for sure, but I think that happiness can come in
so many different forms, and I'm like learning that the
form that I feel like I was getting happiness from
is like not really in my life anymore. And so
and I've found like other ways that honestly I think,
(14:01):
aligned with who I am as a person more now
that give me happiness.
Speaker 3 (14:05):
Do you want to give an example of a couple
of those or is it O.
Speaker 1 (14:09):
No, I feel like I want to find something that's worthwhile.
I guess it's just like this is silly, but when
my house is up to the standard of clean and
put together, and then I also accomplish a couple other
things on my list, that brings me a lot of happiness.
When I was in a relationship, I feel like I
(14:30):
got kind of like lazy and didn't focus on things
that I would normally get done if I was just
by myself, and so I wasn't realizing like what kind
of toll that was taking on me mentally, Whereas like
now I go home and I feel like my home
is more honestly my home than it was before, and
(14:50):
I'm much more successful in things I put my mind
to than I was before. But I think that that
obviously comes with like, well, I'm not living with someone
and I'm not like sitting around talking to them instead
of accomplishing things like if I'm home alone, I'm usually
like accomplishing stuff. So I feel like I've learned that
in a future relationship, I have to make sure that
(15:12):
I'm still accomplishing all of these things that make me
happy and not just like sitting around chatting because that's
what my partner wants to do.
Speaker 3 (15:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (15:19):
I know there's compromise built in there, of course, but
just a lot of things that I wasn't doing before
that I know that they make me happy as a person. Yeah,
it's kind of a vague example, but I don't know.
What do you foresee this year being for you?
Speaker 2 (15:33):
Then it's talking about like starting something new and big
and things, so I foresee you know, I've talked about
this for a while of like needing to figure out
a better balance, and I genuinely believe this year I will,
like I have, like I've put in a lot of
(15:54):
like thought and work into what I want and how
I want it to go. Now will it all play
out perfectly? No, But I'm feeling like more optimist optimism
not just because it's the Chinese New Year. Then I
am fear. Now when I make decisions, fear will probably
(16:14):
come into play. But I think that that's also normal
and that's healthy, and but you have to take risks
on yourself. So I'm willing to do that this year.
I'm willing to take some risks on myself and realign
things that I'm lacking because due to.
Speaker 3 (16:33):
Exhaustion and things.
Speaker 2 (16:36):
I'm honestly, I'm like, re I'm going to I'm looking
I posted about your shape, But I'm like, I'm going
to reapproach my friendships. Like if people don't reach out
and text me and ask me to do things, if
they every time I ask them they're like no, then
I'm like, I'm pulling back on those friendships because it
feels too one sided. And I am not saying I'm
(16:57):
not like that to certain people. I am like, I
have like a few friends probably that reach out to
me more, and I wouldn't blame them if they pulled
back from me as well. I think it's an unhealthy balance,
and I think it's like a new transitional year for me.
I think I'm getting older and I need to reevaluate
adding I think some new people into my friendships, people
(17:20):
who are maybe in more similar places in life to
me and who are more available. Like I, you know,
I got really down because I'm like, I don't have
a single person that I can think of that I
can text and say, do you want to get coffee
this morning? And they would actually get coffee with me,
Like I don't. I maybe could with Jason, but I
don't even know. He's kind of busy at times. I
(17:40):
don't think I have a single friend that would just
easily be like yes, back in the day, it was
my friend Harry. Harry is in a relationship now and
that's not a knock on him. He has more plans
because of it. But I don't have anyone and I
and that that makes me really sad, like I spent
so like I put so much value into my friendships
and oh, like I honestly think to the detriment of
(18:02):
my relationships sometimes, like I've put friendships above relationships. I
don't do that with Jake. But yeah, I think like
I have like a neighbor, I like a lot. I
have another friend I really like, and it's like I've
kind of kept them at a distance, not feeling like
I had enough energy to give. And now I think
I'm just gonna shift my current friendships and put more
energy into them because they've reached out to me to
(18:24):
do more stuff. And I think that that's going to
be Like I think it's like finding the people who
are there for you. And I think that like I
saw that as a thing and I was like, you
know what, that's true, and so I think that's part
of the shedding portion too, and like moving forward. So
I think that, like there are different sides of those things,
(18:46):
like not I always lean so much career based, but
there's so much more that goes into life than career.
So but focusing on my health is a big one
for me as I'm getting older, noticing these changes in
my body. I've been eating terribly for like two and
a half weeks now, like out of control, not working out,
I've been sick for two straight weeks. It's just been
(19:09):
like I just need to get things back on track,
so getting water, getting my minerals, focusing on like some weightlifting,
you know, things that I need to getting my walks.
I did a couple of walks this weekend, and it
was just nice to get some fresh air. So focusing
on bettering myself and hopefully finding a way to get
sleep because although I don't feel terrible today, and it did,
(19:31):
I will say me not sleeping last night did benefit
me because I watched the finale to tell me lies, Yeah,
and it's better to watch that show in the dark
because it's a dark show. And I had like complete
silence in my house for once in my fucking life,
and I got to truly enjoy the finale. And this
is a no spoilers situation. I love the finale and
I'm actually sad that it's gone, but so actually happy
(19:53):
that they're ending it after three seasons.
Speaker 1 (19:55):
I was gonna ask serious finale or series?
Speaker 3 (19:57):
Okay, three seasons? Serious?
Speaker 2 (19:59):
F The creator finally confirmed it last night because people
were kind of like she'd always said it was meant
to be three seasons, but you know how people are,
like money and success, they'll do another one. And she
said that they looked and try to figure out different
ways to do it another season, and they just think
that this was the way to end it, and it
was a in my opinion, a perfect ending.
Speaker 1 (20:17):
That was another show I fell off of, just like
this summer I turned.
Speaker 3 (20:21):
Pretty Yeah, I felt that one too.
Speaker 1 (20:22):
Tell me lies the second season, I.
Speaker 3 (20:24):
Well, they took a long time between seasons.
Speaker 1 (20:26):
Yeah, too well. I didn't even like finish second the
second season, I wasn't vibing with it. I loved the
first season, but then it, just like the whole show
gave me too much anxiety. I hated.
Speaker 2 (20:37):
I had very anxiety show. And every character is pretty awful.
Speaker 1 (20:40):
Yeah they are, and that's why I was like, I
can't like, people can't be like this in real life
in my opinion, Like, I know there are people like that,
but that many people in one group.
Speaker 3 (20:50):
I know, like it's pretty other.
Speaker 1 (20:51):
So I yeah, I definitely fell off season two. But
I don't know. You will talk about things like this
and then it makes me want to go back and
maybe restarted. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (20:59):
Well, they would do flash forward and flash back on
the show, and between the three seasons, I would forget
what had happened. So there were some things where I
was like, Okay, but I have like a couple of
friends I text a lot about my sister in law
and Raven, my friend. She watches it, so we kept
the hype train going between us and my brother in
law Michael.
Speaker 3 (21:20):
He's also into it.
Speaker 2 (21:21):
So it was like I have like my few friends
that I could text about it, which was really nice.
We also saw weathering Heights this weekend. Yeah, I'm not
getting into it again.
Speaker 3 (21:29):
It was bizarre. See it if you want to. It's long,
but you liked it.
Speaker 1 (21:32):
I thought you did it.
Speaker 3 (21:34):
It was good.
Speaker 2 (21:34):
I would never watch it again. Probably it was very long,
and that's probably the main reason. Two hours, sixteen minutes.
I feel bad saying this. I feel sexist because, like
so long you've like watched older men be with younger women.
I didn't feel like Margot Robbie and Jacob a Lordie
just because they're both hot, were a good match. She
(21:56):
feels older than him, and that's okay. Older women are
allowed to be with younger men. But like, the book
is not about a thirty five year old woman, and
I know that they took a lot of liberties with
this book, like it's very different. But like I think
the issue is like kind of like her sexual awakening,
and that's.
Speaker 3 (22:18):
At thirty five.
Speaker 2 (22:19):
That's probably not when your sexual awakening is happening. No,
So I just think that they were like, I think
they overpitched. We have great chemistry, and there were some
hot scenes, but it's not like, I don't know, it
makes me so fucking horny, like they're acting like it would.
The movie's dark and weird.
Speaker 1 (22:38):
Yeah, I've seen the reels where it's like people saying
that there's like wetness on the seats afterwards, and I
was like, oh, is it really?
Speaker 3 (22:45):
There's no new to either.
Speaker 2 (22:46):
And I'm not saying I needed to see Maro Robbie's boobs,
and I get why she didn't show them, but like
even Jacob Louri when it shows his back, I'm not
talking about his butt hit a back double.
Speaker 3 (22:55):
I don't know, Like, I just there were hot moments,
but I thought they were all.
Speaker 1 (23:00):
It didn't make you want to go home and bang Jake.
Speaker 3 (23:03):
Well, we were so sick.
Speaker 2 (23:05):
Maybe if we weren't both just sneezing and snodding and
super sick.
Speaker 1 (23:09):
Yeah, but he still got after it with the cellar dough.
Speaker 3 (23:12):
Or no TBD. I don't know what he did. And
you know what, that's good.
Speaker 1 (23:16):
God bless him.
Speaker 3 (23:17):
Yeah, I hope he did. Did you have sex on
Valentine's Day?
Speaker 1 (23:21):
Not on Valentine's Day because I was by myself in
the van, so he didn't do anything, that's true, But
honestly the day before, Yes, however, that was literally the
first time since.
Speaker 3 (23:33):
Your neck issues.
Speaker 1 (23:35):
Yeah, honestly, it'd probably been like a month because I
could barely do like anything without feeling pain. And it's
not just my neck by the way, it was like
my shoulder in my arm. It's actually more my upper
arm that I feel pain in consistently still, and it
was my back too, So anyway, I was not able
to move it very easily for a very long time.
(23:58):
So anytime we'd be together, I would like try to
like lay on him a little bit, and then I'd
last like two minutes without having to move to get
in a different comfortable position, which is basically just me
sitting upright with my right arm expanded next to my side.
Yeah it anyways, So yes, it had been a little
while for me and that poor man. I actually I
(24:20):
don't feel bad for him because it's life, and he
wasn't upset about it by any means. He perfectly understood
the situation, but it was like kind of up in
the air still if it was going to happen on Friday.
And it did and it was fine and there was
no pain for yeah, my side, I don't know on
his side.
Speaker 3 (24:38):
Every man's dream. It was fine.
Speaker 1 (24:41):
You know, well, we do need to read some emails.
We didn't you bring it up because.
Speaker 2 (24:46):
They're also even after last week, we like literally said,
there's no way they're changing the date.
Speaker 3 (24:53):
And it is not the twenties.
Speaker 1 (24:54):
I said on it, I did. I watched that wild
say it's on the Saturday.
Speaker 3 (24:58):
And it did.
Speaker 2 (24:59):
So it's the twenty eighth our live podcast. It's going
to be at Top ten Liquors in Roseville. I think
they're getting like thirty or forty chairs, so that's all
that can come. I think it's thirty. We haven't talked
the one thing we haven't They will have a little
sample so you'll be able to try things like in
little Dixie cups, like little if you're curious about like
I think CBD drinks or wines or whatever. I think
(25:21):
they're gonna have samples and then we'll just do like
a live podcast and get some picks. But I have
no idea how we're giving away seats. Is it like
a just come.
Speaker 1 (25:33):
I don't know that information yet either, I would.
Speaker 3 (25:35):
Say just come. You know why. Here's why. Well, part
of me feels like we need to reserve.
Speaker 1 (25:41):
I do think enough too, because.
Speaker 2 (25:42):
Then no one will show up assuming it'll be taken. Yeah,
but then I also like when you reserve thirty, this
is how events work. Thirty people sign up, fifteen come. Yeah,
and it's very frustrating. But everyone always has an emergency
and I don't. I mean I don't think they do.
I think they're like, oh, I actually don't want to
go do so thing today. One person has emerged, everyone
else kind of like, uh so it's it's uh, I
(26:05):
don't know.
Speaker 3 (26:05):
How we'll do it.
Speaker 2 (26:06):
That's the one thing we haven't discussed is how to
give away. It won't be by the way, it won't
cost money either way.
Speaker 1 (26:11):
Oh yeah, free free samplings of some bevies and free
entertainment from us. That's okay. We never prepare for our podcast,
by the way, so like, do you think we should
prepare for this one? Probably?
Speaker 3 (26:23):
I know some like discussion points, but we do have emails.
We'll dive into those here.
Speaker 1 (26:28):
I can read this one right away. It says Jenny
and Fallen love the podcast, can't wait for the live show.
They do not want to say their name because they said.
I just had to write in because a couple episodes ago,
Fallen had asked if Jenny's new guy had noticed the
ringworm on her booty while enjoying a specific position.
Speaker 3 (26:43):
Jenny does not have the ringworm as TV going around.
Speaker 1 (26:45):
By the way, Yeah, thank you for everyone who was concerned, though,
I appreciate it. So the Pacific specific position was doggie style,
and she mentioned that she had not done that position
yet with him, and Fallen said that that it's probably
because he was worried he wouldn't last long. I think
you both mentioned how you too enjoy that position quite well,
and it got me thinking that I too enjoyed that
position quite well. So I got to talking to my
(27:06):
husband and mentioned, you know, I think my favorite position
is doggie style. We should do it more often. My
husband replies, unfortunately, pause, it's my favorite position as well, laughing.
I laughed at his implication of Falan's reasoning a why
Jenny and her new guy hadn't done it yet. Well, ladies,
fast forward to last night, and no joke. It is
(27:27):
in fact his favorite position and thanks to Jeff Bezos,
I was able to overnight a plan be and it
was on my front step this morning. As I do
not use birth control, poland Prey has been working for
six years, I just thought I let you know I'm
thinking about you and making my sexual position choices. I'm
honor you will not say your name.
Speaker 2 (27:47):
And before anyone gets honest, I don't want to hear
it about the pull and prey. We're not telling you
to do it. Yeah, that's just what they're choosing to do.
Speaker 1 (27:54):
So there we go.
Speaker 3 (27:55):
Here is We have.
Speaker 2 (27:56):
A bunch of emails. This one says just this is
a very, very just kind one, so I want to
read it. Thank you so much, Falon Jenny wanted to
take a moment to thank you both for that I'm
Still Fun podcast. I always look forward to new episodes.
Your humor, SaaS and honest take on girlhood friendships. It
brings so much light into my days, along with the
fun recommendations I didn't know I needed. I appreciate how
(28:17):
real you are, you don't pretend life is picture perfect,
and your willingness to share your vulnerabilities makes the podcast
feel safe, relatable, and genuinely comforting. I can't imagine how
challenging your professions must be, yet you both continue to
show up with heart, humor, and authenticity. You have so
much back to your communities and to the radio and
podcast world it doesn't go unnoticed. Thank you for your
consistency bringing joy, laughter, and a reminder that we can
(28:38):
still find fun even when life feels heavy. That's from Amber.
Thank you, Amber, so Umber. And some people don't want
us to use names. Let me delete that one. Okay,
I think we have one more.
Speaker 3 (28:51):
Did you get this one? I have your swift one,
I have.
Speaker 1 (28:53):
That one, And then there was another one about ringworm.
But we pretty much have addressed the situation, which is
that I am all good, I'm in the clear, and yeah.
Speaker 3 (29:03):
I don't know if I'm gonna have an answer for this.
Speaker 2 (29:06):
Recently, it was announced our girl Taita was nominated for
Songwriter Hall of Fame. The five songs she chose were
all Too Well to Minute, Version, Love Story, Anti Hero,
Blank Space, the Last Great American Dynasty. These are like
the five songs she thinks best demonstrates her writing by
the way to be nominated. Obviously, She's written so many
great songs that there would be differences among everyone's five
(29:27):
selected songs. I think that the ones that were selected
are pretty solid for me. I would switch out the
last great American Dyasty for Cruel Summer Jenny. I know
you're not a Swifty, but contribute if you would like.
But what would be your five songs that you would select? Actually,
somewhere have a list?
Speaker 1 (29:45):
Say I can't. I can't all time speak on that.
I like her a lot. I became real obsessed with
the last album that came out, and I think I
will become a Swifty eventually. But I don't have enough
knowledge to have an opinion on this.
Speaker 3 (29:58):
I definitely will.
Speaker 2 (30:00):
I look for like my actual just list, and my
favorite Taylor Swift songs will confirm that all too well.
The timidt version is definitely the best overall selection. I
think most people do agree that is her best song
of all time, so I do think that that would
come into play. Sorry, I'm really trying to find my
(30:20):
list because it would help me remember what my favorite
songs are.
Speaker 3 (30:27):
It's going to take me a minute. Should we delete
this whole thing out?
Speaker 1 (30:31):
Or should I still like it, and you're keeping people
on the edge of their seats, all the Swifties out there.
I'll tell you something while Allan's looking for this that
she did say before the podcast started that made me
chuckle was she was talking about someone reaching out to
her to work with her, and she was like, I
don't know, I would like a little GLP one shot
in my ass and I was no, you said, asshole?
(30:53):
Do she said asshole? And I looked at her and
she's like, what, I don't know how they do it?
And I was like, yeah, not up your.
Speaker 2 (30:59):
Asshole, thank you, just asshole, thank you. Okay, I have
my list of my favorite songs. I would add into
Okay all too well. I would I do understand Cruel
Summer because it's arguably see the thing is like love
Story is like her first great storytelling song that like
(31:20):
was mass success. That is just not my favorite song.
My favorite songs are not country Taylor Swift, but that's
where I grew to love her as well, Like I
loved so many songs from Fearless, So it's hard for
me to base her young writing to her new writing
(31:42):
because it's obviously evolved so much. So I would say
all too Well, Tim and a version out of the
Woods is one of my top favorite songs. The one
is stunning and just amazing. I think mirror Ball is
right up there.
Speaker 3 (31:58):
Man.
Speaker 2 (32:00):
My two, like two of my favorite tailors have songs
of all time are Invisible String. Although I would not
have selected that to be her top one, would have,
could have, should have is like a deep cut from Midnights,
like Part two or whatever, And I just I think
it's stunning right where you left me, clean Daylight.
Speaker 3 (32:19):
Man.
Speaker 2 (32:19):
It's hard for me to choose, but I would probably
go all too Well. I do think blank Space was
probably a smart choice. Out of the Woods, mirror Ball,
and maybe God, I don't remember what I said, but
maybe right where You left me or what it could have.
(32:40):
I just think it's hard to not include songs from
like Folklore, which was such a lyrics and I don't
have anything, by the way from her new like Tortured
Poet Department, which has very beautiful writing on it.
Speaker 3 (32:54):
And I'm gonna be honest, I would.
Speaker 2 (32:55):
Not include anything from the Life of a Showgirl probably
on her top best songs. I don't think I answered
your question, but thank you for a fantastic question.
Speaker 1 (33:05):
You at least gave some examples. I don't even know
some of those songs that you listened, so I'm clearly
not a Swiftie.
Speaker 3 (33:13):
I like her, though, you too, That's okay. I don't
think you have to know deep cuts.
Speaker 1 (33:17):
I'm sorry. I like sitting awkwardly right now because my
back is starting to hurt. And this is what happens
now I did. I finally got to witness in the
airport me doing some of my exercises I have, like
physical therapy exercises I have to do at home every day,
and I did do them in the middle of the
chalet at Spirit Mountain this weekend, and I didn't care.
I'm sure everyone was like, what is this drunk bitch doing?
(33:38):
That's what I was like. I can't I can't help it.
Just deal with it.
Speaker 3 (33:43):
How long is this podcast today?
Speaker 1 (33:45):
We're at thirty three minutes.
Speaker 2 (33:46):
Oh, I thought I really rambled really long time on
that Chinese New Year stuff.
Speaker 1 (33:51):
Okay, well, happy Chinese New Year. We were all over
the fucking place, though, so I think that's where I
got confusing.
Speaker 3 (33:57):
Many blessings, thanks for listening.
Speaker 1 (33:59):
Tacking next week
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