September 11, 2024 • 10 mins
Ryan and Grace went out, and he dropped that his parents are kind of freaks in the sheets. Is this what kept them from getting a 2nd Date
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is t J Janatan j Rod's second date update
on kJ one O three. We got Ryan from Edmund
on the second date update. How you doing, Ryan?
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Good?
Speaker 3 (00:10):
How are you guys doing?
Speaker 1 (00:11):
We're good. I want to get you another date with
Grace us the whole story of your first date?
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Well, okay, fun fact. I met Grace when I did
a pay it forward at Starbucks. Oh really yeah, she
was behind me in line, and I thought she was
really attractive, so I ordered my latte and then I
said that I'd like to also pay for the person
behind me.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
Okay, wait, wait, wait, now, hold on a second, hold,
I are you just the nice guy that does the
pay it forward or is it because you know, Grace
was pretty exactly?
Speaker 2 (00:45):
Well, it was basically because she was pretty.
Speaker 3 (00:48):
If i'd been some dude behind me, I wentn't pay for.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
His coffee okay, okay.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
And so we're waiting for a drinks and she asks
me to go out for coffee sometime.
Speaker 1 (00:58):
Oh so this was in the store. Oh that was wow.
That was very bold, Ryan.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
That was That wasn't my end goal, but you know
I'll take it.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
Yeah, sure it wasn't your end goal? Yeah yeah, yeah,
girl of coffee. Okay, Okay, so you did so you
went on a date.
Speaker 3 (01:16):
Yeah, we need for coffee on Friday afternoon, and she
said I was very it was very sweet. You know
that I bought her coffee that day we met, and uh,
you know, I went ahead.
Speaker 2 (01:26):
And contested and said I bought it because I thought
she was pretty.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
And uh, and then she confessed that she liked my
dreamy eyes and.
Speaker 2 (01:36):
That's why she asked me to coffee.
Speaker 4 (01:38):
Oh, this is like Bachelor and Paradise.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
Yes, I know, I was thinking lifetime. Yeah, but whatever Hallmark. Okay, okay,
wearing flannel? Okay, why are you on the second ad 'pety?
Where are we now?
Speaker 2 (01:51):
Well, okay, it's the end of the date.
Speaker 3 (01:53):
And I don't remember exactly what she said, but it
was something like, so glad I met you, Let's do
coffee again soon or you know, something like that.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (02:02):
And that's the last contact I've had with her. I
mean that was like three weeks ago, and I've tried
contact in her like three or four times, and you know,
haven't gotten any replies.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
So she's just she's just she's not interested.
Speaker 3 (02:18):
I really think she's blowing me off. But maybe something
else is going on. I don't know.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
I mean, the vibes on the date sound like she
was interested. So we'll get her on the phone. We'll
ask her. I'm sure she'd be glad to tell you
if she wants to go out again or or not.
So just hang tight here, Ryan, and we'll get this
figured out. Okay, okay, all right, we'll take a break,
play a couple of songs, and then we'll get this
figured out. For the second ate update kJ one all three,
(02:43):
TJ Janet, Jay Rodd in the morning.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
It's TJ Janet and Jay Rodd's second date update on
kJ one O three.
Speaker 1 (02:51):
Ryan from Edmund called us for the second date update.
Said he met Grace at Starbucks, they went out, and
then he hasn't heard from since. So we got Grace
on the phone to find out what's going on here
for the second date update. Hi Grace, thanks for taking
the time to be on with us today.
Speaker 5 (03:10):
Hie everyone. Okay, okay, you know, I didn't really have
the intention of going out with Ryan again because he's
into open relationships and you know I'm not into that.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
Wait wait, wait, wait, wait wait wait, hold on, hold on, second,
Hold on, second.
Speaker 4 (03:24):
We missed this part.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
Yeah, Ryan, right, are you like?
Speaker 3 (03:30):
I never I never said I was into open relationships.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Ryan's on the phone here, by the way.
Speaker 5 (03:36):
So Ryan told me his parents are in an open relationship.
Speaker 3 (03:40):
Okay, yeah, yeah, my parents are in an open relationship.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
But that's not me.
Speaker 5 (03:46):
But after you told me about it, you asked if
I could be in an open relationship, Ryan, I was.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
I was just making conversation.
Speaker 5 (03:58):
I'm trying to change this up, Jack, and you kept
coming back to the open relationship topic.
Speaker 3 (04:03):
My parents are in an open relationship. But you know, so,
I'm always curious about what other people think about that.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
So you saying you talk about this a lot, probably, Ryan? Yeah,
I think so.
Speaker 3 (04:15):
It's I think it's an interesting subject. I just like
to know what people think about it.
Speaker 5 (04:24):
So you are not into open relationships?
Speaker 3 (04:28):
No, I'm not into open relationships.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
Wait what.
Speaker 3 (04:37):
Well, if somebody I was dating or I was married
to one an open relationship, I gotta say I seriously
consider it.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
See exactly does that mean you're into an open relationship? Ryan,
I'm just curious.
Speaker 3 (04:53):
Well, I'm just saying it worked for my parents and
they've been married for thirty five years.
Speaker 5 (05:00):
Honestly, that's great for them, but I don't want my
boyfriend or my husband dating other people.
Speaker 3 (05:06):
Well great, great, then we don't have to be in
an open relationship.
Speaker 5 (05:13):
We're not going to be in any relationship, ran.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
Yeah, okay, okay, free, let's let's let's throw out relationship
and all that. Grace, this is the second dight updates.
We have to ask this not even a second date,
like you're just done with Ryan?
Speaker 5 (05:28):
Yeah, no, second date absolutely not.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
For the record, I never asked you to be in
an open relationship.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
Okay, okay, okay, let's add that to the record. Okay,
all right, Grace, thanks for coming on the second ate update.
We appreciate you just cutting right to the chase and
good luck with everything. Okay, going for it, thank you? Okay, bye, Okay, no, no, no, no, no, no,
(05:59):
no no no. I'm not judging Ryan, I'm not.
Speaker 4 (06:01):
But it sounds like you're into an open relationship.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
No, I'm not.
Speaker 3 (06:06):
I'm not into anything, but I am open to what
with Watch that.
Speaker 4 (06:11):
I am open.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
You're open to what they want, if they if you
might be open if they want an open relationship, or
you might be open to a monogamous relationship.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
Right, Either way.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
Yeah, okay, I'm willing to consider it either way.
Speaker 4 (06:27):
Why don't you wait till they bring it up next time.
I don't think this is something you just bring up
to be I'm not really into it. But if you're
into it, I'm into it. But next time, just let
them bring it up.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
I'm just sticking up. I'll bring it up. I'm just
sticking my toe into water. Ryan, thanks for coming on
the second Date up date. Yeah. Yeah, have a good day.
I don't know what else. I have a good day, Bye, Ryan,
Bye bye. Okay, Now this isn't me. I'm just wondering
what you're thinking. Is Ryan into open relationships or not?
Speaker 2 (07:02):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (07:02):
Yeah, I'm talking about you. Jan I'm talking about you.
Listening four oh five, four six one or two seven?
Is he an open relationships? Are we just making conversation
about a lifestyle that his parents do.
Speaker 6 (07:13):
Yes, listener here about Ryan in the second date updates.
Speaker 1 (07:17):
Okay for people just joining us, Ryan kept dropping on
their date that his parents weren't an open relationship. You know,
what are your thoughts on that? She's like, dude, you're
just trying to see if I'd be into an open relationship.
And I'm not, so I'm just gonna move on. He's like,
that's not what I'm doing. I was just telling you
about my parents. Do you believe him?
Speaker 6 (07:35):
I think he was trying to break the eyes there
with letting him know, letting her know about the parents
and all. But I think he might should have waited
till second or third date to kind of drop that ball.
But it is kind of good to get it out
there to see where other people's heads are at. I'm
not gonna lie. I'm polyamorous, so I am in an
open relationship with multiple people. Okay, okay our world nowadays.
Speaker 7 (07:56):
So you know, though, if that's if that's what you want,
then you probably do need to drop that in pretty early,
I would think, because like I need to know. I
don't need to be a month into this if you're
not into it, but I am.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (08:11):
They just wear like a pineapple shirt and all kinds
of stuff.
Speaker 6 (08:14):
Yeah, don't you the first copy date though, Yeah?
Speaker 7 (08:17):
Yeah, you wait, wait till I have to buy you
dinner and then I find out you're not into.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
It, and then you assert later this isn't my thing.
But how I would handle it is when our marriage
started getting boring, then maybe.
Speaker 4 (08:31):
Yeah, great timing? You ever think absolutely right timing?
Speaker 2 (08:36):
Just maybe?
Speaker 5 (08:38):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (08:38):
That would be perfect open relationship?
Speaker 1 (08:41):
Would you think that was cool if we did it?
Speaker 4 (08:44):
We've been married thirty four years.
Speaker 1 (08:46):
Because that's what that's what he did on the first date. Basically, Okay,
thanks for calling, no problem date, you too?
Speaker 3 (08:51):
Bye?
Speaker 1 (08:52):
Okay, Carrie, what are you thinking about this?
Speaker 2 (08:54):
That boy is planning an open relationship?
Speaker 4 (08:57):
You might as well just ask her if he wants
to have a three soong, because I mean, who says that,
well even at first, that his dating profile.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
Into or at least put into trying new stuff, at
least put on there. I mean, this isn't me, but
just f y I my parents are in an open relationship,
because that's how he introduced it into the conversation. Yeah, yeah,
my parents are in an open relationship. What do you
think about that? What do you think? What you know?
I wonder if his parents are even actually in an
open relationship or that's just his icebreaker. Probably is not
(09:30):
saying that.
Speaker 4 (09:30):
He's that on my parents.
Speaker 1 (09:32):
I'm not saying he's into it. You're saying he's into it.
Speaker 4 (09:36):
But I'm okay, I think his dating profile should definitely
say that I think you're right.
Speaker 1 (09:41):
Maybe I have a picture of, you know, a toe
in the water.
Speaker 3 (09:45):
Well.
Speaker 4 (09:45):
I was just saying that I just put a picture
of Utah or something on it.
Speaker 1 (09:52):
Yeah, okay, thanks for calling. By kJ three TJ Janet
Jay right in the morning in Utah is always like
why do I get drinking all this stuff? You run
it on yourself.
This is t J Janatan j Rod's second date update
on kJ one O three. We got Ryan from Edmund
on the second date update. How you doing, Ryan?
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Good?
Speaker 3 (00:10):
How are you guys doing?
Speaker 1 (00:11):
We're good. I want to get you another date with
Grace us the whole story of your first date?
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Well, okay, fun fact. I met Grace when I did
a pay it forward at Starbucks. Oh really yeah, she
was behind me in line, and I thought she was
really attractive, so I ordered my latte and then I
said that I'd like to also pay for the person
behind me.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
Okay, wait, wait, wait, now, hold on a second, hold,
I are you just the nice guy that does the
pay it forward or is it because you know, Grace
was pretty exactly?
Speaker 2 (00:45):
Well, it was basically because she was pretty.
Speaker 3 (00:48):
If i'd been some dude behind me, I wentn't pay for.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
His coffee okay, okay.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
And so we're waiting for a drinks and she asks
me to go out for coffee sometime.
Speaker 1 (00:58):
Oh so this was in the store. Oh that was wow.
That was very bold, Ryan.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
That was That wasn't my end goal, but you know
I'll take it.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
Yeah, sure it wasn't your end goal? Yeah yeah, yeah,
girl of coffee. Okay, Okay, so you did so you
went on a date.
Speaker 3 (01:16):
Yeah, we need for coffee on Friday afternoon, and she
said I was very it was very sweet. You know
that I bought her coffee that day we met, and uh,
you know, I went ahead.
Speaker 2 (01:26):
And contested and said I bought it because I thought
she was pretty.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
And uh, and then she confessed that she liked my
dreamy eyes and.
Speaker 2 (01:36):
That's why she asked me to coffee.
Speaker 4 (01:38):
Oh, this is like Bachelor and Paradise.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
Yes, I know, I was thinking lifetime. Yeah, but whatever Hallmark. Okay, okay,
wearing flannel? Okay, why are you on the second ad 'pety?
Where are we now?
Speaker 2 (01:51):
Well, okay, it's the end of the date.
Speaker 3 (01:53):
And I don't remember exactly what she said, but it
was something like, so glad I met you, Let's do
coffee again soon or you know, something like that.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (02:02):
And that's the last contact I've had with her. I
mean that was like three weeks ago, and I've tried
contact in her like three or four times, and you know,
haven't gotten any replies.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
So she's just she's just she's not interested.
Speaker 3 (02:18):
I really think she's blowing me off. But maybe something
else is going on. I don't know.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
I mean, the vibes on the date sound like she
was interested. So we'll get her on the phone. We'll
ask her. I'm sure she'd be glad to tell you
if she wants to go out again or or not.
So just hang tight here, Ryan, and we'll get this
figured out. Okay, okay, all right, we'll take a break,
play a couple of songs, and then we'll get this
figured out. For the second ate update kJ one all three,
(02:43):
TJ Janet, Jay Rodd in the morning.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
It's TJ Janet and Jay Rodd's second date update on
kJ one O three.
Speaker 1 (02:51):
Ryan from Edmund called us for the second date update.
Said he met Grace at Starbucks, they went out, and
then he hasn't heard from since. So we got Grace
on the phone to find out what's going on here
for the second date update. Hi Grace, thanks for taking
the time to be on with us today.
Speaker 5 (03:10):
Hie everyone. Okay, okay, you know, I didn't really have
the intention of going out with Ryan again because he's
into open relationships and you know I'm not into that.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
Wait wait, wait, wait, wait wait wait, hold on, hold on, second,
Hold on, second.
Speaker 4 (03:24):
We missed this part.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
Yeah, Ryan, right, are you like?
Speaker 3 (03:30):
I never I never said I was into open relationships.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Ryan's on the phone here, by the way.
Speaker 5 (03:36):
So Ryan told me his parents are in an open relationship.
Speaker 3 (03:40):
Okay, yeah, yeah, my parents are in an open relationship.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
But that's not me.
Speaker 5 (03:46):
But after you told me about it, you asked if
I could be in an open relationship, Ryan, I was.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
I was just making conversation.
Speaker 5 (03:58):
I'm trying to change this up, Jack, and you kept
coming back to the open relationship topic.
Speaker 3 (04:03):
My parents are in an open relationship. But you know, so,
I'm always curious about what other people think about that.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
So you saying you talk about this a lot, probably, Ryan? Yeah,
I think so.
Speaker 3 (04:15):
It's I think it's an interesting subject. I just like
to know what people think about it.
Speaker 5 (04:24):
So you are not into open relationships?
Speaker 3 (04:28):
No, I'm not into open relationships.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
Wait what.
Speaker 3 (04:37):
Well, if somebody I was dating or I was married
to one an open relationship, I gotta say I seriously
consider it.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
See exactly does that mean you're into an open relationship? Ryan,
I'm just curious.
Speaker 3 (04:53):
Well, I'm just saying it worked for my parents and
they've been married for thirty five years.
Speaker 5 (05:00):
Honestly, that's great for them, but I don't want my
boyfriend or my husband dating other people.
Speaker 3 (05:06):
Well great, great, then we don't have to be in
an open relationship.
Speaker 5 (05:13):
We're not going to be in any relationship, ran.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
Yeah, okay, okay, free, let's let's let's throw out relationship
and all that. Grace, this is the second dight updates.
We have to ask this not even a second date,
like you're just done with Ryan?
Speaker 5 (05:28):
Yeah, no, second date absolutely not.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
For the record, I never asked you to be in
an open relationship.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
Okay, okay, okay, let's add that to the record. Okay,
all right, Grace, thanks for coming on the second ate update.
We appreciate you just cutting right to the chase and
good luck with everything. Okay, going for it, thank you? Okay, bye, Okay, no, no, no, no, no, no,
(05:59):
no no no. I'm not judging Ryan, I'm not.
Speaker 4 (06:01):
But it sounds like you're into an open relationship.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
No, I'm not.
Speaker 3 (06:06):
I'm not into anything, but I am open to what
with Watch that.
Speaker 4 (06:11):
I am open.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
You're open to what they want, if they if you
might be open if they want an open relationship, or
you might be open to a monogamous relationship.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
Right, Either way.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
Yeah, okay, I'm willing to consider it either way.
Speaker 4 (06:27):
Why don't you wait till they bring it up next time.
I don't think this is something you just bring up
to be I'm not really into it. But if you're
into it, I'm into it. But next time, just let
them bring it up.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
I'm just sticking up. I'll bring it up. I'm just
sticking my toe into water. Ryan, thanks for coming on
the second Date up date. Yeah. Yeah, have a good day.
I don't know what else. I have a good day, Bye, Ryan,
Bye bye. Okay, Now this isn't me. I'm just wondering
what you're thinking. Is Ryan into open relationships or not?
Speaker 2 (07:02):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (07:02):
Yeah, I'm talking about you. Jan I'm talking about you.
Listening four oh five, four six one or two seven?
Is he an open relationships? Are we just making conversation
about a lifestyle that his parents do.
Speaker 6 (07:13):
Yes, listener here about Ryan in the second date updates.
Speaker 1 (07:17):
Okay for people just joining us, Ryan kept dropping on
their date that his parents weren't an open relationship. You know,
what are your thoughts on that? She's like, dude, you're
just trying to see if I'd be into an open relationship.
And I'm not, so I'm just gonna move on. He's like,
that's not what I'm doing. I was just telling you
about my parents. Do you believe him?
Speaker 6 (07:35):
I think he was trying to break the eyes there
with letting him know, letting her know about the parents
and all. But I think he might should have waited
till second or third date to kind of drop that ball.
But it is kind of good to get it out
there to see where other people's heads are at. I'm
not gonna lie. I'm polyamorous, so I am in an
open relationship with multiple people. Okay, okay our world nowadays.
Speaker 7 (07:56):
So you know, though, if that's if that's what you want,
then you probably do need to drop that in pretty early,
I would think, because like I need to know. I
don't need to be a month into this if you're
not into it, but I am.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (08:11):
They just wear like a pineapple shirt and all kinds
of stuff.
Speaker 6 (08:14):
Yeah, don't you the first copy date though, Yeah?
Speaker 7 (08:17):
Yeah, you wait, wait till I have to buy you
dinner and then I find out you're not into.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
It, and then you assert later this isn't my thing.
But how I would handle it is when our marriage
started getting boring, then maybe.
Speaker 4 (08:31):
Yeah, great timing? You ever think absolutely right timing?
Speaker 2 (08:36):
Just maybe?
Speaker 5 (08:38):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (08:38):
That would be perfect open relationship?
Speaker 1 (08:41):
Would you think that was cool if we did it?
Speaker 4 (08:44):
We've been married thirty four years.
Speaker 1 (08:46):
Because that's what that's what he did on the first date. Basically, Okay,
thanks for calling, no problem date, you too?
Speaker 3 (08:51):
Bye?
Speaker 1 (08:52):
Okay, Carrie, what are you thinking about this?
Speaker 2 (08:54):
That boy is planning an open relationship?
Speaker 4 (08:57):
You might as well just ask her if he wants
to have a three soong, because I mean, who says that,
well even at first, that his dating profile.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
Into or at least put into trying new stuff, at
least put on there. I mean, this isn't me, but
just f y I my parents are in an open relationship,
because that's how he introduced it into the conversation. Yeah, yeah,
my parents are in an open relationship. What do you
think about that? What do you think? What you know?
I wonder if his parents are even actually in an
open relationship or that's just his icebreaker. Probably is not
(09:30):
saying that.
Speaker 4 (09:30):
He's that on my parents.
Speaker 1 (09:32):
I'm not saying he's into it. You're saying he's into it.
Speaker 4 (09:36):
But I'm okay, I think his dating profile should definitely
say that I think you're right.
Speaker 1 (09:41):
Maybe I have a picture of, you know, a toe
in the water.
Speaker 3 (09:45):
Well.
Speaker 4 (09:45):
I was just saying that I just put a picture
of Utah or something on it.
Speaker 1 (09:52):
Yeah, okay, thanks for calling. By kJ three TJ Janet
Jay right in the morning in Utah is always like
why do I get drinking all this stuff? You run
it on yourself.
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