September 12, 2024 • 9 mins
Jonathan and Kelsey were introduced by co workers. So what's keeping them from date number 2?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is t J, Jannat and j Rod's second date
update on kJ one oh three. You got Jonathan from
OKC on the second date update.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Hi Jonathan, Hey, good morning.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
What's up?
Speaker 2 (00:10):
We want to get you another date with Kelsey.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
Yeah. So, Kelsey used to work where I work.
Speaker 4 (00:16):
Now I didn't work there then, like when she worked there,
but she came by to kind of visit all her
ex co workers. People still love hers a few weeks ago,
and uh they're all making a big fuss over her.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
I couldn't help, but notice, you know, pretty good looking.
So uh I sort of casually made my way over,
you know, because it was.
Speaker 4 (00:36):
Yeah, you know, tried to be cool about it, introduced
myself and like I know this sounds cocky, but like legit,
all the ladies at work loved me, and uh so
they were telling Kelsey about me because they knew I
was single and she's single, okay, and uh I don't know,
you know, you just get that vibe. So I could
tell that she seemed interested in me, and uh so
I did what everybody does, you know, found her on
(00:57):
social media and you know, followed her her and stopped
her hit her with an inbox message and said it
was nice to meet her, and you don't want to
me for drink your coffee or whatever. She like, install
messaged back and we met the next night, so you know,
I thought it was a good date, and she said
she had fun. We should go out again sometime and
(01:18):
all that. So, you know, kind of back and forth
communicating after the date and then out of the blue,
like boom, blowing me off, you know, not returning messages,
not returning text.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
Just like nothing.
Speaker 4 (01:31):
So I mean, I I was pretty pretty sure she
was into me and now ghosting, So.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
Yeah, yeah, maybe maybe she didn't like as much as
all those ladies at work. Like now, we'll get Kelsey
on the phone and we'll ask her what happened and
see if we can get you another day. Okay, yeah, right,
I appreciate it. All right, we'll talk to her next
for the second day out date, kJ went all three
and TJ, Janet Jay Rod In the morning.
Speaker 2 (01:57):
It's TJ, Jannet and Jay Rides.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
Second date update Paul kJ one O three.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
Hi, Kelsey, I Jonathan said he met you through coworkers
he works with now that you used to work with, and.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
Everything was great.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
The date was great and then all of a sudden, you
just quit responding to his messages after the first date.
Speaker 5 (02:18):
Okay, let me just start by saying that Jonathan is
a nice guy. I thought he was attractive and we
really did have fun together. But he did something on
social that I just think is really creepy and the
eck factor was just too much.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
The factors here, What did I even do? Ick factor?
Speaker 5 (02:41):
He made a really creepy comment about a high school girl.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
I literally have no idea what you're talking about Leslie's daughter.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
Wait, wait, Kelsey, what did he do?
Speaker 3 (02:52):
What?
Speaker 2 (02:52):
What did I mean? What offended you?
Speaker 5 (02:55):
Okay, So, Leslie's one of my former coworkers who works
with Jonathan now and Leslie posted her daughter's senior photos
senior in high school photos on her Facebook or whatever,
and Jonathan made creepy comments about the photos.
Speaker 3 (03:09):
I think I'd like the post or something.
Speaker 5 (03:12):
No, Jonathan, you commented on one of the photos, quote stunning,
and on the other photo you commented, quote beautiful with
a heart emoji.
Speaker 3 (03:22):
And that that's creepy. Yes, how is that creepy?
Speaker 5 (03:28):
You're calling a high school girl stunning and beautiful?
Speaker 1 (03:31):
You're okay, Okay, I get what you're saying, you're commenting
on the looks of a high school girl.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
Yeah, it's on her mom's account.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
It's not like I was creeping on the daughter's account
or do anything shady that.
Speaker 3 (03:45):
Yeah, she is beautiful and stunnings.
Speaker 5 (03:49):
It doesn't matter whose account it is. It's creepy for
a grown man to make those kind of comments about
a high school girl.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
What is this just like a confidence builder? Though?
Speaker 1 (03:57):
For no, But let's say I didn't know if I
thought it was creepy or not till you set it
out loud.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Just now that she was I was.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
But but also you can say someone's beautiful and studdying
without it being creepy creepy That's.
Speaker 3 (04:14):
What I was.
Speaker 5 (04:14):
What about great photo?
Speaker 2 (04:16):
I tell you have to say.
Speaker 4 (04:17):
I mean, here's the thing. Her mom doesn't seem to care.
I mean, I see Leslie every day at work. She
hasn't said anything about it.
Speaker 5 (04:26):
I'm not speaking for Leslie. I'm saying I don't want
to be associated with a grown man who calls a
high school girl stunning and beautiful.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
I mean, I don't know why that's creepy, but whatever.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Okay, before we move on, Kelsey, is there any chance
you want to go on another date with Jonathan?
Speaker 2 (04:43):
Or is this no?
Speaker 5 (04:45):
I can't get past it?
Speaker 2 (04:46):
Okay, didn't he say you're stunning too?
Speaker 5 (04:49):
Yeah? But I'm like twenty eight.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
Okay, Kelsey, thanks for coming on the second date update.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
Thank you?
Speaker 2 (04:55):
Okay, Bye?
Speaker 4 (04:57):
I mean, do you guys think that's creepy? It is
just being a nice guy. I mean the pictures look good.
What could I say?
Speaker 1 (05:04):
I don't know if creepy is a good word for it,
because that means you have ill intense Yeah, but cringe
maybe because when you said out loud, well she is
beautiful and studying.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
I did cringe a.
Speaker 6 (05:18):
Little bit, maybe like oh cute or maybe just like it.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
Don't even if I posted a picture of my daughter
and someone said she looks stunning, I don't know how
i'd feel.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
About That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (05:30):
Isn't it like a confidence brinster saying she's stunning. We'll
see what people have to say, Jonathan, But thanks for
coming on the second.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
Date up date.
Speaker 3 (05:36):
Man. Thanks guys all right?
Speaker 1 (05:38):
Four or five, four, six, one or two seven if
you want to chime in on this.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
Uh, And it makes it makes me question if.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
Me putting a heart like on a picture that a
parent posts of their kid is.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
Wrong too, You know now I question myself.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
Okay A j wdtle three, TJ Janet and Jay rout
of the morning, let's discuss.
Speaker 7 (06:03):
I think it's the dumbest thing I've ever heard in
my life.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
From which angle from from her side.
Speaker 7 (06:07):
Or his from from from her side? Like, he did
nothing wrong. I have my own daughter. I'm a forty
year old guy. Like, he's just being polite. There's nothing
wrong with it.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
He's sending them a little up right.
Speaker 6 (06:18):
I also think he's being polite to like co workers daughters,
Like I can see where.
Speaker 7 (06:23):
You're like, oh yeah, stunning.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
It.
Speaker 6 (06:28):
It would almost be a little different if he was
commenting on somebody he didn't even know.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
But let me ask you about this.
Speaker 8 (06:35):
If he came up to you at work and says, man,
your daughter's beautiful, she's stunning.
Speaker 2 (06:40):
That's not weird.
Speaker 9 (06:41):
Yeah, that probably is weird.
Speaker 7 (06:43):
How he deliverscomes your daughter's beautiful, and he's kind of
grinning and has that weird creepy vise that that's wrong.
Man patched you on the arm and says, hey, your
daughter's really pretty. Man is a dope. There's a dope
post picture you posted man, I hey, thanks, I appreciate it, Bud.
And then he just left it at that and walked away.
Nothing wrong with that, all right?
Speaker 3 (07:01):
Thanks?
Speaker 2 (07:01):
Noauh.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
Teresa Norman, what do you think is it cringey to
comment on a coworkers daughters senior photos beautiful, stunning?
Speaker 9 (07:12):
I do not. I feel sad for him. I do
not think he meant anything bad and I don't.
Speaker 7 (07:18):
Think he was creepy for that at all.
Speaker 9 (07:20):
I think when someone posts something with their child on it,
they I mean that even if if she's young, I
think he was really being just nice. And if she's
beautiful and stunning, you can be you can see that
with it within any age group. Even if you're younger
and you see an older person, you could still see
say say that they're stunning or beautiful. I think that
(07:41):
sometimes we are so sensitive to things, and I think
that it's really hard, particularly for male because of the
ones who are really out there that are creepy. It
makes it very difficult for those people who are saying
something just being nice and have no no intent.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
I like you said that.
Speaker 6 (07:58):
I do like that you said that I would hope
that them being on that date that she would be like, Okay,
I'm not getting we weirdo vibes from him, so that would.
Speaker 2 (08:08):
Make up for it. When she saw that, she wouldn't.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
Go, oh yeah, well, there's always the chance on the
second date update that it's a few different variables. And
that was just the kicker that made you think, Okay,
my instincts are right, even though she might not be right,
if that makes sense.
Speaker 9 (08:25):
Yeah, absolutely, And I don't think I think she's I
think she's been way too critical. And I mean I
just I feel bad for him because if someone has
really had no ill intent and then someone accuses you
of being creepy, I think that was interesting. I mean
I and personally I heart people's and I'm a female,
but even if it were a young, young male. Sometimes
(08:47):
I told my friends their young boys were going to
prom or whatever, and they're handsome and whatever. I don't
think anything is wrong with that. I think we are
we really need to reevaluate how we are about jumping
to quickjudgments on people.
Speaker 2 (09:01):
High five, hi five, Let the compliments happen. Real creepy
guys that ruined it for him?
Speaker 3 (09:07):
Okay, absolutely, yeah, absolutely, thank you.
Speaker 6 (09:09):
Teresa, what the What the problem is though, is he
will now stop complimenting people, but the real prepos won't.
Speaker 9 (09:18):
Absolutely, you're right.
Speaker 2 (09:19):
Unless unless he's one of the real creepos. Okay, I
don't think yes.
Speaker 3 (09:25):
I don't think.
Speaker 9 (09:27):
Yes.
Speaker 8 (09:28):
You're by his side, Bye, Teresa, Yes, I have a
good day.
Speaker 2 (09:32):
All right. Three things we need to know in tim minutes, Janet.
Speaker 6 (09:34):
All right, what kind of discounts can you get for
opening day of the State Fair?
Speaker 8 (09:38):
And if you want to be the first person to
get some free legal advice from Noble MacIntire four oh
five four six oh one oh two seven call with
your legal questions now, kJ one O three t J,
Janet Jay out in the morning.
This is t J, Jannat and j Rod's second date
update on kJ one oh three. You got Jonathan from
OKC on the second date update.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Hi Jonathan, Hey, good morning.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
What's up?
Speaker 2 (00:10):
We want to get you another date with Kelsey.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
Yeah. So, Kelsey used to work where I work.
Speaker 4 (00:16):
Now I didn't work there then, like when she worked there,
but she came by to kind of visit all her
ex co workers. People still love hers a few weeks ago,
and uh they're all making a big fuss over her.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
I couldn't help, but notice, you know, pretty good looking.
So uh I sort of casually made my way over,
you know, because it was.
Speaker 4 (00:36):
Yeah, you know, tried to be cool about it, introduced
myself and like I know this sounds cocky, but like legit,
all the ladies at work loved me, and uh so
they were telling Kelsey about me because they knew I
was single and she's single, okay, and uh I don't know,
you know, you just get that vibe. So I could
tell that she seemed interested in me, and uh so
I did what everybody does, you know, found her on
(00:57):
social media and you know, followed her her and stopped
her hit her with an inbox message and said it
was nice to meet her, and you don't want to
me for drink your coffee or whatever. She like, install
messaged back and we met the next night, so you know,
I thought it was a good date, and she said
she had fun. We should go out again sometime and
(01:18):
all that. So, you know, kind of back and forth
communicating after the date and then out of the blue,
like boom, blowing me off, you know, not returning messages,
not returning text.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
Just like nothing.
Speaker 4 (01:31):
So I mean, I I was pretty pretty sure she
was into me and now ghosting, So.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
Yeah, yeah, maybe maybe she didn't like as much as
all those ladies at work. Like now, we'll get Kelsey
on the phone and we'll ask her what happened and
see if we can get you another day. Okay, yeah, right,
I appreciate it. All right, we'll talk to her next
for the second day out date, kJ went all three
and TJ, Janet Jay Rod In the morning.
Speaker 2 (01:57):
It's TJ, Jannet and Jay Rides.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
Second date update Paul kJ one O three.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
Hi, Kelsey, I Jonathan said he met you through coworkers
he works with now that you used to work with, and.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
Everything was great.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
The date was great and then all of a sudden, you
just quit responding to his messages after the first date.
Speaker 5 (02:18):
Okay, let me just start by saying that Jonathan is
a nice guy. I thought he was attractive and we
really did have fun together. But he did something on
social that I just think is really creepy and the
eck factor was just too much.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
The factors here, What did I even do? Ick factor?
Speaker 5 (02:41):
He made a really creepy comment about a high school girl.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
I literally have no idea what you're talking about Leslie's daughter.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
Wait, wait, Kelsey, what did he do?
Speaker 3 (02:52):
What?
Speaker 2 (02:52):
What did I mean? What offended you?
Speaker 5 (02:55):
Okay, So, Leslie's one of my former coworkers who works
with Jonathan now and Leslie posted her daughter's senior photos
senior in high school photos on her Facebook or whatever,
and Jonathan made creepy comments about the photos.
Speaker 3 (03:09):
I think I'd like the post or something.
Speaker 5 (03:12):
No, Jonathan, you commented on one of the photos, quote stunning,
and on the other photo you commented, quote beautiful with
a heart emoji.
Speaker 3 (03:22):
And that that's creepy. Yes, how is that creepy?
Speaker 5 (03:28):
You're calling a high school girl stunning and beautiful?
Speaker 1 (03:31):
You're okay, Okay, I get what you're saying, you're commenting
on the looks of a high school girl.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
Yeah, it's on her mom's account.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
It's not like I was creeping on the daughter's account
or do anything shady that.
Speaker 3 (03:45):
Yeah, she is beautiful and stunnings.
Speaker 5 (03:49):
It doesn't matter whose account it is. It's creepy for
a grown man to make those kind of comments about
a high school girl.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
What is this just like a confidence builder? Though?
Speaker 1 (03:57):
For no, But let's say I didn't know if I
thought it was creepy or not till you set it
out loud.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Just now that she was I was.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
But but also you can say someone's beautiful and studdying
without it being creepy creepy That's.
Speaker 3 (04:14):
What I was.
Speaker 5 (04:14):
What about great photo?
Speaker 2 (04:16):
I tell you have to say.
Speaker 4 (04:17):
I mean, here's the thing. Her mom doesn't seem to care.
I mean, I see Leslie every day at work. She
hasn't said anything about it.
Speaker 5 (04:26):
I'm not speaking for Leslie. I'm saying I don't want
to be associated with a grown man who calls a
high school girl stunning and beautiful.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
I mean, I don't know why that's creepy, but whatever.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Okay, before we move on, Kelsey, is there any chance
you want to go on another date with Jonathan?
Speaker 2 (04:43):
Or is this no?
Speaker 5 (04:45):
I can't get past it?
Speaker 2 (04:46):
Okay, didn't he say you're stunning too?
Speaker 5 (04:49):
Yeah? But I'm like twenty eight.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
Okay, Kelsey, thanks for coming on the second date update.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
Thank you?
Speaker 2 (04:55):
Okay, Bye?
Speaker 4 (04:57):
I mean, do you guys think that's creepy? It is
just being a nice guy. I mean the pictures look good.
What could I say?
Speaker 1 (05:04):
I don't know if creepy is a good word for it,
because that means you have ill intense Yeah, but cringe
maybe because when you said out loud, well she is
beautiful and studying.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
I did cringe a.
Speaker 6 (05:18):
Little bit, maybe like oh cute or maybe just like it.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
Don't even if I posted a picture of my daughter
and someone said she looks stunning, I don't know how
i'd feel.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
About That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (05:30):
Isn't it like a confidence brinster saying she's stunning. We'll
see what people have to say, Jonathan, But thanks for
coming on the second.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
Date up date.
Speaker 3 (05:36):
Man. Thanks guys all right?
Speaker 1 (05:38):
Four or five, four, six, one or two seven if
you want to chime in on this.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
Uh, And it makes it makes me question if.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
Me putting a heart like on a picture that a
parent posts of their kid is.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
Wrong too, You know now I question myself.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
Okay A j wdtle three, TJ Janet and Jay rout
of the morning, let's discuss.
Speaker 7 (06:03):
I think it's the dumbest thing I've ever heard in
my life.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
From which angle from from her side.
Speaker 7 (06:07):
Or his from from from her side? Like, he did
nothing wrong. I have my own daughter. I'm a forty
year old guy. Like, he's just being polite. There's nothing
wrong with it.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
He's sending them a little up right.
Speaker 6 (06:18):
I also think he's being polite to like co workers daughters,
Like I can see where.
Speaker 7 (06:23):
You're like, oh yeah, stunning.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
It.
Speaker 6 (06:28):
It would almost be a little different if he was
commenting on somebody he didn't even know.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
But let me ask you about this.
Speaker 8 (06:35):
If he came up to you at work and says, man,
your daughter's beautiful, she's stunning.
Speaker 2 (06:40):
That's not weird.
Speaker 9 (06:41):
Yeah, that probably is weird.
Speaker 7 (06:43):
How he deliverscomes your daughter's beautiful, and he's kind of
grinning and has that weird creepy vise that that's wrong.
Man patched you on the arm and says, hey, your
daughter's really pretty. Man is a dope. There's a dope
post picture you posted man, I hey, thanks, I appreciate it, Bud.
And then he just left it at that and walked away.
Nothing wrong with that, all right?
Speaker 3 (07:01):
Thanks?
Speaker 2 (07:01):
Noauh.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
Teresa Norman, what do you think is it cringey to
comment on a coworkers daughters senior photos beautiful, stunning?
Speaker 9 (07:12):
I do not. I feel sad for him. I do
not think he meant anything bad and I don't.
Speaker 7 (07:18):
Think he was creepy for that at all.
Speaker 9 (07:20):
I think when someone posts something with their child on it,
they I mean that even if if she's young, I
think he was really being just nice. And if she's
beautiful and stunning, you can be you can see that
with it within any age group. Even if you're younger
and you see an older person, you could still see
say say that they're stunning or beautiful. I think that
(07:41):
sometimes we are so sensitive to things, and I think
that it's really hard, particularly for male because of the
ones who are really out there that are creepy. It
makes it very difficult for those people who are saying
something just being nice and have no no intent.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
I like you said that.
Speaker 6 (07:58):
I do like that you said that I would hope
that them being on that date that she would be like, Okay,
I'm not getting we weirdo vibes from him, so that would.
Speaker 2 (08:08):
Make up for it. When she saw that, she wouldn't.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
Go, oh yeah, well, there's always the chance on the
second date update that it's a few different variables. And
that was just the kicker that made you think, Okay,
my instincts are right, even though she might not be right,
if that makes sense.
Speaker 9 (08:25):
Yeah, absolutely, And I don't think I think she's I
think she's been way too critical. And I mean I
just I feel bad for him because if someone has
really had no ill intent and then someone accuses you
of being creepy, I think that was interesting. I mean
I and personally I heart people's and I'm a female,
but even if it were a young, young male. Sometimes
(08:47):
I told my friends their young boys were going to
prom or whatever, and they're handsome and whatever. I don't
think anything is wrong with that. I think we are
we really need to reevaluate how we are about jumping
to quickjudgments on people.
Speaker 2 (09:01):
High five, hi five, Let the compliments happen. Real creepy
guys that ruined it for him?
Speaker 3 (09:07):
Okay, absolutely, yeah, absolutely, thank you.
Speaker 6 (09:09):
Teresa, what the What the problem is though, is he
will now stop complimenting people, but the real prepos won't.
Speaker 9 (09:18):
Absolutely, you're right.
Speaker 2 (09:19):
Unless unless he's one of the real creepos. Okay, I
don't think yes.
Speaker 3 (09:25):
I don't think.
Speaker 9 (09:27):
Yes.
Speaker 8 (09:28):
You're by his side, Bye, Teresa, Yes, I have a
good day.
Speaker 2 (09:32):
All right. Three things we need to know in tim minutes, Janet.
Speaker 6 (09:34):
All right, what kind of discounts can you get for
opening day of the State Fair?
Speaker 8 (09:38):
And if you want to be the first person to
get some free legal advice from Noble MacIntire four oh
five four six oh one oh two seven call with
your legal questions now, kJ one O three t J,
Janet Jay out in the morning.
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