October 31, 2025 • 7 mins
Ashton and Carrie Beth went out after she did all the work to go out. So what happend and why are they not going out again?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is gj Amanda and j Rod's second date update on.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
kJ one O three, Ashton and OKC. On the second
date update, Hi.
Speaker 3 (00:08):
Asked in.
Speaker 4 (00:09):
Morning, guys, how are you trying to.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Get you another date with Carrie Beth here? And you
said she was the one who was doing all the
asking out right?
Speaker 4 (00:17):
Oh yeah, I mean she was very motivated to go
out with me. She had DM me on Instagram and said,
you know, you're funny. We should hang out. And then
she was like, okay, let's go ab dinner, Let's get
to know each other and stuff. We went out for dinner.
I think we had a great time. She said it
was great to meet me in person and all that.
So then I sent her a few messages after the
(00:39):
date and I get no reply, nothing, And then she's
the one. But if you think about she slid into
my dms, asked me out, and after one date she
just totally annoys me. It's weird. I'm from New York.
Originally I'm used to crazy women, but this is like
a different level.
Speaker 2 (00:56):
Wow, you're used to crazy women.
Speaker 4 (01:00):
Nine million people, so there's going to be more crazy number.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
That's really Yeah, you're here, We're silently crazy.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
Okay, harder to find the crazy here, but it would
still still here.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
Well, we we will get Carry Beth on the phone,
and we'll just ask her why. You know, maybe you're
the crazy one here, Ashton. Maybe it's you. Okay, okay,
hold on, we'll do it.
Speaker 4 (01:25):
Coming up.
Speaker 2 (01:26):
Yeah, we'll take your break, play a couple of songs
and see what's up for the Second Date update kJ
went three tj Amanda and Jay Rod in the morning.
The Second Date Update with tj Amanda and j Rod
on kJ one three. We got Carrie Beth on the
Second Date update.
Speaker 4 (01:41):
Hi, Hello, Carrybeth, how are you?
Speaker 2 (01:44):
Ashton said you slid into his d MS. You guys
went on a date and now you don't seem motivated
to want to go out again, so we're trying to
get him a second date here.
Speaker 4 (01:57):
Wait, we look like a first day eat.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
Are you saying you never went on a date?
Speaker 4 (02:05):
I mean, I wouldn't really call it a date.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
We have some food or whatever, but I wouldn't call
that a date at all.
Speaker 4 (02:12):
Carrie, Carrie, Carrie, let me ask you a question. How
is that not a date?
Speaker 2 (02:17):
Right?
Speaker 4 (02:17):
You asked me out to dinner?
Speaker 2 (02:19):
It sounds like a date. Carry back.
Speaker 4 (02:22):
I mean I thought you were interesting. I saw you
on Instagram. I wanted to meet you. That was really
what's what did it? Just to meet me? What's the
point of that?
Speaker 3 (02:33):
I mean, I like to meet new people.
Speaker 4 (02:35):
It's an experience, you know, dinner, get to know someone
you never met. That's about it.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
So you're saying not you were saying not a date,
but that's a date. Just I just find random people
on Instagram and I just want to meet them, and
then you go out to dinner and then you just
kind of move on with your life.
Speaker 4 (02:51):
I mean, sure, why not? I mean people do that
in the first place. What just to meet each other
and go on with our lives? Is that the point?
I mean, like, you know, to get to know each other.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
You were interesting, it was cool, So so you just
want to meet and then just just go.
Speaker 4 (03:07):
I mean, yeah, aly, nothing wrong with that. Then why
did I pay for your dinner? Because you're a generous person,
thank you? Because I thought we were on a date.
Well I'm sorry, Like you know, I didn't make it
(03:27):
clear that I wanted us to meet.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
But that's really it.
Speaker 4 (03:31):
Just to meet guys. I'm lost, Like, yeah, I don't
want I don't need to meet some stranger a conversation,
pay for their dinner, and then go about my life.
I mean, you should try it. It's interesting to meet
people with no expectations.
Speaker 5 (03:44):
Well he did try it, doesn't I got said receiving
at anything. You asked, why am I wasting time just
meeting someone? Would you want to meet him for a
second time and get to know him even better and
then a third time?
Speaker 4 (04:00):
Even the purpose? So that is the purpose a friend
or a relationship? Well I'm not interested in that.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
Okay, I'll be honest. I got money of friends. I
don't need no more Gary math. You're doing your thing.
It sounds like a thing. It gives me a headache
to do the math in my head. But thanks for
coming on the second date update and clarifying what that
not date was. Okay, sure, problem, Okay, that that's weird.
Speaker 1 (04:34):
She's seemed very concient.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
She seems like you're joy.
Speaker 2 (04:37):
There's no problem with it.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Maybe some better communication.
Speaker 4 (04:40):
Am I crazy? This is insane?
Speaker 3 (04:42):
Right?
Speaker 4 (04:42):
I mean, it's a complete waste of my time and
my money.
Speaker 3 (04:45):
You make plans to go somewhere.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
That's a take. Well even if it's not. If it's
like you meet, Okay, there will be friends or something,
but just to meet and they'll be like, nice meeting, you,
have a great life, thanks for my dinner.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
There should be.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
Like its it's funny. Sorry we didn't get you the
other day.
Speaker 4 (05:03):
That's okay, guys, thank you very much for sanity. I
appreciate it.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
No worries.
Speaker 2 (05:08):
Molly Message Investment calls it a hobo dinner. Girls gotta eat. Okay, okay,
what are you think it is this now? Normally I'd
be like, she's just trying to get a free meal.
I don't think so. I think she's legit. Just like
no I meet people, they feed me.
Speaker 5 (05:26):
Or whatever.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
But then okay, cool, nice to meet you.
Speaker 3 (05:28):
It's been a long.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
Time since I dated like this, but I definitely feel
like I've been in her situation where like I thought,
I was just having a good time and the guy
thought it was a date and it was just a
lack of communication.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
Why else are we going out to dinner if it's
not a date? Right, You're not that special. You're especially
enough to be my girlfriend, but not just to be
some stranger that I buy dinner for.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
And then it was me. I would if I was
going into it thinking it wasn't a date. I would
probably offer to pay. So that's where it kind of
got me.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
It's like, oh, but she said no, he's generous. Okay,
what four O five for sixcel one or two seven
if you want to chime on the second date up take.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
I just want to give you my opinion on the
second day update. Okay, really that's really sad. That's really sad.
My boy ill got played.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
You think you think he got played?
Speaker 4 (06:13):
A yeah?
Speaker 3 (06:14):
You know, I mean she is. She was just probably
a boy and decided to have a freeze in there though, you.
Speaker 4 (06:20):
Know, to be honest, Yeah, she she leads.
Speaker 3 (06:23):
To a different to make it seem.
Speaker 4 (06:25):
Like it was a day, but it wasn't.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
Malory said Meloy, said us a message. Broad just wanted
a free meal. That or she's taken and she just
wants to see who she can still pull without the
guilt of labeling it as just meeting people. A lot
of a lot of things going on. She could be
in a relationship but still wants to go on a
date every once in a while, but doesn't call it
a date.
Speaker 4 (06:46):
She's not doing anything wrong.
Speaker 2 (06:48):
Friend, hang out with people, all right? Okay, thank you Richie.
I don't want you, b
This is gj Amanda and j Rod's second date update on.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
kJ one O three, Ashton and OKC. On the second
date update, Hi.
Speaker 3 (00:08):
Asked in.
Speaker 4 (00:09):
Morning, guys, how are you trying to.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Get you another date with Carrie Beth here? And you
said she was the one who was doing all the
asking out right?
Speaker 4 (00:17):
Oh yeah, I mean she was very motivated to go
out with me. She had DM me on Instagram and said,
you know, you're funny. We should hang out. And then
she was like, okay, let's go ab dinner, Let's get
to know each other and stuff. We went out for dinner.
I think we had a great time. She said it
was great to meet me in person and all that.
So then I sent her a few messages after the
(00:39):
date and I get no reply, nothing, And then she's
the one. But if you think about she slid into
my dms, asked me out, and after one date she
just totally annoys me. It's weird. I'm from New York.
Originally I'm used to crazy women, but this is like
a different level.
Speaker 2 (00:56):
Wow, you're used to crazy women.
Speaker 4 (01:00):
Nine million people, so there's going to be more crazy number.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
That's really Yeah, you're here, We're silently crazy.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
Okay, harder to find the crazy here, but it would
still still here.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
Well, we we will get Carry Beth on the phone,
and we'll just ask her why. You know, maybe you're
the crazy one here, Ashton. Maybe it's you. Okay, okay,
hold on, we'll do it.
Speaker 4 (01:25):
Coming up.
Speaker 2 (01:26):
Yeah, we'll take your break, play a couple of songs
and see what's up for the Second Date update kJ
went three tj Amanda and Jay Rod in the morning.
The Second Date Update with tj Amanda and j Rod
on kJ one three. We got Carrie Beth on the
Second Date update.
Speaker 4 (01:41):
Hi, Hello, Carrybeth, how are you?
Speaker 2 (01:44):
Ashton said you slid into his d MS. You guys
went on a date and now you don't seem motivated
to want to go out again, so we're trying to
get him a second date here.
Speaker 4 (01:57):
Wait, we look like a first day eat.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
Are you saying you never went on a date?
Speaker 4 (02:05):
I mean, I wouldn't really call it a date.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
We have some food or whatever, but I wouldn't call
that a date at all.
Speaker 4 (02:12):
Carrie, Carrie, Carrie, let me ask you a question. How
is that not a date?
Speaker 2 (02:17):
Right?
Speaker 4 (02:17):
You asked me out to dinner?
Speaker 2 (02:19):
It sounds like a date. Carry back.
Speaker 4 (02:22):
I mean I thought you were interesting. I saw you
on Instagram. I wanted to meet you. That was really
what's what did it? Just to meet me? What's the
point of that?
Speaker 3 (02:33):
I mean, I like to meet new people.
Speaker 4 (02:35):
It's an experience, you know, dinner, get to know someone
you never met. That's about it.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
So you're saying not you were saying not a date,
but that's a date. Just I just find random people
on Instagram and I just want to meet them, and
then you go out to dinner and then you just
kind of move on with your life.
Speaker 4 (02:51):
I mean, sure, why not? I mean people do that
in the first place. What just to meet each other
and go on with our lives? Is that the point?
I mean, like, you know, to get to know each other.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
You were interesting, it was cool, So so you just
want to meet and then just just go.
Speaker 4 (03:07):
I mean, yeah, aly, nothing wrong with that. Then why
did I pay for your dinner? Because you're a generous person,
thank you? Because I thought we were on a date.
Well I'm sorry, Like you know, I didn't make it
(03:27):
clear that I wanted us to meet.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
But that's really it.
Speaker 4 (03:31):
Just to meet guys. I'm lost, Like, yeah, I don't
want I don't need to meet some stranger a conversation,
pay for their dinner, and then go about my life.
I mean, you should try it. It's interesting to meet
people with no expectations.
Speaker 5 (03:44):
Well he did try it, doesn't I got said receiving
at anything. You asked, why am I wasting time just
meeting someone? Would you want to meet him for a
second time and get to know him even better and
then a third time?
Speaker 4 (04:00):
Even the purpose? So that is the purpose a friend
or a relationship? Well I'm not interested in that.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
Okay, I'll be honest. I got money of friends. I
don't need no more Gary math. You're doing your thing.
It sounds like a thing. It gives me a headache
to do the math in my head. But thanks for
coming on the second date update and clarifying what that
not date was. Okay, sure, problem, Okay, that that's weird.
Speaker 1 (04:34):
She's seemed very concient.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
She seems like you're joy.
Speaker 2 (04:37):
There's no problem with it.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Maybe some better communication.
Speaker 4 (04:40):
Am I crazy? This is insane?
Speaker 3 (04:42):
Right?
Speaker 4 (04:42):
I mean, it's a complete waste of my time and
my money.
Speaker 3 (04:45):
You make plans to go somewhere.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
That's a take. Well even if it's not. If it's
like you meet, Okay, there will be friends or something,
but just to meet and they'll be like, nice meeting, you,
have a great life, thanks for my dinner.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
There should be.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
Like its it's funny. Sorry we didn't get you the
other day.
Speaker 4 (05:03):
That's okay, guys, thank you very much for sanity. I
appreciate it.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
No worries.
Speaker 2 (05:08):
Molly Message Investment calls it a hobo dinner. Girls gotta eat. Okay, okay,
what are you think it is this now? Normally I'd
be like, she's just trying to get a free meal.
I don't think so. I think she's legit. Just like
no I meet people, they feed me.
Speaker 5 (05:26):
Or whatever.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
But then okay, cool, nice to meet you.
Speaker 3 (05:28):
It's been a long.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
Time since I dated like this, but I definitely feel
like I've been in her situation where like I thought,
I was just having a good time and the guy
thought it was a date and it was just a
lack of communication.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
Why else are we going out to dinner if it's
not a date? Right, You're not that special. You're especially
enough to be my girlfriend, but not just to be
some stranger that I buy dinner for.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
And then it was me. I would if I was
going into it thinking it wasn't a date. I would
probably offer to pay. So that's where it kind of
got me.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
It's like, oh, but she said no, he's generous. Okay,
what four O five for sixcel one or two seven
if you want to chime on the second date up take.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
I just want to give you my opinion on the
second day update. Okay, really that's really sad. That's really sad.
My boy ill got played.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
You think you think he got played?
Speaker 4 (06:13):
A yeah?
Speaker 3 (06:14):
You know, I mean she is. She was just probably
a boy and decided to have a freeze in there though, you.
Speaker 4 (06:20):
Know, to be honest, Yeah, she she leads.
Speaker 3 (06:23):
To a different to make it seem.
Speaker 4 (06:25):
Like it was a day, but it wasn't.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
Malory said Meloy, said us a message. Broad just wanted
a free meal. That or she's taken and she just
wants to see who she can still pull without the
guilt of labeling it as just meeting people. A lot
of a lot of things going on. She could be
in a relationship but still wants to go on a
date every once in a while, but doesn't call it
a date.
Speaker 4 (06:46):
She's not doing anything wrong.
Speaker 2 (06:48):
Friend, hang out with people, all right? Okay, thank you Richie.
I don't want you, b
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