April 10, 2024 • 42 mins
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In this episode of Pettyish, KT and Kayla recap KT's 30th birthday. They also discuss Nene Leakes' recent opinion about "respectfully cheating." Would you rather live in a state of delusion or be told the truth? Enjoy!
In this episode of Pettyish, KT and Kayla recap KT's 30th birthday. They also discuss Nene Leakes' recent opinion about "respectfully cheating." Would you rather live in a state of delusion or be told the truth? Enjoy!
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The Petty Is Podcast. Welcome backto another episode of Patty Ish. I'm
Kayla. Hi, I'm Kayla.How are you. What's the pettiest thing
you did this week? Oh?Well, first of all, last week,
I know, right, yeah,well okay, last week. What
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happened was because I got a lotof texts, we recorded an episode and
then the file just corrupted. Therewas no audio. Went to go listen
back, make sure everything was crisp, clear, ready to publish, and
just nothing nothing. Forty five,forty six, fifty seven whatever minutes of
just silence. Silence. Yeah,how so free and frustrating. And it's
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not like we can hurry up andgo back into the studio and record again.
It was already too late in theweek. How so much was happening?
It was just it was your birthdayweek. It was the most little,
It was so much. It reallywas the most lit weekend in twenty
twenty four. So we went,well we could get into that, dude.
That's to the petty thing we didthis week. First, that I
didn't do anything I was I was. It was just two good vibes,
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you know what I mean, LikeI that I can think of right now,
like I just have been on cloudnine. I haven't had time to
be petty. Oh wait, ohall right, well, okay, I
will say this. I keep amental note of people who don't say have
birthday to me. Oh only ifit's like somebody that should say happy birthday
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to me, somebody somebody that Iwork with closely, or somebody that you
know is my friend. And Imade know of two specific people who did
not tell me happy birthday, andI will not be talking to them ever.
Oh my god. I thought atleast you were like waiting till their
birthday then like not wish them happybirthday, but not talking. I'm dramatic.
One of them is like, it'sfine, I just won't tell him
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happy birthday on his birthday. Anotherperson is the same friend that didn't tell
me Happy birthday last year, andI told her that it made me feel
some type of way, and shedid it again, and she did it
again. Damn. I don't eventhink that we're meant to be. That's
a story for another day, anotherday. That's right. You don't miss
your quote unquote best friend's thirtieth birthday. The thirtieth, No, not the
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thirtieth. Yeah, that's that's anapology with the gift right there. I
feel like we had a great time. On the third day we went to
cast Away. I feel like thewaiter that we had was rude. So
every time he came over to ourtable, I made sure to not speak,
like, you know, just shutdown my personality. If he needed
to hand something to somebody next tome, I was not helping him by
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grabbing the dish. Figure it out. Yeah, I did not like his
attitude. I thought he was reallylike uppity and like I answered that in
a minute, or it's like it'stoo glad to hear, like we took
it quiet is down. You don'tserve this table like that's that's it,
that's it, that's all okay.So the issue was he was that Kayla
had eaten before she came to mybirthday brunch and so she didn't All she
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wanted was bottom of mimosas. Buthe was like, well, we don't
serve alcohol without food or something likethat, and Kayla was like, well,
I'm trying to tell you I atebefore I came here, so can
you just give me the mimosas.Mind you, he already had an attitude
like off jump. I don't knowwhat it was. It was like,
I'll start my order at this atthis person like somebody started their order.
He was like, I'm gonna startwith her, like as somebody's already in
the middle of their order. Andit's like, yeah, that's just just
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I get you have a system.And I was in I was like,
already has a system. So theend of the table start to order or
whatever, and then he corrected thator whatever. We got his We got
the order in and the order thathe wanted it in, and then he
started giving me a hard time aboutmimosas. But I had a business brunch,
like you said before, and sowe were at a buffet and I
ate way too much and I justwanted my mimmosas, and then he would
not give them to me. Hewas really nasty about it. And then
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the manager came over and confirmed wherehe said, I didn't need to get
some food before I could get bottomwith mimosas. But the manager said he
was gonna bring the men and theycharged me for them. When I tried
to order another later in the diningyou know service, He's like, I
thought the manager spoke to you thatyou couldn't have bottomless like he was just
I'm like, all right, wellI'm ordering another one, give me another
momosa, like he was just soI don't understand. I don't understand.
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I was trying at one point tolike kill him with kindness because I just
like didn't want the vibes to bebad and I was just like smiling and
trying to make him but he wasjust he was just not budgeting. I
didn't get what it was. Itwas nasty. Yeah, he was just
he was weird. But but thatwas the only weird thing other than that
perch spot castaway popping. Did youhave the best thirtieth honeys? Yeah?
Man, I just even trying torecap it. It's just I can't even
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because everything was just so much.But I probably had the best birthday I
have ever had, and it wasall thanks to my friends, who showed
up for me in a way thatI have never had. Some people show
up for me on a birthday.And it's so crazy that those friends are
here in LA and like, I'mnot even from here, and I don't
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know, it's just from having sucha For the past like three years,
I've had terrible birthdays. I'm eitheryou know, stood up by my boyfriend
or getting in a fight. It'sjust like with my boyfriend and then he
leaves me out. I dined bymyself one year for my birthday. It
was just like cheated on the nextyear, and so I just have a
memory of bad birthdays. So tobe surrounded by like so much love and
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genuine people, this made me feelso good. Yeah, we did perch
was the dinner on Friday the RooftopVibe, the Rooftop Vibes, and it
was really really nice. Like Iwas afraid how people would interact because there
it was just different people from differentfriend groups. You know, sometimes it
gets weird when you don't know somebodyand you're sitting down next to somebody who
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we don't know. So I hada seating chart and I feel like that
worked out really well. I thinkthat was super beneficial. Yeah, but
regardless, even if I didn't havethat seating chart, I feel like everybody
would have messed really really well.Then we went up to the rooftop at
the at the end of the dinnerand we met the Grandmam from Never Have
I Ever, which was one ofmy favorite series on Netflix. I know
you never really watched it, butwhen I tell you, that was something
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I binged and loved when the newseasons dropped, Like seeing her was amazing.
Really, that was awesome. Yeah, it was just good vibes all
around. And I just want tosay thank you to all of my friends
who came out to that. Andthen the next day, I just wanted
to do a spa day. Iwanted to spend hours just getting a massage,
and that's exactly what we did.We got there what like eleven and
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I got a Swedish massage. Igot a facial and a vaginal steam,
which I wasn't really a fan of. I love the vaginal steam. I
want to get it once a week. Really, it was amazing. Do
you feel different from doing it?Like I don't know what is it supposed
to like cleansed or like, Imean, you know, I didn't really
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do anything with my vagina. Itfeels like on a movie Vachina. I
guess it's like brand new, it'sfakes Brand's Bank and now, yeah,
it just feels like cool. Man. I walked into that because I guess
you guys got there before us,and we walked in opened the GQ,
and there was Kaylee, Leah andLexi booves out naked in the jacuzzi.
It was a naked spy. Youcouldn't wear any bathing suits in the hot
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tub, and at first I waslike, yuck, I don't want to
do that with strangers. That's weird, that's nasty. But then I was
kind of reassured of the sanitization,sanitization of it all, sanitization anyway,
it seemed really cool. And Ithink that the germs die after a certain
amount of degrees of the water,so it was like hot enough, that
makes sense, Oh that yeah,the germs couldn't live in it. And
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I did make it clear like ifany strangers got in with us, we
get out, but it was alwayswith just people that I knew, so
I was super comfortable. The veggieseem or veggie see veggie seem, the
vagina seam. It did say somethinglike they're using old Korean ingredients to heal
ancient womb diseases that may carry soI was like just trying to take in
that mindset and just like heal myinsides. And I also had a partner
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in there, being my sister.Even though like that thing was out.
You know, you're covering your road, mean just sitting over this thing.
But I had conversation. I thinkit was only supposed to be for thirty
minutes. She kept us for fifty. Oh that's nice. Yeah, like
they didn't. I actually had toget up and was like, all right,
I gotta I gotta go. Iwas I was late to work.
I got a little bit in trouble. But they even had like this herbal
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tea. I didn't love it either, but it was supposed to be like
nourishing your body. I don't know. It was just a good vibe all
around everything in that place. Itwas like did you get under you round?
I went in all the rooms.It was assault room, a sauna
room, a clay room in thered room, which is like the yah
yeah yeah in the yeah yeah something. The only thing I didn't do was
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the jacuzzi. I wanted to dothat, but I feel like, no,
I didn't have that room too.Okay, I wanted to, but
as soon as I got there,I was time for my facial as suit
my massage. As soon as Iwas done that, I was time for
my facial and then I it waslike back to back to back to back,
you know what I mean. Ohmy gosh, everything was great,
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and I especially was just thankful becausewe also got time to bond. It
was like only what five of us, six of us, but like we
got time to ourselves, which wasreally nice too. I got time to
like be in a room by myself, was in the salt room by myself
for a little bit, but wealso got time to bond with it.
I think at that point was likeme, Lucy, Emily and Aliyah and
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I don't know, just we werehaving a heart to heart and in a
space where you already have been feelingso good and so refreshed and renewed.
To have stimulating conversation like that aboutour goals, about our futures, about
what we want for our lives,and taking the opportunity to build each other
up and encourage each other in someof our low moments. I think that
was just like the space to doit better than doing it at a dinner
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over drinks. Like it was insuch a healing space, and I think
that was like very I don't knowfor me personally, it was just really
refreshing for me. Sounds like itwas like a real deep release. I
have work at that point, soI'm not really sure how the vibes were,
but it sounds like amazing. Itsounds like it was really healings.
Just had a great time. Yeah, sure it. It was phenomenal.
Then later that night me and Emilywait and got sushi, and then that
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was it for that night and thenthe next day. So Joy everybody knows
like Joy is one of my closestfriends here. She's out of state for
filming a TV show, so shewasn't here for my birthday. But she's
like, well, you know,it ain't nothing but a phone call.
I'm still gonna plan your birthday.And I'm like, it's okay, Joey,
you don't have to. I'm alreadyhaving a dinner. Am I already
having spot day? No, I'mgonna plan you a brunch, Like I'm
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gonna plan I was like, okay. So I had no idea what was
going to be happening on Friday.On Sunday, I had an idea it
was probably gonna be cast Away becausewe enjoy go there all the time.
And so I get a text youtold me the night before to be ready
by one. I get a textby Joy at by Joy at like ten
am the next morning, saying Ihave a car waiting for you at be
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ready by twelve thirty sharp. Ihave a call waiting for you at twelve
thirty five. And I was like, oh, gosh, okay, so
get in the car. And thenI get there and I pull up and
I see Kat, Christine and Ashley, which is are like our mutual friends,
friends that I met through Joy butwe have become pretty close with and
they were there with like these bigass loons at like with the number thirty,
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and I was just like ah.And then when I walked into Castaway,
I saw Donna and I lost it. I just started bawling my eyes
out. Now, Donna is somebodywho's so precious to me. She lives
in my apartment complex, and sheis kind of always been like a mom
to me and my ex. Shehas a husband that they've lived in the
community for over twenty years, andthey were kind of like our confidant and
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a person that were I don't wantto encourage us during this journey of being
out here together and just like givingus advice. And she's just like somebody
really look up to. And yeah, she's prominent in the industry, and
she was invited to my birthday dinneron Friday, but couldn't make it.
And I had no idea see thatI was even gonna expect for her.
I just was not expecting her tobe that brunch, and so when I
saw her, I just was like, no way, just like lost it.
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So that was super like amazing.And then of course Kaylen Leah were
there, and so it was Lexiand we turned uh puh lit lit.
Well, you guys got little Ileave again. I had work all weekend.
So you guys you got tattoo artistson your resume. Oh my god,
you are like you were a bigoutside. Yeah. I was big
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outside. Literally the mimosas turned intoshots that turned into hey, let's go
get our nipples pierced. So wewent to the tattoo shop. Everybody was
there, even Donna went to thetattoo shop. They said, my nipples
weren't poky enough for it. Idon't know what that means, Like,
did they aren't you piers? Yeah? I had them both piers and then
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one fell out, so I onlyhave one thing. They said that my
nipples weren't it doesn't come out fartherenough that it and it would like ILL
reject it, and she was like, I'm not gonna waste your time and
your money. Like it's that waskind. Yeah, So I didn't get
that. I was like, well, I have to get something. So
I got a tattoo and I gota airy symbol. At first, I
was gonna get my grandma's birthday andI was gonna get it in this spot
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and everyone's like, why would youget it next to your groin? That
would be a weird spot to getyour grandma's birthday. So I got an
airy symbol. I love it,And then I tattooed Christine. Christine also
got like Christine out like three tattoos. Ashley got a flower on her chest
or her side, Kat got herears pierced. Then we got a bottle.
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The tattoo artist took shots with us. It was one of them was
like my ex coworker or something likethat. Apparently, Yeah, the twin
of my ex coworker, Leah waslike sending me pictures. Do you remember
this guy used to work with himat the dispenser I used to work at.
And I was like, oh mygod, what's his name? And
she was like, oh no,his name is x Y and Z.
But yeah, Like Lea was likeupdating me the whole time. I was
like, oh my god, I'mnot so mad. Oh my god.
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We were literally turning up having aparty in the tattoo shop, Like I'm
sure that was so illegal, butlike it was the best time ever.
I came home and Leah was sodrunk, like you and then you FaceTime
dust and you were so drunk,and I like threw everything up, everything
everything, like and I was.I threw up so much that I was
not hung over the next day,and that never happened. Did you have
the ivy like what I had?Like ivy? I called Kayla and I
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don't remember what I said, girl. What you were just like I'm not
okay. You threw up, youwere shaking. I was freaking out.
And then I called Emily. Uhso Emily could check on you, but
you were like no, no,I just got to stay on the phone.
I just got to say the phone. I have fun. I was
dinner, yeah, don't be around, blacked out me. And then Emily
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came over and then she like gaveme some liquid ivy and some bread.
It was just but I don't know. And then later that night, I
think after she left, I goton the phone with some of my uh
best friends from Liberty, like agroup FaceTime from like a bunch of people
from Liberty. It was just likethe perfect way to end. Yeah,
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and I just and also I'm justespecially thankful for you, Kaylea. You
were there for all three days,oh girl. And I know all that
was probably Hella like expensive and alot of money. She's like, yeah,
you ain't cheap. You ain't cheap. And I love it. That's
my kind of weekend. I loveand I want to do it every weekend.
I wish we could do every weekend. Then we'd be, you know,
not flourishing and probably struggling. Whatabout you, though, how was
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how was your week? I didall that with you? What else could
I do? My battery is dead, Like I just I needed to sleep.
I am so exhausted, like I'mjust, I'm just I've been I've
been outside. And then like ontop of that, like I finally met
my I don't know, yeah,my old room. She had her baby,
So I finally met him, andI'm spending more time with him and
her and just seeing her mommy mood, so I was. It was just
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a bunch of friends and a bunchof love this weekend. I love,
very very grateful. I love it. I'm very grateful. Well, petty
things that our listeners did, weskipped that. This one is from Tom
Out in Sherman Oaks. He said, I ruined my female best friend's wedding
after she's cheated on her groom andslept with me the week before. I
feel like we're supposed to be together, but she isn't taking but she isn't
talking to me now. So youruined your best friend's wedding because she cheated
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on her fyance with you before thewedding. I want to know in what
way did he ruin the wedding.Did he stand up and be like,
oh I object, I fucked herlast week? Oh my gosh, I
need more details. That's not petty. I don't know if I respect that
man like. That's not I don'tknow how film so torn. I don't
know I respect it. If youtold the groom privately, maybe, but
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not standing up at the wedding andsaying I object, Like, think about
it. Say you're about to getmarried to somebody you don't know that they
cheated on you when you have whenyou want to know, even if it's
by the person that he cheated onyou with. I'm just thinking, like,
if that's your best friend and y'alllike slept together, like you're gonna
stab your best friend in the backlike that and like tell her person that
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y'all did that. That's not cool. You're right best friend, okay,
right, it's not just somebody likeyou frandom, you're like your best friend,
like and cheating's never okay. ButI just think that's like not loyal,
Like you're not You're not a goodperson, You're a good friend.
Cheating just makes my skin and crossno matter what it comes from, any
best friend, non friend. Like, I can't none of that, none
of that. My husband divorced mebecause I didn't lose the baby. Wait,
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I have text of him tell methis. I also still have his
email and his universal password that hehas yet to change and use this for
everything when he sets up a date. When he sets up a date,
I send the woman the receipts andhe wonders why he can't get a girlfriend,
so he lets she lets all thepotential dates know that he dumped her
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because she or he divorced her becauseshe wouldn't lose the baby. Wait,
that's a lot of work. Ithink not all heroes wear capes. That
man doesn't deserve to be dated.That's awful, It is awful. But
I ain't doing all that every singletime. But you know what, it's
so crazy because I hear of alot of situations where the husband or the
boyfriend whatever becomes unattracted to the womanafter she carries his baby. That's awful,
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isn't it? Isn't it so sad? You know, it's like I
carried your baby. You you impregnatedme, and now you don't want me
anymore. But the part of mehad to die to bring your child into
this world. Like and now you'reand now you're done with me? And
one another skin is a girl calledthe cops. Is I'm about to go
to joel, I'm about to goto jail. That's I couldn't imagine.
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I couldn't imagine. That's like myheart breaks for all the women that go
through that. Cheating is never okay. It's triggering, it's upsetting, it's
traumatic. But is there such athing as respectful cheating because Nini Leeks apparently
thinks that there is Oh I can't. I can't her now, respectful cheating,
I could deal with that. Youcan't. I might, yeah,
because see, look, if I'mhere in Georgia and you went to San
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Francisco for the work, I'm justsaying. I'm saying any city. I'm
saying, if he went to NewYork for the week, what I don't
what you don't know won't hurt you. It won't hurt you. However,
if you're going to cheat, youneed to do it with respect. Now
you do you do need? Idon't like people who are not respectful.
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So these are the ones that aren'trespectful. Ye're talking to the side,
he's in line to them. Firstof all, you already lied to whoever
disease is on the side. Soif you're gonna be respectful, you first
you tell that person you give mefeet feet on my woman. Don't ever
approach me when you see me withmy woman. So that's not all.
Number one, you can never approach. I can imagine somebody approaching me.
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It would just be like, whatLord have mercy, Laura, Don't ever
let me get like that, please? I have no faith in nobody no
more. I tell you, Idon't really think that that's like, I
don't know if that's just an openrelationship, like Okay, you do you,
I do me as long as theother one doesn't find out. That
sounds more like an agreement than respectfulcheating. I don't think there's any respectful
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way to cheat. It kind ofsounds like an oxymoron. If you're cheating
on me and you're disrespecting me,there's no way to respectfully cheat on me.
What this sounds like to me ismen have broken women women so much
that they feel like they have totolerate this. There is now this notion
out there, and I've heard itso many times that there is never ever
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ever a situation where a man won'tcheat, like it's in people like women
truly believe that you have to inorder to have a happy relationship, Like
you have to accept that at leastonce and in the relationship, he's gonna
cheat. And I think that's sosad. Yeah, I refuse to subscribe
to that message. However, Idid see something where Tony Braxton's mom or
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t Mar Brax or whatever they were, they were talking to her mom,
and she was like, let thatman cheat in peace. But at first,
you know, when you first hearthat, you're like, what he
does? She mean? But it'slike, let that man cheat in piece,
as if you're not gonna do anythinganything about it, then no need
to cause a whole hooplah and fliptables and cause all this shit if you're
just gonna keep allowing him to doit, Like, if you're gonna break
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up with him and do something aboutit, then confront of him. But
if you're not just causing a fightbecause he's cheating, just isn't worth it.
What do you think about that?You teach people how to treat you,
Okay, So if he feels likehe can keep getting it away with
it and every time you're gonna you'regonna throw things and you're gonna you're not
gonna do this, and you threatento break up with him and you and
you do all this, and youmove out for five days and then he
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cries and puts on the He knowsthat all he has to do is get
on his knees and beg and cryand do all this stuff, and you
take him back. And it's acycle and a cycle. He knows how
to play the game, and he'sgoing to continue to do it. So
in that case, like, ifyou're going to keep allowing that disrespect,
then that's your fault, that's yourproblem. And I understand though, I
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know, man, we've all beenfault. Yeah, Like I have manipulated
my own mind in so many differentways to see it from a different angle,
to justify why he did what hedid to me, Well, you're
right, I wasn't cooking and cleaningenough, or man, well maybe I
should have been paying more attention tohim instead of work, Like, man,
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you know what I mean. Andso a lot of women go through
that phase and through that in theirmind and it's like no, like no,
no, not so. But Idon't know, well, it were
like okay, like you would youever have some before somebody lied to you?
Saucy Santana says, it's better tobe happy in Dululu noth But at
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the same time, I don't believein telling motherfucker's the truth. I don't
believe in tell it somebody that Ireally love or care about the truth.
I just like, who the fuckis you to sit me down and tell
me that you got fib itches.Who the fuck is you to send me
down and say, hey, shoutout, gotta call you back out with
my love? Who the fuck isyou to tell me? Amen? I
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can't kick it with you like that? You know I got a boy,
don't try me, love me goodand lie to me, bitch? Fuck
right, that's delusion? Yeah,he my soul a little bit, just
a little bit. But yeah,so is it better to be lied to?
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Or is this just another way toreinforce toxic relationships that aren't worth worth
having? In your opinion? SometimesI wonder if the pain would have been
like had I not known, Iwould have think a lot of things wouldn't
have been ruined during that time,right, So fighting out that I was
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being cheated on ruined everything, myappetite, the way that I performed at
work, my friendships, like fora period of time. And I wonder
if I've never found out, orif he hadn't came clean, I would
have still been living in this oblivionbliss, I guess or whatever. But
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I through it all. I wouldrather go through that pain because I feel
like it made me stronger, eventhough it sucks and it hurts and you
feel like you're gonna die. Ithink five months of heart wrenching pain is
worth living a delusion of everything ispeaches and creams, and you're being lied
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to behind your back and you're actuallylooking this person asks you out here looking
crazy when you're there and you thinkingthat everything's great, you know for sure?
I don't know. I feel likeI've never been completely blindsided, and
I know that that does exist whereyou just have no idea that your partner
is this completely the other person hasthis other life. But I know for
me, I've never been blindsided.So when I was being done dirty,
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I kind of just kind of turneda blind eye. But a part of
me kind of always knew, nomatter how much I tried to convince myself
that this is a bliss, thisis a utopia and I'm so happy,
there's a part of me that knewI wasn't happy, and that part of
me and that that voice kind ofjust took away from my light. You
know, even though I was livingin this ignorant, fake place, I
knew deep down that I wasn't happy. So it just there was a light
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that was missing. There was anunhappiness about me, and I think that
there's no such thing as just beinghappy. Lie to me, bitch,
and I know you're lying to me, and I'm just happy about that.
I don't think that that truly exists. I think that you're lying. You're
convincing yourself that you're happy, buta part of you knows you're not.
Yeah, I mean, I justtrust intuition. God will tell you when
something is wrong and when you're beinglied to. And I don't I can't
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even really explain the feeling, butI just felt it in every every lie.
I felt like this twist in mygut and it was like instantly I
knew that that wasn't true. ButI remember trying to, like I said,
manipulate my own mind to like Ni, Kayla, you're you're crazy,
Like you know what I mean,But you know and then like you know,
when you when you find out forsure and it get solidified and then
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you forgive that person. There's justsuch a disconnect, like their touch feels
wrong, their kiss feels wrong,like the way they look at you,
just everything just feels like a line. It's just no, oh, absolutely,
it's yeah. Like I didn't evenI wasn't even sexually attracted to my
partner for like the last eight monthsof our relationship. As much as I
tried to, I just couldn't doit because in the back of my mind,
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I remember you was you was doingthis, this, this, this,
and this like obligation when you're ohmy god. It felt like I
girl, I was like the lastthing that I wanted to do. I
did not want to oh my god. And that's when I knew that the
relationship was not gone, was absolutelydone. But I have there, Kayla.
There are some TikTok will show youall sorts of women, and there
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are some women on there who wouldrather be lied to. And in a
lot of people's cases, it's like, well, I'm being taken care of.
I got the car, I gotthe money, I got the house,
I don't have to work. Iwould rather take that than have nothing.
So I experienced that because it's alwaysthese ass fight that a fool for
me. So I just can't.Would you ever, like I don't think
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I could. Would you ever accepta super rich nigga that gives you the
entire world, but maybe he hassomething on the side. I'm not saying
it like I can't I have Ibarely can I just can't control my emotions.
I can't control my reactions a lotof the times. Like that's just
not gonna be good for anybody.I'm never respectfully remove myself from this situation,
for this whole shake is burned down. Yeah, just know, none
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of that stuff is worth it tome. I I would never, never,
ever ever care about the cars andthe money. None of that is
worth it when I know that I'mbeing disrespected or I'm not being chosen as
like the only one like my selfworth and my self value is never worth
a bag or a car or ahouse that I can get for myself.
Like you know, I just likeI'm working toward that for myself. I
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don't need that, Like I'm notgonna tolerate being disrespected just to have those
things. It's just no, that'snot a thing for me. Absolutely.
Yeah. Okay, switching to fine, Okay, switching gears real quick.
So I don't know if you allsaw this, but there is this woman
on TikTok and people are saying thatshe catfished this man because they went out
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on a date and she didn't looklike she did in her pictures. There
were actually old photos of her,so he ended up sending her a cash
IP request for their date. Nowthis is her explaining the situation. I
just finished my date and I amso embarrassed. I'm not gonna cry.
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And here I'm not gonna cry.I'm sorry. I just had to clean
myself up a little bit. Hecame. He came, and so the
whole thing is went to this restauranthe wanted to go to and it was
a little too expensive, but Idon't know, I ask my sister for
money. So we went. Ihad this like, I had this dress
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on and I changed cause I justI just dressed on and everything, and
I had my hair out, likeyou know, I tried to cut it,
but it wasn't like this. Ihad it parted a little bit.
And so I went in and hewas like looking around like oh, like
he was looking for somebody else.And I was like okay, I'm like
hey, I'm Tia, and thensh he was like Tia. I'm like
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yeah, it's for me from beokay, and then we s He was
like looking confused and he told meto sit down. So I sat down.
I smiled and he didn't smile backat me. And then he was
like I don't look like my pictures. I do look on at pictures.
I don't photoshop anything. I telleverything how it is. I'm gonna insert
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out of the end of the videothe picture I put in. And he
was like, you know, justbeing so quiet through the meal and all
that. He didn't even want topay. I said, hey, I
didn't bring my money with me,and then he eventually paid, and then
now he cashed. He sent mea request to pay for the food,
and that's not I just don't understandwhy are men like this? Men are
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evil? M No, I dotoo. That's really messed up. Like
I understand not being interested in somebody, but being rude to somebody is like
one thing, like her smiling atyou not smiling back. That's not cool.
Just because you're not interested doesn't meanyou got to treader like that.
With that being said, SIS didcatfish. She was a catfish. She
was a cat fish, all differentwith him without a wig. That's yeah,
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we look different. That's a catfish. I don't think it's that way
she filtered a first. I personallythink that she looked exactly what she needs.
Where she went wrong was she neededto put a full body picture because
a lot of her was like selfiesfrom angled up, so you can't see
her body, but her face lookedthe same. I think she just didn't
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have makeup on. She didn't,she didn't go to the date. How
she looked in her she she shouldhave wore a wig and she put the
makeup one. But it did looklike her. It's not like I mean,
it definitely is her, but itwas definitely not the herd that showed
up to the date. And Ifeel like the dramatic transition was that of
the catfish. Granted, yes,it is her face in a wig,
but the filters, the lack ofthe full body, you get a completely
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different image. That doesn't make itokay to go to her page and comment
that she has was it a Californiaking sized back or like they're really tearing
her not a California kids and likeI feel really bad for her, like
I really do. But and Idon't think that he should have cashed after
her or cash requested her to paythe bill. But if he feels like
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he was duped, then no,I feel like if you invited somebody out
on a date, it's not likeit was an actual catfish and then a
separate person showed up. Okay,you invited her out on a date.
It is her follow through. Youdon't have to talk to her ever.
Again, you don't have to followup, but don't cash at her for
a request, like seriously, likejust go through with the date and then
just keep it moving, chalk itout to her house. It seems like
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he was pretty he was pretty nastyabout it. I kind of would have
blasted his identity just again the tea, Oh you don't look like your pictures
and then like her trying to engagein conversation and being like I guess it
seemed like he just wasn't ready toengage with her smiling yeah, not smign
back, and then not wanting topay. But she didn't have the money
or didn't wear your money like hesounds like he was kind of probably addict
the entire date because at the endof the day, she is still the
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same person and to be able toget to the point where they were going
on a date, she had toshow her personality. It has to talk.
So you liked her for a reason. It wasn't just her looks right
like you aging conversation, the smalltalk was good enough to take it to
the next step, So why notjust see if her personality is good?
You know what I mean? Yeah, no, at the end of that,
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yees, she she is a personperiod. And it's just like people
just need to treat other people withrespect and kindness and decency like that's just
you wouldn't want anybody treat you yourselflike that, your daughter like that,
your sister like that. So cashof question her was a little nasty.
I think just paying the bill,not going out with her again would have
been respectable, right, But hehe did dog her, she did catfish
him, And so I want toknow, how do you feel about like
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when you're let's say you're in arelationship and depression happens, life happens,
and eventually your body changes, youlook different. That's just whatever happens.
Is it okay for the partner to, you know, leave the relationship because
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that's not who he wanted to bewithin the beginning? That's I think less
how that question was going to endleave what Well there are I've seen so
many stories where it's like, youknow, they give ultimatums like lose this
weight or I'm gone or da dada da, But like I especially just
reading on TikTok, it's like theydon't look how, they don't look like
how they did when they first met. They're no longer attracted to that person.
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And then I think there's a wayto like be like, hey,
you know, let's let's go tothe gym, or hey, you know,
let's let's get ourselves outside or let'slike I think you can try that
for for as long as you cantry that. But if that's not working
and that's not y, I don'tthink anybody has to stay with anybody,
Like you're not forced to be withanybody. You're you know, I'm my
own person. If that's just notwhat I want for myself anymore, it's
not what I want for myself anymore. I think that also goes like because
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I think our personalities change as weas we as we sure like everything,
our our tastes change, are ourinterests change. So what if, like
your personality becomes something that I don'tfuck with anymore, do I gotta stay
with you? Like? That's verytrue. I didn't e really, I
didn't think about it that way,but that's true. It's like not only
in personality and mentality and spirituality.Do people change and they decide that they're
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going, even if there's always somefriendships too, It's like, not everybody
stays, you know, a lignefor like forever, you know you sometimes
you know, people grow apart andso yeah, if you're no longer attracted
to somebody physically, then I guessthat is the reason to leave. Yeah,
and nothing. You can like talkto somebody about it, like hopefully
they can. You know, youguys can make change, maybe go to
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counseling, try to get back onthe same page. But that doesn't work.
I'm not for anybody being forced tostay with anybody. Yeah. No,
like if I'm married to somebody,you're like, all of a sudden,
I don't believe in Jesus Christ.I want to worship state it now
because that's cool to me. It'slike, oh, okay, all right,
I am Exita, like immediately.So yeah, well, poor girl,
because I hope that she actually findslove because my heart broke for her.
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Like just look at her face.Come here, look at her face.
I do feel bad for me too. You know, you won't be
shy. She shoots in the world. Wig, It's okay. It's okay,
all right, Teddy Order the Week, Patty Award in the week.
I don't know if you saw didyou see that girl say? I believe
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it was a fan of Holly Belly, and she said that when you go
into a wide eye competition and yousee that your competition is Holly Belly.
And then Holly Belly responded to thepost and commentate, you'd win. Did
you see that? No, yeah, she commented, you'd win, and
I had to guys are wide then, Holly Belly, don't try to play
me when you got them white asseyes. Right, she looked like the
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girl from Shark Tail. No,but actually, like the skim complex and
everything. I think it's like peopleneed to stop coming for people on social
media. No without you know,they're being rare percussions. Okay, these
celebrities clap back. Okay, peopleare gonna come for you, so just
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be prepared to get your ass okayhanded to you. Ward too, Okay,
So mine is going to a bridesmaid. She was in her friend's wedding
and she was actually the side chickof her friends husband. So mind you
there's a picture going viral. They'reall in their bridesmaid's robes. The girl
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is on the end smiling in thepicture, happy, gold, lucky,
and the whole time she is withthe groom. Now this all I think,
that's that's not even just petty,that's just disgusting whatever whatever. But
it all ended up coming out afterthe wedding, right. I don't know
what made the side chick expose everything, but she was leaking text messages and
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everything. She got jealous because theywent on their honeymoon. You weren't jealous.
What else happens after the wedding talkingabout some other I think you care
more about the honeymoon than me.What you just watched him get married,
girl. And I can't stand whenside chicks really think that the guy is
actually gonna leave for her. Hejust got married, And I hate the
guy being like, oh it wasn'tme. She did witchcraft on me.
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I had as listen. Men willthink of any excuse in the I can't
witchcraft, bro, like, no, you just anyway. I thought it
was petty of her to be inthe wedding like girl, no one,
she's sleep behind me. And Idon't even know if that's petty. I
might just be disgusted. I justcan't even I'm gonna give it to Halle
Bailey for clapping back by her wideeyes side. You'd win, period.
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Petty may Oh, Petty awarded aweek. Woo woo. Let's get turk
Petty now. Nicole from Lancaster writes, Dear Kayla and Kayla, is it
normal for my adult boyfriend and stillkiss his mom and grandmam on the lips?
And I overthinking it? Are wrongfor it kind of bothering me.
We've been together for a year andI don't know. I don't kiss my
mom on the lips anymore. Isthis a red flag? I think it's
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a red flag. I don't know, but I know people are different.
I know people show love in differentways, and I try not to judge.
I guess your body is I don'tknow, fringed. I'm sorry,
but at thirty plus years old,why are you kissing your mommy on the
lips? Like maybe the grandma becauseshe's old and frail and she's like stuck
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in the seventy fifty forties. Youknow she's old school, so okay.
Maybe, or kissing a baby onthe lips, okay, but your mom
is giving you want to be withyour mom, and I've already deal with
that in a relationship. I ain't. There are the women who give birth
to their husbands because their real husbandsand men aren't acting right. So there
are the moms that act like thatwith their sons. But they are also
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people that just show love and expressit in different ways. It could be
a cultural thing. I just Idon't know. I think context matters.
It depends on his relationship with hismom. Outside of that affection, some
people just you know, it's acultural thing. So people just do that
and it's not like weird, it'snot sexual. It's just you know,
and about my day. But Idon't know, it depends on things outside
of that. I don't think thatthat's necessarily the worst. If they talk
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on the phone twenty four to seven, if they you know what I mean,
Like she thinks that she's his girlfriendand oversteps you. Yeah, that's
a thing. It's giving she's inlove with her own son. Well we
don't know that from this, butI can get sorry, I'm triggered.
Oh god, Anyway, what yougot coming up this week? Girl?
Okay? So I am hosting anevent for Stella Rosa wines and they have
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a new spirit. It's their firstever spirit. It's a Brandy and because
it's called Brandy, Stella Rosa Premiumimported Brandy. Uh, their spokesperson is
the Brandy nor what. So We'rehaving an event downtown and we're gonna be
trying all the different flavors of thisBrandy. Brandy is actually gonna be there.
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She's gonna speak, she's gonna perform, and we're gonna do giveaways.
Yes, the bullet is mine period. It's gonna be really fun. I'm
nervous because I'm hosting and I alwaysget like this beforehand this. I don't
know, nervous about everything. AndI know a lot of my colleagues are
gonna be there, a lot ofmy peers are gonna be there. There's
this is like a million dollar party, you know what I mean. There's
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a lot of things right riding onit. And I have done this before.
I did about a year ago forStella Rosa and this the celebrity was
Ava Max and that went really well. We got a lot of compliments on
how I, you know, handledeverything and conducted the interview and how I
hosted and so I know I candeliver again, I just get nervous and
so I'm just trying to make surethat I'm over prepared so that I am
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confident when I walk up on thatstage. So wish me luck. That
is Thursday, yeah Lord, Butthat's about it. Other than that,
like just work. I've been doingthe earlier show, so my schedule's kind
of been thrown off. But onceThursday is over with, I can finally
and everything weekend. Yes, today'swork, Yeah sounds like yeah, yeah,
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a lot, a lot. Samewith major's work. Not not brandy
and is work work work work workordrecharging this battery. But make sure you
follow me at the Kayla Austin.I am at Kayla Thomas forty and fellow
at the Pettish Podcast to Town
The Petty Is Podcast. Welcome backto another episode of Patty Ish. I'm
Kayla. Hi, I'm Kayla.How are you. What's the pettiest thing
you did this week? Oh?Well, first of all, last week,
I know, right, yeah,well okay, last week. What
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happened was because I got a lotof texts, we recorded an episode and
then the file just corrupted. Therewas no audio. Went to go listen
back, make sure everything was crisp, clear, ready to publish, and
just nothing nothing. Forty five,forty six, fifty seven whatever minutes of
just silence. Silence. Yeah,how so free and frustrating. And it's
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not like we can hurry up andgo back into the studio and record again.
It was already too late in theweek. How so much was happening?
It was just it was your birthdayweek. It was the most little,
It was so much. It reallywas the most lit weekend in twenty
twenty four. So we went,well we could get into that, dude.
That's to the petty thing we didthis week. First, that I
didn't do anything I was I was. It was just two good vibes,
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you know what I mean, LikeI that I can think of right now,
like I just have been on cloudnine. I haven't had time to
be petty. Oh wait, ohall right, well, okay, I
will say this. I keep amental note of people who don't say have
birthday to me. Oh only ifit's like somebody that should say happy birthday
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to me, somebody somebody that Iwork with closely, or somebody that you
know is my friend. And Imade know of two specific people who did
not tell me happy birthday, andI will not be talking to them ever.
Oh my god. I thought atleast you were like waiting till their
birthday then like not wish them happybirthday, but not talking. I'm dramatic.
One of them is like, it'sfine, I just won't tell him
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happy birthday on his birthday. Anotherperson is the same friend that didn't tell
me Happy birthday last year, andI told her that it made me feel
some type of way, and shedid it again, and she did it
again. Damn. I don't eventhink that we're meant to be. That's
a story for another day, anotherday. That's right. You don't miss
your quote unquote best friend's thirtieth birthday. The thirtieth, No, not the
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thirtieth. Yeah, that's that's anapology with the gift right there. I
feel like we had a great time. On the third day we went to
cast Away. I feel like thewaiter that we had was rude. So
every time he came over to ourtable, I made sure to not speak,
like, you know, just shutdown my personality. If he needed
to hand something to somebody next tome, I was not helping him by
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grabbing the dish. Figure it out. Yeah, I did not like his
attitude. I thought he was reallylike uppity and like I answered that in
a minute, or it's like it'stoo glad to hear, like we took
it quiet is down. You don'tserve this table like that's that's it,
that's it, that's all okay.So the issue was he was that Kayla
had eaten before she came to mybirthday brunch and so she didn't All she
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wanted was bottom of mimosas. Buthe was like, well, we don't
serve alcohol without food or something likethat, and Kayla was like, well,
I'm trying to tell you I atebefore I came here, so can
you just give me the mimosas.Mind you, he already had an attitude
like off jump. I don't knowwhat it was. It was like,
I'll start my order at this atthis person like somebody started their order.
He was like, I'm gonna startwith her, like as somebody's already in
the middle of their order. Andit's like, yeah, that's just just
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I get you have a system.And I was in I was like,
already has a system. So theend of the table start to order or
whatever, and then he corrected thator whatever. We got his We got
the order in and the order thathe wanted it in, and then he
started giving me a hard time aboutmimosas. But I had a business brunch,
like you said before, and sowe were at a buffet and I
ate way too much and I justwanted my mimmosas, and then he would
not give them to me. Hewas really nasty about it. And then
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the manager came over and confirmed wherehe said, I didn't need to get
some food before I could get bottomwith mimosas. But the manager said he
was gonna bring the men and theycharged me for them. When I tried
to order another later in the diningyou know service, He's like, I
thought the manager spoke to you thatyou couldn't have bottomless like he was just
I'm like, all right, wellI'm ordering another one, give me another
momosa, like he was just soI don't understand. I don't understand.
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I was trying at one point tolike kill him with kindness because I just
like didn't want the vibes to bebad and I was just like smiling and
trying to make him but he wasjust he was just not budgeting. I
didn't get what it was. Itwas nasty. Yeah, he was just
he was weird. But but thatwas the only weird thing other than that
perch spot castaway popping. Did youhave the best thirtieth honeys? Yeah?
Man, I just even trying torecap it. It's just I can't even
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because everything was just so much.But I probably had the best birthday I
have ever had, and it wasall thanks to my friends, who showed
up for me in a way thatI have never had. Some people show
up for me on a birthday.And it's so crazy that those friends are
here in LA and like, I'mnot even from here, and I don't
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know, it's just from having sucha For the past like three years,
I've had terrible birthdays. I'm eitheryou know, stood up by my boyfriend
or getting in a fight. It'sjust like with my boyfriend and then he
leaves me out. I dined bymyself one year for my birthday. It
was just like cheated on the nextyear, and so I just have a
memory of bad birthdays. So tobe surrounded by like so much love and
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genuine people, this made me feelso good. Yeah, we did perch
was the dinner on Friday the RooftopVibe, the Rooftop Vibes, and it
was really really nice. Like Iwas afraid how people would interact because there
it was just different people from differentfriend groups. You know, sometimes it
gets weird when you don't know somebodyand you're sitting down next to somebody who
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we don't know. So I hada seating chart and I feel like that
worked out really well. I thinkthat was super beneficial. Yeah, but
regardless, even if I didn't havethat seating chart, I feel like everybody
would have messed really really well.Then we went up to the rooftop at
the at the end of the dinnerand we met the Grandmam from Never Have
I Ever, which was one ofmy favorite series on Netflix. I know
you never really watched it, butwhen I tell you, that was something
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I binged and loved when the newseasons dropped, Like seeing her was amazing.
Really, that was awesome. Yeah, it was just good vibes all
around. And I just want tosay thank you to all of my friends
who came out to that. Andthen the next day, I just wanted
to do a spa day. Iwanted to spend hours just getting a massage,
and that's exactly what we did.We got there what like eleven and
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I got a Swedish massage. Igot a facial and a vaginal steam,
which I wasn't really a fan of. I love the vaginal steam. I
want to get it once a week. Really, it was amazing. Do
you feel different from doing it?Like I don't know what is it supposed
to like cleansed or like, Imean, you know, I didn't really
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do anything with my vagina. Itfeels like on a movie Vachina. I
guess it's like brand new, it'sfakes Brand's Bank and now, yeah,
it just feels like cool. Man. I walked into that because I guess
you guys got there before us,and we walked in opened the GQ,
and there was Kaylee, Leah andLexi booves out naked in the jacuzzi.
It was a naked spy. Youcouldn't wear any bathing suits in the hot
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tub, and at first I waslike, yuck, I don't want to
do that with strangers. That's weird, that's nasty. But then I was
kind of reassured of the sanitization,sanitization of it all, sanitization anyway,
it seemed really cool. And Ithink that the germs die after a certain
amount of degrees of the water,so it was like hot enough, that
makes sense, Oh that yeah,the germs couldn't live in it. And
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I did make it clear like ifany strangers got in with us, we
get out, but it was alwayswith just people that I knew, so
I was super comfortable. The veggieseem or veggie see veggie seem, the
vagina seam. It did say somethinglike they're using old Korean ingredients to heal
ancient womb diseases that may carry soI was like just trying to take in
that mindset and just like heal myinsides. And I also had a partner
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in there, being my sister.Even though like that thing was out.
You know, you're covering your road, mean just sitting over this thing.
But I had conversation. I thinkit was only supposed to be for thirty
minutes. She kept us for fifty. Oh that's nice. Yeah, like
they didn't. I actually had toget up and was like, all right,
I gotta I gotta go. Iwas I was late to work.
I got a little bit in trouble. But they even had like this herbal
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tea. I didn't love it either, but it was supposed to be like
nourishing your body. I don't know. It was just a good vibe all
around everything in that place. Itwas like did you get under you round?
I went in all the rooms.It was assault room, a sauna
room, a clay room in thered room, which is like the yah
yeah yeah in the yeah yeah something. The only thing I didn't do was
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the jacuzzi. I wanted to dothat, but I feel like, no,
I didn't have that room too.Okay, I wanted to, but
as soon as I got there,I was time for my facial as suit
my massage. As soon as Iwas done that, I was time for
my facial and then I it waslike back to back to back to back,
you know what I mean. Ohmy gosh, everything was great,
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and I especially was just thankful becausewe also got time to bond. It
was like only what five of us, six of us, but like we
got time to ourselves, which wasreally nice too. I got time to
like be in a room by myself, was in the salt room by myself
for a little bit, but wealso got time to bond with it.
I think at that point was likeme, Lucy, Emily and Aliyah and
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I don't know, just we werehaving a heart to heart and in a
space where you already have been feelingso good and so refreshed and renewed.
To have stimulating conversation like that aboutour goals, about our futures, about
what we want for our lives,and taking the opportunity to build each other
up and encourage each other in someof our low moments. I think that
was just like the space to doit better than doing it at a dinner
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over drinks. Like it was insuch a healing space, and I think
that was like very I don't knowfor me personally, it was just really
refreshing for me. Sounds like itwas like a real deep release. I
have work at that point, soI'm not really sure how the vibes were,
but it sounds like amazing. Itsounds like it was really healings.
Just had a great time. Yeah, sure it. It was phenomenal.
Then later that night me and Emilywait and got sushi, and then that
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was it for that night and thenthe next day. So Joy everybody knows
like Joy is one of my closestfriends here. She's out of state for
filming a TV show, so shewasn't here for my birthday. But she's
like, well, you know,it ain't nothing but a phone call.
I'm still gonna plan your birthday.And I'm like, it's okay, Joey,
you don't have to. I'm alreadyhaving a dinner. Am I already
having spot day? No, I'mgonna plan you a brunch, Like I'm
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gonna plan I was like, okay. So I had no idea what was
going to be happening on Friday.On Sunday, I had an idea it
was probably gonna be cast Away becausewe enjoy go there all the time.
And so I get a text youtold me the night before to be ready
by one. I get a textby Joy at by Joy at like ten
am the next morning, saying Ihave a car waiting for you at be
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ready by twelve thirty sharp. Ihave a call waiting for you at twelve
thirty five. And I was like, oh, gosh, okay, so
get in the car. And thenI get there and I pull up and
I see Kat, Christine and Ashley, which is are like our mutual friends,
friends that I met through Joy butwe have become pretty close with and
they were there with like these bigass loons at like with the number thirty,
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and I was just like ah.And then when I walked into Castaway,
I saw Donna and I lost it. I just started bawling my eyes
out. Now, Donna is somebodywho's so precious to me. She lives
in my apartment complex, and sheis kind of always been like a mom
to me and my ex. Shehas a husband that they've lived in the
community for over twenty years, andthey were kind of like our confidant and
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a person that were I don't wantto encourage us during this journey of being
out here together and just like givingus advice. And she's just like somebody
really look up to. And yeah, she's prominent in the industry, and
she was invited to my birthday dinneron Friday, but couldn't make it.
And I had no idea see thatI was even gonna expect for her.
I just was not expecting her tobe that brunch, and so when I
saw her, I just was like, no way, just like lost it.
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So that was super like amazing.And then of course Kaylen Leah were
there, and so it was Lexiand we turned uh puh lit lit.
Well, you guys got little Ileave again. I had work all weekend.
So you guys you got tattoo artistson your resume. Oh my god,
you are like you were a bigoutside. Yeah. I was big
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outside. Literally the mimosas turned intoshots that turned into hey, let's go
get our nipples pierced. So wewent to the tattoo shop. Everybody was
there, even Donna went to thetattoo shop. They said, my nipples
weren't poky enough for it. Idon't know what that means, Like,
did they aren't you piers? Yeah? I had them both piers and then
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one fell out, so I onlyhave one thing. They said that my
nipples weren't it doesn't come out fartherenough that it and it would like ILL
reject it, and she was like, I'm not gonna waste your time and
your money. Like it's that waskind. Yeah, So I didn't get
that. I was like, well, I have to get something. So
I got a tattoo and I gota airy symbol. At first, I
was gonna get my grandma's birthday andI was gonna get it in this spot
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and everyone's like, why would youget it next to your groin? That
would be a weird spot to getyour grandma's birthday. So I got an
airy symbol. I love it,And then I tattooed Christine. Christine also
got like Christine out like three tattoos. Ashley got a flower on her chest
or her side, Kat got herears pierced. Then we got a bottle.
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The tattoo artist took shots with us. It was one of them was
like my ex coworker or something likethat. Apparently, Yeah, the twin
of my ex coworker, Leah waslike sending me pictures. Do you remember
this guy used to work with himat the dispenser I used to work at.
And I was like, oh mygod, what's his name? And
she was like, oh no,his name is x Y and Z.
But yeah, Like Lea was likeupdating me the whole time. I was
like, oh my god, I'mnot so mad. Oh my god.
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We were literally turning up having aparty in the tattoo shop, Like I'm
sure that was so illegal, butlike it was the best time ever.
I came home and Leah was sodrunk, like you and then you FaceTime
dust and you were so drunk,and I like threw everything up, everything
everything, like and I was.I threw up so much that I was
not hung over the next day,and that never happened. Did you have
the ivy like what I had?Like ivy? I called Kayla and I
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don't remember what I said, girl. What you were just like I'm not
okay. You threw up, youwere shaking. I was freaking out.
And then I called Emily. Uhso Emily could check on you, but
you were like no, no,I just got to stay on the phone.
I just got to say the phone. I have fun. I was
dinner, yeah, don't be around, blacked out me. And then Emily
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came over and then she like gaveme some liquid ivy and some bread.
It was just but I don't know. And then later that night, I
think after she left, I goton the phone with some of my uh
best friends from Liberty, like agroup FaceTime from like a bunch of people
from Liberty. It was just likethe perfect way to end. Yeah,
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and I just and also I'm justespecially thankful for you, Kaylea. You
were there for all three days,oh girl. And I know all that
was probably Hella like expensive and alot of money. She's like, yeah,
you ain't cheap. You ain't cheap. And I love it. That's
my kind of weekend. I loveand I want to do it every weekend.
I wish we could do every weekend. Then we'd be, you know,
not flourishing and probably struggling. Whatabout you, though, how was
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how was your week? I didall that with you? What else could
I do? My battery is dead, Like I just I needed to sleep.
I am so exhausted, like I'mjust, I'm just I've been I've
been outside. And then like ontop of that, like I finally met
my I don't know, yeah,my old room. She had her baby,
So I finally met him, andI'm spending more time with him and
her and just seeing her mommy mood, so I was. It was just
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a bunch of friends and a bunchof love this weekend. I love,
very very grateful. I love it. I'm very grateful. Well, petty
things that our listeners did, weskipped that. This one is from Tom
Out in Sherman Oaks. He said, I ruined my female best friend's wedding
after she's cheated on her groom andslept with me the week before. I
feel like we're supposed to be together, but she isn't taking but she isn't
talking to me now. So youruined your best friend's wedding because she cheated
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on her fyance with you before thewedding. I want to know in what
way did he ruin the wedding.Did he stand up and be like,
oh I object, I fucked herlast week? Oh my gosh, I
need more details. That's not petty. I don't know if I respect that
man like. That's not I don'tknow how film so torn. I don't
know I respect it. If youtold the groom privately, maybe, but
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not standing up at the wedding andsaying I object, Like, think about
it. Say you're about to getmarried to somebody you don't know that they
cheated on you when you have whenyou want to know, even if it's
by the person that he cheated onyou with. I'm just thinking, like,
if that's your best friend and y'alllike slept together, like you're gonna
stab your best friend in the backlike that and like tell her person that
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y'all did that. That's not cool. You're right best friend, okay,
right, it's not just somebody likeyou frandom, you're like your best friend,
like and cheating's never okay. ButI just think that's like not loyal,
Like you're not You're not a goodperson, You're a good friend.
Cheating just makes my skin and crossno matter what it comes from, any
best friend, non friend. Like, I can't none of that, none
of that. My husband divorced mebecause I didn't lose the baby. Wait,
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I have text of him tell methis. I also still have his
email and his universal password that hehas yet to change and use this for
everything when he sets up a date. When he sets up a date,
I send the woman the receipts andhe wonders why he can't get a girlfriend,
so he lets she lets all thepotential dates know that he dumped her
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because she or he divorced her becauseshe wouldn't lose the baby. Wait,
that's a lot of work. Ithink not all heroes wear capes. That
man doesn't deserve to be dated.That's awful, It is awful. But
I ain't doing all that every singletime. But you know what, it's
so crazy because I hear of alot of situations where the husband or the
boyfriend whatever becomes unattracted to the womanafter she carries his baby. That's awful,
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isn't it? Isn't it so sad? You know, it's like I
carried your baby. You you impregnatedme, and now you don't want me
anymore. But the part of mehad to die to bring your child into
this world. Like and now you'reand now you're done with me? And
one another skin is a girl calledthe cops. Is I'm about to go
to joel, I'm about to goto jail. That's I couldn't imagine.
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I couldn't imagine. That's like myheart breaks for all the women that go
through that. Cheating is never okay. It's triggering, it's upsetting, it's
traumatic. But is there such athing as respectful cheating because Nini Leeks apparently
thinks that there is Oh I can't. I can't her now, respectful cheating,
I could deal with that. Youcan't. I might, yeah,
because see, look, if I'mhere in Georgia and you went to San
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Francisco for the work, I'm justsaying. I'm saying any city. I'm
saying, if he went to NewYork for the week, what I don't
what you don't know won't hurt you. It won't hurt you. However,
if you're going to cheat, youneed to do it with respect. Now
you do you do need? Idon't like people who are not respectful.
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So these are the ones that aren'trespectful. Ye're talking to the side,
he's in line to them. Firstof all, you already lied to whoever
disease is on the side. Soif you're gonna be respectful, you first
you tell that person you give mefeet feet on my woman. Don't ever
approach me when you see me withmy woman. So that's not all.
Number one, you can never approach. I can imagine somebody approaching me.
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It would just be like, whatLord have mercy, Laura, Don't ever
let me get like that, please? I have no faith in nobody no
more. I tell you, Idon't really think that that's like, I
don't know if that's just an openrelationship, like Okay, you do you,
I do me as long as theother one doesn't find out. That
sounds more like an agreement than respectfulcheating. I don't think there's any respectful
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way to cheat. It kind ofsounds like an oxymoron. If you're cheating
on me and you're disrespecting me,there's no way to respectfully cheat on me.
What this sounds like to me ismen have broken women women so much
that they feel like they have totolerate this. There is now this notion
out there, and I've heard itso many times that there is never ever
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ever a situation where a man won'tcheat, like it's in people like women
truly believe that you have to inorder to have a happy relationship, Like
you have to accept that at leastonce and in the relationship, he's gonna
cheat. And I think that's sosad. Yeah, I refuse to subscribe
to that message. However, Idid see something where Tony Braxton's mom or
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t Mar Brax or whatever they were, they were talking to her mom,
and she was like, let thatman cheat in peace. But at first,
you know, when you first hearthat, you're like, what he
does? She mean? But it'slike, let that man cheat in piece,
as if you're not gonna do anythinganything about it, then no need
to cause a whole hooplah and fliptables and cause all this shit if you're
just gonna keep allowing him to doit, Like, if you're gonna break
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up with him and do something aboutit, then confront of him. But
if you're not just causing a fightbecause he's cheating, just isn't worth it.
What do you think about that?You teach people how to treat you,
Okay, So if he feels likehe can keep getting it away with
it and every time you're gonna you'regonna throw things and you're gonna you're not
gonna do this, and you threatento break up with him and you and
you do all this, and youmove out for five days and then he
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cries and puts on the He knowsthat all he has to do is get
on his knees and beg and cryand do all this stuff, and you
take him back. And it's acycle and a cycle. He knows how
to play the game, and he'sgoing to continue to do it. So
in that case, like, ifyou're going to keep allowing that disrespect,
then that's your fault, that's yourproblem. And I understand though, I
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know, man, we've all beenfault. Yeah, Like I have manipulated
my own mind in so many differentways to see it from a different angle,
to justify why he did what hedid to me, Well, you're
right, I wasn't cooking and cleaningenough, or man, well maybe I
should have been paying more attention tohim instead of work, Like, man,
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you know what I mean. Andso a lot of women go through
that phase and through that in theirmind and it's like no, like no,
no, not so. But Idon't know, well, it were
like okay, like you would youever have some before somebody lied to you?
Saucy Santana says, it's better tobe happy in Dululu noth But at
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the same time, I don't believein telling motherfucker's the truth. I don't
believe in tell it somebody that Ireally love or care about the truth.
I just like, who the fuckis you to sit me down and tell
me that you got fib itches.Who the fuck is you to send me
down and say, hey, shoutout, gotta call you back out with
my love? Who the fuck isyou to tell me? Amen? I
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can't kick it with you like that? You know I got a boy,
don't try me, love me goodand lie to me, bitch? Fuck
right, that's delusion? Yeah,he my soul a little bit, just
a little bit. But yeah,so is it better to be lied to?
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Or is this just another way toreinforce toxic relationships that aren't worth worth
having? In your opinion? SometimesI wonder if the pain would have been
like had I not known, Iwould have think a lot of things wouldn't
have been ruined during that time,right, So fighting out that I was
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being cheated on ruined everything, myappetite, the way that I performed at
work, my friendships, like fora period of time. And I wonder
if I've never found out, orif he hadn't came clean, I would
have still been living in this oblivionbliss, I guess or whatever. But
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I through it all. I wouldrather go through that pain because I feel
like it made me stronger, eventhough it sucks and it hurts and you
feel like you're gonna die. Ithink five months of heart wrenching pain is
worth living a delusion of everything ispeaches and creams, and you're being lied
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to behind your back and you're actuallylooking this person asks you out here looking
crazy when you're there and you thinkingthat everything's great, you know for sure?
I don't know. I feel likeI've never been completely blindsided, and
I know that that does exist whereyou just have no idea that your partner
is this completely the other person hasthis other life. But I know for
me, I've never been blindsided.So when I was being done dirty,
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I kind of just kind of turneda blind eye. But a part of
me kind of always knew, nomatter how much I tried to convince myself
that this is a bliss, thisis a utopia and I'm so happy,
there's a part of me that knewI wasn't happy, and that part of
me and that that voice kind ofjust took away from my light. You
know, even though I was livingin this ignorant, fake place, I
knew deep down that I wasn't happy. So it just there was a light
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that was missing. There was anunhappiness about me, and I think that
there's no such thing as just beinghappy. Lie to me, bitch,
and I know you're lying to me, and I'm just happy about that.
I don't think that that truly exists. I think that you're lying. You're
convincing yourself that you're happy, buta part of you knows you're not.
Yeah, I mean, I justtrust intuition. God will tell you when
something is wrong and when you're beinglied to. And I don't I can't
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even really explain the feeling, butI just felt it in every every lie.
I felt like this twist in mygut and it was like instantly I
knew that that wasn't true. ButI remember trying to, like I said,
manipulate my own mind to like Ni, Kayla, you're you're crazy,
Like you know what I mean,But you know and then like you know,
when you when you find out forsure and it get solidified and then
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you forgive that person. There's justsuch a disconnect, like their touch feels
wrong, their kiss feels wrong,like the way they look at you,
just everything just feels like a line. It's just no, oh, absolutely,
it's yeah. Like I didn't evenI wasn't even sexually attracted to my
partner for like the last eight monthsof our relationship. As much as I
tried to, I just couldn't doit because in the back of my mind,
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I remember you was you was doingthis, this, this, this,
and this like obligation when you're ohmy god. It felt like I
girl, I was like the lastthing that I wanted to do. I
did not want to oh my god. And that's when I knew that the
relationship was not gone, was absolutelydone. But I have there, Kayla.
There are some TikTok will show youall sorts of women, and there
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are some women on there who wouldrather be lied to. And in a
lot of people's cases, it's like, well, I'm being taken care of.
I got the car, I gotthe money, I got the house,
I don't have to work. Iwould rather take that than have nothing.
So I experienced that because it's alwaysthese ass fight that a fool for
me. So I just can't.Would you ever, like I don't think
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I could. Would you ever accepta super rich nigga that gives you the
entire world, but maybe he hassomething on the side. I'm not saying
it like I can't I have Ibarely can I just can't control my emotions.
I can't control my reactions a lotof the times. Like that's just
not gonna be good for anybody.I'm never respectfully remove myself from this situation,
for this whole shake is burned down. Yeah, just know, none
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of that stuff is worth it tome. I I would never, never,
ever ever care about the cars andthe money. None of that is
worth it when I know that I'mbeing disrespected or I'm not being chosen as
like the only one like my selfworth and my self value is never worth
a bag or a car or ahouse that I can get for myself.
Like you know, I just likeI'm working toward that for myself. I
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don't need that, Like I'm notgonna tolerate being disrespected just to have those
things. It's just no, that'snot a thing for me. Absolutely.
Yeah. Okay, switching to fine, Okay, switching gears real quick.
So I don't know if you allsaw this, but there is this woman
on TikTok and people are saying thatshe catfished this man because they went out
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on a date and she didn't looklike she did in her pictures. There
were actually old photos of her,so he ended up sending her a cash
IP request for their date. Nowthis is her explaining the situation. I
just finished my date and I amso embarrassed. I'm not gonna cry.
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And here I'm not gonna cry.I'm sorry. I just had to clean
myself up a little bit. Hecame. He came, and so the
whole thing is went to this restauranthe wanted to go to and it was
a little too expensive, but Idon't know, I ask my sister for
money. So we went. Ihad this like, I had this dress
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on and I changed cause I justI just dressed on and everything, and
I had my hair out, likeyou know, I tried to cut it,
but it wasn't like this. Ihad it parted a little bit.
And so I went in and hewas like looking around like oh, like
he was looking for somebody else.And I was like okay, I'm like
hey, I'm Tia, and thensh he was like Tia. I'm like
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yeah, it's for me from beokay, and then we s He was
like looking confused and he told meto sit down. So I sat down.
I smiled and he didn't smile backat me. And then he was
like I don't look like my pictures. I do look on at pictures.
I don't photoshop anything. I telleverything how it is. I'm gonna insert
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out of the end of the videothe picture I put in. And he
was like, you know, justbeing so quiet through the meal and all
that. He didn't even want topay. I said, hey, I
didn't bring my money with me,and then he eventually paid, and then
now he cashed. He sent mea request to pay for the food,
and that's not I just don't understandwhy are men like this? Men are
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evil? M No, I dotoo. That's really messed up. Like
I understand not being interested in somebody, but being rude to somebody is like
one thing, like her smiling atyou not smiling back. That's not cool.
Just because you're not interested doesn't meanyou got to treader like that.
With that being said, SIS didcatfish. She was a catfish. She
was a cat fish, all differentwith him without a wig. That's yeah,
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we look different. That's a catfish. I don't think it's that way
she filtered a first. I personallythink that she looked exactly what she needs.
Where she went wrong was she neededto put a full body picture because
a lot of her was like selfiesfrom angled up, so you can't see
her body, but her face lookedthe same. I think she just didn't
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have makeup on. She didn't,she didn't go to the date. How
she looked in her she she shouldhave wore a wig and she put the
makeup one. But it did looklike her. It's not like I mean,
it definitely is her, but itwas definitely not the herd that showed
up to the date. And Ifeel like the dramatic transition was that of
the catfish. Granted, yes,it is her face in a wig,
but the filters, the lack ofthe full body, you get a completely
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different image. That doesn't make itokay to go to her page and comment
that she has was it a Californiaking sized back or like they're really tearing
her not a California kids and likeI feel really bad for her, like
I really do. But and Idon't think that he should have cashed after
her or cash requested her to paythe bill. But if he feels like
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he was duped, then no,I feel like if you invited somebody out
on a date, it's not likeit was an actual catfish and then a
separate person showed up. Okay,you invited her out on a date.
It is her follow through. Youdon't have to talk to her ever.
Again, you don't have to followup, but don't cash at her for
a request, like seriously, likejust go through with the date and then
just keep it moving, chalk itout to her house. It seems like
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he was pretty he was pretty nastyabout it. I kind of would have
blasted his identity just again the tea, Oh you don't look like your pictures
and then like her trying to engagein conversation and being like I guess it
seemed like he just wasn't ready toengage with her smiling yeah, not smign
back, and then not wanting topay. But she didn't have the money
or didn't wear your money like hesounds like he was kind of probably addict
the entire date because at the endof the day, she is still the
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same person and to be able toget to the point where they were going
on a date, she had toshow her personality. It has to talk.
So you liked her for a reason. It wasn't just her looks right
like you aging conversation, the smalltalk was good enough to take it to
the next step, So why notjust see if her personality is good?
You know what I mean? Yeah, no, at the end of that,
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yees, she she is a personperiod. And it's just like people
just need to treat other people withrespect and kindness and decency like that's just
you wouldn't want anybody treat you yourselflike that, your daughter like that,
your sister like that. So cashof question her was a little nasty.
I think just paying the bill,not going out with her again would have
been respectable, right, But hehe did dog her, she did catfish
him, And so I want toknow, how do you feel about like
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when you're let's say you're in arelationship and depression happens, life happens,
and eventually your body changes, youlook different. That's just whatever happens.
Is it okay for the partner to, you know, leave the relationship because
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that's not who he wanted to bewithin the beginning? That's I think less
how that question was going to endleave what Well there are I've seen so
many stories where it's like, youknow, they give ultimatums like lose this
weight or I'm gone or da dada da, But like I especially just
reading on TikTok, it's like theydon't look how, they don't look like
how they did when they first met. They're no longer attracted to that person.
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And then I think there's a wayto like be like, hey,
you know, let's let's go tothe gym, or hey, you know,
let's let's get ourselves outside or let'slike I think you can try that
for for as long as you cantry that. But if that's not working
and that's not y, I don'tthink anybody has to stay with anybody,
Like you're not forced to be withanybody. You're you know, I'm my
own person. If that's just notwhat I want for myself anymore, it's
not what I want for myself anymore. I think that also goes like because
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I think our personalities change as weas we as we sure like everything,
our our tastes change, are ourinterests change. So what if, like
your personality becomes something that I don'tfuck with anymore, do I gotta stay
with you? Like? That's verytrue. I didn't e really, I
didn't think about it that way,but that's true. It's like not only
in personality and mentality and spirituality.Do people change and they decide that they're
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going, even if there's always somefriendships too, It's like, not everybody
stays, you know, a lignefor like forever, you know you sometimes
you know, people grow apart andso yeah, if you're no longer attracted
to somebody physically, then I guessthat is the reason to leave. Yeah,
and nothing. You can like talkto somebody about it, like hopefully
they can. You know, youguys can make change, maybe go to
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counseling, try to get back onthe same page. But that doesn't work.
I'm not for anybody being forced tostay with anybody. Yeah. No,
like if I'm married to somebody,you're like, all of a sudden,
I don't believe in Jesus Christ.I want to worship state it now
because that's cool to me. It'slike, oh, okay, all right,
I am Exita, like immediately.So yeah, well, poor girl,
because I hope that she actually findslove because my heart broke for her.
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Like just look at her face.Come here, look at her face.
I do feel bad for me too. You know, you won't be
shy. She shoots in the world. Wig, It's okay. It's okay,
all right, Teddy Order the Week, Patty Award in the week.
I don't know if you saw didyou see that girl say? I believe
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it was a fan of Holly Belly, and she said that when you go
into a wide eye competition and yousee that your competition is Holly Belly.
And then Holly Belly responded to thepost and commentate, you'd win. Did
you see that? No, yeah, she commented, you'd win, and
I had to guys are wide then, Holly Belly, don't try to play
me when you got them white asseyes. Right, she looked like the
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girl from Shark Tail. No,but actually, like the skim complex and
everything. I think it's like peopleneed to stop coming for people on social
media. No without you know,they're being rare percussions. Okay, these
celebrities clap back. Okay, peopleare gonna come for you, so just
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be prepared to get your ass okayhanded to you. Ward too, Okay,
So mine is going to a bridesmaid. She was in her friend's wedding
and she was actually the side chickof her friends husband. So mind you
there's a picture going viral. They'reall in their bridesmaid's robes. The girl
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is on the end smiling in thepicture, happy, gold, lucky,
and the whole time she is withthe groom. Now this all I think,
that's that's not even just petty,that's just disgusting whatever whatever. But
it all ended up coming out afterthe wedding, right. I don't know
what made the side chick expose everything, but she was leaking text messages and
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everything. She got jealous because theywent on their honeymoon. You weren't jealous.
What else happens after the wedding talkingabout some other I think you care
more about the honeymoon than me.What you just watched him get married,
girl. And I can't stand whenside chicks really think that the guy is
actually gonna leave for her. Hejust got married, And I hate the
guy being like, oh it wasn'tme. She did witchcraft on me.
(36:50):
I had as listen. Men willthink of any excuse in the I can't
witchcraft, bro, like, no, you just anyway. I thought it
was petty of her to be inthe wedding like girl, no one,
she's sleep behind me. And Idon't even know if that's petty. I
might just be disgusted. I justcan't even I'm gonna give it to Halle
Bailey for clapping back by her wideeyes side. You'd win, period.
(37:14):
Petty may Oh, Petty awarded aweek. Woo woo. Let's get turk
Petty now. Nicole from Lancaster writes, Dear Kayla and Kayla, is it
normal for my adult boyfriend and stillkiss his mom and grandmam on the lips?
And I overthinking it? Are wrongfor it kind of bothering me.
We've been together for a year andI don't know. I don't kiss my
mom on the lips anymore. Isthis a red flag? I think it's
(37:37):
a red flag. I don't know, but I know people are different.
I know people show love in differentways, and I try not to judge.
I guess your body is I don'tknow, fringed. I'm sorry,
but at thirty plus years old,why are you kissing your mommy on the
lips? Like maybe the grandma becauseshe's old and frail and she's like stuck
(37:59):
in the seventy fifty forties. Youknow she's old school, so okay.
Maybe, or kissing a baby onthe lips, okay, but your mom
is giving you want to be withyour mom, and I've already deal with
that in a relationship. I ain't. There are the women who give birth
to their husbands because their real husbandsand men aren't acting right. So there
are the moms that act like thatwith their sons. But they are also
(38:21):
people that just show love and expressit in different ways. It could be
a cultural thing. I just Idon't know. I think context matters.
It depends on his relationship with hismom. Outside of that affection, some
people just you know, it's acultural thing. So people just do that
and it's not like weird, it'snot sexual. It's just you know,
and about my day. But Idon't know, it depends on things outside
of that. I don't think thatthat's necessarily the worst. If they talk
(38:43):
on the phone twenty four to seven, if they you know what I mean,
Like she thinks that she's his girlfriendand oversteps you. Yeah, that's
a thing. It's giving she's inlove with her own son. Well we
don't know that from this, butI can get sorry, I'm triggered.
Oh god, Anyway, what yougot coming up this week? Girl?
Okay? So I am hosting anevent for Stella Rosa wines and they have
(39:06):
a new spirit. It's their firstever spirit. It's a Brandy and because
it's called Brandy, Stella Rosa Premiumimported Brandy. Uh, their spokesperson is
the Brandy nor what. So We'rehaving an event downtown and we're gonna be
trying all the different flavors of thisBrandy. Brandy is actually gonna be there.
(39:28):
She's gonna speak, she's gonna perform, and we're gonna do giveaways.
Yes, the bullet is mine period. It's gonna be really fun. I'm
nervous because I'm hosting and I alwaysget like this beforehand this. I don't
know, nervous about everything. AndI know a lot of my colleagues are
gonna be there, a lot ofmy peers are gonna be there. There's
this is like a million dollar party, you know what I mean. There's
(39:50):
a lot of things right riding onit. And I have done this before.
I did about a year ago forStella Rosa and this the celebrity was
Ava Max and that went really well. We got a lot of compliments on
how I, you know, handledeverything and conducted the interview and how I
hosted and so I know I candeliver again, I just get nervous and
so I'm just trying to make surethat I'm over prepared so that I am
(40:13):
confident when I walk up on thatstage. So wish me luck. That
is Thursday, yeah Lord, Butthat's about it. Other than that,
like just work. I've been doingthe earlier show, so my schedule's kind
of been thrown off. But onceThursday is over with, I can finally
and everything weekend. Yes, today'swork, Yeah sounds like yeah, yeah,
(40:37):
a lot, a lot. Samewith major's work. Not not brandy
and is work work work work workordrecharging this battery. But make sure you
follow me at the Kayla Austin.I am at Kayla Thomas forty and fellow
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