October 30, 2025 • 7 mins
Cody and Alice from OKC went out and he said that she had an issue with Halloween. So is this what's keeping her from another date?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is gj Amanda and j Ron's second.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Date update on kJ one three h ls and okase.
Speaker 3 (00:06):
Hello elles, Hey, good morning.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
I want to get you know, the date with Cody here,
which you you kind of seem frustrated with dating.
Speaker 4 (00:13):
I am so ready to give up on dating. I'm
really really hoping that you guys can help.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
Me get this figured out with Cody because.
Speaker 5 (00:22):
I really like him.
Speaker 3 (00:23):
I'm on all the dating apps, and you.
Speaker 6 (00:26):
Know, it seems like just one.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
Date after another of the same thing. All these guys
are just looking for the same thing. No one's really
looking for anything serious. And you know, then I matched
up with Cody and he's pretty awesome.
Speaker 4 (00:39):
You know, he's really attractive, and he told me that
I'm beautiful, and I mean, we just seem to have
this really great connection.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
And then everything on the date seems good and I
was thinking, like, wow, is this like the guy?
Speaker 6 (00:56):
And then I text him a few days later and
he straight up told me.
Speaker 3 (01:01):
We're not a good match and no more info after that,
Like that was.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
It called turkey? And you're allowing he is this the guy,
but he doesn't think you're the gal.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
Right, So y'all are my last resort. I gotta know
what I'm doing wrong or I'm really done dating forever.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
Well, we can't have you done dating forever, so let's
ha Let's find y'are done dating because Cody goes out
with you and you live happily ever after. You know
how this works. We'll get him on the phone. We'll
figure this out.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
Okay, thanks guys.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
The Second Date Update with TJ, Amanda and j Rod
on KJE three. Cody's on the Second Date update.
Speaker 5 (01:42):
Hi Cody, Hey, Cody, Hey man.
Speaker 2 (01:44):
Alice is on the dating apps where you met. She's
like most guys, eh, but this one clicked. I felt
the connection. You said she was beautiful, and then you
just kind of sent her some vague thing after your date,
not a match, moving on and then goes through he
why are we avoiding going out with Alice again?
Speaker 3 (02:00):
Look?
Speaker 5 (02:00):
Honestly, I think Alice is just a little bit old
for me.
Speaker 3 (02:03):
Wait what talking about?
Speaker 5 (02:06):
Wait?
Speaker 2 (02:06):
Is he old?
Speaker 6 (02:07):
I'm two years younger than he is.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
What age you looking for?
Speaker 5 (02:11):
Cody?
Speaker 2 (02:12):
Well? I don't know.
Speaker 4 (02:13):
It's not really about your age.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
It's just your like demeanor, like tell me more, I'm listening.
Speaker 5 (02:18):
Look dead giveaway? You complain about kids trick or treating?
Speaker 2 (02:22):
Like wait, wait, wait wait what was said about trick
or treating?
Speaker 5 (02:26):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (02:26):
Yeah, I'm interested in hearing this because I.
Speaker 5 (02:28):
Have no idea.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
Wait, Cody, wait, what are you talking about?
Speaker 6 (02:31):
Okay, well, Alice went on a rant about streets coming
to her door and if they look too old, she says,
go away to them.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
Okay, Halloween is for little kid. I'm not just handing
out free candy to anyone who knocks at my door.
Speaker 5 (02:45):
Why not like just give him a piece of candy?
And so screaming at him.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
Wait wait wait wait wait, so wait you okay, you
say little kids?
Speaker 5 (02:52):
So like, what age do you say?
Speaker 3 (02:53):
Hey?
Speaker 5 (02:53):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (02:53):
What's what's the cutoff?
Speaker 3 (02:57):
I don't know, like ten, wall you laugh, abandon when.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
You laugh ten to some little young I up till
the point I was like twelve or third day?
Speaker 5 (03:07):
That is that what you're thinking? Cody?
Speaker 2 (03:09):
What's your age?
Speaker 5 (03:09):
Cody?
Speaker 4 (03:10):
So, like, dude, if an eleven year old comes to
her door, she's gonna say, absolutely not, get off my lawn.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
Okay, I mean maybe not.
Speaker 6 (03:17):
But if they're into like the little Children version of
Halloween dressed up in a costume.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
But these kids are in street clothes.
Speaker 6 (03:25):
Absolutely not.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
Oh I get it. Okay, Okay, you gotta be playing
the game. You can't just be some old kid begging
for candy. Yeah, show but a costume or something.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
Not even just give him a piece.
Speaker 4 (03:34):
I mean, that's an old person's mentality anyway.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
Not get over yourself, okay, Cody.
Speaker 4 (03:38):
If you want teenagers swindling candy from you, my guys
right on?
Speaker 3 (03:46):
Oh my god, whatever, Cody?
Speaker 2 (03:50):
So Cody, So okay, So you're just.
Speaker 6 (03:53):
Like nap, can't go out with That's a deal, right that?
Speaker 3 (03:55):
Really?
Speaker 5 (03:55):
Yeah, get off old kids. You just care game. You're
just out.
Speaker 4 (04:02):
If it's gonna happen to kids, it's gonna happen to me.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
So okay, to get the candy you want. Hello, we're
gonna get you off our lawn right now, Cody, thanks
for coming on the second date update, good luck Okay, Okay,
man a rude there, Alice.
Speaker 4 (04:17):
He made it sound worse than it actually is.
Speaker 6 (04:19):
I mean, if kids are cute, then costumes and I
don't really care about their age. But I don't seed
boys with full beards knocking on my door secking candy.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
I mean, trick or tree lady, get some candy, got
a T shirt and jean. Yeah, listen, I don't try.
People have their opinions on this. You obviously have yours.
Sorry it didn't get you another date or edit. You've
given up. You said you'd give up dating.
Speaker 3 (04:44):
I'm done, Like I mean, over my view on giving
kids candy on Halloween.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
Yeah, don't give up, don't give up.
Speaker 5 (04:54):
We're here for you.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
With the second date update, We'll make one of these work. Okay, yeah, for.
Speaker 3 (04:58):
Sure, Thanks guys. I'm tired of being canceled.
Speaker 2 (05:01):
Oh man, I know people are listening, going well, I mean,
she's right, She's right. I don't need no a eleven
year old coming to my door and tricker. Okay, what
are your thoughts?
Speaker 3 (05:13):
Four?
Speaker 2 (05:14):
Or five or six? One or two? Seven? Does that
seem like you know, it does seem like something maybe,
you know, like my grandma would be like now, now,
now you know.
Speaker 5 (05:22):
What I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
I don't know if that's an old person thing or
just a curmudgeonly thing, but that is an older I
don't know.
Speaker 2 (05:28):
I don't know. It sounds like you're with her, man,
it sounds like you kind of feel the same way.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
I once gave out booze to grown ups at trigg
or treat and.
Speaker 5 (05:40):
That's the thing.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
So you're all ages.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
I'm just like whatever, you're okay, all right, I don't care.
Speaker 2 (05:44):
All right, let's talk about the I guess if anything
in trigger treat age and what it says about you.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
But I do I do agree with what she said
about the costume. You gotta at least try try a
little bit. What if it's an eight year old that
didn't try try? Oh, okay, there's no age limit for
trot all right.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
John cap and let's go.
Speaker 5 (06:04):
Would she rather have a teenage kid throw eggs at
her house instead they get candy? Right, that's true.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
You're seeing the trick part of the trick or treat.
Speaker 5 (06:13):
Well, no, I'm just saying I think I'd rather have
a teenager kid go out trick or treating and out
doing something else they shouldn't be doing.
Speaker 2 (06:19):
Yoh yeah, I'd rather have someone who never wants to
grow up and always is going to have that fun
mentality that wants to grow up too fast and said,
let's go out and cross trouble tonight, because that's what
adults do.
Speaker 5 (06:33):
And then what if they have five or six siblings
and they're all younger, and the parents couldn't afford a
costume for the older one, so they just say, hey,
just go with them and make sure they're safe and everything,
to go up to random houses. I mean, she's got
to be more think outside the box.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
And you know, I just I accept all trigger treaters
any age.
Speaker 5 (06:51):
Come to my house wearing Purcell doing it Saturday night
at the lake, come out, Oh cool.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
I love that lake out of her cell so grittier.
Speaker 5 (07:00):
I like that.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
You're like, I don't care what anybody's story is or whatever.
I'm just giving and who cares.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
I like it.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
That's a great attitude.
Speaker 3 (07:09):
That's right.
Speaker 5 (07:09):
Well you'll have a great day and God bless him.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
All right, you too, ran play
This is gj Amanda and j Ron's second.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Date update on kJ one three h ls and okase.
Speaker 3 (00:06):
Hello elles, Hey, good morning.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
I want to get you know, the date with Cody here,
which you you kind of seem frustrated with dating.
Speaker 4 (00:13):
I am so ready to give up on dating. I'm
really really hoping that you guys can help.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
Me get this figured out with Cody because.
Speaker 5 (00:22):
I really like him.
Speaker 3 (00:23):
I'm on all the dating apps, and you.
Speaker 6 (00:26):
Know, it seems like just one.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
Date after another of the same thing. All these guys
are just looking for the same thing. No one's really
looking for anything serious. And you know, then I matched
up with Cody and he's pretty awesome.
Speaker 4 (00:39):
You know, he's really attractive, and he told me that
I'm beautiful, and I mean, we just seem to have
this really great connection.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
And then everything on the date seems good and I
was thinking, like, wow, is this like the guy?
Speaker 6 (00:56):
And then I text him a few days later and
he straight up told me.
Speaker 3 (01:01):
We're not a good match and no more info after that,
Like that was.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
It called turkey? And you're allowing he is this the guy,
but he doesn't think you're the gal.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
Right, So y'all are my last resort. I gotta know
what I'm doing wrong or I'm really done dating forever.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
Well, we can't have you done dating forever, so let's
ha Let's find y'are done dating because Cody goes out
with you and you live happily ever after. You know
how this works. We'll get him on the phone. We'll
figure this out.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
Okay, thanks guys.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
The Second Date Update with TJ, Amanda and j Rod
on KJE three. Cody's on the Second Date update.
Speaker 5 (01:42):
Hi Cody, Hey, Cody, Hey man.
Speaker 2 (01:44):
Alice is on the dating apps where you met. She's
like most guys, eh, but this one clicked. I felt
the connection. You said she was beautiful, and then you
just kind of sent her some vague thing after your date,
not a match, moving on and then goes through he
why are we avoiding going out with Alice again?
Speaker 3 (02:00):
Look?
Speaker 5 (02:00):
Honestly, I think Alice is just a little bit old
for me.
Speaker 3 (02:03):
Wait what talking about?
Speaker 5 (02:06):
Wait?
Speaker 2 (02:06):
Is he old?
Speaker 6 (02:07):
I'm two years younger than he is.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
What age you looking for?
Speaker 5 (02:11):
Cody?
Speaker 2 (02:12):
Well? I don't know.
Speaker 4 (02:13):
It's not really about your age.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
It's just your like demeanor, like tell me more, I'm listening.
Speaker 5 (02:18):
Look dead giveaway? You complain about kids trick or treating?
Speaker 2 (02:22):
Like wait, wait, wait wait what was said about trick
or treating?
Speaker 5 (02:26):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (02:26):
Yeah, I'm interested in hearing this because I.
Speaker 5 (02:28):
Have no idea.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
Wait, Cody, wait, what are you talking about?
Speaker 6 (02:31):
Okay, well, Alice went on a rant about streets coming
to her door and if they look too old, she says,
go away to them.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
Okay, Halloween is for little kid. I'm not just handing
out free candy to anyone who knocks at my door.
Speaker 5 (02:45):
Why not like just give him a piece of candy?
And so screaming at him.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
Wait wait wait wait wait, so wait you okay, you
say little kids?
Speaker 5 (02:52):
So like, what age do you say?
Speaker 3 (02:53):
Hey?
Speaker 5 (02:53):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (02:53):
What's what's the cutoff?
Speaker 3 (02:57):
I don't know, like ten, wall you laugh, abandon when.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
You laugh ten to some little young I up till
the point I was like twelve or third day?
Speaker 5 (03:07):
That is that what you're thinking? Cody?
Speaker 2 (03:09):
What's your age?
Speaker 5 (03:09):
Cody?
Speaker 4 (03:10):
So, like, dude, if an eleven year old comes to
her door, she's gonna say, absolutely not, get off my lawn.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
Okay, I mean maybe not.
Speaker 6 (03:17):
But if they're into like the little Children version of
Halloween dressed up in a costume.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
But these kids are in street clothes.
Speaker 6 (03:25):
Absolutely not.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
Oh I get it. Okay, Okay, you gotta be playing
the game. You can't just be some old kid begging
for candy. Yeah, show but a costume or something.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
Not even just give him a piece.
Speaker 4 (03:34):
I mean, that's an old person's mentality anyway.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
Not get over yourself, okay, Cody.
Speaker 4 (03:38):
If you want teenagers swindling candy from you, my guys
right on?
Speaker 3 (03:46):
Oh my god, whatever, Cody?
Speaker 2 (03:50):
So Cody, So okay, So you're just.
Speaker 6 (03:53):
Like nap, can't go out with That's a deal, right that?
Speaker 3 (03:55):
Really?
Speaker 5 (03:55):
Yeah, get off old kids. You just care game. You're
just out.
Speaker 4 (04:02):
If it's gonna happen to kids, it's gonna happen to me.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
So okay, to get the candy you want. Hello, we're
gonna get you off our lawn right now, Cody, thanks
for coming on the second date update, good luck Okay, Okay,
man a rude there, Alice.
Speaker 4 (04:17):
He made it sound worse than it actually is.
Speaker 6 (04:19):
I mean, if kids are cute, then costumes and I
don't really care about their age. But I don't seed
boys with full beards knocking on my door secking candy.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
I mean, trick or tree lady, get some candy, got
a T shirt and jean. Yeah, listen, I don't try.
People have their opinions on this. You obviously have yours.
Sorry it didn't get you another date or edit. You've
given up. You said you'd give up dating.
Speaker 3 (04:44):
I'm done, Like I mean, over my view on giving
kids candy on Halloween.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
Yeah, don't give up, don't give up.
Speaker 5 (04:54):
We're here for you.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
With the second date update, We'll make one of these work. Okay, yeah, for.
Speaker 3 (04:58):
Sure, Thanks guys. I'm tired of being canceled.
Speaker 2 (05:01):
Oh man, I know people are listening, going well, I mean,
she's right, She's right. I don't need no a eleven
year old coming to my door and tricker. Okay, what
are your thoughts?
Speaker 3 (05:13):
Four?
Speaker 2 (05:14):
Or five or six? One or two? Seven? Does that
seem like you know, it does seem like something maybe,
you know, like my grandma would be like now, now,
now you know.
Speaker 5 (05:22):
What I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
I don't know if that's an old person thing or
just a curmudgeonly thing, but that is an older I
don't know.
Speaker 2 (05:28):
I don't know. It sounds like you're with her, man,
it sounds like you kind of feel the same way.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
I once gave out booze to grown ups at trigg
or treat and.
Speaker 5 (05:40):
That's the thing.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
So you're all ages.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
I'm just like whatever, you're okay, all right, I don't care.
Speaker 2 (05:44):
All right, let's talk about the I guess if anything
in trigger treat age and what it says about you.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
But I do I do agree with what she said
about the costume. You gotta at least try try a
little bit. What if it's an eight year old that
didn't try try? Oh, okay, there's no age limit for
trot all right.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
John cap and let's go.
Speaker 5 (06:04):
Would she rather have a teenage kid throw eggs at
her house instead they get candy? Right, that's true.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
You're seeing the trick part of the trick or treat.
Speaker 5 (06:13):
Well, no, I'm just saying I think I'd rather have
a teenager kid go out trick or treating and out
doing something else they shouldn't be doing.
Speaker 2 (06:19):
Yoh yeah, I'd rather have someone who never wants to
grow up and always is going to have that fun
mentality that wants to grow up too fast and said,
let's go out and cross trouble tonight, because that's what
adults do.
Speaker 5 (06:33):
And then what if they have five or six siblings
and they're all younger, and the parents couldn't afford a
costume for the older one, so they just say, hey,
just go with them and make sure they're safe and everything,
to go up to random houses. I mean, she's got
to be more think outside the box.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
And you know, I just I accept all trigger treaters
any age.
Speaker 5 (06:51):
Come to my house wearing Purcell doing it Saturday night
at the lake, come out, Oh cool.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
I love that lake out of her cell so grittier.
Speaker 5 (07:00):
I like that.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
You're like, I don't care what anybody's story is or whatever.
I'm just giving and who cares.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
I like it.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
That's a great attitude.
Speaker 3 (07:09):
That's right.
Speaker 5 (07:09):
Well you'll have a great day and God bless him.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
All right, you too, ran play
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