August 16, 2024 • 10 mins
Trey From Guthrie And Miranda went out. She had to showw her ID and he made a big deal about it. Is this why there hasn't been a 2nd Date?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is t J, Jennat and j Rids Second date Update.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
On kJ three, we got Trey and Guthrie on the
second date update.
Speaker 3 (00:07):
What's up Trey?
Speaker 4 (00:10):
Hey, Yeah, anyway, I love that.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
You're like you you're pretty sure you know how you
screwed up your first date.
Speaker 5 (00:20):
I was the gummy that didn't know I needed a reservation.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
Ah okay, yeah, I know.
Speaker 4 (00:28):
I like, eventually I'll learn, but uh okay. So look,
I asked Miranda out to dinner, okay, and uh my,
my buddy tells me to take her to.
Speaker 5 (00:39):
The First National Center.
Speaker 3 (00:40):
Nice.
Speaker 4 (00:41):
Yeah, yeah, but one he didn't tell me how fancy
it was, and then two he didn't.
Speaker 5 (00:50):
Tell me I needed a reservation on Friday night. I
had no idea.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
Okay, so we didn't need a First National Center that right,
I think that's where we're going.
Speaker 5 (01:03):
Yeah, my heart was in the right place.
Speaker 4 (01:04):
But we ended up in Pearls Okay. We we did dinner,
we had.
Speaker 5 (01:10):
A few drinks, and it was cool. I don't know.
Speaker 4 (01:14):
I honestly, I thought the rest of the day was
pretty good. But she, I don't know, like she seemed
like she was a little bothered about the reservation thing.
Speaker 5 (01:22):
But at the end of the night, I was like, hey.
Speaker 4 (01:25):
Let me do make good and look, we'll go back
to First National and this time I'll make a reservation.
Speaker 5 (01:33):
And she goes, okay, let me know, which is cool.
So I let her.
Speaker 4 (01:39):
Know with five I think five now different texts, and
I haven't heard that from her at all.
Speaker 3 (01:47):
Let me know.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
It was like, yeah, right, sure, send me a text
and we'll see what happened.
Speaker 6 (01:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (01:54):
I thought you guys can help me break the tension
and help her forgive me, because I really like it.
I think he could hang up for a while.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
Okay, all right, well, let's get Miranda on the phone.
I'm just gonna tell you right now though you're paying
for your own First National dinner.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
Yeah that's a little expensive.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
We might send you back to Pearls, but but if anything,
well we'll try.
Speaker 3 (02:13):
To get you another date with Miranda.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
Okay, all right, awesome, all right, Well, take a break,
play a couple songs, and get Miranda on the phone.
Coming up for the second date update kJ one O three,
TJ Janet Jay Rod in the morning. It's TJ Janet
and Jay Rodd's second date update.
Speaker 5 (02:27):
On kJ one oh three.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
Let's just get Miranda on for the second date update. Hi, Miranda, Hey,
Trey said that he thinks the reason why you've been
avoiding him and he's been trying to get you to
go out again and you won't even return his text
is because from I'll just say quote, he was the
dummy that forgot to make the reservation for your dinner
at First National.
Speaker 7 (02:48):
I mean, you know, I was kind of mildly bothered
that he didn't make the reservation, but it really wasn't
that big a deal. It was an honest mistake. But
what put me over the edge is when the server
at Pearls asked for my ID, Trey grabs it and says,
oh my god, is that even you? You were huge?
Speaker 2 (03:09):
Oh no, So he looked at your driver's license photo
was like, oh my god, is that even you?
Speaker 3 (03:15):
You were huge?
Speaker 7 (03:19):
Said this in front of the server and I said, yeah,
I used to be heavier right after college. And he's
all like, I don't even recognize you. How many pounds
did you lose them? He looks at the weight on
my license and goes very loudly, mind you, you weighed
one eighty five.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
With the right there, with the server right there.
Speaker 3 (03:42):
And you're like, shut your face there.
Speaker 7 (03:45):
Ilated he's talking about my weight on a first date
and in public. I mean, I don't think he meant
to offend me, but I mean, honestly, this that's just
a little sensitive. It was kind of traumatic.
Speaker 3 (03:59):
Okay, praise right here.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
I will feel bad evening you continue, because I get that,
and Trey, Trey's on the phone, tray, We're going to
give you the benefit of the doubt. And maybe you
just didn't didn't know what you were saying at the time.
Speaker 4 (04:13):
Miranda, I'm really sorry. Honestly, I was just shocked that
you used to look like that.
Speaker 5 (04:20):
I mean, I just didn't know.
Speaker 7 (04:23):
Do you know how that makes someone feel when you
talked about their weight like that?
Speaker 4 (04:28):
I know, no, but I wasn't talking about your weight
now like I.
Speaker 5 (04:31):
Would get that you look great now, look good?
Speaker 7 (04:33):
Okay. I know that you made a huge deal about
how sad I.
Speaker 5 (04:36):
Used to be. Well, I don't think I ever said sat.
I didn't even look.
Speaker 4 (04:43):
I didn't say you was God or anything. I just
I was just like, I couldn't believe the picture on
your licens was the same person.
Speaker 7 (04:50):
I mean, because of my weight, and that really hurt me.
Speaker 5 (04:54):
But okay, but I mean, how does that offend you?
Speaker 8 (04:58):
That's it's not how you look now, okay, but Tray,
it's still me and I didn't feel good about myself
then and it stirred up.
Speaker 7 (05:08):
Some old feelings.
Speaker 4 (05:10):
I get that, I get that, but that I mean,
that's not you.
Speaker 5 (05:13):
You are not that person anymore, but I.
Speaker 7 (05:18):
Am that person. You know, what if I saw your
first grade picture or something and said, Wow, what an
ugly little child you are.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
Yes, that's true, Yeah, that's fair, but that wouldn't bother
me because you don't think I'm ugly now, and that's
all that matters is like today, right, Well, I'm.
Speaker 7 (05:40):
Just saying it really bothered me the way you were
talking about my fat driver's license Soto.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
Yeah yeah, and saying, oh, like that's just loud and
there's another person there.
Speaker 3 (05:54):
That's not good.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
I honestly don't think Trey Tray, I just don't think
you knew what you're saying or even now you quite
get it. And I totally I don't think you meant
any harm. But I totally get where Miranda's coming from
to that.
Speaker 5 (06:08):
I don't want you to be heard by what I said.
Speaker 4 (06:10):
So I mean for what is where I think you're
beautiful on the inside and out.
Speaker 7 (06:17):
I don't know, maybe I'm being oversensitive, but this is
honestly kind of scarring, and I just want to move
on and just forget about it.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
Okay, Miranda, thanks for coming on the second ate up there,
and we appreciate you, you know, being honest with us.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
Okay, thanks, Okay, thanks, By.
Speaker 5 (06:39):
I feel bad now, words hurt, but I got if.
Speaker 4 (06:44):
You would have seen her drive place, but you would
be shocked as the difference.
Speaker 5 (06:48):
Okay. I mean, I know she's all up said here,
but I don't know how many times she lost, but
she is really.
Speaker 3 (06:55):
I know, for anyone's license and make any you know what.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
Yeah, let's make a rule let's not comment on license
photos anyway. But hey, Trey, sorry, we can get you
another day with Miranda. But thanks for coming on the
second date update.
Speaker 4 (07:07):
Okay, yeah, thanks guys, I and I get.
Speaker 2 (07:12):
I get it's cringe when you just when you notice
someone lost weight, you go, wow, you look great, because
it's what it's saying is you didn't look good before.
You know, before you were terrible, and you work hard
not to look that way anymore. But it's still part
of your life that you're like, Oh, man, I don't
think I would have dated.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
That one eighty five. You know what I'm saying. It
comes off that I don't know what. Oh we're already getting?
Are we gett messages already? What are what are we saying?
Genie says, Trey's rude. Who even thinks it's okay to
say something like that?
Speaker 5 (07:45):
Okay, you look great now, Trey?
Speaker 4 (07:48):
Shut up?
Speaker 3 (07:49):
All right?
Speaker 2 (07:50):
Four six, one two seven. Let's discuss the second date
update kJ well three, TJ Janet and.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
J Rod in the Morning. kJ went O three, Oklahoma's
number one hate music station. How are you on with Tea?
J Janet? J Rod in the Morning, A, Hi.
Speaker 6 (08:02):
Yeah, I'm kind about the second date update?
Speaker 3 (08:05):
Yeah, for people just joining us.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
The reason why Trey isn't getting another date is because
there on the date she has to show her ID
to the waiter. He goes, oh, my gosh, how big
were you in this photo?
Speaker 3 (08:18):
She's lost a lot of weight since then, so he thought, no, no, no,
you're not like that anymore. I'm not. I mean, if anything,
I'm insult insulting you who you were? I don't know.
Speaker 2 (08:28):
Maybe you could explain it better than I can. What's
going on here?
Speaker 6 (08:31):
So for me, I think Trey is a complete jerk
and very shallow. What if she's to gain that way back?
So you're gonna tell me that I look ugly at
one eighty five, but clearly like he has trouble with
her weight. And I'm like my mom myself, we fluctuate
a lot, sure, and so what if she gains the
weight back? Heavier people fluctuate a lot of the time,
(08:54):
and that would just show me a huge red flag
that I have to be perfect and skinny and beautiful
all the time for you. And that's just that that's
just not not fair.
Speaker 2 (09:04):
Okay, here's how you did explain it better than I did.
He makes weight and what you look like a big deal? Okay, wow,
almost like wow, I'm glad you don't.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
Weigh that anymore. I probably wouldn't date you right now,
even though that's not what he said.
Speaker 2 (09:20):
To make comments and make weight such a big deal,
that's not what I want to hear from someone that
i'm dating.
Speaker 3 (09:26):
You know what I'm saying. So that makes sense, right?
Speaker 6 (09:28):
What if she gets pregnant? Yeah, do you have to
lose that weight again?
Speaker 3 (09:34):
Started start to look like.
Speaker 2 (09:36):
That driver's license again, Hense from a restaurant.
Speaker 7 (09:42):
Okay, ticket, tell you guys this, but I don't think
everyone's against Trey.
Speaker 3 (09:46):
Okay, thanks for calling. We appreciate you. Why I just
got a message.
Speaker 2 (09:50):
It says, if it was so traumatic, why not update
your license photo?
Speaker 3 (09:54):
Yeah, the tray is that tray? That's not the message.
Speaker 2 (09:58):
Tw it's a company entertainment things.
Speaker 3 (10:03):
It's not gonna give.
Speaker 8 (10:03):
A full mine.
Speaker 2 (10:04):
I've made the mistake of seeing a photo of someone
and go, wow, you looked great, meaning you know whatever
that means what they take what it is you look
great in this photo meaning I don't look great.
Speaker 1 (10:16):
You know.
Speaker 3 (10:17):
It's I think it's okay to be like, wow, great photo.
Speaker 2 (10:21):
It's always okay to compliment somebody in that manner, but.
Speaker 3 (10:24):
It's not okay to be like, oh wow from that.
Speaker 1 (10:30):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (10:31):
Yeah, the comment, the compliment and let them say what
they feel about. It's cringe even trying to explain what
he's trying to think.
Speaker 5 (10:38):
We don't know. We're done.
Speaker 3 (10:39):
Let's move on.
Speaker 2 (10:40):
kJ Weddle three tjet j Rod in the morning. New
Music Friday, we have a world premiere Day. A new
song from Lady Gaga and Bruno Mars coming up at
eight twenty on kJ Wentle three
This is t J, Jennat and j Rids Second date Update.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
On kJ three, we got Trey and Guthrie on the
second date update.
Speaker 3 (00:07):
What's up Trey?
Speaker 4 (00:10):
Hey, Yeah, anyway, I love that.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
You're like you you're pretty sure you know how you
screwed up your first date.
Speaker 5 (00:20):
I was the gummy that didn't know I needed a reservation.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
Ah okay, yeah, I know.
Speaker 4 (00:28):
I like, eventually I'll learn, but uh okay. So look,
I asked Miranda out to dinner, okay, and uh my,
my buddy tells me to take her to.
Speaker 5 (00:39):
The First National Center.
Speaker 3 (00:40):
Nice.
Speaker 4 (00:41):
Yeah, yeah, but one he didn't tell me how fancy
it was, and then two he didn't.
Speaker 5 (00:50):
Tell me I needed a reservation on Friday night. I
had no idea.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
Okay, so we didn't need a First National Center that right,
I think that's where we're going.
Speaker 5 (01:03):
Yeah, my heart was in the right place.
Speaker 4 (01:04):
But we ended up in Pearls Okay. We we did dinner,
we had.
Speaker 5 (01:10):
A few drinks, and it was cool. I don't know.
Speaker 4 (01:14):
I honestly, I thought the rest of the day was
pretty good. But she, I don't know, like she seemed
like she was a little bothered about the reservation thing.
Speaker 5 (01:22):
But at the end of the night, I was like, hey.
Speaker 4 (01:25):
Let me do make good and look, we'll go back
to First National and this time I'll make a reservation.
Speaker 5 (01:33):
And she goes, okay, let me know, which is cool.
So I let her.
Speaker 4 (01:39):
Know with five I think five now different texts, and
I haven't heard that from her at all.
Speaker 3 (01:47):
Let me know.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
It was like, yeah, right, sure, send me a text
and we'll see what happened.
Speaker 6 (01:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (01:54):
I thought you guys can help me break the tension
and help her forgive me, because I really like it.
I think he could hang up for a while.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
Okay, all right, well, let's get Miranda on the phone.
I'm just gonna tell you right now though you're paying
for your own First National dinner.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
Yeah that's a little expensive.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
We might send you back to Pearls, but but if anything,
well we'll try.
Speaker 3 (02:13):
To get you another date with Miranda.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
Okay, all right, awesome, all right, Well, take a break,
play a couple songs, and get Miranda on the phone.
Coming up for the second date update kJ one O three,
TJ Janet Jay Rod in the morning. It's TJ Janet
and Jay Rodd's second date update.
Speaker 5 (02:27):
On kJ one oh three.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
Let's just get Miranda on for the second date update. Hi, Miranda, Hey,
Trey said that he thinks the reason why you've been
avoiding him and he's been trying to get you to
go out again and you won't even return his text
is because from I'll just say quote, he was the
dummy that forgot to make the reservation for your dinner
at First National.
Speaker 7 (02:48):
I mean, you know, I was kind of mildly bothered
that he didn't make the reservation, but it really wasn't
that big a deal. It was an honest mistake. But
what put me over the edge is when the server
at Pearls asked for my ID, Trey grabs it and says,
oh my god, is that even you? You were huge?
Speaker 2 (03:09):
Oh no, So he looked at your driver's license photo
was like, oh my god, is that even you?
Speaker 3 (03:15):
You were huge?
Speaker 7 (03:19):
Said this in front of the server and I said, yeah,
I used to be heavier right after college. And he's
all like, I don't even recognize you. How many pounds
did you lose them? He looks at the weight on
my license and goes very loudly, mind you, you weighed
one eighty five.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
With the right there, with the server right there.
Speaker 3 (03:42):
And you're like, shut your face there.
Speaker 7 (03:45):
Ilated he's talking about my weight on a first date
and in public. I mean, I don't think he meant
to offend me, but I mean, honestly, this that's just
a little sensitive. It was kind of traumatic.
Speaker 3 (03:59):
Okay, praise right here.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
I will feel bad evening you continue, because I get that,
and Trey, Trey's on the phone, tray, We're going to
give you the benefit of the doubt. And maybe you
just didn't didn't know what you were saying at the time.
Speaker 4 (04:13):
Miranda, I'm really sorry. Honestly, I was just shocked that
you used to look like that.
Speaker 5 (04:20):
I mean, I just didn't know.
Speaker 7 (04:23):
Do you know how that makes someone feel when you
talked about their weight like that?
Speaker 4 (04:28):
I know, no, but I wasn't talking about your weight
now like I.
Speaker 5 (04:31):
Would get that you look great now, look good?
Speaker 7 (04:33):
Okay. I know that you made a huge deal about
how sad I.
Speaker 5 (04:36):
Used to be. Well, I don't think I ever said sat.
I didn't even look.
Speaker 4 (04:43):
I didn't say you was God or anything. I just
I was just like, I couldn't believe the picture on
your licens was the same person.
Speaker 7 (04:50):
I mean, because of my weight, and that really hurt me.
Speaker 5 (04:54):
But okay, but I mean, how does that offend you?
Speaker 8 (04:58):
That's it's not how you look now, okay, but Tray,
it's still me and I didn't feel good about myself
then and it stirred up.
Speaker 7 (05:08):
Some old feelings.
Speaker 4 (05:10):
I get that, I get that, but that I mean,
that's not you.
Speaker 5 (05:13):
You are not that person anymore, but I.
Speaker 7 (05:18):
Am that person. You know, what if I saw your
first grade picture or something and said, Wow, what an
ugly little child you are.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
Yes, that's true, Yeah, that's fair, but that wouldn't bother
me because you don't think I'm ugly now, and that's
all that matters is like today, right, Well, I'm.
Speaker 7 (05:40):
Just saying it really bothered me the way you were
talking about my fat driver's license Soto.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
Yeah yeah, and saying, oh, like that's just loud and
there's another person there.
Speaker 3 (05:54):
That's not good.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
I honestly don't think Trey Tray, I just don't think
you knew what you're saying or even now you quite
get it. And I totally I don't think you meant
any harm. But I totally get where Miranda's coming from
to that.
Speaker 5 (06:08):
I don't want you to be heard by what I said.
Speaker 4 (06:10):
So I mean for what is where I think you're
beautiful on the inside and out.
Speaker 7 (06:17):
I don't know, maybe I'm being oversensitive, but this is
honestly kind of scarring, and I just want to move
on and just forget about it.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
Okay, Miranda, thanks for coming on the second ate up there,
and we appreciate you, you know, being honest with us.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
Okay, thanks, Okay, thanks, By.
Speaker 5 (06:39):
I feel bad now, words hurt, but I got if.
Speaker 4 (06:44):
You would have seen her drive place, but you would
be shocked as the difference.
Speaker 5 (06:48):
Okay. I mean, I know she's all up said here,
but I don't know how many times she lost, but
she is really.
Speaker 3 (06:55):
I know, for anyone's license and make any you know what.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
Yeah, let's make a rule let's not comment on license
photos anyway. But hey, Trey, sorry, we can get you
another day with Miranda. But thanks for coming on the
second date update.
Speaker 4 (07:07):
Okay, yeah, thanks guys, I and I get.
Speaker 2 (07:12):
I get it's cringe when you just when you notice
someone lost weight, you go, wow, you look great, because
it's what it's saying is you didn't look good before.
You know, before you were terrible, and you work hard
not to look that way anymore. But it's still part
of your life that you're like, Oh, man, I don't
think I would have dated.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
That one eighty five. You know what I'm saying. It
comes off that I don't know what. Oh we're already getting?
Are we gett messages already? What are what are we saying?
Genie says, Trey's rude. Who even thinks it's okay to
say something like that?
Speaker 5 (07:45):
Okay, you look great now, Trey?
Speaker 4 (07:48):
Shut up?
Speaker 3 (07:49):
All right?
Speaker 2 (07:50):
Four six, one two seven. Let's discuss the second date
update kJ well three, TJ Janet and.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
J Rod in the Morning. kJ went O three, Oklahoma's
number one hate music station. How are you on with Tea?
J Janet? J Rod in the Morning, A, Hi.
Speaker 6 (08:02):
Yeah, I'm kind about the second date update?
Speaker 3 (08:05):
Yeah, for people just joining us.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
The reason why Trey isn't getting another date is because
there on the date she has to show her ID
to the waiter. He goes, oh, my gosh, how big
were you in this photo?
Speaker 3 (08:18):
She's lost a lot of weight since then, so he thought, no, no, no,
you're not like that anymore. I'm not. I mean, if anything,
I'm insult insulting you who you were? I don't know.
Speaker 2 (08:28):
Maybe you could explain it better than I can. What's
going on here?
Speaker 6 (08:31):
So for me, I think Trey is a complete jerk
and very shallow. What if she's to gain that way back?
So you're gonna tell me that I look ugly at
one eighty five, but clearly like he has trouble with
her weight. And I'm like my mom myself, we fluctuate
a lot, sure, and so what if she gains the
weight back? Heavier people fluctuate a lot of the time,
(08:54):
and that would just show me a huge red flag
that I have to be perfect and skinny and beautiful
all the time for you. And that's just that that's
just not not fair.
Speaker 2 (09:04):
Okay, here's how you did explain it better than I did.
He makes weight and what you look like a big deal? Okay, wow,
almost like wow, I'm glad you don't.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
Weigh that anymore. I probably wouldn't date you right now,
even though that's not what he said.
Speaker 2 (09:20):
To make comments and make weight such a big deal,
that's not what I want to hear from someone that
i'm dating.
Speaker 3 (09:26):
You know what I'm saying. So that makes sense, right?
Speaker 6 (09:28):
What if she gets pregnant? Yeah, do you have to
lose that weight again?
Speaker 3 (09:34):
Started start to look like.
Speaker 2 (09:36):
That driver's license again, Hense from a restaurant.
Speaker 7 (09:42):
Okay, ticket, tell you guys this, but I don't think
everyone's against Trey.
Speaker 3 (09:46):
Okay, thanks for calling. We appreciate you. Why I just
got a message.
Speaker 2 (09:50):
It says, if it was so traumatic, why not update
your license photo?
Speaker 3 (09:54):
Yeah, the tray is that tray? That's not the message.
Speaker 2 (09:58):
Tw it's a company entertainment things.
Speaker 3 (10:03):
It's not gonna give.
Speaker 8 (10:03):
A full mine.
Speaker 2 (10:04):
I've made the mistake of seeing a photo of someone
and go, wow, you looked great, meaning you know whatever
that means what they take what it is you look
great in this photo meaning I don't look great.
Speaker 1 (10:16):
You know.
Speaker 3 (10:17):
It's I think it's okay to be like, wow, great photo.
Speaker 2 (10:21):
It's always okay to compliment somebody in that manner, but.
Speaker 3 (10:24):
It's not okay to be like, oh wow from that.
Speaker 1 (10:30):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (10:31):
Yeah, the comment, the compliment and let them say what
they feel about. It's cringe even trying to explain what
he's trying to think.
Speaker 5 (10:38):
We don't know. We're done.
Speaker 3 (10:39):
Let's move on.
Speaker 2 (10:40):
kJ Weddle three tjet j Rod in the morning. New
Music Friday, we have a world premiere Day. A new
song from Lady Gaga and Bruno Mars coming up at
eight twenty on kJ Wentle three
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