We’ve all been there—replaying old texts, scrolling “just to see,” or trying to prove we were worth staying for. But chasing doesn’t heal you, babe—it exhausts you.
In this powerful episode of The Nichole Banks Podcast, Nichole dives deep into why we chase love, closure, and validation after divorce—and how to finally stop. You’ll laugh, you’ll nod, and you’ll probably whisper “ouch, that’s me,” but you’ll also learn how to shift from panic to peace and start attracting the right energy instead of running after the wrong one.
✨ In this episode:
- Why we chase what’s walking away (and what we’re really seeking).
- How to stop confusing effort with worth.
- Nichole’s personal story of chasing love that wasn’t meant to stay.
- The energetic shift that happens when you align with peace.
- Practical steps to stop chasing and start attracting calm, clarity, and confidence.
???? Remember: You’re not hard to love—you were just loving in the wrong direction.
???? Listen now and learn how to stop chasing, start aligning, and trust that what’s meant for you won’t run away.
Follow Nichole on Instagram @msnicholebanks and visit nicholebanks.com for blogs, courses, retreats, and community designed to help you heal and thrive.
???? If this episode gave you chills or clarity, hit follow, leave a review, and share it with your bestie who’s still chasing what’s no longer hers. Because peace? It’s magnetic.
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